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In that case, just the personality will carry you irl, can't speak to OLD, OLD is for hookups basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:42 AM
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Bro, mediocre would literally be doing something, dudes "who shower", "aren't morbidly obese" and "think they're kind to be around and nice to be around" is like the bottom floor along with chicks who binge drink daily and do ratchet shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:20 AM
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That's a very very generous definition of good that sets the bar on floor just about lmao Should have added "has a pulse" and "hasn't SAd anyone today" Good IMO hits hv markers or aspires and works to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:32 PM
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Jebaited by title, but yeah I agree, very different problems that to the other side definitely can seem better, until you're in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:30 AM
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Basically Team Woman can’t compute any scenario in which women have their own petty and “problematic” behaviors. I'm sure they can, but guys will usually ghost or 86 em just as easily, I know I have. I did one because her breath always smelled like chips or shitty processed american food. Not even really problematic, just some hygiene shit I wasn't about to put up with a person. I don't want my dick smelling like some fucked up mixture of hotpockets and doritos after a sloppy toppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:13 PM
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Men who women aren't that attracted to, but are forced into a relationship with them have a short leash. I was the same way with chicks I didn't like too, it's a two way street, if you aren't super attached it's easier to just throw them back and get another fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:42 AM
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this is why men are opting out. These men fix the problem for both themselves and the women they bother, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:22 AM
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How many stories from men do you all need to hear? How many of them obviously miss the mark or have other red flags? Especially the "it keeps happening to me" like dude if everyone you meet is an asshole perhaps they aren't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:19 AM
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Insisting on more than comfortable, early intimacy. Finding out the company a guy keeps. ("but he's just my friend", bro your friend has an iron cross on his neck) wanting to do things that don't align with your interests (I'd 86 someone for even mentioning bowling twice in a month, ngl)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:18 AM
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Social media is kind of an insidious poison, I'm not sure how they allow people below 18 to even be on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:10 PM
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They can get a man in a week, while men are still there trying to get a woman they want years later. Imagine needing an app to get laid or in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:09 PM
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So he cold approached you? Absolute shocking thing, most people who don't have that in their vocabulary have a higher rate of success hitting people up. Just thinking of it that way makes me think of a snake slithering between the aisles doing a quick google for cliffnotes before asking each woman they run into about that book their reading that they absolutely love. As opposed to "oh shit, you read Ripple System too?" to someone you walk by.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:03 PM
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The thing is that I think a lot of guys on here demonstrate exactly why they're friendless AND sexless - they struggle with relationships, period. They are not just unlikable, they are honestly broken when it comes to the very basic understanding of how to make any kind of relationship - platonic, sexual or romantic - successful. Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:50 AM
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Because a lot of the guys are red/doomer pilled sort, lots of those types also tend to act like they want a housemother they can fuck rather than a girlfriend or wife too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:39 AM
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You just have to make sure she's into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:52 PM
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I've got a wife so for the forseeable future that's likely to stay one. Before I married it was usually 3-4 year though, just short relationships/situationships/fwb type things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:08 PM
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Please tell me "he has a stable job that pays okayish" is another unreachable goal lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:04 PM
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My friend has a bmi of 40 and still gets down here and there. Just because you can't fuck as much as a morbidly obese dude obsessed with star wars says a lot more about you than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:46 PM
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If you aren’t tall & handsome or rich. You aren’t getting laid in 2023 Damn, which am I? Cause I ain't any of those and still get my dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:44 PM
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why is it always the people who refer to human women as females? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:43 PM
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Conventions, frisbee golf, dance practice, swimming.... you know, the usual. Do you not have hobbies that aren't drinking or clubbing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:41 PM
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It's just not worth dating if you're a woman. Basically like throwing your line out trying to catch a decent fish but nothing but shitty bony sunfish keep biting, its easy to see how that shit gets exhausting and just not worth it past a point. Yeah you can "get in a relationship" easy, but the quality of it, and whether it enriches your life.... eh.... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:36 PM
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As long as you're decent looking and pleasant to be around, that's usually enough for most men Don't forget that "decent looking" is crutched by men who say "wow that's what I mean, girls don't need makeup" to women who clearly put a ton of effort into their appearance and are wearing a pretty skillfully applied set of cosmetics. Also "pleasant to be around" dog-whistles "will be nice about being my housemother, and put up with my bachelor lifestyle basically" Because of how many guys are like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:34 PM
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expect him to pay for most of the dates Isn't that like some first year shit? Like if yall goin' out after that it's just shit coming out of yalls money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:07 AM
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All of these things are moot to people who fuck. That's just how it goes, people who don't have the cajones (literal or metaphorical) to throw down just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:00 AM
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So did he approach first? 5’6 pretty boy Go find you the man of your dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:57 AM
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not having to do any of the hard work... not having to worry about making any money motherfucker, raising a kid is twelve times the difficulty of a 9-5 for like the first 6 years minimum. being taken care of Acting like most guys actually take care of their wives lmao and outliving men by 10 years men do dumb shit, more news at 10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:54 AM
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You are trad. lol lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:51 AM
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That's when the real test begins tbh. Kids suck, even half of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:49 AM
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We’re both stoic to the outside world but cry with each other. based pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:47 AM
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Greek men fucked kids, didn't make them any less nonces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:20 PM
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hyperactive toddler We called em' a threenager lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:15 PM
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abortions cost like 500 bucks a pop, miscarriages are a drunk night kickboxing, take your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:23 AM
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the world will most likely never have been able to reach a true replacement level. We'll probably eventually stabilize but yeah I do see a dip coming as nations industrialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:16 AM
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Were they not insured? If they were, they would have barely paid 10% of that bill from their own pocket. No complications, fully insured, 12k all said and done. You would shit yourself had you seen the original bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:15 AM
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Girls not finding guys attractive enough to have kids with is the reason. Other way around too, except it's more "a lot of guys act like gross manchildren"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:12 AM
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They don't wanna do the actually parenting labor 90% of the time Even a strict 50/50 split of parenting labor sucks hard too unless you just absolutely love and adore being around kids. Some people do, some people don't. But yeah men suck mostly. A lot of the dads in our circle just... obviously don't put much into it for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:09 AM
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We both know that girls are shacking up with the few hot guys lmao bruh I'm like 4/10 on a good day and got married dirt poor without a job, if you can't hit shit it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:07 AM
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Doesn't make it any less rape lmao, just say you like rape, it's okay, plenty of people like rape, be proud to support and like rape, you rape liker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:06 AM
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Teaching, working for any socially beneficial institution really. Great ways to give back without having kids yourself. Not to mention all the kids who need to be adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:02 AM
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News outlets, TV shows, and journalists are trying to paint have kids as some sort of hell that strips you of your identity tbf, it kinda does, it's a struggle not to be "X's dad" and good the fuck bye to time to yourself. If I had to do it I'd do it again though, but I'd be prepared for how much it really fucking blows for like five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:57 AM
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For some, honestly the hard part is after birth if my wife has anything to say about it. Watching young kids sucks hard if you aren't "into it"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:52 AM
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kids are not a pet. Kids are just keeping cum as a pet that eventually becomes a person (if you raise them right)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:48 AM
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Never in human history have kids been cheap. Actually, for most of it they were a potential source of more labour, furthering family ties, expanding power... all that good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:47 AM
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For real, if I didn't have my nice WFH position, and good balance at our jobs we wouldn't have had ours either. We took a shot because we do have a chance, and things were pretty chill with money but oh man, even just one kid tightens that belt a ton, and for a few years cuts down severely on any free time you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:43 AM
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You get like a few grand max in tax breaks. It costs way more than 3k/year to raise a kid. Hell, I'm lucky if his quarterly costs are just that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:41 AM
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I know there were 100% two who were interested in me when I was a virgin, still glad I didn't try to throw down with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:01 AM
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Nah, it's still the same scenario. People (men and women) who are close to 0-1/10 have to both grapple with the fact that that's their value and understand what that means for partners. A lot of lower ranking women as well aren't going to lower their standards either. Also a lot of guys don't realize that sometimes the dumb shit that leaves their mouth or that they type can turn a 6/10 into a 0-1/10 real fucking fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:58 AM
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Hopefully along the way, we realize that looking better, becoming more confident and taking calculated risks is preferable to a life of pornhub, video games, weed and IPAs. You can have all of the above, you just have to suck less. Except pornhub, ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:43 PM
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TBH, I think we're set to see a bit of a contraction before more growth in the industrialized world. We've reached a point where it's expensive to have kids, and having more doesn't really help, which is the opposite of what your grandparents experienced. I think once we get a bit of contraction and a social system more ready for it we'll see more growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:55 AM
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I mean, I know some pretty attractive well earning butchers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:14 PM
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6-7, but how much do they have in common with them? (just looks? A piece of meat might look nice, but if it can't shoot shit about footy, or have a good laugh about some obscure nerd shit, why would I want it more than my trusty toy?) Do they both have the same expectations? (Does he just want to work his 9-5 while she's a SAHM and does all the child rearing, and is basically a 24/7 mommy maid? Or would he be willing to actually do half of the work, yes that means after a "hard" day at work as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:35 AM
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You can also usually up your chances making sure you have shit in common before dating. Hell, my first two longish relationships I started from DnD meetups way back around highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:27 AM
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on tinder I have yet to see a dating quality person who uses tinder of either gender fwiw. OLD (not even talking tinder) is like pissing in the wind and hoping others like what they smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:22 AM
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TBH, pregnancy and childbirth weight gain is really low unless they overeat (you're only supposed to eat 300kcal more a day iirc) the big one is stress afterwards from the kid can fuck with that and cause more weight gain. Nothing that can't be lost though, but yeah 80 lbs ain't from pregnancy unless they're really americaning it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:14 AM
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A lot of guys focus on visual stimulation and think that's what drives all women too (while it's a factor, it's much less of the pie for most women compared to men) so when they have above average looks, but are antisocial yankoffs who barely manage conversation and can't articulate what their hobbies are except probably vidja games, want their ideal woman to cook for them and clean, and raise the kids all while they might even be a sole breadwinner, they'll do nothing after they get home becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:05 AM
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the idea of women even having a sexuality wasn’t thought about. "hysteria"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:55 AM
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I agree they've probably tried it but it really isn't for a lot of them, at least that I know and talk to. But I'm also a decade out of range for that, and it could very well be we were just raised different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:45 PM
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I don't know what sort of marriage you had but uh..... that ain't us lol. We've both actually lost weight since getting together and I actually got more oral action after than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:41 PM
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There's only submission if things aren't equal kekw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:05 AM
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I mean they have a point. OLD/Tinder isn't "trying." Trying would be your success/failure at pickups from shit like Frisbee golf or similar. A lot of women don't touch OLD specifically because it's so impersonal and it's really easy to get burned by clingy guys who misrepresent themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:03 AM
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Part of the problem might be you say they're pretty cool (which would be great if they were gay) but what are they putting out there that would make a girl go "oh shit, he looks like someone I'd like to be with."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:00 AM
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It's true. Why would you complicate your life for someone who expects you to essentially work for them worsening your life when you could just... not. So many guys are like that too. Essentially bring nothing, want an onahole and mother maid to live with them and raise their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:57 AM
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Statistically women who live alone are happier and live longer than men who are. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:52 AM
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You’re not like men at all. We have pride, a sense of honour and justice. Women are 0 for 3. Nah man, I'm a dude and don't have any of those. I'm also married though, it's probably the lack of pride. That's a sin BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:44 AM
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Either that or they get to know them enough to know that they really want nothing to do with them romantically. It's absolutely possible for guys to have all their eggs in one basket but be pretty outwardly offensive otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:42 AM
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I guess, I really don't (never did) do OLD stuff, so imo it could have just been done for me, no one ever asked my height, but being tallish for my race probably carried me most of the way in that capacity. OTOH, I know a couple of absolutely hulked out short black guys at my gym who have never been lonely if you know what I mean, so there are absolutely other ways to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:23 AM
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Fair 'nuf! IMO the putting in effort to put your best self forward is just a part of the game for both sexes. Like birds that put on fancy displays and dances and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:20 AM
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Why though? I had my share of success as an absolutely (below) average looking guy, and if I'm in anything longterm my DL will give it away quick, and if they're anything like me even a white lie like that is some shit I've left people crying over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:16 AM
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Mhmm, generally if a woman's makeup is "noticeable" she either has friends who haven't clued her in, or is trying for attention with it (which isn't always bad, could be like a punk style or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:39 AM
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Goes from "comfortable" to "jesus dude calm down, the cervix isn't a punching bag" real fast tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:50 AM
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tbh most people don't realize if it's done well. It's great for covering small blemishes and zits and shit. mfs would never guess I'm covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:49 AM
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Normalize putting effort in to looking good! agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:47 AM
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good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:46 AM
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5'11" if a motherfucker can't accept me being an inch under 6 foot it's their loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:45 AM
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imagine if the average man could tell if women were wearing a reasonable (non clown) amount of makeup kekw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:41 AM
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A big issue is that a lot of men say they "prefer no makeup" or want a "natural look" but every damn example they bring up is just a normal woman in tastefully done makeup. Like they can't get it through their heads that some people are putting some real effort into putting a better face out there (and societally have to do so on a consistent basis)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:38 AM
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With any luck, but I see so many doomer posts by normal looking guys here that it's really bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:51 PM
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That's pretty average tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:31 AM
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IRL rejection is too cringe to stomach Wow, uh, yall mfs ain't men Sincerly, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:30 AM
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I look forward to teaching my son how to pick up chicks normally while all his friends are FA.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:27 AM
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I mean... it's true for any guys about average in college tbh. At least in the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:25 AM
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A lot do, they think it's about the same market they see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:24 AM
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27 is still a young adult lol. Sure plenty of people pair off before 25 but that isn't the end all be all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:21 AM
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where 9s and 10s are plentiful. Then they aren't 9 or 10s. They're 6 - 7s and the "6/10" in question is likely 2/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:16 AM
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Then later be filled with rage when it turns out we have libidos and strong sexual response to attractive men Bu bu but, why sexing chad? why no sexing me?! drinks another beer while munching on maccas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:46 PM
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Probably, it's something I'd like to see more studies on tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:38 AM
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Possibly, it's either that or they are more ruthless climbing the ladder. Either way, you don't see the same reflected across all women, which indicates that there is something there that causes women to either greatly under-perform (or rather not seek career success as much) as others who take great advantage of it; and a lot of the times it isn't even looks from some of the c level women I've seen. (either that or some powerful guys are simpin' for something most men won't look at that way)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:24 AM
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They don't negate it, you merely don't take it into account. But hey, you do you man, it's clearly working and you have tons of smart attractive chicks on call right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:20 AM
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Hint: most western and eastern women think about the same, and the whole "hurr durr women are all mentally teenagers" isn't exactly an attractive personality trait. Dare I say, it sounds almost libertarian (thanks PCM).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:15 AM
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What value do most of these women bring? Nothing. Their emotional maturity is at the level of a teenager -/u/Tungsten7_ This is a healthy and not childish way to think about half of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:16 AM
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Personally wronged it sounds like. Instead of accepting that he needed to change and that his rejections was his fault he puts it on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:15 AM
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I ... really am the type of a guy a 50 year father would want his daughter to be with. with a preference for similar intelligence. Okay.... When I am successful 30 y/o tax attorney I will only be playing/pumping & dumping the 20 year olds who would've dismissed me when I was their age. ....sure Best of luck with game though, smart women gonna' avoid that shit like the plague tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:14 AM
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Contrary to the rah rah girl power narrative Funny thing is when women actually break into corporate positions they on average go further than men. Women who don't focus on the whole family shebang tend to actually have more dedication to their careers than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:04 AM
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or any women at all for many dudes kekw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:58 AM
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Can tell you chances are the greater will be: debt. Not many people glow up economically, you sure as hell get a nice bill through school though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:57 AM
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Oh, that's easy! Because you can enjoy yourself without impeding on someone's agency, and like I said, if it happens then that's great, but the expectation going in shouldn't be such unless that's both people's expectation. (which while it's culturally common it still isn't the expectation going into a date for nearly everyone, and ONS often happen under different situations)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:16 PM
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Men just wouldn't gain anything from branching out to more people. One person closer than the rest is how men prefer it. [citation needed] I prefer it the other way, so you're gonna have to get a quorum here to tell me "men empirically prefer this" instead of my experience of "well once men open up they actually prefer that more. Neither is right or wrong it's just the difference in how men and women prefer to communicate and for some reason women can't wrap their brains around that Functionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:42 AM
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Yep :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:43 PM
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Exactly, no reason to unless they genuinely enjoy their company, and that (treating them as equal people and engaging them as such) is asking a lot from most men!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:43 PM
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That's true. I'm honestly not surprised by most women not pairing off these days. I'm sure it'll turn around eventually at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:10 PM
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I mean considering it a "circle jerk" really just means you don't really get it. Being unable to rely on people excepting your partner (which is an important point for single guys) makes you weaker overall, unable to deal with emotional stress like men should be able to. That's what makes it weak. The inability to function fully without a significant other being your sole emotional crutch instead of having a support network (which is a lot for a single person to handle and why you see so many wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:06 PM
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It's hard (especially as a guy) but having people you can open up to makes all the difference. And honestly I think a lot of guys would be open to it if one of their circle broke down over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:00 PM
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Oh yeah, no lol. A lot of men just deny them and then explode in other ways, or put them all on their SO and then wonder why they're "so bitchy about emotions".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:58 PM
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The expectation is to enjoy yourself and get to know another person. Sex on the other hand (for most women and some men) just isn't good without having a good connection with the person, it's just cranking one out with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:57 PM
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Not the endless aimless circle jerk that seems to help women I think you're missing a big part of male camaraderie that's been lost with todays youth that women still have. You can find it "aimless" and a "circle jerk" but that doesn't make it any less great for the psyche, or feel any less good to be included. Men today by comparison are weak and rely entirely on their partners for validation while they stoically "find solutions" alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:35 PM
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and expect to get sex at the end of the date TBH, even having that expectation is dumb lol If it happens great, but I wouldn't go into a date expecting to get my dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:27 PM
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I mean they absolutely can, it's just not the normal "manly manish" thing to do. It's very freeing, highly suggest it, 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:24 PM
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Men can also and FUCKING SHOULD ALSO BE GETTING VALIDATION FROM THESE CHANNELS. This so hard. Find a group of friends to can chill, drink, and really talk to honestly about how you feel. Get a group that backs you up, and you make each other stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:16 PM
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I don't go to them for emotional needs they have their own issues to deal with You might be better off then if you both shared and were able to relieve yourselves of these feelings. Shocking, but yes, even as a guy you can vent to friends and listen while they do, then squash it over a beer about how shit things are sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:13 PM
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That would imply men are the burdens. (It isn't wrong though in most cases)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:12 PM
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It isn't, but it shouldn't be the only thing, and men that only want that are kind of bringing it upon themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:10 PM
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Nope. Plenty of men feel this way about ALL emotional stress. It honestly sounds like "this is a man issue that men need to fix" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:08 PM
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It won't override, but a lot of guys really don't get that a ton of things they wear are dealbreakers for a lot of women, and just make them look..... bad. Especially because the way someone dresses in certain situations says a ton about them, and even super basic fashion isn't expensive at all (for guys at least)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:36 PM
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It's not ideal but at least they get sex out of it. I guess? But thankfully that arrangement is in a minority, heck even divorce rates are going down because people are putting marriage and kids off a few years (which is a good move imo) Most women could provide for a man if they wanted to. Probably actually, because if a woman starts and is driven in a professional career they generally out-earn men as they have the drive to and don't get complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:00 AM
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*some Also, money generally gets into "well, would you let someone piss on you every day for 1kUSD" sort of category and less "will money make them love you" (it won't) Though there is obviously a baseline, and people earning below a certain point because that means they'll need to be more than half the weight to sustain their livelihoods, and if that means both parties are at or near the poverty line it ain't gonna be pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:38 AM
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peeing outside is always in the man’s favor Might I introduce you to: The bendy straw!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:05 PM
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More or less, there are SD cases and such but for the most part couples looksmatch. Single men more often have skewed standards, single women more often aren't looking (for one reason or another).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:03 PM
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Pretty much, generally speaking, even 1/10 men will stop at 5/10, they sure as hell won't tangle with a 3/10. Ironically they similarly won't do anything to lift themselves from 1/10 to 3/10. Women in my experience though are happy with anyone around their attractiveness and up and put a lot of value on personality traits as well which also means that while looks play a big part, they can more than be made up by who they are. Not considering OLD though, that's pure looks, and skews everything wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:01 PM
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Well, I’m sure a guy who makes 30,000 a year might want to buy a BMW and his standard of car might be only a BMW. However, he doesn’t have the ability to get a BMW, so he’ll be walking to the store. And that means he's either going to be without a car or break down and buy that Ford Fiesta, or have to improve his salary so that he can afford the BMW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:50 PM
3

Sister in law, 35, too busy with life to bother with fuckbois. (no seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:47 PM
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So do men, in way worse ways often because they don't know how to keep their body healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:45 PM
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The issue is men currently as a group don't put the same effort into themselves that women do. The ones who do usually reap the rewards at pretty much all levels. The only problem is men expect women to put the effort in (making a 3 look like a 5) but won't put the same effort in to raise their own value to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:41 PM
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Looking at the guys side of OLD, they mostly look like some basic bitches trying to get their dick wet for the most part. Nothing that says "yeah, I think this guy is probably fun to hang out with the rest of our lives if we hooked up"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:18 AM
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Technically correct, but it's only very slightly in 20 years which isn't really that big of a change, and not really indicative of any large societal shift. In fact it's significantly lower now than in the 1950's as much as that data can be trusted. This indicated even compared to the poor criteria used 70 years ago, women were significantly more depressed then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:11 AM
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I think 90% is actually a bit high if you scope it down to industrialized areas. Definitely world wide aggregate though. Just focusing on women are at 85%@40+ which puts men around the same, might get worse, might get better. People are definitely having less though, and I don't doubt not having them because of monetary issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:55 AM
2

tldr: If she isn't all about ya, she's better off being single and likely knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:46 AM
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Treat women like human beings, and you will get to fuck who you want. Worked for me, dudes have a lot of internalized shit that they often don't even consider women worth talking to outside of trying to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:43 AM
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About where I am too, mid career in tech top quintile earnings. It's a damn shame that's how people think though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:44 AM
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So many men want a tradwife, but also want her to work, and continue to all the SAHM shit on their measly 40k/year salary and feel like a king. Thankfully professionally focused women on average have more drive and have no problem 86ing losers while also advancing further than them on average. There's still a F/M wage gap for a few reasons, but on average a professional working woman will surpass male counterparts in competence (and position) assuming all other things are equal, and they don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:09 AM
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I'm kinda glad, let the failed genes run their course
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:37 AM
0

Okay, so clowns and idiots getting laid and paid more than you, what's new?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:44 AM
1

At 20? I had about 150 spending cash every two weeks that I could save from my job minus actual savings and what I paid my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:22 AM
0

Damn, even clowns getting more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:17 AM
1

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:10 AM
3

Men here dont want to marry women, anyways. They want a walking fleshlight. And other guys here seem to think this is perfectly normal and this is a healthy way of thinking about their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:06 AM
1

That's what hotels are for!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:01 AM
2

Yeah, wouldn't expect to even start to be able to ask it unless the guy can foot a nice house and lifestyle on his own, which these days especially is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:00 AM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:57 AM
1

The sexlessness divide doesn't mean there's an amazing plurality of polygamy or serial partners, especially when it's rising for both sexes. Just means young people are fuckin' less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:57 AM
1

Buh, Don't you realizing she's already sleeping with your husband, the pool guy, and every single one of her teachers? Life is totally like a porno, but I never watch porn and don't have any social media, but I totally know that your daughter has had more dicks in her before 16 than I ate grains of rice tonight (about 2500)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:54 AM
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I mean, even if I never got laid I'd still find it fun, have plenty of female friends too. The whole black pill esque "women aren't worth having around except for the hole" thinking the poster above has would explain why people have to cope with: constantly being rejected, time and after time, night after night, to a couple weeks to a month, months to a quarter, to a half of a year, year to even a couple years OTOH, I sure had dry spells in my younger years, but that didn't make it any less fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:48 PM
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I mean, it's even fun when I didn't get any tbh, I think the poster above's thoughts about women is actually easier to pick up on to them as well. If you don't really enjoy and value their company why would they want to throw down with ya outside of a ONS? And if we're just talking ONSs then that's a whole other category these guys aren't touching without having either some good looks or real game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:36 PM
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The rest is talking about nothing with a boring nobody The fact that I have a completely different view on getting to know other people (not boring nobodies, everyone has a story) probably explains my success despite my amazingly average looks. You're trying to use a woman as an onahole for the night as your sole goal, I'm enjoying a night out getting to know someone with possible payoff for both of us in bed, but it isn't the only thing keeping me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:15 PM
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Just from personal opinion, nah. Sure it's fun, but the rest of it is also what makes it worth it at all. Otherwise I'd just have a wank in my room like some loser. Fun point; you can replicate the feeling of nailing a girl who's starfishing really fucking easily with an onahole and some warm lube, but can't replicate the chase, buildup, tension, and payoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:39 AM
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TBF, with modern porn sex with actually average women isn't really enticing to most men, and actually fills the need less than an onahole and a vr headset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:17 AM
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They just can't stop banging those 55 year old silver foxes that work for accounting firms, surely that's the reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:12 AM
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Also risk is high for women to hook up between STIs and birth control unless they're on the pill or something else already. With many modern programs in the US being christian made "ohhh scary, if you have sex before marriage you'll die in sin" it's no wonder they're choosing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:10 AM
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Young men just need to take care of their bodies, cut the fat and cultivate the muscle mass. Get off the internet and the vidya games and make their impact in the world, make some money and take what they want. The answer most men don't want to hear, but it works. It doesn't have to be your life, but being active, having some outside interests and being outgoing enough to approach and talk with new groups of people and fit in are a big step in the right direction. There's also issues caused by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:01 AM
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IDK, I'm pretty far from the 5% but had no problem in college with game despite not doing any sort of pua/trp stuff. Just a bit of TKD and running to keep me in general shape (no lifting back then) and a outgoing attitude so I'd have no problem cold approaching and getting to know girls (even if it didn't end in a strike) OTOH, I do actually know two virgin girls right now who aren't looking to get with anyone because life has been a bitch, and they're struggling just to make ends meet, and thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:52 AM
1

Flirting isn't fun, dating isn't fun Wait what? That's the best part of the chase. The money sucks if you're strapped, but the dating and lead up really make the lay better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:43 AM
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Social media and OLD makes it really easy to not see people as a person too unlike the old days where you actually got to have a chat with women if you didn't look like Quasimodo. It's more the technology's fault for enabling it though IMO, until you manage to pry kids from their fucking screens (at least as far as dating and social media is concerned) ain't shit going to get fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:40 AM
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I mean, with the number of entitled fat/broke/gamer dudes I see she certainly has a case. If I was a woman I'd stay away from them too. But that said, at least a lot of the uninteresting fat women properly have the shame to not embarrass themselves like men do. There are exceptions, but more than not, a woman a guy finds attractive will likely have put more into her appearance than the guy, which is also what chaps a lot of guys asses about men who don't have to try that (or appear to make it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:37 AM
1

Men, in general, need sex and companionship from women. Need. lolno
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:22 AM
1

Society functions because a majority of the male population is overproductive (produces more value than the one needed to provide for their own basic needs and entertainment). /r/badeconomics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:53 PM
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And some men love being SAHF. Just typical pill bs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:43 PM
1

feminine Or not. Attractive non-feminine women are top tier imo. One of my favorite things about my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:41 PM
2

UwU is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:45 AM
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Almost 7 grand for us all told, not including NICU visits..... after insurance. I'm not at all shocked that couples in the US would want to skip out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:18 AM
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Oh man, I hadn't thought of that... we've always had our own policies through work on their dime so I didn't even consider that they wouldn't let you add someone who you haven't actually married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:05 AM
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No blame, just a fact that men need to vet partners just like women do. Men (and women) are so eager to form an attachment that oftentimes they overlook actually scrutinizing their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:03 AM
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Look, all I'm saying is girls who like anime are really easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:52 PM
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I wouldn't call four a lot, but yes? I always found more experienced partners were always better to get down with. Heck it took my wife (who was one when we got together) a solid couple of years to actually be honest and open in bed. The PIV doesn't really feel any different, hell I've had women tighter (which really isn't always better) who were just fit and worked out regularly. You can make someone cum, but getting someone comfortable with being open about what they want, and them actually kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:48 PM
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Or the man really, ideally whoever earns less if anyone is actually leaving and not just getting a remote position. Being full remote with an empty work schedule has given me so much time to watch my kid grow that I wouldn't have had if I had just put him in daycare. Can't understand why a man wouldn't do it if they had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:36 PM
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Family is all either dead or moved away, and she actually didn't even mention it since we had initially figured "meh we don't need no marriage." I just thought it would be nice tbh, and she was really touched. Same sort of thing with kids, had a talk a few years later and we both decided we'd have one at least despite going in with the childfree mindset, now I love 'em even if I think every other kid is ugly as sin still.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:28 PM
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Statistically, without children in the picture you're correct. The woman will outearn the man statistically in white collar careers. There are theories about why, but I think it likely comes down to those women who do stick to a career are more likely to be driven to succeed and advance compared to male counterparts who are just punching the clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:20 PM
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A woman with no career is a woman who want to be carried through life without improving themselves. Not even FDS fucks with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:17 PM
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Easy solution is marrying someone you can trust after a long engagement, and not just who your dick trusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:16 PM
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All can be done without marriage, but oh man being married makes them so much easier (and cheaper in some cases)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:15 PM
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Trash people attract trash partners fwiw Love the hell outta my wife, and no drama here except in picking out what ecchi show to watch after kids are asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:14 PM
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Very few men will lasso the moon for a woman who is grateful to him for it. ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:09 PM
1

I got married mostly cause it seemed like the thing to do after 6 years together, had a kid a few years later that wasn't in the plan when we got married, but just seemed like a good step to take (and it was)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:07 PM
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This is actually one of the great things that FDS talks about. Unlike their brother sub TRP, they focus on an endgame that doesn't necessarily end in marriage and helping them realize that if they don't find a good enough man it's fine to just have friends and forego a bad marriage in favor of a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:05 PM
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IDK, I know a lot of happy spinsters... I also know a lot of lonely old men who don't have the same support groups the spinsters have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:03 PM
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"Well I might want to leave you next month if my secretary takes an interest in me"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:01 PM
2

This is the way (of being a househusband.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:00 PM
1

Yep, it's really all down to sentiment, and what it means to each other really. That is outside of tax stuff and making stuff easier without needing to get PoA for things, but that's really only saving time/money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:59 PM
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It really isn't. Virgins are a huge pain in the ass in my experience. Much prefer guys and gals that have a bit of experience under their belt that isn't "ohh that thing from 50 shades of twilight sounded hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:56 PM
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her most precious assets I'll have you know all of my wife's shares of GME and SPY have not been given away. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:53 PM
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I've been on the facts > feelings train a lot longer than him tbh. Though the best part is facts in their entirety almost never favor his side, as reality has a well known liberal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:02 PM
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When socialists and the ilk constantly and falsely portray domestic violence and sexual assault as being overwhelmingly male on female, no, thats not in men’s interests. I mean, facts and all, but okay I know those hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:19 AM
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Absolutely this, not even mentioning the really shady nature of most porn (and how it's super rare to find realistic depictions of lovemaking).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:50 PM
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So something to think about is that sex from a male perspective about women having entounters is pretty skewed. There's a reason there are so few overly promiscuous women, and it really isn't all because "society looks down on it" but because every encounter the woman puts herself in danger from the man, and not only that, the "consequences" of an ONS are on the woman (esp bad if she needs to rely on condoms.) Add on to all of that, that there's a good chance statistically they won't finish pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:43 AM
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The women here love to make these dumbass outlandish assumptions that RP men or men in the manosphere are bald short angry guys who look like John Gacy that never leaves their house or have friends. Not just the women, but us relatively average men who don't see the same distorted reality you do (and generally enjoy life because of it)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:24 AM
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And just like that you assume they all can or have the will to speak out. Hell, look at what's happened to some of them that have spoken out against men, now they have the exciting possibility of having lawsuits thrown at them for speaking up against their aggressors! Prison is bad yeah (there are a ton of reasons for that) but trying to sweep the fucked up near universal societal pressure women face under the rug is so hilariously on point for the "reeee muh cancel culture" crowd. Also also, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:52 PM
1

They call him the Health Inspector.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:32 AM
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It's about equal to living the life of a woman though. Whole lotta women folk raped and don't report it, or they report it and it goes nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:32 AM
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What about people with: no friends? No, huge red flag. low sex drives? Probably, low isn't a problem, no sex drive would be. poor people and Depends why they're poor. I've known unfortunate people, and I've also known people who are a walking bad decision. people of color Sure why not, most PoC men and women I've known, and all that I've dated have been pretty healthy, most of them as poor as I was at the time (fucking destitute.) People who sit at their jobs all day? Eh, while it won't make you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:21 PM
2

men who never feel their feelings Yeah those are off the list too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:09 PM
2

Absolutely is, but built like a tank.... apparently some women are really into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:07 PM
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IDK man, every short guy at the gym is drippin with pussy. If you're 4'9" and can't get any, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:48 PM
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Smoking, gambling, and excessive drinking are off the list for me too. All of them are terrible choices people make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:39 PM
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Because some (far from even a majority) can even orgasm from casual PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:01 PM
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"Men who are forced to penetrate" Give me meaningful statistics, I'm sure it happens but I'm sure it isn't as common as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:04 AM
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I have (way) less education than my partner, make more, am trusted more, and there is literally zero reason for that to be the case excepting that by being perceived as a guy, people just trust me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:02 AM
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Also they don't drop out usually. You take a leave of absence and come back in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:59 AM
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Also because breast cancer is about five times more common but yeah, men are less likely to organize for a cause if it doesn't directly benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:58 AM
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You're mad you don't get to hang around kids at a playground or something? Why would you want to? TBF, I'd be pretty pissed if I couldn't play with my kid at the park, but their narrative is a total red herring (if you're with the kid no one is even going to question it unless you look like a chomo)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:54 AM
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Okay, so anecdotal evidence time: As a dude I've never been given the side eye or treated weird for taking care of kids at the park or anything like most of the incels on reddit dot com say I should have. I've babysat 3 kids from toddler to elementary school and am still raising one of my own. Why am I not branded a child predator yet, and can chat with moms at the park?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:52 AM
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Funny you fail to catch that the CDC estimates don't include those that aren't reported as is an issue with many female sexual assaults. Either because they're marital (yes, marital rape is a thing) or because they don't feel safe reporting them. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:49 AM
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Until they realize how shit the rest of existence is with people not taking you seriously. Why do you think trans women are more outspoken than trans men? They lose male privilege on top of the challenges of being trans, and half of em' don't even realize that those are things that all women experience. Also "easy access to sex" with the awesome caveat that you likely won't orgasm, that men will view you just as a sex object, and in a relationship that you won't be listened to or taken seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:40 AM
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You know it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:35 PM
1

there are people that still date from real life interactions. such as mutual friends, hobbies, and approaching. I've only ever done it this way, couldn't imagine getting a good read on someone through OLD only. Like sure we'll share contact and text/message/chat outside of meeting but not ever having that sit down at a bar/noodle shop and talking about your passions in person really makes it hard to want to care about someone beyond superficially.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:10 PM
1

The sense of style and grooming is huge. You can objectively be 6-7 but appear so much better just because you don't look and smell like you slept in trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:05 PM
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Solid 7, bang on. Good photo helps too, not taken by yourself. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:02 PM
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Most of the dudes I rejected on apps had really bad pictures, no thought put into how they looked, etc. Ah, the typical iphone in the mirror no second thoughts photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:56 PM
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oh just 'to be fair' lol And yeah there certainly are silver foxes and panthers, but human emotion adds a lot of fuzziness to that, and a lot of people don't choose partners based on who can provide the best "lifestyle" within their SMV, and while it is a thing that happens it's pretty far from the norm. That's why you see so few middle age decently off men in that situation, and instead see many with that mindset looking toward mistresses or wallowing in their mediocrity thinking that they shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:01 AM
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Short guys are actually by far some of the biggest chads I've met at the gym, with most of them being married or actively dating around without problems, what planet are you on? lol Glandular problems alone won't make a guy repulsive to women either. Plenty of things aren't by choice, but how we deal with them are our choice. I've seen people come from some pretty low places and absolutely make themselves marketable, but it isn't some piss easy thing like "well just shower 4head" and there's a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:36 PM
1

It's only a bad take if it's wrong, which it ain't. Every "sexless" male has made choices which brought them to that point whether they acknowledge it or not. Men aren't used to the same sort of societal pressure women face to perform so they often don't realize it like lower SMV women do. Sure it can be neigh insurmountable to turn around later in life, but that's what a life of poor choices buys you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:02 PM
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TBF, BB (as TRP sees it) kind of do win in the end, men hit a hard wall pretty fast as they age without a lot of care to mitigate it. Because most people not TRP/FDS don't see relationships as purely transactional so people who happen to just end up with one person in their twenties or thirties who otherwise aren't high SMV would be considered BB, but to the people involved they're probably just enjoying their life while those two groups seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:36 AM
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I mean, it's honestly why both groups of toxic people are avoided by the general population. Women wise up and get out of TRP situattionships, and there's the all too common FDS post of "He's HVM but.... I was ghosted/He said we just don't work out" once they know them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:30 AM
3

Funny that most of the times size doesn't matter at all because most women aim for clitoral stimulation not PIV when doing it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:25 AM
2

I mean single men aren't sexless unless they choose to be (or don't put the effort in)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:13 AM
1

I think I "waited" like 5-6 months for my wife, but that's because we just casually hung out together a ton before actually getting physical. Didn't really feel like waiting either, was just fun hanging out imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:11 AM
1

Ditto, I think it's weird people think that "just dating someone" isn't implied to be exclusive anymore....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:02 AM
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I could just be traditional but uh.... if you've gone on a date, that's exclusive unless they specifically say it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:57 AM
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I’m 26 & still get asked all the time what I’m majoring in. My wife gets the biggest grin when people card her for a drink. Mid thirties. "The Wall" is a myth if you care for yourself :)
/r/askFDS04/09/20 06:59 AM
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Reference: Am nicest guy irl
/r/askFDS21/08/20 05:50 AM
6

Sounds about right. Give or take 1.99%
/r/askFDS21/08/20 05:48 AM
7

90%+ for sure. Way higher if you only consider single guys.
/r/askFDS21/08/20 05:47 AM
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I'd say closer to 98% if your considering men who aren't taken. Good men get taken early and rarely left.
/r/askFDS21/08/20 05:46 AM
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I mean, anyone going into their 30's not in an LTR is low value in some way. high-n guys (it's really not that hard if you're not some sort of fucked up) that aren't either mgtow from a bad split, or just want to keep riding and spinning plates until their looks fade; which happens to a lot of guys who eventually just can't keep up a healthy routine, and after 30 it only gets harder, similarly the landscape of chicks looks worse and worse with the rising rates of juvenile obesity, and the slow m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:28 AM
1

Simps are 9 out of 10 guys. 9 out of 10 Gamers, probably closer to like 3:10 overall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:04 AM
2

(1) If it's "any sex ever"; everyone is having less sex (though it's still about 40% leaving high school, ~10%@30yo) (4) If you mean just how both young men and women have been less active sexually, that's specifically on young men to fix if they want more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:40 AM
1

Not necessarily, smart people realize wealth has diminishing returns and past a certain point life is comfortable regardless. Someone in the same class is more like it, but even then it's a lot more how people act because... oh man, poor people and new wealth act.... poor, which is unattractive to everyone except poors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:42 AM
3

Aside from those (usually, yes, people enjoy just hanging out and shooting the shit with who they marry.) You don't just LTR, much less marry someone you don't enjoy being around. Not to mention I'd expect both parties to have moderate or higher N-counts otherwise it's a bit of a red flag that they've got something fucky with them. The girl who's a virgin at 35? How many times have I seen the age match the BMI there.... Guys a virgin at 35? 99/100 he "can't talk to women" normally, thinks about …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:39 AM
2

Eh, shoot higher (earning); the gal at walmart obviously needs a carry, but the white collar engineer/writer/tech really just wants a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:39 AM
2

only a must if you're ugly as sin and can only harvest pickmes tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:18 AM
1

I'm just sayin' literally anyone can pick up at the club; betas aren't seen as anything but orbiters to friends where more HV/"alpha" men have hints dropped at them all the time by acquaintances. To be clear, I'm not talking being the girls one crying buddy who always has her shoulder after chad thundercock drops her (again) but being that guy who's in the group who steals that girl you've had a crush on for 3 years (and probably approached and were rejected reeeing about the friendzone) just by…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:56 PM
1

The guys who are friends who can't break out of the friendzone are the betas who have to stick to club/bar hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:39 PM
4

That's how I've always done it and it's worked wonders. Cold approach is fine if you're just looking to shag and you're at a dance bar or somethin' but everything meaningful has been through people I at least met once or twice through a group/friends and engaged to go further.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:37 PM
3

To the point that the moms will brag to their children about that one semi-famous chad fling they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:29 AM
2

Porn Addiction induced Erectile Dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:56 PM
1

IDK, mid 30's and it still holds true, if you don't look busted and take care of your skin/hair/body then women will be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:59 AM
1

Based. (in before Based bot)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:56 AM
1

It's a sad thing too, a little skincare could turn so many of the uggos into decent men, but men act like it'll turn em gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:55 AM
1

Live fast, die young... or become that old guy at the bar with liver spots nursing a bottle of whiskey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:53 AM
2

I mean /r/Men_of_the_Wall shows me most men who don't care for themselves clearly age like wine.... out in the sun with the cork out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:49 AM
1

So mid twenties now considering how widespread PAED is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:46 AM
2

/r/Men_of_the_Wall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:44 AM
2

Especially as you grow up you'll find that younger men are a lot more similar, hell 18-24 alone is such a wide range just because of how much people are growing and changing in their twenties!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:42 AM
13

We all know what it would look like, doesn't make it any more legal! (thank god for that)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:40 AM
2

Feminism is equal rights for women. Trans women too; but FDS doesn't like that (or trans women in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:01 AM
1

Except some people are disgusting, I'm not giving up calling incels and femcels disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:58 AM
1

A man cannot change his height. (((citations needed))) Pull your own height up by it's bootstraps like I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:56 AM
1

Women under 5'2 should be sent to concentration camps Men shorter than my wife should. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:56 AM
1

I can respect that, some people go way overboard with what they uh... consider okay to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:47 PM
0

The concept being that unless TRP precepts is actually how you act relaxed around someone you cohab with you can't ever truly be comfortable unless you acted that way in the first place not many betas do or are comfortable with it naturally outside of using it for game. That's why MGTOW exists imo, anyone can get girls with game, but it must feel like shit for them only to be chasing the version of you that you force yourself to be. Most men aren't natural leaders, emotionally cool, nor stoic wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:05 AM
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TRP game is great for PU/FWB to get beta dick wet, but kinda shit for anything long term. If you can't be yourself and keep em hooked on you being yourself then why even bother, MGTOW was made for natural betas. Then again I also love eating ass just like I like being blown, something about natural betas afraid of good oral or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:33 PM
1

but what is it's genetic?! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:01 PM
1

RemindMe! 5 years I'll keep this running and repeat it just to keep you in the know that we're still happy and beautiful together. 15 years so far, lets go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 10:03 PM
2

Thanks! Got a good 50+ years ahead of us I hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:10 AM
1

IDK mang, I got my perfect smol wife of my dreams. Hot (by my standards, which are a bit weird), plays vidja, gardens, likes weird pets, and introvert, bonus of being within a year of my own age and finding her while in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:01 AM
1

You misspelled "LVM/LVW"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:11 PM
2

He may be more attractive to women in their 30’s and 40’s than ever- but this idea that woman lose everything on their 30th birthday but men will still be bagging 20-25 year olds who want him for more than just his money at any age is absolutely absurd. Of course it's absurd, because nobody says that. I mean, I know you can't read Tyrone but damn, even on the same screen as your comment for me. And because you lack reading comprehension, no that isn't literally what they said, but it is absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:07 PM
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You’re both going to have to WORK to stay attracted to one another. TBF, the only work you have to do is on your own body to stay as attractive as you want them to stay, and to make sure they're in the same mindset when you settle down together. Both men and women can age magnificently well if they put the work in and don't treat their body like dumpsters (like most men do)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:01 PM
3

IMO pretty girls tend to have shitty personalities and star fish sex. This so much. Why aim for an 9/10 who is fine just being a body pillow when you can get someone as engaged as you (who also doesn't view relationships in the weird dystopian way OP does)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:31 PM
3

Really poor analogy, sucking dick is way more fun than sucking thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:28 PM
3

Every girl does those things. You've either never had a good BJ or never had a bad BJ, because there is a huge difference there. Or never been with chicks who refuse oral stuff because "it's icky".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:26 PM
1

but normal women don't enjoy that It's okay for men and women to want just normal vanilla lovemaking. It's also okay for them to want something more and seek out a partner that fulfills that desire. BDSM isn't for everyone by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:17 PM
1

I...... that's not how that works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:40 PM
1

Laser is sadly pretty far from single treatment (5-10 ish) and isn't effective against people with finer and less contrasting hair. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:47 AM
2

cum shotting on her body Facials yeah, but on the back/tummy instead of inside? That's just plain jane CI. Literally the oldest contraceptive method in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:01 AM
4

Money on 90% of those who think they are fine with just PIV are having it stimulated by something in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:54 AM
1

Good choice tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:52 AM
1

Shave the hell outta mine and I'm a guy. Also like to do the whole area now and again it feels nice. If there was a easy way to 100% make the area hairless forever in a single treatment I'd do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:50 AM
1

I've had one girl who liked it (only way PIV could get her off) but yeah generally speaking, smacking someones cervix isn't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:47 AM
5

prone otoh, hits just the right places for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:45 AM
2

like 23-27ish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:50 PM
6

What I'm looking at already, my dad was in his 40's when he had me and he's already passed, didn't even get to see his grandkid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:49 PM
3

Pretty much yeah, you see all the people who were unsuccessful in their 20s, had abusive LTRs they're getting out of, and the people who were too picky to really date in their 20's all loosening their standards. Not to say they're bad people, but it's definitely advantageous to strike earlier if you find a gem than to keep it spinning for later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:48 PM
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Statistically speaking there's probably more of them at age 24 than age 27 because the "good ones" get taken off the market. This is why getting your fucking done early and fast is best. The market of good LTR material goes from awesome down to earth chicks who are career oriented to mostly single moms, coping femcels, and busted faces overnight. Not to mention I don't think I could handle dating early 20's chicks now like I could when I was that age, not from any moral standpoint, but there's s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:02 PM
6

Admittedly I'll always remember both my second (we were both edgy teens trying to out-kink each other), and my wife (so many good memories together already). But really the best memories already are other things my wife and I have done, places we've been, moments together, and remembering those moments together from when we were much younger, years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:46 PM
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pmuch this. I love fuckin' but there's so much more in life holy shit. I honestly think it's men who weren't able to get it in their prime easy putting pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:40 PM
7

Say you get with someone at 35, and wait a few years to conceive. If you're 40 when you have them you'll be 58 when they're just going to college. Damn :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:39 PM
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/r/Men_of_the_Wall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:34 PM
8

Ditto, personally I think it's better overall to play the field earlier (teens - early 20's), and get a good LTR in your mid 20's. Better choice overall if you and your partner both got all your casual relationships out of the way early so you have more time together, and generally people who start looking to settle down around there are going to be way higher quality than the fdscels/highcounters you'll find just starting to really settle 35+, and if she turns out yikes you'll have time to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:33 PM
2

The biggest lie men grow up with is that they don't have to "take care of themselves like women do". That's why only a "minority of men" are attractive. You don't have to have an award winning face, but basic skincare, fitness, and fashion go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:32 PM
1

That's true as well! (deadbeats ordered to pay but essentially just not working out of spite)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:29 PM
2

Eh, that's how it should but in some cases it looks like the woman files, makes twice what the husband does, and the husband still gets stuck with 2k/month on top of 50/50 custody (but the kids are always at his place because he isn't crazy and abusive when other people aren't around like the mother is) Damn shame because I saw it play out last year. Her family was loaded so they could afford a good solicitor, guy had decent enough pay but not enough money to fight what they were bringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:07 PM
0

Yep, where I live I get none while my wife has 6 weeks... At that point I might as well be a bad racial stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 04:52 PM
1

You mean the people who take care of themselves look young? Well color me shocked. Women also reap more QoL from life too, accounting for exercise despite doing it less often. I blame western men being primarily fat pigs (western men almost unilaterally pull BMI rankings up compared to women despite not having knockers) who can't control their appetite though. Easy to go down the gutter when all you shovel into your body is meat and processed trash without concern for CICO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:09 PM
1

Hey, I'm just saying they're out there, if smokin' cougars aren't available (or aren't available for you) and you only get the leftovers, more power to ya, live your best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:00 PM
1

It's okay, I know most men get all busted af post 30, but with a little work and not being a dumpster you too can prevent man-aging, no need to be such a snow☆flake <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:21 PM
1

Ahem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:18 PM
1

I feel I was unfair in my previous comment, men age like milk on the counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:12 PM
4

Wine can age into vinegar or another undrinkable mess if you don't start with a good wine that has potential for it, and take care of it properly. Similarly milk by extension can become a fine aged cheese with similar care. Not sure what you're on about, unless you're talking about how many men think they're a well aged port when they're already a bitter vinegar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:52 PM
3

IDK, I married nice, chill, low maintenance. Had flings with crazy in my youth though, it gets old. Eventually you just want someone who gets ya' who isn't jerkin' you around and has some empathy. Big diff between HVM and LVM though, and while you can pull in an HVM for a while or whip an LVM into listening to you it ain't gonna be happy ever after. Also in the black community especially LVM shit and the weird fuckboi attitude are everywhere, so I don't blame you for coming at it like most men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:26 AM
3

Blue pill is the same thing why you don't ask your coworker how much they're making. Bullshit, I discuss salaries agressively; best way to know if you're the one getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:18 PM
2

By being blunt, honest and straightforward (and putting yourself at the biggest risk of rejection) you can cut trough the bs and get to your desires very quick. Best way about it, High SMV people don't pussyfoot around. Even "okay" looking guys can be high SMV if they're smooth. That isn't even RP that's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:17 PM
1

Both TRP and FDS are circles of confused people who are trying to figure out how/why to find partners they like which is kind of funny because while they ultimately want what the other does. (They both want a tradcon style relationship from the language they use) While TRP emphasizes plate spinning to, IDK, appeal to guys who never got their dick wet in school? Which just hamsters their ultimate goal by looking like a fuckboi; While FDS are made up from people who seemingly can't pick up someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:35 PM
0

Engineers usually aren't high value. They make money but often are really terrible partners otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:26 PM
11

They already post about being ghosted a ton by HVMs after 3 months so....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:22 PM
3

implying even 1/4 of FDS are actually high value in any way except knowing how to spot and reject LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:20 PM
1

Absolutely. I'd be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:07 AM
2

Men will be using sex robots, women will develop similar technology for themselves and people will just continue to grow unhappier and more resentful. I think this is where it'll go, but I don't think it'll breed resentment. After all we've had vibrators and dildos for ages.... then again guys with fleshlights get branded weirdos because (???) I think it'll be the same situation, including males being shamed for it (because toys won't make masculinity any less toxic) and it being pretty normaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:40 PM
7

You mean they want a temperate virgin who will only put out once every two decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:20 PM
1

Oh! fair enough some people it's the nerves (death grip) that get them, I guess it's just the same but in inverse! (kinda)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:22 AM
2

Many high value men are red-pilled no fappers who do get laid Many is relative. There are many trans people (something like 40-90 million) still like 1% or less of the population. Likely the same percent of high SMV men who are nofap. It isn't because it's good, it's because they have a personality issue with addiction, or their body can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:26 AM
2

Good for you. I couldn't do both. Well at least you know your little friend's limit now!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:19 AM
3

And that's why people should only rock the boat to free range anime tiddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:16 AM
2

Jesus, where do you guys find the time. working full time x2 we're lucky to find time 2-3 times a week. Vacations and such are awesome though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:29 AM
5

Mhmm, a lot of things girlfriends have loved my wife hates and vice versa. The important thing is communication and picking up on non spoken clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:28 AM
5

The objective in war is to have infantry who is obedient enough to be sacrificed when it's necessary, and not cut as soon as things start to look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:40 AM
4

where I'm a virgin and I don't know what sex is. turboyikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:53 PM
2

Oh I'm sorry, ephebepiophiles like older children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:13 PM
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I don't want a 15 year old version of my wife. She'd have no fucking clue what she was doing in general and all of her opinions or beliefs would be contorted into fantastical bullshit; much like this post. Here here. People who want teenagers are either pedos, or completely forgot how teenagers actually act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:28 PM
0

To get some fuck is why, apparently ugly men are thirsty af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:47 AM
3

Why no dick? Bussy > Pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:45 AM
6

I mean they said they're in "nun mode" if that means anything, haven't met a nun that isn't at least a little batty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 08:38 AM
1

Anyone actually liking eachother and fucking on the regular are the outliers, not the norm. Fuck me it feels good to be an outlier for once. I couldn't imagine having to demand duty sex, like, who the fuck even would enjoy it? E: Also who has sex after those days, those are the few days I break maintinence and drink/eat like a pig with the wife, sex after that would be nauseating...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:18 PM
5

Wouldn't cheap sex be better? Nah, I'll just masturbate if I don't have someone I'm with. Not really into ONS, FWB/SO is way better, and I'd rather just wank than have an ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:01 AM
2

Mhmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:58 PM
2

I absolutely have before. It's better to be seeing someone casually than just having ONS or some other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:34 PM
1

Trick question, she isn't the wife anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 08:37 PM
2

Pretty much. Marriage is honestly super risky if you haven't lived with your partner for a few years, but generally if you live together and trust each other enough it's worth it. But hey if you don't trust them enough to over after committing then it's probably safer that way. Not that one particular party in that case would be to blame, not everyone has to take the plunge. But if you do, then both sides are (and should be) on the hook for what the other does. That's why it fucking baffles me w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:10 PM
2

I mean a guy has the exact same power. 100% the guy can decide he's a SAHF, quit and let the wife work it out without following her wishes. Same card different side, a "good man" wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:59 PM
2

Because in a functioning marriage no one person just pulls a pocket veto on an important decision like that. Sure you could marry someone that could do that, but someone like that is also someone you shouldn't marry. Dumb mfs marrying dumb mfs, and treating it like dating or some shit is how we have this issue in the first place. Women and men making harmonious decisions for their life together is what marriage is about, not about some trick raising some guys kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:51 PM
4

Because she doesn't, and usually it's something the couple decide on because the guy is making too much to stay home himself, and her working makes less than childcare+maid does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:37 PM
4

Just curious, if a woman ends up abused by her partner it is on her for picking the wrong guy? I think it is. Only as long as she stays, abuse is abuse, and some people have real shitty choices on who to be with. Also, you didn't answer my point. I did though. Only a comeplete cuck would just "lie down and take" whatever decision their partner made instead of talking things out like adults. Shocking I know, but that's how good relationships are without needing to dangle financial security over s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:30 PM
0

Uh... that's not how marriage works? And if it is for you, you p much cucked yourself with a bad chick, gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:17 PM
4

I mean, virgin rates are up too, incels and femcels rising
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:16 PM
10

no one forces a woman to be a SAHM No, generally that's considered a decision made by both parties even before the little bugger comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:11 PM
9

So the thing is they can get a job, but say you were both earning 150k/year, get married and crap out some kids. Good stuff, one of you quit, the other keeps working while the other cares for the kids. Now say you (or the other half) get tired of bringing in all the dough to some lazy shit who only does all the house work, cooks, and cares for your 2.5 kids, so you start spinning plates/riding the carosel again on the side. She initiates (rightfully), and now you're split, lets say kids are 50/5…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:09 PM
7

Eh, not to burst you bubble sweetie, but especially with time out of a career and age the prospects to get back into a field (doubly so STEM ones) are pretty dire, male or female. Alimoney is great for that case where the breadwinner just decides to nope out after 15 years and cheat around, not so much there's fault on the SAHM/F side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:01 PM
3

I mean to be fair, a lot of CEOs trash companies and pretty much live that life to such an excess while people in the same city work two jobs and still have a hard time feeding themselves without the government dole to supplement. Not to say all executives are lazy, a lot of them care and work hard, but what people earn often doesn't amount to anything close their net contributions to the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:58 AM
1

whose standards are so high biggest oof
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:36 AM
3

Once locked-down, and menopause has started to occur, sex-life is over Interesting take, from my conversations after menopause and kids are out of the picture is when it really picks up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:34 AM
5

Seems like a myth the young tell about older people. They want to believe old people aren't fuckin' but they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:33 AM
2

32, M, Married ATBE (no STIs and such, good health, both look good for their age), 21 if I was still that young. Virgins are a huge pita, and people who put them on pedestals are either terrible in bed, or as inexperienced as them. Actually, a 28 party girl would be fine as well, and probably be making more money than the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:29 AM
7

Yeah it's uh... its something I can't even wrap my head around knowing how I (and generally speaking) 18 to early twenty year olds act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:53 AM
8

Mhmm, getting on with an 18 year old around our age is uh.... wow makes me feel like a goddamn pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:20 AM
-1

Serves the finest cocktails spiked with plan B
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:10 AM
1

Could be he told her and she doesn't want to (which is fine as well) I know there are a few things I'm into that my wife doesn't like, but like 95% of stuff we are both in to enough for the fringes not to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:57 PM
5

Disgusting things like anal sex I mean, just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's disgusting.... doesn't mean all women/men have to like it either though! Men are more polygynous Men have always been pretty polygynous, I don't think porn did anything to that? Could be wrong I suppose though, just haven't seen any studies about it. But this one is so old it's literally biblical. Men think the average female body has too many flaws Models in mass media do that too, same sort of issues guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:54 PM
2

Maybe I am odd or weird here but who takes a shower before sex? Before because I'm gon' eat that ass and want my junk smelling nice too, after for the obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:36 PM
2

Who the hell fucks for that long? Uh..... most normal people? Foreplay/oral/manual stuff, then some piv is about that long in total easy, just because piv is only 15 minutes doesn't meant that's the sum total time spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:35 PM
1

Big difference between a man's curvy and a woman's curvy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:55 AM
1

German immigrants.meme
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:36 PM
1

Not even in the same ballpark, the issue with Japan is that they.... well they just aren't fuckin'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:29 PM
2

Nope, but there are guys who say they "have abandoned all hope of ever having a real relationship with the opposite sex". Literal extinction levels of FA and incel there, it's glorious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:24 PM
2

And the people (About 50% of jp males or some ridic statistic I can find it if you want) have given up on 3d as well. It's less that women there don't want to ride, it's more that the men gave up on.....being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:15 PM
1

Japan and Korea and really, most places on earth, hold sex to be more sacred than the West does. Oh that is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:13 PM
1

Not just rear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:40 PM
1

A little over 100, but the GT-R won't get you laughed at on the track, well worth the money imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:39 PM
1

Yeah, hatch is what I was thinking, the sedan is w/e though. Mostly got it cause it's a nice looking cheap daily driver. ( ｀ー´)b Then again you don't shouldn't buy a civic for racing, even a stock GT-R will curb stomp a kitted out civic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 01:43 PM
2

The 2017's are pretty sleek though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 12:48 PM
3

I mean, if I don't want it I don't want it mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:09 PM
1

Eh, I do, most of the professionals I work with do to. They don't have to earn more, but if they're happy with taco bell or mc donalds I'm happy with not being a part of that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:19 PM
1

but I'd question why she's with me if she was significantly out earning me. Dude, ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:17 PM
1

I mean, 11 is when the gears start turning for some kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:28 AM
2

I mean you won't just drop it, if you can lift it off the bar and lower it to your chest you'll be able to roll it off!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 09:19 AM
2

ikr, even back in my day we were fooling around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:05 AM
1

Damn. :x
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 09:05 AM
2

Yeah, even with my wife we've only gone on a few "formal dates", but by god we've ordered Chinese takeout and played Tales games more times than I can think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 08:58 AM
1

Actual date? 18, after high school. Was fooling around with guys and girls earlier though...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 08:55 AM
2

This is a red herring. Not really. If the man bamboozles her into getting pregnant without her permission said further action is all on her. Acting all like men needling condoms isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 07:59 PM
1

It's a smart decision to not reproduce, or do you mean, it's good we're getting the /pol/ reee types outta the gene pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:49 PM
1

Women are vocal about everything they identify as. Well, the vocal ones are at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:46 PM
2

Nor men really. People are selfish and self-preserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:43 PM
2

Slapping a dude on the ass. Grabbing him by the crotch. Homo-erotic bonding type shit. Let me guess, Navy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 10:00 PM
3

A staggering amount of men can't do 3 pull ups. We should lower it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:58 PM
2

Nah, I'm decidedly average looking. I mean, sure I wholeheartedly embrace the masculinity, and we lift together, but I'm pretty far from being the best looking or strongest guy in the gym. Regardless of that life is great and our bedroom is anything but dead, and we're both improving ourselves every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 11:23 PM
3

Heck, for some 5 odd years my wife earned more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 02:52 PM
6

it's the man who has to pay for her beauty parlor bills and her expensive choices of shoes, jewelry, designer watches Sounds like a trashy taste in girls if that's the case OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 02:51 PM
3

I'd say they weren't your friends then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 10:08 PM
1

and fill it better. Do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 10:00 PM
1

I actually like that my wife was raised by her single mother. It made her unabashedly hate women, and their bullshit antics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:31 PM
1

It isn't a matter of purity as much as a gauge of moral stance. Exactly why I would straight dismiss N=0 prudes. It's more work than its worth and you can get the same quality from smaller low N count girls. N<=5 would be preferable around my ideal age (25) though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:29 PM
2

I mean weep all you want, it won't help a fat chick get me hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 07:35 PM
1

Hey, women or men, I'd stop caring once they stopped being who I loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:53 PM
2

I suspect most men in deadbedrooms would JUMP at the opportunity to fix it IF he knew how. Look at him man, even he suspects that's why but hasn't done shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:46 PM
1

He married a selfish, entitled brat. Entitled? Implying he's entitled to sex even though he got so fat she is not longer attracted to him at all? I'd expect anyone in a relationship with a decent looking person who suddenly stopped giving a fuck about how they look to dry up all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:43 PM
1

She is literally acknowledges that her partner is hurt and confused, yet states she does not feel bad for him, or look for a solution. It's because the solution is telling him to lose some goddamn weight. Not a thing she can do beyond that if she's already let him know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:40 PM
1

Rekindle the passion by spending time to look like the guy she would love to bend her over the kitchen table for. And the great thing is, if you were that guy before getting back there is as easy as not being a disgusting slob, don't even need tons of gym time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:37 PM
1

And what if she tells you "get fit or no sex" ? Sounds like he would have to stop being a gluttonous shit if he wanted to sleep with his wife then :colbert:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 05:34 PM
1

Get healthy, get fit, feel better and be full of energy. Even if you work an office job for 12 hours a day you can take lunch at a gym and get fit. This is the cornerstone to not turning into an amorphous blob in your 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:14 AM
2

Or jump positions every few years to get a higher salary and negotiate lower hours until you're in a place where you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:11 AM
1

then married to my mum young, working overtime in 2 jobs to feed a family of 5 Don't knock a chick up five times if you don't want to deal with five kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:07 AM
1

If she makes more than you, she won't respect you (because hypergamy) Neh, my wife started out making way more than me. If you can't bag someone as good or better than you, then you have no game son.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:06 AM
1

Can't you get a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:03 AM
-2

Neh, the plates thing is doing that, but purposely keeping them in the dark about what else you're doing. I think most guys have a few times where they've got a sex friend they can call and hang up with...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 06:26 AM
2

Regardless of what it is that causes it, the point is that there will always be something that can stop someone from loving you. Generally if you're getting hitched to someone, the bet you each make is that the well of love runs deep enough to not fuck off when the other needs you. For example a girlfriend of 6 months? Yeah, I really wouldn't expect her to stay around if I caught asscancer. I kind of would with my wife though, as we've both invested pretty heavily into each other. I wouldn't sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 03:00 PM
2

Eh, I'm more happy without children of my own. We prefer being the support for other people that do while focusing on our own relationship and lives. Then again if we ever really want em we can adopt later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:49 PM
4

Never mind the dying, the possibility of losing wife booty is horrifying!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:41 PM
1

Really depends on the situation, prior experience, and how much they make tbh. Like he said, calculated risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:40 PM
3

FWIW, the real point is that there is no such thing as unconditional love. No matter how much someone loves you, you can always do something to fuck that up, even as their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 02:38 PM
2

tbqh, a lot of the RP stuff is hyperbole of what most people internalize, and naturally do. Moving away from the term SMV, as that's really a misnomer for relationships in general outside of game. Women (and men), generally prefer someone equal or higher value to themselves. You see this a ton with people of lower values who feel entitled to attention from higher value people (on both sides, male and female). And if people are dating below their perceived value it's in all likelihood not somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 06:28 PM
6

31 YO incel virgin Truly the RP voice to listen to. No offense guy, and I mean this honestly, but you need to deal with the here and now of socializing before working on game. Also, try not to take everything RP at face value, it's nice for getting laid/short term, but not entirely much else. Weakness is okay to show occasionally. I let my wife know when I'm having problems with something (or if something is stressing me out). Yeah you want to be in a more stable place when you're courting, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 08:28 AM
5

tbqh, I'm thinking they did in not so many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 08:01 AM
2

Says you, I fucking love beating off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:58 PM
10

Shhh, don't ruin his misconception that every woman needs a throbbing 11" freedomboner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 03:56 PM
3

Except no men outside of trp wants that Whoa there Stalin. I love my wife, and would happily accept some bigger tits on her, or a few years off her age (even though she already looks so young). Not so much the virgin thing though, virgins are a PITA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 03:56 PM
0

Both do it, and both are shitty for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:43 PM
0

It kind of is. Both guys and girls in the mainstream do it tbqh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:41 PM
3

I'd have to go with around 25ish. Generally people's personalities are more settled, and they aren't going to nosedive in the looks department, and aren't old enough that they're settling. Well, that and I've talked to a 16 year old recently. They're immature little people with no idea how shallow and hyperbolic their worldview is. Not exactly something I'd want to stick my dick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 09:04 PM
3

I do. Rather, I'm fine with my legacy not being my blood, but my impact elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:10 PM
1

Nope, I meant blue collar there. There are some pretty fun blue collar jobs I'd do if they paid more.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:55 PM
1

Probably not 1 as much as 2 or 3, but yeah. I bet if they did they'd go right into the pile with the short weak men.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:42 PM
3

That's just absurd. I'd feel intimidated applying to be a kindergaten teacher; I'm pretty sure it's similar to that. The fuck am I going to talk about in the break room? I don't have periods, and only drink black coffee with no sugar. I can imagine it would be shit on break, sticking out like a sore thumb. On another tangent, my MIL was a teacher, that's way too much work for too little pay. I can't say I'd ever willingly do it for the pennies they pay for having to deal with kids that much, and…
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:41 PM
3

No, it's pointing out that people are still made to do fucked up jobs. We should all be in offices or more comfortable blue collar jobs, not working in the sewers or coal mines.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:36 PM
2

Shit, I'm not a women, and I only want the easy jobs. Who willingly works in a mine? Seriously.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:35 PM
1

Their policy then becomes "we don't allow salary negotiation" and they remove a valuable chip from a prospective employee's arsenal. I'm for this. If you lowball my ass expecting me to negotiate (to and above) my previous salary on my CV, I'm not interested in negotiating, nor would I be interested in working for you. Then again, I work in an institution where my (and my team's) salary are all publicly disclosed, so it's not like I could (nor would I want to) hide it.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:32 PM
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They're paid on average a bit less as they're deferring risk of the woman leaving the workplace to go home and be a family man, but otherwise there isn't a huge gap for the same positions. And I'm hoping in a few generations the position gap will close a bit as well as more women are getting into awesome stuff like IT and engineering.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 03:28 PM
1

Lots of women think that sex is so intense that it should only be shared with the person you spend your life with.Nothing to do with religion. You..... don't know many women do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 01:12 PM
1

"He's not yours. It's just your turn." works as well then I suppose. It's just how people are in relationships usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 01:00 PM
1

Bisexual, only have relationships with chicks though Had sexytimes with both, more middle and high school, not much in college. Started with some friends in elementary. Blindfold/bondage/toy play are always great goto things that won't freak too many people out. Nope. Nothing I haven't already done that I could think of without actually becoming someone else. Not much for celebrities, and I've had a few three/foursomes of varying composition (including mmmf, which was rather fun if I say so myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:13 AM
1

Sorry, the way you put it seemed a bit the other way, no problem with it just being personal taste though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:16 PM
2

So... Yes you expect it (being leader of your household), but it's gotta be him asking? What's so bad about someone who identifies as female asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:04 PM
1

Damn right they do. I think it's cool. Usually ones not into the stereotypical "man leads the house" roles either!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:18 PM
5

So, you suggest that I get down on bended knee and ask a man to be father of my children and leader of my household? Wait, I'm honestly confused here.... Is it okay for a guy to request that of you, but not the other way around, or are you against having a husband in general? Cause that's a very redpill way of thinking of it (He's my husband so we gotta have kids and he'll lead the house woe is me).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:17 PM
3

It depends on how much the other earns. If the incomes are equal it's pretty much even, but if there's a big difference it can feasibly save you a bit. Honestly not that much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:10 PM
1

How do you read mangos?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/15 01:21 PM
1

Worse IMO, people openly share this shit knowing how easily it spreads.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/15 01:20 PM
1

Midgets and Hams: The Musical.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/15 01:20 PM
4

And even if you do find a 27 year old virgin woman who isn't super religious... she probably has a "thing" that is likely the reason she's a virgin. I can confirm. I know a 25 year old virgin who looks pretty good. Definitely a reason she is too, yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 01:21 PM
2

Personally I would, I've been with a couple of girls at the same time, and probably wouldn't have turned down an offer to be in professional porn in my younger years. Don't see why my wife shouldn't get a pass on it as well if she were to have done the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 01:15 PM
-1

Not really blue pill, but if they were passing and told me, sure why not. Then again, I think the idea of a real Herm would be cool so I might not be the target here....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 02:11 AM
2

I just think it's funny, cause my best experiences have been with experienced women. Not outright sluts, but have taken their share. In contrast the two virgins I've had have been..... disappointing. But hey, to each their own. I'm just cool as long as they aren't lying about shit, which is rare for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:32 PM
-1

Not everyone is giving their all to their partner. Exactly. If she doesn't like you, it's not her fault you're inferior to what she's had, or doesn't care about you as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:18 PM
0

Indian girl fantasy wat I don't know why RP is so obsessed with the BP husband discovering that his beautiful wife had a rich sexual past. I think it's mostly being butthurt that they aren't turning them on enough to do all that stuff that they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:15 PM
4

The number is extremely relevant So does one LTR where she does everything for the guy for 5 years count more than two really vanilla drunk ONS? And for what reason does it matter? Aside from meaning they have more experience that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:11 PM
3

Or they're me and love hearing about sexual escapades, even if I'm fucking the person I'm hearing about them from. Hell, especially so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:05 PM
2

Personally I think it's fine to refuse to say, but really it's silly not to be open. It's just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:02 PM
0

Actually it's not casual dating so much as dating multiple people at once while making sure none of them find out, thus spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 09:33 PM
2

The touching, not so much rape until you realize she's frozen there... then when you keep going it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 02:50 AM
5

Just saying, if a chick froze up and didn't say shit, I'd think she might not want my dick in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 02:47 AM
3

That's true as well, but for those specific tough situations if something can't be worked out with the other person, you have a whole lot more on your side toward a fault case against them, provided you don't cheat. Then again, I'm not sure why people are so quick to marry people young and get fucked when they grow up anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 01:54 PM
2

Or male. If I have a headache I sure as fuck am not folding laundry, mowing, or chopping wood; BJ or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 01:26 PM
8

So rape is the only thing on the table for you then? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 01:21 PM
1

For some reason or another; some guys like fat chicks. It's a thing. But hey, we all have our preferences and most of us (women included) would go for option 1 unless option 2 had a killer life insurance plan we could snatch in a few years when she croaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 02:56 AM
3

I agree with it all. Definitely not trying to belittle the term. (Also, it can happen in marriage. Especially with abusive spouses)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 12:22 AM
5

It is, in a sense, "non-consensual." And sure, it's unpleasant. But the similarities end there. Neh, happened to my father. Mother who loved to trip on shit. Specifically us kids' medicine that was supposed to keep us level from some bad ADHD(All three) and BPD(Brother). All while Father was arguably father of the fucking year, still working 12 hours a day. Every week without fail, to provide. While she spent (the family's) money on inane shit (porcelain/glass dolls from JVC, seriously, a few a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 01:06 PM
7

Exactly. I can't think of anything that's a quicker turn off than a nice looking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:48 PM
2

To further it; Not everyone is playing dirty, but a number of them are. So you vet someone who isn't into the scene/keeping a second set of books and hang with them.... Or keep your own second set, and do whatever whoever you want. Personally, the bar/dating/spinning plates scene isn't my thing. Just find someone and fuck em til you get tired of each other or find someone you want to stay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 02:30 PM
5

Pretty much what I came to say. These women aren't all women, but a sizable section of them. If you're not into playing that game, find someone who isn't either, you'll work out better in the long run anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 02:27 PM
1

I suppose, then again everyone in the cath lab here is married and most with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 07:33 PM
10

The thing is though, you can have both. Especially if you're the bread winner, or the both of you earn an exceptionally good amount. (Which most professionals do.) ( ｀ー´)ノ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 09:55 PM
2

A|~~2 times a week, more if either of us wants to. Mostly because we're both professionals, and have a lot of other stuff we do together as well (aside from fucking, which while fun, is no cigar). B|My wife? Honestly a 7 to most people, then again, I like shorter, petite women, so I'd say she's damn near perfect. C|Eh, it's my wife. We're usually really crude/jokey about too. Neither of us are much for romancy shit. Probably a turn off for most guys looking for a "traditional" woman. Then again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 08:28 PM
0

It's only spinning plates if they don't know. Regardless, it's more a state of mind, and knowing certain things that are RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 08:17 PM
11

Do redpillers actually, you know, get laid? Yes, but if you're going to be really honest, just getting laid isn't really difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 01:02 PM
7

I would have to put up with her reduced sex drive and ugly looks. Oddly enough, many women are most active sexually 30+, also, usually more open sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 09:41 AM
1

I've seen some pretty smart kids coming through the tubes working in higher ed. I think you're wrong, and it's just part of the "X generation sucks because Y thing/person/trend is dumb" argument everyone falls into occasionally, which really is all feels and hamstering internally over how another generation is better in your mind. Man up, think logically. We have greater higher ed participation rates than any time in history, our offspring are more educated, more progressive (socially, not in th…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 06:27 PM
1

Define important. Arguably anyone who's reached billionaire status through their own means has created something important enough that the world decided they need enough money so that they will never have to worry about it again.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 06:18 PM
0

Biology isn't an accomplishment, we should stop treating it like one.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 06:16 PM
1

(Personally) I think the appropriate counter for it would be RP without the PUA stuff thrown in. Would also probably draw more people when its just looking at differences and not focusing on getting your dick wet as much as you can at other people's expense. Then again, everyone could use some more compassion, it doesn't make you weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 05:44 AM
1

level of honesty yet If you married someone you can't be honest with, I really fucking hope you have a prenup.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 04:59 PM
0

if she ever truly believes she couldn't do anything to lose you, she will stop working to please you. I never get this. I've been happily married for years, no need to dread or threaten; she's not some plate or something. She pleases me fine, hell, goes out of her way to. Where y'all finding all of these shitty women who just being a fucking manly man to isn't enough, or is it that you aren't naturally manly enough? I mean, I get that this is what most people are before RP, but damn.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 04:58 PM
2

A little too comfortably for my taste. Sounds like you need to take charge and change the lifestyle of the family.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 03:14 PM
1

Honestly, relationships end poorly for most everyone, girls and guys at that age, don't even think about it until you're out of grad school.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 04:18 PM
9

Also stop leaving the garage door open, I have expensive goddamn tools in there son.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 04:06 PM
1

Reads more like 15, but yeah. Legit dumb kid stuff.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:03 PM
2

She is going to feel bad, she is going to want that bad feeling to stop and that is about it. You're in the wrong place if you're caring about how a woman is feeling.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 01:41 PM
7

I respond to her telling me to have a nice life with simply "You lowered my value" and cut contact. And you replied!
/r/askTRP04/04/14 01:30 PM
4

TBP/TRP are both so devoted to preaching how right they are (or wrong the others are) that they discard any good points the other makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 12:59 PM
1

Which is true, it's usually a Hyena/Alpha (same thing) that's attractive, people "want" unicorns until they see one. Then they realize it's just a stupid horse, because it's close, but no cigar. Hyena's on the other hand are fiercely loyal to the pack, and good at killing lions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 12:52 AM
1

True, which are also what one thinks of when one usually thinks of just "a hyena", cool none the less. The males make good pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 12:49 AM
3

Men don't feel, not outwardly. Keep frame, and next her.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 09:04 PM
3

Hyena would actually be one of the best ways to label the top category, if you're going to use biology as a basis for it at least... Then again, it's more about appearances isn't it? (´_ゝ｀)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/14 09:01 PM
2

Conventional attractiveness is objective though (on a case by case basis doesn't really matter if a single person finds someone attractive), and outliers to either side are usually lacking a lot in several areas. It's pretty much why this sub exists. Look at us, we're all vapid idiots who spout biotruths.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:43 PM
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into reluctantly letting you use their genitals to masturbate yourself. The quality of person RP tactics are a clever ruse to are actually quite happy about it I believe, as "HB#" after 6 or so generally has an inverse correlation with the quality of the rest of themselves. Not as a fact, but a general rule-of-thumb, younger attractive people are usually more vapid, and easily fooled by mind tricks and cohered into silly philosophies. Also, something something tingles, plates, frame, oedipus com…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:28 PM
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There's no way a 20 year old doesn't have her phone on her at all times (Unlikely that she DIDN'T see it that night) Bullshit, I leave my shit at home if I'm out, if it's so goddamn important I'll already be there. (As do a few other people in our group)
/r/askTRP01/04/14 08:16 PM
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A selfish strategy can be effective but doesn't help make the world a better place for anyone but the person using it. azactly.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 08:45 PM
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If OP wants his sister to act in a way that's different than her biological nature, then he needs to provide an example of the sort of man he thinks his sister should be into. The problem is, then he can't spin plates. Sister is literally cockblocking him. Otherwise he does give off the "right" impression and she chases after men with high SMV and turnover who spin her right round baby. Right round.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 08:18 PM
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Many men are so incredibly weak willed that baiting them into cheating is as easy as....well.... some shit that's really easy to do. Give them the opportunity and they'll take it, and think they're the clever ones for getting so much pussy. And frankly, if you are "spinning plates" then I'm not sure that's helpful to her finding a long-lasting, healthy relationship. Just teaches her to grow up and be like big bro and his girlfriends. Not sure what people expect.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 07:49 PM
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Next her, spin more plates, clearly she isn't getting tingles anymore.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 07:46 PM
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Don't forget to stare her down while you're putting gravy on your meat.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 07:44 PM
1

That's kinda the point. Just kinda.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 08:37 PM
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Implying that isn't what's happening I mean, feel free to ignore that too though. If all you're interested in is spinning plates it doesn't matter if you break one.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 08:03 PM
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Essentially, stop letting how she feels and acts affect you. If she breaks, next her; plenty of plates in the world.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 07:06 PM
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You're having to fake indifference. If you had more abundance, you wouldn't have to fake it. It's almost like he's hamstering.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 07:03 PM
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The fact that this girl was hitting on you alone is what boosts your value in a situation like this. Indulging the girl's advances does not amplify that. You made the absolute worst of a good situation. You put a serious scar on your gf's fragile female ego and she WILL remember it the next time another guy shows interest in her. Honestly you might just want to call it a wrap with her now, because this is one of those nuclear level fuck-ups that is going to come back to haunt you sooner or later…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 01:08 PM
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Heh
/r/askTRP20/03/14 10:07 PM
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I'd check for any clubs or activities you can join in. Rugby is a good one around here. Make some good friends that way.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 09:57 PM
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However you want to frame it - redpill/bluepill, alpha/beta or whatever, you are not over someone if you are doing stuff like that. It doesn't make you red pill, alpha, beta or blue pill. It just makes you a bitch. Her bitch specifically. Her whiny bitch.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 06:59 PM
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Sounds like you upset her somehow, and then didn't play into her pity party. It was all fun and flirty in the morning, then in the afternoon; silence last lasted for 4/5 days. Anyway, I left her alone and to remain silent in those days while I lived life as usual. I called her and got a bit out of it. That's where you just drop her if you're red pill. Stop caring about people who want emotional responses from you and go hit up another plate.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:46 PM
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-Socrates Just an FYI, not the real person, but a character from a book.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:34 PM
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Generally jumping to full name either is an "Oh you!", or more often a "You just crossed a line dickwad". Rely on tone and physical gestures there. You know, like you would for any other human.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 02:09 PM
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Maybe she just wasn't in the mood. Just chill. Sex isn't the most important thing in the world. Oh look, the one sane, rational reply.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 05:04 PM
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That's just playing russian roulette with your dick in a festering swamp hole of nasty. Really the same could be said for a guy who's dipped in 350 chicks. Especially because most them have likely had a ton of other guys, only makes it worse. Promiscuity on either side is primal, disgusting, and down right not Christian.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:33 PM
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Yeh, don't narcissists have the opposite of low self esteem? I mean, that's kind of the definition, yeah? (holding themselves in such high esteem, and such?)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/14 05:25 AM
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Sounds like a scary metro guy. Skinny jeans are never the correct choice.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 01:46 PM
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Similarly if a guy has been with a really tight girl it's hard to go to someone looser. Gotta disagree, if the girl, when lubed and riding feels like a fucking condom while bareback, there's a problem.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:40 PM
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This would account for my own anecdotal evidence where virgins I've had were never again as tight as the first few times. Takes time, but with enough time it does return to normal. That's assuming you're fine not fucking for half a year or so. Think of it as a logrithmic change over time. The difference is smaller, but it's slowly getting there. Not that too tight is good, unless you deathgrip when you're jerkin' or something.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:36 PM
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You see these girls on porn getting railed by guys with like 11 inch cocks. I'm sorry but if they go back to johnny average at 5 and a half inches neither one of them is gonna feel much of anything. Most porn stars aren't 11 inches. That said, with no traumatic damage vaginas do shrink back in time. Just like they stretch out if you have sex often. Get your beta-ass broscience out of here.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:33 PM
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Now see that's just stupid. Like shorting bacon in the middle of a swine flu epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/14 04:23 PM
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You could make a pretty damn good argument that a women should try to marry a man that has a shorter and less complicated relationship/sexual history. It's quickly becoming that way with the awareness of STIs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/14 03:13 PM
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Financial: There may (or may not) be some minor tax benefits, depending on the relative income disparity of the couple. There is also a huge financial risk for the higher earner. More and more, if you're both working professionals you're seeing women being the more motivated half and the higher earner. I don't expect this trend to change. As women populate the workforce more, we may very well see 60-70% women being the norm, so this might actually start to swing toward the other side. If you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/14 01:50 PM
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All these people having babies, and nobody wants to actually be a parent. That's a cop out though, they want to be, and in these cases just have differing views of what's best. Aside from that, we have more than 5 billion people on this planet, many of which are connected by magical tubes. I think we can afford to have the chase be a bit more difficult than matching guys to girls. If someone's naturally a bit queer it's not a travesty anymore; chances are they'll find someone eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/14 01:50 PM
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in a frat banging randos and the slam pieces Whatever makes you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/14 05:31 PM
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Too much time being paid too much to do too little. Goddamn it rocks having your own office.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 02:18 PM
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Never said you were, just that generally speaking that's how it goes. Should I have a put a Trigger warning on that post or something though? Cause you're acting irrational. Like a woman. Har.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 02:10 PM
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And my GF would say that it's the only way to feel truly happy. And when coupled with red flags that usually signals abuse of some sort. Abuse victims are rather good at rationalizing their position in their own minds (as are the abusers).
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:59 PM
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Is....this real life?
/r/MensRights16/10/13 06:24 PM
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That's all I could think of when they brought up the hat. And I bet it is a fedora.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 02:01 PM
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I think he intended to pay them in feelings and promises.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 02:01 PM
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Sounds like it was less sleazy and more "why the fuck did you come here broke?" Which I have to agree, what kind of dumbass goes to a strip club broke?
/r/MensRights13/12/12 01:57 PM
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To be honest though, most women looking on dating sites like that are desperate for their dream sugar daddy. Most notably ones without a job. (My rule of thumb is that you should expect no more than you have accomplished.)
/r/MensRights14/02/12 12:42 AM
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As a man, I don't touch women unless they have at least an AS/AA and a job paying above minimum wage. Dead serious. Much better that I have a wife now that makes the same amount as I do, and has a BA.
/r/MensRights13/02/12 11:31 PM
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