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1

Its better than "Go away you creep!" atleast.
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:22 PM
1

Yes, waiting would be stupid. Better to try now, maybe not get laid but atleast get some experience. And as you get better at that, you also loose some weight from training, thus you'll be more attractive (in most peoples eyes) so your dates and whatnot will go better, which will boost your confidence in yourself but also your eagerness in getting more fit. Which will further give you better results from dating which will spur you to train even more and also feel even better about yourself.
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:29 PM
1

Yes, clearly the same person.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:32 PM
1

Dont look at the phone when taking pictures. Look in the mirror/at the camera. But yes, you look like in your picture.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:25 PM
1

Don't text longer texts (-ish) than the one you're texting Don't text more often than the one you're texting (i.e. if she took 3min to reply, you take atleast 3min to reply. If she took 20min to reply, you bloody well also take 20min to reply).
/r/seduction30/05/19 03:38 PM
1

You got nothing to loose by going on a date with her. Maybe it'll be completely fantastic. Or it'll just be average or even kinda meh. Just a few hours of your time at the worst case or the beginning of a wonderful life together in the best case.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:33 AM
3

Google '36 questions'
/r/seduction27/12/18 06:25 PM
1

If you can succeed at your worst, you can (much more easily) succeed at your best. If nothing else its practice, and oftentimes (unless you got huge pusfilled blisters all over your face) its not that bad of a dealbreaker, even more so when young since its kinda expected and somewhat standard.
/r/seduction18/10/18 02:44 PM
1

And how many are bots that do that and similar? I.e. How many of them do you meet?
/r/seduction12/10/18 09:18 PM
3

Rule of thumb, dont text longer texts than you receive, dont respond faster than they respond and dont text more messages than they do. And dont text later at the night than they do.
/r/seduction09/10/18 08:28 AM
21

Not true since she agreed to dancing with him three times. Couldve been out of politeness, but could also be that she's an introvert with the exact same thoughts as OP is having.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:30 AM
1

I disagree with the part that its better; i guess it might be better when speaking with someone older that barely communicates via sms or similar but otherwise my example sentence would seem sarcastic without smiley/s. I do however agree with you shouldnt use more than the one you are talking to. I only see one laugh-crying emoji, where id' rather use 😅 which would seem more fitting if you had to use one. Here its not needed though since it would hardly be seen in any other way than OP stating t…
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:27 AM
1

"Haha! Thats so funny. Please do tell me more."; written witout smileys sounds like sarcasm.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:20 AM
1

If you are light skin/blonde/blue or green eyes etc., get something fresh and citrus-y or similar. If you are dark skinned/brown or black hair/brown eyes etc., get something sweet smelling or more musky etc.
/r/seduction17/09/18 08:12 AM
2

If you dont have much to do in town, engage with people in MMOs if you like gaming. A good sollution nowdays to lonelyness and whatnot
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:16 PM
6

Ignore girls for now then. Do stuff that you find funny/enjoyable/make you happy for yourself. Gamibg? Wood working? Art? Playing piano? Hiking? Whatever floats your boat. Study hard and finish school, move to your own place. Eventually you'll find like-minded people that likes the same things you do and there you go; eventually one of those will be an attractive girl. Ignore medias/societys focus on "get a gf/bf or you are a looser"; and oftentimes before you can get a good partner you have to …
/r/seduction19/08/18 11:31 AM
2

Well there is quite a bit different from 18 to 20, and 20 to 22 and 22 to 25, but after that the difference becomes less, i.e. 25-27 is same same, some difference from 25 to 30, little difference from 28 to 33 and not much from 30+ to like 40-45+. Might of course differ from case to case, but roughly somewhere around there Edit: but to answer, if she's interested she'll come to you and you should always be wary with such things at the workplace, so i advice against it and if you have to then let…
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:43 PM
5

One of the good things with older women (although i wouldnt concider 30-ish as 'older', more like 40+) is that you dob't have to; they approsch you and clearly show their intentions. Try going to a bar or the likes with mostly 35-40+++ and you'll see what i mean.
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:34 PM
4

Greek and mediterannian are still oldschool with guy pays for all/works, woman stay home and take care of kids, in some amount or other.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:04 PM
1

Just you wait; eventually the japanese will have made an robot/machine, that combined with VR of some such, that will be indistinguishable from the real thing. Then all hell will break loose when men can get a BJ or whatever whenever they want and the way the want it.
/r/seduction13/07/18 04:51 PM
4

Why do a study for it? Its as easy as the old saying: A key that can open many door is a great key. A door that opens to any keys is a lousy door. As a girl, ignoring standards, just snap your fingers and you can do any and all sexual acts within a few moments. As a guy? Not so much.
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:13 PM
1

Start to go out by yourself/alone, find more friends when you're out, problem solved eventually.
/r/seduction26/06/18 10:11 AM
7

Sure, it's called "Be yourself". You can act as some image of who you'd like to be, but if you won't become that person you're lying to your date and yourself, which will be found out and then thats that. Thats provided you want something longterm. If you want something just for the night then fake it til' you make it.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:53 AM
1

Idno, i had like 60-80% date ratio on the matches i got on tinder if i was interested, although only about 20-30% match ratio on the ones i liked. Still, way faster and easier than irl (if you look at it as an numbergame).
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:46 AM
2

Most hot girls dont have to work on their wits or what have you, so hard to give an honest compliment though.
/r/seduction23/04/18 10:30 PM
1

Here a movie cost 15-30$ to watch it once, no snacks or drink, for one person. :(
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:30 PM
1

Finding them isn't the hard part. Keeping them and/or wanting to keep them is.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:21 AM
2

My wallet is getting fatter, so yes.
/r/seduction02/02/18 06:15 PM
1

You also missed the part that women often take more/longer parental leave (While men sometimes take none at all). If you are away from work for several months/years, of course your salary increase will be less (if at all) some years since well, you haven't improved what so ever. If you just miss out one salary increase (even if you do the exact same work) as another person that did get that increase, you will always be paid less than that person since well, that person did work longer/more at th…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:38 PM
2

The funny thing is that You have to get a persons agreement when mixing up the sex. Want to lick her? She has to say yes first. Want to swap from licking to fucking? She has to say yes again. Suck on her tits? Has to say yes again. It works in the opposite direction too, going from touching -> jerking -> kissing -> sucking your dick all requires you to say yes beforhand. But in the end the law will be useless since it's word against word. Before it was your word vs hers if she had said no or not…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 10:39 AM
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Best thing you could do if you want her back, or dont want her back but want to stay on her "good side" is agreeing with it and just play it cool, "yeah i agree that might be best. So much going on during xmas too. Have a great xmas and ill see you after!" and then not do anything. If she wants to medt up make her work some for it. Never cave in. You have your own life and she's your ex so find someone else. If it was meant to be she'll cone back
/r/seduction04/12/17 11:48 AM
2

Either flirting or wanting to feel young and attractive. And being able (and allowed since you didn't move away/stop her) to arouse young men she succeeded and now feels good about herself.
/r/seduction28/11/17 09:34 PM
2

And even though its great its not even shown here eventhough our (slightly dumber) Norwegian brothers made a good documentary in such a popular field.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 05:01 PM
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"A Friend" would be the best answer, especially over text and then you're busy watching the movie to reply. She'll go nuts.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:30 PM
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My new tinder profile text. For real.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:32 PM
15

So go party with MIT folks? Oughta be the opposite genderratio there i assume.
/r/seduction24/07/17 03:25 PM
1

What i find odd about that is that any girl can get 100 guys in 100 days. Heck even in one week if you count orgies etc. Thats nothing to brag about and nothing special at all. A guy doing that on the otherhand, that takes atleast some dedication and skill (100 women that is, 100 guys would be quite easy (not as easy as for a woman, ofc)).
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 02:35 PM
4

Yet 9 out of 10 women will respond better to "Hey gorgeous" rather than "Hey". Even more so with a smiley indicating shyness or flirtyness response to further set the mood of the conversation
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:47 AM
1

I don't think that point would be that valid. Sure, they'd get pleasureable sex, but women already have tons of different toys to help them out (But sure, a male sex doll would be even better). But most importantly, any woman with any looks can get someone to bed within less than a few hours (minutes if you live in a larger town) as it is right now. Something they'll loose when female sex dolls arrives.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 03:18 PM
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I probably could if i put my mind to it. But someone will be able to do so, and will do so. That was my point. :)
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 03:16 PM
2

There is 0% chance they can stop it. People will make their own in their garages or whatnot. Illegal stuff has always found a way to be purchased/used/consumed.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 05:00 PM
3

Are we going to be fucking robots or are we going to be using Cylon's to objectify "real" women? The real concern is whether men will bother to even interact with women enough to even objectify them after sexbots become available. When they become indistinguisible from the "real" thing, women will no longer have any power whatsoever. THAT is the real fear. I've been saying the same thing for a couple of years. Women will have such a nasty wake-up call when those kinds of robots become avaliable …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:59 PM
2

I actually enjoy meeting new people, the hunt, conversations, a reason to grab a beer etc. Its not only the sex that is enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 03:30 PM
1

Hot damn, butthurt much? You had to type all that just to say "This is my opinion about something and i validate my opinion because i know such and such and your opinion is wrong even though i have no idea who you are or what you know but since your opinion isnt the same as mine you are wrong and i really have to say that with lots of words and be rude about it".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:31 PM
1

-In the U.S., I don't care what state you live in, Tinder it is a DTF app Americans have to learn that not everyone lives in america. Here in Sweden it's not a DTF app and i actually have several friends who have their LTR from Tinder (and the likes) I don't even know what 'pof' is. (so I looked it up) It is advertised as a "Best Dating App for Conversations". I have no desire what so ever to have a female "chat buddy". There are tons of apps and sites, i just mentioned one. Take your pick of an…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:17 PM
1

1million people city, 2nd largest in the country. Europe though, as i've come to learn women in US are quite a bit more difficult to get on dates and/or into bed on a first date and so on?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 07:23 AM
1

Not where i'm from, as well as everyone uses every app for everything (I.e, if you concider tinder for DTF app, some might use it for finding something serious as well. If you concider pof as a serious app, some might use it as a DTF app).
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 07:20 AM
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I'm somewhat above average looking, 180cm tall (which is average), not ripped at all (not fat mind you, just average with a slight beer belly) and i only semi DGAF. I have no problems finding dates via tinder or the likes, but i still think it would even out the odds somewhat. Especially for those that are looking for something serious.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:43 PM
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One easy way to solve it (which is an date-app-idea i've had but CBA to make. Go ahead and steal it, will probably make a fortune). Just think copy+paste of thinder, but besides your pictures+text, you can see a second page on the user; Statistics. There you can see: how many % the specific user swipes right How many times the user writes first The average length of the users first message/response The average length of the users messages as whole Given those numbers on a person (and more import…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:10 PM
1

For example, this one girl I knew for 4 years but never got close to, we had a one night stand. She said she was always attracted to me. She was also moving to another state in a few weeks, and mentioned coming back to visit for my birthday and made references of me visiting her. In her case i would assume she was maybe a bit interested in you and thought that eh, lets give him a try atleast once since i'm moving anyhow to see how he is. And yeah, she didn't find it that amazing and not living i…
/r/seduction01/06/17 12:16 PM
1

I disagree I'm a 7 or 8 out of 10 according to the women I've been with and I match with maybe 1 attractive girl a week I'm roughly the same number as you but i match with 5-20 attractive girls per week (alongside 20-30 "meh" ones). I do agree that most are quite dull though, but the reason for that is obvious (They don't have to be interesting, they got 100 chads waiting in their list anyhow) but just hold out for the ones who actually ARE interesting AND attractive.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:52 AM
1

One thing i often fall back to is when i speak shortly to random folks at pubs or the likes i often bring up various random-but-interesting facts (or unproven but likely/beliveable facts/truths)
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:27 AM
1

I agree and there isn't much that can be done about it. It has to do with religious views (You shall not have sex before marriage), 'slut shaming' among both women and men at all ages/media/society as a whole, men that 'orgasm then fall asleep leaving the girl unsatisfied' and so on. These things are changing slowely, more so in some countries than others; like here in sweden we're not religious at all so thats out of the way, and there has been a strong movement for womens sexuality since the 6…
/r/seduction01/06/17 08:45 AM
1

my first guess is you have terrible irl game. Nah, i just mostly get too drunk, have a hard time to tell if a girl is (seriously) interested in going home with me or not, and i most of the time call it a night and have phoned any FWB to meet up or i'm coming to their place. I rather go out and have fun and get drunk with my friends than trying to get laid; that i can do when i sit on the shitter with tinder in my hand.
/r/seduction31/05/17 03:16 PM
0

Why? Because my number of girls i've gone to date with and had sex with is way bigger than yours? I don't have to nor will i try to prove otherwise. Take my input for what it's worth instead of judging me having lots of sex or not.
/r/seduction31/05/17 03:14 PM
-13

Instead of saying something that is completely useless, type what you concider bullshit wrong instead of just spewing out that waste of air (or computer bandwidth/storage space in this case).
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:44 AM
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If find the opposite true. Also primarily it's a numbers game (talk to the right girl at the right time) at which online massively outnumbers the number of girls you can talk to right now at the same time compared to IRL. I've brought what, 5-6-7-8 girls home from IRL at a nights out or some such (32m), but from online the number is in several hundreds. I guess it's because i'm eloquent which sticks out alot online (with quite good pictures as well) compared to IRL where they want the big hunk c…
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:31 AM
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they deserve the "highest quality guy" out of 500+ applicants Regarldess if they think they deserve the highest quality guy or not; why settle for less when some much higher quality guy is avaliable and will date/have sex with you? We guys would do the same if we knew from experience that by only waiting a mere hours you would likely get someone much more attractive to come to your place.
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:27 AM
1

I normally don't ask for a number, ever, until she is totally invested in me and I can feel that she will hang out if I call her. So i assume you don't ask her for a date via tinder or similar either untill you're really sure she will show up etc.? How long do you usually take before deciding that? Because i mean, many are just on there to pass some time and/or get compliments and so on. So id' feel that is a lot of time wasted. It's just a numbers game anyhow.
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:34 AM
2

An extremely low number has, on tinder and the likes and along the lines of "So hey, wanna grab a beer?". 9/10 of those times it still ended up with me deciding when and where and so on. And thats from someone thats 32 with hundreds upon hundreds of dates through various sites.
/r/seduction26/05/17 12:00 PM
1

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:07 PM
1

Me being nice to you was an anomaly because I thought you had useful information. You should try being nice more often irregardless if someone has something you want or need and see what changes that will make to your life. And for heavens sake go get laid atleat once!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:00 PM
1

Found the angry virgin! xD
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:55 PM
1

Do the women just act slutty or do they actually sleep with tons of guys? That is something someone using the word slutty will have a hard time to find out.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:50 PM
1

Eh, something something early adopters to the whole hippie-green-wave era in the 60ies with "let the body be free" and swim naked, nudity, sunbathe topless and so on. Add to that a (great/good) socialwellfare system and good gender equality early on and so on making women not dependant on a man to survive, so it wouldnt matter as much if they were "loose" regarding who and how many they had sex with etc. Also something about the origin of modern porn or some such added to that.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:43 PM
3

More so that European women seem more open to sex. huh..? European women are western women. So how can you in title say that they seem to be put off by it and in this reply say that european women seem more open to it? xD I'm from Sweden btw, the land of the nude women.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 05:59 PM
1

Why do Western women seem to be so put off by sex? My parents are first generation immigrants So, are the women less put off by sex where your parents are from..? Otherwise you should re-word it as "Why do women seem to be so put off by sex?".
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 05:47 PM
2

I would assume it works by you having your distance at X, and if the girl is within your last known (uploaded) position you will show up in her phone, and she can swipe yes/no. But you haven't swiped yes/no on her yet. Then she moves away 6miles in your case, pushes that information online to the servers, and since she swiped yes on you she's still shown even though she's 6miles (or more) away. Might be a good practice to set distance to max (and perhaps age i guess) when you "log off" tinder (i…
/r/seduction22/05/17 04:50 PM
9

Weeeell having many FWB and/or experience with lots of women makes you know more specifically what you want and like (as well as what you're worth and what you can get). Which ends up with you being more picky for a gf. If thats bad or not is up for debate; no gf but if you decide one she'll be better than what you'd settle with (or think you'd reach for thst settles with you).
/r/seduction13/05/17 12:42 AM
1

As Matt Damon say in We Bought a Zoo, You know, sometimes all you need is 20 seconds of insane courage, just literally 20 seconds of embarrassing bravery, and I promise you something great will come of it.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:06 AM
2

Ask her if she's into incest. But seriously, the best thing you could do is be clear with your intent and if she's not into that say goodbye (unless you want to be stuck in the friendzone/backup-guy-for-when-she-gets-old-and-gives-up-hunting. Although, being friendzoned can be worked with. Start partying with her (AND her friends) and hook up with her friends, show you have sexuality and whatnot infront of her (-ish) towards her friends or at the clubs and at the same time show her that women DO…
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:53 AM
4

Imho thats one of the most common problem one has to approaching, overthinking and planning a conversation in your head and finding the right moment etc. etc. As Shia Labeouf said: JUST DO IT. Dont stand there thinking of what to say, don't stand there scheming how to say it and from what angle to approach and whatnot. Just go go go, before your mind starts thinking and it gets more reluctant and hard. Just go up and say "Hi!". The more you do that, the easier it becomes and you will (hopefully)…
/r/seduction09/04/17 09:53 AM
-5

Its like playing a console game with cheatcodes active xD
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:07 AM
1

Case 1 if she gets sad about it will make her realise her wrongdoing (Which the girl OP posted about clearly doesn't). Case 2, you'll know even more that she was about to cheat or similar Case 3, you get a threesome or similar out of it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:03 PM
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One thing you could do is say "Oh really? Great! I've been thinking about it too! A colleague/ex gf/female friend of mine has told me that she wants to sleep with me (again if ex) and i was hoping to do that but didn't know how to bring it up. So cool, i'll send her a text right away!" and wait for that reaction and follow up with "No stupid, i only wanted you but do you now realise how i felt by you bringing this up? We're done. Bye." or if she return with the same thing "Oh me too, this Chad h…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:13 PM
1

If you suck at interacting with women IRL, you will be equally unsuccessful online. Most of the same habits exhibited by quality IRL men are also necessary online. The advantage is that online you have 9999 more women on different sites to practice your interaction game etc., compared to irl where you perhaps go to a club, pay $20 entry, then anxiously approach 1-2-3-10 girls tops over 5-6-7 hours. Online you can approach 10-20-30+ girls in an hours without them know you've approaced that many (…
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:27 PM
1

I am myself a twig-ish and have plans to someday try what you did, just to see the difference in the attitude from women (and men). I'm not sure how much the difference will be if any, but i'll be darned if i don't try to find out.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:14 PM
4

Your friend couldve been thrown out or worse, as could you if youve done that. So dont go groping girls from behind on the dance floor thats disgusting and creepy
/r/seduction09/02/17 02:36 PM
1

Go out there and talk to women over and over and over. Sign up to every dating site and app and talk to as many as you can duringcthe day. Go out to pubs and clubs during the night. Do that every day for several months and youll become better at it.
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:14 PM
2

So how can I keep this as a one-time, or infrequent thing without it being awkward/me seeming like a dick? Just act normaly as you would if you hadn't slept with eachother via facebook and if/when you meet up at pubs etc., act as if nothing happened and don't push her into feeling she has to go home with you the next time you're out nor get jealous if she goes home with someone else etc.
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:53 PM
2

Really try to articulate the words correctly, even overexaggerating, when talking for yourself infront of the computer (read this text out loud for example) is one way to speak slower (and pronounce better).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 10:25 PM
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Dont go "Hi!" and stretch out your hand to shake hers. Say hi without the hand and after you've talked for a bit you can do "Oh by the way, my name is X, nice to meet you!" then you can stretch out your hand. Less aggressive (and creepy) :)
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:31 PM
6

So get rich, get a $5k woman each day and have a great life without risking shit like marriage. Also, snip them balls!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 11:49 AM
1

Don't worry bro. I'm from Sweden which is more or less the country where people marry at the oldest age in the world etc. When i moved to study at the age of 23 i hadn't been with that many girls sexually and only had 1-2 girlfriends for 3-4 years. Since then (i'm now 32m) i've gone to nearly 1000 dates, had sex with 30-40% of those and don't really feel a rush to get married. As a guy your prime is in your 30ies. 18+ girls want someone older (so you being 26-32 is great), older women (38-40-ish…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:16 PM
1

No, but there is much to be learned from comedians and "fun things people laugh at".
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:59 AM
2

If you 'complain' in any way it would look like your are unsure of your own social ability, i.e. you can't handle her + her friend + her friends date/friend or similar. I'd probably go with "Oh ok cool. Will be fun, looking forward to meeting you and your friends!" or similar.
/r/seduction13/01/17 10:04 AM
0

View lots and lots of standup videos. Watch current tvseries that are popular etc.
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:27 AM
1

Meh, you'll loose it eventually. No point in rushing it or forcing it. Let it happen when it happens.
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:25 AM
4

or a "Oh, should i bring a male friend thats single for her as well then?" and do a double date.
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:06 AM
1

I envy you. I think id have an hard tile to go from coffe to being invited to their place. Or actually i've barely been invited to a girls place (but then again my place is more central and always fuck-able clean-ish). But good on you!
/r/seduction12/01/17 04:47 PM
1

The guy i responsed to didnt say anything about that
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 08:13 PM
7

So... shouldn't she be allowed to do that? Or vice versa, wouldn't he be allowed to do that?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:50 PM
1

Ask for people's Snapchat before anything. Before Facebook, before their number, and reject all other appeals to connection. Snapchat gets you directly into someone's life if done correctly, plus it's still unique enough that people do it just for that. I then and there instantly turn down someone that wants to talk over snap instead of tinder/kik/facebook/texting/whatever. By god i hate snap with a passion and the (frequent) snapusers.
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:34 PM
1

Well one example is how i changed my tinder profile. Before i had along the lines of "hi im this kind of guy i like these things and im good at whatever. yada yada yada" and behind it all it was a form of (although not that severe) "Hi, this is me is there anyone out there who in their hearts feels like i'm worth it for them or feels that i'm good enough. Please date me i'm this single guy and i'm up for anyone who would want to meet me pretty please", i.e. i sold my self short or undervalued my…
/r/seduction09/01/17 01:43 PM
1

Pub, restaurant, library or whereever you find your girls and get a bj machine then, or hookers :p
/r/seduction06/01/17 11:18 AM
1

Well that is true, i wish i was strong enough to do the same even when i was sex-starving with no FWB because i wouldnt feel so shit about myself always begging or being beneath the girls etc., which is my advice. Go home and jerk off, or better yet, throw out the girl that suddenly say naah i dont want to have sex after a night clubbing together and tell her youre going to do that because youre horny and if she doesnt want to help with that then why the hell did she follow you home.
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:27 AM
1

How/what do you mean? :)
/r/seduction05/01/17 04:29 PM
3

I did that as a new years resolution to myself that no, i will not date anyone or someone sub-par just because i want to get laid or she might be good. Nor will i continue a date when it feels meh. A girl has one beer to win me over or atleast keep my interest or i'm out. I've started making them work for me, not the other way around which i've done the last couple of years most of the time. And it's showing quit some positive results on tinder and the likes. I dictate the conversation, she has …
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:24 PM
3

It can be intimidating, annoying, too early/too soon if you haven't escalated to that yet etc. Edit: You don't want to intimidate a girl, you want her to feel secure around you.
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:16 PM
5

Mental high five man. I've just recently (as in, a new years resolution to myself) started doing similar (32m). I just CBA when they do that, in IRL or over tinder or the likes. If you want to play word games or have me beg on my knees to get laid with you? F-that, i have tons of others i can sleep with on a regular basis and i don't have to stand up to your shit. I wish more guys would do like you did, take the worlds women down a notch or two.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:01 PM
-9

When you sit with her, sit at a bar, NEVER across a table. Think about it this way: you are closer to her, you can touch her, and you can go in for the kiss. None of this can you do sitting across from her, which feels confrontational in its own sense. Altough it is a bit too close and perhaps uncomfortable having you that close to her personal space. When she talks, lean in. This is basic body language. It shows that you are engaged. Also shows you're beta, that you're under her and you put her…
/r/seduction05/01/17 12:36 PM
2

Definitely not like that in US I assumed as much hence my comment about "Women expecting the guy to buy the drink/dinner". Exactly the same here. Be a Chad. I'm chading along pretty fine! :D
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:31 PM
2

I'm well aware of that and i rarely buy (unless i personaly want to) and actually i rarely even have to (most of the time is "i'll grab next round" or the likes). But living in sweden id' assume the women here are more "i'm a strong woman, i buy my own beer!" mentality compared to other countries. that might be wrong though. And at clubs there are still gazillion cheap women just standing around the bar waiting for someone to buy them a few drinks so they can go home with chad later on.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:51 PM
3

and the money that comes with going out, treating them to drinks/dinner and whatnot ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:33 AM
0

None at all, althought i raaaarely get/take a girl home from the bar (like.. happened three-six times in 15 years? (compared to like 200-400 over tinder or similar)).
/r/seduction04/01/17 09:08 AM
1

Hold the hug longer than normal, or even extremely long and say something like "This feels so nice.. i like hugging with you" or the likes.
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:57 PM
1

I usually dont follow my own advice and do that, but i think it would be better not to. You (hopefully?) already thanked for a nice evebing and wished your date farewell/goodnight when the date ended
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:21 AM
37

^ what he said. Dont go with "when are you avaliable (where in my schedule should i make room for you)" nor "where would you go to (im going out of my way to olease you because im beneath you)". Tell her date, time and place. Let her ask to change time/date/place. Let her figure out transportation (or ask you for a ride, although preferably you dont want her to be reliant on you for transportation). Dont pay for dinner, split it. Perhaps you can grab the first drink and she the next one etc. Don…
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:09 PM
1

If i'm concidering the girl to be serious material, i.e. someone i definitely would like to have as a girlfriend, i try to not have sex the first date or even second or third. But other than that i always have sex on the first date more or less.
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:23 AM
1

The hard part about that is actually being interested. Like i have a bike loving friend as well, but my goood it's so boring to listen to since i dont give a rats ass about it. Same about other subjects as well. If something is midly interesting then its much easier.
/r/seduction02/12/16 04:47 PM
1

Once you're sitting close to her you can start tracing circles on her bare leg or arm or some other non-offensive body part. You can trace out the letters of her name and ask her if she can tell what you're spelling. When she fails (and she almost always will) then you can grab her hand and trace the letters again in her palm, since it's easier to feel. This gives you an opportunity to jokingly make fun of her. I've always thought teasing was pretty sexy. As long as you're not outright insulting…
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:49 PM
1

Tinder is highly avaliable untill you're 35+ as a guy atleast. And for clubbing, it all depends on what club you're going to. Some cater to older people (i.e. 30+) so id' say you can pretty much go out clubbing untill you're physically unable to :P
/r/seduction30/10/16 06:10 PM
2

Somwhere between 2 and 3, im 31 and was mainly active with getting laid between 23-29 or so.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:26 AM
2

I doubt you can get many lays without abs and without presenting them in a flattering light, i.e. no mirror selfies I have no abs what so ever (actually slightly on the skinny side, but i've turned more normal size the last few years). Have hundreds of lays.. so yeah. Abs isn't everything.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:25 PM
0

It gets boring over time to always lead though.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:11 PM
0

Well every connection you have to another person is a form of relation. Just because they have sex and enjoy each others company doesn't make it a full blown relationship. Just a fwb+ sort of thing.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:11 PM
9

What he said, if you have a date planned don't really bother texting anymore untill you actually do have the date. Unless the date is at minimum 1 week away then you can send one-two texts or so.
/r/seduction16/10/16 05:59 PM
3

Just give it some time, i'm 32 and look 26-ish. win-win ;)
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:10 PM
5

Go for it. 20-ish girls wants older men so you fit that spot. 30-ish women wants a husband so you fit that spot as well. 40-ish+ women wants someone younger so you fit that as well. Go get em tiger.
/r/seduction15/09/16 07:15 AM
1

Sure, but thats one of our great prides (and one (if not the main/only)) reason people are willing to pay 50-70%+ (total) tax as we Swedes do currently. Althought welfare is getting worse and worse every year so the willingness to pay such high taxes are getting lower each year as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 06:33 AM
2

So Sweden kindly asks them to return to Syria and even provides free plane tickets, yet they refuse to go away. We'll ask of them to leave, but since they've gotten permanent allowance to stay in sweden we can't force em. Edit: And since they got that, they are allowed to recieve swedish wellfare if they can't get a job etc. which most of them can't since they can't speak a word in swedish nor english etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:25 PM
1

You were not from there, so you were exotic. Your two white friends were just unlucky or uglier/worse at seduction etc. than you.
/r/seduction19/08/16 12:51 PM
1

Unless the one you're talking to is the hottest person around and singel or wearing the deepest cleaveage. Then stick to that person if she's into it. ;)
/r/seduction19/08/16 12:47 PM
1

Hmm took like 5 years to go from ~20 to 125-200-ish. Then i got kinda bored of it and the other 100 took another 5 years or so
/r/seduction17/08/16 09:35 AM
0

I agree. I'm somewhere at 250-300-ish as a guy and the few times i've said the correct number it hasn't ended well. Usually i say i don't know (because i don't, just a guestimate) and women usually settle with that.
/r/seduction17/08/16 09:09 AM
13

Id' guess it's because you do show interest when they just wanted to shag. Perhaps approach it from "wanna do the FWB thing?" way and escalate from that to fwb+ (spending time watching movies together between sex etc.) and see how that works out?
/r/seduction07/08/16 02:12 PM
1

Yeah i allready got it on my iphone before posting that :)
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 03:37 PM
1

I will try this in the coming weeks or so to just try it out, but i sincerely doubt there will be more than a scarce number of women who'll actually play PokemonGO, especially when they're out at a bar. But might just be my age span (22-32-ish) and country (Sweden) i guess. But hey, here's to prove me wrong! :P
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 09:15 AM
4

She found someone better/more interesting or it got to serious and she was just using tinder/you for some time sink/distraction.
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:44 AM
3

I mean you can't be busy everyday. Even more so, if you're actually interested, you find the time to meet up.
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:19 AM
1

So now I have her number. Now what? Just text her man. Even better, call her.
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:58 PM
3

Can't you like sue them in some way to teach them a lesson (and put it on the book that they're liers incase some other guy gets in the same trouble but hasn't snipped and unsure ect.)?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:44 AM
1

Start taking some photos then, if you go out semi-often take a bunch of photos when you have an ironed shirt on and feel good looking or whatever and then select the best one-two pictures. Apply some filter if it makes the picture better and there you go :)
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:09 AM
2

Haven't you told her you're in a wheelchair? Thats quite rude. If you have? Best of luck!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:40 PM
1

I'd rather off myself than get off in some gears and plastic. If you can't tell the robot apart from a human being, would you still be as repulsed by it? Don't limit yourself with this nonsense, go out and conquer the world. Die trying is better than giving up life. Oh i do, i'm up to somewhere above 300 so it's not that. It's the fact that guys has to do so much more 'work' to get laid or even get a chance of getting laid, whilst a girl just has to snap her fingers, irregardless of her looks, a…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:53 AM
1

That day will indeed come, it's just a matter of time. If it was easily avaliabe you wouldnt have seddit and tinder and whatnot.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 10:26 PM
1

Hmm good points. Some women of course will use a sexrobot in the same way the use a dildo i guess. Definately looking forward to it! :)
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:08 PM
1

Exactly. Then things will finaly be on an even playing field. Will be a wakening for many women im sure. Unless all of mankind decides robota are preferable and reproduction is done in the lab etc. Time will tell :)
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:02 PM
3

Now? Id' say the time when sex robots arrive that we can't distinguish from humans arrive is when it would be the greatest time to be alive as a man (Due to women now realizing men won't buy them drinks in bars to get laid or whatever, since they can get a perfect lay at home with their sexbot).
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:18 PM
1

True, and the girl i want to be with has to be like minded regarding that so i guess id' tell if it was on for real. Not when it comes to a ONS or similar though :p
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:52 PM
1

For example if someone asks how many ive had sex with; no way in hell im telling the honest number to someone id want as a gf.
/r/seduction05/04/16 12:15 PM
1

Nah man don't wait, use the time to get some girls interested in you so that when you do move into the city you can have them over. And hey, they do have a place by themselves in the city don't they? Go there! :)
/r/seduction04/04/16 12:58 PM
1

What? Be honest? Nah, not always. Most of the time, but not always. Definately not always.
/r/seduction04/04/16 12:49 PM
1

Yup, sorry. Fras in swedish, my native tounge. My bad.
/r/seduction01/04/16 11:51 PM
1

Just saying "Good morning, how are you?" is a casual frase and not really meant to lead to any form of communication besides just that, a simple greeting frase. You have to let the girl you talk to know that you are interested in more than just changing polite greeting frases.
/r/seduction01/04/16 03:12 PM
2

he girl I'm currently seeing often complains about me being a bad texter because I don't really text her outside of setting up dates Then you either have to start texting her more often (to please her) or tell that that's not your thing and you text in that way (and risk loosing her). It depends on the girl mostly, i have a few i just text once every week or two for hanging out/sex, others i text daily for kuddling two-three times a week with.
/r/seduction30/03/16 02:41 PM
-13

You practice in kindergarden and your young teens. So get off the computer and get back to school. But when in doubt, try to do what the other one does.
/r/seduction30/03/16 01:09 PM
2

Shouldn't start out with texts if you want anything from her, bad idea. I'd recommend trying to dissociate from that and hang out/talk in real life ASAP. This here. Just ask her if she wants to hangout someday (perferably via talking on the phone, not texting) and besides that just decide when and where and no more texting untill you meet up and hang out.
/r/seduction30/03/16 01:06 PM
1

Go out (preferably to a smaller pub) and just mingle; see what works and doesn't work.
/r/seduction24/03/16 10:34 AM
2

God i hate women sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:11 AM
0

Extremely rarely, like.. 5-10%% of the times i'm out clubbing/at pubs/whatever i have one girl aproach me for more than just "Are these seats (next to you) taken?". Girls don't have to approach because guys eventually will.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 11:39 AM
20

Swedish beta males just appeared overnight. It happened over 40 year period of feminism, left-wing socialism, women having the ability to live in their own with their kids due to wellfare etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:20 PM
1

But in the end the woman is the only one that have the right to decide if she's going to keep the child or not. So men atleast should have the right to legaly abort the child.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:17 PM
2

First its the mothers decision to have the children, if she can't afford it she shouldn't get kids. Secondly, in Sweden the governmwnt pays for everything even if the mom doesnt work, as well as having generous paternelyleave (sp?) so that isnt a problem either. And good childcare etc. When the kids are somewhat older.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:09 PM
1

So in your world, best for the kid is having the man paying childcare to the mother for 18 years? Or the child knowing that "this guy here is your birth father; he doesn't like you and won't say a word to you but he IS your father"?. Bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:05 PM
1

Get a place of your own to which you can take the girl/s.
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:08 PM
-1

id' respond with his own medicine, every time he said something cool about himself id' one-up him every single time, with lies and whatnot (and if he later say "but thats lying" just play it cool with "Ah but they don't know that!") untill he can't take it anymore and then spill the beans that THAT is exactly what he has done all the bloody time towards you.
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:00 PM
1

I've only gotten girls to cheat and talked to their bf before or after the sex. Or well, the other week a girl insisted she gets my facebook in a pub with a glimmer in her eye all the while her boyfriend stood on the other side of her. Sure, why not, here you go and let me grab your ass while you're adding yourself to my facebook and see that winking eye of yours.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:48 PM
1

Getting a girl to cheat on her boyfriend while on the phone at the same time off my bucket list now. Damn, i didn't really have much left on my sex-bucket list. Now i got a new thing i got to write off as well. raises fist damn youuuu!
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:27 PM
1

I usually judge it by looking for a persons fingers, face is hard.
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:11 PM
3

How i do it? Practice practice practice. I go on dates as often as i change underwear. If i don't go on a date i usually end up going out somewhere, to a pub and talk with random people and such. Keep practicing interacting/talking with people in potential date/hook-up environments etc.
/r/seduction31/01/16 09:33 AM
5

Try to have the camera a bit higher up so you have to look up; when you look down you look somewhat more tired than when looking straight or up. Extend your head forward a bit, perhaps angle the head somewhat (like shoving your left/right chinbone towards the camera), done correctly it'll show the lines of your face better and the skin under your chin wont show/look fat etc. Perhaps try a different hairstyle, although it's easy to take care of the one you have it's bland, not good nor bad just, …
/r/seduction31/01/16 09:26 AM
11

So with 44% unemployement rate, your president want to fix it by forcing more people to have more children? Way to solve the problem! ._.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:29 PM
3

Oh so cool. Even cooler that you advice others to break the law and perhaps end up in jail. I just felt it would be good to mention that it is indeed illegal.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:45 AM
-2

You are aware that, atleast in my country, spying/keylogging, even if it's on your own computer, is illegal with jail sentence.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:45 AM
1

31m here. I go for somewhat younger up towards my age, maybe mostly because the ones around my age want to settle down and have a baby right now whilst i want to finish my studies and find the right one before i even concider babies. So for that i need 4-5-6 years or so, which is something a 30-31y woman wouldn't want to wait (most of the cases from what i've learned). I think it's easier today compared to 10y ago, but i guess thats mostly due to experience than anything else.
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:04 PM
2

What i would do: Tell my daughter that that behaviour is not acceptable and as a punishment she will not have a birthday party this year. Period. Edit: Just read your edit. Glad you (and your wife!) thought the same thing. Edit2: If you wanted to go one step further you could (although that would make her impopular with her friends parents) would be to not mention it to her friends, and when they arrive tell them one by one that there will not be a party due to your daughters behaviour. But i gu…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:19 PM
1

Have a few beers and you'll relax. Has worked for as long as mankind has existed ;)
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:58 AM
-1

has been DP'd... at age 16. yep Just to be fair; any sane guy would have loved to be in the same (but opposit) position; two girls at the same time at age 16? That'd be dream come true. So yeah,.. a girl having the same fantasy, is it really that bad? But besides that; always put yourself at priority one. Always have an exit strategy and similar.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:11 AM
1

I just say, oh ok. Take care, and then leave. Provided i was (mainly) interested in having sex with her (and/or a relationship or whatever). Ain't nobody got time to sit around waiting. If i on the other hand just want a good conversation i just reply "So? You're not allowed to speak with other men?"
/r/seduction11/01/16 04:14 PM
2

I disagree strongly. Haven't worked out well for me (besides 2-3 cases) so i never say the number anymore unless i really don't care if she'll stop seeing me or not. But even then i think i prefer not to say it.
/r/seduction11/01/16 12:13 AM
-6

Hmm i think i'm above 300 by now (31m) "Honestly? I don't know." if they push "I don't know. Idno, alot? How many have you slept with? 30? ok, well it's more than 30. But i dont know how many more. I don't count" The few times i've actually told how many, unless it's with a really stable woman/fwb and i can tell she's the same as me (Doesn't care how many. Good sex is good sex whatever) then it has worked out. If the girl is not stable/in the same mindset as me (numbers doesn't matter) it hasn't…
/r/seduction11/01/16 12:11 AM
1

I most of the time would want a chick over at my place if she's doable and i'm horny or whatever. If you manage to go to the chicks place it's even better because she'll feel more at home/secure there
/r/seduction06/01/16 12:59 PM
5

"So hey, what do you say about going to your place...?" if she says whatever-reason-your place? "Ah my brother/friend/roomate is home and we sleep in the same room (livingroom) so can't go there :/"
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:04 PM
4

...what about her place?
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:41 PM
1

Am here, 10+ years of picking up with or without friends. if i'm out with male friends they want in more or less every single time.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:16 PM
1

I wouldn't know, but id' bet if i'm out clubbing and it's going good for me every single time and i'm having fun and getting chicks, my male friends definatly would want to join in on that but perhaps some will not 'dare' asking and instead get envious.
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:51 PM
1

How do I deal with the acceptance of letting go but also continue to work with her? Thats the hard part about hitting on your coworkers.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:56 PM
-5

Ask your friends if they want to join in or if they want you to teach them how to do so? I think they're just envious.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:38 PM
16

Everyone has sex in common id' say?
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:34 PM
15

Might work, might also be cheesy. But yeah.. maybe i should try to work out something like that. Happens oh-so-often that you see a pretty girl but when you're besides her it feels like "too late" and then afterwards you say to yourself that damn she was fine, why didn't i go up etc.
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:17 AM
1

Yeah "what i say" isn't what i wrote, but just wanted to write when i run back to her and say < something > it would feel awkward. But i agree, stating that you are going to get a coffee and telling her to join is better than asking if she wants to have a coffee in general.
/r/seduction30/12/15 11:14 AM
18

The biggest problem i have with daygame is that when i finaly realise (the 2-3 seconds i takes when we walk toward each other on the street) that she is pretty she's already next to me and walking back. I could run back and say "Hey, i found you really beautiful. So, uh.. whats up? where you going to? Wanna grab a coffe?" i feel would be awkward.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:24 AM
2

Make sure that you get the fattest wallet.
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:50 PM
1

Your misstake was leaving. Or well, i don't know where you're from or how the clubs are there. But when i go out lone-wolf style, clubs or pubs, just stay for a few beers. At pubs i always end up talking to random strangers and it's fun. At clubs noone knows you're alone (provided there are more than 10 people at the club).
/r/seduction23/12/15 06:06 PM
-2

The answer is: Big fat wallet.
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:42 PM
5

Nah man. "hey, here is a picture of me in a ugly xmas sweater and full of xmas food. Send one of you!" is fine :)
/r/seduction21/12/15 11:38 PM
1

do it
/r/seduction21/12/15 04:03 PM
7

Unfortenatly "Back to chicago for christmas" is way too short of a time to do it smoothly. I would go about it with hinting about three-/foursome now and then while you hook up, perhaps a few weeks after doing that just offhandedly ask her what she thinks about it or if she'd fancy it or similar. then wait more weeks or even months to take it further. But then again, the "I have another FWB that i also see besides you (or have hooked up with in the past) that is up for a threesome, you intereste…
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:54 AM
1

Can't remember, something i've "always known" and thinking about it, it seems like that would make sense, i think :)
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:39 PM
1

If you're brown eyed/dark haired use a sweeter cologne, if you're blue/green eyed with bright hair use a more fresh/fruity/sporty smell.
/r/seduction19/12/15 12:00 PM
1

Just go out there then. Endure the painful (for you) and awkward moments. Just go to a bar on a friday or saturday by yourself and just sit there and have a few beers. Maybe talk to the bartender, talk to someone sitting next to you. Perhaps try another bar if it's a bar street. Be somewhere with alot of people. When it's getting crowded and people need somewhere to sit and the seats next to you are avaliable people will ask to sit down and start talking. So just do that over and over and over f…
/r/seduction17/12/15 12:23 PM
8

I would advise otherwise. If you have it turned on, they KNOW you've read it and you suddenly stopped replying at ~10pm on a friday evening when you're out at a bar and was going to meet up later. So they more or less KNOW you've gotten some chick to come suck your weiner or whatever. I prefer to have it on off because then i MIGHT'VE gotten someone hooked for the evening or maybe i just haven't read it yet; THAT is mindgames. "Why haven't he replied yet, he always replies fast, or maybe he hasn…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 03:15 PM
1

Either way, remember pregnancy is the riskiest STD. ^ This right here, the only reason i would concider using a condom. I don't anyhow but still, thats just because my faith in the women i sleep with being on the pill or having an abortion IF they'd get pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 09:22 AM
0

Nothing wrong with having guys scheduled back-to-back. Don't you have some backup girls or "Ok this girl is no.1, but if she can't/won't then there is no.2, and of course there is always no. 4 and 5 if all else fails" etc?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 12:48 PM
0

I don't care about STDs (here in Sweden atleast) now and most likely would care even less if i'm middleaged sleeping with young girls. They haven't slept with that many yet so the chances of them catching anything is quite slim. And heck, i sleep around like a major stud and so far nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 12:34 PM
4

Note to self: If i ever become rich enough and single when i'm older and become sugardaddy, make sure i do snip my cord just in case.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:09 PM
3

I try my best to not do it anymore, but sometimes i slip up when the girl seems really great and we're hitting it off, with just ending up with no reply or the usual "Was a great time but i didn't feel that we matched" and a $10-$20-ish lost.
/r/seduction25/11/15 09:32 PM
1

Always look after yourself at first hand, always.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:34 PM
3

does it mean she's not attracted to me or something Precisely that.
/r/seduction21/11/15 11:32 AM
2

"Lion with a small penis must compensate with a mighty roar". So what if your dick is small, make sure that your tounge and fingers are the most divine things in the whole world combined with great posture, fit body, eloquent language, humongous brain that can put anyone to place via thought and speach and so on.
/r/seduction20/11/15 12:26 PM
1

^ This right here.
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:32 PM
2

Your penis wouldn't be happy about getting aroused and then nothing, time and time again, now would it? :)
/r/seduction05/11/15 01:20 PM
1

Yeah thats a risk you take, that they might loose interest and leave as well. Before she does that, do the same before she does it. Start to become more busy with meeting up and after a while say that you don't think this will lead anywhere etc. Always be a step ahead. Worst case it won't lead anywhere, but atleast it is on your terms, not hers, which won't make you feel as bad.
/r/seduction05/11/15 11:56 AM
0

Meh, a lesbian has it much easier than a guy since most girls wont have their automatic guard up as when a guy approaches if there was a girl approaching.
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:05 AM
1

probably have a million different emotions going through her head And thats a good thing! Don't let her know for certain that you want to do here then and there. Let her guess/worry if she thinks she has bad breath, smells weird, if you're not into her, this or that. Some thoughts might be bad, other thoughts might be good. But the important thing is she will think of you. And she'll be overjoyed when you do follow through and don't stop. She'll be testing and trying to see if it was a one time …
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:51 AM
2

Do the same thing, make out and stop when she thinks it's getting good. After a few times she wont be able to handle herself and you're good to go.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:42 AM
1

Yeah, don't get your hopes up. Or atleast try not to. Best of luck!
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:58 PM
1

I agree, it's interesting to see how stuff develop :) Well, you are the backupplan if you leave that hanging. Make some plans (i.e., lets go to place xyz and eat this and that, then we go to that totaly cool place zyx and shake our ass off! Or perhaps we can go to that new yzx place? What do you think?" or something like that. I'm not sure if you should have the "or perhaps.." question in there or not, depends on if you want to sound a bit more like the one who's in charge/decide (=~alpha) or if…
/r/seduction15/10/15 08:59 AM
1

Cool, congrats! Don't wait too long though since it's soon friday/saturday and most people tend to get plans for those days at wednesday/thursday at the latest-ish. So perhaps wednesday evening or thursday? Don't want to be too obvious with the "waiting to reply". Best of luck :)
/r/seduction14/10/15 08:25 AM
1

a last message for a lost cause You said it yourself, if you write that message as a last message you allready lost. Writing that i feel like you are saying "Hey, i have no plans and if you are avaliable and if you want to i will be avaliable" with a hint of defeat. I would write something along the lines of: "Hey, are you busy this friday/saturday? I was thinking we could go out and grab a beer/whatever since it didn't work out the last time?" And don't write "friday/saturday" and "beer/whateve…
/r/seduction13/10/15 01:01 PM
3

She did it out of politeness-ish. First tell you why she didn't reply at first, replying to your comment about the night, politely tells you she's not interested and wish you the best. So yeah, you replying 5 minuts after her texts (which were quite common replies to the situation) with five texts... just.. yeah, sounded needy. And hey i don't blame you. I've done and sometime do the same thing, even worse than that. Doesn't make it more correct if you want a second date or catch the girl tho' :…
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:47 PM
7

...did you send five texts after she said she felt no chemistry? For whatever reason she's not into you (Be it that you dont look like your pictures, you have bad breath, you're one inch too short, you had weird clothes, what have you. Girls minds are f-ed up). If you did indeed send five texts you come off as needy as hell so yeah, that doesn't work in your favor. I've been in tons of situations just like you (like 30-40-50-60+ dates ending like that?) and not a single time has it turned around…
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:37 PM
1

I advise you to wait, atleast untill like wednesday or similar if not waiting completly for her to contact you. You are a busy guy and forgot you had talked about meeting up since you have so many other girls that are interested in you and friends that all want to meet you and hang out and do all these amazing things together! ...thats the image you want to plant into her head by not answering :)
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:23 PM
0

Well said, i agree with it all.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:10 PM
1

Same thing there i'm afraid (I got a few numbers in my phone that are exactly the same). Just let it be. If luck goes your way she'll text you when she's drunk some night and you can meet up. Thats more or less the only things that have happened to me with people that stops answering :P
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:54 PM
0

Never ever be the one waiting for a reply. Ever. And always make the other one wait, if its just 5-10 minutes when you're having more of a chat-like conversation or couple of hours or even a day or two. Hard to live by if you find someone interesting of course, i definatly don't live as i learn..but hey, it's the right thing to do :) In your particular case: See it as a lost cause. IF she replies either dont reply at all or wait a day or so and be short in your reply (but not obivous "i'm upset …
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:43 PM
1

Since i'm from Sweden which is known for having quite a few good looking females, i can say that it's very common to see, what i and many others would call an average guy with a pretty girl. Besides the badboy trash that some girls fall for. I would actually say it's the opposit here; lots of women settle with downgrades. But that might be due to the ageclock ticking and they want to have kids before its too late. But i mean yeah sure, i wouldn't mind if the woman i end up marrying only had 1-4 …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:33 PM
0

The girl of my dreams before i meet her you mean? Well, first of all that's impossible and second thats the thing, she will (more likely than not) sleep with both ugly and supersexy dudes. At the end of the day when i meet her i hope she thinks that i tick more or less all of her boxes, in the same way i think of her.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:14 PM
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I don't have a white knight visor, far from it xD Just that numbers, for me, doesn't matter. What 10 year marriage success rate in your country or globaly is yet again just numbers, or statistics in this case. And you should know as good as anyone that you can prove any point you wish with statistics. Perhaps the 70% that fail marriage after 10 years with 20+ partners have given up and just settled with someone they thought were "good enough". Well that's not me, id' rather be single than settli…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:04 PM
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As i said i don't care how many she has slept with or not. It's who she is and what she wants right now (and in the upcoming future) that interests me.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:43 PM
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Well it's the same for men, or me atleast. Since you've been with many partners you will always think of the girl with that smile, the one with those great tits, the one that gave that awesome bj, the one that made you laugh so often and the one that challenged you intellectually. Thats the biggest downside to having had lots of sexpartners/dates that you know what is out there. The problem is finding one that ticks of most of your boxes and especially one that does that and at the same time fee…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:22 PM
-23

I do because they, like me, they enjoy sex and don't care that much about numbers.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:12 PM
-31

My gender is male but i dont think it matter. Sure, for a girl to sleep with 60+ guys its easy peasy whilst for a average guy to do the same it's harder. Well such is life, deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:06 PM
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So what that she had sex with a lot of guys? I've had sex with a ton of women. Does that make me a worse longterm partner in a serious relationship when i find the right one? I sincerely doubt that. Though i will be more selective since i'm more experienced in sex and i know what i feel is good/great sex, but that is just a good thing i guess. Edit: Wow, got way too much response and reddit-anti-spam filter hits me too hard to reply to you all. I agree with TRP most of the time (and some time it…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:02 PM
1

I agree, take her age and double it if she's one that goes to clubs semi-often and you'd be closer to the truth. And of course sometimes it would be four times her age and a few other times it would be times 1.5 her age.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:44 PM
1

A woman wouldn't lie if she truely knew you didn't care. I have a few that i can bet one of my two balls are telling the truth and meh. It's a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation. If she says "i slept with 23 guys" while you've only slept with 8 girls you'll feel she's easy and/or you'll be jealous for how easy it is as a girl. If she says 4-5-6-ish and you know she likes to go clubbing you can assume she's lying.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:12 AM
1

TL;DR: Never ever tell the number you've slept with or had foreplay with. As a guy or girl.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:09 AM
1

Any option is a good option, if it's when meeting someone at a club, walking by on the street or if you're scared or busy, via tinder or online.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:55 PM
1

Make sure you call her and not text her
/r/seduction25/09/15 04:56 PM
4

Damn, so i'm super hot then? Awesome! :D
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:02 PM
1

Just keep going, eventually you meet the ones (which i refer to as "a keeper") and hopefully she likes you the same way back (but take it slow!). Tho' it does take time. About what, every one in 25-50-something i date is someone i could see a future with, so they're not so common. But then again i'm quite picky.
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:01 AM
2

^ this right here, so true. Women hate eachother and they couldn't be more happy than seeing other women fail with their dates/lovelife/in general so that they themselves are seen as better. Women are nasty that way.
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:29 PM
1

To each his own, i dont loose anything by writing so the article is meh.
/r/seduction16/12/14 11:47 AM
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I think this is wrong. What have you got to loose by sending the email more than a few seconds/minutes? Not much.. maybe maaaaybe she has a hot friend in there as well which you wont have a chance at getting, but the chances are slim anyhow. It feels good to vent sometimes :)
/r/seduction15/12/14 05:55 PM
1

Just chillout, you've texted her so she should read that sooner or later. If you feel like it just send a text when you do have service once or twice, but if you dont get any reply just enjoy your vacation and talk to her when you get back as normal.
/r/seduction04/08/14 05:04 PM
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