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Damn I wish all my gf’s were on the same vibe as us! Thank YOU for writing this! These were the words i have been looking for... “Indifference to energy that doesn’t serve me.” That’s a real mood! Love that we’re there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:17 AM
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Can someone go a little in depth as to what it means to keep your values and standards secret please? What are some examples we can say when asked “what are you looking for in a relationship?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:18 AM
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That’s exactly it. One day you just wake up exhausted and done. A stranger here on reddit actually helped me write the best break up text, sent, blocked him EVERYWHERE... moved on with my life. It felt like a huge weight had been lifted off of me and I could finally breathe! It gets better! Hang in there! Enjoy yourself, do all the things that you wanted to do with him and make them YOURS. Just treat yoself! All that energy you were putting into him, put it into yourself now. It feels great! Yes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:12 PM
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Exactly my story! Good for you on finally leaving but he’ll be back since you’ve believed his lies over and over. Whatever your final decision is, just always remember, THIS IS WHO HE IS... someone who doesn’t follow through on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:17 PM
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I did do it without making it obvious. I just started focusing on doing things with other people and when she saw that I was enjoying myself without her she resented me for a while. Talking to her and telling her “hey I can’t help you because you don’t listen” wouldn’t have helped the situation in my opinion. It would have made her hate me as the emotions she’s going through dealing with men were plain out selfish and she’s not in a right mindset to accept the reality of why I chose to distance …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:51 PM
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I’ve been there. Honestly, the only thing that worked was me distancing myself from her. I had too much going on with ME to be her crutch each time she jumped. If it’s gotten to the point where she is automatically involving her child, her self respect is in the gutter and you can’t save her from anything until she wants to be helped. She whines and whines because she just needs to vent not because she actually wants to change. The moment you want to actually improve your life, you don’t cry and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:03 AM
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Jessica literally said “Barnett is sexy as f...” IN MARK’S face and he let that slide. Aside from Jessica taking off her engagement ring and using him to get Barnett’s attention... (amber actually acted really cool in this scenario by not giving Jessica the time of day) Sounds like Mark needs some FDS himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:51 PM
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I just binged it yesterday. It’s disaster after disaster. I love(hate) Amber because since the beginning she wants to play it as “I’m one of the guys, I’m so cool.” Her and Jessica are my favorite burning trash in the series. Jessica, or Messica, as someone calls her because she’s such a messy drunk, is the worst though as such an “empowered” woman that goes for that is absolutely obsessed with the guy that straight up told her he doesn’t want her, settles for easy, and is now going insane. CANT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:23 PM
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Careful with those old ones. They’ll still use younger looking pictures and probably cut a few years off their real age. I kind of got catfished once. He was still good looking but definitely older than his pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:54 AM
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Previously I would want something to work right away and now I go in with the mindset that it may not work. And it’s ok that if it doesn’t. Some part of me even hopes it doesn’t work at the start so that I know right away instead of finding out later and wasting time. Slow and steady is just better. You need to get to know the real person and that takes time and if they don’t want to take the time then there’s no point in moving forward. I think my biggest struggle is the rose colored glasses bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:52 AM
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I just bought one of her book bundles and read one... trying to spread out the rest because I read the first in one sitting. She’s amazing!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:04 AM
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I was just thinking this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:49 AM
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Rich does not mean HVM... Clubs definitely aren’t swarmed by HVM’s... and them having a “White collar job” with lots of money doesn’t mean anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:40 AM
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I thought I was crazy... there was a man who seemed great and perfect but I felt nothing... I thought to myself “he needs to stop being so clingy and at least make me miss him and want him” which was code for him treating my like crap and only then did I feel that rush, that feeling of “desire”... it’s unhealthy and I know it needs to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:37 AM
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Omg yes! I was scared to speak up with my ex because I didn’t want to trigger an anxiety attack that I had personally witnessed go bad. When the heck was I ever going to speak my mind to him then? Glad THATS over with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:56 AM
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Yep. I lived for the highs with my ex. But I was just always waiting for the “bad” to hit so I was even sad when I was in those highs because I knew they wouldn’t last. Literally I would think “oh it’s getting cloudy and cold outside, he’s gonna go downhill soon.” It truly is a rollercoaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:48 AM
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AMAAAAZING!!! I love how you said “you don’t have to try now” it’s perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:55 AM
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Do you think he jumped through hoops as a means to get to where he needs to be in life? As in, he needs to be “settled down and married/be with someone and have kids by a certain stage in life” type of thing. He has it now, doesn’t matter with who but he got to that place, so he doesn’t feel like he has to do much now since you’re not going anywhere. Men get comfortable too easily especially once they see... that... you’re not going leave them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:25 PM
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Ugh I was/am this person. When he was having a bad day... which was everyday because even traffic or the weather put him in a bad mood... I was walking on egg shells and doing everything to make him smile or to make his day better and not add to his stress. I would bend over backwards to make him happy and be that girl that was his happiness and hoping he would chose me and go back to being the amazing guy I first met. I didn’t realize how much this was draining me because I was never able to ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:16 PM
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I agree with this. There’s some “relationship coach” on YouTube that always repeats the same thing... women’s problem with dating is that they make themselves too available for men. If you’re chasing him then that just adds to it. He needs to want to invest.. if he doesn’t then he’s not that into you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 07:20 AM
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So if date #1 is this enormous hassle what do you think date #2 and so on is going to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:17 PM
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So what’s going to happen if the ex ever has a midlife crisis and decides she does seriously want to be with him?.... I think you know the answer. And I think you know what you NEED to do, but your fear is holding you back. Do you really want to live in fear he might just pick up and go any day when the ex snaps her fingers or when he meets someone that fills the void she left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:03 AM
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mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 06:08 AM
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Read it in two nights!!!! Felt like I was getting slapped in the face with every chapter lol. GREAAAAAT book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 11:05 PM
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Lol is that what it’s called? It would just be hitting the gym and going out with friends, picking up some hobbies like a pottery class or a new skill you’ve always wanted to dabble in. I mostly just do self care: massages, getting my hair and nails done, gym, dinners with friends, movies with friends. Even with the ones that are in relationships, they’re always down for friend time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 05:16 AM
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Ughhh i wish I had read this months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 09:05 PM
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This was the benefit of the doubt I was giving the guy I was seeing when he first started to not be as responsive after the “honeymoon phase” and now I’m at one week+ without even knowing what’s going on with him, after speaking to him about how much that hurts me. Cutting that off soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 08:32 PM
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He just wants something without having to commit. He thinks that dedicating himself to someone will only end in heartache or pain. He obviously has some issues he needs to deal with because when you’re ready to be with someone completely, you go in knowing all the risks... even if it’s knowing that it may not work out. Even marriages sometimes don’t work out after years and years! A relationship only ruins you if you let it. It was just an experience if it just didn’t happen to work out and you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 07:06 PM
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