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You’re right. I hate to admit it but you are haha. It’s a cycle that needs to end, but what step should I take to do so?
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:03 PM
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That’s true I have similar fears. It’s helpful to realize everyone gets rejected, and that story was very interesting. Thank you
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:57 AM
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5’10/11 ish. Pretty secure about my height
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah that’s true. It’s probably a bit more helpful to think of it as a game
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:01 PM
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Thanks man!! This is very helpful, and I can definitely put it to use
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:59 PM
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That’s interesting never thought of it that way. Thanks man
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:09 PM
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Very true. I had a goal coming into this semester to get rejected as much as possible, but it’s hard to put it into action haha
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:05 PM
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Word awesome
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:05 PM
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Thanks man. I’m in pretty good shape, have abs. I go to the gym regularly, just trying to add muscle mass at this point, I’ve always been skinny. But yeah I think that’s great advice. I think another issue is that at bars, it’s so loud so it’s hard to talk to people either way
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:04 PM
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Exactly. No one is worth fighting for their attention. That’s always a losing game
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:15 PM
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Yeah she was definitely trying to get attention. But I’m not about that, not my thing
/r/seduction01/04/21 12:46 PM
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Of course she should be open. But it ruins it when she’s on tinder during a social gathering that we’re both at. Can’t waste my time like that
/r/seduction01/04/21 12:26 PM
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...what?
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah it’s so frustrating. I was into this girl and I know for a fact she was into me. We were at a party, as we had mutual friends. She would be flirty w me but then she’d be on tinder with her other girl friend going through certain guys to message. This was a huge turnoff and made me assume she wasn’t interested. I’m not saying people can’t keep their options open, but when I’ve been told by several of her close friends that I should ask her out, it ruins it
/r/seduction31/03/21 11:44 PM
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Ah well. It’s something to work on I suppose
/r/seduction15/03/21 06:31 AM
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Yeah you’re so right, that’s something I should have done. I really do enjoy physical interaction, but idk I guess it’s a vulnerability issue I have. I struggle to vulnerable and let people see how I’m feeling maybe
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:14 AM
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Lmao honestly I feel the same. Like I’m my own worst enemy when it comes to dating tbh
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:11 AM
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Ik man lmao. You can relate tho? You do this too?
/r/seduction15/03/21 03:29 AM
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I feel like I am trying to flirt, but it comes off as abrasive. I need to compliment more or something to hint that I’m sexually attracted
/r/seduction15/03/21 01:56 AM
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Yeah I’m generally not a very serious person actually, most people I know often don’t know if I’m being serious or not.
/r/seduction15/03/21 01:55 AM
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Thanks for the thoughtful response! Yeah, I try to utilize the push pull very often, but sometimes I’m worried that I push way more than I pull. And I agree, I absolutely hate texting bc I overthink every single little text I get, especially from this girl. It makes me think she’s not interested, or even quite interested based on one text message
/r/seduction15/03/21 01:55 AM
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Give her space
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:06 PM
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Be yourself shamelessly, don’t let things faze you. Live in the moment and just truly have a good time, without being concerned with other things that you can’t control (ex: if she isn’t romantically interested, it’s out of your control!) :)
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:39 PM
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Yeah if you’re not too concerned whether she develops romantic feelings for you or not, just go in having a good time like normal. If you want something out of it, I’d say you could flirt or drop some hints that you’re interested. But don’t be too invested in her or the outcome of the meetup
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:37 PM
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It depends. What are your intentions? Either way, focus on being in the moment and having a good time. Bring positive and fun energy. If you do want something romantic out of this, don’t get your mind set on her. You should go in expecting her to only wanna be friends. However, if you go in with a “give no fuck” attitude, and as a guy who just wants to have a good time, she might realize what she was missing out on. Good luck :)
/r/seduction21/09/20 05:02 AM
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Not all American women are picky lmao
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:56 PM
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pick up hobbies. hang with your friends. i struggle with this too, because being in a relationship is a lot more fun. but having goals and other people in my life fill that void
/r/seduction12/12/19 07:31 AM
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or just move on lol it’s not that big of a deal. you might see her again, who knows. don’t go looking for her or whatever. if you see her again, approach her. if you don’t, not a big deal, on to the next one
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:32 PM
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just be a smart ass about it. no one is actually that interested when they ask “how are you”. it’s just them trying to be formal, as well as start or continue a conversation. you could just say that you’re doing horrible, and just say the most far-out things you can think of. try to make it interesting, because the “how are you” and “what’s up” questions are some of the most boring and uninteresting questions that can be asked
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:08 AM
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i’m definitely not being a pussy, a lot of guys, including you, would struggle telling a girl how they feel in my situation. i think your reply is a bit arrogant and you don’t know the situation enough to make some of those assumptions. however, i do agree that i really haven’t been clear with my intentions. i should’ve done that awhile ago. i likely will get over her, as i feel like this is just a bit of a phase. i learned after my breakup last year to never put a single girl on a pedestal, and…
/r/seduction02/08/19 01:52 PM
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damn that’s actually crazy. great story tho, thanks for sharing
/r/seduction24/03/19 04:37 AM
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damn that’s wild. why did y’all stop dating, if you don’t mind me asking
/r/seduction24/03/19 04:20 AM
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well maybe if you two are teasing each other or flirting, you could sneak it in. i wouldn’t force it. like i wouldn’t randomly ask her. it could work, but it puts her in a tough spot. you could just call her your girlfriend while you’re flirting. maybe say something like, “since you’re my girlfriend..” or “now that you’re my girlfriend..”. act confident about it. she’ll be confused, maybe she’ll ask “so now i’m you’re girlfriend?” girls love when guys tell them what is what. they love decisive g…
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:12 AM
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do it in person. you don’t have to be all serious about it. but make your intentions clear. do it in a joking form if you want to. you don’t have to make a big deal out of it either
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:51 AM
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eh idk. i’ve always used snapchat as a way of communication. i rarely even text. i don’t think the app necessarily has anything to do with the issue. my issue is that i don’t know how to go about starting a conversation with someone i hardly have talked to in person. i know it’s not hard, i’m just looking for advice
/r/seduction05/03/19 05:17 PM
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