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[–]bandsupjay 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t even know, ease up a bit and try not to take life serious
[–]TarvTarv -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m generally not a very serious person actually, most people I know often don’t know if I’m being serious or not.
[–]bandsupjay 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If these things are just coming out of your mouth then it sounds like you’re on autopilot. If not then you gotta work on your game and flirt back
[–]TarvTarv 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I feel like I am trying to flirt, but it comes off as abrasive. I need to compliment more or something to hint that I’m sexually attracted
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yo
Check your messages
[–]BruddaRed 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
People typically want what they can’t have. I’d bet money that girl from last night wanted you even more by displaying that kind of attitude. Think of it as the ol’ push-pull method. You can’t be 100% abrasive all the time, throw some bait out there to show her you might be interested. It’ll get her brain spinnin at 100mph tryna figure out if you’re into her or not which will ultimately keep you on her mind.
Another thing worth adding here. This current generation struggles with social interaction compared to that of past generations. Reason being is that younger people grow up on their phones, computers, games, ect. Rather than going out and interacting with live, human beings in front of them. The only way to get accustomed to genuine human interaction is by going out and learning it.
Thanks for the thoughtful response! Yeah, I try to utilize the push pull very often, but sometimes I’m worried that I push way more than I pull. And I agree, I absolutely hate texting bc I overthink every single little text I get, especially from this girl. It makes me think she’s not interested, or even quite interested based on one text message
[–]shycadelic 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why are we like this?
[–]TarvTarv 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ik man lmao. You can relate tho? You do this too?
[–]shycadelic 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely, and I have no idea why I'm like this. My love life is something else I try not to bother with anymore
[–]TarvTarv 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmao honestly I feel the same. Like I’m my own worst enemy when it comes to dating tbh
[–]shycadelic 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We're the same age too
[–]TarvTarv 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah well. It’s something to work on I suppose
[–]OrphanLostAtTheFall 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why didn't you reciprocate? Kino is a very important aspect of game. You should of hit her with the "look at you, can't keep your hands off me."
Back when I was 17 I had a deep crush on this girl and her on me. She would try to cuddle and I would brush her off, looking back I did some damage to our chances of being together.
Yeah you’re so right, that’s something I should have done. I really do enjoy physical interaction, but idk I guess it’s a vulnerability issue I have. I struggle to vulnerable and let people see how I’m feeling maybe
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