| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why would she text me out of the blue (month or more) after a couple dates, I respond..then she doesn’t reply?That's a great way to put it. Attention is very valuable currency and withholding it makes it that much more valuable. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:27 PM |
| 10 | Why would she text me out of the blue (month or more) after a couple dates, I respond..then she doesn’t reply?Quit responding to her. She's just happy knowing she can get your attention | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Is she shit testing me by restricting me from viewing her Instagram stories?Yeah, good point. It could come across as creepy and controlling. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Is she shit testing me by restricting me from viewing her Instagram stories?She has her story highlights on her page. The story today was just a video of her on an airplane (the view out the window). I just may wait a bit and call her out in a joking way, "Am I not allowed to view your stories 😂?" | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is this a "shit test" over text?That's the same way I was feeling about it. Thanks for the reply. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 08:20 PM |
| -1 | A strategy that I find works for girls who are testing you, ignoring you, etc..Perhaps. But, this specific method works under the right circumstances. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 2 | With no chance of meeting at the moment, how often should you keep in touch?What do you suggest? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | When you mess up over text and the girls stops responding, is it best to simply move on?You're right 100%. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | When you mess up over text and the girls stops responding, is it best to simply move on?I said something too forward without properly thinking beforehand. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text a girl?Less is more for sure when it comes to text. | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 12:34 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about my text conversation with girl? Is she interested?This conversation was after a week. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of my text interaction? Is she interested?25 | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of my text interaction? Is she interested?Well, I thought it would be a good idea to let her know I'd like to meetup and do something with her some day. I don't plan on just keeping it virtual. But, I agree. I think her lack of reply is not a good sign. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text a girl?Good points. I suppose it's typically the guys job to invest initially and if you do it correctly, she will reciprocate. Always good to pull away to gauge her interest and see if she initiates. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text a girl?Investing as in who is putting in more effort for contact and interaction? And yes, definitely quality is better than quantity. Good answer! | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls at the grocery store with this state of the world.I just had a girl give me some good eye contact. But, then I seen other people with face masks on. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text a girl?Great answer! | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How often should you text a girl?Such a good answer! | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to get a girl comfortable over text before asking her out?Well, I just felt I needed to establish more comfortability since we met online. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to get a girl comfortable over text before asking her out?I had her leave me on read after the first invite, but after a week break I reinitiated. Established some more comfortability and am hoping to try again soon. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How often should you text a girl?So, minimize conversation over text. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 11:52 PM |
| 6 | How often should you text a girl?Is it okay to get to know her a bit over text? | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 2 | How often should you text a girl?I'm going to hold off on initiating for a while and see what happens. I had previously invited her to do something and was left on read. I followed up a week later and she talked with interest. I'm just hesitant to ask again. I'm waiting for her to reinitiate to show interest before I try again. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 31 | How often should you text a girl?Yeah, I'm going to hold off on initiating until she reciprocates | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 09:41 PM |
| 50 | How often should you text a girl?I always initiate. I was thinking of just not initiating for a while to see if she will be the one to initiate. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | How often should you text a girl?So, maybe back off a bit and see if she'll reciprocate with initiation? | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.Thank you | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 01:57 AM |
| 0 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.Are you saying you've had girls come back after a month? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.I'm new here, what does ltr and plates mean? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 0 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.You're right. I didn't actually watch the stories. I just happened to come across them. But, you're right it is best to just forget about it. So, you would say once they ignore you once, you just never follow up and move on? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 9 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.If you don't know, you have no reason to care. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 07:13 PM |
| 4 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.Good point ! | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 07:13 PM |
| 7 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.Sounds like you did the right thing for sure. Being ghosted is highly disrespectful | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | A common theme I see among girls who ghost or ignore your texts.You mean, like this happened to you with the roles reversed? How did most of those interactions end up playing out? | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How urgent is my response to this girl's text?We never made any set plans, just the idea was teased around. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on grocery store game?Good advice | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | One Approach Every Day ChallengeGood luck! | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Post hookup hang outBack when I was in college, I had a girl at one of our house parties do something kind of similar. She started out super interested, we flirted, and the chances were looking good. I think she was heading out, so I got her number. She happened to return to the party later and acted completely disinterested. I just ignored her and moved on. The next day she was blowing up my phone apologizing and asking to hang out. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | My female friend tried to “test my loyalty” by seeing if I would get a boner or notIf you just play it off like you don't care, she will come crawling back. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:25 AM |
| 1 | My female friend tried to “test my loyalty” by seeing if I would get a boner or notUhhh... what the hell? | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 14 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedThis has inspired me. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How much does anxiety improve with experience?I take it you've experienced this as well? | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | An interesting interaction I had with a girl, what do you think?For reference, she was a nice, smart girl. She had plans to be a doctor and is going to graduate school. She doesn't drink and doesn't party. I liked that about her, she seemed to have a good head on her shoulders. Maybe too good, enough to potentially manipulate me when I'm vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | An interesting interaction I had with a girl, what do you think?I'm happy I did not advance on her flirtatiously and strictly kept it, "We should hang out sometime." The casual nature of my statement, should of keep me in the clear for now. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | An interesting interaction I had with a girl, what do you think?Dude, you are like a poet. My extremely, tired brain is having a hard time grasping your complex analysis. I was so tired when I was talking to her I could barely think. I appreciate your advice. I will maintain my professionalism and see what happens. I have a feeling she figured that she will likely be seeing me again, as long as she is approved to live at the complex. I think she knows that it's not really over. She already has my number from our interactions regarding the apartments, etc. I … | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | An interesting interaction I had with a girl, what do you think?Something about your analysis made me paranoid. She also mentioned her dad was a police officer. She was saying how he would probably be her co-signer. I've dealt with crazy girls before, I don't need anymore. How do you think I should proceed moving forward? Especially, if she gets approved and decides to move-in. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | An interesting interaction I had with a girl, what do you think?A very interesting analysis here, much appreciated. So, you don't think I did anything wrong in my interactions with her? What did you mean by limited power? Do you mean as in, once she realizes I can't just allow her to live for free and pay her bills for her, she won't be interested anymore? Funny thing is, she did mention that she was a broke college student. She seemed interested in my role as property manager. Though, I kept my role sort of a mystery to her. Do you think it was bad that I e… | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How long to wait with no response over text before moving on?I understand, you make good points. In terms of an introduction, I didn't feel it was necessary because I exchanged my number to her over Tinder as well. So, should I clarify who I am a day after I sent the text? Or assume she's just not interested and move on? | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this flake situation?Yeah, she said she worked from 4pm-12am. I didn't plan on making this date last all day. I wanted it to be an introduction and leave us a way to naturally depart, when she had to leave for work. If it went well, I would have made the second date more serious. She was just a girl from Tinder, so I wasn't too invested. Otherwise, there was not a reason for not planning earlier. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this flake situation?Yeah, I said, "Let's shoot for 2pm, sound good?" To which she replied, " That works for me." | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this flake situation?First time, yes. True about the time. I just figured it's a smaller town, so she probably doesn't have to travel more than 5 minutes for work. But, I think earlier would have been better. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Are my chances with this girl ruined?Should I say something along the lines of, "Excuse the delay,..." then proceed into an opener? | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Went out alone todayTakes balls to do it alone. Nice job! | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!For sure man! | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Dang, that's sort of far. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Stevens Point | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Finally, someone somewhat near me. I'm in Stevens Point. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | My day of attempting to talk to women.Good advice. The thing is I can hold a conversation and talk to women. For me it's just the approach anxiety and being too much of a bitch to begin the interaction. Once upon a time, I used to be really good at talking to girls. However, I've become more introverted and reclusive over the years. So, I'm back to square one like you said. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Where's your location? | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 12:29 AM |
| 14 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Let's try to get this post popular, so more people can see it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Wisconsin here. If any of you are from Wisconsin, send me a reply. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How many of you go to bars and/or day game alone?Do you drink while you're there? How do you start your night once you reach the bars? What's a typical night out at the bars look like for you? How do you work through bars where everyone already knows each other and you're the lone soldier? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if a beautiful girl introduces herself to you and then before you could process anything walks away?Good advice! | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you all behave in public?Out of curiosity, what are your screening questions? | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Is it too late to go out to pick-up girls?Good point. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late to go out to pick-up girls?Do you think that talking to girls when it is dark out is a definite no-no? | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late to go out to pick-up girls?I graduated in May 2017. I don't care too much for the online scene and I have had much better success with cold approaches in the past. I do agree with your advice about the library. Probably not the best place. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 10:13 PM |
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