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LEVEL UP BRO! Tatterhood78/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:57 PM
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LVM LOGICTatterhood78/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:34 AM
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It's almost like they think being in a relationship with us is "gift enough". I was going ho over the guy I was sleeping with but had toxic parents and a psycho ex. If they caught wind of him, they would have added him to the list of things I loved and, therefore, must be destroyed. The boomers would have made up an elaborate stories of his infidelity; they even did it once for a "boyfriend" of mine that didn't exist. My ex would have gone nuclear and accused him of molesting my girls (which he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:47 PM
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This is me. It's been so bad, romance-wise, that when a guy I was only sleeping with (my idea) brought me back homemade gourmet fudge I burst into tears. When he handed it to me, he said "I know you really love chocolate". Just the idea that this guy, who was just in it for the sex, cared more about me than any of the men I'd cleaned up after made me realize just how unloved and used I'd been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:33 AM
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My whole family is like this, but only so they can all "comfort" each other over it (scapegoat here). Like the time my sister's Christmas gift to me was a cartoony light up snowman that she left the tag on (It was 3.97 at Walmart). Two weeks before that we'd had a conversation about how glad I was to decorate the house in a more grown up way now that the girls were older. She saw the pictures, and told me that my colour scheme wasn't bright and Christmas-y enough for her tastes. So I told her th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:24 AM
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I had a creepy co-worker who was full incel. He spent a lot of his day at work looking up 18 year olds on dating sites. He was old, but not as old as he looked. One day, outside on a break, a bunch of junior high school girls walked past and he made a sexual remark. "Omg, look at that one. She was fucking made for me!". It was my daughter and her friends. I told him straight up that they were 13 years old and he was a fucking creep. I went out of my way to avoid him the rest of the time I was th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 07:49 PM
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There are a lot of men here who have never had to grow up or learn to regulate their own emotions. Mama's boys are rampant, as are the hotheads going around angry that the world isn't taking care of them like mom does. Plus, there's a lot of misogyny and men aren't held to the same standards as women. It's like the Land that Feminism Forgot. Chair throwing boy also kept coming up to me on my break to talk at me. One day I went outside to make a phone call and he came up and just started talking.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 03:26 PM
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The place I live in is a little more backward than the average. It's always male-centric, no matter what the male has done. They can count on public opinion to back them up. Throwing chairs here is a valid behavior for "correcting" women who get in their way. And all bad male behavior is due to a woman somehow failing him. Even the murderers get more sympathy than their victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 03:03 PM
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I went full work from home to avoid this bullshit. The number of incompetent men I've had to handhold into fulfilling their duties is astounding to me, especially so since every one of them were given the benefit of the doubt just because "capable man" is the default. I went to work at a new business in town (for a corporation with offices all over the country). I was one of the first hires, and within two weeks of the end of training for our clients I was a junior manager / support and doing so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:23 AM
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In Newfoundland, Canada. There was a huge economic blow in the 90s and all of the men with ambition took off for greener pastures. Some of them, with young families, worked away for a month or two, then flew back for a couple of weeks. We were left with the already settled, the mama's boys, and the unemployable. I've had women come up to ask me to "help out" their virgin sons, I've had legit murderers and sexual offenders come up to me, and I can't count the number of "already settled" that are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:50 PM
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Not here for it. All being nice ever got me was wasted time and more resentment over their insistence that I was actually the one wasting theirs. Pre-pandemic I was approached for sex at least a half dozen times a day. I live in a place where the women outnumber the men so the men get more choice than they would have otherwise. It's made most of them cocky. They literally do not get that not every woman is desperate for dick and that you're doing them a favour by offering to use them as a fleshl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:48 PM
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That's because men feel down on the job when feminism came around. The ones who didn't have anything to offer but cash thought it was going to be a free pass to not have to do anything at all. They didn't adapt, and thought nothing would change except the amount of effort they were supposed to put in (from little to nothing). So now they're out blaming women and feminism for their own lack of foresight and perceived loss of power. Women didn't "take" anything from them, they gave it up through l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:38 PM
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Like you, I came to those realizations early. I've always been a keen observer (survival mechanism) and I saw just how shallow, cookie cutter and misogynistic the world is when I was still little. I vowed that I would never marry a man unless I got as much out of the relationship as he did. After a couple of dodged dingleberries (because in my experience, rejected men never just go away), I resigned myself to being single forever. I don't even have the patience to couch the rejections anymore, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:26 PM
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My cousin faked it for about a year and a half before she filed for divorce. She even pretended to want to have sex with him. She took pics of the evidence of cheating on his phone, to establish a pattern. She copied his business records over the course of a year to keep track of his money. She befriended the women he was cheating/trying to cheat with and ten of them were willing to testify for her if necessary. She took as many free and cheap legal courses as she could. She also had a very full…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:06 PM
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An ex once asked me how I knew something. I told him "basic inductive reasoning" and then told him how I'd figured it out, step by step. He called me Sherlock, Spock and Sheldon the rest of the time we were together. It was weird. Another time I went to the house of a couple I was friends with. One of his friends showed up and it turned out to be a guy I went to high school with. We decided to watch and Evil Dead movie and I said I liked them. He immediately ordered me to "say the words". I didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:40 AM
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I've been calling incels Darwin's Rejects for almost 2 decades now. Darwin wrote about dating; according to his theories the men who aren't getting any are just failures when it comes to the male role. All they have are the unattractive masculine traits, which repels women. Which would be perfectly fine, if they didn't get so fucking angry at women for their own shortcomings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:33 AM
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A guy I know called women gold-diggers just because he couldn't get laid. Women who don't want to chance accidental procreation with men who work part-time at a gas station/live full-time with their mothers are the root of all evil. Apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:20 AM
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This. My ex didn't pay any child support for well over a decade but he sure had a lot of conditions for his "eventual payments". He wanted full access to my bank accounts to see if he approved of what I was spending, he wanted a court order to have me stay home 24/7 to accommodate his "no schedule schedule" (where he'd pick and choose the hours). He wanted joint physical so that he could apply for public housing (and not actually take them), he wanted a court order to prevent me from having any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:52 AM
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Me too. She hated me and turned everything into a competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:53 AM
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In "other ways the world fucks women over" news, the more familiarity you have with narcissism, the easier it is for you to suss it out. So you have to go through the sheer fuckery of dealing with them, to start setting boundaries and REALLY setting them off. I grew up with 2 malignant narc parents, and I could figure out who was "off" by the time I hit double digits in age. The first time I felt it, I was 5, and it saved me from a really dangerous situation. The people I've taken an instant dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:21 AM
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I think it's more than that. Some Narcs get a sense of satisfaction over getting one over on another person (you know... winning). It's also about pushing boundaries and working out just how much you'll take before you react negatively. Once that baseline is established, he'll slowly move it further and further away. He'll work himself up to the big ones with an audience willing to believe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:57 AM
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My ex (the same one who negged me over the pupil/pillow thing) once pinched the skin on my belly and said I needed to lose some weight. At that point, I was 5'11 and 100 pounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:05 AM
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Haha, no. I live in Canada. This was back in the late 90's though. Unless your guy is hitting 50 soon, it looks like we just met two huge morons a generation and an ocean apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:45 AM
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Does he have a brother? Way back when, a guy tried to neg me by saying "You have gorgeous doe eyes, but your pupils are much too big". The only light in the room was from a lamp in the other corner. Apparently, my autonomic nervous system adjusting my pupils in response was a great disappointment to him. The funny part? I thought he said pillows at first (not much better but at least it was under my control) and said "Oh? They're the standard size you'll find in most stores".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:52 PM
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And it's so pervasive to blame women that faux intellectuals like Jordan Petersen have huge followings. He's not smart, he's just another grifter giving low value men excuses to never improve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:53 PM
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"I know what you're getting out of this, but where's the incentive for me? I could walk into * local hookup bar * and walk out with 10 men just like you." Nothing pisses off an LVM like being reminded that he's only the hero of his own story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:51 PM
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It's because it's really condescending, he's telling you that because he thinks you should be "grateful" for his attention. A handful of shit is still a handful of shit, even if the person trying to give it to you thinks that THEIR handful of shit is the best ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:47 PM
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Hahaha, I'm stealing that the next time I have a mini bitch fest with my friends about shitty men. Purple, green, red and brown deserve blue balls too. Money is no substitute for a personality and common decency. I just like to point it out to let them know I see through their feeble attempts to paint every woman as "things" you just have to find the right price for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:12 PM
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No, East Coast. But a lot of the employed married men here do rotational work in AB and contribute to their numbers, so you're pretty close. They like to come back with their oil money every 6 weeks or so and flash it around like it makes them hot shit. Like, literally pull out a wad of cash and expect you to drop your panties. I usually say "Oooooh, I've never seen that many blue bills in one place before" (For those that don't know, the Canadian 5 is blue, and our 1s and 2s are coins. And yes,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:42 PM
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I'm like this woman ( I WILL tell someone straight up why I don't want them if there's any disrespect on approach), and it's backfired because I'm in such a small city. The men here gossip more than any group of grannies I've ever met, so I'm that bitch that "hates men" and "loves to punish them by withholding sex". This province has also been crowned the "cheating capital of Canada" more times than anywhere else, even though we have less than 3% of the population. When I'm approached to be a si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:08 PM
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This is why I'll never understand why people think it's important or "special" to be pretty. It isn't. It's not the magical key to being treated better than other women, not by a long shot. I've had the unfortunate luck to be born with what people keep calling a "great body". Tall, thin, thigh gap, tiny waist, flat belly, bubble butt, etc. And because of the experiences it's brought me, I NEVER feel safe. Not ever. I don't even feel comfortable around other people who aren't in my super close fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:56 AM
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I ran with a guild (using a male character) for 2 years and was their top player. I played dps only so I wouldn't need to use voice chat. I had to "reveal" myself to them after I dc'd right after some loot I needed dropped; I asked them to wait on the roll until I got back in. The next thing I know there's a guy with a broken dick telling me that he wanted me to be his girlfriend, I was being "carried", and a bunch of guys left the guild after a falling out about the "favouritism" toward me just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:28 AM
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"I'm apologizing okay? No matter what I do, you're never happy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:06 PM
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Exactly. And if it spurs them to do some self-reflection and improve, any woman they come in contact with from that point on will be better off than if they hadn't. I'm close friends with an ex-scrote actually (grew up in the "ghetto" part of town, ex-drug dealer, has been incarcerated, he used to be everything your mother told you to run away from). He even LOOKS like he'd fuck you up for a cigarette (6'5, 300 lbs, tatted, and with a wizard level beard). Little old ladies have scurried across t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:04 AM
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That's cool. I just took away a different message than you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:57 PM
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Meh. I'm more of a "it's the destination, not the journey" sort of person. If they learn to treat women better (even if it's for the "wrong" reasons), we'll still get some benefit from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:50 PM
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I'm not taking it personally. I actually think that it's funny that people think 43 is old. It's not like I'll open the curtains tomorrow and turn to dust the minute the light hits me, hahaha. Being old(er) has been a gift to me. I'm still fit, I still have great self-esteem, and I have to deal with absolutely none of the bullshit that comes with learning how to navigate the world as an inexperienced young adult. My mistakes have been made, and I've learned enough from them to have honed my man-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:45 PM
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As someone who is also of the "old age of 43", and knows that most of them will NEVER get to where he is, I just want to point out that none of that means that other men shouldn't listen to him. Especially the younger ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:28 PM
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I say that they're trying to live like Jason Momoa on a Danny DeVito budget. Don't get me wrong, I like Danny DeVito. He seems like a genuinely good person. I just wouldn't want to sleep with him every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:33 PM
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I've used that twice. The first time, I was being harassed by a 400 lb man covered in gravy stains at a club. My friend came up, put her arm around me, and told him to leave her girlfriend alone. A little later, he came up with about 500 in cash and asked if we (me, my friend, this guy and SEVEN of his buddies) could go to a hotel. They wanted us to get it on while they "watched" (uh huh... sure) The second time dude was being a total creep at the bar (I don't think he even blinked as he stared …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:21 PM
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Oh no. The only time they went "dirty" was when he showed up for a court ordered visitation hours early, got us up out of bed, and said that I had 3 minutes or he was leaving. I was afraid they'd see it as being a breach, so I put clean clothes, shoes, and coats on them. He took video of their messy hair/sleep gunk in their eyes and showed it to the judge in court. He was one of those dicks that hated me more than he loved his kids. He would show up, then make an excuse to not take them "because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:58 PM
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True story. I met a man about 10 years ago and dumped him within a week because he told me flat out that he was still in the "prime of his life" and still wanted to sow his wild oats (in his late 30s) 2 weeks ago, he reached out and I rejected him again. A half hour later he came back with "well, what if I took you out on a date?" I asked him (through tears of laughter) why he was asking now. He got offended. "Well, I was thinking in the last couple of months that it would be nice to have a woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:40 AM
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I hate "in the paaaast" so fucking much. The father of my children would do that in court, to paint me as a woman who wouldn't let go of his faults. In court: "I don't think he's a fit father. There's no one incident that would disqualify him, but there are a thousand examples that continue to add up. 3 months ago, my daughter was seriously injured because he balked at my "demand" to use a baby gate at the top of the stairs in his house and she fell down over them. Less than a week ago, he strip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:08 AM
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I was able to access therapy (for the first time in my life) recently. As it turns out, I'm an empath. I don't know if I was born this way, or if society has browbeaten me into it due to my genitalia, but it explains a LOT about my life. It's been filled with takers, and I barely ever got anything back. I mean, I got rid of them the moment I realized that they were never going to be as kind to me as I was to them. But now that I know what the issue is, it will (hopefully) help me to avoid the pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:47 AM
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You know, I wouldn't mind so much that they think that, if they kept it inside their heads. But they won't stop acting like a bunch of methhead baboons when they can't make real women act like sex dolls. It's fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:25 AM
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I've found that men only apply the label "dream girl" to women they barely know. I know this because I've had an alarming number of men describe me that way. They were all gung ho before they'd even spoken to me about sex, and I went from "dream girl" to crazy bitch the moment I showed any sign of a "flaw". There was no room to disappoint him in any way. I was doomed to "fail". (It happened so much, I even started subconsciously bringing up things that get this kind of man hotheaded (like politi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:09 AM
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They're just doing that to shut you up. I've been told that I'm "scarily calm and quiet" when an argument is getting heated. What's actually happened is that I've realized that "this is starting to get ugly", so I'll tell them I'm going to back away for a bit and head out for a quick walk or something to figure out how to express myself. Just time to think. And that walk? It's me "stomping off in a fit" and giving them "the silent treatment" You can't win. There's always a trope or a stereotype …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:08 PM
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This. I got a message in my inbox just today from a man whose post I commented on over a while ago (a reply to a reply to a reply, if I'm not mistaken). I said nothing directly to him. He was upset that I (a stranger on the internet) dare suggest that he had a part to play in his own situation. All about how I had "hurt" him by not blindly believing what he had to say. The rest was a bunch of pumping himself up in an overly dramatic way; he literally has it no worse than any single mother I've k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:56 PM
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This. I was talking to my daughter and her friend about the shit show that is the dating scene in my area and they let me know I'm either demisexual or asexual. I think I'm just so fed up with men's shit that thinking about having sex with them is an instant turnoff. It's really a shame that I'm straight. Number of times I've heard "Want to go out on a date?" 3 Number of times I've heard "I just wants to stick me dick in ya!" every other fucking time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:23 PM
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You don't know the half of it. I've seen him make judges do a triple take, hahahaha. ETA: One of those times a judge asked him how he "knew" I was cheating. He said (and this is on the record) "I wasn't around her vagina for 24 hours a day, to see what she was doing with it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:37 PM
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It's pickmeisha hell here, because the women outnumber the men to the extent that we've got a bunch of Danny DeVito's with shit personalities walking around like they're Jason Momoa. Economically, the place is a dud and all the men with ambition moved away. The leftovers don't get that they're getting attention because of slim pickings instead of some sort of value on their part. Women will get righteously indignant on the scrotes' behalf, because they're dumb enough to think words are greater t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:25 PM
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My ex used to get women to call my number and ask for him in "sexy" voices. I had a lot more fun than he had. If I told them he wasn't available at my number, they'd say things like "Oh, that's not what he told me last night". So I'd make up a different story every time. ​ "Omg, you saw him last night? I can't go into details, but his test results came back and he needs to get in touch with the health department immediately" "Oh, that's where he was? He was supposed to be with his dying grandmot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:29 PM
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Thank you. I've been calling it a low bullshit tolerance haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:57 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:56 PM
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You're welcome. And thank you! It's nice to know that there are good people out there who want the best for others. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:46 PM
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Thank you :) I am in a much better place now, even though he's still stalking me on and off. He's losing whatever "power" he thought he had, and it's getting calmer and calmer. I think having a father-scrote that was so over the top actually turned out to be a "blessing in disguise" (as weird as that sounds). The minute a guy starts reminding me of him, out he goes. I'm sure all that childhood trauma saved me from going through a lot more of it later. If he were more subtle, I wouldn't be here t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:44 PM
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They did a study and 40% of police officers self-reported that they were domestic abusers. If 40% admit to it, it's not such a stretch that the number is much higher than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:15 PM
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*trigger warning* Abuse/Violence ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ When I was 15, my father almost killed me. I called the police, and while I was in the cruiser, the cop called in for an arrest record. It took 20 minutes and the more that came, the more shocked he looked. With the history of violent crime and the VERY visible handprints around my neck, I thought he'd FINALLY be accountable. He went inside to talk to him, then came back out and started telling ME off about all the horrible things I had done that had ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:12 PM
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I like to give just enough details to make people curious and do some digging of their own. Breadcrumbs, and eventually they get exposed. Women will know that there are people out there who can back them up. That's what makes those claims of women coming forward en masse "for attention" so ridiculous. They're coming forward because there's renewed hope that they'll finally be believed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:28 PM
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I've heard "I'd eat a mile of your shit to kiss the ass it came out of" more than a couple of times. Yeah, I've got a great ass, but there's a whole ass mind indirectly connected to it. That's what those men seem to be missing. Just like they "miss" that women feel the same way about being used for sex as they feel about being used for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:16 PM
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My brother in law pulled that one. My sister didn't talk to me for years. "She's just miserable and jealous because she has nobody" ​ The reason I was "trying to break them up"? I knocked him on his ass on a concrete floor just as she walked in. In spite of the fact that I CLEARLY was not in a romantic mood, he claimed I tried to seduce him. Apparently I got violently angry when I tried and he (that wonderful man) turned me down. I even said to my sister "I date athletes and bodybuilders. He is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:46 PM
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It's further proof of just how much privilege they have. That's the worst thing they can thing of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:35 PM
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*gasp* You have no idea how much of a coincidence it is that you replied to me mentioning that song. Let's just say that I've had to hear it an inordinate amount of times after people hear my full name. It's bugged the shit out of me since I was a kid, because I got to know the lyrics very well. She made Jolene sound like a homewrecker temptress, and I'm all "Has anyone ever asked Jolene if she even wants him?" I love Dolly to pieces for what she's done for the world, but ... sigh. My first name…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:23 PM
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You just reminded me of why I can't stand country music. There's a song called "If I Were You" where the ultimate pickmeisha tells her friend to go back to her husband because "he looks at her". The rest was about how good she had it, because single is worse. No it isn't, 90s country singing lady/propaganda tool. There's a whole lot of missing information you don't know, and she doesn't need you trying to brainwash her into staying too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:05 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that. It really sucks when the society you live in pressures you from birth to "take one for the team". Especially when it's clear that the other half is never expected to. I hope you're a much better place now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:54 PM
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This. Not only will they try and make you justify it, they'll automatically default to "There's nothing wrong with the man". And that "the relationship is more important than the two people in them". I've actually had two men say (after I told them it was over), that it couldn't be over because they hadn't agreed to a breakup. WTF dude. I'm a person, not a democracy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:41 PM
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I used to while I was going through it, but not anymore. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy. Now that he's not able to do any more damage, he's been a constant source of entertaining stories. Other than that, I'm apathetic as fuck about him. That might have been what put him over the edge, honestly. He couldn't stand the idea that I might not care about him or what he thought anymore so he tried to force it. An angry reaction is much more satisfying to a narc than "meh".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:21 AM
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They're mad at us because they've dehumanized us to the point where we're just NPCs existing in their world, and we're not acting the way NPCs are supposed to act. The only options we're supposed to have are those that directly benefit the men, so that can continue to live in the fantasy that they're the center of each of their particular universes. So when we don't play the roles, we're just glitching hardware. We're not working as intended. Why can't we just do what we're supposed to do?!?! Ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:28 AM
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I've always expected that a HVM who is interested in you will pay attention to you so that he can use that information to show continued interest. Then you show interest back each time until you both like each other so much that you want to do genital things and relationship things with them. I will tell men up front what I'm looking for and will let them know straight up that I won't accept anything less. Then I leave it up to them. There are no reminders, there's no time spent convincing. If t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:21 PM
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Mine too! I talked to a guy from another country during a work phone call. He was mad he could have spit rocks when he called, so I had to do my best "fair but firm" thing. 10 minutes in he stops and says "You know, you are a VERY VERY polite person" I couldn't resist. "That's not MY fault, sir, I'm Canadian". After an endless train of "they-all-look-alike-at-this-point" men, the descriptions of porn scenarios disguised as pickup lines, twisted interpretations of what constitutes a date, and an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:31 PM
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And they wonder why they can't get laid, lmao. "I'm going to treat you like none of the bad things I do to you matter, because I don't see you as a sentient being who feels things like men (the ACTUAL people) do. You might as well turn that brain off. It's not like I'm gonna need it". Might as well compare us to steaks or cars.... oh.... wait... We should lure them onto an island they can't escape and leave them there. Airdrop them them some booze and guns, and let them take care of the problem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:22 PM
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Apparently, not doing anything a man wants you to do is mean. Saying you won't is selfish. Pushing back makes you bitch. Getting aggressive to get them to stop doing things to you is abusive, etc. They really have made it so that no matter what happens, the woman is wrong unless the man is given priority. ​ Pffft. Fuck the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:54 PM
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It's funny that you bring up clusters and possible family ties alongside co-workers. There's no way I could ever prove it, but I think there might be a strong genetic component too. There's a woman I butted heads with at work, who is just as over the top as my mother, and she was born in the same small place. She was adopted and raised in another country, then came to live here. I'm convinced she's closely related to the family, and that my grandmother or one of her sisters has a secret. They ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:22 AM
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Yep. "I'm trying really hard to work things out with your mother, and she won't let things go. If she would stop being so stubborn and cruel to me, we could all be together. She's the reason we're not a real family". He would literally go on rants to strangers about how evil I was, for actually expecting regular child support based on government guidelines and a set visitation schedule. It was unacceptable, since he didn't have access to my body anymore. If he mentioned my name and they recogniz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:50 AM
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I think there are more than we know about, since I've known about a dozen women like that (saw the behavior personally), including my own mother and grandmother. My mother most likely has borderline personality disorder, given some of her behavior. Having said that, most of these men are lying through their teeth. Women like that don't exist in large enough numbers to make that many men their victims, especially not to that extent. Women don't have that much power as a group, let alone as a tiny…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:23 AM
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Yes. His 5 year old. She was known to be a really bubbly sweet kid who loved to dance and sing. Her favourite song became our anthem for a while after that. They don't know for sure what he did to her, but their best guesses show it was face to face. He doused her in gas and set the house on fire. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/newfoundland-labrador/trent-butt-jury-deliberations-1.5057722 They had to open the Jury Pool to more than 30k people (there are 115k in my city). They did selection at a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:18 PM
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There was a big uproar in my province when a guy murdered his daughter because he "didn't want to give his ex the satisfaction of bringing her to Disney World". He had planned on suicide afterward, and then (of course) changed his mind. The letter he had written was a dozen pages of how shitty his ex was and it was all her fault. All it boiled down to was "she refuses to do what I say!" He had been deemed okay for unsupervised visitation after death threats because "men get mad sometimes and don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:46 PM
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Women are pressured from birth to find, shack up with, marry, sleep with scrotes from a very young age. If there's one around that needs a woman to do something, we're expected to provide it. Little girls are groomed to want "stability and maturity", while being hit with messages that it comes with age. The idea that this "worldly older man will disregard his much bigger pool of options to be with you and that makes you super special" is fucking everywhere. Fairy tales, tween romances, so on and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:01 PM
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Trigger warning: * pretty much all of them * ​ ​ (Former, because I'm older now) "super hot" girl here. This is probably going to be long, so buckle in. I can't speak for the others, but for me it's been hell. 0/10, do not recommend. The perks people always throw out there as reasons why it's better are vastly outweighed by the negatives. I've never felt safe outside of my home, and sometimes I don't feel safe inside of it. My parents were alcoholic partiers (open house, even for the sailors doc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:45 PM
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When I was 17 I stayed with my boyfriend overnight because we were having a barbeque and a few drinks. I had a few too many and fell asleep. Hours later, I woke up in a pose I definitely didn't put myself in and I was stark naked. He was actually taking pictures to send to porn magazines; he was hoping to sell them. I reminded him that it would be considered CP and I'd contact all of them to let them know the hell that would be unleashed if they published them. He was whining that since we were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:26 AM
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It's just preening in front of other men in a desperate attempt at gaining social capital. They get attention and validation from it, and decided it make it the bulk of their personality. Mostly because they don't have much of one otherwise. Lately, it seems like a lot of people (especially the more privileged groups) want in on being "picked on" because they see others getting (much deserved) attention to their plight. And they feel that if they're victims too, then they also get to have attent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:09 PM
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Thanks! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:32 AM
4

Thank you. If you're going to have an attitude problem, you might as well use it for good ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:31 AM
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I've known sooooo many of these morons. Like how do you pop out a baby a decide that he's so perfect just as he is that the world must cater to him with no effort on his part? That everyone must be as grateful as she is that he's blessed everyone with his presence, and must cater to his every whim to thank him? That he's not required to do anything but breathe to gain access to everything he wants from life? You ain't Mary, lady, and he's nobody's Messiah. Go sit the fuck down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:47 PM
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Size 0-2 here. One day at work someone brought me a packet of warm fresh kettle chips so I started to chow down on them. A 65 year old co-worker scrote that looked like a pregnant Sam the America Eagle (from the Muppets) told me I shouldn't eat them because... "I hate when women with bodies like yours ruin it by eating like that". "You mean normally, like other people? While thinking about how I don't give a shit about your opinion?" He looked so sad; he was doing me a favour and here I was, bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:51 AM
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Back in high school I was about 100 pounds (and I'm 5'11). The scrote I was tangled up with at the time had the nerve to pinch the skin on my belly and say "Another 5 pounds and you'll be perfect". WTF dude. So I pinched one of the jowls next to his weak-ass chin and said "Another 15 pounds and you'll be halfway there". Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:42 AM
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The biggest reasons I've been able to come with are: ​ - Control freaks feel a big rush when they make a direct hit, and being thin makes it easier for them to scope out a target. Thin/underweight women have literal "outside evidence" of a possible eating disorder, which comes with self-esteem issues. They think they're "easy pickings". If they don't have an eating disorder, and/or have really healthy self-esteem, they also get a second chance to maybe knock someone they perceive as "conceited" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:39 AM
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This is why I had to stop working in a corporate setting. The constant expectation to "be a team player" with a bunch of useless scrotes, which ultimately meant "do yours and theirs, and be nice about it" drove me to the point I got depressed and anxious. No matter how nicely I stood up for myself, I was always the bad guy. Guy throws a chair at me? I should understand how stressed out he is because his wife just had surgery (breast implants) Guy gets super friendly and then starts slagging me a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:59 AM
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Yup. Things aren't a big deal unless he's the one doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:22 AM
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Men really do love jumping to assumptions about women, and then acting on that instead of reality. They are raised to be the heroes of their own particular story and the rest of us are NPCs that "he" gets to manipulate to get the world to serve them. It's why they're more proud of "gaming the system" than working hard to get the reward. We're things, not autonomous people. Their wants will always come before our needs, because we shouldn't have any/important ones. Being friendly has brought me n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:55 PM
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Your "theory" only holds true if you believe that being masculine means you have to conform to some ideal (that also has very questionable behaviors). Or that your own carefully selected examples are a true representation of what's going on in the world. How is it causing "internalized hate" to hear that antisocial behavior often assigned to men is unacceptable now? And how is this proposed "internalized hate" more important than the countless victims that have to deal with the aftermath of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:10 PM
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It's because they've gotten themselves into that situation, plus feminism. Back when men had ALL the power, they got very comfortable with doing very little when it came to relationships. (Knock a girl up in high school, put a ring on her finger, and you had a maid/sex partner/nanny for life). Wages were living wages, because men respected men enough to make sure to give them a comfortable life. They were patted on the back for simply speaking their minds, given top billing in any room they walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:00 PM
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"What did you do to make him so mad in the first place?" "Come on. You don't want to ruin the poor guy's life over 20 minutes of fun, do you?" " She's just saying those things about him because she wants money/fame" "You need to give him another chance. You know men can't control themselves sometimes, and need a women in their own age groups to teach them how to adult" "He wouldn't have cheated (tried to cheat) if that hussy didn't exist!" "What a homewrecker. That poor guy had a wife and 3 kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:22 PM
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Oh, you mean like vaginas? Because there seems to be a subset of men who believe this. We're not autonomous people with body parts that we get to use as we see fit, we're things to take from. Ask any fucking politician who wants to make it impossible to get an abortion. We're evil connivers, conspiring to make it hard for men to get laid, and "keeping" them from it. This wouldn't be a thing if men didn't see us as "the gatekeepers" to our own fucking bodies. The biggest problem between men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:08 PM
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They don't feel guilty about it at all. What's really going on is that they're putting on a front to save face either way. They want to be "progressive" and "traditional" at the same time so that they can play to any audience and not get any criticism. It also has the added bonus of making them seem like poor confused men who are walking a tightrope over the "unfair expectations" that those "impossible to understand women" have of them. Remember ladies.. the patriarchy thrives on dominance and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:36 PM
37

I've always been "the crazy ex". Apparently all you have to do to be labelled crazy is "not want him anymore". Pffft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:59 PM
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I have a theory that men thrive on projection; it's one of the main ways they "protect" themselves when things don't go their way. They've had everything on their terms for so long, that they can't handle it when they have to play by the same rules everyone else has to live by. When they call us golddiggers, it's because they want to use us. When they accuse us of cheating, it's because they're doing it. When they tell everyone that women are the shallow ones, but can't get it up unless his part…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:21 AM
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As weird as it sounds, I lucked out with having a LVM father that was so over the fucking top that I learned young that he was not the person to look to as an example of how men should be. I read a lot, and he was not like any father I'd ever come across in any of the books I had access to. He was not like any of the fathers of the other girls I knew. I did get messed up in other ways (like financially) but it made me very wary of men and their sexual interest, which saved me from a lot more of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:22 AM
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"If I means I don't have to put up with losers, sign me up!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:58 AM
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Woman is raised to take care of everyone, becomes SAHM to single male child, society pushes her to take care of every need for him (which she does because she has no other identity). Son grows up being protected from bad feelings and consequences, isn't able to function in society (and doesn't want to learn), and blames mom for not making even more things easy for him Gets sexually frustrated, blames mom for not raising him handsome and successful, doesn't want to change because if he's still un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:10 PM
1

No, he wasn't. We don't live in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:54 PM
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I dated a guy way back when and had a pregnancy scare. He took off for two weeks. When he came back I told him that I no longer wanted anything to do with him, because he was a coward that ran away when I needed him. "But think about ME? Don't you know how scary it was for ME?!" "I gave you just as much consideration as you gave me. Now live with it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:43 PM
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I wouldn't give a shit about this, IF they didn't puke their disappointment over their delusions not working out all over the intended woman. Being approached by men puts me into fight or flight mode, because it happens so goddamned often and so few of those encounters work out well (dude takes the no and walks away). Just having one walk up to me makes me anxious, because I know that there's a good chance that I'll have to "fight" (verbally or physically) by the time it's over. But the real "tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:35 PM
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This "technique" is known as sealioning. It's designed to make the target think that they're asking in good faith, but is just a time sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:12 PM
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Yeah, he got roasted pretty badly online. I get that he was a mama's boy, but at some point common sense has to kick in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:34 AM
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He's my best example of scrotal audacity, and hopefully I'll never get a "better" example. When he found my profile on OLD, he sent me a message asking for a "bed date". Like I'd go over with food, feed him, and fuck him. When I asked why I would do that, when there are plenty of men who could actually leave the house for a date, he got upset. Apparently, in addition to being "not nice" I am also a cocktease, a frigid bitch, and will get mine someday. Also, by not letting him use me as a cock sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:33 AM
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Sounds just like a guy I knew from high school. He contacted me about once a year for DECADES, to complain about how his life was going and also checking in to see if I'd lowered my standards enough to include him yet. He was over 800 pounds, bed-bound, on oxygen, unable to work, unable to get to a bathroom (!) and literally had his mother give him a sponge bath once a week, while also abusing her to the point where she was a shell of a human. The last I heard from him was when he went "local vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:32 PM
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I've had scrotes yank out my headphones, grab me as I'm waking by, corner me on foot or in their car, pick me up, sling me over their shoulder, bark random orders, ask her personal questions, invite themselves into my life, make assumptions (and then try to punish me for it). Hell, I've had them stick their dick in my mouth/ climb on/shove themselves inside me while I'm sleeping or inebriated. But I should forget all that and stop protecting myself, because it makes it "harder" for the men who w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:08 PM
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I've always considered where I live (it's pretty remote) to be behind the times and thought that's why women are treated so badly here. I heard all this and more in the 80s and 90s. When widespread affordable internet happened, I learned that this is universal. They're not getting worse or better. They've always been this way and they show no signs of slowing down. They're exceptionally resistant to change, and also exceptionally whiny about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:57 AM
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There's also doorknob "Everyone gets a turn" (hurdy derrrrr). My father used to refer to myself and my sisters as "The split arses". He's gonna have to scout out his own retirement home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:48 AM
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I let them know how amused I am by them. It frustrates the hell out of them that it's not working, and they HATE it, which amuses me even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:03 PM
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Thanks to this post and the replies I've realize what my "problem" is when it comes to dating and relationships (and a lot of other situations too): I'm confident, capable, and I speak up. This had made me the target of LVM and others who want to knock all of that out of me so that they can target me. The older I get, the worse it gets, like they want to double down on a particularly "resistant" one. Hmmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:00 PM
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I wish I still had screenshots of a local pub review from one scrote who got absolutely eviscerated by the entire city. He gave them 0/5 stars because he spent 200 dollars and 3 extra hours more in the pub than he intended to... because the bartender smiled at him and there was some small talk and he was duped into thinking he would have sex with her. He even went to all the trouble of waiting outside by her car for an hour after it closed, in a dark parking lot, for her to come outside. Then sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:05 AM
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A guy asked me out on a date once, then the night before decided that it was better that we just meet up at my place to "watch a movie". He just wanted to be "friends" because he was just out of a long term relationship and wanted to "heal" first. When I laughed and said "Nah. I have plenty of friends" he freaked out at me for sleeping around. It's nice when they show their arse so early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:53 AM
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My ex was weirdly proud of "not believing in pills". He refused to take any at all. He almost ended up in the hospital due to an infection and decided to have the source cut out so that he wouldn't have to take antibiotics. I swear the fucker did it so that he could simultaneously proclaim himself manly AND get the benefit of sympathy when he complained. And boy, did he complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:32 AM
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I often get accused of being "heartless" by men because I'm always the more pragmatic one and I'm not willing to fall all over myself to keep them. There's always some test, and I "fail" by seeing through it. One of my exes even stabbed himself in front of me, because I didn't get jealous and beg him to stay after he pretty much told me that he was involved with another woman. Apparently, I was the "cruel" one for calling an ambulance and leaving him to bleed by himself. I should have known that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:15 AM
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I often wonder at how little empathy they have, especially the ones who claim to hate golddiggers. They do everything possible to protect themselves against being used (sometimes even refusing to go for a 2 dollar coffee first), yet "can't understand" why anyone would have a problem with an entire INDUSTRY that revolves around using women. Imagine how up in arms they would be if women spent millions a year consuming pictures and videos of men getting screwed out of their bank account balances. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:35 AM
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I don't mind it at all, even if these woman could technically get it down themselves by jumping or climbing. It's better to be very slightly inconvenienced than watch someone get hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:29 AM
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This! And sometimes with "legs long enough to wrap around me" added on. Usually said by men with a waist circumference that would make that impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:18 AM
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I was on POF for dating for a short time and 3 days in they implemented a feature where you could auto-block any man who had intimate encounter on their profile. It was so popular with women that the scrotes were unable to even get any messages out. I was an active participant on the forum and the then-owner used to post frequently. His explanation for the change? There were 15 million men looking for no-strings sex and only 1600 female profiles for the same thing. Out of those 1600, he estimate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:40 AM
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I do the same thing when men ask me something and then interrupt a few words in. Or, alternatively, "It looks like you want an audience instead of a conversation. Why don't you go find someone else?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:08 AM
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I get approached for help by women all the time when I'm out doing chores, but it's usually because they do all the shopping and tend to need things from the top shelf (5'11" here). I don't usually get men asking for help... when men approach me it's because they want to "flatter" me by regurgitating the sexual fantasies that pop into their heads when they see me and want me to react by falling over legs spread in gratitude. Ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:38 AM
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Every man I've ever dated has tried to get back in touch. I've been calling them boomarangs for over a decade. They're sexual social climbers. The minute they get an attractive woman interested in them, they feel that a more attractive woman MUST be around the corner. This is especially true when they've been with her for a while and she becomes "boring" or "older". So off they go chasing their dreams. Eventually they hit their standards limit, and have to adjust to get sex at all. Once they end…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:14 AM
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This irks me too. I don't mind a little chub, as long as he's got broad shoulders, but being a dad is not the reason these men are fat. Most of the time it's because they either eat like shit or there's a woman cooking for him and he's eating way too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:35 AM
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You've nailed it. Where I live, women outnumber men so they have a lot more choice than they would anywhere else. And because so many of the HVM have moved away, the ones left behind are the unambitious mama's boys. They're so spoiled that they believe doing anything for you (or at you, or noticing you) means that you've got to fall all over yourself for being "chosen". It's LVM hell here. Even recent immigrants have mentioned it to me. Looks like I'm going to die alone. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:01 AM
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They cannot fathom a world where people exist who don't think like they do. They're the stars of the show, so why wouldn't they expect instant respect (unquestioning admiration, more like) for simply existing? For a few years, I was a constant pain in the ass to LV men on the forums of a certain dating website. I would question them constantly, prove them wrong, mock them openly and they couldn't stand it. Years after I stopped participating because the forums were hidden (and it was just the sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:10 PM
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No.... " 'Cause they don't really listen when I speak, 'Cause I don't know if random guy's a freak, 'Cause when I say no nowThey keep trying anyhow And they "don't understand" no 'til I shriek" Fuck this chick. I've had too much time wasted by guys who see politeness as an invitation to try and talk me out of a rejection and I'm not doing it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:51 AM
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It makes sense to psychopathic control freaks. "If it won't do what I tell it to, I might as well sh00t at it. " ( or punch it, or rape it, or ruin it's reputation, or stalk it, or *insert disordered behavior here* And since they don't have free reign of the sub....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:18 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:55 PM
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I hope those kids noped out of there the minute they got the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:51 PM
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Oh he's out of my hair now. He tried to destroy me, but I won! Thank you for the kind words, btw. I love being part of a sub like this. You guys are so awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:20 AM
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"Hi your honour. I'd like to be treated like I parent half the time, while not actually parenting half the time. Plus keep my money. I think this is a very fair and reasonable plan and totally not the reason why family courts were created in the first place." Sometimes I can't believe that I procreated with such a ridiculous human. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:44 PM
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That's not even the funniest part. We were at court a LOT, because he was so upset about being "trapped" by my baby making parts. Never mind that I tossed him out when I was pregnant. He also wanted it ordered that no males under 16 would be allowed in my home until the girls were 18, that all dates had to be screened and approved by him, that I pay out of pocket for psych screening for all male teachers, coaches and family members, that he get full access to my financials and be able to withhol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:40 PM
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They never think of it as real work until they're the ones who have to do it. Then it's going "above and beyond!". Pffffft. My ex wanted "optional" 50/50, so that he wouldn't have to pay child support but would still be able to not take them most of the time. He wanted me to be court ordered to stay home at all times in case he needed to drop them off to go do something "more important", wanted the option to be up to 36 hours late picking them up, wanted them to attended the school here in the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:34 PM
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If you're taking any medications, check the side effects. Antidepressants (in particular) can make orgasming difficult or impossible. Also, don't focus on the orgasm itself. You might be thinking yourself out of it with "Will I or won't I?" Fantasize about things that excite you instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:00 AM
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Thank you, and I'm sorry about the loser you had to deal with. Here's to not putting up with it anymore! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:14 AM
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My ex did something stupid right after I told him we were over, and ended up on a psych hold. He was held longer than normal, because he kept insisting it was my fault. I drove him to it apparently, by putting myself ahead of him and not wanting to deal with any of it anymore. He had literally made himself a promise on my behalf (that I'd settle down and be a submissive partner) without even consulting me, and then kept trying to punish me for not holding up my end of a bargain that he made up. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:37 PM
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This is exactly right. There was a guy I saw on a TV show once who used to have a business cleaning and repairing sex dolls. He gave it up because he was so sick from all of the "injuries" he saw inflicted on those dolls. There was also a sex doll brothel that was closed because of how they treated the dolls. It was too expensive to repair them. A few years ago, a man from my province was the first to be charged for buying one in a child's size (as child pr0N). His defense changed from "I didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:57 AM
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Yeah, it's pretty bad here. It's a lot worse in places where the unemployment rate is higher * edited from lower *, drug use is higher and the DV rates are actually going up. There was a huge stink in my province because they "wasted" money on a "Respect Her" PSA campaign, because they felt it "blamed men and made them feel bad". Who the fuck do they think is doing the majority of the raping and beating?! . It feels like I'm surrounded by predators and their enablers. https://www.youtube.com/wat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:39 AM
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He was already vomit drunk. She was everything I despise in a man, wrapped up in a woman's body. And actually proud of it. Ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:53 PM
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"I'm so glad you asked! I know this guy with a monster cock and I've been DYING to try it out. No seriously, he's AT LEAST twice as big as you. We're talking as thick as my forearm territory!" "Hey wait.. where are you going?!?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:09 PM
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One of the guys who was "in love" with me tried that shit. " Yeah, I don't know any normal men who want to see the woman they love get banged by another guy. If you're that much of a brosexual get a double ended fleshlight and high five each other over that , you fucking cretin".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:06 PM
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I used to be friends with a woman from work, until I found out that she had screwed a very drunk vomit covered groom in the parking lot of his wedding venue and got pregnant. She actually believed that this automatically made her "hotter" than the bride somehow. And she couldn't believe that the new wife resented her.... or why I stopped exchanging more than pleasantries with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:58 AM
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The sexual harassment started early in my case (way too early) and got so overwhelming that I started to fight back instead of keeping the peace. It's a natural result of having those "opportunities" shoved in my face for way too long, and having super misogynistic parents that piled on instead of being supportive. When it comes to being hit on, I've always been on my own. I guess it sprang from trauma, but worked itself out in the long run. Being a "bitch" is the easiest, fastest way to get the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:36 AM
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I usually hear "bitch" but I'll take badass ;) We're still behind the times somewhat in our province (due to the old average age) when it comes to sexual harassment. The old pervs like to take advantage of the economic realities around here to really push. There were so many daily instances of sexual harassment that they started hinting that I was more trouble than I was worth. So the women there basically kept their heads down and just moved from that shitty job to one slightly less shitty just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:28 AM
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I live in a small city where women constantly have to walk the tightrope or you'll fuck yourself out of a job completely. Bringing a suit against an employer will blacklist you from everything. I managed to find a new, better WFH job and told them to go pound sand instead. I also contacted the CEO (who took a liking to my "confidence" when he came here to set up our location) and neither the head manager or HR manager work there anymore :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:25 AM
6

I got into it online a few times with men like this. "Sure. Violence against woman is a problem, but you forget that men are victims of violence a lot more". "So what you're saying is that men beating the shit out of women is a problem, but not nearly as big of a problem as men beating the shit out of each other? Is this really what you're taking away from this conversation instead of the idea that maybe... just maybe... men should stop beating the shit out of anyone?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:48 AM
17

Oh, me too. I will absolutely go "too far" every single fucking time I hear it because it's happened so often and I can't take it anymore. Just before the plague started, I was actually sent to HR about it. (Keep in mind that this boomer scrote had also come up to me several times to tell me to stop eating... because "he hates when women with bodies like mine get fat" and once literally pushed me away from my own desk to close the tabs I was working on because he "doesn't like too many tabs open…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:44 AM
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His lawyers had a lot of nerve using that "defense" anyway (that being autistic made it impossible to know that it was morally wrong)... especially when he said to the cops in his first interview that: " “It’s, well, wrong in the sense that is immoral". He has denied over and over that he has any other issues but ASD. It's telling that it's the "best" thing the lawyers could use to defend him. He's stated over and over again that he did it because he admired Elliot Roger and wanted that kind of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:05 AM
118

I can't remember exactly where I read this (because it was a few years ago), but there was an article about how the U.S only instituted a school lunch program because kids right out of high school were too physically weak and uneducated to make good soldiers/ support workers for the military (first) and large corporations (second). Instead of expanding that idea to other areas of life, they went after the parents to make the sacrifices instead by making cut after cut to other social programs to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:43 AM
115

I'm a younger GenX and saw this coming when I was a teenager because the boomers made it so hard to live here that most of the young people left 2 decades ago. When it comes to the ruination of society because of late stage capitalism we're way ahead of the curve. They've backed themselves into a corner and still refuse to acknowledge it, lashing out at everyone but their age group. And they'll still continue to use their voting power to elect conservatives, because they hate gay people, women w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:07 AM
120

Exactly. My province is huge (just a little less land area than Texas) and we have 1% of it's population. Back in the day, when people paid enough taxes, there were over 500 towns, (with some having as few as a dozen people), but there was enough money from one industry to go around and then some. In the 90s, that industry collapsed because they took and took until it was all gone, and the bulk of the young people moved away. The average age in my hometown alone is 71, and they have an entire sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:59 AM
1

You're welcome :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:34 PM
44

They're 3 friends who do a podcast called Waving the Red Flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:57 AM
50

It's not. The area in Canada where this happened has been having a surge in drug crimes and morons with Mafia dreams in the last few years. It doesn't help that the local cops don't give a flying fuck about women either. It's also full of old Catholic Boomers that will let men get away with anything as long as they can figure out a way to blame a woman for it. Look up the Doug Snelgrove trial. Even the cops here like to prey on women and always get off because "we weren't there to hear her say n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:16 PM
23

This happened in Canada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:00 PM
6

I'll ask ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:21 AM
21

Me too, haha. Back on one of our first trips to a club some old scrote popped a boner and reached out to grab me by the breast (I was 19). "You put the ow in wow!" She smacked him on the hand and said "And you put the oss in gross. Get the fuck away from her". 20 years later, and we're still friends. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:19 AM
163

You're a reminder that he's not as awesome as he wants to be/wants everyone to think he is and he can't stand it. He hasn't grown out of his egocentric phase (which is a big problem with men). When I was in high school there was a 300 pound guy nicknamed Iceberg who absolutely hated a girl I was good friends with. He was not well liked and everyone loved her. She was telling us a story that made everyone laugh and he came over specifically to tell her that everyone hated her guts and he hoped sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:38 PM
9

A guy I know is a world famous soldier and held a world record in his particular military niche for years. He is literally an expert and runs a training school/ trains top level military forces from around the world. If I see his name posted anywhere it's relevant, there's always a group of out of shape weekend warriors talking about how much better the weapons they prefer (or, well, can afford) are much better than the ones he recommends. And they'd all beat his record themselves if they'd only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:55 AM
57

I was "chatting" with a guy on a dating site once and having a conversation was like pulling teeth. I'd ask a question and get pretty much "Yarp!" or "Narp" in return. So I told him to pick something interesting, and he replied with "I dunno what to talk about. You pick something! What's the first thing that pops into your head?!" "How do you feel about frontal lobotomies?". He told me to that I was weird and fucked off. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:27 PM
7

It's funny you say that, I get told all the time that I should be a comedian. There are people that I know that start laughing the moment they see me. But a middle aged "professional comedian" (ie. older dude who did a couple of sets at a local comedy club) told me once that I'm not funny at all, so of course I immediately gave up my dreams and devoted my life to cultivating a blood feud against all middle aged comedians who get all of their jokes off the internet instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:29 AM
2

Haha, thanks. He just stood there with his mouth hanging open and his eyes wide, like he couldn't believe he'd heard. Full on slack jawed. I left him there and went to the kitchen to stuff my face for a bit so I have no clue what happened after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:17 AM
59

It's an anonymous app where you can confess your secrets to other people. Apparently this scrote is that boring that his deepest, darkest secret is that he lurks on a women-only subreddit. Or he just wanted yet another audience to complain to about how women are terrible creatures who'll metaphorically rip your dick off and eat it in front of you. Guess we'll never know....... ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:03 AM
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Hates women for not risking STIs, pregnancies and violence with men who will only ever see them as a life support system for the body parts they want to play with* Cheers on a man who rented a van just so he could run women over in the street because his dick feels lonely Claims women are the toxic ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:56 AM
56

Yeah, some moron on another sub claimed that toxic masculinity didn't exist and that women have no right to talk about masculinity at all (and something about how I wouldn't like it if he told me how to use a tampon or some shit... I just skimmed for a general idea because it wasn't worth my full attention). Like, I've been a target of that shit for 30 years and *newflash* women raise sons that we care about and don't want them to turn out to be pieces of shit. He said "With your intellect you b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:41 AM
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There was a guy in my friend group that got increasingly angry over a couple of years over not getting the action he thought he should get and I'd make a dig here or there when he went into full misogynist territory. One day he was on a tirade about golddiggers (I'm not sure why that was a problem for him because a few days before he was complaining about no women at all). I lost my patience and said "FFS... just stop dude. You live with your mom and work part time at a gas station. If a woman i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:32 AM
23

*solo standing ovation from a 42 year old woman*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:54 AM
1

Hahahahahahahahahaha......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:21 AM
1

You're the one who decided that they were the sole arbiter of what masculinity is. Looks like you took at a look at my history for ammo too... just how fragile are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:46 AM
1

Whatever you say, "Alpha Male". Hahahahahaha......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:14 AM
4

That's what I do too, with women of all ages. I can get along with anyone until they show themselves as garbage people. The bar is lower for the scrotes though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:38 AM
1

I know you're talking, but all I hear is " Me man... me strong... me go hunt wooly mammoth" drags woman to cave by her hair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:19 PM
30

I've been called a golddigger for focusing more on men who work offshore or drive trucks for a living and they tend to earn more than the average here. It's not the money, it's knowing that they won't be around enough to be a lot of extra work I don't want to do. *shrug*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:12 PM
22

"I don't really know how to interact with other humans or express myself without exhibiting toxic behavior, so you (a stranger) are now bound by social contract to give up what you want so that I don't have to do any self-reflection or make any effort to change in order to get attention". I just rolled my eyes so hard I saw myself back in 3rd grade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:09 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is a subset of masculinity, the descriptor (by definition) should be an indication that it's in a different category. If you're unable to separate the two, it's a you problem. Women give birth to, and do most of the raising of, sons. Do you really think we want them to grow up in a world where masculinity means that they come home caked in blood for liking "girl things", or that their first response to being insulted is to haul out a firearm and shoot? Do you think we want them…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:55 PM
1

Oh really? I've had men who aren't ob/gyns tell me that I was wrong about giving birth.. and I've done it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:28 PM
2

Fuck'em and let 'em kick rocks. It's "tall poppy syndrome" and a lot of people have it. If there's something out of the ordinary about you unhappy people tend to want to bring you down to average. It's worse when the thing that makes you out of the ordinary is visible. The biggest problem with that whole deal is that everyone uses their own idea of the average (based on experience, upbringing, etc) so you're going to get conflicting criticism. The best thing to do is be happy as you can with wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:16 PM
1

It might be a cultural thing (I'm not sure because I've spent my whole life living here) but it's normal to strike up conversations with strangers and chat like buddies within minutes. So the arseholes who live to criticize take advantage of that to spread their unhappiness around. If you interact with 100 people in a day, you've got a good chance of meeting one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:58 PM
2

Sure! :D Hope you're not easily embarrassed ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:55 PM
7

Fuck that dude. What an arrogant, self-centered, delusional creature. I'm sorry that he came along when you were clearly having a hard time. You had enough to deal with. I have this theory that men (in general) are so catered to by society that they don't realize that having something out there they don't like isn't a personal insult. They are the stars of their particular show, and we're the bit players there to support them. So they turn into divas, and start barking orders or criticizing. Don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:55 PM
3

Wait...what? I'm tall and it's happened to me. I narrowly avoided another (dude was 6'7 and 300 pounds) by giving him an uppercut to the nads he wasn't expecting. The cops were more worried about how I might have ruined his chances of being a father than they were about me. And then they got offended when I asked if I could talk to a decent cop who knew how their job instead...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:07 AM
3

Thank you! From now on when they're saying "Bitch!" I'm going to hear this in my head instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:58 AM
6

Ah yes. One of those "rare" men who believes that he's the center of the universe and that anyone who doesn't fawn all over him is defective...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:57 AM
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I'm 5'11 and 135 pounds 6 am at the gym: "If you need a personal trainer to help you lose those last 10-15 pounds, let me know" 12:45 at the coffee shop: "You've got a nice body. If you gained about 10 pounds you'd look fantastic" 5:45 in the parking lot: "You know what you need to do? You need to gain about 40 pounds. Only dogs like bones" 8:00 in the grocery store: " You've got a couple of pretty fattening things in there. You might want to take it easy before you hit overweight". All men I'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:49 AM
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There was an older, pretty vicious pickme woman at work who would constantly criticize and gossip about younger women (including me, who apparently only has a job because I slept with all of the managers). One day she was going on and on about how Halle Berry wasn't all that and "anyone could look like her". Apparently "Then why don't you?" isn't the appropriate response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:37 AM
101

My best friend's FIL honestly believes that he's irresistible to women. The first time I met him I was 32 and he said "I usually don't go over 25, but I'd make an exception for you" (he was in his 60s). I didn't even reply, just gave him the you gotta be kidding me look for a second and walked away. Anytime I saw him after that I'd ignore him. If he was right in front of my face talking to me I'd literally look anywhere but at him, and then call out to someone and go talk to them instead. It was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:37 PM
117

I really, really wish I still had the screenshot but there was a "local viral" post going around a few years ago where a dude left a 1 star review for a local bar because the bartender didn't go home with him. I don't remember the exact wording but it went like this "I stayed at this bar for hours because the bartender kept smiling and joking with me me. I spent way more than I meant to, and then waited for almost an hour by her car in the cold after the bar closed. When she came out, she starte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:12 PM
29

The "funny" (but not really) part of all this is that the entire saying is "A few bad apples spoils the whole bunch". It means that if you see one going bad you need to get rid of it before the rot spreads. If I see a man using this phrase to excuse bad behavior from other men, I automatically assume that he's okay with it and isn't any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:14 PM
30

I read one post where a guy broke up with his pregnant girlfriend because when he announced it to his followers a bunch of men spammed him "stats" showing that 2% of men are raising babies that aren't theirs. And they had planned it. Apparently my new standard should be "a man who'll put as much faith in me as he puts in uninvolved male strangers". ETA male in front of strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:23 AM
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Exactly. What's funny to me is that I'm far from every single definition of the group's members and I suspect most of the women here are too. It's the overabundance of dick spam that comes with having a "nice body" (and the violently pushy sales tactics that come with it) that brought me here. Everything else about me gets pushed to the side, and I don't want to live a life that revolves around having dick constantly waving in my face. My record is 32 incidents of verbal, sexual or physical assa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:45 AM
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It does have an impact on them. It gives women support and encourages them not to settle for less. By doing so, the men who have nothing but less to offer have less chances to coerce women into shitty sex with shitty men. How are they supposed to have a high count to impress their buddies with if we're around to tell their prey that there's better out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:10 AM
27

You're wanting a group of people who historically haven't had to do much to make all their "romantic dreams" come true. They don't want to put in the work because it will also benefit women. So they put even more effort into trying to coerce women to accept less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:04 AM
13

This hits home because the interests I have are shared more with men in my age group than women and those are the friendships I usually fell into. I have a group of female friends that I've known from childhood, or other single moms I've known for more than 10 years, and they're the core but the newer friendships were mostly with males. Long story short, only one of them (the HVM fiance of my best friend that I've also known since we were kids). Every other single one of those fuckers tried to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:26 AM
85

I was raised the same, and I hated every minute of it. I knew that being single was better than having a manchild around from the time I was about 5 or so. My mother barely ever got to sit down and eat with us, but one day she did and was clearly enjoying being able to eat while her food was still hot. The buzzer went off for the dryer, my father cocked an eyebrow and said "The dryer's done", and she jumped up to go fold the clothes. I was in Kindergarten and was all "Fuuuuuuuck that".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:41 AM
15

I've only ever had sex on the first date once, and only because I'd put "one night stand" on my bucket list as an inside joke with some friends who told me I was a goody-two-shoes. He was super good looking and decent during the date but made it clear that he was just out of a breakup and wasn't looking for anything "serious" (as in, no dates just sex) so I figured why not. As it turns out, we're really compatible in bed, so we'll contact each other from time to time for another go. About a year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:08 AM
24

That's why I only ever tried one dating site and started using the account for the forums only after a few days. I usually just copy-pasted "Oh look, another man looking for me to sexually audition for them on the off chance that they'll eventually treat me like a person instead of a living sex doll. Not to mention that I'll have to reveal my location to a stranger, risk STIs and pregnancy, do the laundry the next day and only have an 8% chance of an orgasm, while you'll get 100% of what you wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:50 AM
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I've been called an uncaring bitch because I don't give more of a shit about men's mental health issues than they do. Like the guy all over a story about DV who was pissed about all of the resources for women when there are none for men. I pointed out that these things didn't just appear out of nowhere, and that woman had to fight long and hard for them. If he wanted them, he should get together with like-minded men and create them, because women had enough shit to do. And actually use them, ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:40 AM
13

Me too, honestly. I've been fighting back against their shit for decades. Last guy at work who told me to smile (and doubled down with he wants us to "be happy" when I told him to fuck off) earned himself a "Suck in that gut!" every time I saw him for weeks. When he got upset I said "you told me over and over to rearrange my face to suit you, so now it's my turn. I don't like seeing beer guts on men." He stopped telling women at work to smile. One down, about 4 billion to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:35 AM
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To paraphrase: "I've trained my dick to only work properly when I watch porn and can't finish without it. My girlfriend feels like I think she's not attractive because she doesn't look like the women I CAN get off to. How can I convince her to forget all this so I can keep having access to her body when I need something in real life?". What an idiot. I had an ex that turned me down for sex once and I went back into our room a few minutes later. He was wanking it to a Playboy... featuring a woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:46 AM
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