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| 3 | I’m way too nervous to have sex and be naked with hot girls.I’d highly recommend starting with going no-pants. Maybe pick Monday and show up to school/work with no pants. It really helps to start easy instead of jumping into full-naked right away. | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 06:02 AM |
| 2 | No luck in dating/life/womenGet some hobbies that get you out of the house. Look up some sports league that your city offers like volleyball, soccer or basketball. Even if you don’t know anyone, you can usually register as a free agent and they will help you find a team. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 02:22 PM |
| 6 | My anxiety over being a virgin is affecting my interactions with women, my friendships, and my grades.You're putting way too much importance over something that is completely trivial. You obviously need to work on your confidence and self-esteem. You aren't any better or superior than "fatter guys and international students." That kind of mentality ends up making you envious, entitled and resentful when you compare yourself to other people. If anything, these guys are doing something right that you aren't like letting their personalities shine. Girls and anyone in general want to be around easy-… | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 03:10 AM |
| 6 | My anxiety over being a virgin is affecting my interactions with women, my friendships, and my grades.Desperation. Girls can smell it from a mile away | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 01:20 AM |
| 2 | First things to say to a girl you dont know at all"You smell like old socks. I like it" | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 07:46 PM |
| 2 | 30 yo Asian doctor can't get dates to save his life, advice requested!Yep I second this. OP seems like a nice guy but potentially a little bit in your face with his status ie. being a physician or making a good living. Something to think about? | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 11:45 PM |
| 9 | Now that I'm finally realizing online dating is a waste of time for black men, I'm ready to approach random women but think I'm somehow in the wrong....Amen. Case dismissed | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 2 | I'm 25 and I've never had a girlfriend, despite graduating college and I get depressed about how much I missed out on. Is there still hope for someone like me?Hate to break it to you but just from your post, I can tell you have low self-esteem and low self-confidence. It's one thing to be hesitant or a little shy around girls but it's another to not like yourself. If you don't even like yourself, how can you expect other people to like you? I'm not sure what graduating college has to do with being in a relationship, it certainly doesn't entitle you to anything. All the fancy workouts, haircuts and clothes in the world aren't going to do much for you. … | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Does Instagram affect your game positive/negatively?Civilization is irreversibly doomed | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why no women are attracted to me ?What are your hobbies? What do you do for fun? Are you a generally happy person and positive person? Tough to say much without more details but your first priority should be to expand your social circle. | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.You got major work to do. It seems like you've had a really sheltered life, which is cool but kind of gets in the way in terms of personal development. I don't know what your life situation is but hopefully you have a career (or working towards that) and hit the gym. That's a bare minimum for a start. On top of that, stop being a wuss and doing everything that your parents tell you to do. You're a grown ass adult and need to find your own way. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | First Date - Winter, Nighttime. Thoughts?Reschedule date to more workable hour, problem solved. | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl really friendly at first, now she rarely initiates conversation?You moved too slowly. Attraction fades quickly. | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 08:05 AM |
| 2 | What to do when a random douche disrespects the girl you're with?Honestly, that was about the worst possible thing you could have done. It straight up shows that you won't stand up for yourself and can't take care of your girl. That was a very submissive move in essence. If you don't want to be confrontational, at least get your friend away and make sure she's ok. Humor her and talk about how of a dipshit the guy was. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 08:07 PM |
| 3 | What do you do after an f-close?You're still playing the field. She's still just another option. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice, don't know what to do hereYou're the man. You initiate and lead. That's not being needy, that's being a man. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 08:01 PM |
| 8 | How many of you have no friends?Not only that but you must be willing to put yourself out there. For example rock climbing is a pretty social hobby but if you're sitting in a corner trying to avoid people then you're just never going to make new friends | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Girl asked me for a drink, we meet up, and her boy friend is there with her?You haven't made your intentions clear. She friend zoned you or is in the process of. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:32 AM |
| 6 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.The pleasant smell of a flagrance comes from its essential oils. As you go down the scale, the concentration of these essential oils is diluted for convenience and different price entry point You might only need a very small dab of perfume while you might need to apply cologne more liberally (because it doesn't nearly last as long). There is also some slight variations of scent between a good perfume and its derived cologne. A good perfume will have more layers and smell subtly different as the … | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 19 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.Perfume is more concentrated than toilette Perfume > eau de perfume > eau de toilette > eau de cologne | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm way too shy. Need help.Seems to me you've answered yourself. You say you've been the quiet kid for the past 4 years and have little to no friends. You probably spend a lot of time in your own head. Work on yourself, become a more interesting person and your confidence and life will grow out of that. If you don't already work out, it's a great time to start hitting the gym. As for the girl, don't straight up tell her you like her. Find out what she's into then have a little conversation with her about it before asking … | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:29 AM |
| 7 | I'm a piece of shit, just turned 26 and still a virgin. I need some fucking help.You make it sound like it's easy but maybe it's not for OP. Add the fact that he is a fucking piece of shit, it might actually be a big hurdle for him to get over his social anxiety, more than just saying to himself, "I don't give a shit" | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 04:44 AM |
| 2 | How to be alpha when walking up stairs?Make sure to defecate on the stairs daily to mark your territory | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I am in my mid twenties, and boring as fuck. How do I fix this?Cut down big time on the tv and video games. Nothing wrong with a little passive entertainment from time to time but it's just too easy to waste your life away in front of a screen. The first thing I would do is sign up at a gym and start working out regularly. It will increase your energy and confidence level over time. Next, I would look for a couple interesting hobbies that you would enjoy doing. Think about recreational sports, climbing etc... And also I would pick up reading again, not just… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun alternatives to lifting/fitness?Climbing mostly works the pulling muscles (back, core, biceps...) so I feel it's important to still go do squats, bench press and what not at the gym if you want a balanced look to your body. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I fell in love and all my motivation is gone. I can't decide and its mentally messing me up and destroying meYour post is pretty rambling and confusing so I may have missed the point. If you've found a girl you really like and she reciprocates then I don't really understand why you would want to break up with her. You say it's because you totally lack motivation and drive when you're around her but this isn't something wrong with her, it's something wrong in your mindset. Your goal should be to get your shit together, get in shape, find a career and interesting hobbies to direct your energy towards. If… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Virgin,M,25 - First approach and got rejected in a second.Congrats on the approach buddy. But you're mistaking a tree for the forest. You need to start working on yourself, increase your self-esteem and confidence and constantly look to "upgrade" yourself in every way. You need to hit the gym and start rebuilding yourself. That girl in the office, you should've hit that if only for the learning experience. If you like to cold approach, that's cool and keep doing it but as you said, you're not going to get real results until you work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Girls that have self-defeating behaviours, such as self-sabotaging their own relationships. Is there hope for dating such girls?Why go for the bottom of barrel? Don't you think you deserve better? | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.It's not an alien. It's a dripping penis. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | [Question] How can I make a hotel room a more romantic atmosphere?All great advice here. But don't forget that everything has to be penis shaped | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Ever run into "nice girls"?I don't understand your question. She's a girl. She can get away with anything | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Playful joke/negging went completely wrong tonight, venting and looking for advice to help me get over it.Wow man you should have recognized that she wasn't all that interested and moved on instead of clinging to that chick all night, hoping she'd come to you. And way to be a dick to John. | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Rule 1: Be Attractive. Rule 2: Don't be Unattractive.You're doing it wrong because getting chicks is your end goal. And since you're not getting any, your attitude, confidence and aura reflects your perceived failure. Your end goal should be to be an awesome man living an interesting life. | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 10:23 PM |
| 2 | I feel weird and stupidI always have fiscal fantasies about girls. I mean does she fill her form 1040 herself with paper and pen? Or does she e-file? How many deductions does she take and does she lie about making donations so she can lower her tax bill a tad? Fiscal attraction man, I totally get it! You and me bros for lyfe | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Older Girls: What Do I Do as a Young Guy?OMG she's in 12th grade and I'm a 11th grader!! This is an impossible task!!!! | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 02:16 AM |
| 39 | Older Girls: What Do I Do as a Young Guy?You'll find out soon enough that age is just a number. Especially a 2 or 3 year age difference | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 12:38 AM |
| 23 | Demonstrating intent was not a thing to me.Something about starting a viable business getting rid of toxic waste in the next 6 months and writing a statement of intent to get a loan from the bank but it's a touchy subject since the banker wants sex in return | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Texting a girl after hanging out with them?You're the man. You lead | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:13 AM |
| 2 | How do I overcome oneitus? (Rant/vent/advice needed)She doesn't want you so move on. She doesn't know what she is missing and a day will come when you will be happy with someone prettier, cooler and smarter she will come to regret it. Fuck her Wait, did I say this out loud | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How should I man the fuck up ?Got to get out there and meet some new people instead of waiting for a small number of people from your limited social circle (ie. work) to approach you. To be honest, work friends usually come and go and are just that. Like others have mentioned, meetup is good. But also try joining regular activities at your gym, bowling alley or church (if you attend)... Nothing wrong with reading and hiking but they are somewhat solitary activities. Force yourself to become more interesting, try out some new… | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 12:49 AM |
| 15 | Please don't down vote, I'm a desperate guy in need of help.You won't get any quality girls until you start working on yourself and ditch the needy, insecure loser attitude. Women in general can subconsciously smell that shit from a mile away and want nothing to do with guys like that. You say you have zero confidence with girls but that won't come until you respect and love yourself for who you are. It's not even about approaching a thousands chicks. It's about taking pride in yourself via your work, your hobbies and whatever successes and failures you'… | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 12:32 AM |
| 3 | 20/M - Can someone explain to me what I'm doing wrong on Tinder? Not getting any matches anymore.No selfies on Tinder dude. Action shots showing how interesting and fit you are, a picture with you and a puppy, picture of you somewhere fun, no selfies if you can help it. | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Is physical self-improvement really that important?Gaining mass is 100% about nutrition. You exercise so you are not becoming a ball of fat while you are bulking. If you are trying to go up from 135 lbs, I suggest you start counting how many calories you eat every day and start eating at least 2600-2700 calories a day everyday. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 04:05 AM |
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