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| 1 | Good examples of women lying about rape to gain something from itpersonal toll and stress it takes to accuse someone and go through the whole legal process with friends and family finding out etc This is really only true for someone who has actually been psychologically affected by rape. If someone is acting, you can't honestly say that the stress is the same. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/07/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Did Andrew Yangs latest circumcision controversy help the agenda of protecting boys from mutilation, or did his waffling actually help the boy mutilators’ agenda?If this is referring to his talk with Ben Shapiro, he clarified that he never really intended to debate about it. Generally, he's against it but doesn't want to make it illegal, and that was it, they talked for like 2 mins about it. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Child support of $161K is no longer supporting just the child. We need limits for what the government can force a man to pay in child support.No, the support the earner gives to the non-earner is a fair exchange for the utility from a stay-at-home partner. The non-earner definitely don't owe the earner anything like that. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/19 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Child support of $161K is no longer supporting just the child. We need limits for what the government can force a man to pay in child support.Yeah, but it’s kind of true. If they hadn’t gotten married, they would actually have to support themself. By staying at home and bearing / raising children and keeping the household, they are directly benefiting the other party at the expense of their own potential. That has a real cost. It’s unreasonable that the wage earner could simply through the non-earner on the street with no resources. Alimony in its concept is perfectly acceptable as long as its equally supplied and is only for actual n… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Women who suffer a cardiac arrest are less likely to receive life-saving CPR from bystanders 'out of fears they'll be accused of sexual assault'. I do not think anyone can be surprised by this.Which I've never understood anyway. Sure, you have a moral obligation to help other people, but a legal one is absurd. If someone wants to be a cruel person and just walk away, they should be allowed to do that. They have caused no harm and they are not legally obligated to do a single thing. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who suffer a cardiac arrest are less likely to receive life-saving CPR from bystanders 'out of fears they'll be accused of sexual assault'. I do not think anyone can be surprised by this.It's not even that they work best... bras have to be removed because they might have metal in them when could conduct electricity and cause very bad things. Another good reason to not have nipple piercings (goes for both genders). You can actually get an arc between the piercings and then you're in trouble. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q: Would you wear a body cam to protect yourself against false accusations, if it was legal and OK?Even in 2 party consent, you can still wear one in public spaces with no issue. The consent laws only apply in situations where the other parties would have a "reasonable expectation of privacy". So if you're at the mall, or a park, a restaurant, or walking around your college campus, no issues. You would only run into consent issues when you enter someone's home or other locations, but I'm much more sketchy on those details. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Police state feminism is getting more brazen by the day. Slate Magazine basically says: "Men are afraid of unsupported allegations ruining their lives. Good! That's the whole idea." [There was a similar article on the front page of Huffpo a few minutes ago, but now it seems to be gone]The author references a tweet that says "Even if true, teenagers!". I can't verify because the link is dead through archive. But this is actually a really bad sentiment. The idea that just because they were teenagers that it's no big deal is not a good philosophy to have. However to say that this is a common or even popular argument I think is quite incorrect. I've never met a single person who thinks like this. It seems like the only ones who do are senators and other members of public office. … | /r/MensRights | 20/09/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | BBC body shames Hilary Clinton by reporting how her labia lips look like “beef curtains” according to a man who claims to have had sex with her. [Just kidding, they’re talking about Donald Trump’s penis].I'm surprised the real outrage isn't being discussed here. The article says that she ruined Mario Kart, but then shows a screenshot of Captain Toad, which is not the Toad featured in Mario Kart! | /r/MensRights | 20/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Rules for thee but not for meWell they do believe that killing the baby in the womb is no big deal because they can do whatever they want with "their own body" so maybe the baby is still part of their body for a while after birth. /s | /r/MensRights | 04/09/18 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Criminal Justice Software blatantly discriminates based on gender.I think we can agree that letting computers issue sentences is a bad idea unless it issues the same sentence for every crime regardless of the offender, and at that point it's just a convenience. However this same type of software also discriminates against black men, giving them longer sentences and denying probation for the exact same reasons. The reason I bring this up is because there is a statistical factor here. We know that humans given men (and more so black men) longer sentences even wh… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | For those who haven't seen it, there is a petition to get Google to make a doodle for International men's dayThey'll never do it, but if they do, they won't represent anything that International Men's Day actually does. Google is vehemently anti-male, and anti anything that could remotely be construed as conservative. (Despite the fact that MRAs are vastly varied in political opinion, the whole group is painted as conservative as if that's some reason to discount them). If the firing of James Damore didn't show us that, then nothing will. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/18 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Even when I file for financial aid.Yes, women wanted the right to join the military, so we gave it to them. However we don't draft them. Women have the freedom to do what they like. If they want to join the military, they are allowed with a lower standard of entry, regardless of the consequences. However, women are not disposable like men are. So they only go to the military if they want to. Since men are disposable, nobody really cares whether or not they want to join. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 9 | Even when I file for financial aid.This is par for the course. Men have to fight and die for their rights. Women are given rights for free by men. This is really true of any resource. Land. Money. Freedom. You name it. Feminists act like women have always been oppressed, but that's obviously false to anyone with eyes. Women have always been given the best that men could obtain, without any of the responsibilities that go with it. There used to be some natural order to this. Men sacrificed everything to protect the family, but the… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveNo, not allowing bank robberies is not compelled poverty. Just because you make murder illegal, you’re not forcing anyone to do anything. You’re only saying what they can’t do. If you don’t want to give birth, don’t get pregnant. And yeah, you have the right to make a call about what happens to your body. Not to other people’s bodies though. And the argument here is totally disingenuous. All but the most extreme will be in favor of abortion in cases of rape or for the life of the mother. Very fe… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/18 01:54 AM |
| 4 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveIf a woman decides not to continue a pregnancy, what business is it of yours? The business is that it's murder. Just because I don't live in Chicago doesn't mean that I won't advocate for murder to remain illegal there. And I agree that if a man is knowingly and deliberately trapped by a woman and he can prove that then he should be able to terminate all obligations to the child should the woman bear the child. This is kind of hypocritical. If a woman can walk away no questions asked, why can't … | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveAbortion is a terrible thing. Both sides agree that in a perfect world, there would be no abortion. I'm not really sure that's true. If you don't actually believe that a baby is human being, then it's the same as any other surgery. And I've met a lot of people who legitimately don't consider it human. Another thing that I don't like about the debate is the "compelled to give birth" phrase. If abortion was banned, that is not "compelling" anyone to give birth. Birth is a natural process that happ… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 03:19 PM |
| 5 | What I feel is the most frustrating part of the Roe v. Wade debate from a MRA perspectiveThe universe has been reshaped, mostly by men This isn't new. Men have been doing this since the beginning of our species. Almost everything about modern society is generated by men trying to make women happy. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 03:11 PM |
| 28 | There is no pleasing some people; Women overwhelmingly demand a body type only 14% of men can achieveThe hypocritical part is the kicker. There's nothing wrong with admitting that both men and women have unreasonably high expectations for each other. That's life. But if you complain about one gender's standards and not the other, then it shows either complete ignorance or deep hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Politicians selected via sexist all-women short-lists are 12 times more corrupt than those chosen on meritThe UK is literally a dumpster fire right now. They have all the problems the US has, but no free speech protections, "hate crime" laws that are absurd, and obscene internet regulation. The only thing that they have going for them in leaving the EU, but they're doing all the same stuff, so it's not really helping them at the moment. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | My Body My Choice is a fucking joke.No, it’s only very recently become a choice. And I like how you decided to completely ignore all of my original points. Good luck out there. Hope you figure your stuff out some day. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | My Body My Choice is a fucking joke.A newborn literally continues to feed off a woman’s organs. Breastfeeding. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/18 12:39 AM |
| 4 | My Body My Choice is a fucking joke.Consider a counter argument. A baby has just been born to a new couple. It cannot feed itself, or clean up after itself. It is a complete leach upon the parents, otherwise it will die. It will wake the parents up in the middle of the night, affecting their health and stress levels. It may even get them sick because it has a lesser immune system. It may cause them to miss work, or school, or miss out on many other life experiences. Is it okay to kill it because you don't consent to that intrusion… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Projection or just stupidity?Men grow up in a world where men are always more important than everyone else. Take a second to think about what this means, and you see that the argument is absurd. First of all, who is "everyone else"? There's only two genders. So if I'm in my nursery group with approximately even gender split, "everyone" is actually only half the room. The whole concept makes no sense. It gets worse if you ever make it into something like boy scouts (at least, before they caved to social pressure). What does … | /r/MensRights | 22/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 22 | They cry for children separated from parents at the border (which parents could avoid by not illegally crossing it), but don’t care at all when our broken family court system separates thousands of powerless fathers from their children... 😥I find this whole issue extremely hypocritical. It's either bad to separate children from their parents or it's not. If it was bad, (and it is, objectively, by the science) then we wouldn't have no fault divorce. People really only care about "the children" when it supports their political position. This entire issue is a perfect case study for how the American public has no idea how our government is supposed to work. The legislative branch makes the law, the executive branch enforces it. The l… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I guess science is "sexist" nowOne of my personal soapboxes. Science is sexist! Among many other things. Sexism: Discrimination based on gender Discrimination: a distinction; discernment, the act of discriminating, discerning, distinguishing, noting or perceiving differences between things. So anything or anyone that notes a difference between genders is sexist. The only way to not be sexist is to claim that men and women are completely interchangeable. The term "sexism" was changed to mean specifically negative discriminatio… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/18 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Profs say female STEM grades don’t reflect ‘perceived effort’ | Feels being dashed upon the rocky shore of reals...Good professors do not need curves. A good professor can produce assignments such that the average student will earn an average grade. Obviously new professors may deserve some lenience, maybe they accidentally made some things too hard and need to curve up, fine. But this should be the exception, not the norm. I also dislike profs who intentionally design a test so that the average will be around 40% and then just curve like crazy. No one is benefiting from that, but I guess it makes them feel … | /r/MensRights | 06/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Does the “wage gap” or poverty statistics take child support or alimony into account?No, it doesn't. The numbers all come from broad surveys of income at full time positions (>35 hours / week). If you are then losing (or gaining) money from court ordered payments, that's not even asked for. If I remember, I'll do some research later on the poverty one. I'm pretty sure poverty is also strictly defined as income, ignoring, child support, alimony, and other government benefits like food stamps or housing. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 5 | New Westminster BC Mayor on a local modular housing project: "30 per cent of the city’s homeless population are women, so that definitely is the target population with this project." No mention of the 70% who aren't women.That's why it's so alarming! Women are suffering! Normally only 10% of homeless are women, so now that it's 30%, they're obviously the group that needs the most help! | /r/MensRights | 03/05/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "Man becomes first person convicted of sexist remark under new Belgian law". Here it is folks-the beginning of the end for male equality under the heel of new Feminism. France also plans to create such laws. Will your country be next?This is why constitutionally guaranteed freedom of speech is important. IIRC, USA is the only state that has it, so any attempt to do that here would be a constitutional crisis, but elsewhere there's nothing stopping it. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/18 03:33 PM |
| 3 | CNN on Shaun White - "Athletes who commit offenses such as those of which White has been accused should never be allowed to participate in the Olympics"touching her inappropriately This is the only potential point of crime. It depends on what touching actually took place. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/18 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Trump decries lack of ‘due process’ for men accused of sexual harassment, abuseI feel like you can hate Trump while admitting that some of his policies and ideas are not the worst. I think Trump's character is in the gutter and has some stupid ideas, but some of his policies are okay. We're allowed to recognize the good and bad. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What if you were born the opposite Gender. What do think your life would be like and how would it be different.Well, kind of. It's a blessing and a curse I imagine. On one hand, you get to work for a huge company doing crazy work. On the other, you're the "diversity hire" not hired because their skills were the best in the nation, but because of your genitals. And sure, I know some female engineers that are simply amazing at what they do. But that question will be with you for the whole time you work there, "was I hired because I'm good, or because I'm a woman?" I wouldn't complain about the pay and bene… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What if you were born the opposite Gender. What do think your life would be like and how would it be different.I think I would have had more job opportunities. I'm actually really happy with my current job and I don't think I would have wanted to work for a big corporation, but lots of my female friends got interviews at Adobe and Intel and I know my GPA was higher and I had more extra curricular projects on my resume. If you're a female engineer, you pretty much only have to be kind of average to get interviewed by big companies. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The cost of childbirth in the United States is high in large part because of parents suing their doctors. Instead of taking responsibility, this is used to argue that the cost should be subsidized.In my experience, it varies. Usually I hear it as "It's horrible to be a woman in the USA because xyz" and this is stated as one reason. It's usually left vague as to what's to blame, but sexism seems to be implied. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/18 03:21 PM |
| 2 | BBC report on "Star Wars: The Last Jedi cast mock 'men-only' fan edit"; mentions this sub and MRADid the uploader even claim to be an MRA? You can hate feminism without being one... | /r/MensRights | 18/01/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | This restaurant only has a Women’s and an all gender bathroom... No Men’s.Found one of these at a Texas Roadhouse in VA which really surprised me. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The cost of childbirth in the United States is high in large part because of parents suing their doctors. Instead of taking responsibility, this is used to argue that the cost should be subsidized.Similar note, feminists often complain about the relatively high rate of maternal death in child birth. There are two main problems with this. 1) The studies count the death of mothers up to a year after birth for any health reason, even if it wasn't pregnancy related 2) America is the most obese country in the world, which often leads to birth complications. So as usual, there are plenty of factors other than "sexism" that explain why things look not so great at first glance. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Is Modern Masculinity Gynocentric?Masculinity has always been gynocentric. Everything good a man can do is to protect his wife or children. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/17 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Advice for a young womanYou shouldn't try to win our approval, what we think doesn't matter. If you're looking for how to not appear as someone who hates men, it's really not hard, I assume you're pretty good at it already. For a woman to earn my respect all she has to do is be a reasonable person who takes responsibility for her actions. If you want to be a housewife, fine, if you want to be an engineer fine, I don't care, that doesn't impress me, but being responsible for yourself would. But like I said. My opinion o… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/17 05:07 AM |
| 12 | How do you tell a real rape victim from a fake?If they went to the media but not the police, I assume it's fake. If a friend of mine ever told me they'd been raped I would personally drive them to the police station so they can make a statement. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/17 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Overheard on a bus between two blue haired millennial feminists "Oh I loved it! That's why the new Star Wars film is RIGHT! Because it explains why there were no female Jedis before; because only the MEN got encouragement, the women got OPPRESSED!"I have no recollection of the movie ever offering any explanation in this vein. Also, for anyone who has seen the prequels... there are plenty of female Jedi. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/17 02:08 AM |
| 9 | thx LaciThat's an interesting position. I had always pegged her as the most dedicated follower. She's basically a meme of the crazy feminist, saying everyone is a little bisexual, there an uncountably infinite number of genders, not answering criticism etc. I did however always think she was doing what she believed to be right. She didn't appear to carry any spite or malice when talking about things like privilege like others do. I think a big part of why Laci opened up is because of the platform she op… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 05:37 PM |
| 39 | thx LaciSteve Shives is a different beast altogether. I truly feel sorry for him. He has a few videos with him and his wife talking, and he is just completely subservient to her in terms of ideology. Whatever she says, he agrees with, even if it's an attack on him or his life choices. I am not honestly convinced that we have any videos reflecting his true opinion on any subject. Granted, he probably does believe at least some of what he says. But I think a lot of it is to please his wife. I think that's… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 02:59 PM |
| 1145 | thx LaciI think the biggest improvement Laci has had is her ability to listen. She still holds a lot of positions I disagree with, but she no longer shuts people out. She has legitimate principles (at least it appears that way) even if they're different than mine and I can respect that. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.And it wouldn't even be 45k. I'm pretty sure Child Support doesn't count as income, so if the mother was making less than 50k per year, she could probably get that number down to 15k per child... | /r/MensRights | 25/11/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | A random woman says to you "hey - this guy is harassing me." What do you do?Generally, I ask for more details. What do they mean by harassment? So many women have so many different ideas of what that means. There's even post on the sub right now about how as women age they think of less and less things as harassment. (Or just younger women are indoctrinated to think more things are, that wasn't clear) So sometimes harassment just means someone asked for their phone number, or looked at them weird. If it is actual harassment, then I'd take them to a police station so the… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Al Franken - crazy theory, I'm gonna throw this out thereThat doesn't sound very crazy; it sounds like that kind of thing is pretty common. No idea if that's the case for Franken, but still. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | WARNING: Possible entrapment attempts - do not click on links in unsolicited PMsHow are they being erased after being read? That would be something only someone with admin access could do, which sounds like a conspiracy I'm not quite willing to believe. The admins have done some pretty trashy stuff, but entrapment would be a new level. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Is being a stay at home parent the "hardest job in the world"The argument is predicated on the idea that a stay-at-home parent is "working" all waking hours. So when your kid is down for a nap and you play video games, you're "working". And when you feed your kid, you're "working". And when you read a story to your kid, you're "working". Which is laughable. Many fathers would kill for more time to do this with their kids, just because it's spending time with someone they love. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is being a stay at home parent the "hardest job in the world"No one is saying it's not hard. You stress because you want to raise the child right and instill proper values and all that. But at the end of the day, you get to stay home, with no due dates, no boss, and a minimal number of responsibilities. It's important, but it's far from the hardest job in the world. And that is okay. That dosen't diminish it's importance at all. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Know if Someone Wants to Have Sex with You? | Planned Parenthood Video Spreading Misinformation About Consent, Likely Leading to False or Inaccurate Rape Accusations. Sad!You could make a separate post with this. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/17 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Daddy Pig joins the Movember campaignThe U.K. Is worse than the US in a number of ways, specifically legal protections. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/17 10:17 PM |
| 2 | [From The Archives] Mocking International Men's Day only proves it's neededWhich is different from simply saying it's not needed. It's the mockery that shows it's needed. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The cost of single motherhood on society.Trust me, I'm the least politically correct person out there. I'm not convinced that the study you have provided is conclusive. We don't understand nearly as much about DNA as some people think we do. There are plenty of other studies that show the opposite, I'm on mobile so I'll have to do some digging at a later time. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/17 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The cost of single motherhood on society.No, people are born into those cultures. With what I know about biology, I don't believe that simply having a certain skin color influences anything in terms of what you believe about the world. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Why is TwoXChromosomes a default subreddit whereas theres no default subreddit XYChromosomes?It is discrimination based on opinions, unequivocally. But reddit is a private organization and they can do that if they want. If their user base revolts and there's a mass exodus, they'd be forced to change or die. But that hasn't happened. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Do MRAs believe there are more than two genders?Broadly speaking, this is no stance here. MRAs are strictly about the problems facing men. You wont find any unity on this issue. That said, most probably believe that sex and gender are one and the same, because it doesn't involve any pseudoscience to justify (so you know where I stand). But simply calling yourself an MRA doesn't imply any opinion on this matter. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Why can't I be a feminist for men's rights?This question comes up a lot, and the short answer is that it doesn't matter what you call yourself. The biggest reason to not call yourself one is so you don't have to deal with the baggage. The most broad example I can think of is that most feminists believe women are generally disadvantaged in life while men are generally advantaged. What people like yourself have realized is that it's a bit more complicated than that. So if you tell people you're a feminist, they'll get the wrong idea about … | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 04:54 AM |
| 3 | The cost of single motherhood on society.Depends on what you mean. Most "deadbeat dads" do actually pay child support. And you have to ask how they got there. Did they leave and abandon their children willingly, or did the mother force them out. If willingly, yes that's just as bad. 100%. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 04:40 AM |
| 5 | The cost of single motherhood on society.I feel like we should just say single parents are bad, period. The number of single fathers is so low, we're not going to have good data on the effects. Philosophically, I'm certain that motherhood and fatherhood are both important. We have the data for what happens when we don't have fathers, so I'm willing to stake my claim there. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 04:38 AM |
| 12 | The cost of single motherhood on society.I'd be far more inclined to believe it's be environment and culture of those neighborhoods than the race of those living there. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Teacher doesn't let male students play with lego's. (X-post from r/Facepalm)I'm not 100% certain that's always the case. I think a more common mindset is that they actually believe women to be inferior and not capable of succeeding like men. So they have to suppress men or give women unnatural advantage to make up for their perceived inferiority. If they actually believed women could perform just as well as men like most people here, then they'd be advocating against special treatment. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/17 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Are there any ex-feminists here?I think most of us here are ex-feminists. We got sucked in by the idea of equality, because we actually support it, and then we realized what it was really about and bounced. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Rape culture in the developed world got you down? There's an app for that! Tech industry joins the rape hysteria marketing craze.They claim it can be used in court but site no precedent, leading me to believe that they only hope it can be used in court and may actually be worthless. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Men gain a reproductive right, but is it a right we want?Those concerned misunderstand the law. This doesn't give anyone any power to stop an abortion. Only a say in what happens to the remains, which isn't a problem at all. No one is disadvantaged or hurt by this. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | America's largest anti-rape charity effectively denies the existence of "rape culture"In the last few years, t here has been an unfortunate trend towards blaming “rape culture” for the extensive problem of sexual violence on campuses. While it is helpful to point out the systemic barriers to addressing the problem, it is important to not lose sight of a simple fact : Rape is caused not by cultural factors but by the conscious decisions, of a small percentage of the community, to commit a violent crime. By the time they reach college, most students have been exposed to 18 years of… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Emma WatsonShe's not really either. In my opinion, it seems like most of what she does is simply woefully misinformed. Her heart is in the right place, but she hasn't done an ounce of research for herself, she just believes what her managers tell her. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/17 12:56 AM |
| 5 | The top of AskReddit right now, about divorce and 90% men getting itHm. Currently, the vast majority of the top replies are men screwing over women. Not with any kind of court power either, just petty things to make it complicated. Might just be the reddit hive mind, but this is entirely opposite of what I expected. We know statistically that women almost always get everything they want from a divorce, so this is very strange to see. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Would anyone here be willing to have a civil conversation with me about men's/women's rights issues?A lot of people vary in their opinions. If I had to generalize, I'd say most take issue with specifically 3rd wave. From my personal point of view, it's always been, from the very beginning. The movement consistently advocates for rights without responsibilities, which I think has been bad for women long term. But it's gotten far worse recently than any time in the past. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/17 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Since frequenting this sub, I'll never look at these stories the same way again.I'm not sure it does specifically, it's just that you can't tell anymore these days. If a man removes a child from an abusive home, he can be accused of kidnapping his own child, while a woman would never be accused of that. So without details about why the father took the child, I don't really have any reason to believe it's malicious. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Help me explain opting out of child supportWhen you think about it, this comes up on a lot of other areas. Like voting for example. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What is rape culture?I once had a feminist tell me that if one rape happens, it's a rape culture. That was their definition, so it was impossible to make headway. I admitted that rape happens, so to them, that's the same as saying we live in a rape culture. As far as what I think, no, the rape culture described by the feminists is not an issue in the slightest. Rape is an issue, but it is on the decline, so I see no reason to be alarmed about how we as a society have tried to handle it. If you mean the classical def… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | oh just let us forget about the hungry men thenHey, that's a good point! Why can't the feminists make these kinds of arguments? | /r/MensRights | 29/05/17 01:54 PM |
| 4 | The new narrative.It doesn't take much thought to realize that it's an attack on western culture, no "girlhood" or "girl culture." This is pathetic. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/17 10:29 PM |
| 4 | oh just let us forget about the hungry men thenYeah... I don't believe that. For one, how would you even catalogue this? Since no method has been provided, I assume it's made up. It also just doesn't fit with common sense. What we do know is that there are rich states, and poor states. In rich states, like the USA, no one really goes hungry. Yes, we do have a small homeless population, which is majority males, but the number is so small it won't have an impact at global levels. In poor states, no one has enough food except a few at the tippy… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | might be offtopic, but I think it belongs here. not nice categorising some kids as "gross 15 year olds"At my school, only girls could wear shorts. Guys couldn't. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | University of Central Missouri showcasing their fight against Men's RightsThis is one of the best responses to this. If "no uterus, no opinion" holds, then we need to overrule Roe v Wade because the can't be allowed their opinion. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/17 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerI thought we got banned from /r/all? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerI'm a computer engineer and I started with BASIC as I mentioned. Then I learned C++, then Matlab, then Python, and a bunch of others, but it wasn't until much later that I learned assembly and I can't say I've had any difficult understanding it or using it effectively. Even verilog came naturally to me. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerWell that's impressive that you were able to grok that, I still don't think that the average child could. Certainly exceptional children exist. And I definitely don't think that qualifies saying that any other method besides that is worthless. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerWell how old were you when you learned those concepts? Most kids can grasp python much easier because it makes sense from a normal human perspective. The need to "think like a computer" is low, so it serves as a good introduction. Can we expect 5th graders to understand RTL? Can you expect them to have the patience to handle the verbose syntax of C (verbose compared to python). I started coding in 8th grade with BASIC, and the only thing I touched we touched in that course was io, strings, numbe… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 04:04 AM |
| 11 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerHow is this upvoted in this sub? Calling out gender discrimination against men is woman hating? This is a straight up troll account. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 03:59 AM |
| 22 | Girls-only Coding Class at NYC community centerI see absolutely no reason why this is needed. I've never witnessed this behavior in all the programming classes I've taken, and I'm a Computer Engineer, so that's a fair number. It's actually harmful because it's infantilizing. They don't need a special group because they aren't special. As long as we pretend that they are, they'll be seen as special, or different. It's also bad because it puts unnecessary pressure on girls/women who don't really want to go into the field. They're good at math … | /r/MensRights | 30/04/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | dude finds out his gf of 2 years has been faking her orgasm and wants to break up. the comments are pretty much what you expect, from damage control to insulting his "Male ego".solipsism I don't think that's what solipsism means. I think you mean narcissism. Solipsism is a philosophical point of view concerning the nature of reality. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Blatant sexism from Intel“You can’t innovate and have an impact on the world’s population if your organisation isn’t reflective of the world’s population. ... Citation needed. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Xpost from r/cringeanarchyThat's one of the tings I'm arguing though, I don't think the "women attempt more" is that clear cut because of the way they count it. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Xpost from r/cringeanarchySuccessful suicide are not counted as attempts, I think attempts only mean survival. So if you lump all the people who tried to kill themselves together (successful or not) I think you'd still see majority male. Further, regardless of your gender, if you choose drugs as a suicide method, I don't think you're very serious about wanting to die given the high survival rate. More often the people who choose these methods have a good support net that will help them, while people who choose guns or ha… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The world's most popular search engine perpetuates a myth while pushing the feminist agendaWell of course, that goes without saying. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/17 11:58 PM |
| 2 | The world's most popular search engine perpetuates a myth while pushing the feminist agendaI'm not absolving them. I'm just saying that because of the culture it's impossible to know if they actually support that or are just doing it to save face. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/17 09:07 PM |
| 25 | The world's most popular search engine perpetuates a myth while pushing the feminist agendaChances are good that Google actually supports this. However... They are required to support this. Google is primarily an advertising company; they understand public opinion. They understand the cost of not having that line there. The simple fact of them doing nothing while everyone else comes out in support for the idea would cost them way too much. So we'll never really know what they think. This is the problem I have with most celebrities. Even if they voice an opinion I agree with, I just as… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | /r/2x on suicideThis theory sounds really good and I've been looking into verifying it but I can't find good data that supports it, can you help me out? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Transgender anti-feminist Blaire White debates feminist Laci Green. It goes just as you would think: Laci Green continuously interrupts Blaire, ignores when she's debunked, spouts off ignorance, attacks MRA's (despite saying she "knows nothing about them"), the usual feminist idiocy.I wish she had driven the 2-8% better with the counter claim from the same data that only 5-10% of accusations are true. I also feel like there was a lot of dancing around issues, both were clear in how they felt but it seemed like they never really fully engaged that disagreement. Maybe I'm just used to the volume levels increasing in debates... | /r/MensRights | 31/03/17 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Men pay £75 billion more tax than women every yearNot that much more | /r/MensRights | 29/03/17 01:48 PM |
| 22 | Female Advocating for Men's Rights?Really the best advocacy you can do is just talking to people. It's shocking how much people just don't know. I've found that most people are pretty reasonable and openly admit that they'd never thought about men having it harder in anything even though it's obvious that they do. Since you're a woman, chances might be better of keeping someone's ear. Especially if you're talking to a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Socialists are idiots. Get the fuck out of my movement.MRAs can be socialists. I'm not, but they have every right to be. MRAs don't really need to agree on anything other than, well, Men's Rights. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Question about the logoWhat is the group of people that you would like to be considered equals to? And in what ways? Naturally, women. We would like bodily autonomy, parental rights, and equality under the law (prison sentencing). Women have these things while men distinctly lack them. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/17 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Why I won't let any male babysit my childrenArchive this, people... Giving them clicks motivates them to write more trash like this. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/17 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Can men be objectified sexually?Can they? Sure they can. Is it a big deal? No it's not. It's also not a big deal when women are objectified. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm sure the existence of this will never backfire in the slightest.Is there an actual legal precedent set for withdrawing consent after the fact? I know it's happened in university court rooms, but surely that doesn't count for the state/federal justice system? | /r/MensRights | 15/02/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Not exactly a men's issue but is there something that can be done against this monster?This is fake unless people higher up are on her side. Someone would have noticed the higher number of deaths on her watch and it would have been investigated. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/17 03:52 PM |
| 5 | TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undeleteAnd now that this sub is gone from /r/all, no one other than us will see this. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/17 02:40 PM |
| 29 | Why women need a shorter working week than menThese asinine articles always get to me. No one is mandating to women that they must do this work, yet people are calling for legal action to balance out free choice. It's just bizarre. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingI disagree that debt is growth. Sometimes it's necessary, but it's a necessary evil, not a good. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingInterest rates becoming too high is Armageddon? I don't see why that's true. The biggest point I'm making here is that debt is a risk. To minimize risk, we should have no debt. I want to minimize risk. Other people may not, and that's a debate with having, but my interest is in minimizing risk. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/17 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingI really don't think that many men were being helped, and with Trump in office, I think we're far more likely to see things being more equally applied. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingI find that unacceptable. One day, interest rates will change, and then we'll have too much debt to stand. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/17 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingI'm of the opinion that if there's no market demand for something, then we don't really need it. It seems like there is plenty of demand for art. I've commissioned some art in the past, and it's not cheap, but I wanted the product and I paid a fair price for it. unless.....you want to increase city and state taxes. Is that something you would want? No, but if someone runs for office with that on their platform and wins, then it is what is. I might complain, but at least the people of the communi… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingThat's fine, you have every right to be one. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/17 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingI never made any claims about what governments have done or are doing. Only what I believe they should do. I don't appreciate you jumping to conclusion. I don't care about how things have been done before, my views are that the federal government should be involved in as little as is possible to run the country. The state/county government can handle everything else. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingIt's not nothing, it's millions of dollars. The percentage isn't important. Local governments can do whatever they want. If they want to fund art houses and the like, then more power to them. But the federal government shouldn't be doing anything remotely like that. And honestly, a world without art and music is not a world worth living in. I agree. There's a lot of things without which life would not be worth living, but in the vast majority of cases, it should not be the government's job to pr… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 10 | Trump budget blueprint proposes eliminating 25 violence against women grant programs to cut spendingIsn't NPR mostly funded by donations? And as someone in favor of small government, I see no reason that any portion at all of our federal budget should be going to art and music. As far as VAWA I'm okay with throwing the baby out with the bath water. It was obviously never intended to be gender neutral and it isn't being applied that way. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/17 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Why do men hate each other so much ?I don't think men have anything against other men, they just have nothing for them. Most men have a default preference for women. If that means they unintentionally screw over a lot of men in the process, they don't really care. It's worth noting the recent study that determined men are better at making up with each other than women are. So I think personal groups of men take care of each other better than groups of women, but once it's impersonal (ie government) this goes away. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | "5 Things You Should Know About Fatherless Homes"Alright, I can kinda see that. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 05:12 AM |
| 6 | 11.7 million females will attend in fall 2016. If 1 in 4 college women are raped, that means there should be 3 million rapes this year. Yet there were less than 100,000 total rapes AND sexual assualts from 1995-2013Through surveys like the Mary Koss ones that assert that all drunken sex is rape, even when the women in question say they weren't raped. And surveys like that already suffer from response bias so I'd say they are almost entirely inadmissible on that fact alone. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 05:11 AM |
| 8 | Karen Straughan: "In a patriarchy it's 'women and children first'; in a matriarchy it will be 'women, children and the woman's luggage first'"I think you've gotten your threads mixed up mate. My comment had nothing to do with being a real man or being a loser. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Karen Straughan: "In a patriarchy it's 'women and children first'; in a matriarchy it will be 'women, children and the woman's luggage first'"Haha what? | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Couldnt help notice the new season of Sherlock is even more White Knight lately. Nearly every female character shown as stronger or smarter than even Sherlock himself & Watsons impassioned speech about how 'men should be grateful for even a tiny bit of time given to them from any woman at all'Everything is part of rape culture, didn't you get the memo? | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Couldnt help notice the new season of Sherlock is even more White Knight lately. Nearly every female character shown as stronger or smarter than even Sherlock himself & Watsons impassioned speech about how 'men should be grateful for even a tiny bit of time given to them from any woman at all'Yeah, that was especially annoying. Yes, Mary was good for John, and that was played very well. But the assertion that all men need a woman simply doesn't follow and it was very annoying. Especially that woman. She's a psycho. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Couldnt help notice the new season of Sherlock is even more White Knight lately. Nearly every female character shown as stronger or smarter than even Sherlock himself & Watsons impassioned speech about how 'men should be grateful for even a tiny bit of time given to them from any woman at all'The special last year was especially egregious, but there has been a lot of small complaints in these past two episodes. However I'm most concerned about what's to come. I'm calling these two things right now: 1) The Female Holmes sibling was behind Moriarty the whole time, which completely undercuts his character. Moriarty wasn't actually that intelligent, just eloquent, and was used by Holmes. 2) The Female Holmes sibling hates her brothers because they got attention growing up and she didn't.… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:57 AM |
| 16 | 11.7 million females will attend in fall 2016. If 1 in 4 college women are raped, that means there should be 3 million rapes this year. Yet there were less than 100,000 total rapes AND sexual assualts from 1995-2013Just to put that into even more understandable terms, the claim is that if only 3.33% of victims reported the crime to the police, that would be as many rapes as has happened in the last 18 years. Assuming uniform distribution, that gives us 5555 reported rapes, which is a 0.19% reporting rate. Feminists are asking us to believe that 99.71% of rape goes unreported, and to simultaneously believe that those same rapes are heinous crimes. I really don't want to minimize rape. I think it's clear tha… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | "5 Things You Should Know About Fatherless Homes"What are you getting at? | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:42 AM |
| 32 | Karen Straughan: "In a patriarchy it's 'women and children first'; in a matriarchy it will be 'women, children and the woman's luggage first'"I'm somewhat puzzled how this bizarre notion has become dominant in academia This study will answer your befuddlement. The long and short of it is that women have an in-group preference, and they assume men do as well. This is patently not the case, and some studies suggest that men have an out-group preference, with varying degrees. So because women in power would seek to benefit women at the expense of men, they naturally assume that men would do that, even though there's no data to back this … | /r/MensRights | 11/01/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | "5 Things You Should Know About Fatherless Homes"I really appreciate that she emphasizes individual responsibility as a solution to this problem. 100% on board with the sentiment. Unfortunately, the trends show that this will not happen. Fatherlessness is a vicious circle. Girls who grow up fatherless account for 71% teen mothers, as she said in the video. Most of these are going to be single moms, which then perpetuate the problem further. Given this trend, I would submit that there is a point of no return. Short of sweeping ideological chang… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CNN Giving Two Shits About Mens DeathsI think you literally just proved my point with this argument. People, by and large, do not care about men dying as much as they do women. That's the exact point. Are you trolling? I think I'm gonna assume trolling. Good day, sir. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/17 04:49 AM |
| 1 | CNN Giving Two Shits About Mens DeathsI think it's worth noting the title. Like I said, it's an effect of people caring more about women. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/17 12:52 AM |
| 1 | CNN Giving Two Shits About Mens DeathsI'm not sure what you mean. We're not looking at the cause, because the cause hasn't been posted here. I would argue that we should be looking at the cause, but that doesn't change what OP posted. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | CNN Giving Two Shits About Mens DeathsThe point is, rather than "four dead in truck attack", we have to stress that it was three women, because that's worse. I don't blame the news writers, they want clicks, so they do what it takes. What we are looking at is the effect, not the cause. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | argumentative essay on mens rightsThat may or may not be true, but the real issue is classroom conduct. Especially if this is US. If the teacher deems content inappropriate for the classroom, they will shut it down. We'd like to avoid that, even if it's unjust. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/17 04:10 PM |
| 3 | 14 minutes long, but this is a pretty good debate in a high school class about the wage gap where three guys (who literally bang their head on the table) pick apart their feminist teacherHigh school, so I'd say extremely unlikely. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/17 07:23 AM |
| 9 | 14 minutes long, but this is a pretty good debate in a high school class about the wage gap where three guys (who literally bang their head on the table) pick apart their feminist teacherThat entire sequence was so cringey. I could tell the kid was struggling like teaching a young child math too advanced for their experience. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/17 07:22 AM |
| 11 | 14 minutes long, but this is a pretty good debate in a high school class about the wage gap where three guys (who literally bang their head on the table) pick apart their feminist teacherHoly crap this was painful to watch. They couldn't even be consistent on arguing the 77% myth. The teacher says patriarchy holds women back but the girls falsely claim that the stat is from women working the same jobs. The kid is being forced to argue against two different positions at the same time and it's not fair to expect him to do that. Also, that is an utterly reprehensible teacher to bait a student into saying something and then accuse them of being solely responsible for the statement a… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/17 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Author suggests all women's prisons should be closed, and blatantly says women should be treated more leniently than men even when having committed the same crime.Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | This seems like an appropriate place to rant about this.I don't have a problem with men pursing women "as an idea." In the past, there was some mutual respect, women understood how men operated in society. That's not the case anymore. Now men are demonized for it and there's a whole host of other problems caused by modern female entitlement (granted by feminists). So I don't think the model is wrong, just one half isn't working. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 03:12 PM |
| 1 | That's right, now you can get 5 years in prison for "the silent treatment", at least if you're a man, right?To be fair, silent treatment for 20 years is not the same as silent treatment for a day or a week. That kind of behavior is destructive to the whole family. As for why she's still with him, I don't know. I don't know Japanese culture, perhaps she's very traditional and can't bring herself to leave when he hasn't physically harmed her or the kids. But he's emotionally harmed them. So I'm not sure what the problem is there. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Author suggests all women's prisons should be closed, and blatantly says women should be treated more leniently than men even when having committed the same crime.I've heard this claim a lot and I tried to source it on my own, but I wasn't able to. If men receive 63% longer sentences, then I assume that black people receive 10% longer. I've also heard three times longer, so 2% could also be it. But I can't find either figure. The best I could find also claimed 60% longer racially, so I'm not sure where this comes from. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Damn RightThe first two years will be a slog. After that, it picks up and most of your classes will be really interesting and should give you some room to stretch your creativity. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 06:19 PM |
| 16 | Current year, in a nutshellHonestly, just human history. The only thing pertinent to this year is the advancements feminists have made in giving preferential hiring to women. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Damn RightThe school is literally just a test to see if you can put up with the nonsense for four years. In my experience, the workload is incredibly unrealistic. I usually work about 60 hrs/wk to maintain my 4.0 at school. I never worked over 40 hrs/wk when I did my co-op and that was true of all the full-timers that I talked to there. I had so much more free time then than when I do it school. So just hang in there and put up with it. The work is rewarding. To clarify, I'm also in Computer Engineering. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Great comic to show people who complain about the gender earnings gapTo be fair, "different career choices" is one of the packs on the male's back. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Restaurant owner threatens employees to stop them from giving straws to male customersYeah, I want to know too. This is just bizarre. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | TL;DR - The Pseudoscience of Masculine Norms and the CMNIFantastic breakdown. Honestly, any attempt by academia to quantify "maleness" just won't work. The bit at the end where he showed how they did the CFNI was a great addition to this, and it really exposes the sexism of the research team. In my personal opinion, it makes no sense to assign negative traits as "part of" masculinity or femininity, because then you become less masculine or feminine by being a decent person, and that seems like nonsense to me. However that just goes to show how you can… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/16 03:54 AM |
| 28 | "Every Brick in every building": a reminder to the Men whose efforts built and maintain our world.That reminds me of a study where some people looked at the differences between men and women in rewarding behavior. Women tended to reward everyone equally, regardless of output, while men tended to reward more to those that produced more. I can't find it right now, but I always thought that was a very interesting one. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/16 03:46 AM |
| 7 | California legalizes child prostitutionWow, so many things are messed up with that. That is entirely counter to basic common sense. If you arrested a child prostitute, hopefully they would level accusations at their abuser! They'd actually be safer in a police station while things get sorted out. And if they weren't being abused it should come off their record when they turn 18 anyway, if I understand the correctly. There is nothing wrong with outlawing child prostitution. What the heck California... Most of the rest of the bills men… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/16 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Organization claims to advocate for gender equality, you can tell by how diverse their Instagram pictures are.Women are born with value that the retain through their entire lives. Men are born with no value, but if they work hard they can be valuable enough to a woman to be bullied by the state to support her after a breakup. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Equality Rights on Child Support?I don't think that opinion is very controversial around here. For as long as the woman can decide to kill or give up the baby without consent from the father, so should the father be able to give up rights and responsibilities to it. It just makes sense. However the pecking order is Women > Children > Men. So women can kill their babies or offer them for adoption because they are more valuable than children. Men cannot refuse to pay for a child because children are more valuable than they are. I… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/16 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Gender pay gap leaves women with ‘depression and anxiety disorders’: False news needs to be censored.So much this. Censorship is almost never the answer to problems because of what it can lean to. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/16 03:38 PM |
| 12 | Interesting<implying that feminism == women's rights> | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Anti male abortion questionFair enough, thanks for the clarification. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Anti male abortion questionThat's because most elected officials are men, elected by a majority female population. A simple google search would be your friend here. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Anti male abortion questionActually, according to recent polls women are more likely than men to oppose abortion in some situations. Though both groups are minority. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/16 08:29 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill on Netflix.Really hope it comes to streaming since I don't have the DVD plan. That would be awesome. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The naked truth about wage gapsMaybe you misunderstand my point. If you're using this statistic to prove feminist hypocrisy, then fine, that makes perfect sense. But it's not something for us to get up in arms about. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Tell Me MoreI grew up understanding that men had been at the top of society forever. That women were oppressed and had only very recently begun to be treated like human beings. I can't tell you who instilled this in me. It wasn't my parents, I don't think. But somehow I just got that sense from the world. My resolution for that was quite simple. I wasn't a sexist, and that was what was important. I didn't know any sexists, so I figured everything was okay for my part of the world. When I got to college, I g… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | "Testosterone can enhance both reactive aggression and generosity."Wow, that's really impressive. I hope people do more research on this to solidify the theory. That makes a lot of sense, testosterone increases behavior designed to gain social rank, rather than just raw aggression. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 20 | The naked truth about wage gapsLets try to be objective here. Are there evil corporations paying male models less simply because they are male? No, that's nonsense. What actually happening is that the market demand for male models is very low, while high for females. How can models generate revenue? Well they can sell clothing, but men's buying habits aren't influenced the same way women's are. Mostly it's just functional. However women are far more influenced by things that look pretty. This is okay. It's simply natural that… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | 3 Ways Men Wanting to 'Focus On Her Pleasure' During Sex Can Still Be SexistToxic masculinity says that a man is only as good as what he can accomplish. How completely backwards is this? If anything, it's women who benefit most from men only being valuable based on what they provide an achieve? If this weren't the case, we wouldn't have any modern technology! | /r/MensRights | 03/12/16 04:12 AM |
| 6 | Canadian Theatre cancels showing of men's rights documentary The Red Pill due to complaintsOne important difference is that you choose to be a feminist. You do not choose to be male or female. It's reasonable to think that most people who choose to identify with a label would have similar views. Egalitarianism is a much better term. Feminism comes with many built in assumptions about the state of women, many of which are not true. And even if that weren't the case, it still focuses exclusively on benefiting women, so if that isn't your exclusive concern, then I don't think it makes mu… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Female prison in Oklahoma has highest rape rate in USI'm pretty sure fingers and objects count in the US. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/16 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you have any advice for a woman on raising her boys?Physical aggression: standing up for yourself and others. Participating in friendly sports or wrestling. Social aggression: pursuing a position, raise, patent, etc. This can be applied to kids more easily too with things like increasing performance is school or games. If they really want to improve their high score or their ability to solve problems, that aggression can drive them to work harder, practice longer, etc. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/16 05:11 PM |
| 3 | University implementing tampon feeLeave the society. If a huge percentage of the remaining men leave, that will send a message. If the society provides a university funded benefit, then that should be illegal discrimination because they're using government funds. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any advice for a woman on raising her boys?I couldn't tell if you were married or the father was active from the post, but the biggest piece of advice I can say is to make sure they have an active male role model. Young boys benefit greatly from someone actually showing them how men act. Especially things like handling aggression. Men generally are more aggressive, and that's not a bad thing in and of itself. But they need to learn how to channel it, and there's only so far words can go. They need to see action. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/16 05:00 PM |
| 46 | Woman posted false sexual assault claim because she was ‘distraught over the recent election’Of course there will be no charges for wasting police time. There never are. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/16 02:27 PM |
| 2 | (Ex)Girlfriend of 4 years told me my opinion on discrimination didn't matter because I was a white-male.Simple question: who was more opposed? The woman who could not vote? Or the boy who went to die face down in the muck in a trench after months of paralyzing fear and horror on a different continent? Further, once the suffragettes started going, there were many women who opposed them, under the reasoning that a husband and wife having separate votes would divide the household (or something to that effect). There have been numerous campaigns by women that basically said "make your husband vote for… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/16 05:16 AM |
| 3 | My campus's Title IX training included both men and women. It's refreshing to see that both sexes can be victims.Well see, that's a far more dangerous game. You might already be aware of this. If you convince people that consent is difficult, suddenly rape can happen by mistake. Just because she appears to be enjoying herself doesn't mean she's not being raped. So two people being a bit awkward could be rape now. Once you convince people that can happen, they'll believe that rape happens everywhere. Because it does under those terms. Now they can pull the switch, I claim that rape is just a horrible crime … | /r/MensRights | 16/11/16 12:15 PM |
| 6 | My campus's Title IX training included both men and women. It's refreshing to see that both sexes can be victims.Not to temper you too much, but they are still using the highest possible numbers for women and the lowest possible numbers for men, rather than realistic measurements of either. So we still have a long way to go. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/16 12:26 AM |
| 11 | "Men are whimps", says Daily Show on male birth control side effectsI slightly chuckled when Trevor corrected her grammar. But yeah... The rest was awful. I honestly can't believe anyone would find any of that funny. Sure, she can say whatever she wants, but if she actually thinks that's funny then I have a very low opinion of her. And really anyone who does. -EDIT- I figured out what irked me so much about it. The fact of trying to make those jokes are fine. Plenty of people do similar stuff for shock humor; totally fine. However, I didn't get the feeling that … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/16 12:15 AM |
| 3 | [Humor] Accusations in AmericaWhen? The only thing I've heard is him saying what women let him do, which isn't assault. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | "Poverty is sexist." Justin Trudeau - PM of CanadaAlso, if you have 0 income, you're not considered to be in poverty, so you get to remove the majority male homeless people as well. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/16 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Can You Pick The Right Man To Ban?Banned from what? Life? Society? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/16 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Destroy your emails before students accused of rape can sue you, lawyers advise colleges - The College FixI do know a few people who keep their mailboxes clean, deleting everything that's not important after reading it. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/16 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Destroy your emails before students accused of rape can sue you, lawyers advise colleges - The College FixEmail isn't my strong suit, but can emails really be deleted? For example gmail, I'm sure they keep those on record for at least some amount of time, meaning they could be subpoenaed. Also, if they know who the emails were sent to, you can get them from them. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally got into an argument on Twitter regarding sexism at the Olympics and she responded with this article. I have no idea how to respond to this.Oh gee. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally got into an argument on Twitter regarding sexism at the Olympics and she responded with this article. I have no idea how to respond to this.If I recall correctly, it's only 52% of those who actually vote. Or am I remembering wrong? | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Another delusional feminist claims women never ever abuse or kill men, because "it's impossible"...Personally, I think she should be completely allowed to say anything she wants. Hate speech laws are dumb. However I would expect that the average human being would have enough decency to disagree with her views and call her out for being a bigot, causing her to lose her audience. In short, I think it's the people's job, not the state's. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Trump signs Donna Rice petition to ban pornVote Johnson because he actually presents something to believe in. He has a lot of support. It's not a waste of a vote. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/16 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is there never anything on this sub about how men hurt men?I think this is well known. No one here denies it. We all know that fatherlessness is a huge cause of violence and poverty. We're just not naive enough to believe that it's always the father's fault for being absent. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Moral MachineThese questions are kind of silly. No self driving car will actually have access to this kind of information. People give machines far too much credit. It's interesting to note that most people favored women's lives over men's. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/16 10:40 PM |
| 10 | "staring at breasts is an offense.... and we'll deal with the offender and take them to court"No one will be prosecuted yet. For now, it will inflate the number of "sexual assaults" which will be used at a later date to actually pass a law making more criminals. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/16 11:18 AM |
| 6 | Girls outperform boys across board in 'frightening' gender gapBecause so few of them actually go. Which in and of itself isn't necessarily a problem. But all those who perform poorly simple leave the pool of students, so it's not exactly fair. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 1 | This was painful to watch - the CNN anchor had no idea what she was talking about"I wouldn't go to the police if someone gave me advice on how to better take care of myself next time" What. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/16 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The naked truth about "you must always listen and believe all the women who cry rape!"I can respect your argument. Thanks for the insight. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The naked truth about "you must always listen and believe all the women who cry rape!"people can't consent to things contractually when under the influence. Sex is part of that. If you want to treat sex like a contract that's opening the door to all kinds of Orwellian legislation. I agree the situation is messed up, but I don't really have any sympathy. You do drugs/alcohol that messes with your ability to make judgements? What happens to you is your own fault. One of the big reasons I've never touched either, and I don't plan to. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/16 02:11 PM |
| 1 | LAWSUIT: Student kicked off campus before he was even informed of anonymous rape allegationsWe agree that it wasn't from a University. Re-read my comment. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/16 02:35 PM |
| 2 | view on gay rightsNo worries, not exactly the sub for it anyway. No problem. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 04:07 PM |
| 3 | view on gay rightsI feel like your framing of this is a bit disingenuous. What we have is a disagreement about the definition of marriage. It just so happens that most people disagree with my definition. It used to be the case that most people agreed with me, but times change. I can certainly fight for my beliefs, but laws don't work like that. Just because I believe something, that doesn't change the law. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 03:56 PM |
| 8 | view on gay rightsPeople are people. I'm not ashamed to say that I'm a Christian, which means I believe that all people are fundamentally depraved. So, no, I do not believe gay people are any more perverted than the rest of us. Their value as a human being is unchanged. I'm not sure if that answers your question though. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | LAWSUIT: Student kicked off campus before he was even informed of anonymous rape allegationsIf I recall correctly, that wasn't from a university. Not excusing it, but it doesn't oppose the suggestion that UK universities are less anti-male. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Chicago Tribune - That new-parent dread goes online in 'Troll'The solution of "be aware of what your child uses the Internet for and teach them how the power button works" seems to never enter some people's minds. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 03:30 PM |
| 2 | view on gay rightsPersonally I believe marriage is a sacred relationship between man and wife and anything less is perversion. Which does include divorce. However I'm quite sure that the majority of the MRM will disagree with me. This view is completely separate and not connected to my relationship with the MRM. These are entirely separate topics so I wouldn't attempt to draw a causal link either way. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/16 03:11 PM |
| 3 | fyi, here's the direct link to complete court record w/ decision from the earlier poster's "Canadian Judge Quotes Feminist Literature in Rape Case"....it's a very, very disturbing read, and will make you angry.So the judge basically said that he couldn't possibly believe that the woman would have her hands in the man. And that the text saying she wanted hot sex and her sleeping the rest of the night with him is effectively meaningless. What is wrong with him??? If it were up to me, all cases like this would be immediately dismissed. If you can't bring even one witness, or one piece of evidence external to your own memory, you don't get a case. --EDIT-- I just can't get over this. How repeatedly he wen… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Just a questionIt's true that feminists far overstate the number of rape victims, but usually I don't think that's the point when you hear someone say that. Usually, I think people are referring to prison rape, which is tacitly accepted by many people. In fact, I accepted it for a while until someone made me realize that people are sent to prison as punishment and not for punishment. And then what of those in for drug offenses? Sure, they broke the law, but do they really deserve to be raped as many people say… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 04:42 AM |
| 1 | "Most mothers I encounter have no social skills, no idea how to look after themselves, never mind a baby." Sad but fascinating insight for men's rights fathers into modern women, social services & bad mothers. "‘Only about half the mums who come through my door leave with their baby"I think it's kinda sad that the mom can just leave.. Literally just abandon the baby. Sure, it guess it's better than the child being neglected, but men have no such option. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Ex Male Feminist?I think most MRAs are ex feminists. We believe in equality between the sexes. So when we find out women are mistreated we side with the movement claiming to help them. That was back when I was ~17. I just kept learning more and more about the world until I learned that everything feminism fights for is based on lies and propaganda. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/16 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Two Women Rob Man at Gas Station. Police arrest Man.Wow. What a terribly awful situation for that guy. We have two problems here. The first and most obvious is men are always assumed to be guilty. However the second and more insidious is the consequences that come from being arrested. You can be completely exonerated but face severe consequences for the initial arrest. That is extremely messed up. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Is the backlash against the Stanford swimmer fair?She doesn't even remember it by her own admission | /r/MensRights | 10/06/16 07:16 AM |
| 11 | No men allowed: Women-only pool hours draw complaints in NYCIf we want men-only times and spaces Who wants that? I mean, sure, make a club for men about whatever your want. Bible study, golf club, support group, whatever, that's all fine and good. But the same doesn't apply to public utilities and legal businesses. You shouldn't be able to charge men and women the same amount but create times where men can't be there or women can't be there. That's stupid. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Guilty until proven innocent. New Johnny Depp movie bombs amongst calls to boycott due to ALLEGED domestic violenceWhat movie? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/16 02:56 PM |
| 38 | Cunts gone crazy: female character in movie poster treated equally to a male, SJWs go nuts.It's the freaking apocalypse! Why shouldn't the poster depict a moment of despair? The way people use "violence against women" really bothers me. Every person including the author clearly carries the attitude that violence against men is just fine. Now in this context, neither matters because it's a freaking movie. But still. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/16 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many people vehemently against reproductive rights for men?Force of the state, specifically. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many people vehemently against reproductive rights for men?Because women > children > men. Women are at the top of society, we can't do anything to hurt or disadvantage them. Next comes children. We try to do our best to look out for a child, but if a woman wants to abandon it or kill it, we say that's okay. At the bottom, we have men. Since giving them reproductive rights might make things uncomfortable for children, we can't let them have any. It just follows the order. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | That Time Screenshots Kept A Man From Going To Prison.Where are the screenshots with the proof? I'm just curious to know what it takes to convince the police. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Yes, it happens. (A Tinder conversation with a feminist.)Serious question. How is "r--ist" any better? The letters in the word shouldn't be important, but the word itself, right? It's the fact of imagining a rapist that causes the attack, right? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/16 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Yes, it happens. (A Tinder conversation with a feminist.)The pay gap probably isn't the best metric. Almost everyone believes that. Plenty of normal people simply accept it. It doesn't mean we shouldn't fight it, but that point is not a good judge of character. If you explain the gap to them but they persist in claiming it's a problem, then you can bail knowing that they wouldn't work out. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/16 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Two Feminists SHRIVEL UP after hearing FACTS -Mark Latham - mgtow mrm mr...https://youtu.be/gWqAGlmwfaU | /r/MensRights | 30/05/16 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Fathers protest over inequality in justice systemWell it makes sense. You can't get a lot of support advocating for Men's Rights. No one cares about men. Family Rights is much more sympathetic, and in this context isn't even dishonest, so why not go for it? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | My Son is being accused of a false rape accusation. I know he did nothing wrong, but I feel like he's going to get into trouble anyway. Need help on what to do.If they expel your son with no meeting then that just builds a stronger case for you against them. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | My Son is being accused of a false rape accusation. I know he did nothing wrong, but I feel like he's going to get into trouble anyway. Need help on what to do.Other people have already said it, but I'll reiterate. You should tell him to say nothing. He has the right to remain silent, they cannot force him to speak. Anything he says will be used against him. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | In modern USA, what rights do men have that women do not have? What rights do women have that men do not have? Let's create an exhaustive list.Impressive | /r/MensRights | 14/05/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Of COURSE Hillary Clinton thinks women are treated unfairly in sentencingWell sure. But that's why I added the qualifier, "for the most part." | /r/MensRights | 28/04/16 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Did your male friends accept your ideas?Most of my friends were shocked to find out things like the prison sentencing gap and the Duluth model. They were also shocked to learn that the wage gap is misapplied. Generally, they have agreed with me. I'm in Computer Engineering though, so I don't have any female friends. If I did, I'm not sure if I would try explaining this stuff. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/16 02:23 AM |
| 8 | This is the PowerPoint my school is giving to all its studentsPurely indoctrination. Also, they misused "affects." Very annoying. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/16 02:06 AM |
| 63 | Of COURSE Hillary Clinton thinks women are treated unfairly in sentencingI could be wrong, but my opinion on this issue is that women, for the most part, are being treated fairly. Men are being treated extremely unfairly. We don't need more women in prison. We do need less men though. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/16 02:01 AM |
| 1 | [Serious][ELI5] Why is it bad that Star Wars films are having more female leads?It's not a bad thing. There's nothing with it as an idea. If it becomes a gimmick, and/or the character is immune to any development because the writers never put them through anything difficult, then yeah, that's a problem. It will lead to an overall drop in quality for the franchise. We're not at that point, as far as I can tell. Yes, Rey is a bit of a Mary Sue, but it could be worse, and I like her as a character. I have no reason to hold a grudge against Jynn either. As long as they handle i… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/16 09:47 PM |
| 1 | This University Cleared a Male Student of Rape, Then Re-Tried and Convicted Him Via Insane SystemIsn't that double jeopardy? Which is illegal, right? This should be an open and shut case if the accused sued. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 03:13 AM |
| 9 | France passes law making it illegal to pay for sex French MPs finally approve divisive legislation that will criminalise customers rather than sex workers.This is backwards on so many levels. Firstly, the whole concept doesn't make sense. If you film it and call it porn, suddenly it's totally fine. On top of that, why can't women be allowed to do what they want with their bodies? Secondly, the reasoning behind outlawing paying for sex is to "protect women." But it won't even do that! In fact it does the opposite! Say that a woman is behind whored out against her will. The customer gets punished and she's still in slavery. The problem has been made… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/16 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck?If the boy really said he didn't think it was a big deal, then fine, I'll respect that from him. Regardless, he doesn't need to be the perfect victim to prosecute. You don't have to be autistic to be taken advantage of. So I'm willing to support him on that, but his abusers should still absolutely pay the price. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/16 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Are there places that offer coding classes to disadvantaged boys/men?This. I agree that it's a problem that girls are given special treatment here, but everything you need to know to become a good programmer is available for free online. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The Judge's written opinion in the Jian Ghomeshi case is a great read. Knowing that it will be under the microscope of the media and the public, the Judge goes to great lengths to explain the law, the presumption of innocence, the burden of proof, and the facts presented at trial.Does anyone have a mirror? Not feeling like making an account for this | /r/MensRights | 25/03/16 12:24 PM |
| 4 | How to disprove the ''97 Percent of rapists never go to jail''?This assumes that every single person accused of rape is actually a rapist. A gross statement. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Is there a *meaningful* difference between causing someone to exist in the first place and extending someone's existence/lifespan?As far as net effect, I do think there is a meaningful difference. This may get kinda philosophical. So if a certain person is never brought into existence, they have no effect on the world at all. There's no point at which any reasonable speculation could be made about how they would change the world. However if someone already currently exists, they've already made many changes. These "threads" of changes can be expected to continue in some reasonable way. If their life is not extended, these … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/16 01:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are not the primary victims of rape culture. Men are.As far as I can tell, there is no rape culture, so it doesn't make much sense for me to claim one or the other. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Now every firm with more than 250 staff must put gender pay gap data online in move to encourage companies to reward all staff equally.This will be great if the firms actually include detailed data and don't just pay women more for no reason so it looks like they have no gap. That's honestly my biggest concern; that companies will just slap a raise on every woman in the company so they don't have to report any gaps. It would also be sad if the data isn't detailed, meaning basically no conclusions could be drawn from it, but then we're not any worse off than we are now, so that's not as big of a downside in my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/16 03:10 AM |
| 2 | University Refuses to Grant Recognition to Men's Issues Group after Feminists Say it Makes Women Feel UnsafeHm... I suppose that's a tough question. I still don't think it's cut and dry, but I could see how they might have a case. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/16 04:22 AM |
| 1 | University Refuses to Grant Recognition to Men's Issues Group after Feminists Say it Makes Women Feel UnsafeReally? Why? They're not telling them that they can't assemble, the school just won't recognize it as an official organization. What law are they breaking? | /r/MensRights | 29/01/16 07:28 PM |
| 11 | University Refuses to Grant Recognition to Men's Issues Group after Feminists Say it Makes Women Feel UnsafeWell that's government. This is just one school refusing to officially recognize the group. The group can continue to meet and do whatever. They just won't be able to advertise on the school's channels and things like that which is perfectly legal. Still sad, but no laws are being broken here. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/16 05:08 AM |
| 2 | 1995 Male Reproductive Rights Heated DebateAnd telling your girlfriend to go get an abortion does not carry the same moral burden as getting one yourself. I don't think anyone here is arguing that anyone should be able to do that. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/16 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Connie St Louis releases statement regarding claim that Milo called for an assassinationWow that's stupid... Milo even mentioned that she lied by omission. He never claimed that Tim Hunt didn't say those words, just that she purposely omitted the context to make him look bad. And she takes that and says it stressed her out so much that she couldn't even make reasonable arguments or claims... Wow. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | A Real Critique Against Men's Rights I Saw TodayCertainly this is something to watch out for. The movement as a whole probably does more attacking feminism than supporting these other things, but there's a pretty good reason for that. Plenty of MRAs support all those things. However we're moving closer to equality under the law with those categories (gay, and trans that is). Male rape victims tend to be lacking in some protections, but if we're talking actual rights, it's really the broader group of men in general that need the attention, I b… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/16 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Are men not "preyed" upon online?It's sad, because the average joe has no idea what this even means. So if people read stuff like that they'll immediately assume that it's bad. The article doesn't appear to even offer a reason as to how it will help criminals. It's clear that more than gender politics is going on. These people just hate encryption and love public spying. They're just using the fact that people care about women and children as a weapon. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/16 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Need some clarityAnyone on sites like OKCupid is always looking for attention. I don't care that they have a "for friends only" checkbox. The entire system is geared towards that. The whole subreddit seems like a waste of time, to be honest. A lot of people blowing up over nothing. And in the legitimate cases... people are jerks on the Internet. Big surprise. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/16 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Fight w/ the feminist exWell that's why she didn't agree with him. A woman forcing penetration isn't raping the man. So only women are victims. That's the reasoning anyway. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/16 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Yiannopoulos Privilege Grant is a bursary available exclusively to white men, in support of their post-secondary education.Haha wow, is this real?? | /r/MensRights | 21/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Teacher who avoided jail, sex offender registry for sexually abusing student is now suing his parents for calling her a sexual predatorExactly. I think losing her teaching license is entirely appropriate in this scenario, but sex offender and jail time just isn't needed. However to then turn around and sue someone for stating facts... That's twisted. It's pretty scary actually. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Woman chooses to do the most horrible things, just so that father can never see his children again (This is extremely fxxed up, x-post from morbidreality)For once we actually see justice done. Finally. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is the wage gap a myth or not?Awesome, thanks! | /r/MensRights | 18/01/16 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Is the wage gap a myth or not?The CONSAD report used to be my go-to for this, but it looks as if the whole of consad.come has shut down, which is really weird. Here's and article discussing the report. The wage gap is more likely 95 cents, compared to the claim of 77 cents. Additionally, it's known that men tend to negotiate higher wages, so that could be all that's needed to explain the rest of the gap. Some feminists even acknowledge these claims as completely legitimate. Of course, they then argue that society is "forcing… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/16 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Police killing black men isnt really about them being black.It appears you've reversed my intent. Perhaps my original comment was poorly worded. Men have more run-ins because they are more likely to take risks. They are also more likely to commit violent/open crime. This is largely biological, I think. Black men have more run-ins, but I don't attribute this to race alone. I'm not arguing that black men "want" to commit more crime than white men. I attribute it largely to black culture, which really isn't about race, but ideology. Does that make sense? | /r/MensRights | 18/01/16 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Police killing black men isnt really about them being black.And I think it happens for different reasons. I'm pretty sure that black men do tend to have more high-strung run-ins with the police (as a percentage), and this may explain why we tend to see a bit of racial bias. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that their blackness is what causes them to have run-ins with the police, there's not reason to believe that. But it's important to ask these questions. Many people point to "black culture" discouraging personal growth, which keeps poverty high, and … | /r/MensRights | 18/01/16 12:16 AM |
| 3 | I need scientific papers...proof that circumcision is vs...my younger sister is about to have a boyIt's a violation of genital integrity. She wouldn't do it to a girl, right? That should be all the reason she needs. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Woman calls a man putting up his middle finger towards her from his car "an attack", "violence against women" and wants to report it to the police.Haha, well technically she is a victim... just not a victim of violence. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/16 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Men only think they do as much house work as women.If I were a stay-at-home mom, I probably would invest that extra time to get to 100% clean though. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/16 07:26 AM |
| 11 | Who do you think is the candidate that will most support men's rights?Ultimately I don't think he's a very good candidate. He's a loose canon. I agree with a fair majority of the things he says, but some of it is just way too far out there. I think he's the only candidate who has the balls to point out injustices against men and suggest action to fix it. I think the net effect would be negative for the country. It's just a big risk. The next candidate I would say is probably Sanders. He has spouted feminist dogma before, including the wage gap, but overall he seem… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/16 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Realistically, what are my chances of a false rape accusation in college?Depends. Do you go to lots of parties? Do you sleep with a lot of women? If yes, personally I would just expect it, even though your odds probably fairly low. It's easy to minimize the risk though. Don't sleep with women, and don't go to any crazy parties. If you do that, it's almost guaranteed that it won't happen. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/16 05:26 AM |
| 13 | Who do you think is the candidate that will most support men's rights?I would have to say Trump. He seems pretty well against feminism and says whatever he wants to say with no fear. That doesn't mean I want him in office though. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | One man's experience with domestic violence. Attempted vehicular homicide at 3:20.You can prove it by mentioned that keying his car was clearly a baiting attempt. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | "When women do kill it is usually different to male killing". Article explains why it's an outrage that 8% prisoners are femaleThe author is a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | "When women do kill it is usually different to male killing". Article explains why it's an outrage that 8% prisoners are femaleI was thinking this the whole time. The law is applied in such a way that very few females are punished when they break the law, and in the case of sexual offenses, even the letter of the law excuses females. Feminism has changed our legal system so that women are treated very leniently, and then feminists want to use this as evidence that women basically never commit crime. It'd be funny if it weren't so terrifying. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/16 06:23 PM |
| 0 | The huge privileges of being born female(of which there certainly are some) Such as? I'm legitimately curious. As an aside, whatever these issues are, I'm guessing that for feminism to fight for them, it will have to abandon "equal rights under the law," and shift to "alleviate female-specific social problems," correct? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | [Hypothetical] If a woman steals my semen, am I responsible for child support?Legally, yes. It shouldn't be that way, but it's just how it is. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]No no, you got the wrong guy! xD | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]Only someone with a low IQ would say that having a high IQ is overrated. I'm not so sure about that. Steven Hawking says that people who boast about high IQs are losers. I have no idea what my IQ is. I imagine it's decent, I'm in engineering school and I'm the only one I know with perfect scores. I even went through one class and didn't miss a single point the entire semester. But that achievement is worth far more to me than some number. Perhaps if we had IQ tests to hold high office we wouldnt… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]That makes sense. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]Interesting. Thanks for that! | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Help; what is a good response or info against the argument the reason female suicide is lower is because they are more likely to take pills (and fail) whereas men are more practical and use methods like strangulation?And of course this isn't to say that these people don't need help. It's just that those who self-harm are suffering entirely different things than those who commit suicide and shouldn't be conflated. So don't let feminists contort this into "you don't care about people who self-harm." | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Help; what is a good response or info against the argument the reason female suicide is lower is because they are more likely to take pills (and fail) whereas men are more practical and use methods like strangulation?Also, these women are very likely to "attempt" multiple times, and the hospital simply records a record of the visit, which gets interpreted as a new person. So one mentally ill woman may generate five or six "suicide attempts" that skew the numbers even further. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | High School Students Gasp at Debunked Wage GapThis is beautiful, who would downvote this? | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]Fair enough. So I just want to make sure I understand this. Having a high IQ still doesn't say anything about your intelligence, right? If you have a high IQ but don't apply yourself, you'll be outclassed by those who work hard to learn new things. Since IQ is just how well and quickly you can process information, it might mean that you don't have to work as hard as other people, but you're still not getting a free ride. I bring this up because many of my friends constantly make statements like … | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 12:04 AM |
| 48 | "While men still far outnumber women in Ohio prisons — 46,394 to 4,258, as of Monday — women will get first priority for the new program."“I have a tough time in a visiting room at women’s prisons,” Mohr said. “It tears your heart out to see inmates with little boys and girls who don’t know why their mom isn’t leaving with them.” Wow... what drivel. These women broke the law. Men deal with this all the time, but no one expects us to feel sorry for them. Don't get me wrong, I agree that the number of people incarcerated for non-violent drug offenses is way too high. But men suffer from this far more than women do, and it would help… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/16 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]spatial processing and logic This is what I mean by "how fast you can learn." Perhaps this is an incorrect association. What are some of the more informed criticisms of IQ? edit:spelling | /r/MensRights | 10/01/16 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ [Last posted here 4 years ago, great discussion today in /r/science]While certainly interesting, I want to point out that IQ != intelligence. IQ is simply a measure of how fast you learn. Not what you actually know or are capable of doing with your knowledge. A high IQ certainly is good, but we overvalue it in today's culture. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Are reluctant men to blame for so many women being childless? Record numbers are never becoming mothers - and not by choice.I suppose if I'd been born in another era, men would have had to commit to marriage before they had sex, Surprise surprise. You remove what is possibly the biggest reason that men wanted to marry, and suddenly less men want to marry. No one should be surprised. Combined with the terrible treatment of men in divorce courts and the high divorce rate... There's no mystery here. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Why 'Making a Murderer' Is Netflix's Most Significant Show EverI turned it off to get through, and then back on. After I turned it off it took me to a new "quote of the day" page so I still had the blocker on when I made it to the main site. Very very annoying though. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, should I get married?One ratified in the presence of two lawyers, one for him and one for her. Otherwise it's not worth the paper it's written on. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, should I get married?It really depends on the girl. There's a few left that won't abuse their power. But even then, what benefits are there to getting married? How will the relationship change? I assume you'd get some tax breaks (I don't know how it works down under) but I'd forgo them if they're the only benefit. If she really wants to get married (as most women do) and will leave you if you decide you never want to get married, then you have a choice to make. This choice (I believe) should be informed by what kind… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 07:46 PM |
| 2 | First it was #KillAllMen, then #MaleTears and now it's #WasteHisTime2016 - Boy, feminists sure support men tooWell by that progression it's getting better. They used to want to kill us, then make us cry, now just waste our time. I can live with that. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 07:18 PM |
| 2 | There is a petition on Change.org trying to force the Boy Scouts of America to allow young/teenage girls to participate in the program, claiming 'discrimination'. They can join Girl Scouts, but no, they want Boy Scouts too.It's just entirely counter-intuitive. If girls join, it's not boy scouts anymore. Just make a new group. But that's too much work, so they won't do that. Boy scouts is one of the few all-male spaces left where boys can actually learn and do stuff in a way that is catered to them. We don't need girls to get in and demand changes to make it more comfortable. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 12:02 AM |
| 2 | 1 minute viral video [4.56 Million views] shows the difference between a "rapist" and a prince-charmingI feel like it's a bit over-the-top, but it demonstrates the point pretty well. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | My experience with a Hypocrite feministGoogle "consad wage report." I would give you a direct link but for some reason I can't bring up the website. Hopefully it's just temporary. As I'm sure you've discovered by now, women (on average) simply choose jobs that pay less. This creates a national average where women earn less than men. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Well, it finally happen on my FB. I hate this shitEven if this fear was reasonable (it completely isn't) how does that justify us giving women more rights? What rights are they missing that would rectify this problem? What is feminism planning to do to stop this? | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 06:21 AM |
| 2 | News outlets falsely accuses Men's Right Activists of trying to Boycott Star Wars: Force AwakensI hate it when people do this. It's a blatant smear attempt. I guess that shows that they know we're right though. Since they can't win with actual logic, they have to win by straw-manning. Gosh, that's just so infuriating though. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 06:20 AM |
| -1 | Men worrying about their penis size is their own damn fault!This. Personally, I think the article is mostly right. Everything I've heard from women is "size doesn't matter," yet many men still fixate on this. By the same token, most men don't want a supermodel and are perfectly fine if their wife isn't 100% perfect in every way. It's mostly women that reinforce the over-emphasis on beauty. Modern feminism has allowed the cultural norm to be thinking that men are at fault for both which is kind of a problem. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How do explain suicide stats to the normies?Wow, interesting. Looks like I was wrong. Thanks for that! | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How do explain suicide stats to the normies?I agree on all but the gunshot. If my understanding is correct, there's only a handful of people in the entire world who have ever survived such injury. We're talking like 99.999% death rate here. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | How do explain suicide stats to the normies?Repeat victims are counted as new victims. So women with mental problems may attempt suicide 5 or 6 times, never serious about it. Now the stats make it look like 6 women attempted suicide when in fact only one did. Also, this only include those that actually go to hospitals. If a man opens a draw and stares at a gun for 45 minutes and then decides to not do anything, these stats can't reflect that. Additionally, the length of the hospital stay is often undisclosed. I suspect that many women spe… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | So, was taking a look in againstmensrightsThis exactly. It feels hugely teenager. No one would say it outright, but their beliefs seem to line up perfectly with feminists in that men's lives are perfect and face no struggles specific to them or are the majority victims of certain unfortunate circumstances. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Feminism Now Infests Sherlock Holmes MysteriesI was disappointed by this as well. I enjoyed the episode up to that point. It's absolutely pathetic how wrong this view of history is. In the scene where they first met Mycroft, they discussed the "war" they were fighting. Mycroft dismissed Watson's conjecture that it was with the suffragettes. Later on, Holmes mentions "half the population." They are presenting the view that men were literally at war with women. Not feminists. Women. Despite there being women against them even then. It was a w… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Mapped: how a demographic time bomb will transform the global economy. No mention of MGTOW. No mention of feminism destroying the family. No mention of the average family man not earning enough to support a family. etcWeird. Doesn't Japan have a thing of "Herbivore Men" who are basically MGTOW? I think it's pretty clear they'd be having a big influence in this. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Official criminal complaint against CosbyHuh. Well it looks like this may get him convicted. If I'm understanding it correctly. It appears that he's admitted to the police in 2005 to the actions described in the victim's account. If the police have the admission on record (which they should) then it's a done deal. I would say that's pretty reasonable evidence. It wasn't mentioned in the report, but I wonder if the victim reported the crime quickly enough that the police could examine her to determine the presence of debilitating drugs.… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I am interested in how the fear of false accusations effects men, particularly on college campusesNo, nothing official. The student handbook is completely gender neutral. It really could have just read "follow the law" for every section dealing with criminal activity. They do have a "gender-based violence" section of the handbook, but as I said, they make absolutely no reference to gender. It would be more appropriately named "violence." There are some things that are implied. There is a women's center but not a men's, and several posters hang in student services promoting the idea that only… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get through to a Feminist?Since your friend is male, you may be able to take the numbers approach. Go through his claims about what women suffer (wage gap, rape culture, patriarchy, etc) and show him with hard numbers why these issues are made up, or vastly inflated. /r/MRRef has a lot of good info for this and you can always post here if you're looking some numbers. This is largely anecdotal, but I've never changed a woman's mind with this method. I've seen a few men change stance a bit after hearing the numbers and see… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 07:07 AM |
| 1 | I've seen this commercial several times during the New Years celebration. 2016 has potential.I'll definitely give this a watch! It does seem to give the idea that only men rape, but who knows, that was just a trailer. My biggest problem is that the victim has no memory of the crime apparently. So how can you prosecute? I worry that it will turn into "believe victims no matter what." Nonetheless, I am glad to see that males being raped is at least mentioned. It's most likely better than nothing. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 07:01 AM |
| 1 | I am interested in how the fear of false accusations effects men, particularly on college campusesI attend a pretty large college (30,000+ students) and it has definitely affected me. I'm in engineering, so there are very few women that I even have the chance to interact with, and these women tend to be a little more down-to-earth (junior level). Regardless, I'm not taking any chances. I don't associate with women outside of the classroom. I've never had to work with one on a project thankfully. It's just worth the risk to get too close to any of them. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 06:56 AM |
| 5 | All I said was "if women have the right to be bear chested in public, men have the right to observe and ogle them as they see fit" interesting responseAlso, if I grab your breasts, that is regular assault and not sexual assault, right? I don't know, is grabbing someone's elbow an assault? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 06:52 AM |
| 2 | New York Times Op-Ed Concludes Cosby Guilty of Assault Before Prosecution CommencesI feel like if you waited twelve years to report a crime to the police it couldn't have bothered you that much. Sure, I could understand a few months, but even then you really should report right away, giving yourself the best chance to find good evidence. Honestly. If Cosby is convicted, I will be very surprised if there is any evidence at all beyond 12-year-old personal testimony. I feel like this is flimsy at best. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 06:48 AM |
| 14 | Ask girl if she needs help? Get security called on you and shamed on her building's FB.I'm pretty darn sure that attractiveness is literally the only factor that determines creepiness for some women. I'm sure some are more reasonable about it, but just from watching my female friends, how attractive the guy is seems to be the only one. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/16 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How the new Star Wars movie has been turned into feminist propaganda. This is a great review!Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with trying to include more girls in the commercial. It really depends on how they go about it though. I suppose we'll have to wait and see how this character is treated to understand the creators' true intentions. I do fear that they will screw it up, but I'm still optimistic that they won't. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 09:35 AM |
| 1 | RationalWiki on the MRM: What's So Great About Facts, Thought and Understanding?Reading through it... there wasn't anything of substance there. Nothing to reasonably refute a single point. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Was having a discussion with my DadWomen are preferred 2:1 for tenure track positions. This is academia of course, not industry, but still. And for that all you have to really do is look at the "jobs" page for any company and the all have a section about how much they want women to get jobs there. This bias is very unlikely to somehow be isolated to academia. At very least there is no way we'd be seeing the opposite bias in industry. Edit: also, go to any STEM college/university and look at the numbers. Majority male, despite the… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why We Need To Stop Telling Boys Not To Hit Girls Because 'She Is A Girl'Unfortunately, the society we live it has not made it permissible to strike a girl, even in self defense. If you have to chose between death or beating a girl up, obviously don't die, but if the situation is not fatally risky hitting a girl cannot be justified due to the later repercussions. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How the new Star Wars movie has been turned into feminist propaganda. This is a great review!And yah she's Luke's kid Hopefully! Or she's a total feminism grab I admit that it's possible, but I don't believe she is. If the creators intended her to be it that way, you couldn't tell by their advertising, which is where they would want to make it clear. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 01:25 AM |
| 9 | #If I were a boy - I'd be able to make choices about my own bodyI've actually heard that argument directly from a feminist before. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How the new Star Wars movie has been turned into feminist propaganda. This is a great review!No, that's entirely plausible. Perhaps she was the only student who survived after the Knights of Ren attacked, and memory loss is just the way her body has chosen to deal with the trauma. That said, she was very young when that happened, so shouldn't have learned to be a master or anything int hat time, but certainly would have a basic knowledge which would help with piloting, intuition, reflexes, etc. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/15 01:20 PM |
| 2 | How the new Star Wars movie has been turned into feminist propaganda. This is a great review!At around 6:00, he mentions diversity. I thought the movie handled this really well actually. I mean, if we're being honest, there's really no reason why a fleet commander can't be Asian, or fighter pilots black. There's nothing "heavy handed" about it. It's just there. A lot of games and movies fail with this because they try to draw too much attention non-white and female characters. If there's nothing special about them and the character stand on their own merits, then the race and gender isn… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Is violence in music videos mostly against men?It's pretty obvious that basically all violence in music videos is against men. I can't think I've seen even one that featured violence by a man against a woman. It would be suicide to produce that in today's climate. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/15 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Isn’t it just obvious that MRAs are the right side? And that an MRA world would clearly be the better world?I think I agree with your points fundamentally, but I disagree with some of your language. "An MRA world" sounds like it would be unfair with an over-emphasis on men. I think "the world MRAs desire" might be more descriptive. Maybe I'm just nitpicking too much. That's one reason why I don't publicly identify as an MRA, because it's just not worth the baggage. I'm an egalitarian. There are a couple of ways that women are disadvantaged that I think are worth talking about, and there are a lot of w… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/15 05:21 AM |
| 5 | "Women continue to bear the brunt of conflicts started by men." UN implies that boys and men who are raped or killed in war deserve it because of collective responsibilityIt's sad how deep the collective mentality goes. They're basically arguing that little boys killed or raped in war started the whole conflict. Even if it was only men who started the war, why are female victims of that decision more victimized than male? Neither of them wanted the war to happen and both are suffering. Who started it is irrelevant for those two humans. I read a study a while back that suggested women have extreme in-group preference for women. I think this is probably true, and w… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody have a link to a credible source debunking the pay gap?Let me Google that for you. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/15 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have a solid source for the poverty statistics of men, IE the percentage of men living in poverty compared to women?Huh. Will I did some research and apparently child support does count. This still skews the numbers because you can have men above the poverty line that have to pay out so they should be below it, but it's not as much as I thought. Also, as you can see from that page, food stamps don't count as well as housing assistance and any non-cash benefits. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | New Zealand: 10 ways to speak about gender equality with your sons - This was the 'best' "TELL THEM THEY NEED TO GIVE UP THINGS FOR GENDER EQUALITY"In their minds, it's not even up for debate that women are disadvantaged in every single field imaginable. So therefore equality can only mean giving more to women. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, if a female athlete at a university bragged about taking advantage of and raping a drunk male student, would she be suspended or kicked off the team?I don't think a man or a woman should be kicked off for that. If the person they claimed to have raped will not bring the case to the police, I don't see any reason to think there's a problem. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a solid source for the poverty statistics of men, IE the percentage of men living in poverty compared to women?For the US, these stats are really really hard to pin down. Child support isn't counted as income. Government benefits (including housing) are not counted either. So there are a lot of women making less than the poverty line because they simply don't need to make any more. Also, homelessness does not count. So if you have no place to live and an income of $0, you're not in poverty by the stats. All these things work together to inflate the number of women "in poverty" to justify giving them even… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/15 08:20 PM |
| 3 | The Woman Question (an early men's rights essay, from the days when "women were chattel")I always love saving this kind of stuff so I can show it to people who claim that "women have always been oppressed." | /r/MensRights | 10/12/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Men's Rights On Controversial Issues (Marital Rape, Abortion, etc)Thanks for taking the time to actually come talk to us on these questions! Most people simply assume the worst. 1) Generally, I personally oppose marital rape laws because they are entirely unnecessary. If a man violently has sex with his wife against her will, then we already have laws against that by way of domestic violence. A woman abused in this way already has all the laws and help she needs to see justice done. This is good. However if a wife simply says she doesn't want it and a husband … | /r/MensRights | 05/12/15 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Kaley Cuoco to pay $45 million as Alimony to Estranged Husband Ryan SweetingI agree, but something has to happen to create change. I don't want to see women hit with unfair alimony/child support. I don't want to see men hit with it either. Most people (men and women alike) really only care about women. Until this negatively affects women, nothing will be done to change it. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | YouTube playlist "Factual Feminist"—it's refreshing to find a feminist online who actually uses logic and reason.I partially agree. I disagree because it forces other feminists to think about what makes you a feminist. Many will claim that she's not a "real" feminist. Well why isn't she? Eventually you get down to the fact that to be a feminist, you have to believe women are victims in every situation with no agency. So for that reason it's good that Based Mom still calls herself a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge.All the children should have taken a pledge not to hurt others. I'm not even sure if that's appropriate. I would want my kids to know it's okay to stand up to bullies and not be scared to hit back. I feel like these kinds of things should be handled by parents, not the public school. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/15 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge.Haha, I wondered how long it would take before someone got it. Not long xD Yeah, unfortunately by posting here you'll get auto-banned from a handful of subs. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/15 09:47 PM |
| 30 | Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge.Did you just call my girlfriend a cow? | /r/MensRights | 25/11/15 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge.Or at the very least, the "few bad eggs" have all the power and the actually "good" feminists don't have any power to enact change. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Adam Ruins Everything - Why You Should Tell Coworkers Your Salary (African American women make 64cents for every dollar the average white male makes - 2:00) Just thought it was interesting enough to share.I feel like the episode overall was pretty good. I did cringe at that part, but it wasn't as dishonest as the feminists. He did say it as a blanket statement, and it is true at face value. He didn't immediately attribute it to discrimination either, although it was implied. The solution he offered was simply making wages public. I have no problem with this. If he had said to simply pay black women more... then I'd have a problem with it. Regardless of what he believes the causes for the gap are,… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/15 09:25 PM |
| 1 | No boys allowed: Bainbridge Island teacher bans boys from playing with Legos.Well gee. He brings up some good points. I don't agree with everything he said, but most of it. I'm gonna have to keep tabs on this site. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 12:49 PM |
| 7 | No boys allowed: Bainbridge Island teacher bans boys from playing with Legos.I'm not demanding kids learn that, I think they just naturally will. Someone elsewhere in the thread pointed out that all kinds of systems (police, military, government etc) demonstrate this two-faced behavior. I can't see any reason why they should have to deal with it on that personal of a level. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Do we have any data on suicide rates among men subjected to false allegations?False accusations unfortunately are too hard to pin down. They range from about 8% to 92%. 8% comes from the woman actually admitting that she lied. 8% of cases lead to conviction. So everything in between is completely up in the air. So the only real collection we could do is on that 8%, which probably isn't descriptive of the average false accusation. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 05:24 AM |
| 1 | No boys allowed: Bainbridge Island teacher bans boys from playing with Legos.The movie "Courageous" is (relative to other church material) supposedly an affirmation of fathers, but dumps all over the fathers in it, and fathers like them. Wait, when did Courageous dump on fathers? The only ones I saw it paint negatively were the ones who legitimately did some pretty bad things. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 05:15 AM |
| 27 | No boys allowed: Bainbridge Island teacher bans boys from playing with Legos.Yes it's a good lesson to learn... but a terrible way to learn it in. This woman simply shouldn't be allowed to teach children - male or female. Kids will learn the lesson one way or another, it shouldn't have to be through something like this. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/15 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Turning 18 this month and Selective Services is giving me nightmares.It's unlikely that there will ever be another draft. A nuclear war is far more likely (and far more terrifying) in my opinion. Battles fought with cannon-fodder are growing increasingly slim. If you are someone valuable (Engineer, scientist, etc) they're not going to throw you away, so you're education isn't useless. Don't worry about it though. Really. Yes, it's unfair and here we do believe it should be repealed (or extended to women, but I think that's less common) but don't lose sleep over i… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/15 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Male Babysitter Discrimination (X-Post from R/parenting)I think you're right to make the decision based on experience and not gender. I deal with this stuff pretty often. I work very well with kids, especially young boys. I think it's probably because I've never really grown up myself and I share a lot of interests with them like Minecraft, Star Wars, etc. They think it's so cool that they have a "big kid" as their friend. I've actually had very little trouble from people at my church where I do most of my work. Thankfully most parents are reasonable… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/15 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Rousey shouldn't get a pass on domestic violenceMy way of looking at these things is asking what would happen if both parties were men. So one man effectively holds another hostage, a man who he knows is well capable of fighting? I'm not feeling sorry for him when his hostage takes a swing at him. Therefore I don't feel sorry for him when his hostage was a woman. It may not be a cut and dry "he hit first" but he was absolutely asking for it and has no sympathy from me. It's not like he was even hurt that badly from what I understand. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/15 05:20 AM |
| 2 | As a girl, what are some things I can do to make life a little bit easier for the guys in my life?Ahh. Gotcha. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/15 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Equal numbers of American men and women complete 4 years of college by age 25 according to the U.S. CensusMilitary was the first thing I thought of as well. I have several friends many years older than me in my classes because they served in the military prior to now. However this doesn't adequately explain it. Because those men are here now and women still are the great majority of college attendees. So the military has already been accounted for and women are still the majority. As others have mentioned, it is because there are great numbers of much older men who hold degrees. A graph showing 25-3… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/15 04:50 AM |
| 2 | As a girl, what are some things I can do to make life a little bit easier for the guys in my life?Others have mentioned it, but the Golden Rule is really the best thing here. Nothing grandiose, just treat men how you would want to be treated in their shoes. I think a lot of men can appreciate that. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/15 04:38 AM |
| 2 | As a girl, what are some things I can do to make life a little bit easier for the guys in my life?I thought shadowbanning wasn't a thing anymore? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/15 04:37 AM |
| 2 | my letter to the CBCI shouldn't have watched that... Dang that made me mad... | /r/MensRights | 13/11/15 04:42 AM |
| 4 | One of the most sickening lies ever told in the domestic violence debate now being spread in Australia: "Ninety-five per cent of violence – whether against a woman or a man – is perpetrated by men"It looks like in that specific sentence they're making a claim about all violence. In which case they're closer to the truth. I don't really think it's quite that high though. And if they are talking about that, of course they conveniently forgot to mention that men are the overwhelming majority in the victims of this violence. So I'm not really sure what game they're playing here, but in either case, it's pretty sad. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | As a man, do you find typical, tall, buff, male, 6-pack mannequins as unfair "unrealistic" beauty standards?To an extent. I'm really scrawny, but I have a friend who used to be a stick like me. He bought some books, changed his diet and started working out and now he's like 220lbs with all muscle. He probably could be a model, but he's in engineering school with me. So I know it's certainly possible for me to be that way. And I know that "good-looking" mannequins are going to get more clothes sold. So ultimately I don't really care. That said, I care equally as much about "unrealistic" beauty standard… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/15 04:57 AM |
| 8 | Crosspost from 2X - How the word of a woman has all but ruined my life.Gee, this pretty awful. I'm glad that you were found not guilty but still... It sucks that no one else seems to believe you. It's also pretty lame that this got deleted from two x... Kinda shows how they want the system to stay as it is. You have all my consolations. Hoping things improve for you this next year. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/15 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Woman threatens to stab boyfriend in texts, then kills him in his bed. At trial he is called an abuser and she claims "self defense". Wait for the verdict.To be fair, we don't actually know if she got away with it or not yet. But I agree with your sentiment. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Headline: "This school won't charge women programmers for tuition until after they land jobs" How is this legal?I think "progressives" would be a better fit than "liberals." | /r/MensRights | 20/10/15 03:29 PM |
| 4 | "Women think about things in a holistic way..."I'm pretty sure it's well established that men have the ability to think of nothing, while women do not. The way I heard it, men's brains have boxes, and each box has topics neatly organized. When talking about something, the only discuss the items in that box. To change subjects, we have to pack up all the items, close the box, and then open a new one. And of course, there is a box with nothing in it. Women's brains are like a long thread, with item represented as a point on the thread. Many di… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/15 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Something that bugs me about the "street harassment" discourseAh. Well of course. They're hypocrites. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/15 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Something that bugs me about the "street harassment" discourseIt probably has some basis in reality. My girlfriend has told me that when she gets cat-called it's only a white guy about 10% of the time. Personally, I attribute that to higher rates of fatherlessness in non-white homes. So I would say that it's indicative of a larger issue. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/15 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Article claims man buns can cause "traction alopecia" for doing same thing women do with ponytails. Don't tell women how to do their hair, though.Clickbait is all this is. Ignore it. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | U.N. Says Cyber Violence Is Equivalent to Physical Violence Against WomenWhoa whoa whoa... what was that? women are 27 times more likely as men to be harassed online 73% of women have endured cyber violence x * 27 = 73 x = 2.7 So only 2.7% of men have been harassed online? Laughable. Absolutely laughable. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/15 09:10 PM |
| 9 | Lydia Wheeler of thehill.com Caught Woozling Juvenile Justice - "Girls outnumber boys in juvy, report shows" - The Report Says No Such ThingThis was hilarious... The article takes the fact that the number of females in juvenile have risen 40% and then claims that they're now the majority. And the actual number is 13% total, not >50%... Even if they were a majority, no one who agrees with this article thought it was a problem that boys were previously the majority. So hypocritical. And then I laughed about the "prison isn't for women" arguments. But it's sad that so many people think this way. It's depressing sometimes... | /r/MensRights | 26/09/15 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How the "#masculinitysofragile" supporters made themselves look like foolsIIRC, the author didn't use the word beta, he simply referenced a tweet from someone else that did. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/15 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Question regarding a talking point I've heard!I can see where people are coming from when they say that. Masculinity isn't something that someone can just take from you. But a woman can be extremely overbearing, nagging, insensitive, un-empathetic, and generally repressive, so if you are in a relationship with a woman like that, I can see how you would feel poorly. Men (generally) like to be needed, to be able to fix things and set them right. When a woman makes it hard or impossible to do so, you can start to feel useless. All in all, I th… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/15 05:51 AM |
| 3 | #MasculinitySoFragile it's 1 in 5 - research finds that women verbalise four times more misandry than men do misogynyI'm curious too. Without a source, it's just hot air. It's entirely possible that the number was gotten with shady research that we really shouldn't be referencing. But it's impossible to know without the source. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/15 05:36 AM |
| 11 | Feminists seek to ban futuristic sex robots in the UKHow is there possibly a legitimate basis for this??? Not a single law is being broken. This shows feminisms true colors. They know they need men and they're scared of what happens if men actually don't need women... | /r/MensRights | 16/09/15 05:48 AM |
| 3 | From 'How to Destroy a Country': "Feminism was never about the war against men, it was about a war against the family". Food for thought?I think that's a reasonable guess. Taking down men is probably part of a larger agenda to take down the family. Women can depend entirely on the government in a communist state, and would then be able to depend entirely on men after the state collapses. Men don't get that, so they have less desire for such a situation. Not all feminists think this way though. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/15 05:34 AM |
| 4 | A woman called the cops on me for sitting in a parking lot at a school. Women + Children = Normal. Man + Children = Danger.It's pushed by gynocentrism, which Feminism helps thrive. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Teen Boy Will Be Charged As Adult For Having Naked Pics of a Minor: HimselfWas the boy also offered the plea bargain? If not, then it is quite sexist. But really the bigger picture is how one can be both the perpetrator and the victim. It defies all common sense. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Men seek legal action after being turned away from business, get accused of trying to shut women down in tech.Hilarious. So the title mentions a "1950s law" to make it sound archaic, like we shouldn't really have it anymore, but no one got around to repealing it. Then they go on to complain how the law was designed to protect women and minorities. So do you think we should have it or not? And then the business owner acts so confused. "We don't discriminate against men" she claims, wondering why these men feel discriminated against when they were denied access to an event based on their gender. "Women in… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/15 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Milo Yiannopoulos - Should women be paid as much as men? (BBC2)"Women under 30 make more than men for the same work." Is that really true? Can I get a source? I would believe that if it was an aggregate term, and it would be easy to validate. But it's not. How do we know that isn't falling to the same pitfalls of 77%? To me, it seems far more likely that with women getting better education and having no better chances of getting hired, they would make more, especially while young, but surely not in the same actual job. After all, men still tend to negotiate… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Family Law Week: Marriage rates collapse among middle classes, says Marriage FoundationThis is the root of a lot of feminism nowadays. "Women need men like fish need a bicycle." Well the bicycle went rolling past the fish and now the fish realizes how much having that bike helped. So you see movements like HeForShe. It blatantly says that men just need to coddle women even more to make uproar the recent drop. Feminist shaming tactics? All about marriage. A man's responsibility is to find a woman to take care of. If a man hasn't done this, he's unworthy of manhood. And that's one r… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Due process group distributes warning flyers to campus menFor now, it seems as if it's been limited to cases where sex did actually occur. But I agree that it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm getting ready to start a special project for one of my classes, I'm probably going to be teaching kids basic programming. From the way my prof was talking, I should never ever be alone with the kids, because people would think I'm a pedophile, just because I'm a man. That said, there should be enough people around that I don't need to worry, but it's really sad… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Feminist Frequency: "There’s no such thing as sexism against men."Well this is interesting. One of the replies claimed that sexism isn't personal prejudice. So that means that no individual can be sexist! But you can see how fast they'll accuse people of "being sexist." Zero consistency. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/15 12:26 PM |
| 8 | Ignore Ashley Madison Stats, Women Cheat As Often As MenSee the "Women are Wonderful" affect. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/15 05:13 PM |
| 8 | What is the Men's Rights Movement?I'm not an MRA. But here's my two cents anyway. The MRM is a movement whose goal is to bring men to a state of legal equality with women. I feel like most participants are largely egalitarian, and do not oppose women having their legitimate complaints addressed. The most important goal seems to be that of father's right's specifically. You can couple that with reproductive rights. Men have to prove themselves to be a suitable parent in court if they want a 50/50 split of the children in a divorc… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Fathers removed by police after protesting against 'sexist' domestic violence posterHow odd... They weren't doing anything illegal, right? They were literally just standing in the way of the poster. They didn't cause a disturbance. They weren't violent or loud... I don't get it. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Signs of humanity! - "Stop the Jared Fogle “footlong” jokes: Why do we still find prison rape acceptable, let alone funny? "Meh. I couldn't care less what people find funny. What does bug me though is the double standard. Prison rape is illegal and can net you additional punishments. The problem is that virtually no one in power cares about it. Specifically in the case of Jared, I am reasonably okay with the argument that "he deserved it." But could you really argue that for someone in prison for a non-violent drug offense? Heck even a violent one? We don't need radical change. The infrastructure is in place. We just… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Felony charges for student who admitted she made up sexual-assault claimsWith more lies? | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 12:14 PM |
| 1 | When rape jokes are funnyDidn't he also plead guilty to possessing child porn though? | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 12:06 PM |
| 5 | TIL that, despite popular belief, men get threatened to have their private photos exposed online more than women (12% vs. 8%) and have the threats carried out more often than women (63% vs. 50%).Good points. Honestly, I don't care if someone dismisses this to say men don't suffer more. That's fine. The point is well clear that the numbers are pretty close. Given that most people think that men never suffer from this and it's only damaging to women, this is enough to blow that thought pattern out of the water, which is fine by me. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 11:58 AM |
| 6 | TIL that, despite popular belief, men get threatened to have their private photos exposed online more than women (12% vs. 8%) and have the threats carried out more often than women (63% vs. 50%).Even though you have no proof of this, let's just assume it's true. The prevailing thought on this by the average Joe is that this only ever happens to women. Even a 50/50 split would be a shocking revelation to that person, which is the point of this result. It thoroughly debunks the idea that only women have their intimate images shared or threatened to be shared. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Man gets accused of being a pedophile for flying his drone in a public fieldDo people really think that a pedophile would get off to watching girls play soccer anyway? I'm not expert, maybe they would, but that just doesn't make sense. If a man was near a girls locker room, I would at least understand the suspicion (while still seeing the sexism that there would be no suspicion for a women near boys), but soccer doesn't make any sense to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/15 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Predictors of Divorce Initiation. Why Women File More Often - old (2000) and long (but very interesting) paperVery interesting read. Tough to get through though. It's telling that in the one state where you can still file under fault grounds, only 6% of divorces go there. To me, that suggests that women aren't actually being abused or exploited in marriage very often. There was an interesting quote in the beginning... Even by the most conservative accounts, the average divorced woman’s standard of living declines from the one she enjoyed during marriage, and it declines relatively more than does the ave… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Classic post: On Why Most Convicts Are Men (And It Probably Has Nothing To Do With Men Committing More Crime)Brilliant numerical analysis. Saved. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/15 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Woman leaves Airdrop on public mode, complains to police when someone sends pictures.It's basically a quick file-sharing platform for Apple devices. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Woman leaves Airdrop on public mode, complains to police when someone sends pictures.At the very least, this site promotes reporting, which is good. What happened here is wrong, but it does have an easy solution... Public mode is not the default. She had to make the choice to change it. I have never ever had a need for AirDrop public. I don't see why this is any different from sending indecent pictures to someone's home address though, as far as the law is concerned. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The myth of gender pay gap makes it on the NYT's homepage todayIn 2013, the grade just below partner was 30 percent female, yet only 16 percent of those promoted to partner were women. A year later, the percentage of women promoted to partner had more than doubled. So we're handing out promotions because of gender now. That's just wonderful. The analysis showed that men who were passed over for partnership were routinely offered retention bonuses to keep them from quitting. Women weren’t. Ms. Churchman believes that’s because men often threatened to leave, … | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 02:36 PM |
| 7 | Sexist airport security - I just emailed my story to a few news sites - thought maybe it's worth posting here tooSorry to hear about your experience man. Not cool. The MRM seeks to change the big legal prejudices against men, but the smaller social ones are important as well. Everything from assuming no men have feelings to assuming all men are pedophiles. I image many people here identify with your story. I hope something is done about what happened to you. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Brave kid standing up to his abusive mother, he wants to live with his dadThat's brutal... I'm not saying that the father is a perfect guy or anything like that, but the son clearly wanted to be with his father. Basically the father just ran out of money and the mother got full custody. That is a twisted legal system that we have. This was in 2013, so the kid should be 16 by now. Doesn't that give him the right to leave? | /r/MensRights | 10/08/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Marriage in the 21st century (cartoon)Should is the operative word here. What is morally right is not always legally right. I agree that we should try to change this, but at present, that's how it is. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/15 11:17 PM |
| 0 | You’ve heard of women’s studies, right? Dr. Kimmel is the founder and director of the Center for the Study of Men and Masculinities at Stony Brook University, part of the State University of New York system, which will soon start the first master’s degree program in “masculinities studies.”Equally stupid. I care nothing for the intentions, even though they may be less than savory. There is absolutely no use for such a degree. Academia is being polluted by this kind of study. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What do the people of this sub reddit think of redpill?Interesting points. I think I can agree with that. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/15 03:37 AM |
| 12 | What do the people of this sub reddit think of redpill?Some of their views are a little extreme. Some of what they say is too broad, too general. They say things like "all women" quite often. While a lot of what they say is true for the majority of women, the problems come when they paint all women this way. They are the group that have noticed that the system is biased against men, and have decided to cheat the system to get what they want, at least in my mind. Not exactly a fan of this course of action. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/15 01:37 AM |
| 2 | SJWs made a huge list of users posting to subreddits they are againstYou will for this post xD | /r/MensRights | 29/07/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Save our Sons and Oppose CASA (S.590)I'm surprised this hasn't seen more attention. I realize it's only one state, but it's still important. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/15 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Woman arrested after she lied about rape... And the article had to get that "2% FBI statistic" in there.This is a fantastic counter point. Saving this. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/15 04:24 AM |
| 8 | The CDC definition of maternal mortality is much more expansive than the rest of the world.It's all about making it look like women have it so hard. It's frightening how much power these groups have to convince people of the complete opposite of the truth when the evidence is literally right in front of them. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Women are nearly five times more likely to show an automatic preference for their own gender than men.And this starts young. Just yesterday I watched a group of kids play "duck duck goose." A girl was chosen to walk around the circle first, and she chose a girl. Who also chose a girl. This went about 10 times and on the very last time the girl finally chose a boy. This could in part be due to the girls expecting boys to be able to outrun them. But at that age the differences are very small. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/15 02:54 AM |
| 1 | If We Get Banned in Half An Hour Lets Go To VoatFrom Steve's comments, it doesn't look like we'll be banned. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/15 03:27 AM |
| 1 | x-post TIL makes cyber debauchery look like a female-only problem, full of obvious and wrong info.Nothing about being female caused that girl to have her address be found out and abused. What caused it was that she had a fight with her online friends which turned out to be pretty nasty people. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/15 09:06 PM |
| 0 | What Feminists Get Wrong About 'Nice Guys'Fantastic summary. Never thought of it like that before! | /r/MensRights | 16/07/15 07:08 PM |
| 11 | Man expelled from university for calling ex-girlfriend "Psycho bitch", did not even mention her nameTitle IX only ever gets used when they can apply it to women. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/15 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Amanda Marcotte: filming what happens in your bedroom for legal protection violates "women's basic consent rights" (filming men is fine I guess) - r/MensRights should be shut down because someone suggested it. I think we can start referring to people like her as FAPs (False Accusation Proponents)I agree with that sentiment. I disagree that we should be recording all the time. For one, many people would be able to access the decryption keys. Also, the average citizen has no way of knowing if those videos are actually encrypted. Or if data is mined from the before encryption. In the express case of rape, I agree, constant recording everywhere fixes the problem. But it creates so many more problems that I personally couldn't justify it as a solution in the real world. And of course, the a … | /r/MensRights | 15/07/15 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Amanda Marcotte: filming what happens in your bedroom for legal protection violates "women's basic consent rights" (filming men is fine I guess) - r/MensRights should be shut down because someone suggested it. I think we can start referring to people like her as FAPs (False Accusation Proponents)Can anyone outline "women's basic consent rights"? Who gave them those rights? Who enforces them? What is encompassed by them? I agree it probably is against the law in some places to film without informing the other person. But as long as you inform them, it shouldn't matter. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/15 02:39 PM |
| 2 | I have a moral quandary. Any help?Good analogy, that helped me. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 15/07/15 02:18 AM |
| 1 | I have a moral quandary. Any help?Very interesting. That definitely helps. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 15/07/15 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Double standards X-post from r/newsoftheweirdNo one's claiming that they're feminists. They are just influenced by feminism to think that they can do whatever they want. I know I'm feeding a troll, but whatever. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/15 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Double standards X-post from r/newsoftheweirdNo one's claiming that they're feminists. They are just influenced by feminism to think that they can do whatever they want. I know I'm feeding a troll, but whatever. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/15 01:40 PM |
| 31 | A new app provides evidence of consent between sex partners--and the usual suspects are upsetThat study is terrifying. Here's a gem: 90% of men (and 95% of women) think that if men (collectively) respected women (collectively) more, would be effective in preventing sexual assault. So what men are those 90% thinking about? Just the other 10%? Or are there rapists who just think to themselves, "If I just respected women more I would stop raping."? And it shows how most women think men are the primary problem. Even most men think men are the primary problem. Couple that with half of all wo… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/15 01:21 PM |
| 10 | I've always thought "never hit a woman" is such a bizarre rule, as well as a dangerous one.The rule was in place in the past because as the man, you were supposed to be the bigger person. More was expected of you. You were given praise for your self control and the woman was condemned for her behavior. The rule is currently in place because if you ever touch a woman with any form of self defense in mind you will be hauled off to court and possibly jail. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/15 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Solution for the Yes means Yes laws.Yep. That's what it's going to take. Men in universities don't have the power to change this alone. We have to get the women to do it because they're the only one the university will listen too. If women complain that they can't get any guys cause they're all too scared by the rules, then the rules will change. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/15 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Article in my town about "dead beat dads" being arrested. FB convo.Gosh these people are stupid... I'm sick of it. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/15 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Solution for the Yes means Yes laws.That's basically my plan. I've been at a small community college but I'm heading off for a big government school soon. I refuse to ever be alone in a room with a female. I refuse to work with all female partners (if possible). I will never associate with a female outside of the classroom, to the best of my ability. I'm trying to get my friends to join me. And I'm doing engineering (Computer Engineering), so I'll have majority males in my classes anyway, so hopefully this shouldn't be hard to do. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/15 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Husband asking for paternity test because of baby skin color. Wife not sure what to do. Audience condemns him.That's the real thing that got me. No one specifically said he was in the wrong (that I saw) but they all seemed to think it was the husband's job to regain her trust. Stuff happens. We live in an imperfect world. If your baby has vastly different skin than you, it's reasonable to want to check. And it's not even a direct accusation of cheating. It's possible the baby was switched with another by accident. Unlikely, but there is a remote possibility. Women have no idea what it's like to wonder i… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Employee escorted off premises. Returns (trespassing) to assault manager. Manager finally has to throw a punch back in self-defense. The whole internet is "OMG hit a woman." Every news story, title and lead is "BIG MAN HITS little woman."I agree with the sentiment. Strongly. However they make you read their policy and sign it before they will hire you. So if you sign something that says if you engage in any violence for any reason you will be fired, then that's binding. I'm not saying that you shouldn't defend yourself. I think zero tolerance policies are one of the stupidest ideas human kind has invented and they can even be dangerous in some situations. All I'm saying is that given that they have that policy, I doubt he'd be a… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Employee escorted off premises. Returns (trespassing) to assault manager. Manager finally has to throw a punch back in self-defense. The whole internet is "OMG hit a woman." Every news story, title and lead is "BIG MAN HITS little woman."I would sure hope so, considering how they have zero-tolerance. But knowing how society treats women I wouldn't be surprised if she got a raise instead of being fired like the man was... | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at charts, but I averaged out the men's/women's prize money per set played at Wimbledon over the last 18 years for the winners. It's far from "equal".I think a better comparison is like having two NFL teams, where one team plays 16, but another team only plays 12, and then demanding the same pay. Considering that we're dealing with the same sport across the chart. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Employee escorted off premises. Returns (trespassing) to assault manager. Manager finally has to throw a punch back in self-defense. The whole internet is "OMG hit a woman." Every news story, title and lead is "BIG MAN HITS little woman."Interesting. That seems rather strange... So if my company has a zero-tolerance policy for employee violence, I can fire someone for being violent on camera, and then the government can tell me that I'm not allow to fire that person? Don't get me wrong. What happened to the guy is morally wrong. But is it legally wrong? Should it be? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 02:30 PM |
| 3 | How is it possible that feminists argue that there aren't any women in STEM jobs when they pull this type of nonsense. Absolutely infuriating!Wait wait wait... Is the "overall" category in the chart at the bottom referencing all degrees, or all STEM degrees? Because if it's all STEM degrees then women are actually overrepresented in STEM... | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 01:35 PM |
| 34 | Employee escorted off premises. Returns (trespassing) to assault manager. Manager finally has to throw a punch back in self-defense. The whole internet is "OMG hit a woman." Every news story, title and lead is "BIG MAN HITS little woman."The have a zero-tolerance policy, so it wouldn't fly, I don't think. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Lewis's Law : "Three Laws of The Internet Explained! | Idea Channel | PBS Digital Studios"I used to like this guy. As of recently more videos have started including junk like this. He mocking (pretending to be a fedora bearing MRA) asks for feminism's sources on the wage gap, thus demonstrating he hasn't even understood even a single reason why people discount it. He also didn't mention that the men in donglegate lost their jobs. He continually insists that women are not equal citizens, intending to connote that they are beneath men. He ignores the reality that women bear several lar… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | "Psycho Girlfriend Prank"This is the first video I've seen where anyone said anything at all to the woman. In the supermarket, you could tell how hard the guy was trying not to implicate himself. He wouldn't allow himself to touch her, all he could do is place his body between her and the man she was shouting at. And that's one of the underlying problems here. I think more people would stand up to female-on-male abuse if they weren't scared of being accused of attacking the woman. If you even block the punch she throws … | /r/MensRights | 09/07/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Florida FSU QB is charged with assault and battery for punching a girl who kicked and punched him attacking him FIRST,even after trying to restrain her raised fist. He has been charged with assault and battery, suspended indefinitely..So the men actually get a smaller proportion of the total revenue, if I'm understanding that correctly. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Feminist CEO of a woman's shelter bending over backwards to dismiss male victims of domestic violence.That's staggering. So now she has to claim that the 54% of women were actually abused by men so bad that they would respond in that way... | /r/MensRights | 09/07/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Media Needs to Understand ThisI think MGTOW and PUA are incapable of overlapping by their very definitions. I would have just moved MGTOW to the left side so it could overlap with TRP. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/15 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Florida FSU QB is charged with assault and battery for punching a girl who kicked and punched him attacking him FIRST,even after trying to restrain her raised fist. He has been charged with assault and battery, suspended indefinitely..She kicked him, was aggressive first, and punched him, closed fist, one time. He hit her, closed fist, one time. There is no reasoning you can possibly use to argue that his response was "too much." If he had continued to beat her, sure. But he didn't. One punch. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/15 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Ellen Pao, another example of how women ruin everythingIn the specific instance of Pao, I agree that she ruins everything. But it doesn't seem reasonable to use that to say that "women" in general ruin everything. There are plenty of women out there how don't engage in that kind of behavior. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/15 07:02 PM |
| 12 | This Avengers Parody Comic Perfectly Illustrates The Absurdity Of 'Men's Rights' (archive link)When you see people mock feminists with comics like this, they actually mock feminists arguments and thought patterns. When you see this comic, they mock MRAs simply for who they are, and because they're "whiny" for not giving women everything they demand. Big difference. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Is the Men's rights movement anti-feminism? [Serious]Even if that were true, by striving for 60% female STEM, you must first be okay with 60% female general. That's entirely counterproductive. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Is the Men's rights movement anti-feminism? [Serious]In order to make the argument, you first have to accept the fact that even though women are 60% of college graduates, they're still being mistreated somehow in this one field and it's not due to their choices. You also have to accept that 60% female is perfectly fine, and push for that number in STEM, rather than simply seek to bring men back to an equal position at 50/50. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/15 03:26 AM |
| 0 | Chris Pratt's opinion on objectification of the sexes. Genuinely curious as to what you guys think of this?Sex sells. Companies aren't going to stop using boobs to sell products. If they can use abs to sell other products then more power to them. Honestly I couldn't care less if they did. I do care a lot if we start being okay with censorship though. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Is the Men's rights movement anti-feminism? [Serious]I've seen some feminists claim that since 60% of graduates are female, 60% of STEM graduations should be female as well. So I know there are at least some people who still wouldn't be satisfied at 50%. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Is the Men's rights movement anti-feminism? [Serious]There's a big difference between anti-feminism and anti-women's rights. You have to be real careful with who you're talking to, a lot of people define words differently. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 06:08 AM |
| 3 | 19 year old boy will spend 25 years on sex offender registry for sleeping with 14 year old who lied about her age.You misunderstand. Marriage to me is highly selective. Everything doesn't magically become okay because I marry. I would only marry a woman who I have carefully observed for years. There are good people out there. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/15 09:28 AM |
| 1 | "Myth: Husbands and wives are equally violent." Uh...Pretty much every one of these points was biased or inflated in some way... | /r/MensRights | 18/06/15 08:05 AM |
| 8 | 19 year old boy will spend 25 years on sex offender registry for sleeping with 14 year old who lied about her age.Absolutely disgusting. At 19, 5 years is a long time. For the circumstances, I wish I could call this cruel and unusual. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/15 07:55 AM |
| 1 | 19 year old boy will spend 25 years on sex offender registry for sleeping with 14 year old who lied about her age.Honestly, at this point my philosophy is no sex unless married. I realize that not everyone is about that, but still. So many problems just go away when you don't have to worry about it. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/15 07:53 AM |
| 1 | The course for college women that reduces their chance of sexual assault by 50% lays it on a bit thick.Even if the stats they give are true (which I highly doubt, and it's also extremely likely that the majority of female on male sexual assault largely goes undocumented) we're only talking about sexual assaults. Which are a tiny minority of violent crime. Even by their own stats, 2% of perpetrators are women. So it's blatantly false to say that there would be no risk to women "in any circumstances." That phrase also seems to paint the broad picture of all violence, which is even more horribly fal… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 09:57 PM |
| 1 | "HERE’S WHY THERE OUGHT TO BE A CAP ON WOMEN STUDYING SCIENCE AND MATHS"Women hate competition, as a general rule. A cap isn't going to help anything, because that's also discriminatory. A cap wouldn't do anything to weed out the bad students. What we need is for feminists to stop trying to force women into fields they don't want to go into. That way a higher percentage of women will legitimately want to enter the field. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Why do feminists tend to fight for exclusive benefits that will never be sustained instead of simply fighting for equal rights for both genders?The problem is that they don't want equality of opportunity. They want equality of outcome. Equality of opportunity will necessarily produce inequality of outcome in at least one area if applied across a society. So in order for there to be equality of outcome (in the areas that they care about, we don't need an equal number of female garbage collectors of course) women need a special boost, to overcome their lesser propensity to engage in that area. Therefor it's justified and you're a misogyni… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 09:42 PM |
| 6 | UN Women are endorsing anti-male discriminationJust like almost every other field where a direct, quantifiable product is involved... Surprise surprise. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 09:35 PM |
| 3 | UN Women are endorsing anti-male discriminationExactly. It's funny that they didn't specify that they specifically wanted to combat a gender bias in favor of males, they just wanted to combat all gender bias. So they do this by instituting a gender bias. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 09:34 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Men who have been raped by women, what does society not understand about your situation? : AskRedditExactly. If you put a single mark on her that's all they need to convict you as the rapist instead of her. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | AMA from a feminist "writer" (i.e. tumblr blogger) who says "dick is abundant and low-value"Gotta love the white-knighting all throughout... | /r/MensRights | 15/06/15 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Young women are now earning more than men – that's not sexist, just fairWell yeah. I agree that they're holding a double standard. But I want to be careful that we ourselves do not hold a similar double standard. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Feminists try to twist Lauren Southerns 'SlutWalk' clash with hilarious "Feminist Schools Meninist in 60 Seconds" desperate articleI just love how people pretend to know how many rapes that happen aren't reported... It's ludicrous how desperately these people want us to believe that they are oppressed when they are quite literally at the very tip top of human society. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Tyler Kost is still in jail after a FULL YEAR, despite Facebook chats proving that 13 high school girls conspired to frame him for sexual assaultGotcha. Yeah, I can accept that. I understand people here want the guy to be innocent, and in most high profile cases like this he is, but we just don't know. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Young women are now earning more than men – that's not sexist, just fairHonestly, it's not really sexist. At least not from a business perspective. Women earn 60% of all degrees, so it makes sense that they'd earn more. I would need a lot of convincing to believe that a business pays men or women less simply for their gender. Perhaps this is a small bias in hiring though. Milo has talked about this some, which is obviously UK, but still. Basically you have have 10 STEM majors. 7 are guys and 3 are women. All three women will get STEM jobs because these companies are… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 05:27 AM |
| 12 | Tyler Kost is still in jail after a FULL YEAR, despite Facebook chats proving that 13 high school girls conspired to frame him for sexual assaultThe problem is that he's been in jail all this time and there isn't any evidence against him other than the word of a few girls who we already know have violent conversation. Obviously they are free to say whatever they please, but what you talk about can say something about your character. So if there's no evidence at all, why is he in jail? I'm not saying that he didn't rape them. He might well have. But we have no evidence, and we have a suggestion that the girls have acted maliciously. I dis… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/15 05:09 AM |
| 7 | If Feminists Are So Pro Equality, And If Feminism Is About Equality For Everyone, Why Would Feminists Be So Unwilling To Listen To This Guy? The Us Vs Them Mentality Of Feminism and How It Denies Reality And Equality.Eh. I couldn't give a crap about labels if I tried. I don't publicly identify as an anti-feminist or an MRA either. I'd much rather spend my time talking about ideas and facts rather than labels. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/15 02:41 PM |
| 122 | If Feminists Are So Pro Equality, And If Feminism Is About Equality For Everyone, Why Would Feminists Be So Unwilling To Listen To This Guy? The Us Vs Them Mentality Of Feminism and How It Denies Reality And Equality.The problem with this idea is that a lot of feminists won't acknowledge that there's a single area where men have it worse than women, even when confronted with the objective facts. And there's even more who would recognize the inequality, but insist that nothing be done about it because "women have it worse overall." As long as feminists hold these ideas and hold their power in society and government, we won't get very far. But hey, I'm a pessimist. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/15 02:34 PM |
| 10 | /r/2XC is finding out that maybe taking self-defense classes to stop rape might be more effective than spouting sexist platitudes about teaching men not to rape.The reason why feminists don't agree with that is because they think of rape differently. It's rape if a woman has a glass of wine and then has sex. It's rape if a woman starts having sex and then says she wants to stop, and then just lays there and lets the guy finish. Both of the events are perfectly comparable to violent rape, and violent rape by a stranger. They all are the same level of offense to feminists. So they don't view rapists as sociopaths, the view them as average everyday guys. S… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/15 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Megathread about banning of subredditsHaha, yes, it was very confusing xD I ended up finding the initial post in /r/announcements and that cleared things up. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Megathread about banning of subredditsAh. The pieces are starting to fit together. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Megathread about banning of subredditsI've seen that numerous times now... What is FPH? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Mods at /r/TwoXChromosomes refer to male circumcision as "male genital mutilation". Thank you. I for one much appreciate that.Yes, I was actually on the other day, so I knew it was legit when I typed by comment. And yeah, I'm certainly not saying that all women act like that. But it seems to be something far more women use than men do. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/15 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Mods at /r/TwoXChromosomes refer to male circumcision as "male genital mutilation". Thank you. I for one much appreciate that.True, but I think we can at least be grateful for it in this context. We can't change the past, only the future. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/15 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Mods at /r/TwoXChromosomes refer to male circumcision as "male genital mutilation". Thank you. I for one much appreciate that.Being kicked out of my a fitness group for losing too much weight is a human issue, not a women's issue. That's a trend I've noticed about feminist women. And even some non-feminists. If anything bad happens to them, it happens because of their gender, according to them. When the same thing happens to man, it's just bad luck, or he made some bad decisions, or some people were just jerks to him. That double standard allows these women to act like the injustice is greater than it actually is. Beca… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/15 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Feminist complains that an anti-feminist sentiment poster did not provide enough evidence. Massive wall of text with citations, feminist crimes, and logical fallacies provided. Their response - "nice copypasta shithead". Has yet to address any of the points made.As others have pointed out, TRP isn't really related to the MRM like radical feminism is related to feminism. Red pillers tend to hold the attitude of "if the game isn't fair so I'm going to cheat and have fun." MGTOWs tend to think in terms of "if the game isn't fair I'm not going to play." Male disposability is the social dynamic that started all three movements, but none of them are based off of or are derivatives of the others. Without feminism, I doubt radfems would exist. Without the MRM, … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Feminist complains that an anti-feminist sentiment poster did not provide enough evidence. Massive wall of text with citations, feminist crimes, and logical fallacies provided. Their response - "nice copypasta shithead". Has yet to address any of the points made.That's pretty much my attitude, but I still browse this sub and I think that MRAs (by and large) are far more reasonable than feminists. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/15 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Man kidnapped and gang-raped by 3 women. These are the top comments on the Facebook article about it.Why the downvotes? I thought that was actually pretty funny. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Feminists are STILL trying to make "manspreading" a thing. Now sitting on and assaulting strangers on public transport.It seems odd to me that she only gives one example of actual manspreading, and her other example is a disrespectful teenager with a backpack, not spreading... So I'm probably gonna call /r/thatHappened on the first story. I mean it's possible that it actually happened, it's just incredibly rude not to even respond when someone says "excuse me." I try to get people's attention like that all the time and never once have they outright ignored me. I've gotten rude responses to be sure, but no one ha… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/15 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Men Have A “Younger Women Problem” Damn You BiologyMen have an "younger women" problem because it takes time for a man to earn his attractiveness to women - money, power, etc. He goes for young women because a woman is born with her attractiveness to men and loses it over time. This is biology. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 14 | Why ARE so many women teachers seducing boy pupils? All child abuse has to be viewed in the same way and treated as a crime even if it’s committed by a pretty 24-year-old female teacher.I think that the event itself isn't becoming more common, just the reporting and prosecuting of the event. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Problems with the Men's Rights Movement.Yeah... I noticed a myriad of different usernames that were all awfully similar to KrisK_Ivin... I then realized my mistake... I did do a double take on the one I replied to, but failed to notice the volume of other tomfoolery until too late. Thanks! | /r/MensRights | 03/06/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What we know about false rape allegationsI'm getting really tired of explaining to people that 2-8% are provably false. And in the context of how that was collected, that means despite all evidence, the accuser must actually admit to falsely accusing. So there can be video evidence that disproves their claim of rape and it doesn't get counted in that 2-8%. But even that isn't the biggest issue. The real issue is that rape is such a hard crime to get a conviction for. It's also hard to get a conviction for a false accusation; those case… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/15 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Problems with the Men's Rights Movement.I wish you had linked to the threads instead of the image... I read most of the comments and I can't recall the last time I saw a deleted post. This sub has a pretty strict policy that the mods don't delete anything because of the posters opinion. Also, I'm not sure how the thread looks after someone deletes their own comment; I've never been able to verify the difference. So from my unenlightened position on that matter, I would question the legitimacy of your second image there. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/15 03:11 AM |
| 7 | TIL false rape accusations can ruin someone's life is harmful myth redditors created and perpetuatedI think he's saying that a feminist sub linked to this thread which caused the high amounts of upvotes and gold on the post. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/15 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Judge on teacher who had sex with student: 'What young man would not jump on that candy?'Probably because regardless of that, she was a teacher and thus in a position of authority. She abused that authority in a sexual way. And the age varies by state. In the US anyway, I don't even know where this took place. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/15 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Judge on teacher who had sex with student: 'What young man would not jump on that candy?'Ah. That explains it. Good digging! | /r/MensRights | 01/06/15 11:24 PM |
| 5 | Suzan Cox femsplains that men want children more than women do. No shit - can we have them back pleaseI can't stand reading articles like this. I couldn't even finish it. I got as far as the conspiracy theory about men fooling the world that marriage was something women wanted and women were the ones more likely to want children. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/15 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Judge on teacher who had sex with student: 'What young man would not jump on that candy?'I can see your reasoning, but the judge used this as an excuse for her to only get 30 days. At least she had to register on the sex offenders registry, which is something. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you prove someone guilty of rape?Thanks for the advice! | /r/MensRights | 31/05/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you prove someone guilty of rape?If you look at the Mary-Koss numbers (The 1-in-5 stat) you'll find that many of the women didn't believe they had been raped but the surveyors took it on themselves to decide for them. That's pretty strange... I'm pretty sure I have heard that before though. I don't know, sometimes I feel like maybe I'm too caught up in the doom and gloom. I realize things are bad... But still. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you prove someone guilty of rape?Very interesting, thank you for the response! So in cases of "date rape" where the girl says no but doesn't struggle and the guy isn't rough, there's essentially no way to prove that it wasn't consensual. I guess that explains how feminists can inflate their numbers so much (at least part of it); they encourage women to think of rape in a much more broad sense. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/15 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Criticism in the movement will make it strongerThe guy was making a bad joke. But unfortunately that's all it takes to get a bad image. I'm all for stirring up controversy with facts and studies and science. Not so much with insults. And I'm all for insulting someone's argument if it contains large, obvious flaws, but not so much their appearance or character. I don't even identify as an MRA simply because it's too much baggage to pick up. I only had to have the MRA != Misogynist conversation a few times before I got tired of it and realized… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/15 07:31 AM |
| 44 | You're not gonna believe this shit. You may recall Amy Schumer's recent HILARIOUS story about raping a guy in college. r/askfeminists manages to do a mental triple-tuck front flip and conclude it not only wasn't rape, but that Amy Schumer is a rape victim!So here's the logic I'm getting... He called her, so he's responsible for 100% of what happened. Her leading him to bed, removing her own clothes and creating an environment for sex is all essentially "no action" and she was, as usual, completely acted upon with no role to act in any capacity. Therefore since the sex wasn't satisfying, she was raped, because she played no active role. The sheer stupidity of those arguments were physically making me cringe. I couldn't make it to be bottom. EDIT: … | /r/MensRights | 29/05/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | "The reason why men refuse to ask for directions? SEXISM! Males are judged more harshly than females if they ask for help, study reveals" (May 15, 2015). Experiment controls for everything except genderI don't think that people expect women to ask, it just doesn't take away from their "womanhood" by asking since this isn't a trait that women are expected to have. So, in my opinion, this isn't women being seen as incompetent. They just have lower societal expectations placed on them. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/15 12:45 PM |
| 5 | Jessica Valenti is at it again. She has hijacked suicide as primarily a women's problem and put the blame squarely on 'misogyny'. She's sickening.So... how is it that we can pin misogyny as the cause for these suicides? Unless a note is left, how often do we really know why an individual decided to end their own life? And of course Valenti paints it as an issue that primarily effects women even though the reverse is true by a long shot... I'm starting to get very tired of this woman. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminist victory: Nevada extends statute of limitations for sex crimes from four to an astonishing 20 years. Good luck trying to defend yourself after witnesses are dead, records are destroyed, documents and photos faded, physical evidence can no longer be examined or challenged.Cool! Glad to have spoken with you! | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Feminist victory: Nevada extends statute of limitations for sex crimes from four to an astonishing 20 years. Good luck trying to defend yourself after witnesses are dead, records are destroyed, documents and photos faded, physical evidence can no longer be examined or challenged.I don't think a person should be able to get away with the crime if they slip under law enforcements radar long enough. Well they're not "slipping under radar". The alleged victim simply chose not to report. If there actually was a case that was then closed but 10 years later new evidence surfaced, I'm fairly certain courts can and do reopen the case, even if it's past the statute of limitations. If the alleged victim has made no official mention of a crime until 20 years after its passing, why … | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 04:46 AM |
| 6 | [xpost from /r/CMV] -- If Women have the right to be Pro-Choice then Men deserve the right to decline fatherhood.Every single person I have ever had this debate with immediately assumed that I was arguing that a man could force a woman to have an abortion, even in the cases where I explicitly stated that I was only talking about finances. I'm not generalizing, I have never discussed this topic with anyone outside of this sub without that assumption being made. It was corrected of course, but I'm quite puzzled by how frequently people jump to this. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 04:31 AM |
| 9 | Feminist Amy Schumer admits to raping a guy, is praised by feministsMy personal view is that drunken consent is as good as regular consent. If you're black out drunk and simply can't put up a fight, that's not consent though. So I don't think this man was raped. However the same feminists praising this woman would think she was raped if the roles were reversed. And that's what I take issue with. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 04:22 AM |
| 7 | ISIS kills EVERY male over the age of 14. But the REAL problem is that they also rape some women sometimes! Article devotes half of a sentence for the male victims of ISIS.Terrorists abuse and rape women! Some of them get free and others still can be rescued so we must do everything we can to save them! These terrorists kill all the boys and men, but they're abusing women and they need to be stopped! Why can't they be seen as bad guys because they mistreat all their captives? Why are they especially bad for mistreating women? We all know why: gynocentrism. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Feminist victory: Nevada extends statute of limitations for sex crimes from four to an astonishing 20 years. Good luck trying to defend yourself after witnesses are dead, records are destroyed, documents and photos faded, physical evidence can no longer be examined or challenged.The intent is clear. 20 years after a sexual assault or rape has occurred, the only evidence will be testimony. Men have already started to be convicted on college campuses by testimony alone, and this action is opening the door for this to start happening more frequently outside of college campuses. Why would you want to make it legal to prosecute someone for raping an individual 20 years ago if not to get a conviction based on testimony alone? There isn't really a good reason to extend it that… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/15 04:04 AM |
| 7 | Feminist victory: Nevada extends statute of limitations for sex crimes from four to an astonishing 20 years. Good luck trying to defend yourself after witnesses are dead, records are destroyed, documents and photos faded, physical evidence can no longer be examined or challenged.Nowadays it seems like a woman's word is almost proof enough. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/15 06:05 PM |
| 18 | Feminist victory: Nevada extends statute of limitations for sex crimes from four to an astonishing 20 years. Good luck trying to defend yourself after witnesses are dead, records are destroyed, documents and photos faded, physical evidence can no longer be examined or challenged.20 years? That's absolutely insane. I don't even need to explain why that's a bad idea. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | need help please (gender gap in STEM)Sure, we'll just have to figure out what time! | /r/MensRights | 27/05/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | need help please (gender gap in STEM)Sure, you mean like practice? | /r/MensRights | 27/05/15 02:35 AM |
| 5 | I had to hold back from making a reply.Probably because OP didn't want to get dragged into a pointless debate with (what I suspect to be) a spoiled princess. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/15 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Woman accused of snipping her boyfriend's penis walks free from court after he fails to show up to testifyPossibly. I'm tempted to agree, but do we really know that? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Woman accused of snipping her boyfriend's penis walks free from court after he fails to show up to testifyWhile that may be true, it doesn't excuse him not showing up. They can't reasonably do anything if he's not there to testify. It's really unfortunate for him, to be sure, but he should have stood up for himself and testified. The legal system isn't that broken just yet. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/15 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Ah, the signs of an egalitarian society progressing! - UK's biggest male rape charity Survivors UK has state funding slashed to zero despite 120% rise in men reporting sexual violence and seeking helpI'd be curious to know if funding for women was kept constant, increased, or decreased... I'd be very surprised if it was decreased. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Probably the realest thing you will see on Facebook today.I think someone else mentioned here that when considering women who don't pay (who are ordered to) and men who don't pay (who are ordered to), the men are 8 times more likely to be jailed as a result. Far less women are ordered to pay, but that bias is a side effect of women being given custody more frequently. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/15 08:46 PM |
| 17 | Media narrative about violent men and #GamerGate has collapsed.Glad to see this happen. No one in GamerGate is surprised of course, but hopefully now people will realize they don't have a leg to stand on when claiming that it's about harassment. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/15 03:48 PM |
| 7 | TIL: The “women are wonderful” effect is a phenomenon found in psychological research in which people associate more positive attributes with women as compared to men. This effect reflects an emotional bias toward women as a general case. • /r/todayilearnedIt's crazy how there are a few people in there arguing that women getting extra privileges and better treatment is actually harmful towards women... The exact opposite is true. It's nice that it was a very small minority though. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/15 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Let's run some rape numbers, shall we?I'm starting to think that you're trolling because your argument is heavily circular. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/15 04:33 PM |
| 2 | need help please (gender gap in STEM)No problem. A common talking point for them will probably be that in STEM jobs there is a misogynistic atmosphere, and that's why women don't go there. If/when that comes up, point to the hiring bias. Also, tell them that if they're assuming that because the office is majority male it must therefore be misogynistic, they've made the sexist assumption that male = misogynist. Finally, you can point out how much sympathy female victims of harassment get. If they truly find that their workplace is m… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Let's run some rape numbers, shall we?Thanks for catching that. However, you've incorrectly multiplied by 80, and 45 would be the most you could do and maintain some integrity. I already discussed this in another reply to you. So that brings it down to something more like 8.8% across a lifetime. And that's with their underreporting rate, which is sensationally high. It has no evidence, and it doesn't hold up as soon as you look at the history of rape. A rate this high implies that only about 40 years ago 90-95% of all women in the w… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Let's run some rape numbers, shall we?According to the CDC (p36 in the PDF), the vast majority of all rapes can be seen to take place between the ages of 5 and 45, thus about 40 years. You could say 45 if you wanted, but anything more than that would simply be dishonest. I chose 40 because I had it from some other source that a woman's chance of being raped dramatically dropped off after 40 years of age. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/15 07:35 PM |
| 2 | need help please (gender gap in STEM)These are the two that I have bookmarked in my folder: http://www.pbs.org/newshour/making-sense/truth-women-stem-careers/ http://www.pnas.org/content/112/17/5360.abstract Hope it helps. EDIT: Missed the part about preparations. Just be ready with the Equal Pay Act of 1963 and stick the simple fact that women have the same (or greater) opportunities as men. It would be good to ask them if they care about the gender disparity in construction work, disposal work, lumber mills, etc. Definitely hit t… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/15 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Let's run some rape numbers, shall we?I agree with your overall point, to be sure. But it probably would be better to multiply your percentages by 30 or 40. I doubt the average woman appreciates not getting raped in a given year very much. At least not as not being raped at all. It's probably more effective to look at what chance a woman has of being raped over her life time, in light of that. But certainly, the hysteria is unreal and it's quite worrisome. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/15 09:08 AM |
| 1 | "Men are pathetic creatures really" - Most men can't meet the challenge of being the primary carer at home.Exactly. I strongly believe in a division of labor. If one party can dedicate large amounts of time to excelling in their career, more money is likely to come in, allowing the other party to work much less, or ideally none at all to tend to offspring. It worked in ancient history, and it still works today. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/15 01:15 AM |
| 8 | "Men are pathetic creatures really" - Most men can't meet the challenge of being the primary carer at home.Honestly, it baffles me how people claim it's the hardest job... Is it the easiest job? No, but it can be fun since you love your kids. But do not compare the stress of keeping your kids in line and your house clean to the stress of dangerous construction work or managing a robotics research team and conclude that keeping the house clean is much more difficult. It really irks me. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/15 12:50 AM |
| 2 | In brief, my problem with the Men's Rights MovementFrom my own personal observations in this sub, those screeching and hollering usually get downvoted pretty quickly. Honestly, I'd go so far as to say all forms of feminism are a problem, simply because of the movement's history. I say ditch labels. Consistent with that, I don't identify as an MRA, because it's simply pointless to do so. Some people do go overboard with the "all feminism is bad" thing, even if I agree with their point on a foundational level. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Judge Rules That a Mother’s Rights Trump the Father’s in the Delivery RoomI was shocked to find out that women don't have to inform their spouses about getting an abortion. That's kind of frightening honestly. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/15 06:58 PM |
| 2 | CNN Money features the hit game "tampon run" where girls shoot tampons at men: "Overnight, four publications in the UK had picked it up ... the game spread like wildfire." Unfortunately, nobody played the game (you will see why).Honestly, they can make whatever game they want. It's not going to help little girls in Africa have a better chance at schooling. I could see how that issue has some legitimacy, but not in any developed country. I'm more interested in this "Girls who Code" program. It doesn't really make any sense why girls need their own program to teach them coding. When I was little, one of my friends' dad hosted a programming class. I went and it was only five kids, two girls and three boys. It went fine, I … | /r/MensRights | 12/05/15 05:40 AM |
| 2 | CNN Money features the hit game "tampon run" where girls shoot tampons at men: "Overnight, four publications in the UK had picked it up ... the game spread like wildfire." Unfortunately, nobody played the game (you will see why).They probably just didn't want to say "men" or "boys" because that would make them look a tad sexist. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/15 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Cierra Ross, Chicago Mom, Charged With Raping Man At GunpointAs it stands, if she was only charged at the time of these articles, why are her name and face public? Where is her due process? Good point. We don't really have any reason to believe this happened unless we take the story at face value. That's pretty odd. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/15 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Activists should calm down. Science is not so sexistSorry to nitpick, but the concept of science itself is nothing more than the pursuit of knowledge. Science has no person-hood, ability to think or act, so it can't actually be sexist. Scientific institutions can certainly be sexist, since they're made up of people. Some institutions are, others aren't. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/15 06:00 AM |
| 1 | UK: Statutory rape of boys was not "overlooked". The presumption of nonconsent was explicitly excluded.I'm not really sure what it's trying to say... That 14 year old boys can be rapists? What about 14 year old girls? Why does one have more agency than the other? | /r/MensRights | 02/05/15 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Should Marital Rape Be A Criminal Offence? (currently, it is not a punishable offence in India. India also sees massive misuse of divorce acts.)In my opinion, the only time "marital rape" should be crime is when it is violent. In which case it is abuse and we already have laws for that. The potential to misuse the law is too high, and there's a good reason the concept of marital rape didn't exist until quite recently. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/15 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Rand Paul cites a ‘lack of fathers’ in Baltimore. Here’s what the data actually show.Wow... That's a serious problem... As a country, it seems like we should incentivize having a family, you know, seeing as it's the building block of society and all. I'm shocked to hear that. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/15 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Women are guilty of objectification too, but it's not the same: 23-year-old UK woman accuses construction workers of harassment and reported them to police, igniting a fierce debate over what constitutes "sexist" behaviourWhile men might find it annoying to be judged on their appearance by women, I’m certain that most of them don’t find it frightening. There we have it. Since men aren't as paranoid as women, women need special laws and protections. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/15 06:41 AM |
| 0 | Rand Paul cites a ‘lack of fathers’ in Baltimore. Here’s what the data actually show.The problem is, in people who study crime it is not a controversial statement. Fatherless children is a known crime indicator. So the real question should be, "Why are the fathers gone?". Are they gone of their own choosing or because the mother wanted them out? Obviously it will be a mix, but I'd be interested in seeing some data on that. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/15 06:31 AM |
| 0 | McMaster University gives raise to all women staff, no raise for men.We still have a functioning legal system that purports to be unbiased. We have the means for change already, I don't think we need to consider that course of action for a while yet. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/15 06:20 AM |
| 8 | "Baltimore 'Mom of the Year'" is given public accolades for hitting her son, in the face, in public. Imagine if the genders were reversed.I agree. I don't really have a problem with what the mom did. A father hitting his son in the riot probably would have gone fine as well, but a father hitting his daughter wouldn't have. I'm not sure if this is really an issue though... | /r/MensRights | 30/04/15 06:17 AM |
| 1 | 8 high schools boys suspended for receiving pictures of female classmates nude, girls "verbally reprimanded but not suspended"And on top of that, the double standard is still clear when the girls are not punished equally for producing child pornography. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?Thanks for the thoughts. I am still convinced that it is relevant, and that it is not a misuse of statistics. I've been doing labs in college for the last three years and I work with percent differences a lot. Your example of 0.001% vs 0.002% isn't quite on the same scale as 11.1% vs 13.8%. If you couldn't call this margin a notable difference, then a lot of things wouldn't work well. By now I've figured out that they don't count those homeless or in prison, so the point is moot anyway, but I ho… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/15 11:30 PM |
| 6 | I got downvoted to shit on WTF for calling the forced cross dressing of young men in ROTC programs across the country "an absolute disgrace".Yes, let's damage the ankles of men who are on their feet all day with physical labor. Brilliant idea. People who push this in the name of equality absolutely disgust me. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/15 02:39 AM |
| 6 | I got downvoted to shit on WTF for calling the forced cross dressing of young men in ROTC programs across the country "an absolute disgrace".Reserve Officers' Training Corps | /r/MensRights | 21/04/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?It is actually a 21.7% difference by the definition of percent difference. In cases where both numbers are small, I agree that it's disingenuous to claim large differences, but it's still factual. However, poverty doesn't really fall into that case anyway. We're not dealing with 0.001%, we're dealing with 11.1%. A good thought at least. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/15 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?Ah. Whoops, I flubbed. I took 11.1 and 13.8 percent of the entire population. I should have divided by two... Dangit... Even accounting for this error, my original source still places single mothers at 5.72 million, which is a fairly large difference from the Census Bureau. Different years? Still. The point is pretty much the same. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/15 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?If you read the article, they do actually claim that it's mostly due to discrimination, which isn't true. They act like there isn't anything women can do because they're just forced into the system. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?You make a fair point. I did some research though, and I have to call into question your number of 11 million single mothers in poverty. Where did you find that? According to this (which is sure to inflate the numbers as much as possible) there are 12 million single parent families. 80% of these are headed by women, and 39.6% of these were in poverty. When you do the math on those you get 3.7 million, not 11 million. But yes, I agree, I should be more gender neutral. Thank you for pointing that … | /r/MensRights | 20/04/15 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Why are more women in poverty than men?This is about 9 million women, not 44 million. Correct. My 44 million number was the total number of women, not the difference between men and women. Important note. With 11 million single mothers in poverty, this differences in single parenthood more than account for the differences in poverty rates. I can accept that. Some of the other threads in this post discuss why the majority of women in poverty are single with no children though, which was really a mystery to me. income and wealth redist… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/15 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Why are more women in poverty than men?Wow, that actually makes a lot of sense. I had no idea they didn't count homeless people. If you do that, I bet that evens the scales, ore even makes women less likely to be in poverty. I found this quote in the comments particularly insightful: Women have the freedom to earn less money because other people will do it for them. Which explains the discrepancy in early adult life and late. I shouldn't be surprised anymore that feminists manipulate data. It's pretty sad. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Why are more women in poverty than men?Well yes, but if you remember I calculated that this is only about 2.8 million women, which doesn't make up a lot of the difference. But it certainly is a valid point and it does contribute to the numbers. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Why are more women in poverty than men?Good thoughts. You're probably right. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are more women in poverty than men?I can't agree with the sentiment that men are better than women. I can agree with saying that they work harder, on average, though. It is interesting though, that women have every advantage over men in education and social arenas yet are more often in poverty. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Male PrivilegeGlad to see this as the top post. Someone else linked to a conversation elsewhere on reddit where someone claimed that "MRAs don't care about real problems men face" and that they should visit this sub if they want to dive into a pool of filth. So anyone who took them up on that would have seen this post, which shows that you guys do care. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 07:04 PM |
| 9 | Anita Serkeesian named one of Time's 100 most influential people.Well I think it's true, she was extremely influential. That doesn't mean that she was a positive influence though. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 05:34 AM |
| 8 | Michael Buble is under fire for this, but the picture of the underage kid working at Target last year was all in good fun, right?I love how everyone has to "celebrate" women but "celebrating" men is sexist. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/15 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Guy pretends to be attractive female on kik, gets showered with male attention, posts resultsThat's the big thing here. No one is justifying the behavior. But there are good reasons why certain men act this way. Fatherlessness being a big one. Loneliness being another. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 38 | Are we (r/MensRights) deteriorating to feminist standards?You make a fair point, but I do still think that the dominate voices remain rational. Recently there were some posts about suspected false accusations and I was getting ready to get riled up, and I noticed the top few comments calling for real evidence. So I caught myself and realized that I had assumed something that I couldn't reasonably do. So yes, the danger is there of creating unnecessary biases. What are we going to do about it though? Seriously, if the problem has been identified early, … | /r/MensRights | 14/04/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Bobby Flay is getting divorced. His wife says the prenup, which she signed, is not good enough. Now her lawyers are challenging the prenup. Don't EVER get married guys, apparently even a signed legal agreement won't stop you getting fucked over.Did you read my edit? EDIT: According to NCSL, Indiana doesn't honor Common Law Marriages entered after 1958. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/15 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Bobby Flay is getting divorced. His wife says the prenup, which she signed, is not good enough. Now her lawyers are challenging the prenup. Don't EVER get married guys, apparently even a signed legal agreement won't stop you getting fucked over.Thankfully, that's not a thing in the US, as far as I know. EDIT: In the US, in order for this to happen, you have to present as married. Living together gets you nothing if you aren't presenting yourselves as married. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/15 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Why are misandric articles so popular among women?Women (like men) are trained by nature to not have empathy for men, just other women and children. Obviously women go against this all the time, but in a purely naturalistic world, women wouldn't care about men at all (which isn't their fault). It's good that some do. As others have pointed out, we also live in a culture where hating men is kind of an okay or even a cool thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Judge in underage sex case says she feels 'extremely sorry' for defendant. Judge Sylvia de Bertodano launches a scathing attack against the CPS for bringing the case to court. Male 17 has consensual sex with girl 15. And CCTV disproves rape claim.That's a good point. Regardless, I personally don't think I could have done that though. I couldn't live with myself. The real enemy here is not the judge though. I realize that she did what she could, and it's good that she think the whole case is ridiculous. The real enemy is the law, and the people who want to prosecute boys like this. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Debunking Men's RightsI can't help but think that women's general greater need for attention has anything to do with this... | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Debunking Men's Rights3) So if the fault of the issue comes from men, then it is not an issue worth doing anything about? Is that the logic here? Exactly. The MRM blames feminism for a number of things... but not everything. That is a ridiculous statement. That logic seems to stem from an underlying misunderstanding of the Mens Right Movement being anti-women, which it is not, but obviously in your rhetoric, it is, and thats a logical fallacy. That's pretty much the heart of this argument. 11) I really don't care if … | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Judge in underage sex case says she feels 'extremely sorry' for defendant. Judge Sylvia de Bertodano launches a scathing attack against the CPS for bringing the case to court. Male 17 has consensual sex with girl 15. And CCTV disproves rape claim.Just to say, I personally would not be able to keep my job if it meant I had to punish someone in this way who was innocent. I couldn't live with myself. I realize that's a personal thing but still. And regardless, the root of the issue is that the law itself needs to be changed. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Hillary Clinton 'to announce 2016 presidential campaign' - Get ready for cries of "SEXISM!" whenever she gets criticized.You're thinking like a rational person, which unfortunately does not provide much insight to the average feminist's mind. The only reason anyone would criticize a woman is because they are a sexist. That is the logic that will be used to defend her. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/15 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Study claims to research "Sexual Offending in families" - focuses only on MALESI've seen a study done that girls who are abused as children are more likely to find themselves in abusive marriages. So it definitely would be interesting to see if females are affected the same way males are as in this study. Also, I have seen this particular study used to claim that its genetics that make men sexual offenders, which is laughably false. This study suggests nothing of the sort. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/15 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Sex offending is written in DNA of some men, Oxford University finds. Some men are born with an increased risk of molesting children or carrying out a violent sexual attack, a new study suggests .I'm gonna call BS... They're genetic evidence is the fact that if someone is a sex offender, it's likely that their father or brother was as well. It's like arguing women who are abused are apt for that due to genetics because they were abused as children. It's not genetics that's causing this. It is leading (poorly) by example and family influence. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Physically Abused Boyfriend Hits Girlfriend Back In Public Experiment!"It doesn't matter, you can't do that to a woman!" | /r/MensRights | 07/04/15 12:03 PM |
| 13 | Famous YouTube star, Anna Akana, releases rape culture video. Video claims young boys are taught that rape is an "option"Men are already taught not to rape. Women are making younger women paranoid. What really should change is the hysteria about rape. Girls and boys should both be taught common sense and be given the ability to defend themselves. Girls are more likely to need pepper spray as their physical strength can be lacking. There is nothing wrong with this. Currently, we're basically already at that point, we just need to kill off the rape hysteria. It's almost comical that people think boys are taught that… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Today while attending a sexual assault training course. I was told that men can not be raped.As far as legality goes, that's technically not rape. But you can blame feminists for that. Generally, rape simply means non-consensual sex. That's what people mean in everyday conversation, and some feminist surveys broaden it even further to inflate the numbers. It really should be defined as rape. But unfortunately it's not. Sounds like a really bad environment to be in. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/15 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Physically Abused Boyfriend Hits Girlfriend Back In Public Experiment!In the first case, I wasn't too surprised, the male was more rough with the female. But in the second case, I wish I could have been shocked, but it was exactly as expected. These people literally watch a woman be physically violent, and the exact instant the male takes hold of her to restrain her, he gets attacked by white knights. I wish I was surprised. When I was young, my dad told me never to hit a girl. He said that I could use my superior strength to restrain them though if running wasn't… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/15 04:17 AM |
| 18 | Just broke up with a girl. She beat herself up. Started scraping a glass she broke against herself, broke my new glasses, and called to tell me that she filed a police report on me and they came by to take pictures. What the fuck do I do?I'm no lawyer, but I would recommend being as hands-off as possible. Let a lawyer do that digging. Doing it yourself could look suspicious. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/15 05:43 AM |
| 27 | TIL that early feminists would attempt to humiliate men who were not soldiers during WWI.This was probably one of the most disgusting and hypocritical things I heard in the beginning of learning about feminism and all that. I still get angry about this one and I generally try not to think about it. Just imagine it, these women are being protected by men being slaughtered on bloody battlefields, losing limbs, watching their best friends be killed in front of them, and having to go through the horror of killing other human beings themselves. They then have the audacity to shame men wh… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/15 05:39 AM |
| 2 | PLEASE stop raping! A feminist prof of psych from the U of Oregon found out exactly how much raping you do, and now they will enact draconian new policies. WAIT UNTIL YOU READ THE DEFINITION OF "SEXUAL HARASSMENT". You will recognize yourselves as the victimizers you are.I can see how the numbers are outrageous, but where are you getting these scenarios? I can't find them in the report anywhere. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/15 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Jokes about dads shooting their daughters boyfriendsThe jokes themselves are fine. It's simply a joke that stems from violence toward men being normalized and women being over protected. It's not the joke that's the problem, the joke just highlights issues that society has at large. If that makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/15 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Female Thief VS Male Thief in Public - Social ExperimentRegardless, people still stepped in when the woman was stolen from and not the man. I think this is largely due to the culture around women in India. It's even worse, from what I can tell, where a man is very likely to get a molestation charge if they ever interfere with a woman. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | 'Women have mood swings': Suspended ASU football player's girlfriend, 19, says she made up claims of abuse out of jealousy and was never hitI'm 99% sure that my girlfriend has this, but we've never talked about it. She has specifically acknowledged that she can be completely unreasonable and irrational on her period. But therein lies the problem. Many feminists are not okay with the idea of PDD becoming well known, since it gives a small bearing to the insult, "are you on your period?". Women like this do exist. But it's sexist or misogynistic to point that out, so we're stuck at the moment. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/15 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Nobody said it was a man's diseaseSo. I know that heart attacks manifest themselves differently in men and women and not many people know that. So I'm all for spreading awareness about that. But... really? Do we have to attack men? And I'm fairly certain more men suffer from heart problems than women even accounting for the above point... It's just kind of discouraging because this is one of the few issues for women that isn't made up for oppression points and they still have to frame it like this. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Female default gender?It really depends on your definition of "sex." Do you mean chromosomal or phenotypical? A newly formed human's chromosomal gender is decided at conception. So there isn't a default gender at all by that definition. Phenotypically, both genders develop to a certain point identically in the womb. After that point, the Y chromosome kicks in and certain changes take place if it does, and other changes take place if it doesn't. So again, you really have to ask what do you mean by "default." One could… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/15 12:17 PM |
| 15 | How could this happen??I'm no lawyer, so contact yours absolutely as soon as possible. It sounds like you have a completely airtight case, but we all know how that goes... Best of luck to you, if your lawyer was good enough to get you your daughter the first time, I'd say he can do it again. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/15 06:48 AM |
| 7 | Male victims of emotional/verbal/relationship abuse, please tell me about your experience.Did you feel comfortable talking to friends/family about what was going on? Did they come to you about things they noticed? If so, what were those conversations like? Absolutely not... Unfortunately. Which honestly I think is my own fault, because my parents didn't like the way she treated me, and my best friend picked up on it a bit too. Did you have trouble identifying emotional/verbal abuse (controlling/manipulative behavior, name calling, threats' etc.) because of gender roles? Unfortunately… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/15 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Guys, this is just something I've got to know. . .Honestly, I think it's mainly due to the fact that the number of lesbians compared to heterosexual women is quite small. Additionally, as others have pointed out, there's lots of stories about people who "experimented" for a while and then stopped. The final thing I could guess is that some men see it as a challenge. If they view you as attractive, and you (in essence) tell them that men haven't been able to satisfy you sexually, they want to be the first one to change that. I wouldn't call this… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/15 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Is there a single feminist who accepts the fact that men are on average worse off than women according almost all statistics measuring the quality of life and discrimination?I suspect there are still plenty of areas where women are worse off than men. Just curious, but what are these areas? I mean, I suppose women get raped slightly more often. But then, a CDC study suggests that its far more equal then most think. (I do take issue with this study's data collection, it seems to inflate the all the numbers unreasonably high.) We know the wage gap is due to women's own choices. Street harassment, I guess would be a thing, even if it's not as big as some feminists clai… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | 6 Truths About Dads Feminists Don’t Want You to Knowand without noting than the poverty rate for women is higher than the poverty rate for men. You'll note that the only reason this is true is because of single mothers. These women have to do everything for children while still making enough money to pay the bills. You simply can't do it, even with a child support check. So either you spend no time with your kids, or you spend very little time at work, or you balance the two, and don't work as much as needed to escape the poverty line. And I have… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/15 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Should men have the right to decide when they want to be a father?Absolutely. Either women need to only be allowed abortions in special cases (which will never happen) or men need equal options to parenthood. I would argue for some form of legal document. While it's still unfair that the male has to do more work, I couldn't complain if this became a reality because of how society views men. So anyway, if a man had a legal document saying that he is unwilling to father any children, and he got any woman he had sex with to sign, and it would hold up in court, th… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/15 12:01 PM |
| 2 | University of Wisconsin panel: men accused of rape should not be innocent until proven guiltyJust curious, but it what ways do you think women are systematically discriminated against? What hardships do you think they face? And I'm assuming we're talking about the western world here, not developing or eastern countries. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/15 12:37 PM |
| 2 | My son's life and mine have been destroyed by corruption (x-post from /r/MRA)That sounds awful. >_< I don't know if it means anything to you, but I'm praying for you. If you need someone to talk to, feel free send me a message. I'd be happy to give you my phone number so we can talk about life or whatever it is you need at the moment. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/15 03:56 AM |
| 2 | My son's life and mine have been destroyed by corruption (x-post from /r/MRA)Faking evidence in a court case is nothing like that though... Especially when actual evidence was already ignored. More of the same stuff isn't going to raise any eyebrows. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:50 PM |
| 2 | My son's life and mine have been destroyed by corruption (x-post from /r/MRA)Good on you. I have to respect someone who has managed to stay sane though all that. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:49 PM |
| 0 | No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid.Yeah, thus far math has been completely objective. It's the only perfect discipline. Common core is already beginning to screw with that though, however I think it adversely affects both boys and girls equally. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:48 PM |
| 1 | No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid.Gotcha. I should have looked it up, I just know that my school (Virginia Tech) is 40% female. So I assumed that most others were similar, I guess I was wrong. Sorry about that. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:47 PM |
| 27 | No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid.More like 60%, which is the national average I think. Engineering schools do sit around 40% so it's feasible to think that some art schools would be 80%, but I'm not sure if you specifically meant that. And that's probably not the average for art schools. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:56 AM |
| 1 | No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid.I don't think men really ruled the world back in the 60s. Wealthy men maybe. In the average household it was much like today, women had most of the power. And the home (family) is the basic building block of society. Women controlled that, for the most part, while wealthy men controlled governments. Several campaigns ran some time before women could vote essentially urging women to convince their husbands to vote a certain way. And no man would ever listen to his wife's opinion, right? So I thin… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 11:53 AM |
| 6 | My son's life and mine have been destroyed by corruption (x-post from /r/MRA)I'm sorry but I could never advocate for faking evidence. Especially because you're suggesting that to a man. He would be prosecuted at the fullest extent of the law for that. Honestly I don't know what to do in this situation. It's heart-wrenching. Clearly the judge had decided the case before it had started, there's no way an impartial judge would dismiss so much evidence. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 05:10 AM |
| 5 | What is your experience of sexism against men?When I corrected them that the order was against her, they didn't require her to leave. Classic... I feel sorry for you buddy. Cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 04:56 AM |
| 4 | What is your experience of sexism against men?That, to me, is sickening. Taking it from the guys paycheck? That's cold. And sure, men are still far safer out there... The ignorance can really start to get to me sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 04:56 AM |
| 5 | What is your experience of sexism against men?A big one for me is college scholarships. The only ones I even have the slightest chance on are the ones that are purely merit based. The only other instance that I can specifically point to at the moment is attitudes about my girlfriend. She's quick to punch me, although she's not strong enough to hurt me if she tried. She's also very quick to threaten me with some disturbing things. Don't get me wrong, I love her to death, and this is a tiny part of her. The real issue is how normalized it is.… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/15 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Interview on the Men's Rights MovementSure, I'll write it up and send it to you in a PM. I just want to make sure I take enough time to write a good response. =P | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Interview on the Men's Rights MovementIt's understandable, which is why it's important we make sure people know the difference. No need to apologize =P | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Serious Domestic Violence and MathThat's pretty scary but it actually makes a lot of sense. It's further undermined by the fact that a lot of DV cases there is mutual violence. If things mutually escalate, the woman is more likely to get killed simply because she's physically weaker, so even the 56/68 isn't saying as much as feminists would like you to believe. Good thought, thanks for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Interview on the Men's Rights MovementDo you have a more specific set of questions? Just to make sure we're all on the same page, we all understand that meninism is a joke, right? It's designed more to satirize feminism than to advance men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 05:43 AM |
| 3 | My university has a lot of female-only scholarships? Is this not sexist?Surprisingly enough, when hunting for scholarships for the upcoming academic year, I did find two for men only. One was for black men only, and the other was solely need based so I didn't save either, but they are out there. The point stands that the overwhelming majority of gender specific scholarships are female, while the rates of female college attendance is far outpacing males. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Lists of 47 Female-only Programs Funded by Your Tax DollarsCan we get a similar list for men? And then we should do something along the lines of what /u/therealmasculistman suggests. Sitting around complaining gets us nowhere. Let's make this heard. I will of course stash this away for the next time I'm in a debate... | /r/MensRights | 13/03/15 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I was banned from /r/Feminism. Can anyone help me figure out why?Well dang. They still show up for me. Why is that? Makes sense though. That's pretty messed up. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I was banned from /r/Feminism. Can anyone help me figure out why?Interesting... That's a dumb way to run a subreddit. But regardless, where did I question the validity of feminism? The first was simply discussing trolls, the second was stating that I empathized with those giving up writing, the third didn't say anything bad about feminism, just pointed out what I thought was a flaw in the argument, and the fourth was just explaining what the logic is behind an argument, I never claimed to subscribe to that argument. I feel like the most likely candidate is th… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I was banned from /r/Feminism. Can anyone help me figure out why?Really? I didn't know that. That's pretty odd... | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I was banned from /r/Feminism. Can anyone help me figure out why?Not for some time. Occasionally. I write a lot of comments though. Why? | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard himI don't think the well written part is a problem. He's clearly a scholar. But I wholly agree, Listen and Believe is never a path we want to go down. The only that bothers me about the legitimacy is the old laptop thing, and the fact that absolutely no one stood up for him in the school administration at all. But that doesn't mean it's made up, just that we need substantive evidence. Which we should ask for anyway. All I'm saying is that we should always exhibit a healthy bit of skepticism. But i… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard himPlus he's posting on /r/SuicideWatch. I doubt many posters there use their normal accounts. But I'm totally against Listen and Believe, so I'd say we still need some verifiable evidence. Which the majority of people seem to be asking for here. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard himI was homeschooled myself, so I made that decision after seeing how much better off I was from my peers. Then I found this sub and that really just reconfirmed it. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard himThat's the kind of stuff that actually makes my face turn red with anger, and I'm not one to get angry quickly. When parents turn on their own children and abandon them like this... I can't handle it. Especially where this case is literally "he said she said" a child's parents should always be on the side of the child unless they actually had a good reason not to be. And if they did, I wouldn't call it "he said she said." | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Guy is expelled from high school and lost his scholarship because a girl misheard himI agree. As a subreddit, we should contact the user. If he can provide the expulsion papers with substantial evidence as to prove he was expelled because of the misunderstanding, then I'd say we're good to go. Maybe we could contact the school for a statement. We could run an ad campaign. Twitter hastag. Something. I know he said he doesn't want national media involved so maybe that's not the best idea. But I still have some faith left and maybe he wouldn't be demonized and maybe the girl wouldn… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/15 01:51 PM |
| 1 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.From my experience, I strongly agree. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/15 02:37 AM |
| 2 | It's not slut shaming to be honest about how you lose attraction to a woman upon knowing she's had a lot of sexual partners.Most women do not want an honest answer, in my experience. They want to hear the opinions echoed back in a deeper voice, by and large. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Good joke, but a formatting tip: Don't use url shorteners. No one knows what's on the other end of them and there's sketchy to click. Also, you can imbed the link in text like this. [this](https://google.com) | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 05:14 PM |
| 1 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Hm, definitely a fair point. I can agree with that. While I do agree that neither gender is inherently better in one field or another, I do feel that the genders do gravitate to certain interests. I know there are some conflicting studies on all that, but it matches up with everyone I have met. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 02:32 AM |
| 3 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.but I wouldn't use quotes because that is misleading. Sorry, I used quotes to express them as ideas, sentiments that I did not have. If I was going to quote them I would have used Reddit's quote system. Sorry for the confusion, I never intended to claim that the article said those things, just that I suspected that was the author's sentiment. The author at the very end makes his point quite clear: At least in my opinion, I see that as an attempt to take as much of the blame off of the school sys… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Gotcha. Well I wish you the best! =) | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 12:05 AM |
| 2 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Fair point. And yes, acknowledging the problem is the first step. So that's worth something, for sure. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/15 12:04 AM |
| 2 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Memorizing is fine so long as they pick one right answer or at least tell me what I'm supposed to know. I've been told by different people to do things different ways. I'm like so what is right for the test? Yeah, that would get old fast. Especially when the point is that there's only supposed to be one right answer, not like writing a program or designing a website. NCLEX That's the kind of stuff that irks me... when tests are built on a structure that can be "beaten." Like the SAT, where it's … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Gotcha. Yep, people love holding conflicting views... | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 10:52 PM |
| 9 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.That doesn't sound fun at all. At least with the way my brain works, I can't stand memorizing rote facts like that. (18 gauge vs 22) I want to learn a concept, and manipulate the concept for my own benefit. I realize that I will not directly use a lot of the stuff that I'm learning in math and physics courses (I'll probably use a little more from my engineering courses), but what I'm really learning is problem solving. Playing by the rules of physics. I could never be a historian or a doctor or … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 09:54 PM |
| 9 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.I'm not sure if you agree with my sentiments or disagree.. Regardless, I do think there's a difference here. Boys often get no say in their education, it's the parents who decide. Even then, sometimes finances decide for them to force them to go to public school, where these problems abound. If private school is an option, they still can't force a school to change these behaviors. A woman seeking a job isn't limited by this as it's pretty much required that she select the places of employment th… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 09:47 PM |
| 66 | BBC: "Clever girls, stupid boys" education gender gap continues to widen and leave boys behind, but it doesn't really matter because it's probably mostly their fault anyway.Someone call me out if I'm get the wrong idea of this article, but I hate this mentality... "The only reason boy's aren't doing as well as girls is because of their own choices." "In the past, girls were held down, so that's why they didn't do as well." It seems that a growing number of people like to hold the two ideas. Now that the boys are falling behind, it's really just their own fault and nothing can be done. It has nothing to do with the nearly exclusive female staff and the behavior of a… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 06:46 PM |
| 8 | McGill University is considering women's only hours at campus gym. They already have women's only hours at their pool.drop weights I thought that the reason why you don't drop weights is that it's bad for the machine or for the floor. So if that is actually the reason I don't think having all guys would change that one. But I agree, an all male gym would be nice. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Twitter "comedy" account post justifying and making victim of domestic abuse into jokeExtremely fair. =) | /r/MensRights | 23/02/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Twitter "comedy" account post justifying and making victim of domestic abuse into jokeExactly. That was my point. No one should be. /u/Caspasho was simply pointing out that many extreme feminists have fits over jokes, and we should be better than that. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Twitter "comedy" account post justifying and making victim of domestic abuse into jokeTo be fair, the twitter post isn't making a statement of any kind. The top commenter is supporting a movement while touting a username that seems detrimental to that movement. I don't see anyone having a fit over it either, simply pointing out the potential problem. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Fight or flight, what is your initial reaction.My general rule is to avoid physical conflict if at possible. It's not that I'm scared to fight, I have gotten in a few brawls with other men (boys at time), but the trouble afterwards is generally not worth it. On occasion, I will still stand and fight if the issue is important enough. I will never throw the first punch though. Gender definitely plays a role, as the rules change entirely when facing a female aggressor. With a male, I would at least consider standing to fight. Not so with a fema… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Laws favouring women?Dang. Never thought about that... saving this. I'm sure nothing here was intentional, but it reflects the idea of how women "need" so much protection while men, generally, and not afforded any. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:42 PM |
| -1 | One day a man will actually go on TV and talk like this about our causeYou have to say yes No. No I don't. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Things like the qualification of the top definition need to be changed, it preconditions the idea that only men are the offenders.This is the stuff that gets to me... They don't even define it as penetration, but some reason only men cause other to engage in unwanted intercourse when the evidence tells us otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:24 PM |
| 32 | Twitter "comedy" account post justifying and making victim of domestic abuse into jokeAs disgusting as this is to me, I still think they should be allowed to post it. They're clearly taking cheap shots to make jokes so I can't let that bother me. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Boo-Hoo! Whining Feminists Admit DefeatWhere to start, where to start... Quick Summary: http://thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2014/08/5-legal-rights-women-have-that-men-dont/ Perhaps a bit extreme, I don't agree with everything here, but it gives you a good idea: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Byiy9LkIcAAfDmR.jpg Anti-Male Bias Within The American Psychological Association: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2c4p26/antimale_bias_within_the_american_psychological/ Men are the majority victims of violent crime, yet women are… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/15 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Funny... every other time I've seen programs like this it wasn't called "discrimination." I guess it's just because it helps men outHoly kark! Some institutions that when forced into gender equality, actually stuck to it when things began to tilt the other way? Gasp. What would cause them to do this? This is sickening. Personally, I believe admission should be purely merit based in either case. But it's a free country, and if it wasn't discrimination when they did it for women, it's not when they do it for men. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Another reason why women may make less than men, on averageInteresting... I agree that it would be difficult to measure, but I would be very surprised if it was absolutely zero. As far as negotiation goes, it seems like if one applicant is the sole wage-earner in a household, they would negotiate higher pay. This is probably independent of gender, or mostly at least. But more men are the sole wage-earner, so it makes sense there would be at least a little bit of gap there. Thanks for the thoughts. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/14 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Another reason why women may make less than men, on averageAnd that's pretty funny because it doesn't actually have much to do with socialization. At least not in the area that I live in. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/14 03:01 AM |
| -1 | What do you guys think of Slut Walks?Gotcha. Well in that case I'd say that's a sign to get out. The reason why I didn't say that immediately was because "courtship" made me think that she still liked and/or appreciated older relationship models. I can't tell you what's best for you, and maybe I'm just embittered, but I don't see anything but pain from a long term relationship with that kind of woman. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/14 04:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Slut Walks?This concerns me. The thing that bothers me is your use of the word "courting." Now, you could just mean dating and nothing else. But that word usually means a much more serious relationship. If this girl wants the privileges of being in a relationship like that, but thinks that being a slut is something to be proud of, then maybe you need to have a serious talk with her. I understand that there is real "slut-shaming" as the term goes, eg having sex twice and bam you're a slut now. But far more … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/14 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Woman sets up Tinder dates and then wears fat suit to show how "shallow" men actually are. Thoughts?The thing that is weird is that it's intentionally deceptive... So are you surprised that people get upset when they're deceived? I would say that the women fearing serial killers thing is largely due to feminist fear-mongering, but I can't deny that there are probably more female victims in that area. That said, you have to be reasonable. If you're willing to meet someone in real life you met online, but are terrified of them being a killer, then maybe you shouldn't be meeting these people. Tha… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/14 04:19 AM |
| 1 | ConflictedIn that context, I agree, legal action probably is a bad idea all around. I mean, the guy is 17. I don't know his life, but maybe he's just seeking fulfillment in a messed up, twisted way. (It doesn't excuse his actions, but at least opening the door for rational conversation) Of course try talking reasonably with him. But don't try to dish out justice yourself. Very bad idea. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/14 02:18 AM |
| 2 | ConflictedThe guy's being a jerk. So he should be handled like a jerk. I would strongly advise against ever touching any woman involved though. In fact, you should be careful making physical contact with anyone at the time and scene of the act. You never know what people will accuse you of. But you can tell the guy alone that he's being an idiot and a moron. And whatever else you feel to be appropriate, as long as you're alone with him and don't do anything stupid yourself. No need to take legal action. T… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/14 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is bad because..........it undermines men's utility to women!To be fair, people in general should have self-control. I mean, I can quote Yoda here. I can't expect any respect if I have no control. The biological destiny part is a little weird though. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Standards for men's fashion are unfairPersonally, I think if this actually bothers you, you should either get over it, or do something about it. If enough men complained, then stores would have to get more. It's an interesting point, but I don't think it's worth making, especially in developed countries. I understand that you're trying to point out different cultural expectations, so don't think I'm attacking you. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/14 10:07 AM |
| 1 | 1 in 6 boys vs 1 in 3/4/5 womenBasically, we can't. The thing we should take away from the 1 in 6 boys though is that you can make a study say absolutely whatever you want it to in this area. EDIT: Also, basically, the conditions of abuse are as minimal as possible. So using those conditions yields 1 in 3/4/5 women, and 1 in 6 boys. So when you define your terms so incredibly broadly, then you can find comparable stats. We shouldn't use either as proof of oppression or discrimination since its simply bad scientific practice. … | /r/MensRights | 13/09/14 09:49 AM |
| 3 | A Warning: About Reading TumblrAtRest and TumblrInActionI can vouch for this... It's great fun to laugh at the stupidity, but it really gets to you. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/14 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Harassment Law class in college, need adviceDon't even bother. You know the truth, risking your grade isn't worth it. Memorize what facts you have to, pass the class, and move on. After you have the degree, if you actually feel the school would benefit from a changed perspective, talk to someone then. After you're done and they can't steal your degree. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Post equates men wanting rights to having to share the rights we already have. Can we debunk it with something similar?Cat-calling is an issue for women the way the rich are oppressed because they have issues like worrying that their kids might be kidnapped. A very fair point. However some women who suffer form this had nothing to do with enforcing the system, and in fact may be fighting against it. I suspect however, that a woman this smart is also smart enough to protect herself by necessary means. I still wouldn't immediately shut a woman down for complaining about this, as guys don't deal with it on such a s… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Post equates men wanting rights to having to share the rights we already have. Can we debunk it with something similar?Honestly it's not much. The biggest one I would say is a general disrespect in certain cities. "Cat-calling" to some degree. There are women who face some pretty intense leering and sexualized comments. I agree that women could mitigate this by not dressing so provocatively, but sometimes it happens to well clad women. This isn't a problem feminism can solve, but I can see it as a valid complaint that women may have. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Post equates men wanting rights to having to share the rights we already have. Can we debunk it with something similar?That's exactly why we have to hammer home the idea women have no issues and feminists are full of shit. I think this comment is why you're being downvoted. I understand your point, but while women do not have any legal complaints that men have, they do have some valid social ones. While I do believe women are better off than men, saying that women simply have nothing to complain about isn't the way to bring a change. To be honest, any of us who don't wonder where our next meal is coming from rea… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/14 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Men's Rights explained to Feminists (and others)Great video. Simply explains the concepts. The only thing I disliked is how it is portrayed that solving men's problems will automatically solve women's. I don't think this would necessarily happen. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/14 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How is modern day feminism different to Men's Rights ActivismOf course. I'm referencing the small part that can't be explained by these factors. Also defending the stance that you don't automatically attribute this small gap to discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/14 03:29 AM |
| 3 | How is modern day feminism different to Men's Rights ActivismVery well said. Couldn't have done it better. Just to throw it out there, what wage gap does exist is about 4-5%. And there's still no absolute proof that this is due to discrimination. It could simply be outstanding performance. We can't say for sure one way or the other. And if we can prove a specific instance of discrimination, then the legal framework exists to rectify the situation. I would say that the goal of the MRM is to use this existing framework to combat what little wage gap there i… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/14 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Well thanks a lot! =) | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Do you have a source for the 70% initiation claim? That'd be great to use. Also, source for the double standard not existing? | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Nice summary. That seems to be the core issue. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Thanks for your comments! I really appreciate that. Definitely sheds some light on things. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 12:16 PM |
| 2 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Excellent point. Not everything has to be binary. My dad says this all the time: "Absolutes are rarely true." | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 05:28 AM |
| 4 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Thanks for that! Also, one other thing I realized, in that strength doesn't necessarily equate to power. Even if the man physically has more muscle bulk, the full power of the law is behind the woman. If he strikes her, and sometimes if he doesn't, he's going to jail. The woman has the power here. So I guess his theory holds? Helped a lot, mate. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I appear to be biased. Can anyone confirm on deny my position?Interesting. That helped, thanks for the insight! | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | A question for the MRAOthers have made decent points, but this is one reason why I don't actually identify as an MRA. It's not that I think the average MRA cares nothing about women. But it's a label. A label anyone can pick up, and can possibly be misconstrued. Honestly, I strongly believe that MRAs have hugely superior arguments compared to feminism, but I still don't feel comfortable carrying the title for the simple fact that it's a label. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 02:02 AM |
| 0 | My biggest question for MRAs: truly curiousI disagree. Men don't need to be berated with fear tactics. Women don't need to be berated with fear tactics. Teaching people to adequately defend themselves if what's needed, in my opinion. Like others have pointed out, its a biological disposition. Men are more comfortable taking risks than women are. This is a generalized statement. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | My biggest question for MRAs: truly curiousThere fundamental problem with this question is an assumption that is not true. However, I give you the benefit of the doubt. I highly doubt that you constructed this question with this flaw in mind. The problem is the assumption that if being male is disadvantageous to you, you would you never choose it. Consider being black in the 1890s after slaves were liberated, and black people were being born who did not experience life as a slave. Clearly, society was still discriminatory towards them. B… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.Can you substantiate the claim? I don't want to doubt you, but we have no proof. If it's true, that's pretty messed up. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.Sadly, I know it too well. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.I can respect your point of view, but I also respectfully disagree. I agree that women are the minority on Reddit. So why is the minority gender the only one to get a specific sub dedicated to them? It just plain doesn't make sense. Men have subs dedicated to them, but they're not default. I can agree that the majority of the time TwoX isn't our enemy, but that's not really even my point. My point is that there's simply no reason for a gendered sub to be default. Maybe they wanted it to be a tar… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.Yeah... Reddit is not a place where we pamper people. If you can't deal with "OP is a fag" and have some thick skin, this website simply isn't for you. Men and women alike. They can certainly make the sub, no matter the reason. But to be default? Poor reasoning. Thanks for the insight. Edit: a word | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.I'm not saying the counterparts don't exist, but there's no default counterpart. And I agree completely. Due to the generally divisive content on these subs, they simply don't need to be foisted onto default users. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.While that may be, there's nothing gendered about those subs. The fact that they're male dominated is basically irrelevant. I hate to see Reddit become another company that gives women anything they ask for because they're women... | /r/MensRights | 21/08/14 03:02 PM |
| 13 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.True... Especially Reddit, as it encourages separate communities. But prior to this how much was on the default subs? I suppose you could argue that /r/funny and /r/science is a similar situation, but before this where was such a clear divide as male/female? It still seems uncharacteristic. Maybe you could throw in /r/creepy vs /r/aww, but really, these are stretches... | /r/MensRights | 20/08/14 06:22 PM |
| 80 | Reddit admins admit that users at 2XC used sock-puppet accounts to make things look worse than they seemed and lied about harassment via PM.Why is TwoX a default sub anyway? Why does it get to be the only gendered default sub? Ordinarily I'd say that there needs to be a male counterpart here, but I don't even want that. That would create huge battle between the two, knowing the communities here. Why can't we just leave gender out of default entirely? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Rape has fallen 80% since 1970Just shows that any stats like 1 in 5 are extremely inflated due to confirmation bias or outright manipulation of evidence... =/ | /r/MensRights | 20/08/14 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Is criticizing feminism any different from criticizing a religion?The parallels are frighting. Feminism is almost 100% a religion. It only lacks a specific origin story, but it comes close to one. That said, it's pretty difficult to get people to give it up, no matter what facts or logic you levy against them. That said, I think it's a worthwhile effort, because there are a number of things feminists have done that directly harm men. Mostly blocking bills that would change child custody laws to be more fair, but also convincing the general public than men are … | /r/MensRights | 20/08/14 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Amy Schumer on Circumcision.Honestly, I have no problem with comedy as comedy. For the most part, she seems to making honest jokes. Maybe these jokes offend me, but I do support the right of free speech. The only thing that really ticked me off was the statement about it being an "extra" flap of skin. I'm pretty sure that it not extra. This demonstrates gross ignorance, and while it may be a joke, it's one that promotes ignorance. She's free to tell it, and people are free to listen and laugh, but I think both of those are… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/14 11:17 PM |
| 2 | No Boys Allowed — Hotels With Women-Only FloorsThe fact this happens without similar treatment for men does bother me to an extent... but we all know society caters to women, and I think we should get used to this on one level or another. What really bugs me about this is how feminists will continuously claim that women are oppressed. Clearly nothing could be further from the truth. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/14 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the desire to see male rape victims taken more seriously conflicting on some level with the desire to see rape accusations treated more skeptically?For one, the MRM doesn't really want to be more skeptical of rape accusations. They want them to be handled with due process that other criminal accusations are. The two ideas you say conflict actually go hand in hand. On the male end of the spectrum, society usually thinks that males simply cannot be raped, they always want sex, and such reports are rarely taken seriously. On the female end, society has been led to believe that 98% or more of all reports by women are completely true in every wa… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/14 10:08 PM |
| 1 | My coworker just said "A Man probably designed the new iPhone 6 because it's going to be so big, and they always need everything to be bigger."The funny thing is, the iPhone 6 isn't even the biggest phone out there. For one, we won't even know for 100% the sizes until September 9th. Also, the 4.7" model is still pretty small. The 5.5" is 0.4" more than the Galaxy, but still smaller than the Note. So it's a strawman argument at best, and a calculated attack at worst... | /r/MensRights | 19/08/14 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What are the actual statistics on alimony payments?Yes, I checked the Census Bureau. I confirmed that men represented only 3% of alimony recipients. So it's a pretty poor argument to say that women pay alimony too so men should shut up about it... I did read some stories about women getting screwed over by alimony, so it certainly can happen. But just look at the numbers. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/14 11:54 PM |
| 7 | Is disagreeing with a Female point of view socially unacceptable these days?From personal experience, yes. I highly doubt there are any studies done, but at least from my interactions online and in person, yes. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/14 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The Men's Rights Movement Is Making A Huge MistakeEhhh... He really has some decent points, but you can't make a blanket statement about all female MRAs. GirlWritesWhat is an incredible supporter, and I would trust her at least. I don't personally identify as an MRA, but nonetheless, my point stands. I don't know much about the other women. So yes, he has decent points, but something seems not quite right. I can't put my finger on it. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/14 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist, now I'm just confused... Help? Did I go from one extreme to another?I think you've got a good attitude about this, but like others have said, there's no need to prevent women from working in certain fields. If a rare woman is exceptionally strong and enjoys construction work, then she shouldn't face any obstacles. I think this kind of woman would be exceedingly rare, but it's really more for an example. You make a good point about the living wage though... I don't know if a study has been done, but it's possible that everyone could benefit from a change like tha… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/14 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Gender differences: A variation in the cognitive abilities of the two sexes may be more about social development than gender stereotypesThe article only says that only to a degree they could be from society. I think that, yes, that has to be at least one part of it, but biology I think is another part of it. I can't remember where, but I think I remember a study about men being better with abstract and spatial reasoning, while women have better memory and multi-tasking abilities. The point was that their brains are different. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Not being able to accept a job because I am a male.This. I sympathize with OP, but you can't use the same logic the SJWs use. These reactions aren't everywhere in society, so it's possible no one will raise any eyebrows. And if they do, then now you're vindicated. Plus, who cares what other people think? If some women equate catcalling with harassment, isn't this kind of in the same vein? I don't want to attack OP, so correct me if my logic is faulty. Like, oh, people think I just wanna be around little girls, so I won't pursue my dreams because… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/14 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How many people share my opinion?Genital Mutilation: A fair point. So for sake of equal right, the women do have that one going for them. Rape Laws: That's messed up. "Unwanted sexual intercourse isn't rape." Reverse the genders and buildings would burn. I didn't realize that the max was 5 years lower, so that's a problem, and of course statistics are important too. Birth Certificate: All I can say is that is messed up. So it looks like women do have more rights than men. However, in my original argument, and this one, Feminism… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/14 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How many people share my opinion?Another fair point. You may wish to read my response to /u/anon_and_on. So we can still say that under peaceful conditions men and women have equal rights, correct? Assuming there are now wars and we're not considering a crime? It's kind of stretch, but my point is that both genders can own property, have equal pay for equal work, able to live on their own, etc. These issues are good points though, and honestly I'm surprised that Feminists can blatantly ignore them, or treat them like victories. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How many people share my opinion?Interesting... Good points. I was referencing the US in my original post, but the UK is a similarly developed area. Circumcision is bad, and I give you that point, but how much does it disadvantage someone, in that they do not have an equal opportunity to succeed as an individual? For example, what ailments result long term from it, with what frequency? Can it cause death in any case? Despite those questions, I still pretty much agree, I suppose. A female baby has the right to not be mutilated, … | /r/MensRights | 05/08/14 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How many people share my opinion?Yes, that's it. Good point, it seems I was misinformed. I did some further reading on the case and found that many feminists completely blew this out of proportion. It just shows how saturated our culture is with Feminism I guess. I had heard that his main motivation was to kill women, even though a few men got in his way. Apparently that's not what happened at all. So yeah. Interesting. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/14 02:50 AM |
| -2 | How many people share my opinion?Definitely not being stupid =P I'm sure there are. I seem to remember something about a mass murderer identifying as an MRA. And I'm sure there are other people who honestly think women collectively oppress men, which is an extreme view. Feminism has been around for much longer, and has far more members, so the extremists are infinitely more easy to find. This doesn't make the extreme MRAs any better or more correct though. Both are wrong. One reason why /r/Feminism may seem more radical is that… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/14 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How many people share my opinion?I wouldn't completely agree with you, but I hold a similar view. When it comes to actual, legal rights, men and women are the same. Everyone has equal opportunity. At least in the US. Women have issues that are specific to their gender. (A lot of what Feminists complain about though aren't even gendered issues, but there are some legit complaints) Men have issues that are specific to their gender. No one is being oppressed. We all suffer in different ways. So I wouldn't call myself an MRA, even … | /r/MensRights | 04/08/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | eBay gives advantages to women that work for them simply for being femaleIt does actually: encourages women to stay on with the company in order to take on leadership roles down the road So they specifically encourage women to stay so they can get better positions later on. They don't encourage "hard workers" or "productive people." No, they encourage women. Sure, obviously those two things are encouraged. But they have a program specifically targeted at women to get them better positions. I would call that an advantage simply for being female. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/14 04:17 PM |
| 4 | eBay gives advantages to women that work for them simply for being femaleeBay's strong female leadership numbers are at least in part because of its Women's Initiative Network. Known as WIN, the program encourages women to stay on with the company in order to take on leadership roles down the road. This is ridiculous. They are being given this advantage solely for the gender, and not based on performance or ability to work. If it was reversed, people would freak out. Why is this okay? | /r/MensRights | 03/08/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | All men are objectifying pigs because some of them look at me when I dress in booty shorts, low cut shirts, and cake on makeup.Spectacular point. I was at the beach with my girlfriend, and she slapped me because it looked like I was staring at a girl in a bikini. Honestly, I was reading a sign in a store, and didn't notice the girl. Additionally, like another user pointed out, you can't wear a trench coat, black gloves and dark sunglasses at night and not expect people to react negatively to you. The fact simply is that appearance matters. Trying to change that is basically uprooting some of humanity's basic functionali… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [QUESTION] Are You A MRA?I don't identify as an MRA. For the same reason I don't call myself a feminist. Anyone can pick up the tag and say whatever they want. I think percentage-wise, MRAs probably have just as many crazy people as feminism does. Additionally, regardless of what they actually stand for, people generally make the assumption that MRA = women hater. This is unfortunate, but it's the reality of the situation, so I avoid that label. I try to not put any labels on myself at all, because of these very reasons… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/14 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Irish father-of-two tells of how wife 'stabbed him up to fifteen times' and nobody believed himI'm not the one who used it, I'm just defining it as people use it. Some feminists would take great offense at being called AMR though, while others would be happy for it. It just shows that the movement has too many definitions and is slowly coming unglued. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/14 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Irish father-of-two tells of how wife 'stabbed him up to fifteen times' and nobody believed himAnti-Men's Rights | /r/MensRights | 11/07/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Is this as offensive as it feels to meI can easily see this being offensive... But it's clearly joke. I mean, honestly, we have more serious things to worry about. I'm not going to let a t-shirt get to me. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/14 05:52 PM |
| 1 | In defense of "boys will be boys"When I was growing up, I heard my grandma utter the phrase "boys will be boys" on a number of occasions. One time was when I was exploring in the woods and fell and got scratched up. Another time was when my friends and I had a wrestling match and I got some bruises. Another was when I got welts from paintball. In my world, this was used to say that we shouldn't baby boys because they're naturally into things where they may get hurt. We should learn to suck it up and deal with our choices. Gener… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Article suggesting that men are not made for the delivery room of their childrenI want to be there for my wife (not married yet, but I have a committed girlfriend) , if only to make her feel better. But I have to say, that terrifies me; knowing that she could die. At the risk of sounding callous, if the doctors gave me a choice to save the baby's life or my wife's, I would instantly choose her and feel no regrets. Maybe I'm too attached. But that's still scary. I don't know if I could go on living if my wife died delivering a baby. I would feel responsible, even though we b… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick rant...That makes sense. But yeah, I'm not gonna let it get to me. =) | /r/MensRights | 04/07/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick rant...Thanks, I'll remember that in the future. =) | /r/MensRights | 04/07/14 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Give Matriarchy Ⓐ ChanceIs this satire? Honestly, it sounds like the person who wrote this is literally mentally disabled if they are not joking... | /r/MensRights | 03/07/14 04:50 PM |
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