| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | How does one approach a set of girls when you're only interested in one of them? / Dealing with regret. | Teefz | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 03:12 PM | |
| 9 | When to contact a girl met at a club/bar? | Teefz | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 01:13 AM | |
| 8 | Tips for being more physical? | Teefz | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:08 PM | |
| 6 | What changed for you that moved you from beginner to intermediate? | Teefz | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:52 PM | |
| 5 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress. | Teefz | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 05:59 PM | |
| 1 | Resources to improve my text game (online dating and from cold approach)? | Teefz | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 10:26 PM | |
| 1 | Accepting who I am vs becoming who I think I should be | Teefz | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 07:12 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | Accepting who I am vs becoming who I think I should beI’ve read it before. It turned me into a bitter asshole when I adopted the mindset rollo teaches | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Accepting who I am vs becoming who I think I should beWhat | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | First dates going great but unable to get a second.Take them to another place, prior to bringing them back home? Or just avoid trying to have sex on the first date altogether? Sometimes the reason I decide to try and go directly home is because my dates are during the week, and there’s only so much time to do everything before the girls going to want to go home. I realized with the first girl, she probably needed a bit more comfort, which I could have provided by bouncing to another place beforehand. | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Is online dating a waste of time?Ah, I get it. Well what's the reason for not sleeping with them? I had a similar experience recently, we just kissed at the end and then she slowly stopped responding | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Text Game Breakdown - Bumble Fail (Screenshots Included)Yo! It'd be cool if you went over some of the text game involved when the girl stops replying or after she flakes on a date. I.e. How long to wait until following back up, etc | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 2 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.Thanks man. It's a nice reminder that persistence can pay off. It's fucking hard to keep going sometimes, but like I said in my post, there's no alternative. I do write pre-field reports with concepts and small reminders, but I often get lost in conversations and go into auto-pilot when I'm in the field talking to people. Sometimes I'll remember to check my phone and re-align myself. Maybe it'd be a good idea to set some notifications on my phone so I can actually remember to try certain things. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.I've recently started to write pre-field reports of things that I want to remind myself before going out and also concepts I want to work on. Whether I remember to use those concepts while I'm in the middle of an interaction is usually up to fate. I often 'get lost' in the conversation and am sort of on auto-pilot. I do not keep track of any hard stats, like opens, etc. I do write out my thoghts on the night when I get home too. I also consume theory and am logically aware of what needs to happe… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.I guess I can sort of see myself putting on a performance at times. Aside from the occasional night where I'm feeling like shit about things, when I'm out, I feel great and want to talk to people. Maybe I'm overcompensating in these loud environments because I feel like I need to be this extra crazy, interesting, high energy person in order to succeed. I also don't often feel as if I'm the prize... haven't been able to get myself to that space yet, unfortunately. I naturally exhibit mostly confi… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.Thanks yo. As I mentioned, there's 3 areas in my city and 2 of them are high energy type places, so unless I'm approaching on the street, it's all about loudly opening, breaking rapport and quickly getting the girl to focus on you. I guess this is an area I need to work on. It's just not a rewarding way to meet someone, so I think that's why I haven't really tried to cultivate that skill. My longterm social circle has 0 chance of having new girls come through, so I've started to move away from t… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.So, I should have mentioned I'm fairly attractive already, lift, etc. All the things you can possibly control to increase SMV, I've tried to master. I will admit I'm bad at spotting IOIs, but sometimes I remember that I should be doing that and do notice girls looking at me when I do. But yeah, I'm starting to realize that IG may not be the way to go. A friend said I should go for the IG in the middle of the interaction, and then get the number. I actually was going out alone for a long time, bu… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 3 | I've been cold approaching ~3x/wk for 4-5 months and have nothing to show for it. Is this normal? Feeling really down about the progress.I should have mentioned that. I'm actually pretty attractive. Idk what I'd rate myself but over a 7 for sure. The guys I wing with have all mentioned it before, lol. Good body, posture, tall, etc. If i'm 'on' while walking around the venue I can see girls checking me out. And yeah I should have more success. It's kind of beyond me why I'm not. My wing is 5'7 and bald (has also been gaming for way longer) and kills it. I'm not able to feel what sort of vibe I give off to others, but his is very g… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What changed for you that moved you from beginner to intermediate?This is a good place to be. I've recently got here myself. I feel like I can walk into (mostly) any set and feel fairly at ease. I do a lot of breathing exercises before I go out and in general, which I think has helped ground me a bit more. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What changed for you that moved you from beginner to intermediate?I think this is what is going to change it for me. I'm very good at having conversations with girls now and can get them hooked but was always forgetting the intent part. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Tips for being more physical?Exactly. I need to keep being reminded of that. For so long I've tried to be covert about my attraction, but everyone likes an honest compliment. I've been direct a handful of times and it always seems like its at least taken positively. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Tips for being more physical?Will definitely try and start touching more people. Even in high school my friends and I weren't super 'buddy buddy' with each other. No rough housing.. stuff like that. I do have a good reference point though. A old friend that literally touches everyone he meets. Probably too much for some people, but hey, everyone loves him. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Tips for being more physical?I will admit my conversations are never really that sexual. I do carry a passion with the words that come out of my mouth and with my body language (or so I imagine) because I generally love life and when I'm out solo, I tend to feel I become the best version of myself. My style of 'game' is definitely more casual and laid back. Cool confident chill dude if you will. Complimenting and being direct is something I've been doing more unconsciously lately. I think that's the real problem. I'm not af… | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Smile & (White) TeethDo you think a smile showing teeth vs. one that doesn't significantly matters? IMO my closed mouth smile is better. | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 10:46 PM |
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