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Why is dating waitresses bad?
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:05 AM
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Show her that you are attracted to her. It's all in your behavior.
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:51 AM
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I had one today where I started a conversation in a store and after making a comment she just put what she was looking at back and walked away.
/r/seduction19/03/17 02:52 AM
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Some of them were things I made up on the spot and others were sort of canned, as in I thought of them earlier that day. The issue wasn't with the material itself, but the fact that since I was so giddy, the girls obviously knew I was messing with them and we didn't have a normal conversation.
/r/seduction16/03/17 10:37 PM
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If you don't feel like a girl will be interested in you, then they won't be. Even if you're not "interesting" you have to feel as though you are. Work on the internal state, find some hobbies, just get out and do things.
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:01 PM
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Using female opinion openers during the day and smiling the whole time. They probably thought I was a weirdo.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:58 PM
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The whole idea of this is ridiculous. Looks can be changed. You can lose weight, change your hair, whiten your teeth, get a tan, change your clothes etc.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:57 PM
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The right things have already been said, but if she asks you to do something for her like all the other guys, have her do something in return.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:56 PM
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You should enjoy engaging beautiful women. Yes it's "game" but at the same time it's something that you should want to do.
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:49 PM
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Probably because they're tired of texting you and want you to ask them out.
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:48 PM
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So you're a freshman talking to juniors?
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:46 PM
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If you're both in college it doesn't matter what grade.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:37 PM
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If you did this when you were a freshman, it's been like 6 years.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:37 PM
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Black Sabbath, they're still around? Anyway congratulations.
/r/seduction14/03/17 05:40 AM
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Start learning social skills, developing interesting hobbies, improve your self confidence. With the current underlying issues, a girl may just exacerbate your body image disorder and other faults that you recognize.
/r/seduction14/03/17 05:40 AM
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"oh i see you haven't text me back, trying to hurt my feelings haha" Please don't ever say this. Depending on what you said, go ahead and double text. If she doesn't respond, move on.
/r/seduction14/03/17 05:38 AM
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The Rational Male. Has some really deep pondering stuff.
/r/seduction14/03/17 05:35 AM
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Wait until she asks. If it's during the day she might not, then you can ask hers.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:29 PM
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No need to be fast. It depends on how much time you've spent together and what time it is. If the party just started she's not going to leave with you. After talking for half an hour or so gauge her interest level.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:27 PM
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If you haven't known her long, you have to think about what her friends would think of her if they saw a guy doing those things. Just keep it in mind. Be considerate. as you can't fully escalate in public, there's no reason to try to push the envelope with a bunch of people around.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:56 AM
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In the short term, having the sex mindset will be more beneficial than a relationship mindset will be. Why would you want a relationship with someone you don't know? That's about so much more than just thinking she's hot.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:53 AM
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Whatever prevents you from obsessing over her, go for it.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:12 AM
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Not if you don't do things that aren't socially acceptable. Simple touching is fine. If your arm is around her that makes things pretty clear.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:12 AM
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I would use something like a female opinion opener to open the group, talk to them a little while, then ask if you can take the one you're into to another place in the pool to swim or whatever.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:10 AM
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Put it into practice. If you're going out everyday and learning, you'll internalize things pretty quick.
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:09 AM
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You ask her if she wants to leave
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:08 AM
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Text her, but don't just say that you're free. Say something like "Hey I have a few hours on Saturday, let's grab coffee" or something.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:29 PM
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That's an awful idea. If you're trying to find ways of doing it that don't break through personal barriers you won't get anywhere.
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:45 AM
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Matches are solely based on your photos and bio. That's it. If you're at a university, you can probably meet more women in a day than you've met in a lifetime of Tinder.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:44 PM
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Just 1 if she doesn't try to reschedule.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:43 PM
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If she isn't putting in effort to meet, could be because she genuinely doesn't trust you yet. "a little...(about 2 weeks later)" That is a colossal amount of time to spend talking to a girl on Tinder. Dude do not give her any ultimatums. You two don't even know each other.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:42 PM
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Find a middle ground and see what works best.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:39 PM
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Think about this man. How does asking someone if they want to do something equate to blowing it? Even if it's more passive than you should be, that whole thought process is a bit ridiculous.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:37 PM
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It means that she hasn't been there in several years.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:31 PM
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Start reading something to build a base, but the first thing you have to overcome before properly learning about anything else is simply social fear. Go talk to strangers.
/r/seduction07/03/17 10:34 PM
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Don't ask if she has a boyfriend. Also asking for her full name is a little odd. She probably would've put it in your phone.
/r/seduction03/03/17 09:20 PM
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No. There's no reason to.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:52 AM
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Some of these things aren't petty if you don't feel petty when you say them, but it's good that you're recognizing what you need to work on.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:51 AM
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No. If you don't feel like responding, don't.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:57 AM
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I get their attention and ask for their opinion on something.
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:47 PM
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Associate feeling with things rather than just say them. "I love hiking" rather than "I like being outside", should bring more energy and emotion making the rest easier
/r/seduction22/02/17 01:29 AM
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You just have to do it. There's no way around it. The hardest ones to approach are the ones that will benefit you the most.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:11 AM
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Go to a busy part of town. Say hi to people walking around.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:09 AM
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Ha nice, you could've had a conversation with her. Don't immediately ask someone if they're single. Cold approaching is tough at the beginning.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:07 AM
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Talking to strangers Doing something productive ie an activity or learning something new Sleeping well
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:02 AM
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Stop taking things so seriously. Conversation should be fun, spontaneous, and maybe you'll learn something along the way.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:00 AM
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No. Make an observation, ask for their opinion on something, etc. She doesn't know anything about you so introducing yourself and immediately going to a hangout isn't a good idea.
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:57 AM
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Or profanity. If a girl is nice, throwing in a few swear words will only turn her off.
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:32 AM
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This is good. It boils down to just meeting another person. If some girl is just sitting there and she knew that a guy was afraid to talk to her it would seem so ridiculous.
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:26 AM
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You could tell her she's bad if you're smiling and laughing. Girls get hit on by drunk guys all the time so their guard is up.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:33 PM
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This is so good. I've enjoyed talking to girls so much more once I dropped the idea that I need their phone number or something and just truly want to see what they're all about.
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:34 AM
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Take dancing lessons. Grinding isn't that hard. Let the woman do all the work.
/r/seduction18/02/17 03:19 AM
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Ha. Don't ever think of how to reply to things. If she asks a question and you just quickly and confidently say something it won't really matter how "witty" it was. I remember times when my ex would say something and I'd just be like "yeah" and she would laugh.
/r/seduction16/02/17 09:31 PM
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I completely agree. If you're messaging someone online they need to feel out whether you're cool or not and if you make a great first impression face to face they already know.
/r/seduction16/02/17 09:28 PM
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Or just don't ask. Tell her to. For some people that works better.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:17 AM
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By talking
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:02 PM
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"Day game is nigh impossible" ??? You can still talk to people no matter how big the environment is
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:59 PM
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It happened because she was attracted to you. You could've not continued making out and suggested a venue change.
/r/seduction13/02/17 06:35 PM
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I feel the exact same way. It requires a lot of work for very little pay off. You could approach 10 girls in an hour or take a week to talk to them on Tinder.
/r/seduction13/02/17 06:33 PM
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No, that's interest. If she's paying any attention to you assume she's interested.
/r/seduction13/02/17 03:14 AM
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If she hasn't shown interest in you, don't go up to her and introduce yourself. If you want to be more muscular go for it, but it won't directly make you better with women.
/r/seduction13/02/17 02:41 AM
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Touching
/r/seduction13/02/17 02:40 AM
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Depends on what is going on. If you're interested in her but she hasn't noticed you, go up to her and ask something open ended. Ask for her opinion on something. If she has noticed you, you can literally walk up to her and say anything. "Stop checking me out, it's really distracting"
/r/seduction13/02/17 02:39 AM
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No. If you've put effort into the Convo let the other person fill it. Besides silence is when the most sensual things happen.
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:32 PM
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Don't ever fully explain anything. Just say "I know" or something. It probably sounded like you were learning self improvement. A confident person doesn't have to tell people he's confident.
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:30 PM
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I think that setting up a date 1 week in advance could only make you more anxious.
/r/seduction09/02/17 08:28 PM
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Befriend the group and entertain all of them, then go for the one you're interested in
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:27 AM
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Gyms are tough because if you stop a girl with headphones in and say "How's it going?", you'll look like you have no social intelligence. Use an indirect opener. Say something related to the gym. Not sure why any place would be off limits, you're just talking to people.
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:26 AM
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It's not being fake if it's who you are. They don't know whether or not you've internalized these things.
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:21 AM
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It means that she's staring at you
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:35 AM
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Why would there be anything wrong with that? If you know what you're doing and make them feel good there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:34 AM
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Find a reason for you two to hang out, then tell her to give you her number and hand her your phone.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:19 PM
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Because they had no intention of furthering your interaction? You might be the fun club guy but they might not want to see you again. Buyer's remorse
/r/seduction07/02/17 06:03 AM
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No. I've realized everyone has a different story and you can learn so much by simply being in the moment and genuinely listening to them.
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:16 PM
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