Should you ever fight with your GF?

double-victory · 2017-02-09T21:53:39+00:00

Yes, people in relationships get into fights. It's not about "surrendering" or "frame" or, as other comment suggests, fighting 'female' emotion with 'male' logic.

People get into fights.

The worst thing you can do in a relationship isn't "breaking frame". It's not expressing anger and being uncommunicative.

failatsomething · 2017-02-09T19:30:08+00:00

If you get worked up about something she's upset by, aren't you surrendering to her frame?

Yes.

Should you ever fight with your GF?

No.

You'll have disagreements and she'll ask why you still flirt with other women (lol, maybe), and she'll test your honesty. But you should not get emotionally worked up over her shit (or any shit really), and you shouldn't attack her emotional moods with logic.

Most dudes will attack her emotional moods with logic. That goes no where.

TLDR: You're correct and you know your shit. This isn't beginner stuff.

Lostgirl1000 · 2017-02-09T23:13:20+00:00

It's weird if you don't fight. I had a long term relationship where we never fought, and it was probably the most unhealthy relationship I could ever be in.

Now with my new partner we "fight" all the time, but they're more understanding each others pov. Just because you two have different opinions about things doesn't mean either one of you is wrong or right, just see it from their pov and it makes it a lot easier to understand what they mean and not get so annoyed at things they do, and vice versa.

Title	Should you ever fight with your GF?
Author	TehGoobz
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	February 9, 2017 7:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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