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The Alpha player’s drive to get laid also results in a different kind of slavery. He becomes reliant on the ego gratification gleaned from weekend conquests, and may feel incomplete when things don’t work out. Indeed. If you feel empty without pussy, the solution is not to chase more pussy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 10:02 AM
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Really? Non-psychopathic musicians with little money get laid regularly in my experience. What kind of "resources" do they provide?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 11:40 PM
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The flowchart implies that you need to be either a psychopath or wealthy ("yes, he has wealth") or you'll never get laid. I agree that those two things help immensely. However, you can get laid if you're an alpha who is neither a psychopath nor wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 08:35 AM
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It's high-value committed man ("so that she can feel loved") > high-value uncommitted man > low-value man.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:23 PM
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Indeed, thanks for clarifying. I was being unclear.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:47 AM
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Only 25% of women can orgasm from penetrative sex alone, yet experts state that anywhere between 10%-50% of rape victims orgasm. Male-on-female rape is usually portrayed as always being incredibly traumatic for the woman. Should "always" actually be "sometimes" in that sentence?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:36 PM
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Considering the long term consequences of allowing small bits of harm at every meal? That's man-think. Men are certainly better than women at thinking long term, but I still wouldn't call the average man a good long-term thinker. As one example of that, about a quarter of U.S. men are obese.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:03 PM
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When people get scared, they generally either get angry (fight) or avoid the scary object or action (flight). Getting angry and tackling a difficult problem (fight) is usually preferable to avoiding it (flight). After all, doing some hard task often benefits you and trains your willpower, while avoiding the hard task only makes you more scared in the long run. Therefore OP is correct that "We don't only allow anger, we embrace it." OP is also right that this basic mechanism never really changes:…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:18 AM
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If France makes a good but hypocritical decision for all the wrong reasons, then France is still making a good decision. Of course, this is assuming that the law actually bans anorexic women and not thin women with a healthy weight.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 03:03 PM
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The article I linked notes that: But other sources have pointed out that only 1 percent of the estrogen in drinking water comes from contraceptives. The linked article refers to WebMD, which refers to this article for the 1% figure. So I agree that today there's more estrogen in our drinking water than 100 years ago, and I also agree that the pill contributed to this, but I'm not sure how much it contributed. The article looks reasonably solid, so perhaps the 1% figure is correct, but then again…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:58 PM
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Your point indeed illustrates nicely that society hates holding women accountable. On the other hand, the article states: "But other sources have pointed out that only 1 percent of the estrogen in drinking water comes from contraceptives." If that's true, and I haven't checked those sources, then letting pill-using women pay for the entire cost of filtering estrogen out of drinking water would be unfair. You could still make them pay $15, which they would still throw a tantrum over, but not $150…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:21 PM
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As an additional question for Milo: Is there any truth to the claim that urine from women on the pill is contaminating our drinking water with hormones? On one hand it sounds ridiculous, but on the other hand...
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:13 PM
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Even if you could make every 15-year old read TRP, you still wouldn't reach everyone. Many people need some life experience (like a bad relationship) before TRP sticks.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:45 PM
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If it's 0.2% chance, then you'll have a 50/50 chance of getting HIV after having sex 350 time (.998350 is about 0.5). If you bareback a stranger 50x per year (about once per week), then after 7 years you'll have 50/50 odds of HIV. I don't think that this risk is negligible is you plan to spin plates for a long time, though I agree that other STDs are scarier. In any case, use a condom.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:55 AM
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Even setting aside the obvious pregnancy issue, what's your plan if you get HIV?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 06:42 PM
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You could also refer to the indicator function: the value is one if the man (x) is in the set alpha (A) or zero if not.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 07:49 AM
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Maybe I’m missing something. I simply do not think it is worth it. You're free to go MGTOW, either briefly or permanently. That way, you don't have to practice game or expend energy on women. However, you should lift (or do some kind of sport) and you should meditate even if you go MGTOW, in the same way that you should eat healthy things even if you go MGTOW. The mental benefits alone make lifting and meditating worth doing.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 02:52 PM
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wasn't competent enough to use birth control [or make the guy wear a condom] That's not incompetence. She wanted to get pregnant with alpha sperm and then sucker her beta provider into raising it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:20 AM
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But seriously, if you keep having a lot of sex for a long time, do you eventually regain your concentration while still having lots of sex, or do you keep being easily distracted as long as the pussy keeps flowing?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:43 PM
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I'd love to read that post if/when you finish it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:33 PM
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It's sad that the social science of psychology often gets used nowadays to frighten, brainwash and damage people psychologically so that you can sell them stuff. And we think this is perfectly normal and fine.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:34 PM
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My last LTR-ish (wasn't exclusive because I'm not that way inclined) was like this. Constant rudeness and shit tests. I told her I'd leave if she didn't stop it. She continued. You fail shit tests by taking them seriously. You took them very seriously, so you failed her shit tests, so they continued. I know it sucks, but hey, women gonna women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:29 PM
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It's cognitive dissonance. People find it unpleasant to hold two mutually exclusive beliefs in their head at the same time, such as "I hate Benjamin Franklin" and "I'm doing a favor for Benjamin Franklin." They resolve that tension by changing of their beliefs. You can't really change the fact that they lent out the book, so they change their opinion about Benjamin Franklin. So if you to want someone to not hate you, ask them for a (small if necessary) favor that they can't reasonably refuse. (I…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:55 PM
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So they want you to be driven so wild with passion that you can't control yourself, yet they also want you to ask for consent every step of the way? That makes it even more obvious how much of a turn-off it is to ask for consent every five seconds. (Of course, you shouldn't take her if she doesn't want it.)
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:03 AM
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Are those women strong (can they lift heavy objects) or do they have a lot of endurance (can they work all day)? Women have a lot less strength than men, but they only have a bit less endurance than men.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:17 PM
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The best way to exercise your mind is by meditation.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:59 AM
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And as a reforming beta male, knowing the truth hurts so bad I don't even know how to handle it (Heavy Depression Phase). If you aren't doing it already, go meditate. In the short term it won't do anything. In the middle term it will help you get through the depression phase. In the long term, it will help you find meaning.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:39 AM
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How to achieve happiness given her new found awareness? Easy. Lower her standards.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:39 AM
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That's Naked and Afraid. The "survival ratings" are indeed ridiculously biased towards women, but the other 95% of the show is interesting to watch.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:47 AM
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Women are evolutionarily primed for a dualistic mating strategy: They need to both acquire resources and fuck bad boys. They need to fuck bad boys because they want high quality sperm, which is a resource itself. Yes, they get tingles from them too, but the reason they get tingles for them is because assholes have high quality sperm. So, women are evolutionarily primed for a dualistic mating strategy: they want both food/comfort/security resources and high quality sperm resources.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:45 AM
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Most westerners think that "ego" only refers to the bad part of you. When you say "kill your self" or "leave your ego at the door", you mean this version of ego. So: don't be close-minded, be open-minded instead. Don't be lazy, be disciplined instead. Don't be so proud that it limits you, be humble enough to accept other perspectives instead. Now, those are great tips. I'm happy that you've turned your life around thanks to them, and I'm sure that other people can benefit from being more open-mi…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:37 AM
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That most women from Naked and Afraid weren't very capable wasn't a surprise to me. What did stick with me, however, is that even the few tough women made the men do more or less everything, just because they could. In one episode, the woman seems mostly useless and the man does almost all of the work. Then the man gets seriously sick and the woman actually single-handedly maintains the camp for several days. And then when the man gets better, she reverts to being useless and he continues to do …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:15 AM
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To be fair, few martial artists are muscle-bound freaks. In general they're pretty lean.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 01:46 PM
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Great men are people who seek long-term pleasure (even at the cost of short-term pain) rather than short-term pleasure. They're not men who endure pain purely for the sake of enduring pain. For instance, a great man wouldn't chop off his hand, or randomly throw his own mother off a cliff, just to build willpower. After all, chopping off your own hand doesn't bring you long-term pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 08:29 PM
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Indeed. I don't think that most people even know the difference between communism, socialism, marxism and free market capitalism with some government oversight mixed in.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 11:20 AM
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In your other reply to me, you made a good point about women becoming less attractive while men become more attractive as they have more partners. However, here I think you're being unfair. I made the point that if you cheat on your wife and you have kids together, then the woman will probably get custody over the children and being raised by single moms is bad for them. Saying "oh so you claim that you should cower in the corner then?" is strawmanning. There are options besides the nuclear one …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 06:16 AM
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I think it's awesome that you're raising your daughter. From the statistics I've seen, single fathers raise better children than single mothers. Unfortunately, if a man cheats on his wife, then in practice the kid(s) will nearly always go towards the mom. (They usually go towards the mom even if she's the one cheating.) No matter how much the father may want to raise the kid(s), he'll often not have the opportunity to do so. And being raised by single moms is bad for the kid.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 05:43 AM
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I was raised by a single mom myself, so it's a touchy subject for me, but I will admit that I made my point with needless drama. Hence I edited it, but apparently you saw the original. No matter. Anyway, if you think I'm wrong, tell me why I'm wrong. I promise I'll keep a level head.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 05:18 AM
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Men don't cheat. They simply play by the true rules that exist. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, and the geese would deny you that. One, it's weird to present women cheating as "they can't control their baser instincts, we must reign them in or women will destroy society" and men cheating as "he's an in control, aware, machavellian manipulator and him cheating will benefit everyone." Why isn't a cheating woman also "simply playing by the true rules that exist"? Two, if there are…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 05:08 AM
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I believe you and I am sorry to hear that. I'm still not sure if America is much more unsafe (at least in certain areas) than Europe because most Americans have a gun, or if it's because American culture is simply more violent than European culture.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 02:43 PM
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Yeah, except no other first world country sees it this way, and we end up a lot less dead because of it. Indeed. Literally the only guns I've seen in my life are images on the internet and holstered guns worn by cops. In other words, I've never seen a drawn gun in real life. I've also never seen people over the age of about ten physically threaten or hurt someone else, aside from videos on the internet. And yes, we do have about 20% immigrants in our country.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 09:01 AM
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Gone girl (the book) was a NYT bestseller.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:01 PM
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Basically don't get too attached to looks/sexiness. They really do come-and-go. The glass is already broken.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:33 AM
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"Functional human being" eh? If the story isn't fake, then I'll note it down as data point #1262398 that women see men as tools.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:12 PM
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I'd add an 11: Implement one thing after the other. If you try to stop smoking, stop drinking, stop eating junkfood, start meditating, start exercising, start reading and start writing all at once, then you'll certainly fail.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:06 PM
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Hypergamy is easily hijacked. If you treat a woman like she's barely worth your time, then she'll interpret that as "he's better than me" and her hypergamy will be satisfied. If you treat a woman like she's amazing, then her hypergamy will sound the alarm and she'll be romantically repulsed. Of course, women don't want men to know that they can easily hack her hypergamy instinct. Not only will this cause men to stop doing favors for women, women also don't like to think of themselves as irration…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 10:30 AM
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This is the life of a woman who thinks she can coast on her looks. It's the life of a woman who's stupid enough to divorce her BB at 41. She'd have been okay had she stayed with him.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:25 AM
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It is an excellent question, but it's not as easy to do as it used to be. Fifty years ago a typical man's salary could easily support a family. Nowadays if you want to be able to afford kids you either need a woman to work as well or the man needs to make a more than median amount of money. And naturally, not every woman in the country can be married to someone with higher than average income.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:40 PM
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you know what? you're probably right in that context. but he didn't say that. you're getting it all wrong. He said "Look, I realize some of you bros never had fathers, but Jesus fuck, how dumb can you be? (...) None of you should need it, and apparently some of you did. For the rest of you, I apologize for this blatant insult to your fucking intelligence." So yes, he did pretty much say "you're stupid if you need this." Calling people fat is useful. I was obese, then got fatshamed and decided to…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 08:41 PM
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"You're fat, that's disgusting so get your ass to the gym" is one thing. That's constructive; it motivates one to do something useful. "You're stupid if you need this" isn't motivating. It's just an insult.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:50 PM
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Indeed. If you think that the people who need this are worth helping, why insult them? If you don't, why write the article?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:30 PM
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Yes, from TRP's point of view, she doesn't deserve to be bailed out by a well-meaning beta. She's not worth 100,000; she's worth 5,000. But, yes, there are a ton of thirsty betas out there. From her point of view, being handed a free bag of cash by a spineless beta is her birthright as a woman, but it's kinda distasteful. She really deserves to be handed a bag of cash by an alpha, because she's so much more mature and well-rounded now than when she was 18. Or, in a pinch, she'd settle for an alp…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:49 PM
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Not from the woman's point of view. She frequently starts looking for beta bux only when alpha cock is no longer available, so she'd value beta bucks at less than the original 200,000 offer I think it's more apt to say that she rejects the 200,000. After ten or fifteen years, she thinks the car is now worth 400,000 (women think that experience makes them more attractive, which is as ridiculous as saying that an "experienced" car is better). A thirsty beta will offer 100,000, which is gross but a…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:52 PM
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but betas will never learn, that's what makes them betas. Some betas never learn. Most of us were or still are betas.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:26 AM
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If you're trying to seduce a girl, then you're right. If you're making business decisions and you realized that you were wrong, then you'll want to revert course. You won't get respect at work for insisting that you're right even if it's painfully clear that you're not. You also may get fired/damage your business if you keep doubling down on something that's obviously wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:58 PM
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Maybe it's easier to swallow if you read it as "humans are animals and can be trained as such" rather than "women are animals and can be trained as such."
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:48 PM
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I don't actively seek out his videos because he's a climate change "skeptic." That makes me question in what other areas he disagrees with science. Now disagreeing with social science is fine with me (and if an individual Molyneux video is linked on TRP then I may watch it and might like it), but climate change is a hard, mature, physics-like science that you can't discard just because it contradicts your hyper-individualistic philosophy. I'm sure that some or even many people in this sub are co…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:33 AM
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To be fair, he said very early on in the relationship that he didn't want kids, didn't want a marriage, would remain independent and would keep their bank accounts separate. She proceeded with the relationship anyway despite clearly wanting a lot more from him than that. She's not blameless here.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 12:29 PM
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He can dump you in an instant and get some new pussy within minutes of dumping you. Some women honestly believe that they're special and that no other woman in the world could replace her.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 12:13 PM
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He'll have to be at least an alpha millionaire and even then she won't be satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 12:10 PM
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So if you're an alpha, women become insecure and start longing for beta bucks, and if you're a beta, women become disgusted and unhaaappppyyy? I'm starting to understand why many people on this sub prefer plates to LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 06:34 AM
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Dutch teacher? Is there some kind of awesome Dutch martial art that I'm not aware of?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:55 AM
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Please turn this into a separate post. I think this is a very good rebuttal to the "make money, fuck plates, screw everything else and you'll be happy" narrative that sometimes floats around here.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 04:17 PM
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Like we live the best life, you want to fuck this up because feelings? Bitch... please. It is FUCKING MADENING to be living the dream that your friends envy and have a woman complain about such trivial shit. Somewhat relevant.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 04:13 PM
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Sorry, I don't and I couldn't dig it up quickly. If you or someone else does find a relevant link, please let me know.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:27 PM
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I don't recall the details exactly, but there was a guy who was both something like sergeant and weapons keeper during the civil war era. He would write messages to himself saying that he needed more guns, then reply angrily to himself that he hadn't earned them yet.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:57 PM
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Probably, hence my crazy conspiracy likely isn't true. But let's double down. Maybe the examiner did a shoddy job and said "bullet in the brain, that's it, let's stop looking."
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:33 AM
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Self-discipline is essential if you want to be somebody worth a fuck. If you lack it, this should be the very first thing you work on. Nothing else can fall into place without it. True, but it's useful here to note that you primarily become disciplined by meditating daily and going to the gym regularly. There are other things that will help, but that's the basis.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:34 AM
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"We can't stop here! This is shit test country!"
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:27 AM
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We're doing crazy conspiracies? Here's one I like: Biggie died from a heart attack due to his morbid obesity, but that's no way for a legend to go, so his friends shot him after his death to make it look like he was murdered.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:12 AM
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I used to know a small business owner who plays Magic. They're not all neckbeards.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:11 AM
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Why I rather don't get is why they don't simply date down. If the college graduation ratio is 2:3 in favor of women [the math doesn't work out.] During a significant chunk of our evolution, about 40% of men procreated and about 80% of women did. In other words, above-average men had multiple wives. In such a world, it's perfectly fine to be hypergamous. One of the men gets eaten by a wolf and the three women share the remaining man. Hypergamy only becomes a problem when you introduce monogamy. H…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 07:26 PM
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It's about a bitch (shrew) who gets tamed by an alpha man.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 01:34 PM
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You think that losing money is worse than losing friends and becoming isolated?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 05:52 PM
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There are also a lot of guys who dress well for the sole purpose of impressing a woman. Yeah, yeah, you dress well because it makes you feel good. But why does it make you feel good?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 01:46 PM
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My condolences. And yes, it's commonly thought that 10% of people are a little broken and the rest is fine. Actually, 10% is so broken that they can't even function properly, but almost everyone is a little broken and has some hole in their lives.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:28 AM
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You're welcome. Giving your inner voice a name and declaring war on him is a great way to separate yourself from him. Good luck, though I don't think you'll need it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:18 AM
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Thinking of your inner voice as an advisor is indeed a great way to realize that it's not you and you don't need to accept its suggestions blindly. And yes, it's important to never delay chores or decisions for an indeterminate amount of time. Either do it immediately (preferable if it can be resolved quickly), or immediately plan when you'll do/decide it (and then of course follow up on your plan). That saves a lot of anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:11 AM
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You're on a diet, you're committed to the diet, you really want to lose weight, but a voice pops into your head and says "I want ice cream." That's your inner voice. It's not you; you've clearly decided that you're on a diet. However, despite what you want, your inner voice gives you uncontrolled, automatic thoughts that you didn't choose to think. In contrast, the "you" voice in your head is the one that you consciously think with. Say the following in your head: "penguins have cold feathers." …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:03 AM
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Such a shame too. Nearly all the gains come from the last set.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 06:49 AM
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Ah. "I'll never find anyone like her" can come from two situations. One, she was higher SMV than you, so you really might struggle to find another girl with a similar SMV who likes you. In this case, your inner voice has a point. You shouldn't ignore your inner voice, you should use it as a motivation to improve your SMV: lift, meditate, get a better job, dress better, learn game, etc. So if you think "I'll never find anyone like her" then hit the gym and keep hitting the gym until your inner vo…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 06:35 AM
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I certainly have experienced my share of trauma in the past. But if I'm currently living in a state of psychosis that brings me serenity, then I see no problem with that. The part of your mind that empathizes with me may not actually think I'm right. It may just want peace of mind, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's interesting that you're doing better by more firmly believing that you're in control, while I'm doing better by believing that I lack all control. Perhaps the extremes are goo…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 06:21 AM
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Yes. If a car narrowly misses me on the road, then the thought comes up "what if he'd hit me?" And then I think "that would be a wonderful experience. I wonder what that would be like." I laugh and go on with my day. Similarly, if I stab my toe, then I enjoy the pain with a smile on my face. You see, I'm not quite enlightened yet, but I've grasped two pieces of that puzzle. One, I'm actually the entirety of existence. It's an illusion to think that I'm just this one person; I'm everyone, and you…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 06:08 AM
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Let's get cynical for a moment. How do you sell the following: if you meditate daily for at least a decade, and you experience extremely painful and distressing peeling away of your ego, and you're very lucky, then you (as in your ego) might die, leaving you an autonomously moving husk of a human being. In exchange, your suffering ends, but only in the sense that you now feel like a ghost who happens to be haunting a body, and that body is no longer you. Hard sell, right? Well, one way of making…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 05:53 AM
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Thank you. I'm grateful that so many people are encouraging me to order my thoughts by asking good questions and making legitimate criticisms.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 05:44 AM
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To my knowledge, there's no prohibition in Buddhism against passing satisfaction - against taking joy in meditation, or the day's meal, or the feeling of rain on your face. Indeed. Enjoying the present moment without conceptualizing it is perfectly fine. In fact, it's wonderful.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 05:42 AM
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There's one voice in my head that I consciously think with and one voice in my head that sometimes gives me unsolicited opinions (the inner voice), yes. As I understand it, most but not all people experience this too. Some people mistakingly think that the unsolicited-opinion voice is actually their thinking voice, hence my insistence that you're not your inner voice.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:38 PM
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For months now I've been feeling like I'm an observer of an autonomously moving body. Initially it was scary and depressing. Now it feels liberating: if "I" do something stupid, then I feel amusement about my quirky body and not shame. I'm still curious to see where my journey will take me, but I'm no longer anxious about which path I should take. Although my perspective has shifted, my actions remain largely unchanged. My friends and family have unanimously told me that I seem happier and more …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:35 PM
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Most people do have a spontaneous, non-controlled voice in their head that occasionally says stuff like "do x" or "y is an asshole." If you don't, then that may not be a problem, but you might not find this post helpful then.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:09 PM
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As I wrote to stolidfact earlier, he convinced me that I personally used "natural" incorrectly. So I also agree with you. That being said, a lot of buddhists actually are using "natural" the way I did, and you'll have to convince those people yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 08:37 PM
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Fine. I'll try again but I'm probably only going to confuse and/or piss you off more. First of all, rationality is a perspective, just like religion is a perspective. Rationality has limits. In particular, you can't truly understand the nature of ego by using your logical mind. You have to experience it for yourself, for instance via meditation or drugs. The only thing I can do to help you is to give you some metaphors and stories to point you in the right directions, but you will be able to pok…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:45 PM
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You're welcome. That's all you really can do. Rationality is merely one perspective and enlightenment (realizing, among other things, that you lack free will) is post-rational. So I'm telling a whole bunch of stories and metaphors, but at the end of the day, the map is not the territory. In other words, the rational mind's model of enlightenment is not enlightenment. If you've never seen purple, then my descriptions won't really help you; you have to see it for yourself. Still, don't get too hun…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:17 PM
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I can see how I'm doing a bad job of addressing your question, but I don't know how to do a better one. I'm afraid I can't help you.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:06 PM
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I'm not thinking of you as lazy because you don't want to spend two hours watching a video to answer a question. Anyway, I personally haven't dissolved my ego completely yet and I'm not sure if I'm typical. That being said, it feels like my body is simply moving on its own volition and I'm an outside spectator to it. Some people briefly experience this via drugs; I experience it daily. Where most people would experience "hm, should I take a sip of water?" followed by a conscious decision, I expe…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:51 PM
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Some enlightened people (people who have killed their ego) believe (they'd say "know") that they're literally the entirety of existence. So they are everything, and you are everything, hence you and I are the same. This makes some enlightened people very compassionate, just like you'd be compassionate towards your foot. It also makes them self-sacrificing, because if they're all of existence, then why worry about "your" particular bit of flesh that "you" call a body? However, the vast, vast majo…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:37 PM
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You're right that you shouldn't do my post instead of taking concrete action to improve yourself. So yes, if you're fat and your inner voice tells you that you're fat, then the proper response is to go on a diet and hit the gym. Otherwise, I think we mostly agree. I'm advocating to not take your inner voice seriously and to not validate it. You're advocating to "shove a huge red pill down that bitch's throat." Well sure, that's one way of not validating it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:30 PM
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Leo said in some video that he used to be an introverted and nerdy kid and eventually became a pickup artist for a few years. So yes, he's familiar with the manosphere. I haven't watched that particular video and I'll look at it later.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:19 PM
1

Interesting, thanks pointing that out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:04 PM
1

Does a bird require an ego to sing in the morning? Does it need a social image? Does it need motivation? Does it need to be accepted by the other birds? No. It's a bird. It sings. Similarly, if I were to magically strip you of your ego, then you'd still go to work, you'd still eat, you'd still socialize with others, etc. You just wouldn't identify with your body anymore. You'd be like "huh, it [referring to "you"] thinks it has a headache. Interesting." That being said, rationally understanding …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:02 PM
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Thank you. He's been a big help to me as well. To other people reading this comment: Leo (the guy I linked) doesn't just talk about concepts like karma. He also has solid, down-to-earth, practical self-help videos.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:38 PM
1

In the west, we often use the word "ego" to refer to the selfish/proud part of the mind. We'd like to think that if we'd kill the ego, then we'd be less selfish and have better lives. I haven't read Freud but I imagine that he thinks that ego is a part of your mind. Again, a different concept is used in the east. There, "ego" refers to your entire mind. Dissolving the ego, then, means changing from a robot that has no free will but thinks it does into a robot that has no free will and knows it d…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:24 PM
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You're probably right that the inner voice is untrainable. Ah well, at least the act of dismissing or ignoring it will build willpower, which in turns will let me dismiss my inner voice more easily in the future. And yes, meditation (and, maybe eventually, enlightenment) is very worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:04 PM
1

OIS? I'm assuming that's negative thoughts? It's good to realize that if your inner voice says something, then that's not automatically true. However, that realization is not enough by itself to eliminate negative thoughts. I'm not a psychologist and don't have the experience to really write out all the steps needed for dealing with negative thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:57 PM
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Great point. It's critical to realize that your inner voice saying "you're ugly" is merely one random opinion. It's not your opinion unless you choose to accept it. However, "how to get rid of negative self-images by realizing that your inner voice is not you" is a bit beyond the scope of this post.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:33 PM
1

There might (or might not) be a misunderstanding here. I don't believe that everyone has free will yet I alone lack it. I believe that no one has free will and I'm just one of the very few people to realize that. So from your perspective I'm still trapped by my ego which makes me feel special for having a delusion, but it might be a different delusion than you thought I had.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:22 PM
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On one hand, Buddhists do sometimes use "natural state" the way I did. I haven't read that much about Buddhism, but here's one example out of many that says that "The implication of this doctrine [...] is that enlightenment is the natural and true state of the mind." On the other hand, you did convince me personally that I used "natural state" incorrectly. So thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:04 PM
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TRP is the natural state of men and being an effeminate beta is unnatural, right? Well, there are more effeminate betas than TRP men. So who is natural and who isn't?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:34 PM
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Nexting my inner voice? Now there's an idea... To answer more seriously, if you're disciplined and don't struggle with motivation, then great job on having built your willpower in the past, but you don't need this post. I actually am trying to get a new inner voice, by "training it to behave." Maybe this method looks weird, but not taking your inner voice seriously and resisting those ice cream cravings that way does actually build willpower.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:28 PM
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Agreeing and Amplifying yourself doesn't seem feasible long term as a man because we are more logical than a woman. You're not agreeing and amplifying yourself. You're agreeing and amplifying your inner voice, who is not you. You're more logical than a woman. Your inner voice isn't. I agree that it is useful to tell yourself "I'm on a diet, therefore I shouldn't eat ice cream." You'll accept that logic. However, your inner voice may not accept that logic. (Mine sometimes doesn't and keeps whinin…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:03 PM
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Karma is misunderstood in the west. Here's what it actually means: buddhism teaches that the natural state of humans is to be free of ego, free of suffering and filled with bliss. Unfortunately, 99.99999% of humans happen to be in an unnatural, ego-driven state. Ego leads to suffering. The only way to get rid of suffering is to get rid of your ego. For example, headaches don't cause suffering. It's possible to enjoy them, or find them interesting, or to be amused at your ego for thinking it's in…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 11:26 AM
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Indeed, as the Russian economy is very reliant on oil exports. However, I'm not sure if the U.S. expected the low oil prices to hurt their own shale industry this much. It's also not clear to me whether Saudi Arabia is trying to cripple Russia or whether it's trying to cripple the U.S. shale industry (or both). If anyone has some insight or good sources on this particular topic, then I'd love to read it. It's also a very dangerous situation. I don't think that Putin wants WW3. However, his econo…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:02 PM
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Here's a link for those interested, but it's only about WW1 and not about modern geopolitics.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:12 PM
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The problem with the Petrodollar is that mainstream sources don't really like to talk about it or its implications, so you need to rely on lesser known sources. I like this article but you should read it with a healthy dose of skepticism. Still, what's not controversial is that the Petrodollar (the system where oil worldwide is only sold for dollars) is very beneficial to the U.S. Let's say that American farmers successfully crossed rabbits and dogs into Radogs, and they successfully guard this …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:23 PM
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But then it makes you wonder what has the US been doing the for the last few years ? There are two possibilities. One, the U.S. is shockingly and uncharacteristically ineffective in stopping ISIS, as illustrated by Russia's easy victories over ISIS. The U.S.'s arming of ISIS is by accident (and this). Also, Israel, which normally does not fuck around, somehow can't get ISIS under control. Finally, a bunch of random extremists is somehow single-handedly fighting off the U.S., parts of the EU, Isr…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:38 AM
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The only carrot is tax breaks for married couples, which alternatively could be seen as a tax on being single. However, that carrot is not nearly big enough right now, aside from being inherently distasteful ("get married or we'll punish you").
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:11 PM
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One, I'm pretty sure that free speech doesn't cover calling for murder. Two, a man calling to kill all women would have been arrested straight away. Three, it's absurd to claim that you can't be racist/sexist because you're a minority/woman. That being said, there's a good opportunity to walk a mile in someone else's shoes here. That combination of disgust and incredulity you're feeling? That's what latinos are feeling when Trump says something like "[The Mexican government is] sending people th…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:01 PM
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One, "The majority of scholars identify Nazism in practice as a form of far-right politics" Nazism is often considered to be a form of fascism and fascism is usually considered to be right-wing as well. Two, extreme xenophobia and nationalism are more right-wing than left-wing. You yourself correctly call nazis fascists. Well, as Mussolini stated: "Fascism should more appropriately be called corporatism because it is the merger of state and corporate power." Corporatism is clearly right-wing: th…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:00 PM
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I enjoy ballroom dancing for the sake of ballroom dancing, but me and my dance partner have no interest in screwing each other. She doesn't ask for any favors and she pays for her own drinks. I see no harm in that. I guess I could look for some other woman to go dancing with and try to plate her, but she may not be as good or experienced a dancer as my dance partner is. Also, I don't want to end my dance season prematurely because my plate/dance partner breaks halfway through. And before someone…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:42 AM
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Writing about "lesson 1" without mentioning lesson 2 is a bit weird.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:34 AM
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To a woman, you're either an alpha, a beta provider or a useless loser. If you tell a woman that something's tough, then that doesn't make you better as an alpha and it doesn't make you better as a beta provider. Hence it makes you a loser.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:09 PM
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MGTOWS love to salivate over trends in Japan for example, or opine about how irrational college educated women are outpacing the numbers of men who graduate on par with them, yet expect to have a bevy of rich males they can marry up to. And while all of these are true, ultimately all this shit is a waste of time. If you want a LTR or plates but currently have low SMV, then yes, don't go MGTOW (or at most go monk mode temporarily). You'd be better off bettering yourself instead of being angry wit…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:45 AM
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Yes, OP's points have been made before, but TRP would be a pretty inactive sub if you'd ban every unoriginal post. Bottom line, if it's getting upvoted, then it's probably useful to TRP readers.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:59 PM
2

Meditation should be on the shortlist for self-improvement. I'd only consider lifting and eating right to be more important than meditation. Also, ingrain a habit before picking up another one.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:52 PM
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Start by meditating daily (which is like lifting for your mind) and lifting. Take the time to really ingrain those habits before taking other steps. The goal initially is not to get laid but to start feeling better about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 07:56 AM
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"Ninety percent of everything is crap" for those who don't know it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 06:51 AM
2

True, but take RedPillWomen with a grain of salt. Even a woman posting there will be inclined to present herself as more attractive and less crazy than she probably is.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:58 AM
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They make it all up, there's no such thing Like a female with good looks who cooks and cleans - Eminem
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:49 AM
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Actors (as in people who take action) have agency. They go out there and do things. "I can do anything I put my mind to! Yesterday was a bad day, but I will try harder/be smarter today." Men who are not losers are actors. Objects do not have agency. They don't do things; things happen to them. "I'm a victim, why do bad things always happen to me?" A high amount of women are objects, but not all. So here's what was said in plain English: "Feminists are actually the most anti-women people there ar…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:36 AM
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Good post. However: Men used to be able to occupy the persecutor position in gender issues (e.g. shaming for infidelity). That is no longer true. True enough, but the implication of your statement is that men need to reclaim the persecutor position and then all would be right in the world. However, the original source you linked in your post says: The Drama Triangle is a model of dysfunctional social interaction, created by psychotherapist Stephen Karpman. Each point on the triangle represents a…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:35 PM
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It's deleted now. What was the post?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:52 PM
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If you're attractive enough, you can get away with nearly anything. I do agree that that doesn't make it good advice, however.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:47 PM
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You seem to think that the backlash this guy and you are getting is focused on people hating the free market: (...) jacks the price tag over 5,500% to the predictable wails and moans of the SJW anti-free-market set What's actually causing the uproar is that this life-saving medicine for (among others) babies will now become unaffordable to many. In other words, babies are literally going to die over this price increase. And no, telling babies to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and become …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:41 AM
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I don't think that posts that only preach about morality, such as this one, are useful. (Preaching for amorality is taking a stance on morality.) It's only going to lead to heated arguments about people's personal values. Those discussions are rarely fact-driven or useful. Imagine the mirror image of this post. Would "you should be an ethical entrepreneur" be a good post on TRP? No? Then why is this a good post? Can't we just agree that you have your set of morals and I have my set of morals and…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:03 PM
1

For now. Ultimately the top 20% won't benefit if society destabilizes even more in the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 11:40 AM
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You're acting like feminism causes all men to get more sex. I'd argue that the top 20% of men are getting more sex, but the bottom say 50% is getting less. Also, I think you're weakening your overall story by making some weak and unnecessary points: Today our dear leader Obama, furthering our war to turn all women into sex objects, has created universal healthcare that gives all women birth control for free. Which babies will now not get born that otherwise would get born? Well, wanted babies ob…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 11:36 AM
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I agree that in perfect world this shouldn't need to be posted. Unfortunately, there are TRP readers who think that being an asshole = alpha, not being an asshole = beta. For them, this may be useful.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 04:41 AM
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Don't worry, I enjoyed watching my ego squirm at your words.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:57 PM
2

So this is how my friends feel when they ask me somewhat advanced questions about spirituality and I answer in a way that's truthful yet useless to them. Interesting.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:47 PM
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Thanks, that's beautiful. It's also encouraging that the wise men from many different cultures more or less end up saying the same things.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:37 PM
2

I don't understand. Can you please explain what you mean?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:03 PM
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Women don't engage with reality, they engage with their emotional response to reality. A woman can't even fathom the difference between the two. True, but to a lesser extent, men do the same. If you practice meditation for a long time, then you may find yourself enjoying rain or being fascinated with having a headache. Go read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius if you haven't already. Here's a relevant quote: "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:22 PM
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If you only want to say "I agree" then use the upvote button.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:44 PM
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It's literally throwing your life down the drain. The problem is not primarily that your expended effort is wasted (on making money that gets flushed down the toilet by your spouse). The primary problem is that your expended time is wasted, and time is your most valuable resource.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:29 AM
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The importance of frame cannot be understated. This should be "The importance of frame cannot be overstated." After all, the importance of frame can be understated. "Frame's not important." See, I just did it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:21 PM
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This judge is causing an uproar by being fair to the father. It would probably be far easier for her to just give the mother everything she wants.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 06:13 AM
4

Both your links points to trollxchromosomes. Is that a satirical subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 07:37 AM
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Western culture doesn't understand happiness very well. Many people seem to think that if you somehow read enough books and listen to enough motivational speakers, then you'll find and flip your "happiness/self-acceptance" switch. Doing so will then make you happy 24/7 for the rest of your life, even if you spend that life largely sitting on the couch. That's of course nonsense. You have continually put in actual work to become and stay happy. You won't be proud of yourself if there's nothing to…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 07:11 AM
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If you want to claim that your post wasn't telling other people what to do, then I'll claim that my don't-sleep-with-married-women paragraph from above wasn't telling people what to do. Yet I suspect that if I made a thread about that, I'd either get banned or downvoted into oblivion, even if I had some new argument to back it up. You are right that certain things would be easier if I wasn't afraid of getting shot in the face.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 11:01 PM
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You wrote: What he didn't realize is that by intentionally keeping himself vulnerable he was leaving the door open for the wolves. The only thing that can save a man from the wolves is becoming a wolf. Well, suppose I'd post the following: What he didn't realize is that by intentionally sleeping with married women he was leaving the door open for jealous husbands to shoot them in the face. The only thing that can save a man from a psychotic jealous husband is not sleeping with married women. Thr…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:08 PM
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What he didn't realize is that by intentionally keeping himself vulnerable he was leaving the door open for the wolves. The only thing that can save a man from the wolves is becoming a wolf. If you want to complain about how unfair wolves are for manipulating men the same way you aspire to manipulate women, the Red Pill isn't for you. Be grateful for all of the wolves who have chosen to tell you the art of wolf. In the wild wolves eat sheep without telling them why or how. You're presenting a fa…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 08:01 PM
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I think that posting "here's how to have a good sleep schedule" is useful. I also think that posting "reminder: drink enough water" is useful. That being said, calling it a "hidden red pill habit" is ridiculous. You read "drink enough water" all the time from mainstream sources. Doctors sometimes recommend drinking enough water. How is something that everyone tells you is good for you a "hidden red pill habit?"
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:10 PM
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I agree that drinking plenty water is important, but I wouldn't call that a "hidden red pill habit." What's next, "hidden red pill habit: have a good sleep schedule"?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 07:42 PM
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Add "right now I feel like..." to whatever she says. "Right now I feel like I want to spend the rest of my life with you."
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 04:16 PM
1

That's a valuable lesson in life: a person/sub can have some crazy ideas in one area, but have completely spot-on ideas in another area. Just take the good ideas and discard the bad ones.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:46 AM
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Use two enters to get a white line in your post, use > to quote.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:03 AM
1

I met a girl today I hadn't seen since I started lifting. After some chitchat, she asks me in all seriousness "did you grow taller?" It's amazing what even a bit of muscles can do.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 08:25 PM
3

Also, debtor's prison is a thing (even though it's supposed to be illegal). It is, but debtor's prison is even worse when the debtor has a newborn baby to take care of.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:08 AM
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Breeding rights should not be extended to people unfit to provide care for young life. This is too tyrannical for me. How do you plan to punish people who have children anyway despite not having breeding rights? Take their children away at gunpoint and put them in an orphanage? Maybe you merely want to fine people without breeding rights who have children anyway. Well, what do you do when someone can't pay that fine? Throw them in prison and send their kids to an orphanage? Also, evaluating whet…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:18 PM
11

"Here's a secret college hack! Are you ready for it? Are you? Okay, here it is... actually study. You're welcome."
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:53 PM
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We're not talking about what is fair, we're talking about what is productive to do. Channeling your anger into complaints that someone else is a jerk is simply not productive. You can keep complaining until your face turns blue and there will still be jerks. What is productive is to take that anger into the gym and get started with a good workout routine. In other words, changing yourself if far easier than changing the entire world.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:52 AM
4

Making the pre-nup severe is a great way to get it thrown out in court.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 05:48 AM
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If you live in magical fantasy land and have a girlfriend who earns as much as you do, contributes fairly to the rent and doesn't spend too much money on stupid stuff, then living together is cheaper.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 04:48 AM
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It's a bit of a stretch, but you could make the case that women are so terrified of sexual assault because it may force them to have a child against their will. Well, this too forces someone to have a child against their will. Viewed in this light, you could see "oops I forgot my pill and got pregnant, tee hee" as sexual assault too.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:44 PM
7

You wouldn't discuss TRP philosophy with a random chick you'd just met, right? So why would a woman be as honest with some random dude as she's on TwoX?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:27 PM
4

I don't hunt, eat or fuck my friends yet I still like having them.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:45 AM
2

Link for the lazy.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:24 PM
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It's the "AWALT is wrong, I've found an exception" discussion all over again. Are women in general loyal? No. Does there exist a woman somewhere who is loyal? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:25 PM
2

Good points. I should have read further than the first two paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 12:36 PM
7

It's better for capitalism in the same way that an oil tanker sinking grows GDP more than an oil tanker not sinking. After all, an oil tanker sinking leads to a ton of people being hired to clean up the mess, leads to a lot of work for lawyers, leads to people being hired to analyse what went wrong, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:23 AM
2

This suggests that single mothers and single fathers perform equally well: Researchers at Ohio State University compared a sample of 456 15- and 16-year-olds who lived in single-father households with 2,583 teens who lived in single-mother households. The results showed that the two groups were very similar in terms of deviance and behavior at school, relationships with others, and school performance once factors such as family income and parent education are accounted for. Then again, single fa…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:19 AM
4

The U.S. tends to be very tribal in its politics. In the rest of the world, it's slightly more common for average citizens to have left-wing views mixed with right-wing views than it is in the U.S. One of the causes for this is that there are frequently more than two real choices to vote for in non-US countries. That, by itself, forces you to choose not just between left and right but also between e.g. far right and center right.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 09:49 PM
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Indeed. "I told her I was on holidays so she intentionally dug up my home phone number and called that during my holidays with the intent to make me miss my call, then convinced my co-workers to lie about me wanting to change my number" sounds like a hard case to win. It sounds convoluted and people in the "women are wonderful" mindset won't believe that a female would go to such lengths. On the other hand, "it's unreasonable that she made her obligatory three calls in the span of two office hou…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:57 AM
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Also, the first message was Monday 4:50PM and the last message was Tuesday 10AM. Fitting the obligatory three offers into the span of like two office hours seems suspect. There might not be an explicit rule against this, but it seems worth checking out.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:57 AM
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I think "red pill" has enough stigma that people would find and throw them away. I don't think the average person knows what TRP is.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:47 PM
4

The question is not "do you want a socialist in the white house?" The question is "do you want a genuine, non-crazy socialist or a corrupt psychopath in the white house?"
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 09:53 PM
4

So privilege doesn't count if you have high enough standards? If I inherited a hundred million dollars, but my standards were obscene and I wouldn't enjoy anything less, then would that make me not privileged?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:35 PM
2

I hadn't thought of af/bb as the perversion of monogamy before. Interesting, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:40 PM
1

Alright, but if monogamy is good for society and bad for the feminine imperative, then why aren't women trying to destroy monogamy? Women certainly don't seem to be shy to tear down societal barriers to suit them in other areas.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:05 PM
1

Thanks for the link. So does societal monogamy help or hurt the feminine imperative? It certainly helps society in general, but you can argue that women would have access to better sperm if we'd allow some men to take multiple wives. Or is getting knocked up by an alpha that easy for women?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:40 PM
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Women are simply operating on the same biological imperative script (find and mate with that top 10-20% alpha) that they have for thousands of years. Was it common for alpha men to have multiple women during most of our evolution? That would explain the "only look at alpha men" strategy, which otherwise seems counterproductive.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:24 AM
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If all the lesson learned points actually were common knowledge in society, then we wouldn't need TRP. Yes, the points have been made on TRP before, but not everyone's a veteran. I thought it was a helpful post.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:44 PM
19

Don't get married in uniform. You mean "don't get married period."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:57 AM
9

Indeed. "Give me commitment or we're done" = you go girl! He's a baby with commitment issues and needs a kick in the pants. Tee hee, violence is funny when it's directed against men. "Give me sex or we're done" = OMG you monster! Rape! Rape!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:33 AM
1

Tell me if this one sounds familiar: "Bullies lash out because they're really insecure deep down inside". No doubt that bit of nonsense was cooked up by progressives to vilify masculinity as they so often do I do agree that there are certain kinds of healthy masculinity that are unfairly demonized by progressives. I don't agree that bullying is a healthy expression of masculinity, not for yourself or for the victim. Having to put others down to feel good about yourself is a sign of lack of inner…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 08:00 PM
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Yes, you can reach enlightenment by meditating, but that's like saying "another benefit of hitting the gym is that you might win the Mr. Olympia competition." It's technically true, but the vast majority of people will benefit from meditating/hitting the gym but won't reach enlightenment/win Mr. Olympia. And no, accepting rationally that there's no self is not the same as experiencing that there's no self. Also, meditating with the intent to reach enlightenment is counterproductive. Achieving th…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:24 PM
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Principe 6: meditating every day briefly, even if just 10min, is better than meditating for an hour every once in a while. After all, hitting the gym regularly is better than occasionally hitting the gym for many hours, right? Well, meditation is just gym for the mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 09:17 PM
1

To be clear: I do think TRP is valuable. It's helped me a lot so far. I also agree that feminism is a big problem. However, suppose I'd post a condescending comment that supports the TRP philosophy, for instance "newbies should shut up and read more" or "liberals/progressives are all dumb" or "women are children and feminists are hypocrites." Then nobody would call me out for being condescending. Even if someone would, then other posters might defend me with "don't thought police us" or "if you'…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:36 AM
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If I only read TRP, then I'd think that the misandry bubble is the single greatest threat to civilization and peak oil, peak soil, declining EROEI and climate change don't exist. Yes, out of control feminism is a problem, but it's not the only one.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:46 PM
4

Most of the criticism levelled at TRP has no logical basis or follows any causal links based in principle or fact. TRP is valuable and my life has improved since I've started reading this sub. That being said, TRP methods can easily be used for selfish ends, e.g. intentionally seducing a married woman. Yet there doesn't seem to be a strong consensus about morality on TRP. (For example, "should you sleep with married women?" seems to generate heated discussions.) It seems like some TRPers embrace…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:55 PM
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Another way to look at it is: the amount of beta you can show depends upon how much alpha you have to balance it out. Ah, the "rappers are allowed to be vulnerable on one song per album" rule.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:02 AM
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If he's going after fatties because he can't score thin chicks, then he still has some work to do. If he simply likes fat chicks, more power to him. TRP is not "do x and only x otherwise you're a loser." TRP is "here's a set of tools, most people like doing x with it but do whatever you want with it."
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:08 PM
9

UK Definition: A person commits rape if they intentionally penetrate the vagina, anus or mouth of another person with their penis without consent. So a woman can't rape a woman either?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:43 PM
19

Karen Straughan (girlwriteswhat) did an ama on this sub about a month back.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:00 PM
5

What are you hoping to accomplish with "who is this"? Petty revenge? Why is she worth the time to text back at all?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 01:06 PM
19

TRP as a sub is starting to mature from "here are some tools that you can use to spin plates" to "here are some tools that you can use to do whatever you want."
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:21 PM
7

This is the kind of person that's responsible for educating kids, she does not understand the concept of compounding. True enough, but if you overwork, underpay and blame everything on teachers, then of course you're not getting the best people for the job. If you have an economics, chemistry, mathematics, etc degree and you actually understand compound interest, then it becomes quite hard to justify being a teacher exactly because you know how much your relatively low teacher salary (compared t…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:41 AM
2

Thanks for answering my question and thanks for your insightful essays. And the "don't solely read, also get off your ass" reminder is a good one.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:55 AM
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You seem to be suffering from two fallacies: one, parents are omniscient and perfect; two, the world is fair. Guess what, parents are just people and the world isn't fair. Also, be careful not to fall into the trap of "x ruined me permanently." You can always improve. Now go to the gym and lift, so that you can turn that anger into something productive.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:30 AM
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Since my house burned down I now have a better view of the rising moon ― Mizuta Masahide
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 08:55 PM
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You're putting her on a pedestal, at least a bit. You're underestimating your own SMV: i'm slightly above average looking (Decent face, very fit, 6' tall). You're also overestimating hers: she's in University studying to become a doctor and also works fulltime somehow and actually makes a little more money than I do. Most alpha men don't want career women. A woman with an actual high SMV is a young, submissive, innocent virgin. Also, I suspect (but don't know for sure) that you're lacking an abu…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 07:37 PM
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John clearly dated her because she's wonderful and dated the other women because they're asian.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:08 PM
5

... according to the primitives whose points of view are described in the book. I'm sure that if you asked the people of Congo what they thought about Belgians in the early 20th century, they'd call them purely evil too.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:03 PM
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Sauron and Saruman industrialized their regions and then tried to conquer some non-industrialized countries. What they did really isn't that different from what Europe used to do, yet we don't tend to think of industrializing Britain around 1750 as purely evil.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:23 PM
2

You're welcome. Background music works for some people and doesn't work for others. You'll have to try it yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:04 PM
5

Having intrinsic motivation to do something is awesome, but you can't only do things you want to do and expect to succeed in life. Sometimes you simply have to make yourself do something even though it sucks. On the plus side, willpower is a muscle that gets stronger when you exercise it. Meditation will build willpower for you, but it may take a few months before you'll notice a difference. So it's worth doing but it's not going to help you right now. edit: You could try to bore yourself into d…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:36 AM
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24 hours is a long drive, so if you (also) want some non-TRP entertainment: Hardcore history by Dan Carlin. I especially like the series Wrath of the Khans (about Genghis Khan and his descendants).
/r/askTRP17/06/15 12:49 PM
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It's a lot of things: As you mention, the USA overuses corn and sugar. The USA both glorifies cars and builds cities in a way that you need cars. In some European countries, you can get away with not owning a car because of walking, biking and occasional public transportation. I have a driver's license but don't own or need a car. I do own a bike and use it almost daily. HAES and fat acceptance are more prevelant in the USA. There's also a bit of that in Europe, but back when I was obese, my fri…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 04:03 PM
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I've read somewhere that historically, 80% of women have procreated while 40% of men have procreated. (This is possible because historically successful men often had multiple wives.) If your goal is to finish in the top 80% of your group, then being very risk-adverse is a good strategy. You don't need to win big. You just need to blend in with the group and not completely fail. This is being a woman. If your goal is to finish in the top 40% of your group, then suddenly you need to take risks. Pl…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:53 PM
4

I have to admit that my view of the average TRPer was someone who simply tries to make money, lift weights and fuck women until he's 80. Yet I guess that TRP is just a set of highly effective tools that you can use for whatever purpose you choose.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:05 PM
4

As a TRP newbie, I'm very grateful for yet surprised by the amount of energy and time you and other TRP veterans are expending to help other people for free. I'm sure you personally have enough knowledge and discipline already to basically do whatever you want to do, so why are you choosing to spend your valuable time on TRP? Is becoming just a tiny bit more knowledgeable yourself worth the time investment, is it charity, is it a hobby, is it a "perfection in all things" philosophy, something el…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:46 PM
1

This is very much true. Also, if you make an honest effort yet you keep getting distracted, then that meditation session actually was successful. The only way meditation can "fail" is if you intentionally don't take it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:22 AM
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Once upon a time, AskTRP didn't exist. And people at TRP got annoyed by newbie questions and newbie field reports. However, you can't just tell all new people to TRP to go die in a fire unless you want to become an ever-shrinking, elitist echo chamber. So TRP members created AskTRP explicitly to get newbies away from TRP, while keeping high-level theory and good field reports on TRP itself. So what you're getting annoyed at is explicitly the purpose of AskTRP. If you don't like it, stick with TR…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:32 AM
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I've tried googling it and I honestly couldn't find it. Can you give me the link?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:27 AM
2

The rich are intelligent, they want the money now, not later. Intelligent maybe, but certainly not wise. They're very cleverly destabilizing society and making a huge profit from that, if this is intentional, but I wouldn't be surprised to see a revolution in one or two decades. That revolution might well be aimed at the 1% (or the 0.1%). If I was an amoral rich guy, I'd prefer to make slightly less money now to avert the possible pitchforks in my future. That would be the wise thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 11:53 PM
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I can understand you being angry or scared, but if you want to understand the problem, then implying that leftists intentionally want to destroy Germany won't give you a clear picture of the issues at hand. You can of course debate whether leftist policies will in fact destroy Germany, but most leftists honestly think that leftist policies are good for the country/world in general and not just for themselves. You may think they're misguided or delusional, but they're not intentionally trying to …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 11:35 PM
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Saying streamers make a lot of money is like saying pro gamers make a lot of money. Sure, some of them do, but the vast majority doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 06:01 PM
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Sorry, what's madison avenue referring to? The advertisement industry? I'm not a native English speaker and google isn't very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:04 PM
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So they'll either pay a warlord for protection, or they become warlords themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:04 AM
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Warlords who can steal the food that farmers produce, you mean. I'm not seeing a farmer with a gun fighting off, oh, twenty bandits armed with guns attacking in the middle of the night.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:12 AM
2

Do you mean "more and more woman are becoming feminists or narcissistic due to social media influence" in this sub or in general? I have a feeling you mean the first, but the people downvoting you perhaps think that you're bashing the women in this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 09:19 PM
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I'm not sure I share your optimism. Maybe most women who post here regularly don't want a blanket male ban, but the only women who post here regularly are the ones who didn't get scared away by men posting here in the first place. See the problem? It's really hard to get a picture of how many women never subscribed to this sub because they thought there are too many men here. Even the poll I suggested in my last post won't really give you a good picture of that. That being said, if men don't get…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:55 PM
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Comment away, but be very cognizant of the purpose of your comment. If it is point out something highly cogent then please do so. If it is to partake in a conversation, think again. The problem with (more or less) asking men to only post if it's a really good comment is that this request won't deter the condescending fake alphas who come to this sub for an ego boost. This request may reduce male posts on this sub, but it will do so by reducing the number of male posters who are actually trying t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:11 PM
1

You're not mentioning children. Can a woman be happy with an alpha man but without children? (I imagine she won't be happy with children but without an alpha man.)
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:30 PM
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living for oneself optimizes one's own potential and skill, thus making them a more ample tool for society to use. I do agree that most men insufficiently live for themselves, but the sentence above is not always true. Many criminals do live for themselves, yet would be more beneficial to society if they'd do something they were less good at, i.e. actually working for money. A father who abandons his child lives for himself, yet it would (in most circumstances) be better for society if he'd stay…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 07:46 PM
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You're welcome. It can also help to focus on your progress rather than focusing on how far you still have to go. If you've talked for ten seconds with someone, try to think "great! Let's do that again tomorrow" and not "I'm still so far away from making friends." If you've done something that's hard for you, then give yourself a pat on the back, even if it would be easy for others. Meditation is very worthwhile but it may take months before you really begin to notice benefits. Meditating for ten…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 07:15 PM
2

I'm not a psychologist nor really good at making friends myself, so take this with a grain of salt: Making friends is a skill that can be learned. Begin with easy stuff: have a say 10 second conversation with a cashier or someone in the elevator. Then move on to something slightly harder, e.g. chatting with a colleague over lunch. By taking on progressively slightly harder challenges, you'll eventually learn how to make friends. Again, it's a skill that can be learned. Stop feeling sorry for you…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:45 PM
2

Is your problem that you want friends but struggle with making friends; or is your problem that you don't really want (many) friends but you feel like you're weird for not wanting them?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:21 PM
2

What exactly is the problem here? Do you simply not want any kind of plate or LTR ever but are you afraid you'll get lonely later? In that case, do you have/want friends, or are you just a loner? Or do you want to find an exceptionally attractive girl with an exceptionally low time investment? That's going to be tricky: you may have 6/10 girls falling in your lap, but 10/10 girls are going to usually require a chase. In that case, either lower your standards or invest more effort (now or later).
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:47 PM
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You're free to go MGTOW (men going their own way), either permanently or temporarily, and spend that energy on self-improvement. If you get high enough SMV (sexual market value), then eventually you may find woman falling in your lap and chasing you.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:33 AM
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"Yes your honor I did consent to being videotaped, but I didn't enthusiastically consent to it." edit: "Yes I did sign that contract, but I signed it with an uncertain hand. Therefore it's not valid. You can't prove that my hand wasn't uncertain."
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 08:13 AM
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it is at the discretion of the woman to call it 'rape' or 'a mistake' "Hm, my boyfriend/church found out that I slept with another guy. Should I tell him that it was a mistake, or should I tell him it was rape?"
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 04:37 AM
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This paragraph made me go WTF: Ultimately, ensuring that sexual consent is always free of pressure is an impossible goal. Consent advocates already fret that even an explicit “yes” may not be given freely enough. A series of educational campus posters includes the warning that “if they don’t feel free to say ‘No,’ it’s not consent”; a Canadian college campaign cautions that consent is invalid if it’s “muted” or “uncertain” rather than “loud and clear.” So let's say that in ten years time these c…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 04:34 AM
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Like having a flag that was 'Animal Abuse/Republican' Good observation, but to be fair, not just feminists do this. We have a republican/stupid flag, a republican/pawn of the wealthy flag, a liberal/godless socialist USA hater hippie flag, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:36 AM
4

Are you meditating? It's like gym for your mind and it can really help if you're stuck in a "what's the point" mood.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 06:20 PM
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/r/redpillwomen
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:54 PM
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This sub is mostly reformed or reforming betas. Natural alphas tend to not need this sub.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:12 AM
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Men love women the way women love children. Would you hold a grudge towards your child for making a mistake a year ago?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 09:24 AM
2

You did read the part about the headaches, right?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 06:21 PM
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If you meet a girl who's a whore, then at least you won't have to jump through hoops to get sex. If you meet a girl who's a prude, then you may not get sex quickly but at least she may be good LTR material. But this girl somehow combines the worst qualities of a whore and a prude.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:22 AM
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Don't nag him about not texting. You were the one disrupting the relationship (how, exactly?) The only thing you can do, if you want this relationship to work out, is be as attractive and pleasant as possible and give him space to work through your screw up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 08:03 PM
1

I want to start lifting and have bought a gym membership. Machines seem much less intimidating than free weights. Is using machines as effective as free weights?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:47 PM
2

Becoming an alpha is not the end goal, it's a means to get to your end goal. Don't pursue being an alpha purely for the sake of being an alpha.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 10:22 AM
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But what you think of as a helpful (and obviously necessary) reminder, he might hear as straight-up criticism. As a rule of thumb, you should give at least twice as many compliments as complaints (or "reminders"). So instead of saying, "You're not taking out the garbage often enough," try something more along the lines of, "I'm feeling so overwhelmed with work right now. I know it might not seem like a big deal, but it would really mean a lot to me if you could take care of the garbage on Tuesda…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 04:38 AM
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"Pavlovian conditioning" sounds evil, but you know what? Her rewarding you with or withholding sex is also Pavlovian conditioning. Heck, thanking her for doing the dishes is Pavlovian conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:46 PM
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Let's say that the advisor was a white male and the student was a black female. Still think the advisor would have threatened to call security?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 06:59 PM
1

Yes, and animal farm by George Orwell is completely irrelevant to humans because it's about animals.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:56 PM
1

I can agree with that. Thanks for the write-up, it was instructive.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:18 AM
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I think your observations are accurate, but I don't think that your explanation is complete why women shit-test men to the point that every self-respecting man walks away and only losers remain. I don't think it's primarily validation-addiction, though that probably plays a part in it. If it's purely addiction, then why are nearly all women validation-addicted yet few are drug-addicted? I think they mainly shit-test out of fear. Imagine not having a strong self-identity. Imagine having to find s…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 04:58 AM
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I read somewhere that historically, 80% of women procreated while only 40% of men procreated. (This is mathematically possible because one man can have many wives.) Imagine you're put in a group and you're told that after one year, the top 80% of that group will win a million dollars. There's no or little bonus for being exceptional; you just have to be not awful. In this case, a good strategy would be to take no risks and to conform to the group as much as possible. You don't have to succeed or…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 08:27 PM
15

Sounds like an integer overflow problem.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 05:00 PM
12

There's a forty-year old out there who wishes he was only 33.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:00 PM
4

You're presenting it as: my life was awesome, then I got addicted to a game out of nowhere and then my life got worse. That's possible, but in my experience, it's more often the case that someone's life isn't great, which gets them addicted to a game, which makes their life even worse. In other words, playing games is fine in moderation imo, if you have a good life outside of that and are working on improving/maintaining your life.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:08 AM
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When a woman thinks of a man, she generally thinks of an attractive alpha man in his prime. For those people, life is awesome. However, for the average guy, being 18-25 is quite tough. Which woman of earth wants to date an average 18 year old boy? 16-17 year old women aren't legal (and many 18-25 year old men wouldn't want to date them anyway). Other 18-25 year old women are either looking at older or more attractive men. Women older than 25 certainly aren't looking at an average, younger man. S…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 01:31 PM
8

Even if a god existed, why would that god be exactly as the bible describes? There are many religions and many gods; why would Christianity be right and all the other religions wrong?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 08:17 PM
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your passport if you're over $5000 behind. Interest is figured monthly at 5.5%, not annually. To put that into perspective: monthly interest at 5.5% means that you effectively have 1.05512 = 1.90 or 90% interest annually. 90% interest annually is beyond predatory.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 08:13 PM
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Everyone wins, in a hypothetically perfect economy. In the real economy, one might well argue that corporations mostly win. After all, wages have stagnated while supply of labor has doubled, leading to loss of purchasing power.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:32 PM
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The reason women are generally caretakers of babies is not because they're better at it. The reason they're often caretakers is that biologically speaking you need a man and a women to create a child, and women suck more at providing for the child than they do at babysitting it. So they babysit, despite having more trouble with providing consistency and being firm and predictable than a man would have. As a comparison, if professionally you're forced to work with an idiot on an important project…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:34 AM
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Let's compare a hypothetical world were everyone lives together with only the husband working, to a hypothetical world where everyone is single and everyone works. If everyone becomes single, supply of labor doubles, yet demand for labor doesn't quite double: two people living apart don't consume twice as much food as two people living together, for instance. If supply of labor increases faster than demand of labor increases, workers will generally earn less.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:25 AM
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Pussy is not the goal. You are the goal. So focus on making your life awesome and pussy will come.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 05:21 AM
5

It making you uncomfortable is actually a reason in favor of going. It's good to expand your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 11:33 PM
4

I don't know you, but you're posting on the TRP forum and clearly know what a shit test is. That alone gives you a leg up over the average man.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:03 PM
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People on here need to start realizing that not everyone can be the top percent. If you're philosophizing about society at large, then sure, it's important to keep in mind that even if every man becomes 10% more attractive, there'd still be incels. However, if you're concerned with improving your own life, then it probably is a good idea to blindly assume you can become top percent and then strive towards making that a reality. It's like the job market: even if every American suddenly became 10%…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:01 PM
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Being an exceptional man > being a woman > being an average man. Of course, woman only notice exceptional men.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:00 PM
2

You might come off as desperate, which is a huge turn-off for women. Ideally, women shouldn't be the final goal; you should be the final goal. As someone wrote on TRP today: "You don't chase pussy, you assume it'll be plentiful when you're worth it being plentiful." So good job on losing 70 lb. Now keep on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:39 PM
5

Honest question: why do many people talk about Persia and Persian rather than about Iran and Iranian?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:59 AM
1

I once had a discussion with a feminist (mistake, I know). He seemed mostly rational until he matter-of-factly stated that by pointing out that he was misquoting sources, I was promoting rape culture and thus indirectly responsible for rape. I haven't had a discussion with a feminist since. Guess I did learn something from that discussion after all.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:43 AM
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At the risk of downvotes... Some people are just trying to bring justice. I've met a lot of volunteers and (non-feminist) activists who are very sincere. and in reply: I have, too. And, when I peel that onion back ever so slightly, I find people typically do these jobs because it gives them a sense of superiority over those they are "helping." The theory that people do altruistic acts because they like the way doing it makes them feel has merit. That being said, there are two very different ways…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:39 AM
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If a woman tells me something, I assume that there's a 1/3 chance that she's intentionally bullshitting me, a 1/3 chance that she's unintentionally bullshitting me and a 1/3 chance that she's speaking the truth. In other words, it's useless information.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:58 PM
2

Alright, will do.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:34 PM
3

Personally I distinguish between three types of women. There are women I would never date; there are women I would sometimes date and sometimes not date; and there are women I would always date, no matter how crappy I'm feeling. There has never been a moment in my adult life where I wasn't willing to date a 10/10 woman of my dreams. (Has there ever been a moment in your life where you would have rejected George Clooney?) He does not consider you to be a 10/10 woman of his dreams. If he did, you'…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 10:03 PM
1

Male invader. I know he's interested in me on some level (as I am him), but he's "not looking for a relationship". What this doesn't mean is that he's deeply in love with you, yet he still isn't over his ex, but given time and time together, love will conquer all! What this does mean is that he thinks you're okay, but he thinks he can probably do better than you and he's trying to reject you without hurting your feelings. After all, "I'm sure no shortage of women are interested in him" while you…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 08:32 PM
2

I learned flirting and many other social skills consciously when I entered high school. And I have never been anyone else, so I have no real idea how 'intuitive' other people's social interactions are compared to my own. I mean when someone is angry at you, are you automatically supposed to get mad at them in return? Right now I don't understand why anyone would ever let themselves be fat. But it is a choice. I either choose to flirt or I don't interact and am off-puttingly blunt when approached…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 03:34 PM
2

Narcissism and autism (Asperger syndrome is a kind of autism) and very closely related. Your blunt self-assessment is unusual for a young woman and could come from either one of the two (or from neither). I too have Asperger syndrome and high intelligence and recognize a lot of what you write in myself. "I have the art of flirting down to an exact science" suggests to me that you don't do flirting intuitively, as most women do, but you've rationally had to learn it. Most people describe me as ve…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 11:07 AM
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Male invader. My problem is a bit unconventional: the more a man wants to commit to me, the less respect I have for him. This is not unconventional at all: women love being the chaser and not the object of a chase. A lot of field reports on TRP boil down to "I got her to notice me, displayed social proof and then ignored her until she jumped my bones." You just have an extreme form of a tendency most women have. That being said, if you really respect 0% of the men who are willing to commit to yo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 08:21 AM
3

Meditation is a great way to mentally lift.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:15 PM
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If a guy is in a relationship and cheats after a girl prods him a bit, then it's 100% his fault, right? So let's flip the genders. If a girl is in a relationship and cheats after a guy prods her a bit, then it's 100% her fault, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:08 PM
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I struggle to meditate. You don't have to actually succeed in clearing your mind to meditate successfully. All you have to do is make an earnest effort. You sit down for ten minutes but you keep getting distracted even though you try to gently refocus each time? Congratulations, you just meditated successfully. It's working. Now do that again tomorrow. And the day after. And the day after that. Yes, I know it feels stupid, but that's your ego talking. Put it aside for now. What technique you use…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:45 PM
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True. As a man, not being nagged at counts for quite a lot. (Of course, there's more to it than that, but you get the idea.)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 06:21 AM
1

Male invader here. The men in my country don't take women seriously, they just want sex with no strings attached. If you lived in a rich country, I'd tell you: you're only looking at alpha men who are drowning in pussy, and sure, THOSE men just want sex. There are a lot of less attractive beta men out there who do want commitment, but they're invisible to most women. As a 28 year old with your mental health issues, you may not get an alpha to commit to you, however. You're taking good steps to b…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 05:25 AM
4

You're right that "pre-nups aren't as effective as advertised." should have been "pre-nups aren't as effective as many people think they are."
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 07:41 PM
3

If you're expecting a prenup to protect against money made after marriage, you're expecting it to do something that it by definition isn't designed to do. You're right about this, of course, but many people are unaware of this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:28 PM
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Male invader. Generally speaking, women want powerful men. By marrying him, you take away his power: suddenly he can no longer walk away from the relationship without dire consequences, while you have a loaded gun pointed at his face at all times. Thus, by legally marrying him, he will become less attractive to you. And no, pre-nups aren't as effective as advertised. So don't marry. Have the ceremony, if you want, but don't marry legally.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 08:18 AM
6

I'm pretty sure that Clinton is a puppet of the military industrial complex too, and that Bush doesn't give a shit about other people either.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:53 AM
2

99% of political debates on US politics go like this: "You shouldn't vote for the next Clinton because of [true reason x]." "Oh yeah? You shouldn't vote for the next Bush because of [true reason y]." So now both people are right and are convinced that they're right, and there's nowhere to go from there.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:03 AM
2

Downvoting /u/bigg123 for asking an honest question? Stay classy, /r/theredpill.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:58 AM
1

So you're saying that women can be rational but they usually simply choose not to be rational?
/r/askTRP20/04/15 11:20 AM
5

Male invader here. Dump him and please realize that while this really sucks, ending the relationship is not your fault.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:38 AM
11

I'm overgeneralizing. Let me explain. OP's saying that if she goes to the military, she might be almost 30 before she's ready to settle down. At almost 30, alpha men will probably no longer be interested in her: a common refrain on TRP is that you should only LTR women who are 25 or younger. There are very few alpha men, and almost all women want an alpha man, so alpha men can be picky, so alpha men will only LTR young women (if they want an LTR at all). However, OP says "I can only date dominat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:52 PM
9

Male here. The problem is not that men tend to be unhappy with 30 year old women, it's that 30 year old women tend to be unhappy with their man.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:52 PM
5

If you go to /r/atheism and think that's a representative sample, then you'll think that all atheists are angry, bitter losers who live in their parents basement. If you go to /r/mgtow and think that's a representative sample, then you'll think that all MGTOW are angry, bitter losers who live in their parents basement.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:52 AM
4

She doesn't love you. She loves the idea of having a safety net. To her, you're an atm machine that makes sympathetic sounds when she's whining.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 05:10 PM
5

Never use :) in text messages.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:00 PM
4

Because men are utterly disposable. We're seen as cattle, to be herded, milked or slaughtered as our herder sees fit.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:26 PM
9

Yep. Here's the bit about France: France Paternity testing is regulated by the state and only allowed in certain cases: Without a court order the express consent of the person must be obtained in writing before the carrying out of the examination, after the person has been duly informed of its nature and its purpose. With a court order (if consent could not be obtained) This is partially due to the official desire to "preserve the peace" within French families, with the French government citing …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:14 AM
4

It's also the additive identity in elementary mathematics: n + 0 = 0 + n = n. To koncept61: the word "cow" is not a number, so 3 + cow is undefined. If zero were not a number, then 3 + 0 would be undefined. However, zero is a number, so 3 + 0 = 3 and it's defined just fine.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 07:06 AM
6

An integer (whole number) is even if and only if it has no remainder when divided by two. 0 / 2 = 0 with no remainder, so it's even.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 07:04 AM
3

Good idea, but that doesn't help in countries where paternity tests are illegal.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:47 AM
3

This. Or find a couple of classmates of roughly similar talent and motivation to study with, so that you can help each other when you're stuck,
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:44 AM
1

I agree with you. That being said, while less people is good for the planet and for long-term economic health, it's bad for short-term economic health. The current economic model is a ponzi/pyramid scheme, in the sense that it continually needs more people and more resources or it falls over. Of course, "we need exponential growth in both people and resources every single year or the economy crashes" can't last forever anyway, but declining population will accelerate the crash.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 10:04 AM
33

Poe's law strikes again: it's impossible to tell the difference between actual extreme sluttiness and a parody of extreme sluttiness.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:02 AM
6

I agree. I'd be happy to see this post or a similar one in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:57 AM
3

When you meditate, you measure success not by "is my mind quiet?" but by "am I making an honest effort?" If you sit down and gently try over and over to empty your mind, but thoughts keep coming back, then you're doing it right. You're meditating successfully. It is having an effect. I know it feels stupid, but that's your ego talking. Just keep doing what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:53 AM
5

It's more important to meditate literally every single day than it is to meditate for a long time. Don't start out forcing yourself to sit for an hour each day. Just meditate for ten or fifteen minutes when you start out, but do it every day. Your mind is going to get uncomfortable and lie to you by saying "you don't have time to meditate right now, you can do it tomorrow." That's like saying "I don't have time to sharpen my dull axe right now, I have all these trees to cut."
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:48 AM
2

Fuck her.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:24 AM
5

If you don't want to develop game, then you're free to MGTOW. However, lifting is like eating well: you could choose not to do it, but you'd be making a mistake, even if you have zero interest in women.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 09:16 PM
2

That's also very true. Small business is the lifeblood of the community, but it seems like the left unfairly demonizes them while the right pays lip service to them but in fact primarily helps big business and banks.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 02:41 PM
1

Meditation really helps after you've done it daily for a few months.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 09:35 AM
2

Great point. It is indeed much more convenient to shop at Amazon than it is to walk/drive to your local book store, but this does cost jobs.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:53 AM
1

You think marriage law is fair? That's cute.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:31 AM
1

True, but unfortunately, CEOs are often incentivized to prioritise saving money in the short term over long-term profits.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 08:01 AM
11

As /u/overkillengine said, companies love to shout that there's a shortage of skilled workers, but what they really mean is that there's a shortage of skilled workers who are willing to work for less than their market value.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 07:07 AM
7

Look at the growth percent column. Despite "mass immigration" it seems like the US population isn't increasing by more than it did historically. So if we were prosperous in the 1960s and we're not prosperous now, but the growth percent hasn't increased, then I don't think we can blame immigrants for this. Something else changed.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 07:05 AM
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One, there is a greater supply of labor because of women entering the workplace and because it's easy nowadays to outsource production and services to Asia. Two, there is a lesser need of labor because of efficiency improvements. You'll find different figures in the literature, but some sources claim that US worker productivity since about 1980 has almost doubled. (Computers and automatisation play a large part in this.) This means that you need half as many workers. You might say here "no, that…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 06:50 AM
1

I've never been instructed in Zen Buddhism or read more about it than the average joe, but I guess that what I've arrived at is more or less Zen Buddhism, yes. I don't believe in rebirth, but I do believe that meditation is an excellent gym for the mind. I don't believe that you have to spend your entire life in a monastery to find some peace, but I do believe that meditating for ten minutes every day is very valuable. I don't believe that Nirvana is binary (yes or no), but I do believe that Nir…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 06:13 AM
3

This is probably not going to make sense to you or help you, but you did ask, so here's my answer after a decade of meditating daily. I'm not saying that this is a universal truth, or even that I'll feel the same way ten years from now, but this feels true for me right now: The meaning of life is to live in the moment. That's all there is to it. While most people live their entire lives without experiencing it once, there's an indescribable joy in simply being. Once you're able to be fully prese…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:10 PM
1

Meditate daily and don't get discouraged by the first few months, which tend to be frustrating. If on certain days you don't have time to meditate for ten minutes, then meditate for an hour. Eventually you'll find that peace. Don't think of meditation as something spiritual. Think of it as gym for your mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 02:10 PM
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I still don't understand. Is the question: "should I have nexted her?" Obviously, the answer is yes. Or is the question: "I decided to next her and then said something to her that hurt her feelings, was I out of line?" In this case, why is this worth discussing? If she's nexted, then who cares whether she gets offended? Or is the question "hypothetically speaking, let's say that I did not decide to next her. Would 'nah, i just date the hot ones' been a good line then?"
/r/askTRP09/04/15 10:21 PM
0

since i already decided to next her and being sure it was a set up for her next punchline my answer was "nah, i just date the hot ones". First you decide to next her, then you insult her, then she gets upset and then you worry about her response and post about this on TRP? Why do you worry about what a nexted girl thinks about you?
/r/askTRP09/04/15 10:04 PM
85

Smart men don't marry at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:25 AM
4

Two, become an alpha because you want to be awesome, not because you want to get pussy. Getting women should never be your end goal.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 07:20 PM
3

In the past when we were fooling around, having fun including a lot of touching she would often say, “We are not going to have sex are we?” in a condescending tone. and We have talked about sex before and she told me explicitly sometimes she does duty sex only because otherwise I would get mad Yeah, I wouldn't call this playful.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:11 PM
28

Clueless men trust women.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:23 PM
3

There is no LTR anymore. OP said in another post: We have talked about sex before and she told me explicitly sometimes she does duty sex only because otherwise I would get mad, according to her words. This means that the relationship is over, unless you can dread game her into behaving like a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:23 PM
12

"The bars are still open. I'm going to have sex tonight, you can decide if it's going to be with you." If she doesn't budge, actually follow through with the threat. If this blows up the relationship, so be it. Having no relationship is better than having a "duty sex" relationship.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 01:03 PM
2

Catherine the Great was also an exceptional female leader. Maybe Cleopatra qualifies.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:18 AM
4

You don't disprove AWALT by saying "there's an exception somewhere." AWALT actually means "statistically speaking, almost all women are like that" and not literally "all women are like that." If you want to be literal and politically correct about AWALT, then we couldn't talk about women at all on this subreddit. Do women on average have less upper-body strength than men? "No, because I've read about a female bodybuilder!" That's not useful. Women have less upper-body strength than men, AWALT.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 05:33 AM
3

I used to be obese. Then my parents and friends shamed me for that, I got my shit together and now I'm merely overweight and on my way to normal weight. I'm really thankful that they shamed me or I'd probably still be fat.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:09 PM
3

I'd like to see a source that big dicks stretch out vaginas permanently.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:55 PM
5

I might have fallen for this pre-TRP.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:35 PM
4

Start by hitting the gym regularly.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:14 PM
8

True, but idiot bystanders usually agree with an ad hominem attack and there are a lot of idiots.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:03 PM
4

So your pitch to get men to marry is "yeah courts are skewed towards women but you'll get screwed slightly less hard than you think you will"? Yeah, thanks, I'll pass.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 07:00 AM
6

I'm a man. What do you think you're getting out of a marriage that you can't get out of a regular LTR while living together? And is that worth the risk of getting divorce-raped? Remember, no one marries expecting that their marriage will fail, yet most marriages do fail.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 09:27 PM
17

Yep, completely agree. 100 years ago, I'd be a married man by now. In this timeline, I'm a self-sufficient loner who barely has any interest in women.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 09:23 PM
8

One, you seem to be under the impression that divorce court is fair to men. It's not. Two, even if divorce court were fair, men on average earn more than women. Without a marriage, he doesn't owe her anything. With a marriage, he'll on average owe her a portion of his income.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 09:00 PM
8

Another thing the article doesn't mention is why men are opting out. Suppose you have an awesome working relationship with a business partner. Then one day the business partner says, "We could just keep our awesome relationship as it is. But I have a better idea. You pay a ton of money for a ceremony and ring and give me the right to take half your stuff, half your income and all the children at any time and for any reason. I'll also stop trying as hard to make you happy because I'll know I've g…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 08:39 PM
1

I like the police analogy. If a woman physically assaults you then you go nuclear and next them. I agree, physical abuse = hard next no matter where she is on the ladder. That's why in my opening post, I said that "you use the correction ladder for minor misbehavior only."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:32 PM
2

I'm pretty much average in all aspects. If you embrace TRP, take control of your life, get some game, lift, etc, then you are not average. You might never be a 10/10, but you may become an 8/10 purely by doing things that every man can do but most men don't. Even a not particularly intelligent or handsome alpha has a leg up over the beta competition. my (...) emotional validation is derived from how much pleasure a girl has with me, in the bed and outside. This is a problem. You should become aw…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:01 PM
3

Keep in mind that some women like to be spanked, though, so they may see your "correction" as a reward. You don't want to encourage bad behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:09 AM
4

Honest question (I'm a newbie): why is /u/Heyimtitel getting downvoted?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:53 PM
18

I'm not really attracted to her physically and She's good LTR material
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:26 AM
6

This is slightly off-topic, but as a man I'm always surprised by the tendency of women to delete their posts when someone calls them on their bullshit. I'm a man and if someone types a "you're wrong" reply to me that gets massively upvoted, then I'll either think "oh, I was wrong" and leave my post so that other people may learn from my mistake, or I think "I'm still right" and leave my post. I don't think "oh no, my online persona is losing internet points, better delete my post."
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 06:00 AM
3

Don't worry too much about how you're going to break up. It's going to be messy and painful regardless. Just get it over with.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:09 PM
5

Women like feeling good and that's it. They don't like people because of who they are, they like people only insofar as they make her feel good. If after many years she suddenly stops feeling good around you, then she'll drop you like a brick. So a woman is never going to like you. She might like the way you make her feel, but you make her feel good by not wanting her to like you.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 06:05 AM
3

When most women think of "men" they think of the top 20% of men. The bottom 80% is invisible. After a while, that makes that invisible bottom 80% pathetically desperate to commit to any woman who isn't completely hideous. I don't think that most women realise that a lot of men just have no standards whatsoever. So if you're not finding a partner, just lower your own standards. (And work on other positive qualities, of course, but you do seem to be doing that.)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 06:33 AM
12

I don't think that's funny, but maybe that's just me being a pussy.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:41 PM
4

Women obviously reproduce with more than 5% of the men. Why? If alpha men have many wives and beta men have no wives, then this is possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:16 PM
23

I'm a man and there are some important points to make. One, The issue is the type of women who are in those careers who think that anyone who earns less than them is beneath them. is exactly right. The more educated you become and the more you earn, the smaller the number of men you can date becomes. And of course, every woman on the planet wants the highly educated, highly earning men. Of course, you can still choose to become highly educated, but you should be aware of this. The issue is the t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 06:34 AM
12

"Wait, what if there's an explanation for this shit?" "What, she tripped, fell, landed on his dick?" (NSFW)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 01:05 PM
1

Certainly, there are radicals in every group. I think there are far more radical feminists who want to take away as many men's rights as they can, than there are radical anti-feminists who want to chain women to the kitchen. Really, what's your point? A few people hate group X (women), therefore we should all support group X? Every group X is hated by someone.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 06:36 PM
1

Some people think that women should have equal rights to men. These people call themselves feminists. Some people think that women should have more rights than men. Those people also call themselves feminists. They often hide behind the backs of the first group when called out. This group is the reason why "feminism" is a dirty word nowadays. Anti-feminists are people who oppose the second group. how do you personally balance being part of a community associated with "fuckfeminists" yet not bein…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 06:28 PM
3

You can't desire a man who doesn't take shit from anyone, and then treat him like shit.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 01:12 PM
8

TRP is not saying that women should by law be chained to the kitchen. TRP is saying that most men would prefer a hot 18-year old virgin with zero education who loves to cook and clean to a 35-year old accomplished, famous, rich and educated career woman. You're free to not believe this, you're free to dislike this and you're free to ignore this and become a career woman regardless. We're merely telling you what we think is the truth; do with it as you like.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:02 AM
5

It doesn't matter what I'd do because I'm a man. Doing what a man would do with regards to relationships won't make you more attractive to men. Either wait for a woman to post, go to /r/redpillwomen or follow your gut.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 10:11 AM
3

Good point. It should actually be "a western woman thinks she has no incentive to change her ways." After all, the fact that riding the cc lowers your chances of a fulfilling relationship is not exactly common knowledge. edit: if the downvotes mean that I'm mistaken, please say so, so that I can learn something. Perhaps the women I know are not representative.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 10:01 AM
2

A woman can't change her ways. I'd word it as "a western woman has no incentive to change her ways." I'm sure that in societies where a womans virginity is checked before marriage and she is literally exiled or killed if she's not a virgin, then most women will in fact stay a virgin until marriage. (No, I'm not advocating that we become such a society. Yes, I know that checking for a womans hymen is not a good virginity test.)
/r/askTRP05/03/15 07:42 AM
15

If you tell me that your number is 8, I assume you are lying. If you tell me that your number is 2, I assume you are lying. If you tell me that your number is x, I assume you are lying.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 07:30 AM
2

If you can be just as impressed with seeing the Eiffel tower for the third time as you were the first time, then that's an attractive quality. That's also a quality that many young women have and most older women don't have. You'll probably lose that quality in say ten years. Still, if you can combine a "young mind" with taking care of yourself physically, then you may hit the wall a bit later than most other women. But the wall's still there. The best answer is "find a partner before you become…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 07:11 AM
1

Really? Hm, you may be right. TIL, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 06:32 AM
6

It's not limited to women who have gone through trauma. Let's say that experienced woman A has travelled all over the world and is not particularly impressed by most new sights, because she's seen it all. "Yeah, that's a pretty nice waterfall." Innocent woman B, on the other hand, has barely travelled at all. Therefore, any decent new sight is met by her with wide-eyed wonder. "OMG, that's the biggest waterfall I've ever seen!" I and many men prefer woman B. Needless to say, woman B is often you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 07:44 PM
8

When women are still young, even if they aren't the most interesting or dynamic person, they're still hot. And men are visual creatures. He'd probably rather put up with an uninteresting hot young female than a well rounded, thoughtful woman in her 30s-40s who has let her body go. Even disregarding a woman's body, a young woman is often more attractive than an older woman. I as a man prefer innocence and naivete to experience and cynicism in a woman. It's not that we men care more about a woman'…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 04:26 PM
6

I'm a man. That being said: it's easy to think that you're helping him by nagging, but you're not. He's aware that he needs to make a decision. Imagine him nagging you about an important decision that you need to make but you're unsure about. Would that be helpful, or would you prefer him showing his trust in you? It's easy to think that your intention behind nagging is at least good, but is it really? You write "it makes me uncomfortable that I don't know what his next step will be." To what ex…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 07:27 AM
7

You're right, people are overreacting. However, her post kinda reads like "I just wanted to earn a lot of money and be independent, and then you bastards convinced me that I'll never be happy unless I have children. Fine. Let's get it over with in the most efficient manner possible so I can go back to my career. Now, which 10/10 sperm donor can I ensnare for a few years before dumping his ass?" I can certainly understand that tone rubbing people the wrong way.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 05:34 PM
3

She's either a man or a very masculine female (not impossible for a woman with a computer science degree). Unfortunately for OP, most men don't want a woman who is kinda like a man. They want a woman who is like a woman.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 05:29 PM
2

He is, but OP is clearly aware of the wall. GenerallyEpic's post reads more like "I'm mad at women, fuck you for being a woman" than "are you aware of the wall?"
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:12 PM
4

Very roughly speaking, there are alpha men who are like 10% of the population and non-alpha men who are like 90% of the population. Alpha men tend to prefer fucking and dumping, because they have a ton of options and because fucking and dumping tends to turn men into alphas. Non-alpha men tend to either want commitment or they'll settle for commitment because they can't get laid a lot. So, it's really easy for a woman to find a man who wants commitment. Take one of those 90% of non-alpha men and…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:25 PM
1

What's your goal? LTR, plate, one-night stand?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:41 PM
8

She's reasonable enough to not go and steal my stuff, I am pretty sure of that. That's what most men think just before they're robbed by their ex.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 06:36 AM
4

From your original post: We've broken up before, me always promising to change, to be better, thinner, less bitchy, less emotionally driven, drink less (when I drink I...uhh...rebel? against him), and he's always taken me back. It sounds to me like you two repeatedly broke up; you repeatedly promised to improve and then didn't (or didn't improve enough); and he basically tolerated you breaking that promise over and over again. Then one day he had enough, snapped and insulted you. You hit him, an…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 04:16 AM
14

Please help, how do I get this awesome man back and treat him as he should be treated? Right now, I'd focus on becoming a better, less "spoiled, bratty, snobby and bitchy" and above all less violent person rather than on getting your boyfriend back. There are two reasons for this: One, I'm a man and if a girl physically assaults me, then there's no way on earth I'll ever have a relationship with her again. If your boyfriend reads TRP, then he'll know that that's also the TRP advice on the matter…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 03:14 PM
2

Yes, I'm a beta. I'm also trying to fix that, hence I'm on TRP. I'm overweight. I'm also trying to fix that, hence I go to the gym and eat better.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 12:10 PM
32

Yes, I was gorgeous, ish, for a while, and self-absorbed, and shallow, and inexperienced, and over-sensitive and dull. She still seems self-absorbed, shallow, over-sensitive and dull. Many older women seem to think that they're more attractive than younger women in everything but their body, and that those bastard men only care about looks. In truth, many older women would be less attractive than younger women even without considering their looks and age.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:32 AM
0

On 3: This may be an "I'm weird" thing or this may be a "women would feel differently" thing, but I'd prefer an honest "I think your (insert body part) is too (description) and I'm not attracted to that" to a vague "I'm not attracted to you anymore." At least then I wouldn't have to wonder what I did wrong. The whole point of TRP is that a harsh truth is better than a feel-good lie, right? Then again, it's entirely possible that other people/women would feel differently about this.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:08 PM
9

OP's message of "I'm relatively new and TRP is working for me" actually is encouraging for newbies. There's value in hearing success stories. That being said, I agree with you that I'd like to see more specifics from OP.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 03:41 PM
17

A lot of it is humblebrag, but the thread's title was an interesting point for me. Also, if we accept angry posts on TRP, why not accept happy "I've made progress" posts?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 03:13 PM
1

I'm somewhat of a sigma man and know several other sigma men. None of us want children and I'm convinced that even if I would have children, I'd be a bad dad. I know the plural of anecdote is not data, but still.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 08:13 PM
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No, I was referring to Jim Crow style racism from the start. You misinterpreted what I was saying and are then accusing me of strawmanning when I'm trying to clarify my position. You seem to think that I'm defending minorities who refuse to integrate and are angry with me for that, while I keep trying to tell you that I'm not defending those people. Can you explain to me what exactly we're arguing about? Because as far as I can tell, we agree that a) forcing minorities to integrate is good and b…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:56 PM
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I'm a guy. That being said, you'll have to decide if you want a relationship with a brilliant loner or with a dominant and social RP man. You can't realistically find a man who is both alpha and sigma at the same time. So, which do you prefer? Whichever you choose, you should expect to have some doubts and nostalgia sometimes. That's normal, as long as it doesn't happen too often or too strongly.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 06:10 PM
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Let's see. First I make a remark about discrimination. You respond with: All minorities that refuse to assimilate to American culture get discriminated against. I basically agree with you and say that yes, maybe we should be hard on those people. I'm not sure what's leftist or strawmanning about this statement. However, I then clarify that I was talking about Jim Crow style racism. Presumably you're also against this kind of racism, right? So you could have responded with "ah, so we're in agreem…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 04:59 PM
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I'm not talking about "here are a couple of black people who refuse to integrate into society." You can certainly make a case that you should be hard on those people (or insert whatever minority you like here). I'm talking about the systematic discrimination the U.S. had against all people of color, even those who worked hard and who tried to integrate. That's neither beneficial for them nor for America. If you're truly saying that black people should be forced to ride the back of the bus again,…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 02:09 PM
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I agree with 99% of your post. However, The West is no longer an objective society that values truth, facts, or evidence. ... implies that in the past, we were an "objective society." When was this, exactly? During or after the period where we openly discriminated against black people? Now, some (perhaps many) things were better in the past, but appearances, gender, race, etc have always been important.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:17 AM
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Asking (from your title) "would you risk your life to protect your man?" is not very useful. I'd say most married women would answer yes (and might truly believe yes) and then not actually do it if their man is trapped in a burning building or whatever. Yes, you're expected to risk your life for women but the vast majority of them won't return the favor. Even those who say they'll return the favor probably won't actually return the favor. It's not fair, but hey, life's not fair.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 02:00 PM
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If it helps: for most of our history, a high birth rate benefits the human race. We're now in a period where it's arguably better for the human race if the birth rate would go down a bit. Of course, you can reproduce if you want to, but feeling guilty about not reproducing is a misplaced instinct right now on a global level (not on an individual-genes level, but ah well).
/r/askTRP15/02/15 06:51 AM
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She wasn't raped, she even said so herself: I'm not going to use the R word because I could have left
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:46 AM
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I thought the golden rule was "don't stick your dick into crazy", not "don't stick your dick into crazy too often."
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:06 PM
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If this is true, and it may be, then why are we denouncing women rather than denouncing business elites?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:11 PM
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Also, many boys are nowadays raised by single mothers, which usually leads them to being "weak and not confident."
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:06 PM
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During a nearly unpaid internship, I was somehow given sole responsibility for doing a data analysis that was to be presented to a bank by the boss himself (the company had ~5 people total). Eventually, during a week in which I had already worked some 8 hours longer than was in my contract, my boss asked me to work on the project some more. I refused. He then informed me that a) he'd have to present my work next Monday (this was news to me, I figured I still had one or two weeks) and b) he'd fir…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:16 PM
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My point is mainly that you certainly shouldn't insure your dishwasher if you have the money to replace it yourself. What you should do if you don't have the money to replace it is indeed a harder question. You're probably right that your "no" is smarter than my "probably, yes" but it's a bad situation either way.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:37 PM
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The downside of an insurance is that on average you lose money. This is obvious, because otherwise the insurance company would soon go bankrupt. The upside is that you avoid being in a situation where you have unforseen costs that you cannot pay. So if you had a billion dollars in the bank, should you (theoretically) ever buy insurance? No, because it costs money on average, while you'll always have the funds to pay for unforseen costs. If you have no money in the bank, should you ever buy insur…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:08 PM
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I don't know this particular guy, but in general when you realise that you're not attracted to a nice beta guy, you have two options: One, you can blame that guy for not actually being a nice guy. Okay, so where does that leave you? Are "nice guys" as a group now all passive-aggressive entitled assholes? That's sexist and, imo, delusional. If you don't write off the entire group, however, what will you do the next time you find yourself dating a nice beta guy you're not attracted to? Will you ag…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 08:52 AM
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there are good ppl who can lead, start charities, (...) A guy who starts and leads a charity is probably a nice guy. He's also probably an attractive alpha. There are nice alphas out there. For many women only the alpha men (or the top 20% or whatever you want to call them) are visible and worth thinking about. So when a woman says that she wants "a nice guy", what she means is "I want an alpha who is a nice guy." The alpha part here is non-negotiable; the nice part is optional. Then she meets a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 07:50 AM
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Here's a related 30-min youtube video. I'm not accusing you of being a feminist - you're posting on this sub - but I do think it's interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 07:27 AM
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"I don't know if we should do it again" means "I want to do it again but I don't want to look easy, so please convince me." If it's only two nights ago, then the situation is still salvagable.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 04:38 PM
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Once you get used to fasting, it's an awesome way to lose weight (among other benefits). For me personally, I'm sharper and more focused on fasting days than I am on days where I eat normally. Who is more alert and awake, a hungry tiger or a tiger with a full belly? Also, fasting teaches you the difference between "I'm bored" hungry and "I need food" hungry. That being said, getting used to fasting sucks. Eating a regular lunch (say 500 calories) and no other meals may help with the transition p…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:37 PM
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You seem to care a great deal what people think about you. True confidence comes from not caring about the opinions of others.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:01 PM
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"I don't want to do a long-distance relationship, so I'm breaking up with you." edit: upon rereading your post, this struck me as odd: Im about to break it off because of this but dont know how to do it without coming off as a needy jealous bitch. If you want to end it, then your priority should not be to end it in a way that makes you look manly. Your priority should be to end it with a minimum of fuss and awkwardness. So what if she feels that you're a needy jealous bitch? Her opinion is irrel…
/r/askTRP31/01/15 12:50 PM
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