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1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. Thank God that the law protects me and my daughters from people like you.	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 01:04 PM
1	Can we talk about how breastfeeding is a bullshit reason to deny equal custody?? There is a big difference between "ya done fucked up, now you need to put yourself 110% into making the best of the situation for your child" and "you are not worthy of forgiveness."	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 01:00 PM
3	Can we talk about how breastfeeding is a bullshit reason to deny equal custody?? If you don't understand that a child is vastly better off living with both their parents, then you don't understand anything about children. Sometimes, breakups need to happen. People who have so misjudged themselves and/or their partners that they break up shortly after conceiving a child have failed their child badly, and need to acknowledge that fact and do everything they can to minimize the harm done.	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 10:46 AM
2	Can we talk about how breastfeeding is a bullshit reason to deny equal custody?? I figure that if a baby's brain can tolerate the stress of full-time daycare, it can tolerate the stress of being handed back and forth between mom and dad. The small amount of research that has been done on this indicates that very young children do better with week-on, week-off shared custody than daily switches. It's not ideal, but nothing about the parents of an infant splitting up is ideal.	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 10:42 AM
1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. The correct approach is to stop exploiting men, not start exploiting women.	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 10:38 AM
1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. The more you talk about this, the more clear it becomes that you really do feel morally entitled to force women to continue unwanted pregnancies. So yeah, we're done. Thank God the law protects me and my daughters from people like you.	/r/MensRights	18/09/18 10:37 AM
-1	Can we talk about how breastfeeding is a bullshit reason to deny equal custody?? A neonate who is breastfeeding should not be seperated from the lactating parent for more than a few hours until lactation is well established and formula supplementation can be introduced without significant risk of compromising the milk supply. How long does that take? It's variable. There should probably be guidelines at the federal level that address the median range of cases - i.e., a healthy baby who is gaining appropriately is ready to be separated overnight at 6 months or so. I am a vora…	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 11:28 PM
0	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. A girlfriend refused to be your brood mare. You had no right to the use of her body, and were were deprived of nothing that you were entitled to have. You eventually had children with a woman who wanted to start a family with you, rather than being a single parent to a child whose mother did not want them. This ex-girlfriend that you are so angry at made a responsible choice that has benefitted you, your wife, and your children tremendously.	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 11:16 PM
1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. Yes.	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 11:11 PM
0	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. Abortion is a responsible reaction to an unwanted pregnancy. That's exactly what happened. I understand that it was not the outcome you hoped for, and if you tell me that you would not have forced this ex-girlfriend to carry a pregnancy to term and give you the baby if the law had allowed you to do so, then I believe you. I'm sorry that you think of this terminated pregnancy as "your first child." I hope that your actual first child isn't aware of this.	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 10:07 PM
1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. You say that as if it were a bad thing, that men cannot force women to gestate. I care very much about leveling the playing field in the matter of reproductive rights to the greatest extent ethically possible, which is why I support the option of legal paternal surrender when men conceive a child they do not want, and shared custody when men separate from a woman who bore a child that they did want. But forced gestation and forced abortion are not on the table as options, because they violate th…	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 05:03 PM
1	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. But because I had no say in the matter I had to helplessly stand by why my baby was ripped from me before he/she ever had a chance to truly live. Can you understand why I took this statement to mean that if you had a "say in the matter," you would have forced this woman to continue an unwanted pregnancy?	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 04:58 PM
2	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. No, I would not. Forcing boyfriends to pay child support is every bit as despicable as forcing girlfriends to gestate.	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 04:55 PM
2	A feminist is calling for all men who accidentally impregate a woman to be forcibly castrated, and for all males in the US to receive vasectomies at the onset of puberty. Thousands of people are agreeing with her - and this is perfectly acceptable to Twitter’s moderating team. Being forced to gestate against your will is a pretty shitty feeling as well. I'm sorry that you still feel sad about your ex-girlfriend's choice, but would you really have wanted to be able to force another human being to be your brood mare? Because that's way fucked up.	/r/MensRights	17/09/18 03:00 AM
5	My wife left me, took the two children and cut me off. Can I get some advice on paying Australian child support. How old are your children from your first marriage now? Do you have any contact with them? The reason I ask is that you are talking about re-entering the modern economy with a presumably large debt, and that is going to be a massive, massive hassle. I don't know if Australia arrests people who reappear on their radar after abandoning kids - but I don't want you to find out the hard way. It won't help your older kids if you go to jail now, and you'd just end up abandoning a third kid in Thailand.…	/r/MensRights	04/09/18 10:38 AM
4	Prostitute spared jail after raping 14-year-old boy, who felt he was under peer pressure to lose his virginity I have a son this age. If he successfully solicited a prostitute, I wouldn't be mad at the prostitute. I'd get him tested for STDs and take away his Internet access for a year, because he would have shown me that he was not ready to communicate with the whole wide world without physically and emotionally endangering himself. We are diluting the definition of sex crime until no intelligent person can take it seriously.	/r/MensRights	03/09/18 07:23 PM
39	Let's stop job shaming men. I'm very impressed with the way other actors are rallying around this issue. People have such weird ideas about the profession.	/r/MensRights	03/09/18 05:01 PM
2	A I almost ended up in jail because my wife was drunk I'm so sorry for your trouble. I hope that this incident scares your wife into getting some professional help, if that's what she needs to get her drinking under control. Even if she isn't willing to do that yet (nobody can fix an addict until they are ready to get fixed), you two can set some ground rules to reduce the risk of another incident in the future. No more vacations where you sleep within sight and hearing of strangers, for example. Go home. Your kids need you.	/r/MensRights	03/09/18 01:23 PM
0	#MeToo Hey, you were dumb enough to believe it was an Office reference and I was dumb enough to go along with that premise. We should both be ashamed, young padawan.	/r/MensRights	03/09/18 01:31 AM
-5	#MeToo Oh, Star Wars! Another poster is claiming that it's an Office reference, which made no fucking sense to me. I do recognize the Star Wars reference now that you have pointed it out, thank you. This is utterly anti-Semitic. I'm not offended, this kind of thing gets tossed in my direction on the daily, because it's currently fashionable on the Internet to rehash the tired old Jews Control The Media bullshit. It worries me very little that this asswipe tossed it out here. It worries me far more that…	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 11:35 PM
-1	#MeToo You can be taught not manipulate the ((media)) so that you can get away with terrible abuses of power, but only by a Jewish person. A "goy" is a non-Jewish person.	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 11:26 PM
-3	#MeToo I understand that you sincerely believe that this is nothing but an Office reference.	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 11:23 PM
13	A I almost ended up in jail because my wife was drunk Did your wife actually make a false accusation against you, or was she just drunkenly angry and incoherent while they picked her up and carted her away? If it's the latter, GO HOME TO YOUR KIDS and have a serious talk with your wife. You have both seen what can happen if you get into a drunken fight at a caravan park. Her choice to get sloppy drunk in a public venue was a poor choice. Your choice to leave your children in the custody of a sloppy drunk person in the middle of the night was a poor…	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 07:38 PM
-28	#MeToo A rambling anti-Semitic slur is the best thing you've seen on Reddit lately? That's pretty sad.	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 07:22 PM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... If you're willing to vote in politicians who support family leave, that's enough for me. Everybody chooses their areas of activism, and this doesn't have to be yours. This will remain an area of activism for me, because what I see happening is men particularly and Americans in general being fed a line of total bullshit about what it means to be a good worker and a responsible citizen. Competence and responsibility are absolutely real things - and a competent, responsible worker should demand rea…	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 05:51 PM
2	Troll posters claimed it would never happen, played it all down-First women ONLY music festival, has HAPPENED, setting precedent by banning ALL men. We're slowly, bit by bit, slipping into a two tier society, one for women, one for men. The first female-only music festival was the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival, which was held annually for forty damn years. It ended in 2015, and I was glad, because I find the entire concept irritating. But it was a private event held on private land, and if there was enough interest in it to sustain it for four decades, then the organizers correctly identified and served a consumer desire.	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 11:49 AM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... So what's your plan for changing our laws and corporate culture to make sure that family leave is universally available and that workers are not punished for utilizing it? If you just say you want your kids to have something in your ideal world, but aren't prepared to take action to create the needed changes, your words aren't worth anything. In the world as it is, your sons will be wage slaves. They will be lucky to get a single day off for the births and deaths that affect them most closely. H…	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 08:55 PM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... Our society doesn't collapse in 30 years if not enough people go on ski trips.	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 11:18 AM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... Refusal to accept responsibility for the continuation of our society, either directly by raising children or indirectly by supporting the efforts of those who do, is something called "freeloading." We are all interdependent. The false perception that individuals/families can provide for all their own needs at all times if they just work hard enough leads to various self-destructive choices. These days, some of the more popular ones are opposing universal healthcare, opposing tax increases to imp…	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 11:16 AM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... I actually do mind that men die earlier. I wish that they'd access more healthcare, insist on better working conditions, and close that gap. If I were a gynocentrist, then I'd be largely OK with the current status quo for middle-class women in America, and would be focused on expanding their privileges to poorer women. Since I'm an egalitarian, I find myself facing the much larger problem of male exploitation at every level of society. You can see that you are being exploited. You clearly resent…	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 11:05 AM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... Your dead weight will be lifted and your dumb ass wiped by an underpaid woman in your old age. You won't deserve it, but you'll still get it, and I am glad of that. A society is judged by how it treats its most marginal members, not by how it treats its most functional citizens. ETA: and even if you sincerely (if insanely) believe that the only parents who are providing for your future by raising the next generation are the male parents, how in the hell can you justify freeloading off them by de…	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 01:55 AM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... My sex isn't relevent here, and neither is yours. Your sexist beliefs would be just as moronic if you were a female. You would fail your husband, his parents and your children just as terribly, and your coworkers would find you equally irritating.	/r/MensRights	01/09/18 01:49 AM
0	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... No woman is "your" woman. All procreating adults (working dads too!) are people doing something you desperately need done, if you want our society to not collapse.	/r/MensRights	31/08/18 11:22 PM
0	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... I wish she had made a different decision.	/r/MensRights	31/08/18 11:20 PM
0	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... I feel very sorry for your children, your parents, and your wife. If you don't get your head screwed on straight, you'll fail them terribly. I don't feel nearly as sorry for female engineers, because they don't have to live in a house with you and are free to ignore your dumb ass outside of professional situations. You are doubtless an irritant to the women in your workplace, but ultimately, everybody has to deal with assholes at work.	/r/MensRights	31/08/18 11:16 PM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... If you don't think the birth and proper rearing of our next generation is your business, then you are social dead weight. Don't worry, the responsible citizens raising children now will make sure you are cared for in old age. At least pay your taxes without bitching, so you'll be slightly less of a freeloader overall:-)	/r/MensRights	31/08/18 03:36 PM
1	I'm tired of women who get pregnant, disappear from the company and when they get back expect everything to be the same while men have to bust their asses working... Because only pussies would ever want to take care of their newborn baby, or their dying parent, amirite? Asshole. Greedy corporations love mindless little worker bees like you.	/r/MensRights	31/08/18 11:02 AM
2	Every time a men commits suicide going through a divorce it’s an example of #ToxicFemininity Let’s never forget their stories Good point. I am not a psychiatrist, just a crusty oldster who really wants people who are having suicidal thoughts to see one immediately before they make a mistake that they can't ever fix.	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 07:53 PM
0	Every time a men commits suicide going through a divorce it’s an example of #ToxicFemininity Let’s never forget their stories Actual, literal chattel slaves did not typically kill themselves. Nor did Russian peasants. Nor did WWI conscripts. I am NOT saying that life is fair, that men aren't often screwed over with regard to divorce or their reproductive rights, or anything like that. I am saying that offing yourself, or somebody else, is a symptom of an untreated mental illness. Because I want these preventable deaths to stop, it really bothers me when the cause is misattributed. A guy experienced a situational stress…	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 07:50 PM
-7	Every time a men commits suicide going through a divorce it’s an example of #ToxicFemininity Let’s never forget their stories Jesus Christ, what nonsense. Most people who end their lives are internally motivated to do so. They have an untreated mental illness. Blaming other people in their llives for that is disgusting. Divorce sucks. It typically sucks disproportionately for men. But responding to that situational stress by killing yourself or others is the act of a miswired brain.	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 11:09 AM
1	The agony of womyn having to be 50/50 mothers Honestly, I think that what's "best" is for divorce to be unthinkable during childrearing unless one of the parents has lost their shit so extremely that the other parent needs to protect the kids from them. In which case 50/50 wouldn't be the goal.	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 10:22 AM
0	The agony of womyn having to be 50/50 mothers You're projecting a lot of stuff that wasn't remotely on my mind. I'm not talking about who should be the SAHP for little kids, I'm talking about the fact that parents have a deep-seated need to live with their children and that children need to live with both their parents. It has nothing to do with the level of trust between the parents, or with whatever you seem to be gleaning from mommy blogs. When two normal people create a family, and then destroy that family and live separately while thei…	/r/MensRights	29/08/18 10:18 AM
14	The agony of womyn having to be 50/50 mothers I hope you never, ever find how how horrible it is to be separated from your children. 50/50 is the best solution in most cases when a family is destroyed by divorce, but everyone involved suffers. If you are going to raise children with a partner, you need to commit to keeping their home safe, healthy and intact until they are grown up.	/r/MensRights	28/08/18 11:48 PM
3	For Vietnam, The US government drafted men whose low IQ scores, previously disqualified from military service. The stratagem - codenamed ‘Project 100,000’ - cruelly nicknamed ‘McNamara’s Morons’ - increase GI mortality by 300%. My dad was a high-IQ Vietnam draftee. This explains some of the stories he told that would make the older veterans in the family call bullshit.	/r/MensRights	28/08/18 02:59 AM
1	Asia Argento Axed From ‘X Factor Italy’ I think they're both guilty of being horrible people. But I trust my own judgement way more than the media's judgement or Hollywood's judgement or Twitter's judgement. I do not assume a person's guilt because the mob has turned against them. For godsake, they've turned Garrison Keilor into an unperson.	/r/MensRights	28/08/18 02:52 AM
0	Asia Argento Axed From ‘X Factor Italy’ Are you kidding? The presence of absence of proof has very little bearing on the public's opinion of a person accused of a sex crime. Never assume that person who has not confessed or been convicted is guilty simply because they have been socially punished.	/r/MensRights	27/08/18 10:35 PM
1	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. If I could rewrite the laws governing sex with minors and providing alcohol to minors, I would: Estsblish FEDERAL laws governing the age of consent. All Americans would be subject to the same laws. Set an age limit of 14 for mandatory prosecution, and allow DAs to use prosecutorial discretion for cases involving minors ages 14-18. I want human beings making individual decisions about individual cases. The 28 year old high school soccer coach needs to go to jail for screwing a member of the JV te…	/r/MensRights	26/08/18 08:55 PM
1	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. Luc Besson is doing OK, and he made a movie inspired by his creepy-ass relationship with his second wife. She was 12 when they met, 15 when they started dating, 16 when she had his baby. Twenty when he left her and their child for Milla Jovovich.	/r/MensRights	26/08/18 10:27 AM
-1	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. Correct, under California's laws, this alleged incident is statuatory rape. It is also illegal to serve alcohol to people under the age of 21, so there's another law allegedly broken. As in every other case like this (17 year old, no use of physical force alleged), I hope that the district attorney will use their prosecutorial discretion to decline to press charges.	/r/MensRights	26/08/18 10:19 AM
2	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. I'm not defending the violation. She's a fucking predator. But this is not rape, and the law that classifies it as rape is a stupid law. Far more men than women have been harmed by the state of California's insistence that 17 year olds are not developmentally capable of consent.	/r/MensRights	25/08/18 10:37 AM
0	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. We've talked a lot in this sub about how California's statuatory rape laws are absurd. I'm sure I'd hate a man who behaved this way just as much as Asia Argento - and equally sure that I would not change my mind about the legal aspect of the situation.	/r/MensRights	25/08/18 10:30 AM
0	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. Agreed. She's disgusting. Massive social penalties should apply. Still not rape.	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 11:26 PM
5	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. I do. But what I am trying to say is that this kind of situation is not rape. Rape is a word that lost its meaning, and that horrifies me, because rape is a terrible crime and rapists need to be dead or in cages. We cannot kill or jail all the sexually unethical and opportunistic people in this world, nor should we.	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 10:36 PM
-4	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. America's age-of-consent law for drinking also stupid. I hate this woman. I hate what she did. But our inconsistent and puritanical laws on these kinds of issues have hurt more teenagers than they have ever helped.	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 10:10 PM
0	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. Hi, I'm 40 years old. Not a hag, if you care, and I have never and will never engage in sexual relations with a much younger person. I don't think you sound jealous at all... but I do think that you are wrong about these kinds of encounters automatically being classed as rape. There are all kinds of ethically appallingly things that are not rape. When I was 17, I was capable of consenting to sex. So were you. So was this young man. He consented to a sexual encounter that he later regretted. This…	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 10:01 PM
1	In the wake of Mollie Tibbett's death, don't blame immigrants for murder. Blame men. How about we just blame the murderer for this terrible murder?	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 08:20 PM
2	Mother wants to be "involved" in the genital mutilation of her son, and wants to employ a female genital mutilator who will be "gentler", with a "women's" touch, and will make the mutilation more "tolerable" for women. Oh, and she likes the "humor" in the way the women performs the mutilation. Huh? I hate MGM. I didn't do it to my sons. But I assure you, misogyny and sexual dysfunction are not more prevalent among Jews than among other groups. MGM is wrong because it is inherently wrong, not because it creates men who fear and hate women. It needs to end because men have the right to bodily integrity, not because they are more likely to mistreat women if they are subjected to MGM as babies.	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 08:17 PM
-21	When you raped a child but you’re a woman so you can get away with it. I’d make that face, too. I'm not interested in anybody going to prison for having consensual sex with a 17 year old. California's laws are stupid. I cannot pretend to agree with them just because I loathe Asia Aregento.	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 08:09 PM
1	I wasn’t allowed to sign my own child’s birth certificate because on the birth certificate, there isn’t a signature line for the father. This is in FL. I’ve always been able to sign my children’s birth certificates until now, and this is not right. I don't think my husband ever signed a birth cert application - the states the kids were born in did not have that option. You are still going to be listed on the actual birth certificate as the father. But yeah, it's a stupid change. The husband (or, in the case of unmarried mothers or LGBT relationships, the other parent) should have to sign the birth certificate in order for their name to go on it. As a married woman, I legally could not put down anybody but my husband as the father. As a sin…	/r/MensRights	24/08/18 10:26 AM
1	Well, it looks like a divorce may be in my near future If you two both agree that 50/50 physical custody is best, it will be easy to achieve. No lawyer necessary. You will probably not be able to afford to keep the house, bevause two households are far more expensive to maintain than one household. A year from now you will both be living in apartments in the same school district, coparenting successfully. If she would prefer to have primary physical custody and remain in the home while you move out and pay child support, and she's not a drug addict …	/r/MensRights	23/08/18 02:26 PM
1	Cry bullies desperately try to save #MeToo movement. Fail miserably. It's not the crime (Asia Argetno being a rapist). It's the cover up (no calls to #ibelievejimmybennet or demands that movie studios cut ties with her). Wow. That's impressively misogynistic AND off-topic.	/r/MensRights	22/08/18 06:36 AM
2	Cry bullies desperately try to save #MeToo movement. Fail miserably. It's not the crime (Asia Argetno being a rapist). It's the cover up (no calls to #ibelievejimmybennet or demands that movie studios cut ties with her). Agreed. Helping male victims in general is something we fail at, and even more so when the perpetrator is female.	/r/MensRights	22/08/18 06:34 AM
3	Cry bullies desperately try to save #MeToo movement. Fail miserably. It's not the crime (Asia Argetno being a rapist). It's the cover up (no calls to #ibelievejimmybennet or demands that movie studios cut ties with her). Sexual abuse survivors are much more likely to become perpetrators later on. I loathe Asia Argento, but that's a reality.	/r/MensRights	21/08/18 10:18 PM
8	I have a feeling a woman wouldn't br treated like that Highly unlikely. They want to clear the case. If their system works such that the issuance of a bench warrant gets this off their caseload and onto the criminal side, then that is good outcome for them. Judges are frequently known to put the smake down on bureaucrats who behave this way. Your friend's relatives need to go to the court day with documentation that he is in ICU.	/r/MensRights	21/08/18 10:09 PM
23	Bill Gates's impact on men and women in Africa I just don't get it. Bill Gates is a smart man. How did somebody manage to convince him that MGM was the best use of his public-health-promoting dollar?	/r/MensRights	21/08/18 11:10 AM
1	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over A "living trust" will will also not entitled your surviving boyfriend or girlfriend to your Social Security benefits. You can put your house and other assets in various kinds of trusts if you wish to pass them to an unrelated person upon your death. I'm glad that you can afford to buy insurance on the private market now. When you are older, or if you develop health problems, insurance very often becomes unaffordable. This is one of the things people think about when they decide to enter into a l…	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 10:43 PM
2	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over From my perspective, if you want a family and aren't having one for that reason, you have loaded your own gun are shooting yourself with it. The state can't ruin your life, you'll do it before they even have a chance! It's very different when people simply prefer to remain single and childless.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:45 PM
2	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over That's totally your call. Nobody is obliged to marry or have kids.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:38 PM
-1	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over Alimony is a valid concern (although it's awarded far less now than even ten years ago), but my stance is that if you're willing to risk the person you love being screwed over in their old age with regard to Social Security, inheritance etc., and your adult children being screwed over right along with them because their surviving parent now needs their financial support, that's not the person you want as a life partner and coparent.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:32 PM
-2	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over "Living will" to give a girlfriend or boyfriend survivor benefits and nontaxable inheritance status from the federal government? A living will is a medical document. "You can buy insurance?" Have you ever tried? Private-market insurance (insurance outside an employer's group plan) is utterly unaffordable for most people. You have to have some level of knowledge about this stuff if you want to discuss it seriously. As I keep saying, responsible people who are starting a family and have looked int…	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:26 PM
3	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over If this is a permanent relationship and your GF is going to benefit from that eventual income, then yes, she should understand that the medical school debt is HOUSEHOLD debt, to be paid back as a household. But if you guys have not yet decided to spend your lives together, then obviously she shouldn't be responsible for your debt, nor you for hers. You are boyfriend and girlfriend, not a family.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:19 PM
1	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over There are a lot of people here who have had bad experiences with failed marriages (their own or their parents'). It's one of the things that draws folks to the MRM. I have plenty of serious complaints myself, about how the family courts work when families are breaking up. I just don't think the risk of an unpleasant breakup is a good reason to never establish a family.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:12 PM
-6	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over In many states, the putative father of an illegitimate child has NO CUSTODIAL RIGHTS. We can talk all day about how that's wrong, but that's the current reality. Deliberately conceiving a child out of wedlock is a good choice only for men who would want to maximize their chances of paying child support while having sporadic contact with their children. Inheritance rights, such as the right to collect survivor benefits from Social Security and private pension plans, are not trivial to most people…	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 08:02 PM
2	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over I am so sorry for your trouble. I agree that that you have made the correct choice for your circumstances - a life-limiting medical condition, no children and no intent to have any, no signficant Social Security benefits coming, and medical debt incurred thanks to our shitty healthcare system. She knows that you'll outlive her and she wants you to move on with your life without encumberance, and that's admirable.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 06:45 PM
-24	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over The people who are forward-thinking enough to do those things are generally people who realize that everything they can do separately does not add up to the legal protections of marriage, and choose to get married if they want children. Exceptions exist, but that is the norm among responsible people. The norm among the human race is to not plan for any of this, in any way at all.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 06:38 PM
-48	Cohabiting couples need basic legal protection \| i.e. Men aren't marrying so let's find other ways to fuck them over If you had ever known a long-term unmarried couple where one parent died or became disabled, I suspect you'd have a more nuanced view of this issue. It's a logistical nightmare, and the survivors usually lose out on significant benefits that would automatically be granted to a widowed parent and their children. Should people think about this stuff, and understand that having children outside of marriage is stupid? Yes. Do they? No.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 04:55 PM
1	Men's fixation on young women is another sign of masculinity in crisis Men attracted to emotionally unstable women, preferably no older than 18, studies show. If studies actually showed that, maybe I'd worry. But I'll be damned if I'm going to worry about the trends observed in surveys of people who are trying to hook up online.	/r/MensRights	20/08/18 09:28 AM
1	Woman hangs a toddler and runs over 2 people with a van, judge blames abuse by husband, gives her probation My God, that's awful. I'm so sorry.	/r/MensRights	19/08/18 09:54 PM
5	Given the best internships and actively recruited over males....... There is a nice middle ground between recruiting and excluding. It's called neutrality. Let individuals who are interested in a certain career obtain the qualifications for that career to the best of their ability. Ignore their race, sex, and ethnicity.	/r/MensRights	19/08/18 01:21 PM
3	Feminist Professor Denounces Belief That ‘Fathers Are Valuable Parents’ I may disagree with this woman more profoundly than with any other person I have ever encountered who was not a neo-Nazi.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 07:04 PM
10	Is It Religious Discrimination Or Sexism; Sweden Muslim woman who refused handshake at job interview wins case I'm not comfortable employing people who refuse to adhere to secular and egalitarian social norms in the course of their business in a secular, egalitarian country. I think that an argument can be made in either direction as to how the courts ruled in the matter, but as a private citizen, if somebody wanted to work for me as an interpreter (or doctor, or lawyer, or driver, or travel agent, etc. etc...) would not shake hands with me or meet with me unchaperoned or whateverthehell gender-weirdness…	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 03:41 PM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife He makes his living off it, it's a business. He can choose not to work with females, Muslims, Black folks, whatever... but his consumers are entitled to object to that policy and stop giving him the views he needs to make money. How is this confusing for you?	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 02:17 PM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Yes, those would be the kind of sexist assumptions I'm refusing to support.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 11:45 AM
1	I am a slave. In a marriage of convenience, both parties understand the terms of the arrangement. What you're engaged in is a con job. You are stealing years of another person's life and hundreds of thousands of dollars of their money. It's not a game, you're not a player. It's real life, and you're a disgusting human being. It's like you looked at what family courts sometimes do to noncustodial parents and thought "wow, how about I do something like this but even worse?" I would not be crucifying you if you …	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 11:44 AM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Yes, those would be the kind of sexist assumptions I'm refusing to support.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 01:04 AM
1	I am a slave. Yes, "the system" is responsible for your terrible mistreatment of another human being. You are not culpable for knowingly exploiting her because reasons. Many men have dealt with injustice in family courts. Few have knowingly hurt a blameless third party over the course of years to ease their path in life. Most bottom-feeders don't start sucking up the scum until they feel some pressure. You would probably never have done this if personal misfortune hadn't tested your character. Your character …	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 12:18 AM
1	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Yes, those be the kind of sexist assumptions I'm refusing to support.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 12:12 AM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife This vendor isn't refusing to work with feminists or SJWs. He is refusing to work with females. That's my problem with him.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 10:25 PM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Slender, happily married, happy mother. If sexist businesses do fine without my patronage, so be it. But I would never knowingly patronize a racist or sexist vendor.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 10:22 PM
0	I am a slave. You are exploiting your second wife and plan to abandon her. How you can justify this in your mind is beyond me. I do not know why you would post this here and expect to gain sympathy from men who have been exploited. I hope that your children realize what kind of man you are, and end their relationship with you at the same time you end your relationship with their stepmother who you have used for a paycheck. Seriously, you wanted APPROVAL for this disgusting behavior?	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 10:12 PM
1	I am a slave. Jesus Christ. Crawl back under your rock. Any person who has spent the smallest amount of time researching family law issues realizes that female lawyers and judges are a huge boon to the system.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 10:05 PM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Yup, you're definitely not a raging sexist. /s	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 09:58 PM
0	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife People who won't do business with "my kind" (females) don't get my business. I despise sexists less than racists in our current political climate, but I'm not going to pay them to be sexist.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 08:38 PM
1	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Yup, you're definitely not a raging sexist. /s	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 08:20 PM
6	Pretty sure you need permission to have sex. If a man posted this tweet, his career would already be over. We're around the same age. I have single friends, married friends, friends with high-powered careers, friends who are SAHMs. None of us are suffering from broadened shoulders, deepened voices or any other biological change related to marital and career situations. Nor did the pressure of college studies harm our reproductive systems ;-) I know that this is the Internet and one post does does reflect the full nuance of your thoughts on this matter, and I fully agree with you than women who want c…	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 06:17 PM
-2	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Congratulations, you have just noticed that different standards apply in the public and private spheres? Don't want to date women? Not my business. Don't want to work with women? I won't patronize your business. This guy's Twitch streams are a business for him.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 02:45 PM
-2	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife Context is terribly important, sweetums, which is why I consider sexism a lesser moral offense than racism in this particular scenario. But because players are singled out for this discriminatory practice solely on the basis of their sex, it is definitely sexism.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 12:32 PM
-5	You're sexist because...(shuffles deck, picks a card)...you do not play video games with women out of respect for your wife This is literally sexism. He is discriminating on the basis of sex. If he refused to stream with Black players, he'd be discriminating on the basis of race. Is it easier to justify sexism than racism in our current social climate? I think so, yes. As a consumer, this policy would be a dealbreaker for me, but I'm not going to go picket this guy's house. I hope this will be a conversation-starter about the toxic "shipping" culture among those who do consume this kind of content. The endless drama …	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 11:44 AM
-2	Pretty sure you need permission to have sex. If a man posted this tweet, his career would already be over. Her shoulders have broadened? I mean, all of that is spiteful and pathetic and reflects your own insecurities, but most of it is at least a possible real-world outcome for all the women who have rejected you as a mate over the years.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 11:35 AM
1	Custody of 10 mo. old Son I am guessing that getting CPS involved in the right choice, but I want OP to talk with a lawyer first. Once you ring the CPS bell, you can't unring it.	/r/MensRights	14/08/18 09:32 AM
1	Custody of 10 mo. old Son If you are on the birth cert and she was not married to another man at the time of the birth, I'm pretty sure you are the legal father in all 50 states already. Get a lawyer, tell him the whole story, follow his advice.	/r/MensRights	14/08/18 09:29 AM
1	Tyler “Ninja” Blevins, Twitch’s biggest streamer doesn't stream with women because he doesn't want the internet rumor mill to go into overdrive and cause problems with his marriage. In response, he has been accused of 'misogyny' and is being compared to Mike Pence. If he didn't work with Black or gay people as a matter of preference, would you be OK with consumers complaining to his sponsors?	/r/MensRights	13/08/18 04:30 PM
2	I’m speechless Clearly you've never worked with at-risk children. My reaction was "Oh, shit... oh wait, thank God, it's weed." Child services needs to get involved here, but unlike a meth situation, I'm not worried that the kids are going to die while child services is figuring out how to rehabilitate their idiot mother and which relative to send them to meanwhile.	/r/MensRights	13/08/18 10:19 AM
8	Tyler “Ninja” Blevins, Twitch’s biggest streamer doesn't stream with women because he doesn't want the internet rumor mill to go into overdrive and cause problems with his marriage. In response, he has been accused of 'misogyny' and is being compared to Mike Pence. He's absolutely entitled to stream with whoever he wants to. He's an entertainer producing media for public consumption, and if the public doesn't like his choice to exclude female gamers from his product, he might make less money. I don't see the problem here - he's got the right to free association and so do his customers. Having watched a few Twitch streams with my teenagers, I do think this issue might be less fraught if the people consuming the content didn't act like a crazed, salivating m…	/r/MensRights	13/08/18 10:08 AM
2	Has anyone noticed that once respectable news publications now resemble the incoherent ramblings of a snotty teenage girl? Considering that the story was about a young man who was actually beaten for dancing, I think your attempt to make that particular point falls flat. I do understand why you found that page as a whole infuriating, and I thought most of your comments were very reasonable.	/r/MensRights	11/08/18 06:58 PM
0	Has anyone noticed that once respectable news publications now resemble the incoherent ramblings of a snotty teenage girl? Beating your son because he wants to be a dancer is not "masculine" behavior. It's abusive behavior.	/r/MensRights	11/08/18 02:38 PM
8	Man sets up business for wife, wife finds another guy after business is successful and “peaces out” with the kids. Can some of you guys with more experience provide some support and advice to this guy? I would never say this directly to that guy - but he's lucky. She didn't take the kids with her when she left, and he's already pursuing alimony and child support. Things are going about as well as any SAHP who gets ditched by their spouse can expect. It still sucks, because having your spouse walk out on you simply sucks - but he didn't lose his kids.	/r/MensRights	11/08/18 11:55 AM
1	Why is society so slow to positively embrace men... Her husband? How about the principal of the school?	/r/MensRights	11/08/18 11:47 AM
1	Why is society so slow to positively embrace men... Actually, most parents are good parents, which is why they're so effing tired when their kids are little. Parenting-done-wrong gets all the attention on social media, whereas parenting-done-right is boring and thus largely invisible.	/r/MensRights	11/08/18 11:41 AM
4	My new health insurance options. No matter what company I go through, my wife can get fixed completely free. Myself, not so much. Our profound disagreement on this issue is outside the scope of this sub.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 09:07 PM
5	My new health insurance options. No matter what company I go through, my wife can get fixed completely free. Myself, not so much. They had a choice to make a reasonable profit rather than an obscene profit. Our government was clearly wrong to leave that choice to them. I look forward to the abolition of for-profit healthcare systems in my lifetime.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 08:13 PM
1	My new health insurance options. No matter what company I go through, my wife can get fixed completely free. Myself, not so much. It wasn't mandated away by the ACA, it was taken away by our shit-eating private insurance companies when ACA mandated that women receive better coverage. The ACA should have protected men as well, and the insurance companies should not have tried to fund their mandate for women by mistreating men. We had vasectomy coverage for a decade prior to the ACA, it was a standard thing that high-cost plans covered. They colluded, and stopped covering it.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 08:08 PM
1	Only 12 fucking years for selling son to pedos... My state does not have a separate infanticide statute, but as I said, ridiculously lenient sentences for bioparents who brutalize their offspring. A woman or man would see the inside of jail cell here for shaking a baby to death, but not for very long. People get longer sentences for nonviolent drug offenses.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 08:03 PM
0	From Salesforce on LinkedIn this Morning: "On average, Black women are paid 38% less than white men and 21% less than white women" - f*king hell I'm going to take a huge guess that you are a galloping racist.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 07:59 PM
4	My new health insurance options. No matter what company I go through, my wife can get fixed completely free. Myself, not so much. We have the same issue. Vasectomy coverage disappeared the year my husband decided he wanted one.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 07:45 PM
2	Only 12 fucking years for selling son to pedos... My sad experience is that both fathers and mothers get ridiculously short sentences for serious, ongoing abuse. Most of the time, their "punishment" is being seperated fron the child they have brutalized. As a county solicitor (assistant DA) said to me once, "No dead baby, no jailtime. The juries think these monsters care that their children have been taken away."	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 07:39 PM
3	Only 12 fucking years for selling son to pedos... That would be a fairly long sentence in the US, for either a man or a woman, if the child they exploited was their own biological child and the child did not actually die as a result of the abuse. There is a very deeply ingrained notion that children are parental property, and abuse of "your" child is punished much, much less harshly than abuse of another adult's child.	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 11:48 AM
1	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. You are truly, functionally deceiving yourself. You have rights, you are choosing not to exercise them. You have responsibilities, you are choosing to avoid them. You are cheating your child and cheating yourself, over a matter of wounded feelings towards your child's mother and the man she chose over you many years ago. I've spent years working with low-income, typically uneducated fathers who want a relationship with their kids. Your story is not terribly uncommon among that group. Nor is your…	/r/MensRights	08/08/18 11:42 AM
1	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. I've met so many losers like you over the years. Always an excuse as to why they don't acknowledge their children, or support their children, or even see their children. Fatherhood is special, fatherhood is sacred, fathers are important... but in their case, for XYZ ego-related reasons that have nothing to do with a child's fundamental right to know their parentage, some other man should take care of their offspring, or the mom should do it alone. It's beyond pathetic. 12 is late, but maybe it's…	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 07:50 PM
-9	Ethan Hawke admits his life fell apart after divorce from Uma Thurman and says he's forced to do commercial films to pay her alimony He listed 4 things, alimony was one of them. I am not privy to the details of this divorce and couldn't begin to guess if the alimony arrangement is reasonable, but regardless, the other three things are good reasons to work, and whining about the need to take lucrative acting jobs... I mean, seriously?	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 03:04 PM
16	Ethan Hawke admits his life fell apart after divorce from Uma Thurman and says he's forced to do commercial films to pay her alimony That's why one-size-fits-all guidelines don't result in fair outcomes. The judge needs to understand how the family functioned before deciding how to orchestrate its dysfunction. There are fair rulings with zero alimony and fair rulings with lifetime alimony.	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 12:43 PM
-46	Ethan Hawke admits his life fell apart after divorce from Uma Thurman and says he's forced to do commercial films to pay her alimony Uma Thirman is solely responsible for health insurance and tuition for their children? What an odd notion. Should she also work to support the charities Hawke contributes to, so that he need not sully his hands with "commercial" acting jobs? Regardless of how you feel about alimony, this is an insanely privileged person whining about doing a job that thousands of other people would kill to get.	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 12:40 PM
1	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. If he truly is my son, he will figure it out and start asking questions, if he doesn't, that's fine. I'll leave him alone. What the actual fuck. No, your biological child will not somehow prove his worthiness by instinctively knowing that the adults in his life (his mom, his legal father, and you) have all conspired to lie to him and deprive him of knowing his origins. You do have rights. You are choosing not to exercise them. You are letting two people you despise be solely responsible for a ch…	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 12:36 PM
-20	Ethan Hawke admits his life fell apart after divorce from Uma Thurman and says he's forced to do commercial films to pay her alimony Huh? I did not suggest that she should not also work to pay the bills - and she does.	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 12:28 PM
-73	Ethan Hawke admits his life fell apart after divorce from Uma Thurman and says he's forced to do commercial films to pay her alimony But I'm 47 years old. I pay my alimony with my acting. I pay my kids' health insurance with my acting. I pay everybody's tuition with my acting. I'm helping various charities with my acting. I've become a professional, and I never wanted to be a professional. I kind of hate professionals.' I have heard a lot of gut-wrenching alimony stories. This is not one of them. It does not break my heart that Ethan Hawke has to actually work at his job in order to pay his bills.	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 10:26 AM
5	True? Oh, totally true. Women who don't want to fuck you are literally Hitler. /s	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 10:18 AM
1	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. Wow. You don't just think he is yours, you are virtually certain. And you not talking care of him, rather, you are allowing another man to be cuckholded and to spend his finite time, energy and money raising your child. You do plan to disrupt this family eventually by revealing yourself to the child - but only after the real father (as opposed to you, the negligent sperm donor) has done your job for 14 years or so. You. Are. Scum. You do not deserve to raise children, and I sincerely hope that n…	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 10:11 AM
0	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. Of course you cannot "rip the child away" from his mother. You are a stranger to this child, first by her sick choice if you are actually the father, and now by your mutual sick choice. You have been informed that you may be the father, and you did not pursue the matter legally, and she is not pursuing the matter legally. You would absolutely not be committing a crime if you formally requested a paternity test through the court system. You are choosing not to do that. Why? You want a son so badl…	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 02:49 AM
0	An ex-girlfriend from 12 years ago is accusing me of being the father of her son. Of course it was. All your fantasy-talk about "your son" who you might have someday if you can bring yourself to marry a nasty icky slutty female, and you may have an actual son who you are not involved with? Jesus Christ. Please take responsibility and find out if you are the father, or at the very least, stop lecturing other people about how to conduct themselves ethically. That poor, poor, kid. Two irresponsible parents for sure, and one of them might be you.	/r/MensRights	07/08/18 01:35 AM
1	Yet Another Way Men Line Other's Pockets They might get high off the greeting cards. No, really. Read the article. I'm pretty sure that the problem of Fentanyl-soaked colored paper could be addressed in some less draconian way, but where's the private-sector profit in that?	/r/MensRights	06/08/18 03:24 PM
1	Yet Another Way Men Line Other's Pockets No, this is women paying to talk to destitute men. They are spending their discretionary (and not-so-discretionary, read the article) income on something that should be included in the costs of incarceration and provided to all prisoners as a matter of course.	/r/MensRights	06/08/18 03:21 PM
3	Yet Another Way Men Line Other's Pockets This would actually be more a case of mothers, wives and girlfriends lining the pockets of the companies that exploit their desire to communicate with their men.	/r/MensRights	06/08/18 11:38 AM
1	Full frontal on male sex abuse I am staying with a friend who watches Sam Bee. What can I say? When you're right, you're right, and she was pretty close to right IMHO.	/r/MensRights	05/08/18 06:01 PM
2	This off course means feminist organizations will be throwing heaps of funding into male contraception. The term midwife means "with woman," and is entirely appropriate for professionals of both sexes.	/r/MensRights	05/08/18 05:57 PM
1	This off course means feminist organizations will be throwing heaps of funding into male contraception. Fair enough, as long as you don't then expect women to focus on your reproductive-rights issues. Apparently the OP expects this.	/r/MensRights	05/08/18 05:55 PM
3	Having a fuck of a day Wow. This explains a LOT about your posts.	/r/MensRights	05/08/18 05:05 PM
1	I'm worried about some comments in this sub. Yes, make sure that echo chamber is sealed tight. You wouldn't want to develop any nuance in your worldview.	/r/MensRights	05/08/18 05:00 PM
3	Mother jailed for hiding kids from their father for three years despite custody agreement You may be right. But still, FAR MORE SIGNIFICANT than disobeying the court and moving frequently is depriving a child of a fit and loving parent, and I wish the judge had led with that.	/r/MensRights	03/08/18 07:54 PM
60	Mother jailed for hiding kids from their father for three years despite custody agreement Even more significant is trauma these children have been subjected to as a result of many shifts from residence to residence." Um, no. Moving around a lot is not a more significant trauma than being deprived of your father for three years.	/r/MensRights	03/08/18 12:16 PM
1	I'm worried about some comments in this sub. It goes in fits and starts. Right now, we have a relatively high number of posters who think that misogyny or "traditionalist" i.e. male-supremacist arguments are compatible with a modern civil rights movement. Just wait them out. They always get bored and toddle off eventually. Even when the asshole tide is high, it's still a very small percentage of those who read the sub.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 09:44 PM
-4	"It's kinda sick how much joy I get out of being cruel to old white men" - the new NYT editor everybody... I'm under the impression that we had a turf war with the Chinese that resulted in the drawing of a wholly artificial boundary through an ancient society composed mainly of peasant farmers. Have the people on the "South Korean" side done better than people on the "North Korean" side? For sure. But that's not why we fought that war.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 06:33 PM
-19	"It's kinda sick how much joy I get out of being cruel to old white men" - the new NYT editor everybody... She's a jerk, but you clearly know jack shit about the Korean War.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 03:06 PM
1	On a post where a single dad talks about how he was lucky his wife reasonably understood she was not going to be a good parent and he did not have to go through a sexist justice system I'm not surprised at all, having seen what single dads have to do to get custody, compared to what single moms have to do to lose custody. Kids are resilient - put them in a decent situation and they'll usually get better.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 08:16 AM
5	On a post where a single dad talks about how he was lucky his wife reasonably understood she was not going to be a good parent and he did not have to go through a sexist justice system I think it's probably due to the fact that women can have kids, and retain custody of them, with practically zero effort. A single man who becomes a custodial parent usually has to show some pretty serious initiative to get in that position. The guys who would be marginal parents don't show that initiative, and our system leaves thevkids with a marginal mom, dumps them on grandma or auntie, or puts them in foster care.	/r/MensRights	02/08/18 07:50 AM
3	This dad needed to know that he had a supportive community before he killed He may have had a treatable mental illness, or he may have been a born sociopath. In either case, the kind of peer support you hope to offer fathers in your situation (sane people who are coping with parental alienation) would not, could not, have prevented this tragedy. This is major-league crazy. This is the kind of case people cite when defending mothers who take children away for specious reasons.	/r/MensRights	01/08/18 08:50 AM
3	This dad needed to know that he had a supportive community before he killed Even if you can't bring yourself to feel bad for the first wife (and I think her decision to flee while pregnant and file for divorce may have been justifiable, given what ultimately happened), how on earth could the child and the second wife deserve this? The rarity of domestic murder-suicides is NOT a testament to male self-control, just as the rarity of rape is not a testament to male self-control. These crimes are rare because they are absolutely unthinkable acts for mentally healthy people.	/r/MensRights	01/08/18 08:20 AM
9	This dad needed to know that he had a supportive community before he killed There is nothing that you could have done for this man. Don't carry that guilt. The vast, vast majority of noncustodial parents absolutely can benefit from a supportive community, but somebody this intrinsically defective isn't going to be dissuaded by social outreach. He murdered his ex, his child, and his current wife before cutting his own throat and shooting himself. They found two Glocks and SEVEN MAGAZINES, plus additional rounds. Thank Christ that he decided that murdering his family was …	/r/MensRights	01/08/18 05:50 AM
1	#MeToo era means men and women can no longer flirt I get it. If you'll read the article, it seems that this old lady doesn't get it.	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 01:33 PM
2	Meeting my 3yr old son for the first time.....anyone had a similar experience? Best of luck to you! I will advise you one more NOT to bring your wife to the visitations, or to mention her to the people running the visiting program. You can bring her along on the journey, spend your time with her outside of the visits, and have her emotional support in that way. But the visits themselves are for you and your son, and what the observer will be looking for is a dad interacting with a small child competently. You aren't expected to show zero emotion, but the emotions you show …	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 12:51 PM
-2	#MeToo era means men and women can no longer flirt I'm not saying that there isn't a problem, I'm saying that the problem hasn't destroyed social relationships and fun. People dated in Auschwitz. They're definitely flirting in the #MeToo era. This old lady means well, but if you read the article, she's definitely internalized the basement-dwelling virgin stereotype.	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 12:42 PM
3	#MeToo era means men and women can no longer flirt Tell that to the short-order cook who made me breakfast yesterday ;-) I mean this in a hopeful way - normal life is still happening.	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 06:42 AM
4	Woman marries HERSELF-“Many of the women I work with have been in toxic abusive relationships" said the leader of her "empowerment" group, as she completed the fullblown marriage. In front of a MIRROR. Anybody still denying feminists link to narcissism? Came here to say this. Of course, most people aspire to be considered much less nutty than Dennis Rodman...	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 06:39 AM
1	Meeting my 3yr old son for the first time.....anyone had a similar experience? I'm glad you found this helpful. The reason it looks bad to involve your wife at the outset is that absentee fathers often seek visitation after years of no contact at the instigation of a new partner (and then drop contact when that relationship ends). It's a pattern so common as to be a stereotype. I understand that this is not your situation, and that you have been trying for years to see your son - but I'm not the person you have to convince. And no, they will most definitely not expect you …	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 06:33 AM
1	"Only 5 of New York City’s 150 statues are of women - that needs to change thanks to female deputy mayor". My response: Women want female statues? Then EARN them. Huh? I said that NYC can easily identify more than five women in all their history who legitimately deserve statues. How did you get from there to the notion that women have made an equal number of "breakthroughs," however you are defining that? You are arguing a point that I was not remotely making, and missing the point that your reflexive objection to altering the 5:150 ratio makes us look petty and insecure.	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 06:12 AM
1	"Only 5 of New York City’s 150 statues are of women - that needs to change thanks to female deputy mayor". My response: Women want female statues? Then EARN them. "Pettiest, most insecure bullshit" is very different from "biggest bullshit." You're free to take a remedial reading course if you experience this sort of comprehension trouble frequently.	/r/MensRights	31/07/18 06:04 AM
2	Meeting my 3yr old son for the first time.....anyone had a similar experience? Three year olds (Even daughters! Wow!) are very cognitively active, and they need to have relationships with both their parents if at all possible.	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 03:14 PM
2	Meeting my 3yr old son for the first time.....anyone had a similar experience? Toys, books, pictures, pictures in an album to take home of you, his grandparents, his cousins, etc. Pictures of you at age 3 that you can tell stories about are great. NO PICTURES OF ANYBODY WITH A CRIMINAL RECORD OR DOCUMENTED SUBSTANCE ABUSE HISTORY. Healthy snacks (no-spill cup), pull-ups, wipes. If he has a potty accident the supervisor will expect you to change him. Basically, show up with a full diaper bag of the stuff an attentive parent would bring for a day out with a three-year-old. B…	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 03:12 PM
1	"Only 5 of New York City’s 150 statues are of women - that needs to change thanks to female deputy mayor". My response: Women want female statues? Then EARN them. Actually, these public art installations are going to be selected and installed by the municipal government. The awareness has been raised, the legwork has been done, and the only whining involved is coming from people like you. This is some of the pettiest, most insecure bullshit I have ever heard.	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 12:10 PM
3	High-flying career women are refusing to 'marry down' despite struggling to find a Mr Right with similar earning power and intelligence. Whose fault is this? My bad. I have heard one too many people make that remark seriously. It's always people who were born after Western society fully desegregated the white-collar workplace. I doubt many people who actually lived in a society where their smart and motivated sisters faced serious employment discrimination would think that was an acceptable sacrifice in order to increase the marriage rate.	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 04:08 AM
8	"Only 5 of New York City’s 150 statues are of women - that needs to change thanks to female deputy mayor". My response: Women want female statues? Then EARN them. Are you seriously suggesting that only five women have ever made statue-worthy achievements in New York City? Pretending that women were not previously denied equal acknowledgement in the public sphere is one of the worst rhetorical mistakes that MRAs make. If you want people to believe you when you say that it's essentially over in the Western world, then it really helps to admit that it used to be systemic.	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 12:31 AM
10	High-flying career women are refusing to 'marry down' despite struggling to find a Mr Right with similar earning power and intelligence. Whose fault is this? Nope. Nobody is to blame. Everybody is entitled to work at jobs they are qualified for and support themselves to the best of their ability. Nobody is entitled to marriage, and people who cannot find a partner they are happy to spend their lives with should not marry.	/r/MensRights	30/07/18 12:14 AM
1	Do you guys realize how we are being bullied by dress code in Western/Secular world? Oh, go put on Mommy's hijab and fantasize about the good old days when Muslim women couldn't get divorced.	/r/MensRights	29/07/18 01:36 PM
2	Do you guys realize how we are being bullied by dress code in Western/Secular world? This is a human rights movement, not a tree fort. I wouldn't dream of pretending to be a man.	/r/MensRights	28/07/18 08:50 PM
1	Do you guys realize how we are being bullied by dress code in Western/Secular world? Teresa May's evening gown is not equivalent to a tank top and shorts, and you know it. Not as comfortable, not as informal. I cannot imagine why judges allow you to appear before them informally attired, but if they do, more power to you - you're right, suits are stupid, and while Trump wearing one at a state occasion doesn't bother me, a lawyer wearing one every working day of his life is unnecessary torture. Conservative attire for court will always be appropriate, but the definition of "conse…	/r/MensRights	28/07/18 02:01 PM
2	Apparently Dads can't be concerned parents. X-post from r/comics. Some babies (not all) are chronic droolers when their teeth are coming in, and a bib can be great for preventing/minimizing chest rashes.	/r/MensRights	28/07/18 01:50 PM
1	Men are both dumber and smarter than women \| The tail ends of the IQ bell curve is thicker for men than for women. IQ is a necessary but not sufficient condition for this kind of accomplishment. All ethnic groups produce biological "sports" with supernormal intelligence. Culture is what makes college professors out of that raw material.	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 08:10 PM
1	Men are both dumber and smarter than women \| The tail ends of the IQ bell curve is thicker for men than for women. Me either. But looking at something like the list of Nobel recipients and deciding that it represents a fair assesment of human potential based on inborn traits doesn't work, either. For the majority of the time we've been handing out that prize, the social barriers to those career tracks have not been open to all.	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 05:53 PM
2	Men are both dumber and smarter than women \| The tail ends of the IQ bell curve is thicker for men than for women. Socialization has been a profound factor historically, and we need to either acknowledge that when it comes to things like the Nobel Prize, or just decide that Jews are inherently superior. (We're not, we just have a culture than promotes higher education and rewards intellectual accomplishments even when they are not tied to immediate $$$.)	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 04:49 PM
11	Men are both dumber and smarter than women \| The tail ends of the IQ bell curve is thicker for men than for women. Yeah, I've never understood why this is a problem for anybody. In the developed world, we've made tremendous strides towards ensuring that exceptional human potential is not stymied by any condition of birth. We need to do more for the other half of the bell curve, but we're still doing better than we were a century ago. We'll get there. Most people are just normal. The subnormal need to be cared for so they don't die of self-neglect, and the supernormal need to have their gifts nurtured so they…	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 04:46 PM
4	A book for anyone who still buys into the Suffragettes being heroes Why does everybody seem to have such trouble with flawed heroes? Thomas Jefferson is one of my heroes. He participated in chattel slavery. Margaret Sanger is one of my heroes. She believed in (pre-Nazi) eugenics. You don't have to like everything an historical figure did or believed in order to admire them in the context of their times.	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 08:44 PM
-13	Women Prefer Physically Fit Men With Good Jobs And No Criminal Record \| A humorous highlighting of the "Judge men, but don't judge women" double standard. No, we do not. Take that crock of shit back to the terper sub where it belongs.	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 07:37 PM
2	Supreme Court rules woman in 'loveless marriage' cannot have a divorce If a man had formally separated from his wife in 2015 and been told by the courts in 2018 that he would not be granted a divorce until 2020 because he hadn't yet PROVED that the marriage was functionally over, I imagine that the comments would be fairly similar. This case is going to end similarly to most divorces among the elderly - they'll divide the marital assets and die shortly thereafter, leaving their estates to their children. If the husband wants to stay in this farce of a marriage for …	/r/MensRights	25/07/18 11:08 PM
1	Real Equality At Last: The Predator Film Franchise Will Now Include Female Predators This franchise has shown female Predators before.	/r/MensRights	23/07/18 05:45 PM
2	I created a sub to help fathers looking to gain primary custody. Right you are.	/r/MensRights	23/07/18 01:02 AM
1	I created a sub to help fathers looking to gain primary custody. If you had a truly unstable ex and NEEDED to gain primary physical custody in order to protect your children, then you have my sympathy and I am glad your kids are safe. But this kind of sub is going to attract a lot of men who are trying to emulate the worst behavior ever typically displayed by sane woman, i.e. the marginalization of the other sane parent. The vast, vast majority of divorce cases should end with joint physical custody. Divorce deprives children of the right to one safe and stab…	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 08:19 PM
11	Horrifying story of a woman assaulted by a man who was... an MRA?? "Games" in this context means emotional manipulation, not video games.	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 08:06 PM
2	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? My sons both reddit a little bit, but I don't think they have ever tried to identify me or looked for my posts. They are teenagers, nothing is more boring to them than what their stable, happy parents think about stuff :-) My daughters are younger, but I've never said anything on Reddit that I would not say right to their faces. You should be self-conscious about some of the stuff you post, especially about a young daughter seeing it and connecting it with you. You paint females with a very broa…	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 08:02 PM
2	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? Two teenage boys, three younger girls. And I'm launching them into a very odd time in Anerucan history. Not the oddest (I mean, we had chattel slavery once), but odd.	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 05:13 PM
3	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? Oh, OK. Thanks for clarifying. I have posted here for several years with zero private nastiness and am so glad it's not starting up :-)	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 02:56 AM
1	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? Somebody PMed you about me? That is legitimately creepy. I do not have private conversations with anybody on Reddit, and nobody IRL other than my husband knows my username. Every piece of information I have ever shared with anybody on Reddit is in my public post history. If the info in that PM was a doxxing attempt, please forward it to the mods. We don't do that here.	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 02:46 AM
2	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? As I told you the other day, I have five children. I was surprised to find out you were in your thirties, a lot of your more bombastic rhetoric is more common in very young men.	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 02:35 AM
3	How female anti-feminists/MRAs are created... by son proxy? I was interested in egalitarianism before my sons were born, and aware that we were having an odd cultural shift at the college level towards authoritarianism in a liberal guise... but having sons definitely means that I've never lost interest or had another kind of activism take over my limited time and energy. It also "helps" that my society has gotten notably, obvious more hostile to boys during my adult life. Tends to hold your attention. I have found that my empathy levels towards people ve…	/r/MensRights	22/07/18 02:32 AM
4	FBI launches new investigation into the murder of Emmett Till. Half a century after she got him killed, Carolyn Bryant may actually face justice. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/12/us/emmett-till-death-investigation.html https://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Justice/2018/0712/FBI-reopens-Emmett-Till-murder-case-in-light-of-possible-new-information Looks like the Aussies picked it up from our MSM.	/r/MensRights	21/07/18 01:51 AM
3	Transgender men discuss the social issues they've faced after transitioning. The reality of being a man greatly changed many of their former views on men in society. Also, that human-relations, feeling-heard-and-validated stuff ISN'T trivial. It's a major factor in a person's emotional well-being. It's not as emergent as getting mistreated by the cops, but it's definitely important.	/r/MensRights	21/07/18 12:54 AM
3	FBI launches new investigation into the murder of Emmett Till. Half a century after she got him killed, Carolyn Bryant may actually face justice. The ABC is absolutely a mainstream media source.	/r/MensRights	21/07/18 12:50 AM
20	Men are ‘useless,’ according to Emily Sears. We can ignore the male parent. Yeah, this is a legitimately funny anecdote being horribly distorted.	/r/MensRights	21/07/18 12:28 AM
1	Female Australian senator accuses a male senator of making a misogynistic insult. He responds by documenting 26 examples of her making misandrist insults in the senate. Examples of unparliamentary language spoken by Senator Hanson-Young that she was asked to withdraw included calling then Immigration Minister Peter Dutton a “racist bigot”, telling Nationals senator Barry O’Sullivan he was “corrupt” and accusing Liberal senator Jim Molan of “supporting white supremacists”. Maybe this is against the rules in Australia, but it seems pretty normal to this American. Certainly not misandrist.	/r/MensRights	20/07/18 01:12 PM
8	How do I combat the period argument? "Please don't discuss your bodily processes with me. We don't have that kind of relationship. If you are sorry that you were being mean to me, for whatever reason, just say so and that's the end if it." Your sister is a borderline case, it's far more acceptable for people in your household to know the schedule of your bodily functions. Your classmates are being wildly inappropriate and need to get that message now, while their ideas about proper social boundaries are still being formed. As to ho…	/r/MensRights	20/07/18 01:06 PM
1	Wife willing to sign postnup! How do we limit alimony? I don't think this would hold up in court - the judge is going to follow the law, period. Frankly, getting a postnup drafted after years of marriage might make you look like a spouse who was planning a unilateral divorce and talked their partner into making a decision against her own best interests in order to circumvent the state guidelines. Ask a lawyer in your state, I may be wrong. That doesn't mean you shouldn't talk specifically about this with your wife, and draft a statement of mutual in…	/r/MensRights	19/07/18 07:43 AM
1	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. You need a source to back up the assertion that divorce impoverishes children unless one of their parents is wealthy? Look to your own budget. Now imagine that the same amount of income is supporting two households. We have all these culturally ingrained notions of men being deadbeats, women misspending child support money - but the average case is more like two people who both love their kids coping with plain fact that their expenses went up and their combined income didn't rise commensurately…	/r/MensRights	19/07/18 07:27 AM
1	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. I'm not mad at you, either. Adultery among married people in France really, truly is a normalized behavior. Discretion is part of it - you're not supposed to talk about your lover, and you are not supposed to let your extramarital relationship interfere with your home life. If you are 17 and have never heard of this, then the adults around you are behaving appropriately according to the cultural standard. And not all married French people do this - only around half. https://www.1843magazine.com/…	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:48 PM
1	Cant get a real convo on this anywhere else what do you guys think. Yup.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:41 PM
1	Cant get a real convo on this anywhere else what do you guys think. If the two people were the same size (i.e. guy much larger), I'd probably cut him less slack for the degree of response, but still some.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:22 PM
-2	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. Have you ever heard the phrase "l'heure bleu?" Getting mad at me because I know that adultery is normalized in French culture is like me getting mad at you for saying "my God, Americans are fat!" You're not a cheater, I'm not fat. Your culture condones one kind of harmful excess, mine condones another.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 11:44 AM
-2	Disney's Moana is the prime example of the recent trend of replacing masculine imagery with the feminine in movies. Jonathan Pageau offers an interpretation of the symbolism in Moana, and how it plays out the gender ideology that is being inserted into popular culture through media and education If you’re gonna stop watching the show because of this change, then I feel like you’ve missed what the show has been trying to say for the past 50 years. Exactly. I've watched DW for years, have never minded that the character was played by a dude, do not mind having having a woman Doctor now. I can relate (or fail ro relate) to this ancient alien in either guise. I also don't see John Wayne or Sylvester Stallon as "toxic," so you and I may simply have vastly different tastes in entertainment, o…	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 11:32 AM
5	Girls only: As Boy Scouts begin accepting girls, Girl Scouts launching new trailblazing badges I love how they STILL aren't expanding their hiking, camping and woodcraft offerings. Wake up! My daughters are going camping with Scouts USA next month, tenting with the other female Cubs, under the supervision of a female pack leader. They'll sleep and bathe separately, but otherwise, they'll be doing all the troop activities. The troop leader is thrilled - the sisters and daughters of troop members have been participating unofficially for years already, now they can be formally recognized.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 04:01 AM
0	Disney's Moana is the prime example of the recent trend of replacing masculine imagery with the feminine in movies. Jonathan Pageau offers an interpretation of the symbolism in Moana, and how it plays out the gender ideology that is being inserted into popular culture through media and education A fictional alien who regularly regenerates into different bodies doing a stint in a female body is your idea of "a knife in the gut?" What a charmed life you must lead.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 03:38 AM
6	Nagoya High Court orders mother to return son to father in U.S. Agreed. I was shocked by this headline. Japan does NOT hand their citizens over.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:39 AM
3	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. I'm not pretending, it's been extensively studied. Wealthy men do pay ridiculously high amounts, but child support orders in the US are tied to income and most American men are not wealthy. Once their living costs are deducted, even at a penurious rate, the maximum allowable amount of child support is not enough to pay half of a typical child's expenses. Divorce impoverishes children, unless one or both of their parents are wealthy. I think that this 18 months of jailtime option is an urban lege…	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:36 AM
-9	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. You have read a lot of bullshit. Most child support orders (in the US) do not cover half the actual cost of raising a child.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:19 AM
15	In France its ILLEGAL to make a DNA test by father. If you try to make a DNA test secretly you will face a year in prison and a 15,000 € fine. So you stay the legal father even if the wife cheated. You don't know much about France. Adultery is their national pastime, and men and women participate with equal avidity.	/r/MensRights	18/07/18 12:14 AM
4	A women festival is the most sexist, unequal, disgusting I could think of. Imagine the media uproar if there was something like this for men. Vaginal steaming?	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 03:58 PM
-10	Woman's boss won't have a closed-door one-on-one meeting with her. This is somehow Mike Pence's fault, not "me too" run amok. A supervisor who treats their employees differently based on their race, sex, creed, nationality etc. is a huge liability for their company, and needs to be put on a performance plan to correct their discriminatory behavior, or gotten rid of if they refuse to obey the law. If a company wants to allow their higher-ups to refuse private meetings with ANY employee, that's certainly a reasonable position, and chaperonage can be arranged. But saying "no, I won't be alone with females, so you are bein…	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 03:56 PM
2	France has state-enforced cuckoldry My problem is more with France's centuries-old adultery culture than with the government's pragmatic response to it. I don't like the law, but I know which came first.	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 03:44 PM
0	Father Cries Real Tears After Court Grants Primary Custody to Unfit Mother Absolutely. The parking lot, while clinging to your child and filming the drama, is not the right place to look for that support. This guy and his extended family are making things 1000% harder for that kid because they need to emote immediately and publicly. He may well be the more fit parent, none of us can know that either way (although plenty are ready to assume based on their ingrained bias against mothers). All the video shows us is that he lost it at the courthouse, in front of his kid. I…	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 11:31 AM
90	Appearently we are not welcome Yes, it is, and yes, it's OK to have single-sex areas for breastfeeding. Men do not breastfeed, and many nursing mothers prefer not to expose their breasts to strange men. BUT, if this is the only facility offered to sit quietly in a rocking chair and bottlefeed, or to change a diaper, then the OP is right to be pissed off about it, because if he's out with his baby, he needs those accomodations.	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 11:20 AM
0	Father Cries Real Tears After Court Grants Primary Custody to Unfit Mother I was a guardian ad litem, representing children who were in foster care or were at risk of being placed in foster care. My practice focused on working with poor fathers seeking custody - I was allowed to choose my cases and that's what I chose. If I have a bias, it's a pro-dad bias. And I am telling you, people who act like this (and film it, and put it on social media, jesuschristwhatthefuck) are not typically the safer and more stable parent.	/r/MensRights	17/07/18 11:13 AM
-3	Father Cries Real Tears After Court Grants Primary Custody to Unfit Mother We know for sure that the adult filming is such a stupid piece of trash that they considered it appropriate to post this video on social media.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 11:34 PM
-7	Father Cries Real Tears After Court Grants Primary Custody to Unfit Mother I've sat through dozens of these kinds of cases, knowing the backstory, having done my own investigation into both parents. The side of the family that cries in the most affecting manner at the courthouse is generally the crazier side. Not always. But generally. And either side of the family can make a child that age cry. Children were not allowed to be present at family court proceedings in my previous state of residence, precisely to avoid their the situation where their trashy-ass family (mat…	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 11:27 PM
17	Cant get a real convo on this anywhere else what do you guys think. A little excessive, but I tend to cut people some slack when their immediate response to a physical assault is to escalate. It's not like she hid behind his car and beat his ass 20 minutes later.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 09:31 AM
3	Wife aborts without Husband's consent. What do you think should be legal in this situation? Yeah, this just isn't complicated. Of course nobody can force a woman to gestate, and of course a man might choose to end a relationship with a woman who did not want to continue a pregnancy. The scenario the OP in that thread described was abusive as fuck, and I hope she went home to her family.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 09:26 AM
31	'The everyday sexism I face as a stay-at-home dad' - When a gay Londoner and his partner had a child they knew they were likely to experience homophobia. What they were not ready for was sexism. But, when he goes out in public with his daughter it's an everyday occurrence. Dads going off to work isn't "natural" either. Humans evolved in small, mobile groups where children spent all day surrounded by their adult relatives. Also, gay men are not more likely to molest children.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 09:18 AM
1	Anyone agree This Coupon Carl is innocent? Are you insane? http://abc7news.com/society/black-woman-says-cvs-manager-called-police-over-coupon/3768508/	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 09:09 AM
12	"A mother would never leave her family" I love stuff like this. Revenge, served ice cold. I hope Uncle Lyle gets a similar obituary.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 09:02 AM
1	Women shiver at work in ‘sexist’ air conditioning The last time I was in a server room, I spent the next 15 minutes shivering uncontrollably. Thank you for your service ;-)	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 08:59 AM
0	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations Respecting your parents isn't a Mexican thing? Wow, TV has lied to me. Also every Mexican person I have ever met in America. I worry way more about my sons picking a bad wife than my daughters picking a bad husband. At least I could help my daughters get out of the situation without losing their kids.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 01:14 AM
1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations OK, why not? Taking advice on women from women might be a dubious proposition if the advice comes from a blog or a magazine, but taking advice from somebody who has exactly what you think you want is generally not a terrible idea. I wanted to marry younger than is normal in America, to a man who despised divorce as much as I did. I wanted to marry a man who was willing and able to make enough money that the size of our family would not be constrained by finances and I would never have to put my …	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 12:13 AM
17	This is what pure bigotry and creeping fascism look like. Ban my brothers, my uncles, my grandpas, and half my cousins. WTF.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 12:03 AM
1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations I am a happily married woman with five children. My husband and I have no children from previous relationships and neither of us are ugly, so I guess I looked for the same things you looked for and found them? The reason I keep mentioning daughters is that I want you to think about whether or not you are able to care for a daughter as diligently as for a son. If you can't, then getting a woman pregnant in the natural manner is unethical. If you can, best of luck to you.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 12:00 AM
1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations Sorry, I should have said, you will eventually meet a respectable woman who is willing to have children out of wedlock. This is the 21st century, that's normal now. What about your daughters? Can you be a good father to daughters? It's really not ethical to conceive a child if there's only a 50% chance you will want to take care of it.	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 11:48 PM
4	Women shiver at work in ‘sexist’ air conditioning I'm glad that this is finally being studied, instead of people just trading anecdotes. If men like it at 71 and women like it at 75, why not set it to 73 and tell both sexes to make whatever changes to their outfits they deem necessary in order to function at 73? The women can wear cardigans, the men can wear short-sleeved Oxford shirts. Everybody will look dorky, but somehow, this will not prevent the constant sexual intrigue.	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 11:41 PM
1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations OK, that's a little bit clearer. Women are also very interested in having biological continuity, but it's so easy for us that it's not a big topic of conversation. I'm thinking of this from the perspective of your future child, who you want to conceive naturally with a woman you are dating. Lots of people who don't like kids think that "it will be different" with their own, and generally, they are either correct about that they suck it up and act appropriately. So that's fine. And you'll probabl…	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 11:30 PM
2	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations Your wish is granted! Adopt a son. ... but of course, you don't actually want a son, since you hate children. What you want is to perpetuate your genetic line. It would be deeply unethical to get a woman pregnant if you were not able and willing to raise a child of either sex, because you do not get to choose the sex of the child she conceives. There are certain artificial methods that allow for sex selection, but they are expensive and possibly illegal. I don't know anything about Mexican repro…	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 08:38 PM
0	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations I'm not angry, but I'm honestly confused about the future you are envisioning for yourself. Being a good parent is NOT easy. It's achievable for any sane person who is willing to make it their first priority, but it's not easy. If you actively hate children, you probably need to take your family's positive assesment of your good-dad potential with a grain of salt. If you don't want the mother of your children to be your wife or girlfriend, why on earth should it matter if you're attracted to her…	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 08:34 PM
1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations You know, there are non-damaged women out there who you could be honest with and end up conceiving a child (not necessarily a son, so you'd have to do the emotional work to be a fit father to a daughter before getting anybody pregnant). Lesbians, foreveralones, women who don't wish to marry but still want to have kids- the Internet is a great place to meet other socially marginalized people who want to be parents but cannot or do not wish to enter into a traditional romsntic relationship with th…	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 03:08 PM
-1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations Do not lie to a woman to persuade her to conceive a child with you. Make it clear upfront that you can never offer her marriage, love, trust or respect. If you are willing to tell lies of that magnitude in order to get what you want, then YOU are the monster that you imagine all women to be.	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 01:38 PM
-1	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations I want a son and I need a woman for that. You are not a fool for wanting to have children. You are worse than a fool if you are considering natural reproduction when you know that you would not be interested in raising a girl child.	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 01:33 PM
2	Americans Conned Into Marrying Immigrants For Green Cards \| Female green card fraudsters are falsely claiming domestic violence to escape their obligations Why not just wait the two years and then divorce? It's not like our pre-VAWA laws trapped immigrant spouses forever. There was always a reasonable path to divorce for non-abusive marriages.	/r/MensRights	15/07/18 01:29 PM
2	I'm absolutely desperate, I already posted on /r/legaladvice , I have no idea what to do. Maybe Portugal does it differently, but in America, the injured party has a choice to file a civil suit and the state decides whether or not to press criminal charges separately, often against the wishes of the victim. We file civil suits to get money, divorces, child custody, return of our property, etc. The state files criminal charges to put people in jail. In the situation you describe, your ex and her thug friend have done something that merits criminal charges brought by the state. If the …	/r/MensRights	14/07/18 12:03 PM
2	NYT: #HeToo? A Fight for Men’s Rights, in California Courts (Feminists Are Triggered By Male Resistance) Right!?! The way that this kind of stuff is being reported in the mainstream media is really changing. It's only a first step... but it's the kind of thing that started happening around marriage rights 10 years ago, and look how fast the majority of Americans converted on that issue.	/r/MensRights	14/07/18 11:51 AM
-3	75 years ago, men and only men were conscripted to die in WW2. Today, game developers shoehorn female soldiers in WW2 games, unabashedly erasing men's coerced sacrifice from popular culture, all for money. Extremely low likelihood. Not that it really matters. Just because you come home from the war with your limbs intact doesn't mean that going to war wasn't a tremendous sacrifice.	/r/MensRights	14/07/18 12:42 AM
13	75 years ago, men and only men were conscripted to die in WW2. Today, game developers shoehorn female soldiers in WW2 games, unabashedly erasing men's coerced sacrifice from popular culture, all for money. Is there is anything more pathetic than a person who by the grace of God has NOT had to defend their homes and families from conquering invaders disparaging the bravery of those who have? Oh, right. It's even more pathetic to describe noncombatants in occupied countries as "cowards." People who smuggled foodstuffs, hid Jews and other targeted groups, passed information to resistance networks, or simply survived and helped their neighbors survive under occupation, were brave in a way that you cle…	/r/MensRights	14/07/18 12:39 AM
3	The 2 child benefit rule, the government has done a good thing, bitter woman outside school gate Thanks for explaining. It's always interesting to find out how other countries do things. What bothers me about this is not having a cap per se, but that the benefit does not extend to both parents and is generally awarded to the mother in a single/divorced parent situation. This lady gets her benefit for her two kids, but her ex-boyfriend, who may well have been a fit and loving stepfather figure to these children that were born before he met their mother, loses the privilege of getting the ben…	/r/MensRights	13/07/18 10:59 PM
9	The 2 child benefit rule, the government has done a good thing, bitter woman outside school gate If he was actively planning to conceive children than he intended to use welfare to support, I'm pretty sure he was well-matched with this lady in terms of sheer dumfounding entitlement. Or does "benefits" mean something different in the UK?	/r/MensRights	13/07/18 05:47 PM
1	A Strong Independent Woman is attacked on a subway. Later complains about the two middle aged white men that moved away before the violence started. She's more angry at them, than the actual assaulter. It's interesting about the briefcase part. I didn't include it for the reason you state (the risk of an assault charge), but if I chose to intervene in an assault by a nutter on the subway, I personally, would probably use the object in my hands rather that whaling away with my fists. I'm small, and not a trained fighter. I would need to use whatever advantage I had in order to discourage the assailant, and because I am a white woman, the police would support my choice ex post facto. It's also i…	/r/MensRights	13/07/18 05:38 PM
2	Henry Cavill Explains Why He’s Hestitant to Date – Gets Massive #MeToo Backlash! Jorge Arenas July 12, 2018 1) His rampant, nigh-hysterical homophobia 2) His freakishly deepset eyes Obviously, 2) is no big deal and 1) makes him unfit to hold any position of responsibility in an egalitarian society	/r/MensRights	12/07/18 08:44 PM
-8	A Strong Independent Woman is attacked on a subway. Later complains about the two middle aged white men that moved away before the violence started. She's more angry at them, than the actual assaulter. "If you were so scared is one thing but one of you had a briefcase and could have helped me and both of you could have pulled the chord from the safety of the next carriage that you left me for. I would never in my life do that." This perspective is legitimate. The men who fled the altercation don't have to care what this woman thinks, but it's not man-hating or gynocentric to be more pissed off at the apparently-well men who couldn't even be arsed to pull the safety cord after fleeing than at t…	/r/MensRights	12/07/18 08:37 PM
2	Anybody find it amazing that Rosa Parks being told to stand up called for a public outcry even though Emmett Till was lynched 3 months earlier and nobody saw so much as a jail sentence? Look up the word "comparable." It does not mean what you seem to think it means.	/r/MensRights	12/07/18 12:44 PM
3	Anybody find it amazing that Rosa Parks being told to stand up called for a public outcry even though Emmett Till was lynched 3 months earlier and nobody saw so much as a jail sentence? Rosa Parks was the key player in a well-planned, well-orchestrated act of civil disobedience. Emmett Till was a lynching victim, one of dozens that year in the Deep South. The two situations just aren't comparable.	/r/MensRights	12/07/18 12:57 AM
4	Study confirms there is no "marital wage premium" for men in the USA. Instead, causality flows the other way: women only choose to marry higher earning men. In other breaking news, water is wet and the earth revolves around the sun.	/r/MensRights	11/07/18 01:18 AM
1	Campaigners want misogyny to be criminalised. But everything is misogyny to these people—UK police already record wolf-whistling as a "misogyny hate incident". I am very sure that the gentlemen on the constructions sites have no expectation of sparking a conversation. I wish their foremen would tell them to shut up. But honestly, give me three construction crews in a row over one group of drunk twentysomethings.	/r/MensRights	09/07/18 09:28 PM
1	Campaigners want misogyny to be criminalised. But everything is misogyny to these people—UK police already record wolf-whistling as a "misogyny hate incident". I am a woman. I generally enjoy compliments from strangers, because I don't take being attractive for granted. I recently moved back to the city after years in the burbs, and Jesus Christ, there is such a thing as too much. And I'm old now. I can see why younger women get all pissy about it. It probably shouldn't be illegal, but I think employers should insist that their employees not engage with passers-by in a sexual manner while on the job.	/r/MensRights	09/07/18 06:07 PM
5	Umm. Is this true? Or just sexist. If it’s true I’m gonna unsubscribe if it’s not, then boy oh boy am I angry. The former, sadly.	/r/MensRights	09/07/18 04:48 PM
7	Toxic Femininity: how Anthony Bourdain's suicide was manipulatively reframed by girlfriend Asia Argento to somehow be all about her "victimhood" and #metoo, when her cheating was probably what triggered it Actually, Ottavia loves to travel. It was a nice gesture - of course he'd leave his wealth to his only child rather than either of his exes or any of his former girlfriends.	/r/MensRights	07/07/18 08:39 PM
2	Feminist favourite, Canadian Prime Minister Trudeau, learns the hard way that-even if youre a White Knight-somewhere, somehow, there'll always be an offended feminist who can take you down, as he's accused of 'groping'. Ahhh, the irony..... [The woman involved] herself told the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation that she was not interested in being associated with any further coverage of the story, and asked that her name not be used, and that she not be contacted again. It happened twenty years ago. Nobody got raped. She doesn't want to talk about it. This wasn't brought up to further the agenda of feminists, women in general or this woman in particular - it was brought up by one man (Kinsella) who is pissed off at another man (Tru…	/r/MensRights	07/07/18 11:24 AM
0	Toxic Femininity: how Anthony Bourdain's suicide was manipulatively reframed by girlfriend Asia Argento to somehow be all about her "victimhood" and #metoo, when her cheating was probably what triggered it Try reading the comments. I was referring to the OP's thread title.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 10:35 PM
-1	Toxic Femininity: how Anthony Bourdain's suicide was manipulatively reframed by girlfriend Asia Argento to somehow be all about her "victimhood" and #metoo, when her cheating was probably what triggered it I was referring to the OP's thread title.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 06:52 PM
1	Raising a boy in the era of "#menaretrash?" This is what we have noticed with our teen boys. They encounter the stuff (good and bad, moderate and extreme) on both sides of the gender-politics coin. I'm more worried about real life than what they pick up gaming or on YouTube.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 12:14 PM
70	Toxic Femininity: how Anthony Bourdain's suicide was manipulatively reframed by girlfriend Asia Argento to somehow be all about her "victimhood" and #metoo, when her cheating was probably what triggered it I think Asia Argento is repulsive. I was a longtime fan of Anthony Bourdain. But because I was a longtime fan of Bourdain's, I cannot agree that her behavior, or anybody else's, "triggered" his suicide. That dude started making self-destructive choices around the time I was born. He was fundamentally unstable.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 12:09 PM
4	Adoption - Why are boys unwanted? Foster children are pathologized to an awful degree. Serious behavioral problems are one possible result of trauma, but the truly bad stuff manifests in a tiny minority of all the kids in care.	/r/MensRights	03/07/18 12:03 AM
21	Adoption - Why are boys unwanted? Our first foster-adoption was a school-aged boy. An astounding number of people, including some close relations, worried that he would rape our daughters. It's insane.	/r/MensRights	02/07/18 01:25 PM
7	UK: Girls are banned from wearing skirts at 40 secondaries across England as schools opt for gender-neutral uniforms to cater for transgender pupils. Looks like women will have to stop wearing skirts and dresses in society. This policy will come to the workplace soon. Exactly. I said let them wear skirts, not make them wear skirts.	/r/MensRights	02/07/18 04:33 AM
3	Falsely accused by my own children Sure, but somebody else being shitty just has no bearing on how we should behave. "Women are bitches" is not a statement that should be made in this sub without being corrected.	/r/MensRights	01/07/18 03:46 PM
2	Falsely accused by my own children It doesn't matter if other people act like bigots. We don't.	/r/MensRights	01/07/18 03:34 PM
7	Many here said it would never ACTUALLY happen-it has; First women ONLY festival, men banned. "To tackle everyday battles women face with the sisterhood behind us" Organisers are feminist, middle class, believe in 'Magick'. What a surprise... Came here to mention MichFest. Had no idea it recently shut down. Good, it was a hotbed of crazy.	/r/MensRights	01/07/18 03:29 PM
14	UK: Girls are banned from wearing skirts at 40 secondaries across England as schools opt for gender-neutral uniforms to cater for transgender pupils. Looks like women will have to stop wearing skirts and dresses in society. This policy will come to the workplace soon. Why not just let the boys wear skirts?	/r/MensRights	01/07/18 03:27 PM
1	The video of a small child crying as she is being "taken from her mother" is a complete falsification. The child and mother have remained together the entire time. However the mother did take the child away from Honduras without the father's approval, and the father never even got to say goodbye. My inconvenienced cousin really isn't the issue. People who are sent back to El Salvador to be murdered by a gang are the issue. I mean, I like my cousin, but he was doing OK working for a finance company in London. He had a desire to emigrate, not a life-and-death need. I'm all for a merit-based system when evaluating the applications of people like my cousin. But the brutalized poor people on my own continent don't need to be competing with him to obtain one of a ridiculously low number of slo…	/r/MensRights	27/06/18 09:50 PM
7	'Women CAN'T have it all': Expert warns women are losing their best years of fertility because of financial and career pressures – and then struggle to conceive when they do try. You've identified the central issue. Other than a modest tax credit, American society provides essentially zero social support to middle-class families with young children. We allow our companies to demand more hours/week of labor, on a less predictable schedule, than is legal/customary in other developed nations. We do not subsidize childcare. We do not have high quality standards for childcare. Nobody can HAVE IT ALL, but a middle-class French family can have excellent and affordable childcare…	/r/MensRights	27/06/18 10:36 AM
2	Women telling us about our penises.. fucking "men's health" Bully for you. An effective public health program needs to be aimed at the entire population, not just you.	/r/MensRights	25/06/18 07:27 PM
2	Women telling us about our penises.. fucking "men's health" Every straight man I have ever met has cared what women think of his penis. We can argue all day about whether or not they should care, but if the goal is to eliminate MGM, buy-in from straight women really is an important step - just as the cultivated willingness of Kenyan men to marry intact women is an important aspect of the fight against FGM in that country.	/r/MensRights	25/06/18 11:49 AM
3	Women telling us about our penises.. fucking "men's health" Wow, it sounds just as stupid when you flip the genders.	/r/MensRights	25/06/18 11:46 AM
1	Why Women DESTROY NATIONS * / CIVILIZATIONS - and other UNCOMFORTABLE TR... That will teach me to watch the video, rather than just glancing at the poster's history. I guess he's a tradcon mgtow. Didn't know that was a thing.	/r/MensRights	25/06/18 11:40 AM
5	Going through a divorce, she has a restraining order, and I see the kids regularly but I found out from one of them that they may have moved without telling me. No problem. I'm sorry for your trouble. Restraining orders are highly overused during divorce proceedings.	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 05:58 PM
21	Going through a divorce, she has a restraining order, and I see the kids regularly but I found out from one of them that they may have moved without telling me. Asking your boys where they have been, who they have seen, et cetera, is an excellent way to get that restraining order expanded to include them. Ask YOUR LAWYER to inquire of HER LAWYER if there has been a change of address. Have your lawyer specify IN WRITING that the sole purpose of the inquiry is to avoid an unintentional violation of the court's order. Ask for a five-block radius to avoid.	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 05:17 PM
2	Why Women DESTROY NATIONS * / CIVILIZATIONS - and other UNCOMFORTABLE TR... Why is r/MGTOW leaking so badly this week?	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 05:08 PM
3	I work in tech and have never had a male boss When you've had the same problem with a sucession of different people, you need to consider whether or not your own behavior is a contributing factor. Your contempt for your bosses is clear in this post, perhaps they have picked up on it IRL?	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 11:03 AM
1	Is it boys and their toys? Thermostats, Locks and Lights: Digital Tools of Domestic Abuse the latest caceral feminism moral panic We've been installing NEST around the house, and it has occured to both of us exactly how much an asshole partner/ex could fuck with you if they were the only one familiar with the system. Spying included. Very creepy. But rather than harping on the fact (not in dispute) that abusers act abusively, why not link people to resources for addressing the problem?	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 10:37 AM
1	Conversations with the wife You've made no case. You've shared your belief that people who respond illogically to information that contradicts an ingrained belief "can't be smart" and that this is some sort of predominantly female trait. I have shared my belief that an initially illogical response to having a culturally ingrained notion challenged is a common human trait and not indicative of a lack of intelligence. I'm not disagreeing with you because I am a woman. I'm disagreeing with you because your opinion doesn't squ…	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 09:56 AM
3	Would you accept Legal Parental Surrender for Men, if it meant not having Automatic Custody Rights for Fathers? This is the tough question. Does impregnating a woman, in the absence of any other legal or social tie, create an essential relationship with the resulting child? If so, biological paternity matters greatly and LPS is wrong, because your kid is your kid and they need you, and abandoning them would hurt them. If not, then single men chasing down ex-partners and demanding custody of their babies is wrong, because our society has decided that biological fathers are not immutably tied to their offsp…	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 01:56 AM
1	Conversations with the wife I honestly thought the redpill sub had also been banned. If you got some sort of incel insinuation from my post, it was 100% projection. That's textbook insecure behavior, but neither feminine or masculine. Human beings are universally prone to insecurity.	/r/MensRights	24/06/18 01:40 AM
3	The Equal Rights Amendment is dead. It should stay that way. Paywall.	/r/MensRights	23/06/18 02:08 PM
18	Notice the Problem Is The Female in This Story I have read several articles that included direct quotes from this father. I honestly don't get the impression that he feels his child was maliciously stolen from him. I get the impression that he hopes his child is permitted to immigrate to the USA. He wasn't willing to undertake the journey himself, but understands his girlfriend's choice to do so.	/r/MensRights	23/06/18 02:07 PM
3	Centrist party in Sweden advocating for the male right to "abort" responsibility of a baby That would probably prevent a lot of pain and suffering all around. Not that you have to marry every person you have sex with, but if they are blatantly unqualified as a life partner right out of the gate, why (particularly if you are a man) give them such power to alter your life?	/r/MensRights	23/06/18 11:07 AM
1	Conversations with the wife Well, just for starters, I have noticed that the world is chock full of people whose apparent intelligence does not prevent them from being grossly illogical (at least initially) when an issue comes up that challenges their socialized beliefs. Men, women, old, young, liberal, conservative - this is a human trait. I'm honestly sorry that they closed down your sub, but you can't have this one. The redpill agenda and the MRA agenda are fundamentally at odds. Take it elsewhere. Voat?	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 08:35 PM
5	My Body My Choice is a fucking joke. Oh. My. God. ETA: All right, all right, it's a complete jerk move just to laugh at you without explaining. Eggs travel from one of the ovaries (typically alternating monthly) through a Fallopian tube, into the uterus. If they encounter spermatoza in either the tube or the uterus, they may become fertilized. If fertilized, they may implant into the uterine wall. If implanted, they may begin to develop into embryos. At no point does a human ovum get anywhere near the barrier contraceptive method k…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 08:15 PM
-1	My Body My Choice is a fucking joke. Thankfully, he's a Mexican national and nationalist, and will not be joining us up North.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 06:15 PM
0	Where is the outrage about my kids and I being separated? People who are doing well in the countries of their birth, and intend to stay there, really have no stake in the United States immigration debate either way. Why not focus on maintaining your own borders, if you are so offended by illegal crossings? We're currently dealing with tens of thousands of Central American migrants who were neither deported nor processed as refugees or asylum-seekers by the Mexican government. If you're concerned about strained relationships with your neighbor to the no…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 03:30 PM
1	Where is the outrage about my kids and I being separated? Oh, are you the special lucky boy of parents who immigrated legally many years before the current crisis? Or just some gonif who goes through the border all the time on business and enjoys spreading disinformation about what's happening there? The people who want/need to enter the US now are not less human, less good, or less worthy than your own immigrant relatives (or mine). They certainly are not "traitors." Get a grip.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 03:04 PM
-1	My Body My Choice is a fucking joke. Read his recent post history, wherein fetuses are human beings, and the termination of an unwanted pregnancy is an "atrocity" - while actual human beings, commiting the misdemeanor offense of crossing our border illegally, are "traitors" who deserve to have their children (actual children) taken away. He has no well thought-out or consistent argument, and has displayed no character. He does provide a pretty stark example of the fallibility of our immigration system, though. The government made a…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 02:56 PM
-2	My Body My Choice is a fucking joke. He hates other immigrants and luuuuuuurves embryos. This guy is the whole package.	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 10:52 AM
21	My Body My Choice is a fucking joke. I agree with your central point, but DAMN I'd like to see you make a sketch of the female anatomy. LMFAO	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 10:51 AM
9	The video of a small child crying as she is being "taken from her mother" is a complete falsification. The child and mother have remained together the entire time. However the mother did take the child away from Honduras without the father's approval, and the father never even got to say goodbye. It is extremely difficult to enter the US legally with the right to work unless you have a sponsor. I have a cousin by marriage, white guy with a college degree, who spent years being denied for no reason anybody could fathom, and was not put on track for permanent residency until he married a citizen. For him, it was an inconvenience - he had to keep working in the EU and toss a bunch of money at lawyers. For a Central American peasant, legal immigration to the US is essentially impossible in m…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 10:46 AM
1	Where is the outrage about my kids and I being separated? Nobody is quicker to dehumanize the current wave of immigrants than the previous wave. Your family got what they needed, slam the gates, all of the people who matter to you personally are safe or dead! It's an eteneral feature of American politics, and it's pathetic. Our ports of entry ARE turning asylum-seekers away without so much as an interview to assess their situations. As long as we continue to do that, we'll have people committing the misdemeanor offense of crossing our border illegally.…	/r/MensRights	22/06/18 10:01 AM
10	Conversations with the wife Actually, you've both got the wrong idea. Little girls AND little boys are entirely safe in public restrooms if supervised by a competent adult. The men's restroom IS "the safest choice" for your daughter when you are taking her to the bathroom and cannot find a unisex family facility - because the men's room is where you are socially expected to be, and where you will not be distracted by other adults as you fulfill your responsibility to supervise your child. I'd leave out the other hypothetic…	/r/MensRights	21/06/18 09:11 AM
-3	Conversations with the wife ... says the terper.	/r/MensRights	21/06/18 08:58 AM
9	Women in Queensland now have precedent to have a child with the extracted sperm of their dead partner without prior consent. I think that's a different case. In this case, the dead man's parents support the girlfriend in her posthumous pregnancy. I believe that all three of these people are truly grieving and want something of their loved on to live on. But still, NO. He committed suicide and left no objectivobjectively verifiable statement of consent or desire to reproduce. He was not killed in an accident while in the midst of fertility treatments with his wife. This was a ridiculous decision by the courts.	/r/MensRights	20/06/18 08:39 PM
4	Women in Queensland now have precedent to have a child with the extracted sperm of their dead partner without prior consent. It really is horrific. I am completely comfortable with my spouse owning my dead body, with being used as a vessel if I became braindead while pregnant, etc. I can see using already-frozen embryos or even extracting sperm if a husband died before his family was complete according to the plans he'd made in life. But holy shit, your girlfriend should not be able to raid your corpse.	/r/MensRights	20/06/18 08:34 PM
5	They cry for children separated from parents at the border (which parents could avoid by not illegally crossing it), but don’t care at all when our broken family court system separates thousands of powerless fathers from their children... 😥 I'm all for encouraging humane impulses wherever they occur.	/r/MensRights	20/06/18 07:41 PM
1	u/theothermod has left the building. That guy wasted his own time, don't apologize. Whatever his "real" degree is in, there was definitely no social-skills component.	/r/MensRights	18/06/18 11:39 AM
13	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. Fair enough. This was posted in the MensRights sub and is getting wider attention, so I wanted to make it very clear that MRAs do not advocate for forced birth.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 10:28 PM
55	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. MRAs advocate for legal paternal surrender, not forced gestation. Your body, your choice. You should not be forced to labor for 18 years to support a child you do not want. But at the same time, you have no power over what your former sex partner does with her body - she can end the pregnancy or continue it.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:55 PM
5	Disabled guys have it tougher than women I'm married, so I won't be fucking this guy - but he does not strike me as the kind of man who can happily patronize hookers as a substitute for a real relationship.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:50 PM
133	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. It's just you. MRAs advocate for legal paternal surrender, not forced abortions.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:44 PM
8	Happy Father’s Day! Thought you all would like this. Well said.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:42 PM
7	Sexism in marching band... This was totally unfair, and needs to be reported to the principal. Either everybody gets a single-sex changing area or nobody does. As a self-preserving measure in case your school does not resolve this issue before you are back on that bus, wear a T-shirt and boxer shorts under your marching band uniform the next time you travel, and bring gym shorts that pull on quickly. Share this advice with any other bandmates who ended up exposing themselves while changing. My son has to change in a coed …	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 11:03 AM
1	Cambridge teacher wears 'feminist fashion' to work. If a straight white man showed up like this, he would absolutely be fired for sexual harassment. Double standards. LOL, that was my first thought. I literally could not care less what the Cambridge fellows wear to their banquets, but I momentarily cringed at the idea of what the Adonis-like acolytes of the New American Prudery would say about her body. It's a lovely body, but not model-thin.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:16 AM
2	How much should women who expose themselves be allowed to creep shame? Not to mention, the cops wouldn't do anything and would be irritated with you for wasting their time. Most harassment (sexual and otherwise) doesn't rise to the level of a crime. It is always very unpleasant and can be very scary, but essentially, it's a social aberration that requires a social correction - what OP is calling "creep shaming" and I think of as "a sharp set-down."	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 09:10 AM
1	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws I DID like your post. It's an important topic that most Westerners don't know anything about unless they have family or close friends who have pursued marriage in India as an NRI. And even then they might not know, because most of those marriages result in the Indian spouse emigrating and any problems in the marriage being adjudicated by the court system in the NRI spouse's home country. What I didn't like was your refusal to discuss something you had decided to contribute. If you just want to w…	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 08:57 AM
1	Asperger's Software Coder Gets Fired By Empowered STEM Grrls -- “caught him reading an MRA site” See my reply to /u/Lethn above.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 02:39 AM
1	Asperger's Software Coder Gets Fired By Empowered STEM Grrls -- “caught him reading an MRA site” It's not an objective fact, it's an opinion that is very unlikely to be true (i.e., all of the women in this field are almost certainly not hired only to fulfill quotas). But the truth or untruth, reasonableness or unreasonableness, of this man's politics is not really the issue. He could be a Nazi on the internet and still employed at a kosher delicatessen, if he had protected his anonymity. Instead, spouted this crap on company time and got caught. HR's job is to protect the company from lawsu…	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 02:38 AM
1	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws If you don't want to discuss your ideas, don't post them here.	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 09:10 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws Thank you for the links. When you post on a public forum, you can expect to hear from other regular posters to that forum. You'll hear from me again the next time you post a topic that I'm interested in. Feel free to stick your fingers in your ears and chant nyah nyah I can't hear you if my questions make you uncomfortable or somehow complicate your worldview :-)	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 07:37 PM
2	I just finished “The Red Pill” and I just want to post this to solidify that I am no longer a feminist. It does get better over time. I lost some friends over our diverging gender politics and it was very painful, but over the long term, I am much happier not being close to people who think that society is arrayed against them when it just isn't. Being a victim is fucking exhausting.	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 07:23 PM
1	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws Of course. I thought you posted this article because you were interested in the topic of Indian family law, and might have some ideas to share. If you think this legislation is flawed apart from the passport-revocation aspect, I'd like to hear why.	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 07:16 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws This is a men's rights discussion board, not your therapist or your personal diary.	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 05:03 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws Are you going to answer my question, or do you just want to whine?	/r/MensRights	16/06/18 04:14 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws Nobody's debating. I'm asking you to tell me in what ways you think this law would be abused, and what alternative legislation you propose to reduce the possibility of such abuses. Women and men are both capable of abusing the laws, which is why it can be so difficult to write laws that will do more good than harm.	/r/MensRights	15/06/18 09:17 PM
-15	Asperger's Software Coder Gets Fired By Empowered STEM Grrls -- “caught him reading an MRA site” If you are at your job, using your work computer, posting on the internet about how the women/men/blacks/gays/Asians/goblins in your field only get hired to fulfill diversity quotas, and you get caught, HR is right to fire you. You are a liability.	/r/MensRights	15/06/18 06:03 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws Do you mean "lack of concern?" I'm somewhat familiar with the various abuses made possible by Indian family law, but in this specific case, I do not see what else the court system could do to resolve cases where one spouse is an NRI and refuses to return home to appear in court. The marriage must be dissolved and the marital property assigned. As I said, I think revoking the passports of NRIs for failure to appear in a civil case is excessive.	/r/MensRights	15/06/18 05:56 PM
0	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws I'm not debating, I am sincerely asking how you would manage it differently. Obviously, nobody wants a person with dual citizenship to get married, flee the country and refuse to deal with their legal affairs in the country that they have fled. But it happens everywhere. How should the court system respond when a citizen appears before them seeking to dissolve a marriage on the grounds of abandonment?	/r/MensRights	15/06/18 03:03 PM
2	'Deserter' Non-Resident Indian husbands may soon lose assets, passports - aka "The Roads to Hell are Paved with Good Intentions" Laws How would you suggest dealing with nonresident Indians who refuse to obey court summons? Granting the divorce in absentia and awarding the marital property to the spouse who appears in court is what happens in America when one spouse leaves the country and will not return to participate in the divorce proceedings. What else can you do? Revoking the passports of nonresident dual citizens is a bridge too far, I agree. Your misbehavior in your marital relationship has nothing to do with your citize…	/r/MensRights	15/06/18 10:58 AM
2	Russia 1959 – The Country Where Women Had Equal Rights with Men. I have not seen much evidence that women in the West want this sort of equality. I don't know anybody who wants to work like a Russian peasant.	/r/MensRights	14/06/18 12:35 AM
1	The WRONG Way To Deal With The Incel Phenomenon (And Ideas For A Better Way) This is the most balanced examination of the incel phenomenon that I have ever read. Who says romance novelists don't understand real-world sexuality? Thank you, Jack!	/r/MensRights	11/06/18 12:53 PM
1	18F had consensual sex with 40M, she and her mother regrets afterwards. Thread is full of cancer: call for violence, labelling as pedophile and all ways to ruin man's life If the (at the time) child did initiate all of this due to issues stemming from her parents' divorce, and the teacher was receptive, that's about a million times worse. Vulnerable students are not potential sexual partners.	/r/MensRights	11/06/18 12:05 PM
5	18F had consensual sex with 40M, she and her mother regrets afterwards. Thread is full of cancer: call for violence, labelling as pedophile and all ways to ruin man's life These comments are equally full of cancer, in the opposite direction. Obviously nobody should commit an act of violence, but the OP's plan is entirely appropriate - inform the school district of the affair, take her daughter out of town for a bit, and let Dad make contact with Mr. Smith and his wife. What happened was maybe not illegal (depends on the girl's age when the sexual relationship started), but this man has exhibited a fundamental lack of integrity as both a teacher and a husband. The …	/r/MensRights	11/06/18 12:02 PM
1	Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringe Got it. Thank you for clarifying. I thought the article was totally ridiculous.	/r/MensRights	09/06/18 05:03 PM
1	Are there any feminists telling men to man up and get married? I tell everybody who wants to have kids to establish a legally defined household with another adult and commit to maintaining that family unit unit at least until their children are grown up. Most people who share my values on this issue seem to choose marriage.	/r/MensRights	09/06/18 11:17 AM
3	What can an underage female living in an extremely feministic society do to help? Hi! I have sons your age. Other people have already given lots of good advice, but I'd add this: be a real friend to boys. Be a safe person for them to express their feelings to. Put time and energy into non-romantic relationships with members of the opposite sex, and don't stop doing that when you meet your life partner and have your children. Many men, even very happily married men, do not develop/maintain close emotional ties to other adults apart from their parents and their wives, and the l…	/r/MensRights	09/06/18 10:59 AM
1	Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringe Absolutely.	/r/MensRights	09/06/18 02:58 AM
2	Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringe I understand that the people in your department who are rational actors with regard to your broken vacation system are women. Rather than being angry at them for doing what is required to get vacation requests approved, why not 1) address the flaws in the system or 2) fill out your own damn form in advance and submit it as soon as the window opens? I hate this particular method of vacation assignment, but I know a lot of people, male and female, whose companies do it this way. Those who need to …	/r/MensRights	09/06/18 02:57 AM
1	Is this society making men less motivated? Total sexual liberation means that a large portion of men will wind up ostracized and that's a massive problem. That's a very useful distinction. There has always been a largish slice of poor and working-class men not selected for marriage, but the absence of any durable social institution outside of courtship/marriage/fatherhood is a new problem. Everybody needs to feel invested in something.	/r/MensRights	08/06/18 12:09 AM
1	Is this society making men less motivated? It's a choice for everybody, you just realized that and took responsibility for your choice and its consequences.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 11:56 PM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. Did the poor widdle boy just find out about culturally defective white people? Somehow I doubt it.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 08:20 PM
32	Unbelievable. You just can't make this stuff up. Found in r/cringe You have an HR problem, not a woman problem. Talk to HR and tell them that first-past-the-post vacation reservations are not working.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 07:17 PM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. My statement is that you are a touchy little asshole with a chip on your shoulder about your cherished whiteness. Pretending that white trash doesn't exist is painfully stupid. The evidence surrounds you. White people aren't lesser human beings, but we're not exempt from mass cultural collapse, either. Visit Appalachia and then tell me that I'm wrong.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 07:14 PM
1	Norwegian female researcher discovers why so many middle-aged men are now childless in Norway, and the size of this forever-alone group is increasing steadily (now at approx. 25% of the population) Feels before reals? Not helpful in most scenarios. Certainly not helpful to men who are trying to find constructive and self-affirming ways to cope with not being selected for reproduction.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 07:20 AM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. I wouldn't make any sort of racial reference about a group I didn't belong to. That's just rude. But yes, worthless trash exists in every variety of human. I'm sorry if that offends your delicate feelings about your cherished whiteness.	/r/MensRights	07/06/18 07:16 AM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. I support honesty. Some people are worthless white trash, and it's not an insult to all white people to speak plainly about that. I have also been known to tell another Jewish woman to "stop acting like such a fucking JAP" when she was, in fact, acting like such a fucking JAP.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 04:59 PM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. whitenesssofragile	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 03:44 PM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. I see no point in pretending that there are not particular types of socially unacceptable behavior associated primarily with my race. If it bothers you, though, just think of this woman as "trash."	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 01:36 PM
1	Catholic women speak up about #MeToo movement and consequences of the sexual revolution Mary Anne Layden of the University of Pennsylvania warned of the culture of porn and the violent "sexual tsunami" coming out of this. "Sexual Tsunami" is a great title for a porno.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 09:59 AM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. I suppose we could just call this woman "trash" or "hyperentitled trash" or "vindictive hyperentitled trash," but I think that the ethnic reference adds another level of meaning. Pennsyltucky culture is broken in a very particular way. We could say "hillbilly," I guess, if the explicit reference to whiteness triggers you.	/r/MensRights	06/06/18 01:19 AM
0	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. I have an insistence on differentiating between white trash gossip and actual, demonstrable guilt. This stance generally benefits males more than females, because males are the group most often victimized by unsubstantiated allegations of sexual impropriety. If a parent with an axe to grind had told that cheer coach that a male student was "a rapist" and must not touch her precious princess, I would expect the cheer coach to tell her that princess wasn't welcome on the team.	/r/MensRights	05/06/18 12:41 AM
1	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. Any reason under the sun. If you think somebody or something is worth avoiding, then YOU do the avoiding.	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 09:17 PM
-2	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. You're projecting a lot of assumptions about this situation that I'm not making either way. It actually sounds like the girls were among many tumbling class participants interviewed as part of an investigation, rather than the initiators of an accusation, but that's irrelevant. If you don't want your child associating with another child, for any reason under the sun, then you do not enroll your child in activities with them. Normal people know this. They understand that their right to free assoc…	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 07:15 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I have been assigned a male nurse on three separate occasions, and have had intimate care provided by them. It is utterly normal for male nurses to be assigned to female patients.	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 12:13 PM
-1	High school male cheerleader didn't want to touch two female cheerleaders that had made past sexual assault allegations, and they ran to the news because of it. "I went to the superintendent and said, ‘I don’t understand what the problem is because my son shouldn’t have to be benched because I don’t want him to be touching these girls.'” This boy's mother may be the dumbest person alive. She knows that two members of her extended family were allegedly molested as children, by a grown man. Years later, when these girls are young teenagers on the cheer squad, she decides she doesn't want her son to touch them. Instead of telling her son to choose a differ…	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 12:04 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I don't know how many times I need to explain to you that it is utterly normal for male nurses to be assigned to female patients. There must certainly be women who complain about it when it happens (just as white patients sometimes complain about being assigned nonwhite nurses or doctors, the assholery of the human race is truly boundless), but I have never met a woman in real life who told me that she had refused care from a nurse on the basis of his sex. I've run into a few women on the intern…	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 11:51 AM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Somebody who forthrightly disagrees with you and explains, repeatedly and in detail, how their own life experiences have caused them to take an opposing position on a social issue, is not exercising any sort of cunning, deceit, or manipulation. If that's the lens through which you view women, that's your own baggage and I'll thank you not to dump it on me. Your nurses in hospital would be similarly grateful not to have your emotional baggage dumped on THEM. If you need to be hospitalized in futu…	/r/MensRights	31/05/18 12:02 PM
1	Wife agreeing to a postnup to ease my fears - how can I ensure it has the highest chance of being respected if one day it comes to that? Yes. You could create a trust to be accessed by your spouse in the event of divorce in lieu of ongoing alimony payments. You could put your marital home in trust. You could ask your parents (and/or her parents, who ever you expect to inherit from) to leave their estate to your kids with you (or her) as the trustee, rather than making the inheritance a marital asset. I'm no expert on trusts, though. Lawyer.	/r/MensRights	30/05/18 07:35 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. If you've not directly experienced or observed something, it must not be true? Get over yourself, snowflake. The world is a lot bigger than your tiny individual experience. Please don't subject medical professionals to gender discrimination. Also, PLEASE LOOK UP THE MEANING OF THE WORD "SLY."	/r/MensRights	30/05/18 07:30 PM
2	Wife agreeing to a postnup to ease my fears - how can I ensure it has the highest chance of being respected if one day it comes to that? I understand your objective. You do not understand the full range of how trusts operate. Lawyer.	/r/MensRights	30/05/18 05:20 PM
4	Wife agreeing to a postnup to ease my fears - how can I ensure it has the highest chance of being respected if one day it comes to that? Oh boy. You need to go talk to lawyers.	/r/MensRights	30/05/18 04:52 PM
1	Why is there a subreddit against men's rights ? as ppl naturally prefer to live by reality than by smoke and mirrors. This has not been my experience.	/r/MensRights	29/05/18 11:22 PM
1	More anti male crap: Cyclists in London are too white, male and middle class, says bike tsar over the rise of 'Mamils'. Weird. I have only ever been to Kensington as a tourist, but they did not strike me as anti-cyclist. Rich and stuffy, yes.	/r/MensRights	29/05/18 09:49 PM
0	Diana Davison: In Defence of Morgan Freeman (4 min) I love Morgan Freeman's work. I has no expectation that he was a flawless human being, and have no intention of erasing him. But this analysis is bullshit. The backgrounds of these two people are not relevant. If any man, any age, any color, any level of "privilege," had looked my 6-months-pregnant body up and down and said any variation of "I wish I was in there," I truly believe I would have struck him (which would have been wrong, you should not hit people for verbal offenses) and then told t…	/r/MensRights	29/05/18 03:21 PM
9	More anti male crap: Cyclists in London are too white, male and middle class, says bike tsar over the rise of 'Mamils'. If the article wasn't complete shit, it would have pointed out that adding bike lanes. etc. in certain parts of the city primarily benefits the existing cycling demographic, and that expanding the cycling infrastructure to other areas might encourage wider adoption of cycling - which is the goal. But if you just said that, without this degrading "Mamil" bit, then the story would not be very compelling, because nobody remotely disagrees with the idea of adding more bike lanes and encouraging more…	/r/MensRights	29/05/18 03:09 PM
1	Would anyone be interested in a non-reddit forum with free speech? It's a good question. Any uncensored forum will attract some people like that, but Voat really is a hotbed. Perhaps because there are so many European users?	/r/MensRights	28/05/18 04:07 PM
3	Would anyone be interested in a non-reddit forum with free speech? Voat is pretty seriously Jew-hating. I approve of uncensored forums, but that's not something I can wade through on a daily basis.	/r/MensRights	28/05/18 04:01 PM
2	Morgan Freeman. What's wrong with sexually suggestive comments. When I see a beautiful woman what I think in my head is "oh, god damn". But there is a filter between my brain and my mouth. I hate being untrue to myself and not saying anything. The brain-mouth filter is not a bad thing. In our current social climate, Becky from accounting could subject you to vigorous unwanted advances whereas you are expected not to harass her, and that's unfair. But just as your social filter reminds you not to tell Becky that she is ugly, or that you disagree with her reli…	/r/MensRights	25/05/18 05:25 PM
2	Morgan Freeman. What's wrong with sexually suggestive comments. They never specify where it is ok to make sexually suggestive comments btw, it seems you can't make them anywhere. Except to your girlfriend or wife in private. That's a pretty good guideline. Make sexually suggestive comments to your sexual partner when you can't be overheard by others. Do not make them at work. And actors at a press junket are definitely at work. They are promoting their movie as specified in their contract. I adore Morgan Freeman's films. I knew his boundaries were pretty shi…	/r/MensRights	25/05/18 11:45 AM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I address this issue wherever it comes up, and it happened to come up here.	/r/MensRights	25/05/18 11:33 AM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Yes. By me. Equality, baby.	/r/MensRights	24/05/18 11:59 PM
5	Awesome reminder that men have fewer outlets than women. Be honest, the men who are trafficked for labor cannot be reached via posters in public restrooms. It's not a lesser problem, but it is a different problem.	/r/MensRights	24/05/18 02:02 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I answered your questions repeatedly. Apparently a list format was required to overcome your limited reading skills. Again, I encourage you to look up the definition of the word "sly." Male nurses are most certainly assigned to female patients, just as female nurses are assigned to male patients. Have you ever been a patient in a hospital? Female nurses are the majority, but male nurses are not actually all that rare these days. Any patient of either sex who refuses care based on nothing but the…	/r/MensRights	24/05/18 01:18 PM
2	Cultural appropriation You didn't ask politely ;-) (This is all just a joke to me, I hope that's clear.)	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 06:24 PM
2	Cultural appropriation Only if your last name is Bator.	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 03:57 PM
1	Canada: New divorce laws coming. I think we can be quite confident given who our Prime Minister is that there won't be good news in this for men. Article skinny on details. What can we do? I am encouraged by some of the language in the article. But it's all in how the law is applied...	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 12:58 PM
1	Canada: New divorce laws coming. I think we can be quite confident given who our Prime Minister is that there won't be good news in this for men. Article skinny on details. What can we do? Stay safe, and alone, and be a genetic dead end. I can understand the argument against legal marriage under the current system, but this seems excessive. Like cutting off your own leg to avoid the risk of an involuntary amputation.	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 12:57 PM
2	Cultural appropriation Well, whatever you do, don't call a person "it." That's just escalating the stupidity. I'll use variant pronouns when asked, if I remember. I've never had the experience of somebody asking me to buy into their squirrel delusion, and I hope I never do.	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 11:40 AM
5	Cultural appropriation That's not what cultural appropriation is. I think cultural appropriation is a bullshit concept, but that doesn't even meet their own bullshit definition. When a person who identifies themselves as "they" speaks, refer to them as "they" (not "it") and get on with your life. This dumbass trend will pass. There will always be a small number of people who truly suffer from body dysmorphic disorder, but the thousands of young idiots who are perfectly typical in mind and body and doing this genderflu…	/r/MensRights	23/05/18 10:57 AM
1	Deployed soldier's wife gives away baby after birth, lies to husband saying it died No excuses intended. When a woman does this for any reasons other than concealing a rape or avoiding further contact with a violent man, it's a absolutely despicable. And even when I can sympathize with her predicament, it's still my job to find out who the father is if I possibly can.	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 05:27 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. You have got to look up the word "sly." I've answered all your questions directly several times. To reiterate: Yes, I have been assigned male nurses in hospital. Yes, they have touched my genitals. I've never had a bed bath from a nurse of either sex, but I have had a catheter removed and my vaginal sutures examined by a male nurse. Yes, I would (and do) say to women that it is sexist and neurotic to object to receiving care from a male nurse. "Expertise" is not a quality confined to doctors. Nu…	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 03:09 PM
2	Deployed soldier's wife gives away baby after birth, lies to husband saying it died I couldn't agree more - but by the time I get involved, the sex has been had, and what's left to do is figure out if either or both of the parents are actively dangerous. When it comes to the violent ones, I don't see a lot of outright rape, but I DO see a lot of very young moms who entered into relationships with much older men - another thing grandma used to put a stop to.	/r/MensRights	21/05/18 10:57 AM
1	Sexual Assault Is A Matter of Course In Judaism Hating MGM hasn't somehow made me love Nazis.	/r/MensRights	20/05/18 09:34 PM
84	Deployed soldier's wife gives away baby after birth, lies to husband saying it died In my experience in family court, women almost always have a very good idea of who has gotten them pregnant, even if they were promiscuous around the time of conception. If they won't tell the courts who the guy was, there is a compelling reason. Sometimes it's a very self-centered reason (the guy is their sister's husband and they don't want trouble with their family) and sometimes it's a very child-centered reason (the guy is violent).	/r/MensRights	20/05/18 08:55 PM
6	At the veggie grill. Only two bathrooms available. I've seen a similar setup in many small businesses - a unisex/family single bathroom and a ladies' with several stalls. It's probably not what I would choose to do as a business owner, but it's also not a fictional notion that women's facilities are often in higher demand. I've never been to a theater that didn't have a larger women's room than men's room, and that reflects the demographics of their audience. I don't get pissed off about it as long as everybody has a place to use the facilities …	/r/MensRights	19/05/18 12:00 PM
0	National paper uses photo of man in NAZI tshirt to represent Mens Rights & describes us, & Jordan Pieterson, as 'White male maggots/victims/Nazis/crying/toxic/ whiny/Incels/terrorists/failures/rotting bodies'... Then recall YESTERDAY how a poster claimed WE are the ones who are too angry/bitter.. Bingo. Charismatic figures from all over the sociopolitical spectrum have monetized their Internet following and built up armies of supporters who are waaaaaaaaaay invested in their particular worldview. Would I rather deal with a Peterson acolyte than an Infowars fan or one of Spencer's white knights? Yes, obviously. Peterson doesn't deserve to be mentioned in the same breath as Alex Jones. But total immersion in any victimhood ideology makes me nervous. People who have convinced themselves tha…	/r/MensRights	19/05/18 11:53 AM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. You are really doing some mental gymnastics here..I've explained this clearly several times, but I'll give it another shot: Women choose their OB/GYNs. There are many female obstetricians, we don't select a male doctor out of necessity. I have personally selected four male obstetricians to handle childbirth, well-woman care, and a minor surgical procedure. I've also sought care from a couple of midwives. They all put their hands on me in ways that you'd probably faint to contemplate. It did not …	/r/MensRights	19/05/18 11:22 AM
1	Arizona soldier stationed in South Korea discovers his wife 'SOLD' their newborn son to another couple after telling him the baby DIED in childbirth to cover up the fact he was NOT the real father The Family Court may well agree with you. Or they may decide the situation is such a clusterfuck that the child is better off being adopted by a waiting family.	/r/MensRights	18/05/18 03:24 PM
16	Arizona soldier stationed in South Korea discovers his wife 'SOLD' their newborn son to another couple after telling him the baby DIED in childbirth to cover up the fact he was NOT the real father No disrespect to the legal father, who is being very decent about all this, but hadn't they better attempt to identify the biological father? This child may have an entire paternal-line family who are also decent people and are willing to take him in.	/r/MensRights	18/05/18 11:34 AM
2	Tiny houses being built in Seattle for the homeless! One catch, though, this new site is women only. Full disclosure, this is the 8th site, but the only one that is gender specific. I'm surprised it's only 64.6% percent. I would have guessed 80 or 90 percent. The majority of shelter beds in Seattle are designated for men, which makes sense - but I'm not sure that a regular shelter qualifies as a "homeless solution." It's better than freezing to death. When it comes to private charities, I don't feel entitled to tell them how to direct their efforts. But single-sex homelessness solution bother me in general, because they break up kinship arrangements that vulnerable people o…	/r/MensRights	17/05/18 05:34 PM
2	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I did not mean to be evasive - let me try again. In situations like this one at the dermatologist's office, choice exists on both sides. The practice can "fire" a patient, the patient can "fire" the practice. If an individual practice allows patients to request same-sex or same-race providers, I'm fine with it. If their policy is to terminate their relationship with a patient who discriminates on the basis of sex or race, I'm equally fine with that. A hospital situation is different. The patient…	/r/MensRights	17/05/18 03:20 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. This poster had a choice. He chose to undergo the examination. The answer to "what else am I going to do?" is obvious. He could have told two medical professionals that he did not want them to see his genitals because they were female, and rescheduled his checkup. If the embarrassment of doing that seemed greater than the embarrassment of being examined by a dermatologic nurse practitioner and her assistant, then I think society is sending the right messages about the difference between medical …	/r/MensRights	17/05/18 12:28 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. It's pretty clear that you have very little experience with being hospitalized for a condition that involves your genital region. That's reasonable, you've never had a baby. But rather than accuse me of lying or being "sly," why not consider that your ideas might not align with reality? You are seriously misinformed on several points. Obstetric examinations are in every way as intimate and invasive as the related nursing care. They put their hands up inside you. They place and remove stitches in…	/r/MensRights	17/05/18 12:19 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Have. Not a problem.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 10:46 PM
-4	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Only for you. She had absolutely no interest in your pee-pee beyond making sure that it was free of STDs.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 10:45 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Knowing that you shouldn't be bothered is the first step.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 10:43 PM
2	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Nope, meaning male nurses and techs as well as doctors. Although I do not make the distinction that you make - I do not regard doctors as lofty beings somehow above gender and nurses as earthy, gendered creatures who may not view or touch my lady bits unless they also have lady bits. Get over yourself, snowflake. Your assigned nurses, be they straight male, gay male, straight female, or gay female, have no prurient interest in your ailing carcass.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 10:41 PM
3	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. Can you read? I have accepted the entire range of nursing care, from dinner trays to catheter removal, from nurses of the opposite sex. I don't know if you are familiar with catheters, but I assure you, it makes a bed bath or a visual exam pale into insignificance. I have never been ill enough in adulthood to require a bed bath from anyone. Many of the care providers who have examined my genitals have been male. It didn't bother me, because I am able to distinguish between medical and social int…	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 09:11 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. It's a very complex issue. I wouldn't feel morally comfortable telling my male nurse that he could not manage my cath, etc., solely because he was male. I'm not going to screw up his whole shift to accommodate my neuroses. But my genital suture removal has always been done by a care provider of my choice. I do not choose these people on the basis of their sex, but I can see how it would be reasonable to do so if you were willing and able to wait until a same-sex provider was available.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 09:06 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I do have more sympathy for that scenario than for people who refuse care based on the race of the provider. But you also were not in hospital, had not been assigned to a nurse, and were making a request in advance that could be accommodated without screwing up the entire shift. That seems very different to me.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 06:37 PM
2	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I'm not avoiding anything. Because I am not a moron, I have accepted the entire range of nursing care, from dinner trays to catheter removal, from nurses of the opposite sex. If you have an issue with the sex/race/whatever of your care provider in the hospital, that's your own personal problem to deal with. Don't screw up the ward schedule by acting like a snowflake.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 05:31 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. The same standards should always apply in such situations - but I want sane standards across the board. Increasing the scope of circumstances in which medical professionals are expected to tolerate discrimination is a step in the wrong direction.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 05:27 PM
1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I am absolutely prepared to tell hospital patients that they may not request a change in caregivers based on the race, sex, ethnicity or religion of the caregiver assigned to their case. If you are sick enough to be in hospital, you are too sick to be spewing that bullshit. Concentrate on getting better, not on what is between your nurse's legs. Selecting a personal physician or therapist is an entirely different matter - they're not obliged to take you on as a patient, and you can apply whateve…	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 03:59 PM
4	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I have had several male nurses in the course of my various births and other hospitalizations. Because I am not a moron, I did not regard it as humiliating to be cared for by a member of the opposite sex. Respect is a two-way street. Why not show the medical professional attending you the respect of understanding that the contact between you is not sexual? There is definitely a problem with coddling neurotic, entitled women who disrespect male doctors and nurses by reducing them to their genitals…	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 03:52 PM
-1	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I have had several male nurses in the course of my various births and other hospitalizations. Because I am not a moron, I did not regard it as humiliating to be cared for by a member of the opposite sex.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 03:48 PM
3	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. The only way for male medical staff to be equally valuable as female staff is for men to request male staff for intimate procedures. Really? The only way is for the general population to start behaving in a completely arse-backwards manner towards medical professionals? My gynecologist is a man. I have seen women in hijabs in his waiting room. I don't deny that there are religious idiots out there who fail to distinguish between medical and social contact, but I certainly don't intend to sink to…	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 11:52 AM
17	Men should request male medical staff at the doctors surgery and in hospital. Females are nearly always offered female medical staff. Male nurse: 'I was told to become a brickie'. "There's a gender imbalance - and that's not good for patients. I cannot imagine refusing the care of my assigned nurse base on their sex/race/ethnicity. The hospital is no place to play at identity politics. Now, indicating on my exit evaluation that I'd like to see more male nurses and techs? Can do, have done. But I'm not throwing a wrench into a busy shift and insulting the nurse assigned to me to make some sort of rhetorical point.	/r/MensRights	16/05/18 11:38 AM
6	I just filed for custody of my child. Men who've been through this, what advice can you give me? YOU NEED A GUARDIAN AD LITEM. Ask the judge to appoint one. YOU NEED A LAWYER AT THIS HEARING. If your lawyer doesn't think s/he needs to be there, you have an idiot for a lawyer. The judge literally could not care less about your ex's love life. You are not married, she is not cheating. Nor is the judge interested in your theories about your ex's mental health. What the judge needs to see is that you have been the primary caregiver for a significant period of time, and that you provide a safe a…	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 10:42 PM
3	This is the mentality that scares the shit out me as I jump back into the dating pool and talk to single mothers in these dating apps. This one sounds flat-out proud of it... We have three biokids and two adopted. There are some people who are very hung up on passing down their DNA, some who are neutral, and some who actively don't want to. We both wound up being neutral on the issue. It's an issue where reasonable people can disagree.	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 10:27 PM
1	Being married more important than to whom? Understood.	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 04:05 PM
1	Being married more important than to whom? How is this relevent to OP's question? I'm not insisting that you get married, just pointing out why smart women who want to be mothers do not waste their fertile years in relationships with men who don't want to be husbands.	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 02:17 PM
5	Being married more important than to whom? If you are a woman who wants to have children, wasting your fertile years in a relationship with somebody who doesn't share that goal is just stupid. In America, women (and men) who want the best outcomes for their children get married before they have them - legitimacy is a huge predictor of a child's future success. That may be less true in Germany, I wouldn't know.	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 08:28 AM
3	Norwegian female researcher discovers why so many middle-aged men are now childless in Norway, and the size of this forever-alone group is increasing steadily (now at approx. 25% of the population) I really don't mind hearing what you think. I'm a woman, yes, but I don't feel threatened by non-egalitarian ideas. I'm not seriously worried about having my civil rights taken away. ... it's not normal to have 25-35% (who knows when the rate of foreveralone stops increasing) of men as forever alone due to women's hypergamous tendencies. I think that might be normal. I'm not overjoyed by that thought, as I share your enthusiasm for pair bonding and have sons whom I hope will have children, but I…	/r/MensRights	15/05/18 12:27 AM
2	Norwegian female researcher discovers why so many middle-aged men are now childless in Norway, and the size of this forever-alone group is increasing steadily (now at approx. 25% of the population) I do want to know. Seriously. Both why you are convinced that there is a solvable problem here, and what kind of damage you'd be prepared to do to in order to create reproductive access for marginal males. I agree with Jensen's analysis and with the way you've framed it. 25% of the men in Sweden are not being selected for fatherhood. Is this a problem that needs any sort of a solution? What I know of human history tells me a significant population of males not selected for reproduction is a recu…	/r/MensRights	14/05/18 06:51 PM
2	Single women a burden, Japan MP says Wait, are you actually a white supremacist/separatist? I just figured you didn't mind being taken for one by leftists, which is a sentiment that I can sympathize with. I'm going to leave that bit alone, and leave you with this: you are absolutely correct that the commingling of cultures increases the probability of social conflict. What you're failing to see is that such conflicts are not the destroyers, but the creators, of human progress within a particular group. Insular cultures die out. Exp…	/r/MensRights	14/05/18 04:53 PM
3	Mother jailed after not paying guardian ad litem: Fathers are jailed for this too, and some GALs may be acting on illegal judicial instructions. I took a class on this as part of my ongoing training requirements. I decided to remain a volunteer GAL and stay away from divorces. I don't actually think that the laws (in my state) are unfair - you have to pay your lawyer and your GAL, the ultimate consequence of refusing to do so is prison, and everybody knows this. But I didn't want to be in a position where my clients' parents were paying me. I wish that we had some sort of national fund to compensate GALs at a reasonable rate, so that the…	/r/MensRights	14/05/18 11:28 AM
2	Surrogate mother is sued by gay father who claims she 'stole' his baby boy by barring him from birth and refusing to hand over the child when his partner who was in his 70s died He can petition the courts for shared custody, yes. He just can't expect the courts to enforce a contract that he knew was unenforceable when he signed it.	/r/MensRights	14/05/18 11:06 AM
3	Surrogate mother is sued by gay father who claims she 'stole' his baby boy by barring him from birth and refusing to hand over the child when his partner who was in his 70s died Of course. It's legal in the US. Don't you want to have the right to decide who is allowed in your hospital room?	/r/MensRights	14/05/18 11:04 AM
2	Single women a burden, Japan MP says All of those cultures have their roots in immigration and ethnic comingling, yes. Slavs, Danes, Celts, Angles, Gauls, Franks, Saxons, Visigoths... actually, the same is true in Japan, although it's a bit difficult for racists to notice since all Asians tend to look the same to them. Personally, I'd argue that none of those cultures are as sturdy as American culture these days. They've got glorious and fascinating pasts, but they aren't expanding anymore. Our approach to immigration may be the re…	/r/MensRights	13/05/18 10:52 AM
1	Single women a burden, Japan MP says I guess it would be less of an odd sentiment coming from a European. Immigration and the comingling of different ethnic groups created those cultures, too, but it happened long enough ago that racists can pretend it didn't.	/r/MensRights	12/05/18 05:10 PM
5	The mother who has watched 280 men die: For 12 years, Michelle was an official execution witness in Texas, America's death penalty capital. In a new book, she says killing murderers is right - but the US state lets off too many women Do you think the warden gets gina-tingles too, shithead? It was her job. She was paid for it. She believed that capital punishment was just and she was willing to work in the system that enacted it.	/r/MensRights	12/05/18 02:30 PM
1	Single women a burden, Japan MP says Again, a very odd sentiment for an American.	/r/MensRights	12/05/18 08:36 AM
5	Single women a burden, Japan MP says Racists do tend to die off. But no, I don't want Japanese culture to become extinct. I want it to become viable again. Whether they decide to breed or decide to start integrating significant numbers of gaijin, or both, makes no difference to me.	/r/MensRights	12/05/18 01:51 AM
1	Single women a burden, Japan MP says What an odd question for one American to ask another. Mass immigration built our country and keeps our population stable and our culture strong and adaptable even today. Would you rather have been born in Japan?	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 11:21 PM
7	Single women a burden, Japan MP says Mr Kato said that when he gives wedding speeches he tells the bride and bridegroom to produce at least three children. "We need three or more children from those people to make up for couples who cannot bear a child no matter what they do," he said. I'd be saying the same thing, or moving heaven and earth to change my country's insular and/culture and encourage immigration, if I were a Japanese politician these days. They need more people.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 07:54 PM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain Our limitations with respect to the educational pipeline for doctors are entirely self-imposed and correctable. The correction in this market will not happen overnight, but it's not some sort of fantastic dream either.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 03:55 PM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain I realize that you are coming from a sincere place here, but I think you fail to grasp the degree to which the scarcity of doctors is an artificially created situation. Even before women were significantly represented in the profession, the training bottleneck and the culture of overwork were serious issues. We (as a society) got away with it by assigning high social status to doctors, paying high wages to the senior members of the profession in partial recompense for prior and ongoing exploitat…	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 12:13 PM
3	Once again, no mention of rape because the teacher is female No. Drugging women without their consent and raping them has never been considered normal sexual behavior. People getting wasted together and screwing like rabbits has been normalized in various places at various times, but that's a vastly different undertaking and the difference is clear.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 11:20 AM
2	Women 'wanting to be as pure as possible again for their husbands' are fueling virginity-restoring operations on the NHS at a cost of £1,000 a time, figures reveal Same reason we (the US) do - they don't train enough doctors.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 11:16 AM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain It's a wakeup call, is what it is. It's always been easier to blame the segment of the workforce that is demanding better treatment than to demand better treatment oneself - but that's the way forward here.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 11:08 AM
2	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain Thank you. I can see how my scorn for the male-disposability framework could come across as scorn for the victims.	/r/MensRights	11/05/18 11:04 AM
4	Mormons cuts all ties with the Boy Scouts of America by the end of next year and place its remaining 425,000 boys into a gospel-focused youth program it is developing. BSA knew it was coming, yes. I think that female Scouts are their plan to make up for the Mormon Scouts they knew they would eventually lose when they accepted homosexual Scouts.	/r/MensRights	10/05/18 10:56 AM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain "Conspiracy" implies that people actually sat down and worked out a plan to extract the most labor at the lowest cost. That has certainly been true in some professions, but not medicine. The exploitation in the medical profession is more insidious - we convince trainees that they are super-smart, super-special, and owe it to humanity to behave more like a priest with a vocation than a highly trained specialist with a valuable skill set. A specialist negotiates fair pay and reasonable working hou…	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 06:29 PM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain We don't have a disagreement about gender issues, just about the nature of the medical profession. Residency does not need to be grueling in the way it currently is, nor does it have to be cruelly undercompensated, nor do fully trained doctors need to be chronically overworked. We do it this way because we can get away with it, not because it is necessary for people to be exploited to make them into good doctors. Blaming female doctors for refusing to be mistreated deflects attention from societ…	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 02:02 PM
0	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain Hospitals and medical schools need to get themselves into a position where they can produce enough doctors so that no doctor is overworked. The talent pool is there, and the expense of educating a doctor is more than justified by their lifetime output on a non-exploitative basis (40 hours/week). I see female doctors as the canary in the coal mine in this situation. They know the situation is for shit, and they have husbands bringing in household income, so they can get off the hamster wheel and …	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 12:06 PM
1	Michelle Wolf made a "conscious effort not to write any jokes about any woman's looks" but did make fun of Mitch McConnell's and Chris Christie's looks I prefer that comedians make fun of everybody's looks.	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 10:33 AM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain That's a very poetic way to justify exploitative labor practices. Doctors are not priests, nor poets, nor mad scientists. They are highly skilled professionals who have trained in a very interesting and important specialty - but it's a job. They are employees, not votaries. They should be able to work their 40 hours/week and participate in life outside their workplace.	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 10:24 AM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain I don't know how you could get that from what I said. No, obviously, the people who have been socialized to accept exploitation are not at fault. The buck stops with the general public, who could demand and get more medical training capacity if we were willing to pay for it. But it's cheaper and easier to overwork our healthcare providers.	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 10:19 AM
2	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain It's not a question of fault. I'm saying that I want the system to change and be less exploitative, not that I blame the people currently being exploited.	/r/MensRights	09/05/18 10:13 AM
4	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain ... like a good little slave. He would have worked himself into an early grave and missed out on raising his children, and been grateful for the opportunity, because his socialization taught him that his happiness did not matter and his life was disposable.	/r/MensRights	08/05/18 11:35 PM
1	When 61% of young doctors are female, the lack of professional commitment has become a big problem in Britain Artificial bottleneck. Training enough doctors so that all of them can have a decent work/life balance would cost money, whereas casting aspersions on female doctors who leverage their social privilege and decline to be worked like mules is free.	/r/MensRights	08/05/18 11:31 PM
3	Lower payouts put wives off divorce as fewer get meal tickets for life \| News I have had a front seat to a few of these negotiations. What I've noticed, among the middle-class people that I know, is that the separated couple realizes that they will both be poor as hell if they try to establish separate households, plus their anger cools, and they decide to try to make the marriage work again.	/r/MensRights	08/05/18 06:05 PM
1	So if there are more men its a problem, but more women is fine? Not really equality Think about everything you just said. You are defending a system that required objectively unreasonable sacrifices from you (years of income, for instance, and hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt). It's perfectly understandable that you would go through that experience and think of yourself as a picked man, three standard deviations above the mean, survivor of the trial by fire, etc. etc. The entire system is designed to inculcate that mindset. Doctors need to be smart and conscientous - an…	/r/MensRights	08/05/18 10:48 AM
3	So if there are more men its a problem, but more women is fine? Not really equality I can't speak for Canada, but in America, any pressure against the artificial bottleneck in medical training absolutely warrants a "woo." Our medical culture has deliberately created a small group of overworked people who are given near-godlike authority and get their jollies hazing their trainees. It's a broken system that leads to bad outcomes. These are human beings, not robots who can be worked to the point of failure and then discarded. Female doctors in America often have the social privil…	/r/MensRights	08/05/18 12:10 AM
3	I'm in love with a feminist, and we are going to watch The Red Pill at some point. I've never seen it. I need guidance. The wage gap issue is tough for a lot of people because it's objectively true that men earn more than women in the same demographic over the course of a lifetime. There IS a gap - but it's an earnings gap driven by the decisions women (and their partners) make about how to structure their lives, not a gap in what employers are willing to pay people based on their sex. I tend to start with people by saying "yes, the gap is real" and then talking about the reasons that I believe it exists, and the…	/r/MensRights	07/05/18 10:46 AM
2	An amazing amount of oblivious bias and hate towards men who marry younger women on display. Misleading title. There is a fairly large difference between marrying somebody younger than YOU and marrying somebody younger than YOUR CHILD. Both are legal, but the latter is rare and most people find it off-putting. I wonder why so many of the comments in that thread got deleted...	/r/MensRights	07/05/18 08:29 AM
14	Woman embezzled thousands, is about to be found out so kills husband and son because they wouldn’t be able to take care of themselves when she went to prison. You know, when I read about a terrible crime committed by a man, it doesn't even cross my mind to associate his anger, violence and obvious brokenness with every other man in our society.	/r/MensRights	07/05/18 08:20 AM
9	Finally - boys will be given potentially lifesaving HPV vaccine, Health Minister hints All healthcare is rationed healthcare. In the US, we ration it out by price.	/r/MensRights	06/05/18 12:21 PM
1	Hundreds of babies dying needlessly because of unhealthy lifestyle of mothers, study suggests "Editor reads article about study that strongly correlates poverty and social inequality with worsened health outcomes for children, decided that headline should excoriate individual mothers rather than highlight the UK's failure to address these structural social issues."	/r/MensRights	06/05/18 12:19 PM
2	The real reason why geeky men offend the church of feminism Wow, that author thinks her geeky shit don't stink.	/r/MensRights	06/05/18 11:58 AM
2	The Boy Scouts are dropping the word 'boy' from the name of their flagship program Well, I'm new to the BSA and only spent a year dealing with the GSA, so my experience is obviously limited. But the reason my girl is switching over is twofold: 1) not enough badgework of the type she is interested in and 2) all this "Girl Power" crap. It's not just cookies, but the offerings for summer camps and weekend events are fairly fucking girly - our current council runs a weeklong Spa camp but no weeklong survival skills camp, for example. This varies from region to region, and it's pos…	/r/MensRights	03/05/18 10:17 AM
5	The Boy Scouts are dropping the word 'boy' from the name of their flagship program Bingo. I was on the phone a few days ago with the BSA troop leader in the area where my daughter will be a Cub next year. He was beyond thrilled to hear from me..he has four other female Cubs signed up already, and an experienced BSA mom to lead their den, and what we all have in common is the belief that selling cookies is bullshit and survival skills are equally useful for males and females. He said he has been hoping for this change (integration) for 20 years.	/r/MensRights	02/05/18 11:56 PM
12	"Women were oppressed in the past, therefore it justifies the plight of young men today." It's like going to a 70 year old woman who has faced discrimination in the past and telling her: "We're going to make it up to you! From now on, your grandson has no chance!" That is pure rhetorical genius.	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 09:16 PM
3	Question for "reasonable women" and "old school feminists" In 1994 when it was first passed, there truly wasn't much awareness that men were victimized by DV. Then came the Internet. Now we know better, and we need to do better.	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 05:15 PM
1	Question for "reasonable women" and "old school feminists" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violence_Against_Women_Act Tl:dr from my perspective as somebody who works with at-risk families: before VAWA, we did not have a coordinated legal and social service response to violence in the home. This has been extremely useful when one of my clients has a mom who is being beaten or otherwise terrorized by a romantic partner - the cops, the social workers, and the medical establishment all have a way to work together to disrupt the cycle of violence. I even hav…	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 11:00 AM
3	Question for "reasonable women" and "old school feminists" No, most Tumblrinas don't know what that means. Non-morons of all political stripes who are focused on gender issues in America all know what it means. My answer is that if my magic powers did not extended to seeing VAWA's provisions applied equally to male victims, then yes, I would choose to make it disappear.	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 10:48 AM
7	PSA: Men should get tested for BRCA mutations too I feel like an idiot for never posting this here. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 12:29 AM
9	Town owned golf course replaces Tuesday night twilight league with "Women's League". The redress might be to offer a Men's League. My dad plays on a public golf course and the segregated leagues are both allowed and enjoyed, alongside many co-ed events.	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 12:28 AM
3	"Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar" - this is what happens when you 'gender' health. This should have been done 10 years ago. Your spelling would have been equally incorrect, and your agenda equally naive, if you were female :-)	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 09:08 PM
2	"Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar" - this is what happens when you 'gender' health. This should have been done 10 years ago. My sons were not required to be vaccinated, but it was covered by insurance and encouraged by their GP.	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 09:06 PM
3	"Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar" - this is what happens when you 'gender' health. This should have been done 10 years ago. It's spelled "petri." And you might want to consider that your choice of words affected how your message was received. But in truth, there is nothing you could say that was going to stop people from having oral sex, because oral sex is awesome. We are going to have to solve this public health issue with medicine, just like every other sex-related public health issue we have faced before.	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 09:00 PM
1	"Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar" - this is what happens when you 'gender' health. This should have been done 10 years ago. Oh, God. People come to this sub because an actual men's rights issue bites them in the ass in real life, and they see this incel bullshit, and we lose them for years if not permanently. AAAAAARGH.	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 08:51 PM
2	I created a group to support Male Rape Survivors. No women allowed because women have plenty for support. She's on the spectrum. She's OK.	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 04:28 PM
1	Gender parity in computer science could take 280 years \| Few women want a career in coding when they have other choices available. Why is this simple concept so hard for feminists to grasp? I have more luck with this line of argument when I phrase it as "men are more likely to be total geniuses or total morons, but when it comes to normal people, sex is not a factor in their general intelligence."	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 02:52 PM
3	Interview: Jewish Activist Rebecca Wald Is Working to End Circumcision Shout out to my homegirl Rebecca Wald!	/r/MensRights	30/04/18 01:11 PM
2	Working dads discriminated against by many employers Stop projecting. I don't actually think any of this qualifies as oppression, compared how things used to be. But I should have been more specific. This is how it's always been in the post-industrial white-collar Western workplace. It will never change for any of us unless we muster the political will to demand change.	/r/MensRights	29/04/18 10:16 PM
2	Working dads discriminated against by many employers Yup, this is how it's always been. Now it's happening to men as well. Whether or not things change, or whether educated men who need reasonable schedules become SAHPs or enter the public sector the way educated women typically have, depends entirely upon what we a society decide to demand of employers.	/r/MensRights	29/04/18 12:02 PM
2	$25 trillion will be passed to women through 2030 through inheritances and spouses. By that time, women will control 66 percent of the nation's wealth, I'm pretty sure it's also a problem if you think of your spouse as a bitch and want to disinherit them - but I agree that the majority of the estate should pass to the adult children upon the death of either one of the parents, if you are the kind of people who are lucky enough to have an "estate" in the first place. That's how we set it up in our wills - assuming we have anything significant by the time we are old, it goes into trust for the kids when one of us dies and the surviving old person…	/r/MensRights	29/04/18 11:56 AM
6	$25 trillion will be passed to women through 2030 through inheritances and spouses. By that time, women will control 66 percent of the nation's wealth, But... what if your child is female? She'll probably be an adult when you die, so doesn't that make her just another "bitch" like your wife?	/r/MensRights	29/04/18 07:15 AM
-13	Meanwhile, in Canada... These modern applications of common-law marriage also function to give fathers custodial rights equal to those of married men.	/r/MensRights	29/04/18 07:11 AM
5	New prince faces a world where masculinity's never been so scrutinised: In 2018 boys are in trouble. Boys are trouble..The word now almost automatically paired with “masculinity” is “toxic”. I cannot bring myself to worry about the future of a child who is literally a prince. He gonna be alright.	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 11:27 PM
5	Some mothers don't understand anything about childcare She should stop doing that, just like you should stop giving advice on diapering little girls if you can't be arsed to learn the basics of female anatomy.	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 11:18 PM
4	Men get all the war injuries, women get all the cushy VA admin jobs. Or, you know, it's not possible to get good outcomes when working with an incredibly inadequate budget to serve an at-risk clientele with severely outdated infrastructure and the the kind of clinicians who can't get hired anywhere else.	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 11:49 AM
9	Some mothers don't understand anything about childcare Oh,the irony. OP contributed this gem to that thread: None of this is true. Infant foreskins are not retractible, and you only are supposed to wash the outside. Cleaning under a baby boy's foreskin is like spreading a baby girl's labia to clean her. /u/MenDeseserveRights, perhaps you shouldn't be assessing the childcare knowledge of other people if you are aren't spreading your baby girl's labia to clean her. For pity's sake, man, THEY GET POOP UP IN THERE.	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 11:42 AM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Are the laws pertaining to custodial rights for unmarried fathers misandric? In most cases, yes, I think they are. It it misandric for me to point out that you are wrong in your belief that the law grants unmarried fathers equal custodial rights in the absence of a court order? No. If OP or another man in a similar situation took some of the appalling advice you have offered in this thread, they would expose themselves and their children to the risk of police involvement and an extended court-or…	/r/MensRights	25/04/18 03:22 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Have you ever stopped to wonder why the reality you create in your head frequently clashes with reality as others experience it? I honestly hope that your wife one day finds out that you planned to divorce her if she had a miscarriage, leaves you, and is able to spend the rest of her life without the burden of a mentally ill spouse.	/r/MensRights	25/04/18 12:22 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Reality oppresses me! People who share facts with me that contradict my internal narrative must HATE me and all other members of my sex, and should just shut up! REEEEEEE! Are you sure you aren't a third-wave feminist?	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 07:05 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Nope. Should be, but isn't. The custodial rights of men vary widely among jurisdictions and depending on their marital/residential status. Simply repeating your wishful thought over and over again will not make it true.	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 04:42 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. This is very probably not true. You know how some people think they have an intrinsic right to own guns, but they are not following the rules in their state for gun ownership? In most cases, I believe that they are morally in the right - but I don't delude myself that the government is going to treat them that way if they are in breach of some state statute.	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 01:44 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. You have an idea about how things should be that I largely agree with, but this conversation is about how things are and what OP should do to maximize his chance of a good outcome.	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 01:23 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. He's mad at me right now because we disagreed on another thread. He was telling us how he worried that his wife might get an abortion when she was pregnant with their planned and wanted child, and I pointed out that this worry was as irrational as me worrying about stranger rape. Objective risk assessment is misandric, apparently.	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 01:20 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. This is a circular conversation. It's by arrangement in most states if they were married and he is on the birth cert (although I wouldn't trust a pack of cops to see it that way). If they were unmarried, the mom is the custodial parent by statute in every state that I am aware of. The court will almost certainly accept his claim of paternity and grant him some degree of custody, but he has to go to court for that to happen. When OP does get in front of the judge, he can ask that transportation r…	/r/MensRights	24/04/18 01:14 PM
1	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Again, OP specifies that mom is the custodial parent.	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 11:57 PM
1	Snapped clean out...again. And I'm sick of it. Gee, I wonder why women all seem to think there's something amiss with you...	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 09:38 PM
2	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. If they are divorcing, then his legal position is very different - although it's still dangerous as hell to give the woman a reason to call in an abduction. I do not get the impression that they were ever married, and my advice is based on that assumption.	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 09:11 PM
0	Blackmail drenched in blood: Children of Next fashion boss knifed to death by vengeful Chinese wife are being 'kept prisoner' by killer's family as they tell British grandfather to pay £62,000 if he wants them back It is legal and customary for the courts to award custody to the grandparents who are under their jurisdiction. It is also legal in most countries for those grandparents to transfer custody to the other grandparents. The money thing? Meh. Perfectly legal and reputable if the money was put in escrow to be used for visitation, and that is what an American or UK court would insist on. Chinese culture is much more "cash on the barrelhead," and while I can certainly see why the UK grandparents view i…	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 08:59 PM
0	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Please listen to me. You do not understand how family law works. Prior verbal agreements are NOT binding in any aspect of a family court case. A judge can consider them when formulatimg the orders of the court, or they can ignore them. Unmarried putative fathers do NOT have equal custodial rights in any state prior to the court hearing. In some states, they have NO custodial rights and would be technically guilty of abduction if they attempted to keep the child from the mother. I'm not trying to…	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 08:49 PM
0	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. I agree with you in theory about verbal agreements, but in practice, what I have see is that judges could give a fuck about any agreements outside what they choose to put in their order. As to custody/visitation rights prior to the court hearing - holy shit, dude. That kind of wishful-thinking-based advice will get a man killed. I do not think that this couple was ever married ("ex" is being used as shorthand for "ex-girlfriend") and while he may have custodial rights prior to the court hearing …	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 07:35 PM
3	Custodial Mom is flat refusing to pick up child. Your ex is not obliged to facilitate transport for your visitation in the absence of a court order. She's absolutely right (even if an absolute bitch), to tell you that you need to handle pickup and dropoff if you want to exercise visitation. And unless you two live more than an hour apart, the court will probably tell you everything she just did. Now, you are not obliged to pay child support in the absence of a court order - but you're damn smart to be doing it voluntarily, since you are about …	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 04:31 PM
8	She created a document to warn women of sexual harassers. It’s haunted her ever since. \| Feminist journo sees nothing wrong with anonymously smearing men as abusers and rapists. Presumably, she thinks defamation laws should not apply to women making false accusations against men. Implied, hell. The document was soliciting anonymous (and therefore unverifiable) accusations of an extremely serious nature.	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 11:43 AM
1	Mother who left her four kids under 12 home alone with a gun while she toured Europe for 11 DAYS is spared jail Parents of either sex almost never do jailtime for simple neglect. Their punishment is losing their custodial rights. I am actually OK with this as long as no serious harm came to the kids as a result of the neglect.	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 09:57 AM
15	She created a document to warn women of sexual harassers. It’s haunted her ever since. \| Feminist journo sees nothing wrong with anonymously smearing men as abusers and rapists. Presumably, she thinks defamation laws should not apply to women making false accusations against men. I know a woman who received this document and was asked to add to it. I have rarely seen somebody more angry. During the New England witch hunts, one's accuser had to appear in court, identify themselves, and make a specific accusation. We are literally doing a worse job of handling this than a group of fungus-crazed Puritans.	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 09:13 AM
1	Blackmail drenched in blood: Children of Next fashion boss knifed to death by vengeful Chinese wife are being 'kept prisoner' by killer's family as they tell British grandfather to pay £62,000 if he wants them back Tl:dr: "China is a shithole, we should have our grandchildren because we don't live in yucky awful China. The other grandparents don't mistreat the children, but they are nasty illiterate poors, and poors shouldn't be raising children." Good God. This is the Daily Mail, so no telling how much the narrative has been distorted to fit its ethno-nationalist agenda - but that article makes me understand why some countries are doing away with international adoption. These kids are Chinese nationals, b…	/r/MensRights	23/04/18 08:44 AM
-2	Sam Harris: "Any time a woman comes away from an encounter with a man saying that he gave her the creeps, I trust her." Fair enough. I trust a lot more than 20 people enough to take their initial assessment of a stranger's character seriously, but I agree that the word of random people isn't worth much.	/r/MensRights	22/04/18 12:42 PM
3	Can we have men only gyms back or is there a law against that? Men-only gyms are legal in the USA. If there were a sufficient market for them, entrepreneurs would open them. Incidentally, women did not invade "your" gyms, or take "your" jobs, or start attending "your" colleges, etc. etc. Lots of businesses and institutions used to exclude people on the basis of their sex, race or religion. As a society, we decided that wasn't OK. You didn't lose anything you were entitled to, and in fact, I'm guessing this all happened before you were born. Imagine how you'…	/r/MensRights	22/04/18 09:36 AM
0	Sam Harris: "Any time a woman comes away from an encounter with a man saying that he gave her the creeps, I trust her." But don't you, though? If the man is somebody you trust and the woman is a stranger? In the absence of direct experience that would allow me to form my own opinion, I default to trusting the judgement calls of people whose judgement I have generally found to be trustworthy.	/r/MensRights	22/04/18 09:20 AM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. You're not worse than a paranoid, dysfunctional, narcissistic woman. You're the equivalent.	/r/MensRights	20/04/18 01:35 AM
1	Under Ohio law, an unmarried father does not have parental rights to his child. He must petition the court for them. Why do I get that feeling this doesn't affect child support? Foremost? Children are people, not property. Neither of the adults who created them, nor any other adult involved in caring for them, comes first in decisions about their welfare. You are probably a nice, normal person who would never abduct a child or attempt to keep a child away from one of their parents without an extremely good reason that you'd be happy to explain to a judge, so this is something you'll not face in your life. Good for you. Family court is a hellhole frquented by people of b…	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 09:26 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. I'm a realist, and no friend to special snowflakes of either sex. Your wife didn't end her planned and wanted pregnancy, and I've never been dragged into the bushes and raped. That doesn't make either of us lucky - these are expected outcomes. The termination of an early pregnancy by elective or spontaneous abortion is NOT equivalent to the loss of a newborn child or a fetus late in gestation, and your slimy, pathetic attempt to associate yourself with men and women who have actually suffered th…	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 06:57 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. [https://www.webmd.com/baby/tc/pregnancy-your-first-trimester#1] (basic explanation of the trimester model) But this isn't actually about what women think or feel when they experience pregnancy loss or choose to terminate a pregnancy. As I explained before, different people react in different ways at different points on the continuum. It's about you, and an irrational, narcissistic ideation that you indulged yourself in while your wife was pregnant with your planned and wanted child. Your counte…	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 04:55 PM
1	My consent based posting is problematic. So did I. Poe's Law to the max.	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 11:46 AM
6	The future of cohabitation? My brother did this with his then-girlfriend. They eventually married and had a child, but they both preferred the arrangement during their trial period as a family.	/r/MensRights	19/04/18 01:04 AM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. 13 weeks is the second trimester. Again, please educate yourself about gestation if you want to discuss it with me, and certainly if you want to opine about how women should should manage the process ethically, legally and emotionally. Here, I'll get you started: pregnancy is a continuum. Pregnancy loss/termination goes all the way from failure to implant to full-term stillbirth, from a normal and undetectable event to the death of a newborn. It's a big range. Different people react differently …	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 09:34 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. Both abortion and miscarriage are almost entirely confined to early pregnancy. You must realize this. If not, please educate yourself. Abortion in the second trimester is performed in rare cases, usually for lethal fetal anamolies. Miscarriage beyond the second trimester is similarly rare - and thank God, because those miscarriages can be fatal for the woman if she cannot access competent health care. A woman died of sepsis in a Catholic hospital a few years back, because her doctor was not allo…	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 12:45 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. Again, early pregnancy loss is normal among sexually active women. I'm fairly certain it has happened to me (it was quite early, so not 100% sure). It's something that has happened to most of my friends. It's something women discuss a fair bit among themselves. If I can trust your description of your own state of mind, you managed to work yourself up into state of distress over something that was less likely than stranger rape. Why did you do that? Why do you expect other people to tell you it w…	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 12:16 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. I'm not avoiding the question - I am explaining to you that it is a stupid question, untethered to reality - much like like your worry that your wife would end a planned and wanted pregnancy for any reason other than serious fetal anamolies. But since you insist on a answer, the answer is yes. If I lived in a place where rape was legal, I would still walk down the street. And you know what? If rape was legal, it would still be a rare occurrence, because the desire to rape is a rare pathology. I …	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 12:05 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. To my knowledge, there is no place in the world where it is actually legal for a stranger to drag me into a bush and rape me. Now, the chance of a stranger rapist who targets me at random being caught and punished has been extremely small on most streets I have ever walked down. Yet I keep on walking, all by myself, without even a rape whistle or a canister of pepper spray to ward off the violent beasts. An embryo is not a child. I absolutely do not want my children killed, but I recognize the d…	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 02:13 AM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. OK, a spontaneous abortion six months along is seriously rare and seriously traumatic. It's basically a premature birth where the baby does not survive. I apologize for my incorrect assumption about what has happened in your family. Grief is appropriate and necessary. I am glad you SIL survived the ordeal. What has happened in your family really, truly, has fuck-all to do with the biologically normal event of early spontaneous abortion, or the socially normal event of early elective abortion. Yo…	/r/MensRights	18/04/18 12:29 AM
2	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. I've had three babies. I certainly sympathize with a woman who is aware of experiencing the spontaneous abortion of a wanted pregnancy (that's a commonly accepted medical term, not something I made up), but our culture's strange insistence on eqating this common biological event with the loss of a child causes a lot of unnecessary suffering. Spontaneous abortion in the first trimester happens to most women who attempt to have more than one child. Sometimes it happens so early that the woman thin…	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 11:27 PM
4	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. Hundreds of years from now, I hope that the long, exhausting slog to keep people like you from forcing women to gestate to gratify your fantasies about pregnancy will finally be over. Roughly a third of pregnancies spontaneously terminate in the first trimester. Are you deeply grieved by this? If so, seek help, because the biological reality of the human reproductive process is clearly too much for you to handle. Pregnancy =/= birth. It never has. It never will. Now, it may be that spontaneous a…	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 09:40 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. No excuse is required. It's my legal and moral right to decide what happens inside my body.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 09:26 PM
3	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. I see it. I just think it's narcissistic and irrational.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 09:17 PM
0	The first person on Mars 'should be a woman' That would be a very interesting thing to study - how caloric restriction and limited water affect performance, broken down by body size, sex, race, age etc.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 09:16 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. Act like what? Like an embryo is the equivalent of human infant? Like the decision about whether my body will be used for gestation should belong to ANYBODY but me?	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 09:14 PM
0	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. I don't worry about getting raped. And legal or not, rape would still be a terrible experience. I don't worry about my husband changing his mind about wanting our children, either. Seriously, you might as well not go swimming because you might get attacked by a shark. Also, if your wife HAD decided shortly after becoming pregnant that she did not want to have the baby, why the hell would you have wanted her to continue the pregnancy? 30% of early pregnancies miscarry spontaneously. How would it …	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 08:39 PM
1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. If your opinion is that a doctor should be legally obliged to seek you out and inform you about a medical procedure undergone by a woman you had sex with, then your opinion is disturbing. If you think that you should have some legal means of interfering with the medical decisions of a woman you had sex with, then your opinion is frankly terrifying.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 07:41 PM
-1	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. A man being "painfully aware" that his wife might theoretically choose undergo a non-therapeutic late-term abortion of their planned and wanted pregnancy is even less rational than a woman worrying that she will be dragged into the bushes and raped by a stranger. I refuse to coddle that kind of masturbatory victimhood fantasy.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 07:39 PM
-5	Sort of disturbing that a father can have his child aborted without even a notification. Sort of disturbing that you think an embryo is a child, and that you feel entitled to participate in the medical decisions of other adults.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 05:23 PM
1	The first person on Mars 'should be a woman' In fact, most things aren't.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 05:08 PM
3	Rabbi Cardozo: outlawing circumcision would ‘end the state of Israel’ Something like "two birds with one stone."	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 05:08 PM
4	Rabbi Cardozo: outlawing circumcision would ‘end the state of Israel’ Judaism is so old that we used to be considered pussies for not engaging in human sacrifice. No culture can survive that long without the ability to adapt.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 02:18 PM
0	The first person on Mars 'should be a woman' Holy shit. I had never thought about that before, but it makes total sense. Smaller-framed men would probably also be better suited to a mission where the astronauts need to bring all their food along with them. Females and Asian dudes to Mars!	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 01:49 PM
14	Rabbi Cardozo: outlawing circumcision would ‘end the state of Israel’ I know a lot of people who believe some version of this - that our culture and civilization will cease to perpetuate itself if we stop practicing MGM. I honestly don't get it. Thousands of years of persecution and repeated exile, several ambitious attempts at genocide, a full century of routine intermarriage and cultural assimilation - none of this has come remotely close to snuffing out Judaism, but moving beyond our Bronze Age dick-snipping will bring it all crashing down? To me, it's like say…	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 08:37 AM
3	Rabbi Cardozo: outlawing circumcision would ‘end the state of Israel’ Wow.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 08:27 AM
2	Under Ohio law, an unmarried father does not have parental rights to his child. He must petition the court for them. Why do I get that feeling this doesn't affect child support? He should be able to get custody regardless of whether or not he is paying support. In fact, in almost all cases, he should get custody and support his child by taking care of them half the time and buying half of the things they need INSTEAD OF paying support.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 08:24 AM
1	Rose, in the film Titanic, was the worst character ever. And then she meets her hookup in heaven, instead of her husband. I'll give her a pass on everything that happened on the boat. Teenagers should not be pressured into marriage by their parents. Decades later, she has no fucking excuse.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 01:26 AM
-2	Mentally ill wife hides problems from husband until she leaves saying she doesn't love him anymore, yet he's the asshole... No. What the fuck is wrong with you.	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 01:07 AM
-2	Under Ohio law, an unmarried father does not have parental rights to his child. He must petition the court for them. Why do I get that feeling this doesn't affect child support? Unmarried fathers absolutely have parental rights, in every state. In many states including mine, they do not have custodial rights until and unless they petition the court. It's a complicated situation, but consider this: do we want a man who had casual sex with a woman once to be able to show up at her house and take the baby nine months later, and have that be totally legal? In the age of extramarital sex, the system is trying to cope with adults who do completely irresponsible things. There …	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 01:01 AM
-3	Body shaming is ok if your a woman. God forbid a man says he wouldn't be attracted to a fat girl. Neither menopause nor Down Syndrome are likely in a 40 year old woman. In reaction to the failure of the public health system to be honest about the risks of waiting too long to have children, over-40 pregnancies have been cast as rare or dangerous. They are neither. Having healthy babies after age 40 is entirely normal among couples who do not use contraception. But still, if I were 40 and childless, I'd be warming a barstool at the midget bar. This woman is in no position to be choosy about su…	/r/MensRights	17/04/18 12:53 AM
2	Bill Cosby accuser admits concocting story for memoir I don't actually think it says much about credibility either way, when a person plays down an incident like this in a memoir. She didn't owe anybody the truth when she sold that book, and somebody who gets downgraded from rapist to "guy who made a pass at me" hardly has anything to complain about. She owes all of society the truth when she takes the stand.	/r/MensRights	14/04/18 01:18 AM
5	So I've seen this a lot on FB the last couple of days... Well, a rape victim being compelled to allow visitation between her child and her rapist is pretty horrible as well, and it does happen.	/r/MensRights	14/04/18 01:07 AM
2	The 10-Year Baby Window That Is the Key to the Women’s Pay Gap I thought peak fertility for both sexes was in the late teens? It's irrelevant, though, because teen motherhood is not appropriate in modern society. If we want children born to educated married women (and sociologists assure us that we do), then 25 is about as early as we can expect them. I used to think 35 was way too late to start, but I do see people succeed with it if they have supportive partners and have taken reasonable care of their bodies.	/r/MensRights	12/04/18 02:05 AM
1	What's the chance she pays child support? My guess is this becomes a case of "legal" parental surrender. How nice for the desperate people in those states who are able to obtain that information.	/r/MensRights	10/04/18 05:22 PM
4	What's the chance she pays child support? My guess is this becomes a case of "legal" parental surrender. This child is in the custody of Social Services and will be adopted by a waiting family or by his relatives if they can be located, are safe people, and want to adopt him (rare in cases of baby-dumping, but it does happen). Neither biological parent will pay child support. They are looking for the woman to make sure that she doesn't die of blood loss or a postpartum infection, and possibly to put her in foster care herself if she is a minor and a victim of abuse, neglect rape or incest (common i…	/r/MensRights	10/04/18 11:16 AM
1	[Update] Guilty until proven innocent. Why my friend can't see his daughter. It's definitely not OK - but you could do it, and I hope that you would do, if that's what you needed to do in order to see your kid.	/r/MensRights	09/04/18 08:16 PM
3	[Update] Guilty until proven innocent. Why my friend can't see his daughter. It's probably a Family Court charge, not a criminal charge. The prosecutor probably told him (correctly) that he was going to be found guilty of "substantial risk of abuse and neglect" regardless of what he said in court, and that if he kept it out of court by agreeing to the finding, they would not put him on the central registry of child abusers. You might want to reach out to your friend. He almost certainly has a parenting plan he can work - classes and counseling and such - and when he has …	/r/MensRights	09/04/18 06:39 PM
1	Two homeless men just sat next to me at a coffee shop and toasted to success Greetings, sister. :-)	/r/MensRights	08/04/18 09:31 PM
8	In Sweden’s Preschools, Boys Learn to Dance and Girls Learn to Yell Something was wrong with the Penguins, the incoming class of toddlers at the Seafarer’s Preschool, in a wooded suburb south of Stockholm. The boys were clamorous and physical. They shouted and hit. The girls held up their arms and whimpered to be picked up. The group of 1- and 2-year-olds had, in other words, split along traditional gender lines. And at this school, that is not O.K. You know what's not OK? Institutional care for toddlers. I realize that it sometimes economically necessary, but W…	/r/MensRights	08/04/18 09:26 PM
1	Advice: my cousin is in a domestic abuse situation. He says he’s fine. Be his banker. Keep it way low-tech - tell him to mail you cash in small increments, and stick that money in a shoe box. Every single one of the many possible bad outcomes here will be made easier for your cousin if he has some ready cash.	/r/MensRights	08/04/18 12:27 PM
1	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). The vast majority of private health plans do NOT cover the full range of sexual health medications, devices and procedures. Male options are least likely to be covered. The vast majority of sexually active adults are STI-free serial monogamists who do not use condoms for the majority of their sexual encounters. This is a hugely important issue, and pretending that it's not is socially irresponsible. If you want to sound off about health care, educate yourself first. We are failing at this, badly…	/r/MensRights	07/04/18 11:22 PM
2	Women Drive Their Kids Off a Cliff \| DailyMail Blames the KKK https://goo.gl/images/lUzzmh	/r/MensRights	07/04/18 09:36 AM
2	The way the media talks about women you would think they were just freed from slavery. Does anybody else get tired of this? Hi! Female here. Also a Sanders supporter and NPR listener. What keeps me going is talking to my kids about the (many) true things the media shares with us along with the (many) bullshit spins they put on the information they are sharing. I'm old enough to remember Fox News starting this ideological infotainment schtick, and it made big $$$, and now it's the norm across the political spectrum. It's a weird time to be alive. But a minivan full of kids who reflexively say "who gives a fuck?" when …	/r/MensRights	07/04/18 09:13 AM
1	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). ... and my point is, the existence, nature and intensity of such double standards varies significantly by location.	/r/MensRights	07/04/18 09:00 AM
2	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). If you don't understand that not having to worry about pregnancy and not wrapping your genitals in rubber are key factors in pleasurable sex, then I don't know what to tell you. You might say that Viagra enables more consequential sex, since it restores PIV as an option. But I don't consider that relevent - all of these therapies enhance people's sexual health, and the only problem is with fundamentalists who manage to keep some of them outside insurance coverage despite overwhelming demand for …	/r/MensRights	07/04/18 12:19 AM
1	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). ED is vanishingly rare among the population of men seeking to conceive a child. Viagra is prescribed to enable more pleasurable sexual activity - just like the Pill.	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 10:52 PM
2	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). It's a bullshit correction. Doctors prescribe Viagra for ED and insurance pays - which would be fine, if they also paid for other elective medications and treatments related to sexual health. My husband can get Viagra for free but has zero coverage for vasectomy.	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 10:39 PM
3	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). I'm going to an anti-circ protest tomorrow. If it's a typical turnout, there will be more female protestors than male. (	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 10:32 PM
1	37 Women Settle The Debate Between Circumcised Vs Uncircumcised Sex. (And the article is written by a woman of course). You must not live in the Bible Belt. I assure you, many men here feel very free to hold forth with their opinions on both abortion and female contraception, and are sincerely shocked to discover that anybody would find their opinion irrelevant based on the minor detail that they are incapable of having either babies or abortions.	/r/MensRights	06/04/18 10:30 PM
-3	Learn how to mutilate infant boys' penises (circumcision), with this easy online course. Tuition is only $1,800. Men and Women welcome. Earn from $300 to $1,500 per foreskin. Read your own post history. Feel free to masturbate to it, I'm sure it won't be the first time. If you actually want to stop doing this and become a credible anti-circ activist, then read your own post history, realize that I am a regular human being just like you who is also opposed to MGM, and try to understand why I have an issue with your hyperfocus on a very small segment of the MGM battle in America, and your assertions that Jewish ritual circumcision is sexually gratifying for the adults …	/r/MensRights	05/04/18 10:20 PM
-4	Learn how to mutilate infant boys' penises (circumcision), with this easy online course. Tuition is only $1,800. Men and Women welcome. Earn from $300 to $1,500 per foreskin. My problem is with this particular poster, who has seriously fucked-up ideas about Jews and is not shy about sharing them. I am Jewish. I did not mutilate my sons, and I have never attended a bris. I am in the 99th percentile of anti-circ activism in the Jewish community. But this guy is not not right in the head. He has found himself a socially acceptable way to be a Jew-hater and he revels in it.	/r/MensRights	05/04/18 10:01 PM
1	Sexual Assault Is A Matter of Course In Judaism Oh lovely, Stormfront is leaking again.	/r/MensRights	05/04/18 05:50 PM
-9	Learn how to mutilate infant boys' penises (circumcision), with this easy online course. Tuition is only $1,800. Men and Women welcome. Earn from $300 to $1,500 per foreskin. Enough with the Jew-baiting. Seriously. Almost everybody who posts here, myself absolutely included, is opposed to MGM. Your fixation on Jewish ritual circumcision, including your truly disturbing assertion that mohels perform the procedure for sexual gratification, has destroyed your credibility as an anti-circ advocate. Please stop with the Jew-baiting. It makes the real work harder.	/r/MensRights	05/04/18 05:49 PM
5	A Muslim Student At Yale Was Accused Of Rape. The People Who Stood By Him Were Jews. \| Detailed breakdown of another campus false rape accusation which, unusually, went to criminal court first. The Forward is a Jewish newspaper.	/r/MensRights	04/04/18 10:44 AM
-2	Elizabeth Holmes defrauds investors for 700 Million Dollars. She gets a fine and 0 days sentence. Martin Shkreli defrauds 100 times less, gets 7 years. Double standards destroy lives For real. That guy loudly begged society to punish him, and society obliged him.	/r/MensRights	03/04/18 09:20 PM
5	Women might get raped if they debate men, so this college debate tournament banned men Only in America.	/r/MensRights	03/04/18 09:17 PM
1	White men are bad; even a six-year-old tells me so - - The new bigotry, masquerading as diversity, starts its indoctrination early We're a lot like people that way ;-) But seriously, I know a lot of Sephardis who do not present as white in America, and are not treated like white people - although they'd be "white" in Spain or Israel. "White" is a very amorphous notion.	/r/MensRights	02/04/18 02:47 PM
3	White men are bad; even a six-year-old tells me so - - The new bigotry, masquerading as diversity, starts its indoctrination early Neither one is OK in my opinion, but what this gonif was saying is that Jews are not white. It's a really common belief among the proud members of master race. "White" isn't actually an ethnicity, of course.	/r/MensRights	01/04/18 03:04 PM
15	White men are bad; even a six-year-old tells me so - - The new bigotry, masquerading as diversity, starts its indoctrination early Go peddle that bullshit elsewhere.	/r/MensRights	01/04/18 01:30 PM
1	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar You know what your child needs. There is no excuse for not providing it. Stop whining and get a new doctor.	/r/MensRights	01/04/18 12:44 PM
1	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar Should the NHS being doing a better job? Yes. Does their failure excuse parental failure? No.	/r/MensRights	01/04/18 12:42 PM
1	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar Lie. I've been in that situation, with foster kids. If the current doctor isn't up to snuff, then as the person responsible for the child, you need to do the necessary to get a better doctor. The buck stops with you.	/r/MensRights	01/04/18 12:24 AM
1	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar I understand. I am sorry that the NHS is being so recalcitrant. But my point stands - parents, not the government or the insurance company or the doctor, are responsible for getting their sons immunized. Should the NHS being doing a better job? Yes. Does their failure excuse parental failure? No.	/r/MensRights	31/03/18 09:38 PM
4	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar Get another doctor. You know what is needed, stop making excuses and get it done.	/r/MensRights	31/03/18 09:35 PM
2	Call to extend HPV vaccine to boys as cancer rates soar HPV, not HPC. My sons received the vaccine at age 12, at the recommendation of our state's board of health, completely covered by insurance. Even if we'd had to pay for it, the cost was not very high. The main roadblock to HPV vaccination for boys is parental ignorance.	/r/MensRights	31/03/18 06:48 PM
2	Woman sexually abused her foster son and had his baby. Despite that the boy's father and mother went to the police multiple times earlier, the abuse went on for years because their concerns were ignored This was not a foster care situation, and as far as I can tell, there is no evidence of a sexual relationship prior to the age of 16 (which is the age of consent in Ohio) or during the time that the adult taught at the school attended by the teen. However, it is illegal to have sexual relations with a child in your custody, and the teen's mother granted her partial legal custody, so in this case, we get the satisfaction of seeing the creepy adult prosecuted.	/r/MensRights	31/03/18 11:51 AM
3	Is it not time we took away the right to anonymity for false accusers? We need to stop protecting females who seek to destroy men. And an acquittal doesn't mean that the accusation was false, merely that the DA did not establish guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. In a not-guilty sex crimes case, I'd prefer the court records to be sealed and the government never to reveal the names of the parties involved.	/r/MensRights	31/03/18 11:38 AM
3	Texas bill would fine men $100 every time they masterbait Thank you for making it clear that you are not a person who deserves another second of my time. Contraceptive options WILL improve, the legal designation of paternity WILL change, and abortion WILL become truly accessible everywhere. Feel free to sit at your keyboard and fantasize about forced pregnancies while the grown-ups do the hard work in the real world.	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 09:44 PM
5	Can somebody explain to me why this Stormy Daniels thing is such big news?? I mean, the affair was consensual. And I’m sure many high profile men have to enter into similar agreements. It’s ridiculous that this GIRL is getting away with this extortion and nobody cares. There is one thing I find extremely newsworthy about this incident - Daniels claims that she was the subject of a Mafia-style threat, years later, while standing in a parking lot with her infant daughter. If that is true, then I want to see Trump hounded out of office over it. That is not behavior that I am prepared to tolerate. Full transcript of the interview here: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/stormy-daniels-describes-her-alleged-affair-with-donald-trump-60-minutes-int…	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 08:58 PM
0	"My mother had me arrested last night". A man's mom had him falsely arrested. She was mad that he was cooking... Crazy that men can be put in jail this easily. Take that shit elsewhere. Most women are not histrionic, just like most men aren't rapists.	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 08:46 PM
3	Texas bill would fine men $100 every time they masterbait I am a passionate advocate of increasing men's contraceptive options to reduce unwanted conceptions, and legislative options so that men may avoid being legally designated as the parent of a child who was gestated without their consent. When people like you cavalierly claim that forced gestation is not "something that needs to be fixed," I honestly question if I have made a mistake in deciding that the defense of women's rights have enough advocates on the job and men's rights should be my focus…	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 08:40 PM
-2	Texas bill would fine men $100 every time they masterbait Attitudes like yours are a big part of the reason that this kind of grandstanding has any appeal among voters. Pregnancy termination is an aspect of female health care. This should not be debatable issue among reasonable people. Fundies gonna fundie, but on this particular issue, the general population is willing to be very passive as the fundies pursue their forced-birth agenda. Every bit of this is a waste of time and energy on a legislative issue that should have been put out to pasture a lon…	/r/MensRights	26/03/18 06:57 PM
1	My Sister Kate: The Destructive Feminist Legacy of Kate Millett Read the article. That person is crazy.	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 10:18 PM
6	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Ancient Chinese curse: "May you live in interesting times."	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 06:04 PM
-1	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Read the actual posts. This is not a suicidal person. And whatever flaws a parent may have, murdering them in the hope that their child will receive a better raising in foster care (or by relatives) is an exceptionally stupid plan. As is "demanding some fragmentary semblance of justice from the universe." The universe does not exist to avenge your perceived slights.	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 05:10 PM
21	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Yes. Maturity. You can be mad as hell at a person who has done you wrong, and still understand that the actual problem is the system that enabled them to wrong you. You can understand that even if you hate your child's other parent, any harm you do to them is harm done to your child. This guy married two seriously unstable women - one of them suicided, and the other beat him up and absconded with their young child. Adding more craziness and violence to that history probably has zero appeal to hi…	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 04:30 PM
11	A user on /r/MGTOW got fired from his job and finds out that no employer will hire him because of a PO filed by his wife. He makes a good bye post around a month ago. I am crying uncontrollably. Thank you for adding that last paragraph. I'm a happily married female, I have no concerns about being screwed over in a divorce. The bugout plan is for the stuff that is even worse than divorce, where I don't have to extricate only myself, but also my family.	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 04:23 PM
1	My Sister Kate: The Destructive Feminist Legacy of Kate Millett What did those parents do wrong, to have two daughters who were complete nutjobs on opposite ends of the sociopolitical spectrum?	/r/MensRights	25/03/18 12:53 PM
0	The dominated wife. Well, I suppose I'd want the additional legroom afforded by the aisle seat anyhow.	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 08:20 PM
1	I have an annual health check and my GP doesn't consider the possibility I might have sexual trauma when offering testicle and prostate check. He should have. I'm sorry.	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 08:18 PM
3	The dominated wife. Can I suck them in the window seat?	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 08:16 PM
1	The dominated wife. Clearly, this was a conversation about social conventions in developing nations. /s	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 12:16 PM
2	I have an annual health check and my GP doesn't consider the possibility I might have sexual trauma when offering testicle and prostate check. If my doctor asked me about sexual trauma every time he gave me an exam, I'd find a new doctor. Now, my doctor DID take a social history when I started with his practice, that included questions about my (thankfully nonexistent) sexual trauma history. Did your doctor do that?	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 12:14 PM
1	The dominated wife. Fresh air? What do you travel in, a stagecoach? I'm sure that there are some tall people who legitimately prefer the window, but I happen to be married to one of those who likes to be able to splay into the aisle a bit while the vehicle is in motion. Sorry if that doesn't fit seamlessly into your oppression narrative.	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 11:57 AM
2	The dominated wife. FWIW, I always sit at the window so my husband can have a little more room during the trip for his shoulders and his legs. But I think your observations are generally correct - and that this kind of chivalric ritual was even MORE prevalent when women were politically disenfranchised.	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 12:26 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ At this point in the development of this technology, that is surely the sanest option.	/r/MensRights	21/03/18 11:10 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ It's equally important to have a plan for while you are living your life as a finite, imperfect being - your coparent. If you do not want that relationship, you should not undertake to create a baby. It's unethical.	/r/MensRights	21/03/18 08:32 AM
1	Being dragged back into court as my son's mother once again uses him as a weapon to try to punish me. Now she wants custody completely taken away from me. Thank you for removing yourself from the gene pool.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 11:17 AM
4	Justice finally. You should be able to file for TPR based on abandonment and failure to support, if you decide that you want her out of the picture legally. But that usually only becomes a priority in situations like yours when a stepparent wants to adopt - and some states don't allow the TPR unless you have a adoptive parent lined up to step into the legal role.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 11:11 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Choosing between the legal options that exist, even when you'd prefer some other option, does not negate consent. Everybody makes such choices. Outlawing abortion and forcing a woman to continue a pregnancy either inside or outside of her body (i.e., using the force of law to insist that her embryo be gestated) is a really disgusting notion, but I am not seriously worried about it. If one of our more backwards states passes such a law, I think that private groups will organize civil resistance (…	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 11:03 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Actually, ethical standards for the various medical specialties are determined by the governing boards of those specialities, with legislators intervening if they don't think the doctors/hospitals/clinics are adequately self-policing. This is why it is illegal to buy organs.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 10:48 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ You didn't have an inherent right to obtain any particular medical procedure. You could die of kidney failure tomorrow, waiting on the transplant list, with 1 million dollars on hand to purchase the kidney of a poor person who was eager to sell it to you, and your death would not be the result of any wrongdoing by your doctor. I happen to believe that stem cell therapy is ethical, and I hope that the US changes its laws. But I hope that organ-buying remains illegal, no matter how many people wou…	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 01:49 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Not for you, and not for the vast majority of people who would ever want to use this technology. But if you re-read this thread, you will see several posters positively salivating at the notion of forcing women to undergo an embryo extraction and continue the pregnancy with a Biobag rather than having an abortion.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 01:41 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Do you mean artificial womb? Anyhow, no, I am not afraid that artificial womb technology will make female humans irrelevent. Only misogynists believe that women have no worth beyond their wombs. I am worried that in the absence of ethical constraints on the use of this technology, the cohort of fucked-up single people deliberately creating children will grow larger.	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 01:36 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ This bodily autonomy thing is really messing with your head.	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 09:16 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ The difference is consent.	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 09:13 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Me too. And single mothers. You can do everything wrong in your life from a sociological point of view - be young, be poor, be uneducated, pick a terrible person to reproduce with, etc. etc. and still do an amazing job as a single parent. I absolutely support any person who is doing their best with the situation life handed them (in part shaped by their choices) and is putting their child first. Single people who want to use assisted reproductive technologies have not been handed anything except…	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 09:10 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ I'm all for radical changes in the current law - as long as they don't involve any forcible medical procedures.	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 02:02 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ I understand that you sincerely believe that. I hope that you will be open to the experiences in life that will help you understand why any children you may have deserve to know and love their mother, and why you NEED a coparent to do a good job raising a child, even if that person is not your romantic partner or your children's biological mother.	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 01:58 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ The position I am standing by is that any person whose PLAN is to create a child that has only one legal parent needs a therapist, not a fertility clinic. One parent is better than no parents, so adoption of waiting children is an ethical choice for single people. But infant adoption and assisted reproductive technologies should not be available to single adults. The adoptable infants have two-parent families lined up around the block to raise them, and half-orphans created with purchased gamete…	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 01:52 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ As I said, I'm happy to shovel your horseshit in exchange for having this technology to help premature babies. If you ever manage to stop focusing solely on yourself and actually think like a fit parent, you will understand why your dream of deliberately creating a half-orphan is so repellent to me. Who am I to make that call? A parent who knows that children deserve better than the kind of feeble narcissist who would choose to be a single parent.	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 01:44 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Have you noticed the number of men in this thread who seem to enjoy the notion of forcing a sex partner to decant an embryo into a Biobag rather than having an abortion?	/r/MensRights	19/03/18 01:37 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ I'm a social liberal. Arguments such as the one you are making is what led the assisted-reproduction industry to allow single women to purchase gametes and raise half-orphans. Access to elective medical procedures is not now, and has never been, a matter of right. When an elective procedure results in the creation of a child, the doctor is ethically obligated not to accept patients who are demonstrating an inability to prioritize the needs of a child.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 01:16 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Depriving a child of a second parent so that you may have exclusive ownership/control is abuse, yes. ALL single mothers are certainly not guilty of this abuse - there are the rare cases where the father is dangerous, and the more common scenario where they do not want to parent with that particular woman at that particular time. With natural reproduction, you have to judge on a case-by-case basis. But ALL single women who choose a sperm donor with no legal rights and also choose not to have a co…	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 01:09 PM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ I'm far from a "rad fem," and it seems obvious to me that forcing anybody to participate in an artificial gestation is not OK. This technology is being developed to help premature babies. It will probably also be used as an assisted reproductive technology, starting with a fertilized embryo. Nobody is going to be strapping women down and decanting their unwanted embryos so that their ex can can grow himself a baby...I hope. I've learned not to underestimate the power of crazy.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 12:03 PM
2	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Imagine a day when people stop fantasizing about coercing other people into producing offspring with them.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 11:54 AM
2	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ No, no, don't complicate his smug assurance with biological realities!	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 11:51 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ I'm working on it right now - but regardless, "I should get to mistreat my children because the courts often allow women to get away with doing so" is not a cogent argument.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 11:50 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Yes. Having seen the damage it does, I'm obviously not interested in misusing a new medical technology so that even more children can be victimized.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 11:47 AM
4	Vancouver has women's only apartments now I missed that bit. OK, conflict resolved, this has GOT to be illegal. Right? Canadians, is this illegal?	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 11:45 AM
0	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ Access to assisted reproductive technology is not a right. Even people with actual medical issues that preclude normal gestation are in no way entitled to ART. Deliberately creating a half-orphan is an act of supreme selfishness. We need to stop allowing single women to exploit our existing technologies to buy legally fatherless children, and make sure that emerging technologies are not similarly abused. If you want to exclusively own another living being, get a dog. If you want to make a baby, …	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 01:39 AM
1	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ So how about we fix that, rather than allowing more children to be hurt by a selfish person who sees them as something to be owned?	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 01:15 AM
6	Prince Harry refuses to sign prenup with fiancée Meghan Markle Both of these people are wealthy, IDGAF if they sign a prenup or not. As Chris Rock says, "... if you have 10 million dollars and she wants 5, big deal! You ain't starvin'." ... It's the guys making 30 thousand that I worry about.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 12:51 AM
4	Vancouver has women's only apartments now I am torn between "private philanthropists can focus on any group they wish to, and anybody who has a problem with it is welcome to set up their own philanthropic operation" and "holy shit, women do not make up the majority of the unsheltered homeless in Vancouver, this is an ass-backwards program."	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 12:39 AM
6	Horrific jailhouse video shows deputies laughing as 36-year-old schizophrenic man lay dying on the floor after he was strapped naked to a restraint chair. Female guards watching male prisoners forced to be naked. I hear you. I don't object to a hardass on triage. But so often, those initial decisions are never meaningfully revisited, and even when they are, the chronic shortage of beds leads to the hospital shrink overruling the jailhouse shrink on a case where they both know that the patient is not safe and is also endangering the corrections staff and the other prisoners.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 07:58 PM
11	Dad suggests hell instead of prison for mom who got high as her kid died The dad had legal custody and left the child in her care, after resuming his relationship with her and allowing her to move back into the home following her most recent incarceration. There are exceptions, but the general rule in social work is that people who are unfit to parent are drawn to each other as if by magic, are incredibly fertile, and make decisions with/about each other that normal people cannot fathom.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 07:53 PM
0	Artificial wombs intended to save premature babies — for now. Next step could be ‘immaculate gestation’ This is amazing technology. I hope that our physicians will develop robust ethical guidelines to prevent fertile single people from exploiting this therapeutic intervention to deprive their biological offspring of a mother or father. I am fairly confident that our federal courts will quash attempts by the more backwards states to force pregnant women to gestate externally rather than ending their pregnancies. ... but really, dealing with that happy horseshit is a hassle I would be thrilled to fa…	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 07:45 PM
29	Horrific jailhouse video shows deputies laughing as 36-year-old schizophrenic man lay dying on the floor after he was strapped naked to a restraint chair. Female guards watching male prisoners forced to be naked. Here's an article from a real newspaper, and the situation is even more horrifying for both prisoner and staff than the tabloid let on: https://www.google.com/amp/amp.sanluisobispo.com/news/local/investigations/article205363229.html This guy was in jail, instead of a mental hospital, for FIFTEEN MONTHS. He couldn't stabilize and they weren't qualified (or budgeted) to safely care for an unstable schizophrenic. There was a terrible crime here, but it happened way over the heads of the employees w…	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 07:29 PM
4	Action Opportunity: State to Take Over Child Welfare Office After AP Story: Brian Hogan, whose daughter was illegally removed from his custody, told the AP on Friday. "What they did to us was wrong. A lot of people were hurt." People are often incensed when child services refuses to get involved in civil custody disputes. I'm often incensed by this myself - there's an existing order, signed by a judge, why the heck is one of the parents allowed to violate it without the state intervening? This NC clusterfuck is one example of why it's probably better, on balance, for child services to keep strictly away from prior CVAs and open a new case unrelated to any previous civil action.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 04:07 PM
2	Men bag two awards at the Romantic Novel Competition after four decades of all-women winners. If it had been four decades of only men winning a competition there would be an outcry and accusations of misogyny. It was a rhetorical question. We all realize that there are some actual sexist morons who affiliate themselves with the MRM.	/r/MensRights	17/03/18 02:36 AM
1	The new District Attorney of Philadelphia is implementing criminal justice reform that will help a lot of local men. Sorry, there was supposed to be a space between two quotes. B&E plus theft will apparently get you probation, while snatch-and-grabs during business hours of goods valued at less than $500 will get you a ticket and a fine.	/r/MensRights	16/03/18 11:43 AM
3	The new District Attorney of Philadelphia is implementing criminal justice reform that will help a lot of local men. ...for example, if a person with no prior convictions is accused of breaking into a store at night and emptying the cash register, he would normally face up to 14 months in jail. Under Krasner’s paradigm, he’ll be offered probation. Retail theft under $500 is no longer a misdemeanor in the eyes of Philly prosecutors, but a summary offense—the lowest possible criminal charge. Jesus Christ. I like Krasner. He really seems to understand that punitive measures don't work to treat drug addiction, tha…	/r/MensRights	16/03/18 09:54 AM
3	Men bag two awards at the Romantic Novel Competition after four decades of all-women winners. If it had been four decades of only men winning a competition there would be an outcry and accusations of misogyny. How is that unfortunate? Who the fuck cares about the gender/race/age/nationality of the author in a writing competition?	/r/MensRights	15/03/18 09:50 AM
3	How do you all not get jaded by what you see? Bingo. One of the things that makes me feel LESS jaded is the number of people I talk to these days who are not into gender politics, but have obviously internalized some huge MRM talking points. That never happened ten years ago, outside of my anti-circ activism.	/r/MensRights	14/03/18 09:42 AM
3	Women get infantized again. WSL bans camera people and cinematographers from taking close up shots of women's butts if they wear bikinis instead of just having a dress code for competitors. They are absolutely allowed to.	/r/MensRights	14/03/18 09:38 AM
1	SNL for such a "progressive" show the sure hate men. I don't know why they're not lambasted for being homophobic or something Because jokes are jokes. SNL is definitely left-leaning in a lot of ways, but I admire their strong stance when it comes to censoring their content in the name of political correctness.	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 05:34 PM
16	Woman charged for sending nude photos of ex Or, you know, we might all decide that "revenge porn" laws are a good idea in the digital age, and should be equally applied.	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 05:30 PM
0	Cori Beard needs to be as infamous as Brock Turner, if not more Is this strictly a statutory case? Hard to tell from the article, and it's extremely relevant information. Really, they shouldn't be reporting on an ongoing investigation - she's in jail on a MILLION FUCKING DOLLARS bail, and that is suggestive of extreme malfeasance, but given today's sex-panic climate I honestly don't know what to believe. Brock Turner, OTOH, was convicted on three counts of felony sexual assault, and eyewitnesses attested that his victim was unconscious. Is Cori Beard similar…	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 05:27 PM
7	Clementine Ford, like all modern feminists, infantilises women, suggesting they cannot cope with being treated the same as men Frequently, on Twitter. I doubt she's listening but I find it cathartic	/r/MensRights	12/03/18 05:11 PM
6	Clementine Ford, like all modern feminists, infantilises women, suggesting they cannot cope with being treated the same as men I particularly enjoyed how she couldn't stick with simple sexism, but had to throw some racism in as well.	/r/MensRights	12/03/18 05:10 PM
2	Accused of unwanted touching at kink parties. I'm not a fella. My thoughts are that this kind of behavior is unacceptably risky in the current political climate, and that if you want multiple sexual partners (which is fine), you should cultivate open relationships with people you know, rather than attending parties.	/r/MensRights	12/03/18 01:26 PM
2	Colin Firth's Wife Reveals She Had an Affair With Her Alleged Stalker \| Woman uses a false accusation of stalking to cover up her affair He advertised his wares in a statement to the press.	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 11:44 AM
5	Broward sheriff's captain who gave initial order to 'stage' not enter Stoneman Douglas is ID'd We should probably also conclude that white people are less able cops. And given the behavior of the school resource officer, men over 40 are absolutely unfit to be cops. Or, you know, we could move beyond identity politics. But that would be hard, because we'd have to actually treat people as individuals are there are, like, a lot of people in this world.	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 11:42 AM
5	Russell Crowe selling jock straps in 'divorce auction' Full text below. I fucking love this. By Alice Vincent 9 MARCH 2018 • 11:53AM Celebrities tend to try and keep their high-profile divorces, with fees and settlements running into the millions, out of the public eye. Not Russell Crowe and his soon-to-be ex-wife Danielle Spencer. The pair, who separated five years ago, will finalise their divorce imminently – and are celebrating it by auctioning off their collection of movie memorabilia, guitars, furniture and jewellry at Sotheby's, in a sale call…	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 11:37 AM
6	Colin Firth's Wife Reveals She Had an Affair With Her Alleged Stalker \| Woman uses a false accusation of stalking to cover up her affair A few years ago Colin and Livia privately made the decision to separate. During that time Livia briefly became involved with former friend Mr. Brancaccia. The Firths have since reunited. Do you really think these two people would have had any incentive to make this public if the ex was not harassing or threatening them? They are being blackmailed and they are attempting to preemptively discredit their blackmailer.	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 11:29 AM
3	Colin Firth's Wife Reveals She Had an Affair With Her Alleged Stalker \| Woman uses a false accusation of stalking to cover up her affair He just listed all the juicy stuff he has for sale - in a public statement that was intended to portray him as a victim of a frivolous charge. I don't know anything about the Firth's marriage, but I do know that the easiest way to acquire a stalker is to get into a romantic relationship with a fucked-up individual.	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 11:26 AM
1	Oral sex is causing an oral cancer epidemic in men: Men are four times more likely than women to be diagnosed with oral cancer, a hard-to-detect, hard-to-treat disease that has overtaken cervical cancer as the most common HPV-related malignancy in the United States It's not a single anecdote. Activism and lobbying in my state led to the change in policy that made this preventative measure equally available to my daughters and my sons.	/r/MensRights	09/03/18 05:57 PM
2	Oral sex is causing an oral cancer epidemic in men: Men are four times more likely than women to be diagnosed with oral cancer, a hard-to-detect, hard-to-treat disease that has overtaken cervical cancer as the most common HPV-related malignancy in the United States As I said, the statement "still only giving the HPV vaccine to girls though" is untrue.	/r/MensRights	09/03/18 12:00 PM
13	Oral sex is causing an oral cancer epidemic in men: Men are four times more likely than women to be diagnosed with oral cancer, a hard-to-detect, hard-to-treat disease that has overtaken cervical cancer as the most common HPV-related malignancy in the United States Untrue, my sons have completed the series and insurance covered it 100%.	/r/MensRights	09/03/18 03:25 AM
0	Judge rules Seattle homeless man’s truck is a home. A major victory for ~2,300 homeless people, who are mostly all men, living in their vehicles In October, the Washington Court of Appeals heard a case in which a Vancouver police officer looked inside a man’s tent in an unsanctioned tent camp and saw a bag of methamphetamine. The man, William Pippin, was charged with possession of a controlled substance, but appealed. The appeals court ruled that the search, which did not involve a warrant, violated the man’s constitutional right to privacy because the tent was his home. This is the other side (the moronic side) of the compassionate impu…	/r/MensRights	07/03/18 01:02 PM
5	Somehow men having shelter is a bad thing I meet people all the time who sincerely believe that there are no men's shelters because there is no systematic need for them.	/r/MensRights	03/03/18 12:31 PM
-5	I live in France and I have no idea how men in here are okay with not being able to have a paternity test without the approval of the court and the mother. I disagree with the law, but mutual discreet adultery has been normalized in French culture for centuries. I can understand why the "family peace" concept and the social construction of paternity resonates with French people - but Jesus, what kind of dork (male or female) doesn't use birth control with their lover?	/r/MensRights	02/03/18 11:38 PM
1	Definition of a dream family of /r/AskFeminists doesn't have a Family as we know of - Mother, Father and Children. There is no value, as we know of, for a man in it. This is what we are up against. No continent, and no child, needs people who refuse to take responsibility for their fertility. Baby humans are not baby rabbits. Please do not have more children than you can afford to do right by, financially and emotionally. There are plenty of Americans who mindlessly pop out kid after kid because their ideology demands it. That is not a life you want for yourself or any of your loved ones.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 10:13 AM
1	Here’s What The Army’s Proposed Gender-Neutral Combat Test Really Looks Like I took, and passed, that Marine Corps fitness test. I really wasn't impressed with it as a combat-readiness test. There were girls who could do zero pullups who were equally well suited to combat, and guys I could way outrun who were probably better suited (depending on their temperaments, I did not get to know therm well enough to assess that). I think that a more nuanced test has been a long time coming.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 02:53 AM
7	Jewish Parents shun Circumcision - Jews Increasingly Choose to hold a Naming Ceremony Instead (Crosspost from r/Atheism) It's going to be a long fight. But every time somebody is just obviously fucking right in Judaism, they eventually become the majority opinion. I give this one another century before MGM is a practice relegated to the black hats.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 02:45 AM
4	Bloom County shows us how to avoid becoming part of the MeToo debacle. Penguin not supplied, you must bring your own penguin. If Steve Dallas is your dream come true... damn.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 02:42 AM
2	Definition of a dream family of /r/AskFeminists doesn't have a Family as we know of - Mother, Father and Children. There is no value, as we know of, for a man in it. This is what we are up against. I'm old. There are way worse ideals. Probably makes sense to re-evaluate with every kid rather than committing to an even dozen before you've seen how things work with four or five 😊	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 02:32 AM
5	"Sure my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship," Lewinsky wrote in 2014. 2018, "I changed my mind. I was raped." Remember, it's not OK to fuck the dog. That is actually illegal, not just stupid and immature.	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 10:07 PM
1	"Sure my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship," Lewinsky wrote in 2014. 2018, "I changed my mind. I was raped." Enjoy flipping burgers. Don't apply for assistant manager until you understand that it's not OK to fuck the cashiers. This advice is equally applicable if you happen to be a female.	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 08:34 PM
5	"Sure my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship," Lewinsky wrote in 2014. 2018, "I changed my mind. I was raped." Yes, the concepts of maturity, professionalism and self-restraint do appear to be going right over your head. Your beautiful-accountant fantasy doesn't hurt anybody or expose your company to liability, so go ahead and keep enjoying it. It's actions, not thoughts, that matter here.	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 08:14 PM
7	"Sure my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship," Lewinsky wrote in 2014. 2018, "I changed my mind. I was raped." No double standard. Stop inserting gender into my nongendered standards of professional behavior. A person who does not understand that making advances towards (or accepting advances from) their direct reports is unethical is not mature enough for a managerial position. It isn't rape. But it needs to be the end of their tenure in that position. No boss should ever fuck their employees. Ever. It's one of the stupider things people do. It should not be illegal, but it should be socially and profes…	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 07:34 PM
2	"Sure my boss took advantage of me, but I will always remain firm on this point: it was a consensual relationship," Lewinsky wrote in 2014. 2018, "I changed my mind. I was raped." It's not rape, but no boss should ever fuck their employees. Ever. It's one of the stupider things people do. If you believe that you are in with love with somebody who reports to you or to whom you report, then the chance at the relationship is worth finding another job. If it's just lust, direct your lust elsewhere. How is this difficult? Why do people decide to fuck up or down their corporate ladder, when the world is full of people they can fuck without potentially messing up their careers?	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 03:34 PM
4	Definition of a dream family of /r/AskFeminists doesn't have a Family as we know of - Mother, Father and Children. There is no value, as we know of, for a man in it. This is what we are up against. One if the answers is literally a SAHM with a dozen kids and a breadwinning husband. What, you're not happy unless the ONLY dream of family that people have matches your own ideal?	/r/MensRights	27/02/18 12:59 PM
0	In Norway, boys are twice as likely to start school late. [4] Home educator of five children here, I say GOOD. Formal education starts too early in general, and parents should not hesitate to delay a year if they think their kid would benefit. If I had it to do over again and wasn't worried about government interference, I would not start lessons until a child turned 7.	/r/MensRights	25/02/18 12:36 PM
-2	I knew it was bad but damn. 90% of arsonists ? Don't mince words. This piece of shit (the creator of this graphic) does terrible harm by conflating the truth (that children need both parents to thrive) with misogynist wank-off material (that woman are primarily responsible for absentee fathers, that the role of the father is to supervise the mother).	/r/MensRights	25/02/18 12:26 AM
2	Why not support Islam? I started at the top of this thread, thinking "I would bet $1,000 that this guy's pet issue is women who are having sex and not choosing to have it with him." DINGDINGDING!!!!	/r/MensRights	24/02/18 01:05 PM
1	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers If you really care about this, arse yourself to do your own reading. Anyhow, as you would know if you had read that article, when lethal school violence includes suicides, you get a female shooter/stabber in the stats (they don't specify if she used a gun or a knife). Statistics on U.S. School Shooters The Safe Schools Initiative report focused on behaviors of school shooters leading up to their attack. For the report, researchers from the Department of Education and the Secret Service studied 3…	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 10:20 PM
1	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers Actually, I am blaming it on a toxic social mishandling of normal, healthy adolescent male tendencies as they manifest in mentally ill adolescents. Risk-prone and consequence-disregarding behaviors are not inherently bad. In my opinion, they are can be very positive, but parents and society must provide an appropriate outlet for them, and find effective ways to deal with crazy people in this stage of development.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 07:09 PM
2	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers I would have to know a lot more than I do about the individual case histories of our school shooters to be able to make an informed judgement about whether or not psych drugs were the "root cause" of their decision to commit mass murder. Remember, this cohort is TINY compared to the overall population. Any generalization one makes about why they did what they did is anecdata not data.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 07:04 PM
1	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers Stop trying to be angry at me, we are on the same side here. The reflexive prescription of drugs to boys is part and parcel of the failure to effectively treat mental health issues.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 06:52 PM
3	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers Your link doesn't work. This one does: https://www.campussafetymagazine.com/safety/u-s-school-shooting-statistics-us/ Do you want to bitch and moan about how those mean and nasty facts are triggering you by not fitting neatly your ideology, or would you like to have an adult discussion about why this is happening and what we can do to stop it?	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 06:48 PM
2	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers It lines up perfectly. You are arguing a point I am not making - I don't believe that men are inherently more inclined towards sexual misconduct or that women are systemically discriminated against in the workplace solely on the basis of their sex. For any crime, the raw percentage of offenders broken down by sex is rarely useful information - access is a huge factor. I'm not sure what your goal was in starting this thread, if you already comprehend that fact. School shootings are a little diffe…	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 04:29 PM
-5	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers Not an exact parallel, since a gun is far easier to acquire than a child, but the same general idea.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 01:10 PM
16	Comedian is sued for £30,000 by her estranged husband after using material about their marriage in her act. If you marry a comedian, just assume that your relationship will be discussed on stage.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 01:02 PM
-2	71 per cent of children killed by one parent are killed by their mothers The majority of at-risk children live in single-mother homes. It's pretty hard to abuse or kill your kid if you aren't there.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 12:59 PM
2	Artist Looking For Ways To Benefit Men's Rights With My Skill OP, something I have always wanted to have is artwork, infographics, etc. that promulgates the "fathers are not optional" message. It would be great if this message were presented in a secular way, so as to have the broadest popular appeal.	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 12:56 PM
4	Chris Rock, Tamborine: Speaking Truth to Weakness: "the harsh facts of existence are to be welcomed rather than bubble-wrapped, sexual morality is the core of a successful marriage, and men acknowledge their special burden to toil for others" "How I fucked up" is pretty much a classic comedy-show theme.	/r/MensRights	19/02/18 10:40 AM
1	Women proposing to their boyfriends is the latest #MeToo culture shift I'm arguing that the assumption that Steve somehow got screwed out of a nice engagement present,or that it was tacky to give him a $10 ring as a symbolic gesture, is rather a long leap to make in the context of American sartorial culture. I would propose to a man if I wanted to, but I wouldn't buy him a piece of jewelry if he didn't like jewelry. I'd have to figure out some other symbolic gift, and it probably would not be part of my proposal if it were a set of golf clubs or a new grill or what…	/r/MensRights	18/02/18 03:11 PM
1	RIP Aaron Feis Mass shootings in schools just break all the assumptions we've made about gun violence as a society. It's not linked to poverty, intimate partner conflict or other personal beefs, it's not primarily commited by men against men, etc. I'm actually fine with saying that personal heroism at the risk of one's own life is a behavior more commonly demonstrated by males than females - but that generalization doesn't apply in school shootings, because none of our generalizations do. It's pure crazy. http…	/r/MensRights	18/02/18 03:05 PM
1	RIP Aaron Feis I'm not calling you out, I feel where you are coming from. I do want to point out that the principal at Sandy Hook, Dawn Hochsprung, literally charged the shooter as he put bullets in her. Heroism among educators during school shootings is not a gendered phenomenon. The other dead teacher in the most recent shooting, Scott Beigel, died while locking a classroom door to protect the students inside. Like Feis, he was a highly regarded instructor, coach and camp counselor. He spent his entire caree…	/r/MensRights	18/02/18 01:51 AM
1	Women proposing to their boyfriends is the latest #MeToo culture shift It enters into my pysche... but I think of watches as jewelry. I don't know what Steve thinks. In my situation, buying any sort of precious metal adornment item would have been a sign that I knew absolutely nothing about the person I was proposing to.	/r/MensRights	18/02/18 01:33 AM
7	Women proposing to their boyfriends is the latest #MeToo culture shift I can't imagine buying expensive jewelry for somebody who doesn't wear jewelry. The only thing that is relevent to me here is whether or not Steve adorns himself in this manner - if he does, he should get a nice ring.	/r/MensRights	17/02/18 04:59 PM
14	From Chris Rock's new show: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something." It's illegal in some countries, but not the US.	/r/MensRights	17/02/18 04:53 PM
15	From Chris Rock's new show: "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something." One of my favorites as well.	/r/MensRights	17/02/18 04:52 PM
1	As certain people are using the Florida shooting as another excuse to bash men, this is a good time to re-post this message on school shootings and suicide. From Milo of all people. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	16/02/18 10:49 PM
19	As certain people are using the Florida shooting as another excuse to bash men, this is a good time to re-post this message on school shootings and suicide. From Milo of all people. Was this ever demonstrated in a credible study? I certainly believe it, and raise my daughters accordingly, but I would love to have some evidence to persuade other mothers to do the same...	/r/MensRights	16/02/18 01:20 PM
3	Buzzfeed just can't stop objectifying men Jesus Christ, I hope you're being sarcastic.	/r/MensRights	12/02/18 07:07 PM
4	Men are trash ... that is a really smart way to frame the issue. I've been talking a lot about this with my junior-high-aged daughter, and this is a very succinct way to get the message across. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	10/02/18 11:12 AM
5	Someone give that tight little skier a gold medal already - for her ass... How about recognizing his incredible fortitude, wearing the traditional dress of his warm-climate nation in KOREA IN THE WINTER?!?	/r/MensRights	10/02/18 11:10 AM
5	This sign in the bathroom of my doctors office implies abusive relationships are men’s fault I'm so sorry that happened to you. Asking the question without the proper training in how to respond is WORSE THAN USELESS.	/r/MensRights	10/02/18 11:08 AM
1	Good to see this in public media! Are they aware that they exist? Do they have a conscious preference to continue existing, or are their behaviors purely instinctive? Neonates of any species, chickens, fish - not sentient. Cows - borderline. Horses - I think so. Pigs - I'm almost sure. Gorillas - definitely. I'm not a scientist. I don't kill babies and I do eat pork. This is just my opinion based on my interactions with these various living things.	/r/MensRights	07/02/18 10:05 PM
2	Good to see this in public media! I do have kids. Neonates are not sentient. It amazes me that anybody who has ever cared for a neonate thinks of them as sentient.	/r/MensRights	07/02/18 09:42 PM
2	[Essay] \| Th Other Whisper Network, by Katie Roiphe: How Twitter feminism is bad for women This one, I can share and hope that it will get a fair hearimg. Thank you, /u/DougDante.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 10:56 PM
0	No man should EVER have to suffer like my husband - for want of a simple jab: RUTH SUNDERLAND reveals her loved-one's ordeal after a damning report on the failure to immunise boys against the killer HPV virus Incredibly well-written. I wish that this had been published by a legitimate journalistic outlet. I have a lot of people in my social circle who are probably ready to take HPV prevention for boys seriously - but they aren't going to give credence to anything published in the Daily Fail.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 09:28 PM
4	"Comedian" Sarah Silverman Says Pro-Life Laws "Make Me Want to Eat an Aborted Fetus": From free bleeding to incest to cannibalism, feminists have an obsession with promoting things generally considered disgusting Please don't link to that moronic site in this sub. The MRM has enough credibility problems without creating associations with the antichoice nutters.	/r/MensRights	04/02/18 09:15 PM
0	How is this still legal in the USA? Definitely a concern. I was avoiding sex with drunk strangers BEFORE it was cool... but yeah, I could wish that it was still just a dumbass idea, not a dumbass idea that could ruin your life.	/r/MensRights	03/02/18 05:08 PM
2	How is this still legal in the USA? Possibly a great establishment for men to get laid - just not by me. I'm married.	/r/MensRights	03/02/18 12:47 PM
4	Math assignment given to a public school 8th grader. Yes. Cross-curricular material gone horribly wrong.	/r/MensRights	02/02/18 10:17 PM
3	How is this still legal in the USA? When somebody offers you a product/experience for less than it's worth, YOU are one of the the products/experiences they are marketing. I don't give a fuck about ladies nights, as long as everybody in attendance understands what is going on. I am sure I could drink $10 worth of booze and emerge from that establishment unmolested.	/r/MensRights	02/02/18 10:04 PM
2	Men are more attractive when desired by other women, study finds The "potential for stray" is another universal aspect of human mating patterns. Are you seriously suggesting that men select unattractive women as wives as a strategy for avoiding adultery? If this has been your observation, then you and I are living on different planets.	/r/MensRights	31/01/18 01:55 PM
1	Men are more attractive when desired by other women, study finds Heather Locklear recently explained this, presumably for the benefit of embittered jerks such as yourself: http://m.tmz.com/#2017/04/19/heather-locklear-david-spade-big-penis/	/r/MensRights	30/01/18 11:01 PM
-1	Men are more attractive when desired by other women, study finds I agree that it's a revelation along the lines of "water is wet, fire is hot" - but I disagree that this mating preference deserves such a negative characterization. Men want their wife to be desirable to other men. Women want their husband to be desirable to other women. We can either be mutually pissed off that beauty and social status are factors in mate selection and accuse each other of "dehumanizing," or we can work with the hand evolution dealt us and try to be decent to each other.	/r/MensRights	30/01/18 10:55 PM
1	I was kicked out of my son’s Watch D.O.G.S program today. This is a forum for men's rights activists to discuss men's rights issues. If you want a male-only support group, go find one. Nice try to derail our sub.	/r/MensRights	27/01/18 05:28 PM
-1	I was kicked out of my son’s Watch D.O.G.S program today. Fair enough, that part WAS well said. Too bad he decided to keep typing.	/r/MensRights	26/01/18 09:13 AM
-4	I was kicked out of my son’s Watch D.O.G.S program today. What part was well said? The part where he denigrated women as a group and then blamed us for the fact that a male school principal treated you like shit?	/r/MensRights	26/01/18 03:10 AM
33	Cub Scout girls program requires an adult female to watch male den leaders. This is the right choice in our current social climate. It's not to protect the girls, it's to protect the men.	/r/MensRights	25/01/18 12:51 AM
1	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades It's an interesting question. There are some things where the ability to get the answer quickly is extremely valuable. Is mathematics one of those things? I don't know, I'm just a lowly English major ;-) But given the notoriety of time pressure in this particular series of tests across all the disciplines, I'm open to the possibility that increasing the time would increase the ability of the test to measure what they are trying to measure.	/r/MensRights	23/01/18 02:57 PM
1	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades Historically, that has been a huge part of this testing process. But I'm open to the idea that the process may require modification in order to more accurately identify the most talented students in a given discipline.	/r/MensRights	22/01/18 10:23 PM
1	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades Again, we're not talking about passing. We're talking about getting a First - the equivalent of an "Outstanding" on your Ordinary Wizarding Levels. I would not be surprised if both male and female students score better on this test given a few extra minutes. My main question as a teacher would be, was this test badly structured before and depriving excellent students of a First that they truly merited, or does extending the time result in mediocre students receiving an undeserved First? I hope t…	/r/MensRights	22/01/18 10:21 PM
1	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades I would't expect anything, I am not an Oxford don and haven't been anecdotally observing these students. But reading between the lines of that article, I think it possible that the maths faculty has been observing that there are fewer female students taking a First than they would expect, given the number of female students performing at a high level in their classes. If you don't think that your test is accurately identifying your most gifted students, altering the structure of the test does ma…	/r/MensRights	22/01/18 12:10 PM
12	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades Actually, they appear to be focused on the fact that only seven women got Firsts last year. If you read the article, the dons have anecdotally observed that female students are more likely to double check their answers before volunteering them in class, while males were faster to answer but more likely to give an incorrect response. Is 90 minutes the ideal time frame in which to assess undergraduates to identify the most gifted mathematicians? I don't know, and neither do the dons. As long as th…	/r/MensRights	21/01/18 10:09 PM
4	Oxford University extends time for maths and computer science exams in bid to help women get better grades That Barbie made my mom so fucking furious.	/r/MensRights	21/01/18 10:00 PM
4	Once a man has served his time and paid his debt to society, his punishment is over. We can not pander to female histeria to satisfy the feminist agenda. Sex crime is not worse than murder. If we don't extend murder's time, then neither for a rapist. I wonder if they could try him for some of the rapes he hasn't already served time for and get him back inside that way. I understand why his release might be necessary, because the parole board absolutely must follow the law even if the law has a stupid-ass loophole in it... but this guy needs to be dead or in a cage. Frankly, if they want to keep him alive, they'll find a way to get him back into his cage - he's a very extreme offender and everybody in the UK knows what he looks like. Somebody…	/r/MensRights	21/01/18 01:55 AM
2	Height discrimination against short men I agree with everything you are saying. Women face similar issues with regard to body shape and facial structure - some of which are far more alterable than height, and some of which are not. A bulldog-shaped woman is never going to have a beautiful figure, no matter how hard she exercises, and her SMV will always be lower than shapely women in her age/financial/personality peer group. I don't think there is anything we can do to change the human preference for tall men and beautiful women.	/r/MensRights	20/01/18 04:17 PM
19	I believe male victims of rape more than female victims. Is this bad, or is it an analysis of benefits?! I'm not sure you should believe OR disbelieve anybody's rape story unless you know them well enough to have a decent grasp on how honest of a person they are in general. What you are doing - expressing sympathy and telling them to report the crime - seems socially appropriate in all cases.	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 12:16 PM
-1	Transgender activist slams men who won’t have sex with men who look like women "Celibate Religious Fundamentalist Thinks His Opinions On Sexuality Are Relevant To The General Population. Also, He Spends A Lot Of Time Following Trannies on Twitter." LOL. One fucked-up dude criticizing another fucked-up dude. Jesus will totally heal what ails both of them if they just pray hard enough.	/r/MensRights	18/01/18 01:51 AM
0	Misandrist piece on show at the Bellevue Art Museum - "Don't Talk To Me" Nobody is forcing you to pursue women, particularly not by initiating with total strangers in a public venue. Seriously. It's a voluntary endeavor. If it's not fun for you, then do not do it. But complaining about how most women prefer this approach is like complaining about how most men men prefer a woman who can get into a rowboat without capsizing it. Human nature isn't politically correct, and nobody owes you attention of the sexual variety.	/r/MensRights	17/01/18 02:52 PM
14	Sweden: A birth-control app that's 'as effective as the pill using only math' is facing a major problem the problem is that it relies on couples to change their behavior and abstain from sex when the app says to do so. Or, you know, use a condom. Nothing is idiotproof and this app is no exception. Signed, The Unplanned Daughter Of A Man Who Claims He Believed That The Letter "O" On The Calender Stood For "OK To Have Sex Today"	/r/MensRights	17/01/18 02:43 PM
1	The Handmaid’s Tale Author Margaret Atwood Accused of Crimes Against Feminism for Defending Due Process. I have not had any conversations with women (or men) who mistook The Handmaid's Tale for a documentary.	/r/MensRights	16/01/18 07:43 PM
0	The Handmaid’s Tale Author Margaret Atwood Accused of Crimes Against Feminism for Defending Due Process. I'm not misconstruing anything. You're trying to pretend that anger and the action stemming from anger are not legitimate because the catalyst was an imaginative exercise. The power of the human imagination to create empathy for the victims of human depravity is not a bug. It's a feature. Try to cultivate that ability in yourself rather than devaluing it in others.	/r/MensRights	15/01/18 08:14 PM
-1	The Handmaid’s Tale Author Margaret Atwood Accused of Crimes Against Feminism for Defending Due Process. You just noticed that the human imagination has the power to stir up strong emotions? Brother, you've been missing out. This is not a female-specific ability, although little boys tend to have it drummed out of them by social indoctrination. Give it a whirl! Maybe with something happy, though, if the experience is new to you.	/r/MensRights	15/01/18 01:09 PM
1	Police sued by female police offer over dog handling test Where a standard test had negative impacts on members of a protected group, here women, then it either needs to be changed or objectively justified.' This is the central point. The requirement that search-and-rescue dog handlers pass an endurance test is objectively justifiable - they need to be able to walk for hours at a stretch over rough terrain. The requirement that they have the strength to carry their canine partner for a long period of time is NOT objectively justifiable in the UK in 201…	/r/MensRights	13/01/18 07:28 PM
2	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. We avoid activities like this for similar reasons - I am a mom of teen boys, happy to let them take field trips, but the other parents involved make me nuts and I am NOT interested in sleeping in a one-room cabin with a group of their age peers. They would be uncomfortable, and I would be uncomfortable.	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 10:21 PM
2	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. I wasn't being sarcastic, I was being realistic. Same-sex chaperones are the best choice for this kind of situation, where one lone adult is sleeping in a cabin with a group of children they do not know well (if at all). Most of the volunteers will be female, which means that a few of the women and most of the boys have to do the opposite-gender thing, while the girls have plenty of same-sex volunteers to cover their cabins. OP is male, and a parent, and seems to understand why same-sex cabin pa…	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 10:14 PM
2	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. Women face far less risk of false accusations. I don't know what the campground is thinking when they make their policies, but as a person organizing an overnight school trip, I would be far more willing to put a mother unsupervised with boys than a father unsupervised with girls, for the sole reason that the mothers are less likely to have their reputations shredded by a lying kid. ETA: false accusations, like molestation, are extremely unlikely outcomes in any scenario.	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 10:04 PM
-1	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. Well yes, kids old enough for an overnight field trip ARE statistically more likely to be molested by a male, whereas preschoolers are more likely to be molested by a female, and most men who molest boys are straight-presenting. You need to actually read what you are citing to make sure it doesn't say the opposite of what you think it says :-) I think that's all entirely beside the point though, because stranger molestation is such a rare occurrence. Same-sex chaperonage is about protecting the …	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 03:09 PM
0	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. "Discrimination" can be a bad word that we use to discourage people from making informed choices in social situations. OP admits that a dad supervising 11 girls overnight, sleeping in the cabin with them, isn't what he'd prefer unless he were the dad in question. He has the opportunity to allow the boy parents to be equally "discriminating" in their choice of chaperones by volunteering to supervise a boy cabin. Situations where unrelated adults supervise kids they do not know overnight on a fiel…	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 03:01 PM
3	Mothers can stay in sons cabins, fathers can not stay in daughters. Here is my input - you just said yourself that you would not be thrilled by some random guy being the cabin parent for your daughter. They are letting moms chaperone their sons' cabins because they do not have enough dads volunteering to provide male chaperones for all the boy cabins. If you want to be part of the solution rather than part of the problem, why not volunteer to be the cabin parent for one of the boy cabins so the mom who would otherwise be stuck with that assignment (since the vas…	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 03:27 AM
12	The sad part isn't that she committed suicide - it's the fact that out of every 5 suicides, 4 of them are male. They however aren't worthy of a mention. No, the sad part of this story is that an 8th grader took her own life. This is not a competition. Jesus Christ.	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 03:20 AM
7	'No one is to separate me from my babies': Harrowing note left by mother who killed herself and her two young children with methadone Please don't talk about serious, painful subjects that you clearly know nothing about. Religious people do it. Atheists do it. Addicts do it. Teetotallers do it. Women do it. Men do it. Mostly, people DON'T do it, because in order to fuck up this badly you need to be both seriously mentally ill and having a situational crisis, and most of us do not face those two problems simultaneously.	/r/MensRights	12/01/18 01:05 AM
3	A real life example of the costs associated with the mythic of wage gap - A court tries to hire a part time replacement for woman going on maternity leave This is a cost associated with working people having children. It's not the "mythic of wage gap," it's the reality of how the next generation of workers are produced. All other developed nations have managed to handle this issue. The United States, with its corporate-fellating political culture, still allows exploitative practices such as refusing to hire interim workers when people take parental leave.	/r/MensRights	09/01/18 04:11 AM
3	Girl I dated briefly 8 years ago has been telling me Her child is my kid since it was born , but she refuses to allow me to do a dna test. Do I have any rights as far as a paternity test?? I agree that it's a bad idea. It's also a bad idea for the man raising this child not to be his legal father. Maybe you should offer to relinquish your rights so that his stepfather can adopt? As part of that process, you might get your DNA test - but again, I must stress, you might get a court order for child support.	/r/MensRights	08/01/18 12:13 AM
8	Girl I dated briefly 8 years ago has been telling me Her child is my kid since it was born , but she refuses to allow me to do a dna test. Do I have any rights as far as a paternity test?? Has this woman sought child support from you? I'm not telling you not to claim your kid, but you need to realize that if you initiate court proceedings to force a paternity test and you are the biological father, the judge can and will sock with you with 8 years of back child support, even if she is jumping up and down yelling "I don't want it, Your Honor." If you have been acting as a father to this child, or you want to take on that role, then it makes sense to insist on a paternity test. But …	/r/MensRights	07/01/18 11:06 AM
5	Professor refuses order to teach on feminist author for sake of gender balance In November, in an interview with the Swedish magazine Kvartal, Judith Butler was asked what she thought about having her work imposed on a lecturer in the name of gender equality. “I am not in favor of my work being imposed by quotas,” Butler said. “Suggestions can be made about how to expand perspectives on gender, or which texts might be useful, but the final judgment has to be made by the faculty member.” Well done, Judith.	/r/MensRights	07/01/18 10:36 AM
7	Children found in filth. Parents charged with endangering their welfare. Home maker mom given lighter sentence than dad who often worked double shifts. If this article is correct, then the woman completed several court-ordered classes while incarcerated, and the man did not. It is very typical for judges to shorten sentences when the offender has made progress on their treatment plan. Now, the man's prison may not have offered the same level of access to classes as the women's prison, and that is both common and extremely unfair. Incarceration for either party seems excessive to me. The kids weren't hurt and they weren't starved. Taking them aw…	/r/MensRights	06/01/18 01:21 PM
1	Why is child support the way it is? Happy New Year to you! I don't think we can expect any person to take legal responsibility for what another person might do several years down the line. Do people make stupid mate choices? Heck yeah. But if we don't have a legal mechanism for obtaining child support from noncustodial parents, then we're 1) making a social declaration that taking care of your kids is voluntary and 2) making one adult responsible for another adult's malfeasance. The "you should have picked a better mate" line of t…	/r/MensRights	06/01/18 01:08 PM
1	The MGTOW debate Actual trauma.	/r/MensRights	04/01/18 01:15 AM
2	Editorial Director of Huffington Post Tweets, 'New Year's Resolution: 1. Cultivate female friendships 2. ban together to kill all men' Her Twitter feed has gone private. No doubt she feels horribly oppressed by all the negative feedback she received over tweeting a genocidal fantasy.	/r/MensRights	02/01/18 02:59 AM
10	Browsing Reddit is worthy of a PhD from Indiana University these days (What? Mentions GamerGate and Men's Rights subreddit) It took her the better part of a year to decide that every single one of us was too scary to talk to. Every. Single. One. Not the tiny minority who engage in violent ideation. Not the entire group as a whole using her real name and address. Absolutely no participant in this sub, including public figures who regularly give interviews to media outlets, was a good candidate for a safe and ethical interview by a grad student. Pathetic. Her committee should have demanded better work.	/r/MensRights	02/01/18 02:34 AM
2	The MGTOW debate ... and men are sexual predators. You can't trust them or understand them, because they have no code of behavior. Everything they do is ultimately focused on obtaining pussy, preferably without force but they'll use force if they have to. That's nonsense, of course, but a common attitude among female trauma survivors.	/r/MensRights	31/12/17 02:58 PM
1	TIL of Castrato, a type of classical male singing voice created by castration before puberty. At the height of the craze for these voices from 1720-1730 it has been estimated that upwards of 4,000 boys were castrated annually in the service of art. If the historical accounts are to be believed, most castrati demonstrated significant vocal ability as children and neither they nor their families opposed the mutilation. It was an honor, and an elevation in social status. Still not OK, obviously. But not like the forced castration of adult warriors either. A different system and a more indirect form of coercion.	/r/MensRights	31/12/17 02:52 PM
12	TIL of Castrato, a type of classical male singing voice created by castration before puberty. At the height of the craze for these voices from 1720-1730 it has been estimated that upwards of 4,000 boys were castrated annually in the service of art. I heard a tape recording of one of the last living castrati in high school. Remember the Diva in the 5th Element? It was like that. It was a horrible human rights violation, but I could understand why a culture that valued individual lives so little and sacred music so highly would do this thing.	/r/MensRights	31/12/17 03:56 AM
2	NYT: Harassment is Cause of Females Avoiding Manual Work You are really loving that meme today :-)	/r/MensRights	31/12/17 03:51 AM
1	Daddies, “Dates,” and the Girlfriend Experience: Welcome to the New Prostitution Economy I tend to see these kinds of trends as the social equivalent of a pool vacuum. Suck up the scum (pros and johns alike) and let everybody else fish out of cleaner water. Prostitition is neither feminist nor antifeminist. It's neither misogynistic nor misandric. It's generally distasteful to people not inclined towards the lifestyle, and particularly distasteful to people who are interested in marriage and family. So let SeekingArrangenent continue to vacuum the dating pool. Who cares?	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 07:11 PM
0	Daddies, “Dates,” and the Girlfriend Experience: Welcome to the New Prostitution Economy Presumably the johns also attempt to hide this aspect of themselves from their wives, daughter's, mothers and any other woman who they wish to have a real relationship with.	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 07:05 PM
2	The MGTOW debate I know female rape victims with a very similar perspective. It's certainly their right to have that perspective, but it makes me sad for them. Such a deeply ingrained bias against half the human race is a big limitation to live your life under, even when the trauma survivor perceives it as liberating.	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 03:35 PM
1	The MGTOW debate I wouldn't even call this disengaging. I have a couple of male friends who seem to have adopted this credo - they're still totally engaged with me and my family on a platonic level. Like OP though, they have kids already, and I do think that is protective against MGTOW extremism. They are still in the game in terms of wanting a decent world for their children and someday grandchildren, so the "fiddle and watch it burn" approach to social problems doesn't tempt them.	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 03:31 PM
3	Editorial Director of Huffington Post Tweets, 'New Year's Resolution: 1. Cultivate female friendships 2. ban together to kill all men' She either deleted it, or Twitter did.	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 02:00 PM
1	NYT: Harassment is Cause of Females Avoiding Manual Work It's not misogynistic, but it is pretty stupid. Men and women should obviously be allowed to pursue whatever occupations they are qualified for without being discriminated against on the basis of their sex. But expecting the gender ratio in any profession to be 50/50 is just another way of pretending that we are not a sexually dimorphic species. Will there be more females in high-risk, highly-paid professions in 100 years? Probably. Social attitudes will continue to change, and technology will c…	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 01:52 PM
2	Why can't men wear shorts in the workpalce or in bars, women wear short skirts and shorts in these places Well, sure. My mom did not find the outfit demeaning, but she didn't enjoy being required to wear a skirt, heels and pantyhose for a job that involved a lot of walking, bending, lifting, and the wiping up of shit and vomit. Scrubs were a big improvement. T I see the current male dress code for most professional workplaces as flawed in the same way - it's not demeaning to wear slacks or a tie, but it can be impractical and uncomfortable. ETA: she did find the tiny hat somewhat demeaning, because …	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 01:03 AM
1	Singapore basically hates all men: Singapore court rejects gay man's bid to adopt biological son. Don't people who use surrogates in the USA have to legally adopt the child, since the child was not conceived naturally? I'm not saying that makes any sense whatsoever, just that I thought it was the method all countries used to confer legal parenthood on people who paid a surrogate.	/r/MensRights	30/12/17 12:58 AM
8	I'm currently with my two baby girls that I see twice a year and I still don't know how to act It's insane how much trouble MJ use causes my clients. Insane. I watched a kid get pulled from her grandmother's loving care and placed with strangers because of a tiny amount of THC residue on her clothing. Of course, we can't discount the risk to the child when MJ users start hooking to get their fix and bring johns around the house and then go on a bender and don't come home for three days... oh wait, my mistake, that's meth.	/r/MensRights	29/12/17 12:55 PM
7	Why can't men wear shorts in the workpalce or in bars, women wear short skirts and shorts in these places You have the equal right to push back against dress codes that discriminate against you on the basis of your sex. But you'll have to do the work. It takes a long time, it's not fun, and the first wave of activists are going to pay a social price for their refusal to conform. But my mother started her nursing career wearing a dress, heeled shoes and a ridiculous little hat. By the time she retired, the uniform was functional, comfortable and gender-neutral. Change is possible.	/r/MensRights	29/12/17 12:45 PM
2	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? Are you honestly claiming someone like Milton Friedman does not have a developed political ideology? Here is a good discussion with him about Libertarianism. Most libertarians in the US do not have developed ideas and do not truly consider their beliefs. But the same is true of most people of every belief. Fair enough. Friedman is certainly more politically knowledgeable and sophisticated than I am. Of course, so was Himmler - very smart people can construct very stupid/evil political frameworks…	/r/MensRights	29/12/17 02:33 AM
1	My wife gets charges for her dismissed and I get the DV charge for defending myself. I consider it a great compliment to be held in low esteem by people who advocate for forced abortions. Crawl back under your rock now, please.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 10:43 PM
3	My wife gets charges for her dismissed and I get the DV charge for defending myself. Did you just try to brag about your lifestyle by telling us you were playing a PC game while eating fast food? Is this some sort of meta self-deprecation?	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 10:36 PM
30	Anti-Circumcision Activists Are Making More Noise. A group will protest the annual meeting of the American Academy of Pediatrics in the fall. Though the movement has suffered accusations of anti-Semitism, a sizable portion of it is made up of Jews. I have never seen a mainstream Jewish media outlet admit this before. Makes my goddamned day :-)	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 09:22 PM
1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? At least you're honest about it, unlike the other fuckwit who is pretending that kidnapping poor kids away from their families is some sort of compassionate act.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 09:16 PM
1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? You are literally suggesting that the government steal poor people's children rather than providing substinence for the family via social welfare programs. Did you fall into a wormhole in 19th-century New York City and end up on the internet?	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 03:45 AM
1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? You are literally suggesting that the government steal poor people's children.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 03:40 AM
-10	My wife gets charges for her dismissed and I get the DV charge for defending myself. I don't ascribe the bad actions of one person to half the human race.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 03:38 AM
0	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? You have serious issues distinguishing between poverty and malfeasance.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 02:30 AM
1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? It's spelled "bear." Poverty is not child abuse. I'd rather pay my taxes so nobody has to starve. I'd rather you do the same.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 02:28 AM
0	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? Rational adults of both sexes accept the coercive power of the state to tax them in exchange for not living in some kind of Hobbesian nightmare. Adults trapped in their political adolescence (in America, we call them "libertarians") feel that taxation is akin to slavery, forced breeding, emasculation, etc. They vote their beliefs, get outvoted, decide not to leave the country, and the business of the world goes on.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 02:25 AM
1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? You ignorant piece of shit. There have been times in human history where children were kidnapped from poor parents and given to wealthier families. It still happens in developing nations. But in the first world, human trafficking is generally frowned upon these days.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 02:14 AM
-1	Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences? You would rather steal poor people's children than pay welfare benefits?	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 02:09 AM
2	My wife gets charges for her dismissed and I get the DV charge for defending myself. You are a thousand times better off out of that house. I am sorry the system treated you unjustly, but glad that the abusive relationship is ending. Every DV/IPV victim I have worked with is severely traumatized by the initial separation. They know that they should be happy, but they are so enmeshed with the abuser that they can't feel that way until they get a little distance.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 01:58 AM
-10	My wife gets charges for her dismissed and I get the DV charge for defending myself. If that is what you take from this tragic edge-case story, I am also glad you are not married to any person.	/r/MensRights	28/12/17 01:52 AM
4	Me Too Did you delete the account, or did Twitter?	/r/MensRights	26/12/17 05:24 AM
8	Me Too Wow. Well done.	/r/MensRights	26/12/17 05:19 AM
1	Why is child support the way it is? I agree that jail for any kind of debt, even child support, is unethical. There are other coercive measures for deadbeats, such as paycheck garnishing, that I am prepared to tolerate.	/r/MensRights	26/12/17 05:17 AM
2	Why is child support the way it is? Some of the loving, responsible custodial fathers I have helped in dealing with their deadbeat ex have had neck tattoos and criminal histories. Some of the loving, responsible custodial mothers I have helped have had had deadbeat exes who present themselves in court as clean-cut Christian men who are being "extorted" by the court's expectation that they should support their bastard child. Every individual is responsible for their own actions with regard to their child. When one parent is a deadb…	/r/MensRights	26/12/17 03:13 AM
2	Why is child support the way it is? Actually, I don't place all the responsibility on the man. I hold each parent equally responsible for the children they create. I have sympathy for men whose casual sex partners partners carried to term agasinst their will - but in the age of social media, I can get a pretty clear picture of how a man felt about his baby when it was born, and anybody who was excited about a newborn and is withholding support for that same child a few years later is a waste of space, food and oxygen. Trying to bl…	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 09:12 PM
1	Uncovering another layer of understanding of what it means to be a child in the post separation landscape. Most married people don't mistreat their children. Most divorced people don't mistreat their children. Most PEOPLE do not mistreat their children. This blogger either needs a lot more therapy or had already had too much. All I want for Christmas is for people this fucked up to refrain from giving other people advice.	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 04:37 PM
2	Christmas Eve red pilling by the economist. Thank you for providing for your family. I hope that you can be with them next year.	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 02:16 PM
1	Why is child support the way it is? Merry Christmas. If you worked with at-risk children, as I do, I think you'd probably feel exactly the same way about men who have to be forced to help support their children at the minimal level required by my state for low-income parents. I can recognize that debtor's prison is a human rights violation and simultaneously comprehend that people who do not voluntarily exert themselves to help provide for their children, even when they no longer love their child's other parent, are the scum of th…	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 02:11 PM
1	Why is child support the way it is? Responsibility, bastard. Most of my clients were never married - they were in love, had a baby, broke up a few years later, and because the father now has other priorities, the support of the child is something the court needs to order. It's disgusting and pathetic, and a lot of good and decent men are punished with debtor's-prison policies enacted in response to deadbeat behavior. As I said, I believe that imprisonment for debt has no place in 21st-century society. But every time I am dealing w…	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 03:24 AM
3	Why is child support the way it is? In my state, people in arrears on their support order (almost always men, although the law is gender-neutral) can be jailed indefinitely without right of representation. Their prison wages are applied to their child support debt. Now, I have clients who started getting help from able-bodied exes for the first time EVER as a result of this harsh program. The men involved weren't put in prison, either - the credible threat was enough to make them heed the court's order to help provide for their ki…	/r/MensRights	24/12/17 01:31 PM
1	South Carolina officer making a tough arrest gets a helping hand: female Columbia officer trying to arrest an aggressive man at a convenience store .. she pulls out her stun gun..the two tussle..hit with Mace. If your point is to denigrate female police officers, you picked a shitty example. The guy got stunned and maced and kept fighting. That's going to be a problem for most cops working without a partner. Clearly, the perp was either on PCP and wearing Kevlar, or is a cyborg from the future.	/r/MensRights	24/12/17 05:08 AM
1	'A paradise for adult abusers': Shocking accounts of how children were ‘raped, beaten and run over by HORSES’ at a Texas ranch for vulnerable boys: From 1950 to 1990, initially licensed by the state in 1979. PLEASE DO NOT DO THAT. These allegations are from years ago. If places like this that have made the necessary changes close down due to Internet witch hunts, the children who live there are the ones who suffer.	/r/MensRights	23/12/17 02:08 PM
1	"We should never force any man to become a parent against his will or question his decisions about pregnancy. We don't know his circumstances. Shame on our legislators for judging anyone else's decision about something as important as whether to become a parent" I don't see social safety net programs as paying for the sex that the parent of a poor child enjoyed. That child is my fellow citizen, and he is entitled to a roof over his head, clothes on his back, food in his belly, and knowledge in his brain. Whatever selfish/stupid choices his parents may have made are irrelevent to the fact that he exists and deserves both basic sustenance and the opportunity to become a productive member of society.	/r/MensRights	23/12/17 02:02 PM
1	Found this in the men's bathroom of a restaurant I went to recently. Some of them clearly do. I am a married old lady with no special powers of perception, and HOLY SHIT the things I hear from adjoining tables in restaurants. The timid men and women connect with freaks via the Interwebs and wind up living their worst nightmare in a public venue.	/r/MensRights	19/12/17 05:31 AM
1	Found this in the men's bathroom of a restaurant I went to recently. The one actually being protected is the socially marginal person's date.	/r/MensRights	19/12/17 01:39 AM
8	Found this in the men's bathroom of a restaurant I went to recently. The point of this is to help awkward or timid people deal with a potentially difficult social situation, not to mock or dehumanize anybody else. I'm very glad this is spreading to the gents.	/r/MensRights	19/12/17 01:38 AM
3	Girl is looking for a guy who gets turned on by feminism and social justice issues. Good luck. We'll, she is The Destroyer of Worlds...	/r/MensRights	14/12/17 01:20 PM
2	Gender pay gap is perpetuated by teenage girls who want jobs that pay less, study finds I agree with all of that - but that doesn't excuse the contempt for secretarial work. You don't have to be a coal miner in order for your job to be legitimately useful and/or challenging. Some of these social problems are seriously exacerbated by the artificial devaluing of traditionally female jobs.	/r/MensRights	14/12/17 03:39 AM
-16	Gender pay gap is perpetuated by teenage girls who want jobs that pay less, study finds Go ask yourself why you have such contempt for secretarial labor. Most men choose jobs based on the wage paid - they expect to be the primary earner. Most women choose jobs that are compatible with raising children - they expect to be the primary caregiver. There is actually nothing wrong with this.	/r/MensRights	14/12/17 01:17 AM
2	The naked hard truth about feminist "logic" And men have a built-in desire to rape. Oh, wait. That's crazy.	/r/MensRights	12/12/17 01:20 AM
-1	Post in r/relationships - stay-at-home father of 6-year old doesn't want to get a job. Called lazy, entitled, leech, etc. My husband looked me right in the eyes and said "do something about it" when I was upset that he wouldn't get a job. Sounds to me like the guy wants out. Doesn't want to be a SAHD for the baby she's expecting (he has asked her to abort), and doesn't want to get a job. There is some sexism in that thread, but also a lot of pure realism - the OP is describing a shitty spouse, and being advised to leave him.	/r/MensRights	10/12/17 03:45 PM
0	Gloria Allred under Attack Go sit on a tiki torch. We will replace you :-)	/r/MensRights	10/12/17 02:29 PM
-2	Gloria Allred under Attack If you link to alt-right sources, then rational people cannot take you seriously. By your own admission, you had access to a wide range of more credible sources to link to. You chose to drag that garbage into this sub, and doubled down when the stench of it was pointed out to you. Please make a better choice the next time you have something to share.	/r/MensRights	10/12/17 02:33 AM
1	Female ritual mutalitor of infant boys’ penises. But don’t worry, she tries to be as “compassionate as possible”. Did you have a stroke while writing this post?	/r/MensRights	09/12/17 08:17 PM
4	Female ritual mutalitor of infant boys’ penises. But don’t worry, she tries to be as “compassionate as possible”. The gender of a mohel is irrelevent. Whether MGM is performed by a mohel who is not a doctor, a Jewish doctor who is also a mohel, or a doctor who is not a mohel, is also irrelevant. MGM is a human rights violation no matter who does it, and no matter what their reasons are for doing it.	/r/MensRights	09/12/17 08:15 PM
2	All adult children in parental care to be eligible for child support \| Toronto Star This is insane. Parents have never, in any situation, had a LEGAL OBLIGATION to support their adult children. Disabled adults are entitled to support from the state.	/r/MensRights	09/12/17 02:35 PM
1	Reason #38622489 why marriage makes no sense for men That was my first thought as well. Because sometimes I live up to the stereotype.	/r/MensRights	07/12/17 01:36 AM
23	Reason #38622489 why marriage makes no sense for men The woman who wrote that would probably be totally fine with the gender reversal. Old-school is old-school. The women who like and repost it? Not so much.	/r/MensRights	06/12/17 08:28 PM
1	Ugh, My Dad’s Anti MRA I'm of 40, and most of my peers IRL are anti-MRA in one way or another, UNLESS they or somebody they love has personally experienced anti-male discrimination. If you don't have a reason to question the media narrative... usually you never do.	/r/MensRights	05/12/17 07:46 AM
3	Woman I love Chesterton, despite the many points of disagreement between us. He respected all people as sentient beings, and that goes a long way with me.	/r/MensRights	05/12/17 01:40 AM
5	Dutch man creates underwear specifically designed for circumcised men. Most American adults don't actually want circumcision outlawed. They think of it as a personal choice, with pros and cons, that should be left up to the parents to sort out - just like spanking or religious instruction. The fact that most of the anti-circ activists I know are females and feminists doesn't mean that MOST of the people in that demographic are passionate on the issue. Most people I know in every demographic are frankly not too fussed about it.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 03:21 AM
3	Dutch man creates underwear specifically designed for circumcised men. Nope. Women who were pregnant with sons, spent 5 minutes Googling, and realized that MGM was a horror show. In fact, I never knew any men besides my husband who were passionate about this issue until I discovered the MRM years later.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 01:54 AM
2	‘Womanspreading’ is officially a thing and it's all over your Instagram: "Manspreading is a bit of a kick in the teeth if we’re honest – especially when women are instructed from childhood to do completely the opposite. ‘Cross your legs’, ‘be more ladylike’" It's never the biggest guys who cross the line into obvious, deliberate rudeness.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 01:50 AM
6	‘Womanspreading’ is officially a thing and it's all over your Instagram: "Manspreading is a bit of a kick in the teeth if we’re honest – especially when women are instructed from childhood to do completely the opposite. ‘Cross your legs’, ‘be more ladylike’" IGAF on public transit, because everybody needs to mind their fucking manners in that situation and take up the least space possible when things are crowded.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 12:46 AM
32	BBC Christmas ident portrays a single working dad without making them a joke - well done BBC My God, that's beautiful.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 12:43 AM
3	Dutch man creates underwear specifically designed for circumcised men. Most of the anticirc activists I know in real life are feminists.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 12:40 AM
1	I hope this is not real... woman knows the kids aren't his, but made sure he signed birth certificate for Child Support later. If you were actually put in the position of discovering paternity fraud, I suspect that you wouldn't find your love for your child and your sense of obligation to them destroyed. Most men don't. If you did, then of course the ethical thing to do would be to leave and never come back. It's easier on the child to process the loss of a parent in childhood than to spend the rest of their lives dealing with somebody who has decided not to love them.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 12:31 AM
2	Michael Kimmel: Having a daughter makes a man an instant feminist. (Apparently men didn't have daughters before 1970s). I don't even know where to start with this dumpster fire of a post, so I guess I'll just have to pick a place: 1) People who identify as Native American have not referred to themselves as "American Indians" for about 40 years. 2) if you appeared on a talk show to speak about the MRM "on behalf of white men," it's weird that you'd expect to be perceived or treated as a Native American. 3) Professor Kimmel is a twat, but his Jewishness is not relevant to that fact 4) Nobody gives a fuck about Bert…	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 03:54 AM
1	I hope this is not real... woman knows the kids aren't his, but made sure he signed birth certificate for Child Support later. Oh, absolutely.	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 03:15 AM
1	I hope this is not real... woman knows the kids aren't his, but made sure he signed birth certificate for Child Support later. I'm an adoptive mother, I practice what I preach. But nobody ever LIED to me about the status of my biological relationship to my kids, and that's huge.	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 03:12 AM
-8	I hope this is not real... woman knows the kids aren't his, but made sure he signed birth certificate for Child Support later. Your kids are yours. That's a relationship that no DNA test can destroy unless you decide to destroy it. Now, is their mother a lying piece of filth? Probably not, but it would certainly be life-ruining for you if she was :-(	/r/MensRights	01/12/17 09:38 PM
1	Sex robots spark rise of men who will only sleep with dolls Totally fun to think about. I am fascinated by the idea of artificial intelligences - and weird as this sounds, anthropomorphizing the current sex dolls strikes me as insulting to the beings that will one day exist.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 07:33 PM
3	Sex robots spark rise of men who will only sleep with dolls We really need to work on the language around sex dolls. People do not "sleep with" sex dolls or "have romantic relationships" with sex dolls. They use sex dolls to masturbate. The stigma against male masturbation is still significant, so I can understand the impulse to avoid putting it front-and-center in the sex doll debate. But i believe that we do more harm than good by going along with the anti-sex-doll rhetoric that humanizes these toys.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 12:35 PM
2	From r/feminism Fathers are spending 3 times as much time with children as they did 50 years ago. 50% more if the are college grads. Women are also spending more time with kids than the used to. Gender roles converging. I don't think these kinds of studies are worth the paper they are printed on, because there is no agreed-upon definition for what counts as time spent of child-rearing. The French, for example, have lengthy and ritualistic family meals on a regular basis. It is a major component of their children's socialization. But because it is a child-inclusive activity rather than a child-centered activity, it is typically not counted as active parenting in these sorts of studies.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 12:26 PM
25	Watch out for this. Now A woman can just 'claim' you did something and you'll lose your job. I really wish this stereotype would die. Are there ugly feminists? Yes. Are there ugly MRAs? Yes. Is sour grapes a major driving force in either ideology? No.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 12:18 PM
1	Feminist posts body positive message in support of men: Pleasantly Surprised I'm all for sentient robots. I am fascinated by the concept, and I believe it to be possible. If they don't decide to exterminate us meat puppets and take over, I'll be among the vanguard agitating for full civil equality for my silicone-brained brethren. ... and this is why I am so floored by the notion that anything so far suggested as a "sexbot" could be perceived as being "good" at "sex and romance." If it's programmed to do what you want it to in the realm of intimate relations, there is no…	/r/MensRights	28/11/17 12:57 PM
1	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. I honestly don't understand how you think it could work differently. We can sit around and sound off about how all human rights violations are equally bad, but if you are interested in actually doing something, the first thing you do is specialize, because trying to do accomplish everything simultaneously ultimately results in accomplishing nothing. You and I have chosen to specialize in men's rights activism - not because they are the only problems worth addressing, but because this is where we…	/r/MensRights	27/11/17 03:21 AM
20	Feminists Are Not Even Hiding The Hate Anymore: If you're a woman and are currently pregnant with a baby boy... do us all a favor an take a trip to planned parenthood Right?!? You read about 50 of her tweets and realize that she is actually, literally mentally ill. Getting upset at what she says is like being angry at a poo-flinging chimpanzee. But the 782 people who clicked "like" on the pro-androcide comment... terrifying.	/r/MensRights	26/11/17 12:42 PM
-31	Feminists Are Not Even Hiding The Hate Anymore: If you're a woman and are currently pregnant with a baby boy... do us all a favor an take a trip to planned parenthood Jesus Christ. Keep that shit out of this sub. Sincerely, A Jewish Female	/r/MensRights	26/11/17 12:40 PM
1	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. Again, our disagreement transcends this issues discussed in this sub. "Everyone or no one" doesn't work at the strategic level, so I am OK with targeted activism. Berating activists who are focused on the rights of pregnant prisoners does precisely nothing to help male prisoners. Nor is such a focus "mothers and children first" in a way that devalues men - any more than activists working to improve access to prostate cancer screening are somehow devaluing women or children by working on a specif…	/r/MensRights	26/11/17 12:35 PM
0	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. We appear to have a disagreement that transcends our shared commitment to the MRM. I'm in favor of targeted approaches to all kinds of human rights activism, because I think that activists generally get better results when they specialize. Some people focus on kids, some people focus on women, some people focus on men. Some people focus on first-generation immigrants or specific ethnic or religious groups. Etc. If you don't think that a preventable miscarriage is the loss of a potential life and…	/r/MensRights	26/11/17 12:13 AM
0	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. I don't think women are the only prisoners who suffer from a lack of medical care. How could you possibly get that from what I said? I think that prenatal care for imprisoned pregnant women is a legitimate area of activism within the larger issue of prisoner rights, and that derision from other human rights activists is sadly misplaced.	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 09:07 PM
3	Married technology teacher, 39, who had sex with a girl, 17, while working at £15,000-a-year school is CLEARED of abusing his position because she was not even a pupil at his school. Ridiculous this case ever came to court. The CPS is trying to rewrite the law! If you're 17 when you do it, I am going to place most of the blame on the married adult.	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 08:56 PM
1	Man Sets Up Ghost Hunting Camera, Catches Wife Having Sex With His Son Instead If the dad was noncustodial and the relationship was actually "on-again, off-again" as described in the article, then it's not all that strange that the teenage girlfriend wasn't introduced to the child until she was older and the relationship had stabilized. Regardless of whether or not this woman was preyed upon as a teen, it's not acceptable to turn around and repeat the cycle. A sentence of six months seems appropriate to me for a purely statuatory offense - and yes, a man would have gotten …	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 04:56 AM
0	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. I totally agree that it should all be fixed. Every single bit of it. But when I consider what actually can be fixed in the current political climate, I can see how a bill being messaged as a lifesaving measure for unborn children might make it through Congress when almost nothing else related to prisoner rights will. I also happen to believe that it's a top priority ethically, for the reasons mentioned above. Ethics and political pragmatism dovetail nicely for me in this instance.	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 02:38 AM
3	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. Denying prenatal care should probably be classified as a separate offense. All of these conservatives who don't care if prisoners of either sex die from lack of medical care can't stop telling us how much they loooooooooove the unborn. Let them prove it. A miscarriage at 20 weeks outside of a hospital setting seriously endangers the life of a prisoner, just like any other major medical problem. Additionally, a potential life is lost - a child, grandchild, and sibling of people who have commited …	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 12:37 AM
0	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. Back to /r/mgtow, there's a dear...	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 12:24 AM
-9	Man Sets Up Ghost Hunting Camera, Catches Wife Having Sex With His Son Instead The perp in this case was 17 years old when an adult mnan with a nine year old child started fucking her. Now she is 28, and fucking his now-teenage son. Both of these adults are absolute trash and I feel terribly sorry for the teenage boy.	/r/MensRights	24/11/17 12:21 AM
-17	Man Sets Up Ghost Hunting Camera, Catches Wife Having Sex With His Son Instead Better analogy: a single mother with a 9 y.o. son starts dating a 17-year-old boy. Years later, the cycle of statuatory rape repeats itself. Would the man get more than six months in jail? Probably. But his lawyer would have one hell of an exculpatory story to tell to the jury.	/r/MensRights	23/11/17 09:08 PM
0	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. ... and male prisoners should have thought about the possibility of anal rape before they sold those drugs or jacked those cars Oh, wait. That's insane.	/r/MensRights	23/11/17 08:58 PM
-14	Pass the 'diginity for incarcerated women act'. Because dignity should be for women, not men. Male prisoners routinely suffer miscarriages while lying on the floors of their cells after 14 weeks of medical neglect? This is a legitimate grievance, specific to female biology, and shouldn't deserve to be dismissed by any free person. The other stuff in the proposed legislation also addresses legitimate grievances, but isn't specific to female biology and shouldn't be enacted only for incarcerated women.	/r/MensRights	23/11/17 08:55 PM
16	A feminist was very rude to me And a bigger problem than rudeness! What if the next Tinder chat session results in a 15-year-old sending you nudes? Please be more careful about your online social connections, OP. Men go to jail over this bullshit.	/r/MensRights	23/11/17 12:51 PM
10	I'm a straight man and I was raped – it destroyed my masculinity What's your point? The devastating effects of rape and the failure of the justice system to take it seriously are obviously of interest to MRAs, regardless of the sex of the rapist.	/r/MensRights	23/11/17 12:48 PM
6	Girl Scouts tells parents not to force daughters to hug relatives over the holidays I think it's fairly sad that any parent would need to be told this. We are old-fashioned, authoritative parents. Our children are expected to adhere to high standards of behavior at family gatherings. But forced embraces just make the kid even more hostile towards their weird/old/stinky/loud/bearded/whatevertheheck relative. It is counterproductive to insist on hugs.	/r/MensRights	21/11/17 09:49 PM
1	Men at Work Wonder if They Overstepped With Women, Too \| Many men are adopting the "Mike Pence rule". You tell people that you are recording them because it's the ethical thing to do, not because you are afraid of getting in trouble at some later date for your cache of secret recordings.	/r/MensRights	21/11/17 09:43 PM
6	A state DHHS may be "losing" paperwork from single fathers so that they do not get benefits. I am a children's advocate, focused on working with low-income custodial fathers. Yes, this stuff happens. I have never seen it happen to this degree - most social workers actually don't sit around thinking up ways to screw their clients over. But sexism, racism and bigotry against nonChristian parents are all things I have encountered, and the consequences for being this kind of asshole are practically nonexistent. That's my biggest issue - you'll always have a few bad apples in every barrel. I…	/r/MensRights	21/11/17 07:11 PM
1	Action opportunity - Support bill to remove anti-homeless devices in Dublin Ireland. Sleeping rough is incredibly dangerous, and unacceptable in a civilized society. Defensive architecture + regular patrols to collect people attempting this method of slow-motion suicide + way more shelter beds + way more free mental health and drug rehab services = problem solved. So of course, we do only the first part, because we are not a fully civilized species.	/r/MensRights	21/11/17 01:42 AM
2	'Can't breathe...help me.' All Woman Nursing Home Staff Laugh As Male Veteran Dies After Calling For Help Six Different Times Patients of both sexes die from nursing home neglect all the time. It rarely gets any press at all.	/r/MensRights	20/11/17 01:10 PM
4	'Can't breathe...help me.' All Woman Nursing Home Staff Laugh As Male Veteran Dies After Calling For Help Six Different Times The sex of the care providers is also irrelevant. I suppose we should just be grateful that OP didn't come up with a racist title, merely a sexist one. A sexist title is less likely to get us featured ShitRedditSays.	/r/MensRights	20/11/17 03:19 AM
3	I'm a manspreader If your body is in somebody else's seat, you are not accidentally touching them. You are doing it on purpose, because you feel entitled to invade their personal space. When there is enough room on public transport to avoid touching your fellow passengers, anybody who thinks that shoving their leg or side meat into their neighbor's seat is something they are entitled to do is simply an asshole. Gender is irrelevent - some of the worst offenders are large women who allow their bodies to droop into…	/r/MensRights	20/11/17 12:14 AM
5	I'm a manspreader Maybe by SJW standards. Here in realityland, taking up two seats on a crowded bus with your one body is appallingly rude. It's not illegal, but the person you're taking advantage of by intruding into their space isn't obliged to pretend that your behavior is OK. Stand in to doorway, right next to the lady with the stroller who is ALSO not entitled to block a second seat.	/r/MensRights	18/11/17 03:19 PM
-26	Surrogate mother who changed her mind must hand baby to gay couple, court rules. The child was conceived using sperm from one of the men and an egg from a Spanish donor, meaning one of the gay couple is a genetic relative of the child, but the birth mother and father are not. Hooray, another deliberately created half-orphan, with bonus trauma of being removed as a toddler from the only parents they have even known. I hate surrogacy, and all other forms of reproduction where one of the adults involved in creating the child is legally erased from the picture. As you can imagine, our family court system is a never-ending source of rage bait for me.	/r/MensRights	18/11/17 01:18 PM
-1	I'm a manspreader OK, if you know for sure that you cannot fit in one seat and you feel that flopping into the aisle is not a better solution, why don't you stand when there clearly isn't room for you to take up an extra seat, and get two people off their feet and out of the aisle? You're right that there is no cosmic justice in terms of how much you pay versus how much space you get on most public transit. I have often trundled a stroller onto a subway, I didn't pay extra for that stroller. But I could, and did,…	/r/MensRights	18/11/17 01:06 PM
1	I'm a manspreader Was any part of your body in her half of the seat? If so, you were in the wrong. She paid the same price as you for a seat and neither your knee nor your sidemeat should cross the demarcation line. My husband is 6'3" tall and manages to not flop into the seat space of his fellow passengers. If you kept your body on your half of the seat and she bitched anyway, then she's a bitch and I'm sorry you had to deal with her. I am a tiny lady, and when obliged to take a seat next to a very tall and/or o…	/r/MensRights	17/11/17 11:41 PM
0	[Update] I won my custody trial! Wow, for sure. The goal of parenting after divorce is to inflict maximum lifelong punishment using your children as pawns, even into adulthood! /s	/r/MensRights	17/11/17 12:33 PM
-1	How Living in Amsterdam Is Killing the Woman in Me \| A woman describes her misery living in a "genderless" city much like the world that feminists want to create Men in my demographic cohort are not dropping out of marriage. Celebrating sexual dimorphism in the private sphere makes life more fun for both men and women, and is not incompatible with social and professional equality. Well-raised and well-educated people understand that.	/r/MensRights	17/11/17 02:15 AM
-2	How Living in Amsterdam Is Killing the Woman in Me \| A woman describes her misery living in a "genderless" city much like the world that feminists want to create This woman isn't miserable. She just realizes that she gave something up in order to live in a truly egalitarian society. The impression I get is that she feels that what she gained is more valuable than what she lost. Now, me, I'm a natural optimist. I think we can have egalitarianism in the public sphere without giving up la difference in our social relationships.	/r/MensRights	17/11/17 01:25 AM
10	After talking with a mod of r/hatesubsinaction they have changed men’s rights activists to anti-feminist and included TERFs in their quick list of hate movements. It’s definitely a step in the right direction for them. I'm so grateful that you took the time and energy to do this. I got about 8 pages deep in that sub the other day, didn't see a single thing from us, but sure did get reminded how much some people hate Jews :-(	/r/MensRights	15/11/17 02:29 AM
1	Feminist activist women are masculinized in terms of digit-ratio and social dominance: a possible explanation for the feminist paradox /u/girlwriteswhat, how do you reckon your hands would rate in this survey? Mine are pretty masculine by their definition.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 08:29 PM
9	Literally Hitler... I'm a female. My sons, also Jewish, are not circumcised. My mom said "fuck this Bronze Age bullshit" when my brother was born and ended the cycle of abuse for our family.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 08:25 PM
7	Literally Hitler... I'm Jewish. You've got all the room in the world from me, as long as you don't advocate circumcising minors.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 05:30 PM
1	The wage gap: expected earnings based on parents’ income Lots of women who have trained for a profession they love will choose to put in 40 years of fulltime work. But the age group you are interacting with mostly hasn't had baby #2 yet, which is the point at which a lot of couples realize that paying strangers to raise their kids so Mom can make money that they don't need is not actually how they want to live their lives.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 11:01 AM
5	The wage gap: expected earnings based on parents’ income I'm sure the potential to earn that much is there, but these economists are crackers if they think that a bunch of women married to men making 100k/yr aren't going to choose to raise their kids instead of working full-time from age 22-65.	/r/MensRights	12/11/17 01:47 PM
4	Star Trek's George Takei Accused of Sexually Assaulting Former Model in 1981 Eh. That doesn't cross my personal line into assault. If you do what he describes in the context he describes, you are sexually aggressive, and that is not a crime.	/r/MensRights	11/11/17 09:19 PM
9	Star Trek's George Takei Accused of Sexually Assaulting Former Model in 1981 He categorically denies the allegations.	/r/MensRights	11/11/17 04:48 PM
-1	I've got females with mastectomy scars who belive they are gay men in the male change rooms at the gym. At work we have gender neutral toilets where females in pretty dresses enter and look at our junk while at the urinals. It's going too far now. Are there Black people in your restrooms too? How can you possibly piss while standing next to a wog? How terrible this must be for you. /s Seriously, mind your own business while doing your business. Use the stall at work, and stop staring at the the other people in your gym's locker room. ETA: this post was a quagmire of typos, and also I think we got trolled.	/r/MensRights	09/11/17 07:16 PM
3	Slide from my social psychology course today Have you been talking to my clients?	/r/MensRights	09/11/17 06:45 PM
1	Harvey Weinstein hired private spies to silence accusers, journalists, report says \| Toronto Star Fair point.	/r/MensRights	08/11/17 01:58 AM
2	Harvey Weinstein hired private spies to silence accusers, journalists, report says \| Toronto Star Anybody who hires Black Cube to investigate their accusers is either very, very innocent or very, very guilty. In this case, I'm going with guilty.	/r/MensRights	07/11/17 10:41 PM
1	"The No. 1 Social Justice Imperative - Marriage Matters Lots More than Income and Race" Obvious stop incentivizing women to divorce by 'awarding' the the kids, most of the assets, and 18 years of tax-free support while criminalizing fathers. Wise men do not marry with an unfair divorce system Read the articles you post. Successful men and women are marrying at the same rate they always have.	/r/MensRights	07/11/17 12:58 AM
4	"The No. 1 Social Justice Imperative - Marriage Matters Lots More than Income and Race" Obvious stop incentivizing women to divorce by 'awarding' the the kids, most of the assets, and 18 years of tax-free support while criminalizing fathers. Wise men do not marry with an unfair divorce system What the data shows is that "wise" men continue to marry DESPITE an unfair divorce system, if they want to be fathers. I'm sort of uncomfortable with the word "wise" as placeholder for college-educated, fully-employed, and relatively wealthy. I have met plenty of morons who can tick all three of those boxes. But I hope you take my point.	/r/MensRights	06/11/17 09:47 PM
38	"Decolonizing” school curriculums by dropping works by men has paid dividends Amelia Bassano was descended from Sephardic Jews on her father's side, but was baptized in the Anglican church. She was very cool, very interesting, and possibly the source of some of Skespeare's background knowledge for his Italian comedies. She was not of African descent. Jiminy crickets.	/r/MensRights	05/11/17 07:33 PM
6	"Camille Grammer Awarded Half of Ex-Husband Kelsey Grammer's Retirement Fund." Take a look at the comments below this article! There really isn't enough information here. Did this couple have separate retiremmemt accounts and she wanted half of his on top of her own, or did they have one account intended to support them both in old age? We have the latter arrangement. If we divorced, we'd split it 50/50. I've been encouraged repeatedly over the years to get my own IRA, but it seems stupid to make a financial plan for a divorce I don't intend to get.	/r/MensRights	05/11/17 09:03 AM
2	Corey Feldman Finally Names Names No problem. I really hope that you're right, and that John Grissom is telling the story himself as a darkly funny cocktail party anecdote, a year or so from now.	/r/MensRights	05/11/17 08:57 AM
4	Corey Feldman Finally Names Names It's not funny. For the rest of his life, the author John Grissom is going to be waylaid by angry strangers who think he hurts children.	/r/MensRights	05/11/17 01:39 AM
6	Scarlett Johansson's divorce case shows why men are scared of being stay-at-home dads I never hope that, for any divorce.	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 12:55 PM
1	If 43% of females give up their original careers after childbirth, why should government pass over highly experienced males for a conveyor belt of inexperienced females who leave after a few years never to return? I was thinking that as I was typing. But I'm commited to the concept, even during times when our execution of it seems pretty bleak.	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 12:49 PM
2	If 43% of females give up their original careers after childbirth, why should government pass over highly experienced males for a conveyor belt of inexperienced females who leave after a few years never to return? The primary purpose of education is not to benefit future employers. It is to have a society composed of educated people who are able to participate competently in their own governance.	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 02:33 AM
4	This Hollywood sexual harassment list is starting to look like a witch-hunt, don't you think? The cocksucking thing is a very fringe practice. I doubt that Mr. Weisel ever saw it done. The Lubavitchers don't do it. I hate all forms of ritual genital mutilation. I don't practice it and I don't excuse it, and it is obviously not central to my own Jewish identity. But the idea that it is bad is a pretty new one, weird as that probably sounds to a gentile. Eli Weisel and Menachem Schneersohn (the Lubavitcher rebbe) may well have lived their entire lives without hearing an argument against MG…	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 02:28 AM
1	Seeking Advice with a Baby Mama. Not sure about "shaming." What I was trying to say us that this woman and I make decisions veeeeeeeeery differently, and OP should not assume that her intent is the same as mine would be. I do think it's possible, though.	/r/MensRights	02/11/17 05:47 PM
3	This Hollywood sexual harassment list is starting to look like a witch-hunt, don't you think? Those guys, I'm happy to see condemned.	/r/MensRights	02/11/17 05:44 PM
10	This Hollywood sexual harassment list is starting to look like a witch-hunt, don't you think? Holy shit, Eli Wiesel? That seems like one instance where you might choose to keep your mouth shut. Actually, I'll expand on that. If the man is dead and can't defend himself, and it was only groping, not rape, the good you might do for society by coming forward is outweighed by the harm you are going to do to his loved ones.	/r/MensRights	02/11/17 01:43 PM
0	Seeking Advice with a Baby Mama. For what it's worth, I'm not crazy and I've never pursued a man for child support... and I would contact a hookup to let him know what I planned on keeping the baby we made. I'd give him a chance to express interest in being involved. OTOH, I don't go to Burning Man and fuck strangers.	/r/MensRights	02/11/17 01:48 AM
3	Ex won't agree that I had shared care of my son. Greetings, fellow old person. I have also made many exciting discoveries involving the Internets, despite my advanced age ;-)	/r/MensRights	01/11/17 03:14 AM
1	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft I tried. Didn't accomplish anything beyond pissing off a postal clerk. It's actually an amazing feeling, imagining my daughters being able to perform this routine but integral act of adult citizenship.	/r/MensRights	31/10/17 12:47 PM
4	Do you in any way feel personally attacked when people talk about men in a bad way? Not two generations of adult careers. I think there there will always be a disparity between the sexes in certain traits associated with entrepreneurship, but 500 years from now it probably won't be nearly as wide.	/r/MensRights	31/10/17 11:59 AM
10	Do you in any way feel personally attacked when people talk about men in a bad way? Not seriously threatened by any one incident, but it's the death of a thousand cuts. I have always assumed that men who are sensitized to gender politics were having a parallel experience - every groping (or worse) story with a male victim, every divorce in your social circle where the mom gives the dad a tough time by exploting her privilege in court, every "men are bumbling idiots" anecdote - none of that may be personal to you, but it doesn't exactly make your day either.	/r/MensRights	31/10/17 11:57 AM
1	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft My great-grandmother drove an ambulance in NYC. Before Pearl Harbor, she was a wealthy middle-aged woman with a chaffeur to drive her to her ladies' luncheons. Didn't stop her being truly useful in the war effort.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 08:24 PM
3	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft "Picking one" is NOT THE FUCKING POINT OF THE DRAFT. I'm not picking shit. The military will pick, and I would want them to use my children in the most efficient way to save our country. Both of my sons are healthy and strong, and if they are young when WWIII starts, they are likely to be assigned to combat roles. My daughters are also healthy and strong, but they're not exceptional female specimens. I don't want ANY of my kids to go to war, but if we have to fight for our survival, we need to f…	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 03:55 PM
1	Switch the picture to a female... Apparently he's gay. Congrats, Gay Guys Of The World, this prize is setting his cap for one of you!	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 03:50 PM
3	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft In the situation where we actually need to draft a huge army to fight for our nation's survival, FUCK ANYBODY "GETTING A BREAK." My sons are going to the front lines if that's where they are needed, perhaps along with my daughters who are all naturally athletic. My old ass is going to work 60+ hours/week to fill the gaps left by drafted young people. My mother's ancient ass will be hoisted up out of its rocker to become the primary caregiver for her great-grandchildren. That's how you win a real…	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 12:57 PM
3	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft They don't require anything near the level of fitness that wildland firefighters must demonstrate. Being a wildland firefighter is far more dangerous and physically difficult than the vast majority of military positions.	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 12:50 PM
4	Pentagon recommends requiring women to register for the draft Well, there's an interesting twist on the equality-of-outcomes canard.	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 12:47 PM
2	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? LMFAO	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 12:45 PM
1	My mom isn't crazy. Is my dad one of the lucky ones?! My parents' system after divorce. Because most people are assholes, especially in the year following a divorce. From an old woman ;-)	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 03:33 AM
2	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? Well,he definitely wasn't talking about men who want their children. That was you. And it was irrelevant to the topic.	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 03:02 AM
2	Anyone curious about the demographics on this sub? Me too, and I'm a woman.	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 02:15 AM
3	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? My particular area of activism is to work with low-income men who are attempting to assert their parental rights. They aren't the first group of people to fight for justice from a position of social and legal disadvantage, and they won't be the last. I have seen this situation improve in my lifetime.	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 02:12 AM
3	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? men who don't support their children that they don't want	/r/MensRights	29/10/17 02:07 AM
1	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? That's certainly the impression you would get on the Internet, but it's not true. Fathers (especially unmarried fathers) are not treated equally by most family courts, but they do have rights conferred by the mere fact of biological paternity, and it is possible to assert these rights against the wishes of the mother.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 10:11 PM
3	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? The question the OP asked is why "feminists" decry legal paternal surrender while supporting legal maternal surrender. One reasonable answer to that question is that the two things produce vastly different outcomes for both the individual child and society at large. I'm familiar with the Emanuel case - I live in an adjoining state and have worked with (or gone to court to fight with) several of the people involved, including the piece-of-shit Christian agency that facilitated the whole mess. It …	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 10:07 PM
3	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? The ends do NOT justify the means, which is why I support LPS even though I know it will harm children and society in a way that maternal surrender to adoptive parents does not. The issue of equal parental rights for men is an important one, but not relevant to this discussion. LPS may ultimately aid the cause of men who want to raise their children (they'll be able to credibly threaten to walk away if they are not given equal parental role), or it may harm the father's-rights cause (courts may …	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 09:00 PM
10	Why do feminists hate men who don't support their children that they don't want, while giving women every opportunity to not support their children that they don't want through safe haven and adoption laws? Well, a surrendered infant has people lined up around the block to adopt it, love it and pay for its raising in a stable two-parent family, thus producing an upstanding adult citizen. I am a nigh-fanatical supporter of legal paternal surrender. But I won't pretend that it wouldn't cost society in ways that infant adoption does not.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 06:13 PM
4	My mom isn't crazy. Is my dad one of the lucky ones?! My parents' system after divorce. I know other people who have handled their coparenting this way after a breakup. Remember, the people who DON'T feel screwed over by their/their parent's divorce aren't generally talking about it online.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 01:58 PM
-11	Switch the picture to a female... Please, take yourself out of the dating pool. You don't like women. That's your right, but it's unethical to consume the finite time, attention and energy of people who are seeking emotional intimacy if you know you can't give it to them because you fundamentally don't respect them. Stay at home, watch porn, and wait for your sex doll.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 01:51 PM
1	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry That's a matter of opinion, but the fact that it was staged makes it a very uncontroversial from a consent perspective. All three of the subjects were adults and were clearly on board with it and knew it was for public distribution, and that's my moral line for whether or not virally distributed salacious photos are OK.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 01:44 PM
3	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry Exactly.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 01:05 AM
3	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry True.	/r/MensRights	28/10/17 01:04 AM
13	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry Lookee no touchee (without consent), and all adults take care not to make attractive minors feel uncomfortable. It just doesn't seem that difficult to me. Isn't this what normal people already do?	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 06:27 PM
20	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry Well, this woman is ready for a truce.	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 05:47 PM
2	A Fan Groped Harry Styles At A Concert & It's Not OK OK, it's official, I am saying "no" to those Shawn Mendes tickets.	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 05:45 PM
48	Objectifying Women? Ellen DeGeneres Slammed for Breast-Ogling Tweet to Katy Perry I'm fucking hating it. That is an hilarious, clearly staged pic. Why should we be happy to have even more fun sucked out of this shitty world?	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 05:42 PM
3	#MeToo gets even more disgusting. Neil DeGrasse Tyson just accused of raping a former student 30 YEARS ago. Three decades and it's solely their word and the MSM still runs with it to destroy his life. Having kids is kind of de rigeur for closeted homosexuals of Dr. Tyson's age. Beyond that, hot women regularly report that Dr. Tyson's eyes light up at the sight of them. But this is the first time I have ever heard of a woman complaining about his attentions. Given that he's interacted with (perhaps literally) a million young women over the years, it just seems like interested parties like us would have run across a few rumors by now if he was an habitual offender...	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:38 AM
1	Reddit ShadowBans Multiple Controversial Pages In Mass Purge: Could MensRights Be Targeted? LMFAO. "While venturing into the Dark Side, our hero takes note of a new device that may be usefully employed by adherents of the Light Side..."	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:32 AM
16	#MeToo gets even more disgusting. Neil DeGrasse Tyson just accused of raping a former student 30 YEARS ago. Three decades and it's solely their word and the MSM still runs with it to destroy his life. How could this accusation be considered more credible because it so closely resembles the Cosby allegations? #copycat #shittyjournalist	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:28 AM
7	#MeToo gets even more disgusting. Neil DeGrasse Tyson just accused of raping a former student 30 YEARS ago. Three decades and it's solely their word and the MSM still runs with it to destroy his life. Word on the street is that he likes the ladies. His accent and mannerisms are atypical for a Black man, but much less atypical within the subset of Black men who pursue careers in academia. Professors tend to be weirdos ;-)	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:26 AM
0	Foster Parents Allowed to Terminate Father's Parental Rights and Adopt - 2015: "In this appeal, DCS conceded that an essential element of its case was not established by the proof." "The Court of Appeals dismissed the Father’s arguments in short order." Shut up, your baby is property of the people. This is a pile of lawyer's hogwash. I cannot draw any conclusions from that article other than the obvious one - the lawyers for both sides were absolutely shitty. I'd really love to read the case file and the court transcripts, just to know what really happened here. Could be a baby-snatching, could be a recalcitrant asshole who wasn't working his case plan but could and did hire a lawyer to drag the case out, and the foster parents got fed up and tried to protect the child by hiring their own …	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:14 AM
2	Mother Assaulted Daughter For Refusing to Circumcise Son I'm pretty sure my mother would have assaulted me if I had ATTEMPTED to mutilate my sons.	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:05 AM
3	My thoughts on George HW Bush's plight I read the same thing (awkward joke to conceal handicap) and it seems credible to me. The security detail and the rest of the Bush family should have redirected GWB into a more appropriate way of dealing with the situation - seriously people, protect your demented old person! - but anybody who gets the context of this situation should realize that they were not assaulted and back the fuck off and go enjoy their able-bodied life.	/r/MensRights	27/10/17 09:01 AM
4	Reddit ShadowBans Multiple Controversial Pages In Mass Purge: Could MensRights Be Targeted? I'd be open to trying that. I haven't used Voat for about a year, glad to hear that the slugs have largely crawled back under their rocks. I really, really prefer uncensored forums. But life is too short to spend in arguing with people whose fundamental premise is so fucking stupid.	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 05:47 PM
22	Reddit ShadowBans Multiple Controversial Pages In Mass Purge: Could MensRights Be Targeted? Voat is tough for me to use. Not because it hurts my tender feelings to be followed around by Jew-haters, but because I am constantly derailed when trying to discuss non-Jew-related issues such as men's rights. Are Steemit and Bitchute less deluged by those pests?	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 05:32 PM
1	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup Is it on Kindle? ETA: It is! I love reading novels by people I "know." Thanks, you just made my day.	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 03:54 PM
2	Lydney woman killed herself as she was too old for kids: Our condolences for her loved ones. feminists and women’s groups castigate advocates for encouraging young women to prioritise their personal lives over work There is no biological change in a mans body when he has sex or doesn't... Please learn more about your own body and how it works. (Maybe prioritize that for awhile, before you go back to promulgating batshit theories of female biology on the Internets.) Lack of regular sexual intimacy has profound negative physical effects on men. It doesn't make mentally healthy men into murderers, just as childlessness does not make mentally healthy women crazy. But it's a real and serious issue. It shortens …	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 01:15 PM
1	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup They also live longer, have more sex, and are vastly more likely to live with their children throughout their growing-up. Just sayin'. Reasonable people can disagree, but I really do believe you are not thinking it through if you don't believe that any smart man can would look at the available evidence and decide that marriage was the right choice for the person he was and the life he aspired to, even given the risks.	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 01:04 PM
3	Lydney woman killed herself as she was too old for kids: Our condolences for her loved ones. feminists and women’s groups castigate advocates for encouraging young women to prioritise their personal lives over work Most men who don't have a lot of sex tend to become homicidal. Oh wait, that's a ridiculous thing to say, because most people of both sexes are not inherently fragile and tend to remain socially functional even if they don't fulfill every biological urge.	/r/MensRights	26/10/17 01:02 AM
2	Lydney woman killed herself as she was too old for kids: Our condolences for her loved ones. feminists and women’s groups castigate advocates for encouraging young women to prioritise their personal lives over work She had a long history of mental illness. I am sorry she took her own life, but relieved as hell that she did not give birth or adopt or in any way put herself in charge of a child.	/r/MensRights	25/10/17 11:23 PM
0	Senile old ex-president George HW Bush accused of sexually assaulting some b-list actress by touching her ass, or some crap. My husband watched Strom Thurmond do this to a fellow student at a photo op. Nobody said anything. He'd give a lot to be able to redo that moment of his life and tell the nasty old fucker that his groping days were over. Is GWB guilty of the same offense as Strom? I don't know. Nobody I trust witnessed him doing this. But I don't find the notion incredible.	/r/MensRights	25/10/17 08:49 PM
0	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup You know, I think people who ignore the considerable evidence that marriage improves outcomes for college-educated men and women and VASTLY improves outcomes for their children are making a bad decision. But I don't think that they are "idiots," nor do I believe they are "taking advantage of" their coparents and children. It's a complex issue, and reasonable people may disagree. If your worldview doesn't have any room for that, that's your loss.	/r/MensRights	25/10/17 08:43 PM
1	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup You are entitled to your opinion. I'm not sure what I ever ever said to make you think that I countenance divorce in any but the most extreme situations such as physical abuse or a psychotic break. As a wife and mother, I feel I am a good risk prospect. I probably shouldn't take your remarks personally - but you sure did go out of your way to make them personal.	/r/MensRights	25/10/17 02:12 PM
1	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup Yeah, what an idiot, hashing out a life plan with his fiance prior to getting married, and learning about the laws governing division of marital property prior to paying for a prenup that wouldn't actually have protected either of us.	/r/MensRights	25/10/17 12:27 PM
0	Getting married, looking for good resources for how to structure a prenup My husband and I negotiated terms of a prenup, but never signed one. The terms included our right to maintain ownership of inherited property during a divorce, a ramp-up period to a 50:50 split of our assets (I think it was 10 years), and a one-time settlement instead of ongoing alimony if we divorced prior to my husband's retirement age. The main reason we decided not to get it drawn up is that we thought a court would just throw it out if either one of us decided we didn't want to honor it. We…	/r/MensRights	24/10/17 06:50 PM
42	Since colon cancer is more than ten times more likely to be diagnosed in men that cervical cancer in women, I decided to complain to the NHS about it, let's see if I get a response. Good job. You are being the change you want to see in the world. Next time, for the love of God, ask for proofreading help. 10,000 grown-ass people on this sub are available 24/7 to assist you. Your spelling errors detract from your message.	/r/MensRights	22/10/17 04:01 PM
2	Dads charity accused of denying other fathers access to their kids My city (in the USA) has a very similar charity. They are under no pressure to become gender-neutral, their public and private funding for their Responsible Fatherhood programming is secure. If I am being honest, they do a lot of good. They connect unemployed fathers with jobs, including help with transportation and training to overcome the initial barriers to employment that keep so many poorly educated men from getting a fair start in the labor market. They offer group counseling at no charge …	/r/MensRights	22/10/17 11:45 AM
7	Men who have performed oral sex on 5 or more partners have a far higher risk of HPV related head and neck cancer than sexually-active women Wow. Turn off the lesbian porn and go outside.	/r/MensRights	21/10/17 01:24 AM
5	TIL my band shouldn't get booked or supported too much because we're all straight white men They should also take great care to give Jews preference in booking. We have been trying to break into this field for years.	/r/MensRights	21/10/17 01:21 AM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Sorry, not willing to do the kind of stuff a chick needs to do in order to star in a Sophocles production.	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 09:36 PM
1	update I am allowed to be part of the fun for Family Fun day. To clarify, the vast majority of at-risk children who qualify for public preschool are not being abused in any way - they're just being raised by poor, ignorant parents.	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 08:45 PM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Well, I hope you write some immortal tragedies.	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 08:41 PM
1	I'm not welcome at my son's family fun day simply because I am a man. We prefer reality to SJW tone policing on this sub. Thug is word that refers to behavior, not race. If you knew anything about public preschool programs in America, you would have realized that they were designed to serve at-risk populations and that Family Day at any of them is generally The Thug Parade. The ethnicity of the thugs will vary in accordance with their geographic region. Thugs love their kids, too, and deserve to have opportunities to participate in their school celebrations. But I…	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 08:39 PM
2	I'm not welcome at my son's family fun day simply because I am a man. Public pre-school is NOT just for thugs, true. I have used it myself, with my foster sons (all kids in foster care automatically qualify). It's a great program. But as with all programs designed to serve at-risk kids, the parents are disproportionately likely to be people who were deprived themselves as children and are marginally functional as adults. OP confirms that this was underlying issue - trashy parents starting fights at previous Family Day events. Apparently you picture black people wh…	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 12:28 PM
6	update I am allowed to be part of the fun for Family Fun day. Good job, Dad!	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 11:43 AM
6	update I am allowed to be part of the fun for Family Fun day. ... and then the at-risk kid never has a parent show up at a school event again. With public preschool programs, you have to meet the parents where they are at. They aren't going to magically start acting better just because their child is receiving a publicly funded intervention intended to ameliorate the effects of a deprived environment at home. It's a real shock for people like OP, who is probably low-income but clearly a stable, normal parent, when their kid qualifies for something like WIC…	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 11:42 AM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Sexuality is not a burden for an emotionally healthy adult. If you find it burdensome, that's an issue to explore with a therapist. Sexual attraction is the low-level background noise in the human brain pretty much all the time, which I personally think makes life interesting. But being dragged into a stranger's sexual psychodrama whenever you walk down the street is NOT interesting. It is irritating, exhausting and occasionally scary.	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 11:34 AM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it You are allowed to approach any adult stranger, in any context, and pursue them sexually. As long as you use your words rather than your hands, you are within the boundaries of the law. But most women find it irritating, exhausting and occasionally scary to be approached by strangers panhandling for pussy in a nonsexual social context. Any person who complains about getting hit on at a bar is being unreasonable, and should be ignored. Which means not hitting on them again. Or any of their friend…	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 01:42 AM
0	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it The mindset you're describing is misanthropic - and that's cool with me, some of my favorite people are misanthropes. One of the awesome things about them is that they never panhandle strangers for sex. They dislike being asked for emotional handouts by randos on the street, and treat other people as they wish to be treated :-)	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 01:27 AM
-1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Wow, you took this very personally. Several replies to my posts explaining how being approached by a stranger looking for sex is a lot like being panhandled - irritating almost always, exhausting if it happens frequently, and occasionally scary. If you cannot discern the difference between a woman propping up a bar making doe eyes at the male patrons and a woman filling her cart at the grocery store or riding the subway home from work, there's not much anybody can do to help you. Think really ha…	/r/MensRights	20/10/17 01:19 AM
3	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it You're talking about a situation where you not only left strangers alone, but never made advances on women you had social relationships with who were (you later learned) interested in dating you. There is actually nothing wrong with being a virgin until age 23, but I'm sorry you missed out on the earlier experiences because YOU are sorry about that. What we try to teach our teenage sons is 1) they are not gross and their desires are not gross 2) we are living in a time where girls get way too mu…	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 01:43 PM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it You're attacking a strawman I didn't say that men don't have the right to exist or be near me or talk to me, and I didn't say that men do not face their own issues with whar we're apparently calling "street harassment" these days. What I said, and will say again, is that being panhandled for sex is very much like bring panhandled for money. Perhaps if more men understood that, they would change the way they approach women, to the benefit of all parties involved - because being rejected and/or bi…	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 01:35 PM
4	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it I'm not generally afraid. I'm very rarely afraid. I'm quite rationally irritated at times, because it is irritating to be continually be approach by strangers who want something from you. The similarity to panhandling is really striking - most interactions are perfectly safe and polite, but still take up your time and energy in a way that you'd prefer not to expend it. Sometimes the people who approach act entitled to a piece of you and turn nasty when you refuse, and rarely, but memorably, you …	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 12:58 PM
1	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Well, I don't think of homeless people as lesser people, so no difference there. Being approached by a stranger and asked for your number or to go out on a date is a lot like being panhandled. It just is.	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 10:27 AM
-3	I'm not welcome at my son's family fun day simply because I am a man. I am also interested in hearing the reason they decide to give. The real reason is that this is a public preschool, which in America is reserved for "at-risk" kids. They believe (correctly) that if they just invite families, the moms will bring a bunch of unrelated males (their current boyfriends) who are various kinds of thugs. They are right. That will happen. It would not, of course, be dangerous for these children to have a fall party with the exact same kind of young men who live in their h…	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 10:16 AM
-1	trollxchromosomes celebrate about getting a "brogrammer" fired for being socially awkward and reading an MRA site. If you get caught at the office, by one of the coworkers you are defaming posting on the Internet about how your coworkers only got hired because of their race/sex/religion/orientation, you're likely to get fired. You have just demonstrated that you are probably a bigot and definitely have poor judgement.	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 10:01 AM
-3	Girl equating men talking to women to homeless and disposible people and reddit applauding it Actually, she was specifically describing strangers who hit on her in public places.That's not "men talking to women." That's a very small subset of the verbal interactions between men and women. It's exhausting, and irritating, and occasionally scary. That's just the truth. And I say this as somebody who likes men, actively seeks out their company in social situations, and has the ironclad "married" excuse to deflect sexual advances without causing offense.	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 09:53 AM
1	A story from a feminism page :/ Yes, but cutting pieces off is not the solution, unless you have areas of necrotizing flesh.	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 09:46 AM
35	"Will people now believe Corey Feldman about Hollywood abusers?" I hope so, but doubt it. Women matter, boys don't. I posted about the universality of the problem and my city's lack of resources for male victims of sexual assault, and got a lot of positive feedback.	/r/MensRights	19/10/17 09:41 AM
5	Italy, WTF? Massive shifts in the ethnic demography of the area we now call Italy predate feminism by millennia. There are no "native" Italians, jusy as there are no "native" Americans. I suppose you could call it toxic humanity, but in my personal opinion it's not toxic at all. We are a migratory species. What I worry about is the failure of contemporary European societies to properly acculturate their immigrants.	/r/MensRights	17/10/17 01:19 PM
1	Pregnancy, the new Merit Badge Exactly. We Americans tend to speak in apocalyptic terms about social changes that other Western countries have already made and done just fine with.	/r/MensRights	16/10/17 05:38 PM
1	Pregnancy, the new Merit Badge One of my Girl Scouts has a dad and brother seriously involved with Boy Scouts, and they spend a lot of dad's parenting time doing Boy Scout stuff. She's effectively been part of the troop since age 6. She hikes and keeps up. She camps and nobody tried to fuck her. I feel like the BSA is going to survive the horror of the integration that already exists.	/r/MensRights	16/10/17 11:27 AM
1	Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning Enough. 'The point at which the average young man becomes ‘marriageable’ appears to be earnings of $40,000 a year or more.' The only person thinking about Brad Pitt was you.	/r/MensRights	16/10/17 11:16 AM
1	In the next few weeks, the free Human Papillomavirus (HPV) vaccinations will be extended to boys in Grade 6. Time for my sons to get the next shot in the series! Thanks for the reminder, and hooray for BC!	/r/MensRights	15/10/17 11:00 AM
-7	The message is getting out: Why men don't marry feminists. Such garbage. Give me a make-you-own-damn-lunch type over a Southern Belle any day, in terms of women I'd want my sons to try and build an honest relationship and happy life with.	/r/MensRights	15/10/17 10:58 AM
1	Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning Enough. 'The point at which the average young man becomes ‘marriageable’ appears to be earnings of $40,000 a year or more.' Exactly my point. Men who bitch about being passed over for marriage by desirable women sound just as pathetic as women who think they are entitled to a ring from Brad.	/r/MensRights	14/10/17 07:09 PM
2	Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning Enough. 'The point at which the average young man becomes ‘marriageable’ appears to be earnings of $40,000 a year or more.' The current generation is going to be just fine. Not every individual member, but the group as a whole will manage. If you don't think you can ever make more than 40k/yr, 1) you're wrong but 2) then you don't think you can ever support a family - so why the fuck would you want to try? Live comfortably and self-sufficiently. Supporting other people's civil rights is a matter of ethics, not something you do in order to get a direct benefit for yourself. And nobody, ever, is going to lower their ex…	/r/MensRights	14/10/17 07:07 PM
4	Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning Enough. 'The point at which the average young man becomes ‘marriageable’ appears to be earnings of $40,000 a year or more.' That's literally what he said. The babies are still getting made, but among the high-school-only cohort they are now getting made outside of wedlock.	/r/MensRights	14/10/17 08:35 AM
7	Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning Enough. 'The point at which the average young man becomes ‘marriageable’ appears to be earnings of $40,000 a year or more.' Whoa. The ability to get legally married is a fundamental civil right, yes. Being selected as a marriage partner (or a sex partner, or a coparent, or a business associate, or a roommate, or half of a folk music duo, or whatever-the-hell else) is NOT a right. If you don't meet somebody you want to marry who wants to marry you, you won't get married. Nobody owes anybody else marriage.	/r/MensRights	14/10/17 08:30 AM
1	So girlfriend posted this. Even worth refuting? I basically agree with this, although I have met many individual exceptions to the rule.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:45 PM
0	That “male privilege” though That's an unnecessary escalation. I don't think this poster should end his life - I'm just glad that he plans to live a life without women. He doesn't like women.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:39 PM
1	That “male privilege” though Gross.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:37 PM
0	That “male privilege” though You don't have to be a feminist to object to that kind of broad-brush bigotry. I haven't been active in feminism for years, the MRM is way closer to my worldview and values - and I still realize than men who truly don't like women are no loss to the hetero relationship market.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:36 PM
1	That “male privilege” though The serving of scalding liquids by places of public accommodation should be outlawed, yes.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:34 PM
3	That “male privilege” though Ooooh, the c-word! And a comment about my weight! This guy must be very confident and assured, have mad game, and be a total catch! Go your own way. You obviously don't like women as a group. A thin woman with kids (me) wishes you all the best as you forge a life path on your own terms.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 03:33 PM
1	That “male privilege” though Preventing 3rd degree burns is not a bullshit reason. There are no reasonable precautions a person can take to eliminate (or even vastly reduce) the risk of spilling a drink in the car - too many external factors. Therefore, drinks served to people in cars must be safe to spill.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 11:18 AM
-31	That “male privilege” though I do not know you personally, but I will bet $100 that every woman who does is desperately hoping you will move on from women. Seriously. Go be happy without us. We wish you all the best.	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 11:13 AM
-11	So girlfriend posted this. Even worth refuting? Oh look, /u/deegan79 is the OP's girlfriend in reverse! Only he's much more specific and nasty in his sexism than anything OP has mentioned about his girlfriend! OP, act like an adult and protect yourself from the worst while hoping for the best. Worst is you realize that you need to proactively break up and make sure your credit and possessions are protected. If your girlfriend has an intransigently negative attitude towards men, then she's not wife material. But if anybody I knew posted that a…	/r/MensRights	12/10/17 03:33 PM
3	Today, Terry Crews revealed a powerful Hollywood executive sexually molested him at a party. Out of fear of being ostracized, he was too scared to press charges. Hopefully, he'll get as much support as female victims receive. Thanks for defending and normalizing sexual assault. Again.	/r/MensRights	11/10/17 09:23 PM
4	Today, Terry Crews revealed a powerful Hollywood executive sexually molested him at a party. Out of fear of being ostracized, he was too scared to press charges. Hopefully, he'll get as much support as female victims receive. Newsflash: Normal, healthy men do not want to have their genitals fondled by strangers without a prior social interaction that establishes mutual interest. This is not an "issue around sexual assault." This is a normal human confronted with a defective human. Please do not grab the genitals of strangers. It is a pathological behavior.	/r/MensRights	11/10/17 08:48 PM
2	Today, Terry Crews revealed a powerful Hollywood executive sexually molested him at a party. Out of fear of being ostracized, he was too scared to press charges. Hopefully, he'll get as much support as female victims receive. You and I have often disagreed, /u/Tedesche, but holy crap you are 110% right about this.	/r/MensRights	11/10/17 08:41 PM
13	Fat women are "plus sized" but fat men are "overweight" My husband sees it that way. Sometimes he's overweight, sometimes he's not, but he is always the hilarious genius who can parent better than most folks while lavishly supporting his wife and their hockey team of kids.	/r/MensRights	08/10/17 02:06 PM
16	I thought it was a running joke, but a woman literally just asked this man if he was on babysitting duty... I thought it was a joke too, until we had kids and tried to train our entire social circle out of the habit. As they started to have kids, it really tapered off quickly. Turns out pretty much no father of an infant appreciates being described as a "babysitter."	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 11:16 AM
3	Out of Curiosity, Are There Any Lesbian MRAs in This Sub? I know a few lesbian MRAs in real life. They seem to have become interested in our issues the same way most women do - a male loved one gets fucked over in family court.	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 04:19 AM
1	Croydon mum sets up taxi company where all the drivers will be women I'm no expert in UK law, but I think this would be legal if structured as a membership organization. This woman is planning to peddle gender-segregated transport services in accordance with sharia law, which I personally find fucking terrifying. London has a serious assimilation problrm they they are refusing to deal with.	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 04:14 AM
3	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) No thanks, I don't need or want to spend hours every day with a PS4. I'm not looking to do the minimum or cut corners with my kids. Neither are you, probably, but that's not really your problem because your wife sets the standard in your household and you help out in the specific ways that she asks for. Which is actually easy, because you love your wife and kids she has learned that asking you for more than you will cheerfully give just creates a bigger hassle for her in the end.	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 04:03 AM
3	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) You've made it clear that you don't understand the scope of the enterprise. You probably honestly believe that you are a fulll partner in homeschooling and homemaking rather than a sometime assistant, which probably causes your wife some of the same frustration that the woman who wrote that article is feeling.	/r/MensRights	29/09/17 06:39 PM
2	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) We're homeschoolers, you dolt. The lessons are their schoolwork. And my boys are all boy. No helicopter parenting here - I don't have time for it, and don't agree with the practice.	/r/MensRights	29/09/17 03:02 PM
2	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) Thank you for making it clear that you are the sometime assistant, not the person who has been doing the job.	/r/MensRights	29/09/17 02:46 PM
7	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) If you are lounging around hanging out with the kids, you're doing it wrong. If you're doing it right, it's still more satisfying in lots of ways than paid work, if you have the temperament for it. I chose this life, nobody coerced me into staying home, having lots of kids, or homeschooling. But you are the delusional one if you think my job isn't real because I don't draw a salary.	/r/MensRights	29/09/17 01:05 AM
3	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) This may be an age thing. Part of what I have to do is schlep them to their extracurriculars after lessons. Not a terribly hard task, but not the gym not the PS4. Or, you may find it "easy" because your wife is the one doing it and you are her sometime assistant.	/r/MensRights	28/09/17 11:02 PM
10	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) Have you ever done it? We have a large family, and that makes a difference, but there is no hour in my day that could regularly be devoted to the gym. Certainly no 4 hours to PS4. And while my husband is a highly competent parent, the fact that he doesn't have the bandwidth to work his demanding job and also keep track of any domestic need does create a lot of stress from time to time. I'm not complaining, it's the life I chose. But it's not the idyll you imagine, at least not for a large homesc…	/r/MensRights	28/09/17 10:15 PM
1	Single dad looking for some advice. I hear you. It's horribly unfair. But still, don't risk custody for money.	/r/MensRights	28/09/17 08:24 PM
1	Single dad looking for some advice. Do you want to raise your daughters, or do you want the money? This is exactly what I tell custodial mothers who reproduced with a deadbeat. Fuck the money. Keep your children safe at home with you.	/r/MensRights	28/09/17 12:50 AM
0	To all those who think that we are misogynists: I'm actually happy that, finally, women will be allowed to drive in the KSA. I'm sure most of us in here are. Women are generally killed privately by their family members. Drowning in the swimming pool, etc.	/r/MensRights	28/09/17 12:33 AM
1	Widespread handwringing regarding over-the-counter paternity tests - "See a psychotherapist instead" I'm not opposed to married couples using paternity testing, but from the point of view of the legal system, they have already decided to coparent and the husband is automatically the father. I would be OK with informing the husband of the option for testing and letting him decide if he wants it. I'm not OK with that option for any rando the woman brings into the delivery room and presents as the father - that guy has no legal relationship to the baby and if he wants one, he needs to prove that h…	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 10:51 AM
1	Widespread handwringing regarding over-the-counter paternity tests - "See a psychotherapist instead" If I were in charge, I'd let married people decide themselves what to put on the legal paperwork, but tell all single people that paternity must be tested if there is to be a father on the birth certificate.	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 01:54 AM
1	Artificial Wombs Are Nearly Here and Feminists Are Already Freaking Out Embryos are not children. I wouldn't gestate a defective or unwanted embryo, nor allow it to be decanted into an artificial womb. It seems to me that my attitude towards my bodily processes is the opposite of cultish - I neither despise nor fetishize my embryos. I wouldn't force a man to sign up for parenthood because I got accidentally pregnant, and I won't allow anybody to firce me.	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:31 AM
1	Artificial Wombs Are Nearly Here and Feminists Are Already Freaking Out Controlling if/when they become a parent is something that I desperately want for all of my kids. Don't you?	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:25 AM
3	Artificial Wombs Are Nearly Here and Feminists Are Already Freaking Out God only knows what he thinks of us adoptive-parent freaks.	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:24 AM
-2	Artificial Wombs Are Nearly Here and Feminists Are Already Freaking Out Women already donate eggs - to be used in creating their own children, and to be used to help infertile couples or gay men become parents.	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:23 AM
1	Widespread handwringing regarding over-the-counter paternity tests - "See a psychotherapist instead" Mandatory medical testing is not, and will never be, a thing. Now, we could require testing for nonmedical aspects of birth such as filling out the birth certificate...	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:10 AM
5	Widespread handwringing regarding over-the-counter paternity tests - "See a psychotherapist instead" I'm a parent by both birth and adoption. Genetics DO mean little, as far as I can tell. This guy correctly identifies some "delusional garbage" that I have seen play a vastly detrimental role in the relationship between parent and child. It's not relevant to the issue of paternity testing, though, because the point of such testing is to discern whether or not you live with a adulterous sociopathic liar who is depriving you of your reproductive rights. It's not actually about the kid at all. Men …	/r/MensRights	26/09/17 11:58 PM
15	Either a) more women visit hospitals, b) male modesty doesn't matter, or c) we've gone overboard. D) All of the above. Male modesty should matter, but it's still a joking matter in our society, which is one of the thousand reasons I'm an MRA.	/r/MensRights	21/09/17 05:36 PM
0	Bettina Arndt on the Politics of Cleavage Right about what? That boys can't be taught to channel their sexual impulses in socially acceptable ways, such as looking without touching? I have two teenage boys. They attend a school with a nearly non-existent dress code. Are they destined to fail their classes and/or commit sexual assault, or are they going to be OK thanks to being taught the difference between feeling desire and taking action?	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 08:45 PM
-1	Mother demands answers after son, 8, put in restraints and injected on first day of school All the more reason to be outraged that there was not a space for him at an appropriate facility. If they can't admit the children of single working parents upon application, they are not serving the vulnerable children in their community and they need the resources to expand their programs.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 08:38 PM
1	Bettina Arndt on the Politics of Cleavage Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that Bettina was a fundie. As far as I know, she's not. But in this case she's parroting their damaging idea that males need to be protected from the sight of appealing body parts lest they founder upon the rock and sink their ship. It's so insulting. To males, to pleasures responsibly savored, to la difference,...	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 08:32 PM
2	Bettina Arndt on the Politics of Cleavage Fundamentalists give no sane person hope for the future of gender relations. The solution is not Christian purdah for women or Christian put-out-your-eye chastity for men. The solution is healthy women liking to be looked at and healthy men liking to look, and all adults understanding the massive moral gulf between the desire and the act.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 06:31 PM
3	Mother demands answers after son, 8, put in restraints and injected on first day of school We need less wait-lists, because an eight-year-old needs the help now. This. The school administration may have made a calculated decision to overreact and traumatize this disabled child, because they knew that nothing short of media attention would get him into an appropriate facility.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 06:25 PM
-2	Mother demands answers after son, 8, put in restraints and injected on first day of school They were to go to the pond and fetch him back. Not call the cops. Cops are for serious violence.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 06:23 PM
1	Driving one hour per day for your child is too much for the wife of the richest man I'm sorry you feel that subordination is normal or healthy in adult relationships. My happy 20-year relationship with 5 thriving children has always had two equal partners. We divide decision-making into areas of expertise.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 04:53 PM
1	Driving one hour per day for your child is too much for the wife of the richest man There is nothing good about this trend. Bus service is reduced and socially frowned upon, and ungodly amounts of time time and fuel are wasted by adults sitting in lines of private cars outside of schools.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 10:33 AM
0	Driving one hour per day for your child is too much for the wife of the richest man No, your job is to make decisions about how to run the household. You're at home, doing the work. You'd have cause to bitch at your wife if she fucked up at work and got fired, and she'd have cause to bitch at you if the kids weren't taken care of properly or the house was filthy or something actually significant like that - but no, the fact the she makes the big paycheck doesn't mean she picks the children's schools and activities and you scurry around carrying out her instructions. Nor do you …	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 10:23 AM
2	TIL The vast majority of men in the United States weren't allowed to vote until 1856. When I was a little girl, the oldest living generation in my family talked about getting the right to vote. They were adults, some of them college graduates, in the 20th century, and not full citizens of their country. Now I have little girls, and the oldest living generation in our community talks about surviving the Holocaust. Grudges are never useful, but "so long ago" is actually not that long ago.	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 09:49 AM
1	What’s Wrong With “After-Birth Abortion”.... and do men's votes count when it's no longer HER body? Safe Haven, like all child services, is administered differently in all 50 states. The one universal rule is that the parents CANNOT be charged with abandonment or any other offense in connection with their proper use of the Safe Haven program. I understand your desire to have the laws and procedures neatly laid out and easily understandable, but that's not how lawyers create job security. But if your concern is for the children, then to the best of my fairly extensive knowledge, every child eve…	/r/MensRights	20/09/17 01:59 AM
1	National organization for Women kills fathers rights bill (so much for equality) ... and is about something that happened 18 years ago. That legislation was a pile of fundie-appeasing garbage that would have hurt more men than it helped.	/r/MensRights	19/09/17 09:57 PM
1	What’s Wrong With “After-Birth Abortion”.... and do men's votes count when it's no longer HER body? Good question. In every Safe Harbor case that I have ever heard of or read about, neither the mother nor the father was assessed child support. The cops and social workers like to interview the people who left the baby, and always try to find them, but the goal is not to make them raise or support the baby. The goal is to confirm the baby's identity, discover if there are any fit and willing relatives who want to adopt, and to expedite the adoption.	/r/MensRights	19/09/17 09:52 PM
1	What’s Wrong With “After-Birth Abortion”.... and do men's votes count when it's no longer HER body? I wish more people would realize this. Safe Harbor is NOT abandonment. It's an adoption pathway for families too broken to handle adoption the proper way.	/r/MensRights	19/09/17 12:49 AM
6	Stepdad puts his foot down when bride and girlfriend's true characters are revealed. TL;DR, ATM bites back. I remember when this was originally posted. My family has had several weddings where the bride's father was included despite being a deadbeat, and I think that's the mature thing to do if that's what the bride wants. But this mom and bride took it waaaaaaaaaaaay too fucking far. You can include without excluding. One of my cousins was walked down the aisle by both dads, and they were both on the invitations. As pissed as we all still were about the adultery and abandonment 20 years previously, i…	/r/MensRights	18/09/17 01:03 PM
7	As a Woman in Tech, I Realized: These Are Not My People \| Great story of a woman in IT who realised she just wasn't as interested in the field as her male colleagues. James Damore was right. Yes. Hers and the guys who remained in her previous field. I'm married to a naturally inclined engineer who started in the overwork culture at age 18. There is no doubt that he loves the field - and no doubt that the 7-day workweek would have shortened his life and made our children's growing-up a blur to him if he hadn't switched gears and/or I had to work and couldn't schedule our family life around his availability. This cultural zeal to give 100% to career and nothing to personal and familia…	/r/MensRights	18/09/17 09:40 AM
8	As a Woman in Tech, I Realized: These Are Not My People \| Great story of a woman in IT who realised she just wasn't as interested in the field as her male colleagues. James Damore was right. So I went to business school, and eventually I landed myself in the kind of career that I was happy to do on weekends, and nights, and most of my other time. Jesus Christ. Only in America is this a happy ending.	/r/MensRights	18/09/17 08:41 AM
9	What’s Wrong With “After-Birth Abortion”.... and do men's votes count when it's no longer HER body? Philosophers love this game. My experience with neonates actually leads me to agree with those who say that a newborn is basically an extragestational fetus. They are not people in the way that toddlers are people. Anybody with a new baby, a two-year-old and the ability to internalize uncomfortable truths is likely to reach this conclusion if they sit down and ponder the differences in their offspring. I also agree that euthanasia is an appropriate therapeutic option for minors who are profoundl…	/r/MensRights	18/09/17 08:35 AM
1	[Help] My children's were visiting for the summer and my ex wife used the opportunity to move the kids out of state. This all happened without my knowledge or consent. I don't live in the same state as them to begin with, but I'm certain she has to inform me at least. Did she move them in a way that will reduce your access? I ask this because the judge will ask it first thing. If you live in Texas and your ex moved from North Carolina to Georgia, then your access is not materially affected and the judge doesn't want to hear about it. Your ex will just show up and say "of course I told him I was moving, how could I keep that a secret? I didn't send an official notice because we don't have a combative relationship. He's dragged me into court on a technicality b…	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 12:15 PM
1	[Help] My children's were visiting for the summer and my ex wife used the opportunity to move the kids out of state. This all happened without my knowledge or consent. I don't live in the same state as them to begin with, but I'm certain she has to inform me at least. Did she move them in a way that will reduce your access? I ask this because the judge will ask it first thing. If you live in Texas and your ex moved from North Carolina to Georgia, then your access is not materially affected and the judge doesn't want to hear about it. Your ex will just show up and say "of course I told him I was moving, how could I keep that a secret? I didn't send an official notice because we don't have a combative relationship. He's dragged me into court on a technicality b…	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 11:58 AM
1	[Help] My children's were visiting for the summer and my ex wife used the opportunity to move the kids out of state. This all happened without my knowledge or consent. I don't live in the same state as them to begin with, but I'm certain she has to inform me at least. Did she move them in a way that will reduce your access? I ask this because the judge will ask it first thing. If you live in Texas and your ex moved from North Carolina to Georgia, then your access is not materially affected and the judge doesn't want to hear about it. Your ex will just show up and say "of course I told him I was moving, how could I keep that a secret? I didn't send an official notice because we don't have a combative relationship. He's dragged me into court on a technicality b…	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 11:55 AM
1	[Help] My children's were visiting for the summer and my ex wife used the opportunity to move the kids out of state. This all happened without my knowledge or consent. I don't live in the same state as them to begin with, but I'm certain she has to inform me at least. Did she move them in a way that will reduce your access? I ask this because the judge will ask it first thing. If you live in Texas and your ex moved from North Carolina to Georgia, then your access is not materially affected and the judge doesn't want to hear about it. Your ex will just show up and say "of course I told him I was moving, how could I keep that a secret? I didn't send an official notice because we don't have a combative relationship. He's dragged me into court on a technicality b…	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 11:54 AM
1	[Help] My children's were visiting for the summer and my ex wife used the opportunity to move the kids out of state. This all happened without my knowledge or consent. I don't live in the same state as them to begin with, but I'm certain she has to inform me at least. Did she move them in a way that will reduce your access? I ask this because the judge will ask it first thing. If you live in Texas and your ex moved from North Carolina to Georgia, then your access is not materially affected and the judge doesn't want to hear about it. Your ex will just show up and say "of course I told him I was moving, how could I keep that a secret? I didn't send an official notice because we don't have a combative relationship. He's dragged me into court on a technicality b…	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 11:54 AM
1	Feminist media in a nutshell Right?!? How much does a person have to despise men to think that a sex toy will be seen as a replacement for a life partner by any but the most socially marginal males whose options are 1) live alone or 2) live alone with a doll? Probably every man I know, if offered a chance to experiment with one of these things for free, would give it a go. None of them would confuse their zany masturbation adventure with a sexual encounter or a romantic relationship.	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 11:39 AM
3	Sex robot Samantha maker branded 'pervert' for This Morning interview hits back When you go on TV and tell the world that you've introduced your children to your sex robot, you're going to be called a pervert.	/r/MensRights	14/09/17 08:58 AM
1	A-List Star: I Didn't Flash My Butt On Purpose, People Are Wrong To Ogle Me (Photos): Looks like she forgot a bra too. The shorts and boots are a must!	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 11:38 AM
2	Public university, they don't have a time reserved for men only weightlifting. Is that not discrimination? It's occasionally exhausting being an MRA who is actually not sexist.	/r/MensRights	13/09/17 12:20 AM
1	Finally, powerful women are speaking up for the rights of men. Equality just got a step closer That is correct.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 07:30 PM
-6	Public university, they don't have a time reserved for men only weightlifting. Is that not discrimination? That's not been my experience. There are people who will hear a reasoned argument and people who will cite "policy" and tell you to buzz off. Lower-level management tends towards to matter mindset.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 02:04 PM
2	A-List Star: I Didn't Flash My Butt On Purpose, People Are Wrong To Ogle Me (Photos): Looks like she forgot a bra too. She probably didn't "forget" a bra. She's probably just tired of wearing the nasty things, and has correctly concluded that there is no good reason to.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 11:35 AM
0	A-List Star: I Didn't Flash My Butt On Purpose, People Are Wrong To Ogle Me (Photos): Looks like she forgot a bra too. She's never heard of you either.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 11:33 AM
-34	Public university, they don't have a time reserved for men only weightlifting. Is that not discrimination? What problem? A woman managing a gym? I don't know if you've ever had occasion to protest segregation in a gym, but this response (we open at 5) is a very standard first response.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 11:17 AM
4	Men should learn that silence is golden. Loosrn that tinfoil hat a bit. I don't think you're getting enough blood to the brain.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 10:29 AM
5	Finally, powerful women are speaking up for the rights of men. Equality just got a step closer At last – perhaps for the first time in any Western democracy – we saw last week a woman in a powerful office of state acting, not on behalf of women’s sectional interests but neutrally, in the genderless service of justice. I feel like this is very dismissive of the hundreds (thousands?) of female legislators, judges and political appointees who have pursued justice impartially in the years since females holding such offices became a thing.	/r/MensRights	12/09/17 10:27 AM
1	Were you circumcised as a minor – possibly as an eight-day-old baby – by Dr Joseph Spitzer (Stamford Hill)? Help us bring this criminal to justice by supporting our private prosecution of him The clamp method, anecdotally-from-other-Jews-I-know, destroys more tissue. There's no logic in any of this, but if I were forced to mutilate my sons I'd want an old-school mohel with a scalpel. I also wouldn't want to crush any bits of my daughter's genitalia prior to having them cut off in accordance with God's will.	/r/MensRights	11/09/17 05:57 AM
1	Men's right in a relationship Of course not. How can you live in the state of California and not realize this? If you don't want to support children, take responsibility for your fertility and get a vasectomy. If you DO want to have children, but not yet or not with this woman, take as much responsibility as possible and use condoms that you provide and take home with you or rinse out before throwing in her trash.	/r/MensRights	09/09/17 12:01 PM
2	12-year-old boy who transitioned to female changes his mind two years later. It's criminal to let young children make a decision like this. A lot of what we look back on historically as child abuse was done by very well-intentioned people who were working off bad information about human development.	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 11:55 AM
1	12-year-old boy who transitioned to female changes his mind two years later. It's criminal to let young children make a decision like this. HRT for postmenopausal woman is absolutely "drugging women." It has lifestyle benefits that come at the price of health risks (cancer, stroke). Adult women can choose to assume the health risks - and they have much more information to inform their choice than transcurious children and their parents, since the practice has been so extensively studied. Breast reconstruction is absolutely "obfuscating a mastectomy." I've had it done, actually. I did it to restore the appearance of my body after a m…	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 11:50 AM
3	Mother worried that her 5 year old daughter will be distressed by her infant brother's circumcision. No concern about the boy then? Once again, the cocksucking is an extreme fringe practice. I had never even heard about it until the herpes rabbi. No intermarried couple is doing the cocksucking bit. ... If that makes any of this better. I guess not getting herpes is better. But when the absolute best thing you can say about your plan for your newborn baby is that it won't give him herpes...	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 01:54 AM
22	12-year-old boy who transitioned to female changes his mind two years later. It's criminal to let young children make a decision like this. Male puberty is what happens to male bodies. Female puberty is what happens to female bodies. Drugging children so that they can more easily obfuscate their birth sex if they are trans in adulthood is beyond ridiculous. It's the opposite of self-acceptance, self-love and self-respect. It's going to be looked back on as child abuse.	/r/MensRights	08/09/17 01:45 AM
38	Mother stamped on her 21-month-old daughter so viciously she died when her heart tore after care workers allowed concern for killer to 'overshadow' child's needs says report - biological father Ricky reported abuse allegations twice Marijuana made her viciously abuse her toddler? That's a new one on me, and I work with abused children. Whatever happened to crazy? I'm glad she got a nice long sentence at least.	/r/MensRights	06/09/17 09:36 AM