| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 27 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.If it’s not a “hell yes”, then it’s a “hell no”, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened.“Our women” Oooooooooof. 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 23 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Applying and massaging in sunscreen for each other is an act of love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 22 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.That lazy eye making me wet AF. 🥴 Is he fucking serious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 341 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?That and the chance of them abusing you is fucking astronomical. Cops are notorious for being domestic abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:37 AM |
| 127 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Marriage is fucking easy when you’re with the right person. Even the “hard” parts of marriage aren’t hard. Disagreements are discussed maturely and resolved (ACTUALLY resolved, not just pushed under the rug to become resentment later) before they become arguments, each actively seeks to help the other with stress, decompression, and fulfillment, and you are each other’s best friend. And not in that cliché bullshit way. Nah, marriage shouldn’t be “effing hard”. Yes, it is work. Like a house or ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 19 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.No doubt. Wanting your girlfriend/wife to look like a prepubescent girl is a PROBLEM, fellas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:03 PM |
| 46 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.I find any man that insists you shave off all body hair immediately suspect. That’s pedo shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 42 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...My husband did the same. We are Childfree, and he stepped up to the plate without hesitation once we settled on not having kids for good. He didn’t want me to have to go through the much more invasive sterilization procedure to have the same effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 455 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.“Men want wholesome women” Hahahahahahahahahahahah. Until they say no to whatever fucked up “kink” the dude wants to try. Okay bro. Sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 8 | Targeted advice from FDS “older sisters” needed for “younger sisters” (adolescent and early 20’s) 👩👧I’d be okay with being flaired “older” in this context. I like to help the young’uns here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 10 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Nor have I. My husband is bald and naturally sweats a LOT plus he works an extremely physical job, even after he showers at night his skin is still a bit oily. Don’t have this issue except for slight yellowing over time on the pillow. I think that’s just a bald guy thing, though. Moral of the story: don’t let filthy men into your bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Man creates Chatbot AI of dead girlfriend (link in post) - What do y'all think of tis? Is it high-value to be so in love with your girlfriend you'd immortalize her after death? Or is it more on the creepy side? I'd love to get an FDS perspective on this 🤔That is probably really, really detrimental to going through the grieving process. I feel for his loss, I really do, but that’s gonna hurt more than it helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 255 | A thousand splendid suns was such a heartbreaking book. Full of LVM galore. The author Khaled is aware of the wretched state of our communities.Man’s accusing finger always finds a woman. Ooof if that ain’t true. Kite Runner broke my heart, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:59 PM |
| 20 | You are allowed to eat.One of my exes used to neg me constantly when I was overweight, even though his damn thighs were about as big around as my biceps are now 😂 For contrast, my HVM husband encourages me to eat enough if he notices me picking at food because, I dunno, I guess he wants me to be nourished or some shit. Who knew? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 61 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Lmao whether they did or didn’t “invent” it to make money, the amount of stuff that comes unstuck from between my teeth every day when I floss just keeps me doing it. I feel disgusting if I don’t floss every night. I know some of you ladies need to hear it, floss those pearly whites at least once a day!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 10 | Dick is in abundance and low in value. Getting “flewed out” is not the move.Drat. You had my hopes up until I checked them out. Not a single damn location in my home state of NY, not a one. Bummerrrrrr. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 22 | Dick is in abundance and low in value. Getting “flewed out” is not the move.Ugh honestly anything from Popeyes slaps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 169 | If he did not ask you to be his girlfriend YOU’RE SINGLE“i DoN’t BeLiEvE iN LaBeLs 🤡” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:07 AM |
| 43 | Why do you think?Goodbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah Eeeeeearl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 23 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?One of the fucking LITANY of reasons I am happily Childfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:24 PM |
| 8 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.“You’re not god or my father. OR MY BOSS!! WAAAHHH!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 46 | The “iM an AlpHa mALe” is already a turn off for me but then on top of that, these dudes never actually want to play that role all the way. They just like the part where they get to boss the woman around.Alpha males are full of bugs and bad coding. Next! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 16 | I like good abs and I can not lie...Ugh same. My husband works a very physical job with lots of lifting so his legs and butt are like 🤤 and his shoulders and chest are too. He thinks I’m nuts when he catches me staring at him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 56 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!Seriously hate that term. But honestly? The best advice I have for the younger queens on here is to DATE the guys that other men call “simp” or “soyboy”. They are generally the ones that’ve got it right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 10 | Accept no excuses for aggressive behaviour from men. There are no excuses for a man to even raise his voice at you. Ever. My partner never did once, not even when he was dying from cancer.I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like what time you had together was loving and pure and I hope that memories of all the good times you had will sustain you through this. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:17 PM |
| 33 | "Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok!It can be a lifesaver, though. I lost a significant amount of weight (over 130lbs - part of leveling up and getting healthy for myself) and now have several pounds of leftover loose skin. I can’t even jog without it being painful. I can’t wait to get my excess skin removed so I can actually look as healthy as I feel and be able to run painlessly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 58 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.All of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:57 AM |
| 65 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?“Not all men”, but “no dating til you’re married!” Because boys only want one thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 21 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.Fuuuuhhhck no sis. If he’s trying to get the benefit of your hand without anything to show for it, that’s a BIG indicator of things to come. 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 37 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.I pretty much told my then-boyfriend (now husband) that if he wants to show me he values me, he’s going to get me a ring that reflects that. After all, I’m wearing it the rest of my life. Told him to take however much time he needed to save up, but don’t be coming at me with a fucking .10 carat nonsense trinket. He exceeded my expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 158 | The average male redditor starter pack“tHeY’rE a HaTe GrOuP” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:25 PM |
| 38 | What LVM really mean when they say...“Diamonds/big rings are soo overrated, don’t be so materialistic” = I’m a cheapskate low-value clown who will skimp out on you at every possible opportunity and you’d BETTER be happy with the cheap, minuscule ring I feel begrudged to give you. If you even get one at all, because iT’s ReAlLy ThE tHoUgHt ThAt CoUnTs” 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 125 | Damn straightSeriously I FUCKING hate this shit. Anyone who calls us “feeemales” gets an instant block, man or woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:57 PM |
| 7 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisI had a female gyno ask me, aged 15, in an incredibly dripping-with-condescension tone, if I was TRYING to put on weight. (I’d put on something like 16lbs in a year due to a lot of issues) I asked if she was TRYING to be a C U Next Tuesday and reported her ass. Anyway, she’s no longer practicing and her husband dropped dead of cancer. I stand by the fact that he caught it from her fucking cancerous personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 56 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!You’ve been Picked™️! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:33 PM |
| 22 | And you can customize the skin color. 😉Playing the world’s smallest violin for the men who’ll be offended by this one. 🤏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 13 | After 23 years of pickmeism, I found the salvation that is this sub. Thank you. Here's a perfectly less than "perfect" bouquet of beautiful roses I got myself for my birthday.Happy Birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:34 PM |
| 144 | Double standard anyone?We’ve seriously been so conditioned to this since literally childhood. It’s awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 19 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰This. Is. Amazing. And unfortunately, suuuuper accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:23 PM |
| 66 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Good lord. As if women of color didn’t have enough shit to deal with, they get this bullshit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 43 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Unfortunately, no, you probably don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Twitter is the epicenter of the Pick me pandemicUgh. You get what he pays for, in this case. And the guys who are so against "materialism" for wanting a nice ring (that you are literally going to wear the rest of your fucking life) are usually cheap scuzbags anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 10 | The Attractiveness Gap (Humor)Ladies, date someone who wears sunscreen exactly as much as you do. Yessss on the SPF. Prevent skin cancers, AND keep skin youthful looking and healthy for years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 47 | YesGet you a man that makes damn sure you do before he does. Bonus points for making sure you do multiple times before he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 21 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Bought mine a PS4 that we play together. Then he bought me a bigass diamond. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 81 | 🤷Pffft I’m sitting on my comfy chair with a wine cooler in my PJ’s for class this semester. Glorious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 22 | What happens to the “cool girls”.Amy Dunne this shitbag and move on, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 36 | Turn down for what?I loooove me some good tag groups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on the front page and thought of FDSUs saying "I do" does NOT mean "I do everything". Remember this, sisters, when he asks to put a ring on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 39 | Let’s look up to great inspiration!Just remember, women like Michele Bachmann still exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:43 AM |
| 185 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...Waiiit, you mean there aren’t dozens of HOT, YOUNG SINGLES IN MY AREA just waiting to throw their pussy at my mediocre ass? 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:16 PM |
| 47 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"I asked my fiancé not to skimp on this. I don’t normally ask for much, but this was the one thing I wasn’t gonna “settle” on. I pretty much said as long as it takes you to save to get what I’m looking for, take the time to do it. I’m in no rush. And you know what? That’s just what he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Marry a grown man, not another child to take care ofI found mine on Reddit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 23 | Marry a grown man, not another child to take care ofThey absolutely do. Took me years of putting up with abusive, manipulative LVMs to finally snag one (young stupid pickmeisha habits) but I did. You’ll find yours too sis. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:52 PM |
| 6 | If the (clown) shoe fits....I have a joint account with my fiancé. Makes paying bills way easier. But it’s OUR account, not his or mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 49 | Twitter suspended this woman’s account for telling the truth.I didn't realize how often this happened until it was discussed in one of my Childfree groups on FB, NUMEROUS women said they'd been banned for calling men trash - FB considers THAT hate speech, loooool, but not when my friends get called all sorts of homophobic shit and harassed via messenger by LVMs. I'm at the point now where they give me a 30-day ban for any infraction. FB is known to be a cesspit of LVMs, angry racist boomers, and troll accounts, but for some reason, the Zuck team only focu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 133 | Twitter suspended this woman’s account for telling the truth.Not surprised. Facebook bans women for calling men trash REGULARLY, but if men wanna call us sluts, whores, etc. that’s totally fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 15 | Thought of you ladies immediately 😂Oooh, you just know he done fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:59 PM |
| 33 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.Same, girl, same. Looking back on one situation in particular (man following me to class as I walked, on his bicycle, endlessly asking for my name and calling me “sugar”, telling me I’d be so much more beautiful if I smiled, etc etc etc) I felt SO endangered and creeped out because he could have easily overpowered me if he wanted to, but I still didn’t want to be “rude” by not engaging his conversation. I finally had to cut him off at the entrance to my school, but I was legit afraid he’d wait f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 04:56 PM |
| – | Watching girls get arrested is so satisfying.Because these guys like to see women getting hurt/dominated. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/06/17 04:08 PM |
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