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Some people are just unhinged...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/26 01:54 AM
21

I shit you not, I've seen a girl call others misogynistic because they "looked like it" and call an Arabian toilet misogynistic... It's literally a fucking hole in the ground, how is that misogynistic??? People just want to see misogyny everywhere and will make up the wildest shit to justify it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/26 10:51 PM
1

Yes, a minuscule amount of men do so. Women do the opposite as well. Your point being...?
/r/MensRights22/02/26 07:28 PM
1

If there's so many examples, give me one.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 07:04 PM
1

Lack of care or wellness as a whole? Where do you live that women's safety is not cared for? I struggle to think of anywhere in the world where women's safety is not put above men's.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 06:33 PM
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r/yourjokebutbetter
/r/EverydayMisandry01/02/26 11:43 PM
1

I see, thank you! Is there any specific experience you'd like to point out that stuck with you when it comes to prejudice?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 10:08 PM
4

What game?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/25 10:53 PM
2

Men don't have an in-group bias, they actually have an out-group one, that is, they like the average woman more than they like the average man. Women on the other hand have no out-group bias, but they have a massive in-group bias, that is, they generally love the average woman. Now, who's left out of this loving cycle...?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 06:17 PM
9

Christ, you never had a break since you started dating your wife, I see. Been spoofed shit for 20+ years and more than I've been alive... I cannot imagine the willpower one must have to withstand that. Portugal, a little appendice of the EU.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/25 12:51 AM
12

Jesus Christ, man. I don't know what to tell you. You were a goddamn warrior to stick by your children when it would've been infinitely easier to run. I respect you greatly for that as should everyone. I can only hope you're in a better place right now. I know it's not much better now than it was, but it's getting better, believe me. In my country, national TV just dedicated a small segment to the increasing number of men filing DV claims and being taken in for protection, saying we can also be …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/25 12:03 AM
4

I would also like this expanded on
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/25 12:07 PM
8

Late naughties
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/25 12:59 PM
2

Your tag really helps drive the point home
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:01 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/25 11:54 AM
3

No, you got a link?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/25 01:32 PM
2

Ah yes, I'm familiar, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:11 PM
0

The what nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:18 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 09:30 AM
1

Ah, thanks! So it was what I was thinking, I just hadn't correlated it to homossexuality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 02:59 PM
1

Thanks! But... What's the acronym stand for?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 02:53 PM
1

DL?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/25 02:51 PM
2

I would also like an example if possible!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/25 08:06 PM
1

That could certainly make a dent in their plans, but it would only further prove their point that "men bad", so it's playing right into their hands... That being said, what's Dobbs? Sorry, first time I've heard of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 10:53 AM
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Schrodinger's Feminist strikes back once more. It's not just their status as a victim or empowered that changes depending on what's most useful at any given moment - it's their entire logic and arguments. That's why I can't take it seriously. They're always tripping over themselves on every subject, changing their core beliefs and arguments just to win, not to make a point. You can't have the cake and eat it too - unless you're a feminist, that is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 05:32 PM
25

But then they say that not having sex is ridiculous when it comes to avoiding unwanted pregnancies... Curious.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 02:01 PM
10

The preconception that it's easier for women is there for a reason. It's true. But it's one thing say it's easier and another to say they have it guaranteed. They don't have it guaranteed, but goddamn if they don't have it massively massively easier. I'd go out on a limb and say most women that are single are so by choice and I can't say the same for single guys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 01:58 PM
16

To be honest, you might be onto something. Feminists started out by being a terrorist group (aka Suffragettes) and only by kidnapping people and blowing up buildings did they manage to get some recognition... That being said, I still don't really agree with this solution and one particular issue aside, it wasn't men that elected Trump. More than half of white women voted for him, let's not divert attention from that very important point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 01:44 PM
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Whenever talk about feelings come up, I always remember a conversation I had with a colleague in uni. I was explaining to her that I was always alone at lunch in the last year of school. "So, I just sat alone at lunch everyday on the canteen for my last year there." "Oh my God, are you serious?" "Yes, I was-" "You guys had a canteen at your school?!" "...Yes." Sometimes I think back and wonder if she truly was that dense that she didn't realise what the point was or just redirected that conversa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 10:38 AM
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Weird that they would say that safety is more important than feelings. Had a conversation not long ago with a classmate in uni where she just randomly dropped her opinion that we had the privilege of not walking alone at night scared. First, she not only told me I shouldn't feel scared (so your first point is checked) but when I pointed out that she's less likely to be attacked at night than I am, she doubled down on it. Fortunately, she didn't deny those stats, but still said we were privileged…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 10:33 AM
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Yeah, I got it (didn't know about the white part though) I just wanted to see what the end of the allegory (not sure that's the right word, can't remember now) was.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/25 03:11 AM
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I see, thanks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 03:10 PM
5

And...?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/25 11:18 AM
5

Put in that perspective, yes, that's something I agree with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/25 02:49 PM
4

Yeah, that's not how that works. There's no "criminal gene" to begin with, and even if there was, people commit crime (and violent crime) for reasons other than their genetic disposition to anger or to defy authority. Hell, I'd go out on a limb and say most crime is committed out of necessity or outside factors that have nothing (or very little) to do with genetics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/25 02:12 PM
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You got a link for that somewhere?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 11:03 AM
1

Seconded!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 03:38 PM
3

Shutting off the internet works wonders.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 10:04 PM
2

Context?
/r/MensRights18/02/25 10:04 PM
10

Yeah, I do not recommend reading the article on misandry...
/r/MensRights03/02/25 01:12 AM
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That and more than half of white women voted for Trump anyway, so... Really, you can't make this shit up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/25 01:41 PM
1

Fun fact: STEM is female dominated. The way they count is taking every field in STEM and only counting those that are male dominated towards the overall count. When you make an actual count with every STEM field, women are the majority. Funny how that works, right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/25 05:59 PM
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It doesn't even compare... There's subs that automatically ban you if you're part of the MRA sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/24 09:16 PM
2

What post?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:27 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 02:46 AM
2

Source?
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 02:33 AM
2

I could've guessed that by the name alone
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 01:04 PM
6

What's FDS?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 07:35 AM
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So weird that you use language from both beliefs, "incel" and it's connotations from blue pill, but then ironically use "beta" from red pill... Curious. Normally one only sticks for one or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:55 PM
1

I can see you have a hate boner for anything MRA related. Have you ever considered checking out the Instagram page TheTinMen?
/r/MensRights21/09/24 12:39 AM
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"If you're homeless... just buy a house."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 PM
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Que merda é que acabei de ler
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/24 10:42 AM
4

Thanks. Still, this clearly isn't pointing to your comment being that accurate. Yes, 70% are in a relationship, but the younger men (18-29) which are the ones we're talking about, 51% are single. That's just slightly over half of men in that age bracket that aren't seeing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:28 AM
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Woah, where'd you get those numbers?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:19 AM
1

Of course, I understood that, don´t worry :D
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 03:25 PM
2

No worries, I understand. I like it more when ideas are properly explained, even if they're extensive. I'll take your criticism to heart, as it is already a reflection of some things I had already encountered and a new perspective on others. Thanks and have good day!
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 01:56 PM
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Jeez, that's a lot, but I got through it all. Thanks for sharing you insight, I appreciate it. I feel the same way that you do, and I don't think disliking the assimetry is indicative of any condition, just that you're a logical person :)
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 01:38 PM
1

Why do you say this? I'm studying psychology right now, so I'd be more than happy to receive any helpful tidbits to avoid biases!
/r/EverydayMisandry11/06/24 08:53 PM
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Thanks for your input :) Don't feel ashamed for being a woman, there's no need for that. Women are just as wonderful as men are, there are just some rotten apples in there just as there are in ours.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:07 PM
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If patriarchy was still a thing, that is... They kinda uphold one themselves at this point
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:32 PM
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No, because they'd just answer with the bullshit we already know is not real
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:31 PM
2

Makes sense, thanks, I'll edit it
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:31 PM
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It's not loaded, I asked because I thought it over myself and couldn't come up with nothing, so I came to ask
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:33 PM
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:(
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:04 PM
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No immediate objections to the rest of the comment, but some things are straight up wrong: Wage gap or any other bias in regards to jobs is straight up non-existant or skewed in favor of women today. Domestic violence is not largely committed by men, it's the other way around. We have well documented this phenomenon of extreme research tampering and legal workings manipulation to fabricate the narrative of women being the only victims and men the only oppressors (this is also evident in any type…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:19 PM
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*people who need cash Also, https://www.comparably.com/salaries/salaries-for-porn-star
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 PM
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There are *people being hurt. That being said, the discussion is going into one's freedom of choice. We shouldn't be prohibited from watching whatever it is we want to watch just because someone doesn't want to. There have to be limits, yes, but they have to be agreed upon and make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:20 PM
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Neither do I subscribe to matriarchal theory, I subscribe to facts. Well, I'm always searching for someone that will try to have an open mind, but the feminist narrative really has its claws in everyone. Hey, atleast you didn't insult me too much. You say these things, but you know them how, exactly...? The numbers you say you know, the historical tidbits you say you know... It's all from what you see in media, which is manipulated. Anecdotal evidence is too parse to be a good indicator of reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:58 AM
2

Those prison numbers are always a bit skewed since women are massively benefited when it comes to the judicial system...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:12 AM
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Perhaps there are. The "it would show" comment is just not true. We have decades of altered/tampered research when it comes to female violence to hide the fact that it's as prevalent as male violence. Researchers with humongous biases that do they their damn hardest to make their views the reality (and they succeed!) When we have other researchers (and even those who initially stood with them but realized their mistakes, check out Ellen Pence's story) that are shouted down, discredit and banned …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:11 AM
2

I don't have the stats on that, so I can't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:35 AM
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"it would save from attempts of sexual assault and going through sexual harassment" It would not. It would make them less likely, yes, but worse when they do happen because no one will take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:24 PM
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Of course, but no one comes from a knife fight unscathed, that might just be enough to persuade him/her. Hell, even though they are more likely to get the short end of the stick, at this point I'd argue that it's more dangerous in the long run to be a man in a DV situation than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:35 PM
1

The best part is that these also work on women! Although the advice in that situation is to run away and pray that you don't get jailed anyway. I guess a shelter is the next step if these can't be taken. This doesn't work for men though. Still thinking of a good alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:31 PM
0

There are a multitude of things one can do when they're in disadvantageous situations, and it's easy to shut a man down : 1 - groin, instant take-down; 2 - throat, instant take-down; 3 - eyes, might not be instant, but gives you time to run/prepare to attack again; 4 - use of weapons, knifes are pretty much a sure win, or a blunt object, if you're not looking to kill/severely injure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:52 PM
2

There's even studies that prove the exact contrary of said core assumption...
/r/MensRights20/10/23 07:04 AM
3

Well, that took a 180°
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:19 PM
5

Yeah, but not the kind they're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:46 PM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:53 PM
2

Heh, it seems we´re more alike than I initally thought. My thought process is pretty much similar to your own and I 100% understand your point of view, I just didn´t quite get the similarities with your initial comment. Hats off to you, my good sir, and good luck with your future endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:00 PM
2

And maybe society needs a few machine-like people like me. No, society needs more people that are more like you, not like you. You seem to have gone off the deep end of rationality, completely erasing (or hiding) your emotional side. You don´t need me to tell you that you need both. I understand your point, I truly do, I´ve become more rational as time went on, but I still hold on to my emotional side as well, they´re both needed. I agree with your comment in it´s entirety, I´m just speaking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:33 PM
2

Although that one differs greatly, I wouldn't say it's general...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:06 PM
2

You sound like a machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:05 PM
6

Planescape: Torment moment
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:39 AM
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Self-fulfilling prophecy. I think that's the entire point.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 09:22 PM
1

Understandable.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 01:49 AM
9

Don't need to wipe? Since when? You wanna leak all over your pants after urinating or something?
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:48 AM
2

Mister and Misses Smith?
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:01 PM
1

Unfortunately, I believe this is more than usual...
/r/MensRights23/07/23 03:16 AM
9

I'm gonna need context for that last sentence.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 12:18 AM
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Especially when we already know that lesbians are the most violent in relationships
/r/MensRights14/07/23 01:00 PM
2

Your explanation of why people hate this sub is the best explanation of why people hate feminist subs, not this one. People hate this sub because that's what they've been told to do. Most people have not even set foot inside here, they just have a visceral reaction to anything not feminist. If you were actually active instead of only popping in once in a while to insult us and deny men's problems, you'd see that people that disagrees are given a fair shot at explaining themselves - which you als…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 06:08 AM
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No one said that MRA's represent all men, and I personally never said such thing either. And on top of that, you're delusional. Never diminished men's problems? You keep telling yourself that. Perhaps you haven't seen, I dunno, this thread you started? Or all the other comments you've made? You have a really weak grasp on concepts like "advocating" and "diminishing", as, to you, they seem to be the opposite of their actual meaning. You ought to get that checked out. And I actually do things and …
/r/MensRights18/06/23 08:00 PM
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Bullshit. You know that advocating for something is to defend said thing. That isn't what you're doing. Every single comment in this sub that you've made (as far as I cared to scroll) has been to diminish men's problems and insult those who actually care. It's quite perplexing to see you say that you've been here advocating for men's rights for years when called out on your bullshit when you've made it clear you don't consider yourself an MRA. So, which one is it? You can't advocate and not be a…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 06:45 PM
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So... You come in here with inflammatory remarks, insulting us all, and when someone asks for any sort of proof on anything you say, you tell them that THEY are not looking for honest discussion while getting some more insults in... You, my friend, are a troll looking for some bad reactions so you can paint us in a bad light. Unfortunately for you, we're not bad faith actors that you want us to, be, it's only you. Run along now. Weak bait.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:52 PM
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I say give it a shot. We won't know until it's tried. If it can gain us more visibility and engagement, I say it's worth it. Shutting ourselves off is just doing like they do, and that drives people away, we ought to swing our doors wide open and invite people in. Although I don't know how to go about it...
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:46 PM
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Why? Groupthink, indoctrination, etc... Most people haven't even checked this sub, they just hear Men's Right and lose their shit.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:34 PM
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They're not idiots, just people calling you out on your bullshit. If you're gonna make a claim like that, you have to be ready to present proof, or you'll get rightly shit on, like now
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:25 PM
3

Funny how they're so quick to shame us for our lack of sex (incel) but consider shaming them for their experience misogynistic (slut)
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/23 08:07 AM
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I used to be pro-life, but then I realized I can't impose my views on others. I'll still criticize them for being filthy egotistical killers, but I think they should have the choice, if they're such a piece of shit to do so. (this is for non risk pregnancies of course, if it endangers the mom or the child, I understand)
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 09:34 PM
1

No, it's not going to devolve into that. Although, I can see now that you don't consider babies to be worthy of rights, which, in my eyes is also disgusting. So (your views, not you) to me, your ideas as double disgusting and wrong now. 1) Ok, so if consciousness is your argument, what about comas and people that have fainted, the mentally ill, drug users, alcoholics? Are they fair game to do whatever we want? 2) This is really down to our views on morality. You think "just one more" (which will…
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 09:29 PM
1

Yeah, limiting is a politically correct stand in for kill male babies to maintain a certain population. It's still killing. And still a slippery slope.
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 09:12 PM
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Even if it's bad, how is killing millions good? You're just replacing one evil with a even bigger evil in the name of "progress". That's one hell of a slippery slope. If we stoop so low as to kill millions for our own benefit, what else will we do for our comfort?
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 08:55 PM
0

So, since you think having too many men is detrimental, we should kill them by the millions? I get your point, and even if it did help, killing millions of men is not the answer.
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 08:31 PM
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Not gonna lie, this is absolutely disgusting. This is giving me SCUM Manifesto vibes...
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 08:23 PM
7

Now you're getting it...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:02 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:02 PM
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Thanks for the links. Yeah, it's sad we got to the point where people can only see others in black and white and you either agree with them 100% or are against them 100% (talking about your comments on JP) And yeah, Strauss, that's him. I'm familiar with his research already, he talks about this issue as well. But, the rest is new to me, thank you!
/r/MensRights27/02/23 12:22 AM
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Damn, got any sources for the academic funding part?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 08:42 PM
6

Yes! Thank you so much!
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:25 PM
7

What the hell did I just read.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 06:34 PM
2

Isn't it still? I still hear it around sometimes
/r/MensRights18/02/23 03:17 AM
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Poundmetoo 💀
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:29 AM
2

Humans are both the root of all that is evil and all that is good. You take your conclusions from that.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:14 PM
2

That makes no sense. Aside from the fact that society was made in such a way that money is idolized (and society was made by humans); there are lots of evil actions that don't have money as the primary objective. Never heard of sadists?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:13 PM
1

And where does that love from? Where does that money come from?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:04 PM
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Humans are the root of all evil
/r/MensRights11/02/23 06:51 PM
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Are we to act surprised? Because this is pretty common. I mean, come on, it's TwoXChromossome. What were you expecting?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:08 PM
6

I've had a British teacher (I think) come to my university to give a lecture about how women shouldn't go to jail
/r/MensRights08/02/23 02:57 PM
6

Because the UN hates men
/r/MensRights08/02/23 02:55 PM
1

What subreddit
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:15 PM
10

You guys are having sex?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 01:13 AM
7

Again, faced by an impossibility, mustn't we fight for the most we can manage? It's impossible to reach equality of opportunity, but we need to try our best at it
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:36 AM
3

Based (heh) on the comment, I'd say it's a woman
/r/MensRights30/01/23 11:36 PM
7

Not that equality, I agree with that definition. I mean equality of opportunity. There will always be areas and activities that men and women are better at than one another. I just think we should fight for the chance to give everyone the same opportunity to chose what they want out of life.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 10:51 PM
8

Does that prevent that we fight for equality? I know it's impossible, but we must fight to get as near to it as possible
/r/MensRights30/01/23 10:40 PM
15

Well said. It's good knowing the nonsense will stop when the times are tough
/r/MensRights30/01/23 07:02 PM
1

Ok, what's your problem? You just come in here, ask for examples of what he did, I provide them, you, without any context or idea of what went down accuse me of tampering with the arguments, say that I have no argumentative skills, complain that I haven't given you any evidence of something you didn't ask for, accuse me of not having any social interaction with women and conflate said lack of social interaction with the validity of my statements, like that's how it works. What's your goal with a…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 10:41 PM
1

Look, I understand where you're trying to get at, but I'm not really in the mood to discuss my presenting skills.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 10:24 PM
1

Sure.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 10:09 PM
1

Ah, sorry, I didn't understand. Ad Hominem - "Show me some respect, I'm trying to argue with someone who did (past action) Invincible Ignorance - his refusal to look at evidence. Red Herring - "It's like, if someone sends me a "study" that "checks" Nazi victims, I'm not going to look at it" Strawman - "You have already stated you believe that women aren't oppressed" / "Nothing that I tell you will convince you that everyone deserves to be treated the same way independent of their gender or race"
/r/MensRights27/01/23 08:49 PM
1

Strawman, Invincible Ignorance, Ad Hominem and Red Herring, if I'm not mistaken.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 05:45 PM
1

I guess no side can be a side. What do you mean, a "characterization"? Also, how does it not begin to dismantle the patriarchy? If the patriarchy is meant to keep the women down, if we have systematic erasure of male suffering and highlights of female suffering, doesn't that seem odd? People shouldn't be so stuck with the norm, and open for debate. That's how you innovate. I know why people see my views as bad, I was in their shoes for 18 years, getting fed propaganda and not even thinking about…
/r/MensRights25/01/23 02:44 PM
2

I see. First off, I do not condone political labels. I hate politics in general and do not associate myself with sides. Secondly, we have tons of evidence of media manipulation and censorship of news/studies/statistics to eliminate male suffering and highlight female suffering. That much is fact. Thirdly, who cares if it's beyond the social norm? Do we advance as a society by coloring inside the lines?
/r/MensRights25/01/23 02:33 PM
1

How so?
/r/MensRights25/01/23 01:59 PM
1

A good approach
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:18 PM
1

I see, thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:06 PM
2

Ah, you're talking indigenous... I truly have no idea how that's like... Would you care to share with me?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 09:50 PM
2

I see, thank you!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 09:47 PM
1

Not doubting you, but how did you come to know of this in the first place?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 08:58 PM
2

Hold up, but aren't there more women voters than men in the US? (Also, I'm from Europe) I was talking more about stuff like the Duluth Model and Title IX, for example.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 08:56 PM
1

What you're saying has logic to it. But is there a way prove it? Some type of evidence?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 08:48 PM
2

I see, very well put! Thanks for the clarification!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 08:47 PM
1

Well, he hasn't turned violent
/r/MensRights24/01/23 05:33 PM
2

Holy shit, that first line is my entire experience trying to talk to feminists. Really, I can't get ANYONE to explain anything at all. It's all "go look and then we can talk, I don't have to educate you/if you don't know you're not ready to talk about it" It's so enfuriating, and it's so obvious they're bullshitting cause they have no idea either...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 05:00 PM
2

Well, now that you mention it, he does tend to think his opinion is the correct one in a lot of cases and will dismiss everyone else, but never in this magnitude...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:58 PM
2

One of, if not the least patriarchal societies. If it was patriarchal in the first place, that is. Not as bad as Canada or Australia, from what I gather.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:57 PM
1

Yeah, I responded with the "I'm dissapointed in your reaction, this isn't you, it's someone else" And said that we should pretend this didn't happen so we could go on as buddies as usual.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:55 PM
2

Indeed, easier said than done. Even without the ideological differences, I have always been a 3rd class citizen there, not even 2nd class. The only reason I still "hang out" with them is because I want some kind of human interaction and someone to play multiplayer games with, because, if I didn't want those two things, I would've cut them off already...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 03:03 PM
4

Yeah, making new ones is the issue. But, I'll try to get by
/r/MensRights24/01/23 02:10 PM
3

I'm not particularly old, but I see the appeal more and more
/r/MensRights24/01/23 02:09 PM
1

I can only hope
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:21 PM
1

I just said that I doesn't exist, no time frame was provided.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:22 AM
3

I agree.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:14 AM
1

I said that the patriarchy doesn't exist in Europe and North America
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:11 AM
3

I always see them for what they are, not what they think, I'm the one worried they can't do the same with me, because, ever since I started talking about the issue, I'll get called out and insulted at random every now and then. It seems like I'm walking on eggshells around them, the climate is tense, and I don't know if that's just me, or them too
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:10 AM
5

But if patriarchy only means that, then there's no issue. Women aren't inherently opressed in a patriarchal society of your definition. It just means men are in power. When I tried to talk to him about the definition of patriarchy he told me exactly what you said, and after replying in the same way as above, he shut off. The media definitely pushes the agenda. From erasing male suffering to only pandering to female issues and putting a spin on issues everyone suffers from but only making them fe…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:08 AM
1

I don't think that's an issue, he has, as the kids say these days "no bitches"
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:01 AM
1

Interesting. I understood that the two movements seemed to borrow some stuff from one another, but never that they moved as one...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 11:00 AM
1

What for? He just straight up refused to collaborate
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:57 AM
3

Well, I've spoken to four people about this directly. The ones with the complete meltdown were a woman and a very effeminate gay man and the ones with a less visceral reaction where two straight guys. Also, I do agree with your theory. I've had it in my mind but not put it to words as you have.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:56 AM
1

He refuses to look at any type of evidence
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:53 AM
5

Of course, I will always see what they are, not what they think. But their reactions are so visceral that sometimes I'm worried they won't do the same. I've had a friend tell me they only stick around with me because they've been my friends for over a decade now, because, if not, he would've stopped talking to me over this.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:52 AM
2

That does seem to make some sense, thank you!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:50 AM
6

I get the gist of it. However, just playing Devil's advocate here, if there are people brainwashed today to not break the illusion, couldn't the women of old be brainwashed to keep their position and do nothing but breed without retaliating?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:48 AM
2

I see, thanks for the contribution!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:43 AM
3

Thanks, I hope he'll see what's up soon
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:41 AM
4

Yeah, in a couple of situations. Stuff like this where I can't even express my opinion about without getting demonized just drives the point home. My comment was more on the joke end of things though. I don't actually expect them to burn us at a stake, of course, but more prominent figures have received bomb and death threats for speaking out for men, so...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 03:35 AM
10

I dunno, man. I hope he comes around soon. Actually, I never questioned feminism myself. It was entirely out of chance that I stumbled upon this subreddit, and had the strength to not look the other way and pretend everything was fine. I saw the statistics. The studies. And then I started piecing it all together. And then I started seeing it. It's everywhere. How could I have been so blind for so long? I don't judge those who still believe, for they have been brainwashed. I judge those who refus…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:57 AM
5

I would need to know what your definition of patriarchy is to know where to begin
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:38 AM
3

Thanks for the info!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:23 AM
1

I see. Thanks for the tips, I'll look into it!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:50 AM
4

Own most of the wealth? I hadn't heard that one before. Do you have links to share?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:50 AM
2

Marxist thinkers? Are these any sources for what you're saying? I'd like to get to the bottom of this.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:45 AM
3

Third paragraph
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:43 AM
3

Interesting. Do you have any sources that you could share?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:37 AM
2

We can only hope they will.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:32 AM
9

That's like... Pretty much everyone nowadays...
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:28 AM
1

Really? How was it? What happened to it?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:22 AM
2

I hope it's only that
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:20 AM
3

I know, I just said mentioned it because of the Constitution line. He was saying that, because he is free to express his opinion, he can and will continue to criticize my opinion even though he has voluntarily disregarded evidence that supports it.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:15 AM
1

Sorry, bad formatting, phone. It was heated on his side, yeah, I'm just in shock. I have only reported everything word by word, no superfluous judgements or opinions.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:12 AM
13

That's the thing, everyone I talk to about this has an even worse reaction than him... They can't all be traumatized!
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:10 AM
2

Well, we were discussing right in the middle of our "friend" group
/r/MensRights24/01/23 12:00 AM
7

Of course. I just think that patriarchy is non existent in Europe and North America.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:53 PM
3

Oh yeah, that makes me remember a certain point in the discussion. I was saying that, since he refuses to even look at evidence, he didn't have the right to criticize my opinion. His response was that free speech is in our Constitution and, as such, he has every right to criticize me and will continue to do so because he finds my annoyance to be funny. Yes, he's taking a Law course 🙄
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:52 PM
20

If my friends abandon me over a different viewpoint, we wouldn't be friends for a long time anyway.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:43 PM
2

But that implies that they know it's wrong, just afraid of the consequences... I don't know if he knows it's wrong or not. It doesn't seem like he knows.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:43 PM
2

Good theories, unfortunately, I have no idea how to check them
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:39 PM
8

Sorry, that was a misunderstanding. Just a couple of minutes later, we continued to speak normally. I guess what he meant is that in terms of debates or whatnot, he will not take me seriously
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:38 PM
5

Oh, yeah, I completely forgot about that... Grim stuff
/r/MensRights23/01/23 11:36 PM
4

I have seen people putting the link to somewhere where they post the picture
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:47 PM
12

It seems to be the case
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:45 PM
9

So it would seem. This is the usual interaction when trying to discuss it, for sure.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:42 PM
11

They haven't started to burn us at the stake for it... Yet.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:41 PM
3

Does he know, really? I can only hope he really does. Although, for someone so brash and brazen as he is, I'm quite surprised he'd go with the flow.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:33 PM
39

I guess? I'm always for truth, no matter how bad it hurts, but sometimes it still hurts like a bitch. However, I will stand my ground and fight for what believe to be true anyway. I will put the days behind me were I'd pipe down just because I was against the majority or against my friends. No more.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:32 PM
41

Yeah, I "won"... But at what cost?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:28 PM
7

What always gets me is the instant hypocrisy that they don't even seem to realize
/r/MensRights21/01/23 11:04 PM
5

"I'd love just once for MRA's and men in general to stand up for us in the comment section of articles about violence against women like so many women do for them." Since when???
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:49 PM
2

What the fuck did I just read
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:01 PM
12

Yes, please do, I've got a couple of those planned out too.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 03:36 PM
9

If it works...
/r/MensRights06/01/23 06:31 PM
4

I think you dropped the ball on this one, he seems genuinely curious about this
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:03 PM
1

This idea is not so far fetched. I had a foreign (British) teacher come into my university to give a lecture on how women shouldn't go to prison. This was two months ago.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:50 PM
5

Indeed.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 02:34 PM
16

She's an adult
/r/MensRights30/12/22 01:03 PM
4

This isn't one of our best posts, sometimes things like this happens, but most of the time, it's pretty thought out. I'd urge you to take a look at some other posts we have here.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 01:02 PM
1

Yes, sorry, I misunderstood
/r/MensRights22/12/22 07:09 PM
1

The acts themselves don't matter, what matters here is the reaction (or lack thereof) that it creates.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 07:06 PM
1

Yes. Perhaps it would be more accurate to make a median of x countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:50 PM
0

America is not the world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:21 AM
43

Well, they ARE more likely to be the victims, but they start it WAY more than it's led on. That's the point.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 07:02 PM
1

Jesus fucking Christ... Thanks for the heads up. I'm pretty sure I know of some people who watched the show. Gotta be on my toes around those...
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:49 PM
0

How bad is it? Got any examples you'd like to share?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:15 AM
2

I know, it was more of a joke than anything else. Problem is when their rules also affect your personal life, such as your job.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 07:51 AM
5

Yes, the most important thing is to stay true to yourself.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:10 PM
7

Careful, a lot of people would cancel you for such a bold statement!
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:08 PM
2

Também te amo :)
/r/MensRights08/12/22 03:46 AM
1

:D
/r/MensRights04/12/22 04:43 PM
1

Already sent them!
/r/MensRights04/12/22 04:37 PM
2

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/228350210_Gender_symmetry_in_partner_violence_The_evidence_the_denial_and_the_implications_for_primary_prevention_and_treatment
/r/MensRights04/12/22 04:37 PM
2

Since when does the gender of the perpetrator matter in such cases? What matters is who is suffering for it.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 12:36 PM
2

Most are mutual, with women starting the abuse 70% of the time. This is followed by lesbian relationships and gay relationships at the bottom. This only shows us that women are, in fact, the greatest perpetrator of DV and also the ones that suffer the most (physically) from it. Interesting stats.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 12:33 PM
1

Great comment! Loved it. I'll definitely use this to guide me, thank you!
/r/MensRights26/11/22 05:02 PM
1

Some bullshit about how we can´t trust statistics, we can only take it as guidance and not definitive proof, and therefore, it´s only anecdotal evidence that counts since that´s rooted in experience, or atleast that´s what I gathered, they weren´t that eloquent about it, as you can imagine. They even said there can be studies made without statistics! It was a really sad and embarassing moment for them, since they´re usually (well, one of them atleast) so rational... I´d like to forget it happene…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:12 PM
1

Yeah, I guess I really leaned in on them too much...
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:09 PM
1

They think the patriarchy is some kind of omnipotent being that is everyone and brainwashes everything, I don't think that'll work
/r/MensRights25/11/22 09:42 PM
2

That much I have understood already
/r/MensRights25/11/22 07:04 PM
1

Who doesn't? But, to them, it's just reality, they're not guilty for believing such things, it's force fed into their brains as soon as they are born.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:10 PM
2

Thank you! Sounds just like what I'm looking for!
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:10 PM
1

It seems like that, but, who knows? I just sprang them on with this, it normal to be defensive. I have faith they'll listen if they have time to actually think about it.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:59 PM
2

I dunno, it kind of seemed like they were scrambling to deny everything I said with maximum urgency, but that's normal, since I was shattering their world view.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:58 PM
1

Perhaps? I'd have to go look it up, thank you!
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:57 PM
2

Thing is, they didn't demand evidence, they outright denied the validity of statistics themselves...
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:57 PM
1

It's not really their fault, they were fed this from birth, just like I was and all of us were. f I hadn't found this sub, I would be just like them, they're not cultists, they are just led astray. And they are very much my friends, of that, I have no doubt.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:56 PM
3

Thank you!
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:54 PM
2

Yes, the Red Pill Documentary is certainly a must!
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:53 PM
1

This is true, I didn't really give them time to prepare, we just all got to talking about it
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:52 PM
1

Hehe
/r/MensRights19/11/22 04:20 PM
1

You know what link I'm talking about
/r/MensRights17/11/22 06:12 PM
2

The link, hand it over.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 06:01 PM
2

Hey man, here's a present, use it well It´s not the study I wanted specifically, but it works well enough, I´ll send you the right one when I find it.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 06:06 PM
6

Sabotage, mostly
/r/MensRights09/11/22 11:36 PM
2

Here https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/svyc2u/a_few_years_ago_australia_tried_blind_hiring_so/
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:57 AM
2

More people get PTSD from childbirth than serving in the military? Can I get a source for that?
/r/MensRights30/10/22 10:19 PM
1

They will still try to cancel it
/r/MensRights30/10/22 10:16 PM
3

Oh yeah, I've been planning some of those too! Send me a link when you've posted it
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:41 PM
1

I'd also like an article to this
/r/MensRights23/10/22 02:16 PM
2

Not sure why OC felt the last comment was necessary or relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:40 PM
13

Have you ever heard of that men's shelter up in Canada that was taken down due to constant brigading and protesting from feminists that made the owner kill himself?
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:21 PM
1

Amazing how he (and the guy who edited it) got pretty much everything wrong
/r/MensRights28/09/22 06:00 PM
6

It's not because I don't like what he wrote. It's just because most of what he says is baseless and comes from what he thinks real life is like.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 05:14 PM
1

Well, you do need to read it to fully be able to criticize it.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 05:11 PM
2

I dunno. Feel free to talk to him, but I doubt you'd get anything through.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 04:57 PM
10

?
/r/MensRights28/09/22 04:31 PM
9

Kind of weird I'm getting downvoted here, out of all places
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:18 PM
2

Why do you think it isn't a job?
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:21 AM
1

I dunno, maybe it would work
/r/MensRights27/09/22 08:13 AM
10

Just some nutjob that's stalking me all over Reddit trying to bait me into replying so he can make me look bad
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:22 PM
28

:(
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:10 PM
2

This is and will always be a world wide problem, and not only in this scenario.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:06 PM
69

"Why don't you try getting a job?"
/r/MensRights23/09/22 09:25 PM
1

Adventure.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 03:59 PM
2

What? How I am trying to get someone to change their mind on the issue? We're on the same side, I just said he should tone down the generalizing attitude, since that's exactly how feminists treat us, and that would make us no better than them.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 11:19 AM
0

What? Why?
/r/MensRights10/09/22 12:48 AM
-5

You're exaggerating a bit. Generalizing is exactly what they do, let's not stoop to that level...
/r/MensRights09/09/22 08:58 PM
6

What's the problem with Minecraft?
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:01 PM
8

Yeah, last one sent me a full list of feminist theory to read before to "get started"
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:05 AM
13

They'd deflect with some bullshit about being conditioned to or something like that
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:55 AM
30

I dunno man, I'd say it's exceptionally hard to get that answer out of a feminist. It's always "go look it up"; "if you don't know, you aren't qualified to talk of sexism"; "If you don't know, you're misogynistic and I won't talk to you" etc.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:53 AM
3

Je sui offensé, if I'm not mistaken? I dunno, I haven't touched French in 3 years.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:48 AM
1

How do you know it'll get deleted?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:13 PM
9

No, we just don't advocate "women hating" around here. We are against feminism, not women.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 10:48 AM
1

Yep, me too
/r/MensRights25/08/22 10:07 PM
3

What
/r/MensRights25/08/22 12:19 PM
4

This article is obviously satire, the one it's critiquing... Unfortunately, not.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:30 PM
1

Huh, it's literally in the first sentence. 5 years.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:55 PM
1

Jesus, the last paragraphs are soooooo bad
/r/MensRights22/08/22 06:50 PM
0

Where can I read?
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:01 PM
1

I'll take a look at it
/r/MensRights22/08/22 02:01 AM
2

How so? Genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:20 PM
2

No, it's fucked up
/r/MensRights17/08/22 05:20 PM
2

Didn't I see this exact same article, word by word, but from another female psychologist?
/r/MensRights16/08/22 12:11 PM
1

"Is it possible to learn this power?"
/r/MensRights15/08/22 11:55 AM
5

Bro, that's totally different. That's based on skills, this is based on whether you're a woman or not.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 10:34 PM
1

Their mouth is surely big, their brain? Not so much...
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:55 PM
6

Funny you mention that... And even if it wasn't 100% it would still be an issue. Discrimination is discrimination, no matter the gravity of it.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:51 PM
7

Hey, when were getting gender quotas in jobs, we shouldn't be so surprised
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:19 PM
3

Well, that's why I want the source.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 06:49 PM
2

I would like to get access to that article, my good man
/r/MensRights12/08/22 06:22 PM
0

Yeah, you really stretched it here... Edit: by the way were did the company advertise that? I want to see
/r/MensRights10/08/22 10:16 AM
1

*men
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:02 PM
1

*men
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:02 PM
1

What about repopulating?
/r/MensRights25/07/22 09:52 PM
3

I'll bet you're a troll, but I'm not really sure...
/r/MensRights25/07/22 09:52 AM
3

Can we get a link to this?
/r/MensRights11/07/22 02:16 PM
0

Holy shit, dude, your reading comprehension is shit. I never insulted you, I said you were making an ass of yourself, I never said you were an ass. Also, don't lump me in with people when I was just offering to explain the comment. Anyway, I can see we won't get anywhere trying to explain this to you, so I'll do both of us a favor and stop replying. Edit: Hit "send" by mistake
/r/MensRights07/07/22 07:19 PM
0

Firstly, hold off on the insults. Secondly, it's because you're missing the point. It's irony, because of their stance on these types of issues, which is completely hypocritical according to their values and what they fight for.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:57 PM
1

Oh my God, dude, stop. You´re digging yourself deeper and deeper with every coment. Stop making an ass of yourself, please. It hurts to watch.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:29 PM
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