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That wasn't an ad hominem. I didn't say you were dumb. I said the act of decrying parties was dumb. Go ahead and google the definition. It annoys the fuck out of me when people don't know the definition of it and try to use it. If I said that you're a fucking moron and therefore anything you say is wrong then yes, that's an ad hominem. If I say your ARGUMENT or IDEA is stupid, that's attacking the idea. Not you. Shit, even saying you're dumb AND wrong isn't an ad hominem. It's only if I attempt …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 12:15 PM
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Because enjoyment? I see far too many people in TRP constantly implying that everyone has to be some kind of fucking pinnacle of humanity, some kind of perfect 'alpha' specimen. No. TRP, at its core, is about maximising happiness. Sure, the majority of stuff is framed around getting chicks, because that's easy to relate to and something most guys are interested in. But not giving a shit about what others think, keeping healthy, keeping fit, finding hobbies you enjoy, socialising... All that shit…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:38 PM
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The UK had success for a long, long time under socialism. Up until the world economy collapsed in 2007, actually. Since then, we've had the Tories sell off as much as they possibly can. Guess what. Shits getting worse with privatisation. Not better.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:51 AM
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Never got a notification to this reply, but fuck it. Sure, that 50% aren't all happy marriages. But claiming that every one of them sucks is so fucking stupid that it is, frankly, laughable. My point is that ltr's and marriages can and do work, even if good ones are not the norm. Denying this is straight up delusional. As for your second comment, I really shouldn't justify such a retarded argument (or lack thereof) with a response. But I will, 'cause fuck it. I'm not exactly Chad Thundercock - I…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:05 PM
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Yes, but if you're thinking real time communication/meeting up and stuff with the app, you need to consider doxxing etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:15 PM
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I'd just like to point out the fact that you titled this with a plural. Both children, in your own eyes even, are yours. I understand where you're coming from, but don't really think that you can or should do anything about it. You could set up a trust fund like most are suggesting, but to my knowledge, that'll not affect your child support. I don't think it would be good for your kid to be handed everything in life. He's getting what he needs in your own words and extra on top, so what's the pr…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 06:23 PM
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50% of marriages still last 'till death do us part'. You claiming every single one of those is shit? Fuck right off.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:44 AM
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The point about getting text evidence is absolutely spot on. Maybe something like, when you're on your way (with her knowledge) to fuck some woman, send her a quick text with something along the lines of 'you still okay with this open marriage thing?', or something to that effect. If she says no, well... Fuck. Either cheat on her, work with her or divorce her. But just make sure you have evidence either way. Seriously. If it comes to divorce, you do NOT want a bad situation worsened by this shit…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:34 PM
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Fuck off, bud. If it doesn't affect you directly (hint: it doesn't), why the fuck would you care about it? At all? Your analogy is flawed. It instantly assumes that one race is equivalent to wine, while the other is equivalent to sewage. That's pretty much your whole premise. I've got news for you... Both can be wine. Both can be sewage. It's about the individual, as fucking difficult as it may be for your tiny mind to understand.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:09 PM
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Third attempt at replying. Work wifi sucks. After running game for a while and internalising red pill concepts, most stuff will be natural and automatic for you. Practice makes perfect and all that. That said, no matter what worldview you subscribe to, besides fantasy, LTR's require effort. Just not constantly being on guard once you've fully understood and internalised TRP concepts. Basically, LTRs are possible. Plenty of women are worthy of them. Read more red pill shit to fully understand.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 06:54 PM
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Just because a woman will tend to date up given the chance doesn't mean they aren't invested in their current relationship or don't care about you emotionally. Note the word capacity. Just because they could doesn't mean they will. Using a good balance of beta (comfort) traits to provide the support a woman needs while maintaining an alpha frame, using push/pull on a relationship level, dread gaming and just generally being the best version of yourself you can be will, with good quality girls, b…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:38 PM
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AWALT refers to hypergamy. It's not a statement that can be applied to women just in general. There are women that are worth more than 'just a fuck'. Claiming otherwise is a bit fucking silly and is one of the reasons so many people despise this sub. There are women who are worth a relationship. In fact, there are millions. Tens of millions. Hundreds of millions, maybe. There is seven billion people on this planet. Half are women. Every woman has the capacity to cheat. Every woman has the innate…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:31 PM
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I'm 5'4. I'm seventeen, so maybe that works in my favour, but I do pretty well on Tinder despite openly stating, near the top of my bio (first line is music I like, second is height, where I live, college I go to, third is some witty bullshit remark, all very succinct). I get more attractive matches than I can be bothered to actually talk to. The main thing is not being an insecure little bitch about it. I've even had chicks with that rule in their bio match me. When I jokingly call them out on …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:20 PM
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I've started cooking my dinners so far. Did steak, spinach, carrots and potatoes yesterday, chicken, spinach, peas and mash today. I prefer simple meals any way and will probably stick to this kind of thing for dinner, at least.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 07:32 PM
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Any chance you could recommend a decent cookbook/YouTube channel for beginners looking at cooking for themselves geared toward bodybuilding? Not got the biggest budget or much time, which can make it a bit more difficult.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:07 PM
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Yeah, I've actually been aware of how little direct sunlight I'm getting at the moment (a huge chunk of my time is spent either at work or in college). Vitamin D is definitely a good idea.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:05 PM
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Yeah, that's definitely the thing I was looking at as the largest factor. Gotta learn to actually cook and make the time for it. Shouldn't be difficult though. Just need to start buying my own ingredients, I guess.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 01:48 PM
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My sisters blame my parents for everything. In doing so, they have completely fucked up my twin brother. They've ruined his relationship with both of my parents and made shit a lot worse. My parents were pretty 'bad'. We had no money, but seven children in the family, five of which lived with them in a three bedroom house. My mother's neurotic and narcissistic. She's a nice person, but only when it benefits her. My dad's a bit of an asshole and can be annoying as shit, but he had a rough childho…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 01:05 PM
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Eh, depends. Personally, if that shit makes him happy and he doesn't feel like he's missing out, who am I to tell him otherwise? Of course, if he's not happy, then sure. Advocate something else. But there's nothing innately wrong with that lifestyle if that lifestyle is what you want.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:40 PM
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There's theories about how homosexuality (and I suppose transgenderism) evolved. Obviously the genes that determine these traits are recessive - if your brother, for example, is gay, you won't necessarily be gay. This means that in order for the gene to be passed on, those who actually exhibit it don't need to procreate - their lineage simply needs to continue successfully enough for those genes to survive. Now, think back to tribal times, where everybody pooled in resources and time to look aft…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 01:25 PM
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In my opinion, go to a club, go all out and bring home the hottest chick you can. Don't plate her, just fuck her and don't call back, if you want to maintain monk mode. But there's nothing better to cure oneitis than fucking somebody else. Especially if they're hotter.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:18 PM
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Quit bitching about your height. I am 5'3. I got over it. Don't bother with platform shoes or any of that shit. That's just a temporary, superficial fix. The only way to truly deal with your height issue (despite the fact you're roughly average) is to come to terms with the fact that it just DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER. The difference when you are wearing platforms is most likely down to your increased confidence because you think that it DOES matter. Good luck, bro.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 05:37 PM
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First, you never need to apologise. Simply verbally acknowledge your wrongdoings. The point of an apology is that you'll not do it again. Not only might you be lying by apologising, but apologies generally hold little weight. If you simply say 'I know I haven't given you as much attention as you like' or whatever, it holds frame, shifts some of the blame on her ('am I asking too much?') and fits better with MGTOW values too. You're not supposed to be pleasing other people. You're supposed to be …
/r/askTRP16/04/15 05:27 PM
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Don't need to be an exception/mould breaker to not be part of the majority. If, as just an example, 60% of parent less children ended up unhappy in life, 40% end up happy. So long as the statistic is not 100% (and only one statistic is - 100% of statistics other than this one, in the real world, are under 100%), you always have plenty of chance. Just make sure you actively try to improve on whatever issue you may face. Nothing applies to everybody (in this context, at least. Obviously shit like …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:52 PM
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Even if you are correct in claiming it is based on money, a two parent household allows for the division of labour and massively increases the chance of the family NOT being poor. Not only is this common sense, but anybody will tell you that after their parents divorced, they were worse off financially as a whole. However, as anybody who actually looks at and tries the red pill will know, you need good advice and a good understanding of the world as it truly is to do well, in EVERY aspect of you…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:29 PM
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It's all just money grabbing stealth-alimony that doesn't even require marriage as a pre-requisite. It's funny, coming from a divorced family, my father was always expected to pay child support. Fine, when my parents first divorced, my mother had four children at home. Then my twin brother moved in with my dad. My sister followed fairly soon after. My other sister moved out. My dad still had to pay child support for me. I'll let you guess whether my mother ever paid child support. In the end, on…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:52 PM
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Child support needs a cap. It should be based on HALF the amount it costs to RAISE A CHILD. Y'know... Like the name fucking suggests. Food, clothes, transport to school and a small contribution to the rent/bills for the house the child lives in. If a woman is incapable of paying for the rest, she is incapable of being a parent and should not have custody.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:36 PM
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Seems like somewhere is not get much resistance.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:31 AM
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Races have nothing to do with it, though sub cultures may.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 08:17 PM
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Any time I read harsh truths like this it reinforces my deep down secret desire to fuck off to an abandoned island and live out my days as a crazy hermit who left civilisation for the comforts of the primitive lifestyle. Shit's all blue. There's no truth left anywhere, no functional, real society and I'm just waiting for it all to collapse. It's going to happen. Maybe not in our life time, but if shit doesn't change soon, it WILL happen. Anybody wanna come start a country with me?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:10 PM
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Yeah, I'm doing some reading again on all of this. I did have a fairly good routine in the past, but was lacking some leg work (did a bit, but not enough to be happy with 'em) so I'll probably rework it now.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:52 PM
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I'm aware of that and do mainly full body/large target exercises. The reason I put my measurements was so that you'd be able to see whether anywhere was out of proportion and needed to be specifically targeted. Thanks for the reminder though, I have actually been focusing a little too much on chest & arms since I started again.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:41 PM
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Shrugs, deads and military presses sufficient, or should I throw in some raises too? I tend to keep my workouts to three full body workouts a week (though I often throw in random sets of bench presses, curls or deads when I have nothing to do) so I have plenty of rest (plus two days I work 9-11 hour shifts as a waiter, which is surprisingly taxing physically. Might be because I'm the only guy in the restaurant area and all the heavy work goes to me). Don't want to add too many exercises as I alr…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:01 PM
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Depends if you're talking mean or mode. Mean wise, the ones who look after themselves could heavily offset those who do not, making the average (mode wise) be below a 5. Median would also make most women below average, if you look at someone who is half way between a HB10 and land whale 1. Of course, this does all assume that you can actually quantify beauty, which would be difficult as the average person lets their feelings change how they'd rate some bodies looks. 'It'd be mean to rate somebod…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 08:33 PM
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That's pretty much perfect, dude.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:30 PM
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Well, there's validation, which is some of what you want from a relationship. This can be achieved in a few different ways depending on the situation. At a bare minimum, the female will reciprocate a little by telling him how nice he is, by throwing him a bone here and there. If they claim to be in a relationship, there's the social validation which comes from that. Also, it's worth bearing in mind some behaviouralism ideas. When training an animal to do something, you reward it when it does wha…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 08:27 PM
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Giving validation, support and care to a woman without anything in return is damaging to a man in the long run. It breeds terrible habits, keeps him out of the dating pool and drains him emotionally and, depending on the level of orbit, financially. Both are damaging. One benefits both, one benefits only one. Also, have a few one night stands and you're not really going to have any negative effects, male or female. It's only when you do it too much that it becomes an issue. Becoming a orbiter or…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 07:20 PM
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While the 'How many times have you asked that question tonight' comment is probably the best way to handle it, remember, you don't even need to actually give a real answer. 'The best one, but that's superficial bullshit.' And now it's on her to justify asking said superficial bullshit question. Obviously don't seem pissy when you say something like that, keep your tone light and playful. You can use that as a pressure flip, forcing her to justify herself, or you can use it to change the subject.…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 07:14 PM
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They're completely different scenarios. First, men and woman, ultimately, have the same goals (or, rather, dreams). The short term goal for both men and women is to satisfy their sexual desires. The long term goal for both men and women is to have a stable, long term relationship (if possible, permanent) with somebody they're attracted to. If a woman had the chance to indefinitely secure an alpha she was attracted to, no matter who she was, she'd take it. If a man had the chance to indefinitely …
/r/askTRP03/04/15 07:03 PM
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I really, really do not see where you're coming from with this. I don't think that the idea that academics disagree with TRP is accurate at all. Sure, if you directly presented TRP to them, most would probably deny the truth of it due to their own bias. However, if you look at actual research and studies that are not based on 'this many people SAID they did/like/prefer/whatever this' (ask a woman if she likes a guy who is jacked or average, she'll normally say average - but present images to her…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 06:29 PM
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That makes sense and, in my opinion, is probably one of the best ways of looking at it.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:57 PM
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Think body language here. If you're cuddling her like you're her bitch and she's protecting you, it's bad. If you're protecting her and she's your bitch, it's good.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:39 PM
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If you don't have the money, that's fine. However, it's not an issue of not being able to attract women. Again, look at celebrities and powerful guys. They could get most women without any issues. The thing is, even if you are the sexiest motherfucker on earth, it's still work to get with a woman. It takes effort that you might not have the time to put in, or might just not want to deal with. If that is the case, prostitution makes sense as the ONLY requirement is cash. You don't have to deal wi…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 01:36 PM
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Honestly, if I were you, I'd post this in its own thread. Could do with a few more details about the relationship (as in, if there is one & if there is, how long has it been going on, etc). It's always is useful to get the views of as many people as possible. My gut reaction would probably be something like 'let me help you try [to get over him]' with a playful tone, or something along those lines. If she giggles or seems satisfied with that, escalate without another word. If not, play it carefu…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 11:47 AM
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'So?' Seriously, if shit's escalating, it's really, really not that important to her. It's basically just some LMR. If you're cool with getting with a taken girl, then just dismiss it and power through - it doesn't matter. If you're not, then just politely tell her to GTFO and then you can go find somebody else. Shit, you just almost 'stole' a chick from another guy. Pat yourself on the back, player.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:10 PM
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No idea what the walking dead has to do with it. I assume I accidentally made some kind of reference. I do like the walking dead, but just... what..? When it comes to finding a church that mentions hell, maybe it's because I live in the UK, but the majority of sermons I've ever been to mentioned hell at least in passing. For the first eight years of my life, I was raised Mormon. That's the extreme. My parents then divorced, resulting in our family being shunned from the Mormon church (which my s…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:43 PM
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Keep an eye on him, if you really want to help him out. Praise RP behaviour. Point out what's wrong with BP behaviour when he does it. Gauge his reactions. If he seems to be getting it, it might be possible to steer him toward RP without actually ever saying it. Link him to positive posts in places that tend to mention TRP. Mention certain subreddits to him that might lead him to TRP (could be 'this is a cool sub. Check it out' through to 'Jesus Christ, these people are insane' and an extreme SJ…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 11:15 AM
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Just to explain it for anybody not sure of exactly how to connect this with relationships with humans. People are animals. It's that simple. We are all highly evolved, very intelligent animals. Dogs are social creatures, having been bred from wolves, and have high intelligence too (seen studies showing they have the mathematical intelligence of a toddler and the emotional intelligence of a 5 - 9 year old). Most of the stuff that works with a dog will work with people. Relationships and parenthoo…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 10:27 AM
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I'm an atheist. I'd go as far as to call myself an anti-theist in some regards. However, I do believe that people can and should believe whatever they like so long as they do not try to force those beliefs on others (short of basic morality, like not stealing and murdering). However, I do respect the bible and other religious texts. While I would have to ignore a lot of it and believe that using the threat of hell and the judgement of an all powerful deity to force people to live a certain way i…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:59 AM
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Well, I may be different to most as I started lifting shortly after hitting puberty, which gave me a hormonal advantage, but I don't really think that 'years' is accurate at all if you know what you're doing. When I started lifting, I was skinny as fuck. I started eating. A lot. Beans, tuna, nuts, chicken (quit being a vegetarian) and did a full body work out three days a week (with random sets of curls, benches and deadlifts thrown in every now and then). It was literally a couple months before…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:10 PM
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While I agree with you to some extent, I'd like to point out that self esteem may well occur naturally, but it's easy for somebodies self esteem to be stunted indefinitely (if not specifically addressed and even then it's incredibly difficult to work through). I'll use myself as an example. For as long as I can remember caring about girls, I've had fairly low self esteem. Over that time, I've been ripped and a twig. I've been fashionable and straight up weird. I've had ridiculously long, girly h…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 08:03 PM
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I don't really think that size is the main factor people should be considering here, frankly. I'm 5'3 (or 4, measuring yourself is a bitch) and seventeen. I weigh somewhere between eight and nine stone. When I used to lift weights regularly (I'm trying to get back in to it), I was able to flat bench 100kg (twice my body weight) for 15 reps and 3 sets fairly comfortably. I don't own a bar that can fit more than 100kg on it, so I never knew my actual maximum bench press. So, with that in mind, con…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:12 PM
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I hate when people act like you shouldn't enjoy your financial success. So long as you're being responsible and making sure that you'll be set for life and able to retire when you're comfortable with it, you're not overcompensating, immature, insecure or anything along those lines. Do people expect millionaires to just leave all their money in the bank and live a completely normal life just so that they don't make others feel shit about themselves? I'm a student. I'm a fucking broke student. But…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:54 PM
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While I do agree with you to some extent, to most bystanders, if you simply ignore somebody who is having an argument with you, unless you're a boss in your delivery of said ignoring (yes, you can even deliver ignoring somebody in various ways), it's going to appear that you just do not have an argument and that the other party is correct. Personally, I love a good debate and tend not to ignore others' arguments. It's common courtesy in my honest opinion. You don't have to a accept other people'…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:39 PM
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Cheers bud, been something I've been passionate about for almost my entire life. First tried writing a novel at the age of six or so... Made it about fifty pages in before I decided to go out and kick a ball around. Looking forward to being more than just a novice when it comes to red pill ideas and theories. Will give some more serious(ish) writing a crack.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:40 PM
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I see people talking about how young men/boys need male mentors all to often in Red Pill circles. It's true. Most boys do not have proper guidance as their parents aren't exactly great when it comes to teaching them to be a man and they don't get a chance to find male mentors IRL. Frankly, the fact that he's found TRP at this young age will do something incredible for him - that most of us missed out on. He'll never have to experience being beta as fuck. He could be a real man from the start, so…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:45 AM
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Maybe he'll find TRP. Seriously. You're not doing him any favours by letting him keep her. It is genuinely better for him if she leaves, considering the fact that she is just using him and has 0 respect for him. I'd bet money that she's probably emotionally abusing him, too. If she leaves and the guy has even a modicum of intelligence and self respect, he'll realise how fucked his relationship was and use this to get himself back on track... Or he could turn in to a bitter little bitch. Either w…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:26 PM
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I'd be worried about getting oneitis/losing abundance mentality. I'd say go out by yourself/ with friends who you can trust not to tell her and just chat up some women. If you can still pull (obviously don't actually fuck them or anything if you want a monogamous relationship) and remain happy to wait, then go ahead. But if you're a bit rusty and are unable to do as well as you could before this relationship, seriously consider your options. Make sure you get your game back up asap to be able to…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:21 PM
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Maybe you're right, but the 'crying pedophile' is definitely a trend that feminism is/has used to further their agenda. Think about it. Feminists want control. That's their ultimate goal, rather blatantly. What they might do with it is, perhaps, up for debate. The best way to achieve this is not to change the current generation of men - that takes far too much work, but to train the next generations from the start. They pussy whip their husbands/baby daddies so that they don't teach them the stu…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:44 PM
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To me, it almost looks like some LMR on a larger scale. Wanted marriage and shit and when you finally gave her something toward that, she thought it was strange (you broke frame). So she threw a massive shit test your way. Should have responded calmly, level headed etc to show that you were really the emotionally strong, alpha guy she fell in love with. Instead, you crumpled and gave in. Supper shitty that this happened to you - and there could be any number of reasons that it did. However, I do…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:02 PM
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Possible when you look at things like epigenetics, though I'd think it's probably more of a case of bad habits breeding bad habits.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 10:51 PM
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