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Fair enough, have you ever considered that somebody's physical circumstances don't entirely correlate to the way they feel or the things they experience? Just because someone is tall and white doesn't make them an ideal candidate, it has to do with internal drive and self love. Undermining his issue, like what he has to say isn't good enough for you, only makes his problems grow. He's here seeking out honest help, putting him down because you're probably under 6 foot is just rude and selfish. Bu…
/r/seduction01/11/22 08:16 PM
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Wow, someone had SOME attributes deemed as attractive and immediately their issues are invalid Maybe you shouldn't be handing out advice
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:02 PM
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A lot of times it helps break any sort of "ice" that may be reforming past the initial spark as well They're recognize that you're calling them out and it'll cause something inside to get the responses that I mentioned (I trust there's other responses as well, but in my experience ya know.. but anyways), I try to turn that into an opportunity to become more flirty or push past any inclination that you just want to be friends Like she replies going on about something that's wrong in life and all …
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:25 PM
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I'm personally fond of calling them out "Hey I thought we were having good interactions, what's up?" "I really don't appreciate you just deciding I'm not worth a reply, did something happen?" "Hey, I've felt a disconnect recently, is there anything big going on in your life right now?" Most of the time, the way they respond will give you a better answer than anything they say If they immediately start spouting about their moms cancer or a recently dead pet, they're struggling with their own stuf…
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:29 PM
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You're a jackass and this interaction isn't worth my time. I hope you have the night you deserve.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:35 AM
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I'm just shooting in the dark here, but I'm gonna bet you're a pathological liar with a god complex
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:17 AM
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You should get off your phone and go get some help buddy
/r/seduction31/10/22 12:22 AM
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I went through his page, he's deluded.
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:23 PM
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I've heard The Game is amazing and kinda grandfathered all this PUA shit anyways
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:51 AM
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What do you guys start conversations with? So bad at thinking of how to start the convo
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:36 PM
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Not listen to people who start spouting off about beta males is the best thing going forward here As for the girl, I think the other two dudes got you the info that you need. Just because you weren't "flawless" in front of her doesn't mean she's turned off, nobody has ever gone "Well he was really interesting and we clicked, but he fumbled a little at our very first kiss so he's obviously not a good candidate" I personally think, being able to take a lighthearted acknowledgement to your shortcom…
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:46 PM
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How many people would you say you hang out with regularly? I don't know how I'd find the time to hold that many meaningful relationshops. Do you just like hit them up sometimes or like how does a girl help you get other dates? I've just never heard anyone on here talking about what you are and I'm super curious 🧐
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:50 PM
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Dude I'm gonna read all your posts. Fuck yeah
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:41 PM
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But that's exactly it. Success is defining what you want and achieving it. And pushing out of your comfort zone is everything for getting there. Best of luck OP and congrats to you sir for riding the edge and pushing your boundaries
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:16 AM
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Didn't ask for advice
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:38 PM
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This meant a lot to me actually, I really took that to heart.
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:53 PM
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Thank you, I'm gonna give it some serious though
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:15 PM
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Maybe I'll like her. Omg!! This inner game stuff is difficult and my mindset doesn't even formulate ideas like that half the time. Thank you for this wisdom, this will really help me with trying to maintain my value in the moment.
/r/seduction11/10/22 09:27 PM
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Sometimes, presenting the fact that theyre behaving disinterested has gotten me really far. "Hey, you've been super distant since we met up, I was curious what's up?" Usually, it'll at least initiate enough of an interaction that you can figure out if they're totally over you. I try to use that interaction to schedule the next date though, as I am better irl.
/r/seduction10/10/22 08:52 PM
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Dude thank you Like fuck man, this is everything I needed to hear right now
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:22 PM
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I feel as though that's an unfair extreme. There's a certain level of qaulification in order to be considered dating material at all. Like Maslow's Hierarchy of needs, if you're homeless (the bottom tier) your worries aren't with dating/intimacy (third tier, I believe) and so someone who's a 'crackhead' isn't comparable in a fundamental way, not an attractiveness or leagues sort of things. But once you are in a state to appropriately be putting yourself out, it's all about how you play the game.
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:24 PM
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ELO score?
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:40 PM
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IOI?? LMR???
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:11 AM
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It depends, I'm 21 and use a lot of thirst trap type selfies to flirt. Texting doesn't pan out as well for me, on the flip side older women I talk to only want to text so I think it really depends on the demographic you're looking for. In my experience asking a Tinder chick for her cellphone number usually doesn't land you any closer to getting a date, whereas they're hand out their @ all day long
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:30 PM
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I like your energy
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:14 PM
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I did already, she knows I think she's gorgeous and it didn't get her to take me home or anything like that . I need to play the field still man.
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:27 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:26 AM
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That's a really big task, I don't even like to take pictures of myself much.. I like that idea cause like idk stupid 21 yo but that's daunting as fuck. I don't believe I'm good enough for that sort of thing yet. I'm not who I want to be yet.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:55 PM
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This is actually really fuckin good. Only watched a minute in passing to see if it's worthwhile but gonna watch the whole thing later.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:13 PM
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Cause if I come on too strong she'll pull away. She's definitely into me, but there's a few more.barriers I gotta break down before I can be like that w her.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:10 PM
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What?
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:10 PM
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Real talk, how do you touch a girls arm. I'm good at hugs and hip grabs, but touching her arm always feels weird and grabby.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:09 PM
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I really like this,thank you. Any other activity style advice? Anything really. I'm so inexperienced. I've gotten laid by being direct, idk all these games and best around the bush stuff.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:07 PM
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How do I present myself as hot? I'm fit, 6'2, gorgeous long hair, crisp jaw line, the generic Fabio sort of look. But I've only been even remotely attractive for the last year or two, where I was in a relationship the whole time. Anyways, how do I use that to get me laid? In the past it was really drawn out build ups which result in a legitimate relationship or they escalate which I'm 9/10 certain won't happen this time. I'm getting better at pushing those boundaries and am willing to accept rej…
/r/seduction21/09/22 03:52 PM
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Stop being vague
/r/seduction21/09/22 03:44 PM
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Maybe to her lmao She gives me butterflies in my stomach and my crotch.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:37 AM
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Great advice. Thank you very much sir
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:32 AM
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It's.all about connection baby
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:20 AM
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In person, I work for a moving company. Lots of eye contact, insightful comments, and doing my best to be smooth is what got her attention and she actually reached out to my employer (smaller company) to give her number to me
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:21 AM
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I mentally prepped myself with the idea of going there to enjoy the interaction and be my authentic self since that's what caught her interest to begin with. She was much more reserved in her reactions and body language making it hard to tell when an advance was open. Not a great flirt so I don't have a lot to report on that, I just make stupid jokes and give compliments lol
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:15 AM
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Fr, much appreciated
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:31 PM
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Thank you, this metaphor will help me take all this lightly and humoursly
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:00 PM
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She gave me a really tight hug where she could totally feel my member, but I think I pulled away too soon and she kinda picked that up. I got the opportunity to put my hand on her hip, but I took it away too soon again. She probably wanted a kids at the end too, it's hard to tell. Her body language is way more reserved than I'm used to and I speak with that a lot more than my words
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:59 PM
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I use my body a lot. She gives me big eyes and big smiles.and gave me a very good hug,but unlike girls my age. She doesn't open herself up as much, it's difficult to tell what she's feeling. I get good reactions out of stuff with lots of density, but I can't constantly be talking about existence and shit without sounding like a broken record. I need more ways to excite and elevate the interaction. I don't mind pushing past my fears and at the end of the day I'm mostly focused on a good time, jus…
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:57 PM
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Idk what to flirt about. I'm good at pushing boundaries healthily and like half the time it falls in naturally but other women are more reserved and, on this one in particular, idk how to drop compliments or make advances the same way I would a girl my age.
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:42 PM
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I'm here to learn what your profile looks like to get so many matches. I never get any attention with mine even though I always pull once I'm in the DM's. Wanna chat and see if we can help eachothers game?
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:07 PM
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You're right, the issue is that I don't respond correctly to the eye contact, nothing to do with what I'm doing. They're curious about me. I like that
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:22 PM
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Yeah definitely interact with girls with the intention of meeting. Drop ideas here and there or straight up ask to make plans after you can tell she's comfortable with you. Most times I get laid from a girl online it starts at a park or a casual lunch. If it's your in person charm that gets girls, then your online goal is to get them in the spot where you can Like he said, we're not here for pen pals.
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:53 PM
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More like redditsdisabledbrah
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:21 PM
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I feel as though everytime I'm out with a platonic female, girls think I'm taken. Other girls will look at me, but then at them and look away. Any tips on how to negate this guys?
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:18 PM
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I'd say work on your mindset and health over creating the illusion that you're more than you are. Embody and enrich what you have, don't become a poser for pussy.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:18 PM
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I absolutely get it. I'm tryina expand currently. Changed my body, now I'm working on the mind
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:39 PM
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Yeah it seems pretty niave to believe an absolute stranger online wants your dick just cause they watch your stories. Like that's a stranger, how quickly are you as a dude, to invite a stranger to your bed even? Just seems like a mindless, yet completely mental 'circlejerk' with yourself.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:00 PM
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How do you suppose you become one of those people? The guy who doesn't have to try. Is it in their attitude or what? How do you unspokenly put that out?
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:35 AM
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In Colorado unfortunately
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:43 PM
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You're right, I just struggle with getting out of my head I suppose. I appreciate what you have to say.
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:25 AM
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I also don't really have any friends like that. I don't have many friends, most people are really fucking annoying and I can hardly stand myself. So I'm kinda winging it. Hence Reddit
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:48 PM
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Yeah, I guess there isn't enough curls in the world to make up for being a loser. It's a work in progress though, I'm great with people I'm comfortable with. Just can't be that person to the entire world around me because I am afraid.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:46 PM
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Being able to actually be myself around girls. Because whenever I'm just being myself in the moment I'm regularly told I'm attractive, but I just turn into a chicken shit when pretty girls are around and I didn't get in shape for them, but like fuck I just wanna get with someone I never had a chance with before, but now im cockblockong myself in new ways and it's just frustrating and like idk, reddit is my go-to media and it's pretty anonymous so yeah that's my motive.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:38 AM
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Thanks man! I think I'll toss in my earbuds now and see what you've got in store for me <3
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:56 AM
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Not my post, but, I've always struggled with the flirting. Idk how to tease persay cause I never had a good sense of humor in school as my father is an overly literal person. So like, I'm terrible at knowing what's good territory to shoot at or how to even word up something. the humor my friends and I share is just mindless taboo stuff like we're preteens and obviously, that isn't gonna be a panty dropper. What are some queues you look for when talking to a girl? Some good, safer ways to test ou…
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:35 AM
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Oh dude, I just pissed my pants and also, maybe, picked up a terrible life lesson from this Thank you for sharing
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:28 AM
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what's this??
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:57 AM
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I second this. you can make the first move too
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:57 AM
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Exactly. Although abs don't hurt. I started hitting the gym about the same time I started doing shadow work and spending time learning again.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:02 PM
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It's not much but I was there about two years ago after I graduated and it took a lot of work to get past it. I had to change myself, before that changed. It was a reflection of other underlying issues.
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:48 PM
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Id say bust a nut before going there Remember that you're the man Have you ever done mental exercises to work on this social issue. Shadow work, therapy, hallucinogenics, meditation, religious practices, etc?? This sex issue may not be over come if there's a bigger issue you need to overcome. Look inwards and really try to build a relationship with this issue. Treat yourself with compassion, especially around these times. Go with the flow. Those are all my tips.lol take what you will. Best of lu…
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:01 AM
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