TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

The0rangeKind Archive

View 0 posts and 289 comments by The0rangeKind on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

this is stupid. you’re taking the mindset of not being afraid to pursue any girl you are attracted to into having the capability of getting her no matter what. first rule is to drop this retarded mindset because that’s why so many men are failing here. they’re just simps if they think every woman is attainable
/r/seduction23/11/24 05:03 PM
1

get out of debt first. no way in hell you’ll be fixing anything else until you stop being a prisoner
/r/seduction23/11/24 04:59 PM
1

after careful analysis of your comment here, i’ve come to the conclusion that you might be gay. congratulations
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:59 AM
1

i can tell that your rejections are a direct result from the negativity you project whether consciously or subconsciously. this is a dangerous way of thinking that girls are going to reject you because of a self fulfiling propechy (in this case you know you’re right about women that none of them will like you)
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:57 PM
2

you have a 90% better rate in real life than you do in dating apps. wouldn’t you take those odds? and if you’re going to 50 girls and getting soft rejections, it’s because of two things. most likely 1. you’re conveying that you like her sure but you’re not demonstrating any value or interest they just feel like it’s one sided and don’t want to go through the hassle. and obviously 2. she could just not be in the mood and any kind of approach you have won’t matter in that state. so in that case yo…
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:48 PM
1

why would anyone ever think superficial dating apps would be superior over real life interaction? women prove their true nature time and time again with their behavior online and quite frankly, no men should be feeding into the women’s worst traits (i’m not blaming women here it’s just that they’re in a position to exploit the entire system and not even use it efficiently so it’s just a massive fuckup for both parties)
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:15 PM
1

i’m not sure that the first girl was necessarily expecting you or most guys to pay their entire way all the time. i think she was just (maybe cope,defending her dignity) making a point that a guy won’t use excuses to stop pursuing a woman they really like. i know you made the comment as a joke but she might’ve been waiting for a sign of reistance from you and that was it. you didn’t really get an own on her, you just let her off before it got more awkward. either way you handled it better than m…
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:46 PM
1

you’re being intentionally vague and overly simplistic which is going to lead to a lot of men to get fired or face unwanted consequences for being given the “go ahead” something tells me you’re not all that experienced in the politics of a workplace and the purpose of hierarchy and order. even just going against your place in the picking order and attempting to converse with someone way above your station is a bad fucking idea, let alone wanting to fuck them. of course the answer is never a no i…
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:54 PM
1

you’re not afraid of actually being creepy, it’s that you’re afraid of being wrong or misrepresented, thats what you’re afraid of. and yea every guys biology is wired to go against that. in prehistoric times, if men were labeled as weak or with negative traits, the tribe would exile him or beat him to death. men however are also biologically supposed to overcome this mentally, even if death is the only option. stoicism is of course when men believe in something bigger than them, and when a man i…
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:32 PM
1

i’ve found a weird phenomenon lately. tinder seems to have a 50/50 mix of very attractive looking women and then also extremely unattractive conceited women. but they’re all consumed by the tiktok facade, face filters uo the ass to the point i don’t know what they really look like. whereas on Hinge you get 90% real looking girls (less makeup,minimal or zero instagram filter socialite gold digger) but holy shit the chubby and fat girls skyrocket. i also think the decent average (read: NOT land wh…
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:47 PM
2

as long as you’re being honest to both her and yourself about your intentions. if you make it clear that you’re not making her the priority and it’s just casual, there can’t be any bad blood or regret after being intimate with her. it’s only when you lie that you don’t care for the sake of protecting your ego and then you realize you cared too much and you get burnt hard when they also don’t want to continue with you
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:35 PM
2

who makes women laugh it’s easy to be a clown or a dancing monkey. you need to be comfortable with when to be serious and that in most cases you don’t need to be, you also need to enjoy the game of conversing with women, being both challenging while also being entirely trusting and interesting to the woman
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:30 PM
2

wrong. be yourself has and always meant one thing: don’t be fake. there’s an expression, be congruent and consistent with your intentions, actions need to match the intent and motivation. that’s why it’s so bad out there for men bcause they are approaching on an intent but obscuring it or misrepresenting it out of fear of insulting or offending the woman. it then becomes obvious to the girl that he likes her but he foolishly says he doesn’t care or want to give it away. that’s why fake it till y…
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:25 PM
1

it’s a waste of time for both people. if a girl is knowingly doing this, walk away from her fast
/r/seduction16/07/23 01:47 PM
1

two years no lay lol what in the actual fuck
/r/seduction11/07/23 11:55 AM
1

lonelyfans good one lol
/r/seduction11/07/23 11:52 AM
1

this is why guys that go for just numbers or pre game practice or to build their confidence are so harmful to the culture. scores of girls are wading through all these fake casanova’s and just their warm up before they really get going which spoils this whole thing to shit. instead of seeing a girl you might like to go out with and fck with the sole mindset of getting their number, actually get some valuable information so you know it can go somewhere. wtf is the point of collecting mostly numbe…
/r/seduction03/07/23 03:30 PM
1

sorry i don’t speak in ghetto
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:57 PM
1

said the guy walking towards 100 soldiers firing. “i still got a chance!”
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:39 PM
1

where all the racism mods at?
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:52 AM
3

she already has girls give out numbers to save themselves from being stalked or murdered
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:44 AM
1

i’m gonna save you the suspense she’s going to say no and i’m concerned for you if you can’t understand why this is the worst opportunity to ask or offer a phone number
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:42 AM
4

too strong by being drunk oh ok good. so you are aware
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:41 AM
1

either you put out the effort and show you mean business, and are interested in someone by how you dress, talk, carry yourself that you’re serious about what you have to offer...or...the other extreme. you show no interest in what any girl or guy thinks of you- and yea this guy can say that’s like his method-act like you don’t care and be fun- but clearly he cares-A LOt. and it’s an ACT. he’s engaging women with a goal. it’s really not all that hard to be unaffected by everyone that hasn’t prove…
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:23 PM
2

i can tell that girl is easy. no major win here
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:39 AM
-27

how to instantly be laughed out of a set and rejected
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:38 AM
1

Yesterday she was drunk and there you go. case closed
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:11 AM
4

that was very autist, i would’ve laughed but most girls wouldn’t even appreciate it no less get it
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:59 PM
81

that sounds like a shit test and it sounds like you failed at keeping cool over it. of course i wasn’t there to see her face but i would bet she saw your reaction and mannerisms after saying it and you gave her power
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:58 PM
1

creepyness is two things. firstly it’s being unaware of how your actions or words are influencing a person or scenario. it’s when you keep talking when a girl has already tuned out or continuing an action that isn’t giving or being received by others in a group. think of that quote insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results. well, apply that to social context and a person or people seeing you trying something with failed results but being unaware of it. insane and creepy right!…
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:54 PM
1

don’t ever do this lol in the rare instance that she already likes you, asking for a pen and paper to write her number down is a surefire way to lose all interest in you. not only is it cheesy af but you’re putting yourself in a low value position by asking her to get something for you and then asking to write her number down after she supplied you the paper and pen is further compliance and she will see it being more annoying than intriguing make sure you two have something in common first and …
/r/seduction22/08/21 11:04 PM
1

i’m a bluepiller eh? because im offering a reason for why a girl would pull a target away from a set?
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:03 AM
1

sure man we are all entitled to women so to speak- BUT that’s highly dependent on if we as men demonstrate our HMV and exude an aura of confidence as well fair assertiveness. problem is too many men going in thinking i got with this girl who is much hotter/cooler/nicer than the girl they’re hitting on because they expect they’ve done it already and should be getting it easy now when that’s not how it works. i do think part of it is how you’re presenting yourself which explains the lack of succes…
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:59 PM
1

did you read what i wrote? i said she could’ve seen you talking to him later unless that was another day which if so, wasn’t very well specified
/r/seduction09/08/21 12:30 AM
-3

you’re replying to me but it sounds like you have an issue with the fuckboys comment the guy i replied to had said. and what does jerking off have to do with what i said? i’m just saying to make this about a guy taming a girl is fucking stupid and self defeating.
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:02 PM
2

be careful with the talk show host archetype. once she figures you’re doin the interview chat shtick, she’s gonna lose respect for you
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:16 PM
1

i think the first girl you opened and exited might’ve been interested in you later but maybe she saw you talking to mr tunisia deduced you were confused or gay
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:14 PM
1

that’s not so important except it sounds like because he had it in the past he should still be getting it. it’s that he is projecting entitlement outward to women and the good quality girls sense it right away based on how he talks and tune him the fuck out
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:06 PM
-5

i was with you up until can be tamed enough to commit to them you know what kind of world you life in today right??? the girl if she’s worth anything in a relationship has to be tamed and commit to the man. otherwise you have a girl who can do whatever the fuck she wants and a beta
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:03 PM
3

i think mystery actually said something to this effect in his book the mystery method
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:00 PM
6

i have low self esteem periodically due to mental health issues there you go. they can smell it on you and that becomes intolerable to women. your looks and saying the right things can only do so much if through your actions, behaviors, interests and way of handling life is all dictated by your low self esteem. women want to be with a guy that’s happy with himself and can provide a life of excitement and comfort for her. not constantly pitying you or worry when or if you’re about to have an outb…
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:51 PM
2

Do you offer what the other person is looking for Do you offer MORE than what the other person is looking for. that’s what’s it comes down to. just offering enough is never going to last and will make the other person keep other things on their mind as a result. that person has to literally offer more than you wanted in order to keep you. and to understand that we have to see that girls and guys are very different- that’s the first thing to understand. stop with they are the same and both want t…
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:23 PM
3

the problem is in a club there’s alooooot of witnesses so you can’t keep talking to girls and bombing. you lower your value with every girl bomb op better be going to people he’s getting interest signals from or at the very least, targeting someone accessible and realistic for that person
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:53 AM
5

you forgot looking good. you won’t get anywhere looking like peter dinklage (nothing against the guy, he’s charismatic) unless people already know you’re a famous actor and have money
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:19 PM
1

haha it’s good comedy. bad attempt at suifuel
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:10 PM
2

you know every fucking guy says that right
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:57 PM
1

it doesn’t matter that you didn’t message that much she could tell you were too invested already and that gives off a needy aura, even if you weren’t trying to be just take the fun night as practice and move the fuck on
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:52 PM
1

the sad reality is there really a e guys out there that will strike out because they truly are the bottom of the barrell. just think how many fucking obese and hideous women there are out there, with disgusting fake tits and ugly tans are still getting laid, paid for and provided for. the difference is the determination and building endurance a man has will make them way more attractive and inevitably catch interest. the woman’s job is to just exist for a man to provide for them, the man’s job i…
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:30 PM
1

unless you're deformed and literally incapable of communication with someone, you have a chance. and that’s all you need just go out and be determined that you offer the world something of value. don’t waste your time on the girls that only want the best of the best.
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:28 PM
-2

you have a pretty negative mindset about it all. you should really work on what YOU want from women, and more importantly what can you do for your life to be happy and driven to keep going. if you could only have sex once in your life, what would you want to do with the rest of your life the day after that? that’s the key- there’s no end goal or final destination where you say “ok that’s it im here!” you’re always on a mission to be the best version of you. read some self help books and listen t…
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:33 PM
-10

sounds like it was ok for building your confidence but ultimately it was a waste of your time. at the very least you could’ve gotten something out of it by getting a number for the semi cute one..even if you never intended to talk to her. it would’ve shown you were a man with some kind of value to offer someone outside of the “one man show” stunt you had. you say you didn’t try to impress them but you knew exactly what you were doing- that you were entertaining them. you billed yourself as the l…
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:28 PM
9

girls are not worth shitting your job over. focus on practicing with them outside of work dude
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:49 PM
1

what’s your point...he paid a ho to stay with him
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:46 PM
1

tony robbins def pays to fuck. nobody gonna fuck with that chin giant
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:00 AM
1

you’re probably right but the one thing we don’t want to think about is what kind of fucked up pasts do they have? drug problems, terrible to their parents, shoplifting history, countless blackout fuck stories. but i won’t know that till i knock that bitch out and drag her to my cave (metaphorically)
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:59 AM
0

and you seem like a poopyhead
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:53 PM
3

You can fuck the girls you are friends socially competent alpha LOL ok. you’re in the same group of alphas that have to announce and call themselves alpha
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:40 PM
0

you’re a woman?? with a partner posting how to ben sexy on a forum made up entirely of simps looking to fuck
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:19 PM
2

stop listening to these two clowns. there’s nothing worse than looking up to or taking advice from two people who already look and act way worse than you
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:17 PM
3

you were projecting your good feelings onto someone else. you feel bad about the way you look, you’re going to think people see you’re ugly or weird. you feel good or attractive and you’re gonna think people like you despite you not knowing you have a massive booger hanging out your nose...except what’s more than likely happening is they don’t really give a shit who you are and don’t think you look any which way. otherwise you wouldn’t have to keep looking at them to “know” they’re checking you …
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:04 PM
0

act sexy you already lost
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:56 PM
4

she died inside when you said that. i’m not being negative but the it reason she gave you her snap was to get rid of you in the most polite way. and really giving out a snap is tantamount to a fake number these days. honestly the fact that you made a reference to get her snap is very weak and extremely low value. “yea let me watch your posts on snap because i got nothing else goin on in my life”
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:55 PM
-7

i didn’t even intend to flirt with her but also missed a great opportunity just stop lying. you mentioned she was beautiful which at that very moment you had it in your mind that you wanted to fuck her. you even worked up the implication that you’d ask her for a code because clearly her being beautiful had nothing to do with it right? b which is it?? you know that you can talk to ugly and pretty people without getting anxious over how you want to sleep with her. you need to grow up a little befo…
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:07 PM
1

pretend you care about her bro you’re doing it wrong
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:04 PM
2

problem is he’s rushing through sets for the practice but he’s doing the equivalent of validation masturbation. it’s all for his self interest to feel temporary spikes, when instead he should be learning why saying certain things in scenarios garners the responses and how to achieve the best results through self improvement and achieving admirable goals
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:01 AM
1

he might be projecting her being ugly because she was running away from him or detrimental in his eyes to the mission
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:54 AM
2

why are you content with being average or above average? to even rationalize that picture you have to put her on a pedestal which means you already see yourself lower than her, regardless of her response. drop the negativity and bitter pill and have some more self respect. the problem with ops post is he’s doing this with the intent to manipulate- he wants to show her he’s not chasing her which ——>she will ben interested ——>she will chase you the problem being, as proven by the few women replies…
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:46 AM
2

low hanging fruit can still be sweet
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:30 PM
-7

if i was sitting on that bus and witnessed the cringe of that approach, i would’ve done a hail mary and just veered the bus off the road into a ditch. i don’t know why i would do that but that cringe is fatal
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:26 PM
2

in theory, yea 100%. the problem is the guys 98% of the time are only there because of her looks. most men are just gonna bs and say what they think they need to say to fuck her- they don’t really give a shit about who she is as a person. and she’s gonna realize real fuckin fast too. add the fact they deal with this on the regular 20-30 times a day, it would make women very bitter
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:22 PM
1

It sucks that the good qualities that I do have aren't ones that you can really see when first looking at me i bet every above average looking female thinks this too
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:43 AM
2

abundance is just knowing that one girl or many girls rejecting you isn’t a big deal. you don’t let it upset you or lower your self esteem. there are many more out there BUT and this is a big juicy BUT..you gotta be giving women something attractive and valuable. if you just go in every set every approach hoping this is the one without doing everything to maximize yourself, then you’re going to fail hard every time you might get lucky but why would you want something random to work in your favor…
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:50 PM
6

it depends how you approached her. depends if you saw the girl first and she saw you before you sat down to her or not. also if you went straight into asking about her might’ve been too direct for her and she realized immediately you had interest in her. can’t do that bro but at least you tried...
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:45 PM
3

you missed the most important step: always be maximizing on yourself that will add to your path and purpose in life just talking to women left and right as you are now disregarding anything else, and you will literally get NOwHErE no matter how many women or how much good game you spit out
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:00 PM
1

op wishes (otherwise he wouldn’t be making this post?) looks was all that was necessary. and the greatest irony is when the ugly and below average nice guys think good looking guys get girls nonstop no matter what
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:09 AM
2

both methods are for different uses. indirect is necessary if you aren’t getting signals and want to try and create rapport with someone and create a “moment” in someones brain and make it comfortable and memorable with you. it’s not sleazy unless you purposely ignore or are unaware of their negative responses...but if they are responding then it’s useful. direct is for if you already have signals and want to bypass all that comfort/discover how interesting i could be stuff. neither are them are…
/r/seduction23/07/21 12:25 AM
1

you’re not wrong but tbf, there’s psychopaths in every sub and more in certain ones than others
/r/seduction22/07/21 11:36 PM
1

i take it that 80k was not the lucrative investment you hoped for, otherwise you wouldn’t be idealizing hedonism
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:46 AM
1

this is generally poor advice. just go in blank and stand in front of woman. if she doesn’t walk away or call the police...profit.... this is also pretty insulting to girls. here they are just walking or doing what they do, they probably havent seen you and don’t care what you have to say. now here you are and you’re just expecting her to either A) like you already by “showing up” or B) be interested enough to not walk away be a fuckin champ and just go all in be confident and interesting with s…
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:37 AM
2

it’s different for everyone. the really sheltered ones will take the longest. it’s baby steps of very gradual exposure and conditioning. they’re practically traumatized from the shock of it and run away just to not feel that terrible sensation. but as they expose themselves to the fear more (and as their level of wanting it increases) it becomes more normal. could take you years
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:32 AM
1

lol that shit is loner cope
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:28 AM
1

you don’t like it because it’s hard and there’s more at stake and generally more quality women (looks and status) but that depends on the club... and congrats. tinder is easy mode girls. dumpster diving. you get leftovers and scraps on there.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:25 AM
4

but jim carrey gets both...
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:18 AM
1

trust me if they like you enough they will magically have openings for you you’re just not a priority to them so you’re on the back burner and that probably won’t change until you suddenly become more appealing to her. my advice is don’t wait around and go to the next girl
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:16 AM
1

too obvious. also if she’s bending over you approaching her, no matter from back or front puts her in a prey like position. it’s gonna make you look like a predator also just walking up and saying hi is way too obvious that you have interest. you’re making the statement that you stopped at her to talk to her, showing investment. you need to look at her and let her see you, maybe react or not but she needs to have that moment to look at you and acknowledge your existence. then depending on if she…
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:58 AM
1

there’s a lot of good points in that but what a lot of men on here don’t get is...being in the masculine and wanting to talk to girls (and that being out purpose) doesn’t entitle you a conversation with any woman. i think we are all free to approach a woman, but this community seems to misappropriate the idea that all women are there to talk to us. you have to know that any woman you try to pick up, with kindness, charm and confidence- even done properly, isn’t going to entitle you to that woman…
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:55 PM
8

theyre also repulsed by strong overbearing men that have too much a drive. their creep predator senses kick in and it makes women want to run or find a better mate by default
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:40 PM
1

maybe just for gettting over anxiety but it’s also dishonest. you’re tricking your brain into thinking every person you want to talk to is going to be a friend and the second they do anything anything that your brain could interpret as non friend, it’s gonna bring the anxiety back
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:07 PM
2

haha wow, that was entertaining to read. thanks for the laugh. if only you could see how wrong you are about all of that. take care
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:42 PM
6

nothing...she was already drunk and the party type and because of his interest in her she was just moving along with his actions. op mentioned bars were closing around which sounds like they were on last call for drinks. it’s usuallt around this time people have last smoke breaks and start lowering their standards just so they can get something! that’s all there is to it. i cringed when op said he was asking 20 questions after kissing her. just yikes
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:32 PM
2

this sounds 100% like a woman justifying her sleeping around with men because of pressure by society and media to do it. i don’t really care if that was your “thing”, your lay count doesn’t give you more clout or authority on speaking about seduction. for all we know, you could’ve been an easy really undesirable 6 but because you were easy and always down, you fucked anyone that wasn’t s “need” or outcast. iI don’t know where you get that im entitled to women; once again, you’re falling back on …
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:09 PM
1

whoops i’m late. but i get what you’re saying. i think what you’re touching upon is guys that are completely dishonest with their intention. they start some tangent about how they spotted you and wanted to talk to you, and then proceed to jump into “fishing” for things that they have in common with you, or even worse- create some way for you to like him. just because they want you to like them. and that right there creates the pressure and awkward moment. they should be outward and just say conf…
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:03 PM
2

you’re mistaking my issue with you/your lifestyle choices as hatred of all women. how can you be so delusional that you can’t recognize that difference, and can only come to the singular conclusion that it’s because someone can’t get laid? that’s an indication of your own insecurity of something projected on others.
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:37 AM
5

lol this is some autism when you were learning MM erik didn’t mean to become obsessed with the process and sex. it’s a foundation for selecting the high quality people you want. sounds like you only care about numbers and sex, which is tragic
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:24 AM
3

cock carousel. you’d be a good spokesperson for stds. and i saw your other comment about me being an incel and it’s just hilarious you only have one umbrella word to use to group all the men that disagree with your lifestyle choices. there’s no indication that i’m angry bitter or hateful against women.
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:58 AM
1

oh wow, a real carousel survivor.
/r/seduction19/07/21 09:05 PM
0

he’s still a loser if he’s internalizing what others are thinking or meaning not based on actual credible information
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:18 PM
1

you and op sound perfect for each other
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:17 PM
1

oh but you still took the bait hahaha
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:16 PM
0

nah you came on here for cheap bragging points and seeking easy validation and attention from a community you either respect or look down on. maybe you see it as empowering to know most men on here are struggling with women and you don’t and this is your indirect way to rub their noses and they’re none the wiser! translation: “oh gee guys don’t you ever get tired of people blowing up your phone. god why do i even have this device! it’s like...i want to be free. what’s this off button for? gee, i…
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:13 PM
-1

only date a lot of guys via dating apps for fun look out gentlemen, we got a heartbreaker alert
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:51 PM
0

why are you even here lol “oh no i have too much i be really slayyiinn what do??” crickets
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:44 PM
1

your name explains it all no further discourse needed
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:42 PM
-9

this is a weird thing to celebrate. a rude girl who wasn’t really that rude except making a face and you putting your own label and meaning behind her expression. saying hey and internalizing a rejection instead of a verbal rejection. you must have some really bad hang ups you might want to seek real therapy for your internal dialogue. on top of that, posting about this on a seduction board is also bizarre
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:27 AM
0

good thing i’m not a woman. i’d laugh hysterically at your overcompensation and i don’t be even have to see what you look like or how you approach to know how ridiculous you sound. i feel bad for every woman that has to put up with your over-exaggerated cartoony zest for life, and over self gratulation...only just to get laid. all your childish comments on being the best actor and self claimed sexiness, even online, tells me you have an insane level of insecurity and laughing in the face of ever…
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:37 PM
2

yea only push depending on the value she has created. it’s not worth pushing at all if she is bitchy and projects negative traits. and i don’t mean her bitch shield which is a given, i mean being whiney, catty, loud, looks to expose you to others, etc. just not worth maintaining the frame just for her. no matter how beautiful she is or she’s a perfect type. guys who keep it going regardless under the false guise of persistence and courage might even get her to turn around, but why would a guy de…
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:46 PM
2

ok but here’s the problem with that mindset...so she’s beautiful. how’s he gonna know she’s his type just from passing her. that’s a rather low information assumption to make off a few seconds judgement. with just that one woman, you’re in full view of everyone that you selected her. and they’re gonnna know real quick if you invested too fast or not. not saying you can’t but it’s poor strategy. better to work on creating rapport with others in the area and play around her for clues and iois and …
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:37 PM
1

lol thanks for the links and validating what i said. i don’t disagree that women will notice but most of the time it's from people you don’t want to hear it from
/r/seduction18/07/21 04:28 PM
1

this doesn’t work. you know why? women aren’t stupid. they can sense someone creating a scenario. it will all be evident how a man looks at the phone and reacts. he might think he’s the best actor but there’s automatic social cues that women have long since recognized to know he’s not authentic. not to mention, the every so often looking around is poor social behavior- it is displaying primitive defense impulse to look for predators. sure sitting alone and depending on how you look might attract…
/r/seduction18/07/21 04:02 PM
1

the fact you had to stalk her and use personal info in your convo t find her is going to label you as CREEP and i say this because i’ve made a similar mistake but it doesn’t go anywhere. actually you’re better off if you can add her as a contact on linkedin but whatever you do- make sure you acknowledge that its a little direct that you found her but also mention you were positively surprised by her
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:54 PM
1

you made direct small talk without creating any comfort. you essentially just wasted her time talking about classes and after the long silence (which should’ve told you to just stop) and you were about to leave, you out of nowhere asked for her contact info. you essentially telegraphed to her that you didn’t care who she was or that’s you had any bond, and all you wanted was a way into her personal life. and you wonder why she doesn’t even look at you while passing her
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:47 PM
-2

Besides I keep having men telling me I look stunning um bro how do we tell you this. you’re fishing compliments from guys with low self esteem or possibly gay guys. and unless girls are actively talking to you, your stunning pecs and body doesn’t get you anywhere
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:40 PM
1

this is a great fucking idea and i and many who aren’t afraid and can game would be fine with it. but you underestimate how many men suck at it. you don’t want to have an epidemic of women complaining about harassment and weirdos before they get into the club do you?
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:36 PM
1

yea if he only wants the barrel scraping monkeys then sure. just dry hump like a retard if he wants to get anywhere with someone he wants, he’s gotta use eye contact and facial expressions to communicate with women, as well as dancing skills.
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:28 PM
4

don’t feel bad. the fact she said if you’re gonna ask for her number put her in a really weak position and i think she needs to work on her own self value and worth if she’s gonna get guys interested in her that’s the way it goes
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:23 PM
29

something doesn’t add up here she put you through through hell but seems like your only value of your ex gf was her being a physically and sexually everything you wanted. almost like you want to leave out something you’re responsible for with her behavior with you. and now you’re back in the approach game and you use two of the creepiest tactics for breaking ice. i can tell you off the bat these girls could see your interest right away and they are just being polite with you. asking about pants …
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:10 PM
2

you gotta recognize the ones that are uninterested right away. save yourself the time. i can’t tell you how many guys will just game girls for a long time with someone who was out from the start. it’s kinda sad
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:03 PM
1

trying too hard dude
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:00 PM
1

too easy or too hard. there is no middle
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:43 AM
1

you’re right but hyperbole much
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:24 AM
1

i’m taking the cynical pov but i think you messed it up. you not only talked her out of something she wanted (and maybe could've gotten) to do, but you also asked her over text if she wanted to go out again. if you know anything about subtext, you were basically guaging if you and her were still OK and her answer being yes, (although you didn’t specify if that’s the exact wording or paraphrasing) could possibly mean she wants another shot with you OR it’s just a formality to not flat out shootin…
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:22 AM
1

nothing wrong with being that guy perse, but you’re painting a target on your back for easy accusations.
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:07 AM
1

better yet, text to meet for drinks with a window. don’t plan it far ahead
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:42 PM
1

the problem with vadim is it’s all act. you think he’s low energy and just being himself and confident? he’s just playing a cool cat character that does thebes opposite of what he says he’s not doing. it’s manipulative and while it works on a lot of girls who are easy targets, it’s not entirely effective. by him going up to girls and just shooting the shit it’s waaaay too friendly and casual. he’s basically telegraphing he’s lookin for fuckbuddies. he goes up to attractive women and plays the un…
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:27 PM
2

unless it’s completely haphazard (pickup instant date) coffee and drinks is terrible, mostly because it’s too easy to bore her there and there’s other outside pressures to distract her like people passing by, patrons watching you two... it’s also too informal and i know they say “informal” is best but not if you want to make a good impression
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:20 PM
1

you’re overcomplicating it
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:15 PM
1

she already has doubts about you at some point getting her number or making the date, you should’ve told her you’re busy with your job and a busy life and don’t have time for texting until things are more serious.. that way you have a justification for her not spamming you
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:14 PM
2

it’s only weird because most pickup attempts are forced and completely disruptive to women. the only daygame that works is if you and her are already involved in an event happening in the area or there’s situational cues you can both latch onto for a shared bond (that could even be looking in the same aisle at a bookstore, but a little creepy still the same until you create comfort with her)
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:09 PM
1

mini celebrity you might want to keep that to yourself
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:06 PM
5

i was with you up until “what flavor asian are you?” unless she’s some weird anime nerd or mixes up asian countries herself, she’s going to look at you like you’re a moron. and while you were going into a boring monologue about yourself, she was already pondering the best method of seppuku.
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:05 PM
1

you have a lot to learn still
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:57 PM
1

how is a family emergency flaking? yea 3 hours before isn’t ideal but it’s not indicative of a strikeout. i can’t even imagine how many women you’ve lost out on because of your assumptions or silly cancel once no chance rule
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:56 PM
1

you let her choose the day. just move on now until she calls you and even that is less likely now
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:54 PM
2

with all the free resources there are out there and opportunities to meet people in real life, there’s no excuse to spend money on books or lessons on this sort of thing. you only learn by doing and action. watching others and reciting notes isn’t terrible but it’s a much slower and ineffective use of your time and health
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:50 PM
2

maybe i missed it but it sounds like you’re already accepting being rejected before you go into it. there’s nothing healthy about that kind of thinking. rejection is not just nothing. it’s a reflection of something out of our control that led us to the end result of being alone. you’re supposed to learn from rejection, and improve yourself. don’t just take it smile and think it’s “A-OK” because there’s tomorrow. might as well give up then
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:46 PM
1

says the troll still stuck in your mother’s uterus
/r/seduction17/03/20 03:47 PM
1

oh i see what you meant. i guess i misunderstood your post. honestly women in an environment like that where they are highly sexually valued based on her body being on full display to men- she’s gonna have this mentality that any kind of look or interaction is going to be a form of interest on her. even your innocuous smile which i say she doesn’t even deserve. it’s veryyyyy possible that she did take your smile and politeness as a form of interest but because you didn’t follow it up with any co…
/r/seduction17/03/20 03:43 PM
1

you were probably the fifth male customer who asked for her number. you coulda been a little different at least sheesh And always remember to stop touching the "kitty" while it still feels good no dude. just never say that ever again
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:23 PM
1

nice fanfiction girls don’t ever send the first message
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:14 PM
1

i don’t think her being a 7 was the issue- it was that he was leaving and then chased a woman that made him look like a loser she rightly shut him down and then his pettiness came out when he said no time for her that directly contradicts him chasing her
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:09 PM
3

this is awful because you’re projecting a dishonest frame you’re about to leave and see a hb7 and quickly approach her. (chaser much?, this ain’t bridget jones) then you open her with a bad line that effectively says “i think you’re hot so please talk to me” the minute she gives resistance, you bailed like a slapped dog and barked at her. lol you demonstrated extremely low value
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:06 PM
3

you guys at gyms need to stop being such tryhards focus on your workout, smile at a girl when they’re checking you out and when the opportunity comes make a neutral situational statement if you’re close around her and take it from there. girls instinctively know you’re checking them out and running game in your head so stop telegraphing it so fucking obviously
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:00 PM
1

if you’re straight up trying to impress a girl with taking a photo- you gotta find a way to pose with another girl, preferable one who’s more physically attractive (but not valuable). competition always gets girls heated and wanting to engage. but you also have to know that girl will find you attractive
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:56 AM
0

wow i see what you were going for but this was cringey as fuck man. for one thing, don’t hit on girls like this while you’re working and all alone right before closing. it just screams rapey and desperate. yikes. there’s an appropriate way of developing a dynamic with a customer but roleplaying them to watch your register and other customers is about as lame as you can get. also waiting to ask her name when she’s walking out the door? that’s just retarded. she probably texted her friend how weir…
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:48 AM
1

didn’t you net any numbers and dates from any of these approaches?
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:55 AM
2

i think this is a good way of thinking for those approaching with some self doubt- but it’s a horrible pep talk to use for inexperienced and newbies. this is like telling a kid to run across the road with cars zooming by periodically and just saying he will get better with each time. you’ll face pain and possible grueling trauma if you don’t understand how and why you’re crossing the road and why the cars are moving and strategies to being safe and efficient
/r/seduction10/03/20 09:53 PM
2

you better hope you didn’t just aid or encourage someone to commit a crime
/r/seduction10/03/20 09:49 PM
3

it was to boost team morale. or they were just really fckin bored. it's never about the sales with women
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 12:39 PM
1

of course, the women of yor dreams are out of your league bro stick to real life lolz
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:09 PM
3

it's really as simple as respecting boundaries, recognizing negative cues to back off, but also being confident in yor masculinity and not displaying needy traits most predators' behaviour comes out from being insecure or expecting certain behaviour or trying to control dishonestly what you can't control
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:11 PM
1

don't place so much importance on texting. think of women like little children (not always but in this situation, but ive found their attention spans are equitable when it comes to something as low investment as texting) they only will be invested in thenconvo if it's serving their emotional need. there's so many variables around women at all times that will compete for her emotional attention so a text convo will rank really low in the long run you basically text to get information and that's i…
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:07 PM
0

lol 85% of swiping right are fakes or people not even looking at the profile until they get a match and then drop yo ass don't even waste your time bruh
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:04 PM
1

bagged you a date? what is this a grocery store? who the f talks like that?? you gonna bag her too at the end of the night?
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:54 AM
2

it's your first time you're bound to fuck it up. just try to have fun and enjoy it. firsts are always special
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:53 AM
1

wha the hell are you doin man? she didn't reply there's nothing to this, no great mystery. the fact you even just messaged her out of the blue after not seeing her after a year (?) i don't know what you said (probably something lame if she left you on read) but you don't do that. you shot into the dark and now you look stupid don't do this again, learn from your mistakes
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:51 AM
13

this is the only answer (but the girls all have to be looking at you or NO dice! you gotta kill everyone of them with those finger guns!)
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:47 AM
1

to simplify... those that look amazing and hot, don't act impressed with them and approach them like they were very ordinary those that look ordinary, cover up or dress more conservatively, give them even more attention and adjust depending on her interest level
/r/seduction20/10/19 10:37 PM
1

i saw the letter and it is a little strange and informal but not the worst thing. you only needed to mention that you'd like to chat and say something UNRomantic about her. getting anything about beauty or looks from strangers is DEATH for a girl. you might as well say they are fat and ugly- same idea. it's not welcome.
/r/seduction20/10/19 08:40 PM
1

you fell for her trap. she doesn't actually like you she's roping you along
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:14 AM
2

don't drink and ride!
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:12 AM
1

proof??
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:11 AM
-1

girls be too easy sometimes.. kinda feel bad for them sometimes
/r/seduction20/10/19 02:10 AM
2

honestly what you're seeing is probably the 15% of the girls that haven't rejected your friends, and then you have to remember about half of them probably don't even like your friends romantically and are just talking to them don't let what's others are doing make you feel down. only who you talk to and those connections you make matter
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:51 AM
1

ngl it's kinda weird that you didn't see this girl first in real life and only noticed her once you saw her on tinder U. almost makes me think you were watching her from afar you also say she had model looks which seems like youre putting her on a pedestal already. just fuckin talk to her or don't bother. either way you're just wasting time writing about a "hot" girl on here that you can't even decide to talk to. wtf
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:49 AM
1

he can't change her mind. she showed extremely little interest in him from the start
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:34 AM
1

because you've shown to her you can only text and little else. you don't pose any challenge for her and killed the mystery. it's also very evident she has little romantic interest in you. she makes excuses or twists her reply to you everytime you make an offer. just leave her alone
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:31 AM
3

i don't think thats fair. girls have bitch shields to screen men until they're able to let their guard down and trust him sometimes it's just a defense mechanism to protect herself. look at guys who act like dicks sometimes in front of other guys but then become mushy when all alone
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:29 AM
5

it's the bitch shield every girl has it. they are trying to keep their autonomy and not seen as slutty or too easy in front of their friends, who they value the opinion of. long story short, if a girl really was comfortable with you and her own strength, she wouldn't have to use the bitch shield. it just means she's not comfortable enough with you yet.
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:26 AM
2

yea this guy is clearly into you but he is coming on way too strong lol when there's no mystery it ain't sexy at all and a little creepy. let him know you appreciate his help but maybe hint at the fact that you'd prefer to talk to him outside of work instead of him constantly hovering over you at work
/r/seduction19/10/19 10:21 AM
1

you shouldn't have completely ignored her. at the very least you could've glanced at her, smirked and THEN ignore her doing what you had to do that would've shown you still acknowledge her. ignoring her was probably a bad move cuz now it just looks like youve lost all interest as long as you still see her at the gym you can just be friendly but i'd lay low now and not try to talk anymore
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:49 PM
2

idk a lot of people would disagree with that. if you know a lot about anime and games i'm sure there's others out there that would share that passion. you could certainly branch out and try new things too, you never know what you might stumble upon that you wished you had done sooner.
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:52 PM
1

hm you might have difficulty meeting girls that fit your type in fighting game clubs but hey do what makes you happy. and you know that these guys all have sisters, so you could very well end up meeting girls that way. but i'd still suggest groups primarily where you can meet girls in the group, not through other people
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:44 PM
1

try meetup or facebook groups. at the same time look around universities for clubs and different organizational events happening around your libraries and community areas. plenty of places to meet people
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:14 PM
6

you say you're good looking and you love yourself then why are you posting in here about how nobody wants you. do you realize how self defeatist and negative that is? you sound like a decent person and from what you've described, i don't see why girls wouldn't give you a shot. work on your self esteem- and watch some daygame and approach videos. you don't necessarily have to participate in daygame but you'll learn how to talk to girls. there is a dance to it- that all walks of life in social sit…
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:07 PM
2

you know it's perfectly reasonable for a girl to show through body language that they're interested but have what they're saying seem like the opposite right? some women will have difficulty articulating what they feel cuz they don't want to be judged or misunderstood. not much different with guys who want to admit feelings but don't want to be rejected it sounds like you were scared off by her not verbalizing everything you wanted to hear and used that as a reason not to pursue further. also yo…
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:31 AM
2

lol are you for real? you can still have a conversation with person that's wearing glasses you can still see their facial expressions and mouth. being concerned about whether you can see her eyes is such an insignificant detail in the long run especially ESpECIALLY since she doesn't owe you anything. actually it makes YOU look low value if straight out the gate you're asking her to show you her eyes. you're being selfish to want to look at her eyes when she doesn't even know or care who you are …
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:21 AM
1

wow dude. take it easy, you seem really angry and hostile all because you feel entitled to be fucking and enjoying the college life as a young buck. what the hell is the matter with you? you expecting girls to just appear from thin air and all your problems will go away? you need to change your attitude and be a little more calm and open minded about things. all that rambling makes you sound incredibly immature and bitter toward the world- you gotta have experiences to gain wisdom and to control…
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:31 AM
1

saying "man the fuck up" doesn't really offer any practical advice. yea he can think of what an alpha man like arnold or stallone would do but if he doesn't look or act like them then that's not very useful. at the best hell look like he's trying to impersonate someone, which will creep the girl out or worse, make her laugh AT him, dropping all potential interest or respect for him. to the OP you should just think of the job and just talk to her about the job initially. get a vibe for how she ta…
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:20 AM
1

did you miss what he said? you're an OPTION meaning you're not a priority. you are literally in reserve until she feels like calling your ticket number in line. id forget her. you don't want to be a backup
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:14 AM
2

you either have incredible luck or you go for incredibly desperate or inebriated girls. if your only aim is to fuck, i feel bad for you it's one thing to ride the date out if it's going great and the two of you have amazing connection but to TRY to pull for sex on a first date is just sleezy
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:11 AM
1

we got some senior citizens in here to the OP look for costume parties and contests and then show up alone
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:06 AM
1

don't even let it concern you. that's something a woman would bitch about
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:02 AM
1

girls see the cameras or that the guy is super random or energetic and the girl just assumes they are doing some kind of show/feature on that girl and their "reality girl comes on" almost all american girls that grew up on garbage reality shows dating shows and the like will just be programmed to imitate the people and girls they watched and idolized on their shows, even if they may not be doing it intentionally. it's just a trigger in them that turns on
/r/seduction17/10/19 10:51 PM
1

because clearly to her they weren't dates. she was just going out with someone platonic and testing out the foreign dating scene. unfortunately this guy went along with it got confused (as you would with a girl who has a ldr bf that would lead you on) yet it's kinda fucked up that she would go out with a guy as a potential replacement for her current bf (if all went well) that should've been a red flag. to stop thinking for one second about the short term challenge of just "winning" her and fcki…
/r/seduction17/10/19 10:33 PM
2

then you calibrate to her level. start to pick up on her speech pattern and pacing and try to follow it. i don't mean you start to emulate her but you kinda follow her rhythm and play it out a little. after all conversations are like dances- you can't be going faster or slower than the other person or you lose the entire thing. the other thing is you sensed like she was into you but there was disinterest? how is that? you contradicted yourself
/r/seduction17/10/19 08:49 PM
2

if this is habitual then no she's not really sorry
/r/seduction17/10/19 06:28 PM
1

yea cory says only to ask for a name in the context that it's appropriate and not to start an interaction with giving your name. this usually only applies to a social setting where girls are already expecting guys to approach them- bars, social events, and the like. places where they are doing something for themselves though- like a school, at work, walking somewhere on the street, exercising... that's when you don't start with asking their name. it's jarring. you gotta make a situational commen…
/r/seduction17/10/19 06:06 PM
10

you fcked up in two ways. first out of nowhere you asked for her name. maybe that's ok to ask when a girl sees you coming and she knows youre making a beeline for her to say something. it is appropriate. contextual. but not when you're next to someone already. here you're working out and apart from her laughing a few times (sounds like it's just awkward nervousness) you immediately ask for her name. here's why that doesn't work. you put her right on the spot without any leadup. she's now wonderi…
/r/seduction17/10/19 11:48 AM
1

would you have preferred sitting there for 2 hours, having her fake laugh and look bored while you paid for her meal and went through the motions only to lie to your face that it was fun and to keep in touch and then never respond to you again? she made it easy for you so now just focus on others now
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:39 PM
6

wait a week and reach out to her again if she doesn't reply youre done and you move on
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:36 PM
2

you don't give us much info here. is she in your class? then you take a seat next to her say something about the class and introduce yourself if you see her in the halls notice something situational and stop her and comment on it. act like you know her from a class (even if shen blatantly isn't) and go from there
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:35 PM
0

should've gone up to her see she has your keys and say "the keys to my heart"
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:32 PM
1

oh. i thought it was straightforward in my comment that you don't ask for a phone number right off the bat. i explained the importance in chatting first and making a bond first before any mention of your interest yet. the phone number is only for when you've accomplished a few things like keeping her attention, getting her to laugh or react positively, and have her show interest in you with follow up questions. that's only when you ask for a number. and those things i stress have to be authentic…
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:37 PM
2

i sort of touched upon it when i said where he messed up. basically the opposite of what he did.. see the girl and read the scene. so he sees she's sitting and studying in the library. first of all he shouldn't have spent 10 minutes after noticing her to prep and approach. he basically psyched himself out before he even had a chance. all that nervous energy just bottled up and was probably reading off the charts to the girl who was at rest at the table. the first thing he should've done was find…
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:27 PM
1

literally have no clue what you're trying to say in your last part of the comment. are you just repeating the point about not going for a number straight away after you see someone attractive? are you pointing out something i said that's wrong?
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:21 AM
1

that's too true about the indians overusing cute and beautiful lol i would use cute if i had an established relationship with her and letting her know in an indirect way that i'm interested in her otherwise i just comment on something material that reflects their taste or personality
/r/seduction15/10/19 10:45 PM
2

you don't go straight for the number. there has to have been some kind of development between you two. it can be chatting briefly over a shared interest, making her laugh with a joke- smiling at each other and getting more than just a weak smile and turn away (that's not interest people...) these things will justify why you're showing interest in her. just asking anyways because you just saw her for any other reason or for no reason is basically you saying "i dont need to know who you are but yo…
/r/seduction15/10/19 10:31 PM
1

it's only harassment if you've ignored the signs and context. as a man you have the right to show interest in a person you find attractive. you can chat with her- you can flirt and freely show your sexuality in a non aggressive unattractive way. the problem is many men don't know the difference. they think grabbing an ass or stroking hair is simple and harmless because pua guys do it all the time ans the girls (often paid models or just drunkies) giggle and go with it. that's not how you open an…
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:35 PM
2

the guy has the right mindset for approaching daygame but he has been outed as a huge fraud and creep. i don't mean the simple being socially inexperienced and girls being made uncomfortable by you- i mean like he comes majorly across like a predator who uses his fake celebrity to charm and impress girls. it's just otherwise slimy
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:29 PM
7

you started off weak which is probably where the girl got confused and couldn't showninterest you immediately asked for her name without indicating a premise or reason for it. you completely disoriented her and you don't want to do that when opening a girl. think: i have to get her in the right mood, not the other direction (being confused, bothered, distracted) also you barely even had a convo- you asked if she's studying, you basically gave her a way out of the conversation. you made it too ea…
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:24 PM
0

i think you took alot of the sensible and helpful information in my post out of context. i certainly never said to frequent a girls workplace and play nice customer to work up a bond with them. you should never be going to her workplace just to create an opportunity to see and talk to her. that's fucking weird. and she will catch onto that quick. you go because you have a reason to- a service that needs to be fulfilled. then you take that time to show her you're interested. sooner the better. i …
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:13 PM
2

first of all, nowhere in my comment did i say they should be hitting quotas or be pushy to number close. i certainly can't condone guys pushing to get a number. they have to connect with the girl first and foremost or else they should just give up entirely. those that expect results from a few hacks and tricks, are ruining it for everyone, more importantly making it a social nightmare for women who have to put up with those types. i'm glad you brought that up the part about the average readers w…
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:48 PM
3

it's not a big deal. you wait for a relaxed moment to approach and engage in a casual friendly way. using situational awareness and keeping it lax and direct, the girl shouldn't feel uncomfortable when they ask for a number. it's only when men are socially unaware of their surroundings, or incapable of recognizing the effects of their actions. the worst is when they hang around a shop or workplace and stare as if they're an assassin waiting to kill their target. or they finally go in and seem to…
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:16 PM
2

egh it's not really a first date then. a hug? what the hell? friends hug when they say goodbye i don't even have to be on a date with a girl to hug her. the kiss should be one of the last things in the first date. it should be the spark that leads you into the second date. the second date is where it should start getting really hot and sexy. give or take sex can wait until the third date for sure or even longer if the girl prefers it (but make sure she isn't holding it back, it's gotta be a real…
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:35 PM
1

it really doesn't even matter what you talk about. just be cool with her and make a joke like you could give her a few tips
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:01 PM
2

it's pretty much cut and dry if you send a friend request and they delete it, you're fckd
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:00 PM
0

she was testing you and you failed. sorry man. makes you look low value you're not supposed to tell her straight away so quickly that you're available
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:58 PM
3

don't feel bad the only shitty thing is you wasted your time on her. yea you made out but for what? she used you man. she took an opportunity to eat your face and then move on to the next guy. it happens. also you probably turned her off by seeming too eager and like a puppy next to her. she saw that she was your only option at the party/club and you weren't going anywhere else, so she probably thought what a chump. you didn't offer much value in her eyes besides a momentary distraction. the int…
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:43 PM
1

honestly doesn't sound like a whole lot of seduction to me looks like your gal friend picked herself a texting bf to occasionally hang out with when she's bored. and you're seeing it just more. how do you have a girl over for a movie night and do nothing? you left out a pretty important detail there and just glazed right over it lol
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:37 PM
2

tell us how you really feel
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:30 PM
2

the note is a fuckig terrible way to show interest in a girl without a proper established connection with her. it reeks of desperation and validation. it's only good for a convenience if you need to let her know you like her if you literally have no way of talking to her- and she's already established to you that she's looking st you and interested. but how if you didn't even talk? this is a lose lose for BoTH of you. she's taking chance on someone she doesn't even know, that's a shot in the dar…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:58 PM
3

you develop a connection. you have to make her familiar to you- even if it's just the first time you're seeing her, you gotta let her relax while also at the same time making it clear that you're interesting and into talking to people. she will eventually figure out that you're not just there for business because you will be making her laugh and getting her to see a side of you that she wouldn't necessarily with a regular old customer. but BUT this is huge. don't waste her time, if you want to g…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:41 PM
1

i get that you gotta do what works for you and perhaps what's comfortable for the girl but dude- by the end of the first date the girl and you should already know how much you like each other. if you really like a girl and it's going well then you go for a kiss and guage how she responds. you don't just say "well ill let her decide if i should give her a kiss when we depart" it has to come from you- you are the one leading. and hopefully if you are doing things correct, she has she been escalati…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:28 PM
1

yea you have a point about the height thing. well then that's really between the girl and the guy at that point- if he's decent looking (presents himself well to the absolute best of his ability), has the right moves and is a good catch then the girl has to decide the pros over the height. otherwise it just was not meant to be. couples will overlook lots of things to be together. also, the other side of that is the GUY if he is height challenged then he shouldn't be going for taller women who pl…
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:18 AM
1

and youre oversimplifying it. looks will only get a girls attention to a degree. how you make her feel, what you can offer her in lifestyle and how you spend time together is all dependent on the mans ability to seduce her. if he can't even talk about anything interesting or has awful traits all around, he wont go any further than a quickie. if you're deciding attraction from a girl soley on if he can fuck her real fast, then ok- many girls will go for that. but in the long run, that isn't anyth…
/r/seduction13/10/19 02:06 AM
1

it's implied by your comment about wiping out the pua "nonsense" and then focusing your last thought with heavy emphasis on looks.
/r/seduction13/10/19 01:50 AM
2

when you realize dating apps is pretty much the most superficial window shopping for women who are already super indecisive and picky, it's not that hard to understand how it's a bad resource for any decent guy. it's practically pornography for women who don't want to have any accountability or responsibility in committing to anyone with endless options simultaneously boosting their self esteem getting attention from thirsty men. it's also the equivalent of a guy cold approaching a girl on the s…
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:28 AM
1

if you spend just a few minutes researching about the U.K., you'd find out its been infiltrated by men hating sjw communists. they will not tolerate any kind of male misogyny, even as little as a guy looking at a girl the wrong way. so just a little (even unwanted) kino doesn't surprise me he would be arrested. know where you are at all times and the consequences of your actions. moral of the story: don't go to a super pro feminist location and try to pick up women. the second you show any mascu…
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:23 AM
2

haha that's good actually gets the ball rollin puts questions in her head. but you run the risk being seen as a player
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:19 AM
1

that's a good motivator for attention from girls but hardly an ace to asking them out. most girls will make it pretty obvious they're only there for the cute dog. you're dead mistaken if you think luring them with petting a dog is somehow considered interest in you. it's a good foot in the door but you gotta connect with the girl first
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:16 AM
1

looks are important. but they don't define your success so stop using it as an excuse to not try
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:12 AM
8

you follow her lead and take it slow don't get ahead of her
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:31 AM
1

it's good that you put it out there but unless you already are on good ground with this girl in person and familiar, or that you're a high value guy (looks and popular), they're never ever going to say yes to being asked out online not to mention it just looks weakly and fearful of facing a girl in person. maybe you didn't have an option, ok, fine- but you should ALWAYS use online convos to plan seeing her in person. then even if you barely know her it's better to get blown out in front of her t…
/r/seduction04/10/19 01:36 PM
1

i agree that the country tends to thirst for blood before understanding the full story. and yes there's a diagnosis for those types of people-theyre called psychopaths when they enjoy seeing others suffer more when they aren't the ones affected. i certainly don't revel or celebrate in others suffering or pain, i don't find some kind of relief or satisfaction in retribution, whether fair or not. i want only to see people face judgement the proper way, and realize their actions and consequences. m…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/19 05:55 PM
1

her reputation after the fact is the least of anyone's concerns that's what's fcked about this country, everyone's obsessed with forgiveness and second chances for people that hurt and kill others
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 01:09 PM
5

ya just like gun companies are to blame for shooting bullets pointed at people too how many millions of people drink alcohol and don't hurt or kill anyone in their whole lifetime. isn't that funny
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 04:06 AM
1

uh yea why does woman or man make a diff? i just proved her looks are irrelevant. if he was way over the drinking driving limit and killed someone and smiling like a dumbass in the mugshot? and was remorseful later it wouldn't matter. people like that can rot why would that make a difference ?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 03:39 AM
1

who cares about her feelings she fucking killed someone and she made things look worse for herself by smiling in a mugshot. fake or not bitch is stupid and deserves this fate 100% whether she was remorseful after the fact is so irrelevant
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 01:50 AM
0

she played you bro. you're her gay best friend who entertains her and is a nice companion while she's being pegged by other guys you're probably sexually repulsive to her and too timid in her eyes to get to that level with her. you think you can recover from it and have a chance but that's your ego. she gave you a chance to qualify yourself when she questioned a "date" then she said she'd prefer to be friends. you had a chance to challenge her and smile and tease her about being more than friend…
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:48 PM
1

unless you're interested in hooking up with someone who's already in a relationship, don't try it if you just wanna fck her then text in a way and be direct you want to hang out and progress from there. that's what you're interested in. otherwise you're wasting your time
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:43 PM
1

but i'm leaving with you, does he know that? lol!
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:19 AM
1

it wont lol if that girl thinks it's funny, shes more fucked up than you
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:16 AM
2

you're doing it wrong then if the girl has a problem with that
/r/seduction17/07/19 10:03 PM
1

omg lol this is gonna backfire huge if she doesn't think you're attractive
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:13 PM
1

prove you have a lot of money and don't be fuckin boring and its almost automatic
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:10 PM
0

this is such bad advice. don't focus on anyone just let them come to you. you'll know. thats why people are on here asking questions. they really don't. also, the reality for 98% of men is they will be looking at women all night thinking they're making iois when really they aren't. and no women make the moves so nothing happens. its up to the man to scope out a few women they can have as options and then you go go play the field. thats why its called a game. you go and participate, you don't jus…
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:07 PM
2

then have your club ready for when she is about to run and you're golden
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:04 PM
1

no you love good guys. i promise you nice guys are not who you're talking about (guys who act and pretend to be sweet and nice to girls for the end result of entitled sex)
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:02 PM
-2

not always in the case of cgi. you can look at something think it looks amazing but know it's cgi and still hate it. they hate the decline in the authentic real sets, animatronics and physical effects that are constantly handed over to be done in cgi. audiences are angry at the over reliance on creating everything in a computer and not from craftspeople and artistans
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:48 PM
1

so why don't you list the ones that aren't true instead of vaguely mentioning it
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:41 PM
1

never ever ask permission unless you're sitting in a bedroom and you want to kiss her or you're about to fck-then you double check almost like a joke, so that there's no misunderstandings but you don't set up a question only for her to give you an easy yes or no reply. she could tell from the beta setup that you were not deserving of her. saying "if i asked you"? really lol
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:27 PM
3

which means that if you're trying to seduce or attract s girl when you don't have your shit together, its an uphill battle that will only end in fucking disaster. better have most of your shit right (appearance, job, lifestyle) in order before trying to get someone for serious
/r/seduction11/07/19 01:26 PM
1

you're probably coming across as needy. yes some girls are just really shitty at time management and dont have time to meet up with a random dude they mighhhhht like to know-but more often than not, they would make time. which means- you're fucking up somewhere
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:47 AM
1

you had an in there- when you saw that she was a little awkward and did the wave thing, you shoulda reciprocated lightly doing the same thing. tease her a little and then follow up with "is that how you shoo flies away too?" and then do it again but make it overly exaggerated. it makes her see that you're aware of your surroundings and how people behave. she will be more interested, or laugh. at the worst, she will feel challenged now becauase you showed her that you're not afraid of her no answ…
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:39 AM
1

you gave up the chase like a chump rather quickly. girl saw your fear when her shit test was implemented. better luck next time
/r/seduction05/07/19 10:22 AM
1

Thats what emails are for not following someone posting personal pictures
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:04 PM
-7

Holy sht thats total predatory behaviour. Cut that sht out lol
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:06 PM
5

You have her freakin number and youre wasting your time with "i hope this...and i wish that" Just freakin ask her out for a cup of coffee or to join you on some activity? What the helllllllll
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:28 AM
2

Notes work in busy fast moving areas like transit. Movies and media would leas you to believe girls think its cute and romantic but really its no different than a guy sending a facebook message that you like her. Same principle. I think just talking to someone and asking for their number is way more attractive and brave than sliding over a piece of paper. It looks weak as if youre laying all the blame and excuse of rejection on a conduit, something detached from you. Also remember how easy it is…
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:33 AM
1

This is all bs What matters is having or demonstrating value to a girl (be it through your genetics, status and what you offer to others) But more importantly than that is your abikity to present yourself in a cofident non caring, non needy way. Most girls wont even read your bio if they think your style is off or you sont present yourself well. Genetics and good looks factor in certainly but how you oresent yourself despite your shortxomings is also incredibly attractive in a profile pic. To su…
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:55 PM
1

I mean fair enough as long as the guys know and are accepting that physical contact like that is purely platonic, and should be no different than how an overly affectionate gay guy with their girlfriends would act. I still think the gazing into eyes and lips for a non sexual relarionship is still weird as fck. Thats when i would insist her to stop looking like that unless we are fcking
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:41 PM
1

Thats just out of line tho. A guy playfully touching a girls quads or biceps would imply some kind of attraction. I dont care how happy i am for a girl i wouldnt grab her arm or piece of body to congratulate her fitness. And likewise if a girl was grabbing my muscles or even just squeezig my shoulder, i would assume they like me. Thats why there are so many confused people out there because girls think this is acceptable. Its one thing if the guy is clearly your gay best friend (or knows they ar…
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:29 PM
2

You dont want to be a validator. Thats a weak trait to exist soley to make a woman feel better about herself. Good listening is about Thinking your own way regardless of what she asks of you. You dont care about saying what she wants you to say- instead, you place focus on How she will value your opinion on certain things that factor into her thinking and decision making. Validating on the other hand has no effect on her thoughts-its purely emotional.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:03 PM
1

Definitey be the racist polarizing guy! Theyll remember you, just not in a good way lol In all seriousness tho, show people that you have interests, youre passionate about SOMETHING and that you dont chase people just to get something. Have a voice and be proud of it and try to enjoy yourself while talking to as many people. Remember a party broken down is just about keeping up appearances- make people want to be around you. But also remember there will be many people who are just not going to l…
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:19 AM
0

Touching biceps and holding long gazes at your lips is not typical guy girl friendships You got some fcked up friendships if thats a common thing with you and guy friends
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:11 AM
1

Sounds like shes givkng you multiple invitations and youre too chickenshit and in your head to take the step and seal it. She probably wonders if you even have a penis
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:10 AM
1

Its gay af get a sense for fashion not terrible trends and stupid fads, big difference
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:07 AM
1

"Oh hey im so glad youre here! I need your help looking for...actually i was supposed to meet my friend there but hes running late, i think youre pretty cute maybe youre hungry and wanna get a coffee and pastry nearby while i wait for mt friend?"
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:05 AM
2

Just Ninjamax. Thats 100% guaranteed to work
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:04 AM
1

Really? Girls see nonsexual men as fans of them so theyll add them to be followed. Thats it, they could give a shit about your life or what you post
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:02 AM
1

Feminists and soyboys 100% will be jealous its not them so they ruin it for everyone else
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:01 AM
2

Too good of a friend? That means they dont see you in a sexual way. You either let them walk all over you or you serve some kind of use to them (gay best friend or a reliable validator) no girl will wanna be romanic or sexual with those.
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:59 AM
2

Haah these are terrrrrrrible examples Most of these are beta guys chasing after girls, pining after love thats one sided or pretending to be something they are not to win someone
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:44 AM
1

You do realize that its very likely that she couldve seen you as an easy target (knowing your reaction with her looks) and just is buttering you up so that she can turn to you when things get dicey for her. Or she could just be teasing you because she likes the way it empowers her. Girls never outright flirt with a guy in public like that. And if they do, its insincere becsuse deep down girls dont want to be viewed by other workers as slutty or desperate.
/r/seduction02/05/19 11:23 AM
2

Yea no this is gonna get you into the permanent creep zone. She will tell all her friends trust me this will spread. "That guy had a plan, put the movie on and then tried to go from 30 to 160. What a weirdo." You gotta escalate even at your place- i think its hilarious all these guys on seduction think they are experts at game and they think once shes at your place your dick is already out and things are guaranteed from there. Noooooo
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:56 AM
3

Its good that you went back and approached BUTTTTT It was a terrible opener. To just state your intent like that without building any rapport or creating a moment-its a no go from the start. Thats almost like youre assuming her to qualify you soley on your looks. Thats not all that matters
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:00 AM
1

Wow you scary af
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:55 AM
1

Nah theres alot of hot creeps out there. Sometimes thats even worse, because society will tend to favor the attractive people all because of the halo effect
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:51 AM
1

idk when anyone after middle school thought flowers or gifts to a crush was seen as sweet. Maybe becauase of valentines day its become tarnished by being a gesture of love and affection-and thats just not apppropriate for crushes that dont have that foundation yet. Also anyone, guy or girl, that buys gifts to get validation by a non lover or partner is inherently weak
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:49 AM
1

I thik being a creep is really simple...alot of people are saying it can be as basic as bad looks, but generally its anyone who is incapable of reading or folllowing societal rules. A guy could look like brad pitt but if he cant hold eye contact or engages in strange conversations that would ring alarm bells to anyone, hes gonna be a creep
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:45 AM
2

Couldve handled it way better. Honestly you probably fcked up when you went to examine her eye. What are you, her optician? That is a real turn off As soon as she mentioned the contacts, you shouldve segued the topic "speaking of...contact" and then move in a little closer and start another engagement that would ranp up her emotions
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:13 PM
1

You havent even scrstched the surface. Yes alll the things you listed matter but you also have to be approaching and interacting with people...every day
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:11 PM
2

That sounds fuckin creepy af Yea girls ate really thinking "wow all those girls...he must be popular" noooot. Its a glorified hobby that hes using to pull girls in a rather obvious desperate way.. Also, what girl wants to become yet another face on his table for future attention calling?
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:54 PM
2

Thats a surefire way to get you into the idiot category. Yea theyll laugh cuz you said something obvious and stupid but theyll be red flagging you in no time
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:52 PM
0

You wait for her to set a day or you bounce
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:50 PM
3

You just validate her when she has her moments of lonileness She has no interest move on. These girls also are just miserable
/r/seduction22/04/19 12:06 PM
0

D&d + girls do not go hand in hand. Unless youre talking about a certain demographic of unnattractive women that would absolutey not be the type of girl talked ablut in seduction to begin with
/r/seduction22/04/19 12:03 PM
2

If that girl is testing you then youre better off without her. Move on to the next one. You know shes gonna be doing this to dozens of other guys
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:43 AM
1

So you pull back and let her run to you. If she doesnt it was over a long time ago
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:57 PM
1

Lol its just a dance formal Youre not asking her for sex...friends go to formal dances all the time. However The problem with this kind of scenario tho is now she obliged you with going to a dance formal...if you really wanted to take her out as a potential love interest it had to be under more direct terms, and from her seeing a benefit to her. Now she sees you two as friends doing you a solid by not being alone, and then easily friendzone you. when you hang out with her at the dance she wont b…
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:06 AM
2

Its needy when you assign a time element to anyone or expecting them to give you what you want by any kind of time deadline. Ypu just have to ignore her and keep her on the backburner until she reaches out. Of course you can also still arrange hanging out with her and try and escalating to get her to fall for you. But if you just wait around for that moment when shell give you a yes to dating then you wont get it
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:06 PM
1

Attractiveness is not exclusive to just looks. Yea looks factor in but they will be attracted to how well u can lead a conversation and show genuine appreciation for both her and yourself
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:48 PM
3

"I dont want to date anyone" Is code word for she doesnt think youre dating material. Simple as that. Also you probably demonstrated a dependency on her and she immed was turned off by that
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:46 PM
0

Not always...theres alot of girls that just like the attention and free meals/benefits
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:48 PM
2

That might be the craziest most impossible idea I've read today
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:44 AM
1

Wow talk about taking the extremes
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 03:33 PM
1

Like I said, you were playing the numbers, which is fine and all but you were still desperate. You had a lot of desire for sure, but being courageous and proactive has nothing to do with talking to 30 girls in a day and hoping to land them all every time. Plenty of drunk courageous and proactive guys at the bar hitting on every lady in the bar and striking out.
/r/seduction10/06/16 01:00 PM
1

30 girls in one day...wow. And im not just talking casual conversations.. .30 with the aim to close. More than 3 is desperate dude. Take your time and actually try. Quality over quantity
/r/seduction09/06/16 04:14 PM
9

Alright first of all, good job on approaching alone! Now onto business...both of your interactions are big no-nos to girls. Sounds like you literally flogged down the first girl, got her name and then immediately said you wanted to see her again. Um NOOO, you don't do that when you only just met her. A good rule of thumb is talk for 10 mins and get her to feel comfortable with you. Relate on some level, make her laugh, make her curious about something. After that, then you can assess if you can …
/r/seduction12/06/15 12:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter