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It's quite simple. There are 3 main ways you could reply to "I bet you say that to all your girls". 1 - Deny "No I dont"/"No just you" Sounds pretty autistic and you're validating her so don't do this EVER. 2 - Ignore/Change the topic This works sometimes, but is not the best option since it doesn't help you progress. But can be used to pass. 3 - Agree and Amplify "Yeah it's basically my catch phrase now" (depends on situation but you get what I mean) Best option as it shows that you don't care …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:00 PM
1

Dont search for explanations, search for solutions
/r/askTRP29/12/18 02:02 PM
2

Why do you need to report this question?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:55 PM
1

this is too vivid
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:28 AM
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What else do you need to know? She's not interested. Next And when i say next, hard next. Remove her from life before you get sucked into orbit. Go read the sidebar because you clearly haven't
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:02 PM
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Invite her out and you'll know in 1 message. For tips on this read the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:58 PM
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I learned a lot that's for sure. I will keep it in mind. But I still stand by my decision not to go back. Sure I could've gotten a lay, but if I just wanted any lay whatsoever I could go fuck a HB5 at a random party. I don't want my first to be full of negative emotion. Am I wrong to want a positive experience all around as my first?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:57 PM
1

That's basically what happened. I wasn't gonna sit there and argue with her cause we all know that doesn't work. Best case would have been if I had a wingman to take her away, but that wasn't the case
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:57 AM
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Yep
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:08 AM
1

No one's gonna file sexual assault charges, the situation is not this bad. But yeah I was not in the mood at that point anyway
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:05 AM
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Trying to be as detached as possible but still get a lay from this one. If it doesn't work out for a second time I'll drop it.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:04 AM
1

Currently focused on school and life in general. Going out and getting plates is not on the agenda just yet. But thanks, I know the importance of plates in the near future.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:03 AM
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True
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:20 AM
1

Ohh 100% I know she was talking complete shit. But Alice the kind of girl who is really socially conscious and has an ego to maintain.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:51 AM
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Yep, lost frame big time. Alright I'll try to throw in some plausible deniability to go over to her's and make it happen. Thanks
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:46 AM
2

Yeah I did in a way, but what do I do now
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:32 AM
2

Makes sense, I didn't handle it correctly. I guess I was shocked by the comment to some extent. But what I'm trying to figure out is why that would even be something that is said. I'm genuinly just curious.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:03 PM
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This girl is a long time friend of mine and we are not sexually involved whatsoever
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:02 PM
2

Please explain, I don't see it :/
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:58 AM
13

Cut contact once you're done with them and don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:43 PM
2

It is a very effective method. Keep it like that for a week and see if you still find yourself checking facebook every 5 minutes. I'd bet money that you won't be. Nothing to be embarrassed about, I have been in this exact situation, as have a lot of people here. It's just another one of those things that everyone experiences, but only some have the will power to fight against it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:15 PM
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Another tip that really helped me. Put your phone in monochrome mode (black and white). This probably seems really silly, but you'll be surprised how fucking much it helps. Your brain responds to colours, colours create attraction which releases dopamine. Putting your phone ito black and white will reduce your desire to look at it, while still allowing you to use it for important things and have it on you in emergencies. You will notice the effect almost instantly and for as long as you keep it …
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:39 AM
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If you were to wave candy in front of a baby and then let another baby take it, how do you thing the first one would react? You demonstrated that you are desirable, but no one wants to be second choice. If you liked the redhead more you should have stuck with her. Flirt with the others by all means, but don't forget who your target is. Forget about this one now. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:15 PM
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Read it
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:39 PM
5

She doesn't actually want you to ask... The moment you do you fall right into her beta bait. Do what you want, chicks dig that shit. But also don't turn into an drug slob..
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:20 PM
15

You don't need a phd to kiss a girl, but this guy probably has one.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:39 AM
1

Ignore her?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:16 AM
3

My frame is far from perfect, but I'm learning to notice where it breaks faster and faster. The other day I literally realised i failed a shit test like 1 second after i failed it. It's all about continuing to expose yourself to situations that require strong frame control, step out of your comfort zone and don't be afrad to screw up because we all do. It's not going to happen overnight.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:56 AM
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I wasn't expecting anything. But her behaviour is definitely something I didn't expect
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:36 AM
1

Agreed on all points, thanks
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:20 AM
3

If you're gonna use proper PUA terminology: Cold approach = COLD approach (no IOIs, going in cold) An approach after IOIs is a 'Warm Approach' since you have already established a visual connection with the target
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:13 PM
3

It's a percentage for a reason.. height is irrelevant
/r/askTRP29/03/18 10:33 PM
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You can walk away all you like until she starts following you and continues to be aggressive. What are you going to do then, run away? And yes I only mean when she is physically hurting you, don't knock out a bitch who slaps you 3 times smh. But there are some who can actually fight and given the right opportunity (such as you turning around and walking away) you can end up in hospital after 1 well placed hit on the back of the head.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:54 PM
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Why are you sticking your nose in their shit?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:02 PM
2

3 strikes
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:58 PM
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If a woman hits you, you try to restrain her so that she can't. e.i. hold her hands down or separate yourself from her using your arm length. If it goes further and she continues to display aggression you apply more force. Don't hit her until you really must, give her 3 strikes. 1) Verbal 2) Restraint 3) Hit back Always try to de-escalate first. Anyway this should pretty much never happen unless you look abusable. Lift
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:51 PM
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Escalate the same as any other girl, but be prepared for more ASD/LMR. However you'll find if she's actually into you, an inexperienced girl's LMR will be much easier to walk over than one who has experience.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:44 AM
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There's no ideals in this world. If you're happy in your own skin you dont have to try and conform to everyone else. If you think something is unasthetic? Avoid it. If you think something is attractive.. go for it dude
/r/askTRP26/03/18 12:12 PM
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That's why you don't settle
/r/askTRP18/03/18 12:05 AM
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At work you do what's necessary for you to grow. You dgaf if what everyone else things about your behaviour (aslong as its having a positive effect on you). I can't think of a workplace that would force you to behave a certain way. Ofcourse if your working in hospitality (i.e. flight attendant/customer service) there is an increased demand for the caring of others. But that's your job and not necessarily being 'billy beta'. If you're being pushed around by your boss, maintain frame and act calm …
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:02 PM
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Man she blew you off. Treat it as a learning point, move on as a wiser man. Find another one, rinse and repeat (with less mistakes). Sounds like you don't have abundance mentality which is also costing you.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 06:35 PM
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You shouldn't of been snapping her all day on Saturday. Dont even open her snaps, no contact until 4. She would have showed. And if she didnt then you dont ask her either, you should have other plans in place. A solid technique is get two chicks, organise one for 4, one for 5. If 4 doesnt show, you have another to occupy you. If 4 shows, you cancel 5 and send her hamster off. Also when you changed the time from 8 to 4 you stepped foot deep into her frame which also cost you. Next time tell her y…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:10 AM
1

You can lead a a horse to water but you can't make it drink
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:23 PM
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Come over and try my tap water
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:38 AM
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Sex God Method
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:37 AM
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Who cares why, what's wrong with answering that. In fact by not answering that you fell into her frame. You're overthinking it.. had you just answered the question you would have conveyed that you don't care what she thinks (because she's not responsible for how much you drink). Tldr not everythin is a shit test, but you manage to turn it into one and failed it Edit: punctuation
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:42 AM
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Wrap it in latex or she'll take to your paychecks
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:21 AM
1

She ain't worth it dude, she's clearly fucking with you. Just say "i need your address for that". If she replies with anything else then block her and stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:18 AM
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I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:24 PM
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It's bad to be a bad loser. But its 10 times worse to be a bad winner. You're a bad winner.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:23 PM
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"MMF is just gay sex with a witness"
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:51 AM
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He's saying pretend she's just another random passing by
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:38 AM
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Either way since this concerns you: On the very first approach, you should not be asking, you should be telling. Nothing more boring than a guy interrogating a girl in the middle of the street. Tell her about the new bar you went to last night with your mates and how good it is, tell her she should drop you her digits and you'll text her the details.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:44 AM
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Once again it's up to you to decide whether you're cool with her going out. To me it sounds a little insecure that you hamster her loyalty because she "texts me while she's at parties". When I was in my teens I used to text my mum that I was at the park while I was actually at the club. Everyone does it, so don't be surprised if one day she accidently knocks off you rose-coloured glasses and you see that she's been dropping you horse shit this whole time. Her actions define her, not her words. S…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:40 AM
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Ask yourself, do you want to be in an LTR and constantly keep wondering whether maybe today is the day she will get drunk fucked by some chad? If it bothers you enough to write this post, then why are you even considering it. It sounds like you have oneitis. If you come here expecting approval, you're not gonna find it. You have to set your own boundaries, and sometimes you have to see past your oneitis to set them. AWALT
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:14 AM
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Soft-next until she texts you she's coming over.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 12:03 AM
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Focus on school and yourself. Go monk mode until you graduate. Lift. You'll get plenty of girls when you get to college.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:41 AM
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This question is asked again and again. The answer is move out asap.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:38 AM
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lol not everything is a shit-test. I wouldnt want to wear your sweaty gloves either. She's not even giving you any IOIs but you're still trying to flirt with her? Man you need to move on..
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:32 AM
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Stop trying to be validated by others. Work on yourself and develop hobbies, people will naturally be attacted to you the more self-value you hold in yourself.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:27 AM
1

This is underrated
/r/askTRP01/02/18 12:30 PM
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Why are you in an ltr with someone you dont wanna hang out with is the real question
/r/askTRP01/02/18 03:36 AM
16

"Then you tell me so I can invite Alice instead"
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:00 PM
1

She'll come back if you don't wait for her, 99% of the time
/r/askTRP20/01/18 09:24 PM
4

Frame test. If you stay and wait for them you WILL fail. Move on, talk to someone, even the barman. Pretty much anything apart from staying there. Best option is if you can find a new girl to talk to. If you are hooking up with someone else when she comes back from the bathroom, you are getting laid that night. When she comes back let her approach you. (don't run straight back to her).
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:41 PM
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Ehh sounds like you passed, don't think too much of it. She wanted some attention. Set a date to go out. I know planning logistics is hard at 17, but try to work out a place you can take her and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:36 AM
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Seems like a frame test, ho did you respond when she said the first thing, and how did you respond after she told you it was her.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:55 AM
2

How old are you and the girl in question ?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:19 AM
2

There could many reasons for the rejection, but what i think is more important here is your mindset. To me it seems like you didn't have outcome independence. Even from the way you write i can tell that the whole time your goals was to kiss her (or more later obv.). From the moment you saw her till the very end you made it your mission. Instead what you want to be doing is enjoying yourself, having fun and not focusing all your effort on getting into her mouth. Take her to the dance floor, enjoy…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:06 AM
1

She might be on a low protein diet
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:50 PM
2

Some people use one to save on the cleanup. Dunno if op or his girl are using other kinds of contraception, sure hope so.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:07 PM
1

Mixed signals is perfect. It'll make her hamster and that is guaranteed to build attraction
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:09 AM
9

Don't compare yourself to others, be who you want to be. Hang with people you enjoy hanging with and you will naturally have a good energy. If a group makes you feel like you have lower smv, then you probably don't enjoy their company. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:03 AM
2

You can act attracted, but never overtly communicate this. Your actions should show what you think not your words.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:57 AM
2

Yeah just don't be a slouch, take her out to a nice dinner and then fuck her brains out
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:57 PM
1

You've reached the expiry date. The milk starts to go bad, it may be good for a while longer if you treat it right, but soon enough its bound to go off. Being not needy is not the same as leaving the relationship to rot. If you're doing law school, and maintaining your relationship is too difficult for you, than so be it. If you can put in a bit more effort to stir the milk (it really wouldnt cost you much), than do so. If you think that you can be a complete throwaway and girls will still crawl…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:37 PM
4

She's probably selling you off on the darkweb, just getting some display shots
/r/askTRP16/01/18 10:41 PM
21

Just fuck her already
/r/askTRP16/01/18 09:14 AM
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If you're getting laid you're fine. When she starts pulling back on the sex is when you know you're walking in quicksand. Many start to panic and losing frame, sinking deeper and deeper until its too late. If you ever notice this effect, pause and recalibrate. Meanwhile keep reading, liftin and working on yourself as a person. You got it man!
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:02 AM
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You're asking too many questions. Read the sidebar, im not here to teach you theory
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:06 AM
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You asked her for her address, she replied by asking you for a photo. You are in her frame if you send her a photo. She's getting you to comply to her wants. If you really feel like yiu need to reply something like"i dont do snapchat " could work. But you really shouldnt care that much. You dont want to be 1 guy out of 500 she gets messages from. You want to be the guy she will message when she gets bored with her other chumps.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:36 AM
2

Bro hard next this chick, she sounds like a pain in the ass. You've already wasted it with her. I meant next time with a new chick, if she pulls the same shit just dont reply.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:53 PM
1

Next time ignore her, don't reply. She can message you again with the address if she still wants to meetup
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:40 PM
1

focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals. Straight from the sidebar. Doesn't mean hypothetical actions. I'm not necessarily saying you can't clarify theory on here, but the way you wrote this does not imply that it is a hypothetical scenario. 99.99% of questions in regards to theory can be answered by reading books and content already published on the subreddits. Start with The Rational Male by Rollo. It has an extensive section going into Plate Theory. You havi…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:17 AM
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asktrp is for personal advice, not for fabricating stories for discussion of theory
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:59 AM
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There's a smell that I sense when I read your post and I can't quite pin-point what it is. Let's say I have a plate "Let's say"? you either have a plate or you don't. But that's understandable, you're not too sure of her status yourself. I ask if she's free and she tells me she has drinks with a girlfriend. She's not interested she hid herself on the snapchat map The smell is getting stronger... I am not against snapchat and social media in general, in fact I use them myself. However, going onto…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:22 AM
1

As soon as she starts bringing her friends into it and comparing herself to them it becomes a comfort test. She wants you to tell her that she is special and that she's perfect the way she is no matter what her friends are like. She's fishing for validation from you, and it seems like you're handling it well. Don't waste your time trying to figure out what you're going to reply, it's counterproductive. I'm not going to tell you to hurt her feelings on purpose, and I'm not going to tell you to li…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:00 AM
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I as a guy will tell you one thing no girl would. Go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/01/18 11:40 PM
2

She wants your attention, next
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:21 AM
3

She already turned you down once. Let me translate: Girl: sorry I can't Meaning: i dont want to Leave it
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:45 PM
2

You already changed venue by taking her away from her friends to the bar stand. Her friends were not there when you went to get drinks, you said yourself they joined a bit later, that was your window. Stop giving a shit about what her friends say/think/do. Whatever goes on is between the two of you. If anything it sounded like her friends didn't mind. Otherwise they would have stopped you much, much earlier. Read the 'DiCarlo Escalation Ladder' and you should be set. (Google it)
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:32 PM
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Right after you order the drinks, you were away from her friends. Even if you miss it then. When you're grinding on the dance floor? You seem to have focused on getting somewhere where you two were truelly alone, with noone else around. This is just going to make her uncomfortable while you stall time to grow a pair.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:14 PM
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She's been following me around since the last (half) hour, and from experience girls seem to be turned off if I wait too long to make a move. You already waited too long. You gave her enough time to think about her boyfriend and she changed her mind.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:23 AM
2

Forget about it and get back to work bro
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:08 AM
1

I can't tell if you're calling me an idiot or if that is a positive message. Please elaborate.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:22 PM
1

Makes perfect sense. As for oneitis, I have that in check, but have to care less about each individual plate that's for sure. Thanks
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:34 AM
1

Okay not quite what I meant. I was referring to a section of The Rational Male which talks about how an opposite-sex friendship is never the same as a same-sex friendship. But the point is I acknowledge that I have been orbiting her with my friendly nature.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:26 AM
0

Maybe you are right, maybe you are wrong. But the only way to find out is by action. Thanks for the comment!
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:17 AM
1

I have spent too long weighing up the risk vs reward, which is like you say the main issue here. Red Pill says you can't be friends with a girl, and that is my downfall here, haven't swallowed that part yet.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:16 AM
1

You're right, I often catch myself being too nice, it's something I need to work on. When she pulled the friend line, I went cold on her for a while, but she exponentially returned to hanging off me. Yes, I let her hang off me, probably not the best move, and I'm learning. Like you said, I have to set boundaries, so I came here to find out where I should set them. Thanks for the critisicm, always good.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:06 AM
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