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TheBAT65/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 12:11 PM
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You think there are women who it there that dont act like that? Honest question
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 01:22 AM
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Yea? Do you have kids? Glad it is blissful man
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 10:55 PM
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I really appreciate your post. I am tall, muscular and confident. I typically don't react and let her say and do what she wants into the abyss. Problem now is with having children the controlling behavior over them is what is bothering me. I can have sex when I want with her etc but it's the emotional turmoil that bothers the shit out of me. If anything I was too much Rambo back in the day during arguments and I tried to lay it back. It's this dynamic with her being anti social etc that has made…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 10:54 PM
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I would definitely be interested in joining
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 08:13 PM
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Same here we have no shared accounts I don't believe in it
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 08:13 PM
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I appreciate the comment. I have tried and tried. I am into stoicism and I try to pray about it but it hasn't changed at all. Calling her out even nicely results in her defensiveness or outright dismissal
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 08:12 PM
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Yea that's what Ive been trying but the idea of spending the rest of my life battling for control of what my kids do or of what I do with someone who I'm supposed to love doesn't seem good to me. I feel like we make better co parents
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 05:13 PM
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Yea that for me is one of the worst traits. I've been led to Believe that all women are like that but recent experiences of shown me otherwise
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:39 PM
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Fuck dude sorry to hear that. Are you better off now or what?
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:38 PM
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I really appreciate the response. Tough to see it didn't improve after it seemed to. That's the thing sometimes it's tough to even trust your own feelings because obviously there are two to tango. The thing is my feelings seem non negotiable at this point. I think couples therapy is just putting a bandaid on the issue for thousands of dollars
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:37 PM
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Brutal!!
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:34 PM
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100% agree. The best is when it's all your fault despite doing your best. My issue is that things aren't cut and dry. She didn't cheat, she's loyal and she cleans and is organized. It's the emotional load of being with her and taking zero personal responsibility along with other issues that are weighing on me.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 03:47 PM
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Man I feel like your writing my story. Nothing is ever cleaned properly by her standard but she bitches about being the only one who cleans. She makes everything she has to do in life someone else's problem including my kids as if someone wronged her personally. Death my 1000 cuts is perfectly accurate. Her mother is always over to help with the kids who is a fake, OCD induced worrier and she's always in my wife's ear. I can't stand her moms attitude and now she's becoming that way. Also nothing…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 03:40 PM
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I appreciate your reply and I'll be picking up the books for sure. I'm sorry to hear about that tragic experience. My wife thinks things are fine and nothing is an issue right now. Her cheating would make this easier. I'm stuck in the idea that these issues are in my head and I'm the problem. Sounds familiar I'm guessing
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 03:27 PM
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Yikes that's terrible! Glad you made it out
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 01:20 PM
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I appreciate your answer man. I definitely love my children but this has been going on well before the kids I guess I couldn't see it. We also lost a child in November 2022 which doesn't help a God damn thing. I've been in therapy and in constantly working on myself but she won't do therapy and can't take responsibility for anything. I mean I can drag her to it but then what's the point.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 12:25 PM
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Hahaha in that case where is the parachute
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 12:18 PM
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Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.
/r/MGTOW29/07/20 08:01 PM
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Wtf is wrong with that?!
/r/MGTOW23/02/20 05:49 AM
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Looks like my ex girlfriend
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 03:16 AM
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You need a perch on that. You can't see anything around you. Not good for security.
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 02:12 AM
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Cool story? Your doing so well. Thanks for sharing with us. Wow I wish I was just like you.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 03:47 PM
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Awesome!
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 07:18 PM
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