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| 19 | I'm looking for a scientific study on hints of attraction | TheBattler | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 01:18 AM | |
| 1 | Is it tougher or easier to meet girls in a college town (if you're not in college)? | TheBattler | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:56 AM |
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| 6 | Is taking an elective to meet people a dumb idea? I don’t need to take the class but I don’t know how I would meet these people other wiseNah who cares, you're in school, everybody is open to meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 02:05 AM |
| 7 | Is taking an elective to meet people a dumb idea? I don’t need to take the class but I don’t know how I would meet these people other wiseThe overall idea isn't dumb but like why don't take out the middle man/men and take classes where alot of women will be present? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 31 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?You joke about it and say 69. If she keeps pressing you (which she probably won't) you tell her that you don't consider her a number. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 11:52 AM |
| 3 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.Nah, it's up to each individual to examine their relationships and see if they're fruitful or toxic and worth keeping up or not. Unless they're a fucking moron, the onus is on the simp not the woman. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 32 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.I don't think the nice guy is such a prevalent thing, and I don't think they're as manipulative as the internet meme makes it to be. Why attribute to malice what could be explained by stupidity/ignorance? I think that most of the time nice guys don't know how relationships develop; they see women get asked out and assume men and women are equal in pursuit, and that romance just sort of happens organically from being friends. Women tend to decide very quickly whether they'd sleep with a man or no… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch?1 was a really cool dude (I didn't sleep with him) MISPLAY | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sHer parents and/or her baby daddy's parents probably watch after her kid for her sometimes. I know a girl like this, and her support net is stoked to hang out with their grandkid for a few days a month. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | The “Scale from 1-10” is bullshit!My scale goes from "sussy" to "bussy" bruh ha ha ha wavy | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:47 PM |
| 20 | Is this a rejection and should I move on with my life?in the mean time it’s okay if I see other people. Yes, you got rejected, move on. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Hooked up with 30 different women since August 2020 got my 31st tonight! AMAI don't think the guy necessarily wants to bang 31 women. The implication of only ever having had sex with 1 partner is that one doesn't have options, very little experience and/or desirability. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?It's a hint such that you should buy them gifts from there; alcohol, chocolate, whatever. Trader Joe's generic label shit is decent, lots of people like their stuf (me included). Pretty helpful to put in a profile, actually. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?Players. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 77 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?Personal experience seems to be the first step towards empathy. Most people with priveleges will never really understand what the other side is like unless they live it. Trans men and bisexual women will often talk about how obnoxious it is dating women over men because they've tried both. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:26 PM |
| 16 | "Don't be desperate" fallacyThe main issue with that advice is it's like telling someone starving not to be hungry. No, it's like telling someone who's hungry not to dwell on it or act like they are. Like, you need to focus on finding food, yes, but hunger makes it so you don't think properly and make mistakes. If you can ignore that feeling and/or make peace with it, you'll ironically be in a better position to get what you want. Actually, in keeping with the analogy, that little bit of social interaction with the firsy g… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 75 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateNext time a girl invites you out with a group of friends, you should talk to all of her friends, figure out who's single, and get their info. Also, if you are in a group of majority girls, you look fucking good to the other women in the club, who you should also talk to. You let a good opportunity pass you by. Girls like that half expect you to sleep with her friends. In her own head, you two aren't "dating" but she thinks you're cool and she probably felt like she was doing you a favor (and she… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”The real answer is women are going to see through your fake confidence at first and reject you and you're going to feel like shit but eventually you'll start to believe and become actually confident. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:20 AM |
| 8 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?Can we talk about dudes talking like they're dating coaches and spewing vague shit like this guy? Lol | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 05:32 PM |
| 9 | School Of Life posted a new video about NICE Guys, If you are one, you must read the comments.Can I ask a question? Can someone explain to me the difference between a nice guy and a regular ass girl? Like, half of this sub is about reading a girls' subtle, indirect communication. We don't shame them for it, even though in most walks of life like in your career being indirect is childish and will get you nowhere. Instead, we're supposed to work with them. Why is the "nice guy" (who I personally think is an overblown, internet boogeyman) derided for being selfish and creepy when it seems l… | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Need help seduction community!I'm a 25 year old super virgin, never kissed a girl just like you. I now work 60-70 hours a week at a couple dollars over minimum wage, never meeting new people, and sit on reddit in my free time talking about my dual action pussy repulsor shield, Age of Empires 2 and Pro Wrestling. Go talk to as many girls as possible. It will hurt, but you will learn and your diamond will be squeezed out from your coal. If you ever feel like you shouldn't ask a cute girl out, think of me and resolve not to end… | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Acceptable places to "take a girl" (hookup) other than your home?I'm the worst guy to ask about seduction advice but I work in hotels. If you take a girl to a hotel, she's going to feel like a hooker. You could take her to a Hilton, she'll still feel like a hooker, just a high class one. You might be able to convince her otherwise with some good game but I can't tell you how to do that. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 05:49 AM |
| 2 | I'm halfway through my senior year, and have zero experience. I'm pretty sure social proof is shot. Should I try to make a comeback, or should I just spend the rest of the year focusing more on improving myself, and pick up the game in college?Are you going to college in a completely different town? If so, then you have nothing to lose. Try everything. Ask out every girl in your school. Fail over and over and learn. You will not see most of these girls ever again; even if you do it will be years from now and if you've become a studmuffin, they will be even more impressed if you grew into one from dork status. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off.By the way, is this sub just for guys? I've seen a few girls post here but since most of the work in a relationship is up to the man, the default audience is guys. If there was an /r/seduction aimed specifically at straight girls, every submission would be "walk up to guy, tell him he's cute, ask for phone number." | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it tougher or easier to meet girls in a college town (if you're not in college)?Thank you. I've been looking for ways to reframe the fact that I'm not a student. My roommates go to the university, so I could always say I'm there retrieving my keys from them or visiting them or something. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it tougher or easier to meet girls in a college town (if you're not in college)?or go get a new hand. I'm thinking about leaving town. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | For guys that approach consistently, have you ever felt inferior?You're welcome man. I hope you've brought her rating down a few notches in your mind. On a moral level, nobody deserves to be held to such high expectations. She doesn't deserve to be thought of as perfect, and you don't deserve to expect yourself to match her supposed perfection. You are not inferior to anybody, and she is not superior to anybody. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 08:01 PM |
| 3 | For guys that approach consistently, have you ever felt inferior?I'm glad you're laughing at this. That means it'll stick out in your mind and you'll remember it for the future. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 07:58 PM |
| 22 | For guys that approach consistently, have you ever felt inferior?You are imagining her as being perfect. Instead, imagine her in your mind but make her into a complete fuck. Imagine her taking a shit, but imagine her taking a shit the same way you do. Imagine her being a bitch to you or somebody else. Like, really berating the cook for something that was her fault. Imagine her room as being completely messy, maybe a used tampon sitting on a pile of clothes. Imagine the faint smell of shit, blood, and urine rubbed on her clothes because she's a slob. Imagine h… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Girls only want to fuck me, but I'm looking for love. Thanks a lot seddit.That's pretty fucked up bro. | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 04:57 AM |
| 2 | When has seduction advice not worked for you?Girls NEVER make the invitations, though. So that means the man must pay the majority of the time? Screw that. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 06:41 AM |
| 1 | So I'm trying to get into my hairstylist's pants...Honestly bro, it's hard figuring out girls who work for tips. They understand very well that if they act flirty and friendly, they'll get more money from you. But at any rate, the picture and letter thing seems kind of cute and if she reacts well to it then she probably likes you. I dunno, drawing someone a portrait seems kind of...I don't want to say intimate, but I guess "personal" is the better word for it and it's something that's really easy to screw up. In every story the best advice is to… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Soooo what's up with /r/RedPill?It's pretty funny that somebody on /r/redpill generalizes /r/seduction inaccurately in a couple of sentences when the rest of Reddit generalizes them in the same way. Anyway /r/redpill is a bunch of dudes who take society "as is." I don't know if I can agree with them, and I don't have enough worldly experience to know if what they say is true but they believe that male-female relations are broken and heavily skewed in favor of females. They use the phrase "sexual strategy" to describe this idea… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 03:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you show intent without coming off as creepy/unattractive?Yeah, men and women have different standards on what constitutes creepiness. The idea is that the two of you can meet somewhere in between. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | 2014 Challange: Turn a Beta into an AlphaAlso the copious use of "lad." | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 07:41 AM |
| 1 | 25 YR OLD Average looking male, slept with well over 50 women.. My perspectiveThis is what you said: Truth hurts fellas doesnt it. Hate all you want, but this guy speaks the truth. And then you go on to talk about the principles of inner game that we already know about. There is no "truth" here because that implies that the majority of us are in falsehood, and it doesn't "hurt" because that implies that we're ignorant of what he's saying, and there's no "hate" and you're deluded if you think there is. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 10:23 PM |
| 2 | 25 YR OLD Average looking male, slept with well over 50 women.. My perspectiveHe speaks vague, anti-PUA internet bullshit. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 09:17 PM |
| 1 | 25 YR OLD Average looking male, slept with well over 50 women.. My perspectiveI'm no pick up artist, I have no idea what the fuck 'kino' or any of that means and frankly don't care. Simply put, it's natural for people to actively LEARN how to do some sort of skill so that's why we classify things and create vocabulary for concepts like that. An old buddy of mine told me when I was 18 (and a virgin) have respect for yourself, be independent, and put your happiness and goals above women, Look on the sidebar for the description of this subreddit buddy:The reddit self-improve… | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Ruling the dancefloor and being the life of the party (while sober).Well yeah, I am upset. You know what I'm not even sure why I commented in this thread at all because it wasn't really all that productive for anybody, and not for me, either, since I always have a bad time at the bars. I should probably stick to daygame. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 07:00 AM |
| 6 | Ruling the dancefloor and being the life of the party (while sober).2) Never stop dancing. Doesn't matter if you're making your way past a crowded area, waiting in line for the bathroom, or ordering a drink. Keep moving to the music. Trust me, people will notice. I feel like this just makes you look cartoonish. Doesn't this border on dancing monkey territory? 3) Don't give a fuck about what other people think. This one is huge. You are dancing FOR YOURSELF. Not to impress some girl, but because you are having a fucking blast. This mindset will be self-evident if… | /r/seduction | 05/10/13 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a scientific study on hints of attractionAwesome! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a scientific study on hints of attractionThanks for this. I'm not sure if it's exactly what I'm looking for but I will read them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a scientific study on hints of attractionI dunno the study, but since you mentioned it, it definitely makes sense. It's not like we, as guys, recognize our own subtle hints. That's true but I've also heard some studies that said women have more parts of their brain devoted to social perception. But then again I can't find these studies. I'd be more interested to see the "hints" that the scientists came up with, and how they were applied to the situation. Because if they included something like the hair twirl as one of the "hints," I'd … | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Dating For Nice Guys: Getting out of the friend-zoneI have a problem with girls I know in real life about this. They make Facebook posts or they talk to me or whatever, and they always say they wan a "mature" guy, or someone who "has their shit together." Then one chick quotes Marilyn Monroe and how you don't deserve me at my worst or one other girl makes cryptic statuses about an ex or my one friend who doesn't have a job and doesn't go to school. I know I just need some new female friends. But it's still annoying that these girls are the ones m… | /r/seduction | 28/05/12 08:25 PM |
| 31 | Trouble when making eye contact, low confidenceYou won't believe it because it doesn't happen enough for you to believe it. Or more accurately, you don't perceive it happening enough. Women are taught by their mothers or by magazines or by SOMETHING to be very indirect. VERY indirect. Most girls will never make it the least bit obvious they are attracted to you. The reason why they do this is simple; if they're indirect, then they don't have to admit that they were attracted to you if you reject them. I went through most of my life thinking … | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 11:52 PM |
| 20 | Still a virgin at 19Question: Will getting laid fix all outstanding issues? No. You see, the reason why you even think that getting laid will solve these problems is because you associate negative connotations with being a virgin. I'm a 22-year old virgin and I will admit my thoughts often turn to the idea of a girl coming into my life and fixing all my problems, but that's completely unrealistic, and the reason why I am still a virgin is not because I am bad with women, but because I got up at 1pm on my day off to… | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What does seddit think?Assuming that everything anon said is true... You attract the people you want to attract. There are 3 billion girls in this world. One guy isn't going to attract nearly a large enough portion of girls to judge all women (at least in the United States I'm guessing) completely. He's slept with over 200 women, but he probably can't take an accurate percentage of the girls who cheated with him. Maybe if all 200 of them had boyfriends and husband she'd be onto something, | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 04:52 PM |
| 0 | So I have the opportunity to watch a movie alone with a girl. What do I watch?Well, I know that it's a movie and you're not supposed to take movies seriously, but I can definitely say that lots of guys (and girls) take cues from movies and pop culture. But you've got the loser main character who can only seem to get on with a High Schooler. That part isn't bad because the other characters in the movie call him out on it. The worst part of it is that a dream girl just falls down into his lap. That's Ramona Flowers. She takes the lead, even though Michael Cera hasn't shown … | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | So I have the opportunity to watch a movie alone with a girl. What do I watch?Maybe I'm too serious, but if I were to call myself a PUA, I wouldn't watch the movie just on principle; that movie has probably swayed way too many young, nerdy guys into complete ahem pussy territory. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him.Sexism is the idea of discrimination based on sex. Discrimination is simply treating somebody differently based on certain traits. Now, don't downvote me yet, because I don't associate negative connotations with most words. Most women and men are sexist towards each other, and on some level, we are always going to be because of our reproductive organs, let alone culture. That's why I specifically mentioned that he's not misogynist. Pretty much everybody is sexist, including women. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 07:20 PM |
| 13 | Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him.I just want to say really quickly before anybody claims the old man's advice is outdated or that he's a misogynist. Technically he's a sexist, but to judge him in a black and white manner against the connotations of sexism is pretty stupid, and I will say why: We are here to learn how to play the game. Gender norms and roles are still very, very firmly in place in most societies. Learning to change it is a completely different thing altogether. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 09:24 AM |
| 7 | What are conversation topics that women enjoy?You can't quite quantify this because women ARE individuals. In general, you make friends with guys with whom you share interest. You need to treat girls you hang out with like you treat guys you hang out with EXCEPT you also need to remember that sex and attraction are interests you two share. When you talk to somebody, you want to relate your own experiences and opinions on a topic to them, right? And when you hang out with somebody one on one, you usually want to learn a little more about the… | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 09:50 AM |
| 2 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsThis sort of depresses me. I know that caring about some guy who draws comics on the internet's opinion is bad, and perusing x-posts' comments is probably worse, but I seriously saw some guy claim that lots of PUAs use the "door pattern," an article that somehow got way more attention on the rest of Reddit than it got on Seddit (where it got downvoted every time it was put up). You rarely see negging here, but then you have other redditors claim that negs are the cornerstone of pickup. I mean, d… | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 10:32 AM |
| 2 | How does one handle Muslim girls?Sure thing, I can elaborate. Your Muslim girl is of Sudanese descent. My parents are Bangladeshi. Both are Muslim countries, and both tend to be pretty piss poor. Reproductive capabilities were seen as valuable and locked up securely thousands of years ago, and without easy access to medicine, contraceptives, and food, they stay locked up until modern days. That's a 3rd world country for you. Parents are the guardians of their kids, and they insist on keeping their especially frail, precious flo… | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 05:16 AM |
| 9 | How does one handle Muslim girls?I'm an ex-Muslim, and I want to reiterate the second point. If you so much as ask her on a date or hold her hand, DO NOT TELL ANYONE. Most likely, she has pretty conservative relatives or friends and if word gets out, it will probably ruin her life. I know Muslim chicks who go to the beach and to parties once or twice a week and have boyfriends, but also pray five times a day and are best friends with conservative chicks wearing hijabs. Minorities tend to stick to one another and Muslims are no … | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.You're riht so I'll scale it back and say something you can agree with: clothes do indicate some of a dude's personality. However, making a judgement immediately without knowing enough facts is close minded. The opposite isnot close-minded, maybe naive. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.Most of the seduction community is online, so those names are basically their screen names. I mean, it's weird, but I've met dudes in real life after first meeting them through a video game or something, and they refer to me as Battler in normal conversation. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.But you're also ignorant and close-minded if you think clothes are a direct and 100% reliable correlation of personality. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 10:17 PM |
| 2 | [RESEARCH] Help her out, being ignored hurts. Make eye contact! (Original source: Psychological Science Journal)I wish more people would make eye contact. I went to the grocery store and a couple of coffee shops hoping to ask some girls out and not one of them made eye contact with me. I chickened out of approaching and got a few punches to my self-esteem because of that. Feels bad man. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Exactly what you should be doing in a club (First 3 minutes)If it works, it's not stupid. If it's stupid and it works, it's not stupid. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 06:49 AM |
| 8 | I keep hearing about "not giving a fuck" - How exactly is this possible for anyone to do? Is it just unrealistic?I for one think that "not giving a fuck" is a myth propagated by too many people in the seduction community. It's not a really negative myth, it's just something that is too vague and will not help you, and it's so widespread at the moment because we're also about self-improvement. It's impossible to not give a fuck. It's simply not how humans work. You go out and have fun, great. Lots of people will tell you that if you just do that, you will get laid. But in order to get laid, you have to enga… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Massive amounts of game (xpost r/skyrim)as long as you can help her relate to it at the same time. You can do this with video games. Video games are pretty crazy nowadays and are pretty much on the same level as movies, and most everybody watches movies. You just have to talk about stuff like the music, the story, the characters, and most importantly the feelings the video game conveys. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 06:22 AM |
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