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LEGO is something my husband and I enjoy together. To deprive the joy and mental exercise from half of the class seems almost cruel.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:13 PM
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I wish I could say I'm surprised. I am married to an active duty military member, and I always see this sort of bullshit happening. As soon as the husbands deploy, the wives go out, troll for other men, and sell their husbands stuff on craigslist and local yard sale pages. Its like a whole subculture of self serving, sociopathic bitches. I really feel for him, man =\
/r/MensRights18/01/15 05:51 PM
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I have a ton of experience arguing with people about stuff Whelp, can't argue with those credentials.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 08:21 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way, but my intention is still the same. I never presume gender about anyone. You have a wonderful evening!
/r/MensRights03/01/15 12:58 AM
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This is just disgusting. Any parent who pits a child against the other parent is emotional abuse. This is a step beyond, though. I hope she does jail time
/r/MensRights03/01/15 12:32 AM
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All I am stating is that doing a mass generalization of one gender does not help the men's rights movement in any way. You're the one who is offended by my statement, for some reason.
/r/MensRights03/01/15 12:03 AM
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How is that referring to their gender? The you in my comment refers to any men's rights activist, of which I consider myself.
/r/MensRights02/01/15 11:48 PM
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I didn't specify your gender, I'm talking about an egalitarian issue.
/r/MensRights02/01/15 08:05 PM
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Just as you do not want women generalizing men, men should not be generalizing women. My husband and I's marriage is equally beneficial, and we both enjoy it, but I'd be just as happy/secure if we were still boyfriend/girlfriend.
/r/MensRights02/01/15 03:58 PM
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No they won't, because in reality those physically able will be the ones risking their necks carrying unconscious people out of buildings while those who aren't will be getting paid the same amount to stand around uselessly.
/r/MensRights15/12/14 04:21 PM
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Just to add to my previous post, my husband and I could've been together four years earlier had his ex girlfriend not accused him of rape. That he raped her a year and a half into their relationship...and she stayed with him a year and a half after that. What actually happened? Her mom caught them together.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 04:31 AM
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I cried. I could picture this child, vomiting in fear, no one but a foster father to turn to. This child, being treated like a monster. I was a thirteen year old girl once, and I thought about boys. I kissed one for the first time at thirteen. He felt my breast. I liked it. My only hope is that the girl in this letter feels overwhelming guilt.
/r/MensRights29/11/14 10:15 PM
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...just like there are groups for animal rights, just like there are groups for salary equality, there are groups for egalitarianism. I subscribe to the feminism sub, I subscribe to this one, and I subscribe to the egalitarianism sub (egalitarianism being the ideal you're asking about). Sometimes there needs to be spaces to discuss specific issues. Do you feel that there shouldn't be a mensrights or feminism sub? That only one for egalitarianism should exist? What about the separate subs for cat…
/r/MensRights20/08/14 08:07 PM
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It's about making sure that double standards don't go unnoticed. It's about making sure fathers have equal say in custody, that men who are in abusive relationships are taken seriously and not made fun of. Some radical feminists (not all, mind you) believe that "all genders are created equal, but some genders are more equal than others."
/r/MensRights20/08/14 07:16 PM
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I find it thoroughly disgusting how much money goes to "breast cancer awareness". The majority of it is for-profit. I used to take a great deal of public transportation and would see posters for various causes and charities. The only time I ever saw one for heart disease was for a womens' hotline. Does anyone know of any organizations for the awareness of men's heart disease?
/r/MensRights15/04/14 08:14 PM
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Excuse me? What sort of way is that to speak to someone? I have muscular dystrophy that is hurt by the heat, and if i happen to wear a tank top I should be able to go out without getting glared at. I thought Men's Rights was about egalitarianism, and the right to feel safe amongst both genders.
/r/MensRights15/04/14 08:03 PM
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Very happy to see the gender neutral terminology! We had something similar in the bathrooms on my husbands old base!
/r/MensRights15/04/14 07:43 PM
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You do not glare at a woman's breasts in public. I could understand if they were at your eye level and they over reacted...but openly looking and admitting to it? That's not okay. EDIT: There's a difference between a quick glance at a girl walking by and looking at a group of teenagers sitting on a bench. I would feel the same way if a group of teenage boys had their shirts off and were sitting on a bench, and an adult woman was staring at them. The way that OP wrote his post made me feel like h…
/r/MensRights15/04/14 07:40 PM
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It's a documentary about a whale at Seaworld who has killed three trainers.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 12:29 AM
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I know people are calling you out on this post but I believe you. I attended a CUNY for my bachelors and we also had just a women's center. We once had seminar called 'take back the night' and when I asked them "what about male victims?" I was yelled at by the speakers on stage and my CORE professor asked me to leave.
/r/MensRights31/12/13 03:04 PM
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I'm a woman, happily married. I don't disrespect the hard work my husband does, and I'm not "gold digging", especially since I'm more educated than him and have different job prospects. Ill admit, I can be a bit of a baby when I'm sick, but that's the most "advantage" I take over him. I've always been a big supporter of egalitarianism but this post is just offensive.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 07:09 PM
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Says the link to egalitarianism on the side bar
/r/MensRights23/12/13 05:11 PM
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What? MR is about making sure men have the same rights as women, not taking rights away.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 04:48 PM
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I'm married to a Marine, and you always see the wives post to our bases wives' Facebook page when their husbands are deployed, selling cars, motorcycles, even uniforms!
/r/MensRights25/11/13 05:04 AM
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Unfortunately there isn't. Funny enough, though, if the spouse that's in the Marines cheats, he can get in legal trouble and his job and ability to be promoted will be in jeopardy.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 07:46 PM
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I'm the wife of someone in the military. I was on our local bases wife's selling page a few months ago (a page where wives can sell used clothing and whatnot) and one woman was selling an xbox 360, a PS3, a truck and about five pairs of jeans while her husbands unit was deployed. When she was called out on it the wife said "he's not here, I can do whatever I want." Sadly, just last month my friend spotted her in the craigslist personals section. Her husbands unit just came back home, but I stay …
/r/MensRights06/09/13 07:15 PM
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Sometimes marriage does work. If you want to have children, and be married, it is possible to do it without getting fucked over. I'm sorry that there are such horrible women out there, but some of us believe in not being terrible people.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 05:47 PM
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Married woman here. My advice to you is to be very stingy with your trust. During the dating process, does she lie to you about seemingly small things? Is she overly curious about how much you make, or seem to take advantage of your monetary generosity? Does she get mad when you ask her if she'll sign a prenuptial? When you're arguing, does she try to 'get back at you'? (As in, if you forget your six month anniversary, does she "forget" to do the dishes or "forget" to get you a birthday present)…
/r/MensRights25/07/13 01:13 AM
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I'm a hetero woman and I've been more than welcome into discussions on here, I don't see why a legitimate man wouldn't <3 By legitimate I mean you, OP. Screw anyone calling you "fake".
/r/MensRights27/04/13 04:40 PM
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Hm, I had two male teachers in elementary school (4th and 5th grade honors, respectively), and I always wondered why there weren't any male teachers prior to 4th grade...
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:35 PM
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I find it interesting how the men were laughing about it, but the woman was the only one who spoke up. perhaps this could be a take on gender accountability? A bunch of guys don't want to be seen ganging up on a pretty young girl?
/r/MensRights11/03/13 04:27 AM
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Of course, but he's really easy going. I could be hysterical crying about something stupid and he's still there for me.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 01:18 AM
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More often than not, my husband winds up dealing with my hormonal bullshit. Gotta love that guy...a real trooper.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 11:40 PM
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Not that it's a "woman's job", but shouldn't a partner worry about and care for their partner and their illnesses, including educating themselves on it?
/r/MensRights10/03/13 11:38 PM
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To me, I wanted to be family with my husband. Sure, his last name is common, and mine wasn't, but I also hated my family so it was easy enough to change my last name to his. Honestly? I feel like this issue really only matters if you intend on having children.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:41 AM
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Yes, I read that, too. That she wanted more money, but then "backed out" when she grew too far along. In this case, unfortunately the parents have to go on good faith with the surrogate. I don't think there's a lawyer in the world that would have drawn up a contract with an abortion clause, or if that's even legal.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:29 AM
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Feminists want equality, but when it comes to things like parental rights, spousal abuse, child support, and workplace issues, women always come out ahead. If a woman starts beating a man, and he hits back in self defense, people tend to think this is horrible. If a woman gets pregnant by lying about her birth control, and the man doesn't want the baby, he is stuck for eighteen years paying child support. If women want equality, they should want equality on all fronts, or admit that there are in…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:26 AM
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The way I believe they had it set up, was that she would be paid around 2k a month while carrying the baby, and then a lump sum at the end, to encourage carrying to term. They were willing to pay that lump sum for her to terminate. They wanted her to terminate because of the disabilities that showed up in tests.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:17 AM
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This story disgusted me on so many ways. Lets list the health issues this baby has: Cleft palate Deformed ears A brain cyst Several heart abnormalities The brain itself is deformed, and does not separate into two separate hemispheres Many of the organs are in the wrong place Two spleens, neither of which work properly There is a 50 percent chance this child will not walk, talk, or be able to use its hands properly There is an even greater chance that, if it survives, it will be developmentally d…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:06 AM
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Right? His reputation was pretty much ruined in that old circle of friends. He's the sweetest, most caring guy ever, though. Is she trying to do anything worse than just "saying" he raped her?
/r/MensRights09/03/13 02:13 AM
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I'm a victim of molestation, and the reason that I wasn't able to date my husband four YEARS ago was because his ex told my whole family that he raped her. What happened? HALFWAY into their relationship she was worried about her aunt coming home, so she said she wasn't sure if they should continue, but they did, anyway. She never pushed him away, said no, or anything. According to him, she "enjoyed" it. They continued to date for a year and a half after that. We spent years having to be friends …
/r/MensRights09/03/13 01:51 AM
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Thank you! I think it's important to use International Women's Day to also discuss the inequality that men have been facing. To appreciate what we have, and make the world a better place for everyone, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights08/03/13 06:18 PM
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It's a delicate subject, because the courts are considering the child. I think they should monitor how child support is spent. Mothers all too often use it in ways that won't benefit the child.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 07:01 AM
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He can't do that if she's in the military, though. Regardless of who her dependents are, if the military wants her to PCS, she will PCS (permanent change of station).
/r/MensRights06/03/13 12:10 AM
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Perhaps, instead of trying for "full custody", have a lawyer write up an agreement stating, again, IN WRITING, that should she deploy, you would have temporary full custody. You never know what would happen. As for her PCSing, I'd see a lawyer about that as well. The military offers so many things for single parents, but depending on her MOS, whoever is watching him is probably going to spend more time with him than his actual mother.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:55 PM
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Do you have partial custody? I'm trying to imagine what she would do when she deploys...if you're all out of state, who would watch the kid? I think it'd be much easier on the child if you had custody once she PCSes. This will be more important once he is school-aged.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:18 PM
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How old is your son? Does he go to school on base? PCSing is VERY hard on children...if he's old enough, it might be prudent to see what he wants.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:12 PM
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You ever hear the saying "no news is good news"? The stories posted on here are horrible, and it's disgusting that things like false rape and forced fatherhood even happen, but no one is going to make a post saying "I love my wife, she loves me. We respect each other and treat each other as equals." You're going to run into many, many shitty women in your lifetime, but some of us aren't like that. Some women actually want equality, and will not screw you over. I suppose you just have to put your…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 01:56 AM
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Does anyone have context behind this video? I've tried googling, but I can't seem to find anything.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 04:43 AM
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Okay, that's fine to hold that opinion, but must you resort to simplistic name calling? I was stating an opinion, just as you are.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 07:37 PM
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That's just silly. For every insane story you read about, there's the one you don't read about where the partners care about each other and their rights.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 05:46 PM
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That's why the smart ones among us are for "gender equality", not feminism
/r/MensRights21/02/13 10:37 PM
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Yup, this was at the college I attended. I used to follow my ex (then boyfriend) into the unisex bathroom all the time, because it was way cleaner than the women's one.
/r/MensRights20/02/13 02:52 AM
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Hey now, I think that's a little unfair. I'd assume a man who has married a woman would trust her enough to not need to use a condom every time. Back when my husband and I were dating, I had the Mirena IUD put in while he was in boot camp. I sent him a letter containing my planned parenthood receipt, and my Mirena appointment card. After that, he has never had to question my trustworthyness. I would assume any man getting married would have that same level of trust.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:00 AM
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Why? Because both genders are represented?
/r/MensRights16/02/13 10:30 PM
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I believe RES shows both the upvotes and the downvotes. My husband uses it but change in UI makes me itchy!
/r/MensRights16/02/13 05:05 PM
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I really feel the poster was trying to highlight the fact that both women AND men get assaulted. Unfortunately if they used gender neutral terms most people would just think it was about women.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 02:50 PM
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Are you in the Air Force? I see the Air Force guys in their cloud Camis all the time.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 07:16 AM
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I don't know what that means...are you in the Marines? This was in the ladies room in Portside, next to where the a&w and Taco Bell are.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 07:12 AM
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Are you here? Oh! What branch?
/r/MensRights16/02/13 06:50 AM
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I don't know...I'm from the east coast, and right now I'm in the Florida Panhandle and I've heard it called both.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 06:48 AM
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Haha, nope! Stalls, toilets, mirrors, distinct lack of paper towels...the usual!
/r/MensRights16/02/13 05:41 AM
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Sorry, I felt it was weird to say 'bathroom' as it was a public toilet. I suppose restroom would've been the better word.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 05:31 AM
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I was happy to see that this poster made sure to highlight that anyone could be a victim, but I was ESPECIALLY happy to see this coming from the military. There are so many women that heartlessly take advantage of these military guys and their steady pay/health benefits...not to mention the stigma against men reporting sexual assault/abuse. I just never want to see any of them, especially my husband, get taken advantage of.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 04:44 AM
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I'm not enlisted either. Husbands a Jarhead >=] Tricare, ugh, tell me about it.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 03:46 AM
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Glad to see that! We've had a recent stint of rape/sexual assault cases over here, so I had assumed it was exclusive to this base. I suppose it's a military wide campaign, which is even better!
/r/MensRights16/02/13 03:41 AM
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I just posted this to a group of military wives I'm a member of on Facebook. They all got really upset at my opinion, saying it is his fault and that he deserves to be punished for his mistake. When I brought up the monetary factors they had an "oh well, he's an idiot" attitude about it. I've never felt so alone.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 02:12 AM
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The school should take Becky out of this "shop" and place her into a different one, after suspending her. It would be HIGHLY irresponsible of your school to continue to allow Becky around children, especially with proof that she's willing to manipulate the system like that. How is she supposed to be any role model for children? Not to mention what the child must've gone through mentally when being questioned about the supposed touching.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 12:24 AM
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Does anyone have an article or something as to what happened in this situation? Was she in trouble?
/r/MensRights25/01/13 11:45 PM
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Save for cases of documented child abuse, that honestly makes me sick.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 11:15 PM
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Wait, so you're telling me if a man doesn't have the right to see his child, he STILL has to pay for it? He needs to fight it. If he has to pay, at the very least the mother can let him meet who his daughter is now.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:07 PM
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...which is why I explained it to him/her?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 08:07 PM
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Permanent Change of Station. For example, say he was stationed with his until in one state, he'd get assigned another PDS (permanent duty station) and have to PCS (change) from his old PDS.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 10:26 AM
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...I'm so sorry, I truly am. I really hope everything with animal control works out. I just wanted to let you know that this post has stuck with me for the past few hours. How horrible a person she must be...
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:43 AM
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Hey, I used to work for animal control in NYC. If you call the ASPCA, they will send control officers out. Do you have any sort of access to the house to allow them to look for signs of abuse without having to get a warrant?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:01 AM
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Well I meant in a case where she wants to be an equal to him. In a case where she wants chivalry, he should be able to request traditional womanly activities as well.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 01:53 AM
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I think this should be defined by the relationship. If the woman wants chivalry, she can't expect to be "equal". If you want your man to pull out chairs for you, you need to pull out chairs for him. If you want him to bring you chocolates on one date, you need to bring him some on another.
/r/MensRights04/09/12 01:25 AM
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Isn't it, though? He has done an amazing job at fixing up the economy, much better than McCain would have done. The massive debt that Bush put us in can not be fixed overnight, and anyone that thinks it could have been done in four years is foolish.
/r/MensRights30/08/12 05:55 PM
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The economy being fucked like that is largely thanks to the president that came before Obama, and a lot of the trouble Obama has had with fixing those mistakes is due to republicans in office overwhelmingly going against him. Not saying Obama is the best thing ever, but he is certainly better than the alternative.
/r/MensRights30/08/12 12:40 PM
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While I disagree with your reasoning behind the woman taking the mans name, I do believe that two married people should have the same name. If you're marrying someone, you're becoming part of their family, and they are becoming part of yours. I never understood why married couples wouldn't want to share a name....no matter whose name it is.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 03:42 AM
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Thank you very much =]
/r/MensRights22/07/12 10:25 PM
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Does anyone have a link to this subreddit "srs"? I've tried to find it but can't seem to.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 10:10 PM
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I'm a woman and an Ashkenazi Jew. Do I win?
/r/MensRights16/07/12 01:47 AM
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Ah got it. Just to clarify I didn't think anything was wrong with his age...
/r/MensRights30/06/12 08:08 PM
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This has everything to do with mens rights. Thank you so much for sharing this touching story. I'm curious as to why they felt a 25 year old was old enough to foster a 10 year old, though...did the system change recently? I had a friend who wanted to foster, but at his and his wifes age, they said they could only foster a baby/young child.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 06:29 PM
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Have you SPOKEN with her about this yet? Start with a simple "I love you very much, I want to marry you, lets talk about this debt." If she loves you, she'll be understanding, and will be willing to sign documents to keep you from being responsible in the case if a divorce.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 03:40 AM
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I think this brings up an important question; is it okay for a woman to not work while married even if she has no plans of having children?
/r/MensRights09/05/12 10:21 AM
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This is absolutely disgusting. I am so, so sorry this happened to you. If it helps, one time I [F] was in Toys R Us in the city buying Sea Monkey's and a little girl was lost and crying by the science stuff. I took her by the hand and started to walk with her to customer service when her mother ran up and started screaming at me. Maybe it's just a mother thing?
/r/MensRights06/05/12 05:01 AM
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As a woman, I 100% support this movement. Before you go saying this is a "hate group" on feminists, you should read through these posts. A majority of them have nothing to do with women.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 09:29 PM
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thanks!
/r/MensRights05/05/12 04:23 AM
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They wanted to put a "mini wal-mart" in Manhattan, but it was turned down. We have way too many mom and pops here, it'd destroy them.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:32 AM
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I'm in New York City. We don't have one here, and don't plan on having one!
/r/MensRights05/05/12 02:20 AM
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Of course! One of my favorite websites. I'm so glad we don't have one of those in the city.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 07:53 PM
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I'm sure that, had this been an actual story, and the perpetrator was female, the media would blow up about how the cop "unfairly" shot her. Great job with bringing this up to the class! Do you mind if I use this example in one of my media classes?
/r/MensRights04/05/12 07:18 PM
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Just for quoting a song that gets constant play on the radio? When I was in jr high, the song 'my humps' got a lot of play, and the other girls ran around school singing it, and never got in trouble. I think the boy should have been sat down and told why the song is inappropriate for a six year old. To send him home is sending the absolute wrong message.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 07:15 PM
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Well...they are shopping at Wal-mart....
/r/MensRights04/05/12 06:42 PM
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I used to hate having special accommodations for being a girl. I remember in gym class the boys had to do push ups, but the girls got to do these special push ups where our knees were on the ground the whole time. Now, though...I realize that this was necessary. The boys in my class naturally had more upper body strength, and whenever I tried doing "regular" push ups I embarrassed myself. I'm not saying that women CAN'T do regular push ups...I certainly can do them now...however, at that age, it…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 06:41 PM
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I recently had a facebook argument with another girl about Men's Rights. She was trying to tell me how horrible all the people in the movement are. I asked for proof, and she linked me to this subreddit. I asked her if she actually read any of the discourse located here, and she never responded.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 04:20 PM
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I'm sorry but, you need to understand how the abortion pill works. When it worked on this poor girl, she had the worst cramps she ever felt in her life, she bled, and lost the baby...and most likely was scared out of her mind. I do believe in a mans right to fight for an abortion, but this is just awful.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 04:36 PM
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That women are naturally weaker and more emotional? Oh honey, you should meet my ex boyfriend.
/r/MensRights30/04/12 09:29 PM
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The important thing to do is find a loving partner who agrees with your ideals, and raise your children showing them that equality, no matter what, is a good thing. If you take your son to one of these events (which I disagree with, but it's not my place to tell you where to take your future son) and there are protestors, explain to him why they are protesting, and why you don't agree with them. He'll come to his own conclusions.
/r/MensRights30/04/12 09:25 PM
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You know...I'm never shocked at the stupidity of omegle chatters.
/r/MensRights30/04/12 09:19 PM
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That's certainly true, I didn't consider that!
/r/MensRights30/04/12 02:24 AM
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Unfortunately humans, by nature, are stubborn. The only thing you can do is make the most objective, reasonable argument you can. Although my viewpoints might have something to do with my lack of female friends.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 07:17 PM
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I completely agree with your grandmother, and I think it's amazing that she is passing down this sentiment. My boyfriend and I met on Facebook, first, but I doubt he would have asked me out the first time if I didn't have my most attractive photo as my profile picture. When we met in person, even though we had amazing, ten hour long conversations, I made sure to wear my sexiest dress, and I spent an extra amount of time on my makeup. Yes, we were attracted to each other on an emotional and intel…
/r/MensRights29/04/12 07:12 PM
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A man that becomes a father should be able to, before the baby is born, say he wants NOTHING to do with the baby, and sign that right away. At that point, and only that point, should the man not be responsible for child support. If he wants to be in the kids life, however, he should help out in taking care of it financially. UNLESS he is the primary caretaker. In that case the woman should pay child support.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 07:06 PM
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Why would you date someone so insensitive?
/r/MensRights29/04/12 05:36 AM
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Thank you! I completely respect you and your relationship. More relationships need to be like this.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 04:43 AM
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Right now I'm in a position to spend more money than my boyfriend, so I pay for all our dates. If anyone has anything to say about how I "deserve better" they can stick it up their butt. A partnership is about making life equally as easy for both parties, and that's all I'm doing.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 09:09 PM
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Agree!
/r/MensRights28/04/12 05:32 PM
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Well of course there are factors other than the physical. Due to my polycystic ovarian syndrome, my weight is often fluctuating...but there is no MEDICAL excuse for a 300 pound weight gain. That's entirely self control issues, and it doesn't make for a healthy relationship.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 05:02 PM
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I used to act in a similar way...I'd be all sweet to my SO in private, but when we were in public, he'd try and be close and I'd push him away, and laugh when he said sweet things. Once he explained how it hurt him, though, I realized that I wanted him to be happier more than I cared what other people thought.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 02:49 PM
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If "the girl you love gained 300 pounds", it's completely understandable if you fall out of love with her. obviously she had no self control....what other parts of the relationship is she ruining?
/r/MensRights28/04/12 02:40 PM
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Thank you! Subscribed!
/r/MensRights27/04/12 11:29 PM
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Something about this article really rubbed me the wrong way. I think there was a Seinfeld episode about it...it's okay for women to not have higher degrees and date these supposed "alpha men" but women with higher degrees won't date a guy who is, as the article claims, "average"? That's just plain awful. EDIT: innate intelligence and compatibility should come first to education/salary, not second.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 09:45 PM
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I don't understand the joke. How do you train someone using cheap ass paper towels?
/r/MensRights25/04/12 03:07 PM
1

I'm having the same problem, but with me it's trying to stop looking at men as objects of power and protection. I consciously know that men shouldn't have to fit that white knight ideal that feminists have carved out for them, but subconsciously I seem to always turn to that in times of trouble. I find what really helps me is reading all the posts on here about how much men that are being forced into certain situations are hurting.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 01:16 AM
1

Actually, I'm a woman...and it's hard to take your post seriously if you're going to berate those that reply.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 12:42 AM
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I'm here to learn about mensrights and to adjust my outlook on gender rights and gender equality. I'm someone who used to jokingly hit my guy friends or tell a guy who was upset to "be a man" and I don't want to be like that anymore. I may not agree with EVERYTHING I read on here...but this subreddit has really turned my whole outlook around. Also, the most important issue for me is for men to get an equal chance at custody. The stories I've read on here have brought me to tears.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 12:03 AM
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For what? Giving constructive criticism? I agree...and tell this to feminists all the time. they're wrong, and have a warped sense of entitlement.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 11:57 PM
5

Wait, why are these qualities wrong in either men or women? Pinks video isn't saying "you can be this or that", it's saying "don't fall for the MTV portrayal of what a successful woman is". Which, unfortunately, includes being a stupid bimbo and being with a man just because he has money.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 09:05 PM
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I'm not saying that's what's true, I'm simply saying that may be what the article is claiming.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 03:14 AM
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I think you're taking this the wrong way. I'm pretty sure this article has to do with the fact that men, overall, have more/better healthcare coverage.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 09:50 PM
1

EFF this article! (I'm a girl) I have four rats, one ferret, three parrots and one dog, and I would not even CONSIDER dating a guy unless he was not only okay with that, but also either had his own companion animals, or really wanted them but just couldn't keep them due to time/space issues. A man wanting a ferret is sneaky? That gives a bad name to not only men, but also to ferrets.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 06:51 PM
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Make sure our lawyer knows that you have not been able to skype with your daughter as promised. I wish you the best of luck with this, and I'm so sorry your ex is being so selfish.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 06:48 PM
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I figured...and agree!
/r/MensRights16/04/12 09:37 PM
2

How does this man know that the two felt pain? He does not, at any point, mention how far along his wife was.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 03:20 AM
8

I recently made a post here on reddit about my frustrations in the industry I work for. I feel as if I've gotten my past two internships because I am a woman, rather than for my skills...due to the fact that, when I left my first internship, my boss specifically set out to find a female replacement, due to the 30:1 ratio of men to women in the office. I don't want to take away a job from a man that's more qualified just to fit some quota...
/r/MensRights16/04/12 02:02 AM
2

Hah, please. To be honest, he holds back compared to what she does to him.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 09:04 PM
2

I agree entirely! Unfortunately it looks like my brother might end up like yours.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 04:24 AM
2

Why was it not okay? She slapped him and punched him and banged a broken door against him.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 09:51 PM
4

I've begged him to leave her...but they've been together for three years and claims they're madly in love. It's hard to watch, but there's nothing I can do.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 08:39 PM
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Well, I don't think it'd be appropriate for me to answer, being that I am a woman who has hit other women....but I would like to share about my brother: His girlfriend, every weekend, seems to fight with him. She would punch him, kick him, break picture frames over his head. One time he pushed her out the door just to get her to stop and my father nearly kicked him out. Fast forward to a few weeks ago. She slapped him over something, and he pounced on her, grabbed her neck, and kicked her in the…
/r/MensRights14/04/12 05:23 PM
2

I don't see how he could even consider that to be RELATED to rape. He had a friends with benefits partner, she wanted more emotion from the relationship than he was giving it. That night when she apparently didn't want sex, she should have said. It is not the authors fault that this girl wanted to cuddle instead...she should have VOICED that opinion.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 04:53 PM
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What if during intercourse a woman removed the condom without the man knowing? I'm not saying it wouldn't be noticed...but it is a possibility.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 06:30 AM
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Oh, wow, okay...if that's the case...she needs to be in therapy. You can be there to support her, but you shouldn't be the outlet for her anger. Offer to go with her if she won't go alone. From what I've read, some rape victims tend to blame the gender as a whole, rather than the single rapist. If that is the case, it could compromise your entire relationship
/r/MensRights13/04/12 06:06 AM
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I read the transcript. For someone that has loathed Rush for as long as I've known him, I found what he wrote to be surprisingly insightful. Of course, this is just a snippet of a transcript, and it's entirely out of context...grumble grumble
/r/MensRights13/04/12 06:01 AM
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Have you shown her some of the literature on here? If, after that, she doesn't understand and continues to belittle you, tell her you don't want to be in an emotionally abusive relationship, which is exactly what it's bordering on right now. I'm sorry, but in this day and age, she can't be living by those old gender roles. You DON"T have to take it just because you're a guy.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 05:51 AM
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To be fair, women sometimes need that leave time medically. Although I fully support paternity leave as well.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 05:49 AM
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You need to sit that girl down and ask her how much it'd hurt if you said those things to her. I was always the kind of girl that would hit a guy if he said something sexually or unfunny. Not hard, but hard enough to make him say "ow". I realized, after reading the posts on this subreddit, that if the shoe had been on the other foot, people would ostracize my boyfriend if he were to hit me when I said something, jokingly, similar. If she doesn't understand it, than maybe she is looking for the k…
/r/MensRights13/04/12 05:23 AM
2

Even though it is her last chance at biological children and, at the time, he willingly gave his sperm for the IVF?
/r/MensRights12/04/12 11:20 PM
0

That's a good point, but calling her a "bitch" is just as easy as saying his new wife is the one initiating this. We don't have all the facts. I suppose adoption is always an option, especially at her age.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 06:17 PM
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I'm trying to find the article, but it seems that many women going into starter positions (something I'm interested in, due to the fact that I am graduating undergrad in May and looking for my first full time job) start with less pay BECAUSE they don't ask for higher pay. Men, apparently, will ask for a higher starting salary. This isn't the original article I read, but Link: http://www.forbes.com/sites/timworstall/2012/01/13/the-problem-is-that-women-just-dont-ask-for-it/
/r/MensRights12/04/12 05:37 PM
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So she doesn't want child support, these are her last chance for biological children, AND he initially agreed to freezing these embryos prior to their divorce? I see no issue with this whatsoever. I wouldn't doubt it if the new wife doesn't want children around that threaten her own in any way.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 05:27 PM
1

According to the article, the case is either still on going or they settled. Regardless, this is entirely unfair. There should be laws on the books to allow men to protect their sperm during non-vaginal sex acts.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 03:30 PM
2

I feel that if you are having vaginal sex, you are taking a risk of getting the woman pregnant. However, in a case like this, where the woman agreed to ORAL sex and then used the sperm to impregnate herself?! That's horrible! According to the article, she was reprimanded for doing something so stupid, but it looks like they settled.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 08:16 AM
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A friend of mine that participates in the big brother/sister program explained to me that their requirements are really strict, and that anything said in the interview could be seen as bad. A mother hearing that the "big" in question didn't want to keep the little away from the father might fear that, in an act of political righteousness, he might take said child to go see the father. While that father might be a kind hearted person who divorced a bitch, he could also be an emotionally and/or ph…
/r/MensRights11/04/12 10:52 PM
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Could you maybe compromise? Have her buy her own ticket, but pay for her dinner? I mean, I usually pay for all my own stuff, but if you are asking her on a FIRST date, it might be nice to pay for her dinner. She can't expect you to pay 70 dollars for a ticket, though. Any good girl would understand that.
/r/MensRights11/04/12 03:09 AM
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They had just done a powerpoint presentation and asked if anyone had any questions. I raised my hand, they called on me, I stood up and said "I understand that women need protection, but what about men? Not once during that whole presentation did you mention abused men'. She then said something along the lines of 'well, we're a woman's group'. I then said back 'So it's impossible for you to be compassionate about abused men?'. That's when the yelling started...
/r/MensRights11/04/12 02:30 AM
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He said "You're in university now. You need to respect whoever is in front of the lecture hall, and act like an adult." I'm pretty sure he was involved with this Take Back The Night group, which is why they were doing the seminar for a history class...
/r/MensRights11/04/12 02:21 AM
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From what I've read, it seems that the brain does not fully develop until age 25: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=141164708 I'm not an expert on the subject, of course. It's why I'm waiting on making major decisions...such as marriage, buying property, etc.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 11:30 PM
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The brain isn't fully developed until age 25....There are certain decision making skills that just aren't there, even if it's an "older" child.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 10:50 PM
8

It wasn't even like he really hit her. She broke a picture frame over his head...that was okay...but him pushing her out the door?! Outrage! I'm a woman, but even I think that he had every right to push her after that.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 10:47 PM
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That is exactly the answer I got! The women got overly heated and started yelling about how what happens to men is insignificant compared to what happens to women. I've watched my brother for years get abused by his current girlfriend, but the moment he fought back my dad kicked him out...no justice.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 09:08 PM
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When I was a freshman in college, we had a seminar for one of my classes for some group called "Take Back The Night" which was trying to end violence against women. They spoke about the statistics of women in abusive relationships. I raised my hand and asked why no one was talking about men in abusive relationships, and the women running the seminar got so mad that my professor escorted me out of the lecture hall...I'm pretty sure it's a lost cause with groups like that.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 06:51 PM
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Wait, what did she mean by "I had to carry heavy crap cross campus and no one offered to help". I completely understand that women can get friendzoned (it, of course, happened to me)...but what does that have to do with someone helping her? Does she assume that men only help women when they have a hard on for them?
/r/MensRights10/04/12 07:16 AM
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