TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

TheBiss Archive

View 2 posts and 195 comments by TheBiss on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
67

TheBiss/r/MGTOW26/02/17 03:06 PM
5

Red Pill ExampleTheBiss/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:11 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
10

She showed up for our court date, started a sob story to the judge about how she wasn't sure that she wanted a divorce. My mind immediately went into crisis management mode (explaining what I found out to be multiple affairs over the course of our marriage), when the judge said, "The state of North Carolina has given you a year to get your affairs in order, and as we are a one-party state, the court rules for the plaintiff. Divorce granted. Best of luck to the both of you." As we were leaving th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/19 12:19 PM
15

Ain't nothing wrong with asking advice from people with more experience than yourself. Granted, after receiving advice, you then have to make a decision. As I've told my kids, "Make a decision. Success is just a decision away." But going it alone when you're surrounded by experience, is ignorent.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 06:45 AM
68

My ex-wife wanted to try to work things out after I found her cheating and filed for divorce. I told her, look you have already broken my trust. You don't get to go out alone, except to work and the grocery store. You don't get a telephone that stays locked from me. Your privacy is gone. And the fact is I don't want to live that way, constantly feeling like I have to check in on you. I'm going through with the divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 12:46 PM
1

Wake up. Go to class. Everything else is ancillary.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:13 AM
1

Good luck getting into college.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:32 PM
50

Teen dating is a waste of time. Better that you spent your efforts on academic results.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:44 PM
1

Love my children, but if I had it to do over again I would definitely get a vasectomy at the age of 18.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:08 PM
5

Better to have figured this out at 26 then at 46 like I did, after she burned through all I had and then started branch swinging for more. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 04:45 PM
3

I was able to plate a gal I had a crush on in high school. Met her at a bar one night after I got out of the Army (Iraq vet, and the cockiness that comes along with it), bought her a few drinks, and took her back to my apt for the night. We enjoyed each other's company until she moved to Tennessee later in the summer.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:27 PM
4

Yep, a girl that's really into you will bend over backwards to be with you.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:23 PM
1

17
/r/askTRP28/05/18 12:21 PM
3

My now ex wife of twenty years went AWALT and destroyed our family, just for the tingles.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:00 AM
54

... up...
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:26 AM
2

I have done this on a plane, and it is actually a very comfortable way to travel.
/r/MensRights05/04/18 12:19 PM
1

I became very Taoist in my mid-forties after having lost my relationship of 20 years. I began to accept that things were simply the way things were; to go with the flow, see where life took me.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:12 AM
2

This... My gal can be sloppy and dripping one second and then BANG dried up after she's gotten off a few times. I keep a tube of astroglide in the bedside table for these times.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:14 PM
7

AirBnB brought me an addtl $600 in November with a 30% rental rate. I keep Mondays and Thursdays unbooked cause those are the nights during the week I have my daughters.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:22 PM
1

Go to jail for years or get the boot from school... Let me not think too long or hard on this.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 03:39 PM
6

Once a cheater... well... you KNOW the rest.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:07 AM
2

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:09 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:07 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:07 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:04 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:04 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:04 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
1

I remember being 17 in 1988 and thinking, "Man, this sucks." Then my 20s were better than my teens, and my 30s even better than the 20s. The 40s have been best yet, except for a small incident a few years back when my now ex-wife went AWALT. As you get older, your perception of time speeds up. Life won't drag in 2 decades nearly as bad as it does now.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:03 PM
16

This is an issue of youth, and lack of life experience. In our 20s we have to feel like we're the master of our own ship, forging ahead with clarity of vision... except we completely lack the vision we need to forge ahead, so we blunder along blindly through the peasoup fog that is the lack of experience in life. What OP fails to understand is the temporaryness of his situation. The fogs too thick right now for him to see what may be right in front of the bow of his ship. What does it mean to be…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:33 AM
7

Best words of advice I've ever gotten were from a friend when I was in a shitty situation, "Biss, you've been swimming up a waterfall... stop swimming and see where the water takes you." Thus began the happiest years of my adult life.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:15 AM
1

Cops have the unenviable task of implementing the laws enacted by our commissioners, legislators, representatives, and senators. If you have a bone to pick, how about making it with the lawmakers, not the law enforcers. What a sad system where a lawmaker's career is judged on how many laws he can sponsor or co-sponsor. When I ran for mayor, I ran on a platform of bringing stupid laws and ordinances before the board for removal from the books. Didn't win, but I used the exposure as a bully pulpit…
/r/MGTOW06/10/17 02:13 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not. If it helps get frauleins in the sack, does it matter?
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:08 AM
1

Here's my review of it: Yes, it smells nice. Yes, it may stain... Let's get past that blah blah blah and to the crux of the matter. Does it work? Short answer... most likely yes. I've been to several singles meetups while wearing this. The non-manhater women seem to spend more time talking with me than the other guys who come. Even the man-haters seem to want to talk (argue) with me. Saturday night I thanked Jean for the "opportunity to verbally spar with her." Last weekend I wore it to a duelin…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:47 PM
-2

I tried this product that I found on Amazon called Raw Chemistry and I will tell you that my game (whether through scent or subconsciously) was increased exponentially. I found that my success rate with digits and plates went through the roof when I put this on. I swear by the stuff.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:36 PM
1

It is a shipping store like the UPS Store. Yes they offer mailbox rentals. But as a Postal Annex business owner, it is a lot of work, and a lot of liability.
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 06:00 PM
8

3rd party shipping like PA is a tough business to be in. The customer holds you responsible for all of the fuck-ups by USPS, UPS, and FedEx. I was in that industry for five years, and was very glad to be out of it. They are going to lose a shit ton of money.
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 12:23 PM
38

I'm sure glad an associate did this for me. 2 1/2 years later, she's now my ex and I'm happier than I've ever been. Im grateful to my colleague for having the fortitude to do so.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:55 AM
1

That's the power of The Pussy for someone who doesn't value themselves as their first priority. She was a good lay, but in the 2 1/2 years since we went our separate ways, I've had much much better. He's selling himself short, and doesn't even know it.
/r/MGTOW27/09/17 12:28 PM
2

My ex wife's affair partner, the man she was running around with for whom I divorced her, called me to tell me that he caught her cheating on him. She's a histrionic narcissist and he's a codependent. I don't wish the guy any ill will, because they'd been dating for three months before he found out she was married. She totally played his ass. She views him as a retirement account; the proverbial walking wallet. I took a few moments on the phone to outline all the crazy fucked up garbage that she…
/r/MGTOW27/09/17 12:21 PM
12

You gotta be kidding me. Wow...
/r/MGTOW21/09/17 08:22 PM
20

Service guarantees citizenship! Would you like to know more..?
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 04:02 AM
11

About six months ago I got a call from a FWB, "Biss, I'm pregnant..." Oh wow Holly, I'm surprised to hear that. Have you told the father yet? What was his response?
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:20 PM
3

Good God!
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 01:48 PM
2

I was part of an improv comedy troupe called the UnIntentionals. It was much like Whose Line is it Anyway. I'm not sure that any of the people in the organization were there as a "self-help project." Several of the troupe were actors in the local community theaters, and already had a tremendous amount of experience on stage. I guess it couldn't hurt, but you need to have a fast brain and a sharp wit.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 08:05 PM
9

'I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve.'
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:46 PM
1

LTR of one year: 4-6x a week.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 01:40 AM
9

My situation was a bit different. We were married, one daughter a year old, and another on the way. I really wanted the kids to grow up in a stable dual-parent household, so I gave her a choice: Seek counseling or pack and GTFO. She sought counseling. But the dish was broken, and while I could forgive I could never forget. A couple years ago I found out through the grapevine that she'd returned to her philandering ways. All the kids were older now, and even starting to leave the nest. This time …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:27 PM
1

Three daughters. I wouldn't do it again knowing what I know now. Do yourself a favor and go see the urologist about a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:22 PM
2

The best words of advice I received from a friend after two decades of marriage and my wife went AWALT, were, "David, you have been trying to swim up a waterfall. Stop swimming, and see where the water takes you." I have taken a very Taoist approach to life now. Life is what it is, and my place is to remain mildly amused by it, no matter what it brings me.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:59 PM
1

Find the local redlight districts if you're that hard up. For cost of drinks for a night w some rando-gal, you've got a guaranteed disease free lay. My buds and I did this regularly when we were stationed in Europe. It was cheaper than having a dependopotomos.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:28 PM
1

An hour away is a dealbreaker for me. Along with single moms of children under 10, teachers, psychologists, and counselors.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:23 PM
2

Vitamin D
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:57 PM
1

she just turned 19... I had correctly guessed her n-count to be 8 The odds are good, but... well...
/r/askTRP24/08/17 03:23 PM
1

Initial reaction: She's dating someone else steady and got a bad case of The Feels. You'll not see her again.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 02:07 PM
2

Couple of reasons. 1. She gets very very lubed up when she gets excited. 2. It doesn't smell like urine and has a more viscous appearance. Reminds me a lot of precum in color and appearance. I think a LOT of these squirters on PornHub are probably pissing, and I suspect it's probably somewhat rare to have a real squirter. But it's a lot of fun.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 09:28 PM
4

Hah, no doubt. I found out later she cheated on me with one of my trivia night buddies as well. AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 06:35 PM
1

I'm 6 and 5/8 and no woman has ever complained...
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:11 PM
8

My current LTR is a squirter. She was very self conscious about it until I told her to just let go and fucking drench me. Now we change the sheets pretty often.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:23 PM
1

Concur. I met a tremendous amount of women through different hobby, interest and singles groups on Meetup. Still takes effort though. You can't just go to these, sit in the back saying nothing, and expect results.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:39 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:34 PM
7

My working wife cheated with multiple coworkers while on the job... Next!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 02:25 AM
2

This was my situation as well in 1989. Joined the Army to GTFO. Perfect time for it as well; Soviet Union is collapsing. Germany is getting ready to reunify. I'm going to drink beer and hang out with frauleins in Europe! Hah! Nov 1990: The 2nd Armored Division out of Garlstedt DE is redeploying to the Persian Gulf. Whoops! There's no beer nor frauleins in Iraq! If you do enlist, aim high. Join the Air Force. Looks like we might be tangling with the PDRK soon.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 02:12 PM
4

It's just your integrity at stake... do with it as you please...
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:47 PM
-1

Look up kareeza... takes a lot of the pressure off the act of screwing.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:11 PM
3

Even a fool is wise when they shut the fuck up. – Proverbs 17:28
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 07:23 PM
4

That was my thought as well. Idiot person. She didnt ask him, didnt want to know, and the fool blurted it out anyway.
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 05:02 PM
1

Divorce granted. Best of luck to the both of you... (bangs gavel)
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:40 PM
10

I've never met a bigger bunch of whiners, complainers, bellyachers than teachers. I don't need to sit for an hour and a half on a date listening to how terrible the job is. The icing on the cake was when I agreed to go out with a school guidance counselor. Aw hell naw...
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 04:30 PM
6

I have three rules of dating: No women w/ children under the age of 10 No schoolteachers No counselors / psychologists / psychiatrists
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 03:12 PM
27

No kidding. AFter I filed divorce against my branch swinging ex-wife, those are THE EXACT WORDS she gave me about how to treat my three teenaged daughters. I told her she was out of her gourd, and that that was the LAST THING our daughters needed. I told her what our daughters need is to be taught self sufficiency and resilience. When my oldest turned 16, I went to her bedroom to roust her from bed, "Good morning sweetheart. It's your birthday! Happy Birthday! ... Get a job!"
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 03:08 PM
3

"He hates these cans!"
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 09:48 PM
1

Brilliant synopsis.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 09:33 PM
2

46 and only recently learned to never ever NEED someone.
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 04:41 PM
2

Early Gen Xer, and it happened to me...
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 03:03 PM
2

Damn, they are brutal.
/r/MGTOW19/07/17 07:16 PM
1

40K casualties in the US alone every year. Imagine if there was a drug that benefited all 330 million people in the US, but killed 40K of us a year. FDA would have a field day with that and NEVER approve it.
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 04:54 PM
2

The push for reconciliation by friends and leadership has actually pushed me away from the evangelical fundamentalist church I was attending. Folks like the Meisner's make me ill now.
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 08:44 PM
1

I got this from A LOT of my churchy friends. " You know Dave, God's in the MIRACLE business... Hosea took back Gomer..." Yeah, well I'm no prophet! I'm taking my Mosaic escape hatch on this one! Even the ex tried to pull churchchat on me. "I've been reading that reconciled marriages are better." Well you need to stop torturing yourself by reading that drivel. "Other people don't call it torture. They call it hope." I HOPE that you understand that your HOPE is misplaced. I hope that you get out o…
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 08:39 PM
21

Taoist theory was ludicrously helpful to me in dealing with an AWALT wife and the subsequent divorce. My friend Curt told me, "Dave you're trying to swim up a waterfall. Stop swimming and just see where the river takes you." Brilliant!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:22 PM
2

I'm in the same place. 46, two years out from a divorce, and found one that I think I want to hold on to for a good long while. I established ground rules: No cohabitation while I still have custody of the kids (three more years), and no marriage license will be signed, ever. I told her I didn't NEED her to MAKE me happy, but that her happiness augmented mine and filled in the rough edges. She feels the same way. As such, I've decided to nestle down into this relationship for a while, enjoy it f…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:34 PM
2

Sounds good to me. You should be her focus the whole date.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:50 PM
6

I called it my Mosaic escape hatch. And if someone ever mentions the prophet Hosea to me again, I'm going to deck em...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 12:52 PM
2

Same situation: I call those One and Dones. You'll have plenty of them. Don't let them throw you off your game. Women are fucking flaky and will tell you one thing and do another. For every 3-4 dates I went on with different individuals, I would find 1 who was interesting enough to go out with a second time. Ketchup analogy: You bring a burger and fries to your customer. You ask them if they want ketchup for their fries. The answer is either Yes or No. Maybe they don't like ketchup on their frie…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 03:03 PM
9

Married, you should not get. - Yoda
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 06:57 PM
1

As a father of three daughters, I have SERIOUSLY contemplated starting a female scouting troop that utilizes the Boy Scout curriculum and goes camping once a month.
/r/MGTOW01/07/17 04:36 PM
1

For your sake, I hope it doesn't. It's the absolute pits. But on the bright side of things, the past two years have been the happiest of my adult life.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:39 PM
1

The everloving fuck...
/r/MGTOW29/06/17 01:45 PM
1

I would have written the same exact thing at 12 years of marriage. Man alive things were going great! Here's a woman that I'll be with the remainder of my days... She flushed two decades of marriage down the toilet for a Chad with a thicker cock and wallet. AWALT. Caveat emptor.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:24 PM
3

Daddy took off when she was two. Attention whore. Caught lying on multiple occasions. Spent a lot of time out with her girlfriends or at "bible study".
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:43 PM
1

Oh no doubt. The flakes are the ones that I referred to as "none and done." Ran across my share of them as well.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:25 PM
2

I've dated a good amount the past few years. Plenty of "One and Dones" and some great plate spinning action as well. During that time I've only met two that I would consider good enough to be LTR'able, one of whom I am with currently.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:04 PM
3

No doubt.... There is a marked lack of resilience in the OP's post.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:57 PM
3

Concur. I had an LTR last fall for several months that I had to put on indefinite hold as my ex-wife was causing issues for me and I didnt want to drag her through it. Told the ex I was going to sue the fuck out of her and her boyfriends (yes plural) if she didn't leave me alone. Finalized all the garbage, and moved on. LTR and I are back together again for the past three months and things are much better. She waited for me, without telling me that's what she was going to do.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:32 PM
4

Dont shit where you sleep (or work).
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:13 PM
10

Never ever NEED anyone. I was talking with my LTR about this the other day. I love her and care for her, but don't NEED her to bring me happiness. I'm happy with myself as I am, and she is with herself as well. However, when we are together, we augment each other's happiness and fill out the edges. It's a beautiful thing
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:31 PM
10

6.5" puts you easily in the 70th percentile here in the US. Walk around knowing that you're bigger than nearly 3 out of every 4 men you pass on the street. That should help your mental swagger a bit.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:39 PM
3

Post divorce, I got involved in the community theater. Tonight is the post performance cast party for The Curious Savage, for which I did the set design.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 08:52 PM
3

Most of the US states are this way as well. We call it "no fault" divorce. But as the title of this thread suggests, things are sometimes a little odd here in NC.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 08:38 PM
15

Alienation of affection is the intent to destroy a marital relationship, so that the tortfeasor can have a relationship with the spouse. Criminal conversation is the act of having sexual relations with a married person. It's pretty arcane tort law, and only a few states in the US maintain these on the books. Fortunately for me, North Carolina is one of them.
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 08:22 PM
24

NC also has alienation of affection and criminal conversation laws on the books. These two things saved me $40,000 when my ex wife decided she wanted to extort more from me before she'd sign the divorce papers. I told her fine, but that if I was going to spend $40k on her, I was going to do it in a way that best benefited myself and my kids. I was going to take her moneybags affair partner, and her boyfriend (separate people), both to court and sue them for 3x the amount of money she was request…
/r/MGTOW23/06/17 08:15 PM
1

After finding out I was being cucked in a 20 year marriage, I kicked her to the curb. Decided to focus on my happiness and being true to myself. After a few months, found myself beta-orbiting a girl I'd crushed on for a while. I thought, "Why am I doing this? This is ridiculous, and it's not making me happy," then I promptly friendzoned myself with her. Shortly afterwards I found this forum.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:53 PM
2

From what I've read, anything above 6.5" is in the 75-80th percentile... your cock is bigger than 3 of 4 guys around. It's probable that your gal's just been with those other three guys.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:22 AM
2

When people I haven't seen in a while ask me about my ex-wife, I just smile and say, "She wanted an open marriage without my knowledge or consent." Then I laugh and move the conversation to something else.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:07 PM
3

...guys have needs. So you fooled around when you told her you would stay in a relationship, but it's not okay for her to do likewise? Is that what I'm reading?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:19 AM
2

I encouraged my branch swinger (now ex) wife to get very comfortable in her relationship with her affair partner for this reason. If she's happy with him, and stayed that way for the year we were separated, it made it THAT much easier on me. AND with NC's tort law, I could use alienation of affection and criminal conversation against him as a bargaining tool if she pulls some crazy shit at the end of the year. At the end of the year, she got crazy and started demanding a large payout before she …
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 07:11 PM
6

Thank you for not being a Jody.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 01:16 PM
1

Yeah, I find myself in a similar situation. She said to me, "My body belongs to you anytime you want it." She fixes dinner, buys me model kits, is not totally fucking crazy and no daddy issues... but I continue to remind myself that AWALT eventually, I have to enjoy it while it's here.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 01:00 PM
2

I heard it's one month for every year. I'm two years single after 20 years married and EASILY over her for a long while now.
/r/MGTOW19/06/17 03:08 PM
6

I know, right? Nothing sadder than a cowboy who can't keep a filly in his corral.
/r/MGTOW19/06/17 03:06 PM
3

Married 20 years. Found out she was cheating and kicked her out in July. By November I was ready to date again. So four months? She'd cheated before, and like an idiot I thought she would change. Went through counseling and all that BS. A couple months after she moved out, she said to me, "You're taking this remarkable well." Kept my frame and said, "I had a dress rehearsal for this five years into our marriage. I knew what to expect emotionally, was prepared for it, and have gotten over it. Hav…
/r/MGTOW19/06/17 03:00 PM
5

Im 46 and coming out of a 20 year marriage after my ex wife went branch-swinging AWALT. I'm pulling more tail now than I ever did when I was younger. It only gets better!
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 02:47 PM
4

There are some folks for whom lifting and frame aren't going to cut it. They're just not made that way. OP even states he's been "studying game since 2009 with zero results." Then screw the game. There is ZERO things wrong with going your own way; doing what you want to do when you want to do it. MGTOW is ALWAYS an option for those folks.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 05:07 PM
-10

MGTOW... fuck em, you dont need em.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:45 PM
3

FUNFACT: Meatloaf recently opened up that the ONE thing he would NOT do for love, was getting pegged. That is all. http://waterfordwhispersnews.com/2017/05/05/meatloaf-confirms-but-i-wont-do-that-was-a-strap-on/
/r/askTRP04/06/17 01:50 PM
8

Don't. NEED. Her. How many more times can this be repeated? At least once more for posterity's sake: Don't. NEED. Her.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 04:49 AM
1

As a whole they absolutely loathe being on top I guess I must be one of the fortunate ones then. My current girl freaking loves it on top. She'll climb aboard the love rocket and get off five or six times. This morning I said to her as she was convulsing one more time, "I wish you could experience the view from my perspective. It's amazing!" Her eyes rolled back in her head and her thighs starting shaking and she replied, "Ttttthis.... this is .... amazing enough!"
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 04:30 AM
1

I consider it to be an Alpha sans women. Chicks dig the alpha male, and he fucks em. Chicks dig the omega male and he doesn't care. The omega has better things to do than worry about some clinger-on.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 03:04 PM
1

Your posting history says otherwise... I run up the BULLSHIT flag.
/r/MGTOW02/06/17 03:31 PM
1

Unbearable? It should be EXPECTED!
/r/askTRP27/05/17 10:39 PM
2

Yep. My now ex wife of 20 years went AWALT. I have a great gal two years later who is all about me, but she knows that marriage is off the table. If she wants my company, she has it. If she wants to move on, that's fine. I don't need a legally binding agreement between myself, another person, and The State, ever again.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 10:37 PM
2

I've always equivolated Omega with MGTOW in my mind. "Fuck women, they're all the same. I'm going to go do whatever the hell I want."
/r/MGTOW27/05/17 05:05 PM
3

Hah! Reverse psychology... make deflowering you into a game, a challenge. I like it!
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:30 PM
5

I had a plate call me with the same problem. My response to her was, "Have you told the father yet?" She said that she had, and I was glad of it, because I had a vasectomy and I KNEW I sure as heck wasn't. I did go over to her house and console her a bit. Held her, told her it's going to be okay. She wanted to carry the child to term. I said there were LOTS of people who would love to raise a beautiful child as their own and provide it with a stable, solid, loving household. Had she considered a…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:24 PM
1

Got one 15 years ago after child #3 was born. After 20 years of marriage, exwife AWALT'ed. I will tell you that my vasectomy has been a beautiful MILFtastic thing the past two years. When your partner knows that she's not going to get jacked up late in life with another baby no matter what, it puts her mind at ease and makes for some freaky-deekie times.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 03:21 PM
1

Indeed. And they're good for a few rounds. But the amount of The Crazy you have to contend with, knocks them out of the running of me.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 09:15 PM
1

All the female psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors and schoolteachers I've met have been messed up.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:14 PM
1

Oh yeah... Freaky deeky; for me, and I found out after the divorce, for a MINIMUM of 8 other guys as well during our marriage... Shiznit! STD clinic, here I come. (Clean by the grace of God).
/r/askTRP19/05/17 08:49 PM
1

...until you wind up MARRIED to daddy issues. Then it ain't so fun anymore. This was 20 years ago, so please cut me some slack. She suckered me into a marriage proposal.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 08:37 PM
2

Daddy issues suck.... I'd much rather date a daddy's girl than one with a single mother.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 12:26 PM
5

Happens to a lot of guys. I was with a long standing plate last weekend at a party I was hosting. Everyone had gone home and she wanted to play. Too tired, too drunk, too whiskey dicked.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:28 AM
4

Yeah, I'm never cool with someone cheating in an established monogamous relationship. Its a violation of trust no matter who does it.
/r/MGTOW18/05/17 05:10 PM
3

I was with my ex for 20 years before she AWALT'ed. We have three kids together that we coparent, so stay in communication. We're actually pretty good acquaintances now. Some of my friends ask how we can stay on good terms, considering how much branch swinging she did during our marriage. I tell them, "The biggest problem I had with our relationship, that is: our relationship, is no longer an issue. I am no longer emotionally, mentally, physically or financially beholden to her. That's freeing."
/r/askTRP18/05/17 01:59 PM
1

Define "girlfriend" for us if you would please.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 10:19 PM
1

Going with A on this one... Too many known variables to screw up.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 02:42 PM
1

I'm older, 45, and not on the top of my game. I generally give it 3-5 dates. If she's not DTF after going out 5x, it's time to friendzone and next.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 02:44 PM
2

Don't. Cheat. in an exclusive relationship.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:04 PM
2

I've been in this situation with my best friend in college. I told him that I thought the marriage was ill-conceived, that he should back out, and while I would attend, I would not be his best man. She cheated on him. He married again. I went again. Was not in the wedding party again, She cheated on him. AWALT
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 07:36 PM
31

You know, I never stopped to ask myself WHY she was bathing NUDE on top of her house within eyeshot of the king's palace. Fucking AWALT.
/r/MGTOW10/05/17 03:10 PM
2

Sounds to me like it's best for you to focus on yourself these years, work on a good career, put some money in the stock market, and go out cougaring. It's generally easier IMO to lay the older gals than a college slut. We all seem to have been there, done that, and got the T-shirt. We know what we want, we don't want to put up with a bunch of rigmarole and gameplaying. I'm very forthright about it, and tell the women that I'm interested in "just being friendly." I'm not interested in marriage, …
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:57 PM
3

In the 30s, yes. I have heard dating in the 30s referred to as trying to find a parking spot at the shopping mall during the Christmas rush. Everything is already taken, handicap, or too far away. However in the early 40s, women start going AWALT, having midlife crises, and branch swinging. There is a plethora of good looking, intelligent women on the market in my location here in Raleigh. Downside is, they all have children. I do not date anyone who has children under 10 years old. I also try n…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:40 PM
3

but because of what it will mean for my future wife. It means; you've got a 50/50 chance of getting raked o'er the coals. Flip that coin... Hedge your bets, but know that it's a fools bet. I thought I had it made in the shade with my wife of 20 years, and then boom, just like THAT she was gone overnight.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:20 PM
5

The older gals are better in the sack as well...
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:54 PM
5

My question: how have you older men set up your life to allow you to keep gaming girls across the age spectrum? I don't. I keep my age range of relations within 7 years plus or minus of my 45 years. I found the girls younger than 38 or so to be flaky AF, and while they were prettier than the 47-49 year olds I've dated, I couldn't deal with their drama and gold digging, and nexted them. There's a reason cougaring is a thing.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:53 PM
3

45 - Happiness comes from within. If you're expecting someone else to MAKE you happy, you will always be disappointed. My 20s were better than my teens. My 30s better than the 20s, and so far the 40s, save my weird weird divorce after 20 years (AWALT), have been the best of all. Looking forward to the 50s. I explained it like this to my kids: Life is a river. It's going to take you where it wants to go. One one side of the river is a sandy beach where you can pull off, have a picnic or campfire,…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:48 PM
9

In its defense, TRP was VERY beneficial for me after my wife of 20 years went branch swinging in a MAJOR way, and I divorced her ass after finding out. It helped me, after two decades of marriage to a feminist SJW, to reestablish who I WAS, and to understand that I don't HAVE to be married to be happy with who I am. I learned that I am desirable and worthy of being pursued. MGTOW has shown me that I can be happy alone, and that I don't REQUIRE the presence of a woman to lead a full and happy lif…
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 08:59 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 06:23 PM
1

To drink beer and screw frauleins.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 04:16 PM
4

...kicks at the ground, and mutters, "Jawohl mein Fuhrer..." (We talk about freedom and all, but really... how many of us are in an emotional position where we can go to Levenworth for disobeying an order; or as a civilian, have our families imprisoned, property confiscated, and maybe tortured ourselves, for an ideology. Here's to the new boss. Same as the old boss.)
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 04:08 PM
4

The military term for Chad is Jody.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 03:59 PM
14

I would be one of those veterans he's referring to. (A Co, 2nd Bn, 66th Ar Regt, 2AD (FWD) Hell on Wheels, 1989-92) We were the peacetime Army you referred to, that went to war. And I learned something in the process. War's a racket. It makes a small group of insanely wealthy people even more so. Shit, I would propose that the last legitimate war we fought was WWII. As Eisenhower said, beware the military industrial complex.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 03:57 PM
9

Spiritual follower of the teachings of Christ.
/r/MGTOW03/05/17 06:52 PM
1

Wilco.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:23 PM
1

But does it have the wealthy population centers that will support that kind a venture? It needs to be far enough away from a big city that people feel like they are "getting back to the land." But, not so far away that they lose cell phone or Wi-Fi connection. Location location location.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:51 PM
5

You will never be truly wealthy working for someone else. Never. I have been self-employed now for seven years, and I am semi retired at 46. I started several e-commerce websites, and a bulk food store. I would say on average I work about 4 1/2 hours a day. My house is paid for, and my vehicles are paid for. My five year plan involves something very different from what I'm doing now. I am going to open a glamour camping experience yurt village, with bed and breakfast and day spa. I'm going to ta…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:44 PM
1

Yeah, it's pretty fun. Concur.
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 06:44 PM
1

What's amazing is so many of us on here had mentally tricked ourselves into thinking that AWALT, except our beloved wives. They fulfill and complete us. Some of us even post threads about how our "wife of 10 years" is so very dedicated to us. And we delude ourselves into thinking this day after day, year after year. Until... the day we hear those words come out of her mouth, "I want a divorce." Fuuuuuuuuuuu...
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 06:26 PM
44

10 years ago, I would have written the exact same thing. I had an honest, Godly, honoring women. However, at 18 years, she decided to start branch swinging. AWALT.
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 08:50 PM
2

Ah yes, monk mode. Forgot about that.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:05 PM
1

MILFs are better. No hangups, they've been around the block. They know how the apparatus works. In sex, experience is gold. No games, fewer shit tests.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:02 PM
1

You go through a year long dry spell, and you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:28 PM
2

I may not go 100% dutch, but I will say, "Let go half."
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:01 PM
6

Needs a tl;dr
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:33 PM
1

Vlad the Poker agrees. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR2rGt_4T4A
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:23 PM
2

What makes it worse is when you find out it's your wife of 20 years... You dodged a bullet son.
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 04:23 PM
5

Seems to me like a vasectomy would be a good idea for any true blue (hah) Red Pillers. I went and got one, and yes, it's knocked me out of the running with some women whose uteri done be achin' for a child, but more often than not, it's considered a value-add by a plate.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:08 PM
6

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Doesn't matter the gender. Once they get a little philandering bug in their married blood, it doesn't go away.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:49 PM
3

45 years old here, and this was my first thought as well. My initial thoughts were, "Yeah, add about 10 more years and you'll have the changes you desire." I was in the same place as you at 16. I felt like a mayfly; 24 hours to fuck and reproduce, before death. "I gotta mate! I gotta mate! OMFG I gotta mate!" I thought that scoring would be the end-all-be-all to my existence. And yeah, it's fun, but now it's so de rigor, that it's really no longer a passing thought. "Oh yeah, you want to screw? …
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:27 PM
10

Sorry… The whole unit was deployed to Iraq, and the E7 led a forward detachment back to our post in Europe. There, he Jodiefied two or three wives from our company. What goes around comes around, and he eventually found himself in the service of PFCs.
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 12:50 PM
6

We had an E7 platoon sgt busted to buck private for stuff like this.
/r/MGTOW24/03/17 12:17 PM
21

But... but... propaganda? Amiright?
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 01:00 PM
2

That's almost exactly what she said. She told me she was scared to "die old, angry, and bitter like her mother."
/r/MGTOW20/03/17 02:17 PM
12

I'd be doing a lot of future guys a favor.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 07:21 PM
25

That's what I told her. Reality cannot compete with an idealism. She was comparing the worst of me with the best of him.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 07:19 PM
36

I'm sure she'll get what's coming to her. It's not my place to judge, but I know what goes around comes around. My goal is to live the best life that I possibly can.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 07:17 PM
10

Booyah... always a cheater. I guess he figured not all women were like that.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 05:45 PM
119

He texted me, "She told me last night she never loved me." "Welcome to the club, buddy. The only thing that she loves is herself."
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 05:03 PM
11

A club to the head would've been more appropriate.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 04:50 PM
108

Very true. She fucked around on her affair partner too. He texted me, telling me what she did. I told him,"Listen, if you're going to be with her, you have to put up with her shit."
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 04:16 PM
119

My last words to her in divorce court were, "You brought this on yourself. Own it. Learn from it. And go out and be a better person."
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 04:13 PM
202

Her exact quote was, "I thought you were going to fight for me." Yeah, fuck that.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 04:09 PM
316

My ex-wife was honestly surprised when I cut her loose after finding out she was cheating. I asked her what the hell she thought I was going to do. She responded that she thought I was going to chase after her.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 03:31 PM
5

Creates an entitlement attitude.
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 09:11 PM
3

MGTOW wasnt as prevalent in 1992, for sure.
/r/MGTOW27/02/17 01:04 AM
1

I will submit that I have raised daughters to respect all people, including men, and not seek to take an immoral advantage of them.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:26 PM
1

Better way of putting it, I'm sure
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:24 PM
11

How do you suppose that being financially independent, whether you are a man or a woman, and dependent upon no one else, is bad advice?
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:23 PM
1

They have that priority until they are 18. I would do the same for a son as well.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:21 PM
7

Why encourage them to perpetuate a system that abuses 50% of the population?
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 10:20 PM
3

Why did she cheat? It was her nature What is AP? Affair partner Did she come from a single family home? Yes, her father was an abusive alcoholic and left when she was two.
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 05:37 PM
2

Machakos is a town in Kenya, 63 kilometres southeast of Nairobi. Ooh, eeh, ooh, ah, ah, ting, tang, walla, walla, bing, bang Translation: Go smear yourself in cow dung while jumping one one foot, and you will produce a child.
/r/MGTOW23/02/17 03:06 PM
5

When I was stationed in Germany, we had a joke about soldiers who married German women. Wake up every morning and say, "thank God I married a German." And then one day you wake up, turn over, look at your wife, and say, "oh God I married a German."
/r/MGTOW17/02/17 07:35 PM
2

I got one in my early thirties. Very convenient.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 01:06 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter