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TheChadofChad/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:31 AM
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You don't seem to have the capability of finding support based on your post history. You seem to spend too much time comparing yourself to others. What is the use of comparing yourself to others if you are so confident in your ways of thinking? Despite your claim to have abandoned the Red Pill philosophy, you still embody the superiority complex associated with it. If you actually want to attract females, consider opening your mind a bit more. Your mind's inability to STFU has thwarted every opp…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 06:25 PM
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Many of us came here to gain clarity from other former Redpillers. Your offer is appreciated, but I would be surprised if it gains any traction in this community. TRP was a choice. We werent born with it. I value the perspectives of other Redpillers who have walked the path of the Redpill.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 09:03 PM
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Chances are you are cold because you are emotionless. Be strong with your emotions. If you are passionate about something, it should be obvious by how your talk about it with emotion.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 08:58 PM
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Why is it important to know? When vetting communities, it is important to keep this in mind. It's commendable that you are open minded and looking for a community to belong to. What made you think the Red Pill would be a good option for you?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 06:22 PM
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Hypergamy is a woman's (or man's) desire to increase their ranking in a class system. As a first point, hypergamy is only a matter of perspective. Secondly, class systems and hierarchies exist. When you scroll through Instagram admiring super cars and hot chicks, the hierarchy of wealth and physical attraction will determine your values. Third, your values attract the opportunities you desire. Your opportunities will be a reflection of your values! It's important to know we are at a unique time …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 02:34 PM
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It takes a lot of acceptance to truly process the Red Pill. In order to accept a new idea, you must also process all the emotions that will accompany it. For you to truly experience the Red Pill, you must accept that your current reality is a house of cards. One of my biggest realizations was that the Red Pill is also a house of cards. I felt alienated from other people and unable to connect authentically with them when I took the Red Pill. After finding myself stuck in the RedPill, I decided th…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 12:19 PM
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Doesn't matter what I say, only what you say matters.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:43 PM
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It's time to stop limiting your beliefs by labeling yourself as dull and boring. YOU cant change your personality, because YOU dont believe it is possible.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 02:02 PM
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Your past must be addressed and dealt with. I checked your past posts. It appears that you have unresolved issues that require professional guidance. Due to the fact that you don't know how to love yourself, you expect too much from others. It is likely that you are giving too much of yourself to others. How can you expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 06:45 PM
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In the past, I've always thought the Redpillers contradicted each other. Women with high SMVs are often praised, then dismissed for not being able to sustain values for long periods of time. Should we pursue these women at all if they aren't going to last? Women with low "SMV" tend to have better traits that boost their SMV for longer durations. The majority of red pilled men only pursue women with high SMV. This is due to their pessimistic attitude. The don't believe in their own abilities to m…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 12:42 PM
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I can't imagine what you have been through, because I have never experienced it. It sounds dreadful honestly. It also sounds like you've been given a unique opportunity. A true clean slate. There are just as many men who are getting it slowly and painfully. They married a tiger who slowly feasts on their flesh. She ate good bit of you, but there's more than you think left. You are still living and capable of making a new life. You will never have any the necessary drive when you anywhere close t…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:51 AM
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WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE? THIS IS THE RED PILL. AWALT. That is how you get over oneitis. You still have not recognized or experienced AWALT. Too many of you "swallow the pill" without learning the foundations. Learn them, so when you do walk through life like every other soyboy does, you can recognize, experience and understand TRP. There's a difference between finding the pill and swallowing it. Too many of you are still holding it in your hand. She was no different from the others. The new ones are …
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:34 PM
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You have a lot of personal shit you need to sort out. You need to dig deep into our mind and find out why it is you think the way you do. You need to come to terms with what you want now and what you want in the future. Know that some things take time and most things (like eating mountain of food) can wait until you are older and more alone. If you can't wait to figure out, then just jump. You are still standing on the edge, waiting to jump, worrying about the fall and uncertain about what could…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:46 AM
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You should feel even more guilty for posting this.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:22 PM
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I'll save you some time on hinge. NOPE every single girl until your profile is empty. If you she likes you, she will pop up in your 'likes' tab. The others are not worth your time, trust me. After a week you will have a clear indication for the kind of women you attract. Delete account. Take new pictures, new prompts, new approach. Repeat until you start getting better comments/likes. I can guarantee your profile is garbage and you are portraying yourself poorly. No selfies. Use group photos wit…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:43 PM
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If you still feel the desire to draw the ones closest to you to RP theory, then you still have a lot of growing to do. Because of that, you are in no position to draw people into it. You are not ready to be a mentor. Exposing him to RP theory without an adequate mentor could do much more harm than good, especially considering his age. If your father comes to you for advice or help, then by all means show him the way. Never give unsolicited advice. Give only if people are asking to receive. At th…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:38 PM
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If you have to ask, you already know the answer.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:21 PM
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Well at least she has to have sex with you. ...Because of the implication
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:58 PM
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You are colorblind.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:53 PM
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Learn to pump from different angles ***Find your spot. Enjoy yourself, do not worry or think about her enjoyment. Do not exert any extra effort to find her "spot". Once you have mastered the ability to enjoy the great pastime of our ancestors...Then learn how to make it better for both. You will probably get bored before ever reaching that stage, so just do you.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:23 AM
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Good question. I was getting tired of the "my girlfriends is a bad person and idk what to do" BS. So, thank you. Know that significant change will require signifcant investment of time / money. I would recommend Ju Jitsu. Research local farmers markets. They usually are very active on Saturday mornings. Plenty of talent out there. Try, just try something...anything.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:20 PM
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...then don't
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:01 PM
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She may be interested in you, but ask yourself this instead. Is there a part of her that hopes her flirtation might earn her a nice tip? Better question, if you gave her a big tip, is there part of you that thinks she will wave you down and give it back because she was only flirting due to her actually liking you? Oneitis is an illness, eventually you will build immunity to it. You are showing symptoms. Overthinking how to approach. Just do it, shes the same as the others. Treat her as such. Let…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:22 PM
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You found the red pill, but you are still looking at it sitting on the counter! Take it ...or throw away.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:19 AM
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She recognized him. Whatever the previous interaction between them was, your brother didn't reciprocate interest. She thinks she's a 9 because her orbiters keep inflating her ego. So to her , she got a shot at your brother and needs validation. ....or she's just ovulating.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:47 AM
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Text like you did before? Sounds to me like you texted too much to get the lay. Texting is for logistics, you know this. If text game is contributing that much to you getting laid, I can only wish you luck in keeping your plates spinning. Know that if you consistently respond to texts, she will expect consistent replies. Everytime you comply you are entering her frame a little more. Before you know it, you will have no control. Don't text and definitely don't "change your game". I can start to s…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:23 AM
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It is bad because it was not her idea. Let's say you gave her a dodgy excuse. She would then assume you were lying and probably "too tired" because you were up all night with another girl. Let her mind generate that scenario from your unclear responses. You need to let her imagination create the idea. However, if you tell her how to feel, it effects you negatively. With your future plates, keep it mysterious and vague without blatantly saying "I am the shit".
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:04 PM
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Bail. Don't go back to a girl you turned down. You are in for a world of hurt from shit tests and frame control. If not that, she plans to poke a hole in your condom. The whole "you had your turn" principle applies to all of them, no matter what. Your turns up. It's an uphill battle you are fighting; desperate guys fight uphill battles.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:26 AM
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(AWALT) Make her have a high SMV then primal instincts kick in. She becomes attracted to the alpha male. The alpha male has a different meaning depending on the person. She may not see abs, fame or power as alpha traits. Those alpha male traits that "belong to him" may all be under her control through her manipulation. She may be foolish to think she doesn't need him to maintain said traits. Bottom line, he was lacking somewhere and she went to find it. Probably was just attention / infatuation.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:11 PM
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DM her social media and ask for her number
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:41 PM
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When you decide to start a family (as a man) your life purpose becomes selfless. Many men secretly desire it. They have roamed around their entire lives with no purpose. Start a family and the purpose is found, but YOU are not a part of the purpose. I suppose the theory is the JOY outweighs the FRUSTRATION. Other RP men, may be able to provide some insight on how to focus on yourself while being a father / husband. I don't see a way to find the peace you seek without the "social consequences".
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:32 AM
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I get where you are at, been there. How would you act if you were this ab yielding, physically appealing Chad you speak of? How would you act if you were at the top of your game? Act like THAT, now. Adapt to the red pill mindset, believe it! Never let up, man. Live it! Know that your mindset will eventually get you where you want to be. Stick to it. Before you know it, all the ones that didn't will want you and at that moment... You may realize how pathetic your mindset is right now.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:00 AM
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I've never established that connection before, but it's possible. With less plates or none at all, I too tend dive deeper into self improvement. When I am thriving, I tend to indulge in the lesser productive activities.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 12:34 AM
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I know where you are coming from, brother. I am even larger than you, I understand the stigma of being a giant. Men do jump on opportunities to belittle you, it makes them seem a little more alpha than you. Consciously, they don't care about you at all. However, on a subconscious level, they do need reassurance of who is the alpha male. Everytime you walk in a room you are the first candidate. If you fail, you cant show any weakness if you don't "meet expectations". Look down at them with your n…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:00 PM
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Arrange a low effort date for a week day. There's a park next to my place. I usually call for her to "join me" for a walk in the park and drinks maybe. Don't give a 1st interaction a prime time i.e Friday night or weekend. If the 1st interaction is successful and you land mild keno, you should shoot for a follow-up date during prime time / weekend.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:48 PM
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I too tested at that level a few months ago. Go to a hormone clinic, I have found the better clinic will treat on the same day as your diagnostic assessment. Run a 10 week program, find out your proper dosage to maintain, then decide if you want to keep going to the clinic or buy in bulk (cheaper) to self inject. I am coming up on my first blood test this week (10 weeks TrT) . I am excited to see my levels. I hope to maintain at 800. I certainly feel like I am now! Do it, get to a clinic and fee…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:35 PM
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You came to Trp to get advice on a 4 year relationship. If she's throwing nuclear tests like that, I think you know the answer.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:28 AM
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I certainly don't recommend sleeping with your step sister. I won't even try some of the women in my apartment building. You should always feel comfortable at home, you will need a space like at some point in your life. BUT... I think she's into you. This sounds like a massive sh! test. For her, the pursuit of encouraging a relationship like THAT would require you to know her absolute worst sides. She's going to show them and see if you handle it... At least before she really opens up to you
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:08 PM
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Probably because you dont appease her emotions. Stay in your frame and don't enter hers. Psychopaths are widely known to have zero empathy and don't abide by social norms. For them, "social norms" involve guys elevating their pedestal.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:35 AM
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--Sous vide. Get one. Cooking any meat to perfection is a breeze. I currently have over 50lbs of meat in my freezer, vacuum sealed and ready. Drop the meat in the bath, 2 hours later. Perfection. --Tethered boxing ball Favorite Coronavirus purchase. Drastically improves hand eye coordination. A great way to kill time, productively.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:48 PM
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Straight up, tell the bro now. Show him the evidence. He's going to find out later, after marriage, and she will likely ruin his life.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:47 PM
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"Great, see you at 7"
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:40 PM
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That's a hell of a hill to climb in martal arts. I would dive right in where you can just rip the band-aid off and find out you are not made of glass. Definitely don't recommend you going into the submission side of mma.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:50 PM
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Bro, bail. Trust the most of the community when they say "No mom's". You are the priority, period. With a kid in the picture, you are nor ever will be the priority. BAIL. Heck, give her the ultimatum. (It might get you laid) ...THEN BAIL
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:37 PM
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At the start of the year, I got into BJJ. I have got into boxing for at-home excercise, due to the virus. I would recommend BJJ over boxing. There are a lot of crappy gyms out there. It sounds like you arent looking for competive skills. So, look for versatile gyms with a fair split on drills and "rolling". I was only two months in before classes go canceled. Though, I look forward to the next conflict I engage in...especially if myself or the oppenent is wearing a coat.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:47 PM
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