TheCommentator- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	What do you all do when you don’t have a support system? What are you talking about? You do have a support group, we all are here to help each other. I’m here if you need help or just wanna rant, I’m on the same boat rn, going tru a separation and it hurts but I’m pushing tru. I have relied on my mom and sister for support, they have been great. Friends? I reach out to one who recently got divorced and he dint return the call. I called a second one and he did hear me rant, but like someone in here mentioned, he gave me my condolences”. It’s okay tho n…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:36 PM
1	Que consejos me pueden dar antes de casarme? No te cases por la ley, o ante el gobierno. Solo por la religión.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/25 04:46 AM
5	Indifference - how did you get there? Bury her… The woman you thought you had a life with is dead, the woman you thought had your back is dead, whatever picture you had of her in a positive way, put it underground. The woman you deal after divorce is the true person that was there waiting to come out, see for who she is and move on. I know it’s not easy, but for me that’s how I was able to turn the page. Don’t be surprised if she gets all butthurt when you treat her like you never knew her, tears will show up but you do not and won’…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/25 04:53 PM
3	Unable to Move on- Ready to Die This will make a huge difference, TRT, gym and therapy.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/25 04:56 PM
0	Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really. Second this, that green card will get you matches.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/24 07:33 AM
1	Thoughts on Conor McGregor civil rape Trial? The jury was made up of 8 women and 4 men. Now it all makes sense	/r/MensRights	27/11/24 02:46 PM
7	Ex wife now has oral herpes Aka Herpes	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/24 05:53 PM
14	Modern women aren’t worth it Come to Europe, especially Eastern Europe. I’ve been living here for a while now. Biggest things I’ve seen vs western or American women. -they dress conservatively, yet attractive. Not of the showing 🍑 and half 🍈’s out like in America. Even in the clubs. -they are conservative and not promiscuous. Most of them want a family and tend to their man. The hook up culture is not big over here. -you don’t see many fat bodies, even the older women, they all take care of themselves and are pretty good lo…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 07:52 PM
7	Ex sent me this tonight I keep saying it, after the divorce they wanna bring their best attitude and wanna hang out and be happy. My ex wanted to text, call, have dinners, while we were married she had always an attitude. Yeahh I let her know that she needed to kick rocks and leave the the fk alone….	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/24 09:02 PM
6	Anger, resentments, regrets Yes, and the feeling will still be there for months or years unless you reach your own closure. As long as you expect her to acknowledge and genuinely accept the pain she has caused, You will continue living like this, hours ranting on your head tru the day, they what ifs, etc… This all stopped when I finally when tru everything that had happened, put the pieces together and the pieces that I couldn’t find, I created it them and make them fit. I created my own narrative and reached my own closur…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:55 AM
2	My wife wants a divorce She probably already is, but 💯 had a dude line up	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/24 02:36 PM
12	Anyone else think about "switching teams"? Ahhh Negative, Big negative	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/24 07:37 AM
2	I’m gonna get a divorce in a few years. How should I prepare? Idk the legalities, but put everything in a trust? Maybe someone who knows the law better can explain this?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 11:00 AM
10	Any happy stories of reconciliation later in life I sincerely say, I can’t wait until my child turns 18 so I can block my ex from everything and never hear from her again…..	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 01:09 PM
6	Play therapy for kids It’s always the same story… Before the divorce, my ex was living her life with her new dude, didn’t wanna hear from me or see me. After divorce, she wanted to text, call and have dinner together with our child.. after I told her no, I all of the sudden was even a bigger a$$hole… Delusional as it finest…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 01:07 PM
5	Cheating, infidelity, deceit. Where have I heard this before…. Ahh yeahhhh	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/24 07:13 AM
6	What is something you always wanted to do but couldn't before divorce and now you're doing? be for the streets 🤟🏾… 🤣 joking… just joking..	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/24 06:09 PM
6	How do I (M33) tell my wife (F32), that I want to separate and eventually get a divorce? Here is how, are you ready?…. 1. Grab your fucking balls, and man up 2. Hire an attorney and get the paperwork going 3. Set a good plan with your attorney and execute 4. Continues moving forward and never , ever look back.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/24 09:07 PM
5	Have there been any updates from the guy who found out his new partner slept with over 100 guys? Once again asker her and then let me know how you really feel, it has to be a woman you are wanting to marry. By your comment you’ve never considered any of your “friendly girlfriends” for marriage. We all know that what’s for fun it’s only for fun, and I like you don’t care for a woman’s past that much, but again if she’s only for fun. As for marriage purposes, I wouldn’t consider a graveyard for marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/24 01:08 AM
3	Have there been any updates from the guy who found out his new partner slept with over 100 guys? Ask her, and then come back and tell us how it made you feel 🤷🏽‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 11:10 PM
31	Would you take her back? Did she miss you when all of those 4 🍆 slipped out, and she delightfully gripped every single one of them and slide them back in her insides all with a smile on her face? Did she? Do not take her back, she will do this again. In her mind there’s someone else better than you and she will keep looking for that man, she just wants you back for comfort, and bc whoever promise her the delulu life she dreamed is not longer there. Save yourself, save your mental health and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/24 01:21 PM
9	So she cheated on me but is loyal to the AP? Op…. Why the F@k do you care? You are free to live your life the way you want to now, if she wants to be loyal or the biggest h03 let her be… ( I’m not siding with her). She’s the past and she should stay there, she’s shouldn’t be worth of any of your attention yet she’s living rent free in your head. Come on man!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/24 07:46 AM
3	Why do i feel like ending life is a solution Wrong community? This is meant for men. Now, ending life is just a final solution to a temporary problem. No man should slap you or put your hands at all on you that does not warrant it. Leave as it will get worse, do I need to address the sexual and verbal abuse?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/24 03:11 PM
3	Missing my children I second this, I only get to see my little one maybe 3 times a year for a total of 60+days. We FaceTime every day if possible and my bond with hers hasn’t change. Quality over quantity	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/24 07:59 AM
5	Ex wife circles back 5 years later. I’d be tempted to play the game, brainwash her to put the house on my/our name and then tossed her out. If you hit her on the money, which is where she’s gonna hurt, then the circle would be complete. But thatsssss just me.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/24 07:36 PM
3	What kind of downsides have you guys experienced from being circumcised? As someone who got circumcised in my late 20’s and comes from a “third world country”, I never had hygiene problems, I always peeled back the foreskin and put some soap and good to go. Never had an infection. Why I got circumcised? My foreskin started to get dry and small lacerations to appear, it made it painful and the problems continue tru months, I finally got tired of it and got circumcised. Do I regret? No, besides losing a little sensitivity I don’t feel that there has been big changes. L…	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 10:40 AM
3	Sex Education: Male Condom Usage and Disposal I agree with you that the pull out method is not a replacement for the condom, but I’m human bro! And I need to feel that natural wet thang… 😂	/r/MensRights	22/03/24 06:56 AM
-2	Sex Education: Male Condom Usage and Disposal As a rule of thumb, I always wrapped until for the first 3 times, by then I know if im comfortable with the person knowing it has a healthy lifestyle ( they don’t usually make it to the 3rd time), after that I go with the pull out method. I also don’t just sleep around with anyone, as I take my screening process seriously from the very beginning. I have never had a STD 🙏🏽.	/r/MensRights	22/03/24 06:48 AM
25	This what I learned from this. I’m convinced to never to make your partner a priority and the sole purpose of your life. It’s a big mistake and even them (women) themselves don’t like it.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/24 10:46 PM
0	She moved on super quick I’d add a clause that won’t allow her to move school districts until the child has reached 18 years of age, that will prevent her (hopefully) from moving away should she chose to pick up and move states with her new toy.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/24 06:08 AM
9	She moved on super quick Focus on yourself bro and what you can control, she’s no longer your problem. It does suck she move on and it even sucks way more this new dude is around your kids, but women do that, my ex did it and I’m sure many other here will tell you the same. We weren’t even divorce when she had a whole grown ass man living with her and around my child. Focus on being the best man for you and your child and everything will fall in place. Do not show any emotion in front of her, act/ (fake it u til you mak…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 09:47 PM
1	So you guys are the o ly ones I can tell this to “We see each other every once in a while, but I never told anyone this story” “I actually met her husband once or twice” Am I reading it wrong?	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/24 08:17 PM
-3	So you guys are the o ly ones I can tell this to A guy who got cheated, that’s is okay talking to a cheater giving advice to other man’s not to be violent. You sir, are playing with your life and deserve what’s coming to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/24 06:45 PM
6	Daughter has become distant. Anybody else deal with this? Sit down and talk with your daughter, believe it or not if she will tell you what’s bothering her, you just need to get on her level and make her feel comfortable. I’m sure there are plenty of videos as to how to go about this.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/24 04:29 AM
16	The yada yada yada law of divorce I don’t allow for it, I always give her “that’s in the past and I don’t care” then I end the conversation and don’t respond for the rest of the day. I have also made it clear I don’t care discussing “our issues of the past” and that I’m only talking to her to discuss subject related to our child. That’s it. More likely your ex is trying to downplay the past with the intention of “improving the coparenting relationship”. My ex tried the same and still thinks one day we all will have a family dinn…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/24 10:09 PM
3	drawing boundaries Sorry? For what. Just a no is sufficient.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 06:50 PM
2	Unsure of what to do “No more Mr nice guy” Read it and get your masculinity back. She has all the power and bc you always agree with her to not trigger her or start an argument, she will keep doing this. You married an adult not a child that can’t be left alone. Set your boundaries.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 09:47 PM
6	Tom Brady was cheated on too I forgot how weak Reddit is, they had to remove my comment for violating “community guidelines “	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 01:27 PM
2	Tom Brady was cheated on too [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/24 08:29 PM
5	I am completely lost, and nobody can actually help me except the one person who refuses to do just that. I'm not okay. (HUGE post) When I read “she closed the doors and turned up the music” and pretty much left you to die, that does it for me. FCk that Cntt. I would not think twice on leaving her, it’s obvious she’s been check out for a while. Grab your cojones and go be a man, right now she doesn’t see you like one and doesn’t respect you at all. Focus on you and your kid.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/24 05:02 PM
3	I’m out You got people here who are willing to listen, reach to any one of us. Just give us a chance, we might be able to show a different perspective.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 04:58 PM
9	Wife confessed to affair I’d also add the following….. STFU and lawyer lawyer lawyeerrrrr All jokes aside, best advice	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/24 06:48 AM
15	He’s at my goddamn house right now I’ll never understand the thought process of a “man” willing to go to another man’s house and F@k the wife in there, even worse if the kids are present in the house. That’s how you loose your life, plenty of single woman out here looking for everything, from a one single night stand to a “serious relationship” It just shows your wife new partner is a weak man, who lacks respect for himself and is nothing but danger to himself and others. That should tell you everything to keep your head cold. I …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 04:40 AM
4	I asked for the divorce, and now I miss her Your separation is still recent, the feeling of “no you don’t” it’s not gonna go away, ever. Time will make things better and you’ll be able to cope with the feelings better. Stay strong. There’s plenty of advice in this channel as to how to survive divorce. You left her for a good reason, never forget that. Never ever let yourself get disrespected by women, they themselves don’t like a man.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 02:40 AM