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I think it's personally easier conforming to a higher standard than sitting by and waiting. I may have to sacrifice things I want, but it's better than not reaching my goals. For me this focusing on finding a person I can respect as well as someone who can respect me.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 12:10 AM
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I am insecure about my body. I was bullied for my height in high school and was praised when I grew. I was conditioned to have an inferiority complex. I'm overweight by a 20 pound margin, I'd love to get into shape again but I am insecure about every fit college guy in the gym and it's made me deeply insecure about my soft body. I'm still deeply insecure and want to be the best partner I can be, one day I want to follow my newfound faith in Christ and raise two beautiful children along with a sp…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 11:56 PM
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Facts, I have a date on Saturday and she's the sweetest person ever. Definitely not my definition of someone I'd sleep with but she's definitely a person who's good for me.
/r/seduction18/04/23 11:44 PM
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Life isn't great, nor is it easy. I understand how you feel. I learned to grow past my self loathing in some regards but it won't ever fully go away. I know deep down that I am lazy, unathletic, and a waste of talent. I have 0 discipline in my life and I feel horribly weak. What I did learn is how to display confidence despite that. I am trying to find a new motivation in life, but after a long term illness that put some habits in my head along with seasonal depression, it's never pretty. I've a…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 05:23 PM
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To clarify: mention it to a partner she had two options Change according to your boundaries and expectations Not change and suffer potential consequences. If option two is what she takes, dump her.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 06:56 PM
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You suck at communication or your girlfriend sucks. If you don't like her, leave her. I don't understand why this is such a difficult thing to think on. When people treat me with 0 respect, I cut them out of my life. It's not that deep.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 06:53 PM
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Going to church restored my faith in humanity. I felt for once that I have a path to a life through redemption. That my past feelings of hate could be washed away. my hate for the world, would go away. It did. I'm not a religious person, I don't believe prayer is the only way to show love to a higher power. I think organized religion can be predatory. But the people, they give me some semblance of feeling back. I'm not a good Christian, but I'd love to marry one.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:43 PM
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I have friends who care about me. I have a sister who cares about me. I realized that what I was thinking wasn't completely rational, and was based on how women treated me. Rant below: disregard my emotions I honestly don't fully remember the spark, I think the blackpill made me disbelieve in the red pill, and then vice versa. Then I realized that all of this is stupid. I just came to terms with that strangers in America treat people like shit, and most people treat others like garbage. It's a n…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:39 PM
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As u/Trepptopus mentioned, Expand your social circle. I go to church with around a 40-60 female to male ratio. In a group of 120 people, that is astoundingly large. Granted a good few are married. Additionally, you may look into any activity that involves women, it's not that deep. I found a date through a class to a formal dance, it's not that hard. Women aren't always looking at every person they see and say "yep would never date him" it's often a fallacy where men think women think like men. …
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:08 AM
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You still have to realize, that there's women out there looking for a reasonable partner, but are often overlooked. I see tons of single women at my university churches, in my classes, etc. Tinder is a dogshit dating app. Additionally to point out, fucking is different from dating and men don't get free sex easily. If we did, I'd imagine our society as a whole would be very mediocre at best. Some of the most famous legends were about people down bad for a girl and did the craziest shit to impres…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 02:01 AM
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To give you an update, I asked out a girl yesterday who I've barely talked to in my class (she's funny, smart and cute). I think just acting natural and unafraid of women will actually help you. I am by no means that attractive, I am short and by no means athletic or skinny. Getting a first date is not that deep. The scarier stuff is afterwards. But it's realistically finding a person you get along with at that point and not being a total slob. Also I don't practice "game", I just groom and talk…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 07:40 PM
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The mentality around you being short will not help you. Positivity takes fucking souls!
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 10:34 PM
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Fair point, however don't take my entire history on reddit as seriously. I used to make inflammatory posts as an unhealthy way to manage my relationship anxiety. I also used to be a delusional incel.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:44 PM
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I'll definitely give it a look 😁 As far as what define as masculinity is far different than the one described in the red pill (healthy vs toxic). A healthily masculine man is extremely attractive, I've seen it in action. a reality in which just having a job and a dick makes you a fucking catch. They don't want to actually know and care for Idk I generally can flirt really well, but when it boils down to it, having an athletic body and a car is a little more important. Plus most people won't have…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 07:42 PM
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If we're going to follow the subject on settling: my mom settled with my dad, that doesn't mean she found him unattractive, or that she doesn't love him. It's that her idea of her future wasn't the same as my dad's. My dad is a very traditional person despite being an art student, he's a local business owner. My parents went to highschool together and settled down after college. I think the biggest thing to mention is that my dad had an idea of who this person was before their marriage started t…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:45 PM
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I think there is a gap in that patriarchy tells men that they need to have sex with women to validate their masculinity but feminism tells women that they don't need men to validate their humanity I'm going to have to disagree. I was never told this in my upbringing. What I perceived through the red pill sphere is that I needed masculinity to find love. Of course confirmation bias is in fact a fallacy, but I have a poor dating pool that confirms to me that I am not allowed to be emotional and at…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 06:35 PM
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This is probably the most accurate statement on reddit. Sex and relationships hardly coincide, which is why a lot men believe that it's not natural for men to be in relationships. I'd argue with this statement as to men liking physical affection in general, and want to chase that feeling because most men hardly will ever get physical affection before their marrying ages (26+) in our current climate. I personally don't believe that it's biological in men to not want a relationship, as do many oth…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:37 PM
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Dating in general has a higher percentage of males. I'd argue that more men want girlfriends than women want boyfriends. I don't necessarily have the data to back that up, but from a man's perspective I've seen men give up their old lifestyles to be with another person, so there's clearly a desire for love over a desire of fun. Men often want a place to feel unashamed for having feelings, a person that has faith and them, listens to them, and will occasionally comfort them. It's pretty depressin…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:56 PM
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Except that argument is a fallacy. You don't want to approach a woman who clearly looks like she has a shit attitude. There's clearly women out there who would rather be approached in person, and is far more respected. Online can work if you're respectful, same as real life. I find it in particular that you have to be better than the person you are trying to be with. Why? Who the fuck knows. I've gotten better results showing off my talents than being nervous. Find your element and stick with it…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:40 PM
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I went down that rabbit hole during the same year. If you're actually committed to your marriage working is to tell him why he's trying to destroy your marriage. Then find a solution to this problem. There's many windows. I've tried therapy, It didn't work well for me. I had good friends who thought I was a delirious, panicked, mess who needed some intellectual discussions to work things out. And my friends helped me grow into a more positive person. Church helped me see the good in others, and …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 02:58 PM
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Escalating the situation will never solve anything. I'd agree with that. I think this is just a messy situation where the man has an inferiority complex. I've been there. Pride and shame go hand in hand. Honestly I could see either therapy or church being beneficial for him. Just something that focuses on a healthier mental lifestyle. There's some non denominational services that are a lot more relaxed than the typical dogma. I'm really not that religious, but it is wonderful to be around people…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 02:43 PM
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I mean that's valid, it's been forever since I actually bothered to try to help incels and I was often manipulated by them etc. I had a lot of self reflection over a very long time to figure out my own life after battling depression. I'm still having issues, but I've made significant progress. I'm focused on just getting my life back into control and staying motivated to keep success on the brain. I just finished my first semester and I'm not proud of my progress, but it was a learning experienc…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 04:08 AM
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I think it best to not to tangle around with the mentally deranged.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 06:40 PM
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Life isn't worth changing yourself for others, unless you're an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 06:10 PM
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I've had talks with people that were FAs/Blackpilled and when I've admitted that advice can only go but so far for anyone for success. Dating just so brutal in general. I think people who wish to help people like that are a bit in over their head. I was. On top of that. When I came out as bi there was a lot of awkwardness with my Catholic friends. So I kinda had 0 motivation to do anything when your friends see you as a person who makes poor choices. I've learned over time that love is the harde…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/22 09:56 AM
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I'd agree. The first part of the video is relatable, but I feel that it's hard to pinpoint an objectively right argument. Because everything is subjective, it's a difficult to say what is right or wrong. So there's a big schism in dating philosophies.i just wish people would get their own perspective instead of following someone else's. I don't think Cole genuinely believes Redpill if that's what you're arguing. I think he knows you can't stop someone from leaving the space. I'd imagine exredpil…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 10:18 PM
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I'm getting some in August, when I'm off to college. My dad has been giving me shit for wanting to go. He's pretty toxic and I don't want to be in a household where I get shit every time I come back from therapy. Maybe I can get some sooner but I have to save up money for college, I just got accepted into the corps of cadets and I'm about to change my life for the better. It's not really a luxury I can have. My dad has a lot of trauma and hates the mentally depressed. His dad killed himself so h…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 10:47 PM
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That's not how dating works. I understand that. But I can't but feel that there's a root cause to my shortcomings. It can't all just be bad luck. Because I don't believe I superstition. You should probably seek some professional help for that feeling. It's an extreme reaction and is untrue. That's been my experience with homophobic people. Not my reaction but others. Do the women who have turned you down explicitly say 'you are too ugly for me'? Because if so that's awful and I'm sorry, but also…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 10:21 PM
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Do you want me to close my emotions off then? I thought being emotionally vulnerable was a good thing. This is why everything irritates me. No matter how I feel, say or do, is ever good enough for anyone. All I want is an answer, so that I can eventually to date someone who can emotionally ground me. I'm not wanting to date for sex. I can get that with guys easily. I just want to be emotionally fulfilled. Am I asking too much?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 07:41 PM
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That's something I misunderstood too. Why am I not ready to be in a relationship as a victim of an abusive lover? How the fuck is that fair for you to say? I'm sorry that I spiraled into depression because of that. I just don't see how that's fair to me. It's like a smack to the face to say that I'm worthy/unworthy of love. If I had a wish to get experience or a wish to not have bad luck anymore I would. I just don't see how that makes me not ready 😕. I've made an impressive life for myself and …
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 07:33 PM
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I've learned that lesson already as an ex-incel. But I feel the more bad things happen to me the more jaded I'll get. I'm very vulnerable to becoming worse and it scares me.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 07:20 PM
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Dating is luck based. Chill out. I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 08:48 PM
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Totally understandable. I find it really funny how clueless my little sister is about it (she has a lot of male friends) There is a higher statistics of women being more sexually active, but it's not something I'm complaining about. I'm not insecure anymore so idgaf. I realized that girls are reasonably easy to attract if you can grab their attention first. Grabbing their attention in a sea of men is really challenging. It's keeping someone attracted to you is the brutal part. I'm not necessaril…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 01:14 PM
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😮‍💨 well idk what to tell you there. I'm not the churchgoer type anyway. I personally thinks it's more of the churches then the religious values themselves. I want to change your perspective on this. Because there were interpretations of the bible (not sure about the other Abrahamic ones) that isn't dickish. There's a lot of politics in the bible in whether which edition is legitimate. I personally don't think if a religion truly had that degree of oppression, I don't think Christianity would've…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 12:59 PM
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🙄 I'm all for shitting on Redpill but let's leave religious beliefs out of this. It's insensitive Yes, I'm capable of understanding it's flaws, but you gotta give it a rest.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 07:58 AM
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Personally I think it's best to not think about how you see yourself when dating. I like to be in the headspace of: "what does she want?" "Do I have that?" "If yes, great" "if not, move on". There is a condition on which we love on. There are traits we are looking for. There is a checklist. Find out her list, and be natural. The likelihood to being rejected or broke up with is higher than success. So it's honestly not something to stress about. Faking it is a waste of time all things considered.…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/22 04:00 PM
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I'd agree. That's how I was roped in, but keeping it on mainstream is the best way for people to keep it in check. Or it'll become like the incel community. Speaking from an ex Redpill and ex incel
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 03:48 PM
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Based
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:44 AM
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The issue of keeping them off mainstream Is then it goes off the table. They can't be helped where people can't find them.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:43 AM
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I mean redpill also teaches you to fear women.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:41 AM
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Maybe but Redpill doesn't give you life satisfaction anyway. That's why there's ex-Redpill swingers trying to help people not go into it. They got TONS of sex, but they weren't close to women to be emotionally satisfied. It's a major disconnect.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 11:39 AM
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I think it's more of attractive people have more sex in general. Because that makes sense why. But I'd probably agree that women are more sexually active with the 80/20 rule applied. Very insightful
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 07:53 PM
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It's all about target group. They want to outreach here. Enough said.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 05:23 PM
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r/femaledatingstrategy has a large online presence here. Usually to indoctrinate women who have been fucked over by Redpill men. Redpill kinda makes incels like everywhere
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 04:50 PM
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That's a little wordy don't you think? I mean sure the RP and BP comm are a bunch of c*nts. But they are victim to a degree. Additionally there is nothing wrong with feminine behavior. Using masculinity to bar the degree of others is just plain stupid. It's not like I sold my soul to the devil, I just made a poor decision 1.5 yrs ago. You're overthinking it. Like you can do poetics all you want, but like it doesn't change what they are. You come across as arrogant when you try to put it that way…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:03 AM
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Are you accusing me of something or adding an unwarranted rant on top of my own opinion?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 03:11 AM
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If you have discord. I'd love to do a collab with you. I'm from r/anotherway and I've been through the entire manosphere and incel community. I've also been on the blue pill and simp side of things. I may have something you might want. Food for thought. Good luck my guy!
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 12:58 PM
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As someone who was a redpilled and an incel once I can give some Insight into this: In my opinion Redpill is worse considering that it gives you advice and fake confidence to do harm to others. Redpilled people tend to be scared of women and become paranoid of their situations with romantic partners. Hell the damage is still lasting, it's been a year and a half and I'm still fucking scared of women... The incel community turns you into a hopeless coward. Driven by despair and anguish. It tends t…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 12:54 PM
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As I work with the people who struggle with finding love (I am the owner of r/anotherway), I can't agree with your statement. It also depends on what you see as "beta", it's highly subjective. And it's arbitrary anyway, the real issue that I've seen is a lack of self respect and usually dealing with toxic women who have destroyed their self esteem. Also approaching women is one of the behaviors socially enforced by women, women don't ask men out. We have to because we're not an option if we aren…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 04:39 PM
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Men have plenty of male friends. This is a stupid argument. For "the fear of gayness" clearly you have never been to a high school boys locker room.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 04:08 PM
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I agree with the POC thing. However your second statement is a bit off. Men are seen as weak when we fight the oppressive system that women also promote. You guys do select which behaviors are passed down. If you wanted men to act a certain way we can't stop it because well most guys want a family. So you kinda hold the car keys on that one. But that's just the natural privilege of a woman, we (men) have our benefits of understanding our fellow monsters. You don't understand our fellow monsters.…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 04:37 PM
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Holy shit I'm sorry to hear that
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 09:40 PM
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I don't see how gaming has anything to do with it... Assuming we are talking about videogames
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 05:01 AM
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That's how I was when Redpilled
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 11:39 AM
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Deep down they don't think that. Most of them are insecure as fuck. When I was Redpilled I was scared of women 🤣. I was so fucking paranoid lol.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:11 AM
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Looks can fade for both sexes. However doesn't mean sex will be harder, from my experience it seems to get easier for some older ppl who choose to date. It's a lifestyle thing. I have a 48yo friend of mine and she's crushing it in her sex life. And she's not a looker. For your boyfriend i doubt he will trust you enough to help him change. I'm not going to dehumanize him, his actions are deplorable, however I'd like to remember that these guys are no different from normal men other than the aspec…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:09 AM
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When I was Redpilled I was just scared of women lmao. I believed half of Redpill already was wrong. It's more like 90% bullshit. Which is enough to just not even attempt to learn from it. Being a gymbro himbo is not the only way of finding love. But it sure does look easy from an outside perspective. Yet I've been in more relationships than my redpilled gymbro friend, and he's 4 years older than me. Not a competition mind you but it shows that there really isn't one way to find a relationship. A…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 03:44 PM
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Based
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:11 PM
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Nothing is temporary and commitment can be broken regardless of vows, however the statement is crap.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 10:46 AM
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He won't destroy his relationship, but he will become a shit person. Save him from that first.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 10:43 AM
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Attractive people have more options but are disappointed with the options they have. women want commitment, but they don't want commitment from a guy they don't find attractive. Which tends to be everyone in their friend zone. And it's completely justified. If you don't want to date someone you see that way I'm all for it. Most people who date strangers are going to be disappointed. Because they are only looking for sex. That's a risk. There's a certain culture thing in the united States that fr…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 01:15 AM
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My sister does but she hangs out with a bunch of dudes all the time. Girls who are one of "the boys" tend to have orbiters. Most guys gain a romantic/sexual attraction to friends who share similar interests. Also she has female orbiters too. I think she's just a dense harem protagonist. Literally doesn't know that half her friends are horny toads. It's definitely a not all women kinda thing. Some people are real desperate to find love, some people have a bunch of orbiters in the friend zone. It'…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 11:52 AM
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Well there are women and men who suck. There are men that don't know a lick of social skills or lack empathy. There are women who are venemous and bitchy. I don't know what race you are but I'm sorry for that. I'm a short little white guy who's 5'6 all the sexy Hispanic blood was tainted from ugly ass white people. I suggest maybe find a penpal If you want something more than surface level attraction. Or if you wanted to be more elaborate wear a fat suit. But in all seriousness there are plenty …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 10:37 PM
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Date people who are less trashy. Enough said. If the only reason why people are attracted to you is because of your ability to beat people senseless I suggest learning more skills
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 09:02 PM
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Most people are attracted to a person who's life style they want to live (unrealistic) or someone with a lifestyle that is familiar to their own (realistic). Or in the minority a person who wants to fix someone else's lifestyle and match it to their own (in poor taste, bad faith, neediness and or an unrealistic pressure for the other person to change) These tend to be common themes in a relationship despite my limited dating experience (I'm only 18). However have you noticed when a girl loses we…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 04:31 PM
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Just because he wasn't respectful gives you 0 right to act the same way he is.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 04:14 PM
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Did you even read my comment? Because if you did that is not what I said. Porn skews your worldview. Cheating is an issue that just inevitably happens if you push someone away or they already had the intention of it.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 10:31 AM
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Oh absolutely. My family is conservative. As a short, chubby, and kinky nerd you get quite a few insecurities as you age. I ditched it. Went black pill and then ditched the black pill. Being a man is a mental thing sure but it's not like it's some hyped up nobility title that traditional thinkers say. It isn't anything special. It's why it bothers me when girls say: "this is a REAL man" when reference to one they have the hots for. Stuff like that makes men who aren't like that insecure about th…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:38 PM
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If women can't love, why would they be so lonely? They already have an easy outlet for a superficial relationship (Tinder) If that's what they wanted It's kind of a silly concept.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 07:49 PM
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Sensitive =/= taking things personally. I was always sensitive, when I was redpilled I took rejection personally.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 04:45 AM
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No they are pretty insensitive. Sensitive if you have a pissing contest about being a man sure. Sensitive to rejection however I'd agree with. Because in RP's eyes rejection is a state of losing.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 04:40 AM
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To be fair red pill ideology is tailored to different audiences. All are pissed at Women but they need to shovel some form of garbage to sell. The red pill is nothing short of a predatory business practice. They use one toxic woman as a strawman to say all women do or think x. Red pill as an ideology is non existent it's better to just say "I hate women" Ironically most red pill men used to be people who put women on a pedestal and they believe the only way not to put women on a pedestal again i…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 03:21 AM
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The wall is kind of a stupid concept looks usually fade for both men and women. Fertility does reduce (for both men and women crazy I know) but it's not a halt. Men lose T levels as they age and women have menopause. The wall is a fake concept when they could just refer to menopause and even then it's still a stretch. I've seen women in their 60s fool me thinking they were middle aged. and women in their 40s look like geezers. Genetics is weird.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 03:45 PM
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If you have an issue with him don't hide it. Call him out when he oversteps. If you hold him accountable you show that you care. Tough love can work wonders. It's also good to maybe do a bit of couples therapy. Just in case. A lot of ex red pills like my self can get clingy and have jealous feelings, but won't talk about it bc they don't want to be seen as weak. I'd definitely try to create an environment to let him be himself instead of trying to be something that impresses you.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 03:35 PM
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I personally agree with you. Again it's a moral compass thing for me. However that's not how reality is. There are plenty of men and women who both explore their options. The redpill are like "yep same old shit". If I remember correctly since I left redpill space nearly a year ago. And red pill was on the premise that women were unhinged and couldn't be controlled without manipulation. At the end of the day cheaters are going to cheat. The world is plagued with degenerates. I wish it was a crimi…
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 10:35 AM
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If everyone in the Blackpill and TRP space became a "Chad alpha male" we wouldn't really see much. If they all made it there a lot of them would question "why aren't the girls throwing panties at me?" It's not like being attractive is some god power that changes your life forever. A lot of these men would abandon TRP afterwards bc the advice didn't work.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 10:42 AM
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I mean the doctor is telling you how to live your life. And second no other doctors in the field of science respect evolutionary psychology. Nor do they respect psychology. It's a field that is practically Impossible to conduct good research in without having to abandon the scientific method. So they don't take those Doctors seriously either
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 10:34 AM
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Based and virtuous pilled
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 10:29 AM
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Oh my god it's not like women think about fucking a guy 24/7, Get a grip. Not all women are going to want to date all the time or get a rebound every time they have a bad date. Incels always claim to be on the smarter side of things, yet their ideology is a stupid cope for them to pass their blame for being garbage at dating. The statics are skewed for their proof. Even if the statistics are true it would really only apply to the average person. Considering that shallowness is a trait developed …
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 05:22 AM
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The only person you should take dating advice from is yourself. Do what you think is best. It's bad faith to take terrible advice and then blame it on them, when you are responsible for the mistake. I suggest focusing on if you think you are dateable, and what kind of person would date you. It's a decent start. Develop your own strategy. There is no silver bullet to dating issues. Dating sucks. Like a lot. but the only way you fail is giving up completely. I know that sounds like that's the same…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 10:33 AM
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This is like probably the best thing I've heard on this sub
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 04:14 PM
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Not the case at all. I saw a group of girls at my high school talking about "dating ugly guys" because they are nicer. I think it's kinda silly to make a rule for the weirdest species on the planet. I mean the odds of everyone having a preference for the same thing is slim to none.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 02:36 AM
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Thanks ☺️
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:57 PM
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Yeah fr. It's also with people who are on the shorter side. And oddly enough they see virgins and people with autism as arousing. I'm glad bc I probably wouldn't get a girlfriend if kink didn't Exist.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:53 PM
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I'm definitely going to take your point into consideration. Could you send me a link to the podcast? I'd love to hear it ☺️. I'm trying to be as educated as I can on the matter. In my current situation I can't make a non profit foundation like alcoholics anonymous but for incels off of the internet. I'm trying my best on reddit. Thanks for the input.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 10:09 PM
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Now I got all the half decent takeaways however, you have to admit it's like finding a diamond in a pile of hot garbage.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:45 PM
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Have you heard of bdsm before? 🤨 If there is a norm in dating, they've broken it.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:43 PM
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I don't think it's the causation, but more of a tool for reinforcement of it. If an incel read the FDS page. You can see a lot of how they view men will keep them in their ideology. Most of my points when I am concerned is from the perspective of a guy who wants to prevent the incel community growing. Thanks for clarifying your point. I don't think you are stupid btw. I'm glad we can have a discussion on this. My job as an advocate to prevent the spread of incels is to bring problems to the surf…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:40 PM
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My sister isn't FDS. The issue I'm expressing is based off of behavior how people but a price tag on men as high value or "real" or not. Unfortunately I can't edit post titles. It sucks :( I don't understand what second point you are trying to make but I'm assuming it's that the point you are trying to make is that men have it easier against unrealistic expectations. With that I can say that there are tons of people willingly taking the black pill because of social media and eating disorders on …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 09:11 PM
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That's an easy one. Make sure that you teach your boys that love is never guaranteed, true love is rarely real, and that no one is entitled to love and affection. none of that: "you just haven't found the right person yet" or "the one is waiting out there for you". Stuff like this makes kids feel like they are special. Of course all of this sounds mean but take my word for it it's out of good faith. As a boy I used to think all I had to do was be nice and I'd get what I want. That's not how the …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:59 PM
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That example was from my sister who's a teen. It was an example not a strawman. I have no problem with preferences. It would be toxic of me to say that only a woman with an hourglass figure is a "real woman" wouldn't you agree?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:51 PM
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As a fellow quirky weirdo I approve
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:18 PM
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I left a word out by mistake and I can't edit it. :( I fat finger my mobile keyboard a lot. Most of my complaints are towards FDS.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 08:17 PM
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She's 16 :(
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 06:10 PM
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100% agree with you there
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:07 PM
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Again intent is heavily mistaken on the internet. Also maybe sexism wasn't the right word, misandry would be better for the intent
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 04:06 PM
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I'm not blaming women for toxic masculinity, this is a seperate issue. I also said "a female gaze" not the female gaze. I'm not talking about all women here. Just a few. Most women I've met support breaking down both. FDS isn't reverse sexism, it's just sexist in general. Especially to women. It's like the red pill. It's comparable to toxic masculinity. Women should support the decisions of other women. I think you misunderstand that I'm not blaming women here. I think that would fall in line wi…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 03:46 PM
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That would be the red pills definition of hypergamy.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 12:05 PM
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You just made me laugh. Men and women can be hypergamous but that's a loud minority. Most guys and gals just want love. Social media is to blame. People think they deserve everything, or want some hot guy or girl to make up for their insecurity. It's fairly simple. Porn has made expectations in sex unrealistic for both men and women. Penis size wasn't an issue to porn started making people have weird meat swords. Porn stars are just a bunch of roided up sex workers who get treated like garbage. …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/21 11:50 AM
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Welcome to the public. Red pill is usually spread through the internet, FDS is spread through the internet. It's just how it is.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 07:13 PM
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Damn you are not a very nice person are you? Let people feel what they want to feel man.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:50 PM
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Also how the f are you Exredpilled?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:48 PM
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Leftist? Who said I'm a leftist. I'm a radical centrist. Men and women are different but not that different. Also the I'm not wrong attitude is a little pretentious Don't you think?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:47 PM
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It's just a perspective change. You'd probably have a different outlook on life if you had a different part under the waist. You're dehumanizing women if you think we are that different
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:41 PM
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I'm not denying sexual dimorphism exists
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:33 PM
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I'd disagree
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:30 PM
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If you don't trust her why date her?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:04 PM
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Hypergamy is both practiced by men and women, sometimes. But it's safe to say that there are other factors that drive it. Greed, self esteem issues, pride, a need to feel dominated, a need to dominate. The issues stem in the mind that forces an individual to think for sure. But hypergamy isn't biological. In evolution people look for strong and unique traits to increase genetic variation. A bunch of blonde chads isn't genetic variation. So it's safe to say that biology has nothing to do with it.…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:48 PM
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My sister feels very similar. My parents I don't think they are Truly homophobic, they want the both of us to have traditional sexuality, it does come across as homophobic. Jokes on them tho, I'm sub af and my sister is bi.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 12:33 PM
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I mean your title sounds mean, but I still understand the premise. Being a partner is a 24/7 shift. Just like being a parent. A job is ultimately easier than having a partner. However the rewards of a partner I'd say is very valuable. Me investing in a girlfriend in high school is a total waste of my time because they don't have the qualities I look for. You'd actually be surprised how much hotter a girl could be if she's actually a kind person. Most high schoolers are garbage. Now the points yo…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 10:50 AM
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Who ever wears the pants is cool with me
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 03:08 PM
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Depends on the attitude. Are they a depressing greasy shut in nerd or a ray of fucking sunshine. If they are shitty to be around you won't get anywhere. Hell the only thing a have going for me is my talent and above average jaw line. Other than that, my face looks like it could melt any second. I've dated people I'd personally consider out of my league. My ex is literally the "perfect" tomboy gf meme. I pretty much break the "rule" of what women want. By an incels standard I should be fucked. I …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 06:29 AM
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Just don't consume black pill content it's bad for your mental health. The position is very much voluntary. You just don't realize it. Of course finding a relationship is a lot of effort. A lot of people like myself would rather take a break in highschool than look for a girlfriend. You'll come to find the Majority of people in life are not the nicest. When you find someone you enjoy being around, I totally recommend you celebrate it.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:49 PM
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You attract women of Equal lifestyle. If you are a bum you'll attract a bum, if you are a gym bro you'll attract a sportier girl. If you have high income you'll connect with high income people as well. Most people look for their equal, I'd recommend becoming the kind of person you'd want to date.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:47 PM
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Dude what are you even talking about my guy. The already have trp, why would they follow another religion?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 03:36 PM
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Good
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 02:52 PM
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Don't shame age with maturity. That's the shit incels do when you tell them how life works and they dismiss it as bullshit because they are older than you
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 01:26 PM
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The concept of evil in my opinion is proof that god exists, what a cruel son of a bitch. I have a friend who gets messaged by people who have sex with his ex calling him "beta and cuck" the sad thing is that it's not the men who planned that. His exes cheated on him and treat it like he's the loser. FTW man. Getting backstabbed by your friend is awful.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 01:20 PM
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And men love women who love men. I think radical feminism and redpill are the real reasons why so many people are single. It's less about love and more about the battle of the sexes now.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 06:15 PM
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That's good. I hope red pill can die so no teen has to go through the existential crisis that I have
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 06:12 PM
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The only numbers you really have to crunch is a male to female ratio. The more choices you have, the more selective you become, of course this taken at a first glance and is assuming you aren't unsociable. This realistically only applies to casual sex. Romance is a different ballpark entirely.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 06:35 PM
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Where have I mentioned that I'm more important than you? Nobody is special.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 06:21 PM
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So I should submit to your opinion?, just so were making that clear. I'm only subservient to the state and my current partner. Why should I submit to you? I'm willing to hear you out give me some supportive evidence. I've given you links, what about you? You haven't answered my question: what is currently beneficial of modern feminism vs old feminism that applies to fixing the over sexualization of men in TV, unrealistic body standards, treatment in the school systems, alimony, and toxic masculi…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:13 PM
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True. However my life is still having it's growing pains.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:05 PM
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https://feminist.org/about/mission-principles/ Not one time does this mention men at all, was made by a woman. https://hbr.org/2018/10/how-men-get-penalized-for-straying-from-masculine-norms Was made by a man, a non feminist. Let's be real here, New wave Feminism has nothing to with men anymore. That means we should both destroy MRAs and Feminism Alike because it will never help both sexes, and considering that there are more than 2 genders there are now more demographics that need equality. The…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 04:55 PM
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My father and mother both display toxic masculinity. I'm a progressive born in a house with an old world view. Finding purpose in your life is the only way to survive, no one else will decide it for you. The Patriarchy isn't some government regime. It's a cloud hovering society that fucked us both.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:37 PM
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Well it depends on the accusations they make of me. For example if it's something unreasonable I won't claim I'm a part of that for example FDS attacked me claiming I was a mass murderer and an enemy to women, and that I'm a virgin with no value in society. This was made in retaliation to a post I made about FDS. I got the post they made taken down but the damage was done. I'm already discriminated for belonging to an organization I hated being in. I used to be an incel. I'm still wondering if I…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:06 PM
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I still don't get the question you are trying to convey
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:58 PM
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No one cared about tackling the incels until they started shooting people. Not caring makes problems. Enough said.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:56 PM
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A silent majority needs to speak up and address this problem then.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:51 PM
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Exactly. Those expectations are bullshit, and feminism if it got its way would eliminate them. My problem with it's focused on women first and not everyone is that eventually one gender will take the lead again and there will be no incentive for feminism to continue fixing things. Then there would be a men's pushback movement and we'd flip-flop between the two for several years. Does the feminist movement have some tenet or promise that men won't get a raw end of the deal? Of course I love equal…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:33 PM
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police other guys to not be creepy rapists Are you assuming all men are rapists because if so that's very bad statement. We do police other guys on our approaches, a lot of men would rather however play videogames that talk about dating, the black and red pill had demoralized an entire gender. If you look at the statistics, male sexless is so much on the rise because men have been abused by the black pill. They feel in hopeless for no justified reason. Feminism isn't "women are better than men,"…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 02:15 PM
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This is why existentialism is better than nihilism
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 01:23 PM
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First of all Dating isn't a fucking game. Don't give me that. Social expectations of men is my biggest issues because we are social creatures. Men have the expectation to be the one asking out girls, paying for dates all the time, initiating sex. Basically, guys have to put in a lot more effort in the date itself. We aren't talking about the predate makeup or hair styling, quite frankly I dislike the concept of make up, I don't think anyone should hide their true face. The point I'm getting at i…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 01:15 PM
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It's hard and probably won't be solved in the future. Men's lib is still having it's growing pains before it's public face truly shines
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 11:49 AM
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Cancel culture exists on both sides. Just try to state your opinion on a discord server. I can speedrun getting banned. It's truly wonderful. But I agree that people's opinions can only change themselves. We all live in our own world. I try to change their world to change their view. That's why r/anotherway exists. I kill incels with kindness
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 04:01 AM
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The only people I give the time of day are incels, I want to help them leave because contrary to public opinion killing yourself is a bad thing
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:55 AM
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God forbid I have an opinion that gets hate or have an opinion that goes unchecked.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:51 AM
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No problem. I'm to conservative for liberals and too liberal for conservatives. Being in the Alt-center sucks
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:46 AM
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I looked into your profile. You got a lot of hate on the trump comment. I'm not a conservative, but the shit you caught was unjustified
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:41 AM
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I really have a warped mix of existentialism and nihilism here. A lot of people hated me for posting this. It does keep supporting my viewpoint. The only reason people try to help incels is to prove their point right rather than actually wanting to help them. People don't have principles anymore.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 03:35 AM
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I'll take it into consideration
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 01:31 AM
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I appreciate it.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:30 AM
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I don't see a difference between me and them. They suffer from societal expectations all the same. I see shit-tons passive, poor, and schlubby with girlfriends and wives. Just read Reddit. Women who are supporting their unemployed partners. Women coping with mommy’s boys. Women struggling with dead bedrooms. Look I'm not talking about unemployment or dead bedrooms. I'm sexually submissive, virgin is an insult to a man (See for FDS hate comments passed onto me because I made a post on how to avoi…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:28 AM
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Yes to some degree you are right but in my town it seems to be the case. Like how femcels are treated with more sympathy than more incels. Like how someone said that I've only seen the worst parts of feminism, the world only had seen the worst parts of the incel community. It's sad to see honestly. I want to do more for the incel community because it hurt me more than it helped me. I want people to leave it like I did
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:22 AM
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I'm not bitter about it and this is the only place I vent about my shit life. Only my best friend who's going through something similar knows my worldview. I mask my emotions because only the happy and cute get sympathy and I understand that. Like I said I'm a nihilist, not an asshole. I don't engage in self destructive behavior nor do I try to push people away from me. You guys struggle with "feeling and picking up on" how others are feeling or the cues they're giving. But for most ppl we FEEL …
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:15 AM
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Well I'm sorry I was given that impression. That's why I brought it up bc it seems weird. Like I thought you were saying I had to fix myself before people will give me assistance. I have a negative worldview and all, but I don't think everyone is a sociopath.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 12:00 AM
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Look again
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 11:56 PM
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Yet you said that a person who is miserable won't receive help.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 11:55 PM
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the only truly good action is when someone does something good/positive even when they don't want to or don't feel it. They do it just because it's right. This is the only way I live by. I just because I suffer doesn't mean I should bring others down with me. I have depression, but I don't lash out. I made support groups for people struggling with depression I even convinced someone not to commit suicide. I do volunteer work. On the surface I don't seem like someone in pain. Only my friends trul…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 11:36 PM
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Thank you for your time. Maybe it's because I have autism, but I actually want to help people who are in a bad place. I've never been this negative. I'm going through a fucking crisis and I want out of it. I'm going into get our eventually, and then fuck off from this shitty town and get the skills to help the needy. I want to be a prosthetics engineer. No one is going to fucking stop me. My future military service will bankroll my career. I'm going to get my mental health back in check. Being 1…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 11:27 PM
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Yeah this is why I don't join too many communities anymore. The world is too radicalized for me to fucking handle. I've met a lot of good feminists but there are a of bad ones that seem to be the face of it. That's what concerns me. They are kinda lacking in the PR department.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 10:51 PM
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I think social media is super unhealthy Agreed. Just focus on real life, take care of yourself, and try to have healthy relationships. I do
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 10:43 PM
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If someone is out there nice enough to lend a hand to me in the real world I will. But I've yet to see someone who cares enough in the real world. Why should change myself to get support? If anything negative people should get support in the real world, I've yet to experience this. You think I'm a beacon of negativity. look through my profile. I give a lot of support to people. I'm trying to life a better life, I'm trying to get into bdsm so that I can feel that I'm emotionally cared for. I've s…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 10:19 PM
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At best I get a 1 week free trial of love
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 10:04 PM
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No one wants to fucking help me that's the problem. I know it's fucked up. I'm an emotionally neglected teen with autism. I'm no longer suicidal, but that's setting the bar real fucking low. I want therapy but I want privacy and my parents deny me a simple human right. My parents can go fuck themselves. I'm not getting therapy until I believe my situation is judgement free. So I'll have to move out. I'm not mentally sufficient enough to get emancipated, trust me I've looked into this option befo…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:50 PM
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I ever since my ex I made a vow to never even think of deliberately wanting to bring pain to anyone. I thought those feelings when I was an incel, I never acted on them, I'm still a decent human being. I told the Truth to my ex of how shitty I was deep down out of moral principle because guilt consumed me. I lost a friendship afterwords. I don't think your views are bad, i just don't think they apply to me because your world is objectively different from the one I live in. I'd rip my own heart o…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:36 PM
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This is the reason I started r/anotherway I didn't want people to feel the same pain I did. Everyone in that community is the only thing I feel is truly something to strive for. It's the only light I have burning inside me. But despite all the giving back I do, the more hungry I am for that same advice and support I give to to others. I'm glad we are able to discuss this. I am hopeful for the future, that's not what I'm worried about. It's the pain I have to tolerate now that's unbearable. And I…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:28 PM
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100% agree with that. No doubt the world uses manipulation. That's why I don't trust anyone anymore. I hate the red pill because it fucked my life over, turned me into an incel, made me paranoid about everything. MRAs destroyed my life and I had to fix everything on my own. The red pill made me want to break my ex's heart for no justification. I'm glad despite how fucked my life is I have a sense of morality to stop myself from doing so. I'm done with incels, red pills, blue pills and all of the…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:21 PM
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If nothing else do an experiment. Fake being positive for a time period especially when around other ppl I've done that my entire life before the pandemic and it never paid off. If nothing else, I tried. Am I a monster? Answer the question for me?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:14 PM
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It's an adversary stemmed from envy. I never get support for my problems. I've been dealt a bad hand and I make the best out of it. I want to live in a world where people don't have to go through the societal expectations of men. A virgin is an insult to a man. Toxic masculinity had fucked us. I get mocked my parents "hey at least I don't have to worry about you getting someone knocked up". It's disgusting to here that from your parents. No I don't want to have kids but it's still mean. My mom t…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:12 PM
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Instagram rants and shit. Not the Majority, but a bad apple spoils the whole bunch.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:45 PM
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I don't see my world view as a bad thing I'm actually a pretty neutral guy. I just think because no one cares it's liberating. But when I state my nihilistic worldview I get huge levels of adversity and I understand why. But my upbringing dictated a lot of it. A lot of people are garbage. Not the Majority but it can feel like it at times. I just want to know if people see me as a monster. So I can free myself from people if they think that way. I understand that life is complicated. This isn't a…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:43 PM
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I've heard feminists literally expect men to be non virgins, 300k$ a year, and have the same goals alined with her, and be subservient to her. This is toxic femininity mind you, but it isn't ever put in check. I know not all women think this way, but groups like FDS and 5th wave support toxic behavior. I supporter the first 3 waves of feminism. But after that the feminist community became toxic just like MRAs because it was left in a vacuum.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:32 PM
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I love the world despite how fucked up it is. It's empowering that it is fucked up. I've learned to not idealize the heroes you once thought were. That's a lesson I learned today. Most adults play house when deep down they are petty children. My world viewpoint is nihilistic but not mentally deranged in my opinion. I believe in morality, but I don't think people care about it as much as they let on to be. That might be a little narcissistic but I have to work that out on my own. My parents denie…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:03 PM
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I've learned my lesson from getting angry. I'm not sexist. I think feminism could be both good for both men and women. A man's world is kind of shit. So is a woman's world. I have female friends and a sister. I understand what women have to go through. But I feel I'm held to gender norms that are complete bullshit and so are women. But feminists talk a lot about what's good for women, but not necessarily for men who want to leave it too. Men are biased in Court that's a fact. My mom almost not b…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 07:58 PM
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Not every incel wants a petite Child lookalike. Me for example had tons of hot dates but they all had mental issues or communication issues. I really just wanted someone I could depends on and trust. I've yet to meet that person. But I no longer harbor that bitterness and resentment. I think it would be interesting to talk about are crappy dating experiences. It might change our perspectives on dating as a whole. I've come to the conclusion a while ago that finding a partner in general is a shit…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 04:57 PM
1

I was an incel and I liked heavy set tall women. My dating life just sucks. It's not really a looks thing.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 04:50 PM
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A fair answer. Most psychology books are a great resource and are the basis of a lot of manosphere communities which took that resource and warped it into hurting men rather than helping them But you can't convince me otherwise that evolutionary psychology is bullshit. It's a theory of a theory, at best it's speculative. 80% of 80% is not enough information to be a law
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 04:50 PM
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The only truth of redpill is that you shouldn't take rejection personally, except they never lead by example
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 04:22 PM
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I was a self described incel, I'm lonely but I hated the community that the incel community was it never helped any of us. I never wanted to be monster or a misogynist. I wasn't a sex hungry maniac. I just felt hopeless and depressed. I was sexist don't get me wrong, but that was through propaganda. after I left I did a little introspection. Enough said. I'm sorry you had do go through that. I know what it's like to feel ignored by everyone. I bet you're a really cool person. If you need someone…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 02:43 AM
2

Thanks for the help
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 02:34 PM
2

I did make my own, I do understand that people have their own lives. I just don't think this was the best course of action.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 02:33 PM
1

Idk
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:46 PM
2

Exactly. I'm the paranoid type so I try to see secret intentions behind everything it manifested especially in rejection. I viewed incel content when I realistically never had a proper reason to join, it was all in my head.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:26 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Though what is considered "masculinity". I dislike gender roles and conformity we live in a post modern era and I don't believe we have to be sheep anymore
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:26 AM
1

I love that
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 01:22 AM
3

I appreciate your support
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:59 PM
3

I don't define it. I just see myself as a man bc of how I feel and what's downstairs
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:52 PM
5

It's up but it's a work in progress feel free to make a post if you want
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:42 PM
5

The problem is that will put a wrench in the hard work they've put in
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:38 PM
3

I'm not disagreeing with all your points but I fail to see how masculinity has anything to do with this. I was an incel because I was insecure I was less of a man for being sexually submissive.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:36 PM
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No gender deserves to be hated. Hatred is never the solution to incel problems
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:24 PM
4

Is it?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:18 PM
9

So does Macabre Storytelling
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:09 PM
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I've found some folks who are interested. But yeah I'll keep that in mind
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:09 PM
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Masculinity has nothing to A) do with incels b) matter. Masculinity is very subjective to social hierarchy
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:08 PM
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Mental health improvement. I used to hate women, I thought I was disadvantaged. I used to be a monster. I didn't have the asset like therapy to help myself. It took me a while with looking for a way out on my own plus incel exit to fix myself. It can be done.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 10:33 PM
3

You can still join it and help out even if you don't want to be a mod.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 10:29 PM
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I'm looking for mods
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 10:27 PM
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A reformed one can. But their mind needs to heal. I couldn't be a proper person until I was fixed
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 10:00 PM
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I understand that. But I don't think you understand that the incel community actively shames people for going to therapy
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:57 PM
1

Life is too complicated to have your dating based solely on your looks and height. Everyone leads a complicated life. Attractive people aren't satisfied with their love life either.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:45 PM
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Their community however doesn't trust professional help
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:42 PM
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I'm making a new sub
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:26 PM
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I was going to focus on more of the mental aspect of it. There is no solution to dating issues, but there is another way for chronic depression and hatred.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:26 PM
6

You want in?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:22 PM
8

I was thinking anotherway
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:19 PM
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I'm working with friends to create a replacement. Incels need to find a new way towards life. I don't want to have toxicity exist.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:15 PM
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Plymouth
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 09:08 PM
5

I'm not trying to censor you.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 09:51 PM
1

Based
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 08:27 PM
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Don't state what a "man" is. We talked about this. This is toxic masculinity and it is still performed. Stop.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 08:26 PM
3

I help people who reach out to me. Like the one I posted above. I'm fairly active in incelexit. And I was a guest speaker for macabre storytelling on why I advocate helping incels on a better way to live. Thanks for the resource btw.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:33 PM
3

I'm glad someone understands. I want to do more in my community to help these people.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 08:09 PM
3

I was talking with guy the other day who wanted to leave the community (god bless is soul). He reminded me of myself if I did stay in that community for long enough. I had to convince him not to kill himself. I've never cried for a man I knew for only 10 minutes.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 04:54 PM
3

Technically I left February, but that's because I became an incel afterwords which was a yikes
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 10:46 PM
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Glad I left last March-April.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 03:17 PM
2

Already am
/r/ExRedPill06/08/21 07:33 PM
2

Paul Miller is a perfect example why we don't respond with hatred to hatred. Stop the cycle.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/21 03:13 AM
0

It's fine. They aren't used to adversity. It will take a long time before we can crack Down on it like the incel and red pill community
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 10:05 PM
1

Thanks for the support. It means a lot. Really. I hope there is a focus on helping women leave the FDS community like this sub and incelexit
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:55 PM
1

I also had a chat with her. She took down the post after figuring out I was a minor. At least the resolution was civil, but it took a lot of effort from my end.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:48 PM
1

I mean I'm fine with my dating life so far. I turn 18 next month
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:47 PM
3

Fat chance I'd enjoy casual sex. I prefer commitment
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:46 PM
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Here's another one directly made after my post. Accusing me of being, a violent, misogynist, porn addict that likes hurting women and also assumed I never dated. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oycaeg/lol_this_one_clearly_has_never_been_with_an/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share The fact of the matter is that I've had 1 girlfriend, I've never kissed or had sex. I quit porn because it made my depression worse. I have sexual insecurity about my interest in female led d…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:44 PM
1

That's a relief
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:22 PM
1

Quite frankly sex is based on the concept of. Ahem. mutual enjoyment. The same logic goes both ways. I'm not going to be someone's daddy because I'm not comfortable doing it. If she's having fun why don't I get a right to either? Most porn (of any type) I've found to be a perversion of a romantic act. But I feel I don't always have to initiate said encounter all the time. What I enjoy isn't there, because there's no love in porn. If I was a woman you know we wouldn't be having this argument. I'd…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:20 PM
1

I don't think you understand that Adam is a media douchebag and really doesn't care about the fact if he's lining his own pockets. He's also a celebrity. His take is weak, because he doesn't care about the topic. He lacks heart. Adam is spineless.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 04:42 PM
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No no, I want to hear his point
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 04:23 PM
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A lot of FDS chill in the ex red pill community, learned this today from getting blasted by my post asking how to find and avoid FDS women.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 04:17 PM
2

Agreed. I was someone not given a warning about red pill and it destroyed my life. Took me months to bring pack the pieces
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 03:05 PM
1

Fair enough. But I don't think a community would grow very well in a vacuum
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:52 PM
1

I'm glad you see it as more than black and white. I hope the toxicity is cleaned from my community. I'm about to give it a little test with a throwaway account. I'm pretty sure you know how easy it is to ban people who debate their logic in certain departments regarding men specifically.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:38 PM
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I'm a human being, I'm not traditionally dominant in bed. Problem? That's all I'm saying. I'm not a monster. I don't like porn. I just want to be in a relationship where I feel I'm emotionally safe.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:24 PM
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I love park dates. I love the park. My parents got married at the same park I regularly go to. I took my ex to the park.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:22 PM
2

I actually dislike porn. There is no representation of love in the content. It's disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:19 PM
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I'd never do this. This violates my ethics
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:06 PM
3

Why does everyone assume it's a porn thing? It isn't. I just don't want to be in control of a sexual encounter.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:04 PM
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No I just don't want to be judged by my ability as a partner for being short, shy, and into unorthodox things. I hate porn, the concept of loveless sex disturbs me. AMALT shit is this exact fucking reason why I want to avoid FDS. It's degrading.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:03 PM
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Are you serious? Oh. Let me explain it to you this way. Toxic masculinity is the concept of someone deciding how a "real man" should act. Women can also take part in this. FDS does. They think all people who are into kink, are automatically evil people. They believe men at the same time are manipulative and stupid. They dislike shy men because they think they are unworthy of affection. You didn't dig deep enough. Sorry.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:00 PM
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I'm scared of that community man
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 05:40 AM
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I'm also worried about the over sexualization of men currently. Not every guy looks like Chris Evans or Idris Elba.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 01:45 AM
2

I've never seen this. Most of the red pill YouTubers I watched were people of color. So I never really saw this when I was in the community.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 07:48 PM
2

Just because you follow a religion doesn't make you a zealot.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:20 PM
2

That's a very self centered and entitled point of view. I don't see why personal values are stupid.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 02:34 PM
2

Ah a practioner of the arts
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 01:43 AM
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I'd personally disagree about him being bi. Everyone's got preference dude
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 05:07 PM
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Gentle femdom
/r/ExRedPill01/08/21 04:29 PM
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Oh, no doubt it's shit. Hell I love masculine women, GFD is awesome.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 08:39 PM
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Let's not stoop to their level and make generalizations. Human sexuality is a..... Weird thing.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 08:24 PM
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The thing about red pill is that it's a self fulfilled prophecy.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 05:51 PM
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Dude stfu you're comment wasn't taken down. It was just disagreed with
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 05:49 PM
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Who knows anymore? I feel like I've been through all of it. It's like turning your back on Lucifer and watching Babylon crumble. You lose yourself sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 06:21 PM
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Usually women who support the red pill want to get away with the shit that RP men claim women do. They want that because female 'nature' gives them an excuse for their trashy behavior.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 10:14 PM
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No there isn't. red flags are red flags not an ideology or a strategy. Red flags are different from person to person of course some are universal but that is usually easy to pick up on. Considering that I personally have been in every form of pilled community none of them will actually help you. The focus of self reliance instead of codependency is what is something that needs to be focused on more. Men should not think that every woman they meet is a gift from heaven. The solution is not to dem…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 02:20 AM
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That you shouldn't focus on getting a girlfriend or having sex, yet they do.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 02:56 PM
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But you have to admire the talent of him being a professional grifter. He's fucking psycho.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 03:21 PM
1

Agreed, but black pilled men usual don't date. If a guy talks like a redpilled man to a woman, she would rightfully get pissed off. Once a red pilled man gets called out he either tries to backpedal or defend his views. He gets put on the defensive and displays insecurity or weakness. Which is what redpilled men don't want to show, so they would rather hide the fact that they are redpilled in person.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 06:11 PM
2

Life doesn't have shortcuts
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 05:36 PM
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The best pill is no pill. Date with your values and look out for your best interests. You don't make sacrifices for other's dating lives. Take care of yourself first. Pay yourself first. Improve yourself first. Any investment goes to the person who deserves it first. From someone who actually went through every pill. I can say this is the only way to improve your life, regardless if you don't get a girlfriend or do. You'll live a fulfilling life and know that you always have your six covered by …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 03:01 PM
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I'd personally disagree. Most people don't actually date red pilled, because it isn't socially acceptable. Black Pillers actually get violent, do self harm, etc. Black pill is far more damaging to society, especially teens like myself who entered it. It was too damaging for me to stay in the blackpill community. Red pill isn't much better.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 02:27 PM
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Ur mom is in line with science and psychology
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 09:39 PM
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One day I hope hollywood burns to the ground. 🤮🤮🤮 Social media fucked my generation. (17M) More kids my age are getting redpilled because of what they watch. It doesn't help that teenagers actually suck. The reality is that red pill and incel ideologies only have merit in a high school setting. It doesn't help that social media has sparked unrewarding dating experiences to others. Why? Because projection Is a big problem with the internet. Every day people glamorize there miserable lives thinkin…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 03:49 PM
1

I'm in the demographic were they stopped selling them kinda sad
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 04:59 PM
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Just like my bionicle collection, they don't exist
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 02:15 PM
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I can tell you how to gain an abundance mindset that you don't even need women to be happy. It requires 0 bullshit from TRP. Pay. Yourself. First. All your efforts should go to yourself. Fill up the tank. Do you think you are going to drive for a week running on fumes? Of course not. From my experience if you don't hold yourself to any value, you are bound to fail.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 03:19 PM
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That's fucking rad
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 04:54 AM
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That's funny. I literally have a family friend who's a biker and he's the most patient guy in the universe. Seriously. This man tolerates a chaotic household. He's a poor saint.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/21 03:04 AM
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I tried man. I can't take content like this seriously. I don't actually hate the content creator. He's a pretty decent guy but this video is absolutely dumb. Women first aren't a prize. And the entire video Is based off of finding a "high value" women. Aldo blaming the fact that women having jobs reducing the likelihood of getting a girlfriend. Wtf! If anything, rising of women in the workplace is a benefit for men. A lowered infidelity rate for starters, less pressure on the man to work 24/7, i…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 05:58 AM
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Eww
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:37 PM
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Ok. Say hypothetically everything an incel says is in fact true. Why would being pissed about it and causing harm in the community change things? I don't think terrorists are very happy people... But if you're the other type of incel, why would you be satisfied in life just moping about it. I honestly wish the incels were right. Would make my life a whole lot easier. All I'd have to do is get plastic surgery and go to the gym. Of course that's bullshit Isn't it? Why? Because sex, money, and love…
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:18 PM
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You look like you need help. Go to r/incelexit they'll bring you in touch with your sense of self again
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:09 PM
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You're being objectified. Stop seeing this woman. You deserve better.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:27 PM
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To be clear what defines the difference between a woman and a girl is disposition. A girl is incapable of proper boundaries, socially inept, and manipulative. A woman is honest, down to earth and level headed. But you want a LADY A lady is confident, classy, virtuous. She is a paradigm of character.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:21 PM
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LOL cringe.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 12:57 PM
1

Also I don't want perfection. I don't want a family place with drama. You never want to date people with more drama than you have.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 07:06 PM
1

I never said It was a good moral decision. But it keeps me safe.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 07:05 PM
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I'm referring to people with no interest in having financial stability. Usually pertains to alcoholism, family issues, trashy people. I'm not trying to offend. I just didn't want to use the term 'ghetto' people. Edit: wording
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 05:53 PM
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Yeah no shit. You're barking up the wrong tree. It took me 5 months of god damn therapy to return to normalcy.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 12:41 AM
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I'd like to hear your story. We should have a chat
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:37 PM
1

Oh I see. I'm glad you reformed like I did.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:31 PM
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I'm going to send you to r/incelexit I also would want you to research how MGTOW and TRP is wrong just how you found red pill in the first place. What I'm trying to tell you is look for proof to disprove TRP.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:12 PM
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Tinder Tinder Tinder. This is a huge reason Hollywood, insta, high school, bullying, being a teen. Shallow communities. Then apply red pill, and black pill community resources that aren't moderated by YouTube Inc to be censored. I went from redpill to MGTOW to incel within a 2 month period. Fully Recovered like a week ago.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:10 PM
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As red and black pill go hand in hand it took me about 3 months to realize that red pill isn't right. And 5 months to recover from blackpill and return to normie. Takes support and self therapy.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:06 PM
1

I think it's not that I think we need to teach men that their worth isn't based on their "body count" uggh. We also need a wave of feminism that actually wants to de-establish gender roles. We also need to incorporate male body positivity. This will both destroy the incel and redpill community. (This is coming from a person who used to be an incel)
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:04 PM
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Because it's aimed at shallow children who consume Hollywood media constantly.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 05:01 PM
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Well I am 17. Most teen incels can be helped if they aren't completely gone yet. You have to save them in the denial phase. If you say they sound like an incel and get angry or deny it. Help that man out.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:57 PM
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If you want to help people go to r/incelexit People who are willing to be helped are a better use for your time
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:55 PM
3

Myers briggs Is a better personality typing cult. And doesn't hate women.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:52 PM
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If you look in uneducated communities maybe. Just don't date poor people. Problem solved.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:51 PM
2

Not the case. I used to be one, look at me now.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:50 PM
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This also puts a hammer in the incel community. If you don't know already incels believe women are too sexual with people they don't know. Which Is flawed because it really only applies to hook up apps. I'm glad there Is more evidence to prove incels wrong.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:39 PM
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I hope this is the case. I feel like it's been the opposite. I'm from an ex black pill background. So my perception could be warped. I'm also a high school student. Today I just finished my junior year.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 04:36 PM
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The male personality types are horseshit anyways.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:23 PM
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They try to rationalize why they are better than women in the dating world and then wonder why they don't get dates "yep, its because all women are shallow and incapable of growth" Funny enough trying to rationalize human behavior does the opposite for you.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 04:37 PM
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Better solution: match the same amount of energy she puts into you. If you expect more, work a little harder. The post above is NO excuse to be selfish. The best way to go about dating is to realize that men and women are more Similar than different. They are equal. Treat them like you would a bro. Any ways my broskis, I gotta bounce. Bounce on YOUR boy's DICK.
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:30 PM
1

You know I never even thought that women would ever touch red pill content. My mind has been officially blown.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 02:51 AM
3

I didn't say night clubs. School is a thing you know. I'm a high school student.
/r/seduction07/06/21 08:30 PM
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Go to clubs, learn to socialize. Then practice what you want to do until you get confident. Girls usually see through fake confidence. Try to think from a girl's perspective. Our brains really aren't too different.
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:32 PM
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🤷‍♂️ maybe. But I can't fully reform without professional health. I still feel morally superior to most high school students and I kinda show it. I want to stop viewing the entire world as devoid of empathy and shallow but I can't. My only reason for motivation of being a good person is to prove to myself that I'm not like the rest of the world. Which is totally unhealthy.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 05:50 PM
3

Yeah fair enough.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 05:45 PM
2

It's primarily people who overcorrect to compensate for being not naturally masculine or adhere to there gender role strictly as a "man's job". The overcorrection stems from bullying. The later is taught by parents or terribly religious sex ed
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah I think I hit the mark right on this one. Yeesh.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 12:12 AM
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It would've saved me from becoming one. I was insecure about my height for as long as I remember due to bullying.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 12:09 AM
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If you look around in nature, bullying is rampant amongst most animals and it's a LOT harsher than humans. Bullying amongst adults is still everywhere but people don't even notice it. By your rationale, you believe hypergamy is real because animals date the biggest, baddest, thing. Trying to fight bullying is like fighting against droughts or mosquitos Maybe we could actually be proactive and care about the problem instead of sitting on your ass? Usually a daddy will teach that kinda shit to his…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 11:27 PM
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If you look around in nature, bullying is rampant amongst most animals and it's a LOT harsher than humans. Bullying amongst adults is still everywhere but people don't even notice it. By your rationale, you believe hypergamy is real because animals date the biggest, baddest, thing. Trying to fight bullying is like fighting against droughts or mosquitos Maybe we could actually be proactive and care about the problem instead of sitting on your ass? Usually a daddy will teach that kinda shit to his…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 11:27 PM
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👌👌👌 I'll give it a try. However I wouldn't say you'd agree with my insane politics. Being exposed to both ultra conservative and liberal definitely changes your viewpoint.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 09:34 PM
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A primarily liberal state, Virginia. I growing up in an ultra conservative working class household. I am far more liberal than my family is (moderate libertarian left) I also have a unique viewpoint on everything. I could go further into that if you wish. But growing up with my mom an anti-gay, anti-Muslim, bible thumping conservative was difficult as a feminist. my dad is a far more moderate man, (art student) and had a more open mind about politics (except for his rejection for me getting ther…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 09:11 PM
1

No it's not cultural reasons for voting your own party it's common sense. Would you vote for someone who you only have 10% in common with and doesn't look out for YOUR best interests. Yes we should think more ideological way. However, when you have bills, taxes, and other shit to pay for, it's hard for people to care about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:58 PM
1

I'm a reformed incel so I kinda know the issue faced. There's these people on this site who never actually touched TRP, MGTOW, or blackpill. I understand what causes people to turn to nihilism like this poisonous content. Social exclusion in high school fucks your dating life, which in turn, makes you behave like an incel. However from what I've seen is that college, (I'm still 17) has far less of this social exclusion of people deemed as "undesirable". Of course my high school was never that ex…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:55 PM
2

Oh yeah mental health isn't taken seriously in the US. like I asked for therapy from my parents (because I was an incel) and they said "you are perfectly fine, you're not insane". Imagine how fast a therapist could have helped me recover from that ideology. It took me 6 months to recover from it. It would have taken me like a month if I had some god damned help.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:39 PM
2

Fair enough. I wasn't having an argument with you. It was a discussion, not an argument. I place the feminist bit in there to try to explain it wasn't a political issue but a cultural one.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:34 PM
1

I put quotes on the "feminists" because the people that self proclaimed they were feminists actually weren't.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:30 PM
1

It's not conservative issue. There are "feminists" that believe men shouldn't Express their emotions. It's 100% a religious cultural issue. I'm not a conservative, I'm not a liberal, there are clear issues with religious tones in our social background. Hell, I'm a follower of christ and I think some of this shit is outrageous.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:19 PM
1

That's just what we deal with. You know what would be fucking useful sex ed. Talking about consent. My sex ed classes in elementary school and middle school had nothing on sex except that consent is important. It's a little more than important, it's fucking everything. Consent can change at any minute and sexual education doesn't cover that.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:04 PM
1

Well there's a problem with sex when parents can opt out and there's also religious dogma in play. You'd have to change our entire society to get decent sex ed. Sex ed told my sister that she shouldn't show her shoulder's because she'd get raped. Men in sex ed are always taught that men have to be a certain way. It's bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:51 PM
1

That's funny because I was an incel but I felt that I was unworthy. I was never enraged when I was rejected. It was more like, yep same old shit. Entitled is a huge issue at least for the sickos. I saw a lot of disgusting things in the incel community.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:40 PM
1

They need warning labels on porn that have ethical issues. Cheating, Rape, incestuous, and degrading porn needs to at LEAST have some labels that this isn't ethical in a normal situation.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:38 PM
1

Did I ever say censorship? As much as I'd like that to be the case I didn't say that.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:27 PM
2

Yeah I might change up the wording on the post.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:24 PM
2

Yeah. Of course there are different aspects. But social exclusion and bullying have a huge role to play. It causes insecurity. Which will lead a downward spiral to inceldom.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 06:50 PM
2

Oh gender roles have a HUGE part to play in making an incel. I've always be called weak for being emotional. It's awful.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 06:48 PM
1

From what I've seen looking to attract the majority of women has no merit to it. You are just going to find a basic bitch that likes who you pretend to be. I'd rather have a relationship with a REAL woman. People nowadays go after girls. There's a huge difference.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 05:30 PM
1

I don't believe assertiveness really matters. If you have to be hard to keep them in check, they aren't worth the trouble. I don't blame my success in how I approach. I don't have success because high school relationships are shit. I attract too many manipulative people. I don't generally mention have autism because it doesn't define who you are. People that do are doing a disservice to themselves. I think an approach to dating should be highly personal. Everyone's world is different. We have to…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 05:28 PM
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🙄 yeesh. It's fucking sad. My area has a huge human trafficking problem. Richmond can get pretty bad.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:56 PM
1

I am aware of the rising attacks recently. Yes. Racism is a horrific problem in the United states. My town is not an exception, but my school is. Ever student I know is highly progressive. We have more of a drug addiction problem than a racism problem IN MY SCHOOL.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:55 PM
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I'm sorry you live in a town of uneducated people. We have a larger diversity so that might be why
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:46 PM
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Yeah porn is a huge problem in the US. we really need have the content regulated harder.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:43 PM
1

I think what pissed me off most as a short guy is when I "grew taller", I actually just dropped 15 pounds. But they get all cheery because they think I grew an inch. I usually tell them to fuck off.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:42 PM
-3

I've yet to see a racist in my high school. Maybe because I live somewhere different, but you can't fully say it's everywhere.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:40 PM
1

Damn that's pain. I'm glad to be short in some regard, I get to filter out all the boring ass girls with no personality. However I'm in a redneck town high school in Virginia so my dating pool was reduced by a huge degree.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:38 PM
1

Check. Check. Check. Check. Check. Yep. Makes sense. (I'm a reformed incel)
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:34 PM
1

I never had a problem with my autism. I worked through it, people can't tell the difference. The problem is that they baby people who do. I had very tough love through my childhood. I was ripped out of my comfort zone. The problem is that they reward the socially diverging behavior. I'm not denying that their is a struggle. But it is workable. It doesn't hinder my sociability anymore.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:32 PM
1

You see I don't like the word patriarchy exactly, however I use that generally to refer to unfair gender roles that I have to meet. I can't change the fact that I'm more sexually submissive, but god forbid I tell someone that or they lose their shit.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:26 PM
1

I think it's more of a stigma that is taught at a young age. Young boys are taught by people who glorified sex. And women are taught that their appearance matters way too much. It's a patriarchy problem.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:18 PM
2

Oh absolutely agree. I'm saying that bullying tends to kickstart the process.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:15 PM
-5

Maybe. If you are in LA yeah you might get some racists. Depends on where you are. But racism is generally speaking a dying thing, especially in the southern states where I live. People are bullied, ask themselves why, and get indoctrinated into incel culture. People get bullied ultimately on what they like, their height, and if their opinions are out of the "norm"
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:12 PM
4

I'm more progressive but I used to believe if hypergamy. Recruitment comes from degradation of it's viewers. TRP Videos say: YOU'RE WRONG I'M RIGHT BETA CUCK! they bully their victims into believing them. It creates nihilism, the nihilism that makes people lash out against the world. The victims question themselves when they try to leave. "What if they are right and I'll be single forever?" I definitely had this thought when I left. TRP left permanent scars on my mindset of how I view the world.…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:29 PM
4

Time can really only tell, at least anime and gaming is a little more acceptable than it was in the 90s. But we can get there. It doesn't help that the sides of the argument get political. The left makes mass shootings about guns, and the right just denies that and talks about whatever the fuck they think. It's really about indoctrinated teens going berserk. I hope we can create support groups for nerds. From my own experience as an reformed incel, I feel that it's a fleeting feeling and gets be…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:14 PM
1

Of course there ar people that do, I have no idea what caused them to think that way, and I grew up in a religious conservative household. So I don't understand the root cause of this entitlement.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:09 PM
4

Why do you think that is? They go to a toxic place that accepts them because no one else will. I'm not saying they are blame free, far from it. they are bat shit crazy.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:04 PM
5

I'll definitely take a look at it after school today! Thanks. I think the huge thing with certain elements of incel culture is that there is no widespread support. We have BLM, METOO, and LGBTQ support groups. Body positivity is still not big enough to have support in and social ladder is stemmed from athleticism in high school. I do agree that capitalism and patriarchy combined with collectivism causes some bad problems. I think if our society was focused on (sane) individual beliefs we could c…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:02 PM
6

you are the antithesis of their ideology. 👏
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 02:17 PM
3

Yeah really. I'm 17 however I'm more worried about my fertility over others.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 02:05 PM
7

Or it could be the fact that they were just toxic before hand? There are plenty of blue pill people that are your stereotypical version of "nice guys". I think men are propagated at a younger age to feel that sex is the greatest thing to ever exist. I'd rather just have someone I can feel emotionally safe around, but they can be horny all they want.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:45 AM
21

Bruh. Maybe if they didn't act like they would fuck anything that moves, they could have a lasting relationship.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 06:05 PM
10

BETA CUCK NORMIE REEE!!!
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 02:34 PM
4

Dude if you want to get pissed off look at r/seduction. TRP is all up in that bitch. Every response follows with those words of "all women do this and that"
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 02:34 PM
8

I think it's because manosphere concepts are based from Nihilistic narcissism. Nihilism is poison for the mind so yeah.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 02:32 PM
15

If a woman doesn't say what's on her mind honestly, she's not worth dating.
/r/seduction11/05/21 10:30 AM
1

You can be an emotional guy and have respect. There are many influential leaders who gained respect through emotional means. Mahatma Gandhi. If he was stoic do you ever think he would've changed the world? Dear heavens, no. Dont sell yourself short. There are people who will respect you and many man won't. If you work trying to make everyone respect you you will end up hollow and sad. You think people pleasers are happy with their self esteem? No they aren't.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 04:25 PM
1

Right. Stoicism is a form of male submission. They want you to take abuse 'like a man'. It's a bullshit double standard. If girls take hormonal birth control, men should put some skin in the game too. Egalitarianism is dead.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 04:17 PM
1

Exactly it's not 'patriarchy' its expectations created by ancient religious dogma. There are certain things religions do that ignore the morality of christ as a whole. Christ couldn't care less what you were as long as you are a good person.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 04:00 PM
5

Social media is an escape. Some men think they aren't good enough to attractive. Hell I've been guilty of this then I go and look to see if they disagree or not. Most people on the internet validate people based only on what they post.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 11:50 AM
2

Nope. In my opinion most people follow bullshit social norms anyways. I will have no value in society because I don't want to be stoic. Sometimes I am, but I don't like to be. The gender norms are bad. I am highly emotional but that won't stand for someone with a penis. I'm sexually submissive, god forbid I tell that to a narrow minded person (80% of girls would flip their shit and you know that for a fact) So 'patriarchal' norms is a disease that men and women both spread. I am held to society'…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 11:44 AM
1

https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xM2NhZWNkMC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?ep=14
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 12:09 PM
5

I like some of it's principles and non toxic community however the issue is it's not something that truly promotes personal growth. I think that only personal experience will create success. There is no guide to fixing your dating life except finding yourself and think about what's wrong and fix it.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 12:56 AM
1

The divine art of waiting till commitment
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:47 PM
1

Hard agree. I heard a story the other day of a red pill asshole telling his ex why she would ever date such a "beta" bruh moment
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:46 PM
1

Hard agree. Just showing that you are capable of listening and caring can work wonders. Even when I was uglier i got a girl hooked. To bad she was a single mom at 19. 🙄
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:44 PM
1

It made me near black pill. And I became a women hating misogynist until my sister gave me an intervention. Red pill made me hate myself. Never going back
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:41 PM
2

I'd honestly rather get my hands dirty. The truth is always in the middle. Feminism and Mgtow show how bad the battle of the sexes have gotten. I've seen both sides of the blue pill and the red pill. You learn that you should never accept shitty behavior. If you do, you'll get walked on every. fucking. time.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 06:03 PM
1

I trust the peole who wont let me down. You can never immediately trust someone. I have touched TRP. I wish I never did. It ruined my life.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 05:55 PM
1

They aren't more important than me. I learned from my experience is that any person is not worthy of my immediate trust. I learned how to respect my boundaries and take shit from no one. I cut off anyone who brings me down. The internet is dangerous, it's difficult to navigate if you are naive. It can turn a sane man into a hateful person. Harboring hatred was the worst decision ever. I want my story to be a lesson that any sane human being should never touch TRP.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 05:34 PM
2

🤷‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:32 PM
1

I'll give it a good read in my study hall
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 12:38 PM
1

Good question. Probably because I'm an unhealthy perfectionist with unrealistic expectations of the human condition.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 12:36 PM
1

Damn they must set the bar real low.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 12:23 PM
1

I made a sizable amount of money over the summer I'll probably work on some therapy when school is out. I'll find a nearby place where I can talk to someone.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 11:55 AM
1

I was referring to my parents. They really aren't on board with therapy. They just expect me to be put together all on my own. Which for the most part I'd say I did alright with very little support. Definently getting one in college. Just have to suffer for like 12 more months.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 11:44 AM
1

I did. Personal experience is a bitch.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 10:49 AM
2

Cancel culture is bad I agree. However black pill should be considered domestic terrorism because it is. It encourages violence, replace Christians instead of women and you realize that black pill are jihadists.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 10:48 AM
1

"Son, you're not crazy you don't need therapy" 🙄 honestly bruh I'll take a therapist before a girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 10:45 AM
2

Well I'm not planning to date in high school. I have a brief history of girls that really hurt me in some regard and that is what convinced me at one point to go to TRP. It's a decision I'll regret forever. Imagine the feeling you get when Realize that you are a misogynist who hates women? It's a razor blade to the balls. I pretty much had an intervention from my sister. I left TRP reluctant on moving on and returning to the abusive community. I always had doubts on the idea of hypergamy. It mad…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 10:43 AM
2

I'm trying
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 03:33 AM
3

😭 god I'm really hormonal rn. I can't believe I'm tearing up like a little bitch. 😂
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 03:21 AM
3

I first have to get over the trauma that red pill/black pill brings. I made a post recently about my story. I wish I never went to TRP in the first place. It literally makes you evil. When I came to the Realization that I became a misogynist my world fell into pieces. Pieces I'm still sweeping up. I'm branded for life being a pseudo incel. I don't think anyone would want to date me. I certainly wouldn't.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 03:07 AM
1

Thank you. Most of the comments have very little excercises that help. They just tell me to be one way. I want to get there, but people have to realize red pill can cause emotional wounds. Redpill hurt my heart worse than any girl I have ever dated. And that's saying something because my dating life is full of shit people. I won't let you down.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:57 AM
2

As long as I'm not shaking that hand we gonna be just fine
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:53 AM
-1

All dating advice is Predatory. The only way to navigate dating is your own way.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:52 AM
3

Red pill isn't for anyone it hurts people.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:13 AM
4

You know fair enough. I've been a little stressed lately.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:12 AM
1

You wouldn't know why he isn't responding to my comments would you? I just want to cover something I mistyped in my post.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:05 AM
2

Sex is harshly over rated. I just want someone to hold hands with.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:02 AM
2

The "getting any" was mistyped. I was referring to actual relationships, not sex. I realized that and fixed it.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 02:01 AM
1

I Quit porn 3+ months ago. I'd take 8 hours of sleep over 30 minutes of fun and an hour of shame any day.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 01:57 AM
1

Yeah honestly.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 01:39 AM
-1

So my point still stands. don't trust given advice and learn hands on experience.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 01:37 AM
1

I want you to know that I have begun focusing on my educational pathway. I wouldn't say I'm depressed tho. The lonely part hits spot on. All advice for dating is bad because only yourself can make an approach work. I need an approach hand tailored to me. Not what redpill or black pill wants me to be. I want people to know that no approach ever works because they it worked out for the person giving you advice, not to you. A realistic approach to dating is fucking experience. If you don't have exp…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 01:35 AM
1

There a tons of sexually attractive girls around my high school. It doesn't mean I'm going to jump their bones given the chance. I want to be in a relationship, not friends with benefits
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 06:10 PM
1

Yes. But I'd rather not have casual sex. I have no desire to bed someone I don't love.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 05:25 PM
0

Yeah that's pretty important I'd say. I feel like guys are extremely thirsty. I'd feel bad to be a girl.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 10:43 AM
1

You make fair points but what if I land in that minority? What then?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 10:01 AM
1

Funny. one of the people said I was a self righteous asshole here. Very well could be true, but I'm working on it.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 09:00 AM
1

Btw I know you and I are both getting annoyed from this argument. So what can we do to reach an understanding and a solution to the problems you stated. I want to be mentally put together before my senior year of HS. I love the fact that you are challenging my viewpoint and I want to learn from it. So if you feel so inclined to help me be more "approachable" I am an approachable person, people seek me out often. But I wouldn't mind being even more approachable. I try my best not to have a cold d…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 08:57 AM
1

I really don't feel ready for sex yet. Not that wouldn't mind the possibility. I kinda want to save it for college you know?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 08:51 AM
1

I do want to thank you for your opinion. I'll try to see things your way and check those things put when I go to school. Is there anything that I could notice that would help me prove your point? What should I look to notice when I'm in school to tell if you are right? Because I don't want be wrong, but I do want to grow.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 08:49 AM
0

That's fair enough. But I really dont see myself as better than everyone. I don't just respect like minded people. Intelligence is just one quality. I don't hate people for a moral disagreement. Hell, one of my closest friends who is a girl is a non monogamist. I fundamentally disagree with how she dates, but I don't feel herself superior. I respect her because she's self assured and extremely energetic. You have to Realize that everyone has a certain type of intelligence. There's emotional, log…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:56 AM
0

I'm certainly sure there a people who have more depth than i do. Though I wouldn't say you really know enough about me to fully assess that? I'm sure that I can't change your fundamental opinion about me and I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing. Adversity is healthy for growth. I certainly still pertain some black and white views on dating, however I would never say my experience is law, you get me? if you want to measure depth in a more thorough level than just first impression by all m…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:28 AM
3

Couldn't agree more. I actually can't stand girls without boundaries. If I ask a girl what she wants and she says whatever is fine. I think 2 things: a) she doesn't give a fuck about the date. B) she has no character and self respect. I feel like in some regard people forget that men like to be an object of affection too. Not all of us put sex at #1. I no doubt have insecurities the post I made clearly stated in in some regard. However I've come to observe that most of the macho guys are project…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:19 AM
1

But what sets them apart from me? It's peter dinklage for christ's sake! My track record is pretty bad when it comes to picking the right girl. I've been everyone's bitch until I barked back. I stopped consuming TRP content ages ago. I just find it unrealistic when someone will tell me that everything will be ok. I've yet to meet a girl who accepts me for who I am and how I date. I'm not an assertive guy and I will not bend my knee to sexist gender roles. My issue in life is that everyone's pers…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 01:07 AM
1

It's more of I want the skill to when the time arises. I'm focused on my military pathway starting with college. I worry alot about my future because I have lofty goals. I have a surging ambition and desire to achieve my goals. I have 3 LTGs Start a family Become a full bird colonel Become a prosthetics engineer Do you know how difficult it is to balance three goals like that at age 17? It's fucking hard. I put a lot of pressure on myself because no one else will. I hate window shopping. I'm not…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 11:28 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 11:12 PM
1

I'm working out to impress myself first. Because if I'm not Impressed, I won't have the confidence to impress girls
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 11:11 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 11:10 PM
1

Oh I spit out the red pill, but I have doubts if that was the right decision. I don't know if college dating is superficial. I hope it isn't. I plan to have a dedicated military career so I won't have room for dating in the USAF. I feel like my deadline is 28 or I'm fucked.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:44 PM
6

REALLY? Oh my god. I think my brain just finally connected that TRP preys on sheltered children
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:40 PM
1

For me TRP is like a back burner. I fundamentally believe that TRP is bullshit and the other advice I get is helpful. But it always comes to mind is what if TRP is right? Can I accept being single and old? It's something I'm working through. I am showing signs of progress, but I want to feel secure if that makes sense?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:35 PM
4

I get it. I just struggle with gender roles. I don't feel like I should always have to be the strong and decisive one. My preference is a girl that isn't afraid to answer the question "what would you want to do?"
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:32 PM
6

I have been starting too. I did a bit of volunteer work for the environment with some college folk. It's a nice change of pace. It feels like people I could roll with. It also helps stop the confirmation bias a bit
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:12 PM
1

I'm not buying it. Like I'm not hiring someone to do it with
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:08 PM
1

Every case is different, but I can't compete in my high school. The majority of my high school is above a 6. Not to mention most of the folks in the school are 5'10+ it's crazy. High school is extremely superficial
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:08 PM
4

I don't care about looks actually. I just want a girl who isn't mean to others. Not a lot of girls in my high school are good people. Also they have no depth, I cant talk about my passions with them.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:06 PM
1

That's so sad.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 11:09 PM
2

Finally a man who truly Is based
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 08:34 PM
1

Depends on the issue. Clearly He has redpill behavior. But he also exposes issues that need to be discussed, I personally don't like his voice so I can't listen to his content without getting Exhausted. I prefer roma army but opinions are like assholes.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/21 06:08 AM
1

Assertiveness is overrated, just don't be a doormat and have boundaries. You dont have to be and dominance minded individual.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:32 PM
1

I agree. It's a huge problem nowadays. Conservatism is not something that should be replaced by the redpilled ideology. Not that I am a conservative but I advocate for all sides of an argument. My biggest problem with TRP is the idea of rejection of the idea that women are capable of love and then say that they are able of loving you if you abuse them, which is absolute bs.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:26 PM
2

Honestly. I wish more men out there focused on establishing boundaries and how they are treated rather than how hot the girl is. I've seen this in my high school where they all chase after the worst girl in existence. Like she's literally nothing but a walking source of drama and these idiots flock toward her and defend her shitty behavior. It's so stupid.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:23 PM
2

However not all conservatives are in the RP mindset. Why? Because there are rational people. "Redpilled" men aren't.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:20 PM
1

Double standards
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:17 PM
16

I'm sorry but they are gonna have to settle this in the beydeblade arena.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 04:15 PM
5

Don't forget Think Before You Sleep
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 06:47 PM
2

^ Couldn't have put it better myself. But referring to your older comment I'd have to say this can be hard considering how reserved I can be. Doesn't help that I'm super insecure and go through mood swings.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 07:02 PM
1

I understand what you are getting at however, living a life where you are hurt constantly can make you discouraged to find someone like that. Most men who enter TRP are average men who are heartbroken. It's not something that can be fixed easily. Insecurities come from an outside source, but are perpetuated within. From someone who is currently in high school I can tell you how terrible social media is. The internet creates shallow people. Sensitive men are sensitive to everything, especially ne…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:14 PM
9

It is, in fact, cringe
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:09 PM
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