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Man, I’ve been feeling pretty disillusioned from this subreddit lately because I just didn’t agree with half the shit I was seeing. However, as a newbie, I thought maybe I was just still super set in my blue pill ways. I thought maybe the cognitive dissonance was overpowering my rationality, and I was falling away from what I thought was THE solution to my unsatisfying life. But the core is still there. Get in shape, focus on yourself, work towards your own empire. A lot of posts here seem to be…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:00 PM
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Idk if I’m too fat or not. I’m 5’8” 340 pounds. I had someone on another post suggest I get to at least 250 before starting.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:09 PM
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Well I’ve got a lot of weight to lose first, but that’s definitely a goal for next year. I even know a blue belt at a close by gym who’s always telling me I should join. If I can keep up with my gym schedule, I’ll be able to start soon.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:54 PM
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Reading No More Mr. Nice Guy was what actually got me thinking about this lol
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:52 PM
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I don’t think I’m in a position to do that, brother. I’ve got a whoooole lot to learn about being a man first.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:35 PM
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Well I’m assuming my only option is pretty much online as far as red pill is concerned. It kinda sucks being in the south though, because it seems like a lot of the guys around here “get it”, but I don’t think they have any clue what “it” is. Good problem to have though lol I do have one friend in real life that’s red pill aware, but we still don’t really talk about it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 05:34 PM
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I’m hoping to be moving to my own apartment by the end of the year. I’ve pretty much settled on the idea of going into monk mode once I’m done moving and everything, as well as being more selective with who I let in. I’ve got a couple friendships that I’m just gonna let die once I’m on my own. I’ve got enough good ones, so the rest can be acquaintances at best. Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 08:33 PM
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Gonna take control of it for damn sure! I’ll look into cico, I’ve never heard of it before. I appreciate the info, brother.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:43 PM
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Screenshotting this for future reference on harder days. I appreciate you, brother.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:42 PM
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I do, brother. I’m fortunate that being this heavy for this long hasn’t affected me the way it probably should have, and I’m feeling a lot of weight lifting off of my shoulders (literally) now that I’m doing something about it.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:40 PM
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Goddamn bro, I’m gonna have to screenshot this for future reference. Hell of a lot of insight to meditate on there. I appreciate the hell out of it, brother.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:39 PM
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You’re right, brother. A big takeaway I’ve gotten here is to stop focusing on this shit, and put it all in the red pill basket. Hell, I just had to turn down my best friend going out to sushi. We do that shit every Thursday. But now Thursday is a gym day for me, and that’s got to come first.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:38 PM
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You got that right, brother. One mountain at a time.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:33 PM
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I appreciate that, brother.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:47 AM
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I’ve actually got a friend who’s been trying to talk me into going, and I’m definitely interested. BJJ has been showing up a lot in the videos I’ve been watching to learn more about healthy lifestyles and stuff. Do you think I should lose more weight first, or no? Because it seems like the weight would keep me from being able to practice such a technical martial art like that.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:09 AM
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It’s honestly amazing how many of the guys at work are talking about coming to the gym with me. And I don’t wanna imply that I’m walking around like “yeah, I’m going to the gym now, gonna get buff as shit, no big deal brah.” My roommate works with me, and I mentioned it to him. Mentioned it to another coworker that I know goes to the gym I was looking at, and he joined me yesterday. Now other people are wanting to join in already. I’m obviously not alpha yet, but you’re right when you say the sh…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:06 AM
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I’ll look for one when I get my groceries for the week. Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:57 AM
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Right. Well, moving in with friends helped me to shake things up enough to start making better choices. Now I’m on my way to getting an apartment and learning how to cook healthy meals instead of what my roommates make, which isn’t always health-conscious. I know I’ll hit a rough patch in the future that’s gonna really test me, and make me consider falling off this whole thing. I’m looking into mindset changes that’ll prepare me for that. But for now, I enjoy the changes I’ve made, and it finall…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:56 AM
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The self-respect definitely should come first, you’re right. Thankfully, I can feel myself developing it every time I make myself go to the gym, or read my books instead of playing video games. I appreciate the insight, brother.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:32 PM
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Forming new friendships once I’m making more ground on my journey seems to be the big takeaway here, and I’m fine with that. I feel like I’m already meeting some of them, but I need to wait until I develop more red pill behavior before really engaging them. And I’ve got a pretty good neckbeard to go with my long ass hair, so once I lose more weight, I’ll be able to pull off a pretty solid rocker look lol I appreciate it, brother.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:13 PM
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I do believe finding new friends is gonna be a big part of this journey for me, but the guys that shit on me in good fun are very distinct, so I’m trying to talk to them a little more. But yeah, as far as coming back in a year as a new man, that’s exactly what’s keeping me in the gym lol I appreciate your words, brother.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:09 PM
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No problem on the whole women front, really. But you’re right. I’m fortunate that I’m not fucking bed ridden by now, and can actually do something to correct it. The motivation to keep going to the gym is strong, so if I keep hitting the books and keeping my head in the right place, it’ll all work out. Thanks, brother.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:07 PM
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I appreciate the help, brother. I would say it’s mostly “ribbing”, and I can handle that because the dudes that do it are very good at making it clear it’s all in good fun. In fact, it’s the “closer” friends that tend to poke at shit they know I’m sensitive about. Idk if they’re trying to toughen me up, as I have drunkenly mentioned how I need to develop a thicker skin, but it could also be an AMOG situation because they tend to be great when it’s just me they’re around. I’ll definitely check th…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:05 PM
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It’s less that I care, and more that I would like to “learn the craft”, so to speak. Sure, some of the more accurate or personal insults still get to me, but I’m not expecting that to go away overnight or anything. I have struggled with the idea that maybe some of my friends only like me because of my blue-pilled ways, and that the relationship won’t survive the change. I’m fine with that, but they’re good at trash talking, and I wanna learn how. Might as well use ‘em while I have ‘em, y’know?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:18 PM
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Kids have never been something I want, but I feel a lot of my values/wants will change as I start this journey. I wasn’t aware that 30 was kind of a prime time for men. That makes me feel a lot better, actually. I’m gonna hit that prime in this decade thanks to all of this information.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:12 PM
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That’s the plan. I’m going to start with the essential reading, and then move on to the physical aspect of TRP.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:09 PM
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Yeah, it’s a bummer that I’m turning 30 this year and just now started seeing this. But at least maybe my thirties will be more fulfilling instead of...well, whatever the fuck they would’ve been lol
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:33 PM
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I saw that there is a PDF of the sidebar now on TRP. Gonna start reading after work today, and go one step at a time. I appreciate the insight.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:22 PM
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Gotcha. One step at a time, let the fuck ups come, and keep on trucking.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:20 PM
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Women aren’t a priority to me right now. Obviously I get lonely and crave female company, but I know it would be a waste of time until I can interact with them a little more successfully.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:18 PM
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I appreciate it. With this quarantine shit I’ve been able to slow down and look at a budget. Planning to move out into my own apartment soon, and if I can get a raise, I’ll be able to factor a gym membership into that budget. Until then, I’ve been paying more attention to my diet, so I’ll start with working on the physical aspect.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:18 AM
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Right. I mean, I guess if I just broke down my job into an ordered list of steps and rules, it would probably seem overwhelming to a new employee. And I definitely fucked up in every way possible before I got to where I am, and I STILL fuck up lol I suppose I should try to find that lack of give a fuck, and apply it to TRP guidelines. It’s a job, and you can certainly find a different one, but not a better one.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:15 AM
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I’ve accepted that the guys I thought were assholes just have the shit figured out, and I don’t. That’s why I phrased it that way.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:10 AM
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Right, makes sense. The shit just seems insurmountable from here, I guess. But I can remember before I learned how to drive, and thinking how impossible it would be to just drive on my own. And now I do the shit like it’s second nature. Does RedPill really take the same trajectory?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:26 AM
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