TheGamble Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
463	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.		TheGamble	/r/seduction	15/12/11 02:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you. I see where you are coming from here. I don't take anything that comes at me. I won't even one-night a woman if I don't find her my type. Its a very mutual choice in my book, and I know I'm not the only guy this way.	/r/seduction	30/06/13 05:16 PM
10	When you become your best self you don't get the girl, the girl gets you. Its not gender-dependent. Seeking a lady to "choose" you is a very needy mentality and is a reflection of low self-value. When I go out, I have a great time, talk to people everywhere, and if a girl catches my eye, I'll progress it. The only say that they get in the matter is whether or not they share my interest. If not, who cares, I'm having a great night. If I end up not liking them, who cares, I'm having a great night. If it goes well, outstanding, I'm having a great night. Get the picture?	/r/seduction	30/06/13 07:02 AM
3	I f*ed it up, Seddit. How do I get it back? Sell her a fantasy. Joke about how she needs to roll back to CT (or wherever you met) so you can raid a zoo and break out some zebras, steal a boat, escape to the Bahamas, and live half-naked on the beach in a hut drinking rum and chilling with exotic animals. Doesn't matter what you say. Then anytime you think "Fuck, I want to nail this girl!" hit her with "So are we going to break away to the deserted island and have hot ravenous sex today?" Give her a reason to meet up with you. Be clear with…	/r/seduction	19/12/11 03:47 AM
7	Any tips for "after sex" game? Red Bull all over my desk, thanks. Roll up a newspaper and give a little swat on the nose when she doesn't finish. Throw in a "nnnnNO!"	/r/seduction	17/12/11 04:24 AM
1	[FR] - Bits and Bobs Ha, the horrible, fake accent is gold. One of my wings did that for a couple months, but anytime somebody would be like "Your accent is so bad, you're not Australian," he would just laugh, and in plain English say "No shit, you think foreigners come all the way to this bar just to flirt with you?" before switching back to the accent and patting her shoulder and saying "Eyes up, love, it's a jolly lil funny!".	/r/seduction	17/12/11 04:19 AM
2	Big night? Here's a little trick to get into frame. See, I'm usually torn, because my favorite barber shop is all guys (and I love shooting the shit with them), but the other one I like has nothing but chatty, flirty girls, plus you get a complimentary massage. Gets the mind right for conversation and kino.	/r/seduction	17/12/11 03:56 AM
1	Big night? Here's a little trick to get into frame. Ha, sounds like my "GET PUMPED" routine. I throw on some AC/DC (Moneytalks is my pre-game shit) or Van Halen while I knock out some pull-up/dips/pushups, get groomed up, slam a red-bull, and by the time I roll out, I'm not just TheGamble, I'm TheGamble on steroids and blow.	/r/seduction	17/12/11 03:52 AM
2	[FR] I chickened out. Thanks for the FR. I'd say "you missed" but you didn't take the shot. Now, to be constructive: Her being home at 11:30 was a false time constraint on her part. Now, sometimes you can't realize that ahead of time, but honestly, when 11:31 rolled around and she was still sitting in your car talking about sex... Look, you were catching all sorts of interest from her. If you're not sure if you can kiss a girl or not, try this: Look at her eyes, stop talking. When she looks at your eyes, look at her …	/r/seduction	17/12/11 03:38 AM
3	Please stop with the inner vs. outer game bullshit; it's a false dichotomy to begin with. First, thank you for the post. As someone who recently authored a few walls of text, I appreciate the time and effort invested in this. Agreed. Character modifications are the hardest and most time-consuming to make, and it's why the "Fake it until you make it" doesn't work with everyone. People are being instructed actions, rather than concepts. Thank you for your piece on being honest with yourself. You put into words what I've been trying to explain to friends for a while. To hit on your bonu…	/r/seduction	17/12/11 03:30 AM
1	Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men. Quick! We've been exposed! Get him!	/r/seduction	16/12/11 01:38 AM
10	Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men. Ha, good humor is still good when you're the butt of the joke. I can't remember where the quote comes from, but it goes something like "Man hates libel for its lies, and satire for its truths."	/r/seduction	15/12/11 10:26 PM
27	Guys, we need to talk about this. Women should be treated like innocent children who need to be protected and sheltered from big bad men. -slowclap- Hell, this is good, even if it missed my point. Have an upboat.	/r/seduction	15/12/11 10:07 PM
2	Acting alpha makes it difficult to judge attraction (semi-FR) Hell yea-- wait, is that like a dance-off, but with rape? Seeing who can rape the other one better? Need more popcorn for this.	/r/seduction	15/12/11 08:42 PM
2	Approaching is no problem, but I always chicken out. You're on the right track kinda, but as puaCurveBall stated, you're just shifting your AA. Try opening more sets. I don't just mean women, I mean anyone. Just talk to people. The clerk at the gas station? Strike up some small talk, just sit for a minute or two and talk. Dude sitting next to you on the train? Chat with him. Girl you see everyday at the coffee shop? Find out what she does with her life. You don't always have to execute a pickup in order to profit and gain. It doesn't have to be so…	/r/seduction	15/12/11 08:16 PM
0	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. I agree, we don't see a lot of it here. Most of what I see is either on RSD or the puaforums, but we're all the same larger community. As you said, the majority of seddit is solid. My goal is to keep it that way, if not greater, via positive reinforcement. I see some of the shit going on outside and it'd be pretty sad to see it leak here. The sad thing is, our community catches a lot of heat (not just from within reddit, but from society as a whole) because of shit like RSD and where the communi…	/r/seduction	15/12/11 06:04 AM
36	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. You bounce. Those aren't shitty women. Those are shitty people. Fuck shitty people.	/r/seduction	15/12/11 05:46 AM
14	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. That's the thing though, there's a large population of us who this won't apply to. That's not who I'm talking to. I'm talking to those that don't understand the concept of "leaving better than you found them." Those that don't understand that this is, as you put it, empirical, as well as those who knew it at one point, but have lost sight of it. Shitredditsays is extreme, there's no way around it. They're the PETA of civil rights, if PETA dosed up on meth and steroids. That doesn't mean they can…	/r/seduction	15/12/11 04:03 AM
1	[FR] Day 2: Bowling. Agreed. A note on planning an "after" bowling. I've found it good to research the area, be aware of what's around that you can use to "jump" to. Find the local venues, bars, karaoke clubs, anything that stays open, and make a note of the times they are open and especially when they are pumping. That way, if your night is going great and you want to continue, you can just choose what to do next and roll with it. The cocktail party sounds right up your alley, I'm pretty confident you'll have a bla…	/r/seduction	14/12/11 11:12 PM
1	[FR] Day 2: Bowling. Thanks for the FR! There's not a lot of Day 2's on here. Just a couple of questions for you. What are the things you feel you did positively here? Just 3-5 points where you know you were the heat, know you handled the situation at hand great. Here's what I see: I liked that you got her talking about her passions. This is good, keep this up. You're spot on about not neglecting the girl's state. Bowling is a great Day 2: It's something you're either good at, or you aren't. Get a feel for how skill…	/r/seduction	14/12/11 08:23 PM
3	How do you prevent girls from getting too clingy/emotionally attached after sleeping with them? Seconded. I'm a fair bit the natural, and when I was younger I did the same: Manipulate to make things happen. It was absolutely horrible, and it's why I'm so upfront nowadays. Can I get laid any time I want? Yeah, I guess. Does the end justify the means? Not like that, not in my eyes, not anymore. I have to agree in part with what you said, OP - sometimes the girl does want a douchebag scapegoat to justify her ONS. Sometimes. Remember the key - all women are different, they all want different t…	/r/seduction	14/12/11 07:55 PM
3	Is this not the worst pickup you've ever seen? Ugh, this show is garbage. This is why people look at this community in a negative light, and it makes me sad. You aren't bettering yourself and becoming a superior person by hitting the bar and dragging home the sloppiest, drunkest, unable-to-consent-est girls. You're doing what every regular AFC does. Way to go, heroes. Congrats for closing, I guess. The real question is, would you be proud?	/r/seduction	14/12/11 05:39 AM
14	How do you prevent girls from getting too clingy/emotionally attached after sleeping with them? Be more apparent in your intentions, man. Make it aware that your attraction is carnal if that's all it is. Generally the ladies that I'm not interested in establishing feelings for will get this idea anyways, just because we aren't that into eachother. I go for the "Look, I don't think we'd work out, but we've been chilling all night, I'm sexy, you're sexy, we're attracted to eachother - Come on, let's go knock your headboard off the rails." Is this going to disqualify you a little? Yeah. Some …	/r/seduction	14/12/11 05:23 AM
9	Introducing my job Professional response: "I manage security/I'm a security consultant." Mysterious response: Use Tradman's "professional criminal" bit. I like that. You could spruce it up a bit with "I'm a professional criminal" when they look at you weird, follow up with "I get paid to break security." Playful response: "You know those guys that take apart their favorite toys just to see how they work? I get paid to do that." For example, I work with satellites for a living, specifically at fixing problems and m…	/r/seduction	12/12/11 08:52 PM
9	[FR] Fourth date from OKCupid. Epic fail. Urge to kill rising... rising... falling... rising... Usually coffee shops are located around other venues of entertainment, but if not, you can do a couple of things. First, if your area is more spread out, than chances are that the girl understands and knows this as well. If you both drove and met up at the coffee place, you can either both jump in your car (preferred), or both drive to the next location (try to keep the driving below 10 minutes for this). At your next location, say... the bar, if you want to move to go grab some dinner or someth…	/r/seduction	12/12/11 05:51 AM
2	[FR] Pullilng 6 Girls From the Bar With a Turkey Leg and some PUA skills w/ Pics. Bitch, Life is my Video Game. DO IT. As they start to respond, if you have the social proof, throw in some car noises. "Vrooooooo-ERRRR" for the brakes and what not. I find I can get away with being over the top with a handful of references. Chick with a massive purse? "Whoa, Arnold, how much you benching with that purse?" Don't use Star Trek/Wars references, and especially not ones people outside of Reddit won't get (obviously), but you'd be surprised what you can get away with. A few months ago I called a short chick with …	/r/seduction	12/12/11 05:13 AM
3	[FR] Pullilng 6 Girls From the Bar With a Turkey Leg and some PUA skills w/ Pics. Bitch, Life is my Video Game. I love using "PUMP THE BRAKES, SPEED RACER."	/r/seduction	12/12/11 05:05 AM
37	[FR] Fourth date from OKCupid. Epic fail. Urge to kill rising... rising... falling... rising... Seconded. I don't do dinner dates - it's too much time in one location. Meet at a coffee shop, order a small drink. After you're finished, move to another scene that only absorbs 20-30 minutes. Now, you can double this up. A bookstore with a Starbucks? After coffee, tell her to find her favorite book. You can use this to push or pull depending on what you need at the time. ("Really? Stephanie Meyer? I'm dating the average American teenager." said with a smile and playful body language, for examp…	/r/seduction	12/12/11 04:59 AM
2	My First FR. 1 HB7, 2 HB9, and countless IOIs from other girls in the venue. I'm tired as all get-out and don't really have anything constructive to say other than what Karaktor mentioned about making use of your social proof, BUT I would like to say that this was a good read, and thanks for the FR.	/r/seduction	11/12/11 02:21 AM
1	FR: 8 sets opened, 2 K-closes, 1 LMR nah, it's all about location, man. Same with regular, white Americans. Every country I go to, I'm some sort of premium breed.	/r/seduction	11/12/11 01:12 AM
1	Will Online Dating Destroy Game for Average Guys? The problem lies when a woman takes a look at a guy's pictures and makes a split second assessment (and screens for objective metrics like height, income, race) when in person I can charm them with my game, wit and personality. You have to admit though, that's the nature of this beast. Online dating is catalog shopping. Not just for girls, but us too. Make your ad appeal to your strengths and charms. If a girl doesn't hit you back, it's not always something you did wrong. They just weren't inter…	/r/seduction	09/12/11 11:35 PM