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| 40 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions! | TheGarethJones | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 01:53 AM | |
| 29 | Hi, I'm Gareth Jones and I wrote an article about men's "High Standards" that I think guys struggling meeting the "right girl" should read. | TheGarethJones | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 06:18 AM |
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| 1 | Advice on Vegas?Molto importante! | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Advice on Vegas?Hey brother, just stumbled across this super ironically. I'm actually coming to vegas tomorrow for ten days to teach and speak at a conference, but i have taught tons of workshops in vegas. Here's what you do; dress well. In vegas, women are actively looking for fun, so they do a ton of complimenting guys when they dress well. Go to the side bars in the hotels (the ones with names you've never heard of). When afternoon turns to evening (and also, sometimes early afternoon-12pm or 1pm) girls will… | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Hi, I'm Gareth Jones and I wrote an article about men's "High Standards" that I think guys struggling meeting the "right girl" should read.I did an AMA one time, wayyyy back in the day, but now I'm an avid redditor (on a sneaky account) and really have a grasp of how the whole thing works. I put this up yesterday and it got quite a bit of attention from (oddly enough, the NYC female BDSM crowd) and have enough confidence in it to share it here. Hope it helps. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Alright, guys! I'm off for the night! Thanks for checking in with your questions and please check out ABCs Of Attraction for more info, my personal blog for my field reports and general nonsense, and our signup page for more information on all of our bootcamps. Thanks for coming and I hope you all have a great night! NOW GO OUT AND TALK TO GIRLS!!!!! -Gareth Jones | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!The best way to do this, though, is to show social proof and demonstrate Preselection by Women. That way, they will think YOU are LJBFing them. Frankly, I don't believe the LJBF zone is permanent. A lot of guys try and try with women, which puts them off, or they ignore the sexual aspect and continue ignoring it (which is why they think there is no sexuality with a woman). These two things keep them clear of sexual interaction and cock-block themselves. Get a sexy wing or a circle of girlfriends… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Alright, guys! Last chance to get your questions answered before Ben and I go tear it up! Favorite color, best movie to watch during a date; we can do it all! | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Hell yeah! Can't wait! | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!You must mean "Oh, this is Gareth's first text that he teaches because he is the master and is handsome and smells nice." I think you may have mistyped it ;) | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Haha. Sounds good. My birthday fell on our Vegas bootcamp this year so my celebrations were company-sponsored. TOUGH LIFE. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!I have 7 or 8 videos taken from the Casanova Crew lairtalk I did on the mechanics of texting. Check it out for some scripts and a more complete explanation. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZZVQNXZY2g | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Hey Daveoh! HOW YA GOIN, M8?? I will see you in November! I fucking LOVE Hugo's and have picked up a zillion babes there. If I had to start from scratch I would give myself the same two rules I had when I started and the same two rules I give my students. 1) Have fun: If you're not having fun, you're going to get burned out and eventually fold. On top of that, girls go out to have fun and when you're not having fun, you're taking that fun away from them 2) Enjoy the process: The art of learning … | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Totally my pleasure! | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Ohhh.. Hm. I've only been a few times, but we always go to XS and Tryst, and they're a blast. Tao is a huge hit, too, but I've never been. All my celeb friends go, though ;) ;) | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!YES! You are totally correct, but here's the reason why: BECAUSE GUYS ARE LAME ON THE PHONE. Girls are gonna go towards the path of least resistance and, when a guy has incorrect (boring, awkward) vocal tonality on the phone, it puts them off and they naturally learn to avoid that. Being able to call girls is still a sign of balls, but you have to do it correctly. I always focus on being prepared (having a list of the things to talk about) and having a PURPOSE (this is HUGE!). Do you want to mak… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:34 AM |
| 12 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Okay, so check it: You keep shooting out places where you're at, but not getting any confirmation. This is like if I constantly tell you where I am, you can say "hahaha okay" but you're not actually investing in me, which means that you have no real obligation to attend. Another aspect to consider is if you're actually individualizing these invitations. Yes, you can use her name or a petname or whatever, but in a seduction, you're not just gonna waltz up to her and say "Let's go over here" and t… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Lindsay, I've only had your phone number for like 3 hours. I was on Facebook chat with you BECAUSE I lost your number. Though, in all seriousness, we can address a few issues with guys here. The simplest is that the guy communicates differently than you think to, i.e. he communicates a ton over Twitter, rather than text. The next is that he may have some weird logistical issue at hand (meaning he may not have unlimited texting or that he may have a lame phone). Another interesting logistical iss… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!No Phone or Text questions? Come on! I'm an EXPERT! Let's hammer out some of that nonsense we learn on the internet and get some REAL results. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:02 AM |
| 6 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!No you didnt. None of this happened. DON'T WORRY GOVERNMENT LURKERS. WE'RE JUST JOKING! | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!I definitely can, and let me take a minute to thank you for setting this whole thing up. It's a great honor to be included with the likes of Savoy and Wygant in these Q&As! Much like our method, the ABCs came about in a very organic way. JT "The Asian Playboy" simply was sick of failing with women. He is (as you may know) a 5'6 Asian guy living in a country where the 6"+ white guys get all the tail. After breaking up with a long-term girlfriend (a white girl), he realized that he knew nothing ab… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Like I said, drinks on you next time ;) If you look at the attraction switches that are necessary for women, you'll find pretty much the whole list of things women need in a man. Things like Man of Action, Sexual Safety, Ambition, Passion, Financial Security, and Protector of Loved Ones are some really important examples. We must remember that women mate based on Survival and Replication, not on physical appearance. Things like being able to take care of and protect your woman are incredibly imp… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Since it's a Federal Crime. I will say, on this very moniterable internet, that I DEFINITELY AM NOT. However, if we were in person, I would wink and we would laugh a lot. With a stewardess, too. | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!It's my pleasure! You can take me out for a drink anytime to thank me! Hahah. When i read this out loud, Ben said "Do it. Fucking, do it." which generally sums up how I feel. Going direct is a really powerful thing as it shows that you are willing to be sexual, dominant, confident, and most especially vulnerable. It shows women that you aren't just going with a shot gun approach and trying to hit on every girl in sight. However, it does require much higher PASSIVE value (as, who wants a complime… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Ooooh. Good one! Picked up a babe in Dulles Airport and had her delay her flight until the next day so I could take her to a hotel! I'm gonna have an epic field report up on TheGarethJones.com in a bit, so be sure to check that out. Other places that are awesome are places like grocery stores and malls, but the trick is that you can open women ANYWHERE. I've picked up girls on planes (which is a ton of fun, but many guys shy away from), in campgrounds, and at carnivals. The trick is to always be… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!A set? "Hey guys. What's going on over here?" That takes a LOT of passive value and confidence, so next time try something like "Hey guys, I need your help. I'm trying to help my little brother talk to girls, but I'm noticing all these douches saying the dumbest crap. Can I park it with you guys for a bit and see what kind of things guys say and get your input?" This is always a blast and will be a lot of fun in the meantime. If you want a foolproof opener, walk up to the girl, turn her firmly b… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Gareth, here. I saw this one posted a few days ago and I've been thinking about it. The advantage of being a professional PUA is that you have generally had to chug through hundreds of sets to get where you are and certain beliefs have organically grown through that process. The ones that I find that help my students out the most start right at the beginning. #1: Don't try to "open" her or "seduce" her. Go and find out what she and her friends are doing and if it's any fun. This is much like if … | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!This is an interesting question! I'm going to assume you mean 'UNconscious' eye contact and see what kind of information I can lend. Eye contact is an INCREDIBLY important part of seduction, as it ensures her that you're not only present, but that you're interested. I used to have a hard time with maintaining eye contact, as losing eye contact loses credibility with the woman and shows that you're trying to hide something (in most cases). Generally, the problem men have is feeling uncomfortable … | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?Hey guys, Gareth Jones here. I just started posting on here as we (ABCs Of Attraction) are doing an IAMA next week and thought I should peek around a bit and this seems to be a really interesting situation that raises a whole bunch of interesting questions. As opposed to trying to solve the problem, let me tell you what goes through my mind when I think about this situation. First: Everyone here can probably agree that the most interesting part of this interaction is that you've already had sex … | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 12:02 PM |
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