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6

It's an easy trap to fall into, one I've lived and one I've seen posted on here many many times, early in a TRP journey a guy falls into a LTR, rather than say something mindless like "read the sidebar" perhaps we talk about that pattern.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 03:27 PM
16

Classic though, you start off TRP and you find yourself a woman higher SMV than you've had before and boom relationship. Someone should write a post about that, for newbies how to NOT jump into a relationship when they first start having success.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 03:06 PM
-6

Shows that you still care though. Definitely not a red pill move.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:10 PM
-9

Quit stalking your ex weirdo
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:06 PM
2

You better fucking get used to tolerating it.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:34 PM
51

7 plates sounds like a legit full time job.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:37 PM
4

awalt
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:35 PM
1

Suggest a bar "If they were open" then suggest grabbing a bottle of wine and going to the park/ somewhere else. her place or yours, etc. Do you have outdoor seating allowed around you? Another solid alternative.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:37 PM
7

The answer was already taken care of, but I wanted to hit on a part no one else had yet. You will be someone's backup plan often, not just in plates but all over life. Get over it or don't, your choice. Honestly, its not really that bad is it?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:35 PM
1

Gotta fuck em first thing in the morning also
/r/askTRP07/08/20 08:03 PM
11

Then why the fuck are you going anywhere? Do you even understand what TRP is? Go get your balls out of your soon to be ex girlfriends purse and replace them in your pants.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:45 PM
45

Always assume attraction This is rookie shit, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:19 PM
103

Yeah, and she calmed down once he entered her frame. She wanted to beat TRP and essentially did (in her mind.)
/r/askTRP22/10/18 01:57 PM
8

She's not your girl, it is just your turn.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:31 PM
8

Get the fuck out of here with that shit. TRP is about taking responsibility for yourself and molding the world for yourself. Not complaining about “white privilege” or some other bullshit excuse of why you can’t get what you want.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:47 PM
2

She's showed me her phone, texts and call logs... She also showed me that he is blocked on there, though I realize it is easy to get around that.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:35 AM
1

I paraphrased. Were it said that was I would have read into that like you did.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:59 AM
1

Got it
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:27 AM
2

Sounds like it’s time for some abundance in my frame.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:11 AM
1

She’s said it’s over and blocked him. He had her number as I guess a bunch of people exchanged numbers. She said she’s going to go to HR if he comes at her again.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:07 AM
2

Hard mode I guess right.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:06 AM
3

I was afraid of that. I considered that as a possibility. This guy seems beta and lame though. No way is she actually interested in him.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:03 PM
2

“You’re an asshole” “You are what you eat”
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:58 AM
5

Discredit competition
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:38 AM
1

Agreed, that’s why I said, most of the shit posted is side bar newbie shit
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:26 PM
1

GLO post = guaranteed gold Half the shit I read on here is side bar rookie shit and it’s frustrating.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 05:59 PM
2

Good stuff
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:29 PM
1

Well, I have no qualms about ending up single again. I started this relationship RP and when it’s over and she’s jumping back onto the CC I will be ready.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:57 AM
1

To clear up your first question, yes nude snap video. Thanks for the rest of the info. I was already considering going forward the initial way you said. If it doesn’t continue say nothing , and if it comes up play it off as I figured she was drunk, etc. If it continues we’ll see where I go with it butthus gives me an idea
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:42 PM
1

What makes you assume I have a high investment in this?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:37 PM
2

You don’t need text game, “let’s do coffee this week, how about tomorrow?” Something along those lines.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 07:35 PM
1

Whenever someone says possible, I read it as Definite oneitis. Move on before you become something you don’t want to be.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:47 PM
5

Nesting after two years seem intense, but I agree here though. It sounds like she does not respect you at all. Also why in the actual fuck would you start a business with a woman?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:46 PM
36

Lmao the response I thought I’d get to be honest. Definitely considered. I am positive I can make it happen, gotta decide if it’s worth the fallout later?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:43 PM
24

My thoughts
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:18 PM
6

Eh, blocking seems a little bp I have enough self control to not do anything stupid there
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:02 PM
2

Always start with coffee. That way you can tell if she’s fucking crazy and you want to bail out. Or if her pictures are 5 years and 50 pounds ago...,
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:00 PM
1

Your life should not even have the chance of being ruined by a women. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:59 PM
14

I doubt that it’s a shit test, Ltr knows I’m much more experienced. She brings it up occasionally, but I usually just ignore or a&a. I was considering just ignoring it for now. If she continues though I’d like to have a plan or an idea. For reference, were I single I would definitely turn her friend into a plate.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:54 PM
2

Agree and amplify is my favorite when that question comes up. “You mean today? Well there was a line outside my apartment I turned most down but slept with about 15 before coming over...” Works best with a lot of sarcasm and a shit eating grin on your face.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:48 PM
5

Waiting is a blue pill move. Show interest and take what you want. That said, you should be busy enough that you just really don’t have time to see this one girl that quickly. Go ahead and respond but talk to some other women as well.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:47 PM
2

Not really going to be a surefire way to dissolve. If you internalize that it’s not your fault and awalt it should help. Focus on your mission. Make goals and complete them. Forget about her. There’s hotter better chicks out there for you.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:36 AM
1

Yeah I made it through my 20s somehow without it!
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:59 AM
3

Man, you says you’re red pill for years, but the above is a lot of textbook red pill. You got oneitis, tried to do a break with her, when she knew she could branch swing. You should know all these things. Read the sidebar again is my suggestion. I wouldn’t monk mode though, get back out there and start gaming new chicks but be brutal this time around. Have fun.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:53 AM
2

"B b but she's different. We have a really special bond!!" I think its easy to believe that because its really nice to hear
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:01 PM
1

If you aren't the top guy a girl is talking tom she wont text you. AKA these chicks have another guy they're more interested in besides you.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:56 PM
1

Why are you going to go NC? Do you mean a soft next?
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:54 PM
1

Seriously this, 35 was my best year ever regarding quality of women. Also my best year financially, and I am in about the best shape I've ever been. I would find it a negative to be any younger at this point.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:53 PM
3

Its just your turn...
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:51 PM
2

Best response to being called an asshole? "You are what you eat" with a big shit eating grin on your face, giving the least amount of fucks possible.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:50 PM
6

Why in the actual fuck are you in asktrp?
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:43 PM
1

First a question for you... do you have other plates?
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:24 PM
1

Have her start calling you daddy and you call her little girl or something like that. Own that shit.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:22 PM
3

The American people know it.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:14 PM
0

I kinda like this idea. The sex is amazing and we have a ton of it.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:01 PM
1

lmfao I missed this part
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:01 PM
3

Yeah, that is my decision at this point. Fun part is, she's at my house right now. But I am kicking her out without explanation.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:13 PM
2

Thing is I knew all of these things. I fucked up, but in the grand scheme of things, maybe its not that big of a deal. I decided to just ghost her. There is always more bitches out there.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:12 PM
2

Yeah kinda my thoughts
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:10 PM
2

Yeah I fucked up by asking. I get it.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:10 PM
2

I've started doing this recently, with differing women asking me to take them to the gym, train them, etc I find its best to make it fun the first few trips. If they stick with it, get them into a routine. Oftimes they are using it for foreplay, so keep it fun and light and do the same workouts. Let them pick something occasionally and tell them how easy it is.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:19 AM
10

Women do not respond to texts for a reason. They ALWAYS fucking see them. They NEVER lose their phone.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:41 PM
13

To piggy back here, you don't need multiple of these signs, one is enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:44 PM
1

That's one book I've skipped for some reason. Perhaps I need to pick it up.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:30 PM
1

I'm curious about what you said here. Care to elaborate? You can me pm
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 08:16 PM
1

Thanks for giving to me straight
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 07:12 PM
3

Not going to lie I laughed at this
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 04:57 AM
2

Yeah it must be hard to keep that up all the time, maybe if you believed the lie yourself it wouldn't be so tough though? Yes I am... she is (was)my primary plate. I may be downgrading her. But I don't see much reason to cut it off. I know a lot of guys on here think that they're going to find that special snowflake. I am not looking for that, and don't believe in it. I am just out having fun.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:03 PM
2

Yea something up for sure. Convenience sure is hard to pass on though, but you're right I should move the fuck on.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:34 PM
1

Probably a bit of column a and a bit of column b. What do you mean about putting up with so many lies?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:32 PM
2

Mistakes? I mean besides seeing her too often what mistakes did I make? It's not like I fell for her or believed her lies at all. Sure after hearing the same story for so long it almost becomes convincing. I'm glad I remained resolute. Mostly the point of my post is to add to the discussion. Everything on the surface looks normal, and she kept up the game for 6 months. Six months is not an insignificant amount of time. It's actually quite impressive.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:31 PM
15

I tested clean , thank god lesson learned
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:52 PM
2

You are correct, not meant as a humble brag. I was trying to add content. I edited some shit out. Hopefully it reads a bit better The point remains, a woman will deceive and deceive, but eventually, or maybe never the truth comes out.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:30 PM
1

You shouldn't care if your plate dates others. If your SMV is high enough and you fuck her right, usually they wont for a while. I'd say, don't next her, just continue to fuck her until she breaks it off for a committed relationship with the BB
/r/askTRP17/06/17 06:02 PM
4

You might have low t. Get it checked. Naturally, lifting increases your testosterone, which will help if that's the case. I notice when I workout, I feel better pretty much all the time. When I do a week or two without, I definitely notice a decrease in daily energy and vigor.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:11 PM
59

That's not really an orbiter. An orbiter usually gets "allowed" into the friend zone. Then they stick around and provide a benefit to the woman, and the woman can string them along and give them tidbits of attention for whatever benefit they are providing. Benefits to the woman include: orbiter being an emotional tampon, attention and gratification, a shopping buddy that's a guy, free meals, other things of monetary value, etc
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:29 PM
0

This is stupid fucking advice.... Remember she's never yours it's just your turn
/r/askTRP07/06/17 01:22 AM
3

Best advice here.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 01:20 AM
0

Someone sounds salty about not following rules 1 and 2. It ain't going anywhere, nothing you can do about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 08:16 PM
2

It's okay to show interest. Say something along the lines of you're interested let's do it again. I have some free time so and so. The just invite her out to a place thing works as the other poster says, but I just want to iterate that it's okay to show interest and not seem "beta"
/r/askTRP02/06/17 04:06 PM
1

Seems super odd, my guess is he's exaggerating his plates, or he's not actually sleeping with any of them
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:24 AM
7

She's not yours, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:19 AM
2

This is really great and it gets me where I am. My mom told me recently, "Don't break her heart..." I don't tell my mom much, but she knew about this one plate, I probably told her too much. That kinda stuck home with me and made me super sad. Not for me, but for this girl. I don't have an interest in LTRing her, but she's hoping for that from me even though I've told her no. Unfortunately, she's an alpha widow who rode the CC for way way too long. Definitely not LTR material. I wonder if she re…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:11 AM
3

Agreed, your self respect is only being sacrificed if you allow it to be on the line. These younguns have no sense of frame control, even the "naturally" red pilled ones
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 04:21 PM
1

Cheap, low investment in time. If she doesn't look like her pictures, etc you can bail easy without losing anything but a little time.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:49 AM
2

Why do you hate the attention? Embrace that shit. They are shit testing you and you are failing. If you are really the alpha you wont give a fuck, or you'll even lose the teasing attention they are giving. Try something like, "Yeah, I know you like that, you should see my back" or something along those lines.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:56 PM
3

Are you in a "committed" relationship with her? If so, why? You've only known her 3 months and she is 1.5 months out of a LTR. She is literally using you for a rebound and probably also as an emotional tampon. If your relationship isn't committed, then you better go start spinning some other plates for Christs sake. Also, fuck her better
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:54 PM
1

Maintain frame, but I would say she isn't worth your time. If she is, then just maintain frame. A&A would work. "Well, you get to spend time with me" , or "You get to get fucked by me," something along those lines
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:51 PM
1

Doesn't sound like a shit test either. When she starts saying "You blah blah blah" that's a shit test
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:49 PM
2

I always go for coffee first. Sit and enjoy a coffee, move onto a beer or glass of wine at another establishment close by. After that, you should be clear to get her home for a hookup if you are worth your salt.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 10:48 PM
1

This is great shit. I'm going to check out the book and site soon
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:32 AM
1

No, no goals with the woman. That seems a little relationship-ey to me. I have plenty of goals.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 07:00 PM
1

Well, that's good at least. Have you been talking to and gaming other chicks? You should, it'll help. I had assumed you only had the one girl, so at least you have that much going.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 05:34 PM
1

No chance in person to do it? I would not message her any more on FB, have you invested a lot of time? Been her emotional tampon? I suggest the side bar.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:37 PM
1

Let me ask you a question. Do you have other plates? I think I know the answer already. You think your red pill. You aren't. Don't use terms like plate if you don't even understand the term.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:30 PM
1

Question, was this not in person then? Was this through FB?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:23 PM
3

Not so fast on that... Giving out your number can show you don't really care and are uninvested. It can show abundance. It's all about your frame. To lower quality women (read 7s) I don't chase at all, I'll just say sure whatever text me, and give them my number.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:21 PM
29

Are you okay having a girlfriend who sleeps with other dudes and gives her number out?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:17 PM
1

I like this... The exact words, that I'm going to go for side pieces and keep it discreet... I'm not sure how to say that with a straight face LMAO
/r/askTRP30/04/17 07:44 AM
0

No goals, some future ish plans
/r/askTRP30/04/17 07:39 AM
1

This might be an option.... enjoy it while I can like said above, but also reduce investment so that she sees her place. Perhaps it will get her to back off of the commitment part, or perhaps it ends it, either way, I think I am good with that.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 11:07 PM
2

Its already the beginning of the end. Kinda my thought process as well, which is why I am posting here. Like I said, I like my current set up. She adds value for sure, but I am in no mood to be committing, I suppose I am just looking for someone to agree with or say what I already know. Thanks man
/r/askTRP29/04/17 09:34 PM
2

Yeah thinking so, just liked the setup I have now. It's very ideal for me and my schedule.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 09:33 PM
1

I know you said it, but your title was focused on women... You shouldn't care when women notice.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 08:04 PM
2

Seriously, don't lift weights for women. Don't do any of these self improvements for women. You really need to do them for yourself for it to work.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 07:58 PM
2

This is so good. When I first got single last year, I relegated to not even try for a plate until I slept with 6 women in one night/ one week stands. That is what you should do OP, so that you know you can go get it anywhere and anytime you want. It will take that pussy off of the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:45 PM
3

Do you hate it? Seems odd to me, I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. I can't get enough. I wish I recovered quicker and lifted more in my 20's as in my 30's recovery and sleep is so much more important, I wish I had that youthfulness back where I could lift 7 days a week no problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:42 PM
3

I agree. I see so much hate for it. But it really only affects the bottom 80% of men. If you are here for any length of time you should be top 20% relatively easy.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:41 PM
2

the problem isn't that her sex is cheap. Sex IS cheap, and it is not problem. The problem is overpaying for it. This is a really great line here. Completely agree. You can't get caught up on what that bitch has done before, cause chances are most of them have done it all. You aren't going to find a unicorn, because they don't exist.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:34 PM
1

He's not stable enough to plate her. He wouldn't have come here asking this question if he was. OP: Hard Next. You may revisit her after you've truly moved on and fucked at least 6-10 other women. You should also have a few regular plates before revisiting her as a plate. And only ever as a plate again. She doesn't get to move into GF territory ever again.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:32 PM
2

Correct answer: Who gives a fuck If you are enjoying fucking her, continue. She's going to fuck someone, might as well be you.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:28 PM
2

Car, companion restrooms, library, hidden public area, etc. If the chick is ready enough she'll fuck you in the middle of a busy street.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:27 PM
2

I almost always do coffee. Cheap, low investment, low calories. If things are going well, go for a walk, transition into food or snacks or tapas or something, then transition into some drinks.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:25 PM
5

3 Have more fun than everyone else. This one so much. If you are having fun and not affected by the surroundings, people will flock to you. They want to get in on the fun train, and you are handing out tickets.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 01:30 AM
1

Maintain frame. If she brings value, continue hanging out with her. Don't get attached though.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:51 PM
25

I'd soft next her if I were you. Like you said, there's plenty more where she came from. Lesson learned is: soft next, hard next if she really goes nuts. don't fall into her frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:09 PM
3

I definitely wont. She has already "committed" to me. She said she does not expect me to be committed but that she won't be dating anyone else. In no way did I ever give an indication that I plan on being monogamous with her. She did say that she would be disappointed if I were still seeing other women. She was pretty pissed when she asked me how many other women I've slept with since I met her. And, according to her, she cut off any other relationships she had when she met me. But I obviously h…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:23 AM
2

Not only this, but its kinda encouraged here on TRP. I am thinking of upgrading a plate to GF, but in no way am I going to commit to monogamy at any time.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:42 PM
1

If you are working two other women, then its fine going after this one. It doesn't make you bp to persue greater and greater value women. I am still relatively new to TRP and being single at the same time, so I am figuring it all out myself as well. But it appears as though the quality of women you get is like a ladder. I started with 6's and 7's and now, I don't even approach 6's any more, I moved up the ladder quickly, as I worked on myself, but also through preselection. Women can literally s…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:34 PM
3

Let me answer your question with a question. Are you talking to any other women at this time? Any desperate to make something happen with this girl when there's millions out there?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:15 AM
2

Get it in text. Then screen shot it and keep it forever.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:45 AM
2

Do it in person if possible. If not, say something along the lines of how you heard about her breakup and ask her to go out for just coffee. You gotta make it very unassuming. If you get her out, which, if not done in person is a low percent chance imo, escalate like you've never done before. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:44 AM
2

Something just doesn't check out about your story. None of it makes a lick of sense. Sorry if it's true, but I call troll.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:40 AM
3

Just to chime in along with the rest of these guys saying the same thing. I'm 33 and just divorced last year. Found red pill about 2 years prior and started changing. Left my ex because she not only didn't bring value but sucked it out if life. Anyways, I'm in such an amazing place at my age now. You have so much life ahead of you at 32. My career is better, I'm in awesome shape and I have 3 plates right now that are a great spread of ages, 24, 27 and 32. You're going to have to put in real work…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:18 PM
2

Shit this one
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:47 AM
1

You're missing the point. Why worry about what negative possibilities can happen? Focus on the now. Get out of her everything you can for now. You have no control over if Yosemite blows, but the chances are really small. The chances are much higher your woman goes off to ride the CC but you actually have some bit of control over that. IMO I'd rather have some input than none.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 09:21 PM
1

She isn't yours, its only your turn. Seriously, no reason to fret over what might happen. You might as well start freaking out because the sun could explode, or yosemite could blow and end the world tomorrow.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:18 PM
2

If the plates bring value to your life keep them. If not dump them, after you've found a suitable replacement. Don't make your focus women. But definitely don't stop hooking up with women. You'll notice as time goes on and you work on yourself and your goals, and improve. You will pull greater quality women, but you cannot make that the goal.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 07:04 PM
5

I've really started to lean on this. Snapchat is fucking amazing. Throw in a quick picture, dont respond to their text reply. Win-fucking-win
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:47 AM
24

If you are fucking her right, level 2. She shouldn't want dick from anyone else. Remember, fuck her like its the last time you'll ever fuck in your life. Every. Fucking. Time. I'd say you should reasonably expect her to not be fucking anyone else at level 3/4 though, this really is different for each person IMO.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:24 AM
0

What if I like to be slapped and choked?
/r/MensRights25/02/17 02:55 AM
2

Talk to everyone... There's a great post on trp about that. Just talk to everyone, if you meet someone cool enough, get a beer with em, go from there.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:46 PM
2

Agreed with this, don't go out of your way to pick her up though. That is big time over investment. But if it's convenient, then go for it.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:44 PM
2

Great advice as usual. I am skyrocketing in my success lately, and I am starting to get different tests from the caliber women that are becoming available. A&A is my go to most of the time, and works nicely.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 11:32 PM
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"I had to wait for you to be born, grow up into a woman, and then for us to meet." This is perfect actually... plays into the whole disney fantasy world that most woman live in, or wish was real. Quick question, and not to hijack the thread, but you touch on it just earlier about woman looking for that hidden flaw. I've been getting that from a lot of women lately, plates, ONS's etc. They think I am perfect or something, and I just play it off. I've tried the "Not everyone is perfect" or "Everyo…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:36 PM
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Then why are you thinking about women at all? Monk mode is about improving yourself and not being distracted. Chill the fuck out and work on yourself for a while.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:20 PM
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This is an excellent post
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:34 PM
1

Go. Monk. Mode.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:32 PM
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Yeah no need to lie, but it's ok to be human too
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:08 PM
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some bitch Really though? We don't actually hate women on this sub. Maybe they can read that on you... That said, the only confirmation I do is usually something like "Hey I'm running about 10 minutes behind, see you there" Text her that about 30 minutes to and hour before the date.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:09 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking that a comfort there would have helped him close the deal. I heard the 85/15 rule on here a while back and its great actually. Alpha 85% beta 15% "I am really just looking for someone to connect with you know? Someone different. You seem really cool and different." Boom would have been an easy close after that.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:58 PM
1

Naw not in front of everyone. No need to peacock like that
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:53 PM
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No time for bitches like that. I would destroy him hard. Make sure he knows you are the alpha and not some bitch like him
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:53 PM
1

My go to is not that exact line but: I have a fuck ton of laundry that needs folding. Or my sheets are in the dryer, by the time you get here they'll be warm and ready for you to put on my bed
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:52 PM
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More lol's and i think its golden
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:51 PM
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Ok, well played sir :) Just trying to help you not get time vampired, but it sounds like it was worth it
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:50 PM
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Oh then you should text a paragraph at least explaining you intention and then text her at least 15 more times to ask her if shes mad or if shes ok. That'll close the deal for sure ;)
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:37 PM
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Escort...
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:36 PM
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handle with care Fuck that, destroy his little bitch ass. Hit him 20 times harder than he hits you and watch him cry. Assert dominance.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:28 PM
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Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:27 PM
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These are all great, and I have used the laundry one on multiple occasions.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:26 PM
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You gotta have fun, you gotta have abundance mentality. I literally go on there and just fuck with em. Works enough. Don't try to build too much rapport, but you do need to build some to get a number. Once you have number, go for date immediately. I find the best is to comment on a photo or something in their bio. If there is absolutely nothing to comment on, I will just say something that amuses me. If they respond, great, if not, fuck em.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:24 PM
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Generally speaking, the best supplements are Whey Protein - Use to increase daily protein intake until you are taking .8-1 gram per pound of lean body mass Daily Multivitamin or other source of general vitamins (I use a powder form that also contains greens and antioxidants) - It's cheap enough to be worth doing Fish Oil - There is a ton of research to back how good fish oil is for you, take it, reduces inflammation, and bad cholesterol, and many other benefits Creatine - Creatine is a naturally…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:13 PM
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Why even waste so much time texting her back and forth? Unless it was specifically for this sub and a field report?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:07 PM
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Not sure if you are looking for any advice, but from my read, it looks like you failed a few shit tests in there. Specifically, not leading enough, and letting her have too much say. It also sounds like you made yourself too available, through too much texting and too much facebook chat. Abundance mentally would have won out there for sure.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:04 PM
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While it definitely doesn't seem like a bad thing for a woman to approach you, would that then put you into her frame initially? At that point, you are starting down, so to speak. Now, I would have no problem reasserting my frame on the conversation. But wouldn't this basically turn the woman into the aggressor for most guys. Seems like it'd be a problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:51 PM
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Just wait until you have a few plates I find I just don't have time any more. I spend a LOOOTTT less time on Reddit lately, a lot less time on TV and other time wasters. Really only do Reddit while resting between sets and right now, waiting for my dentist appointment. You wont miss the bullshit after a while. And when you have a down night, you'll just find yourself bored of the TV or the internet.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:24 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I struggle with comfort tests I believe. I need to learn to recognize them quickly.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:45 PM
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I appreciate both of your advice. I decided to maintain frame but give some small comfort so I sent a single comfort text, short and simple this morning. She just text me back and we made some plans to see each other. So, lesson learned, maintain frame but recognize and pass comfort tests, I think I have much more trouble with comfort tests than shit test. Shit tests are easy to pass (and fun) , comfort tests are hard.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:45 PM
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Good suggestions here. I do need to work on that aspect I think.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:36 PM
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So what you're saying is: YOLO
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:52 PM
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Take what you want.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:38 PM
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Dont listen to what she says. This is side bar shit.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:37 PM
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They are threatened, simple as that. Oh you dress well and are in great shape? He must be gay... don't look at how shitty I dress and how out of shape I am
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:35 PM
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Anti slut defense. Its probably shit tests that you are epically failing.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 10:34 PM
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Ignoooooreeee all texts do not respond
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:47 PM
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You're problem was going after a coal burner in the first place
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:39 PM
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My favorite way to kill the "are you gay" shit test. "lets find out" and go in for the kiss
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:03 AM
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Wow, that is awful man. We're here for you :(
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:44 PM
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Thanks man, I do have some potential others, so I'm working that. Where does everyone find their plates? Just everywhere?
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:26 AM
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Does it really sound like oneitis? I am going to go ghost though, seems like a great idea. I am recently out of an LTR, so, I have no plates at all right now. Really just starting to get out there again.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:51 PM
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There might be plate potential, I need to get some plates going, got to start somewhere...
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:49 PM
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Yes, you are correct, I am not spinning any other plates. I better get on that shit
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:48 PM
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Hobby is the way to go, find something you are passionate about, and find like minded people. It will happen with multiple shared interests
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:13 PM
2

That's actually pretty hilarious
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:00 PM
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She'll sleep with someone on the first date, just not you. Improve your looks and your game.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:59 PM
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I heard it a while back and live by it "Fuck her like its the last time you ever will fuck" Go into it like its literally the last time you will ever fuck someone again. Enjoy every second.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:45 PM
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Yeah, thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:43 PM
2

Thanks, I do really need to internalize that shit. Not new to TRP, but newly out of a LTR. Trying to relearn this shit!
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:39 PM
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Good call, she wanted to grab dinner today, and I agreed last night. She is recently out of a relationship, that is part of her reasoning... Not sure if that has any bearing on the situation at all. But you are correct 100%, I was/am engaging too much
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:33 PM
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It wasn't a lot of texting, but probably too much. I find my text "game" is complete shit tbh. Face to face I kill it 100% of the time, but I always fuck up texting. I really need to back the fuck off of texting
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:32 PM
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