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Yep. Also, telling people there stab wound doesn't matter because they have a gunshot wound isn't a good way to gather support for your own views; these people just cause damage to their own cause. Best to work together, try to understand each other's views, and look for mutual solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:20 PM
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That's a very reasonable stance and a productive viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:25 PM
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So literally everything is men's fault? I'm not going to deliberate (and most men) with someone like yourself. Imagine if I said rape is caused by women not actively promoting their own security, due to feminism. I'd be an misogynist, just as you are a misandrist. I'd also expect most women to disagree with me. Adjust your attitude and learn a bit of empathy, or don't expect men to give a shit about your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:44 PM
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IRL isnt the internet. Most women aren't supportive of men's issues in real life. Statistics also heavily support a lack of safety nets for men (most of which are organizations which are female dominated). I understand medicine best, so it's my go-to example. We heavily discourage even mentioning men specific issues, such as the massive gap in male to female utilization of medical facilities.... Yet we focus on women's access despite already largely outnumbering men. Then women would burn you al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:32 PM
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Yeah....as a guy who's very aware of physical abuse (healthcare)... And who's dated emotionally abusive women (now in a great relationship).... Emotional abuse is almost completely ignored and sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:58 PM
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So men should support women that don't support them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:55 PM
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For most guys, you have to play the game to get enough experience to get in a relationship with a woman in your league. Also, most guys don't want to spend years shooting and striking out with almost no successes. It's demoralizing and makes you feel like shit. Wish that wasn't how it worked, but for most men, that's how it works. If women want a guy without experience, they need to filter for it and ask guys out themselves - but the vast majority don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:52 PM
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It is a bit douchey, but that's how modern dating functions and why it sucks. A lot of guys want someone on their level. A good number of the guys will bat below their league while they look for someone serious. It's toxic for any dude who's not in the top 10% because an average guy is pretty much stuck either staying single until they can find an average girl (which could be years), or casually seeing very sketchy/unattractive/obnoxious women. Although, it's great for self aware women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:12 PM
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The men who say women belong in the kitchen also probably don't think they hate women and a good portion are also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:18 PM
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By being a raging mysandrist, devaluing their opinions and being outright dismissive to all the men on this sub. If a girl shows up to a zone and sees all the men saying "women belong in the kitchen and are just alive to birth children", I wouldn't be surprised if they gained negative perspectives as well. You are the female version of those men. I have never even seen you post a well reasoned comment on this sub, nor even treat male posters on here as other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:48 PM
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I just want to say, your comments are so out of touch you likely straight up redpilled dozens of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:54 PM
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Most of the time it only happens when you bat out of your league. Women who can accurately evaluate themselves and not shoot way above their weight don't even need to worry about this circumstance. I've been in a solid relationship for a while... and (accidently) strung along a few women prior to it. I didnt even have to try... they did it themselves. My current GF comes along, I say "she's in my league, no games".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:20 PM
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As a guy... yah... theres a lot of bitter asshole men on this sub... but like 95% of women on this sub are batshit insane. Thank god they don't represent the average woman, because if they did, those bitter asshole men would be completely correct. I mean.. just read through some of the women who post on here... their history screams entitled and narcissistic. I really think this sub attracts more normal men than normal women. Some of the men are a bit damaged, but mostly normal.... the women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:10 PM
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They also don't realize that most women (95% of women and thus most of the women commenting) aren't attractive/kind/smart enough to land the attractive, kind, well off guys.... thus they end up with the attractive men that lack in kindness and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:12 AM
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Yah... but most dudes here won't pretend that it doesn't happen with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:10 AM
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I find it interesting... because, as a guy, I actively watch myself to ensure I don't treat unattractive women worse..... if I was completely unaware or in denial, I'd probably let attractive women get away with way more shit. Sometimes, attractive women think I'm an asshole to them... purely because I treat them like everyone else and don't put up with their BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:32 AM
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So ones okay in your mind and the others not because it's harder to recognize the other.. or you are looking for excuses to keep the shaming one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:33 AM
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You are missing the point. Why can't the woman in the situation above do the same as me? Why is one abusive and the other not? His point is either both are manipulative and should be socially shamed, or neither should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:15 AM
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The guys in question get 0 attention. They don't have options, and thus are easily abused. Imagine if no one flirted with you for a decade, gave you dozens of fake numbers, stood you up... And finally someone popped into you life who actually texted you back and showed up. You cling to them hard even if they are treated like crap. I was one of those men in my first relationship. Difference is, I don't go on social crusades about how evil and manipulative all women will be given the chance. I acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:32 AM
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You kinda call every man who struggles misogynistic.. while also making fun of any man who struggles with dating.... If a good number of women act like this on the sub... Why would you expect men to not "fire back" at them? I'm not an incel and usually try to be empathetic... But you sound like an arrogant asshole in most of your posts, which is likely why men return the favor. There are some.asshole men in this sub, but you aren't much different yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:36 AM
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I see a lot of women on here also making personal insults and disregarding mens opinions... There's like a dozen in this thread alone. There's a comment up above that basically says any man that has dating issues is a mysoginist. Honestly, this thread is filled with way more hostile comments towards men than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:30 AM
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Keep at it. You can disagree with people, while still empathizing with them. Feel like way too many people here miss that point. Edit: scratch that. Wtf... You don't show any signs of empathy with anyone at all and make up tons of straw man arguments. You also make tons of sweeping negative generalizations about men. Just calling yourself empathetic doesnt make it true. You are also definitely a judger, not a "perceiver".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:28 AM
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It's the obsession about it, not the general dislike of them. Not liking thots is far different than regularly posting and making fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:57 AM
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Neck beard things and niceguys. It's the same as a dude being on a sub making fun of instathots or fat women and regularly posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:36 AM
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You literally keep saying things about TRP which aren't true. Imagine if I walked around saying "Democrats are child murders" because abortion. I'd be a toxic asshole, because I am ascribing my words on them. You've done it all over the thread. Someone explains "no my goal isn't to pump and dump, I also don't cheat" - you "your a fairy, all RPers are mysoginistic assholes". And yes, if you are speaking like this to the dude, he is either a complete doormat with no confidence or is just wanting c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:35 AM
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The analogy of a brothel owner vs home owner was comparing men who use TRP (the foundation) to pursue what they want to build (casual relationships/brothel vs LTRs/home). The foundation is not the brothel or home, it is simply the foundation. And yes, you are toxic as hell. Quick.glamce at your profile; several subs specifically.making fun of men. A guy who shits on women is toxic - just like a woman who shits on men is as.well (you). Take a step away, learn to empathize with the men around you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:15 AM
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You'd be surprised. Most of my friends have TRP beliefs or associate with TRP... And are all in healthy relationships (myself included). I've seen them all shoot down opportunities to cheat (and have done so.myself). Your issue is you don't realize that TRP isn't a single monolith of beliefs, it's a framework or foundation. So, I could build a bunch of different buildings on that foundation. Just because some men who share the same foundation are building brothels, the men building houses are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:57 AM
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Not a woman, but I'd say a lot of women prefer being half time... Which I'd totally understand. I'd think it would be pretty nice to drop off the kids at the daycare 2-3 times a week and work. Keeps the diversity so things don't get boring, while also getting to be with the kiddos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:09 PM
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I agree.. but I've noticed far more women tolerate it and nod along. If a man sits around and openly says really sexist crap, most men shut him down (as they should).. but lots of women will empathetically encourage other women who say misandristic beliefs. I've seen my GF do it... Despite her views not aligning. Basically, a guy who does it is pushed out of society. A woman is allowed a platform. Most women are great; I just wish they'd call out the toxic bitches more often to prevent the toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:32 PM
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This. Is fucking annoying. There are so many women in 3rd world countries being treated like trash. Guess what, we'd rather scream about microagressions and whether or not trans athletes should be able to compete in women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:55 PM
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As a dude, that's not the only issue. Narcissistic tendencies are also on the rise along with a variety of other mental health issues. I dated quite a few attractive women, all who couldn't be in a stable relationship due to mental health/personality disorders. IMO, a lot of this is due to empowerment w/o criticism. They never self reflect. So, basically, men are all fighting after the few mentally stable, self reflective women who also take care of themselves physically. This was fairly common …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:15 PM
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Why are you such an ass to everyone? Quit assuming negative qualities and placing beliefs on people that they never stated. It's toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:34 PM
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Cool, your pseudoscience is way more important than my medical degree and knowledge of athletic/dietary training through various competitive sports. Damn dude, you are so intelligent. You should become a doctor and use your dietary skills to become an elite powerlifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:27 AM
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As someone else in medicine... Can't stand the pseudoscience spewed by the vegan crowd. It's great when they lose weight.. but it's the caloric restriction from not being able to eat the vast majority of foods... The "vegan" part is just a placebo tagged onto a regular diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:55 AM
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I'm in the medical field and in better shape than 99% of this sub. You have no fucking clue what you are talking about. He's right; calories are 99% of the issue - and excess calories are almost never the meat. It's usually the empty carbs people eat with meat. And the macro most Americans suck at properly eating are proteins, which meat is a source of. Vegans also living longer isn't because "vegan", it's because most people with the willpower to follow strict diets are going to weigh less. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:44 AM
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As someone in fantastic shape and in the medical field.... Meat, if done properly is an amazing source of calories. Red meat sucks when it's on a bun and served with fries covered in extra salt - mainly because you gain weight. In reality, meats are fine. Empty carbs aren't, like white bread, soda, baked goods, pie, potatoes. Cutting out the later is far far more important than meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:41 AM
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I believe that women have it easier on the dating scene. Are woman who believes men have it easier working out at a gym w/o being harassed misandrists? Truth is there are absolutely some areas where women and men have it easier. Pointing them out doesn't make someone sexist unless they push it too far. If I say all women are sluts willing to manipulate their man, I'm sexist. If a woman states all men are potential dangerous predators, she's also sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:08 PM
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For Americans? Just not being fat places you in the top 60%. Dudes likely a professional, in decent shape, well groomed. He's above probably 80-90% of men. He could also go out to clubs and pick up above average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:49 PM
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I look like that in dress shirts as well. I also bench nearly 300lbs. Yah, he's not roided up big, but looking at how his arms fill out a lose fitting dress shirt, he likely lifts a decent amount. If you put him in a tight fitting T-shirt, it would be much more visible. Her arms on the other hand lack all tone and are a bit fatty. That usually happens in 30+ skinny fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:24 PM
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IMO, most happy stable people form happy stable marriages. Most people in bad marriages are unhappy single people who are toxic themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:15 PM
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I honestly wish I was religious.. so this point is moot. Lower depression rates, feeling of belonging, strong social communities. If you could believe, why wouldn't you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:11 PM
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He's probably a 7, she's a 5.5-6. Even though he's bald, he's got a fit build, looks professional, and has the features to rock the bald look. She's skinny, but looks closer to a skinny-fat, and also doesn't have great features. She's only above average because she isn't overweight and looks professional as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:55 PM
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..? He's quite a bit better looking than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:41 PM
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I agree mostly for the middle class and up. Once you reach the ultra wealthy, it becomes a game of chance. Basically, anyone without a major disability and who's mentally stable and works can reach lower middle class. Theres tons of ambitious, intelligent, hard working people in the middle/upper middle class, and only a few will get lucky reaching upper class/the ultra wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:27 AM
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That's just a TV trope. I've been around the wealthy. In reality, they are usually workaholics that love their jobs. They care more about their business/career than getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:20 AM
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It's not just that... People in the middle/upper class are just more stable. Im upper middle class and have dated lower class women. They make rash decisions constantly with both money and the relationship. My theory is that most professionals have to be stable to be successful; they have to be consistent and plan years ahead. For most of us, this carries over to relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:16 AM
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When did I state I lied? I literally said theyd be in a casual thing with me, then try to make it out to be a relationship. That's not my fault. That's them just being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:43 AM
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Because it's true... I've got a buddy who does it... i can do it myself pretty easily... I actually did do it for a couple of months - but I'm a relationship type. While my buddies literally were hitting up 35 year old single moms and getting ghosted... i managed to get with a new girl, hotter than they've ever dated, every week. As a dude, there's an attraction line. Once you cross it.... It's like being in a different world. I managed to cross it... And holy hell. I can throw a stone now and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:18 AM
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That's not how it works. Source: medical professional and athlete in sports that require strict weight control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:13 AM
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It's wrong to only marry for love. Should you like the person? Definitely. But, if you want kids and a stable relationship, it's better to focus more on stability and character than love. A guy/girl may not give you the butterfly's, but they still can be a great person who makes you happy. Basically, you should look for stability x liking the person = relationship quality. A little of both is far better than a lot of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:08 AM
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You are conflating dating with marriage. A 22-25 year old dude will get into a few month relationship with an older woman, but never married them. She's usually easy to get along with, hot enough to sleep with, but he never sees it as marriage - and isn't interested in marriage yet. A 35 year old dude dating a 25 year old is far more likely to end up in a LTR - neither of them see it as just fun. Also, stats show you are straight up wrong. Dudes marry younger in every age bracket - the age gap a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:36 PM
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Yah, but that's the thing... The best of the 35 year old men who are single (let's say an in shape doctor) can date top tier 25-29 year olds with minimal baggage. Pretty much no 35 year old woman can find a serious relationship with a top tier 25-30 year old dude. IMO, the wall is real, but it only applies to the top 10-20% and is primarily professionals. If you look into most of the women complaining on Reddit... They are 30+ professionals still wanting to date the cream of the crop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:23 PM
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If a girl sat around, complained about being oppressed and how men all suck, why the fuck would a man care about "building her self esteem" or "making her feel safe". No dude with a backbone would want to be around a depressed, anxious woman who blames them for everything. If you want them to empathize with you, it's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:37 AM
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Literally anytime a guy says "this sucks for me", you comment something around the lines "well women have it harder" or "you actually just suck". And you just commented no dude has tried to make you feel safe or has tried to help with your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:26 AM
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All of your comments are just bashing men. Maybe rethink your attitude and you'll find guys who care. I've dated several women I tried to build up - but they were empathetic people who cared beyond just their own gender/life - which drove their anxiety/insecurities. They cares deeply about others, and it made me care about them. I wouldn't want to build up someone who tears others down - as they'd be openly toxic to others. I can also guarantee a man's tried to help you before, you just likely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:16 AM
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Not really. A competent woman who's feminine, takes care of herself, and gets a teaching degree can easily find an engineer/doctor/high earner. There's not a ton of competition on the market ATM, and lots of demand. Source: high earning.professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:07 AM
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i agree, but that doesn't mean I should support either one of them in their self sabotaging attempts to make a positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:28 PM
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It's how they identify with the belief. For instance abortion. A girl who tells me people against abortion just want to oppress women, they are toxic. A girl who tells me people who get abortions are child murderers is also toxic. Both are placing negative traits on their opposition without even attempting to understand said opposition. It's just an unempathetic black and white mindset that says alot about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:49 PM
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Hate to say this, but democrats don't really do much for all of the topics you listed. They pick a token person/group (IE, Siberian women age 14-16 in Chicago) make a speciality program for them, then talk about it 24/7. When they start building blanket policies to help educate the poor (w/o other qualifiers like race, gender, disability), then I'll support them. Instead, they fuel the divide and play ID politics, which is straight up counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:37 PM
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Yep. How extreme they are about their beliefs says the most - not what the beliefs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:34 PM
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Yah, and everyone living within 10-20 years of those wars got fucked. Past civil wars/economic collapses were scary as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:30 PM
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Selection bias. Same dude does it 4 times with different women and everyone hears about it. Vast majority of men want want OP is selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:26 PM
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Made up TV bullshit. The only ones sleeping around are single. There's plenty of options, it's just most doctors would rather play it safe. It's hard to become a doctor if you take dumb risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:52 PM
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Yep. Smarter people in general know the risk outweighs the reward, and don't enter relationships if they think they'll cheat on the other person. Same likely goes for women as well. Haven't meet many intelligent women hoeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:36 PM
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I'm in medicine. Cheating happens in medschool, not so much after. We are smart enough to select someone we won't cheat on for serious stuff, and most doctors are very family oriented (not worth ruining a relationship when you've got kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:35 PM
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Nah, social status is a bit different. A plumber over 6 other plumbers may make 200k a year. He still doesn't sit nearly as high up the totem pole as a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:00 AM
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Lost mine quite a bit above 17. Far above average. There's a lot of average guys willing to sleep with far below average women skewing stats. And before you say "well you are below average!!". Top of my class, was in multiple sports, fairly social, never overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:45 AM
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Nah. I have feminine colleagues that are very well respected. If used properly, it's actually pretty effective. Be aggressively nice and supportive - basically, a motherly leader. Then guilt your colleagues into getting the job done - pushing projects around in a subtle fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:03 AM
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As a dude who can afford this... Feels like I run into few of these traditional types. Just want a feminine girl who takes care of herself, cares about her community, and wants a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:54 AM
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You realize that 40k is above average. All the guys in my class did go for women earning more than average, but this was more so because most of us want someone educated - not because the girl is working 60hours a week in a power career. Literally the only men in my class that married other high end professionals went for other doctors - and that's primarily because exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:36 AM
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You may not care on an individual level, problem is it's going to create major societal issues in a few decades. We are already seeing suicide and depression rates continually rising in both young men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:17 AM
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Cool, that's your ideal world. We are talking how the reality works. In my ideal world those 20 year old average looking dudes working their asses off to build a career would be seen as desirable - but that's not reality. I accepted it and did the best I could with what I was given. You can either accept it yourself and try your best with the cards you are given, or play victim, live in a fantasy land, and be left on the sidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:06 AM
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Great advice for attracting a partner who sees you as an equal. The moment I have to do everything for a woman I think about bailing and see her more as a child than a partner. Most professional men want to be with someone who only thinks "me, me, me"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:12 AM
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This is completely incorrect. Traditional American values are small community oriented - for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:47 AM
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It's not gender specific, it's belief oriented. Most men and women need to do the same thing. 1) dress well workout 2) stable career 3) social group 4) put effort to find someone 5) realistic standards Problem is, a lot of modern women have been sold on this idea that "I am great just the way I am and someone will be there when the time is right" and tell others the same. They give terrible advice to other women and men. Talk to a 40+ year old woman, they will give good advice to both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:56 PM
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Same. Reading the comments from most of the women on here makes me often go "holy shit... Is she for real". Lots of complete self absorption and bending reality to protect their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:46 PM
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Reading your comments... You are literally the modern "dark triad" version of a woman. Narcissistic, self-centered, and an inability to see any issues that don't directly effect you. And you aren't even self aware. The man version of you would be a complete ass of a human being, and likely immediately banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:10 AM
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Some of my mentors were professional women who fought through this. I also have heard them complain about modern feminist types being whiny as fuck. Truth is, it got hijacked by women who don't give a shit about society, only themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:02 AM
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A number of things. First off, data shows people are happier (men and women) in more traditional societies. Suicide rates are lower, depression is lower. Basically, modern feminism is ridiculously individualistic, which sounds great for women.. but in reality, humans thrive in more collective societies. It's like capitalism. A little is great, but unbound capitalism results in a shitshow of people fucking each other over without rules and a loss of support communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:55 AM
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Everything in life has losers. Problem is, society can only support so many losers before major problems start occuring - and the number of losers keeps growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:02 AM
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Guys typically work because they want a fullfilling relationship. Right now, they are dropping out of the race - because the competition has become unwinnable for.most. It's dangerous from 3 standpoints. 1) lazy people dropping out strains economies 2) a lot of idle people could result in violent movements 3) birth rates fall and places further strains on economies (huge issue Japan has been dealing with) We won't see these issues creating waves now, or even in 5 years... But a few decades... Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:58 AM
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Yep... Just got this one earlier. She seemed very annoyed, but we aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:39 PM
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Ehh man, you must be doing something wrong. Similar to you, but shorter by quite a bit. Ive had quite a few women sleep with me in a few hours. They were all fairly attractive, no kids, no drugs, some were professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:53 PM
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No, I've been in both groups. It's significantly easier once you hit a certain cutoff. Night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:42 PM
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I sleep around, am not a red piller, not an incel, have women friends, and am still very much against the modern feminists movements. Explain me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:53 PM
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Nah, your dating experience is narrow and good because you did it right. If I saw these qualities in a woman, it would scream relationship material. It's a mentality of taking responsibility, which sadly isn't common in modern women (at least from my dating experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:30 PM
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Just want to say as a guy, it's meaningful if it isn't casual. There's an intimacy factor that's lost. In a relationship, I want to kiss, cuddle, and smile with her - and the sex is only a small part of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:22 PM
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It's actually not. Imagine you think hopping from job to job, city to city is a good thing because you get a somewhat better pay. You never become apart of the community, you lose out on forming lasting friends, you never have kids. All 3 of these are linked.to reduced depression and increased contentment. Just because you can get something better, doesn't mean that you should always chase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:14 PM
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Most dudes in relationships put up with way more bullshit tbh. To us, this is the norm and we just play along. Now... When I go anywhere outside the US, they are chill enough not to make a big deal about every minor detail. All's I've learned in the US is to be dishonest, as no one will be absolutely perfect for each other - but that's what women expect on the modern scene.... So you ease a few of the wrinkles and play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:06 PM
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If it can make me a hateful person like it's done to yourself, maybe you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:48 PM
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I think they are being way too nitpicky. You are in better shape than 90% of people. Especially considering those women commenting are statistically more than likely in worse shape. You could hit the weights and diet to reach a "super" physique and fix the hair though. You'd probably go from a 5-6 to a 7-8, but it would require a year and a lot of effort. I'd encourage you to do it - as we all should try to be our best selves, but I understand your mindset. I'd honestly buzz the hair semi short,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:55 PM
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That's a normal BMI.... Dude could workout, but he's right at the border for overweight, which in the US looks surprisingly thin IRL... Because almost everyone is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:51 PM
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If you eliminate overweight people... He's a little below average... But the fact that almost half of people his age are overweight makes him definitely above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:51 PM
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I'm a straight dude... But, I guess I do stare at some of the other gym bros. Shit takes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:46 PM
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This is the only good thing about red pillers. At least they don't shun self improvement. They ask "what do I need to do to get x out of the world". FDS posters just focus on the "get x out of the world" without "what do I need to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:51 PM
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I'm not even going to go on the defensive, because you just make up shit to justify your argument. But please, go find professional help, for your family, your peers, and yourself. Life doesn't always have to be a fight, and half of that comes from understanding others views.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:45 PM
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Cool, your skin crawled. I'm not going to be shamed by an idiot for using a description of attractiveness. Maybe your skin should crawl for actual issues, instead of terminology. Then I may actually respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:15 PM
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Nice reasonable reply.... I'd just move on and go with "she's batshit crazy" myself. I dislike pill communities.. but people don't just wakeup with good lives and she's probably a spoiled brat who doesn't understand that. Life takes effort for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:07 PM
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I've seen enough of your posts on this sub to know that's because you lack empathy for anyone that's not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:30 PM
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I think guys are just frustrated (i am as well) of how high standards are for men. I know quite a number of hard working stable guys who take care of themselves and have no luck (myself included). Most of the time, we get screened out by any girl that's datable (also takes care of herself and sane) before we even approach. It's just obnoxious to see that a girl who just works out can get 8+ guys, but a ripped short dude is stuck settling for 6s at best. There just seems to be a line where if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:02 PM
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Just gana give a different guys perspective. If I'm trying to set a date up and it takes 3-6 hours for a response and the date is for tomorrow night, you are reducing my backup options for said Friday. Basically we have to "reserve" that spot in our schedules until we get a response. When a few girls lead you on, then ghost you and you waste a Friday night because of their behavior, you bail much faster. A few hours is fine, but anything over 6 is just disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:45 PM
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This post just reminds me of another reason why no decent dude would date someone from that sub. Flip the husband and the wife's genders. FDS would now say the husband isn't good enough for the wife and that's why she cheats on him. So, a cheating dude is a LVM asshole, but a cheating wife is getting away from a LVM that doesn't deserve her. This mentality is toxic af, and seen all across the subs idealogy. It is literally never accepting that women can be at fault. No dude wants to date a girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:40 AM
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Kinda wish it was just "being a shitty person" so people didn't use it to define a group and instead focused on the person making the action themselves. Women punch people to, speak over others, and can be aggressive as well. Doesnt mean I act like a random woman nearby may punch me. I think it also primes a lot of people to assume the worst. For instance, a mans partner has a large bruise on her face... what do people immediately assume w/o any context?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:33 AM
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I just find it weird... I guess FDS bothers me more because the few TRP posters in the wild or redpill people I know IRL don't act like they are good people... But FDS posters think they are morally correct. I think it's way easier to fix a redpillers attitude than an FDS posters because at least TRP realizes they are being cruel to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:23 PM
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They seriously need to ban FDS after seeing some of these replies. That place is basically r/incels at this point and is spreading vla very toxic idealogy. Theres no way any sane (and non-desperate) man would date a woman who thinks in that manner. I've even gone out on first dates with a few of these types. I bail the moment they start throwing red flags or call their behavior out... Then I hear back later how they got rid of me because I was the crazy one. They are completely absorbed with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:05 PM
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Because maybe you'll change, i want you to do something for a random internet stranger. Show a man you respect one of those memes and ask him his thoughts. It will be an awkward chuckle and a "let's never speak of this again". I know you won't listen to me... But maybe someone you actually know can give you an insight how deluded of an echo chamber it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:38 PM
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That's a very grounded perspective and it's good to know people can change for the better. Too many people today won't accept responsibility for their actions, and accepting fault helps lead to positive growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:11 PM
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They treat dating as a power game, not as a relationship. It's all about getting the upper hand on the man, not about forming a healthy working friendship. You could find a decent guy, and they'd tell you to test his loyalty, or that you should still be dating other people. A guy with self-respect won't deal with a loyalty test and bail if he finds out you are dating other people (especially if you've been out 3+ times). Edit: Just hopped onto their front page. It was "men suck, men suck, men su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:54 PM
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They are both about manipulation and not in a subtle or positive way. It's usually negativity placed on the vast majority of people of the opposite sex in order to justify said manipulation. There's a reason why the vast majority of posters in both subs are jaded towards the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:44 PM
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Ok, then lol. A well spoken man with a good career, works out, and is stable isnt high value. Enlighten me, what is high value then? I'd say moving goalpost isnt what a HVW does. A HVW, like a HVM, is always struggling for improvement - as that's how they attain that status, and moving goalposts to fit your narrative prevents improvement. FDS is like TRP, in that they both attract low value people, because anyone with self respect and a brain sees through the façade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:22 PM
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Yah.... I'm going to put this under the chart of jaded FDS posters getting burned by doctors after they realized how batshit crazy FDS posters are...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:28 PM
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I'm in medical school surrounded by what FDS demes HVM. Spinning plates and the manipulative/negative attitude they developed actively makes guys in this group disappear. Most of us that want relationships are looking for a straight forward girl who takes care of themselves and that treats everyone the same. They don't ignore a person because they see them as a LVM. The strategy that would get most professionals... 1) hit the gym a lot, diet, dress well. Even with bad genetics, you'll be attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:02 PM
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Do you not see the issue in your picture... The stable guy picks up the pieces and raises a kid that's not their own after the woman in your story makes bad decisions. The guy who wasn't irresponsible and likely building his career while she was sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:04 PM
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Men do mock him for it because usually they are very unattractive. If a guy takes the easiest chick he can find, he will get ribbed heavily. It's even in comedy movies - dude wakes up after drunk night with a girl he'd never sleep with. Now, if it's your bud who's out of shape and awkward. You are just proud of him nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:20 AM
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That's cool... Considering I stated "society as a whole". Reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:34 PM
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Yep haha. I've been hit on a few times. Made my day, even if I wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:16 PM
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Fat women? I see no reason to make a jab at them.... But entitled fat women who believe the world is owed to them? They are annoying as hell. It's like the "macho man" who's super overweight and talks about football all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:11 PM
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