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| 2 | Question for experience men | TheGoldStandard35 | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 03:51 PM |
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| -10 | [deleted by user]I don’t think this is true | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with alot of women you find attractive being the same height (5'7-5'8) or taller than you?I suggest trying to understand my second to last paragraph. Your own insecurity about your height is frankly unattractive. We all have insecurities. No girl wants to be with someone who hates themself for being short. That doesn’t sound like a fun person to be around. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Catching feelings for a mature womanI have no experience with this, but I feel like a lot of older women might more mature and flattered. Just be respectful and honest. A little weird at work though | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I would prefer to have things end on good terms, but that’s just me. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What would unadding her on snap accomplish? You are on here trying to get her back, but you suggest blocking her. That just seems toxic, doesn’t it? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be a bad boy and a nice guy at the same time?Why would you want to be a bad boy or a nice guy. You should be a good man. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Reading peopleSome that I have learned. If she makes eye contact and smiles - approach. If she immediately looks away from you and to the side and acts like she is busy with her friends - don’t approach. Nothing is 100% though. Edit: I think you can learn a lot more early in the approach. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Im coward and not confidentYou need to gain confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:47 AM |
| 13 | How do you deal with alot of women you find attractive being the same height (5'7-5'8) or taller than you?Women are individuals. Individuals have subjective preference. Yes, in general women want taller guys. Yes, some women only will date 6’ + men. There are still plenty of women who will date men their height or shorter. It’s not as common, but it certainly happens. Don’t think about height. Read the girl. If it seems like you should talk to her do it. Read her attraction. If she likes talking you to go for it. If not respectfully wish her the best. If you approach women thinking you are too short… | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | What ifI want to preface this by saying I am not an expert. You should go into it thinking of course it will go well. You are a great guy who would make someone very happy. You should be confident. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Should you wait for a signal before approaching a woman?I think it’s fine to approach women who are neutral. If she is giving you a signal not to approach, don’t. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Reading peopleWhat do you mean by reading the room? | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:35 AM |
| -9 | PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works”Men this is an ignorant take. Do not listen to it. It comes from someone who doesn’t understand women. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?I wasn’t trying to put that on you but I hear it. I know plenty of short guys way more attractive than me who could do way better if it wasn’t for their insecurity. I want you to be happy and to succeed. If you are arguing with me about height you can’t be in a good place. Read 3% man by Corey Wayne and good luck. If you don’t need any help then reread my comments. I think they were pretty reasonable. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?I never said it wasn’t. I just said it’s not as important as most people think. Yes women prefer tall guys all else being equal, but it’s never equal. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:59 AM |
| 2 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?I hear guys make self-deprecating height jokes all the time man. I’m not trying to argue with you. You can believe what you want. I’m sharing my observations and experiences anonymously on reddit. Take it for what it is. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 01:13 AM |
| 3 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?I have game. It’s not just height. I’m not going to get to into this because we can’t really judge or verify anything about each order. I truly think guys overrate height on here. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?It’s honestly not that big a difference. Maybe a .5. It’s just not. A lot of guys get insecure about height. 5’5 is a little on the short side but being insecure about your height in any way is a bigger turn off than the height itself. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?I believe it. It wasn’t easy getting from 150-165. I’ve been at 165-170 for years now. I’m really trying to get to 175-180. I know a few guys who are your build. I think your head is in the right place. Keep up the good work. It’s great to hear from people who don’t have it easy. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 10 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?As a 6’ + white man on the thin side (like 165-170 pounds) I can confirm it’s not easy to meet girls just because you are tall | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Introvert average looking guy Approached Tons of GirlsBecause it’s illegal in most places | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Constantly being told they have a BoyfriendJust don’t ever ask a girl if they have a boyfriend. They are either lying to you because they aren’t attracted or interested or really have a boyfriend. Regardless if you are getting that answer, stop hitting on them. It’s a no regardless of which reason. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Question for experience menWhat’s a good way to get logistics like that without sounding creepy? And yeah your right I think I play it a little too safe/robotic with my text game. I’m realizing I could have definitely referenced some funny stuff we talked about. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Consistent pattern with girls I talk to.....what am I doing wrong?I dont understand the dull conversation after the first date. You shouldn’t be having another conversation until the second date. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth cold approaching, if one has 0 luck onlineI’ve literally cold approached girls I recognized from dating apps that didn’t match with me and gotten numbers/dates. You have a better chance in person. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | What would be your tips for approaching from car to girl?I would not pick up girls like this. It’s weird and creepy. Nobody is gonna trust or be comfortable with this. Women want to feel safe and secure and going up to a strangers car is the opposite. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | OvercompensationBe honest with yourself. What are you insecure about? What kind of person do you want to be. Do you know what virtues are. Do you try to live by them. Do you lie, cheat, or steal...do you like that you do that. Are you addicted to anything...drugs, alcohol, masterbating...how do you feel about that. False confidence doesn’t turn into real confidence and most girls can see right through it unless they are young or not worth your time. The more you focus on being who you want to be and the more yo… | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Lay Report (eventually)I wouldn’t compliment women at a bar off the bat. It’s clearly a bribe for sex. Men are visual creatures. If you go up and approach they already know you are interested/attracted It might work better in day game, but I’d only compliment reciprocally at a bar unless there is something unique to compliment to keep a convo going, like an interesting watch for example. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 10:22 PM |
| -1 | How to avoid last minute cancelation?Lol you failed a shit test. Women do that because they want men who will actually invest in them. Low value men who get so easily triggered aren’t LTR material. These women were probably also looking for a LTR, and you failed a common test. The selfish bad vibes you gave off are easy to see. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Masturbating before a date to be thinking less about sex?I wouldn’t masterbate before sex/ a date. Better to cum too fast than not get hard/come at all. There are tons of men who masterbate and watch porn and get pornsick and can’t get hard when they have actual sex. That’s the fastest way to end a relationship. Much easier to cum to fast and honestly say you haven’t cum all week. Plus round 2-3/next morning will probably be better. Plus there are other ways to make her cum. I’m no expert, but this is what I have found in my admittedly little experien… | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | how often do you run perfect game on a girl but she still isn't attracted and thus rejects you?I’m a firm believer that there needs to be a minimum amount of physical attraction. If not, it doesn’t matter what you say. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | * 3 DATE RULE "There’s honestly some good insight into women on there. A lot of it is super toxic, but they do make some good points and they regularly post cringy profiles and convos from OLD which has helped me. I learned better ways to schedule dates, better tips for hygiene, and a lot of things that low value men do that I now know not to do. Edit: in particular the toxic parts are hatred of short guys (I’m 6’2) because all short guys apparently are insecure because of their height and that unattractive or… | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situation“When we started dating you were his height and weight and I was your height and weight, now you have gained 20 pounds. I’d like for you to work at staying that way because I also work hard to stay that way.” My former boss’ wife told him something along those lines and he bought an exercise video and did the cardio workouts and got back to where he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid targets friends being cock blocksThe second sentence has some truth I think. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 11:50 PM |
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