TheIllusioneer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
57	"....and he believed me!" - or some variation of	TheIllusioneer	/r/MGTOW	02/03/20 04:44 PM
18	"Dying alone, all the cool women are doing it."	TheIllusioneer	/r/MGTOW	04/03/20 09:51 PM
6	Just how common is this?	TheIllusioneer	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/20 03:24 PM
1	Women: Chimps claiming to be Bonobos	TheIllusioneer	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	20/01/20 03:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourself Then you must not yet be an 8 year old. I asked a simple yes or no question to which you danced around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 06:55 AM
1	Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourself So you are saying women are helpless in the face of their biology?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 06:05 PM
1	Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourself The insecurity and neuroticism is the same sort of performance anxiety men always feel. The difference is that since prehistoric times men who could not overcome this did not pass along their genes, the women never had this requirement placed on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 03:36 AM
1	Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourself Living in the safest society in the safest time in all of human history and refusing to dial down the neuroticism is like being afraid of falling while laying on the ground.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 03:23 AM
9	It would be petty to point out how petty it is Remind's me of an old Onion article "World Ends Tomorrow! Women and Minorities Hardest Hit!" and people started freaking out till it had to be pointed out who the Onion was.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	20/03/20 08:16 PM
2	How Long Did You Guys Wait To Get Serious Again? Definition of ironic: "Women aren't all the same" - said by every woman.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/20 02:05 PM
2	What?!? If most women behaved like this koko, imagine how much different the history of the world would be? If the women in men's lives were more concerned with being caring partners. It's the women who hate this behavior and will go to great lengths to discourage or criticize it. When men find women like koko our first reaction is to disbelieve our eyes LOL	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 05:30 PM
1	"Dying alone, all the cool women are doing it." This is basic evolutionary psychology, men work better with each other because in prehistoric hunter/gatherer situation if you don't you die. Women lived in the relatively safe bubble of whatever settlement, where the only use for socialization was poilticking.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 05:22 PM
1	"Dying alone, all the cool women are doing it." You're right in that they don't like utter seclusion, but you'll notice very few women, no matter how dire their financial situation, will live with another woman unless it's absolutely necessary. The one exception is they don't mind shacking back up with their parents but that's because they are usually getting it for free. This has less to do with any paranoid need for personal space and more the natural urge for women to play games with everyone, and in the absence of men in their lives they …	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 03:45 PM
12	Forget Chad, this will always be a woman’s true love, and what she’s really in a relationship with. The love of money is the cunt of all evil.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 12:52 AM
6	"Dying alone, all the cool women are doing it." What amuses me is how women are always painted as the ones who are the social ones, yet it's men who frequently enjoy each other as roomates, while women can't bear to share their home with anyone.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 12:42 AM
6	"Dying alone, all the cool women are doing it." My only desire is to die the way I was born - naked, screaming and covered in blood.	/r/MGTOW	05/03/20 12:40 AM
3	Ya love to see it. Simps skipped the most important part of human evolution. Never raise another mans kid The real question should be: What is the upside?	/r/MGTOW	03/03/20 10:53 PM
5	It’s so distorted, you would think it’s all satire. Nope. Feminism didn't create misandry, misandry created feminism. The codified philosophy follows the idea, the emotion creates the rationale. It would be like claiming that the holocaust created anti-semitism. Women have always held these opinions but it is easier to repeat pseudo-intellectual drivel with a cheap veneer of respectability, as most are untiling to puncture past the surface into the bigotry that lies beneath. You don't have to convince people who already view you with contempt tha…	/r/MGTOW	03/03/20 10:47 PM
3	"....and he believed me!" - or some variation of not her in particular but it could've been me a few times	/r/MGTOW	02/03/20 07:35 PM
3	Find yourself at any age. The race is long, and only with yourself. How do I know I'm not being Rich roll'd?	/r/MGTOW	02/03/20 04:41 PM
2	Ex’s new partner shoved in my face Wait, she's already on post-divorce guy #2 and the ink's not even dry?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/20 04:34 PM
0	The so-called "traditional" model serves for average men being able to control women We all do? Sorry but women aren't the only ones who have career ideals and desires, but for most people it becomes at best a job you don't viscerally despise, not some joyful passion that gets you up every morning. Yes, some people are that lucky and we all are jealous of those people. Most of us after 10 or 15 years grinding away at a meaningless job would welcome an escape. What we prefer and what we go after are different things, the woman may prefer a guy who's only a few years older and end…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 01:11 AM
1	Is the current state of the sexual market place skewed heavily in favor of women? The current state of the sexual market place is unchanged, never has changed, no app is going to alter Brifault's law. The only way it could change is if some event wipes out all but a small percentage of men, or a fundamental shift in female behavior made them as sexually aggressive as men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 12:48 AM
1	The so-called "traditional" model serves for average men being able to control women Allow me to flip your list around. The traditional model serves average women, using men to gain a lifestyle they would not otherwise have on their own. 1) Women will use the desire for family as a means to escape regular jobs. Seriously how many men do you think would gladly leave their tedious office jobs and get to spend more time with their kids instead? yes, please sign me up for that terrible life of being around the kids instead of dealing with some pointy haired boss. 2) Women select men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 12:33 AM
1	Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with? Personally I think the whole abortion thing is moronic. I've never once in my life met a woman who was pleased about the idea of ending a pregnancy, most women who wanted an abortion either were doing it well before it was viable, or if they were doing it after that point it was because of some serious health issue. It would be easier to take religious nuts more seriously if they were genuinely trying to care for children rather than ignoring them the moment they're born. I would propose the fol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 12:17 AM
1	Boy Scouts of America file for bankruptcy 2 yrs after allowing girls to join. Simple, declining membership, both boy and girl scout groups have been on the decline for years and this is a last ditch effort for them to delay the inevitable. The girl scout groups have been pretty vocal about it, it's been a very entertaining dumpster fire.	/r/MGTOW	23/02/20 06:59 PM
1	Thanks to this sub, it’s a life saver-Ex traded down on her new BF and it feels good Wait till she ends up having to support him full time.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/20 04:13 AM
2	Sure your wife cheated... just know her poor decisions weren’t because of you.... it never was because of you The only poor decision I made was agreeing to marry her in the first place. I've seen marriages fail because both people were in the wrong, but I've also seen plenty of marriages where one spouse never had any intention to treat the other with respect or even as an equal, and that person was just there for their benefit alone. Guilting them for failing to be perfect enough is pretty mean spirited.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/20 04:53 PM
5	Actually buying your kids. Mine it wasn't even a year, 3 weeks after the divorce and she realized she'd have to get a job I got a series of angry texts because her boytoy was never going to get a job.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/20 06:27 PM
3	Another woman learns that she has ‘depreciated in value’ after 45. I love the articles that bluntly state that women's desirability diminishes in their teens/20's. Sorry but men in their 40's and 50's aren't as good lookin as guys in their 20's/30's, however men have to be the whole package, they have to be charismatic, intelligent, witty and whatever other ridiculous grocery list of endless requirements so as they age they still have those things to offer. Women insist just being in shape and pleasant already asking too much of them, so of course a dull vapid …	/r/MGTOW	21/02/20 05:30 PM
3	Actually buying your kids. It must really fuck a kid up to know that they matter so little to the supposed adults that their real value is as pawns in a game of petty revenge.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/20 03:07 PM
18	Actually buying your kids. My ex wife's first husband got a similar deal, he got their kids in exchange he promised not to sue for support. Apparently the kids were not supposed to know that it was her idea, she had so little interest in her own children that she gave up any visitation rights and never looked back. The whole maternal connection thing is given a lot more credit than it deserves.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/20 07:20 AM
11	Why is society hell bent on forcing men to worship women? Why? Biology. Look at nature, all the hoops the male of the species jumps through to get the female's attention. Nature even sucker punches the male by giving the female of many species an estrus pheromone designed to make it impossible for them to be ignored. This has played out in many ways in human history, mostly in the form of worship (sex deities are always female). Of course just like in evolution, a advantage can come back to bite you in the ass, like if the men in some cultures decide t…	/r/MGTOW	28/01/20 04:11 PM
5	When women don't need a good man, they will give themselves to a wicked one. Where do the good men go then? You don't need the power of enfranchisement to wreck a democracy, ask any corporation that doesn't get to vote if it feels less powerful than the voters. Women don't need to be in charge, the wives of Rome (sounds like the next reality show), wielded immense power and were the effective power behind the emperor in many cases.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	23/01/20 06:41 PM
3	When women don't need a good man, they will give themselves to a wicked one. Where do the good men go then? Apologies I did run off on a bit of a tangent, I gave a more pertinent reply above.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	23/01/20 06:09 PM
9	When women don't need a good man, they will give themselves to a wicked one. Where do the good men go then? When given the ability to run society... When have women not been the arbiters of what is allowed/done in society? True most times they've settled for being the power behind the throne, but pretty much everything throughout history has been done to placate the grievances of women, or to win their favor. Briffault's Law, pure and simple.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	23/01/20 06:08 PM
25	When women don't need a good man, they will give themselves to a wicked one. Where do the good men go then? This isn't society, this is biology. 1) The human female is like the chimp female, naturally gravitating towards the most aggressive male she can find. Unlike Chimps, we have the capacity for more complicated social and language structures, so the female has had to create increasingly more cluttered explanations for her behavior. 2) Throughout the animal kingdom the female need only hold up one benefit to having her, that of reproduction. The male is the one who puts on a dance, makes a show of …	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	23/01/20 03:17 PM
3	I called off work today It's been said here before but to reiterate: Get out, get some fresh air, go to the gym, do not let that mood bully you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/20 02:27 PM
1	Some advice please. (Long rant) With the exception of children your story parallels mine in so many ways I have to start wondering if they just follow the same instruction guide??	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/20 02:21 PM
3	The loss with Divorce Betrayal and loss feel very similar, only with loss you know it's not their fault. In most of the charts ranking levels of stress the death of a spouse is listed higher but I think this is wrong, since the grief process helps a person to move on but divorce is the misery that keeps on giving and IMHO should be put at the top of the list.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/20 11:10 PM
3	Teen Mom Star Farrah Abraham has vagina rejuvenation surgery to attract beta bucks. No matter how much you detail and old station wagon, it'll never be as much fun as a new sports car.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/01/20 01:10 PM
5	Divorcing a divorce attorney Someone like her has to have made enemies in the legal profession, find that guy!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/20 12:36 AM
2	Alimony Reform Prenup's should be required, making it a "gee should we" is what creates the tension. If it was up front and part of the process as a requirement, clearly spelling out the ground rules. Ask a lawyer which makes them more money, a messy divorce where it's a free for all and no defined boundaries, or a pre-nup where blame can be assigned and assets are divided based on a predetermined agreement.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 05:09 PM
2	Always remember, always be mindful, always be thankful for the sacrifices others made, the decisions they made, the times they suffered for all of our benefits. Behind every successful man is a woman wanting to know how much money he makes.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 05:00 PM
2	Bill Burr cracks me up sometimes. Want to drive a female celebrity insane? Pretend you have no idea who she is. Their reaction gets more unhinged as they get older.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:54 PM
1	Somehow women are the victims when willingly accepting offers of money for sex. Notice how male escorts are never even noticed by the media? Unless it's to out someone famous. Like any other job, it's only terrible when a woman has to do it.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:52 PM
1	Don’t be fooled gentlemen there getting desperate Someone else pays the bills and you get to sit at home all day and do whatever you feel like? Can I be a TradWife too??	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:43 PM
1	"AsK nOt WhAt YoUr CoUnTrY cAn Do FoR YoU, aSk WhAt YoU cAn Do FoR yOuR cOuNtRy" I'm so goddamn tired of this brainwashing. I hope all of my mgtow brothers here see through this shit. There is NO glory here, in war, in killing your brethren. Don't fight for this system that sees us as expendable. Imagine what the response to this would be if it was a room full of college girls. The politician wouldn't have to worry about losing election, he'd be recalled before he got back to his office.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:41 PM
1	Well, it's the toxic masculinity again ... So there is an assault specifically for "malicious castration". You might ask, what would non-violent castration be?... for those you need a marriage license	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:40 PM
2	And she somehow won custody My ex got herself one of those too. She just can't imagine why the guy who got disowned by his parents at 19, has by his own admission not held a job for most of his life and needed her to take him in as he was about to be homeless again, didn't magically turn run out and get a job once he didn't have to worry about a place to stay.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:35 PM
3	Literally robbed him while he was just trying to get better. This is worse than getting kicked while your down. More like shot and stabbed. But we should trust them right? AWALT The claim otherwise is specious and self serving. A psychopath who is too lazy or incompetent to do what was done to this guy doesn't make her a better person. If a woman actually wasn't like that she would wear her decency and trustworthiness like a badge of pride, but instead all they can offer is their incompetence at being a villain.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:24 PM
2	Maturity comes from both sides There's a society that criticizes women for their childish behavior? What is their immigration policy?	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:14 PM
2	Crazy experience I had It is no coincidence that women identify with "the princess". Think about it, a princess is someone with power over you and no responsibility to others or even their own actions.	/r/MGTOW	20/01/20 04:03 PM
2	The Case For And Against Dating Apps Don't forget the entertainment value of dating sites/apps. If you ever want to see a Macys' Thanksgiving level parade of narcissism and entitlement check out OKCupid	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/20 03:50 PM
1	Feminism Has Ruined Women and Damaged Men by Paul Craig Roberts This is putting the cart in front of the horse. Think of it like this, did the KKK create racism? No, it was created by bigots as a way to rationalize their behavior. Similarly feminism didn't create bad behavior, it was created to rationalize it.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	20/01/20 03:45 PM
4	Same Difference Story It's also not just America. The flavor of crazy is unique here, but it's unique everywhere. The one common thread though is the crazy. Do not give into the grass-is-greener fallacy.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 03:43 PM
1	How children make it different You have my utmost sympathy for what you will be experiencing in the months to come. No words can help with what you will feel, and the knowledge that we have been exactly where you are will be of little comfort. Just know that the storm you are in right now won't last forever, and you have a daughter who will need one responsible adult and you need to be that for your daughter..	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 03:41 PM
1	Joe Rogan and Bill Maher discuss divorce stories and the dangers of marriage (1/17/20) Leftists have never liked Maher because he doesn't pull his punches with them. One thing you can count on left, right or any other side - it never tolerates criticism from within.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 03:28 PM
10	A Postmortem Analysis of my Online Dating Experience. I'm a little further on the scale than you, being one of those boys who only heard "handsome" from his grandmother. After twenty years of dating I just accepted my fate to be treated with less concern than a farm laborer. However what was hilarious was when some women I work with found out my net worth, and when you go from shunned to "hey cutie", it was almost comical. It's not unlike the people who win the lottery, and suddenly they are everyone's friend.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	20/01/20 02:43 PM
1	Generic NPC thot whose kinds are her world and all men suck because they don’t entertain her bullshit. She literally want a cuckold ATM who will pay for some other man’s jizz and be proud of it. Chad and Tyrone has their fun with her during her best days and now she wants Mr. Beta moneybags. What state do these teachers work in? Where I lived most of the younger teachers were old enough to be my mother's older sister.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/01/20 01:42 PM
2	Just how common is this? In hindsight it was a blessing that she was constantly putting off that conversation to the point that I gave up on it.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/20 08:57 PM
2	Just how common is this? By his own admission he'd only done a handful of divorce cases but he was the only lawyer within 30 miles of us and she was willing to accede to my demands so I figured better to act then and there before she had time to get stupider ideas.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/20 07:11 PM
2	Just how common is this? It's over twenty grand, it's why I'm trying to get a refinancing that will let me remove my name. Don't care how horrible the terms are since it'll be her problem not mine.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/20 07:08 PM
5	Should I leave? 1) Star recording these episodes. You will need them in custody hearings. 2) If possible begin moving away financial things (Bank accounts etc), since this is one of the first things people like this will go after. 3) Have a lawyer get things ready, and do not be there when she is handed the papers, if she loses her mind over trivial things imagine what that will do. 4) DO NOT buy into claims that she can get better or will see therapy, people like this never change and will use any feelings you…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/20 03:11 PM