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They DESERVE exactly what they are getting; if they KNOW someone is cheating on em and they stay at some point that's on THEM. And the funniest part about it is that a lot of these women aren't even OFFICIALLY dating these guys; there just in situationships or FWB relationships. A man can't cheat on you if you aren't even his girl officially 🤣🤣🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:46 PM
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Because it's hypocritical to sit up here and watch you bring up men lying to women when you KNOW in alot of cases THIS is what REALLY happens; again someone can't lie to you if you're ALREADY aware of the truth. So it's VERY dishonest and completely void of accountability taking to say " men lie to women " as if that's the main scenario going on and THEN turn around and say " so what if in alot of cases women aren't ACTUALLY being lied to; so what if that in many cases they are just being delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:43 PM
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In most cases women refuse to accept truth and no for an answer; in many cases they know full good and well that the guy that they want DOESN'T want them back. They KNOW he sees other women, women just refuse to get OUT of their feelings and grow the hell up. Women would rather SHARE a guy that they want rather than be with someone they see below them. You can't be like to if you already KNOW the truth about the situation 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:26 PM
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Yeah those are hypocritical mean but I believe it IS shameful to be promiscuous whether it be man or woman. My point is shaming someone for something that’s NOT shameful is always MILES worse than shaming someone for an action that ACTUALLY IS lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:56 PM
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Oop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:55 PM
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That’s exactly what he’s saying and he’s right; being a virgin or incel isn’t inherently shameful or wrong BUT being a whore, slut, or home wrecker is. This is what you’re “ Oooohh so I can’t belittle you because of shallow things like your body and sex life but YOU can shame me for things that are actually SHAMEFUL give me a break 😒 “ 😂 that’s literally you. “ Oohh you’re telling me that I can’t belittle you for having a physical disability but YOU can look at me in a sketchy light and shame me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:29 PM
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So it looks like you either Misunderstood my point or you’ve purposefully left it out. The tasks themselves aren’t the problem..it’s the principle. Empathy and kindness is awesome when it’s RECIPROCATED. Most women are NOT RECIPROCAL when it comes to just being empathetic towards many men and myself and YET they still EXPECT empathy from us when they don’t practice or show it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:37 PM
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Also why would a FULLY grown adult ask another FULLY grown adult to open the door for them when it can CLEARLY and easily be done on their own? I’ve NEVER had a man ask me to hold the door open for him when he can do it himself. Hell usually even when a guy has his hands full he still doesn’t feel obligated for someone to hold the door open..he just doesn’t himself. Sure I’m sure men appreciate it when others help but it’s never expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:24 PM
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What about the other things I listed? You didn’t address those. What about women expecting you to give up your seat to them on the bus and then when you don’t do it they look surprised lol?? What about when women start altercations with other men and then try to have ME step in?? And yes having people do easy simple things for you that you can easily do yourself is wanting to be babied. It’s the equivalent of wanting your mom to pick up after you or fold your laundry; speaking of laundry the pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:20 PM
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Why would you ask a silly question like this “Do they just flounce up to you and start crying on your chest?” ?. I been asked to carry things for women, pick up dropped items, hold open doors, a lady even asked me to hold her baby as we were getting off of the greyhound bus for a short food & bathroom break lol? Mind you when ALL these things that happened I wasn’t at work getting paid for it so it wasn’t my job 😂. Now if the woman thinks you find her attractive she might even ask you to pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:10 PM
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Hell I’d say they want ALL the unattractive men to leave them alone while still feeling obligated to being babied and protected by those exact same men. It’s crazy because not wanting anything to do with men especially ones women aren’t attracted to isn’t inherently bad. It gets annoying when a good amount of women treat most men that they aren’t attracted to LESS THAN PEOPLE lol and then turn around and still feel obligated for those same men to help them in society. We see this ALL the time; n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:52 PM
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Man if only most women RECIPROCATED empathy then I’m sure more men wouldn’t mind sticking their neck out to help others mainly women in need; men aren’t stupid though. We know most women don’t have empathy for us, objectify us mainly based off of what they can get from us, and feel ENTITLED to men just bending over backwards for em. Why would most women even care to show empathy for men in the simple ways that they can when since childhood they’ve always been taught that they are and should feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:19 AM
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Or someone’s side piece in a good amount of cases 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:28 AM
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No the real answer is for MEN AND WOMEN TO STOP SMASHING AND HAVING BABIES WITH PEOPLE TGAT ARE NOT INTENDED!!! It’s that simple because humans are lustful and hypocritical as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:14 AM
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Because most women are solipsistic; even if their current average partner gets the job done and is satisfactory in many parts of the relationship a woman will leave that man IF she feels she can do better lol. Women’s view on men: “ yeah my man is 5’8 BUT that guy is 6’2 “ “ Yeah my current sex life is good BUT that other guy might be able to F ME BETTER “ “ Yeah my man and I have a nice car BUT that guy has a Ferrari “ “ Yeah my man is cool BUT that guy is more exciting “ My point is MANY women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:26 PM
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Okaaayy so what makes a guy attractive?? If it being over 6 feet tall I don’t no what to tell ya because most men in the US are NOT that lol. Is it being in shape? Is it a conglomerate of things?? If it’s a bunch of bs that men can’t control them the problem is you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:12 PM
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Ehh not really..in many cases women can never just be UPFRONT about how they feel because they don’t want to look bad or loose options due to indecisiveness and wanting more requirements from men. Its common in SOO many female relationships; LYING to appeal to ur friend’s feelings instead of saying being truthful and saying what NEEDS to be said is THE friendship dynamic for most women 😂. The best way to get women is pay attention to the men that women ACTUALLY have sex with women the most and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:58 AM
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Speak for ur self and MANY others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:16 AM
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People really DON’T know how to properly lose weight: you can’t just eat salads. First you have to lower your daily calorie intake: then you have to remove sugars, unhealthy carbs, and saturated fats with protein, healthy carbs, and fat. This means it’ll be LESS expensive to eat healthy because you won’t be eating out. Then add some exercise and BE CONSISTENT that’s all you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:32 PM
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The average healthy women has more fat than an average healthy man but at the end of it the women is still healthy and NOT OBESE. ALL woman have to do is live a healthy life still and NOT BE A LAND WHALE: there’s a difference between THIS and slightly having more fat as an average healthy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:26 PM
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Understandable but at the same time a very sorry and unhealthy mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:21 PM
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No listen guys in most cases men don’t get laid because they are manipulative and uncaring; manipulative and uncaring men get laid because they are attractive. In most cases as long as you can be really sexually appealing then women will let you slide with anything 🤣. For men who are manipulative, uncaring, and UNATTRACTIVE!!…in most cases you aren’t getting laid because you are manipulative and uncaring you aren’t getting laid because to whichever women you want that isn’t choosing you doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:18 PM
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A good amount of men know that you can’t just “ Logic women into being attracted to them. “ Redpill is about knowing how female nature truly is so you as a man can avoid being taken advantage of ESPECIALLY if you know you’re the type of guy that most women aren’t attracted to. Overall women don’t like it when men have boundaries because as soon as men DO have boundaries then BAM she can’t use em; keep in mind just because she’s not and will never be attracted to certain men that doesn’t mean she…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:13 PM
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So there no negatives that carry over from promiscuity to a long term monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:37 AM
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Because they are feeling embarrassed via themselves or other individuals. If someone is running and then they trip and do the family guy fall then they might be embarrassed if others saw; but they wouldn’t feel shame because shame is bound to judgements of character and concerns with personal identity. Accidentally falling has NOTHING to do with judgements of your character and concerns with personal identity so any rational person wouldn’t feel shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:32 AM
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No someone that would be a negative translation over to monogamy REGARDLESS of what you and I think. Like doing meth is BAD for you it’s proven. Now to some it’s morally wrong and to others it’s not be regardless it has negative side effects…that’s what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:27 AM
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THIS is the difference embarrassment merely reflects a concern over presentation, while shame is bound to judgements of character and concerns with personal identity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:24 AM
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So it’s a sure fire no from you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:23 AM
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I’m not talking about social norms..I’m talking about statistically proven OR disproven negative consequences that happen BECAUSE of casual sex despite one’s preference or values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:22 AM
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Assuming this person didn’t base the relationship off of sex. So genuine romantic feelings are involved NOT just trying to relieve sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:20 AM
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No studies at all? And having sex with tons of different people has no negative side effects for future longterm monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:17 AM
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That’s a good one be not being able to afford things is kinda slippery; I think for most I depends on WHY we couldn’t afford things. If I was a no life jobless bum and I couldn’t even my my son a birthday cake then I would feel shame. But that’s different from not being to to afford things NOT because you ARE a jobless bum but because you lost your wallet or someone has been using your debit card behind your back 😂. I’d definitely feel anger but not shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:15 AM
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Okay well do you believe having casual non monogamous sex with many partners has any undeniable negatives that vary over to actual monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:12 AM
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Okay so if everyone does it and it’s apart of who we are then there is no need to feel shame; shame and embarrassment don’t mean the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:10 AM
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Yea shame and embarrassment aren’t the same thing..the meanings aren’t synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:10 AM
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Nooo that’s not what I’m asking gosh darn it 😫!! FACTS give me statistical FACTS PLEASE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:04 AM
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That’s silly EVERYONE has diarrhea..I can confidently say that most people aren’t shamed of having diarrhea because it’s not morally right or wrong to have it; HOWEVER if you have diarrhea and OTHERS can see or smell it then that’s pretty embarrassing 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:03 AM
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No I’m not asking if it matters to some and not to others I know that already 😂. If there are no negative side effects of promiscuity on future monogamous relationships statistically..then there’s no need to lie about it and MANY MANY more men wouldn’t care at ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:02 AM
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I don’t know probably because they’re bad men?? I’m looking for statistics on the negative affects of being promiscuous if any.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:57 PM
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Oh I’m not talking about dating I’m at about hook-ups, flings, and FWB type situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:53 PM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:52 PM
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When I say casual sex that’s just what I mean..having multiple sexual partners outside of a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:52 PM
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I kinda have a good idea of why women make certain choices; I just want the statistics that prove OR disprove the negative effect of those choices on a monogamous longterm relationship. Do those negative effects exist or do they not and are they just a bunch of made bs that someone pulled out of their behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:51 PM
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Yeah but it might as well be the same thing right? if body count truly doesn’t matter then if a guy breaks up with you over it then he’s just very insecure and irrational and you shouldn’t be with him anyways right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:46 PM
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No not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:44 PM
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What are progressive values?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:42 PM
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Any statistics or facts that proves OR disproves casual sex having negative effects on long term monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:41 PM
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😬…can we get a little more factual and statistical; now if there are NO negative consequences from having casual sex and you got some more convincing proof then by all means throw it at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:36 PM
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It’s not REALLY funny it’s stupid…it just makes you wonder ALL the other things women would just lie about just for the fun of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:34 PM
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Okay okay I see..but I need someone to bust out statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:33 PM
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Oohh my bad..I miss read your comment sorry sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:33 PM
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Well that’s silly and childish… that’s like lying about your favorite basketball team because you’re partner wouldn’t REALLY know 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:32 PM
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The wiring in my brain is fine..I just actually want some factual answers that can’t be disproved or just discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:31 PM
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Like give me a common example please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:29 PM
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Because it’s ONE big giant circle of hypocrisy and double standards; I’m not an advocate for any by the way. Women: “ Hey why are you shaming me for being promiscuous? ; U do it too that’s a double standard 😡!!“ Men: “ Because USUALLY women prefer men that HAVE experience; usually women want a man that other women want and not the other way around. Usually women look over men who have no experience..and there’s only one way to get experience lol 🤷🏾‍♂️.” Women: “ So just be in a relationship. “ M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:49 PM
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Definitely EASIER than less attractive people 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:00 AM
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Bruh what type of “ interpersonal issues “ could you even have at work?? This isn’t highschool. You go to work to make money and as long as your co-workers are physically or financially threatening you then the problem is an EASY fix…grow up and stay to yourself. God women are so messy; I see it ALL the time I hear it ALL the time just petty nonsense EVERYWHERE. As long as someone at work isn’t trying to hit you or quite literally trying to purposefully get you fired then STOP giving a DAMN. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:40 PM
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To put it simply for the most part women choose many superficial traits like height, looks, and how exciting a man is OVER if he would ACTUALLY make a good long term partner lol. So yes in most cases women do purposely choose wrong men or at the very least actively ignore blatant red flags and then act all surprised and heartbroken when they couldn’t get that man to change for em.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:44 AM
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No it’s something that’s out of guy’s control for the MOST part. Being a certain height and having a certain look; outside of working out and grooming there’s not much men can do about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:33 PM
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Sure if they are above average in looks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:17 PM
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Yeah that’s sex not a relationship. Women will smash a hot broke guy but not get into a relationship with an average broke guy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:08 PM
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No lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:06 PM
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I mean you can’t FORCE women to be less shallow sooo I guess OP is “ whining “ as you say but his “ whining “ has some merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:54 PM
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Because there’s nothing you can do if woman don’t wanna date you if your not 6 feet tall lol. The two MAIN strict requirements that women have for men in a sexual or arousal since are both genetic and can be changed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:32 PM
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Here we go with labeling address the issue with “ being controlling “. Can we stop playing stupid on here for a second for God’s sake; we men & women ALL know why you don’t take a women seriously who juggle a bunch of options all at once. How the hell is that woman sincerely vetting you properly and fairly while also entertaining like 3 other dudes? Women juggle multiple guys because they want the best they can get even if it’s a other multiple dudes expense. They want a guy to invest into them …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:37 AM
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Why don’t you say you’re not interested the moment you feel that way?….why wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:26 PM
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Young or not she’s knows it’s messed up…again your girlfriend sounded like a massive cunt but hopefully she isn’t that way anymore for your sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:53 AM
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I kinda agree with you slightly ..I think men are expected to take a hit when it’s NEEDED NOT when someone feels like being disrespectful on that day. Hell I know I can take a punch from most women but it’s the principle alone that pisses me off. That’s like saying “ Oh go a right on head steal from your rich friend it’s okay whatever you steal isn’t gonna put a dent in his pockets anyway he’ll be fine “ Being strong and allowing people to OPENLY disrespectful to you without cause is NOT the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:08 AM
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Because they hypocritical ALSO believe they themselves are entitled to a guy tiers above them 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:56 PM
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Because USUALLY women will scream “ Oh abuse “ After consistently TRYING to get into a relationship with a dude that they ALREADY KNOW isn’t loyal. They ALREADY KNOW he’s just using her for sex, but because feelings ( that aren’t even based off genuine love ) she just stays in that relationship for some reason lol. She’s knows all of his red flags but ignores it and then when she FINALLY realizes it won’t happen with that guy, she now says “ Oh abuse men are trash “. On the flip side since most …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:51 PM
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I’d argue men aren’t hornier than women it’s just that women are simply pickier than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:01 PM
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Yeah most homicides are men…committed against men THAT’s the other half of the statistic 😂 so no men are not more violent to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:54 PM
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Of course but we treat them a little differently than we do other adults 😂. Women emotionally just act like children but without the level of purity and innocence to em lol. Then again there are a few women I know who don’t act like women-children emotionally and that CAN act like adults so it’s not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:18 PM
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Actually in most cases treat women like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:37 AM
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All I’m saying is the more attractive the guy is the more the woman let’s be things slide that she’s says SHOULD’NT and WOULD’NT slide if the guy was less attractive lol. I’m glad you don’t just chase men because they are hot though..that’s a really amazing personality trait to actually STAND on what you say you do regardless of the circumstance or person because most people can’t and don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:40 AM
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Just stop please…my REASON for doing good towards people I care about and HELL even people I don’t know is because IT SHOULD BE DONE not because doing good MAKES me feel good. If you do good because it makes you feel good then that TAKES the initial good intent out of it in the first place. I can’t tell you a lot of the times it DOESN’T always FEEL good to do GOOD and HELL sometimes it’s even at my own expense. That’s the thing about doing good you try your best to DO IT regardless of how it fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:49 AM
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Fine maybe most “ Chads “ don’t beat up the women that chases them BUT this fact still remains. A lot of the times “ Chads “ have NO intent on really committing to the multiple women chasing them and YET REGARDLESS of the messed up behavior & red flags of the Chads women STILL chase and excuse behavior SIMPLY because attraction and being horny DESPITE ALREADY knowing he’s NOT gonna commit. Let’s be REAL. REGARDLESS of MORAL INTENT MOST or personality women will either NEVER acknowledge a man OR …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:05 AM
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Uuum idk maybe interacting with people I ACTUALLY give a damn about; helping them out without expecting anything in return maybe ( Romantic relationships included )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:07 AM
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SOLEY acting out in self interest because there is a difference?? Maybe that’s true for the majority of you people but not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:52 AM
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I’m definitely NOT a selfish piece but f trash who’s all out for himself..just to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:12 PM
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Yeah it’s real but it’s EXTREMELY RARE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:07 PM
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When I here most men say “ love me for me “ I interpret it as “ As long as I put my best foot forward to be the best man I can be for YOU and I, then the least YOU can do is be emotionally and sexually loyal to me because AFTERALL we are in a COMMITTED relationship 🤷🏾‍♂️. “ That’s what I mean when I say it anyway. The sad truth is that you’d THINK if you are trying to be the best man that you could be then you’d THINK what good men feel & how they want to be treated by a long term partner should…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:42 AM
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But what’s the ROOT causes is it because most marriages are ACTUALLY working out or is it because people just aren’t getting married at the rate in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:18 AM
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Are people still marrying less though because if so that’s still gonna have a significant impact
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:39 PM
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Why are they lower? Are they lower because of people just not marrying or are they lower because this generation is actually not a absolute trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:40 PM
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That’s the thing most people are just out for themselves so to them most people would be considered tolerable 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:38 PM
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Sooo if marriage rates are lowers because people AREN’T GETTING MARRIED then that info is misleading. Are less people getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:36 PM
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It’s alright who was physically and verbally abusive to everyone in the house not just mom. Well here’s the thing if two people who are NOT selfish sorry excuses for decent human being who actually have good intentions then marriage to them is a journey and a challenge that they will overcome. Most people don’t truly have what it takes to sacrifice for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:59 PM
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From male and female friends it was either because the woman got bored or was “ unhappy “, the two individuals were just too different and grown apart( whatever that means ), and you have some cases where the man being a abusive garbage can caused the divorce..kinda like my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:45 PM
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How do you know for the most part that most divorced filed by women are for the reasons you first listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:42 PM
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No it depends on the context.. 1). If you are innocent and he lies on you THEN he would be considered dirt 2). If the both of you are equally GUILTY and he snitches…well then both of y’all are still trash 😂. Him snitching on you doesn’t make you any less trash. 3). If your ex-friend is actually a genuinely good guy and he does the right thing by giving the law information about you KNOWING that you’re guilty 😂…then the problem is you..you’re trash. My friendships work like this. My closest frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:14 AM
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I will say being a good person is definitely more important than being kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:07 AM
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Don’t be garbage how about that. Sorry but people who put great MORALS OVER any relationship will always have my respect 🫡 . I love people who value morality and if your trash and don’t have good morals then you won’t get along or like people who do have em 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:05 AM
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Actually women are more aggressive in the relationship when it comes to physical violence but since in most cases the women can’t legitimately hurt the man with her bare hands it goes unreported or not taken seriously..it’s why women have the balls to hit men and we are expected to do nothing about it. The couples with the MOST reported abuse are lesbian couples because surprise surprise you get to already extra emotional prone to females violence ( because the don’t really have legit consequenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:04 AM
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We could get more insight from lawyers who handle divorce..from what I’ve seen a GREAT amount of women file for divorce because of being “unhappy“ in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:58 AM
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Me personally I didn’t and am not going to start lifting weights again for the sake of being interesting. The whole purpose of lifting weights is for functional strength which is good and being healthy and in shape which is also good lol who cares if it’s more interesting. All that matters is if it’s good for you and you enjoy it then do it. If a woman is REALLY attracted and has similar core values to you then she’ll just adopt or at least try some of the hobbies that you already partake in sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:40 PM
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Hey that’s just what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:02 PM
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Not just financially..just sacrifice in general. When it comes to sacrificing what you want for the greater good and benefit of the relationship women have a harder time at this as a whole. Most have been sacrificing since they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:17 PM
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Where the hell did you get that from lol? All of the relationships that I’ve witnessed around me from family and friends..the man always remembers his girls birthday after some point when in the relationship. Lots of people don’t remember lots of people’s birthdays. Friends, families, and significant others all interchangeably forget birthdays sometimes especially depending on how many birthdays you are actually expected to remember depending on how many people are in your social life. Listen I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:13 PM
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Hell even if you do bring sacrifice into the picture men still sacrifice more by default since we are the providers..and women well..they just care about themselves. Not ALL women of course but a lot a LOT of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:04 PM
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Oohh if that’s how we are defining it then yeeaaah no men are WAAAY more romantic…women usually just think about what benefits them or what they can do in order for them to get their desired outcome from their partner🤷🏾‍♂️. Very few women do good or romantic things without a motive that’s centered around themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:03 PM
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Well usually when the guy starts to load up his punch other dudes intervene WAY before he gets to actually land that said punch..so I don’t usually have to jump in because other men do; but if I were the only man there then yes people would look at me to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:00 PM
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And how do you know that I fully gotten myself into those situations lol? You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:59 AM
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I couldn’t really especially since it wasn’t just me involved a lot of the times it was my siblings and or nephew involved..but regardless someone was kind enough and good hearted enough to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:58 AM
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Yeah…and you used hight as a way to gauge my masculinity i res your WHOLE response. You were saying “ your not tall and that doesn’t make you feel masculine enough so you take it out on women “ that’s the gist of it. Your point doesn’t still stand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:57 AM
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No it’s not base on two people this is based off of multiple interactions with women that I know as either friends, family, or love interests. It’s also based off of witness OTHER men’s relationships with women. About the parenting part it’s not necessarily about showing favoritism towards your daughter..it’s just that dads know how vulnerable their daughters are so they cherish that. They often do it in the wrong ways ultimately not properly disciplining his daughter..a lot of the times it’s su…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:55 AM
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Hey I was down in some rough places..usually I work but I didn’t have a job at those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:50 AM
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It’s funny that you define masculinity with height. I wouldn’t change my height even if I could because being tall doesn’t make you masculine or a good fighter 😂…being strong, conditioned, and skilled does and that is achieved through being masculine. It’s funny how you say I can’t take on the average man 😂 you know how weak the average man is?? I’m stronger and heavier than the average man..how do I know because of wrestled and fought people stronger than the average man lol. I haven’t worked o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:47 AM
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That’s the thing we are taught from a young age to put them on a pedestal, be more lenient with them then we are with other men, and some men truly ARE desperate so they take what they can get..bad behavior and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:38 AM
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I gotta message you about something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:35 AM
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Well even though we kinda disagree..I sincerely appreciate the sentiment of your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:27 AM
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It’s not about women though it goes both ways I could swore I made that clear. I think it’s hilarious when a disrespectful crap talking guy gets his chin rocked as SOON as he throws a punch in my opinion. The only reason I emphasize women is because women have the privilege of getting a pass. Listen I just feel like any principle like keep your hands to yourself should be unisex and not biased towards one gender that’s all I was saying in one of my paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:20 AM
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I’ll be honest I’m glad you don’t see this as a “he hates women thing” because that’s what most people jump to. I guess deciding to help can be very situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:17 AM
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I help others..I do it all the time but I help people deserving of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:11 AM
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If you decide to start and altercation with another human being you don’t know and you get killed or hurt really badly..I’m sorry I don’t have sympathy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:10 AM
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Aahh so not actual point is being made again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:07 AM
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The old “ He can’t get women “ Strawman argument. Whether I’ve been rejected 1,2,30, or 100 times My points still stand true even if you take dating out of the equation lol. So are you gonna make actual point now because I’m tired of wasting time looking at your responses and they’re just weak attempts at being insulting 🤣. Like really make a decent point already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:06 AM
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Sorry I was responding to other people my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:03 AM
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It’s funny because you don’t know me at all. All I know is that I’m starting to think that you think women should get passes for garbage behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:03 AM
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It’s not gross. I feel a man or woman should totally have their ass handed to them for putting their hands on someone else unjustifiably..yea I think that’s very funny. It’s not my job to stop a fight that doesn’t have ANYTHING to do with me or anyone I care about because I can get hurt. Do you know how people learn to NOT put their hands on other people? It’s either through getting arrested or getting beat up. Why are we rewarding bad behavior just because she’s a woman 😂? I don’t see this ener…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:01 AM
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I sure do know how to control my strength what are you talking about? ALL the stuff you mentioned about falling funny can happen to ANY male as well in a physical altercation in the street. I have the RIGHT to handle a woman ANY way I feel about if SHE is the aggressor. I do that with me so I’m gonna do that with women 🤷🏾‍♂️. If you as a woman or man are the aggressor in the situation YOU AREN’T ENTITLED to a certain way the other person has to react. KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF. That’s it that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:55 AM
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Did you read my post seriously. I had ONE paragraph on how I’ll give a woman 3 chances to stop hitting before I lay her out. The other paragraphs were about how I’m NOT jumping in to save any woman who starts an altercation with a man and expects me to end it. Lots of women just hit men because they know in most cases if the man tries to hit back he’s the one that’s gonna be stopped and attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:49 AM
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What are you talking about? This whole post isn’t about women liking me it’s about the behavior that is somehow tolerable regardless of what relation woman have to me lol? You said I’m a complete asshole to everyone around me? How do you know that? I have a many friends who adore me and care for me. I have women in my life that I love buuuut I’m a complete asshole 🤔. Being a bystander doesn’t make you an asshole depending on the circumstances. I’m not obligated to help people I don’t know in sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:47 AM
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That literally matters NONE like at all. Any grown adult who doesn’t act like a child KNOWS that you can’t just hit people because of words..I feel like I’m talking to pre-K kids bro 🤣. Sure protecting yourself or your belongings obviously gives you the right to hit someone else trying to harm you. I’ve only heard women say that as well “ well why’d she hit him “ that don’t matter if your not protecting you, another person, or your belongings KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:40 AM
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Well used to be pretty angry but I chilled on that and I’m 5’5 soo I guess lol. This post is towards women that are moms, daughters, nieces, women I have met or haven’t met. It’s not necessarily about dating BUT the issues certainly DO roll over into dating. Dating does even have to be in the picture to realize what I’m talking about because most women act like this REGARDLESS of you being a relative, friend, or love interest. I’m saying women aren’t entitled to anything from a man because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:37 AM
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So if i already have women that I care about how do I also hate women because they’re..women lol? What is it an I just pretending to love my female friends, love interests, and family members to secretly stab them in the back 😂?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:30 AM
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What are you talking about I literally gave an example that was not having anything to do with my family. Have you ever been spat on lol? By a woman? Because you didn’t let her cut you in line because I have 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:29 AM
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Exactly you catch my drift lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:28 AM
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Who said they did owe me anything 😂?? Who said I want nothing to do with women? My post was about women who really aren’t good women( turns out to be a LOT ) not towards actual good women that I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:27 AM
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What? What are you saying 😂? What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:24 AM
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Thanks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:23 AM
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Okay so what’s the issue? I don’t get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:22 AM
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So you don’t have a legitimate answer basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:20 AM
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Well in most cases yeah lol..the amount of legit good women that I’ve met in my life that id date are literally no more than like 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:20 AM
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YES IT IS…you can’t hit someone because of WORDS grow up. Just because someone was born with a vagina doesn’t give them a pass. People say offensive things ALL the time but I don’t go around hitting people because I’m “provoked“ that does give me a pass. Do you hear yourself? “ I said provoked “.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:18 AM
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You see I’ve e fought OTHER men before and they can get it too. Let me make mysterious clear for women that I already know and love I’ll do anything that needs to be done to help them just off the merit and principle of me having a relationship with em. On the other hand I don’t owe random women help or chivalry JUST because they were born with vaginas. And yea they don’t have bad intentions..I’m just being a bystander 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:14 AM
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Here’s the thing all of what I mentioned is not because I’m NOT successful with women. If you have dealt with women than you know in most cases what I described in my post is true; regardless if your an incel or not all men have to deal with these things when it comes to most women some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:11 AM
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Don’t worry I know how to control my strength. I know how to hit JUST hard enough to get my pint across. In my opinion if you hit someone and start an altercation you are FULLY at the others person’s mercy in what they do to you or how they respond🤷🏾‍♂️. Men live by this rule why can’t women. Will the person overreact? Who knows? Should they? No they shouldn’t, but if your clearly in the wrong you have NO right to expect that person to act more upright than you. To me both are wrong and whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:08 AM
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Prove it lol. Prove any point that I made is just unhinged or truly doesn’t make any sense. I’m waiting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:00 AM
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Oh it’s not me they have to worry about it’s OTHER men with bad intentions that they have to worry about🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:59 AM
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Uuhh plenty I have 6 sisters and 4 of them have hit me because things that I’ve said. This goes deeper than you realize. I had a friend once her name was Brittany she literally SLAPPED me because she didn’t like what I had to say about a certain subject at the moment. Think about that I didn’t touch her, or personally try to offend her. She’s literally supposed to be my friend and she takes it upon herself to SLAP ME. I remember my younger sister and I was going through a rough patch ( mind you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:57 AM
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So what about my post is NOT rooted in reality because as a guy who has grown up with 6 sisters and actually interacted and still does interact with real women in the real world..I’m curious 🧐.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:50 AM
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Hell yeah it has it’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:48 AM
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So despite ALL the other paragraphs that that I wrote that DON’T involve hitting women your take away is that I just want to hit women 🤔..okay 😂. Bro if I REALLY wanted to just beat on women then I would lol simple as that. It’s not a lot to think about really it’s quite a simple concept keep your hands to yourself or prepared to get hit..it’s a universal unisex rule that I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:46 AM
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I’ve lived in 4 states and people are pretty much the same..trashy. Funny enough men usually stop the boy vs girl fight before it even happens..cuz you know men are taught they’re not supposed to hit a women regardless of ANYTHING they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:41 AM
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It’s not just my personal experiences..it’s anecdotal and empirical evidence a well. You said what’s the point of spreading?? Because I’m NOT going to stick my neck out for ANY woman gender JUST because she’s a woman sorry. I don’t owe women ANYTHING just because they’re born with a vagina sorry 🤷🏾‍♂️. Until I see I rise in number of GOOD women who actually respect men I will mind my own business and ONLY protect the one’s I love ANYONE else including ANY WOMAN I don’t know or care for is NOT pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:38 AM
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Yes you can be oppressed by your OWN group that’s like saying Americans or ANY other inhabitants can’t be oppressed by their own government. Do you KNOW what the word oppression means?? It means “prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control” just because it’s happening from the and group doesn’t mean it cancels it out 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:25 AM
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This statement is stupid. Sure maybe men haven’t DIRECTLY been oppressed by women in a way where it’s like physically force but we DEFINITELY feel the hate, selfishness, and overall lack of empathy from women in just about EVERY other category. And by the way humans in general oppress each other when they see fit and have the opportunity to kind of like slavery were those men NOT oppressed lol? What about innocent people who die from war crimes were the men there not oppressed? Hell what about h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:20 AM
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No it’s truth. Who cares about insults it’s true. Just because something is not good to here doesn’t even inherently make it an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:13 AM
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Because we ALL know for most women if he is attractive enough she would break her own rules and wouldn’t wait END if story..come on we all know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:54 PM
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Speak for yourself I know that most individual humans on this earth are trash but I and a small amount of decent human beings don’t like double standards..because surprise surprise that’s hypocrisy 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:37 PM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:26 PM
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That’s the thing about bad boys OUTSIDE of raw physical attraction what makes them bad boys isn’t physical it’s literally their personality traits and how they carry themselves how they display themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:26 PM
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Bro saying your wife isn’t sexual “ for you “ or she won’t do this “ for you “ is the EXACT same thing as she’s not attracted OR she’s loosing attraction but just in different words. When a woman is truly attracted to you you can talk her into doing almost ANYTHING at least once because she’ll want to please you. When a woman’s gets the tingles for a man she’ll let MOUNTAIN RANGES of shot just slide before it becomes an issue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:51 AM
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No it’s mainly out of emotion..because you CAN be dominant and have confidence WITHOUT being a bad boy..it’s just that the way a bad boy shows his is more attractive on a emotional to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:47 AM
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Of course..and the same goes with men. What does and doesn’t give you the tingles says tons about you and what you’ll prioritize and what you are willing to ignore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:46 AM
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Um no just stop…you don’t need to be a genius to have self control, give a damn about your health, and NOT stuff your face like a sorry pig. Please don’t make the comparison. Making 200k a year ACTUALLY takes hard work to achieve and just because you DON’T make 200k doesn’t mean you’re lazy or lack intelligence. Are teachers lazy and lack intelligence because they don’t make 200k a year? What about construction workers are they lazy 😂? Please don’t even sis all men want is for women to give a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:21 PM
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Well let’s look at it from a different angle. Average means different things to men and women. To a woman eating a man on how average is VERY superficial like he’s not tall enough, he’s not handsome enough, or he doesn’t make enough money 🤷🏾‍♂️. To us average men who ACTUALLY want a good relationship..the way we rate a how average a woman is is not NEARLY as reliant on black and white superficial things like social status, money, and height. Men rating physical attraction in a long term partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:31 AM
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There’s a catch 22 to this..because there are women like you who probably don’t respect or consider the average guy lots of men don’t have as nearly as many options as Chads, but we still have options just not nearly as many as Chad. This really only comes down to reasoning. Average guys who are loyal and have a genuine desire to love a woman aren’t that way because they don’t have a choice they are that way because the same women who say “ You don’t love me because you want to you do it because…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:09 AM
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Stop the cap.. “ Average men are only loyal because they lack options “. Just say you have extremely high standards sis. If that’s how you view an “ average “ men then be single 🤷🏾‍♂️ don’t waste and average guy’s time because based of of your comment you don’t truly desire or respect the average guy so don’t waste others time. What’s wrong with average if you’re INCAPABLE of being attracted to average mind you I didn’t say..below average…I didn’t say revolting..just average if THAT is so hard f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:59 AM
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Exactly! looks aren’t who you are..it’s your soul your and character. Looks fade but you..YOU control whether your character fades or goes. Only genuine good hearted people understand and live by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:22 PM
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Damn OP What is sorry as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:54 PM
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That’s called controlling your greed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:40 PM
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Yeah fat distribution..that’s not the same as controlling how many calories you eat in a day. And most people have their own idea of what exercise and eating healthy is and it’s usually not done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:39 PM
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Oh please miss me with this..one of the reasons women love dogs and NOT spiders is because most women find dogs cute. I heard about this one chick who threw her baby in the garbage because she didn’t like how it looked. If a woman can’t find an animal or human physically cute or attractive to some degree that said woman will be repulsed and want it gone..kinda like the woman WHO THREW HER BABAY AWAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:30 PM
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No just stop please lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:27 PM
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Women are worse at it period. Ignoring someone or because of how they look isn’t nice but everyone’s entitled to it ON THE OTHER HAND. Harshly treating and dehumanizing ugly peoples is NOT okay ( cough cough ) women. There are lots of women I’m not physically or mentally attracted to..I just treat them like the next stranger 2 feet away from us 😅.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:26 PM
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For the most part men aren’t RUTHLESS to ugly women..they just simply ignore em. On the other hand lots of women gossip, openly try to embarrass, or treat ugly men like garbage. Men ignore ugly women Women feel ugly men are disgusting and are below them There’s a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:23 PM
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Well we agree sir. Who gives a damn if “ sHe’s nOt FUn “ OR “ I nEEd mOore exCiTemeNt “ Fuck that I want a stable partner who isn’t garbage lol. Most people’s idea of fun are just drinking and smoking themselves to death anyway lol it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:57 PM
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Speak for y’all selves Attractive women with GREEN flags are INFINITELY better and more valuable than attractive women with RED flags
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:53 PM
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Exactly people only want to implement “ survival of the fittest “ only when it’s convenient for them. If this is the case EVERYBODY just exploit anyone at anytime anywhere because Mother Nature lol. People love to bring up “ We’re jUsT aNImals “ but guess what you wanna know how animals are? Animals are opportunistic with NO moral code Animals cannibalize their young and other adults when things go south Animals kill each other for minuscule reasons Animals rape each other when sexually frustrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:43 AM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:34 AM
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It’s not a double standard at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:18 PM
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But men live more stressful lives as well and NOT just emotionally..just because women are more emotionally unstable and hectic then man are it doesn’t mean their lives are stressful or harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:31 PM
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At least you admitted to point number 2
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:04 AM
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Yeah but physically it’s all the same stuff 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:42 PM
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Well that’s what I’ve experienced more often then not..like I said not all women and or female friends. This has nothing to do with admiration here we go with the feelings thing. Whether I admire them or not is irrelevant because they acted the same regardless . It’s hard to admire people who don’t act like decent individuals. I don’t treat them like trash mind you, initially I just treat them like any other friend or friends of mine and then I see how they act so I just distance myself from em …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:20 AM
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I wasn’t referring to you I was speaking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:09 AM
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That wouldn’t even be her anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:16 PM
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No it’s not the same thing…weight affects MANY physical features on your body like proportions, facial shape, and even symmetry. While height has NO effect on any of these lol. Which is why height doesn’t matter. Whether a woman is 5’4 or 6’1 if she has pretty facial features then she has pretty facial features. Whether a woman is 5’4 or 6’1 if she has nice hips then she has nice hips. Whether a woman is 5’4 or 6’1 if she has a nice curves then she has nice curves because height doesn’t affect i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:08 PM
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Being a moral person..being consistent on standing by your beliefs. It’s hard to do that when you’re hard wired to just ACT on how you feel and then justify it with those said feelings. It’s hard to stand on your beliefs when you have a tendency to be inconsistent with your beliefs based on whether or not those said beliefs convince you or not. It’s hard to make the RIGHT decisions in stressful situations when you have the tendency to put emotions over logic and morality and then justify it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:49 PM
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Because based off of my experience in the past the only thing that actually overlapped In keeping my female friends and I connected was either humor OR then asking me to do stuff for them simply because I can. Other than that they didn’t really care about my needs 🤷🏾‍♂️. Don’t even get me STARTED on giving advice and receiving advice to and from female friends because it’s almost NEVER useful 😂. Instead of advice that is based around logic and actually fixing situations of problems it’s always c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:34 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers to commitment. Women choose the man but we choose whether or not we want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:16 PM
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You definitely have control over it. Just stop looking at women like human meat holes and you’d be good. Stop over sexualizing and objectifying women every chance you get and you should be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:13 PM
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They don’t empathize because I doesn’t benefit them. Now I actually believe you can genuinely be friends with a women that you have no attraction to but even still men and women are so different in what we value and care about she wouldn’t even be a good friend lol..I’m speaking from experience. With that being said the so called friendship ends up being one sided and your pressured into doing things for your platonic female friend that a boyfriend would do for her BUT. To me personally I only k…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:12 PM
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Exactly you’re right and my point is it’s shallow..you can be attracted to someone simply because of status and money but again that’s shallow 😂..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:11 PM
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Are you serious? When you look at someone’s face and body structure and determine if they are good looking or not 😂 that’s what I mean by ugly…the same ugly people use to describe someone who’s body features don’t look good to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:04 PM
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So he was ugly? His height made him physically ugly? It makes his body shape, facial features, and the sound of his voice repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:00 PM
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Explain how height can physically make you ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:59 PM
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Yeah it’s fair…I’ve never dated Asian women before. It doesn’t mean that Asian women are dealbreakers for it just so happens to be that so far I haven’t had chemistry and overlapping relationship standards.. simply put it wasn’t because they were Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:58 PM
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No thanks man 😂 I’d rather be alone..I can’t sit in someone’s face 24/7 pretending..having fake love for em.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:34 PM
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It depends on the woman that your dealing with..I mean you do have to get sexually aroused in order to have a romantically sexual relationship with them 😂. I already stated that if there is NO possibility of you having sexual chemistry then it can’t work. Sexual attraction is important but it’s not the most important..that’s all I was saying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:33 PM
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Rationalize how I look would look the EXACT same regardless of my height 😂. If I were a foot taller I’d still have bros shoulders and straight teeth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:30 PM
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Then you might as well have a casual relationship that isn’t serious 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:27 PM
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But you can have ALL of these traits simply buy attaining them tall people are just born with these qualities off rip 😂 those individuals had to work them. Anyone can attain these things regardless of height. That’s what I’ve been saying it’s not about height it’s SELF it’s about what’s associated with it but I can attain ALL if these anyone willing to put in work can lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:23 PM
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No being healthy effects how you look height only changes what you need to do to go about it that fits you personally lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:08 PM
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Your right but it doesn’t make what I’m saying not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:03 PM
2

You’re absolutely right a taller guy with the exact same same proportions is more attractive but not because his tallness makes him magically hotter 😂. What makes height attractive to women is all the things they associate with height. Just like if two men were the EXACT same but the guy who makes more money would be viewed more attractive by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:02 PM
1

🤚🤚
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:59 AM
1

How are these basic fundamentals to a serious HEALTHY relationship arbitrary I’d love to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:41 AM
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Your right my body is short compared to someone with a larger frame what’s your point? By your logic ALL tall people should be attractive then..there should be NO unattractive tall people right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:37 AM
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Wait what are you trying to convey? I mean I know there’s nothing special about height but what are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:35 AM
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Do you understand the difference between proportions and ratio of size? I’m seriously asking. Whether you are tall or short if you have thick wrists for you body then you have thick wrists for your body. Whether you’re tall or short if you have long legs for your frame..then you have small legs for your from. Whether you are tall or short if you have long arms for your body then you have long arms for your body..how are you not comprehending this. Height has an effect on how tall you are BUT, si…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:33 AM
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No..my height had no effect on my smile, my broad shoulders, or the six pack I used to rock lol. Like I said before there are other things out side of physicality that determine sexual attraction and sometimes it’s shallow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:24 AM
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That’s really beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:21 AM
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It doesn’t your genes do that. ALL people who are 5,6 don’t have the exact same proportions wanna know why?..it’s because there isn’t a direct correlation between height and proportions. If anything muscle mass and fat percentage have a massive affect on proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:21 AM
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No higher doesn’t effect your body proportions..your genes do that for you. Height effects the size of you OVERALL frame compared to other human beings but when it comes to your body parts like leg length vs arm length, shoulder broadness, and neck length your genes determine that. Me I have broad shoulders, thick lower body, and I think my torso is average. There are plenty of tall guys with my exact same proportions the only difference is they’re just scaled up in size lol that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:18 AM
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How are you sure? There are of people who just hop into a relationship with someone SOLEY because of physicality and sexual appeal and then claim they “ love “ their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:11 AM
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Weight can affect your physical appearance because having too much or too little fat for your frame can effect your proportions, skin quality, facial & body symmetry, and even your BO smell which all play into sexual attractiveness. Height on the other hand however doesn’t effect any of these lol. Height is just height lol 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:09 AM
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EXACTLY that’s my point!! I agree with you!! My question was to individuals in relationships with the height dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:06 AM
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Yes but it’s not tied to physical attractiveness. Facial symmetry, proportions of the body, and body fat percentage affect physical attractiveness. I’ve been told I’m handsome, fine, cute, and I have a beautiful smile BUT, I was too short for those SAME women who have complemented my physical appearance. Just like other non physical factors can make someone less attractive like their personality and habits…height works the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:02 AM
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Height doesn’t affect your physical appearance. Just the same as driving a Honda instead of a Ferrari doesn’t affect your physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:55 AM
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Not being a hypocrite is apparently stupidity guys lol. You learn something new everyday 😂. If you have a belief that you feel strongly about you stand on it no matter the circumstances 🤷🏾‍♂️..but most women don’t do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:30 AM
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So it’s not about behavior at all it’s just hypocrisy. “ Yeah you get a pass cuz your hot “ “ Ew you’re not hot so when you do it you’re an asshole freaking scumbag “ If women REALLY cared about this they would give NO one a pass because their personal beliefs would trump looks and money but instead we have a bunch of hypocrites 😂. Women only cling to certain beliefs and morals ONLY if it’s convenient for em..then when it ain’t convenient or beneficial they discard em 😂. Not ALL women but most l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:32 AM
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I’m not making excuses for being fake nice but even still if a hot guy pretends to be “ Nice “ then it’s not an issue to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:26 AM
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I’d say there’s a difference between being nice for approval versus being a genuine good person, a real one. Genuinely good person is special because most people AREN’T that..but women would still pass it up just for fun it’s crazy 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:25 AM
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No it doesn’t because I’ve experimented with it myself 😂. On dating profiles sometimes I don’t put my real height sometimes and I put 5’9-6’2 JUST to see. I just use pics that don’t have my full body in it and Ta-Da!! Matches!!. So most of the matches that I used to experiment with they didn’t know I wasn’t really 5’9-6’2. They didn’t know I was really shorter so again height doesn’t have an effect on your physical attractiveness..because none of my features changed 🤣. Really if you ask a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:37 AM
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No it IS shallow. We just established that being short doesn’t mean your ugly or not physically attractive. Being shorter has no affect on your personality, humor, or character so again with all this established, the reason why most women don’t date shorter guys is simply because they don’t want too with shallowness as the reason behind it simple. Now woman have the right to have preferences for no apparent reasons BUT if you have a preference that has literally NO affect on physical, mental, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:29 AM
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Here’s the thing having height as a dealbreaker is just as shallow as not wanting to date someone because they have an android. I’ve had a woman straight up tell me ( and this was when I was in shape ) “ Oh you fine but if you were just a little taller “. She was literally there for a good 3 minutes admiring my smile, muscles, and even my buttocks 😂 cuz I’m kinda thick not gone lie..JUST to say you’re not tall enough. I’m thinking so wait a minute me being short doesn’t actually take away from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:38 PM
1

Fellas if you don’t find a woman at 25-28 just stay single and keep everything casual..for us there is literally NO benefit to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:03 AM
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Women have higher standards overall for men to meet when it comes to long time partners and even casual sex partners lol. All those standards that are considered attractive to women that can be worked on by men TAKE TIME!! Time, effort, trial and error. All the things that women ideally want in a man don’t happen overnight..sooo what happens? What happens is men don’t have a lot of options in dating because there’s a good chance they didn’t build themselves up enough yet because again that takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:00 AM
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Not necessarily in any particular way honestly..it depends on how I’m feeling sometimes I’ll say “ Hey how’s it going “ or sometimes I’ll just stay quiet..I’m never rude though and it’s PERFECTLY lol. It’s perfectly fine to want to treat a cashier like a human being because we BOTH have an understanding that the cashier doing his job to make a living and myself purchasing items for my own needs isn’t objectifying anyone. Everyone wants to live and thrive..and you need resources to do so..and som…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:08 AM
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I don’t have casual sex 🤷🏾‍♂️ lol. Sex within a relationship or marriage I’m ALL for it. There is not obligation to treat objects like people in a emotional any way. That’s like saying “ I gotta be nice to my vacuum cleaner before it does it’s job “ like no lol. When men and women masturbate they don’t sweat talk their hands, flesh light, or dildos 😂 they pull it out hand, flesh light or dildo, use them, ejaculate, and then go on about their day. That’s exactly what casual sex is on a conceptual…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:08 AM
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Bro if it’s casual sex which means you AREN’T in a relationship then yes you’re a sex object and I don’t know WHY some women get shocked by this lol. If we are having casual sex then why the hell would I try to get to know you or try to emotionally connect with you? If you’re a man hooking up with a woman the ONLY emotions you need to be expressing and using are emotions that sexually stimulate her so y’all can have sex lol. If BOTH of y’all are only there for SEX then let it be that lol. The re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:39 AM
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I’ve interacted with many women in REAL life and in REAL life women are more emotionally driven then men are…whether those emotions are good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:12 AM
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Men are in denial about what😂? Your just saying stuff now 😂??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:10 AM
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Not knowing how to handle emotions and therefore pinning them up and doing something not so smart is different from being MORE emotional by DEFAULT. If you take a woman and a man who both know how to decently handle their emotions…the woman will STILL be more emotionally driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:52 AM
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EVERYONE is driven by emotion at some point BUT women are even more so driven by emotion..simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:49 AM
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Nope not true!! If you actually pay attention the MAIN reason most men have a harder time dealing with aggression specifically is because we literally have more testosterone. Also men usually get shunned when we are more emotional where as women yall get more freedom when it comes to expressing emotions because AGAIN y’all are emotionally weaker 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:47 AM
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We are equal BUT different.. Just because women don’t commit most of the violent crime’s it doesn’t mean women AREN’T more emotional. There are MANY emotions that can be felt that just aren’t tied to violence 😂. There are two main reasons why women don’t commit most violent crimes. For one most women know that on a physical level they are not able to severely injure a man without a weapon. And two ( here’s where women begins emotional come into play ) most women are SCARED of getting into physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:42 AM
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You missed the point lol really both men and women are violent it’s just that women bro weaker balances things out because being driven by emotion + being physically capable isn’t a good combo. So sure it seems like men are worse because we are physically stronger duh but if women were just as strong AND still very emotionally driven THAT would be really bad. They’d be able to act on every little childishly or emotionally silly gripe however they feel..and that’s bad because in this scenario the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:59 AM
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I’ve NEVER seen that happen..and you mean to tell me the said woman that’s been attracted ACTUALLY genuinely wants the guy??? I’ve never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:39 PM
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It’s more common than you think…most people go in to relationships for not the right reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:38 PM
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None of the examples I gave were not love interests. I have standards for a relationship but most women don’t meet any of em..and you’d be surprised my standards are centered around the morals of a woman..and like I said it ain’t a bunch of good moral women left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:16 PM
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I haven’t been tackled by a woman because any average woman that is SMART knows that she can’t successfully pull it off..BUT I have been slapped, bitten, and scratched because the said female was in their feelings at the time DESPITE me not lifting a finger 🤷🏾‍♂️. If women logic is I feel this way so= it justifies what I’m doing good or bad Then no women shouldn’t have the strength of adult males because that’ll be too dangerous. It’ll basically be like children running around..I’m speaking in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:12 PM
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No despite having the mental capacity women at large REFUSE to do jobs that most men do either because of either lack of physicality OR some emotional reason they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:06 PM
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Wait elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:02 PM
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Let me guess you’re a woman aren’t you?? Your only proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:01 PM
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Okay you’re talking about the past what about NOW?? The truth isn’t now in current time’s women aren’t being kept out women as a majority would just rather NOT work for NASA..seems like Onlyfans is more up a lot of women’s ally..sitting around, being promiscuous, and getting payed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:23 PM
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Realizing the reality and realizing that women want certain things for what ever ( usually very shallow or non logo) reasons isn’t necessarily pessimistic. I just understand the odds that I’m up against that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:00 PM
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I’ve never had trouble attracting women either because I’m a good looking guy especially when I was in shape, BUT the truth is most women don’t want someone like me. Like I said most women want the same top 15% of men. Now I can pull a woman but what are the odds that she doesn’t TRULY desire me because I’m not the top percentile of men? HIGH!! What are the odds that now matter how much effort I put into myself and others around me that to HER she can’t help it but to feel like she’s settling? H…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:56 PM
1

Yeah but let’s be honest a lot of women don’t care about your potential they care about what you are NOW!! Most women don’t want to grow with you they want you in already in oder by the time they arrive so they can benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:49 PM
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That’s only if that person already had the potential to attract that woman in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:46 PM
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You but in most case scenarios if your aren’t attractive enough or hell you can be attractive but if you aren’t 6ft then confidence won’t matter 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:45 PM
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I’m totally aware I actually learned about the woman in school I forgot her name though 😂, but that isn’t the majority of women we aren’t talking about the small percentile of exceptions to the rule. Now in all seriousness props to those SPECIFIC women but they aren’t the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:43 PM
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RIGHT!! And they STILL try to just compare..like no Gwen picking pillows up as a HOUSEKEEPER doesn’t compare to picking up cinder blocks as a Construction Worker 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:39 PM
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But you’ll see more women trying to major in it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:36 PM
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Women are emotionally weaker which LEADS to more stupid emotionally driven negative decisions by said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:36 PM
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I could’ve swore that women for the most part are physically weaker and MORE emotionally driven 🤔. Thank GOD women aren’t as physically capable as men because you know how much crazier the world would be Imagine just the average run of the mill emotionally unstable and irrational modern American woman who basically acts like a child. Just imagine we’ve ALL see those videos where someone’s girlfriend or sister gets stressed out over something silly and they either have a tantrum or a big teary ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:35 PM
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Just because something CLEARY ISN’T common sense or even justifiable that doesn’t mean people won’t indulge I’m just saying 🤷🏾‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:23 PM
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Pretty much..in Oder for a man to “ Choose “ he needs to meet ALL or most of the requirements that only a few percentage of men in the us actually have which is why MOST women want & chase the same small percentile of men. So you’re saying “ Hey you as a man you most DEFINITELY get to choose the women that you want, and impressing women psshh don’t worry about that…..…all you gotta do is HOPE YOU WERE BORN 6ft 😂and if you weren’t then tough shit because only 14.5 % of men in the US are actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:22 PM
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And what do think most women’s career choices are after going to college? Sorry Stacy but majoring in gender studies ain’t go help no one 😂. Meanwhile Bob over here is inventing some ground breaking AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:05 PM
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I think you’re trying to say that most men choose careers that are physically and mentally taxing like being a biologist or a construction worker…where as women on the other hand for the most part choose jobs where it’s more social..basically jobs that requires them to sit, be social, and look pretty all day 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:58 PM
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Well let’s be honest lots of women don’t just get straight to the point and say “ I’m not interested in and it’ll never happen sorry”. They’d rather play stupid ambiguous guessing games and you know why? Because if they flat out said “ well thanks but it’ll never happen “ as soon as they actually FELT it then in most cases the guy would just be like welp I’m gone, BUT she doesn’t want that lol. She doesn’t want that because even tho she KNOWS there is no hope for an actual relationship she just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:32 AM
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Even when you GENUINELY fall out of love it’s not that you don’t love them..you still love them just not in a romantic sense. So you still wish the best for their well being because you truly loved them but you no longer love them in a romantic way. Unless this person was just an absolute SADISTIC DEMON during the relationship then I can see the love eventually completely fading into being cold hearted towards that person 😂. But even still it’ll take ALOT for a person who TRULY loves you to just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:58 AM
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Having love for another person can effect your emotions yes but it’s also an action that’s my point. My point was that your actions should back up your love feelings for someone if they be true. Sorry but no only feeling love and not acting on it isn’t really love..it’s just a dopamine rush you got from that person because they were cute or whatever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:53 AM
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Wow talk about no effort on his part that’s ashame..damn I would’ve thought that he would tell you what’s wrong at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:37 AM
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Naive?? How lol! FIRST people usually lust after one another and then after individuals have the ability to choose to love someone in a romantic way. Love is ultimately an action, sure you can feel like you love someone but actions should back up your feelings of love to be true..it’s simple. If a man says “ I love my wife hooray!! “ and then come to find out he beats on her then he doesn’t love her he may FEEL that he does but he truly doesn’t. If a woman screams “ I love my husband sooo much “…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:24 AM
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Hey look at you a exception to the rule. Ii takes effort from both parties in a relationship. How do you know he didn’t desire you if I may ask?What were the sure fire signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:56 AM
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There’s a difference between LUST and LOVE…it’s likely that one or both partners in LOTS of relationships weren’t truly in love but in fact was just horny lol. If you truly love someone you don’t FALL OUT OF LOVE. Your feelings and moods may change about a person but LOVE doesn’t change. Basically many people don’t understand what love is outside of the tingly feelings and dopamine rushes they get. Once they start to figure out that having a REAL, close knit, genuine, loyal, and loving relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:12 AM
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