Pros? Cons? Neutral?

wtknight · 2024-05-07T00:37:02+00:00

Removed. No posts about body count.

apresonly · 2024-05-06T23:27:29+00:00

Why fear of being shamed about something that literally has ZERO negative effects on future monogamous relationships right?

people feel shame all the time about things they rationally know aren't shameful

gntlbastard · 2024-05-06T23:59:09+00:00

Should a woman be shamed because of her body count? No

Should a man have the right to reject a woman because of her body count? Absolutely.

MongoBobalossus · 2024-05-06T23:34:34+00:00

It only has the power you give it. There’s plenty of people out there, don’t waste time and effort on people hung up about shit you can’t change in the past.

MyLastBestChance · 2024-05-07T00:05:36+00:00

There’s no point in lying, there’s no point in answering at all.

Merely by asking the question, a man would be showing exactly who he is and how he thinks and both of those things are proof positive that I wouldn’t want anything further to do with him.

To be fair though, this seems to mostly be a teenager/reddit thing. I’ve never been asked 🤷‍♀️.

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GojosLowerHalf3 · 2024-05-07T00:36:12+00:00

I wouldn't lie because I wouldn't answer because it's irrelevant.

I would however likely not continue dating him for asking.

alwaysright12 · 2024-05-06T23:30:31+00:00

I'd imagine some women lie because it's funny knowing men have no way of telling

LapazGracie · 2024-05-06T23:58:10+00:00

Believe it or not slut shaming serves to protect the woman.

Man have true dual mating strategies

1) Fuck as many women as possible

2) Invest into one and sire several children with her.

Both perfectly viable in the wild where we evolved.

Sluts by their nature are not going to make good options for #2. Why? Well because we did not evolve with DNA tests. If you're the idiot investing your time and resources into a woman who has slept with half the damn tribe. You're probably not going to be raising your own child. Thus you will be weeded out of the gene pool in favor of someone who will only pump and dump the slut and leave her on the curb.

Yes having a high N count affects your desirability. Anyone who thinks otherwise without context ask 10 random men if they would have a long term relationship with a beautiful active prostitute. How many of them would agree to such an arrangement? Not many.

Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-05-06T23:29:30+00:00

Lol

Inb4 locked because not neutral

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-05-06T23:46:08+00:00

The more relationships a woman has (not sex, which is why ncount is pointless) the more she is going to figure out what she does or doesn’t want.

And women don’t want trad cucks. They’ve been clear about this. Other than exploitation or money, they don’t care.

The old ways are over.

Women don’t want to discuss ncounts, despite them not actually being relevant, but because it might be relevant to rich Chad. And they don’t want to lose access to that. So lying is the way to go. Ring rejected is verboten.

You’re not going to find a lot of stats behind why women do things, you’ll simply get nothing honest and those studies won’t be allowed to be done.

The famous “ncount” study is entirely made up by the sex negative religious types. They’re the ones who push it, just like Nofap and all that other sex negative stuff.

Just more religious garbage trad cucks glom into because they worship hymens.

The number of relationships is what matters, not ncounts. Ncounts are for insecure trad cucks with small wieners and religious nonsense types who hate sex.

Have whatever preferences you want, but base it on something other than lies and fake studies by feminists or religious types, both of whom hate sex.

superlurkage · 2024-05-06T23:55:58+00:00

I dunno; why do men lie about the nudes they share, the porn they watch, the relatives, friends, coworkers, grandmas and minors they’ve wanked it to, the opinions they have about sluts and whores, the sex acts they want, the hookers they’ve fucked, etc?

Something-bothersome · 2024-05-07T00:20:07+00:00

Why would you?

I mean that’s the real answer.

There is a huge history of interest, sigma and judgement about the number of sexual partners in regard to women. It wasn’t a vague noise in the background either, it was a full on life effecting factor.

These days you can simply bypass the whole issue entirely as the only real holder of information is you.

Norms and values have changed, so the whole virginity requirement thing has pretty much been taken off the table. There can be some noise if you fall way outside the norms of your community and it becomes apparent to others, but there are solutions to that as well. It’s simply not as big of an issue anymore and it is manageable.

So what remains is some random number that is debated in regard to other people’s values. It’s not even a clear number - norms and values seem to differ between various communities and countries. Even the core source of norms and values, the family, the message is unclear ranging from “just be careful and respect yourself” to “wait until marriage”. The spectrum is huge.

It’s simply easier to not bother with it at all, or self manage the information in terms of your personal values, and it appears that the community for the most part will tolerate that as well. It’s becoming quite accepted that the information remain between you and your doctor.

Title	Pros? Cons? Neutral?
Author	TheIncredibleHarry
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Comments	97
Date	May 6, 2024 11:16 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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