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Fundamentals TheKanonFoder/r/seduction09/03/25 09:46 PM
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Stop caring. there's an instinct from when we were in small communities. Being rejected could eliminate you from the possibilities of procreation. We are instinctly driven to pass on our genetic legacy. You must see yourself as a prize. Right now you see women as a prize. To be a prize there must be a competition.
/r/seduction02/04/25 05:56 PM
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You are emotionally fragile
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:29 AM
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Daily.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:47 AM
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So women who hunt guys on dating apps get sensory overloaded my guys are always liking them giving them attention stuff like that and they get used to that attention. So then when they try and make exclusive with one guy they feel like they're missing out I feel like there's all this attention to be gotten and they're missing it so they usually don't last long
/r/seduction29/03/25 12:10 AM
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Never by text.
/r/seduction22/03/25 01:47 AM
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Make her break up with you. Tell her. You have a banging body but I just wish you wouldn't talk. Typically she'll dump your ass You can both go your own ways.
/r/seduction21/03/25 06:52 PM
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It's not just the bodybuilding. it's the physical embodiment of masculinity. The increase in testosterone. Impression of capable of physical violence (aggression or defense). It also shows dedication to self.
/r/seduction20/03/25 01:54 PM
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It's a stupid argument huh. Should go for it. Prove me wrong. It's not just that. I don't want to be around a person you're dating. You want there to be mystery and intensity when you're together. If you see your day you're not mysterious and there's no intensity when you're together. Just remember all she has to do is make an accusation.
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:20 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:03 PM
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That's how I do it. I don't cold approach. I just start conversations. joke with them. Tease them about something goofy. Trying to share a laugh with them. Find some playful way to interact. If they don't give me an indicator of interest then I don't pursue. Women know within the first minute if they're going to sleep with you or not usually We can convince him sometimes. it's easier just to play lots of hands, and look for the pair aces.
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:03 PM
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I don't pour girls from the club If you can pull a girl from the club other people have pull the girl from the club low quality
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:54 PM
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Don't. If it goes wrong you lose your job.
/r/seduction16/03/25 12:36 PM
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You agree with. Good looking guy tall, muscular, good smile, pretty eyes or a well-groomed. Women notice everything new approach. Watches rings suit cut how you wearing your shoes what how your shoes look all that matters. But I've seen goofy guys with the silver tongue tall girls in the bed before they even knew that you talked into bed. He was 5'6 and he regularly would pick up women over 6 ft tall just because it was a challenge. Don't find woman online. I'll likelihood be that it's a waste o…
/r/seduction16/03/25 01:24 AM
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I found a good way to test the waters exactly there's a hair on her shirt for shoulder or something like that and be like oh you got a hair and reach for it if she flinches away she's not feeling it she doesn't move this reinforces that you're investing in her and she's accepting it If not. Oh well
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:17 AM
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I can't tell through the phone so why don't you come over and let me see what that feels like too. Lucky you. Me too. We should get together. do a show and tell .
/r/seduction14/03/25 10:34 PM
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If she told you she has a boyfriend I mean she's not interested in you. Yeah don't spend any more time on opening dialogue. I personally like to. Tell them funny jokes occasionally. So that to change their mind about you they can give you an sign of interest.
/r/seduction14/03/25 02:11 PM
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You don't You don't make friends with women.
/r/seduction14/03/25 01:43 PM
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You should have asked her a question to engage her in feedback. Don't expect a woman to carry the conversation You have to carry it and give the continuation but you also have to keep it short sweet and you have to be patient and replying
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:08 PM
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It's the elimination of the desperation, of the need. What's your secure in yourself You state of mind isn't in question by her rejection. You don't care if you reject you or not and that makes you attractive. Think about it. women will ignore the guy who's over head over heels for her. I go suck the dick in a guy that doesn't give a shit about her in the backseat of his car. Not needing her It's part of what built initial attraction. It conveys message that you're more valuable than her. Evolut…
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:06 PM
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You may question if you're actually doing a service getting them together in the first place divorce is ugly and even with a good a lawyer it's usually a horrible experience for the men
/r/seduction14/03/25 06:23 AM
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So this is all about making him laugh and asking him questions that are involved enough that they explain themselves and they feel like they're bonding with you. And then you use a humor to lock in that emotion at strategic moments.
/r/seduction14/03/25 02:42 AM
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Before you become a dating coach spend a day in divorce court
/r/seduction14/03/25 02:13 AM
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We don't need the backstory If she's not enthusiastic meet. you move on. eduction is like sales. Sometime the customer isn't worth having. And it's better for you to cut your losses and move on to find a more lucrative customer then spend the effort to convince this one It's not even sure they want your product.
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:06 AM
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When I was 15 years old I thought 35, 40 was old. My father just turned 70 and I'm nearly 50. I have a son that isn't even 10. You have lots of head to be plenty of time. Bill of life at stable so you can bring a woman and children into it Don't bring women and children in the world and then try to build a life to support them It doesn't work as well. Since you have plenty of time. Work on you because you're not comfortable with you and without you being comfortable on you that means you're goin…
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:02 AM
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I understand that you like her. You need to make an unemotional decision based on women actions. does she have desire for you. Is she a good choice to contribute to my life. You're investing way too much in this girl at this point in your life. Keep it casual, keep it fun, and see what's to come. You need to make sure you have options. Don't invest too much in her. Cuz unless you were certain that she thinks that you or her best option she's keeping an eye out for other options. You're too young…
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:49 AM
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Grandpa had a saying. If you spend your time living in the past. If you're fixated on the future. Then you missing the opportunity of the present. Your fear being rejected is a sociable trait from when we were small tribes. Because being rejected by a female in your tribe could mean that you lose reproductive ability completely. And so you have an innate resistance to looking rejectable. The problem is if you're afraid of being rejectable then the woman has the power. Women don't want to be in a…
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:31 AM
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Remember always take longer to, and respond with less when texting. Don't worry about her motivation. Worry about her actions. If you see genuine desire. then keep her on the roster. Remember never only have one. If she's not motivated to you. spend more time away. Make it seem like you're losing interest.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:35 AM
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What do you mean like teach you. like mentoring. Probably not. What works for me. won't work for you. I think a lot of my success comes from a history of sales. I'm a fiercely independent individual. I'm also highly intelligent. I border on dart triad traits..
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:28 AM
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If you've approached 600 people you've been rejected by all of them It's got to be something you're doing. My cold approach rate was like one and 10 to sex.3-4 of 10 to second encounter. My guess is that you expect failure and they can see this and they smell it they smell the desperation .
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:23 AM
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Volunteer at senior community center.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:14 AM
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She has to be more uncomfortable losing you. Losing an opportunity to be with you.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:12 AM
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Cheer me up first You're 22 years old You don't even know who you are You don't know who you're an identity and they don't know who they are how you going to be connected to uncertainty. You're looking for that storytell emotional romance but it's only in movies and books. The emotion and the chemistry is there in the beginning. that's just a pair bond you after that it's on your own it's work You're too young to be going out and looking for this You don't know who you are You don't have success…
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:43 AM
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Rarely
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:07 PM
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No you know he may have had something important to do family, medical, religious, but You get what I'm saying. Send a message again. Either early in the day when you'd like to see him or the day before. He blows you off again he has a better option and you're the backup. So you need to either improve your standing next time you see them be more vocal be more responsive. Show him you worth making a priority even if it is just fun
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:52 AM
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Texting lacks emotional depth. I personally avoid, or limit as much as I can. Do make sure I don't digital Simp. Respond with less, waiting longer to reply. Use questions to bait interactions. Draw out in-depth explanations with only offers simple in return. I push for in person meeting. Watch out because many women just want attention of those willing to offer it. Don't explain too much don't feel the need to establish your own value. If you feel you have to prove yourself. You're not ready. Th…
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:07 AM
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You're right I shouldn't have stereotyped everybody they're always exceptions. I apologize It was needlessly toxic. But it was kind of meant to be funny too. Just hard to convey humor by text
/r/seduction10/03/25 12:35 AM
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Is it a trophy or an educational tool?
/r/seduction09/03/25 11:45 PM
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I didn't just land here It's taking a lot of failure success learning along the way. But it's changed a lot when I was in my twenties it was completely different. And the difference is now that so many guys bought into women should be worshiped and they should be the center of your universe that they do this and then it fails and everything falls apart so many guys kill themselves because they just can't handle But they've been fed lies and they lost everything because they believed in the lies
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:05 PM
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So she's already trying to dismiss you. She's asking you to qualify to her values she wants you to enter into her world not her interior and yours Don't do bumble. Don't do dating apps they're full of pathetic Simps, and cuckolds. They are so desperate just to get a woman's attention. They will make it two feel like she's a 10.
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:22 PM
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I can agree with that. It's really a situation play. You might run into a group that a girl's getting out of divorce or hasn't been laid in a year. They're going to offer her to you if you make a good impression. How I've even made a plate for a couple of them to join me. You just got to play by ear but you can't be afraid you can't be timing and you can't second guess. look none of them was Going to go home with you before you talk to them. You never know what will happen but if you don't talk …
/r/seduction09/03/25 02:36 PM
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I disagree. If you target one the rest will interfere but if you let them target you they'll all help. You let one pick you and then you rock her world and she'll go tell the friends. Then you end up playing my turn with multiple women.
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:20 PM
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Engage with all of them Make them all laugh tease them all. Don't be afraid of them. I just want to start getting good threatened to walk away. I have a familiar face. So almost always one of the girls thinks I know me but they just can't remember from where. But don't ever act like you know one of them and they forgot you because that means you forgettable. What group is actually pretty easy. Guys just get intimidated cuz her outnumbered. But a group of women will basically entertain themselves…
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:17 PM
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Dating apps are only for visually impressive guys over 6 ft chisel good looking guys who build attraction just by sight. The problem with the dating apps is it's either full of Chad's or it's full of bads. Guys women don't notice Don't care about but these guys will give English attention to women. Just in the hopes of getting attention affection or some reward they're like puppies except for not as cute and pathetic.
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:17 AM
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You're probably not a guy to them You're just another girlfriend
/r/seduction09/03/25 05:32 AM
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Anywhere gas station grocery store food place church I don't like to meet girls in loud places. Too easy for what you say to get misunderstood and then it can kill momentum
/r/seduction08/03/25 09:10 PM
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Never ever mess around somebody you work with. especially female. If things go wrong. they just go to HR and you lose your job. Besides you don't want to be working with the person relationship you want to keep professional life separate from recreational life and you don't want to be around them all the time because then familure, and they get bored.
/r/seduction08/03/25 08:31 PM
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You're not in the present You're worried about the future and you're dwelling on consequences from the past right Grandpa had a saying If you spend too much time in the past you miss the road ahead and if you spend too much time in the future you don't learn the route lessons behind you that you earned stay in the present don't worry about f****** her Don't worry about making you your girlfriend Just worrying about getting to the next weather laugh giggle whatever right Like don't even worry abo…
/r/seduction08/03/25 01:28 AM
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Don't send sexually explicit text. If she gets mad. May be used against you. Everything you send Lisa digital record and you have no idea if that's going to be private and secure in the future. Just tell her you want to spend some cool time with her. you wanted to join you for some fun. Be flirty, be indirect, try playful, and fun. don't be explicit.
/r/seduction07/03/25 11:47 PM
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You're not going to be very successful trying to be her girlfriend.
/r/seduction07/03/25 02:28 PM
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I'll pick up girls from flings anymore. Heaven for a while not into that anymore. I'm looking for desire and passion and growth of intimacy. Without the burden commitment in a relationship.
/r/seduction07/03/25 02:14 PM
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Like a lot of my jokes you can't tell if I'm joking or not until I say I'm joking which is little unsettling to a lot of women at first but it also gives me an advantage because they don't want to act like they didn't realize it was a joke so they play along and it allows me to stay in control and judge her reactions for I decide how to play it
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:53 PM
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Actually you have to start thinking selfishly the center of a woman's universe is herself and until you start thinking about yourself first you will never understand women
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:38 PM
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The majority women are going to reject your advances anyways You have nothing to lose she already wasn't going to sleep with you but if you throw out some witty stuff when you make a good impression you might get laid from her to stop caring so much carpe diem YOLO
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:44 AM
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So women are emotionally driven. Everything is fueled by motion with women. So like I seen black guys make white girls feel like they were being racist right to get them to break the barrier down. Like I was standing behind a black guy hitting on a white girl and the gas station and she was like: Where's your car? And he flipped the daughter like oh cuz I'm not white you expect me not to have a car with plenty of white guys without cars. I'm not saying that's the way to go What I'm saying is he …
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:00 AM
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I would go on lines more than a date is like a job interview.
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:04 AM
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I find girls at the mall at the grocery store at Walmart at restaurants at gas stations I've picked up women pumping gas. Just talk to people The more people you talk to the easier it gets the more women you hit on the easier it gets your time gets better you learn what what doesn't work and me I just go outrageous by I keep saying stupid s*** and they just laugh they think I'm joking but get a burner phone and don't let him know where you live until you're sure that this is a girl you want that…
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:13 AM
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If you want to become a good seducer learn how to trigger woman's emotional response.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:05 AM
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Women are loyal to their emotions So if you learn how to trigger her emotions you can trigger her
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:03 AM
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I'm not a good seducer I'm a good tease I'm going to entertaining and I'm going to not giving a fuck
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:47 AM
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No need to become a monk. It's okay to date It's even good but don't go serious Don't have a baby and don't get wrapped up in a female. You sacrifice your 20's to personal growth, and skill development. Look a hundred years ago your grandparents did pretty much the same thing your grandpa was probably 10 years older than his than your grandmother He would have established and he would have money put away He would have a foundation for building a family pond and that's what you're trying to do. W…
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:22 AM
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You're already in the friend zone. move on! You don't chat with her everyday. You don't wait four or five dates. If you don't get an indicator of interest on the first date typically I moved on. With older you get in the more experience you have you learn timing you'll learn key indicators You learn from your mistakes. This is why I compromise on the first date. I just want some head. most girls are more than willing because guys typically want to fuck. I want to see how they give head. Are they…
/r/seduction06/03/25 08:38 PM
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Your girlfriend and she's not lesbian.
/r/seduction20/02/25 03:38 AM
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Sarcasm and jokes brush everything off with a joke then it mean you didn't take it seriously You're not offended and they didn't test you You thought they were being funny. Stop fearing rejection Go and expecting it push for it say crazy s*** Tell stupid jokes but don't ever qualify yourself Don't think you have to prove yourself Just have him alone for a good time and then I'll have you on for your time later
/r/seduction17/02/25 12:51 PM
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Well somebody like me wouldn't settle for somebody like you.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:47 AM
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Yes How a woman feels is the most important thing. You make her laugh. Make her feel secure,and apart of something she doesn't want to lose.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:36 PM
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No. The only way to have your own centered mindset. The position of power. Is for her to be written off. Sometimes when you walk away is when you become desirable.
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:13 PM
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It shows desire
/r/seduction12/09/24 01:17 AM
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No. Is hard, and will cost you friends. Will make you happy
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:17 AM
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