Seduction isn't about revenge, abuse, or malice. If this is your intent. You are a dark triad type personality. These individuals are abusers. The woman they attract are usually already damaged. Never of partner, or mother material.

My true breakthrough in seduction. Was accepting woman for the dynamic beings they are. I accept that they perceived differently, so interacted differently.

A Woman's universe centers on herself. So default is the choice that benefits her. Her best opportunity for a genetic lineage.

When she Cheated on you. It's because you were no longer her best option. You never make her the center of your universe. Cuz then she's not only responsible for herself. she's responsible for your universe too. women like drama they don't like stress. You let her come into your universe. She's going to test you. You fail she's going to start looking for a better option if she's not already. Because her loyalty is to herself and her genetically lineage. Don't get me wrong. This isn't a universal truth. there are women that will kill for you they're willing to kill their children. there's always aberrations.

Yes woman do bad things to your ego. these actions are predictable. If a woman betrayed you. you either made a bad in choosing the woman to allow in. More likely bad choice or you lost yourself. I don't give me wrong she's not the subordinate. You two are dynamic, think ying yang.