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LifestyleTheKid89/r/seduction29/05/21 05:38 PM
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Being more direct/aggressive without fear of consequences
/r/seduction06/07/26 09:00 PM
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Sounds like you might be punching above your weight
/r/seduction04/07/26 11:37 PM
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Becoming exclusive at week 5 is also way too soon. Whose idea was it? either way you needed to play it cool more. Give her something to keep chasing (a relationship)
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:45 AM
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Its hard to say 100% but your "mistake" seems to be more your behavior in relation to her love bombing, not these specific things you mentioned. It's not the getting exclusive and dropping other options specifically, you likely were changing your behavior around her because you were focusing too much on her. See the difference?
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:58 AM
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I think that is the underlying issue here that OP doesn't really explain. My guess is that he was leaning into the excitement this girl was showing instead of being more stoic/reserved. For whatever reason, this gives some girls the "ick" We can't know for sure, because OP doesnt seem super aware of how he was presenting himself, but this would be my guess as to what happened.
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:54 AM
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You said it yourself; you didn't learn the fundamentals due to having things handed to you. So now its time to take off the bandaid and risk rejection. Do you have any friends that approach girls? Watch them and maybe ask for tips. Ultimately it's a skill that has to be developed, but once you "get it" its not that complicated.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:56 PM
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Hot girls tend to be nicer and give gentler rejections in my experience
/r/seduction09/06/26 11:14 PM
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Agreed, but I guarantee the good looking ones get hotter girls. Looks do matter, but yea communication is key here
/r/seduction30/04/26 10:09 PM
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Women dont care about hair as much as guys think they do
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:16 PM
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I would add to not be afraid to head near the DJ and dance alone, as long as you are confident. Women who are interested will come dance near you. Its also easier to move around and not have other people to worry about. Going solo has its pluses and minuses, I enjoy it but you need to know what you are getting yourself into.
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:31 PM
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Ehh, you still have to not drop the ball. It's easier than you think to dig your own grave in this type of situation
/r/seduction18/03/24 10:40 PM
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Oh you'd be surprised what simps do
/r/askTRP11/02/21 11:00 PM
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I think texting 2 days later is too late, you let things cool off. Text the next morning, something to reignite how she feels about you such as "did you have fun last night." If she didn't have fun, then it doesn't change anything. But if she did, I would think it would remind her of why she enjoyed it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 11:38 PM
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I find myself in similar situations. What is the best course of action... ignore from the get-go and hope she initiates?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:13 AM
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Holding frame will make you superior to even a fucking billionaire tycoon. Maintaining confidence and cool is like crack to women. Those things you mentioned, money, status, sound good on paper but women are much more satisfied with a man that holds frame.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:26 PM
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"I have enough friends" worked for me. Ill leave it up to you or others to analyze why that may work. Dont listen to these other people that say you cant. The fact is this shit happens, and if you can reframe your relationship in her eyes you can escape.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 09:03 AM
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Hey bro. Not sure why everyone is giving you such a hard time. Yea you goofed but you put yourself out there. Maybe im the only one that doesn't think you recording was that big of a deal... Its a way of being able to look back on it and be critical. Although I do agree it likely made you internally nervous. Anyway, you clearly are putting a lot of thought and effort into this. But usually more effort makes things worse, as you overthink and overact. I think one of the things RP tries to reinfor…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:40 AM
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I'm not sure if I agree with this completely. I've had several situations where the girl was on the fence and through charm and a little nudge they changed their minds.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:10 PM
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There is a great ted talk describing this exactly. You need to let her know your interests while still keeping an heir of plausible deniability. Being too direct or upfront removes this ambiguity and brings your true intentions (sex) to her consciousness. The best response is to keep playing along and keep it ambiguous.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 04:29 PM
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I completely agree. This guy is not that big. I smell some jealously.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 08:48 PM
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