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Consistent communication. Explaining what is bothering you instead of being passive aggressive. Looking in the mirror at your own behavior and realizing a man's concerns might not always just be "insecurity and being controlling", but actually him just having certain standards. Respect. Appreciation. Affection. Feeling like more of a priority than your phone/social media accounts.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 05:24 PM
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Was just talking to a friend about this a few hours ago. I think men are getting fed up by it. Seeing more and more content on social media talking about this behavior being called out and men not dealing with it anymore. Guys are tired of being expected to be perfect and deal with the toxic BS and expectations from a lot of these women, and getting blamed for it on top of it. If this continues, decent dudes will continue walking away from dating and women will have to look at themselves in the …
/r/MensRights30/04/25 05:10 PM
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Relaxing
/r/MensRights23/04/25 01:22 PM
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As my friend who wax going through a divorce wisely put it: "It's cool, until it's not". Once she wants out, she is done and will throw the kitchen sink of excuses at you to deflect the blame. A different friend of mine is dealing with this almost exact scenario after 12 years together and 9 years of marriage and now two small children. He thought everything was fine and one day she was just done and banging other guys. He said he would do whatever it took to fix what was broken and save the fam…
/r/MensRights02/09/24 12:31 PM
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Yeah but I think AWDTSG is going to be the final nail in the coffin for some, especially online dating. I decided to jump back on a dating site for the first time in a couple of years to see what was out there. One day later, I was informed by a female friend that I was on there and it buzz killed all desire to continue. Account deleted, will stick with just doing my own thing.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 05:27 PM
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This is smart, but seems like a lot of work. Think I'll just stay single.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 08:17 PM
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This reminds me of basically every argument I ever had with the last girl I was dating. No matter how good of a point I would have, she would manipulate the conversation to make herself the victim. And when I straight up called her out on gaslighting and playing the victim, she pushed down the accelerator even harder and said things like nobody has ever accused her of such terrible things and she couldn’t have this conversation anymore. When I look back at the year we dated, I don’t think she ev…
/r/MensRights04/06/24 12:59 PM
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As others have said, you've been thinking about divorce for years, but have popped your seed into her twice in the last 3 years? This was either really sloppy and getting caught up in temporary moments, or there is more to the story. Could have saved yourself exponential problems by simply doing this 3 years ago. But I guess what's done is done. Talk to a lawyer who is experienced in helping me and hope for the best.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:54 PM
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It's the same thing as crying racism for the struggle of every non white person. Convenient label and scape goat for simple minded people seeking confirmation bias without having to actually dig into a subject and learn potentially hard truths.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:33 PM
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Let's look at this like simple economics: Women are demanding more than ever from men, and societal expectations of what a woman should provide to a man are lower than ever. Social media continues making this exponentially more and more out of balance. Blaming men and "incels" is the easy, lazy, convenient response instead of having to take the uncomfortable look of what's actually going on.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 08:47 PM
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If I could go back and talk to my late 20's self, I'd say "even know everyone else is doing it and you've basically been brainwashed to think it is what you're supposed to do, avoid marriage and even co habitation". Then again, if you want to reproduce, you don't have a whole lot of choice but to at least co habitate. I wouldn't give up my daughter for anything, but didn't take me long to learn that modern day marriage/co habitation expectations are just not for me. True happiness for me is doin…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 07:30 PM
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Because like many things today, feminism is based on emotion and not logic/reality.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:21 PM
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As a good friend of mine always says, "it's cool, until it's not". He had an awesome relationship with a girl for years of dating and even marriage. But then there came a day where she started making her own friends and didn't really have as much of a need for him anymore, so she started distancing herself and starting up little rifts. He bought her the nice house in the burbs and gave her the 2 kids. He later realized he was just the avenue to get her to where she wanted to be in adulthood and …
/r/MensRights07/08/23 10:13 PM
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At this point in my life, balance and separate residence. We are best friends, but look at this stuff in a very similar manner. She has her stuff that she does, I have mine that I do, and we have ours we do. We go out, have sleepovers, coffee, weekend trips, etc. But she's got her family/friends/hobbies and I have mine. We participate in each other's some, but not every single thing you do is required for the other person. Good open consistent communication, limited drama. Not interested in the …
/r/MensRights07/08/23 10:08 PM
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I think it's more about various aspects of social media than the job market. So much "strong independent woman" and "you're a queen" type propaganda, and average looking women can do themselves up at home and take special angled pictures and get more attention then they ever dreamed without leaving the house. Not to mention any girl can get bored, find that old boyfriend who was fun to sleep with on social media, ask him how he's doing, and be in bed a few days later. All this leads to most wome…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 03:22 PM
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The feeling suicidal when you weren't home was definitely the huge red flag. First of all, just using that term out of nowhere. Then using it as a result of your actions. This is classic emotional manipulation. She wanted and expected to be the center of your entire world, and even you working was a threat to her. She clearly has pretty significant issues.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 07:27 PM
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Any average looking woman could put on a decent looking outfit and walk into a bar and go home with almost any man she wants. If she does this, it's almost celebrated by society today. For an average looking man to go to a bar and bring someone home, they would have to get extremely lucky and be in the right place at the right time, or work extremely hard for it and even then far from a guarantee. And this would just be to get one of the below average looking women. And when a guy does pull this…
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:36 PM
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I think this more applies to dating than marriage. Bailing from a serious commitment you made due to trivial stuff is part of why divorce rates are so high. Especially if kids are involved. If you are a person with end goals of living together/marriage, I'd highly recommend dating for several years to make sure it's the right person. That's the whole point of dating. So many people skip right to the end game without properly vetting the situation. That gives you plenty of time to see how you wor…
/r/MensRights03/08/23 03:56 PM
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Traditional gender/family roles worked fine for centuries. Men and women would meet young, start a home and family. Men would bring home the resources and women would provide the caretaking aspect at home. Men had hobbies and did things with other men. Women would socialize with other women in the area. Everyone was acting more in their core instinctive roles. Somewhere over time, a few people started screaming and it somehow gained traction, and our wires have been getting crossed ever since. I…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 04:04 PM
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Good point, I probably should’ve phrased that part differently. Women can do that stuff because men have made it possible.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 05:05 AM
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American white women are the most privileged group of people on the planet. Especially if they are average or better looking. They get to behave how they want and blame everyone else or just claim mental illness, almost always get the benefit of the doubt in "he said she said" situations, almost always come out with the great end of the deal in divorce, and often times don't have to worry about money simply due to looks and having a vagina. So what are they bitching about and blaming men for? We…
/r/MensRights01/08/23 07:12 PM
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Long and hard lesson learned, and some time/money wasted. But dude, you got out kid free so can just 100% cut and run. Many people have stories like this but with kids involved. They have to deal with people like this for years to come, and pay her a bunch of money on top of it.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:17 PM
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Let's think about all the modern day amenities that women especially enjoy today: Air conditioning, wifi and cell service, giving attention to their 50 selfies a day, amazon deliveries. Without men, most of this would cease to exist. Power is out. Who is up on lifts fixing the poles and restoring the power? Same with cell/wifi issues. Who is manufacturing and handling the logistics of the products they buy everyday on amazon? Are women in these fields? Sure. Would women have the capability of ke…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:03 PM
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This is why you bail the second you find out about infidelity, no questions asked. You thought you were doing the right thing by reconciling, but how does that look now? You've put yourself in a no win situation. The baby isn't yours and you not only have the shame of that, but look like the bad guy when you bail. The baby is yours and you're more stuck with someone who is clearly not faithful to you, and will very likely cheat again. And if you decide to leave in the future, it's going to cost …
/r/MensRights28/07/23 09:44 PM
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When men cheat, they are dogs. When women cheat, men pushed them to it. That's prevailing thought in a lot of circles.
/r/MensRights28/07/23 04:44 PM
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Yeah exactly. Before 2 people had to get to know each other naturally and work through differences, without the distraction of 100 people lining up behind you if you make a mistake. Either it worked out or didn't, but at least there was a legitimate chance to find out.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 09:58 PM
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I've been thinking a lot about this modern day dating stuff lately. The problem anymore is perception and expectations. Any average or above looking women can basically have anything they want online. For the average man, it's a huge struggle to even get any attention. How did we get here? How did the scales get tipped so much? My opinion: It's a combination of things. But one of the biggest issues is actually men. Thirsty men on social media lining up by the hundreds to reply "absolutely stunni…
/r/MensRights27/07/23 05:14 PM
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There are many subreddits that are more hateful toward certain groups (usually men and white people) than MGTOW ever was, but the social media mob is loud and on the other side, so they screamed about how dangerous and hateful it was, and poof, gone. Never once looking in the mirror realizing they are doing the same thing or worse on a daily basis. But then again, we're talking about the group with the largest lack of self awareness on planet earth.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 04:39 PM
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Advocate for bringing accountability into divorce proceedings and men being a part of their kids' lives. Stop letting women "get bored" and reuniting with her high school boyfriend when her husband is at work providing for the family, then in turn rewarding her for the bad behavior by letting her keep the house and kids when he's thrown on the streets to start over and still give her half his paycheck.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 02:18 PM
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This is exactly true. It drives women insane when a guy just wants to relax and be in his own space for a while
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:53 PM
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Modern day marriage/co habitation expectations are for a man to bring home the money, and then do honey dos in his spare time. If he wants to go play a round of golf on the weekend or go grab a happy hour drink with a friend, he has to “ask the boss for permission”. The only way to assuredly win this game is to not play it.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:52 PM
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It's the same with racism. I've seen tons of hate content against "blonde white people" which is no problem apparently. But say anything against another race that isn't even as hateful and you're instantly banned.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:28 PM
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Social media will fill up with heart felt posts talking about how the woman's mental health wasn't taken seriously and how she's the victim. This actually happened with a woman who killed her 4 kids recently. I was shocked and appalled to read the novels online from emotional women excusing her actions due to postpartum depression! Thankfully the legal system didn't agree. I'm an advocate for mental health as some people (women AND MEN) really suffer from it. But using it to excuse the murder of…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 03:02 PM
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This is red pill 101. She got what she needed from you when you provided a purpose. The second the day came she no longer needed you, she not only bailed, but drug you through the mud in the process.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 05:09 PM
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Spot on. She is actually what I'd consider a good woman and has her own resources so wasn't interested in mine. What you said is exactly what it is: At this point in our lives we just had 2 very different ideas of what a relationship is. Mine is a balance between her and the other things in my life. Her is more the relationship all day, everyday. Neither is wrong. Just wasn't right for me at this time.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 05:36 PM
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Going to add even exclusive dating to the red X at this point. Even the “good” ones are eventually threatened by your goals and hobbies and those things will be used against you in various forms of passive aggressive emotional warfare.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 11:20 AM
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One thing I've learned with modern day dating is basically everything is on a woman's terms, even if it's a casual type relationship. If they're not in the mood for something, you're supposed to leave them alone and not expect anything. But if a man says that to a woman, he's selfish.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 05:12 PM
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I wouldn't even say this was "payback" or "driving a stake into her heart". She came to you thinking she could get what she wanted because she's probably not used to being told "no" and kept you on the back burner for this moment. But you shut it down immediately in a direct, honest manner. That doesn't make you an asshole. Toying with her by going on a few dates, banging, and making her believe it was going somewhere then pulling the plug would be the asshole move.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 05:50 PM
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I can almost guarantee you she isn't losing any sleep over the debt. I bet she's a big reason they have the debt and are living beyond their means. As long as those bills are getting paid and there is available credit on the credit cards, what does she care? If she was that worried about it she'd get a job and contribute the earnings straight to the debt. Approximately 230K in credit cards and loans! I know a guy with 6 kids and a 200K house who makes less than 120K a year and is able to manage …
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 07:38 PM
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"Anti - capitalist". Probably after spending 2 hours on amazon looking at purses and shoes. 100% virtue signaling or not even knowing what they're "anti".
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 08:11 PM
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He seems to be connecting the dots on her behavior. If he continues down that path he'll make the right choice. If he lets time pass and forgives, he's going to make a big mistake and she's simply going to cheat again down the road. She is the one who cheated and is validating her behavior by blaming him, and only thinking about how the situation effects her. If he excuses those massive red flags, whatever happens is on him.
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 06:11 PM
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You won't lose it, especially at your age. It's in your nature to desire women. Discipline is the best I got, and reading forums like these everyday to remind you of what a slip in judgment can cause. Go to Vegas and pump and dump every once in a while to get it out of your system. I am in my 40's now and wish I had the perspective and stories from these forums when I was your age. Hell, I wish I had it 5 years ago.
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 06:43 PM
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tl;dw: she made bad life decisions as an adult and now has to face the music as she's past her prime and no one wants to commit to a single mom who spent her 20's partying and having sex with Chad's and Tyrone's. But instead of learning from it and trying to better herself, she's just playing the victim. Unfortunately for women like this, men are catching on and way less likely to play the game and be the nice guy to bail her out.
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 09:07 PM
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She starts by acknowledging that she screwed up, but then follows it up by deflecting blame on her husband, making excuses, and playing the victim when people held her accountable for her behavior. Welcome to life sister; where your choices, especially ones that screw other people over, have consequences. What she did was 100% avoidable, and 100% her fault. I'm guessing the Tinder profile has already been made: "Looking for a good man to join us". And of course will tell every guy she goes on a …
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 09:40 PM
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"Bonus points if you just finished dating every guy in town but now want to take it slow with me." This is one of those things the MGTOW community has completely nailed regarding the nature of women, and saved me a lot of time in the process. It's crazy how common this is.
/r/MGTOW02/06/21 03:59 PM
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And the second he backs off at all, she'll be on another dick. Briffault's law. Everything he has done for her will be irrelevant the second he has a bad day, or she decides she's bored/wants something else.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 08:29 PM
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It's amazing how people have mastered victimizing fatness and poor life style choices.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/20 04:26 PM
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6-9 is prime workout time for most. How are they allowed to tell one gender that they can't workout during that time? If this was reversed it would be the lead story on every news channel every hour.
/r/MGTOW28/02/20 04:22 PM
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Oh man, I have the ultimate example of this in my company. There is this woman who is 40+, no kids, no marriage, no relationship. Is NEVER in the office. Abuses work from home time. Always "not feeling well", has some emergency with one of her dogs, or her landlord is coming over to fix something. Always has an excuse to come in late or have to leave early. Is probably in the office less than 20 hours a week, but her boss travels a lot and the department is small so she gets away with it. Plus s…
/r/MGTOW27/02/20 05:48 PM
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Casually bring up in conversation that you're "working on yourself financially" and that you've got yourself in a bit of a hole that you need to dig out of. Although that could backfire as some of these girls are attracted to damage and it could make you come off with a Chad vibe.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 05:56 PM
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He may have asked for it to be removed so that somehow it didn't get back to her.
/r/MGTOW13/02/20 08:01 PM
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When I was one of the naive blue pilled "good guys", I'd often talk to girls who "made a lot of mistakes in the past" but wanted to act on the straight and narrow now. I'd ask myself "why won't any of them make some mistakes with me, a guy who will actually treat them right?" Now those answers are clear as day.
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 06:05 PM
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" The internet gave women WORLDWIDE a hive mind to tap into, one that thrives on victimhood. If she has a phone, she's never alone.. " This has been the most red pill thing for me since divorce. The combination of phones, social media, and online dating has pretty much ended any slim hope there was left for finding a good long term relationship. Women can now find people who empathize with their victim playing, drama, attention, validation without even having to leave the house. You will never b…
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 10:20 PM
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If you've ever watched the old show "Intervention", you'll notice a common theme with all of the addicts: They always have an enabler. I believe the same idea applies here. A lot of men are enabling and even promoting this behavior by drooling all over their social media pictures, funding them, and defending their behavior.
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 06:28 PM
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I would probably bet my 401K that she was in bed with someone new within 24 hours of installing the app.
/r/MGTOW03/02/20 11:22 PM
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Why should you catch hell for being in a relationship? You can still go your own way and date people. I think it's more the whole co habitation and marriage thing that most on here would warn you against.
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 09:50 PM
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According to my official research, 97.8% of women on dating sites are teachers or nurses.
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 08:03 PM
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38 is the age I got divorced and got back in the dating world for the first time in about a decade. I couldn't believe how much it had changed just in that time. I was excited to date more "mature" women as I was older. And to my shock, 30 and 40 somethings are really not that much different than college girls these days. Over sharing on social media, selfies everywhere, slutty and sketchy behavior, emotional roller coaster, etc. Social media and filters on pictures was the final step to ruining…
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 05:57 PM
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Yup. I didn't start really seeing the light until past the age of 40. I wish I could be 20 and know what I know now.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 05:51 PM
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Because nothing was going to stop her from having her big day, and this guy had the resources to make it happen. She wasn't thinking about what would happen a week later. She was thinking about being the center of attention and being able to flaunt pictures of her 35K wedding on social media. While your friend shouldn't have treated her horrible, for his sake I'm glad he found out about the cheating right away. Had he not found out until a year later, 35K would have felt like pocket change when …
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 05:44 PM
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This is exactly it. Wives are generally very threatened by their husbands' single friends. This in of itself should tell you a lot.
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 04:53 PM
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Social media = Wood and matches for women's behavior these days. Simps like this guy = gasoline on the fire.
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 10:35 PM
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I will be honest with you regarding the path you're probably headed down as I've seen it a million times: You are driven by the dopamine rush of the feels, attention, and honeymoon stage of a new relationship. But when that wears off, you get bored and eventually want to feel it again. You're the classic BF jumper. Have likely never been single for more than a month or two past the age of 20. Afraid of being alone, but afraid of commitment too. You're likely headed into your mid 30's as a single…
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 07:31 PM
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"They would eventually slip in a few sentences during our time together that would instantly show me the future". This is the most valuable part of being red pilled in my opinion. Things you didn't give a 2nd thought to in the past become clues as to a woman's true nature and what she really wants out of you. You quickly learn very few of them actually just want to be with you because of who you are. They are with you because you potentially fit a very specific role/need in their life they are l…
/r/MGTOW14/01/20 10:26 PM
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This sounds like it has similarities to a situation I just got out of. Things were great for a month, and little red flags started popping up. Didn't deal with work stress, or stress at all very well and would project it on me. Would play the victim card and claim she was getting physically sick every time I brought something up that was bothering me. Very manipulative behavior. Was constantly battling her Facebook addiction for her attention. And plenty more. At the end claims me ending it was …
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 05:51 PM
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She's the primary earner and you have no kids. This should be easier than 99.9% of divorces guys go through, from a logistical perspective at least.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 06:06 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time I've heard some woman say "I didn't know how bad his [insert addiction or problem here] was", I could probably retire by now. Translation: "His problem made him kind of an appealing bad boy and edgy and I thought I could fix it, but now my poor decision making has put me in a bad place and I need the good guy to bail me out."
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 10:21 PM
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Translation: I made poor life choices and chased guys who don't like commitment or weren't that into me, and eventually got knocked up by one. However, I'm still entitled to getting what I want and shouldn't be held accountable for my actions. Also, plenty of guys show interest in me but still chasing Chads and I'm frustrated they won't commit to me!
/r/MGTOW21/08/19 04:54 PM
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Bingo. This is her way of passive aggressively venting that Chads won't approach her.
/r/MGTOW20/08/19 06:30 PM
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I walked away from a 35 year old with some similarities to this earlier this year. Single mom of a 2 year old, hasn't worked in 3-4 years, lives in the guest house on her parent's property. Took me 1 time hanging out and a few months on this forum to figure out that she was basically looking for a guy to support her and her kid, go to church with her, and be her +1 at weekend family hangouts. And on top of it, knowing she probably wouldn't have given me the time of day before she "accidentally" …
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 06:24 PM
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I didn't say anything about women being good or not selfish. I simply stated a fact that I know some living alone paying their own way. That doesn't mean I would touch them with a 10 foot pole. In fact, one of them was cheating on her husband for 10 years before moving out. Thankfully she made more than him and the kids were older than 18, so he didn't get divorce raped.
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 09:25 PM
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I put this in the Red Pill translator and here's what popped out: "She wants to keep the guy in the picture because she wants to marry him someday, but definitely not now. The long distance relationship is perfect as she can have her cake and eat it too. She can party and ride the CC while keeping him on the back burner by pretending to be in a relationship with him. When she's tired of partying and banging Chad, or Chad starts losing interest in her, it will be time to settle down and her partn…
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 08:42 PM
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Most vacations I take now are alone. I just go with the flow and form my own little itinerary when I get there. 2 straight springs I have gone down to the gulf beaches alone. Sleep in, get some exercise, relax on the beach, take a nap, go sit at a restaurant bar and have dinner and drinks. I can't stand group vacations where you have to try to figure out things to make everyone happy. And like you said, even ones with a significant other require constant annoyances. Being held hostage in the roo…
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 07:35 PM
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This is really well said.
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 03:27 PM
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Cell phones and social media have slammed the door shut that was cracked to still find a decent relationship 20 years ago. Women love attention/validation and now with phones and social media, they have 24X7 unlimited access to get it. Unless you're a Chad in the right moment, you're never going to win the battle for her attention against her phone.
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 04:02 PM
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"I've made a lot of bad decisions in the past, so now it's time to find Mr. Right. For years I banged Chad and didn't make him pay for anything. Now I need a guy to pay for everything but not expect sex without putting a ring on my finger." At least she's putting it right out there for the world to see. If a guy signs up for this, whatever happens is straight up on him. She told him exactly how it's going to go.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 07:30 PM
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How could he be the asshole? Having a kid is a major part of who somebody is. The fact she wasn't up front about that likely means there are other sketchy things about her she's holding back. Modern society: Girls are celebrated for saying they only want guys 6' and taller. Yet men are not allowed to say no thanks to single moms without being judged.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 08:19 PM
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Happy wife, happy life! It's Friday and after work today I'm going to do..............well.............whatever the hell I want. Maybe go to happy hour, maybe hit some golf balls, maybe hit the gym, relax at home, all of the above. Couldn't even imagine having to waste an ounce of mental energy on crap like this anymore. Posts like this are what have become great and helpful about this forum. Every time I feel myself slipping into the "I miss companionship" mindset, I just read something like th…
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 06:54 PM
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"I am having a child under circumstances I didn't plan." "You have taken the path of blaming others" Hilarious considering she's taking no accountability for her behavior and simply deflecting and shaming him. Of course she's waking up happy and optimistic everyday. Society is cheering for her and guys are still lining up to bang her/take care of her regardless of her own personal choices.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 06:42 PM
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To her, your mental problems = you no longer add value to her. This has been one of the most shocking things to me from taking the red pill: Women will spend all day expressing her problems to you and expecting you to solve them, but the second you show a sign of weakness she runs the other direction at Usain Bolt like speed. When you're down, they are out.
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 03:35 PM
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I'm taking "alone" in this sense to mean not in a relationship. I'm nearing 4 months of not pursing dating, and 2 and a half years being single. Every day that passes, I become less interested in ever being in a committed relationship again.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 05:41 PM
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46 but still has standards from when she was in her prime reproductive years. Hope she doesn't mind being single, because until she wakes up and faces reality that she's not 25 anymore, she's going to stay that way. When I was online dating, I ran into a lot of 40 something women like this. Still look pretty good, but a far cry from what they were 20 years ago. Yet still Chad chasing.
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 08:00 PM
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Get a girl pregnant so she can't party with her friends, WGCW? Here's what: She still gonna cheat, but now you're on the hook for 18 years of child support on top of it. Brilliant!
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 07:52 PM
5

I've noticed this a lot more lately. Single moms who "accidentally" got knocked up by a not so good guy in their early to mid 30's. Then blame all men for their behavior and ask where all the good guys are. These women spend their prime reproductive years either riding the CC, being overly picky, focused on career, or a combination of these. Then they hit their early/mid 30's and start to panic a bit as they realize options and time to reproduce are quickly becoming limited. All the guys who wan…
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 09:43 PM
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Come to think of it, pretty much any girl I've talked to the past 4 years has said something to that degree. I think they do it so that the second you do/say something they don't like, they can pull that card to get what they want.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 07:17 PM
4

I enjoy drinking too much to stop doing that, but badly need to improve my diet. I need to look into keto and some fasting.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 08:31 PM
6

Snarky, short responses. Blaming you for her own bad behavior. Manipulation. Had so many conversations just like this in my 3 years since divorce. It's maddening.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 03:20 PM
4

Dude, I live in the Bible Belt. Some of the religious girls are the worst and most hypocritical. "I won't date you unless you come to church with me". Only to find out every Friday and Sat night she's out dancing with friends and likely riding the CC.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 02:58 PM
2

As she moves toward her mid 30's and options start to dry up, she'll become more desperate and end up settling or getting knocked up by a Chad just using her for a good time. All the guys she could have settled down with in her 20's will no longer be interested, and guys in her age group looking to have kids will seek younger options who are in their prime. And she'll be a single mom by her late 30's. Or she'll become dog crazy and treat them like kids to over compensate for the fact she doesn't…
/r/MGTOW22/07/19 10:44 PM
9

"I want a break" means 1 of 2 things: She's already got a backup plan lined up for when you're gone. Her saying she wants to revisit the relationship when you get back is making you the backup plan in case the guy doesn't work out. She wants to ride the CC guilt free then settle down when you get home, unless she finds something better on the carousel. While it sucks, just be thankful she did this instead of pretending to be by your side then cheating while you were away. Now you can move on wit…
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 10:04 PM
3

An average D1 male soccer player would run circles around her. Most men don't have sex with women they don't feel attracted to, and she's not very attractive universally. I don't even know what "has a personality" means, and I couldn't even imagine how it would bother someone. So...........I'm thinking maybe it's other reasons people don't like her? Perhaps maybe taking advantage of having a voice on a world stage to push what many consider to be anti American agendas, while representing the US …
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 09:41 PM
8

When I was online dating, I'd regularly see a woman with an entire laundry list of requirements, and pretty much say "but don't expect anything from me" in the same bio. So, I gotta be perfect but I can't expect anything from you except a litter of someone else's kids and increased bills? Where do I sign up?
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 04:08 PM
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I love how these women can just go nuts in their 20's and think they're entitled to a good man with resources when they decide they want to calm down. If more men were like this guy, women would be forced to be held accountable for their behavior, and probably think twice before riding the CC and getting knocked up by losers. The problem is there are too many simps who will bail them out.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 03:40 PM
4

A friend recently told me about a woman he knew who literally only dated guys based on what she needed in life at the time. Car problems? Date a mechanic. Need some updates done in your kitchen? Date a contractor who does that kind of work. Pretty much got her car/house completely updated and modernized for free. On one hand, disgusting. On the other hand, sad that guys are so obsessed with pussy that they couldn't see through what she was doing.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 04:50 PM
4

They have already declared birthdays, Christmas, anniversaries, valentine's day, and mother's day as occasions they are entitled to being spoiled and lavish gifts. That's not enough?
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 10:18 PM
3

This sounds like some toxic situations I've found myself in the past few years. This is all driven by insecurity. She's threatened by the things in your life that don't revolve around her because she thinks they are going to become more important than her and squeeze her out. Lots of classic control/manipulation techniques in here too. Making plans for you means you're either doing what she wants, or she can guilt trip you about it if you say no. People like this need a lot of attention, and if …
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 09:06 PM
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If this is true and he goes through with the wedding, 80K will be pocket change compared to what she ends up costing him after he says "I do". She's already proven that she's entitled and will quit working at the drop of a hat, and expect him to pick up the financial slack. What comes after the 80K wedding? The demand for a 300K + dream home and a closet full of shoes, clothes, and purses will come next. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/MGTOW12/07/19 06:31 PM
2

I've gone out with plenty of girls who claim to be huge college football fans. Usually come to find out the only reason they're a fan of a particular team is that some ex got her into it, and she generally can't name a single player on the current roster.
/r/MGTOW11/07/19 09:39 PM
11

All good points. I did read a lot into the seemingly random and harmless comment about her sister's boyfriend cooking for them. That was definitely a test to see how I'd respond on multiple levels.
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 06:40 PM
8

Yup. Even dating is fine to a degree. I am just up front that I am not looking for marriage or even cohabitation. And will definitely not be supporting them financially. That weeds them out quickly, but there are a few fun ones just looking to have a good time and who are willing to pay for their own drinks/meals when you go out. If that arrangement ever turns into them trying to change the nature of things, move on. In 2019, people come and go from each other's lives regularly. I think some peo…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 06:51 PM
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Apple is a bit liberal for my comfort level, but they at least seem to somewhat value privacy. Google, holy hell, they don't even pretend to care at all.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 04:06 PM
3

Well I have some good news for you then: In about 10 years she'll want you after she pops out a few kids and gains 40 lbs, and you make a bunch of money with some technical innovation. Just be patient and she'll be all yours!
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 09:30 PM
25

Sounds exactly like my choices at 42
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 03:38 AM
13

Meanwhile, he disclosed that he owed a buddy 20 bucks from a few years ago and she called him a liar for not telling her before marriage, and took sex and affection away for a month.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 06:57 PM
25

Difference is now with social media, the true nature of people is exposed completely. You can now see everyone's thoughts/behavior out in the open. Women have always craved attention and can now get it non stop without even leaving the house. Women have always cheated, and can now reconnect with those ex's without even leaving the house. When they get bored in their relationship and miss the feels/tingles, they can jump online and get attention from other men instantly. Plus with angles, filters…
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 05:46 PM
1

Let's just say I wish I was 19 again and know what I know now.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 04:57 PM
6

I've been around here about as long as you. Reading the stories people have on here along with my own recent experiences have really made me see things more clearly. A few women I thought were good women were actually all smoke and mirrors. The most important thing I've learned here is: "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do".
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 04:52 PM
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Add in "have grandkids" somewhere toward the end. There is so much societal pressure to "man up" and spend your life working and taking care of other people. I agree, fuck the life script and enjoy. I'm not saying family isn't important but it's ok to do what makes you happy.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 04:00 PM
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I have one and have her half the time. She's 6. Going to try to build a good foundation for her and hope for the best. Hopefully that will be good enough to prevent her from turning into the typical modern day entitled thot. I know it's going to be an uphill battle in this world.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 08:18 PM
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You can enjoy it and GYOW. The key is to limit emotional investment as much as possible, but most importantly don't cohabitate. Be upfront that you don't want to get too serious and will not be their financial/emotional support system. That alone weeds them out pretty quickly.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 09:17 PM
3

I would agree there is a certain degree of irony here, but there aren't specific rules for "going your own way". The idea is going your own way, and not doing what society tells you to do. His own way was living with his parents in his 20's and saving money. For a lot of us, that wasn't an option.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 07:55 PM
1

This is one of the things that has caused me to go my own way. My anxiety is an inconvenience to women, even know it doesn't really effect them and I'm not asking them to fix it. Just understand it. Yet I'm supposed to listen to and fix whatever their silly drama of the day is. Not coincidentally my anxiety has been more manageable since I stopped dating.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 03:53 PM
4

As someone with anxiety/panic disorder, I can tell you for sure that some cases of mental illness are real. It's easy to say "this stuff is just made up BS" when you've never had to fight the battle. That being said, a lot of people go through things in life and as a result get some anxiety/depression and claim to have mental illness. That's different than a legitimate chemical imbalance where you have to battle it everyday, even when things are going good in life.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 03:51 PM
2

After learning more about this stuff yesterday, I'm distancing myself from google as much as possible. Go Duck Go as search engine, Firefox as browser, going to get rid of my gmail account, and switch from YouTube TV to a different cord cutting solution.
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 05:14 PM
5

Just tried to open this page on Chrome and (working just fine on IE): ​ " www.projectveritas.com is currently unable to handle this request "
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 09:21 PM
35

Bingo. Sometimes my mind wanders to "hey, let's just download Bumble or Tinder for fun again just to see what's out there these days". Bust that nut and immediately return to the clarity/reality of "different crop of people, same BS. Keep spending time and money on productive and fun things."
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 08:49 PM
1

"I'm so busy, I just want to get to know someone and not date and have sex". WTF does that even mean? This is why I stopped online dating.
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 04:57 PM
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I'm 6'3 and take care of myself and can attract women. Yet I'm right here with you. There seems to be a stigma on here that guys who are tall and decent looking have it easy. Nope, because women are women regardless of what you look like. Dating is awful these days, because social media and online dating have given women unlimited options, and therefore unleashed their true nature to the max degree.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 02:59 AM
9

Needs to read "provides emotional support when things are going well"
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 08:32 PM
1

Or exposing this behavior.
/r/Chadfish20/06/19 07:22 PM
1

So much fascinating stuff to digest in this brief 7 message conversation: - Notice how she immediately gets so defensive about the guy asking if that's her man in the photo. That tells me she has cheated before - Notice how she mocks his mistype of "mans" - Dude asks how the bio is gross and she doesn't address it at all, just says she would have swiped left had she read it - She clearly didn't read his bio, which makes all the time guys are putting into them kind of amusing - Last but certainly…
/r/Chadfish18/06/19 09:24 PM
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Yup, some of the chadfishers should use that opening line on their matches.
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 05:08 PM
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Eh, if you take decent care of yourself it's pretty easy to get laid when you're in your 40's. Lots of women in this age group just looking to have a good time with no strings attached, and they are past the point of being able to lure Chad types.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 05:50 PM
2

I know A LOT of married guys around the age of 40 who would give their left nut to do what they want when they want with their time and money. I'm divorced and 42 and loving life. This weekend I'll be watching the US Open for hours without being nagged at. Maybe I'll watch some at home, maybe some at the bar.
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 05:47 PM
1

I can't stop laughing at this
/r/MGTOW06/06/19 03:40 PM
13

The girl who claims to be a virgin: I'll set the over/under on sexual partners at 17
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 03:11 PM
12

"My apartment" is the key here. Always go to their place for action if at all possible. Leaving their place is significantly easier than getting them to leave yours.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 10:02 PM
2

She has now confirmed what she suspected, that she can pretty much get whatever she wants without working for it because of her looks. The EE stuff was just something she said to make herself look better in the eyes of others. She'll ride the CC of guys with resources until she gets knocked up by one and/or one puts the ring on her finger. Once this happens, she's pretty much set for the next 25 years regardless of her actions.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 07:19 PM
2

Prediction: 3 months later it will hit her and she'll think "what have I done?" and try to come crawling back. And will end up dying alone because of chasing the tingles and feels. Hey, if that's how she wants to live out the rest of her days, her choice. Hope the husband doesn't bail her out though.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 05:54 PM
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One thing I learned dating post divorce, 40 something women who have aged well and taken care of themselves are just as thotty at 45 as they were at 25. They can still get a fair amount of attention, and therefore play off it and act the same way they did before marriage/kids. I know a fairly attractive 47 year old woman who is still ignoring good guys to bang Chads, then asking "where are all the good guys?" and posting other passive aggressive inspirational memes on Facebook. Before I saw the …
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 05:26 PM
1

The last girl I dated is a walking contradiction when it comes to this stuff. Will post rants about women needing to stop posting filters and just be themselves, and that true beauty is on the inside. Then later that day is posting her usual special angled selfies that make her look 20 lbs less than she really is. She would always get on to me about being superficial for enjoying the look of an attractive woman, then talk about how she wants to workout more and be hot for bikini season. You can'…
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 08:02 PM
1

Cut your losses, learn from the experience, and move on. A woman choosing you isn't earned by being a good guy. Actually quite the opposite. It's solely based on a temporary emotional feeling of tingles and butterflies. I'm guessing the Chad she started banging did nothing for her except text her a couple of mildly amusing memes. He probably largely ignores her except when he wants sex, and she eats it up like a dog when it sees table scraps fall on the floor. Truth hurts, but apparently you nee…
/r/MGTOW29/05/19 06:36 PM
20

"Bonus points if you just finished dating every guy in town but now want to take it slow with me." Spot on and hilarious! And of course code for "You're a good guy so I'd like to keep you around for some free nights out and helping me out, but remain available for any Chads that may come along".
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 08:42 PM
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They end up settling for a loser or some guy who already has kids and wishing they would have gone down that road with many of the eligible bachelors they could have back in the day. Short term gain of chasing butterflies for long term pain of ending up having to settle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 08:19 PM
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Bingo. After 3 years in the online dating world, if I had a nickel for every profile that read similar to this, I'd be retired by now. She decided to get knocked up 3 times by a bad guy and now wants the good guy to bail her out for her bad decision. She'll bad mouth the father of the children to no end, but take no accountability for her shitty choice in partners. I see the light now. Not my problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 07:28 PM
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Yup, and the problem is "equality", whether you're talking race or gender, has turned into wanting people to act and be the same. Embracing people as they naturally are and letting them be makes for the happiest society. Trying to force that square peg into the round hole is largely why we are where we are today.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 09:40 PM
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Through my own dating/marriage and hearing other people's experiences, this is a funny one to me. Women HATE when men have down time. It's almost like a lot of them aren't happy if you're not working, working on "honey dos", or doing something she wants to do.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 09:06 PM
5

My god, this gave me flashbacks to my last relationship, the one that gave me the final push toward no longer dating. In 2 months, some version of the conversation above happened no less than 10 times. We could never just say "good night". I was supposed to read her mind and know she was upset about something and reassure her. EXHAUSTING
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 05:59 PM
11

I know a lot of 35+ women who are heavy snapchat users. In attempting to date at 40, I've discovered that thottery comes at all ages.
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 05:56 PM
4

One of the few good things in social media is that it has fully exposed thottery.
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 05:52 PM
38

I too have been burned by the "he's no threat, I promise, in fact, I think he's gay" best guy friend. Actually I got out before it got too serious. They would do everything together and were basically a married couple without intimacy. When I broke it off, I said "no guy is going to date you seriously as long as you have this in your life. It's a threat to any potential relationship no matter how you spin it." 2 weeks later I find out they are dating. Apparently he suddenly became "not gay" when…
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 09:32 PM
7

It's almost amazing how similar all these stories are. Guy puts time, money, and effort into a woman for years. The second there is some adversity (there always is, it's called life), she starts contacting an ex from HS or college.
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 03:29 PM
2

In reading the between the lines here, it seems like they don't have kids. Therefore, he can make a somewhat clean break. Hire a good lawyer and disappear one day when she's gone. Even if you get hit with a few years of Alimony payments, small price to pay for getting your life back.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 06:51 PM
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For all the people on the sub saying "it's her past, it doesn't matter", why did she go out of her way to lie about it? Because she knew if he knew, he'd have a problem with it. This is a classic case of omission is betrayal. ​ Do people make mistakes? Yes. Do some people learn from them and become better? Yes. Does he have the right to not want a woman who was at one point a slut? Yes. It's not my or anyone else's place to judge what's important to this guy in a partner. ​ Also, from what I've …
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 06:00 PM
7

Oh in this case she won't sue Chad. She'll use the rape excuse to her boyfriend only so that he feels sorry for her and hangs around. A lawsuit would burn that bridge with Chad, and she definitely doesn't want to do that.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 05:34 PM
8

Imagine how much time, money, and effort the current boyfriend has put in over 8 years. And this girl's mind and fantasies are for a guy she probably dated for 1 month and in her very own words "besides sexually we were atrociously incompatible". ​ And we already know how this story ends. Current boyfriend will put a ring on her, buy her a house, pump some babies into her, and she'll get "bored and lonely" and finally give in to the urges to get hammered by the ex. Then she'll keep the house and…
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 05:31 PM
5

The first thing I'd do if I were him, as stated in some of the comments there, is get a paternity test. You know she's a cheater so better make sure that kid is yours.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 04:51 PM
4

See Steph Curry's wife for proof. She is married to what every woman says they want, and admitted publicly that it's still not enough.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 04:38 PM
23

Back when I was online dating I'd see these profiles from women with a huge laundry list of things they wanted in a man. The next paragraph would literally detail how busy they are and don't want a "needy" guy or expectations. ​ So you want a man to fit into this perfect bubble, but he's not allowed to have any expectations of you? Seeing that stuff was very telling.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 04:14 PM
2

My friend, you just saved yourself a lot of trouble and money. If she and her co-thots are glorifying their clubbing days with Chad/Tyrone IN YOUR PRESENCE, imagine what they were doing when you're not around. If she misses those days, she's going to want to relive them at some point. And it will probably be after some simp pumps 2 babies into her and buys her a house.
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 07:40 PM
15

I'd urge all men regardless of age to take a very good and logical look at this situation. ​ Here you have a mega superstar future hall of fame basketball player who kids idolize, as well as by all accounts a good man who is a good husband/father and is very charitable and spiritual. Will make more money before 40 than generations after him could spend. And it's STILL not enough for his wife. She's basically begging for attention from random males publicly! We're talking about freaking Steph Cur…
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 07:27 PM
3

If within a few months of moving she was already on Tinder, it's pretty clear your story is what happened. She probably "saturate" her previous market with her vagina and was ready for a new city to have fun in. Relocation is much easier when you have a free place to stay. I'm guessing she got her feet on the ground and doesn't need him anymore. I'd be curious if she works and how old she is.
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 06:34 PM
5

Flip the script and imagine if a popular married actor/athlete said this about needing validation/attention from other women. The torches and pitchforks would be out. It would be national news for weeks. ​ Making it worse is by all accounts, Steph Curry is a model citizen, husband, father, and human being in general.
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 04:31 PM
5

Sounds like she either got bored or met someone else and played the slow fade card knowing you'd bail, then to make herself feel better project it on you for "pulling away".
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 10:01 PM
1

Did she happen to find out about the health problem recently? She might have been looking at you as a potential partner but the health thing scared her off. I've found that a lot of women want you to be there for them at a moment's notice, but if there's a perception that you have any weaknesses and might need them, they run away. ​ Other possibility is that she thought you were into her and she had mild interest because nothing better had presented itself, and a Chad came along. That's not a ri…
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 06:58 PM
3

I was in the dating world for a long time. While some single moms were put in bad situations that they didn't ask for and generally had good intentions, most are just looking for the next simp to play daddy/husband and "fix" hers or the past guy's mistakes. For a variety of reasons, I stopped dating single moms with young kids. With the exception of vary rare instances, the pitfalls are going to outweigh the benefits.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 06:45 PM
3

Social media and online dating has ruined dating. Any average looking or better woman knows she has pretty much unlimited options, and now unlimited and easy access to those options. So they date around, get free meals and drinks, bang Chads when they come around, and settle down on their terms. It's a dream world for women. But generally a nightmare for men. ​ Think about it in terms of supply and demand. Even in an equal ratio situation, women are much pickier than men (women say yes to 20% of…
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 06:09 PM
1

Bingo. I've basically wasted my time and money since divorce 3 and a half years ago on dating. What do I have to show for it? My anxiety is back, my bank account isn't where I want it to be, and I'm generally bitter and skeptical of the world now. Maybe I needed to go through that to see the light though. Now my focus is on me. ​ My goals in life are health of mind, body, and finance. Dating in 2019 completely goes against all of that.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 05:46 PM
2

Don't worry about the name calling. Focus on the overall message that you deserve better. Hire a good lawyer and get out. The big thing is you need to fight for split custody of your daughter. That will not only keep you in her life regularly, but will keep child support payments under control. You only live once. Focus on you and your daughter and you will be much happier. As a divorced man with split custody of a little girl, I have some experience with this.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 05:41 PM
1

It was a move made at a different point in my life (was married, no kids), but glad I did it. I believe living in different places gives you more perspective.
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 07:26 PM
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If you like her, enjoy her. The key is, don't put a kid in her, marry her, or even cohabitate with her. The chick didn't like the D in college and "get it out of her system". It's likely just who she is. The slut mentality might be dormant right now, but at some point in the future something will wake it up and she'll resort back to that behavior. And it doesn't matter what triggers it. But a long term relationship or marriage with kids will almost certainly trigger it at some point when she get…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 10:10 PM
2

Yup, MGTOW isn't about looks. Stuff like this lends ammo to the thought that "MGTOW is just a bunch of ugly bitter short guys blaming women because they can't get pussy". I'm 6'3 with a pretty good job, and haven't had trouble attracting females. Yet here I am, finally seeing the light. Modern society has made dating/marriage tough for all of us, regardless of color or height or how much we make or anything else.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 08:00 PM
1

Never come into someone's life and try to fix it, regardless of the kind of relationship it is. You can't. You can add value and enhancement to someone's life, but you can't fix their life. This guy took it a step further and tried to fix her past. Very good lesson for anyone entering a new relationship of any kind.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:38 PM
2

As a former "lizard" who has recently seen the light, couldn't agree more. I wasted 3 years of my life in that world. Lesson learned, better late than never. Since I've stopped online dating, I'm putting my time into myself and my daughter. In other words, things that matter and have tangible positive return on my time investment.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 06:53 PM
1

Deep down inside I've always been a bit of a loner, even know I've had decent circles of friends. But I've always kept people at arm's length because when you let people in and trust/depend on them, 99 times out of 100 you end up disappointed. As I've got into my 40's, reality has really hit me. Whether it's a significant other, close friends, or family, most people are extremely selfish. They will help you on their terms, but if something inconveniences them, they disappear into thin air. No ma…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 04:44 PM
5

It's funny, the last girl I was dating would be fairly silent on social media for a lot of our short relationship (2 months). But every time we had some kind of argument, LIKE CLOCKWORK within an hour or so, she'd post some kind of sexy/seductive looking selfie on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, etc. "This might be falling apart, better get to work on getting some attention and putting myself out there for the next one." ​ I called her out on it and she got really defensive and quickly changed th…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 03:03 PM
3

A female coworker of a friend of mine straight up told him: "I'm on dating sites to get free nights out, not really looking for anything serious". I admittedly fell for this one a few times looking back, but grew wise to it. When I was dating, I had a no food on the first date rule. If they were not willing to just meet at a park or do late night drinks where there are specials, immediate red flag.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 05:29 PM
1

While people can change and better themselves, I'd probably bet my 401K that she'll do this again to him. Even the best relationships have rough patches and this is where people like her generally turn during those times.
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 04:42 PM
2

I'd urge any guy looking for anything more than just getting laid to delete all online dating accounts immediately and don't look back. It took me a couple of years of wasting a lot of money, time, and stress to see the light but I finally have. Women online will tell you the laundry list of things they are looking for, but don't want to put in any work themselves to make things work. 95% of their profiles say the same thing. "I have X amount of kids who are my world, wine and travel enthusiast,…
/r/MGTOW01/05/19 03:58 PM
2

Social media has made things exponentially worse. All of the "look at me!" crap along with women not only excusing but encouraging other women's bad behavior. And men aren't helping by drooling over and giving attention to every doctored up picture of even an average looking woman online. A lot of women crave attention and social media has given them a platform to get endless amounts of it.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 09:14 PM
2

So she's a cheater, liar, and already manipulating him emotionally by blaming his fears on his own experiences and not her own slutty behavior. It's a shame men continue empowering these women and not hold them at all accountable for their behavior. If men would start holding women to higher standards pre wall, they would actually have to look in the mirror and change their behavior. Unfortunately, I think we're past the point of no return. Even if this guy ditches her, there will be a line of s…
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 08:49 PM
1

So you pay for everything, spend your precious free time which you don't get much of going to conventions for her, and she acts miserable when doing something you want to do? There is only 1 solution: ​ RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get out while you can. If you're not married and haven't put a baby in her, you can make a clean break.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 07:41 PM
3

Exactly. My ex wife was the queen of "what are you doing for me?". But if I was sick or asked for something, she'd frustratingly sigh and talk about how she's so tired and had a rough day. ​ Social media and online dating have made it even worse today. An average looking woman can doctor up a picture making her look like a 9.5 and be showered with responses of how beautiful she is. They all know they have pretty much endless options for "plan B", so you can act like a spoiled entitled princess b…
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 06:12 PM
6

Classic emotional manipulation that the modern woman has mastered. The last girl I dated basically put me on trial when I had a stomach bug, not really believing that I was sick, and almost made me feel guilty for being sick. Made little remarks like "women and men are different when they are sick, I just push through and don't have time to complain about it." Funny, a couple of days after we broke up she had a tiny fever and was making it seems like it was the end of the world on social media. …
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 06:01 PM
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