You guys were right

Sir_manalot · 2019-08-01T08:23:31+00:00

It sucks at first, you will be angry and notice more and more of the lies and bullshit. But once you fully let go, you will be far better off.

Even if you run into the "one" later, you will realize that you are better off loving yourself instead.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-08-01T12:39:52+00:00

Briffault's Law. Association with females is only allowed as long as it benefits her. You being less than 100% mentally or physically is not a benefit to her therefore you get cut loose.

All that shit about love honor cherish in sickness and in health etc went out the window decades ago. Hold your head high though because you treated her better than she treated you. In the long run you win and you dodged a bullet.

xDuelx · 2019-08-01T10:15:02+00:00

What you're describing is oneitis, world's worst disease. It's like schizophrenia, it makes you delusional.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-08-01T12:39:28+00:00

Someone up "there" must be looking out for you. You're FREE now! Don't get trapped by pussy again.

scotch-and-hookers · 2019-08-01T13:10:31+00:00

Consider yourself lucky. Cuts on arms screams mental illness. Shit can get very very very expensive. 😳 Can’t hold a job, consider your finances fucked, bipolar behavior, manipulation, wake up late at night because she decides to “try” to commit suicide. Cops involved, ER visit, psych admission..... $$$$$$$. One minute everything is fine, next minute she is fucking the football team, then next she tried to kill herself 2 am just for attention. You dodged a fucking IED wrapped up with a sack of rusted nails. Years of ER experience...... always a simp at her bedside. And I just shake my head.

Normal size simp husband with 700 lb wife always coming in, she always need help. Can’t wipe her butt, gotta help her move her legs because its getting numb, she is hungry, can’t breathe if angle of bed is too low, can’t reach the remote..... holy fuck, thats another story.

writefromwork · 2019-08-01T10:52:44+00:00

Block and ghost. Sooner or later she will attempt to come back.

Krazyrobus · 2019-08-01T08:35:00+00:00

Sorry you are going through that.

TwistedRope · 2019-08-01T10:13:35+00:00

Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Don't give up. Don't allow her to control you, but don't let failure bring you down. Go your own way, don't bog yourself down in the filth.

Vergabot · 2019-08-01T11:34:46+00:00

Let me guess, never paid you back

rollover2323 · 2019-08-01T10:51:17+00:00

You've realized it is about their needs, not yours. Hard lesson.

2stepp · 2019-08-01T11:17:45+00:00

Thought "they're just bitter".

Lol, kid...please.

She fucked someone else and wants to chase him for awhile, if you were wondering...

AliceGaveMeTheHerp · 2019-08-01T13:14:01+00:00

she wasnt yours, it was just your turn.

anothersposter · 2019-08-01T17:14:02+00:00

"Bam just like that". I've learned a woman has gotten over her man far before they reveal it to the man. They have already processed a lot of emotions prior to revealing it to us. To us it seems like it's in an instant but in reality they already dealt with the emotions and have moved on---there isn't much we can do or say to change their mind at that point. They only stick around to try to milk the last that they can---or maybe watch us suffer but that's why we have to cut all communication. It's not your fault.

debanked · 2019-08-01T10:18:37+00:00

BPD/NPD

munt4life123 · 2019-08-01T13:06:29+00:00

Now you know. I always tell some of my friends you need to date atleast 5-10 girls before you figure out whats really going on. After you do a lot of dating you figure out most have quirks that are consistent among them.

Now you can start improving your own life my dude.

rigoexe · 2019-08-01T13:27:27+00:00

It’s hard to find that fulfillment from within but you won’t find it anywhere else, especially women. They evolved over millions of years to manipulate your protective instinct for their own survival, and they will discard you if and when the going gets tough. In today’s era their impulses have come completely unmoored to the things that have kept civilizations stable but on the other hand, we are free now, if you want to be. Hope you stick around and check out the sidebar. Love yourself, brother. There’s no shortage of beauty and meaning in life for you to discover if you do.

1st10Amendments · 2019-08-01T14:56:26+00:00

This should be a Shit Test young boys are taught to use when they begin looking for a girlfriend. Hang out for a while and then claim to have lost your job due to some medical issue. Maybe, if you can swing it, claim to have had a car wreck due to drunk driving where you were at fault, and you lost your job because no car or because no license and you job was delivery or Uber/taxi, or something. (All false, of course, but enough of your buddies back you up to give the stories credence). If she bails, you caught it early. If she doesn’t, you need to try another Shit Test, because AWALT.

HughJeego · 2019-08-01T08:42:03+00:00

Sorry mate,it's a common saying here.

Say g'day when you come back

You'll be fine.

Fedor_Fedorov · 2019-08-01T13:18:13+00:00

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TheKnightRunner · 2019-08-01T15:35:30+00:00

To her, your mental problems = you no longer add value to her. This has been one of the most shocking things to me from taking the red pill: Women will spend all day expressing her problems to you and expecting you to solve them, but the second you show a sign of weakness she runs the other direction at Usain Bolt like speed. When you're down, they are out.

miketrance · 2019-08-01T10:50:28+00:00

You got off cheap. Just remember the phrase “screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me”. There’s a good chance she’s going to pull a sling back on you so don’t ever take her back or talk to her again.

hrm0894 · 2019-08-01T12:18:03+00:00

They're true pieces of shit, don't take it personally OP. Just GYOW and enjoy life. The best revenge is success.

Atriplex124 · 2019-08-01T12:46:10+00:00

Its not your fault.

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-08-01T13:21:52+00:00

It takes the biggest jolt of your life to become a red-pilled guy.

itwasntme19 · 2019-08-01T18:22:10+00:00

Severe daddy issues, possibly sexually abused growing up. These women are the worse, they are maser manipulators of emotions, they gaslight you and are mentality unstable in ways you can't imagine. You'll be glad down the road this ordeal is over and she's no longer in your life.

HonestJT · 2019-08-01T22:53:09+00:00

Oh wamen will "love" you as long as you dont display any weakness. Deal with your problems with your bros. No women want to be truly supportive.

betternamethanur1 · 2019-08-01T10:51:42+00:00

Same thing happened to me basically.

Youngadult26advice · 2019-08-01T11:55:10+00:00

Refortify your mind brother the pain is only temporary

strangerthing7 · 2019-08-01T12:45:43+00:00

Don't beat yourself up over it bruh. As long as you learn from this experience and don't fall back into the blue pill mentality.

Gemjab · 2019-08-01T15:24:30+00:00

My guy their had to be some glaring red flags, but I understand man "Love" can mess up a man's brains so much he'll give "Love" that he would show only his mother to random bitches he met in a day. After your rage ends my friend, I hope for the best for you.

strainer123 · 2019-08-01T15:52:16+00:00

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/machiavellians-gulling-the-rubes/201610/briffaults-law-women-rule

edgysecularist · 2019-08-01T16:23:08+00:00

There are no unicorns pal, but more are waking up- AWALT

Mgtow_troaway · 2019-08-01T17:58:53+00:00

So she just suddenly went into a depression? Hmm

My guess is one of two things:

1) she sensed you were a decent guy and she wasn't a quality match and was lying to you. If a girl you're seeing starts to degenerate like that mid relationship it's because the charade is falling apart. Rather than deal with the problem they either collapse inward or project onto you and attack.

2) she cheated or branch swung. If she's suddenly with someone else, it's most likely this.

When you're in a clearer mental state and you have enough distance from it, my advice would be to take stock on how you were played and learn from it. Especially focus on the early manipulations, as close to the beginning as possible. Those were the red flags to which you were the most blind then, and likely still are now.

corytrevor710 · 2019-08-02T01:53:40+00:00

Welcome brother, we’re not exactly what the general public makes us out to be. What happened with that relationship is what it takes for most men, including myself, to wake up. What seems like the worst thing that could have happened, but in reality you dodged a bullet and found something much more valuable than a depreciating puñata.

If youre willing to go down that rabbit hole,You will go through a profound change in the next few years. You will experience Red pill malaise, rage, acceptance, and ultimately freedom.

U-94 · 2019-08-01T12:26:27+00:00

Right away she was looking at future vacations.

asspop1 · 2019-08-01T14:38:17+00:00

fuck that stupid bitch. She's a weak ass person for cutting herself. Move on! She's too much of a weakling to tell you in person, weak mental midget. Ohhh im so depressed! im gonna cut myself now. LOL fucking weak bitch! you think people in 3rd world countries do that shit? no they get on with life and work hard. the bitch has no heart.

loldave87 · 2019-08-01T18:07:23+00:00

MGTOW is like opening your eyes. It’s like you’ve been living in a dream and what you looking all this time never existed. Harsh reality can be .

tinmonkey147 · 2019-08-01T19:03:28+00:00

It's AWALT my dude

NightOuts · 2019-08-01T19:35:07+00:00

just use this an a learning experience. I feel like every man should atleast try out a relationship once or twice. MGTOW has more than enough information on what to be prepared for when you do get into your relationship.

This way, you get that experience, and you will be completely unbothered when the shit happens. Don't fall in love. When they red flags start showing, you opt out, and just be grateful that you atleast had the experience.

-Yorgh- · 2019-08-01T20:36:24+00:00

same shit here man mgtow was right
truth is the game was rigged from the start

MuleFool42 · 2019-08-01T20:43:28+00:00

No reason to ever commit to a woman. The level of loyalty required on their part is something that most can't deliver on.

Never get married.

NoCharism · 2019-08-02T05:22:23+00:00

sounds like she found a better lover

mm6748 · 2019-08-01T20:44:30+00:00

This is MGTOW, not a I just got fucked over support group. Learn the difference.

Ganjaleaves · 2019-08-01T19:19:51+00:00

Wow someone broke up with you. Get over it.

Title	You guys were right
Author	Fedor_Fedorov
Upvotes	250
Comments	69
Date	August 1, 2019 8:16 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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