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5

The girl wants you to take charge. Girls expect you to know what to do and do it. Would you ask her: Can I lick your nipple? Can I go down on you? Is it ok if I put my penis in your vagina now? If a girl likes you, you can literally say whatever you want before you kiss her. But there are better ways to do it.
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:38 PM
1

I normally don't send any body pics to chicks. Do you think James Bond would send a mirror pic? LOL. Next time it happens just say something witty in response. "I wonder if they look as good in person..."
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:35 PM
41

Just start eating and put on netflix. Something simple, like a 1/2 hr comedy show. Sit on the couch next to her. When the episode is over reach for the remote and hit ok to watch the next episode. Before you turn to sit back down, look her in the eyes. At this point say something (it literally doesn't matter what you say, I normally just say hi) and lean in to kiss her. She'll go for it. The whole time you guys are on the couch she'll be wondering when you are going to kiss her. Let the tension …
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:32 PM
3

Do not ask to make out. 12 year olds are more original than this.
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:28 PM
1

Wait a couple of days and send her a casual text. It doesn't have to be anything earth shattering. But don't wait two weeks to talk to her otherwise she'll forget you even planed the date.
/r/seduction24/11/17 09:26 PM
3

Don't assume she's out of your league. Its been a couple of years right? Chances are she's fallen down a peg or two and you have risen.
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:41 PM
1

It is defiantly not too much touching
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:39 PM
1

Things seemed close to 50/50 I was only there for 2 days, but I pulled each day.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:43 PM
2

It's better than not dilated pupils But her pupils could be dilated because of a bright light, molly, etc. Out of all the women i've slept with I've never explicitly noticed their pupils
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:37 PM
9

Advanced sounds pretty weak. Do not spend most of your day doing pick up. The better you are the less time you spend trying to pick up because you know you can turn it on at anytime. Truly advanced guys have other goals in life. They have 3-5 fuck buddies and regularly go out and have one night stands. Masters build a life where attractive women come to them.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:26 PM
1

Showing > telling If I had a friend that could fuck any girl he wanted you bet your ass I'd be asking him all kinds of questions. The timing has to be right for him. I've tried to show friends some things before and none of them stick to it unless they pursue it themselves. You can lead a horse to water (or pussy) but you can make it drink
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:23 PM
2

You should only have 2 goals: Have fun Learn something interesting about her If you go in with the goal of fucking her or making her your girlfriend you are going to choke. Remember she's probably just as nervous as you. Have fun, learn 1 interesting thing about her.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:21 PM
3

It's not, not sexual interest
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:18 PM
1

There are so many beautiful women in this world. Why waste your time with girls you aren't into? Practice with girls you are attracted to. You'll progress much faster
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:17 PM
1

I've only visited. I found it easy to pull.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:15 PM
1

You can always comment on the environment you two are in. Talk about the music, how cool the bar looks, how nice of a day it is, etc.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:15 PM
3

Text the next day. Don't try to look too cool
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:11 PM
1

When you both make eye contact...give them a wave, cheers of your drink, or a slight nod. If they reciprocate in any way, just approach and say hi.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:10 PM
4

Uber is pretty main stream now a days. If don't act like its a big deal neither will she
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:09 PM
1

Walk in the same direction as her. Be a couple of inches in front of her. Turn and look over your shoulder and say hi.
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:08 PM
0

Haha you would be surprised how often shit like that happens
/r/seduction06/10/17 09:05 PM
4

Youre in too young of an age bracket for them to care about your fancy pants degree yet. Don't think of it as a zero sum game. Your goal should be "a guy that gets pussy" and "a guy with a career/goals/etc."
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:09 PM
3

Confidence is just as important as looks. The good looking guy isn't on the dance floor making out with a girl. He's off to the side making out with one. The key is to maximize your looks and be confident.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:07 PM
5

You slowly increasing touching. Start with a hand shake or elbow touch Move on to a hug/hold her hand when you move her places. Kiss her gently Kiss her more passionately etc.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:05 PM
2

No. The exact opposite. A guy asking a girl what time it is in 2017 is needy.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:04 PM
2

No you are just early. You don't know anything about this girl yet. She could be your future wife or she could be a random you never see again. I don't enjoy making out at all. I'm not in 7th grade. But I understand your point. You get attached very early because your still new at this. In a year the effect will lessen and you'll start screening girls before you think of them as a girlfriend.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:03 PM
1

There's no substitution for real life. Online dating is riding a bike with training wheels. There's no rush like meeting a complete stranger, forming a connection, and sleeping with her within hours.
/r/seduction23/09/17 09:06 PM
3

He was jealous you where actually talking to girls and he was not. He thought he could come in and high jack the set from you by calling you creepy. Yes, creepy is the worst thing to be called. But in this instance he probably looked like the creepy one. You did the right thing. I would have pulled him off to the side and said if you have a problem we can step outside and solve it. Mind you I come off intimidating to most men so they normally back off. Only ever do this if you can back it up
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:44 PM
2

28. Go where the fish are. Depending on where you live most cities will have a town square or a walkable shopping area. Coffee shops and malls are easy. Parks can also be a gold mine. Look around. You'll see girls reading books, but every minute or so they'll look up, scan around, then go back to reading. They want someone to come to talk to them. Just walk up and ask them what the book is about.
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Whatever helps you to start. After a while you will only stick with it if you start doing it for yourself.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:59 PM
31

Why would you game a girl you are not attracted to? Practice young man. The first time you jump out of an airplane you want to shit yourself. The 100th time is a piece of cake.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:58 PM
1

Start out where you are most comfortable. I started getting chicks through house parties before I was 21. After 21 I did club came for a while. Now I normally go to up scale lounges and clubs.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:55 PM
1

Too many things to name. Problem with humans is we think we are not animals. We are no different then any other animal when it comes to attracting mates. Certain birds have brighter feathers, deer have bigger antlers, etc. Humans also have core qualities that are universally attractive. I would recommend reading the following books: Red Queen (Matt Ridley) Evolution of Desire (David Buss) Mating Mind (Geoff Miller)
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:54 PM
1

Sorry you are so down dude. Look at it this way. If you hit the bottom the only direction is up. You can't change the past. The only thing you can do is try getting a little better everyday. After enough time your hard work will start to compound and you won't believe all the success you will one day have. No everyone is good with women, at least not initially. I'm sure girls have been attractive to you before. You just didn't know enough to realize this. There's a lot of advice I can give, but …
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:22 PM
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I look is always an indicator of interest. Think of it as a compliment and enjoy it. Eventually you should work up the courage to go over to them and say hi.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:17 PM
3

You have to show sexual intent the first time you meet them. Girls will put guys into two buckets eventually: the friend bucket and the fuckable bucket. The longer you wait to show interest the more likely you are to end up in the friend bucket.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:16 PM
1

The dude is jealous. Think about it for a second. Sure he is bigger than you and can prolly kick your ass. But you are the one fucking the girl he wants to. Ignore the dude. You are winning the psychological battle just by fucking his ex.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:14 PM
6

Banging my first 9. When you fuck a really hot girl the confidence boost is undeniable. About 1 year into game. When I was banging 3-5 girls on the regular and still going out and fucking randoms when I felt like it. About 2 - 3 years into game. Mind you I don't game like the rest of the nerds on here (using routines and stuff). Learn evolutionary psychology. Maximize your looks. Get in shape, dress better than everyone else, have an exciting career, etc. Actually leave your house and talk to pe…
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:11 PM
1

Don't over think it. Wait a day. Ask her on facebook. Say, "Hey I'm free xxx day let's grab that drink we talked about"
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:53 PM
9

I pick one thing. Focus on that until you are good enough to add something else. You can't conquer the world in a month...but you can in a decade. Play the long game.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:12 PM
7

You are being way to nice and friendly. Which isn't a bad thing, except if you are trying to get laid. You have to communicate early on that you are not just a friend. I have never had a girl say this to me. Because I always flirt and put a sexual vibe into the conversation in the beginning.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:12 PM
2

Just say you used your middle name.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:10 PM
1

Well daytime touching is always more toned down than nighttime. Like anything else practice makes perfect. For instance, beside when I first meet a girl I always give them a hug. It is weird for me to shake a girl's hand, feels awkward. So if I see a female friend/classmate/whatever at a starbucks I will always give them a hug. Sounds simple, but little things like this will get you used to touching women.
/r/seduction14/09/17 01:59 AM
7

Yes. It will multiply how often you get laid. You need to figure out why you don't like touching people though. That shit is going to hold you back.
/r/seduction14/09/17 12:26 AM
3

Oral doesn't matter. Do not use a dental dam, that shit is weird. I can't even imagine how bad a blow job would be with a condom For intercourse use a condom.
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:26 PM
3

Daily is too much, weekly isn't enough. I'd go the every 2-3 day route.
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:23 PM
1

I've never been speed dating before (it sounds terrible) but my understanding is the girls make a list of guys they liked and the organizers exchange numbers between the two. So I would only ask for the number of girls you are really hitting it off with. Looks will matter at an event like this. Make sure you're the best dressed guy there.
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:20 PM
1

Just keep working at it. You sound like a younger guy. Experience is going to help you more than anything. If you have any specific questions feel free to reach out.
/r/seduction12/09/17 06:58 PM
6

9 times out of 10 yes. But I always like to inject a little bit of sexual interest into the convo. For instance if it was just a quick 5 min number close I would say. "Alright cutie, I gotta head to class. I'll hit you up soon and we'll hang out/study/grab drinks/whatever" I'm not blatantly coming out and telling her I want to fuck her. But, she'll know I'm not the friendzone guy either.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:58 PM
2

It's not to say you should never she them during the day, but night will always be better. Say, "I'm going to grab drinks at xyz bar tomorrow at 10, come join me". It's casual enough to not scare her away, but romantic enough to get her hamster wheel turning.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:54 PM
3

Sometimes people over game. Not everything is a shit test. In this case it is not. Your text is fine. But I would say. "It' ok to be nervous, let's do Thursday I have plans tomorrow". I don't use emojis, they are weak. If you are under 25 it's fine. If you are 30 it looks weird. By saying "let's do" it sounds less like you're asking for permission.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:29 PM
2

The only difference between indirect and direct openers is when you convey your interest in the girl. Direct is obviously right away, "Hey you look cute, I wanted to come say hi". Here she knows your intent. Indirect, "Hey this dj is killing it tonight". You could just be a friendly guy wanting to chat. But within 5 minutes of the interaction she should know you are sexually interested in her.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:26 PM
1

It starts with where you invite her. Don't invite her out for coffee during the day, invite her out for drinks at night. Coffee, daytime = friend zone Drinks, nighttime = romantic zone Once you are at the bar (or something similar if you can't drink) sit next to her, not across from her. Then you have to start physically touching her. When she walks in give her a hug. If she says something funny lightly touch her on her elbow or knee. You should go to different venues throughout the night as wel…
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:21 PM
2

Start hanging out in the "real world" and not just college places. Start going to the higher end lounges and clubs in LA. Get to know the waitstaff and regulars at these places. Depending on if you have cool friends or not, you may have to roll out solo sometimes.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:53 AM
1

It's not too late. Even if you go indirect the girl still probably thinks you like her. When you hang out you have to be sure to make it known you don't just wanna be her friend.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:50 AM
6

Please don't text her. I know it seems hard, but the best thing to do is ignore her. Take 6 months. Work out, dress better, improve yourself, get laid, etc. Then maybe you start talking to her again.
/r/seduction11/09/17 09:07 PM
6

People will probably say yoga class. Yoga is great to do for fitness/mindfullness. But it is awkward to pick up at. The key is to visit the salad bar, smoothie shop, supermarket, etc. right next to the yoga studio. If you walk into a smoothie shop with your yoga bag and you see an attractive girl with her yoga gear on. It is the easiest opening in the world, "oh do you take classes at xyz yoga studio? Me too...."
/r/seduction11/09/17 09:05 PM
2

Just get it out of the way. She is wonder about the kiss too. Make it easy on the both of you. Right when you see her next, no matter where it is, look her in the eyes and say "I should've done this before" and then lean in and kiss her. Don't build it up in your head, don't wait any longer, just do it.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:55 PM
1

I would just slow play it. Text her, but be aloof. Wait for her to initiate hanging out. If she does great. If not move on to the next one.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:05 PM
3

Realize she is just as nervous as you. The first day of school is always awkward for everyone. Just walk up and say "Hey that was a crazy class, huh? My name is Zoidberg22. Whats yours?" From there just small talk for a minute. You both go to the same school there's a lot to talk about. Offer to meet up sometime and study or invite her to a party you're going to. It's an easy way to get the number as well.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:48 PM
3

Girls are confusing my friend. There is seldom one reason they do these things. My advice to not to ask her to hang out. But instead invite her to something you are already doing. If you where already planning on going to a bar just event her along. Say, "Hey, I'm grabbing a drink at xyz tomorrow at 10pm. You should roll through." There's less pressure on the both of you if it doesn't work out.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:45 PM
1

As long as you aren't 35 or something is probably a good move. There will be less pressure on the both of you.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:42 PM
7

Game is like compound interest. In the beginning the gains you make seem like nothing. You get approach anxiety, girls flake on you, etc. But those who stick with it truly reap the gains. As time goes by everything gets easier.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:42 PM
4

95% of dudes never approach. Any approach is a win. Even the best get blown out sometimes. The more you do it the more you can laugh it off.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:39 PM
1

There are no rules in game. The people who think they need to follow rules are the autistic crowd. Use the rules as guides when you are new. They will help you get started. But after a couple years in the game you can and should be breaking those rules.
/r/seduction06/09/17 12:42 PM
7

Are you not real with people you have one night stands with? If you act differently with girls you know for one night vs girls you'll know rest of your life you are doing it wrong. I've never "acted" in a one night stand. That shit is unhealthy and ultimately why men never get good with women.
/r/seduction05/09/17 04:04 PM
1

Doesn't sound like much of a problem. Act however you want. If you don't want to act like a cocky asshole then don't. There is no specific way you have to act when talking to women.
/r/seduction05/09/17 03:05 PM
1

Hi Hi, I'm jabbawolfenstien. What's your name? Hi, I'm Jabbawolfenstien, you look interesting, I wanted to come meet you. Hi, I'm Jabbawolfenstien, you look sexy as fuck, I wanted to meet you.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:40 PM
1

Have them come to you. Do not go to them! People who live that far out from the city are used to taking the train. It's not a big deal. Find 3-5 places within walking distance to your place and frequent those places often. Get to know the staff and start bringing dates there.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:38 PM
1

Lots of girls like to bite. They normally do the lip, but the tongue can be done as well. It's a good sign
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:35 PM
1

Do it if it fits with your personality. It will look try hard if you are wearing pizza roll socks, but are a really serious/stern person.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:34 PM
2

No relationship matters when you are 20. Girls your age may be "dating" someone, but the guy is nothing more than a placeholder. You can use this to your benefit. Most girls with boyfriends are easier to sleep with. They already have someone to take them to the zoo, cider mill, and other boring relationship crap. They want a guy to fuck their brains out too. That could be you...if you want it.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:32 PM
13

If you have the skills to get a hook up, you have the skills for a relationship. They aren't that different. You just seem to have low confidence because you've never done it before.
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:21 PM
3

My god. I don't think cowboys have gotten laid in the last century dude. But you made me laugh, good job
/r/seduction05/09/17 02:17 AM
1

What if the next girl touches your penis? You have to be outcome independent. Some will reject you, but most won't. You're not going to get them all.
/r/seduction05/09/17 02:10 AM
9

You can get a bottle of champagne for 10 bucks. You don't need a bottle of dom or anything
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:30 PM
-1

Smoking is powerful. I don't smoke on a regular basis. I will have cigars/cigarettes when I drink. Smoking is harmful when done daily for many years, not when it is done intermittently. You could try becoming a social smoker, but you seem pretty against that. Don't be so quick to judge smokers. Not everyone is a pack a day smoker who "needs" a smoke. No there is nothing else similar. If you don't smoke just tell the girl to join you outside for some fresh air. It will be close, but not exactly t…
/r/seduction04/09/17 09:06 PM
6

People use inner game as an excuse. You need real life experience. You should be trying to go on as many dates with as many girls as possible. Including this one.
/r/seduction04/09/17 08:55 PM
3

Are u trying to see her again?
/r/seduction04/09/17 08:35 PM
17

Pure success young man. Yes you have a ways to go, but that's an awesome first start. It will only get better from here.
/r/seduction04/09/17 08:04 PM
1

Anything you would attempt at this point would just come off as try hard. Just go with it and hope she shows up. Save all the work for when you have her in front of you.
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:50 PM
1

Give more info dude
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:42 PM
1

who is oceanman?
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:32 PM
2

It doesn't matter dude. Text her whenever you want.
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:05 PM
1

Haha...good lord. Northern cities: New York, Boston, Chicago, etc. More girls in warmer climates are going to have blonde hair But unless you live on a farm, your location really shouldn't matter.
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:04 PM
9

That was tough to read dude. You have to learn to be more direct sooner. This girl has most likely put you in the friend zone. She's keeping you around because she like the attention. I wouldn't waste my time with this girl. Move on to the next one.
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:00 PM
2

Don't give a fuck what other people on the internet say. I'd look at Tai Lopez. He will come off as scammy, but a lot of this shit is useful
/r/seduction04/09/17 05:56 PM
4

Couldn't you just casually wipe them on your pants for touching them? I have cold hands often as well. But I've never had a problem with it. You are probably making it a bigger deal than it actually is.
/r/seduction04/09/17 05:54 PM
18

I use the drink excuse. "I have a bottle of champagne at my place, let's grab a drink" Any alcohol works, but champagne gets the best response imo
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:59 PM
2

Move on to the next girl my friend.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:55 PM
2

Best of luck dude
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:43 PM
2

Where are you from? I've had arab girls in hajabis tell me they will only have sex with their future husband. And then they're blowing me an hour later. Not trying to brag, just show you what is possible. To be honest it sounds like too much work for it to be worth your time.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:41 PM
3

Dude no girl wants to hear shit like that. Don't tell a girl you love her unless you have actually been dating for a while. Saying you love her and have not even had sex/dated/kissed/etc. is creepy and a major red flag for her. You just have to move on from this girl
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:26 PM
1

This is a classic example of why you need to have an "abundance mentality". Girls sense when you are thirsty and no offense dude but you sound pretty thirsty. Why where you talking about your issues with D in the first place? That did not help your situation (although it's not exactly a killer either). You are most likely reading too much into everything. Wait a day or two then text her again. Don't do coffee. Coffee screams friend zone. If your old enough grab drinks with her. If not do somethi…
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:11 PM
4

If you noticed them looking at you than they probably think you're attractive. But the attraction is useless unless you do something about it. Next time they look at you (or any girl does for that matter). Just go up and say hi.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:02 PM
3

Sounds like a friend zone situation to me. How long have you know this girl? 90% of the work is done before you even get into that position. A girl should know you're sexually interested in her the first time you meet her. That's not to say you walk up to her and say I wanna fuck you. But your actions, words, movements should have an underlying hint of sex. So when you get into situations like above things will move a little smoother. If she's alone in a car with you in a dark road it means she …
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:00 PM
2

What does "confronted her about how I felt" mean? 2 years is a long time to know someone without anything happening. Me thinks you waited too long on this one.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:50 PM
2

Yes, SF is 10 x bigger than anything you need.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:46 PM
2

You don't have to get her drunk or should you. She's a grown adult. Alcohol is a social lubricant. She (and you) will have a couple drinks to get a little buzz and thats it.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:42 PM
1

College game is the best. Every player wishes he could go back to college. You know why? Never again in your life will you be around that number of girls your own age who you have something in common with. Go to every social event you can find: football games, frat parties, dorm parties, meet ups, etc. Go with the objective of having fun and meeting new, interesting people. Talk to everyone, not just girls.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:38 PM
2

It's more of a generational thing. People under 30 have been texting for most of their life. People over 30 still remember what it's like to talk to the opposite sex on the phone. Snap or text is fine. Use snap if you have something cool to show.
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:49 AM
7

You need to get some small wins under your belt. Don't have high expectations when you go out. By just leaving your house and going to a bar that's a small win. Many other dudes are at home jerking off. At least you're out doing something. Next try talking to a girl. Even if it ends 30 seconds later, that's another win. Keep progessing and overtime these small wins will start to compound.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:46 PM
3

Just talk with her. Talk about the DJ, the mood in the club, the dude who just got thrown out for doing coke in the bathroom, whatever. You can ask her to dance whenever you want. The earlier you ask the more confident you have to be. Say something like, "Hey I'm Limitless, you're hot let's go dance" and grab her hand (do this in a non-rapey way obvs). Some might say no, in which case just stay and talk with her. If you goes with you this is a huge green light.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:42 PM
1

Yes high social status is very important. Is it everything? No. High social status will get you laid more often with higher quality girls. You seem pretty young so I wouldn't worry too much about. Everyone starts from somewhere.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:35 PM
3

Depends on the timing. A little vulnerability can be good, but don't over share. Don't tell a girl all the fucked up shit from your past on the first date. Slowly tell her over time.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:32 PM
2

Natural game will always be the best game. The whole "pick-up" scene is a cute, but it is not the most effective. The true players look at all aspects of their life and mold it in that attracts women (if that is what they want) Your post is spot on
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:49 PM
2

I posted this somewhere else, but it holds true here too... "My Tinder Game" My goal is to move them as quick as possible from the app to text messaging and from text messaging to meeting in person. The longer you talk to them on the app the more they are going to associate you with Tinder. With texting them on your phone you become more like a "real person" I normally have a quick back and forth with them, 10-20 messages total. And then say, "I always forget to check this app. Shoot me your num…
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:45 PM
3

It's 2017 dude, get an uber.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:43 PM
1

I have been saying this for years. Any man who is not maximizing his looks is leaving pussy on the table. Saying looks don't matter has cock blocked more dudes than any big fat friends out there.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:42 PM
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With humans there is a big difference between fucking and reproducing. There are some studies that show 6-10% of children are raised (unknowingly) by a father who isn't there biological father. Most guys don't sleep with a lot the woman. 6-8 is the average, although I think its lower because the few dudes that fuck 100+ girls can easily skew the number. In my personal experience its more like 1% of men fuck whoever they want. The top 10% do ok (10-20). And the rest are between 1-5.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:40 PM
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Depends on the age of the girl. Under 30 I would text. Over 30 a call is fine.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:31 PM
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Dude sometimes you just have to go for it. There's no perfect line or kino trick. Be bold and you'll be reward for it. Doing it once will make it easier to do it the second time, and third, etc. The classic line is to look her in the eyes and say "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" normally she'll pucker her lips and you can go for it. The more forward approach (my favorite) is to look her in the eyes and say "You're so fucking sexy" then grab the back of her neck, or her hips, pull h…
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:29 PM
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Great sex (rare) = more pleasure for the women Average, poor sex (common) = more pleasure for the man It's really hard to have bad sex as a guy. It's really easy to have bad sex as a girl.
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:28 PM
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All the time. Once you reach a certain amount of notches it isn't about fucking every girl.
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:26 PM
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You'll get better with time. You need to get out of your head. When you can't get a boner girls often think it is their fault. It is actually pretty traumatic for them. Girls read into situations way more then guys do. They don't text you back because they are embarrassed. "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose is the best sex book out there. I believe it is out of print, but you should be able to find a torrent of it.
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:22 PM
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Of course people change as they age. But it's important to point that out. Looks are more important for younger girls (under 18) because it's an honest signal you can't fake. But....rant time.... Looks are always important. That will never change. If anyone tells you looks aren't important they are lying to you. Looks will always be number 1 for a man. We are attracted to youth and beauty. Yes, personality and everything else does matter but not as much as looks. You could have the best personal…
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:16 PM
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Good for you. The first step is putting yourself out there. Who cares that you're almost 30? You can't change the past so just start where you are and work your way up. Being so un-experienced I could tell you things to do, but then you would just be in your own head all night and probably fuck it up anyways. My best advice is to just go and see what happens (I know it sounds like shitty advice, but no advice is sometimes the best advice). Don't be outcome dependent. Whether she sucks your dick …
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:00 PM
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Types of relationships are often very specific to the people in that relationship. Yes, traditionally now a days people casually date (often seeing other people) but reach a point where they want to be exclusive. That's fine but its not the only way. I prefer open relationships. I like having a "#1" girl, but also dating or sleeping with other girls too. I could care less about the #1 dating other dudes at the same time (90% of the time they don't). But thats me.
/r/seduction03/09/17 08:52 PM
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Learning game is important, but not everyone "needs" to learn it. Do whatever you want. A lot of dudes try learning game because nerds on the internet told them to. Do you and see where that takes you
/r/seduction02/09/17 03:40 PM
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Do both. Date a girl long term, but tell her you want to date other people on the side. It's 2017, there are a variety of relationship options on the table. One night stands and on/off fuck buddies are great. But there is something to be said about dating a girl long term. It will give you a deeper insight into women that you can't get from the shorter interactions.
/r/seduction02/09/17 02:30 PM
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Yes, emoji's are gay. And you probably picked the worst one. The poop emoji would've at least been funny. But you're 18 and not 30 so I doubt it's a deal breaker. I'm guessing you haven't kissed her or done anything yet. You can't wait so long to make a move. Girls will put a guy in the "I want to suck his dick" bucket or "What a great orbiter guy who will give me attention" bucket pretty fast. If she stayed up talking to you until 2am all hope probably isn't lost yet. Next time you hang out wit…
/r/seduction02/09/17 02:27 PM
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Yes, a player can get laid anywhere. But there's no truer statement then "Fish where the fish are" Would you rather be a liquor salesman in Salt Lake City or Las Vegas?
/r/seduction02/09/17 02:18 PM
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Go out by yourself. You can still pre-game with them and dick around. But, when it comes time to head to the bar just go on your own adventure. It's tough to find dudes who don't shit the bed when it comes to pick up. Sometimes you gotta fly solo
/r/seduction02/09/17 02:14 PM
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Please don't ever say "text me later" again, I threw up in my mouth a little bit reading that. First rule of game: girls are going to do some weird things and there won't always be an easier answer, its not a science experiment. That being said don't beat yourself up over it. She could be fucking some dude with a big 10" dick and a six pack or she could just be really busy with work/school. Your mind generally comes up with the worst case scenario. Here is how you play it. Wait a couple more day…
/r/seduction01/09/17 10:00 PM
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It depends how you handle it. I think it would be a positive depending on your reason for doing it. Every fucktard she hangs out with spends his life on that website. Being different is a good thing.
/r/seduction01/09/17 09:53 PM
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Stick with it though. You'll eventually start to see the patterns social interactions take. At that point all the answers to these scenarios work themselves out
/r/seduction01/09/17 09:47 PM
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I actually think the exact opposite. Women love straight forward men. It is one of the compliments I get most often from women. Dude just remove needy from your vocabulary. If you think you are coming off as needy then you probably are. That's what I meant when I mentioned being congruent. Someone who is truly direct (in a way that attracts women) would never even think of the word needy. Sometimes this shit just takes time. When your younger or newer to actively seeking out women you worry abou…
/r/seduction01/09/17 09:46 PM
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I have been with a lot of these type of girls. Not being the same race as them is a huge advantage. If you're white it can be a big plus. A lot of these girls have white boy fetishes. Plus their communities are very close. Gossip spreads quick, often grandma in India will here about the gossip the same day it happened in America. If they are going to fool around with someone they will often choose someone outside their circle. Game is game. What works with regular, american girls will work with …
/r/seduction01/09/17 05:55 PM
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Why would it be a date? Look at it from the girl's point of view. It's gonna be weird for her to hang out with some dude she met on fb. Most girls are going to say something along those lines. What do you say? Nothing, just totally ignore the statement and say you'll meet her where ever before concert (or whatever the event is). If it was in person, you could say one of the cocky funny lines other people have posted here. But since it's over chat and you've never met her before it will come off …
/r/seduction01/09/17 05:35 PM
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It's hard to say without seeing the interaction in person, but it sounds like a congruency problem. Bold and direct is a great way to act with women, but only if it lines up with your personality and you've been doing to for a long time. Otherwise it could be coming off as try-hard or over the top. Not saying it is true in your case, but a lot of guys try acting hard and "alpha" with women. This becomes extremely transparent and it's going to turn the girl off. My best tip is to always do what y…
/r/seduction01/09/17 05:24 PM
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"My Tinder Game" My goal is to move them as quick as possible from the app to text messaging and from text messaging to meeting in person. The longer you talk to them on the app the more they are going to associate you with Tinder. With texting them on your phone you become more like a "real person" I normally have a quick back and forth with them, 10-20 messages total. And then say, "I always forget to check this app. Shoot me your number, it's easier to talk off the app." They will always say …
/r/seduction01/09/17 03:16 PM
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Just say, "Yo, sorry I was out of town. I always forget to check this app. Shoot me your phone number. It's much easier to talk off the app." Your goal should be to get her off the tinder app as soon as possible.
/r/seduction01/09/17 03:00 PM
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If a girl looks at you more then once, yes that is either consciously intentional or unconsciously intentional. Either way next time they do it, stop and use the crazy pick up line: "Hi"
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:46 PM
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An important first step. Congrats dude, hopefully the first of many
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:28 PM
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I like this idea, writing a future letter to yourself. Seems like a good way to keep yourself honest and track progress. It would also light a fire under you if you've been a lazy fuck.
/r/seduction31/08/17 05:54 PM
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