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Delhi se hu, gurgao me office hai
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:56 PM
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Boy with that logic, if it was possible to be a multi billionaire then you’d have been one already. And what not. Its a different style of game, you gotta learn. Check out my posts and dm if you need suggestions
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:59 AM
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You’ll need classes for this man. I thought you had some fundamentals. Lets connect later in chat
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:08 PM
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I’ll give you a tip, use the things in between story telling. Tell her that your friends cousin once had this incident with friends where they were playing this fun game, would you like to know about that?….. and if you’re in rapport, she’ll say yes mostly from there on start about the blindfold game in general and if she shows intrest and asks questions. Slip in the thing where you can either ask her to imagine directly or just tell it in a way that she visualises. You don’t have to deny. Just …
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:10 PM
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I get laid by couple dates😂! Not always definitely, but I try my best. If you think its too early and backfire, IT WILL. If you think you’re a greek god and she’ll love it, SHE WILL! Confidence is the key 💯
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:07 PM
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No I just talk erotic about strawberries. For example playing a blindfold game where I’ll make her taste different things and she gotta tell what it is. From there to her feeling a strawberry on her tongue etc. (disclaimer:- its just an example, I don’t literally say this).
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:12 AM
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Okay so strawberries are like sex fruit. (Strawberry with whipped cream or chocolates 💯) also strawberries very much have shape of the tip of a cock! Try and play with that!
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:02 PM
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They won’t do it intentionally, Learn to use their presence without them realising….
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:52 PM
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That is the trick! I do this all the time. It can be talking about pastries and strawberries. Or stretching after gym. It can be about liking things a little too cheesy or my warm moist comfort place etc etc. Happy to know others do it too!
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:43 AM
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They give bad advice because they got no clue! “What a woman says she wants”, “what she actually wants” and “what she would react to”. Are three different things. You must focus on what gets you good reactions and responses. They also give bad advices because in general they’re designed or psychologically hard wired to. If Guys or Men have certain tactics to get girls open their legs, its bad for them. On Evolutionary basis if a bad DNA male is able to put an offspring in her and isn’t gonna sti…
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:28 AM
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Work on yourself in all aspects of life. Physically, mentally, in terms of skills and finances. And build REAL Value. Learn some psychology and understand why things happen. As far as Online game is concerned, hope this helps you Online Dating Basics: Profile Setup
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:17 PM
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You’re gonna be fun to talk to 😛
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:53 AM
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What value do you bring to the table? Or why should one tell you their findings? The thing is that most of the people out there. Treat game as a topic of intrest and chatter! They’ll read stuff and do mental masturbation of their success with girls, but never actually put efforts. The person who does put efforts finds the path and guide naturally. If you’re someone who’s willing to invest as much as you did for school or college. Those many hours of practice and sacrifices, knowing that its wort…
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:22 AM
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Ask this after she tells you she’s pregnant!😈
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:18 AM
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Its totally alright dude, the feeling is natural and its a good thing, instead of thinking of that feeling as being nervous, realise that its exitement! And you’ll be good. Coming to does she like you. Answer is maybe or maybe not. But that doesn’t mean she can’t come out with you. Right questions are, are you a high value guy in her eyes? Is she attracted to you? How much interactive you guys are and how she responds to you. What I would suggest is, instead of always texting her. Set up a call …
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:17 AM
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Umm can you explain that?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:17 AM
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💯
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:16 AM
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By certain cases I mean that only a few people have all these issues/complexes. Not everybody. Thats why the things you talk of might be a reason but will never always apply. If someone’s parents are nice people they’d still most probably fall for the bad guy vibe. Fucking their parents doesn’t apply. Not everyone has an abusive childhood. You perception is very poor here. Secondly I never said “confidence means bad guy” in my post, which means you haven’t ever read the damn thing! And just wrot…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:10 AM
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You’re talking about daddy issues, Oedipus complex and bad upbringing in general. These things do play a role 💯 . But it applies to a certain cases alone.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:53 PM
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On point!
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:02 PM
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Thats alright bro! Game is not about imitating someone or something, or copy a method. Rather knowing your strengths and weaknesses. And understanding what can be polished, what can be improved and what shall be avoided. Bad guys aren’t the only guys that get laid!
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:35 PM
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Saying bad guy is just a variation of Confidence would mean confidence covers all aspects of “bad guy”. However thats not the case. So definitely Confidence is what plays the major role in the bad guy vibe, no debates there. But there are more subtle things to it. Thats the only minor difference.
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:34 PM
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Depends on your hairstyle and jawline!
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:09 PM
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A sexual preference is a sexual preference. Treating people based on their bodies when it is unnecessary is discrimination. But say I want to hire a bouncer I won’t pick up a skinny guy for the job. Does it make me bad? No bro! When it’s relevant different behaviour will always be there. And what you’re doing here is slut shaming women of a whole country/region for having desires. THATS EVIL. If you were so successful with your manhood wherever you are. I don’t think you’d be running away. Answe…
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:54 PM
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What you say happens as well, but yes I’ve met many bad guys who are not hot or attractive because of their looks or faces. But the vibe and persona they carry…. Its magical. Charisma is something that one must understand its not looks or physical entirely. Thats why sometimes just putting on boots and a leather biker jacket puts you in a vibe thats badass! You can be a good guy but you’re projecting something else. Do their faces change because of jacket and boots or do they get bigger biceps a…
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:45 PM
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A few things, Someone can fantasise about a particular skin colour or body type that’s totally upto their liking. And its very humanly nature to get attracted to new or rare things. That nowhere tells about the double standards. The long checklist you mention will be there on almost women out there. Its just that some points hold more value. And you don’t fulfil their criteria. When you change locations, are you sure that you’ll be really rare on a skin colour basis? Are you sure you’ll have the…
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:24 PM
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Checkout my latest post on this sub, you’ll know why! Why do Bad Guys attract more Women?
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:18 AM
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If you’re into cuckold fantasies, by all means. Else I’m sure you’re figure out better ways to know what she’s upto!
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:36 AM
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Exactly!!!! Idk why people make it so complex and political 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:33 AM
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Alpha fucks, Beta bucks 💯
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:32 AM
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Okay so here’s the deal. Pick a place where you’re familiar. This will help you stay confident. Dress and groom well and mainly be comfortable with it. When meeting for the first time:- Keep a smile, Don’t lean in instead stay leaned back and talk, Be interesting and never loose your calm, Show interest and actually listen to what she says, Do kino(physical escalation) in stages, hold her hand, check her necklace, rest your hand on her thighs, get closer. Always keep noticing her body language a…
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:29 AM
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Right On! You get it just 💯. This needed to be cleared out. All I can say is, thats its the right attitude, Good luck man!
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:24 AM
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I’ll dm bro, it’s punctuation maybe.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:03 PM
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You already gave the answer! You need to up the social circle game to get the quality you want, i can feel what you’re saying, I’ve been there on a comparatively smaller scale. But thats what I did. Upped my social circle game. And it helped me realise a few things. Even if in some standards like education or social status or class some women maybe superior. But for someone like me(maybe you too!) if they’re not intellectually there, it feels like talking to a wall! So it all boils down to the b…
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:04 PM
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Okay so the short term answer to that is find some prepared materials which we call as routines and tell her those intresting things. Long term and better solution is work and get an intresting life. That you just talk about your daily stuff and she’s all ears to you. Because it’s happening! It can be some fun incidents in past or something recent. Always try to keep humour along. LEARN TO CHERISH SILENCE! Thats one of the best things I can tell you. Hold her hand, make eye contacts, slowly grab…
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:56 PM
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Its all love❤️
/r/seduction14/02/22 03:08 PM
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Like I give two shits for criticism, I’m just disappointed in people 😂
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:14 PM
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Okay Do I need to give a disclaimer that I HAVE NOT PUT EXACTLY THIS ON MY BIO BUT ITS MORE LIKE AN EXAMPLE!!!!!! Why do people have to be so dumb to take everything literally! Uggghhhhh
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:13 PM
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Yes, idk myself. But that doesn’t matter either. Thanks for supporting 💯
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:12 PM
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Loved it! Believe it or not that’s actually pretty good even as in intermediate going solo. Keep doing what you do! 💯
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:13 AM
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React on some story and if she likes or replies you’re in. Be intresting and either ask for help/female openion in some crazy made up scenario or tell her some humorous incident. Initially its okay to take 90% of load of convo. And slowly hook her in. All the best
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:06 AM
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Dude its alright! Slowly escalate and while talking or texting tell her what all you wanna do and kinds of moments you’d like to share with her. Mention casually that you should definitely bang or something like that as a soft suggestion and see her reaction. If you don’t have a place maybe try initiating things in a car, or someplace empty. If she has a place of her own, tell her you wanna come over and hangout. I can’t teach you escalating physically while making out. But just go for it slowly…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:03 AM
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I understand people have specific choices. What you can do then is. Approach others as practice targets. And improve your game. See what works and what doesn’t(openers, routines, punch lines, jokes, fluff talk, number closes, kiss closes and so on) so that you’re aware of more possibilities and shit tests that someone might give you and you do not lose your calm state at any given moment, making your failure rate less when hitting actual targets. Another thing possible is, you might explore a si…
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:58 AM
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It takes some work on your inner game. And its absolutely normal to feel this. Its a mentality switch, instead of playing to “not loose”, play to WIN. And that’s pretty much it. This switch can happen instantly or over a period of time as you start enjoying the process. Till then just trust the process and don’t stop. Even the advanced players face rejection. They have amazing ways to handle it and play accordingly thats a different matter. But everyone faces rejection. Its a part of game. If yo…
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:39 AM
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I second this
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:31 AM
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Depends on the rapport I have with her. If we’re already in a flirty/touchy stage. Why not. If we barely know each other or are strangers then it’s pointless. Instead just go and say a hello and initiate the things thats all. For stages where I’m not a nobody and also not flirty/touchy. I have no need but If I have, I’ll do it in a hot and cold manner. Something like telling her I hate you while going for a hug.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:30 AM
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He’s the father of speed seduction. For him looks only have a little to do and he himself being an old ugly guy proved it all the time. He was one of the initial people who had boot camps and taught game openly. Only after mystery method he had his first break. Its a different dimension and maybe you can cherish it. (Its not for everyone to like)
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:21 AM
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Here’s a very sweet tip that might help. What I try to do is, work on myself little little. Set small goals and hit them. It can be learning a new skill or a language, or getting better at work/studies/fitness/discipline anything. What matters is before I sleep I don’t crave anything I am happy that I am better than what I was last week. Thats it. Consistency in this will naturally boost your confidence as you’re not the same person and getting better all the time. Even though its still might se…
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:51 AM
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I feel you man, Ross Jeffries is the guy you’re looking for. But it would take a totally different style of game. Hope you enjoy!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:45 AM
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Its awesome if you’re more experienced and successful than me, really happy for you. Also really amazed because we certainly have different experiences of outcomes. I never said everyone, but definitely said most(that means more than 50%) and I stand by it. I never said someone is bad as a person. But for me people who’re drunk and wasted 4 days a week. Who’d actually start getting anxiety or other widrawal effects if they can’t do it. People who’re there just for an escape and usually wake up w…
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:20 AM
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Oh my bio is designed to filter you out darling. Someone with very little attention span and tons of ocds is def not the one for me. I know the kind I wanna attract and you guys just prove that to me!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:11 AM
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Okay, I understand what you’re saying. Are you willing to work on yourself? Its tonna take a lil bit of time. But if you up your physique, and highlight that I’m sure you’re no longer a 4-5. Add good dressing, grooming and hygiene and a cologne. Any guy can pull of a 7 easily. Then work on the quality of pics to make it a solid. I used to be thin as a stick, like a scarecrow or a flood v ictim. I have worked on myself and know that things can be rewarding. All the best
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:09 AM
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Your statements fail when you’d see people who actually have success there. Same goes for other games available. Quality pics matter for sure, just the face? Hell nawww
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:05 AM
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Exactly!!!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:04 AM
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You’re so caring, thank you🥰
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:03 AM
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Ik what I project man, and its fine the whole thing is you have to highlight yourself. Maybe you like fat women and they’re beautiful ik. Be yourself, always. If something is a turn off for me, I mention that.
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:03 AM
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Never happened to me, maybe I’m lucky. But maybe y’all overthink a lil too much!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:01 AM
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I am not telling necessary things, nothing is necessary, most probably you’re a good looking and guy and all the allegations on me apply to you as well. What I am saying is catch attention. And I’ve seen this work. I’m not putting a gun on everyones head and making them do that.
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:00 AM
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Its not really that because you’re a nerd and just stay on your pc, you’ll get chicks. Its just that you’re passionate about something and put efforts there. My younger brother(still in school) has some stupid page on ig. Its not something great he just copy pastes content and does some edits. And no matter how the page is doing. Just because he has a page and does something…. He’s popular in school and with girls. (Ps:- He’s fat but cute)
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:58 AM
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There’s a saying, “if its not good, make it look good!”. I’d say the face only has a certain(say 15-20) percentage of the value in overall pics. The quality of pic, how you’ve dressed, your physique, whats in the background, what activity are you doing the angles and affects. There’s tonns to it. I get it if you’re really ugly things are little harsh for you. But what I’m saying is men can generally compromise that with other values they bring. And on the other hand for girls its not that much d…
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:55 AM
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Yes definitely its alright! Shoot me a dm
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:46 AM
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Ah yes! In corner cases you are at a bad zone(relatively) but there’s no single key to all the locks and there’s nothing wrong about that too. Its not in your hand what and how people feel or perceive. What I gave was a more general and pragmatic answer. Talking in absolutes is way too complex. And it happens that there are certain people who are comparatively less/more desired than some other people.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:45 PM
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Text less but do call get once in a while. Get “funky” on snaps. And pass the month. Or ask her when she’s home alone
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:51 PM
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Proud of you! Keep doing, you’d be great!
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:47 PM
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The plan is to provoke and get attention, its a marketing gig. You just proved my point. Out of all this caught your nerves
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:44 PM
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Thats the whole point, thank you😁💯
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:42 PM
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I know right! Thanks for support mate!
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:47 PM
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I’m not that well with Reddit to be able to format or even reply at selected texts. But idea is to benefit others and potentially learn myself. 💯
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:44 PM
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Checkout my post on why I don’t go out for day game but carry the game with me always. Thats should help a little. As per social circle game and any game in general, IT TAKES EFFORTS! Period. You have continuously work to maintain and evolve your circle. Organise parties and be popular. Noone wants to hangout with a nobody. Once there was an amazing post in social circle game, loved it. Idk if I saved that. I’ll check and give link below
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:41 PM
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Okay the fundamental problem with your situation is. You guys emotionally escalated and opened up, however there was no physical escalation or a proper man to woman frame(someone I know would say, “does she even know you have a cock?”) Basically these are the conditions that get you into friendzone. What you can do is…. Talk less, if there are questions on your absence tell you’re on a grind working on yourself. Come back as a different high value guy. (Alternative is to start acting high value …
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:26 AM
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You give them a taste of their own medicine. Women are naturally better at game because of the exposure and experience they have. But all that exposure is usually general nice guys or creep guys stuff. Give mixed signals and take control of the frame. Neg her, demonstrate more value. And instead of qualifying to her. Make her qualify to you. Randomly say that she already has passed 2 tests and you’re impressed. Once she gets the idea that she’s being judged too, she’ll get conscious and would qu…
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:15 AM
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I’ll tell you what, just ask to hangout casually without mentioning valentines. And if you sense some hesitation which might be due to the “day”. Make it clear that you just hope that just because theres valentines shouldn’t impact you guys! Keep a plan ready and ask her for specific activitiy and time. Pay attention if she says no. Is it because she’s busy at that time? Offer an alternative. Is it regarding a specific activity say walks or movies, avoid that even in future and give an alternati…
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:09 AM
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Forget all long things, know this precise advice. Most males get seduced by what they see, and most females by what they listen or read(cuz in a way its same). And thats all you’ll need to remember, if one word is the challenge.
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:55 AM
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Let me be clear kiddo, this sub is for SEDUCTION and not some night game or how to get drunk chicks suck yo dick. You’re noone to tell me to stay away from the page. Now lets talk some numbers and stats, this is coming from someone who has approached more than 200 chicks in clubs and more than 500 approaches in daygame(and you can only imagine my social circle game). I have dated national level athletes and airhostess forget the count of casual lays. I know what I am talking. Lastly I never invi…
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:34 AM
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Initially they say that if you have to take 90% of load of the conversations do it. That’s because not many will start talking with a stranger right away. Thats when you gotta demonstrate some value and spell COOKIE for them. It should then gradually shift to a 70-30% then 60-40% and if she’s hooked. Just listen and let her talk. Some girls with themselves tell you the fastest ways to get in their pants if you know how to listen. Show genuine intrest when asking questions. And be playful always.…
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:22 AM
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I used the word mostly not all, in my experience and my buddies. Thats what I have noticed. Talk about the ratio of women you’re still in touch with and are actually high value have a good lifestyle and really worth wifing or even for something serious. Give me the numbers cuz I don’t wanna talk of exceptions that one time You got lucky and found a decent girl trynna move on and rebound. Or even leave that. Take any batch of chicks at a club in a given time, or 8s and above lets say. Tell me wha…
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:16 AM
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If it helps you heal, its good. If its just something nice and pleasurable know that it acts like any drug addiction.
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:08 AM
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No no, if you’re thinking I can hypnotise people into doing things I wish or do some other tricks you hear of, then I’m not that shaman. I do have a relation with spiritual world tho!
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:47 PM
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Its a family thing. So they teach you some stuff when you’re a kid and you won’t even understand much. Slowly you realise. My ancestors were witches and shamans. We have some deities that recognise the bloodline. Yo worship and please them and they grant you power. But its not advisable to do so.
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:46 PM
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I quit some time ago, got something better!
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:42 PM
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Happy to help! Now go get some girls and be THE GUY!
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:54 PM
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You’re talking too much!(with her) Let there be spaces and silences. Give her room to make the talk. Once you’ve already been on two dates there’s no point of endless texts. Use them just for discussing logistics. If needed call once in a while and have a normal convo, or just be intresting. Let her do the rest then only she’ll do it. If she doesn’t, you know what to do!(leave)
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:44 PM
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Try and do observations based on their bio or pics. And try and draw similarities from it. Say she has a pic with bike, tell you how you love riding too and hope to do that together some day. Then make an honest complement
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:13 PM
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The best is to not get attached to a match or set or a date. Its very intial in stage just chill out and know there are millions more literally. That way when you are unattached your brain works better and you do the right thing always
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:11 PM
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I’ll tell you what I used to do in my college days almost every year or semester. I’d approach girls and simply introduce myself and tell I’m a fresher/senior and wants to buy/sell/borrow used books or notes or question papers from/to some junior/senior. Or I’d just go and ask if they know library is, be the answer yes or no, I’ll just ask out to go to library and spend some time. Start from there. Talk about some cultural events or clubs/societies in college and how to join etc
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:10 PM
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Thats normal to feel so. What you’re saying is not wrong. I have an example to help you. Say I have a cookie and I give it to you, you eat and leave. If I never tell you I got a cookie you’ll never know and eventually. If somehow you get a smell of cookie or I tell I have and give you a small bite to taste. Now you have an idea of the taste and pleasure of a whole cookie and you’d want that. Same is the case here. You don’t wanna come off as needy or start simping as they’ll take the cookie and …
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:06 PM
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Be calm and relaxed, Participate, Take your stand, Be the first one to extend an arm Support someone who might be getting bullied And if you find someone worth it, go and talk to her✨
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:00 PM
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I feel you man! The lifestyle definitely is unhealthy and takes a mental toll on you. Mostly it leads to just meaningless sex with chicks who won’t even remember shit. Its fun tho if you’re with a wing who likes to give challenges and you keep leveling up, but more or less same meaningless shit. The lifestyle itself tells a lot about people. Someone whos drunk 4 nights a week and is just clubbing and twerking, I’m noone to judge but their way of perceiving life definitely is too low. I don’t wan…
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:58 PM
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Sometimes god brings back your ex in your lives just to check if you’re still dumb😂
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:53 PM
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It worked in Seattle and bankok as well, just work on yourself and get a life dude, you’ll thank me later
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:22 AM
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I make less mistakes, I know the red flags very well, and instead of chasing them, I try to get them to chase me. They do the rest! And I act like and innocent chill guy whom they manipulated into all the dirty things they do😉 Not that it always happens, but I aim for that always! Get her to qualify and ask questions, be interesting (for that work on yourself and get a life and personality that speaks for itself, no need to lie)
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:57 AM
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No my last few partners were not Indian, my cousins getting laid too! Hahaha
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:32 AM
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I’m not in US dude, I came once to Seattle for work, my cousins are in Arizona and Buffalo doing their masters and they say its chill there. Ideally I’d say try areas like college campuses, corporate hubs, near airports and places with a lot of travellers and places where people party. Generally know what kind of people are more likely to look out on tinder for something casual. Its people who are in city for a while, or 21/yo chicks wanna be independent and have fun, and you know the feel. Gene…
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:14 AM
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Nopes! I’m a Brown(Indian) guy! And I’m 6’3” strong built. I guess I have good pics that catch an eye. And an honest but hooking bio. What you can do is, try and see how guys in your area have their profiles(photos bio etc) and if its more or less just like you, then its not a good profile. Understand this thousand of same looking profiles, if you can stand out, you’ll get swiped more. Post that, know how generally guys chat(take help of your female friends or create a fake account and see) and …
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:55 AM
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Sure man will do!
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:54 PM
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Sure thing man, I saw your posts about cruise, I’ll dm!
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:00 PM
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I’m a 6’3” brown(Indian) guy, things aren’t easy for me either bro😂. With a mask on I do appear scary at times. But i feel you, ik what all you said has a point. If you’re cool making conversations with anybody but chicks cuz they’re always being bitches then congratulations you’re halfway there already, if possible try to work on the way you dress, smell and body language. Thats helps making an impression. Youd have to find a way that suits you, I don’t want you giving up and accepting a fate t…
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:45 PM
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Yep it does. And it would work in every corner of world!
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:58 PM
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Its simple, don’t be a “weird creep”✨. What I mean is you can use an opener as simple as asking directions/time or even telling her to shift a little/pass a salt. And from there slowly escalate, noones asking you to make out with her then and there, take it easy. One step at a time. “Open, hook, attract, set frame, soft close, push pull, close” everyone has a format that works for them. At times its situational. I’d tell you something, try making conversations with people like bartender, waitres…
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:55 PM
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Our boy wanna fake it till he makes it😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:16 PM
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On point man, just a quick addition on the same lines. Don’t just have a reason to talk to her. Have a reason WHY SHE SHOULD TALK TO YOU? Thats value you bring to the convo or interaction. Understand this and you’ll see your game improved!
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:29 AM
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Old game is a must try! Both styles have their drawbacks however. Old game was more about canned materials(routines or patterns) and majorly dependent on demonstrating value and negging. Its great but some of the stuff is out of context and one can smartly replace it with direct game. Highlights are:- opening groups will be a cake walk for you where others only open a single or two set. You’ll never run out of things to say because you always have some routines on back of your sleeves. What not …
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:28 AM
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Do an initial soft close when texting, something on the lines of “blablabla, damn you’re good, we should really hangout someday xD” and get her to say yes for some unknown time in future(maybe never) but now subconsciously she has agreed to meet you and when you actually ask her out to your place or whatever chances of her flaking are low as it seems more natural and gradual.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:58 AM
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On Point man! Even I felt the same reading those crap. With a negative mindset like that, I can bet you’ll never succeed. Initially unless you’ve demonstrated value, she has no reason to be intrested in you. You must be ready to put effort for 90% of the conversation leaving only 10% burden on her. If your game is good within no time these ratio will change and she’ll be hooked. Unless you’re some greek god I don’t think any 9s or 10s will be into you automatically. And that’s totally fine thats…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:48 AM
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I’d suggest deliberately try and be creep just for the experience of it and getting over the fear. Go out, approach but act weird or laughable and try various things, observe the responses. It would help you with your fear plus you can learn to tweak and calibrate your approaches.✨💯
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:40 AM
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First of all, its not very difficult and is the right thing to do or desire so. Two ways to go about it… 1) imagine the kind of guy you want to be. If you have a real life or fictional character as an ideal. Study their behaviour(Alpha body language, value demonstration, drawing line, saying no etc) and act just like that religiously and NOTICE THE CHANGE IN HOW OTHERS REACT TO IT OVER TIME AND develop a new way of looking at things, people and life as per your new experience. 2) study the ideol…
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:41 PM
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Bro this totally goes in with the books, you demonstrate high value, social validation etc through your body language for example He’s not very polite. Ooooh he has been like this all his life sure he is in power or authority else such behaviour can’t sustain in society. He said some xyz unconventional stuff. He is bold enough to say that, meaning he has said it before and noone objected maybe its normal and I should comply with it. Wait, he didn’t care about me saying/doing xyz definitely he is…
/r/seduction30/05/21 01:53 PM
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They will sniff it out for sure, basically it shows that someone is way too much free(no life/goals/circle) and too much validation they get. You have to convey abundance and the best way for that is to have abundance, even if you’re keeping this 10 as main, don’t forget the sides, always keep them engaged, that would help you a lot!
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:37 AM
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What you do is a good drill for beginners and to overcome approach anxiety. The drawbacks being you come of as a slightly low value person, better than most cuz most won’t even approach, but for 9s and 10s this won’t cut(remember they get approached in person and online wayyyy more times and compliments are what most guys do, you’ll have to be unique in some ways right?) But if you’re past that hesitation already, you need to up your game and try out variations. Try out some methods/frameworks a…
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:27 AM
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If you invest too much without proper returns and physical escalation, Brother thats the holy path to friendzone 😁 Keep this in mind and I guess noone needs to tell you how to text 🔥
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:22 AM
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Massages are hot, but I usually don’t go for it for during the first time home. Set some music and ask for a dance, even if you suck at it, just hold and sway thats all it needs to get things into play. Start some teasing that can escalate to spanks, tickling or cuddles. Cook maybe? Its basically do anything but with the right vibe There can be many ways but I guess you’ll get the vibe we want to have to escalate to fore play.
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:21 AM
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From next time use Asia instead of naming countries like China or Japan, many find it disrespectful and racist. Try asking where in Asia and it should do. After she first refused to give number, you should have laughed it away, demonstrated some more value to generate enough intrest and ask again(if not number then to play together sometime else or to hangout, and then number for planning logistics) But good effort 🔥🤘🏻
/r/seduction26/05/21 11:10 AM
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You have to warm the situation from the moment you guys meet, give a hug, grab her hand while crossing roads, have and arm around shoulders or waist while walking. Make eye contact and smile. If you aren’t confident she’ll freak out too! You don’t just kiss outta nowhere, try to build some anticipation through all this. And say you’re watching movie, don’t wait for the end, within the fist half make your move for the kiss. While sitting together you can escalate like holding hands->laughing/teas…
/r/seduction26/05/21 10:46 AM
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Dude you decide if the MMA pro is a keeper or not. If things aren’t serious, you can be upfront and tell what happened and you feel guilty, and its only after that you realised how important she is to you because otherwise you wouldn’t have even cared. And now that you know that she(the MMA PRO) means so much to you, you can’t keep it as a secret and so you confessed. Tell its new to you, being exclusive but it’s something you’ll work on if she is not cool with such incidents. Focus on telling h…
/r/seduction26/05/21 10:41 AM
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Look buddy, you didn’t do anything wrong. Panic attacks are a little bit common and its a really sad thing. Usually these panic attacks are triggered from bad experiences in past. Take care of her and you’ll be good. All the best✨
/r/seduction26/05/21 08:58 AM
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A lot of times one isn’t weird and awkward just around women but in general strangers. What I do when I go for picking up after a gap is, first socialise with random strangers, person or group, guy or girl. Just initiate, nothing sexual yet and let me come to my confident, charming vibe a person. Taking that confidence and vibe I approach women.(same goes for online game)
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:54 AM
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Check DM!
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:49 AM
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Great start buddy, keep grinding and never look back 💯
/r/seduction06/05/21 11:39 AM
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It only gets awkward if you share your feelings, hide them well, just be the guy who’s all about fun and experience. And make conversation(indirect, you have to make it look like you didn’t have any feelings at all and stuff happened organically because of hanging out together) hangout a little and notice how she responds, if she tends to like you too then no chance of being awkward. I’d suggest you to keep your feelings to yourself until the very end. Remember you only show your Ace after the o…
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:45 AM
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You can always make up time for things important to you. Learn to manage your time better. You can have all the free time but do nothing because of a shitty routine, or have a busy schedule but discipline will help you achieve your career, fitness and other goals like game easily. Keep grinding brother
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:35 AM
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Ik there are some cool programs out there. But if you’re not getting anything, The Rules of The Game by Neil Strauss(Style) is worth a shot.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:05 AM
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20 percent aint bad for starters. See its a numbers game ONLY TILL YOU MASTER IT. The only reason we practice game is to pump those percentages up.
/r/seduction18/04/21 06:03 AM
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Happy for you brother 💯
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:39 AM
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Take it easy bud, don’t go for complex stuff. Stick to your basics. Set small goals, ofcourse you can outdo your goals, but keep practical and small goals, and crush them. DO IT BECAUSE ITS FUN, NOT BECAUSE YOU GOTTA PROVE SOMETHING. REMEMBER WHEN IT WAS FUN AND YOU ACTUALLY DID IT CUZ YOU ENJOYED IT!
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:32 AM
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Bro I am from Delhi, cold approach is tough here, but not impossible. I have been doing it on and off(covid) for some time now. And I aid it with online dating apps and I can say if your goal is getting laid, its still easy here. You can do Night Game but the right clubs and bars for it are lil bit hard on pocket. If money aint a problem you can do pretty any style of game here. For day game, textbook cold approaches are not so much accepted by society, but Gyms, college campuses(and popular pla…
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:29 AM
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You can demonstrate high value and still ask for openion. Maybe have one indirect open and act like you just thought why not ask her about xyz Eg:- Hey I need a female openion on something? My friend had promised his long time ex to have one NSA trip before. But now he is with this new girl and things are getting serious. He asked me for help and I am not very sure what to tell him. Or that he is asking Can I take his current somewhere for the weekend. Any blabla bullshit. You story should be en…
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:22 PM
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Aye! Don’t worry your brother got you! Go through her profile, they really like if your opener feels personalised to them. Bio, pics. Or you can pass a judgement. Always try something that gets you reaction. Remember its an opener and its job is to give you reaction. Even something bold is okay as long as you can turn it around. Avoid red flags like direct insults, offensive things, dick pics etc. and you’re good to go. Some examples.... Hey! I swiped because ......... I bet you’re into ........…
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:12 PM
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Don’t attach yourself too much to one approach. Think this way. Just by doing 10 approaches a week in an year you’ll have 520 girls you have approached, you won’t even remember her face in some time. Instead of focusing on where you screwed up and how you could have turned it around, think of positives. You did and approach, most are pussies and can’t even look directly. You closed too! Keep making small and practical goals and keep crushing!
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:04 PM
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BE MORE WOTH WOMEN, SPEND MORE TIME, MAKE MORE CONVOS. Thats all mate. Don’t listen to any other crap (its not crap it will aid you too but only as an aid never your main game) Become better and any xyz thing daily. Doesn’t matter your work or gym or sports or art. As long as you have that winning mentality, confidence will come naturally! All the best
/r/seduction14/04/21 03:02 PM
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As far as you don’t mind hanging out with them and providing an awesome experience, I don’t think your mot drinking is going to be an issue. You can cover up telling “C’mon I can still dance with you😉” or something if they have the assumptions that you can’t join cuz you don’t drink. Another thing you can do is tell your drunk stories in pre stages and they’ll have the openion that you drink, when in bar, private setting, tell you can’t drink for medical reasons. All the best!
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:58 PM
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Ik what you’re saying bro, from Delhi as well, reply to my DM to discuss daygame
/r/seduction14/04/21 08:31 AM
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Basically there is possibility of dominance within your definition of Charisma. Its simple, compliment, but the frame should be like you are the one testing them mot as you’re the one pleasing them or seeking approval. Listen to them, be genuinely curious but feel free to disagree and put forth your opinion and views. The real Dominance or being THE MAN. Doesn’t mean you become an abusing control freak. Thats all
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:33 PM
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Man, you’re confusing dominant and bossy/abusive. You can smile and be dominating. Being dominant is basically taking lead. You call the shots. It doesn’t mean you have to ask her to fuck off with her openions. You listen and turn things around. Be open to disagree and be firm about it, yet smiling. Being Dominant in the right/healthy way is most charming of all.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:01 PM
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I understand man. What I don’t understand is that what literature to refer you, self love or seduction😂😂. See my point being that the literature you read is also going to make you different from the current you. Understand this carefully, you weren’t the same before writing this post, before the incidents happening and as a kid. The personality is ever growing. In order to get what to what. I’d say try to become a better version of yourself in all aspects of life not just women. Try to be a bett…
/r/seduction04/04/21 01:19 PM
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Man, any woman can be seduced, given the right conditions. And the right tactics. There isn’t THE MAGIC SPELL that can get you laid. But with some experience you can learn your way around all the situations. Most important of all is staying in the game. Keep playing is all id say
/r/seduction04/04/21 01:03 PM
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Don’t think too much man. If you don’t wanna game while she’s working. Make a small talk and close when its a good time. Just ask her out. Don’t say date(its a personal thing, you may do as you please) but ask her out. A drive, beer, coffee, anything. And see how it goes. Waste time and for her you’re just another creep.
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:57 PM
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You can do cold approaches and still open indirectly. The more natural and organic it feels the better is your game. SMOOTH is the word my friend you wanna go after. I have opened a lot of sets indirectly(usually observational comments and cold reads) your mindset will decide if you have authority or have given the authority. If you feel like you have given the validation, take it back. Push pull. But yes no matter what kind of approach it is, learn to control the frame.
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:53 PM
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Maan hass got a point, you approach from side and you give salesman vibes, been there. I feel it depends a lot on the location you’re approaching. A busy road with corporates is a big no no. College campus or malls or store, now we’re talking✨
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:49 PM
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Its simple pal. Rake is mad in love but for a short time. Basically love bombing. This is how it works. All Women want to be desired. Some openly accept it most don’t. But deep down they all want to be desired. It works for them in many ways like attention, validation and so on. If you show your desire but not boldly, you’ll be rejected or friendzoned. But if you go to Desire Ultra Max Pro. Desire for her. Go to crazy ends. The crazy ends part makes it an honest signal i.e. something that can’t …
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:35 AM
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Oh boy! Looks like someone went deep into research. If you find out Do let me know too. I tried looking for it an year ago or so. No luck there, but I was getting laid anyways. You brought old memories back!
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:38 AM
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