I got some some comments and dms regarding this and here’s the post as promised. I myself use these basics and easily get 5-10 matches on a daily basis(more than 50 matches per week, and mind you I’m very choosy).

There’s no magic spell that can get get you laid. However Doing certain things correct will better you chances definitely.

Lets discuss various aspects of profile setup, point by point.

  1. Pics:- okay certain things to keep in mind here, -Avoid selfies(makes them think you’re a loner). -Avoid group photos. -Get photoshoots done, if not by a professional then atleast by your friends from a good camera phone(I’m still using iphone 11 but works just fine). -Keep only good photos even if its just 2 or 3. Quality over quantity. (You’re anyways gonna be judged by the worst pic of all you’ve put there). -Highlight things you’re passionate about and things that show your lifestyle. (If you love riding show yourself with a bike and gloves, or making a painting, or your multi screen gaming/trading setup anything). -Be creative.

  2. The Bio:- just like above certain dos and don’ts never harm. -FOCUS ON ATTENTION(use bolds or capitals if needed) -Get controversial(know the red flags but play on border if you can twist it, gives you something to have a conversation on) -Challenge her(say something like “swipe right if you’re not fat and can handle sarcasm”) -Mention what you’re looking for -Hint the values you can provide.

  3. Props:- these include every other info or styles various apps provide where you can highlight yourself. Like some question answers, your intrests and preferences. Use them well to stand out and filter the right kinda girl for you! -Don’t be common -Give out of the box answers for normie questions(if the question asks for your skills dont shy from telling your tongue got moves too!

  4. Emojis:- use emojis as most guys don’t. Enhance your bio and props by dropping hints and emojis

  5. General things that dont fall under any category:- -Ask your female friends to help you select pics -if possible, create a female account and see what most guys are doing, their pics, bios and the way of texting. You’ll realise that I dont kid when I say all guys have more or less same profiles and way of talking. Be exceptional and stand out. In all ways possible.

  6. Settings:- you must be wondering whats so special in settings, just do this and see the difference. -Set the right age(say if you’re 24 the chances of an 18 yo girl swiping you is wayyyy less than that of a 22-23 yo one) you’re literally wasting your swipes on girls that most probably wont even get too see your profile just because you don’t fall under their filters. -Set the right distance. Same as above most girls don’t swipe someone 40 miles away. Keep it close and you’d be able to swipe more potential candidates.

  7. Experiment:- always keep tweaking your profile little little and see what works best for you.

As mentioned above they’re just basics and almost all of us know this in our heads, but how many of us take effort and apply this.

Once you start doing this, you’d learn and understand how profiles work and how girls choose a guy.

Do comment for doubts/agreement/disagreements and personal experiences for what worked and didn’t for you!