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TheMeagerOne/r/seduction30/01/13 04:32 PM
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Insightful, yo.
/r/seduction15/11/13 11:22 PM
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Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's having an attraction problem, though. It sounds like he's just trying too hard too fast, like a lot (most?) bros.
/r/seduction15/11/13 10:42 PM
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Here's my thing with starting off with a long, slow backrub: it's always gonna feel good. Doing specific sexy, makey outey stuff, you can do good, and you can do poorly. But nobody doesn't like a full body massage. Nobody's not aroused after a half an hour of rubbing and whispering and ear-kissing. Nobody. Unless you're just not into the other person at all, it's just not possible. And then, like you said, when the engine's going, it doesn't matter what you do, because it's all gonna feel great,…
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:46 PM
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The secret to sex is the same as the secret to cooking a frozen pizza: you gotta preheat the oven, son. That's why they're trying to kiss you long and slow. They're women: they need more time to warm up than us. So stop what you're doing and rethink it entirely. Put on some music. Split a bottle of wine and/or some light doobage. Get some (latex-friendly) massage oil (I like the stuff that warms when you blow on it, for extra teasing). Start with a backrub. Make it last half an hour. Don't just …
/r/seduction15/11/13 07:01 PM
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Make sure you're aloof, but keep negging. People are only creepy if they're looking for acceptance.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:24 AM
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Can I add something here? When you're doing FWB, you need to make sure you're not constantly fucking the same girl. A lot of FWBs morph into LTRs, so you have to make sure you're not leading her on.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:08 AM
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"*C) Wanting rapport with someone who didn't earn it: WHAT THE * IS THIS *??? I swear to god, almost *EVERY PUA I meet live in field does this *, and its SUPER LAME. Going up to a chick and saying "nice necklace" or "what's your name" or "where did you get that?" is *ING DORK SUPER LAME." How do you open your targets, then?
/r/seduction06/09/12 05:28 PM
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Before you start to really date somebody, let them know that you're really just sorta dating around right now (but make it clear that you're not just looking for sex, like they'll assume). Then, you can sort of de-escalate things after a couple dates if they don't seem like the kinda person you'd want to continue dating. Just remember, you've gotta make the call pretty early, within a few dates, or people start assuming you're into them.
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:42 AM
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Pickup's more about counter-manipulating than manipulating. Shutting down shit-tests, not being emotionally needy, demanding respect, being outcome-independent, and having inner-game... all these things you hear again and again: they're about seeing through and shutting down other humans' manipulative bullshit.
/r/seduction02/11/11 06:13 PM
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Forsure. And to add to that, make your conversation a test to see if she's good enough to date you. Don't be afraid to be critical.
/r/seduction06/09/11 12:13 AM
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A lot of people see pickup, or game, or social interaction or whatever you want to call it as a method to achieve something. And it can be, if the goal is a one-night-stand. If the goal is a long-term fuckbuddy or, god forbid, a full-blown monogamoose relationshoop, then you've got to develop the skills required to maintain your game. Here's where you are: you found a girl online, developed Oneitis, and now you think that because you have "a bunch in common" that you want to be in a relationship…
/r/seduction05/09/11 10:11 PM
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She's looking for a purely emotional relationship, and you're giving it to her. Solution: date IRL.
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:43 PM
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"Oh, these aren't circles. They're black eyes. Risky business, you know." "That's a good idea. I usually stay up 72, sleep 48. That's meth for you."
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:51 AM
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Good advice. If you DO get past the buzzed state, perhaps by accident, remember to -stop drinking alcohol -start drinking water -excuse yourself and blow the targets off for a minute (they'll usually just want you more) Decide whether you want to get play or get drunk before you go out.
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:26 AM
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Facts. Play it NBD. Also, don't get too drunk.
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:17 AM
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You're looking at this wrong. Sex precedes a relationship. So, if you're trying to start a relationship with her, start with sex, and, if you're not careful about keeping distance, her own biological drives will work the rest of it out for you. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:09 AM
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Text her this: "Movie. My place. Tonight. When can you be here?" Cuddle->backrub->neck kissing->kissing->making out->fucking. There's a lot of talk around here about "abundance mentality", and the reason is it makes your time and attention valuable. You're placing value on her time and attention, which you should do if you're shooting for the relationshoop, but you've also got to make her respect that you have desires and that you're going to act on those. Like a man. You can do this.
/r/seduction04/09/11 11:03 PM
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Arrange this with another woman you pick up. That way you can fuck the other woman, and you're not just playing games that will eventually be discovered.
/r/seduction04/09/11 10:52 PM
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So you... 1. met her a month ago 2. haven't fucked her The "alpha" thing to do in this scenario? Fuck her. The problem is not her, or that she's being shy, or that she's not interested. The problem is that you haven't fucked her yet and made your intentions clear. Clear things up: fuck her. What is problem?
/r/seduction04/09/11 10:49 PM
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