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What infections can be passed on through oral sex? The most commonly passed on infections are: Herpes Gonorrhoea Syphilis Infections less frequently passed on include: Chlamydia HIV Hepatitis A, B and C Genital warts Pubic lice It is not known how many people have been infected with HIV through oral sex, but it does happen. http://www.safe.wmids.nhs.uk/stay3.asp
/r/seduction27/05/13 05:08 AM
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I'm very taken with your writing. I immediately get the sense there's a good soul behind these stories. Looking forward to more
/r/seduction26/04/13 09:07 AM
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:( I haven't heard any hard rejections yet, just some long silences. Try try again!
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:47 AM
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Persistence is tres cool. On the other hand, screening is cool too... were you really that into this girl? If she's going to play so hard to get, she had better be worth the time you sacrificed, which could have been invested in other women. I hope it worked out, either way
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:32 AM
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Good points. I'm curious how we can relate to women attractively if we don't try to understand the way they think, in all their skewed and subjective diversity. Know thy enemy amirite
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:54 AM
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I'm hella glad you pointed us this way. The book [Sex at Dawn] claims, in the end, that there is a “natural” human sociosexual system. This is both an example of the naturalistic fallacy and, at the same time, a devaluing of what is (in my view) MOST extraordinary about human sexuality: its adaptability, plasticity, variety, and diversity. ALL human sexuality is “natural,” whether polyamorous, polygynous, polyandrous, monogamous, or anything else.
/r/seduction25/03/13 07:45 AM
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Very cool. (Might need to fix the link.)
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:52 AM
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You are one smooth criminal
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:06 AM
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Good points. The other night, however, I realized that indirect could sometimes make me smell like I have an agenda. The girl realizes what's up almost right away, and I sound phony if I pretend like I really just wanted directions. Gotta pivot quick. Getting blown off quick is a bad thing? I think it saves me time, and teaches me to lose the dirty little ego. This is something I don't like about Mystery Method: it seems to involve concealing intention as much as possible. Much healthier, I thin…
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:45 AM
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What a cool human being. Keep kicking ass and don't ever stop.
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:40 AM
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It would be cool if someone ventured onto /r/teaching for research about this. Some testing would be in order: compare posts with questions and those without. Another variable might be to put questions first rather than after the post.
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:37 AM
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Oops, I actually see the problem in a different light. It's not that men and women weight sex appeal and character appeal differently; in fact, I would argue that despite what the ads tell you, both genders value sex and character similarly. (I maintain this even despite self-reported surveys of mate preferences. People can be misled by their social conditioning when answering on a conscious level, but on the more important unconscious level, we're all the same kind of animal.) Our similar prefe…
/r/seduction22/03/13 03:32 AM
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re: the uneven playing field between men and women... It sounds like the difference between superficial (short-term) appeal and character (long-term) appeal. The former is intuitively obvious, while the latter requires fine detective skills. [I emphasize the dual problems faced by both sexes: attraction and screening.] Unfortunately, women are not offered the same motivation to become detectives, and this puts them at a serious disadvantage. So I agree: it seems unfair at first that men have to …
/r/seduction21/03/13 11:58 AM
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Way to be, bro. I love the points system, wonder if it goes past 9000. It sounds from your FR like you face the same Ego monster we all do. Practice, practice makes it vanish. Momentum? It's all in your mind. So what can you do to stay in a good mood? Various Seddit tricks include: speed-meditating when you realize you're falling out of state. Try labeling negative emotions and filing them away. focusing on at least one awesome thing. E.g. last night, I kept in my brain that happy couple taking …
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:56 AM
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I'm very curious how you arrived at this healthy mindset of yours. What sort of regular reading do you do? What influences would you own up to? Stay awesome, bro.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:53 AM
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Right. I'll add that you need to get her attention first in all things -- no use playing coy in the corner when she's too swamped with suitors to notice. Get awesome first, then put yourself on her radar, then worry later about mindgames.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:38 AM
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What a delightful surprise this post was. Thank you for bringing some psychological depth to my day.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:34 AM
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Nice save. I don't think you need to imitate his method precisely; I see these videos more broadly as testaments to direct openers and/or quick escalation. Sasha says, "Indirect is for douchebags", and it's often true for me anyway: I use something indirect and find myself trapped, chode-like, in a non-escalating interview. Better, I think, to make more efficient use of your time by pushing her to accept or reject quickly.
/r/seduction21/03/13 09:57 AM
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HELL FUCKN YEAH this was an adventure worthy of epic poetry and I salute you, brave hero. I loved all "the little things", the close attention to detail. Your dancefloor game seems spot-on. I wonder how you learned to dance. (God you're right about girls having the shittiest game.) But I'm torn by your winning example of sexual generosity. Lately, I've been hearing the best sex strategy is to completely ignore her pleasure for the sake of your own; which seems like sheer douchebaggery, made more…
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:22 PM
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Awesome, mate. I love it when you can just relax and go with her flow. This seems like an example of how more women might act if they weren't so culturally inhibited. In other words, they would act more like PUAs, going after what they want. Some day, in the utopia...
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:45 AM
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You're right that over-preparation can ruin charm; part of the trick is learning how to make it automatic. The best way is through precisely this kind of study and practice. If we continued going our merry way without a drop of "game theory", we would just continue being foreveralone chodes. For most of us here, "reacting naturally" is not working. You're right that it can come off as douchey at first, but hey, at least we're making some progress.
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:39 AM
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You're right about #-closes, they don't represent much achievement at all. And I agree that it would make the commenters' job easier if OP posted easy questions... but everyone stands to gain if the commenters put in that extra little bit of mental effort and framed their own responses. It's my job as the critical spectator to think and respond in ways the OP hasn't thought of, so if I don't have anything insightful to say, then I shouldn't be saying anything. Emotion won't help either. This is …
/r/seduction18/03/13 08:20 AM
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I don't think you need to introduce new challenges into your gaming re: no Mandarin. Use all the DHVs at your disposal, especially that one because it's sick. Yeah, you fuckin kill that AA! KILL IT Sounds like it was a good weekend. Good work bro
/r/seduction15/03/13 12:49 PM
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First night in two years? Bro-fist, bro. That really is awesome. Line by line: What techniques helped you get the Cambodian's number? Can you detail what you did to make her respond in certain ways (vs possible take-all-openers friendliness on her part)? And follow-up on the #-close, e.g. text a few hours later to keep her memory fresh? I wouldn't call chat with BASer "choding" unless you were deliberately neglecting to open nearby HBs. It's all right to take your time getting into state, being …
/r/seduction15/03/13 12:44 PM
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I hope the moderators consider using this crowd-sourced approach to upgrade the sidebar. Also good would be a weekly journal thread to discuss new additions. In a way, this would be a condensed, curated version of Seddit. The same goal might also be achieved by universal post tags and veteran user badges.
/r/seduction15/03/13 12:10 PM
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Don't forget, Seddit is like any city with 114000 inhabitants: you can't please everyone, but chances are you can please someone, especially when you've got something that would benefit our common goals. This group technique journal is a terrific idea because it would help us forget about the ugly sin that is the sidebar.
/r/seduction15/03/13 11:54 AM
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You don't seem to be in actual disagreement with puaAthens. He obviously understands calibration to be a necessary skill, one which takes lots and lots of practice... He wouldn't be suggesting 10-30 sets if he planned for all of them to go the same way. Your first line alone warned me that this would not be constructive criticism. Next time, try using a more diplomatic tone when you disagree. As in, try treating other Sedditors as actual human beings. You'll go farther in life.
/r/seduction15/03/13 11:49 AM
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You are very right. This is why Jim Carrey got his start doing impersonations, and most standup comics have a ready answer to who influenced them. Personally, my banter changed significantly after I started dating a girl with wicked humor. You can't help but talk differently after South Park/Family Guy/Arrested Development/Strangers with Candy/The Colbert Report have been injected into your brain.
/r/seduction15/03/13 11:36 AM
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Regardless of their gender, they are approaching beautiful strangers and trying to #-close, which involves many of the same skills as pickup. It might be even more difficult for these female lovehunters because they don't offer much value in the moment; just promises of future wealth.
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:41 AM
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Good suggestion re:sidebar. You're right, clubs are bad... for conversation, which means they're great for forcing you to use body language. There's no margin for indirect douchebaggery, so you either accept your dominant caveman role or go home. I especially enjoy Gambler's strategy. Most Sedditors advise against paying so early in a relationship since it sets an appeasing tone, but you be the judge whether it's a necessary step in the particular seduction. I recall Tyler Durden's story about a…
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:50 AM
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But let me know when you pass through Hong Kong, too.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:29 AM
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I'm with you. Seems like the mods are a bit overwhelmed with the flood of newbishness. Off the cuff: perhaps they should enlist more mods, or delegate work to trusted lieutenants.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:27 AM
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Well done. I especially liked the clear organization of your points. Formatting ftw
/r/seduction05/03/13 10:44 AM
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Sweet. This reminds me of Tyler Durden's RSD concept that attractiveness is not something you do, but something you are -- something that requires deep identity-level change.
/r/seduction05/03/13 10:41 AM
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Great self-analysis, and thanks for easily comprehensible formatting. Keep it up bro... and next time, try making more situations ridiculous. Don't just acquiesce to her sexual encouragements; take the ridiculous initiative and deliberately go for BUTTSEX IN PUBLIC something outside your comfort zone.
/r/seduction26/02/13 01:56 PM
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I would love to hear the answers, but it's a mighty big question. Good topic for an AMA perhaps.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:20 AM
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I hear you, fuck that bitch. I've found it never works to continue in a polite frame when they've already escalated the confrontation. Better for you to escalate even further so they know there won't be any such trifling THIS day. "Can I just leave? No. You can. We were in the middle of a conversation and you rudely interrupted. We're going to finish our conversation in exactly three minutes, at which time you can have her back. See ya later." -- paired with puntingbaxter's body repositioning, s…
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:50 AM
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True dat. This situation strikes me like a crowded classroom, and you're the teacher tasked with occupying everyone. What will poor ugly Sally do if she can't play with cute Jenny? Well... Sally, go play with wingman Billy instead. Sally, you are beautiful and you shouldn't hate yourself. Let's 3 of us have a nice chat so I can win you over. Sally, we're trying to have a conversation and you're interrupting. Please give us a minute and then you can have Jenny back. Sally, I can lend you Jenny fo…
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:45 AM
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I'm not sure I understand what you mean when you say there's "no correct answer". The question is how to approach the situation, and there are multiple correct answers. Any answer that doesn't end with me inside HB is incorrect.
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:37 AM
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For the purpose of p in her v, you are Don Juan. Don't surrender to her frame.
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:31 AM
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This makes me think about the ridiculous gap between our socially conditioned behavior and our natural behavior. There shouldn't be anything extraordinary about two humans acting on healthy instinct, and yet look at us PUAs: we have to dedicate so much time and energy just to get back to the way things used to be. OP, I liked the assertive alpha lines, the roleplaying, and the kino escalation. This FR could be even better if you emphasize these techniques more clearly for us students -- perhaps …
/r/seduction22/02/13 05:27 AM
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I've heard of the same study... I think the women even got wet without realizing it while looking at orangutan sex. And those were, like, ugly orangutans. Possibly it's a defense mechanism against rape. Another well done post, Eric. Please ignore the haters and carry on, I always enjoy hearing what you have to say.
/r/seduction20/02/13 12:56 PM
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I think your best bet is to find a nearby wingman. Immediate feedback ftw.
/r/seduction15/02/13 10:35 AM
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Can anyone recommend resources on salesmanship congruent to seduction?
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:58 AM
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Cool! I suspect we tend to fall into one camp or the other because that's the path of least resistance; takes less work to apply natural strengths than developing entirely new skills outside our comfort zone. Natural charmers charm, while PUA nerds break it down into programming language. But of course that's not enough to satisfy the complex humans we pursue, so we need to quickly get past the easy work where we're strong and concentrate on the genuinely difficult stuff where we stand to improv…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:16 AM
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Hella awesome FR. I look forward to more like it.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:38 PM
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Way to go, bro! I was worried you were gonna go raw hero at the last minute there.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:32 PM
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This is a great question. A lot of PUAs would probably think it irrelevant to their game, but a moral code affects how our community holds itself together and what we take away from all our sarging. Even if I'm distracting myself with HBs 7 nights a week, my pick-up artistry still needs a foundation built on all the ordinary hours of the day; so the everyday way we choose to live is pretty damn important no matter how you try to isolate a particular activity. I'll even argue that the most fundam…
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:36 PM
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I would compare this misdirection to what we do with techniques like disqualifiers. We draw attention to the overt declaration we're not interested, then the woman doesn't notice when we move closer and create intimacy and attraction. Or put it another way, we are directing the attention of the woman where we want it. Very cool. This is a nice reminder to put myself into her head as I'm crafting my illusion.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:04 PM
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I'm not following you on this one. Screen for the girls who go out with the explicit intention of getting laid? You cut down the pool of available HBs way too much. This commits a kind of causal fallacy where her past is the only possible guide to her future. Instead, offer her a completely new adventure. How about simply screening for chemistry? [Do her looks and attitude resonate with you on an appropriately dick-hardening frequency?] Then ignore her conscious beliefs and just aim to seduce he…
/r/seduction01/01/13 06:47 PM
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Know thy enemy. This is a good thing to keep in mind as they brush off my street openers; they might have had five douchey catcalls prior. Girls are in a very different headspace when in public. So my job is to draw them immediately into a reality both awesome and safe.
/r/seduction29/12/12 12:03 PM
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I'll look for you on the next business trip.
/r/seduction26/12/12 10:43 AM
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Agreed. OP, don't worry about PUA lingo in general-- at this point, it distracts from your post and interferes with your game when you're trying to conform to someone else's typology. Get some more freestyle field experience so that later the labels are just useful descriptors of what you did instead of memorized instructions.
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:35 AM
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"Well that guy did invite me to the bar, I guess I could go... but I was just at that bar... But if I go, it'll be like I like him or something..." You need to bounce them immediately. Don't give them room to ruminate and develop their own AA in response. Clearly state your intentions with "I'm going, and you're coming with me."
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:33 AM
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It's important to distinguish between being comfortable with yourself and being yourself. Identity is not a fixed thing, but an evolving agglomeration of thoughts and behaviors over time. "Your" identity changes depending on perspective, which includes factors like occupation and family and friends and activities and mood and hunger and fatigue. To say, "Just be yourself!!" doesn't make sense half a minute after you've said it. So the key takeaway from Bruce Lee is that your limits should be sel…
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:57 AM
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This post is a fine intro for how you actually established a FB relationship. A technical play-by-play breakdown would be more agreeable to Seddit's purpose.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:27 AM
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You need to reframe your mindset for real. Currently, it sounds like: "If only I look a certain way, women will bed me." It should be: "If only I develop myself in all possible capacities, I can lead a happy life which may include friends and accomplishments and women." Don't worry about the things you can't control. There are too many other things to worry about. edit: It's not an unusual feeling you're feeling. I consider myself a very outgoing person, but since I've just started in Hong Kong,…
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:44 AM
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You know the show Californication? That's based on the life of Charles Bukowski, a guy with cystic acne. Think about a guy like Russell Brand. This guy is not necessarily the best-looking, but he's got more charisma than most NBA power forwards. I don't get it either. But now think about the women you find attractive. They are not exclusively beautiful -- they're charming on a non-superficial level, and suddenly it makes them more interesting than a Brazilian model. I mean, I would fuck the shit…
/r/seduction17/12/12 01:44 PM
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This is why Plato recommends music AND gymnastic. Anima sana in corpore sano my friend.
/r/seduction16/12/12 12:30 AM
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"I love you." This doesn't mean that you gamed too hard; it means that she needed to convince herself it was okay. Asians (and girls generally) will deliberately up the emotional ante as a way to trick themselves out of LMR. [E.g. I've had more than one mainland Chinese girl go from Juliet to jaded in the span of one night.]
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:02 PM
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They're turquoise and work like fucking attention magnets, I think I should weaponize them. Yes.
/r/seduction11/12/12 04:24 AM
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I'm hesitant to offer advice because Seddit is about becoming the best version of yourself, and "fucking with people" is not conducive. With that in mind, let's take a look at your options going forward. Option 1 Usually when a Sedditor complains about flaking, the standard advice is to realize that [s]he's just not that into you. He would definitely be able to find the time if you were Monica Bellucci, right? Let yourself accept the fact that this person is not fulfilling your needs. In the fin…
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:37 PM
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It isn't just hetero men on Seddit: we've got every color of the rainbow here. The advice is fairly adaptable for every seduction scenario...except /r/Bestiality. There you're on your own.
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:24 PM
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I wonder if East and South Asians are more guarded with strangers in general. Since their cultures are much more family-oriented and less migratory, there's less random interaction outside of pre-approved forums. So even if you're an mPUA, they've got a mBitchShield. But conversely, their vulnerable if you win over their friends/family.
/r/seduction22/11/12 11:31 AM
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TIL some guys only need one leg to kick ass.
/r/seduction22/11/12 11:24 AM
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You had me at: fuck it I'm awesome Good work, brother. Down to nitty-gritty... However, I realize I've just been opened, so I strike back with "oh no my fault I shouldn't have had my leg so far out" confidentrisk is right: apologizing is what most people would do. Boring. You can use it as a chance to challenge her or take mock offense; anything out of the ordinary. Then again, I myself would have probably done the same as you if I weren't interested and didn't want to generate interest. Then ag…
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:10 AM
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This.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:49 AM
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Hmm, you have a point. I was questioning because she seemed to only be asking the eternal question "Does Mr. Right really exist???", which didn't seem to require a Seddit fix. It's a question that AskScience would be better prepared to answer. TofuTofu's and your replies about screening were definitely spot-on. That comes later. For her immediate concern about Prince Charming's scarcity, it suffices when TofuTofu simply notes the 0.1% statistic of high-quality men.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:26 AM
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Way to be, brother.
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:11 AM
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This post does might not belong in this sub. Perhaps you'll have better luck with /r/dating_advice or /r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:07 AM
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homeless wingman FTW I'd consider using the "stranger wingman" tactic in any locale.
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:05 AM
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You're right to point out the primary functional purpose re:lingo. I would caution against ignoring the implicit moral stance, however. The words and metaphors we use influence our understanding, even if unconsciously, which then influences how we treat others (c.f. George Lakoff). Best be careful lest every woman becomes an HB# and every man becomes a wingman/cockblock/AMOG. NLP is bullshit until you've got data backing up your claims. That means field-testing. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neur…
/r/seduction21/11/12 06:34 AM
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You're right on when you point out the scamming potential. But you've painted a monolithic villain when the "PUA" movement actually includes a whole range of methods and camps and philosophies, some of which can demonstrate legitimate successes. Seddit is one of them. Just read some of the top posts.
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:08 PM
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That's pretty weird that your results are so different from everyone else's. I wouldn't listen to chick friends, but I would conduct some of your own testing. Hypothesis: Seddit's text game causes flaking. Variable: Texts with Seddit lines like the flake preventer. Control: Texts without. Keep score of your results, and report back. Be sure to account for other variables like girl's age, technophobia, and initial level of rapport established.
/r/seduction20/11/12 05:55 PM
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No, I was a philosophy major and now I'm a paralegal. Law school maybe someday.
/r/seduction20/11/12 05:46 PM
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Here. The idea is to directly challenge her character, framing the date as a chance to prove her dependability.
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:00 PM
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If you're always getting flaked on, I don't think the problem lies with one tactic.
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:55 PM
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Same problem as the early Christians: a wider audience usually dilutes the community standards. True believers used to give up all their possessions and live together, and now it's just breaking a bit of bread/cherry once a week. Commenting on the problems you mentioned in specific... The "Impersonal FR" problem Most of the people who commented had read my previous FRs and were following my progress. A 90k community doesn't preclude this kind of relationship, it just demands I put more effort in…
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:53 PM
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Thanks for the historical context, brother. I wonder what kind of careers/hobbies have enabled you to write and teach so well. My reactions: Fuck yes: The whole point of the FR is to show in almost reproducible detail your hypothesis (i.e. your seconding of others material or you're original material), adjustments made, and how/why it succeeded. It does sound like the PUA community has moved from a rigorous scientific method to self-help handwaving. Perhaps a standardized FR format would help co…
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:38 AM
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I'm having a hard time understanding this comment. You seem to be saying that the seduction community overestimates itself, when actually it's usually just "low level tactical stuff." Then you say people need to get out and put it into practice more. I agree with the latter. But most who sincerely commit to PUA methods would disagree with the former assessment. It's not supposed to be a matter of a few technical tweaks here and there. It's supposed to be getting your ENTIRE SHIT in order. So it'…
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:08 AM
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I have you tagged "Captain Falcon" for delivering the awesome knees-to-the-face in those AFC threads. GOOD WORK
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:38 AM
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I'm proud of you today, brother. I loled at this: Perfect hand off. I was worried at this: It almost went beyond AMOGing to physical I hope you'd just get security next time. Wrestle a pig, you get covered in shit. I was surprised by this: So I answered her with my honest personal opinion which was a little longwinded to type out but also intellectual. Unless you know her beliefs, this honesty can backfire when you don't know how to frame them. See chazzington's recent post on religion. And keep…
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:24 AM
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You've got it exactly right: it's the facial features and the personalities that count, not the race. When people confuse the two, it might just possibly maybe lead to things like wage discrimination, segregation, and genocide.
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:22 AM
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I hate groping around for something to say. I used to be an English tutor for Japanese students, so I'd have to sustain conversations for 90 or 120 minutes sometimes. Here are some things I learned. Don't worry about occasional silences for the +10 to sexual tension. You can also exploit these times for kino, such as palmreading or eye color exams. But do have some backup topics to keep them from getting bored. These topics can be any silly thing that pops into your head, such as "So what's your…
/r/seduction20/11/12 08:10 AM
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Short-term tactic. Between the push and the pull, usually a few seconds, maybe a few minutes. A few hours makes you a schizophrenic. I don't mean this to be confused with outcome-independent non-neediness. Don't be constantly pulling, but don't be a pushy asshole either. Just be straightforward enough with your intentions so that even if you are pushing, it doesn't leave her confused; it just builds your dgaf mystery.
/r/seduction20/11/12 07:34 AM
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Because THERE IS NO RACE BUT THE HUMAN RACE. I won't speak for you personally, but most internet commenters who explicitly prefer certain races happen to fit the racist bill, even if unconsciously. Notice how they don't first say they prefer men who are clean, well-organized, confident, etc; the foremost qualifier is race. And by "race," I mean a loosely-defined stereotype made up of facial features, bone structure, and skin color. (This is not to be confused with ethnicity.) But perhaps the cas…
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:39 AM
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I just want to squritle all over your face Damn. This was a pleasantly surprising FR. I look forward to the next one, brother.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:26 PM
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The improvement mindset is kinda hard to shake, once you've begun. It takes over everything with or without my say-so.
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:26 PM
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I back this, with the added bonus that I'm preeetty sure there's no definitive metric proving that certain races are more well-endowed than others. Some are growers, others are showers. Watch enough porn and you can learn this, too.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:54 PM
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I don't think you'll like the answer.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:48 PM
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The AFCs suddenly stop lurking because this kind of topic hits home for them. HAHA true. Thank you for speaking sense in this thread. Hearing about race/height/ethnicity/eye color is like hearing "Wait what if she's actually hawt? Am I still allowed to talk to her?!?!" Guys, just open her. These sundry considerations, while statistically relevant, do not come into play while you are gaming. You're outcome-independent, remember?
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:44 PM
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"Reverse approach anxiety" sounds like another pseudo-scientific term used to dress up PUA techniques. Actually, it just sounds like those girls have what's known as "normal human nervousness around strangers." Especially if the stranger is a charming adventurer such as yourself, it can get intimidating. I wouldn't sweat it too much. On second thought, you could even use this to qualify targets. If they don't even have the gumption to just stand there while witty strangers engage them in witty c…
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:26 PM
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It's good to hear you're getting back into the game and ready to learn. There are opportunities to work on inner game right here: I feel I needed this way more than my friend did... my friend is shooting fish in a barrel. This does not yet sound like it's coming from a place of zen self-sufficiency, of outcome-independence. Whether or not your friend is an mPUA shouldn't matter. In fact, his lack of skill is just another chance for you to give value by teaching him. You'll gain far more pussy po…
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:19 PM
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Let me know if you hit Hong Kong! I have some recommendations for Shanghai as well.
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:07 PM
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I'm very impressed with this FR. If you really don't have much sarging experience, it doesn't show. A few points: You don't want to detract from your own authority by ceding status to others as matchmakers; it can seem like parents setting up your playdates for you. Therefore it might have been better to leave Claire out of it after basic introductions. Now given that Claire's already chatted with Redhead enough to steal your mystery, you can't really play it cool anymore ["I don't see any harm …
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:06 PM
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two more minutes in a cramped car would only introduce more hurdles than it'd solve so I decide to make a clean break. Smart thinking right there. Sharp FR too, keep it up brother.
/r/seduction19/11/12 03:41 PM
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Your goal was to wing for your friend. You failed as hard as possible, and you don't seem to recognize how far you went wrong. Even if you manage to score with Target, you've alienated others and stolen value without contributing much. You pinpoint your buddy's prime mistake as sitting in the wrong place: He sat behind Girl1 instead of the one he was supposed to be focusing on. Since his game wasn't 100% tight, it makes perfect sense you should step in and steal the scraps. Nah, don't worry abou…
/r/seduction19/11/12 12:00 PM
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Hell fucking yeah. That's the jedi way, brother.
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:10 AM
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Links: Part One Part Two
/r/seduction18/11/12 12:50 PM
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All theory and no game makes Jack a douchebag.
/r/seduction18/11/12 12:35 PM
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I'm curious about NLP. It kinda seems like pseudo-science; not much data backing it up. So what draws you to it?
/r/seduction18/11/12 12:27 PM
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I salute you, for both your quick-witted calibration and your informative style. Makes me wonder if you'll ever meet your match.
/r/seduction18/11/12 06:42 AM
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I wasn't going to dump her for an upgrade because that is what losers do. You. I like you.
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:46 AM
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Doot doo doo, let's see what's new on Seddit today... "approaching like a machine," huh? We'll see about that... Ok, 10 approaches, that's a solid mission right there... HOLY JESUS FUCK THIS IS A LONG ASS FR. edit: btw, how do you manage to remember all the details?
/r/seduction18/11/12 05:45 AM
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Fanfuckingtastic FR. So how do you introduce kink?
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:23 PM
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Is there more?!
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:03 PM
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I take "outcome-independent" as pseudo-scientific lingo that means you shouldn't sweat the stuff you can't control. So only put your thoughts where they can count. Similar to Stoic or Zen philosophy.
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:55 AM
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OP: Hey guys, your looks aren't the end-all, be-all. You can seize the reins of your own gaming destiny with the right amount of charisma. ForeverAlones: NO WE CAN'T SHUT UP
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:30 AM
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WHAT IS HAPPINESS, CALLICLES?!
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:08 AM
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Over-the-top joke followed by "So what's your name anyway?" E.g. Here's one stolen from ethical slut: Hey, you wanna hear a joke? You know what winks and fucks like a tiger? <wink> [This could work like a fear-then-relief sales tactic.]
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:56 AM
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This is what it's all about. Keep up the good fight, brother.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:47 AM
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My brother: Don't think you can -- know you can. It's perfectly all right to be flustered by their hotness, and that's something you can use to your advantage when you admit, "Listen, you're making me nervous because you look so good today. I just know I'll regret it if I don't ask, What are you doing after work?" Keep kicking ass, and never stop.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:37 AM
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Damned be the deceitfulness of the females. I have paper bags and I know how to use them.
/r/seduction15/11/12 02:11 PM
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Nope, method is not more different.
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:59 PM
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Should I just look to other bars to recalibrate, have some successes and recover my confidence before going back? No. Take that bull by the horns. They're in groups? Engage the group, then isolate. They've seen you before? Good, they'll be a tad more receptive. Even being in an unpopular frat can turn you into a badass if you're ready to defend your commitment sincerely. There's no reason that being a regular should necessarily increase AA. Instead, it provides you social proof and opportunities…
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:46 PM
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This post is not helpful to the community. Do some reading from the sidebar, get some practice, then come back once you have something more substantial to contribute. Other beginner questions can go in AskSeddit.
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:32 PM
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Great work, brother. Nicely written FR as well. I agree with backtothegame: less questions, more statements.
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:18 PM
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Wow, this is terrifically helpful. Wish I'd thought of this one last night: If she comments that it's cold out, instead of offering her your coat, share your coat.
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:40 PM
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