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PS isn’t California THE BEST?? Expensive and bad air, but the BEST consumer protections of any state in this country (Mass is a close 2nd), and it was sunny and 72 degrees almost every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:06 PM
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You’re not kidding, I’m almost 50 and reading your post reminded me of when I relocated to Southern California, and I was doing great things building my career, and I was living with friends, and when I finally decided to get my own place in a better neighborhood everyone was mad about it. And let me add that by moving out they don’t have to pay more, so it wasn’t about that, it was about me improving myself when they were not, and they weren’t even trying it’s not like they were failing at some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:05 PM
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My NVX actually said the words “It seems like you love me more now that I got a job.” I almost spit my coffee out. Duh, I don’t feel attracted to stunted teenagers in grown bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:10 AM
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I like your strategy because in order to give into the manipulation you would have to admit that you staged this elaborate lie and that, if nothing else, would keep you from falling for the tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:54 AM
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I had a lazy & abusive alcoholic, and he lived with me but I lived in my friend’s upstairs. She had a kid. When we broke up I couldn’t really get him out because he had nowhere to go. I had a couple jobs so I tried not to be home. But I told him he could not sleep in my room with me, which he got mad about because my friend had a kid so he couldn’t exactly lie around on the couch all morning. I stopped buying groceries and I just kept my food at the office and packed a “dinner” or ate out with o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:52 AM
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Nailed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:05 PM
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They think women don’t “demand exclusivity” from Chads? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:19 PM
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Wasn’t there an FDS episode awhile back that said men marry when they notice they’re going bald. Someone said “Go look at wedding photos and see how many full heads of hair you see.” QUEENS WERE RIGHT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:13 PM
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I don’t think the dad bods are sexy at all. My childhood best friend and I had a conversation about dad bods decades ago before dad bods were cool, we both decided we did not like them because of childhood trauma. That shape of man just reminded us of our dads’ alcoholic friends, which is a total turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:11 PM
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I dated a guy in our 20s who was losing his hair, and it was pretty bad because it was the kind of loss that started in the front and just went across the top. So his forehead was just huge. Sometime in our 30s he went and had a hair transplant and it made such a difference. But then he thought he was too hot for a girlfriend, and now that he’s 50 he’s decided he wants me to be his girlfriend because he seen what’s out there. No thank you. In these 30 years I have also seeing what’s out there, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:10 PM
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They look like shit and someone convinced them that they deserve someone to love them as they are. I mean, they do, but that person is their mom. They literally get mad you don’t want them when they’re gross, and if you somehow accept the gross, they judge you for being so pathetic that you’ll accept their grossness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:09 PM
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I hope she finds it after he dies. It will help her in the grieving process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:46 PM
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Ugh YES, my NVX tried to tell me I was “controlling” because I told him if he wanted to sell drugs he needed to fuck off because I will not associate with a drug dealer. I also told him if he was going to keep hanging out with one particular druggie, where he would spend his whole monthly income in one weekend, he had to move out. I was controlling because I didn’t want to have to pay for everything all month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:41 PM
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Wouldn’t it be that Charlotte is way out of his league since she was the one who married down? I always thought “out of her league” meant too good for her. Have I been saying it wrong my whole life? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:29 PM
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Hilarious he assumes the sister would be into it. The woman seems to think her sister would not. This man is so disgusting I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:57 PM
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Why does he feel entitled to her WHOLE savings? He assumes she wouldn’t have saved any if she had been paying her own way the way he thought she should. Weird assumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah I would rather have them break up with me than just turn into assholes until I break up with them. But definitely good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:48 PM
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I was infrequently messaging some dude on social media a few states away because he was interesting at first but then it was all bird seed and love bombing bullshit which was so out of place, but anyway, I stopped replying because I have no answer for “hey” and that’s what he was sending, but he could probably tell I was on. Then I wasn’t on for a day or something because it’s social media not my job. Anyway, the next day I found the biggest drama message about how he would drive to my house to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:27 PM
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I recently realized I have a female acquaintance Who really enjoys the monologues. I used to think it only happened when she was drunk so I just would avoid her if she was drinking, but the past couple times I’ve seen her she just talks at me until I say I have to go. It’s so bizarre, and off-topic except that now I avoid her because of the monologues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:19 PM
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I don’t know if it’s true because I’ve never looked at that site, but I’ve heard that you can give referral codes to people and then you make a portion of what they make, which is MLM. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:15 PM
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I used to think doing the 50-50 thing was a good idea until FDS, now I never will do that again. But I have CFS, so a real date takes a lot out of me, if I’m not sure I actually want to hang out with the guy more a coffee date isn’t a bad idea. That way I’m not crashing myself for the whole entire day after for someone that might not be worth it. But I am working with a chronic illness I would not advise this for anyone who has a regular amount of energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:10 PM
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They automatically assume she’s a loser if she’s willing to hang out with a loser like them. They don’t see it as a good thing, they see it as a deficit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:27 PM
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Up here in New England they like to live with/off the passive low self esteem mothers while they spend what little money they have on sex workers. So the #picked are cleaning and wiping kids butts while someone else spends his $ and sends him home broke and tired. It’s not winning sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:00 PM
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And it’s great because when one of my friends wants to ask me what I think about this guy who didn’t do this or that and I say “If he wanted to he would”, they know, and then they stop obsessing about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:46 PM
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Fantastic. All of it. And these fuckin scrotes act like it’s just because they’re not 6 feet tall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:42 PM
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I needed something new to watch, thank you! It’s free on Tubi TV app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:15 AM
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I am so impressed with you. This is some Queen shit right here. As I was reading I was so excited for you, and for you to be able to do that when he sitting there crying about it, I’m just so impressed with you. The universe WILL reward you for your good choices and your strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:35 PM
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It just shows how vapid they are. His own imagination wouldn’t even work for him? Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:33 PM
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Yep it gave them THE AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:36 PM
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Prostitutes are treated better by these scrotes because at least they pay for their time and honor appointments they book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:50 PM
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I loved this episode so much. Y’all laughing so hard at the end telling stories had me in tears. And THANK YOU for what you said about making sure you have travel arrangements you control- years ago a pilot I dated years before wanted to fly me from my home in California to wherever the fuck he was stuck for a couple days. I declined because I didn’t have money to spend and I was not comfortable going there when I couldn’t even order my own Uber if I needed one. After I declined and he was pissy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:24 PM
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This is the BEST ADVICE. Don’t show your hand ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:00 PM
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Does you mom realize someone could have drugged coworkers drink? Some of those drugs make people appear drunk even if they don’t drink much. Does she believe homeless women deserve to get raped for sleeping outide out in the open? I am sorry that’s such a gross attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:09 AM
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And the audacity to think you would be home alone. But you left him because you cheated. Make it make sense . . . I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:30 PM
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I dated a man who “retired” at 30 because he had a million dollars in the bank. He refused to spend it, which is how he ended up divorced before I met him. He wouldn’t let her buy a Christmas tree even though Christmas was her favorite time of year, so she got a job so she could buy her own damn tree, she met a man at work, and had a baby with him. Anyway, when I met him he continued to be weird cheap, like he would take me to dinner a lot, but he wouldn’t buy headlight bulbs for the vehicle he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah I am really confused about why she couldn’t sleep in the BEDROOM while he stays up in the LIVING ROOM, like where people do stuff when they’re awake. I had a NVM who would sleep in my room until 3 pm every day and it was problematic when I wanted to clean or do anything in there, but mostly I could work around it. Except that I worked in the afternoon and a toddler slept downstairs so I couldn’t vacuum the rug when I got home at night. He would act like I gave him a list of orders if I aske…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:40 PM
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Jesus how abusive, he would physically make you sit upright on the couch? WTF??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:36 PM
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You nailed it! I got cheated on once by a man I moved across the country to be with. When I found out and I was packing to move I was bitching and I said something like I can’t believe this is happening again. And by “again” I meant I moved in with some dumb ass and then pretty instantly saw my mistake and moved out, not that I had been cheated on again, but he JUMPED on it. “What do you mean again? You were cheated on?” And he seemed excited, like if I had been that absolves him of his sins or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:05 PM
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OLD profiles that mention drama get the X instantly. I assume they either gaslight women and make them crazy, then call it drama. Or they consider any show of emotion drama. I growled at my phone one day before getting up to get an envelope to mail whatever I wanted to submit on line that wasn’t working. I got a whole mansplaining lecture about how if it doesn’t work I can just mail it, no need to growl. AS I WAS ADDRESSING THE ENVELOPE. So duh, that’s what I am doing, but I can be annoyed about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:36 PM
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I worked in the same office as a super successful older male attorney and he actually thought that E Harmony did background checks. 😂😂😂 We had to tell him they absolutely do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:35 PM
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And can we talk about “Nice Guy” Mike who thought Ximena should just accept his filth and grossness because “I’m better than a hit man.” NO NO NO LITTLE PIGGY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:26 PM
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I AM SO HAPPY SOMEONE HERE WATCHES 90 DAY PARADE OF LVM!! I don’t believe the x sent the photos to Jasmine’s boss. She says she didn’t, why would she? She wasn’t “out to get” Jasmine, she seemed to be sincerely trying to tell her that man is a scum bag. I assumed he was playing games gaslighting when she was flipping out about wall colors and she said “You always make me look crazy.” And she KNEW, like women just know, that he was being sketchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:21 PM
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OMG I didn’t even think about 5’9” 119 lb stick figure. It also took me way too long to understand the poosy flap thing. Poor little boy doesn’t know some men really enjoy seeing “camel toe” (I don’t get it-I have thrown away a couple pairs of leggings because the gusset looks like lips after a few washings.) This dude wants an actual plastic barbie doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:58 PM
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One of my older friends had 6 kids and her last one is 40 she will be taking care of him until she dies because he has serious mental illness. She can’t enjoy her retirement because he’s like a grown toddler and her biggest worry in the world is what will happen to him when she dies. She always told me “You never know what you’re going to get.” Her boyfriend at the time had a toddler who kept getting kicked out of daycare for being violent. The dad never took the day off to stay home with him & …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:28 AM
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I would have been worried about being stuck in a car with an angry man, but you did everything right and I enjoyed reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:54 AM
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That in the sunk cost fallacy. My best friend was in a terribly terribly abusive relationship with a man she had two kids with, and she went into the relationship with one. She wanted to leave him, but she had already devoted years of her life to the relationship and didn’t want to start over. She finally did and she’s never been happier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:47 PM
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“men are visual creatures” is such bullshit if they are unbothered by overflowing trash cans, sinks of dirty dishes, and clothes on the floor. How do you reconcile “visual creature” with creatures who need to be told filth is visually offensive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:46 PM
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Do you remember when a whole bunch of people got legionnaires disease in the grotto of his mansion during one of those $1000 a ticket parties? 🤢 I don’t think they sold any tickets to any mansion parties after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:27 PM
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I’ve been to her crypt. I am sad this pig is next to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:25 PM
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Yeah my last boyfriend wasn’t allowed to sell drugs if he wanted to stay with me, and he was convinced my “controlling rules” were holding him back from success in life. So I kicked him out. He’s still homeless years later. I guess it wasn’t me who was preventing him from thriving. Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:40 PM
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I don’t even know what to comment here, I was just telling someone the other day about how I dated a 31 year old when I was 15, so I don’t think my puberty experience was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:11 PM
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I bet one chick made a half joke about it & when he went and sold his car for it she ran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:16 PM
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Oh absolutely I am fine alone, I wouldn’t invite someone into my life who doesn’t add value. I used to try to settle because I needed someone to split the rent (disabled in an accident yrs ago-disability payments aren’t huge) but now that I can handle rent myself they have to be worth the trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:49 PM
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My ex talked for years about how he was going to get his life together, but he was obviously LV in all aspects, I fell for it because he had his life together at one point & it fell apart, so it made sense to me that he would get his life together again. He didn’t. It took me a year to pay off the credit cards I ran up trying to keep us going while he worked towards working. 3 years after I finally got him out of my house & he’s still literally homeless. His family got him a hotel room for a nig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:26 PM
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He must have an Only Fans. Why else would one ask how you feel about it then volunteer that he DOESN’T have one? Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:24 PM
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I blocked and deleted a guy for doing this. I told him it was inappropriate & pointless because I didn’t have notifications on for that app & if I did I would have blocked him for it. Then he did it again. Bye boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:14 AM
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In the past year two of my friends have gone to have their rings appraised, because they still have them even though they didn’t marry the scrotes, and both situations the rings are worth so much less than the men claimed. And these guys didn’t get ripped off by the ring dealer, they knew what they were buying. A ring doesn’t mean much. Sometimes they use it to accomplish a goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:31 PM
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I think this is why my dad used to get SO MAD when my mom would just “drive around wasting gas”. Lol, it was the 70s and she would make him step up by leaving the house. It worked while they were together. He had to change the diaper if she was gone and he didn’t know when she would be back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:26 PM
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If he’s good I would rather a repeat hook up with good dick than a new one who might now be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:01 PM
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They don’t know it though they’re super delusional. All the fuck bois from my 20s are still living in the same zip code we went to school in, they all look like they’re in their 3rd trimester, and they still think they’re the hot motorcycle boys they were when we were 20. It’s hilarious to watch them hit on hot women who don’t know they’re supposed to be the cool kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:00 PM
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Exactly. I don’t understand why this is upsetting to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah this is FUCKED UP. And does he realize all the women he “ravaged” were also a daughter to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:55 PM
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Oh it’s about earnings? What’s the question then? Obviously two incomes are better than one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:00 PM
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I think women do a lot better staying single than men do. Men benefit from marriage far more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:59 PM
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Maybe people actually go out and adopt kids now. The pro lifers piss me off so much they were so many children that already exist that need parents. And as a person who was raised by a parent who didn’t want to parent, Nobody wins in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:33 PM
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It’s funny, I am child free, my best friend is not. I made a comment about overpopulation and she told me that some populations are actually diminishing, I think China was an example to where they’re not reproducing at a rate that will sustain them. I thought it was wonderful she thought it was awful. There are too many people on this planet already. Well maybe not anymore. Covid may and fixed that. I just thought it was interesting that the breeders say this is a terrible thing, but us child fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:31 PM
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Society wouldn’t survive 10 years of Covid. I don’t give a shit about the marriage rate or the birth rate, I’m really worried about the fact that we have Abused and destroyed the teachers and the medical providers in the past two years. They’re fleeing their professions in droves and I don’t blame them. I don’t know if you guys remember but after 9/11 the insurance companies had to pay out a ton of claims for life insurance and property claims etc. I was living in the capital city of the state I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:28 PM
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I love that show. It shows perfect examples of low value men and pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:04 AM
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Exactly, you kind of skip over the fun parts of a new relationship. And you can’t go backwards. Once you’re already having sex and sharing breakfast, you’re not going back to the courtship stage. And when things are hard, what cute sweet memories do you have to hold onto when it was all just sex in the beginning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:31 PM
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Oh I absolutely agree. Sis, he’s desperate and probably a hobosexual, and you took him in and he made you think you won a price. He was looking for something and you offered it up on a silver platter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:29 PM
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Exactly, college boys are dating high school girls who probably aren’t having sex as often as the college girls who are dating men who are 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:22 PM
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Who complains about being single? With women, if we’re single it’s because we choose to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:19 PM
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5?? I am a woman but you’re a Los Angeles 7, no way you’re a 5 anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:10 PM
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No, Feminism is the struggle to end sexist oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:02 PM
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Right, the couple of guys I liked enough to consider approaching I met at work, while working, so nah I didn’t want to sexually harass anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:55 PM
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They don’t like it, and it leads to no respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:54 PM
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I care more if they’ve ever been checked for STIs no matter what their count is. I am in my late 40s though. In high school and early 20 “slutty” was a thing that mattered but when we all grew up nobody cared about that dumb stuff. I just care that you won’t give me an STI because you don’t understand what asymptotic means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:49 PM
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Depends. I don’t like it when it feels like they’re reaching for me to say “oh no, you’re not _____!” but if it’s something I am thinking but would never say & he says it I don’t mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:47 PM
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“Neck beards” don’t appear safe. Be yourself and the right girl will be attracted to you. If you create a persona and she likes you as that, how would that even work long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:37 PM
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So wait, you think if prostitution was legal your wife would be ok with you going to a brothel? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:39 PM
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They either resent an independent woman because they feel like they have nothing to offer us, Or they want to use us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:03 PM
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It’s so bizarre it’s like one extreme or the other. A loved one passed away recently, And one dude, a mutual friend, was blowing up my phone all the time. I pretty much ignored it, but another guy who’s just been trying to hook up with me was texting me and I mentioned the death and he was literally like “oh I’m sorry for your loss so do you want to swallow my cum?” GTFOH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:01 PM
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When I finally kicked my last boyfriend out, he told me I had big teeth and I was abusive because I shut the coffee pot off before he was done drinking it. It automatically turns itself off after an hour, so I guess my coffee pot is abusive. My point is, is you’re exactly right, the “why” doesn’t matter. It’s usually a deranged reason anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:27 PM
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Idk I would suspect there’s less chance she’ll stray she’s seen what’s out there and she won’t wonder if she’s missing something. If you get with a woman who has only been with one other person in her life, she may want to explore her sexuality. But she’s open and honest and those are GOOD qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:30 PM
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Be the best version of you so you find the girls who want YOU. If you try to morph yourself in to some kind of type you’ll attract girls who want something you are not. You don’t want that.
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:07 PM
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