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Yeah. Met a girl off tinder, she turned out to be a satanist, juggalo, and a camgirl on chaturbate living with a sugar daddy. She did this weird push-pull thing where when I made a move she'd reject me but when I ignored her she would beg for attention. Not in the subtle way that females tend to do but in a very overt fashion. Did manage to get her shirt off and she had probably the second best rack I have ever come across. Super hot but even crazier. She then admitted to having both multiple pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 11:40 AM
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For an average man? Sure, if you want an obese single mother of two who's looking for a new supporter and daddy for the kids. Online dating has always been catered to the top 10%. They're the ones who get the hottest women. It used to be a little more balanced, but it's so saturated now that it really isn't worth it for the average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:43 PM
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I'm an extrovert who prefers extroverted women for casual sex and introverted women for relationships. Introverted women tend to be more shy and don't go out as much, so the risk of infidelity is much lower based on my observations. However, they're also much harder to come across for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:22 AM
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I'm barely out of adolescence myself, but my preferences have remained mostly the same, aside from me liking girls with short hair more now than a few years ago. Check back with me in ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 12:35 AM
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I have decent success on tinder, with probably 17-18 lays from it in the last two years, and women say I'm around the top 10% of dudes they see on there, but my answer is still NO. It gives a false perception of your SMV through pictures and a short bio. As a man, you won't see much success unless you're the top 10% (and even the gap between top 10% and top 1% is substantial, almost depressing). Women will judge your profile in half a second and swipe left 9 times out of 10. It reduces a man's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:33 PM
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Yes. No man deserves to be roped into supporting a child that's not his.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:07 PM
2

Yeah, my ex's mom did it to her father. My ex was the result. They're still together and actually got married. Shitty of her, but I guess now I know my ex's crazy runs in the family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 02:16 AM
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I was 18. I would prefer to have lost it earlier in an LTR. Maybe I wouldn't have turned into a raging man slut during college. Yes, I've slept with a lot of women and I'm satisfied with the number. If anything I'd be fine if it was lower. No, it didn't really affect my confidence with women. I slept with a very average girl who had wanted to bang me for months, just to get what I knew would be an awkward first experience out of the way. The confidence was already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 11:53 AM
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Take it for what it's worth, but I've known women who often lie about their n-count and believe the guy shouldn't know. That's just one example of course, and I can't speak for the others listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 03:25 AM
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Doesn't matter if you look like you DGAF on the outside. Plus, getting laid fairly often makes you actually give less of a fuck and suddenly the attitude women love is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 03:12 AM
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We're all gonna make it brah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:41 AM
1

Dude, nonresponders ARE the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:41 AM
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This. They should enjoy a little variety and not put the white girl on a pedestal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:52 PM
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I went from scrawny to muscular. It definitely does help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:51 PM
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Girls in my league tend to be, in my eyes, pretty attractive but not insanely so. Only occasionally have I fucked or been sexual at all with 8's and 9's. I'm satisfied with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:37 PM
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I'm a dude. Height doesn't matter to me unless it's a very extreme outlier. Like literal dwarf or insanely tall. My ideal is between 4'10" and 5'3" but it's more like icing on the cake than a requirement. Concerns about my height (I'm 5'8") have come up before, but usually with the type of entitled girl I'd never want to date anyway. I almost hooked up with a girl who's 6'2" back in high school, but I backed out last minute because I was a nervous virgin lmao. My main "plate" currently is 5'10".…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:22 PM
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True. After reading more of this guy's comments it seems his low confidence is what's killing his game. I know a short chubby white trash dude who slays so I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:17 PM
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Lower your standards to something realistic if you've truly tried it all. You can get laid but not by models and maybe not even average girls depending on if you truly are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:02 AM
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If you average it, yes. But not really. I had dry periods and spurts of lots of sex. I had four partners from 2014 through 2015. I had 14 in roughly the first half of 2016. Had a LTR for the second half. Four more since January of this year, two of those being in the last week. That's counting only PIV sex, not oral. That number is probably a little over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:52 AM
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I'm at 23. Most of those were in the last two years. I'm a 20 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:33 PM
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Not that I'm necessarily proud of it but I can handle crazy pretty well now. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:54 AM
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Edited for anonymity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:41 AM
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This weekend so far has reminded me why TRP doesn't trust women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:52 PM
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That's a good point. Obesity status is obviously tied highly to race and socioeconomic status, so we still don't get as clear of a picture as we'd like. Based on what I see in my daily life, most young white guys are skinnyfat to kinda chubby, so that's really the best I can offer that's not based on public health data.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:40 PM
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Yeah I don't really see the point of crying over it anyway. Even if a "traditional" marriage system under a patriarchal society guarantees most men a wife, there's really no going back to that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:36 PM
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My mistake, you asked for young men specifically. The most up-to-date data I found puts the average man age 20-29 (most specific age range that qualifies as "young") at 69 inches and 176 lbs. That's the lower end of the overweight range.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:30 PM
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This is what the average American male looks like based on CDC data.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:55 PM
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With 5 being dead average? These women are basically all model tier or actual models.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:52 PM
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I guess to point out the hypocrisy of feminists talking about how bad women have it. It's true that society cares less about the lives and well-being of men overall. While you can't change biology, you can change the fact that men don't have exclusive homeless shelters, or that they're always the last to be saved in an emergency, or that they always work the riskiest jobs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:51 PM
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I mentioned in an earlier thread I have a "pretty boy" face. I've never been called that in an insulting context and women find me attractive, so I'd say it's generally not bad unless women say someone is "too much" of a pretty boy, usually indicating a lack of masculine features or putting far too much effort into appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:03 PM
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Even biologically, men are disposable. They're more prone to abnormal gene expression which could be either good or bad. For example men are more likely to be geniuses but also more likely to be autistic. I think it has something to do with the X chromosome. Any abnormalities in the X chromosome can be covered up be the other X in women but are always expressed in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 04:11 PM
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Man you've got some weird ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:58 PM
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His answer would probably not clear anything up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:58 PM
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Frat boys yeah. But who cares. No use giving a shit about it. Athletes, well, they're in top physical shape and draw crowds to their games. They certainly deserve that status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:10 PM
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I've known/heard of maybe one non-celeb person who's fucked anywhere close to 100 women. Over 10-15 is considered high for most young people. Chads who rack up insane numbers are usually super attractive frat boys or athletes who take advantage of the college lifestyle and have a high social standing in that community. Status usually does the work for them and they'll have no shortage of drunk sorority sluts to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 02:08 PM
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An average man? Lol, he has no chance. These women are all 8's/9's (or 10's if Asians are your preference). Even most above average guys would have a slim chance unless they were rich or supermodel status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:57 PM
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Pretty high if he goes for an attention-starved fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 02:34 AM
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7-7.5, would be higher if I was taller (I'm 5'8"). I don't know any celebrities I look like, but I have a sort of "prettyboy" appearance because of my young looking face. I'm well-built, as I've been lifting for 5 years. Hairstyle is a kind of like a medium length quiff. Clothing is simple. Fitted tee or v-neck, jeans or khaki shorts, and chuck taylors. No. When in the late stages of bulking I am medically overweight, but I still have a six pack. 20 casual sex partners. 4 romantic relationships,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:54 PM
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This right here. Enough practice and it'll become "authentic" and no one will question it. Old friends know I used to be socially retarded with women, and I say I just "figured it out" when of course I had some help from the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 12:44 PM
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There are lots of skinny "shredded" guys with abs who don't exercise out there. But they're just that, skinny. No actual muscle mass to speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 12:40 PM
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Absolutely fucking not. I've done it because of convenience and to end a dry spell before, but I regretted it and wished I just hadn't had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 02:38 PM
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You sound angry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 11:17 PM
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Hating homosexuals has nothing to do with masculinity. It just makes you an asshole. Plus, I don't know any male in my age group who actually hates homosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 10:52 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:21 PM
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I know. I have a narrow bone structure. But I create the illusion of width through well-built delts and lats, and a small waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:53 PM
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So improve the things you can and land one of the other 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:51 PM
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That last point is part of why lifting is so important for shorter guys. Build wider shoulders and back, then lean out to narrow the waist, to get the tapered appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:46 PM
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Don't worry, it's definitely possible. A family friend of mine is 5'5"-ish and is married to a smoking hot 5'11" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:40 PM
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I did acknowledge that height is often a big factor. I just wanted to remind people that it's definitely not always a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:38 PM
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Often, not always. I'm 5'8" and have had girls as tall as 6'2" down to fuck. This is sort of a thing for everyone. We all favor certain facial characteristics in the opposite sex. Women mimic it through makeup. Meh. Most women don't care if the guy turns them on otherwise. Sex is highly psychological for women, but yes some have larger vaginas and require larger penises to provide lots of stimulation. White men are preferred, yes. White women are preferred by most men too, however. My physique g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:36 AM
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It can happen to anyone, is isn't necessarily related to lack of attractiveness. I know women who look fairly plain that many people consider unattractive and below my league, but there's something about them that I'm very attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:09 AM
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Average men could be looked at like that by women less attractive than themselves who don't typically get attention from more attractive guys. It isn't necessarily alien, it just isn't coming from the women they want it to come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 05:20 PM
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Well thank you. It's more developed than his, but definitely doesn't look like the chest of someone who benches three plates lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:43 AM
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Last fall, so nearly five years into lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:26 AM
2

This. If I had known better I'd have learned a trade instead of wasting my time at university and getting into massive debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:32 AM
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Your reasoning is pretty sound. Guys with lots of money and weird kinks would have it way easier using an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 11:01 PM
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I'm sure someone probably could dig up some data, but it really is common sense. Assuming the person isn't a cheating shitbag, the only thing that would make them go to an escort would be lack of access to sex otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 10:01 PM
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He's sex addicted or a shitbag. Or both. Sex workers are not used only when men are desperate, but they are most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 09:39 PM
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Some dudes just have shit chest genetics, especially those with good arms. My bench was 315 during my last bulk, I hammered my pecs with volume and my chest is still relatively small.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 08:11 PM
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A lot. My face is above average and everything else aside from height is in my control. Physique, hair, dress, skin, teeth, etc. Same goes for everyone, even the less genetically gifted. You can max out everything within your control and usually land at least somewhat attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:38 PM
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Confidence/self esteem matters more than people say, but not for the reasons you'd think. Low self esteem will cause problems in LTRs. My ex dumped me because she was having dreams about a shitbag who treated her horribly, harassed her, threatened her, etc. and even though I'm more attractive than him and she pedestalized me pretty hard, her history of abusive relationships combined with low self esteem made her feel as though she didn't deserve to be with me and that our relationship wasn't nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:08 PM
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Met a tinder girl at her apartment. Maybe ten minutes between me walking in the door and us having sex. My last SO, it was a couple of weeks due to certain constraints at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:29 AM
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I'm not ugly, but I was in my early-mid teens. And believe me there is a huge difference in how women treated me then versus now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 04:11 AM
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After finding TRP and growing tired of the frequent circlejerking, I looked to see if there was a purple pill subreddit. There is, but it's too dead. This popped up in the search too and I stuck around. Nothing really matches up. You get both of the two extremes, everything in between, and those don't who associate with anything on the spectrum, offering their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:47 PM
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Am Chad in training. AMA Seriously though, who came up with the name "Chad" for TRP's infamous archetype? It's perfect, I can't think of a douchier name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:14 AM
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Been there. Last gf was 5'1" 105 lbs and I'm a big guy. We could have sex once, maybe twice in a night before she got too swollen and sore to keep going. It ain't all sunshine and rainbows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 12:59 PM
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Lots of BPers don't get this. TRP is a tool and not necessarily an end-all be-all belief system to be followed to a T. You take what's useful to you and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 12:57 PM
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Lol, as if I'm gonna drop $50+ on those. I gain an inch in my dress shoes, and that's enough for me. Not that my height causes me issues anyway... I'm good-looking and muscular.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:39 PM
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Sexual attractiveness no. But there's a certain aesthetic appeal to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:55 AM
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Yeah, and I really have no opinion or insight. I just find it odd lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:37 AM
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I see some weird questions here but this one really takes the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:27 AM
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Rekt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:27 AM
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Gotta disagree with one point. I'm 5'8" and only ever encounter issues if a woman is taller than me. I don't list my height on my bio but if pressed for it (rarely am), I tell them, and return the question. If they're taller than 5'3" I tell them they're "not my ideal height but I'm willing to forgive it". Works pretty decently.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 02:32 PM
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That's textbook borderline personality disorder. Glad you got away from that one before she ruined your life.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 10:22 PM
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Yup. The ones who act like cunts then complain that no man is strong enough to handle them are not worth the headache. They're usually pretty unstable.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:37 PM
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I could go down to 17 (legal in my state anyway), but I'm only 20 right now so it's hardly a gap. I'd probably still fuck down to 18 if I was older, but not date. The maturity just isn't there. As far as upper limits go, I could go up into the 30's if she's hot. Hard to find a hot 40+ year old though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:40 AM
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Can confirm, am 7'11" and women don't even look at me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:17 PM
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Didn't have a mentor, as I didn't have a father. I guess everyone else just assumed I'd figure it out so no one else bothered to teach me anything. Holy shit, it was rough until I discovered PUA and used elements of it to change my perspective and improve my game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:56 PM
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Bro what the fuck. Just leave her. Cheating is scummy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:49 PM
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Lol. This is more judgmental and generalizing than half the shit I read on TRP. Come on, do better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:37 PM
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Funny part is, none of the women knew I had a gf before hitting me up. I hadn't spoken to them in months. It's some weird sixth sense shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:19 AM
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Lol. It happens. Most notably, a decently cute girl at my school sat next to me at dinner one night, and I was friendly but not necessarily flirtatious (though my personality naturally comes across as such) and gave her a fraction of the attention I gave my friends who were at the table. Most physical contact was a friendly side hug when she showed up and a touch on the arm when I emphasized a certain point in the convo. She opened her phone and slid it over to me with the new contacts screen op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:48 AM
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Women flirt with me fairly often through text. Not quite so often now, but when I was in a relationship I was having girls ask to hook up often which was pretty annoying. Just wanted to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:38 AM
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I love both of those comedians and largely for what you mentioned. Their nonverbals just add to their humor. I can't explain it but I know what you're talking about. What are you getting at with that question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 11:56 PM
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Can't answer everything, but: Coolness has lots of definitions but generally a "cool" person has high social standing and is likable. Being physically attractive helps one seem/be cooler because of the halo effect. People like attractive people. Being high in social standing makes one more likable and attractive overall, and people are more likely to laugh at someone who is attractive. Some people say that women don't find funny men attractive, they find attractive men funny. While this isn't 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 11:36 PM
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I was in the JROTC program, so I got to know lots of people through it. I started talking to everyone, and joined the exhibition drill team which is practically worshipped there. I looked more mature with a high and tight instead of a long skater hairdo. It's more respectable. The same goes for a well-built physique. By senior year I had gained 20 pounds since I started lifting. I was still small but high schoolers thought I was big. Guys respected me, and girls gawked at me. Body language chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 08:23 PM
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Oh my, where do I even start. I started freshman year a 4'11" nice guy who hadn't had any female affection since first grade. Severely self-conscious, self-hating, depressed, bullied. Middle school through sophomore year were the worst years of my life. So scared of rejection that when I asked out a crush my freshman year I couldn't even look her in the face and had to write a note like some fifth grade bullshit. I would post depressed Facebook statuses because I just wanted someone to listen to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:31 PM
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Very well put
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 02:49 PM
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That link is staying blue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 02:39 PM
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What the fuck, that's a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 02:15 PM
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Nah. Sure there's lots of negativity and such, but it doesn't promote violence or anything. The moment you ban something with harsh wording and unpopular opinions on the basis of "hate speech" is the moment PC culture goes too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 02:06 PM
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No real reply so I'll answer. Most people get a huge chunk of their calories from carbs. Dropping them causes lots of nearly immediate water loss and cuts that huge amount of calories from one's diet, making it easy for weight loss. I personally wouldn't recommend it, as the brain fog and sluggishness from low carbs are shitty and make my workouts suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 04:52 AM
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Nah, not a cult, unless they've been going a different direction in recent years than when I stumbled across them. They're just guys making money off of people's insecurities. I've seen their videos and such before, and RSDTyler seems like a pretty funny, positive, high energy guy so i can't imagine it's been hard for him and RSD overall to gain a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 02:03 AM
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Pretty fair (and amusing) comparison. Little gems to be found in each, but with some really absurd stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:54 AM
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Wasn't my point, as I was just pointing out the blatant anti-male attitudes in Cosmo, but most redpill guys I've seen actually take loyalty in LTRs very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:01 AM
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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/i-cheated-now-what%23slide-1 First piece of advice... don't tell him. And later in the article it says that if he finds out, you should "stroke the poor boy's ego", as well as finding ways to frame it as if it's the guy's fault a girl cheats. There's lots of condescending stuff sprinkled in there. Edit: Yep, definitely not anti-male. Definitely. Seriously, shitcosmosays is a goldmine. But yeah some of the sex tips are fucking absurd. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:15 PM
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Didn't necessarily say it shouldn't be. People are entitled to feel uncomfortable when a greasy neckbeard touches them versus an attractive "chad". Though rather than saying one was "creepy" and the other was "confident", they should just call it like it is and say they weren't attracted to the neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 12:54 PM
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Agreed here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 01:35 AM
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Being a doormat isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:28 PM
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This. I've had women admit to me outright that the same behavior will be viewed differently based on whether the man in question is attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:24 PM
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I would agree if nearly every high n-count woman I've known wasn't a notorious cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:18 PM
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I liked OP's question, because the feeling he describes is very different from just getting nervous. I've had it plenty. I specifically remember that when I was younger, a pre-teen I think, I saw the most stunning woman I'd ever seen up to that point in my short life and I remember that gut feeling I got. I still get it even now, though rarely, and not super intense, when I see women with a certain look about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:11 AM
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Not a woman, oh well. I'd say no, most women don't experience this. My ex-gf is the only girl who claims to have experienced something even remotely like it, when she first saw me. That feeling turned into nervousness when I was around her and it took her a couple of weeks of us talking for it to go away. Though I attribute it less to my looks and more to her taste and self-esteem issues. To piggyback on this: Women, how often do you see a guy attractive enough to make you nervous when he's arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 01:46 AM
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Who knows then. Many guys like submissiveness but they do want women who can think for themselves and make their wants and needs heard too. There's certainly room for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 12:36 AM
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Idk, I've never had an issue about it. If she doesn't suggest anything, we go where I want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 12:26 AM
2

This is a really good question and an earlier thread made me think of it too. I think success is defined differently on an individual basis, based on whether that person is happy with their sex life or not. Personally I enjoy having two or three "plates" or fwb that I can hit up when I want a lay. That's my version of success when single. My nerdy, unattractive virgin friend would love to have a steady girlfriend who fucks him a few times a week. But if we want to define success in a general sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 09:59 PM
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I didn't make the claim that you hate men, just wanted to see evidence of the opposite. I'm satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:25 PM
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Specifically cite examples of you caring about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:03 PM
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Lol. Everyone lies. Women are just better at it from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:49 PM
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Even the best girls flake and ghost on some people. You shouldn't rule her out because she did to someone else at some point. If she does it to you, then you have a good reason to drop her. If you want to screen girls for that behavior though, avoid anyone who seems overly dramatic and, to reiterate what someone else in the thread has said, keep an eye on their social media to screen for any red flags like posting about how they hate drama and fake friends or any other shit. Those are ironically…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:06 PM
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I don't understand why you care so much about shooting down a woman's self-esteem and rejecting her as a preemptive strike if she's ghosted someone before. For every woman I've slept with there have been 10 to ghost or flake on me. Comes with the territory. It doesn't phase me, I move on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 07:46 PM
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Lol at your edit. It's so spot-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 07:43 PM
1

What does that accomplish? It's petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:37 PM
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I don't see why this is important. If she ghosts you, you move on. No need to screen for it. If she has a habit of leading guys on you'll pick up on it pretty quickly. Even the best girls have ghosted guys they've decided they don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 03:24 PM
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Yep, most feminists I know love fucking dominant "chads" as much as any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:18 PM
3

Exactly why I can't date party girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:49 PM
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It's an everyone thing if the options are there. Unfortunately for the average guy that's not the case, so it ends up being females who do it more. Agreed on the last statement too. Sure, accept that your woman can go fuck another guy tomorrow if she wants to drop you today. She has a pussy, that's expected. As long as you're on top of your shit and she's happy with you, you're golden
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:44 AM
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It's not bullshit if you train at a good place, but where I trained was very commercialized and watered down. Learned two short forms in 8 months, never sparred once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:19 AM
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I don't know why this is surprising. Like I said before, most women have guy friends willing to fuck them, and often keep enough contact with them to keep them around. And old fling of mine who started dating a guy last year starts to talk to me again when things get rocky with her bf. Several girls with boyfriends flirt with me regularly because they would definitely fuck me if they were single. Guys with lots of options are just as prone to this behavior, I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:16 AM
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Given how difficult it is for an average man to have multiple options, period, I'd say it'd be hard for a man to keep women waiting on the sidelines to fuck him when he's single. If he's a really attractive guy, then maybe. Almost all females have multiple men, usually male "friends" waiting to fuck them. Many keep up enough contact to have them as rebounds. I guess both genders would have the same likelihood of keeping a backup given the same opportunity to do so. But women have more opportunit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:29 AM
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Seconded. I wish I'd done real martial arts training from a young age (did some bs taekwondo for 8 months). Would have helped my confidence as the small guy who got picked on in school. I train Jiu Jitsu casually now, so I'd probably put my kid in those classes. It's fun and practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:47 PM
2

Ah, yes. Ugly ducklings are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:06 PM
3

I'd also say if you want to go into politics. It's good for public image.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:59 AM
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I don't expect women to never use it or even to only use it professionally, just to use it in moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:50 AM
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As in, TRP exaggerates the number of omegas that exist and makes it seem like the "average" guy never gets pussy? Just for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:04 AM
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I've got a friend who's uglier than you and shorter. Still smashed some really hot girls because he has charm and a good sense of humor. Hell, he didn't even work out or groom well. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and go talk to some women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:24 AM
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I'm sure your constant negativity isn't helping you get any either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:12 AM
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Takes care of herself and her body (hygiene, diet, exercise), not too into social media (though 99.9% of women use it at least a little), never cheated on a partner, body count not ridiculously high, at least somewhat intelligent, interesting to talk to, easygoing but not a pushover. I'm sure there's more but I can't think of them off of the top of my head right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 01:01 AM
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This makes no sense. Somehow socialism removes the need for strict monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:48 PM
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From what I've seen, there's no consensus as to if three times a week is better or worse than one or two, provided total weekly volume is the same. Considering that protein synthesis levels off 24-36 hours following a workout, one could theoretically do three low-volume bench days and be fine. He has less weekly chest volume than I do, but I only work chest twice a week, so it's not bad programming for powerlifting-style training.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:41 PM
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My mother gave no sex advice beyond "be smart, wrap it, don't get anyone pregnant". I didn't have a father to teach me about sex so that was the extent of the advice coming from parents. My mom probably didn't go into it much because her parents didn't. They're very religious and conservative, so my mom jus kinda figured it out, so I guess she assumed I'd do the same. I did, but through the Internet. Not through porn, but through threads on reddit (been on here since I was 15).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:34 PM
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Oh he broke up with her. She still tries to rope him back in by saying she misses him and all that, but she's fucked like three or four dudes since the breakup which was four months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 07:44 PM
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She's a redditor as of three hours ago... hmm.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:33 PM
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Women don't always cheat when they're done. Sometimes they do it because they're mad. Good friend of mine got cheated on by a girl I used to date casually. She did it while she was angry at him, had every intention of hiding it, but he went through her messages after seeing some guy blowing up her phone and found out about it that way. He questioned her and the truth trickled out slowly. Keep in mind, this guy was really good to her and put up with numerous abusive behaviors from her while they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:19 PM
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I'm a good looking guy, but because women generally date up, I tend to date/fuck girls who are "cute but not ridiculously attractive" by most people's standards. If I suddenly became a perfect 10 dude overnight, my standards would probably increase for casual sex at least. I probably wouldn't LTR a supermodel though. They have way too many issues. Girls who are average to somewhat above average in appearance have had the most mental and emotional stability in my experience, so I'd likely stick t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:50 PM
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Not a cheater. I know some cheaters though. I've seen only two reasons for cheating thus far. Their SO was cheating on them and they wanted to get back at them They have shitty impulse control or are otherwise mentally fucked up That's about it. Generally the person they cheat with isn't any better than their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:01 AM
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Not really a big name celebrity, but former Mr Olympia Frank Zane. Of course, this is impossible without steroids, but I'd like to shoot for as close to his physique as I can get without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:47 PM
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Have to bulk to get big, just don't go overboard and you'll be fine. A small calorie surplus is key to gaining lean mass. Focus on size and cut later. In a year or less you'll be there. His body is pretty easy to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:43 PM
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Not a woman, but a "bodybuilder". We should probably better define that term for this discussion. Ronnie Coleman type guys or Connor Murphy type guys? I don't compete but plan to at some point for the hell of it. I'm not freakishly large, but I'm more built than 99% of men and I'm "ripped" by most people's standards. Bodybuilding has helped me tremendously in attracting women. Granted, I'm sure there are many who don't like my look, and I'm sure I attract certain "types" based on appearance alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:38 AM
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I'm an exercise physiology major with a little knowledge of public health as it relates to exercise, so I can answer this, kind of. The obesity problem will likely never be fixed. Food companies stand to lose too much money and have stood in the way of regulation to change food standards in the past iirc. However, it has been shown that regular moderate-intensity physical activity (not exercise, think less intense than a jog) following the CDC guidelines of 150 minutes per week can cut the risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:14 PM
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Slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 06:21 PM
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I'll be damned, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:11 PM
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Well, as much as I dislike MRA's they do have a point there, especially in this age where singe motherhood is all too common. A girl friend of mine is an army civil engineer, one of the most the most male-dominated career fields, and I've never heard her mention any of the sexism present in that field. Then again, she's also highly anti-feminist and a "one of the guys" type, so she has a thick skin and probably just doesn't let it get to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:47 PM
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I don't know who here would find this okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:25 PM
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Varies by state. Some states consider 10+ years of cohabitation the same as marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:19 PM
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Yeah, but men's groups aren't complaining that men aren't represented in that area because they realize that it's their choice. Feminists are complaining about underrepresentation in STEM but they're the ones choosing not to go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:36 AM
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Ah, I read that one. To me it seems like that's not a "how to" on getting away with rape but more of a "how to" on gaming women, albeit with some harsh bro-language. Probably still wouldn't fly at my school. Also saw the list. 10 ways, right? That's really shitty but not much can be done about it. At least that one didn't come from an organization like a frat. Probably just one troll with too much time on his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 04:28 AM
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Well women are now favored 2:1 over men in STEM fields because they're so desperate for women, but women just don't want to go into those fields. They also don't want to go into hard labor jobs, and they actually dominate nursing and other jobs in the medical field. What it really comes down to now is women's choices in life and what they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:53 AM
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Well based on what I've personally seen, usually the "believe the victim" mentality is the one people go with. The only time they don't take a supposed victim seriously is when said victim is known to be crazy and lie about everything. There shouldn't be anyone in either camp honestly. It should all be addressed on a case by case basis. That actually happened? Looked it up, found similar stuff but not what you mentioned. Shit, if it had happened at my school those guys would have gotten royally …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:50 AM
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Inb4 wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:14 AM
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I'm aware it wasn't persecution. Didn't really phase me. I suppose that was some of TRP's absolutist phrasing rubbing off on me. As a young man, it's best to act like it's true, however, to protect yourself. Based on what I've found, the results are mixed on the expulsion of those accused of rape or sexual assault. Some say only 1/3 of cases end in expulsion and that only counts those found guilty (huffington post study so take that for what it is). Yet, we have many young men filing lawsuits ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:09 AM
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Oh under no circumstances is that to be considered normal. It's an extreme case, and most cases are a lot more gray area than that. But that's an example of how far out of hand it's gotten. Such a ridiculous action by the college shouldn't even be considered. It should be out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:55 AM
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The worst of it is on college campuses where liberalism and feminism are rampant. It's not just feminism, it's feminism backed by political correctness and active censorship of differing opinions. If you're a straight cis white male you can be discriminated against, while discrimination against any other group is bigotry. Differing opinions are bigotry now. If you disagree with a feminist or a BLM activist, you're a sexist racist homophobe etc etc. College courts are fucked. In one particular ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:50 AM
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If you aren't 8+ feet with a 10 inch penis you'll never get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:12 AM
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At first, terribly. Without the masculine influence of a father I couldn't emulate masculine behavior or get girl advice for the most part. My mom didn't tell me much except to be really careful about who I date because lots of women are shitty. Once I discovered game I messed around with that a bit and it helped, as did becoming attractive through puberty and bodybuilding, but eventually everything game-wise just became natural and my dating life is great now. Without game/some TRP concepts I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:00 AM
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Yup. But I must admit it's nice to be able to shoot the shit with some of them. I go to school with an army gal. Been in for over 10 years, short hair, tats, benches over 200 lbs but acts and dresses very feminine at times which I find kind of adorable. We talk shit to each other a lot and spar in Jiu Jitsu. Much better company than some sorority girl who just goes out and gets sloshed every weekend. According to my navy friends and AF plate, military women are usually followed around by 4 or so…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 03:52 AM
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Yeah, my AF plate is crazy. Goes to therapy, and told me she was raped by the same AF guy twice at her tech school. She apparently agreed to go on a run with him after the first time he raped her (wtf), during which he pushed her into some bushes and raped her again. Quite obviously bullshit, all of it. But anything for sympathy I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 03:44 AM
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Eh, most military females I've known have lots of issues, don't act very feminine and/or ride the CC like crazy. Wouldn't LTR one but I have plated one. I will admit they're usually better company than spoiled ass civilian females however.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 01:47 AM
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Moderately attractive women around my age, maybe a couple years younger or older, like 16-21, I'm 19. Personality types vary greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 07:52 PM
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Not necessarily. Soft dread is basically just being awesome so she knows in the back of her head that he could easily find another woman. Hard dread gives the impression that the level of dedication on the man's part is decreasing, but if he's using dread game instead of just dropping her then he must obviously want to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 04:58 PM
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Can confirm, hot former friend fucked some creep for weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 01:42 AM
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Good point, thanks for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:52 PM
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Agreed. We all want the best of the best. Average looking women have it better than average looking men because men are way more likely to lower their standards a lot when just trying to get laid, whereas women do not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:44 PM
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Basically this. Gay men, for example, are about the most feminine men around and they usually hang exclusively around women. Hanging around men long enough gives you a thick skin. As a guy at a military school, I know all about that. Not to say the opposite doesn't happen. One of the guys in my main circle of friends was bi and quite feminine but he hung with our very masculine group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 02:11 PM
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If your male friends would call you a faggot for being bisexual, you've got the wrong guy friends. We men can be dicks to each other in good humor but we don't discriminate. Well, a lot of us, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 02:08 PM
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Yep, basically this. Sex is nice, but what these guys need is to feel appreciated on a deeper level. Most of them want relationships and not only sex, so fucking them and leaving them will just leave them confused and further questioning their worth as a human being. If anything she should be upfront about what she's doing and tell them that it's only temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 02:05 PM
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I'm surprised Bold and Determined was listed here. I read his stuff and he specifically mentioned that he dislikes redpill stuff. When looking for an "intern" (I think he used the term apprentice), he didn't want any redpill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:51 PM
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So, they should use more "social circle game" as they call it. I can agree here, and it's favorable to cold approach. But I may be biased as I have neither the time or resources to go out and cold approach at clubs and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:33 PM
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How else are they going to find the 10%? Dating is a numbers game, after all. You can't tell what kind of person someone is attracted to before you talk to them. All you can do is try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:24 PM
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So is being an athlete, without lifting. 90% of athletes do actually lift. Muscles show though, that's what's important for attraction. Women can't really see what a great distance runner you are, but if you play football or rugby, or basically any sport requiring strength, you have to lift and your athleticism will be immediately apparent through your physique. The problem is they're treating all women like that. My friends, my sister, etc. Yeah, they do. If your friends or your sister don't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:16 PM
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Lifting REQUIRED. (It's not). You're right, it isn't. But according to TRP it's the best way to project fitness, which I agree with it because you can actually see big muscles. Personally I just like being big. Started out for the girls, now I just do it for me and the female attention is a bonus. Negging, cold approaches Both are techniques, not parts of masculinity. Negging is discouraged most of the time unless she has a huge ego. I personally don't use it nor do I really cold approach. how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:56 PM
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No challenging that. It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:44 AM
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Well check this out, Chad tops the list. Brody is a pretty good one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 04:19 AM
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The name immediately strikes me as a stereotypical douchebro jock name. Always has. I think it fits the archetype pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:46 AM
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Even before TRP's Chad archetype I never liked the name, so nah. Good question, made me chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:45 AM
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As of right now I'd at least like to spend my 20's without kids. I don't think this affects the pill I identify with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:41 AM
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Right, and if boys had that kind of masculine influence in their lives they wouldn't need TRP. The lack of that exposure is part of what gave rise to it. And it's certainly not the best or only way to improve oneself, but it's better than no guidance at all. I gained enough from TRP without adopting the more "toxic" masculinity that you say TRP encourages. What does TRP say masculinity should be like, by your interpretation? What I picked up from it is that you should strive to improve yourself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 01:50 AM
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To answer your question: No. I don't care. Tragic that the horses died but I don't feel one way or the other about it and it certainly doesn't even make me think of horse girls. I've had a weird experience with a horse chick though. She was hot and wanted to date me, but got offended at everything, like she was literally trying to be offended. Also we'd been talking for a few weeks and she wouldn't let me kiss her. Said she "wasn't ready". I dropped her not too long afterward because her negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:45 AM
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Purple leaning red, male, and I'd prefer every other day but I can do fine for a week before I really start to crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:39 AM
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This is true, and I know some too. We can agree there. However, it is by no stretch of the imagination the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:11 AM
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Yep, it depends on context. I'd say some girls rack up high partner counts trying to date and lock down alphas who end up pumping and dumping them. Can't call them sluts. They just wanted to date, after all. But some girls also just like to fuck. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 12:09 AM
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Boys tend to emulate their fathers or father figures. With so many broken households, boys have no father figures to look to, so single mothers give the "respect women, buy her things, win her favor" talk without any masculine behavior for the boy to emulate. They'll boys then have no balance, and lean too far toward the tender, sensitive side without the assertiveness and boldness associated with masculinity. This is what happened to me. However, thankfully my mother wasn't all that bluepill in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:19 PM
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This. Feminists have yet to realize that removal of the sexual agenda will immediately remove all of the perks of being a woman. The end of "disrespect" in one form will cause "disrespect" in another (which is really just responsibility and accountability). While I'm sure many feminists are okay with this and want to be appreciated for their work rather than their sexual value, many others will bitch endlessly because of some new form of "oppression", because they're not living life on easy mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 11:08 PM
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Better than I expected from him. More in shape than 90% of men (sad fact). But you ain't wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 09:21 PM
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Yeah, lots of blue pillers who claim that redpillers are creepy borderline rapists tend not to realize that the stereotypical "nice guy" is seen as creepy far more often than a truly successful redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 09:17 PM
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The seduction community talks about this actually, the importance of trust. TRP doesn't mention it as much but I've seen it discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 09:10 PM
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Started off really blue pill. Typical nice guy, you all know the story. I was confused and sad, and kinda hated myself at times. In high school I realized that I was doing something wrong, and I stumbled upon the seduction community. Picked up a lot of information in between the bullshit and learned the basics, became more social and improved a lot. Discovered TRP at 15, but it was a little too complex for me to want to delve into and I left it alone until I was about 18. After re-visiting it I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 09:01 PM
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Basically true, or at least it provided an opening for them to do so even though feminists didn't intend it. It's about power minus responsibility. Equality only matters when it suits them. Otherwise they don't give a shit. I know some feminists that are much more egalitarian in thought, but they refuse to change the label for whatever reason, my sister included. Maybe it makes them feel important, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:52 PM
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Because submission is not attractive to women. Would you be attracted to a timid man who let you make all the decisions? Every women I've ever known resents having to take the position of leadership all the time. The women I know, when asked about that, basically said they wanted guys who could take charge and not be pussies. Whereas I've never heard a man (bdsm kinks aside) say that he wasn't attracted to submissive women. You cannot treat the sexes as if they are the same with different genita…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 08:35 PM
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If only the /r/thepurplepill was an active sub with lots of participation. It could easily become a self-improvement sub that discourages the negativity of TRP, but it doesn't exist and I don't think it would get far. /r/seduction helped me a great deal but they spread some BS too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 06:15 PM
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Yes, you're right. I did so myself, since at the time TRP just didn't make sense to me with all the lingo and such. There's a reason I'm purple. I take from TRP what I find credible and applicable and I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:35 PM
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Oh, of course. I changed my life without TRP. I think some guys benefit more from the "rude awakening" and matter-of-fact, politically incorrect communication. You'll also find that most of the guys who have been there the longest and have contributed the most seem to be much more well-rounded people than you might expect. Not as much hate as with guys who found TRP very recently, going through the "anger phase" and whatnot. That being said, the negativity is rampant and it operates much like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:20 PM
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Good way of putting it. And of course, if the waiter wasn't an asshole then absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:54 PM
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I'm gonna have to say I wouldn't bang. A girl can be kind of a bitch and get away with it if I'm just fucking her, but there's a limit to the amount of cunt behavior that I can tolerate and she'd more than cross it for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 04:54 AM
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Well, you know what they say. Just because someone is nice to you doesn't make them a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 04:53 AM
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I don't understand the censorship here. Another post concerning race got deleted but it wasn't really all that offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:24 AM
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Let's not forget her famous comment "women are the primary victims of war". Or her support of a bill that would cut pay for people working hazardous jobs, a group made up mostly of men, as we all know. This would have hurt many working class families. Or her flip-flopping opinion about gay marriage. Or that during a scandal involving a US ambassador indirectly funding sex trafficking of boys in Afghanistan, she referred to the victims as "women and girls", saying exactly this : "This is a seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:18 AM
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Huh, TIL. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:38 AM
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Well to be fair, cheating is scummy. And I rarely see women encourage other women to cheat. Gotta agree with you on the other part though. They rarely look at the circumstances surrounding the man leaving, they only look at the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:32 AM
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Yeah, in like 9th grade. A bisexual chick teased me because she'd had more girlfriends than me. It was rather embarrassing because at the time I was still a very confused and depressed "beta" type with no dating history. That's alright though, she's the one who ended up fucking some dude for weed a few years later and is dating some creepy white trash guy. Now I'm a sophomore in college and people have sort of moved on from partner count shaming. My friends and I tend to try to help our virgin f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:12 AM
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First Law of Radical * Extremist, Non-Mainatream Feminism FTFY. Fixed for proper terminology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:02 AM
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That's always a possibility. And for the most part, you'd be right. Most of the time women stay close to their age when they date. And the older guys that they do date tend to look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 12:29 AM
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Mostly red. I prefer some of both, but if I had to choose, I'd say ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:51 PM
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^ Basically this. Redpill philosophy places large emphasis on abundance mentality. If she doesn't want to have sex, leave. There's plenty more women around. Many of the RP guys who push it haven't fully internalized TRP's lessons. Others just have no moral compass, though I'd argue that this is a small percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:49 PM
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So essentially, they give us bullshit to distract us from actual issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:43 PM
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Average men, maybe. But what about an older man that's actually in shape, successful and witty? An above average man has many more options regardless of age, so younger women could very easily find him attractive. Plenty of girls at my high school fawned over the attractive assistant principal who was at least in his mid-30's. My mother's girl friend is an absolute dime even in her early 30's. She's marrying a 47 year old I believe. He's a good looking guy though, and that makes all the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:41 PM
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Exactly. There's no "all or nothing" rule in TRP. You take from it what you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:31 PM
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Yeah, TBP would be okay with the actions because they assume that they're "common sense". Which isn't exactly the case for lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:30 PM
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Survival of her children? Yes. Mental and emotional well-being of her children? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:28 PM
1

While we consider that, lets ask: Why do people stay in abusive relationships? Often times there's still something about the person that they love that makes them forget or ignore the negatives. Same can be said about sick partners. There are still qualities about them that the other loves despite their inability to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 08:28 PM
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Yeah, I disagree with the concept too. We're not romantic. We're conditioned to be nowadays (because polygamy is bad and we're bad for doing it), but by nature we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 07:42 PM
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There are redpill men who plate women and redpill men who prefer LTRs and are very loyal. Let's not stereotype here. I say neither sex is all that romantic. Love is conditional in all cases except between parents and children. Men don't love women unconditionally and women don't love men unconditionally. We love each other for what we can provide for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 07:16 PM
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So being able to rely on her man makes her a doormat? Knowing and respecting his boundaries makes her a doormat? Choosing to follow his lead makes her a doormat? You know, choosing to not be combative and to follow of her man is actually a sign of very strong character in a woman. It shows that she has the utmost trust in her man. This RPW describes it better than I can. And of course, a good redpill man would be deserving of such trust and would not abuse it. Don't pretend that submission equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 06:03 PM
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A woman who outwardly claims to be strong and independent usually is the exact opposite; she's also unattractive, and often fat, coupled with being a combative bitch, so she feels the need to validate herself by claiming that she's alone because she's independent and doesn't need anyone. A truly strong and independent woman wouldn't need to proclaim it. She'd be out there doing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:50 AM
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We absolutely should be, but the feminine imperative causes our culture at large to provide for and side with women, and shout down dissenters, as you witnessed. It's a shame what the feminist movement has become, because if it followed the original concept of equality, we'd see more feminists bring things like this up. "Christina Hoff Sommers" type feminists. That's what we need more of. Those types of women know that independence includes independence from a man's provisions and the ability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:50 AM
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Weird, online I tend to see more black women wanting to date white guys than I do black women wanting black men, in my area at least. I can't say much about offline because I don't talk to a lot of black women.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:38 AM
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This exactly. I love the mix of European facial features on a black woman, and I tend to find them extremely attractive. Probably also why I like mixed black/white women.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:35 AM
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My black friend said exactly this. He said they're tough on the outside but once you have them, they're yours and they are fiercely loyal.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:34 AM
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Yep, I think the concept of leaving a partner that doesn't meet your needs, which is perfectly reasonable, is interpreted as, "leave her if she 'steps out of line once'" by bluepillers, but that isn't really the case, especially in LTR's. Even redpillers understand that there will be some conflict and some compromise in LTRs. If you can't work it out and she's not willing to compromise, it's time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:09 AM
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Basically less investment in them, but just enough to get what they want from them. TRP uses minimal investment to get sex, uninterested women use minimal investment to get validation. I can see that parallel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:00 AM
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We all know why this is. The age-old concept of paying for women's things has not gone away despite the wage gap closing and women becoming perfectly able to take care of themselves. It's become ingrained in society. The people agreeing with this just blindly follow the idea because hey, that's what you're supposed to do, right? They were raised in it. But they just can't think far enough ahead to see that this treatment of the child is wrong and harmful to him. He's learning that the money he e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 01:52 AM
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Short answer: yes. Long answer: If you want to get laid, be respected, gain power and influence in the workplace, etc, some of those traits are absolutely necessary. Feminine men aren't held in high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:57 PM
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Not just that, but selection bias, poorly worded questions and a small overall sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:37 PM
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Can't really say. Redpill men, like all men, have very different talents and hobbies depending on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:32 PM
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Christina Hoff Sommers quoted crime statistics or something saying around 2% of women are raped or sexually assaulted. About the same as men. It's on one of her YouTube videos. I really like her down-to-earth mentality. She's the type of feminist that radfems need to look to for a good example. Edit: The stats for rape alone are likely much lower. Sexual assault is a broader term thus more cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:31 PM
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Hahaha, that's always a possibility. Can't hurt his case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:42 PM
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I may be straight but I know an attractive guy when I see one, and he is certainly not attractive. The girl, on the other hand, is about a 6 with makeup on, solidly in "cute but nothing special" territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:04 PM
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I've met a few "high libido" girls and a pretty large percentage actually do tend to wear it on their sleeve from what I've seen. I'm just saying that biologically, their sex drives are still lower than men's. Unless the man has a low T issue or some other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:27 PM
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You don't have to be a jock to be an asshole. Obviously the guys who "despise" beta men have internal issues they need to work out themselves. I don't see the point in picking on low SMV men. That is, unless they lash out at me without reason. My main circle of friends in high school had some fairly "alpha" (I really don't like the alpha/beta dichotomy) dudes in it, but we took in an unpopular, low-SMV nerd who got picked on constantly because we were tired of seeing that shit. My buddy personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:23 PM
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TRP may hate feminism, but it isn't anti-feminist activism. It's about using the current feminized system to get what you want. They aren't trying to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:07 PM
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With 1/16th the testosterone levels of a male on average, I highly doubt a female even knows what a truly high sex drive is. High for her is probably low for an average guy. Spike her testosterone levels up to ours and watch her freak the fuck out about being horny all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 04:33 PM
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Asian women love white men due to high status and a more masculine presence. I dated a Chinese girl who said that she was not attracted to Asian men because they just aren't manly enough. Most white men aren't too picky about race (except that most won't date dark skinned black women), so if an Asian girl shows interest they'll take it. White women avoid Asian men for that Asian girls do. They want high status men and Asian men are seen as the ultimate BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 02:17 AM
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Really good point. I think the dating game would shift and women would no longer look at a man's income because they no longer need to rely on it. That's being hopeful though. With our luck they'd only look for richer men and even more dudes (assuming they didn't make up for it with looks and game) would have a harder time getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 01:44 AM
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I don't quite understand what you're arguing. All I said was that OP seems to believe that TRP wouldn't suggest applying the "focus on actions, not words" approach to interactions with men, that you should only be skeptical of women's words, not men's. Obviously you guys over at TRP would suggest focusing on the actions of all people over their words. It's just that the focus of the sub at large is primarily on women so the topic of male-on-male interaction has rarely come up. Did you think I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 12:19 AM
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Trust me I'm perfectly aware of why TRP stresses it. But the OP seems to think that TRP believes that we should only be skeptical about what women say, when this is obviously not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 10:30 PM
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It applies to all people, not just to women. Actions are more important than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:45 PM
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Nice strawman. The woman gets a leader. She gets a man who is confident taking charge during stressful times without losing his shit and breaking down. He understands her emotions and can handle them, and he himself is emotionally stable so she can rely on him to be the rock in the relationship if she needs to. He's strong, fit and attractive because he exercises regularly. He has goals and aspirations, and is constantly bettering himself. He sets boundaries for her because he has a backbone and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 08:50 PM
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unremarkable, average equivalent TRP teaches men to much better than "unremarkable or average".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 08:39 PM
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Yeah, but while rock maintains background status I don't think it'll ever phase out totally, which is good. There will always be a fairly large group of people who listen to it. Hell, it may even come back into the mainstream, as what's topping the charts genre-wise changes over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 05:47 PM
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I would say I'm a 7/8. I've slept with women ranging anywhere from 4-8.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 05:37 PM
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You certainly won't hear rock on the biggest music stations because they're catered to pop and rap. But there are rock stations. I don't listen to the radio so I don't know what's on the charts right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 05:24 PM
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Rap is very redpill and even misogynistic and is hugely popular now. Pop music however is very bluepill, yes. Rock is iffy and it depends on the band and subgenre. I don't get much exposure to many other genres so I won't comment on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 05:06 PM
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That's a good start. If you want help working out you can PM me, I've got a good routine for growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:04 PM
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I take it you've been working out and talking to more people and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:58 PM
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Yes, a lot of them don't understand that love is not a conscious decision and that they usually can't change someone's mind. Seduction (the non-scammy parts of it anyway) teaches this and so does TRP. As much as TBP would love to say that this is common knowledge, for many people it just isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:57 PM
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You don't have to become someone else. Just the best version of yourself. That's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:12 PM
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For me it wasn't anger, at least not at anyone but myself, just confusion and sadness. But I know not everyone reacts that way and some nice guys react with much more rage than I did. But imagine the dehumanizing feeling of not being loved or wanted despite doing everything you're told women want. That constant feeling of inadequacy, and the confusion of seeing those girls end up with "assholes" (not really assholes all the time), can cause a lot of frustration. Having been there, I sympathize w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 02:25 PM
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As much as I hate to agree with this, it's actually kinda true. My buddy over in Asia, decent looking but not a model, fucks women on the regular and then gets treated to breakfast in bed the next morning. Same situation in both Korea and The Phillipines. He sent me a message one day saying "Fuck American women, I'm done with them, these girls know how to treat a man". Maybe that's not what everyone wants, but if you like submissive women and traditional roles, America isn't the place to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 02:09 PM
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That's called a friendship. In addition to being loved, nice guys want women to want them sexually as well. It doesn't feel like a relationship if you aren't fucking. You might as well be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 01:43 PM
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Of course. The better you understand yourself and your internal drives the better you can control them, because you'll start to see where they kick in and you can stop and think rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 02:51 PM
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Our advanced brains give us the power to defy instinct if we want to badly enough. Therefore exceptions exist. Some people are really uncomfortable with the idea that despite our intelligence, there are biological urges that drive human behavior subconsciously. They must feel as if we're above succumbing to instincts as a species. However, we're not and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 09:44 PM
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I do value it, but only when looking for LTRs. Intelligence is attractive but not sexually so. When it comes to plates I honestly couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 09:28 PM
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She wouldn't be present to take care of her young children because her time would be spent working, for one. Intelligence isn't worthless, it just doesn't add to sexual attractiveness. Smart women only give me boners if they're pretty. Ugly smart women are still ugly and their intelligence doesn't suddenly make them fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 08:23 PM
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Now this is true. Your phrasing did have me confused though. I do agree that a world where most women are forced not to work isn't a good idea. My main point was that a sacrifice like that is relatively small in comparison to the fact that men sacrifice their safety and their lives to provide the privilege that women (and men too) enjoy. Yeah it's true that it's easy for men to ask women to sacrifice their career freedom because it's not them having said freedom restricted, but it's also easy fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 08:16 PM
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You're making the assumption that a woman's SMV is tied to her success in the workforce. Surprise surprise, it isn't. Men don't give a shit about that when considering sexual attractiveness. I'm okay with women working, just to clear things up. But I'd want my wife at home if we had a young child (0-4 years).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 08:04 PM
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Kind of like how women demand that men work the most dangerous jobs in the world? No one has a problem with that. Men make sacrifices for society all the damn time, and women make almost none. It's nothing by comparison to ask a woman who like science to be a housewife living a cushy lifestyle instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:19 PM
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Personally I recommend PPLx2 as it's very versatile and can be modified for strength gaining purposes as well. I prefer high volume work myself so what I do might be overkill, but it can be made manageable for a beginner/intermediate. You can PM me with any more questions.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 02:36 AM
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Kind of off topic, but the Good Looking Loser blog talks about the importance of understanding culture when picking up girls and how it differs with different types of women. That shit is way more important that people realize, and with some more exclusive groups of women it's necessary to get into their pants. Your friend was doing some shit right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 11:53 PM
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Preferences are cool. Whether your preferences are realistic is another story entirely. Either way, either sex, it's not my business and I don't care. Most Asian men can't get high quality white girls unless they strongly defy their stereotype but if that's what they want, they can try. I happen to like Asian girls (and all kinds of non-white races, equally as much as white girls), so Asian girls being into white men is good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 11:38 PM
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I'm currently on PPLx2 and loving it. Don't plan on switching anytime soon. But if I do I think I'll do a PPL/Arnold split hybrid. What are your stats?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:00 PM
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Of course. It's a great thing especially if you have a physically demanding, and you are right about simplicity being important. I think you just overshot the time frame for using those programs a bit.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:51 PM
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Still disagreeing here with the idea that those three programs are all a person needs for the first several years. 6 months at most. Maybe you can use them for short term periodization training when trying to gain strength in between hypertrophy periods, or make hybrids of the programs with accessory work, but never follow them just by themselves for years on end. Doing so will give you an okay physique but it'll be badly proportioned with little attention given to smaller muscle groups. PPLx2, …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:37 PM
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Yes. It'll preserve the muscle mass you have (or even slightly add some if you're a beginner).
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:31 PM
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You said you were a cadet, at which school? I go to a military college myself.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:07 PM
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While I agree partially, plenty of women like it too. One good female friend of mine absolutely loves the James Bond archetype: the stone cold killer, womanizing badass, etc. even though it is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 12:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:05 AM
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There was a thread about this maybe 2-3 months ago. If you do some digging I think you'll be able to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 01:46 AM
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I think the "CC" is something that women can get into accidentally. A lot of them probably have sex with these AF guys trying to get them to commit. Women want the best they can have, but the best has options and will probably only fuck a girl unless she meets his LTR standards. The guy has his fun and leaves, and the girl is off to find another AF to try to tie down. Repeat this a enough times and her body count is already fairly high. Not to say there aren't plenty of random hookups. I met a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 03:32 PM
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I go to a military college and I know a few students who are dating one another, specifically slightly masculine, dominant females and submissive, slightly feminine males. It's quite obvious that the females wear the pants in the relationship but they are fairly happy from what I can see. Healthy sex lives as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 01:01 AM
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Definitely find a dominant woman. Contrary to typical RP beliefs not EVERY woman is naturally submissive. Some are natural leaders. They'd pair up well with a submissive man, assuming they could be attracted to such a man, which is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:22 PM
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My flair is purple for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 01:23 PM
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You act as if mothers are incapable of raising children on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 02:34 AM
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60/100, low Mach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:13 PM
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Well, TRP advises different strategies for different goals. LTR/marriage game and plate spinning differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 03:03 AM
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MRP is literally a whole sub about redpill marriages and LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 02:40 AM
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¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 08:39 PM
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Hypergamy = wanting the best you can get. It's not restricted to females either, men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:10 PM
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Based on the quote It's almost as if he's assuming that AWALT is supposed to be taken literally... Typical of TBP to have little understanding of RP concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:08 PM
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Well a stud must have some attractive traits to be a stud in the first place. He must be desirable by a lot of people's standards. The same doesn't necessarily apply for sluts. Fat ugly women can still easily get laid because some men will drastically lower their standards. But you don't really see fat ugly studs. I don't have an issue with sluts but I wouldn't LTR one. All but two of the sluts I know have been notorious cheaters. Of course not all women are attracted to promiscuous men, I get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 12:03 PM
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The archer needs practice, the target doesn't. It's easy for a female to be a slut. Be there, and fuck every man who hits on you. Don't even have to be very attractive. For men to be sluts it takes looks, money, status, and/or game, all of which require at least some effort. Men must work to be attractive and get laid a lot. Not to mention a man's natural sex drive is waaaaaay higher than a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:45 AM
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Couldn't have said it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 01:42 AM
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that's not how jealousy works How does jealousy work? I never wronged the people who said that kind of shit. I was friendly with them. On the other hand I had people who came to me for advice and looked up to me, and gladly took them in. You remind me of sammy sweetheart from jersey shore saying, "I'm the sweetest bitch you'll ever meet." Congrats on having the same train of thought as a jersey shore cast member. The whole thing is a big joke, you can't take it seriously. That's the idea. I try …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 08:44 PM
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It's more of an irony thing. Plenty of people in school who were jealous of me called me a douchebag, but I have a lot of friends and have always been generally nice to people, just not a doormat and I set boundaries. I'm "the nicest douchebag you'll ever meet". They talk about feminism's adverse effects on society, some of which make lots of sense. I want to support feminism, I just think they're focusing on the wrong issues. Social media is the best way to spread awareness but all I'm seeing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:39 PM
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By any chance, does your success (whatever that is) hinge of treating women as less than men? Nope. Just being playful and physical, strong eye contact, maybe a little teasing. No needy or clingy behavior. I'm in shape and pretty good looking so I guess it doesn't require that much effort. I will admit I like women who are "submissive", not really obedient but they allow me to make my own decisions without badgering or questioning. That's trust. I let them do what they want as long as it's not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:37 PM
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Good to hear, and surprising actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:27 PM
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It's not RP advice to get in shape; It's common sense I agree. Shy can be a sexy trait. Highly dependent on looks. More common sense but people do leave that out when they talk about shyness being cute but then they can't AWALT. AWALT should never be taken literally. People on TRP who do this piss me off. very much doubt they are improving their success. Lots of RP posts about how people have been applying the methods for months, even years, and nothing. But they honestly think, "any day now." I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:18 PM
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Well, most RPers would probably say hit the gym, that's obvious. Bedsides that, that guy would have to become more proficient in English, because if you aren't you're going to have a hard time with communication period, not just with women. How socially retarded are we talking here, like Aspergers retarded (because that's a whole other issue in itself that TRP is not cut out to handle) or just introverted and shy? I would certainly hope that RPers would tell him to research how to read social cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:43 PM
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Avoid women who are obviously crazy. And like the other guy said, hidden cameras if you're really worried. They're also good for evidence if your house gets broken into or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 02:52 PM
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This. This is so true. The problem is, a lot of bloopers that (supposedly) do relatively decently with women are naturals and don't understand what it is they're doing. They literally are just being themselves. So it makes sense to them. TBP naturals, you can't teach everyone how to get relationships and sex the way you do it. There are some people that don't just "get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 01:49 PM
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Casual sex and affair sex are not the same thing, but they're based on the same principle: poor self-control. The idea is that women who have lots of casual sex do so because they are easily controlled by their hormones. Guy makes her horny, so she fucks him. So even if she's in a relationship, if she ends up meeting another guy who makes her horny, she'll be likely to act on that and fuck him. Poor impulse control is exhibited in both scenarios. And almost all of the girls I've met who have lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 08:39 PM
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Except what I'm saying is true. You can do everything you can to avoid the bad types and minimize risk and it's unlikely that you'd be a victim if you did so, but the risk is always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 08:28 PM
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Yes. The extreme absolute statements made on TRP are very off-putting, and make it hard for people to accept the usefulness of some of the ideas there. That kind of stuff really does help break the newbs of their blue pill beliefs due to its extreme nature. Sure they swing to the other end of the spectrum and become bitter assholes for a while, but those who really go on to better themselves, get laid, etc. can usually reach a point of equilibrium so to speak, as they figure out that women aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:33 PM
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You can't guarantee you won't be falsely accused. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:11 PM
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I don't believe you, honestly. If you have been putting in effort and made serious improvements you'd be seeing some success. Incelhate? You make it sound as if you're telling them right off the bat that you're an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:32 PM
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Never really listened to them. Heard the name mentioned once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:32 PM
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I worked at McDonald's in high school. Greasy fast food makes people fat. Does that count? In all seriousness I wouldn't want to harm people just to make money. I'd rather help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:28 PM
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No, I mean what have you done to actually make yourself attractive? Have you been working out, dressing better and minding your hygiene? Have you been talking to people and bettering your social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:24 PM
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What I want to know is what you've done to actually try to fix your situation beyond dwelling in your own self-pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 01:56 PM
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Just because all women want an "alpha" (not entirely true but let's assume so for the sake of your argument) doesn't mean they can all have one. Your parents were probably both low SMV and took what they could get. You'll be weeding your genes out of the population anyway by being incel and being obsessed with teenage girls obviously isn't helping you. Still convinced this is a troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 12:26 PM
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Hard rock (Red, Breaking Benjamin), metalcore (The Amity Affliction, Erra, Northlane), and various types of EDM like dubstep, trap and trance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 12:22 PM
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Her specific situation (little money, kid has medical problems) warranted the decision to let her work from home. Her decline in work output certainly didn't help her when they were deciding how to deal with her when the other women got angry. The employer should have refused to budge when faced with the complaints of the other pissy women who were mad because they had to come into the office like all normal people do. Their kids didn't have medical and behavioral problems that required them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:31 PM
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Not very, at least not in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:18 PM
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That's what happens at first. RP veterans who have walked the walk generally understand that plenty of exceptions exist. I take from TRP only what I need. People who believe that you must accept everything on TRP as fact have no idea what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 01:27 PM
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She should be forced, but that realistically would not happen. Her rape victim should not be forced to pay child support for 18 years. More realistically, she should have custody of the child taken away and the child should be put up for adoption if the man doesn't want him/her. Really a shitty situation for the kid, but better than being in the custody of a rapist mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:33 PM
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Because NAWALT. Sure, hypergamy is a thing. But not every woman is going to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:28 PM
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Yeah, stay at home spouses with 0 income are the only ones that should receive it. And there should be a cap on the amount, to protect wealthier individuals. Have you ever seen the alimony payments rich athletes and celebrities have to pay out? Tens of thousands of dollars a month. That's overkill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:26 PM
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Sex ed is extremely important. It was given to me in middle and high school and I assumed it was mandatory for most schools across the nation. I was shocked to find out that my second high school didn't have it. A feminist friend of mine has been working to make it mandatory at the school and the parents of students simply won't allow it. I disagree with her on most things but I was glad to hear she's trying to get sex ed implemented there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:17 PM
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Very practical, as it'd obviously keep children from being born into poverty, but not likely to be considered a legitimate course of action. A woman's personal choice to keep or abort a baby is considered too important. The government won't let others interfere with that, even if it makes sense to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:10 PM
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Seems more practical than forcing birth control on women in poverty. I mean, how could you track or enforce that anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:11 AM
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To be fair it can be dangerous and irresponsible for both the man and the woman. People be crazy, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 03:19 AM
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Yes. Caution is smart and should be encouraged in both parties. Just not to the point of paranoia. So AWALT and AMALT, in moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 03:02 AM
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I agree. There's the 18 year limit on it already which I'm okay with, I guess I should have specified that. I just think the amount should be capped at a certain point. A rich guy does not need to dish out $1000+ in child support for one kid. Honestly $500 at the very most will cut it. Less if the man isn't so well-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 12:20 AM
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Obviously. Though OP's stance was, "I'd rather be career-oriented than not appreciated or respected as a housewife", so I was speaking in that context. Some women are extremely ambitious for their own reasons. I know a few, one of which is an aspiring cardiac surgeon with a 4.0 GPA in undergrad currently. Power to people like her because they generally do pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 11:52 PM
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Care to elaborate? I'm not quite following.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 11:22 PM
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No-fault divorce has its place and getting rid of it wouldn't be realistic, but you have to admit that doing so would suppress hypergamy pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 11:19 PM
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We'd have to tell them the truth instead of spreading the bullshit about men liking educated, career-oriented women. Also, decrease incentives for women to go to college. No more affirmative action or scholarships for women. Women aren't a minority and shouldn't have minority benefits. If you're qualified you're qualified. If you're not, oh well. EDIT: Also, fix divorce laws so that men don't get completely fucked. Put a time limit on alimony and child support (technically there is one, which I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:10 PM
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You make a good point. Though I think a woman could be happy being a housewife if her husband were truly appreciative of her contribution to the household. My mom quit her job to stay home and take care of my infant brother and my stepfather is happy about that because it's best for the kid. He respects her and values what she does. They're both happy. Feminists are partially to blame because while they encourage career-oriented women to pursue their ambitions, they themselves disrespect and sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:55 PM
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I've seen people in bad marriages. They're dead inside. Would you rather have that person stay in a relationship where both are unhappy (because one fell out of love and the other knows it, and that hurts a lot) or have them break it off and have a chance to find happiness with other people? Cutting ties is better in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:40 PM
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Good job UK, in that case, for using actual legitimate numbers and not surveys and other bullshit. I think the grey areas of consent are what we ought to focus on (sex while one or both parties is inebriated especially) because that's where good guys fuck up. But guys should realize that no means no. It's fucking simple. If they don't realize that then no amount of educating them will change that. But you know what we can do? Teach women to defend themselves. The college right down the street fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:36 PM
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No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love them. It's more heart-wrenching than a breakup. They can find love again anyway. There's no "one" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:15 PM
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It's not immoral to fall out of love. That's not something you choose. Leaving them is what's best for both of you at that point. Not immoral, in fact it would do more harm to stay with that person because you'd only be delaying the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:57 PM
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Men shame other men for not being masculine. Feminist women shame men for being masculine (well, a good number but not all) and push femininity on them. At least in my experience. Christina Hoff Sommers has mentioned that feminists do this and that it's harmful. The false rape claim statistics are projected and can't be quantified for sure. We don't actually know what percentage of claims are false but I'd wager it's higher than it should be. Of course, just like you can't teach rapists not to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:55 PM
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Well, both types of people are the victims of false ideas and bad advice spread by most of the people they interact with. Nice guys are given the generic "just be yourself" advice, and women are given the "you're sexually liberated, you go girl, men are just intimidated by your experience" and the "men love educated women" bullshit by an increasing number of people. I sympathize with both, unless they're so self-absorbed that they won't accept that maybe they're the problem and that their decisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 06:51 PM
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It's a satire sub not meant to propose a better ideology. It's just "terpers are loser virgins lol", that's the whole point of the sub. Though I'll admit, its lack of an alternative way to do things is the main problem with it. TRP shows results. That's what makes it attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 09:38 PM
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I apparently look a lot like my father who my mom never married. She can't stand him but was always fair with me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:48 PM
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Referring to your last paragraph, I grew up very blue pill but I did hear all the warnings about shitty women. My mom always told me these things, and I'm glad she did because it kept me from believing that women are inherently good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 05:33 PM
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Nowhere did it say teach them to act like douchebags. It said teach them to make themselves more attractive. They've been told to respect women all their lives and they did their best. They listened to what women (said) they wanted and got nowhere. The issue is that what women actually want is never discussed except by the most self-aware of women and the men that get laid a lot. Everyone else is just like "be yourself" which to an incel translates to "do nothing self-improvement-wise, continue …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 01:32 PM
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Not BP but fuck it. What would you expect on /r/adultery besides rationalization about why staying with one person is soooo hard. I think this is about as credible as some of the evo psych bs over on TRP. A theory, but nothing more. There are plenty of couples that stay married for years and have healthy sex lives, especially when neither of the two get lazy and become unattractive. Lots of factors play into whether sex dries up between a married couple. Edit: Two people appear to be shadowbanne…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 12:52 AM
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Teens, but non-legal teens. I understand that some teens are attractive but his fixation on them is a little unsettling. I wouldn't be surprised if it was a troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 10:55 AM
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I have many redpill beliefs but my strongest area is science. We can't explain why TRP works. It just does. Sure evo psych could be a load of bs, and it probably is, but TRP is just a theory after all. We know the how, just not the why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:44 AM
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She could, but being bluepill does not make a man better by default. Finding a redpill man is not "settling" if that's what she wants. A redpill man who has truly improved himself and continues to do so can be a real catch. Truly redpill men are masculine, powerful, have drive and ambition and are generally well-rounded people. Some are misogynists and some aren't. Some manipulate and some don't. It'd be up to her to be discerning and partially up to me to assess that after getting to know the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:52 PM
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From what I've seen from TRP, male infidelity is not generally condoned and is usually a very extreme response to the man not having his physical needs met (think dread game, except actually cheating instead of just making her think you will). Whether it's frowned upon because it's morally wrong or because it'll hurt the man if a divorce happens is debatable. As someone who's mostly redpill, I can say cheating isn't right for any reason. Just end the relationship or don't do LTRs at all if you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:25 PM
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Yep, just like in reality, NAWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 04:33 PM
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Depends on the redpiller. If he's some asshole who uses being "alpha" as an excuse for being an asshole, then no. If he's actually someone successful, charismatic and respectful as plenty of redpillers are (and as all redpillers should aspire to be), and my daughter is okay with taking a traditional, submissive role, then sure. Not all redpillers are manipulative dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:49 PM
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There are reasons why TRP says this. College tends to promote hookup culture and many otherwise good women can get caught up in it, disqualifying them from being LTR or marriage material. College educated women who are serious about their careers also don't often have the time to be housewives because they're so focused on work. However, good women can go through college and not ruin themselves. An educated woman, even one who works, can still make a good wife, especially if she is willing to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:45 PM
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In this hypothetical situation, it's not wrong for a 39-year-old man to be attracted to a 15-year-old if she's fully developed, and some do look 18-20 at that age. However, he shouldn't be allowed to marry her. There's too much of a power imbalance and difference in mental/emotional maturity. There's a reason why there are age of consent laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:36 PM
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Tell me, if you think going up to a pretty woman and talking to her is weird, and that online dating is useless, how will you ever get a date? And regarding everything else you said, you obviously know nothing about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 02:21 PM
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I think the feminine imperative is society's tendency to favor women's interests and happiness over men's. So no, there is no male or masculine imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 01:58 PM
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One of the biggest things that feminism can do right now is instead of using the false/manipulated statistics, work to convince women that they aren't getting paid less on the basis of gender and that they can negotiate for higher wages. The lack of wage negotiation due to lower expectations (most likely based on being told they're going to make less) contributes largely to the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 05:25 PM
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That's the most valid concern really. Unfortunately, the feminists I know aren't talking about these issues. They're still talking about the pay gap which vanished long ago and other trivial matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 05:07 PM
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First of all, fuck this post. Second, incels who've tried to improve in every way possible should go MGTOW and fulfill themselves using things other than sex, and/or just go to prostitutes when they have the urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:45 PM
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Believe me I'm skeptical. She's a freshman who grew up in a very conservative household before coming to college. Your sarcastic tone is very immature. Trust me, I know AWALT, which is why I'm approaching the situation with caution and haven't LTR'd the girl yet
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:46 PM
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About to do this myself. She's never had a serious relationship or sexual partner before me.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:18 PM
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You're right, it doesn't. The only feminist viewpoint on the issue that I've been exposed to was one opposing prostitution on the basis of objectification, however. To be fair, in other countries I've noted a stark difference. For example, Australia is heavily feminist and prostitution is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 02:02 PM
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You're right, but feminism strongly opposes that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 11:52 AM
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I can imagine the tren helps your performance in bed too, I hear you get horny as all hell when you're on that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:38 AM
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That's pretty much the nuclear stage of dread game and it's only viable if you've tried everything else. Is it abusive? No, a relationship in which your needs are not met is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:32 PM
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I don't believe it's as prevalent as many think it is. That being said, it can seem that way due to the fact that feminism is currently doing nothing for men and everything to give women benefit without responsibility. Female rape against men is never discussed. I'm a college student, and I literally heard the woman representing the sexual harassment help center whatever the fuck it was deny that females can force males to have sex with them in front of our entire class. A member of my class ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 11:35 PM
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I think TRP just uses the current state of things to its advantage. It's a response to third wave feminism and the damage it has caused. Feminism is trying to change things, like actual laws and shit. TRP is not trying to change anything. It just accepts the way things are and makes the best of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:52 PM
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I don't know why you're getting downvoted. This is all very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 06:31 PM
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Maybe that's what it was supposed to be about, but now the "big is beautiful" and "you don't need to change" nonsense has come up and encouraged obese people to continue their shitty habits. Things always get taken too far. HAES started as a way to tell obese people that they could work toward becoming healthy no matter their weight, but it turned into telling them that they're already healthy despite being 300+ lbs. Feminism was supposed to bring women to equal social standing with men, and now…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 06:28 PM
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I didn't imply that it's not about getting laid. But if someone is so unattractive that even after implementing TRP he doesn't have a fulfilling sex life, that person will have to find another way to make himself happy, and of course TRP would of little use at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:57 PM
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They take the best they can get when they've improved in any area they can. They live life in a way that fulfills them and makes them happy, even if that doesn't include sex. Maybe they go MGTOW. TRP doesn't claim to be able to make everyone attractive to a 10/10 supermodel. It teaches you to take the hand you've been dealt and use it to the best of your abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 06:31 PM
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Just because you're not attracted to other races doesn't mean other people should be that way. I love all women if they're attractive. Hispanic, Asian, even some black women catch my attention. I actually sometimes prefer ethnic women over white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 04:00 PM
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Generally the advice is to defy your stereotype. If you're Asian, don't be obviously nerdy. Have some masculine edge. Same for Indians. If you're black, dress well and speak properly. Anyone else care to add anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 03:59 AM
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Of course, I didn't suggest anything of that nature. Just mentioned something totally off topic related to Victor and TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:34 PM
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A little off topic, but you mentioned 30 days of discipline... It's funny, while the author, Victor Pride, is someone who could be considered a really redpill guy, he doesn't like the redpill community at all. When looking for writers for his blog, he specifically mentioned no redpillers were to apply.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:05 PM
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I'd put my schedule here, but at a military college we're always busy so it's not like my schedule is my choice. Wouldn't be relevant here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:05 PM
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Just showed the female pictures to my friends and we all agree that while they're objectively attractive, they're missing the sexiness that more feminine women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 01:00 AM
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The only people I've known to openly talk about not finding black women attractive are the already-racist white rednecks. Sure, in conversations with my friends racial preferences come up but we don't make sure the world knows. For us it's more like "if you're attractive and pleasant I'll talk to you regardless of race".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:20 PM
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Mostly red. Lifting and unit PT because I'm at a military school. Considering some kind of martial art also.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 04:06 PM
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First of all, I'm sure the free bleeding girl had good intentions but that's just fucking unsanitary. We all know you have periods. We all know it's not pleasant. No, we're not asking you to hide it. We're asking you to keep your bodily fluids from flowing freely and possibly getting people sick. It's a biohazard. Second, I've heard of a "free the nipple" movement mentioned here and there, but it's not gaining much traction. Especially considering the fact that in some places it's already legal …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 05:49 PM
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Aside from married men with housewives, I don't know a single man who doesn't do their own laundry or clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I highly doubt that there's any biological proof that women don't mature mentally after reaching sexual maturity or when approaching their 20's or whatever. I think it's nurture rather than nature. EDIT: clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 03:09 AM
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Maturity is certainly the result of life experience and hardship. The idea is that women live life on "easy mode" by never being held responsible for their actions, quite similar to children, so they tend to have a much more childish and entitled mindset. Not all women have it that easy of course, but certainly most attractive women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 02:56 AM
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Exactly. If she's attractive enough to bang, then the interestingness, education, etc come into play. If she's not attractive, no amount of being interesting can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 04:50 PM
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IIRC, it's partially to break a newbie's equally exaggerated BP beliefs, to shock them out of that mindset. It helps them see the world through a RP lens so when they see behaviors as described in TRP, they won't simply write it off as a fluke or coincidence. As one delves deeper into TRP one can see that they're exaggerations and that there are exceptions to TRP's rules. It's also worth noting that it seems more typical of those stuck in the anger stage to make such harsh generalizations and ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:12 PM
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Marc Rudov claimed 70% around 7 or 8 years ago. Wouldn't be surprised if it was near the same today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 10:15 PM
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TRP tends to speak in absolutes, which can confuse newbs. AWALT does not literally mean AWALT, but lots of people don't get it. "Women do not care about you" doesn't literally mean not one single woman on this earth cares about you or ever will, but they don't say that. It's a "treat all guns as if they're loaded" mindset, phrased like "All guns are loaded 100% of the time". While it is a good defense against getting fucked over, it creates more bitterness than it needs to. TBP, staying true to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:51 PM
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Withdrawing affection from a woman is the same as her withdrawing sex from you. I'm not talking about her not being in the mood once in a while. I'm talking about the situation in which the man gets once a month starfish sex if he's lucky. That could be considered "abuse" by your definition. A man isn't entitled to sex from his wife but she's also not entitled to his affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:39 PM
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The idea of becoming a juxtaposition is spot on. My black friend is sophisticated, listens to rock and punk way more than rap, and goes to military school with me, so he wears the sharp looking uniform and really defies his racial stereotype overall. It definitely works in his favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:30 PM
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