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TheOriginalWasBetter/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 01:33 AM
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Hypergamy isn't new, but I agree society has changed and hypergamy happens differently. It's just easier for women to change partner post-marriage now, so hypergamy is happening during marriage now instead of mostly before. In the past demand for sexually responsible women was much higher so women were very careful to not sleep around and do any hypergamy trade ups before getting married. They couldn't trade up after marriage very easily because guys had a high demand for women with no baggage. …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:03 PM
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It amazes me how self-contradictory people on TRP can be sometimes. You can't say all women are the same, and then also turn around and say all women changed. Women didn't change, they are they same as they've always been. And they're not all the same either. Society has changed to where women who want to be selfish whores can do so and usually get away with it... sorta. They get away with it in the sense they can win in court, and find another desperate guy to fuck them, but they'll still be em…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:45 AM
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Conception? No. Reproduction? Yes. K reproduction has always been the foundation of civilized society. People groups who use R strategy reproduction never have the discipline or intelligence to advance technologically. Are you claiming otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 12:34 AM
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Not getting married just means you have no kids and the lefties out reproduce us, and having kids unmarried means your kids are likely to resent you and become lefties. Not saying marriage is the whole solution, but of course if you marry a feminist you are screwed. Dating a feminist was the mistake long before he married. You should not have any sex and definitely not any kids with lefty feminists definitely. Lefty feminists should be ignored and they have to go off and they'll have to accept t…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:15 PM
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I agree with the criticisms of marriage 2.0, no fault divorce, biased courts, etc, but your critique of marriage 1.0 is flat out wrong and reeks of massive insecurity. Conservative women don't obey their husbands because they're told to, they obey him because he has earned their respect. She knows that there's a long line of women wanting to be with him if she fucks it up, so she doesn't fuck it up. If a woman disrespects you, then it is because either you aren't worthy of her respect, or becaus…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 08:10 PM
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People don't change their minds because you are nice to them. If they did then you could get a hot woman to marry and have lots of sex with you simply by buying her lots of stuff and being her butler. If someone changes their mind it's because they see you and respect you and want to be like you. They want what you have in life and they want to learn from you so they can have that too. Of course many people have been brain washed into leftist masculinity so heavily they don't even want to be a m…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:06 PM
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A little bit of flirting and teasing and game playing is normal, but a lot just means she's an attention whore. An emotionally healthy woman will either be interested and go out with you, or not be interested and talk to guys she is interested in. A woman who is interested but doesn't want to go out with you is not a thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:19 AM
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Delayed gratification's link with high IQ and anything from sex, drugs, food, money, has been study a lot and you can find studies all over ncbi. Mistake is just a word people use to avoid accepting responsibility for choices, as is "shit happens". Making a wrong turn or making a typo is a mistake. Having sex on a first date with someone you barely know is low IQ. And there are lots of hot women out there. Why would you not want find one who has a lot of other good qualities too? You don't have …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:46 PM
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Biological drives are the same for all women, medical issues not withstanding, but not all women are the same in intelligence. The ability to plan for future goals and delay gratification strongly correlates with IQ and with upbringing. Of course we all respond to traits that indicate sexual maturity, but those aren't the only traits that are important. Is a supermodel guy/girl worth it if they're an unfaithful cheater? Is a rich guy/girl worth it if they're abusive? Is a youthful guy/girl worth…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:48 AM
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You should always be putting your expectations in writing. Entering into a legal agreement without specifics is just stupid. People probably do it because they're told all that matters is "love". Goals matters too. How many kids are you going to have, where are you going to live, sex how many nights a week on average, what kind of lifestyle does she expect you to support her with, how often she wants date nights, is she staying home to home school so the kids aren't brain washing in public, reli…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 04:22 AM
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I disagree with the people who are saying that comfort and commitment kill attraction. Simply not being available is not enough to create attraction. A homeless guy can be unavailable because he's busy getting drunk and masturbating in an alley, that's not attractive. Being unavailable is a not a goal in and of itself, but having your own fun and successful life causes you to be unavailable unless it is made worth your while. You have to communicate what you want in any relationship, business, f…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:59 AM
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Vitamins are not needed in large quantities. That's literally the definition, essential nutrients needed in small quantities. It's not true that vegetables have more nutrients. Look up the nutrient content of vegetables and compare them to a serving of steak and liver. Steak and liver have way more, and the nutrients have a higher bioavailability.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 02:50 PM
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Vegetables are not a health food. The only studies that show fruits and vegetable improve health are ones that do not control for other variables like sleep, calories, exercise, sugar intake, smoking, etc. Vegetables only correlate with improved health because people are told they do, and so when attempting to be healthier people eat more vegetables in addition to more exercise, less calories, less sugar, etc. Also meat tends to correlate with high sugar and carb intake because of fast food comb…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 09:48 PM
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There used benefits to be when marriage was a legal contract. Marriage is supposed to be a contact where a man and a woman agree to start a family together, which usually includes kids, house, land, perhaps a business. Each person is guaranteed the cooperation of the other because the person who breaks the contract gets nothing. An enforceable marriage contract would mean men can't cheat or be lazy or neglectful, but it would also mean women can't either, or they get kicked to the curb with noth…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 11:25 PM
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Does anyone honestly believe crap like this? What other possible reason do people go to each other's house\apartment\hotel room after just meeting in a bar? You better have some evidence of being drugged or physically attacked or a neighbor who heard you scream for help, otherwise it sounds pretty consensual to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 03:15 AM
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Don't be fooled by pretty faces. SMV always balances out. People will only stay with people who are similar overall SMV. If they aren't they will eventually trade up. You can be a 9 in looks, 9 in social charisma, 9 in bed, but if you're lazy and making 20k/yr you'll never date a woman making 100k/yr long term. Might take a couple years, but she will eventually realize she can't be happy with a lazy guy and trade up. Be confident but also be realistic. For example, if you are a 5 you won't date …
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:39 AM
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Murder isn't the answer. If you're not going to keep it then put it up for adoption. How empty do you have to be inside to let a pathetic excuse for a doctor smash your child's skull, suck out it's brain, and throw it in the trash?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:44 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/21755721_Protein_requirements_and_muscle_massstrength_changes_during_intensive_training_in_novice_bodybuilders No statistical difference in muscle mass or strength between 1.35g/kg and 2.62/kg in a 4 week study. 90 minute weight lifting workouts 6 times a week. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2129168/ No statistical difference in muscle mass or strength between 1.19g/kg and 1.74/kg in a 12 week study. 60+ minute workouts 4 times a week.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:29 PM
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If someone is interested in you they will be interested in your thoughts, opinions, life experiences, etc. That's just common sense, or at least should be. Also, you can't expect someone to magically know what things are important to you. Are you bringing up the topics in conversation? If family is important to you then you should bring up the topic at some point to talk about. If you have brought up topics that are important to you in conversation, and she just blows them off and doesn't listen…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:10 PM
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Protein supplements offer nothing over real food. Increased protein intake beyond ~1g per kg of body weight does not increase muscle growth. If you like the taste and it gives you a feel good placebo effect, then sure go ahead, but there's no science behind it. If your strength isn't increasing then you aren't lifting heavy enough, or you need more volume, or you aren't eating enough calories, or you aren't sleeping well enough. Protein is not the problem unless your diet is nothing but chips, a…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 05:58 PM
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You should be embarrassed about it. Why do you need to pay women to want to be sexual with you?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 05:44 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:37 PM
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I'm not implying he should give in to pressure to get married, I said based on his actions he was already married in everything but the legal sense of the word. And yes, divorce is very biased against men but OP's question mentioned nothing about divorce. Come back when you learn how to read.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:36 PM
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Single moms are the worst society has to offer in terms of romantic partners. That's a woman's sole job in life, to find a good father for her future kids. Kids without fathers have high crime rates, poverty rates, school drop out rates, drug use rates, and pretty much anything else bad you can imagine. Single mothers voting for Democrat handouts is why the US has 20 trillion in debt. Why not just find a real woman who has no kids and who isn't a complete irresponsible failure at life? Single mo…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:11 AM
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The relationship ended because you didn't want to have label of being married? That's a dumb reason to break up with a woman. What exactly did you think you were doing when you were living with her, and having kids with her, and building a life together? It may not have been marriage in the legal sense, but in terms of how you lived your daily life you basically were married. What exactly are you angry about? Did she cheat on you? Nothing in your question indicates she did anything wrong, It jus…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:56 AM
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The only thing you can know for sure is what you want. Always reject the friendship label. You should just throw it back at her playfully and ask her what about your conversation makes her think you're interested in friendship, or say you had something else in mind other than being friends. Personally though, I don't bother with women who aren't sure if they're in a relationship. If you ask if she's single (which you shouldn't) and she says "maybe..." and is just being coy, then that's fine, but…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:55 PM
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I've learned that the only person who can make your boss change is his boss. Your boss should have expectations from his boss, and if performance metrics isn't one of them then he just won't care who isn't performing. And if your boss doesn't have a boss because he's the owner, then you're stuck. I think talking about him to her is a bad idea, especially since he likes her. He isn't going to be thinking about her logically. Just talk about yourself and what your job role is. If he brings her up …
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:19 PM
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Guys like Weinstein are scumbags. He has plenty of money and access to women, he just has some pathological issue that makes him want to destroy women he has no interest in just to exert power over them for some twisted pleasure. However, the problem with sexual "harassment" is it's so vague because it's usually based on feelings. "He told a joke and made me feel uncomfortable". "He asked me to sit on his lap and I didn't want to but I felt threatened so I did it anyway". If a guy asks you to co…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:54 PM
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There is nothing insecure about being a male and protecting your female, even if you have to protect her from herself. Woman function off emotion and the more she exists away from you the bigger the chance that someone steals your spot in her mind. That's what insecurity is, worrying that you just aren't good enough, and she'll want to leave you if you don't try and force her or trick her into staying with you. You're not protecting her from anything, you're just trying to be controlling. This i…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:48 AM
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I agree you do have to say no sometimes, but not simply for no reason but the sake of saying no and being in control. That's the exact definition of being controlling, and it is also extremely insecure. I don't see why she needs to ask you for permission to go out. Marriage doesn't mean you own her. Marriage does bring some responsibilies, such as kids, but I assume you don't have kids or you would have mentioned them. As long as she fulfills her responsibilies in the marriage then you have no r…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 06:02 PM
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I'm very pro men paying for dates when having asked out the woman, but you weren't on a date with her from what you described. Sounds like you were out and happened to meet and talk. Not a date so you don't pay. Caveat, I'm not saying this means she wouldn't have slept with you if you did. She could be a slut with a mild entitlement complex and she felt you owed her the drink and got upset when you didn't. An entitled woman's greedy behavior doesn't mean you should pay though.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 06:11 PM
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Not dating a woman because they're feminist liberals with daddy issues is racist? Are you non-black, and if so how many black women have you been in an LTR with?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:17 AM
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Think about what? You haven't even made any argument.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:58 PM
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31.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:24 PM
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Such a convincing and logical argument you've put together.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:24 PM
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Google says about 3% of the population waits until marriage. Small, but not impossible to find, especially considering they mostly are consistent church attenders so you know where to find them. I know numerous couples who never even bothered with such ridiculous engagement periods. If you're ready to get married, then get married. If you're not ready to get married or not sure, then don't get married. Not a hard concept. I can see maybe a few weeks or month engagement period to make sure you're…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:12 AM
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Well I'm a no sex before marriage guy myself. I wouldn't necessarily restrict myself to only virgins, it would be strongly preferred. For religious reasons of course, but also because its the best way to weed out sluts. Delayed gratification is important for success, and a woman with the self-control to delay sex until marriage probably have self-control to not spend money she doesn't have, not overeat, make the sacrifices it takes to be a better wife and mom, etc. For a woman on Tinder though, …
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:12 AM
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I would ignore anyone who doesn't say anything of substance. I don't use social media much, but I keep getting approached by Amway people and at this point I just tell them to fuck off. I'm new to my city and I enjoy meeting new people, but when someone has no genuine interest in me other than they hope I can help them make money it's very off-putting. I would imagine the same is true for women. I'm sure if you meet a guy who was interested in your not just because you have a vagina, but also be…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:58 AM
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LTRs and marriages are great if you do so with a great woman. Don't date sluts. Date women who are inexperienced in life but fun. You can teach a woman how to have great sex and improve as people together, you can't teach a woman not to be a cheating slut. That happens or doesn't happen during childhood. And don't ever date black women like Bill Burr did. I'm sure there are a few great black women out there, but there are too few to justify the risk. Almost all support liberal feminists, almost …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 02:25 PM
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If you never confirmed a time a place then you never had a date in the first place so you were free to make other plans. If she brings it up just say no problem, you made other plans since you never heard back from her. If she tries to call your bluff by asking you what you did or if you had fun, just playfully tease her that a date would have been the time to socialize, now's the time to work.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:30 PM
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Of course, it's a big way in which the government and those who support it to maintain and increase their power. People raised in intact families tend to be much more self-sufficient and more intellectually thoughtful and open because the aren't completely brainwashed by the government. Getting men and women to be at odds with one another helps reduce the number of marriages and families, and increases the number of people needing government support and who go through government schools without …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:21 PM
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Marriage with a quality woman is one of the best things in life. Marriage to a lazy, self-centered, mentally unstable woman is miserable. If you marry a shitty woman that's your fault. No different than single mother who complains about the absent father. Don't have kids with shitty men, duh, or even sex. You should be ignoring shitty people, not dating them or having sex and definitely not kids or marriage. Be very picky, marry a quality woman, and be a team and go achieve your goals, have a fu…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 03:08 PM
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Dating multiple women is a good idea, but I think confidence comes from elsewhere. Confidence comes from having strong male friends, fun hobbies, and some long term goals beyond your hobbies and dating. Your time becomes valuable to you because you now have goals you're working towards, and as your accomplish those goals and build relationships with friends and mentors you figure out what you're good at in life and what you have to offer both a woman and the world as a whole. If you don't have s…
/r/seduction01/10/17 11:43 PM
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Women are attracted to men like their dad, especially if they had a bad relationship with their father. A woman who is constantly seeking validation from social media is probably because she didn't get the validation from her father. So sure, if you act aloof and like a jerk you'll be more attractive to women who want the attention of their aloof jerk fathers, but why waste your time? Long term relationships with two mentally healthy people is how you have the most sex, best quality sex, and hig…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:53 PM
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If you're at a party with a girl then you're not on a date with her it sounds like. Of course you shouldn't be buying anyone anything at a party. Buying a woman stuff to try and get her to go on a date with you is completely different than her agree to a date with you and being out with you for 5-6 hours, and you spent $20 on her during that time. If you invite a woman to an expensive restaurant for a date and she says yes, then 1 sure be skeptical, and 2 don't do that in the first place. But if…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:29 AM
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I do agree that you should avoid women who act entitled and use dates as an excuse to get free meals, but I disagree with not paying on dates. You should pay for the date it you ask her out, just don't take her anywhere expensive. When I'm job hunting recruiters take me out to lunch and always pay, and they should because they invited me. If you invite someone out and don't pay for them, whether it's business or romance you just look like an ass. Desperate, low quality, or feminist brained washe…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:30 PM
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In what way is it "over my head"? Have you ever read any books on behavior and the brain? Studies have shown your brain physically grows in areas related to the functions involved in the behavior and interconnects different areas of the brain that perform the functions required for that behavior. Even just thinking about something on a regular basis can physically alter your brain as it grows to support those thoughts. Of course this research doesn't give us definitive answers about the brain re…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:29 AM
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You're probably right. I mean when a woman sits on your lap facing you and says she wants your cock inside her pussy that's just too ambiguous to know what she means. Probably some old timey cafe talk and a 'cock inside my pussy' means a chicken sausage in a gluten free hot dog bun with mayo or something weird like that.. And now that I think about it, that milf at my last job who was kinda stalking me and told me I need take her out for drinks then go back her place to roll around together for …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 03:36 PM
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1) Why do you think one needs to sleep with women to know you can get laid? I am a virgin but I know I can get laid because women have tried to seduce me many times. Who knows, maybe some of them just get off on the idea of seducing virgin, but whatever​ their reasons it's not too hard to figure out what's going on when they invite you inside, lead you to their bedroom. I'm not trying to change anyone's mind about when or who to have sex with, but if you need to sleep with dozens of women before…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 03:47 AM
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I only blast on 400mg test 200mg tren, you don't need much. But the event you mentioned is misinterpreted by most people. They were trying to trap Jesus because it was against Roman laws for Jews to sentence anyone to death without going through the Roman courts. They were trying to get him in trouble with the Romans if he stoned her, and in trouble with the Jews if he denied Jewish law, but instead he called their bluff. That's why he told them to throw the first stone, because Jewish law state…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 01:38 AM
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Not much to go on in the first story, other than the guy wasn't very masculine, though that doesn't excuse the woman's behavior obviously. The second guy just made a stupid decision. Don't date women with poor moral values, let alone marry them. If you marry a lazy and entitled woman then don't be surprised when she acts that way. Third guy is also letting himself be taken advantage of. The courts are definitely unfair and biased towards women, but I'm not a lawyer so I don't have any solutions …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 07:36 PM
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I'm not sure about testosterone, but northern European whites are the biggest and strongest, hence why they always win strongman competitions because there's no weight classes. Blacks tend to be more agile, which is why they perform better in running sports in the Olympics. In world competitions you simply can't win without a genetic advantage, which is why we all know the white guy is never going to win the sprints in the Olympics and an asian guy is never going to win a strong man competition.…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 11:00 PM
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Perhaps low quality women with low exceptions and no goals in life are looking for a man they can manipulate for resources so they get by on the minimum amount of effort in life. In a situation like this of course the man has no power because other than to leave because the relationship itself has no real value. Sex is nice, and everyone likes sex, but every other person can offer sex so it may offer value over having no relationship but does not offer value over other relationships. Most men ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 03:30 PM
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Depends what your goals are. If your goal is to have sex with random sluts, then it shouldn't take long. Lots of low self-esteem women out there willing to throw themselves at guys who are even half-way masculine. I think within like 3-6 months of admitting to myself the "nice guy" approach doesn't work and I need to completely change, all had to do was not try so hard to get them to like me and make a little bit of effort to escalate and women would be trying to seduce me after 2-3 dates. Howev…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 12:13 AM
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Or maybe he's just like a lot of us here used to be and didn't grow up with a strong male role model to teach him about masculinity and sexuality?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 11:03 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of churches don't see it that way, perhaps because it just isn't on their radar, who knows. I recently moved to a new city and I've visited a lot of churches and I notice that churches with a lot of older males tend to have more masculine looking and dressing young males and more action oriented preaching. Churches that tend to have a fewer older men and more younger men tend to have less masculine looking males and more feeling oriented preaching and more female leadership. …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 05:49 AM
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Blast and cruise, baby. But for those not interested in roids, in In my amateur opinion diet and behavior play the biggest impact. To keeps things simple, my rules for diet is lots of animal products, no pre-cooked foods, fast completely for at least one day a week, and the obvious one watch your calories. Overeating because you're bored or to cover up negative feelings is a huge cause of a lot of health problems. Physical activity and physical touching is also extremely important IMO, and doesn…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 04:09 AM
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Exactly. No need to fake anything. You should be busy during the day, especially on a week day when you're at work. However I do purposely wait to text back if they send me some needy-ass text as a way of shit testing them. For example, if we already agreed to meet up tomorrow at 6p and they're texting me asking if we're still on, then yeah I'll probably wait the entire day until I get off work to respond. I hate needy women, and people in general who can't keep their commitments and show up on …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:04 AM
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Maybe you didn't have a male role model but you clearly learned it somehow. People often make excuses about why they can't learn, but it's not some innate knowledge people suppress and just need to let out. Learning is a process that involves theory and fundamentals, as well as practice. And a "great diet" means nothing to person without knowledge of nutrition. Nutrition can be very difficult to learn because of all the misinformation put out by people who want to sell you stuff. Same with lifti…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:34 PM
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Any moral high ground you had over these human garbage SJWs kinda goes out the window when you're advocating the murder of innocent children.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 07:28 AM
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Complicated is a relative term. Not all of us grew up with strong male role models so we are learning this stuff now. It's foreign to us and so that makes it complicated. Just getting up on your soapbox and shouting down anyone who dares ask a question and just telling them how easy it is isn't helpful. To me lifting isn't complicated. If I wanted to be a dick I could just go around and tell anyone who asks a question about fitness how sad they are for not being able to bench 400 lbs. If I can b…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 07:21 AM
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All my best friends have been black and they have had above average intelligence. I've always been smarter than they were, but honest smarter than almost everyone a meet albeit the reason for that is probably the fact I'm kinda lazy and so I don't perform at the level where I would meet a lot of people with higher intelligence. One of the things I'm working on though. But that's just anecdotal experience and even if true is not sufficient by itself to determine any particular underlying cause.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 07:28 PM
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True, but that doesn't necessarily prove IQ is the driving factor. Many blacks admit to being rebellious because they view being successful and smart as "being white" so they purposefully fail in school and bully other blacks who do do well in school. Ultimately freewill means that blacks can choose to be successful and contributing members of society, and some have, and I think IQ plays only a small role compared to freewill.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:40 PM
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I've seen evidence that suggests the IQ difference is negligible, but either way black families were doing well until the 1960s when welfare got started and enabled black women to dump fathers for government handouts. IQ is only a very small factor if it is one at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:15 AM
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Having a high social status is pretty much auto pilot dread game. Men in positions of leadership and power that have affairs usually involve the woman being the initiator because the women naturally gravitate around and make themselves available to men of social status.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:54 PM
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That's what prenups are for, albeit they are somewhat limited in what they are allowed to do they are still beneficial. You can talk to a lawyer in your area about your local and state laws related to prenups. Also, marriage gives men the power if you know how to use it. As a man you should have some long term goals you wish to pursue in life for your woman to support. Some women have aspirations of being a successful business woman, but most do not. Most would rather be at home raising the kids…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:36 PM
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Yeah, but that's divorce, not marriage. Don't be low quality and don't marry a low quality woman. Not saying it's easy, you may have to do a lot of work on yourself and spent a lot of time meeting lots of new women. I've spent the last 5-6 years working on myself to learn all the skills of attracting a quality woman I never learned from my father and I finally am able to attract quality woman, and it is frustrating how few of them there are, but we're not here to just make excuses are we? You ju…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:56 PM
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Why blame marriage? Strong marriage and family is what made modern civilization possible. If you disagree then please explain why the black community is in such shambles if it isn't because they abandoned marriage for an 80% single motherhood rate. Like you said, some women are just low quality so of course guys who marry them or even just have a relationship with them are going to encounter a lot of unnecessary drama. I don't date women who constantly post pics on any social media platform for …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:32 PM
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I'm not interested in looking taller. I spike up my hair in the front a little and it frames my face better and probably makes me look slightly taller also, but trying too much to look taller just looks insecure. But if you're really just wanting to see my awesome shoulders just say so lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:48 PM
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Wouldn't just not having sex with random sluts be an easier solution? Delayed gratification is important skill to develop in order to be successful anything in life. Put some effort into find a quality woman for an LTR and you'll have more sex and better sex. You don't HAVE to fuck every woman who throws herself at you, you're going to be horny again tomorrow I promise.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:45 PM
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Corrupt media and government SJWs aside, anytime a woman tells you you're not having sex that usually means she already wet and considering, which we all know, but it also means she clearing her conscience because she knows she violating her own morals. Morals vary from person, and those can be important, but even more important is someone's ability to obey their own self-imposed morals. If a woman can't even obey her own morals that should be a huge red flag you're entering crazy town.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:19 PM
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Everyone has pros and cons in the genetic lottery, some more than others, but you just need to accept the things you can't change and simply be confident about what you do have to offer a woman. I'm slightly under 5'9", but I have broad shoulders a guy 6'3" would be jealous of at 21.8" wide, and 19.9" is the 95th percentile for all men at any height according to anthropomorphic data I could find. 6'1.4" was the 95th percentile for height for men. Years ago before I learned I used to focus almost…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:10 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of women are low quality, but you just need to keep looking and make sure you're looking in places where quality woman are likely to be.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:55 AM
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Treating people as equals means treating them as they have the same value as a person, not that their SMV is the same.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:57 PM
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Yeah that would probably make a difference, never been to Europe. In the US there are upscale bars\pubs where people go with groups of friends to be social and have a few drinks but not get drunk, then there are sleazy bars where single people go to get drunk to purposefully lower their inhibitions to encourage the making of poor sexual decisions. There's also bars where depressed people go to get drunk so they can't feel their emotional pain anymore, but that's unrelated issue.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:36 AM
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Yeah, sounds like we disagree. An alpha is someone who is high value, knows their value, and doesn't base their value on outcomes of interactions with others. Like you said, celebs like The Rock know their value and they don't base their value on outcomes of interactions with others, so they have no reason to intimidate anyone because lowering someone else's value doesn't increase yours. I can't read the Rock's mind so I don't know what he thinks about himself, but he clearly does treat people a…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:25 AM
1

Obviously I'm not saying all women at bars are that way, but in terms of the average quality of women at a bar compared to the average quality of women at just about anywhere else you might meet them is pretty low. The statistics don't lie, most couples meet through friends, family, work, at social events like parties, church, meetup groups, or online. Bars can be a great place to hang out and have fun with friends and social groups, but they are a horrible place to go specifically for the purpo…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:11 AM
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I agree and that's exactly what I addressed in my first reply, but OP in his reply to my reply stated his goal is to devalue others in an attempt make himself appear superior in, his own words, a deliberately douchey way, not to filter out women with particular traits he's not interested in.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:03 AM
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That's exactly my point. People, men or women, who have a healthy self-worth will not accept your attempts at making them feel lower than you. They will immediately see you as an insecure jackass. Do you think high value males like the Rock go around putting people down, or bringing them up? Sure, it may work on desperate women, but not the kind of women who are LTR quality so why bother? That's why you should always treat people in a way that makes them feel equal to you, not superior or inferi…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:41 AM
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works on girls at the bar Not saying it can't work, but the fact that it works on girls at the bar just means it works on desperate and low quality women which really isn't saying much. How do you see this working outside bars where women are likely to have things like self-respect and values? I think the idea has merit, just needs explored a bit further.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:09 AM
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I don't have much to back this up other than anecdotal experience, but there does seem to be a huge mental aspect to it. I know it sounds cliche, have a lot of Dragonball Z\Super music and GIFs on my phone to help me get in the right state of mind. It's more than just anger, you have to feel like you're fighting for something important. I joke with people that the quickest way to add 20 lbs to their bench press is to not use a spotter, but it's kinda true. If you don't feel a sense of urgency an…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:52 AM
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Hmm.... Maybe. But you need to understand the reasons for shit tests in the first place to use them properly. Women get hit on by men a lot, especially the attractive ones. They don't want to waste their time going out with men who are weak so their test their strength, and they don't want to waste their time with men who are just after any girl so they make you work for it a little bit so they know you actually have some interest in them as a person and not just a vagina. Not sure if people wou…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:26 AM
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Probably the same reason anyone clings to any belief they have about anything. Some people just don't want to change. My previous best friend constantly complained about not losing weight, and eventually started getting jealous and resentful of how much more attention I got from women than he did. I tried to explain to him that I lift 4-5x a week and train BJJ 2-3x a week, and I fast to lose weight, and that he he wants the same results he needs to do put in the same effort. Instead he's at home…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:11 PM
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Also, their giving in to their inner conflict is a sign of their low quality and lack of self-worth. Huge red flag when a woman can't even adhere to her own moral values. I think it was a Jordan Peterson video I was listening to, but he was talking about how such a significant amount of people are actually having sex with each other while still uncomfortable talking about it with each other. If you're just interested in getting laid then I guess it's not a big deal, but in terms of a predictor o…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:49 PM
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Honestly I have no clue how people get so big. I guess it has to be the fact that I mostly lift sets of 3s and 5s. I bulk on roids, eat lots, and gain a lot strength and fat, but once I cut down I'm really small again compared to body builders. I'm about the size of Connor Mcgreggor, at least according to his online measurements. 5'9", 42" chest, 15" arms. That's me exactly, just not as lean as he is :(. Bodybuilders really screw up the curve for everyone else. I mean I definitely look like I li…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:48 AM
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Of course taking action is important, but so is learning and reviewing. Take sports for example, football players spend lots of time reviewing games and plays and strategizing. Sure, there probably are some people who only lurk/post but never take action, but I'm willing to bet most of us do. Just because someone is here doesn't mean they've not taken any action. They may have taken action earlier and now they are doing some learning and reviewing.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:59 AM
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I mostly agree, I just think that how to touch a woman is learned. The urge to touch her is instinctual, but when and how to touch and escalate is still learned whether it be from seeing your father do it growing up, or through trial and error, or watching someone else do it, or whatever. I grew up with a father who mostly slept on the couch downstairs every night and my mother upstairs in their bedroom. I honestly can't think of anytime I saw my parents touch enough other romantically. Not that…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:37 PM
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I don't necessarily agree that being inside your head is bad or hinders arousal, I just it's what guys have left when they don't know what to do. Training MMA\BJJ has really helped me understand that. Basic movements like throwing a punch, or executing a takedown, or maintaining your balance in top control all need to be automatic in your subconscious mind, but you still need to be thinking at a high level about what the other person is doing and the best strategy on how to respond. With women y…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:45 PM
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Marriage is about more than just sex and kids. Marriage is also about working towards your life goals, assuming you have any. Women are very social creatures and they value their man's social status. That's why LTRs fail, the man typically has no long term goals and he isn't the man she thought he was. He hits his mid-life crisis because he has no long term goals and she realizes how pathetic he is and leaves him. Being confident, good looking, charming, masculine, and great in bedare all import…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 01:27 AM
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I always understood white knight to be when a guys tries to "save" a woman from things she isn't in danger from or are her own fault/responsibility. For example, doing a woman's work for her at work, or when a woman is being immature and her boyfriend isn't having so her white knight swoops in to "save" her from him. If someone is in physical danger, whether it be man woman or child, you should help if you can but you should still look out for your own safety. If I'm walking down the street at n…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 09:05 PM
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I don't have all the links to studies I used to have, but most muscle growth occurs within 48 hours after lifting so ideally you want to find that sweet spot where you recover from your training in that time. I prefer alternating upper and lower since I have time to go to the gym most days, but full body workouts are fine if it fits better in your schedule. I bench, deadlift or squat, and row 3 times a week each. I also use periodization, I think that's the right term? Some days I do sets of 8, …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:07 PM
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Because high level lifting is more complicated than a single reddit post. As much as lift eat sleep isn't bad advice it is still far from great advice. I am 5'9, 180 lbs, and still pretty fat with a 34" gut so I'm cutting weight, but in the last two weeks I put up 365x1 and 285x10 bench and 365x16, 405x8, and 495x1 deadlift. I have been lifting for around 7 years and the majority of my progress came within the last year because I wasn't lifting properly the first 5-6 years. There's always someon…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:36 AM
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It doesn't have to be indoctrination. All behavior correlates with upbringing. It is even the case with unhealthy behaviors. You would think a woman who was raised in a home where her dad beat her mom and possibly her would think "oh, this is horrible, I need to make sure I don't date a guy like that", but it turns out that women who had abusive fathers are more likely to date and stay in abusive relationships. People are largely a product of their environment, especially their family life growi…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 11:33 PM
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Exactly. Nice guys is such a misnomer because they aren't nice at all. They're manipulative and they go after unavailable women even more than your average guy does, albeit usually unsuccessfully. Its also surprising how so many women are dumb enough to actually think a guy wants to be best friends with a her without any sexual intent. It's great to have female friends you see at parties and invite to group events and casually flirt with, but if a guy is out with a woman alone all evening it's b…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 02:40 PM
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Don't confuse low quality women with high quality women. Yes, sounds like you're improving, she could have chose to cheat with another guy but she chose you so obviously she found you attractive, but if it wasn't you it would have been another guy because she's a low quality woman with no values. Women cheating is all about their own lack of values, not you. If a guy is a loser then a quality women will end the relationship, or never enter one in the first place, but she won't cheat.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 02:51 AM
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This is why it is important to properly vet a woman at the beginning of dating so you know what kind of person she is. Whether or not a woman cheats on your is more about her than you. Date a woman who has strong family values and she won't cheat on you. She'll be more likely to leave you if you're a loser, but she won't cheat. If you date a woman who's parents divorced, and who's had little or no relationship with her father, and she's slept around with lots of different guys, or has an affinit…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:07 PM
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Ask any dad, before he does those things he uses his words to tell her what to do, such as "I'm not going to talk to you until you calm down and stop throwing a tantrum". Once you use your words to tell someone what you expect of them ignoring them is no longer passive aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:38 PM
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All kinds of relationships require communication. Yes, the communication style and context is different, but the basic concept of speaking up for what you want applies to all relationships. No one can read your mind and you have to ask/tell people want you want if you expect to have a reasonable chance of getting it. If a woman is not capable of rational discussion on important matters, such as boundaries, then she is not worth dating. Women are not as rational as men, but they are still capable…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:34 PM
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I'm not offended, nor if I was is that relevant to the facts. Yes, he advocates those things, but in the context of passive aggressive behavior because you're not using any words to first communicate the reason why you are unhappy with her. I also never said anything about entertaining her when she is the one who is the problem. I clearly said the opposite, that if she doesn't change her behavior you leave.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:28 PM
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You make a great point sir. That's a very well thought out argument you've made.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:47 AM
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Perhaps jerk isn't the best word, maybe immature or childish works better, but you get the point. If you're not satisfied with the pay at your job what are you going to do? Be passive aggressive and just lower your performance without saying anything, or are you going to go and talk to your manager and let him know your performance merits a raise? The first option will just get you fired and probably laughed at too for being such an immature loser, just like it will get you dumped if you try to …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:44 AM
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I agree you need to show her you mean it, I even said so. The words are not the enforcement, they are simply communication so she knows why. People can't read minds. The enforcement is your actions. If, for example, she pouts about something and doesn't tell you makes the date boring, you tell her as much and go home. Ideally she apologizes and wants to make it up to you, all good. If not, maybe she calls you in a few days and wants to see you but you tell her she was no fun last time and if she…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:42 AM
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I never said discipline means being a jerk. I even gave an example of disciplining without being a jerk. OP is suggesting you need to give dirty looks, ignore her, and other passive aggressive behaviors. It's childish when women do that, and also childish when men do it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:29 AM
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Your response is a bit ambiguous. If you mean make her feel a wide range of emotions with playful teasing, sure, but if you meaning things like "negging" or just being rude or cold then I disagree. And there is nothing wrong with talking, talking is what mature people do to resolve conflicts, you just need to be to the point and firm. You're telling her you don't tolerate the behavior, not asking for her opinion and having a discussion. And of course you need to follow through with leaving if sh…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:52 AM
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It's ideas like this that makes RP look like nothing but rehashed pickup garbage. You don't attract a (quality) woman by making her feel bad, you attract a woman by being a quality guy. She will know if you're a quality guy based on your social status and how both men and women respond to you in public. People in any situation respond to you based on how you make them feel and how they feel about themselves. You can't control the later, but if you're a dick to people they won't like you. It shou…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 03:26 AM
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Social status is very important to women. You don't always need to meet women around friends, but she will soon notice if you don't have any friends and wonder why once you start dating. It will be extremely hard to keep a high quality woman around if you have no friends because you essentially have no social status. The biggest factor in your long term success with women is your long term success with male friends.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 11:19 PM
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Strength sports have weight classes, women's romantic attraction does not. An asian has never won metrx strongman competition, which has no weight classes. I couldn't find pictures of all the winners, but based on the country of origin most everyone who has ever placed is white. White men of east european descent have the tallest, broadest frames and thickest ligaments and joints on average and thus are the strongest. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_average_human_height_worldwide Denmark…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 06:25 PM
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It has nothing to do with racism, and not even racial preference per se, it has to with genetics and culture. Asian men, on average are the physically weakest and smallest. Eastern European "Nordic" descent men are the biggest, followed by African descent men. Women are simply attracted to stronger males, of which asian decent is pretty much on the bottom of genetically. It may not be fair, but it isn't racism. Culture matters too. Asian cultures strongly value hard work and discipline, hence wh…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:55 AM
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How soon women have sex is partly dependent on you, but more dependent on the quality of woman she is, which was my point. The vast majority of women are low quality, just like the vast majority of men are low quality\beta, and of course if you mostly select women from the low quality pool you will mostly get women who sleep with you quickly. Low quality doesn't mean they aren't attractive, so even if you are pulling hot women it doesn't mean they are high quality. Of course, if you're not inter…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 06:13 AM
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I struggle with this too sometimes. Obviously there are things I don't know like how often my parents have sex, but my dad is overweight and hasn't tried to lose any weight even after developing sleep apnea and having heart surgery. He can barely walk and walks huched over, and he's only 60. He doesn't make decisions and does the whole "whatever you want, you pick" thing with my mom often. He recently became an elder at a church but refuses to stand up to the other elders who are following the s…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:30 AM
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The fact that she is willing\wants to have sex so soon is your sign right there she is crazy. As much as society wants it to be true, it is simply not biologically normal for women to want sex so soon. Men are biologically driven to want sex all the time so they are motivated to go find women. Women simply aren't they way, women's sex drive doesn't kick in to high gear until she feels a strong emotional connection to a man, then she wants him inside her. A woman who wants sex right away is the e…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:04 AM
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It's not just pop. I listen to a lot of the new faster tempo genres like drum & bass, house, synthwave, and it's sad how many songs with great beats have absolutely pathetic take me back\cant stop thinking about you\you're the only one type lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:19 AM
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I wouldn't say all women are attention whores. Studies show that women who don't have strong relationships with their fathers are the ones mostly likely to seek male attention elsewhere, engage in promiscuous behavior, become single mothers, etc. Women with strong bonds with their father and strong bonds with other female friends tend to be very stable and are comfortable being single and don't keep orbiters. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2764264/ And I agree, a woman being on her…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 03:23 AM
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You're the one not seeing things clearly because you're emotionally involved. Even your response to me is unnecessarily defensive and shows you're still upset about what happened. We've all been there before and it's nothing to be ashamed of, but you should be aware enough to know your view of what happened is conflicted because of your personal involved and have someone who can give you an objective analysis. Not saying that's me, I didn't even give you any advice anway, I was just discussing t…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:26 PM
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I see something completely different. Her schedule is too busy but she has time meet friends for dinner before your date? Yeah, friends are important, but people make time for what they want to do, and if they don't make time there interest isn't that high. Obviously she had some interest in you because she did go out with you eventually, but there was likely another guy who had her interest over you and she was just keeping you on the hook. The problem isn't making her feel special itself, it's…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:25 PM
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1), I'm not a bar guy, but my thought is if a woman is interested in you and she's liking your interaction, then an annoying guy coming up and trying to be the third wheel is easy mode escalation. Odds are she finds his presence just as annoying as you do and you can just suggest you two go for a walk. Now the two of you are alone, or at least more alone than you were, and you can send him a thank you note later. 2), just laugh it off like you did. You think that's a story she wants to tell her …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:55 PM
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Studies show that crime is low when kids are taught strong morals growing up, regardless of economic status. Rich people without morals commit crimes, just not small time crime like robbery. And yes, after a while after crime is already high it can cause poverty. For example, you can't run a profitable business if you're repeatedly being robbed. That's why blacks only hurt themselves when they don't cooperate with police. However, detroit was had the highest per capita income in the 1960s. Thing…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 08:52 PM
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I had been lifting for years, it was mostly my diet that was the problem. I had always stayed around 25% bf so getting to around 10% was really noticable. The steroids just helped me get even bigger. Any rules about when to use steroids are just made up. Doesn't mean they're bad rules, but they don't necessarily apply to everyone. Just know the risks and know they aren't magic. You still have to know how to lift to get results without them or you won't have results with them. 315 bench and 465 d…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 11:27 PM
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Don't know what it is, but some guys never learn. I read those same books and it really changed my entire view on being masculine, and I tried to enlighten my friend too but he would never listen. When we first met he was very social but out of shape, and I was socially awkward but in decent shape. We'd hang out and he'd attract most of the women but I was learning a lot and he was starting to get in shape. After about a year and a half things started to change, I was starting to be confident, w…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 10:07 PM
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You're the one being subjective. I gave you the links to studies you asked for and you're still all "what matters is how it makes me feel". If you don't care about the facts then just say so.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 09:45 PM
2

Once or twice a month is just a side chick, not a relationship. Sure, you can fit in once or twice a month with another woman, but what's the point? As I've already reference in those articles people in monogamous relationships are most happy, and the further away you get with poly\open relationships to being single, sexual satisfaction just decreases. You can do whatever you want of course, but that doesn't mean you're happier or better off because of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:08 PM
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It's common sense. Just look at white vs black culture. Whites are the most monogamous, while blacks are the least. Almost 80% of black children grow up in a single parent household. Children need two parents to survive and that's what evolution has made men prefer. Men have evolved to prefer monogamy and if they hadn't the entire world would be crime ridden like Detroit and Chicago because kids need two parents. Your personal experience is anecdotal. Of course you can do whatever you want and I…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:12 AM
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Self-discipline is necessary for any bodily urge. You don't get lean and healthy by giving in to every urge to eat and you don't have a happy and fulfilling sex life by giving in to every sexual urge. Monogamy is where men report the most satisfying sex life, and overall satisfaction with life in general.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:32 AM
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Sounds like more than anything else this is just a case of a woman who comes from a broken or dysfunctional home. It is true that women desire some emotional drama, but only unhealthy and dysfunctional women desire that drama from negative sources. If a woman grew up in a dysfunctional home she may actually feel uncomfortable in a healthy relationship the doesn't have frequent sources of negative drama. A healthy woman isn't looking for negative drama and isn't looking for a guy to fix. Healthy …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:48 PM
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I agree. I'm definitely in the camp of finding a woman with similar values and life goals being the most important. Sex is great, but it's not that hard. If she's not good at it, then tell her the two of you need to practice more. Women like it when men lead, and as long as you make it fun she'll be willing to follow your lead. Finding a good woman who is excited about supporting you in your life goals is what will make for a happy and satisfying relationship, and great sex will just happen natu…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:38 AM
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It's not being desperate. Desperate is begging or chasing after someone after they said no. The woman doesn't even know you so why would her rejection be personal? If a woman you dated dumps you, and you're still asking her to take you back, then yeah, that's desperate, but there are dozens of reasons why a woman might not be in the mood to meet a stronger and being in a serious, "your loss" kind of mentality just makes you look insecure.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 11:47 PM
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I also agree. "Your loss" sounds pretty salty in any context. You don't necessarily need to say nothing, but if you do it should be friendly or playful. If she's being rude you can say something like "sounds like your having a bad day, come say hi another time when you're feeling better", but you if she's being rude because you won't take a polite no for an answer then that doesn't work either. If nothing else you can just say "well if you change your mind come by and say hi" or something to tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:08 PM
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I agree. Shaved head doesn't make you look like a gangbanger. Wearing cheap clothes that don't fit, not making eye contact, and never smiling make you look like a criminal.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:40 PM
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Pretty much this, though I wouldn't even necessarily say he would still have to go for short women. Something like 95% of white women are shorter than 5'8.5", and Hispanic women are shorter than that. 5'6" makes it more challenging of course, but in my experience even women who "don't date shorter guys" will still date muscular guys that are 1-2 inches shorter than they are provided he is fit a muscular. My theory is it is more about lean body mass than height itself. Women are attracted to men …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:37 PM
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Online dating is fine, but some rules I recommend: If you're using online dating as a crutch because you can't meet women in person then you may have some success, but the number of high quality women you meet will be low and the number interested in an LTR with you will be zero. If you're having problems meeting women in general you need to focus on self improvement and having strong male friendships. Know the signs of a quality woman. A woman with a short profile that says nothing specific abo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 06:34 PM
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I don't know details of his divorce, my point was that everyone has problems no matter how great their life appears and how you deal with your problems affects your relationships with women significantly. I agree people want honest appreciation, but the way you get it is by actually being someone who others honestly appreciate. If you can't find anyone who honestly appreciates you then you might want to consider that you might be the problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 01:11 AM
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People desire what they desire, there's nothing wrong with that, and in romance it's largely driven by biology. Sure, feminism makes women do and say lots of crazy things, but that has more to do with whether or not you'll be attracted to them. Just like no amount of feminist propaganda will make men attracted to fat ugly women, it doesn't change the masculine traits women are attracted to even if they say they want a nice guy. Frame for men is like makeup for women. You put it on to maximize ro…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:36 PM
2

I disagree with the premise behind ASD. Women giving LMR are just women with poor self control. They want to wait to have sex, but as they become more and more arroused they just can't control themselves and give in. No different than fat people. They're all excited to lose weight when they're not hungry, but when the cravings come they don't have the self control to say no. They make up excuses as to why it isn't their fault, but that's really all it comes down to is lack of self-control. Of co…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 05:21 AM
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I have never been a fan of going after low quality women, especially ones you have to pay for. If you are not yet able to attract the kind of high quality women you want then you should focus on continuing to improve yourself. Short term sacrifice for long term benefits. I also believe it is a myth that you need to be with women to increase yourself esteem around women. Be friendly and engage in casual banter with all women, but don't date and definitely don't sleep with ones you don't like. The…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 02:55 AM
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I don't know if I agree with your premise. It's not really cuckold because you don't give two shits about the pornstar. She's not even really a real person to you. You watch, you jack off, then you go do something else and forget she even exists until you're horny again and then you go watch some other woman and repeat. It doesn't really matter if the guy is there or not as there's plenty of porn with only women or solo women. I do think porn is a sign of low self-esteem and lack of ambition, bu…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:17 PM
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Relationships are about helping each other get what they want, which for women includes a large portion of emotional validation. Yes, expensive diamond engagement\wedding rings are a scam but unfortunately there isn't much you can do about. You can try to find a woman who has no emotional attachment to an diamond ring, but the marketing has been drilled into most women's heads so effectively that finding one would probably be extremely difficult. It's not that women just want you to buy them exp…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:52 PM
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I would add, in the case of guys, when someone makes eye contact with you then and doesn't look away with in a second or two then you should acknowledge it. Just say hey or head nod or wave or whatever. To do so is a sign of mutual respect since you've both shown yourself to be confident guys by not submissively looking away. If the other guy doesn't acknowledge you that says more about him then you. Either he's socially awkward, or he's lost in thought, or maybe he's just a jerk. Getting in to …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:20 PM
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Also could be that OP is hitting on too many women who know each other. Hard to say without more details of how the conversations play out, but people don't like to feel used. If you're smooth and ask out a woman but she's not interested she'll probably be flattered because she believes you find her attractive. Now take the same scenario except that the woman knows you asked out several of her coworkers. This time she doesn't think you find her attractive, she just thinks you're a creep who make…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:06 AM
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I had the same experience. I did it a little different, fasts of 48-96 hours followed by a massive meal, but I didn't lose strength and have body composition tests showing that I lost 30 lbs in 2 months but none was lean body mass. Dropping weight quickly though fasting and lifting doesn't seem to have any of the downsides that traditional wisdom says it does, such as "starvation mode".
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 08:38 AM
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I can see the headlines now. "Google Developer accuses women of being less able to handle stress and more likely to take vacation days, stresses out female coworkers causing them to take a vacation day".
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:03 AM
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If that's accurate then it's way too arbitrary. Overall, the women in the 9 I do find the most attractive, but 1 in the 6s and 2 in the 7s are more attractive than several of the 9s. The asian one it says might be a 10? No thanks. I can see that other people might find her attractive, but I just don't find myself attracted to females with shallow jawlines like that, makes them look too much like teenagers. Maybe it's my nordic\irish genetics, but I prefer a woman who has some muscle on her. Lean…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:39 AM
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Sure. I never said meeting a woman at a church guarantees you'll find a good one tomorrow, nor are all churches equal, just that it will improve your chances. Dating is a numbers game and if the numbers aren't working out for you currently then you should make sure you're maximizing your odds. Find a low crime city, with a primarily white neighborhood, with a low tax rate, with a strong male pastor leading. Maybe you don't meet the woman there, but the people you meet there likely also hang out …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:01 AM
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Guess I can't argue with that logic. Looking for a good woman in a place where women are taught sexual morals and respect for men? Not sure why I thought that would work.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:26 AM
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That's why I said find a good woman. If your primary ways of meeting women are bars and tinder then finding a good one will probably be a frustrating experience. If you want to meet quality women with values you need to go where they are. Church, volunteer activities, conservative events, and personal development conferences are going to be your best bets. If you go where lefty and feminist women hang out then you're probably going to meet lefty and feminist women.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:50 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to find a good woman to have a relationship with? More sex, better sex, go out and do fun stuff together, she knows and supports your long term goals, and she already knows what your favorite sandwiches and drinks are so you don't even need to ask.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:12 PM
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Not trying to jab, just being honest. Saying all women are bad is both cynical and untrue. I agree the culture overall is toxic towards men and monogamy, but it is still possible to find quality women who don't cheat. There are plenty of women who are intelligent and aren't slaves to their emotional whims. Women with good relationships with their fathers and a strong moral upbringing are mostly likely to fall into that category. That's why I wouldn't recommend dating a woman who doesn't have a p…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:16 PM
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There are plenty of women who aren't cheaters. Screen out low quality women on the first couple dates and you won't have a problem with cheaters, or women with other undesirable traits. Reading a few books on body language, personality traits, and human behavior is a great way to improve the quality of people you associate with and decrease the amount of time you waste on people who are low quality.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:27 AM
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Women get approached by guys all the time. They are not intimidated simply because you approach them. Your body language is more likely the culprit, or possibly something you said. Also, you're not supposed to be completely aloof with women, you're just supposed to be aloof to their opinion of you. If you're enjoying the interaction then smile and have fun. If you're having a conversation be engaged and interested in what they have to say. If you act like they're boring you then they'll think th…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:08 AM
2

Lifespan differences between genders varys greatly between countries from as much as 12 years to basically 0 according to data that I've seen online. This strongly suggests the difference is largely or possibly entirely behavioral. Take care of yourself and there's no reason you can't live as long as your woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 12:57 AM
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You should always assume the best. Assume they were talking about how they wanted to talk to you and either go talk to them or if you're not interested keep studying. Or maybe you look exactly like her brother and they were surprised at how crazy the similarity was. Who knows, but why assume something negative? Also, people who make fun of others tend to do so because they are unhappy about themselves. If they were making fun of you it was because they were trying to cover up their own feelings …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:33 AM
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Marriage doesn't make men depressed, depressed men make bad husbands and bad choices in which women to marry. I know it can be hard to find a good woman these days, but get out there, be social, meet lots of women, and you'll find a few, and if you've been working hard on yourself they'll all be chasing after you to pick them.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:13 AM
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I've never really given it much though, but I'm not against the idea. My first thought is simply that most people have low physical smv because they don't take care of themselves and plastic surgery isn't going to change that. I've always been extremely muscular and have crazy wide shoulders even before I used steroids but I was lazy with my diet and my bodyfat % usually was around low-mid 20s. Once I was disciplined and dieted down to low-mid 10s the difference was massive. It was crazy. I used…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:31 AM
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Looks don't prevent you from getting women, they just prevent you from getting women who look a lot better than you. If you're a 5 and you're trying to pull a 7 you better turn the bad boy charm to maximum and cross your fingers. If you're a 5 and trying to pull a 8 it just isn't happening unless she has something seriously wrong with her that guys who are 8s won't put up with. If you're a 5 and you're trying to pull a woman who is a 5 then you'll be fine. Also, why are some people so interested…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 05:07 AM
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The benefits of IF are limited mostly to appetite control, which is certainly beneficial, but all the really nice stuff like HGH increase, blood sugar stability, lower blood pressure, and increases lifespan are all associated with longer fasts of several days or weeks. A 12-16 hour period of not eating, half of which you are asleep anyway, does not have the same benefits of long term fasting. I usually just eat one big meal before bed, and some days I fast completely.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 02:10 AM
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Most of the video is just him talking about animal behavior. Even if the origin of the term 'alpha male' is based on research that turned about to be wrong, so what? That's not an argument against the idea of what it means to be alpha. He then goes on to insinuate that being alpha means being a jerk, selfish, and antagonizing, which is not true. Just the same old strawman argument that not living your life based on other people's opinions is somehow being mean to them.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:11 PM
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I understand not buying her dinner, especially since she was asking you not the other way around, but I don't understand not paying for the drinks. If you don't want to pay for drinks then ask her out for coffee instead. There a difference between maintaining high SMV and being the man in the relationship. Sure, if your SMV is much greater than her's maybe you can get her to pay for her drinks, but why stop there? Why not make her be the one to ask you on a date? Why not have her pick you up in …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:57 AM
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It's unfortunate that things are the way they are. I'd like to find a quality woman to marry, but Divorce law makes me hesitant no matter how I trust the woman. I'd want some kind of prenup that says divorce can't be no fault, and fault can't be determined by a judge. Maybe a jury or something, not sure what could be put in a prenup. I do think that this is all on purpose. Destroy the family and you have a much easier population to control intellectually, more excuse for government control becau…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:10 AM
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Well my guess is that the more popular any idea becomes, the more people that jump on board for the ride. I once visited a church that did not believe in free will. Serious. I even went back several times to make sure I wasn't misunderstand. It's was like being in the twilight zone, nobody seemed to be aware of the logical problem of trying to be good instead of bad when you can't make any choices in the first place. Weird.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 12:48 AM
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If Jesus was not afraid of confrontation, he'd have fought back against those who sought to kill him rather than let himself be led to a crucifxation like a bull to be slaughtered. He'd have risen up to face his oppressors and the oppressors of the city and overthrown them and implemented the Kingdom of Heaven as a ruler of that city rather than giving people platitudes and words. Words are cheap, actions mean a great deal more. He may have not known much about military command, but his right ha…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 12:41 AM
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Meek, as used in the Bible, meant humble and gentle, someone who isn't going around trying to prove how great and important they are. It has nothing to do with being weak or submissive. Jesus was meek but he was also not afraid of confrontation. The things he said to the political leaders of the time were far more aggressive than even things being said in politics since Trump was elected. Jesus frequently called them hypocrites, morally bankrupt, wicked, etc, all to their face in front of crowds…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 09:02 PM
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The New Testament doesn't teach anything different than the Old Testament, it just doesn't repeat everything in exactly the same fashion. The Bible is largely a historical narrative so it discusses what was happening at the time. The NT covers a significantly smaller period of time then the OT, so of course a lot of the topics discussed in OT are not talked about in the NT. I guess that makes it more convenient for people to ignore the OT and pick out just the sections of the NT they like, but p…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:28 PM
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