| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | may get karmic retribution | ThePlottHasThickened | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/22 02:33 PM |
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| 3 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?You make less but have to pay her..? Is your custody less than 50%? I can understand the alimony if she has kids more than 50% of the time, but if not, what was the reason the judge gave for that | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 08:38 AM |
| 0 | My Ex Had Me KidnappedWheres the video? Really interested in watching that go down | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | (MI) Wife has threatened suicide if I leave. She made an attempt this weekend.Thats why you file a TRO first | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | My family is completely against my divorce.Tell them to fuck off. Anyone who uses the kids as the reason are disingenuous or delusional. At least the kid gets to hop between parents when one of them gets to be too much vs. having to deal with conflict 24/7. The people your parents mention are also delusional and have no ability to understand that the reason they're divorced is because life was intolerable when they were married, and thats assuming they aren't fictional creations of your parents whose purpose is to make a point to you and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Any success stories after divorce?I think the reason why marriages fail is because people can't be content alone, and then marry and when there's an issue they have no happiness alone or with the other person and so it explodes. No one should entirely rely on another even if they're married. I don't understand the people who HAVE to be married or even in a relationship even it it's horrible. My dad's one of those. It's like getting sad because you were cured of cancer when it finally ends | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | just got a gun pointed at me.Get a restraining order and kick her ass out of the house | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herselfDoes she have some sort of personality disorder? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/23 03:52 PM |
| 4 | my bitch of an ex wife creates fakes accounts and messages herselfIt's because social media is fake as hell but still kills (people's sanity) like cancer | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Erectile Dysfuncion after divorce - common?You're probably just having a hard time after being betrayed and get can't over a mental block | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Emergency ex-parte vs. Contempt motionWell, as your title says, emergency ex parte are for emergencies when there isnt time or it could put someones life in danger if the court doesn't intervene somehow. Contempt motions are more of your typical court cases where someone has to go through due process, much slower paced, and eventually leads to the kangaroo court we're all familiar with | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | In divorce process. I have a few questions for Colorado…17 years together and 12 years of marriage.Get statements showing the transfer and have an attorney file a motion for relief to get half of it allocated back to you. For sworn financial statements youll have to disclose bank account assets, etc, anyways. If she falsifies docs or doesn't provide anything showing she just took the entire savings account your attorney can file for contempt of court and she'll have to fight off a legal case where she could be found guilty and fined or jailed (on top of the whole divorce thing). And if you do… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | My attorney wants to depose STBXWBe careful when it comes to filing taxes. My dad had the same happen and she filed contempt motions against him | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | My attorney wants to depose STBXWRead title as "despose". Only a real homie would do that | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | still don't know if i did the right thing.I love the “I wasn’t happy” excuse. It’s so weak, at that point people need to sack up and just divorce instead of cheating and lying. It seems to always later be used to twist the situation to it being the partners’ fault then, too I don’t see why anyone would get married these days. 0 benefit with a good chance of wrecking your life and any chance at independence later on. Cut off your finger now versus losing to the rest of the limb tbh. You can’t avoid pain but you can choose how painful it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Which lawyer to choose when false accusations of SA are threatenedThere are apps that can auto record your phone calls too. Get one and a spare phone that’s never not recording. It can be hard to remember to pull out a phone when in the moment | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Keeping the house at all costs?Just keep in mind with 0 cash you may lose the house and have nothing you wanted. Make plans to finance it now or change your end goal | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | New Information.....What I learned from my father is once someone cheats it’s over. Best case there isn’t ever any real trust ever again. If you take take them back and forgive them you still lose, because they lose respect for you and will do it again | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | wife says not only would she know, but I would also be cutting my own throat if I served her papersThe problem is that lots of motions meant to stifle your ability to comply with the usual court orders and bog you down are easy to file and aren’t the same as a typical accusation (saying you killed someone, etc) that could get them in trouble for filing false claims. If you don’t trust her enough to divorce her, why trust her when she says she didn’t retain anyone? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | wife says not only would she know, but I would also be cutting my own throat if I served her papersKeep in mind that the money you’re keeping separate really isn’t until the decree. You’ll still have to disclose it and it’ll still factor in to the anal pillaging inevitability to be had. Best thing to do is use it to pay down any debts that you will likely to be given in the end rather than end up with the debt and at best, half the value of the money, or all the debt, and illiquid assets with no money Do what all the womens divorce websites encourage which is to prepare as much using martial … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What is the minimum age a man should get married and what should he know coming into the marriage?Unironically, Disney and all the fantasy shit. I almost feel sorry because the people who subscribe to that sort of fantastical dreams and aspirations are actually the most miserable of all. Men and women both. Men who buy that garbage usually marry women who do and they both end up entirely dissatisfied in life even if for different reasons and consequences | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I need urgent advice.What you should do is get a new lawyer asap and have them petition to the judge for a temporary stay of the TRO or some other type of submission of a motion to allow you temporary access to the house citing her not being there and that it is still technically your property notwithstanding the TRO If that isn’t possible and you’re going to go in anyways, here’s some protips 1) Go in late when neighbors won’t likely notice 2) only take things that won’t likely be noticeable or Would be hard to pro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Retirement account drained over timeThat's the problem, people like this lie (in both senses) in obscurity. Im assuming it is or will be a bad divorce, and my father's was different in that he had to fight off bullshit contempt of court motions initiated by the bitch. so I'm unsure of if this would apply otherwise in an otherwise nasty trial but not involving her filing contempt motions, so I can't say for sure if a "normal" divorce involves having personal references/witnesses testifying at each party's behalf. If there is, choos… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Retirement account drained over timeThat's the problem, people like this lie (in both senses) in obscurity. Im assuming it is or will be a bad divorce, and my father's was different in that he had to fight off bullshit contempt of court motions initiated by the bitch. so I'm unsure of if this would apply otherwise in an otherwise nasty trial but not involving her filing contempt motions, so I can't say for sure if a "normal" divorce involves having personal references/witnesses testifying at each party's behalf. If there is, choos… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Retirement account drained over timeYou should bring it up, with any supporting documentation regardless. If it were reversed you can be sure she would. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Retirement account drained over timeHow old is he? If he's under 18, that's great. That would be a consideration for the final settlement. If he's over 18, make sure you and he have documentation explicit showing any disability in which you are (medically and/or legally) still his dependent in whatever your jurisdiction would consider a "legitinate" way. Otherwise if he is an adult it won't have much weight and will be seen as a "burden" you are willingly taking on for someone who is otherwise then considered an adult who should b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.What's ap | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | may get karmic retributionYeah I know. But that doesn't change a contempt of court can still carry jailtime. And the judge is a fucking piece of shit moron. She has one of those super punchable bitchy-liberal faces and obvious condescending attitude (likely due to false allegations of abuse by the woman). Don't care to get more into all that but I'm sure many here will know what I'm saying. This isn't actually me, but I'm closely connected to the person and helping them as I know both parties involved and am able to rema… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | awarded a stock and the joint checking accountI know! He's such an idiot. Hs been talking to his lawyer the whole time but here's so much else going on its taken a spot on the back burner. He got screwed out of his inheritance so he thinks he will be "catching" her and is just gaining more and more of an advantage by letting her do this | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | awarded a stock and the joint checking accountYou would think by violating the court decre she would have to pay back the funds though, right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/22 06:49 PM |
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